Mediate This!

Silencing the Inner Critic: Life Coach Vince Mahtani’s Journey Back From Rock Bottom | Part 1

Fri, 28 Aug 2026 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode of the Mediate This! Podcast, Matthew Brickman sits down with Vince Mahtani, life coach, mentor, speaker, former ministry leader, and entrepreneur, for a deeply personal conversation about the experiences that shaped the man and coach he is today.

Vince works with men at the intersection of spiritual, mental, and emotional well-being, helping them become better fathers, husbands, professionals, and men. But that mission grew out of his own difficult journey.

Growing up in St. Louis, Vince describes a childhood where love and approval often felt tied to performance, along with complicated family dynamics that deeply affected his confidence and sense of self. After leaving ministry, he became a successful entrepreneur, building an IT company and later launching one of St. Louis’ earliest app-based grocery delivery businesses, years before services like Instacart became commonplace.

Success, however, didn’t quiet the voice telling him he still wasn’t good enough.

Vince opens up about the collapse of his business in 2016, mounting financial pressure, and the Fourth of July weekend when he reached the lowest point of his life and came dangerously close to ending it. He shares what stopped him, what happened afterward, and how rebuilding his life eventually became part of a larger mission to make sure other men don’t have to suffer in silence.

Matthew and Vince also explore generational patterns, fatherhood, divorce, faith, achievement, self-worth, and the “inner critic”, the brutally harsh internal voice Vince eventually learned to identify, personify, and turn down rather than obey.

It’s a candid conversation about what happens when achievement isn’t enough, where our internal voices come from, and what it takes to finally stop running from the pain and start going through it.

Content note: This episode contains candid discussion of childhood abuse, suicidal thoughts, and suicide.

https://www.vincemahtani.com/

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ABOUT MATTHEW BRICKMAN:
Matthew Brickman is a Supreme Court of Florida certified county civil family mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. He is also an appellate certified mediator who mediates a variety of small claims, civil, and family cases. Mr. Brickman recently graduated both the Harvard Business School Negotiation Mastery Program and the Negotiation Master Class at Harvard Law School.

How High and How Long Can Alimony in New York Go? Attorney Lisa Zeiderman

Fri, 14 Aug 2026 12:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down to speak with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner of her own firm in New York, she focuses on high-net-worth divorce cases involving complex financial assets and custody litigation, while Matthew specializes in child custody and mediation.

Lisa discusses the role of attorneys for children in New York, who advocate for the child's expressed wishes, and the lengthy, complex process of custody cases involving forensic evaluations and court backlog.

Financial aspects such as forensic accounting, vocational experts, and alimony considerations—including the impact of domestic violence—are explored. Both express skepticism about collaborative divorce, favoring mediation as a voluntary, well-timed process after discovery.

The discussion clarifies New York's dual court system for family matters, child support rules extending to age 21 or beyond in special cases.

Lisa also provides insights into the practical challenges and legal nuances of family law in New York, emphasizing the importance of thorough preparation and realistic expectations.

Lisa Zeiderman | Managing Partner, Miller Zeiderman, LLP

Matrimonial and Family Law Attorney

Serving New York City, Westchester, Long Island and Beyond.

https://lisazeiderman.com

High-Net Worth Divorce Cases - Interview with Attorney Lisa Zeiderman

Fri, 24 Jul 2026 12:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down to speak with Lisa Zeiderman, managing partner of her own firm in New York, focuses on high-net-worth divorce cases involving complex financial assets and custody litigation, while Matthew specializes in child custody and mediation.

The discussion clarifies New York's dual court system for family matters, child support rules extending to age 21 or beyond in special cases.

Matrimonial and Family Law Attorney

Serving New York City, Westchester, Long Island and Beyond.

https://lisazeiderman.com

Would You Use An AI Generated Mediator? Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D

Fri, 10 Jul 2026 16:00:00 -0400

Would you use an AI-generated mediator for your next family, divorce or business mediation or refuse to mediate until you have a human mediator present?

Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D. and Matthew Brickman discuss the future of AI Mediation.

Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D. is a California mediator and arbitrator who brings a somewhat unusual perspective to dispute resolution. He has practiced medicine for many years before becoming a lawyer and now focus on mediating medical malpractice, personal injury, and other complex injury cases.

By way of background, He is a physician since 1991 and a lawyer since 2006, and has recently completed advanced dispute-resolution training at Pepperdine’s Straus Institute. He has currently mediate cases involving medical and bodily injury issues and speak to legal audiences about mediation and negotiation.

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Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D.

Mediator, Arbitrator, Attorney at Law, Physician, Real Estate Broker

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MD JD Dispute Resolution

4160 Temescal Canyon Road, Suite 306

Corona, CA 92883

(951)520-9684 Ext. 102

paul@mdjddisputeresolution.com
www.mdjddisputeresolution.com

Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D On The Use of AI in Medicine and Law

Fri, 19 Jun 2026 13:00:00 -0400

Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D. is a California mediator and arbitrator who brings a somewhat unusual perspective to dispute resolution. He has practiced medicine for many years before becoming a lawyer and now focus on mediating medical malpractice, personal injury, and other complex injury cases.

Paul has worked on both sides of the medicine–law divide, he often speaks about how physicians, lawyers, and litigants actually think during high-stakes disputes, and how cognitive bias, risk perception, and communication styles can make or break a mediation. He believes that perspective can be useful for attorneys, mediators, and anyone interested in conflict resolution.

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Paul J. Molinaro, M.D., J.D.

Mediator, Arbitrator, Attorney at Law, Physician, Real Estate Broker

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MD JD Dispute Resolution

4160 Temescal Canyon Road, Suite 306

Corona, CA 92883

(951)520-9684 Ext. 102

paul@mdjddisputeresolution.com
www.mdjddisputeresolution.com

The Age of AI and Apps in Modern Mediation | Sol Kennedy

Fri, 05 Jun 2026 08:00:00 -0400

In Part 2 of Episode 155/156, Matthew Brickman speaks with entrepreneur and Best Interest App founder Sol Kennedy for a powerful conversation about how AI and apps are already reshaping the future of family law.

Drawing from his own high-conflict divorce experience, Sol explains how the Best Interest App uses AI to help co-parents reduce emotional triggers, filter toxic communication, and stay focused on what truly matters: the best interests of the children.

Matthew and Sol dive deep into:

The psychology of co-parent conflict
Emotional triggers during divorce
AI-powered communication moderation
Differences between Best Interest and apps like OurFamilyWizard & Talking Parents
Solo-mode communication tools
Parenting plans and mediation
How courts and mediators use co-parenting apps
Why reducing conflict early can change a child’s future

This episode blends technology, psychology, mediation, and real-world family dynamics into one fascinating discussion about the future of co-parenting support systems.

If you’re a parent, mediator, attorney, therapist, or simply interested in how AI is transforming human communication, this conversation is a must-listen.

🔗 Learn more about the Best Interest App:
https://bestinterest.app

Sol Kennedy on Using AI to Reduce Co-Parenting Conflict | Best Interest App

Fri, 22 May 2026 15:00:00 -0400

What happens when artificial intelligence meets co-parenting and family mediation?

In Part 1 of Episode 155/156, Matthew Brickman sits down with entrepreneur and Best Interest App founder Sol Kennedy for a powerful conversation about divorce, conflict, communication, and how AI may be reshaping the future of family law.

Matthew and Sol dive deep into:

The psychology of co-parent conflict
Emotional triggers during divorce
AI-powered communication moderation
Differences between Best Interest and apps like OurFamilyWizard & Talking Parents
Solo-mode communication tools
Parenting plans and mediation
How courts and mediators use co-parenting apps
Why reducing conflict early can change a child’s future

This episode blends technology, psychology, mediation, and real-world family dynamics into one fascinating discussion about the future of co-parenting support systems.

If you’re a parent, mediator, attorney, therapist, or simply interested in how AI is transforming human communication, this conversation is a must-listen.

🔗 Learn more about the Best Interest App:
https://bestinterest.app

Breaking The Cycle of Conflict (Jessica Menasce)

Fri, 08 May 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down again to discuss breaking the cycle of conflict with Jessica Menasce, an experienced conflict resolution/transformation, negotiation, and leadership specialist with a decade of expertise in program development, facilitation, and training. She has spent the past few years convening parties in conflict, who are very unlikely to ever meet, much less speak.

Her goal is to carve a path to curiosity and, ultimately, a desire to want to work together in shared challenges. She works to foster collaboration among diverse stakeholders within complex environments and have particularly proven success in designing impactful training programs and guiding cross-cultural teams through challenging processes, focusing on sustainable relationship-building.

Connect with Jessica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicamenasce/

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If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Matthew Brickman
President iMediate Inc.
Mediator 20836CFA
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Parents Disagree on Best Interest of the Child, So How Is It Decided?

Fri, 24 Apr 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Often in mediation, parents will disagree on who is actually acting in the best interest of the child. So then how is the best interest of the child decided? Matthew Brickman discusses best interest factors you need to know if you are currently or ever in this position.

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Did James Cameron's Terminator Warn Us About AI? Rebecca Palmer Esq.

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. sit down for this episode of MediateThis! to discuss tech evolving faster than ever and if AI technology will eventually become part of our everyday life. Learn what you can do to prepare for the AI tech revolution.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

AI Relationships & Infidelity - Rebecca Palmer Esq.

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. sit down for this episode of MediateThis! to discuss the evolving impact of AI on personal relationships and the legal issues that come with it. Is emotional infidelity with a virtual entity still "cheating"?

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Were We Raised For Conflict?The Difference Between Effective & Ineffective Mediation (Jessica Menasce)

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 07:00:00 -0400

Were we bred to battle? Matthew Brickman sits down again to speak with Jessica Menasce, an experienced conflict resolution/transformation, negotiation, and leadership specialist with a decade of expertise in program development, facilitation, and training. She has spent the past few years convening parties in conflict, who are very unlikely to ever meet, much less speak.

Connect with Jessica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicamenasce/

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Think Your Ex Is Out of the Picture? Your Life Insurance & Will Might Disagree

Fri, 27 Feb 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Divorce does not just divide property. It reshapes the future. And sometimes, quietly, it leaves outdated plans sitting in place that no longer reflect your reality.

In this episode, family and divorce mediator Matthew Brickman unpacks how life insurance policies and wills can be impacted after a marriage ends, why beneficiary designations matter more than most people realize, and what happens when legal documents lag behind life changes.

If you assume everything “automatically updates” after divorce, you've fell asleep and this episode is a wake up call.

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Am I The Financial Advisor Or Am I The Mediator? Ryan Finley

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman is joined again by Ryan Finley, the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, to discuss wearing two hats as both the financial advisor and the mediator in divorce cases.

Ryan is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence.

As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike.

Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/

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Ryan Finley - Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group Divorce Advisory Firm

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Today, Matthew Brickman is joined by Ryan Finley. Ryan is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence.

Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/

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International Negotiation: There's Levels To This (Jessica Menasce)

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 09:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman and Jessica Menasce go deep into the various levels of mediation from the family level all the way up to International Mediation between countries and warring factions to give you insight on how everything still comes back to family values and structure.

Connect with Jessica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicamenasce/

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Jessica Menasce - Facilitator, Trainer, Relationship Builder, Curriculum Designer, Process-Supporter

Fri, 02 Jan 2026 07:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman sits down to speak with Jessica Menasce, an experienced conflict resolution/transformation, negotiation, and leadership specialist with a
decade of expertise in program development, facilitation, and training. She has spent the past few years convening parties in conflict, who are very unlikely to ever meet, much less speak.

Connect with Jessica: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicamenasce/

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The 6 Pillars of Building Healthy Relationships (Bryan Power)

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 12:00:00 -0500

Bryan Power discusses The 6 Pillars that will move you from an unhealthy attachment style to a healthy one.

Core Wounds

Core wounds are the deep emotional injuries we carry from past experiences, often stemming from childhood.

Needs

Our emotional needs are the fundamental desires that drive how we connect with others, such as the need for love, validation, or safety.

Emotions

Emotions are powerful forces that influence our behaviors and reactions in relationships.

Boundaries

Setting boundaries and respecting others boundaries is vital for maintaining healthy relationships.

Communication

Communication is the foundation of all healthy relationships.

Behaviors

Our behaviors are often a reflection of our underlying beliefs and emotions.

Learn more about Bryan Power's relationship coaching at:

https://www.myrelationshipfail.com'

https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/

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Interview with Bryan Power - Integrated Attachment Theory Coach

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 16:00:00 -0500

What's Your Attachment Style?

Attachment theory explores how early relationships with caregivers shape the way we connect with others throughout life. It helps explain patterns in how we form bonds, handle intimacy, and respond to conflict. Understanding attachment styles can provide valuable insight into our relationships, helping us build healthier, more secure connections.

Secure

Anxious Preoccupied

Fearful Avoidant

Dismissive Avoidant

Learn more about Bryan Power's relationship coaching at:

https://www.myrelationshipfail.com'

https://www.linkedin.com/in/bryanwpower/

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How Do I Center Myself Emotionally During A Turbulent Divorce?

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "How do people center themselves emotionally during a turbulent divorce?" Matthew Brickman goes through the most popular options for getting through an emotionally charged divorce process. Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

How Does The DIY Divorce & Paternity Process in Florida Work?

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 12:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman explains the current process for DIY Divorce, Paternity and Modification actions in the State of Florida. Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Why Does My Wife Get The House While I Rent? with Ryan D. Brown

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down with Ryan D. Brown to discuss why there are situations where a person loses a house to their spouse in a divorce and then has to rent without the ability to financially withstand the impact of this event.

Ryan D. Brown is the Branch Manager / Mortgage Loan Originator/ Divisional Vice President of the Palm Beach Gardens and Stuart locations of Cross Country Mortgage. For the last 5 years in a row The Ryan Brown Team won BEST LENDER in Palm Beach County by The Palm Beach Post and won the BEST LENDER in the Treasure Coast for 2025!

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If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Safeguarding Property in Marriage & Divorce with Ryan D. Brown (Best Lender in Palm Beach & Treasure Coast)

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 13:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down with Ryan D. Brown to discuss how to protect your property and home in both marriage and divorce—and what you need to know before stepping up to the altar.

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If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

My Ex Accumulated Reckless Gambling Debt - Am I Liable? (Marital Dissipation)

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in asking if they are liable for their ex-spouse's reckless debt accumulated through gambling, drug use and excessive spending. Where typically items like this are usually split 50% during a divorce, your state may have laws that protect you against this one particular circumstance.

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

David Pisarra: Top 30% Family Law Cases Involve High-Conflict People With Borderline Personality Disorders

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 07:00:00 -0400

David Pisarra and Matthew Brickman discuss the Top 30% of High-Conflict Family Law Cases involving people with borderline personality disorders and the mental manipulation they utilize in the family court system.

David Pisarra is the founder of Union of Dads, with over 25 years in Family Law, focusing on helping fathers in custody and divorce cases. He's developed a supportive community with a social media reach of 125,000 dads aged 24-50, aiming to empower them in being active participants in their children's lives.

At Dad's Law School, he lends practical skills for dads to succeed in Family Court, offering comprehensive online guidance and in-person trainings like his Dad's Badass Bootcamp.

https://mensfamilylaw.com

https://www.unionofdads.com

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🎧 Have questions or stories to share? Email us at MBrickman@iChatMediation.com.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Interview with David Pisarra Founder of Union Dads and Dad's Law School

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 11:00:00 -0400

At Dad's Law School, he lends practical skills for dads to succeed in Family Court, offering comprehensive online guidance and in-person trainings like his Dad's Badass Bootcamp.

https://mensfamilylaw.com

https://www.unionofdads.com

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🎧 Have questions or stories to share? Email us at MBrickman@iChatMediation.com.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Interview with NJ Divorce Attorney John Nachlinger

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 07:00:00 -0400

With over 20 years of legal experience, John Nachlinger has built his career on one radical belief: divorce doesn’t have to mean chaos, court battles, or losing everything you’ve worked for.

Unlike traditional divorce attorneys who profit from prolonged conflict, John co-founded Netsquire around transparency, flat-fee predictability, and resolutions that protect what matters most. He’s also the force behind Divorce Shield, where he helps men across the country take back control of their divorce before it takes control of them.

https://www.centraljerseyfamilylaw.com/

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If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

What If The Other Side Wont Mediate?

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 07:00:00 -0400

🎙️ MediateThis! is back to serve up a dose of reality for your wallet and your sanity.

This episode deals with arguably the most overlooked fact about mediation, in many situations the other person is not obligated to cooperate or even mediate.

So Matthew Brickman provides various solutions for those who find themselves in the situation where the other side doesn't want to mediate.

Plus, a reminder to always know the current laws in your state — and why that knowledge can save you big bucks and bigger headaches.

Get informed. Save money. Protect your peace.

🎧 Hit play and get empowered to navigate the system smartly and swiftly.

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Bang for Your Buck - Spend Smart & Stress Less in Mediation & Court (Part II)

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 07:00:00 -0400

🎙️ MediateThis! is back to serve up a dose of reality for your wallet and your sanity — welcome to Part II of our Best Tips & Practices series.

This episode tackles a truth few want to hear: cheap legal help can cost you more in the end. But don’t be fooled — the priciest attorney, mediator, or guardian ad-litem isn’t automatically the best either.

We break down:

Is your case right for mediation?
How to hire a competent mediator.
How to spot mediation versus manipulation, success versus settlement.
How to vet, question, and choose the right professional for your situation.

Plus, a reminder to always know the current laws in your state — and why that knowledge can save you big bucks and bigger headaches.

Get informed. Save money. Protect your peace.

🎧 Hit play and get empowered to navigate the system smartly and swiftly.

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Bang for Your Buck: Spend Smart & Stress Less in Mediation & Court (Part I)

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 07:00:00 -0400

🎙️ MediateThis! serves up a dose of reality for your wallet and your sanity — welcome to Part I of our Best Tips & Practices series.

We break down:

Why “you get what you pay for” holds true in family law.
How to spot overpriced legal pros.
The non-negotiable truth: no one works for free, so budget wisely.
How to vet, question, and choose the right professional for your situation.

Plus, a reminder to always know the current laws in your state — and why that knowledge can save you big bucks and bigger headaches.

Get informed. Save money. Protect your peace.

🎧 Hit play and get empowered to navigate the system smartly and swiftly.

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💸The $319K Child: What Child Support Really Covers in 2025

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Raising a child now costs $319,000.
Yet most parents are told to make it work with a court-issued child support number based on income and overnights.

🎧 In this episode, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator Matthew Brickman breaks down the real numbers behind raising a child in 2025—housing, food, transportation, healthcare, and more.

You’ll learn:

What child support is really designed to cover
Why the number almost never matches real-life parenting costs
The hidden costs that blindside divorcing or separated parents

If you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting, or paternity, this episode is your budget wake-up call.

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🧠Divorcing With a Child in Crisis: What Every Parent Needs to Know About Mental Health & Mediation

Fri, 23 May 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Divorce is tough. But when your child is dealing with mental health challenges, it adds a layer of urgency most families aren’t prepared for. In this episode, Florida Supreme Court Certified Mediator Matthew Brickman tackle the sensitive intersection of child custody, mental health, and mediation.

💡 Learn how mediation can provide a compassionate, structured approach that supports both parental rights and a child’s emotional needs—without escalating to court.

Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, or neurodivergence in your parenting plan, this episode delivers practical guidance for putting your child’s well-being first.

🎧 Have questions or stories to share? Email us at MBrickman@iChatMediation.com.

Rules About Introducing New Partners Post-Divorce

Fri, 09 May 2025 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Are there rules or guidelines to introducing children to a new partner after a divorce and can my spouse legally prevent this?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Matthew Brickman & Tad A. Nelson Talks Retirement Plans from Mediation - There Isn't One

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss retirement plans from mediation - there isn't one.

With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with an unparalleled level of expertise, has made him the go-to criminal defense attorney in Galveston County and beyond.

Former Assistant District Attorney
Board Certified® in 1996
Certified SFST Instructor
Certified in the DRE Protocol

Tad has not only mastered the law—he has mastered the science behind it. Achieving the prestigious Lawyer-Scientist designation from the American Chemical Society, he further solidified his expertise by pursuing a Master’s in Forensic Toxicology from the University of Florida. This deep understanding of forensic science gives him a cutting edge in cases involving DWI, drug charges, sexual assaults and other forensic-heavy criminal matters.

Beyond his scientific acumen, Tad has earned the highest possible AV rating from Martindale-Hubbell, an honor recognizing both legal skill and ethical integrity. His aggressive nature, wicked courtroom skills, and commitment to justice make him a wrecking ball when it comes to defending the rights of his clients.

Website: https://tadlaw.com

Attorney Tad A. Nelson Discusses The Spike In Mental Health Dockets Impacting Divorce & Society

Sat, 12 Apr 2025 13:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss the the impact someone having a mental heath crisis can have on employment and divorce.

With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with an unparalleled level of expertise, has made him the go-to criminal defense attorney in Galveston County and beyond.

Former Assistant District Attorney
Board Certified® in 1996
Certified SFST Instructor
Certified in the DRE Protocol

Website: https://tadlaw.com

Interview with ACS-CHAL Lawyer-Scientist Tad A. Nelson

Fri, 28 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman speaks with Lawyer and Forensic Scientist Tad A. Nelson on MediateThis! to discuss the correlation between divorce and the effect it can have the psyche post-divorce.

With over 400 jury trials under his belt, Board Certified in Criminal Law by the Texas Board of Legal Specialization for 30 years, and recognized as a Super Lawyer over 10 consecutive years, Tad Nelson is a force to be reckoned with in the courtroom. His reputation for aggressive representation, combined with an unparalleled level of expertise, has made him the go-to criminal defense attorney in Galveston County and beyond.

Former Assistant District Attorney
Board Certified® in 1996
Certified SFST Instructor
Certified in the DRE Protocol

Website: https://tadlaw.com

Rebecca Palmer Esq.: Correlation Between Divorce & Later Psychological Problems

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. sit down for their 3rd interview on MediateThis! to discuss the correlation between divorce and the effect it can have the psyche post-divorce.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Matthew Brickman and Dana Casperson Reveal How To Find Your Power In Mediation & Negotiation

Fri, 28 Feb 2025 07:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman and Dana Casperson reveal tactics on how to your find your power in negotiation, mediation and everyday life situations. Dana is a practitioner of "constructive conflict", award-winning performing artist, TEDx speaker, and best-selling author. She works with individuals, workplaces, and communities worldwide as a trainer, coach, consultant, and dialogue designer. Dana draws on the knowledge and insight gained from her experience and training as a mediator and conflict analyst as well as her 40 years career as a performing arts innovator.

Conflict Is an Opportunity: Twenty Fundamental Decisions for Navigating Difficult Times on Amazon.

Dana Casperson: Conflict Engagement Specialist, Best-Selling Author, TEDx speaker, Award-Winning Performing Artist

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 07:00:00 -0500

Dana Casperson is a practitioner of "constructive conflict", award-winning performing artist, TEDx speaker, and best-selling author. She works with individuals, workplaces, and communities worldwide as a trainer, coach, consultant, and dialogue designer. Dana draws on the knowledge and insight gained from her experience and training as a mediator and conflict analyst as well as her 40 years career as a performing arts innovator.

Dana’s work integrates conflict engagement practices with choreographic design to create effective, impactful teaching and communication methods. In collaboration with communities, governments, and foundations in the U.S., Europe, and the UK, she has designed and facilitated large-scale action dialogues on challenging topics ranging from immigration to violence, bringing together thousands of people from diverse communities across the world.

Conflict Is an Opportunity: Twenty Fundamental Decisions for Navigating Difficult Times on Amazon.

Can Domestic Violence Affect My Divorce or Paternity Case?

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "How does domestic violence affect how a case will be viewed and ultimately the outcome?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

These Are The Terms Missing From Your Contract

Fri, 17 Jan 2025 07:00:00 -0500

There may be some very important terms missing from your divorce contract, especially when there's property to sell involved. Let's talk about it.

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Help! My Spouse and I Disagree on The Best Interest of our Children

Fri, 27 Dec 2024 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "What if my spouse and I completely disagree on the best interest of the children, does the judge make the decision for us?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Divorce Rules for Introducing New Partners

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 12:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "Are there rules or guidelines to introducing children to a new partner after divorce? Can my ex-spouse legally prevent this?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Do I Still Pay Alimony If I Lose My Job?

Fri, 29 Nov 2024 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "What if I am paying alimony and suddenly laid off, what do I do while waiting for a modification if I cannot afford to pay?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Can I Bring A Court Reporter to Mediation?

Fri, 15 Nov 2024 07:00:00 -0500

A mediation client asks, "Can I bring a court reporter to mediation?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

How Are Life Insurance Policies And Wills Affected By A Divorce?

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "How are life insurance policies and wills affected by a divorce?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

My Name is On The House Can I Change The Locks? (DIVORCE)

Fri, 18 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "My name is on the house, can I change the locks?"

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Farewell Sydney

Fri, 04 Oct 2024 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman in a farewell episode to Sydney Mitchell, former co-host of the MediateThis! Podcast.

Matthew Brickman is still here to answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Has Divorce in Modern Times Become Tougher on Mothers or Fathers?

Fri, 20 Sep 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, Has Divorce in Modern Times Become Tougher on Mothers or Fathers?" The answer to that question is...yes. Tougher on both the mother and father, depending on the perspective as Matthew breaks down how it has changed for both parties and what you need to know to make yours easier.

Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Can A Divorce Attorney Guarantee A Win?

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, Can an attorney guarantee a particular result in a divorce case - especially if the circumstances are heavily in one person's favor?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Kim Hudson: Author of The Bridge - Connecting The Powers of Linear And Circular Thinking

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 07:00:00 -0400

Kim Hudson provides a well-researched and compassionate approach to bridging the worlds of linear and circular thinking. She reveals a core pattern to the inner workings of linear and circular thinking, which holds the key to crossing the distance between them. With this framework we can expand our leadership potential, bring indigenous wisdoms into modern practice, support the co-existence of masculine and feminine perspectives, transform our societal and organizational approaches to issues like climate change, and more!

Backed up by scientific research, and drawing on her experience as an exploration geologist, First Nation consultant, archetypal story analyst, and federal land claims negotiator, Hudson offers a book that is as intriguing as it is practical.

The Bridge on Amazon.com

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

A Complete A-Z Walkthrough of The iMediate Inc Mediation Process

Fri, 09 Aug 2024 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman provides a complete A-Z walkthrough of how the iMediate Inc. Mediation Process works for online mediation for matters in:

Divorce
Paternity
Parental Rights
Child Support
Timesharing (formerly Child Custody)
Alimony - Spousal Support
Business and Family Disputes of all kinds

What Can And Can't Be Mediated?

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, What can and what cannot be mediated?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Online Mediation Vs In-Person Mediation in 2024

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Matthew, What are the benefits of online mediation vs in-person now that we're in 2024 post-covid and why should I choose virtual?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Are There Hidden Players At Your Mediation?

Fri, 07 Jun 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "Are there hidden players at my mediation unknown to me?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

What Are the Implications of Parental Kidnapping Both During and Post-Divorce?

Fri, 17 May 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "What Are the Implications of Parental Kidnapping Both During and Post-Divorce?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Will The Cost of Divorce Rise With Inflation?

Fri, 03 May 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "In 2024, and moving forward, do you see the price of divorce rising with inflation?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

If I'm Laid Off Do I Still Have to Pay Alimony While Waiting For a Modification?

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "If I'm paying alimony and suddenly laid off, what do I do while waiting for a modification if I cannot afford to pay?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Conversation With Rebecca Palmer Esq. On Law Changes in Parenting, Paternity and Timesharing

Fri, 05 Apr 2024 07:00:00 -0400

In 2023, there were a number of changes in the State of Florida in regard to almost everything under the umbrella of parenting. Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. deep-dive into these changes, what's good, what's not so good about them and how they might affect YOU.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Conversation With Rebecca Palmer Esq. On Current Divorce Trends

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 07:00:00 -0400

There's a little know statistic among the public but well known among divorce attorneys and mediators. January is the most common month for divorce, but why is that so? Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. go beneath the surface to discover what causes this and other current divorce trends.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Interview with Ginger Gentile - Director of Erasing Family - Part 2

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 07:00:00 -0500

Ginger Gentile is best known for directing "Erasing Family", which exposes the trauma children suffer when a loving parent is erased from their lives after divorce, a problem facing 22 million families in the US alone. The film was made after a nearly half a million crowdfunding campaign and is currently streaming. Ginger has also been a guest on Red Table Talk.

Prior work includes directing "Erasing Dad" (Borrando a Papá) and Goals for Girls: A story of Women with Balls (Mujeres con Pelotas). Both are feature documentaries that focus on gender stereotypes and "Erasing" was the most talked about documentary in Argentina, the country of its production, in 2014 and made front page news as attempts were made to censor it.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Interview with Ginger Gentile - Director of Erasing Family - Part 1

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 07:00:00 -0500

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Interview with CiCi Van Tine - Is My Valentine a Narcissist?

Fri, 09 Feb 2024 07:00:00 -0500

Carolyn “CiCi” Van Tine is a compassionate advisor and tenacious litigator with nearly 30 years of experience.

CiCi’s practice is dedicated to all aspects of family law matters, including divorce, separation, custody, parenting plans, child support, alimony, asset division, pre- and post-nuptial agreements, parental relocation, paternity, modification, probate litigation, restraining orders and grandparents’ rights.

She represents individuals, including professional athletes and celebrities, involved in high-stakes, high-profile divorce and custody disputes. CiCi has also tried several Hague Convention cases regarding foreign custody and divorce matters.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

The Current Process for DIY Divorce and Paternity Action in Florida

Fri, 26 Jan 2024 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "What is the current process for DIY Divorce and DIY Paternity Action in the State of Florida?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

WAKE UP - It's Time!

Fri, 12 Jan 2024 07:00:00 -0500

Family Law & Divorce Mediator Matthew Brickman explains how seemingly small decisions we make in our lives can have a ripple effect on something much larger and how this correlates to our everyday lives.

He references the 2004 film The Butterfly Effect to illustrate this concept.

The Ins and Outs of a Qualified Domestic Relations Order QDRO

Fri, 29 Dec 2023 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "What are the aspects of a QDRO that I need to know? Is this always court ordered or can one spouse initiate it?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Do I Have An Advantage If I Initiate The Divorce?

Fri, 15 Dec 2023 07:00:00 -0500

A listener writes in and asks, "Does the person who initiates a divorce bear any other advantage aside from that they may be better prepared?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Matthew Brickman And Keld Jensen - EVERYTHING Is Negotiable

Fri, 01 Dec 2023 07:00:00 -0500

It's a deep dive into negotiation tactics and strategies as Matthew and Keld Jensen discuss why EVERYTHING is negotiable in life.

Keld Jensen is a passionate negotiation strategist and speaker. He works with international companies on strategy and negotiations, building trust and finding solutions together. Mr. Jensen is a master negotiator having negotiated internationally for global organizations, he is an associate professor at four Universities, a keynote speaker, and the author of 25 books including his newest release - Negotiation Essentials

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Matthew Brickman Interviews Keld Jensen - Author of Negotiation Essentials

Fri, 17 Nov 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Keld Jensen is a passionate negotiation strategist and speaker. He works with international companies on strategy and negotiations, building trust and finding solutions together. Mr. Jensen is a master negotiator having negotiated internationally for global organizations, he is an associate professor at four Universities, a keynote speaker, and the author of 25 books including his newest release - Negotiation Essentials

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Matthew Brickman Interviews Lawrence Joss of Parental Alienation Anonymous Inc. (PA-A.org)

Fri, 27 Oct 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Lawrence Joss is the founder of Parental Alienation Anonymous Inc (PA-A.org), a 501(c)3 nonprofit dedicated to fostering education, advocacy, and support for individuals grappling with the distressing impact of parental alienation, estrangement, erasure, and family disconnection.

Parental Alienation Anonymous

Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/
Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/PAAsupport/
Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/parentalalienationanonymous
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationanonymous/
LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/parental-alienation-awareness-support-group/

Matthew Brickman Interviews Casner & Edwards Family Law Partner Marc Fitzgerald

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Marc E. Fitzgerald handles all aspects of domestic relations, equity matters and probate litigation, including divorce, custody, modification actions, child support, alimony, paternity, guardianship, adoption, pre- and postnuptial agreements, de facto parenting, and will contests. Matthew Brickman speaks to Marc about his experience in domestic relations and his unique approach to conflict resolution.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Matthew Brickman Interviews Stan Tatkin Developer Of The Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT)

Fri, 29 Sep 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Dr. Stan Tatkin is a clinician, teacher and author who has integrated neuroscience, attachment therapy and current therapies and is a developer, along with his wife, of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT) which is taught through their institute to train other psychotherapists in this methodology. Matthew Brickman speaks to Dr. Tatkin about his new book and his unique approach to couple's therapy as it pertains to conflict resolution.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

In the State of Florida House Bill 775 Changes Paternity Forever

Fri, 15 Sep 2023 13:00:00 -0400

House Bill 775 relates to the Shared Parental Responsibility after Establishment of Paternity which makes significant changes to paternity in Florida. Matthew Brickman updates you how these changes impact your parental obligations while he answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Florida Kidcare Insurance Update for 2023

Fri, 01 Sep 2023 07:00:00 -0400

House Bill 121 relates to the Florida Kidcare Program is the medical insurance program in the state of Florida for children. Matthew Brickman updates you on the significant changes made to this program while he answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

No More Permanent Alimony: The Alimony Reform Bill Was Finally Passed In Florida

Fri, 18 Aug 2023 07:00:00 -0400

After multiple attempts, year after year, Alimony Reform has finally been signed by the governor in the State of Florida. There is no more permanent alimony in Florida. Matthew Brickman updates you on how this has come to pass and what options are left for alimony while he answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

2023 Update: New Laws For Florida Timesharing (Formerly Called Visitation)

Fri, 04 Aug 2023 07:00:00 -0400

There are new laws governing timesharing in Florida, which was formerly referred to as child visitation. Matthew Brickman updates you on the new laws affecting divorce and paternity while he answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Susan Chestnutt interviews Matthew Brickman: Pits to Stay Out Of In Life

Fri, 21 Jul 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman is interviewed by Susan Chestnutt of The Chestnutt Law Firm on her podcast From Foster Care to Family Law: A Child Welfare Focus to discuss his passion for mediation and family law with some insightful tips for parents and divorcing couples.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Susan Chestnutt interviews Matthew Brickman: Marriage, Parenting, Relationships are a Business

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Do You Have An Enforcement Clause In Your Mediation Agreements to Cover Attorney Fees?

Fri, 23 Jun 2023 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "How do I enforce the other party to cover my attorney fees if they don't comply with a mediation or parenting agreement?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Can You Lock Yourself Into Non-Modifiable Alimony? (Discussion w/RIO ROCKET)

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman continues the discussion of alimony with Actor, Spokesperson, Musician RIO ROCKET to discuss if its possible to lock yourself into non-modifiable alimony or is it only possible to be awarded by a judge. You'll be surprised by the answer.

Learn the ins and outs of alimony, child support and divorce so that you can walk into your next mediation armed with the knowledge to control your own destiny.

Can The Spouse Who Makes More Money Ever Completely Avoid Spousal Payments (Alimony)?

Fri, 26 May 2023 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "I make alot more than my soon to be ex-wife. Is there anyway I can avoid paying spousal maintenance?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Whats the Difference Between Legal Custody Vs Full Custody?

Fri, 12 May 2023 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "What is the difference between legal custody and full custody? Does even custody still exist?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Notice of Related Cases: Know What It Is Before You Step Into A Courtroom

Fri, 28 Apr 2023 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "What types of cases that Are related to my divorce can be heard in family court?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Interview with Marc Lesser Part II: Author of Seven Practices of a Mindful Leader: Lessons from Google and a Zen Monastery Kitchen

Fri, 14 Apr 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman continues his conversation with Marc Lesser, Founder and CEO of 3 companies, including the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute. Mindfulness teacher, executive coach, speaker, and facilitator. Author of 4 books, including “Seven Practices of a Mindful Leader: Lessons from Google and a Zen Monastery Kitchen.”

Interview with Marc Lesser Part I: Keynote and Developer of the SIY Program within Google

Fri, 31 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman sits down to talk with Marc Lesser, Founder and CEO of 3 companies, including the Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute. Mindfulness teacher, executive coach, speaker, and facilitator. Author of 4 books, including “Seven Practices of a Mindful Leader: Lessons from Google and a Zen Monastery Kitchen.”

The Court Ordered A Statement of Net Worth, Can I Refuse?

Fri, 17 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0400

A listener writes in and asks, "I was ordered by the court to submit a Statement of Net Worth. Can I refuse? How will it affect my divorce case?" Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Conversation With Rebecca Palmer Esq. The Latest Marriage & Divorce Statistics Will Shock You

Fri, 03 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. continue their discussion on relationships, divorce and parenting. This discussion on the latest marriage and divorce statistics are shocking and here's what you can do to prepare yourself.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Conversation With Rebecca Palmer Esq. On Why Its Easy To Get Married, Hard To Get Divorced

Fri, 17 Feb 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Have you ever wondered why it's so easy to get married but such a difficult process to get divorced? Matthew Brickman and family law attorney and mediator Rebecca Palmer Esq. discuss why this is and why it should be the other way around. They get into prenuptials, postnuptials, and the hard data on marriage and divorce statistics.

Rebecca L. Palmer is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL and serves clients throughout the state of Florida. Palmer has a broad background in providing intimate legal advice to those in need at a major time of change in their life. She has been an advocate for her clients for over 25 years and continues to have steadfast continued relationship even after a divorce has been finalized. Palmer is a champion in the courtroom as well as knowledgeable in alternative domestic dispute resolution avenues like mediation and Collaborative Law.

Can I Get A Divorce Using A Separation Agreement?

Fri, 03 Feb 2023 07:00:00 -0500

A listener asks, Can I get a divorce using a separation agreeement? Matthew Brickman answers your most frequently asked questions about divorce as he goes over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

The Main Differences Between a Contested Divorce and Uncontested Divorce

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Do you know the difference between a contested divorce and an uncontested divorce in your state. Matthew Brickman explains the difference between the two so you don't get blindsided in your divorce mediation case.

Did I Miss Something? Beating Expectations In Divorce Mediation

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 11:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman describes how unexpectedly smooth a mediation can go to the point where the client will sometimes believe that they missed something. Can mediation truly be that groundbreaking or is there more to this?

Did You Know? Every Dollar Of Alimony Reduces Child Support (Discussion w/RIO ROCKET)

Fri, 23 Dec 2022 07:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman continues the discussion of alimony with Actor, Spokesperson, Musician RIO ROCKET as the Florida Alimony Reform Bill in the State of Florida continues to stall. Learn the ins and outs of alimony, child support and divorce so that you can walk into your next mediation armed with the knowledge to control your own destiny.

How Need Vs Ability Is Weighed In Determining Alimony. Discussion With RIO ROCKET

Fri, 09 Dec 2022 07:00:00 -0500

Actor, Spokesperson, Musician RIO ROCKET and Matthew Brickman continue their discussion of alimony as the Florida Alimony Reform Bill in the State of Florida continues to stall. They discuss how need versus ability is weighed and create a hypothetical scenario to show how the numbers would actually work out in determining alimony based on these factors.

Can a 17 Year Marriage Result in Nearly 70 Years of Alimony? Discussion With RIO ROCKET

Fri, 25 Nov 2022 15:00:00 -0500

Actor, Spokesperson, Musician RIO ROCKET joins Matthew Brickman to discuss what are the true ramifications of a long-term marriage with no foreseeable resolution to Lifetime Alimony via the Florida Alimony Reform Bill in the State of Florida.

Interview with Andrea Reid Esq: How Florida Alimony Reform Can Be Successful

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 13:00:00 -0500

Matthew Brickman and Andrea Reid Esq. discuss what it will take to get the Florida Alimony Reform Bill passed in the State of Florida today.

Interview with Andrea Reid Esq on Florida's Income and Poverty Guidelines in 2022

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 17:00:00 -0400

Topics such as Florida Alimony Reform, Child Support and Spousal Support in Florida are pressing matters. Matthew Brickman and Andrea Reid Esq. discuss how agreements for these matters are negotiated according to Florida's Income and Poverty Guidelines.

Interview with Andrea Reid Esq on Florida Alimony Reform in 2022

Fri, 14 Oct 2022 07:00:00 -0400

The timeline for alimony reform in the state of Florida is a long, complicated one. Are you going to be paying alimony for a lifetime or is relief just around the corner? Matthew Brickman and Andrea Reid Esq. discuss recent events affecting the Florida Alimony Reform timeline.

Is What Happens in Family Mediation Really Confidential and Private?

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0400

A listener asks, What happens when a judge requests a mediator’s files? Is what happens in family mediation really confidential and private? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

How to End a Toxic Marriage (Safely)

Fri, 16 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0400

A listener asks, I'm in a toxic marriage where domestic violence in involved. How do I get a divorce without making things worse? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Who Pays For Adult Kids Expenses?

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 07:00:00 -0400

After a divorce who pays for student loans and a children's credit cards? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

In the Case of Infidelity Does the Court Care Anymore?

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Do you know if you're in an at-fault state or not? What are the possible repercussions of committing infidelity if you are? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Is Your Spouse Hiding Assets? Yes? But Can You Prove It!

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 07:00:00 -0400

I suspect my spouse is hiding assets or concealing income but can't prove it, how is this handled in mediation? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

What is the Advantage of Mediating Virtually over In-Person?

Fri, 15 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Virtual or in-person mediation: Is it just cost and time alone or are there other benefits that you should be aware of? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Are You Looking to Prevent (Contact) or Protect?

Fri, 01 Jul 2022 06:00:00 -0400

Are you looking to prevent or protect? The child is entitled to frequent and continuing contact with both parents, it's not yours to give. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Child Safety: Safety-Focused Parenting Plans Part II - Interruption

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0400

What happens in a safety-focused parenting plan when new safety issues arise other than those that the plan was created for? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Child Safety: What A Safety-Focused Parenting Plan Looks Like Part I

Fri, 03 Jun 2022 07:00:00 -0400

How can parenting plans focus on issues with child safety, absentee parents and a history of drug and alcohol abuse? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

How Does Relocation Work Post-Divorce in a Parenting Plan?

Fri, 20 May 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Can I move out of state with my children after a divorce is finalized? Can I move with the children temporarily for work, why or why not? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Help! I Found Out My Spouse Is Already Married. What Do I Do Now?

Fri, 06 May 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Is it possible to marry someone who is married in another state or country? If this happens what recourse do you have after you find out? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Is Inheritance Community Property? If Not Then What Is

Fri, 22 Apr 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Community property is the marital pot of assets that are acquired during a marriage and which will also be split in the event of divorce. But is an inheritance and gifts also community property, why or why not? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

What Is The Current State of Alimony Reform In Florida?

Fri, 08 Apr 2022 07:00:00 -0400

The timeline for alimony reform in the state of Florida is a long, complicated one. Are you going to be paying alimony for a lifetime or is relief just around the corner? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Division of a Premarital Home: Wanna Keep It? Know This...

Fri, 25 Mar 2022 07:00:00 -0400

So you're getting a divorce. Do you know what will happen to your property? Don't just wing it. If you are going through a breakup you need to know how division of one or more premarital homes works or you may have unexpected results. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Division of a Marital Home: Know How It Works Or Else This Happens...

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 07:00:00 -0500

So you're getting a divorce. Do you know what will happen to your property? Don't just wing it. If you are going through a breakup you need to know how division of one or more marital homes works or you may have unexpected results. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Divison of Assets and Liabilities in a Divorce Mediation Agreement

Fri, 25 Feb 2022 07:00:00 -0500

Do you live in a equitable distribution state? That doesn't mean equal or fair, it means "equitable" - so just what does that mean? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

We're Unmarried With Joint Ownership of Assets Do We Need A Mediator or Attorney?

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 07:00:00 -0500

What happens when your relationship has all the qualities of a marriage but without the legal sanction? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

If I Get Divorced Should I Change My Estate Plan?

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 07:00:00 -0500

If I Get Divorced Should I Change My Estate Plan? Do you know when and how often your estate plan, living will, and medical directives should be updated? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Should You Continue to File Joint Tax Returns Pending a Divorce?

Fri, 31 Dec 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Should You Continue to File Joint Tax Returns Pending a Divorce? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Can You Change Ownership Of Your Assets Pending A Divorce?

Fri, 17 Dec 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Can You Change Ownership Of Your Assets Pending A Divorce? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Should a Financial Advisor Be Part of my Divorce Team?

Fri, 03 Dec 2021 10:00:00 -0500

Should a financial advisor or forensic accountant be part of my divorce team? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

I Don't Want My Divorce Public is it Possible to Seal Divorce Filings?

Fri, 19 Nov 2021 08:00:00 -0500

I don't want the details of my divorce to be public. Is it possible to seal divorce filings? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Most Common Reasons for Divorce You Should Know to Protect Your Marriage

Fri, 05 Nov 2021 11:00:00 -0400

What are the most common reasons for a divorce that I should know of to protect my marriage? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer their most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

What are Legal Grounds for Divorce? At-Fault vs No-Fault States

Fri, 22 Oct 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Can you get a divorce simply because you want to move on? Well, that all depends. What state do you live in? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer their most frequently asked questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

What Should I Know Before Getting Married, That I May Not Even Know I Should Know?

Fri, 08 Oct 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Get ready to have your mind blown. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer one of their most profound questions about divorce as they go over several key points:

Assume nothing.
Know who you are before you get married.
Know who you're getting married to.
Know the laws and statutes in the state you live in.
Don't take advice from anyone who isn't a legal professional in the state in which you're getting married and living in.

Matthew Brickman: How My Adult Son and I Worked Through Our Conflict

Fri, 24 Sep 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Last episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answered the question about how to get your adult child to therapy to work on the relationship. This episode is an interview with Matthew and his almost 24 year adult son. They discuss how they improved their relationship in therapy after a parenting plan expired. They also talk about how Matthew helped his son and his son's mother negotiate their issues last week.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

I Am Estranged From My Daughter, Shes 20, Can You Help Me

Fri, 10 Sep 2021 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode of Mediate This! Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell respond to someone in desperate need of guidance regarding their estranged daughter and how to find a resolution to reunite.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Dr. Peter T. Coleman Discusses How Modern Journalism Created Toxic Polarization

Fri, 27 Aug 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell interview esteemed Social-Organizational Psychologist Dr. Peter T. Coleman , author of the book, "The Way Out: How to Overcome Toxic Polarization."

Dr. Peter T. Coleman holds a Ph.D. in Social-Organizational Psychology from Columbia University. He is Professor of Psychology and Education at Columbia University where he holds a joint-appointment at Teachers College and The Earth Institute and teaches courses in Conflict Resolution, Social Psychology, and Social Science Research.

https://www.thewayoutofpolarization.com
The Way Out: How to Overcome Toxic Polarization

https://sps.columbia.edu/faculty/peter-t-coleman-phd

Peter T. Coleman, Ph.D.

Lecturer; Executive Director, Advanced Consortium on Cooperation, Conflict and Complexity in the Earth Institute
https://twitter.com/PeterTColeman1

What Are Child Support Arrears And How Are They Handled?

Fri, 13 Aug 2021 07:00:00 -0400

What happens when someone falls behind in child support? Remember that child support is only a baseline. All those other additional expenses that come along with raising a child can really pile up so Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss solutions to handle arrearages and how they are negotiated among two parties in Mediation Agreements for Child Support, Divorce & Paternity.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Matthew Barach Esq. On How The Pandemic Changed Family Law

Fri, 30 Jul 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Esteemed family law, trial and appellate attorney Matthew P. Barach returned to speak with Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell on how the Covid-19 Pandemic changed Family Law.

Mr. Barach's prestigious career includes winning two landmark family law cases in the Commonwealth pertaining to the New Alimony Reform Act and child custody - removal of a minor child from the Commonwealth (George v George and Miller v Miller).

Mr. Barach has been ranked as a Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Massachusetts by the American Jurist Institute, and as a Top 100 Lawyer in America by the American Society of Legal Advocates. He is also regularly granted the highest distinction on Avvo.com. His articles have appeared in the Massachusetts Family Law Journal.

Website: https://www.barachfamilylaw.com

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Interview with Dr. Peter T. Coleman "The Way Out: How to Overcome Toxic Polarization"

Fri, 16 Jul 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Peter T. Coleman, Ph.D.

Lecturer; Executive Director, Advanced Consortium on Cooperation, Conflict and Complexity in the Earth Institute
https://twitter.com/PeterTColeman1

How to Deal With Unexpected Additional Child Support Expenses

Fri, 02 Jul 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Child support is only a baseline. What about all those other additional expenses that come along with raising a child such as school uniforms and supplies and so on? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss how those who pay child support can economize and manage these additional child support expenses and how they are negotiated and split among two parties in Mediation Agreements for Divorce & Paternity.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Interview with Matthew Barach Esq. on Landmark Family Law Case in MA

Fri, 18 Jun 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell interview esteemed family law trial and appellate attorney Matthew P. Barach, whose prestigious career includes winning two landmark family law cases in the Commonwealth pertaining to the New Alimony Reform Act and child custody - removal of a minor child from the Commonwealth (George v George and Miller v Miller).

Mr. Barach has been ranked as a Top 10 Family Law Attorney in Massachusetts by the American Jurist Institute, and as a Top 100 Lawyer in America by the American Society of Legal Advocates. He is also regularly granted the highest distinction on Avvo.com. His articles have appeared in the Massachusetts Family Law Journal.

Website: https://www.barachfamilylaw.com

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

How Are Medical Expenses For the Child Handled In a Divorce?

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Child support is only a baseline. What about all those other additional expenses that come along with raising a child such as medical, daycare, aftercare, summer camp, activities and so on? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss how additional child support expenses are negotiated and split among two parties in Mediation Agreements for Divorce & Paternity and what happens when one party fails to pay.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Child Support: Without Primary And Secondary Parenting Who Pays What?

Fri, 21 May 2021 07:00:00 -0400

Child support is only a baseline. What about all those other additional expenses that come along with raising a child such as daycare, aftercare, summer camp, activities and so on? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss how additional child support expenses are negotiated and split among two parties in Mediation Agreements for Divorce & Paternity and what happens when one party fails to pay.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

How Is Your Child Support Amount Calculated?

Fri, 07 May 2021 07:00:00 -0400

It is commonly misunderstood that child support is simply calculated as a percentage of income but this is in fact incorrect. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell break down all the components that go into calculating child support as Matthew breaks down the P.E.A.C.E. acronym and how important timesharing is in determining the total amount of child support you will pay or receive.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Is it Possible to Get Full Custody of a Child?

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0400

In Mediate This! Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell address all of your issues, questions and concerns regarding divorce, paternity, alimony and child custody/timesharing. In this episode we discuss one of the most popular topics in family law: child custody which is now known as timesharing.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Do I Have to Pay Alimony or Spousal Support For Life? (BONUS)

Fri, 09 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0400

In this bonus episode of Mediate This! Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss lifetime alimony and spousal support after a long marriage that ends in divorce. They also explore what happens when a divorced spouse is paying alimony and the recipient gets remarried. Learn more about non-modifiable alimony and need vs ability.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

How is a Business Split During a Divorce?

Fri, 26 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0400

In Mediate This! Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell address all of your issues, questions and concerns regarding divorce, paternity, alimony and child custody/timesharing. In this episode we cover how a business and its assets may be split during a divorce and how the value of a business started during a marriage is determined.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Parenting Plans: How is Timesharing Split Evenly With 365 Days in a Year?

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Primary and Secondary Designation in Florida No Longer Exists. So Now What?

Building again upon the previous episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss how one time there was primary and secondary designation in Florida for co-parenting and timesharing, but this no longer exists.

Therefore in every parenting plan will be a section "Designation for Legal Purposes" for state and federal laws to reflect this matter. But there is also a new aspect of designation that reflects approximate totals since 365 days cannot be split exactly even, even though the court requires the annual total to be exactly 365.

Find out how Matthew handles this issue in parenting plans and mediation. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for what essentially is the child's entire childhood are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Do I Need Permission to Leave the State or Go Overseas With My Child?

Fri, 26 Feb 2021 07:00:00 -0500

Building upon the previous episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about permission to travel intrastate, interstate and out of country with children being raised in separate households. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for what essentially is the child's entire childhood are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

How Does Transportation and Exchange of Children Work in a Parenting Plan?

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about arrangements for transportation, pickup and exchange for children being raised in separate household. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for what essentially is the child's entire childhood are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

In Divorce Am I entitled to Half of my Spouse's Retirement? (BONUS)

Fri, 29 Jan 2021 07:00:00 -0500

In this bonus episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your questions emailed into the show regarding mediation, divorce and paternity. In this episode we cover what a spouse may be entitled to regarding retirement funds and assets where things may become more complex than they appear on the surface.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Creative Options for Handling Holiday Timesharing in a Parenting Plan

Fri, 15 Jan 2021 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about sharing time throughout the holidays for children being raised in separate household. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for what essentially is the child's entire childhood are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

Tools To Successfully Navigate Through The Challenges Of Divorce And Paternity in 2021

Fri, 01 Jan 2021 07:00:00 -0500

In the first episode of 2021 Matthew Brickman speaks with longtime friend Kim Benedict who shares her story of her longtime marriage, raising children, separation and then successfully navigating through her divorce and co-parenting. Matthew uses a real story to demonstrate how to successfully apply the tools discussed on MediateThis! in matters of divorce, paternity, timesharing and co-parenting.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

18. Weekdays & Weekends In a Parenting Plan How Does That Work?

Fri, 18 Dec 2020 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about sharing time between weekdays and weekends for children being raised in separate household. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for what essentially is the child's entire childhood are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

17. Education: Who Chooses The Schools In A Parenting Plan

Fri, 04 Dec 2020 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about education for children being raised in separate household. Matthew and Sydney discusses how the choices made for enrollment in school are handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

16. How Does Babysitting Work in a Parenting Plan?

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell talk about how babysitting is handled in a parenting plan. Discover how useful parenting plans are, how they eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

15. Mediation Divorce & Paternity Q&A Episode Nov (BONUS)

Sat, 07 Nov 2020 08:00:00 -0500

In November's bonus episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your questions emailed into the show regarding mediation, divorce and paternity.

Questions covered in this episode:

1. What are the advantages of Having An Attorney vs Not Having an attorney?
2. Is it to my advantage to file a Divorce Petition before my spouse?

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

14. What is a Parenting Plan and Why You Probably Need One

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 07:00:00 -0400

In this episode Matthew Brickman dives into what a parenting plan is, what it looks like and why you probably need one. Discover how this useful document can eliminate all the messy legal terms like "custody", "visitation", "access" and streamline the process of raising children after separation or divorce.

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

13. Knowing the Difference Between a Divorce and Paternity Action

Fri, 09 Oct 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Do you have a divorce action on your hands or a paternity action? Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss the difference between a divorce mediation and a paternity mediation and how you can come out on other side of either one much better.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

12. How to Never Come Into Mediation Unprepared Again [STORIES]

Fri, 25 Sep 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Don't go into mediation unprepared and have to live with a result you're unhappy with. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss the formula for going into mediation confident, prepared and ready to negotiate your way to a peaceful resolution.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

11. Your Mediator Prepares For Your Mediation In Ways You Wouldnt Believe [STORIES]

Fri, 11 Sep 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss the preparation process of a mediator and some of the unbelievable scenarios that can arise in conflict and disputes in divorce, paternity and business matters.

Hear stories of how much preparation your mediator puts into mediating your case from the most nonsensical to borderline absurd as told by family law mediator Matthew Brickman and his co-host Sydney Mitchell.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

10. Mediation Divorce & Paternity Q&A Episode (BONUS)

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 07:00:00 -0400

In this bonus episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell answer your questions emailed into the show regarding mediation, divorce and paternity.

Questions covered in this episode:

1. What is the difference between Legal Separation and Divorce?
2. What is the difference between a No-Fault Divorce and At-Fault?
3. How much does the Average Divorce Cost with lawyers and without?

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

9. Matthew And His Daughter Cassie Discuss The Struggle Within The Parent Child Relationship (II)

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Part 2 and the conclusion of Matthew Brickman and his daughter Cassie's discussion of the struggle within the Parent-Child Relationship in the circumstances surrounding divorce and separation.

As discussed in previous episodes Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell have told their separate personal stories and experiences with divorce and conflict. Both unique and completely different.

The Mediate This! podcast will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody/Time-sharing
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• Settling matters though In-person Mediation
• Settling matters though Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

8. Matthew And His Daughter Cassie Discuss The Struggle Within The Parent Child Relationship (I)

Fri, 31 Jul 2020 18:00:00 -0400

As discussed in previous episodes Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell have told their separate personal stories and experiences with divorce and conflict. Both unique and completely different. In this episode Matthew is joined by his daughter Cassie to give their firsthand account of the struggle within the Parent-Child Relationship in the circumstances surrounding divorce and separation.

The Mediate This! podcast will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody/Time-sharing
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• Settling matters though In-person Mediation
• Settling matters though Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

7. The 4 Stages of a Relationship: Are You in Love or a Power Struggle?

Fri, 17 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss the 4 stages of a relationship as human beings meet and eventually move through the phases of:

Stage 1: Acquaintance
Stage 2: The Intimacy Stage
Stage 3: Loss of Intimacy
Stage 4: A Business-Like Relationship

By the end of this podcast you will be able to determine if you are in the friend-zone, in love or in a power struggle.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody/Time-sharing
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• Settling matters though In-person Mediation
• Settling matters though Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

6. How to Schedule, Setup and Attend a Virtual Mediation Session (BONUS)

Fri, 10 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

In this bonus episode Matthew Brickman explains how to schedule and attend a virtual mediation session with iMediate Inc. where you can mediate your legal matter on his iChat platform from anywhere in the world.

Items mentioned in the podcast:

5. How to Use Conflict to Your Advantage Through Negotiation

Fri, 03 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

In the previous episode Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell demonstrated through Quiz Question(s) how we view conflict and the way it affects our approach to it.

In this episode Matthew, a Harvard Law School Negotiation Master Class and Harvard Business School’s Negotiation Mastery program graduate, explains in detail how to use conflict to your advantage through negotiation.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody/Time-sharing
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• Settling matters though In-person Mediation
• Settling matters though Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

4. How Do You View Conflict? Take The Quiz!

Fri, 19 Jun 2020 07:00:00 -0400

A surprising look at how we view conflict and the way it affects how we approach solving conflict in our lives. Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell give us a series of Quiz Questions that reveal how we relate to conflict, disputes and decision-making.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody/Time-sharing
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• Settling matters though In-person Mediation
• Settling matters though Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

3. Gender Roles: What are they for Men and Women today?

Fri, 05 Jun 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Gender Roles: What is the Tone and Role of the Man and the Woman in the Home today: Do traditional views of the role of mother and role of father in a family still work today?

We live in an era where it is unclear of what is the role of the man and woman in the modern family. There is a general lack of understanding of the elementary family's functions which has impacted the effectiveness of creating lasting healthy relationships.

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell discuss how setting the tone is important and how it can be done effectively to prevent the family breakdown which results far too often in divorce.

Mediate This! is a podcast that will help you deal with:
• Family Matters (tone, roles, disputes, lack of communication and cohesiveness)
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

2. Conflict Resolution The 4 D's of Every Type of Conflict

Fri, 22 May 2020 05:00:00 -0400

What is Conflict Resolution? Definition: Conflict resolution is a way for two or more parties to find a peaceful solution to a dispute or disagreement between them. Disputes can be for almost any reason: personal, financial, political, or emotional.

There are 4 D's within every type of conflict as Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell explain for those who may have conflict in their life and wish to find the most peaceful solution to resolve it.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

1. Matthew and Sydney's Experiences with Conflict & Divorce

Fri, 08 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman and Sydney Mitchell tell their separate personal stories and experiences with divorce and conflict. Both unique and completely different but yet share the common subject of conflict as they offer insight on how you can best resolve the conflict in your life peacefully in order to move forward.

Their advice will help you deal with:
• Divorce (contested/uncontested with/without children, property, assets, debts)
• Parental Rights
• Paternity Cases and Rights
• Parenting
• Child Custody (Timesharing)
• Alimony and Spousal Support
• Child Support and Arrears
• Document Assistance
• Visitation
• Prenuptial & Postnuptial Agreements
• Post-judgement Modifications
• Family Disputes
• Business & Contract Disputes
• Employment: Employer/Employee Disputes
• Real Estate: Landlord - Tenant Disputes
• In-person Mediation
• Online Virtual Mediation

If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479

0. Mediate This! An Introduction to Peaceful Conflict Resolution

Fri, 08 May 2020 07:00:00 -0400

Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.

I'm so excited to speak with you on the subject of mediation through the Mediate This! podcast. I am a certified conflict resolution specialist who through mediation empowers people who are experiencing fear and chaos to find hope and peace. I help people in conflict achieve peaceful resolutions saving them tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees. I guide mothers and fathers as they create enforceable agreements that set a new tone where they can peacefully co-parent, limit conflicts, and create a safe and stable future for both parent and child.

Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:
You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful Resolution

Matthew Brickman
President iMediate Inc.
Mediator 20836CFA
iMediateInc.com