Remember Kantoinette and Kendra, two of our favorite guests? They're back, and oh boy, the journey they've been on! Join us for an engaging, heartwarming reunion. We reminisce about the good old days, from unforgettable hot dog moments at Home Depot to that pivotal ghosting episode, while exploring the sense of community we built through podcasting.

But this isn't just a trip down memory lane. Kantoinette and Kendra also impart some wisdom from their recent life experiences. We dive deep into discussions about maintaining quality time in relationships, setting realistic expectations in dating, and navigating the tricky waters of post-breakup friendships.

Finally, we tackle some pretty big questions. Can you stay friends with an ex? Are unconditional love and relationships mutually exclusive? How does one navigate the balancing act of setting boundaries while staying open to unexpected possibilities? Join us as we explore these complex issues, offering insights and support to anyone navigating the choppy seas of love, life, and everything in between. Strap in for an episode packed with laughter, wisdom, and the warmth of old friends reunited.

Are you someone that is aware of your emotions? If you answered yes then chances are you are emotionally intelligent. In this episode, we are talking about being emotionally intelligent and the effects that have on a relationship. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon.

Have you ever been in a situation where at face value everything looked great, but for some reason, you just couldn't commit? You may have commitment issues, don't feel back we have had them too. In this episode, we discuss the times we have had commitment issues and how we've grown from them. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon.

Have you ever dated someone, and known something was off but chose to continue dating them anyway? Chances are you were ignoring red flags. In this episode, we talk about our experiences dating while ignoring red flags. and how friends can help you find your way when you're stuck in that love fog. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon.

Have you ever been in a situation where you spent time with someone, did relationship-type things, but never had a title?  Chances are you were in a situationship. All the ins and outs of a relationship, none of the commitment. In this episode, we discuss what a situationship is and reflect on times we have been in situationships. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon.

Just in time for Valentine's Day, your two best friends are back with a new episode. In this episode, we jump straight in on how we've both found love, and it may not be what you think. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

On the final episode of Relationship Talks with Rick and Namon, we take a moment to reflect on the journey it has been, our unique relationship, and why we initially started. We want to thank everyone that has listened and been a part of the podcast in any way. Your support is much appreciated. You can still find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

In this episode, we welcome back Kantionette and Kendra to the show. Who picks who, the man or the woman? We talk about this, flirting, how men and women get someone's attention, and more. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Make sure you follow our guests and check out their podcasts.

You can follow Kantoinette  @Kantoinette_TheBlogger / @Lets_Build_Futures and you can check out her podcast, LBF Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lbf-podcast/id1489114690

You can follow Kendra @CoffeeWithKendra. We were on her first two episodes of her podcast so make sure you check her out. You can find her podcast, Coffee with Kendra here: https://coffeewithkendra.buzzsprout.com

In this episode, we talk about the different stages of dating. We also talk about how much of yourself you should give to a person that you first start dating. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Coffee with Kendra episode Rick referenced in the episode. Kendra's guest 1Take was the one spitting the knowledge - https://coffeewithkendra.buzzsprout.com/1513672/8194248-cheating-every-man-wants-to-get-out-the-game

Smitty's Podcast - No Repercussions https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/no-repercussions-965609/episodes

Song mentioned in the episode is Imported by Jessie Reyez featuring 6LACK

In this episode, we bring back Dr. Saudia to discuss if movies and television set unrealistic expectations for relationships and how most of us wouldn’t want to watch a realistic depiction of relationships on the big screen. As always if you would like to be a part of the conversation you can find us @RickAndNamon on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue. You can connect with Dr. Saudia Twine @ErosMeetsAgape. 

If you want of Dr. Saudia you can find her website and podcast at  ErosMeetsAgape.com

In this episode, we are joined by two friends, Mallorie S and Shannon Lafaye, and we discuss experiences they have from dating as a single mom. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue. You can follow or guests, Mallorie @Mallorie_S and Shannon Lafaye @Shannon_Lafaye_Paige.

In this episode, we talk about the things that make a good date while also telling stories about the best dates we have ever been on. What makes a great date for you? As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Make sure you follow our guests and check out their podcasts.

You can follow Kantoinette  @Kantoinette_TheBlogger / @Lets_Build_Futures and you can check out her podcast, LBF Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lbf-podcast/id1489114690

You can follow Kendra @CoffeeWithKendra. We were on her first two episodes of her podcast so make sure you check her out. You can find her podcast, Coffee with Kendra here: https://coffeewithkendra.buzzsprout.com

In this episode, we bring back Lisa D  of the Not Your Average Mother Runner podcast, to talk about questions that we ask people when we first start dating. When are complements considered flirting? Have you ever had a friend shoot their shot? We discuss this and more on this episode. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Lisa D @NotAnotherMotherRunner you can find Rick @Doddsism, and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

In this episode, we answer the question of whether or not social media is a  dating app. For the first time this year, we had Lisa D of the Not Your Average Mother Runner podcast join us along with Dave aka Dutch. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Lisa D @NotYourAverageMotherRunner, a link to her podcast is below, you can find Dave @DavidJDero, You can find Rick @Doddsism, and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Not Your Average Mother Runner podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/5xeozjtuMjZ5qTGu5vv6Vr

On this special 1 year anniversary episode we invited friends of the show Kanntionette of LBF podcast and Kendra of Coffee with Kendra to revisit our very first topic. Have you ever been ghosted? Have you ever ghosted someone? How do you let go of all the other people you are talking to if you decide to settle on one? We answer all these questions and more. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook and Instagram @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Make sure you follow our guests and check out their podcasts.

You can follow Kantoinette  @Kantoinette_TheBlogger / @Lets_Build_Futures and you can check out her podcast, LBF Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lbf-podcast/id1489114690

You can follow Kendra @CoffeeWithKendra. We were on her first two episodes of her podcast so make sure you check her out. You can find her podcast, Coffee with Kendra here: https://coffeewithkendra.buzzsprout.com

In this episode, we are joined by Princess K for the first time this year. We talk all about toxic relationships. Have you ever been in a toxic relationship? Have you ever realized that maybe you were the toxic one? We talk about that and much more. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism, Namon @IAmTheDjBlue, and Princess K @YouHateKay. 

In this episode, we talk about the how the ways we use the people in our lives and how to avoid being used by someone else. Sometimes reciprocity isn't needed but effort is. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

Is love enough to sustain a healthy relationship? In this episode, we discuss whether or not love is enough to have a thriving relationship. We also build our ideal home based on relationship qualities.  As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

In this episode, we talk about dating for the right reasons. There are so many times we date and wonder if a person wants us or simply just wants somebody. Sometimes when we focus on the wrong things in a relationship we miss some of the really important things we should be paying attention to. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

On the first episode of 2021, we invite Dr. Saudia back for a conversation about love. We talk about unconditional love, being loved naked, and much much more. As always if you would like to be a part of the conversation you can find us @RickAndNamon on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue. You can connect with Dr. Saudia Twine @ErosMeetsAgape. 

If you want to dive deeper into some of the stuff Dr. Saudia was discussing, you can find her book at: shorturl.at/btW67

In this episode, we reflect back on our year of podcasting and talk about our favorite episodes. We are so very grateful for everyone that has listened and supported our show. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can follow Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue. Let us know which episode is your favorite so far.

In this Christmas episode, we bring back Princess K and Ivanna to finally settle the score about Tyler Perry's Acrimony. We break down our points of view on the movie and talk about how we would handle situations similar to the characters in the movie. To be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, or Twiter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism, Namon @IAMTheDjBlue, and Princess K @YouHateKay.

In this episode, we talk about whether or not you are comfortable with your mate having friends of the opposite sex. We also talk about being that friend and how significant others have approached this in the past. We are joined again by Princess K and we also have a newcomer, Ivanna. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism, Namon @IAmTheDjBlue, and Princess K @YouHateKay. 

On this episode with special guest Princess K, we talk about dating multiple people, our starting lineups in dating, and going to businesses just to talk to someone that works there. We also talk discuss whether or not you can be in love with multiple people at once and settle the debate on which Aunt Viv is our favorite. To be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism, Namon @IAmTheDjBlue, and Princess K @YouHateKay

On this very special Thanksgiving episode, we talk about the things that we are thankful for this year. Spoiler alert, it's you! We also discuss when is the right time to bring bae to a family dinner and if new bae is getting a gift for Christmas. To comment on the episode or to be a part of the conversation you can find us @RickAndNamon on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue. Special thanks to our friends and family that participated in this episode including Dave aka Dutch who you can find @DavidJDero.

In this episode of Relationship Talks with Rick and Namon we talk about if the friends of the person you're dating affect the way that you see them. We also discuss if we would date ourselves. The Food for Thought this week is: If you are on a break with your significant other for a month, are you together or broken up? Let us know your thoughts by emailing us a Hello@RickAndNamon.com or on social media @RickAndNamon. If you want to follow the hosts you can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

In this episode, Rick and Namon talk about whether or not they would date someone that they had previously dated and if people really change. The food for thought for this episode is whether or not you send unsolicited "pictures." To be a part of the conversation you can find us on social media @RickaAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and you can find Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

In this episode, a sort of sequel from the previous episode (Eyes Wide Open), we talk about some dating stories when we jumped into relationships with our eyes shut. The food for thought question of the week is: What was the first website that you met someone from? Let us know by hitting us up on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can follow your hosts Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue

They say love is blind, that makes sense with all of the red flags we tend to overlook when we first start dating someone. In this episode, we discuss how to make sure when you start your new relationship that you start it on the right foot and with your eyes open and start a friendship before you start a romance. As always to be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

We had the opportunity to sit down with Dr. Saudia Twine, a licensed marriage and family therapist and professional counselor, and talk about a variety of different topics ranging from attachment styles to the different types of intimacy. We also talked about some lessons that we can see in movies, specifically romcoms, and how they imitate life. Join in on the conversation @RickAndNamon on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter.

Please make sure you check out Dr. Saudia's podcast, Eros Meets Agape. You can follow her on Instagram @ErosMeetsAgape. Be sure to check out her website to take a free attachment style quiz and you can also listen to her podcast on her site. http://erosmeetsagape.com

Hosts:
Rick @Doddsism
Namon @IAmTheDjBlue

In this episode, we talk about the difference between kicking it and dating and what our definitions of both are. On our food for thought segment, we talk about 38-year-old Marques Houston marrying the 19-year-old woman of his dreams. Is she too young for a 38-year-old? Is an almost 20 year age gap too much? We share our thoughts but we want to hear from you. What's the sauce? You can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon. You can find Rick @Doddsism and you can find Namon @IAmTheDjBlue.

On this episode of Relationship Talks with Rick and Namon we discuss how do get over a breakup and how you know you’re ready to start dating again.

This weeks Food for Thought question is: do you worry about people’s intentions when dating?

let us know your thoughts at Hello@RickAndNamon.com or you can interact with us on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter @RickAndNamon

The book mentioned in this episode:

The Purpose of Singleness
Joshua E Eze II

https://www.amazon.com/Purpose-Singleness-whole-full-holes/dp/1539723542/ref=nodl_

Other reference this episode:

Relationship Goals by Pastor Michael Todd
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhYvOKkFVSGt1Impq3TEBxrSpw3rbdbz6

Love is a drug and a lot of times you need an accountability partner to keep you from relapsing. In this episode, we discuss getting rid of excess baggage (in Ricks case furniture) that can accumulate after a relationship has ended and ways that we have gotten over breakups including listening to sad music. 

Do you keep pictures of your ex’s? Tell us about it @RickAndNamon on Facebook and Instagram

In this episode, we talk about the importance of having a good friend to talk to about your relationship. It has to be someone that you trust, someone that is truthful, and someone that will call you on your b.s. We also talk about the perspectives each of us carries every single day. Be a part of the conversation, follow us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon.

Relationships are hard in perfect conditions, but add in an hour or more distance between you and your mate and it can seem impossible. So, do long-distance relationships work?  In this episode, we talk about our experiences dating long distance and discuss why it can be so hard. What are your experience dating long distance? Join the conversation of Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon.

Your Hosts
Rick - @Doddsism
Namon - @IAmTheDJBlue

Going Dutch in dating is a term that means that both parties pay for themselves. In this episode, Rick and Namon talk about going dutch, the changes in gender roles in relationships, and dealing with life while in quarantine.

To be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon

Do you wish people came with terms of service when it came to relationships? In this episode, Rick and Namon discuss what their relationship terms of service would be. Deal breakers, deal makers and implied terms of service. Think of relationship terms of service like a pre prenup.

What are your relationship terms of service?
Join the conversations @RickAndNamon on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.

Terms of service is defined as:
Terms of service are the legal agreements between a service provider and a person who wants to use that service. The person must agree to abide by the terms of service in order to use the offered service. Terms of service can also be merely a disclaimer, especially regarding the use of websites. Wikipedia

Dating with a purpose is like making a goal for a relationship that you are in. If you have a temporary bae a lot of things don't matter but when you are looking for a more permanent bae, there are some conversations you need to have. In this episode, Rick and Namon talk about what it means to date with a purpose.

To be a part of the conversation you can find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon.

Is it possible to be friends with someone that you were involved with romantically? What happens when the honeymoon phase is over? Should your lover be your best friend? In this episode, Rick and Namon tackle these questions and more. 

To be a part of the show, find us on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @RickAndNamon.

In this episode Rick and Namon discuses Tyler Perry's movie Acrimony which they mistakenly call Matrimony throughout the entire episode. If you break up with someone and they become successful later, do they owe you anything? They break down their thoughts on the subject.

To be a part of the conversation you can find them @RickAndNamon on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter.

The movie discussed in this episode. Acrominy by Tyler Perry, starring Taraji P. Henson.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wlpunOUxYSo

What is love? What is your love language? In this episode, Rick and Namon are discussing love. Types of love and love languages. They even take a test to determine what their love languages are. I like stronger than love? Find out on this episode.

8 Types of Love According to the Ancient Greeks

1. Agape — Unconditional Love
2. Eros — Romanic Love
3. Philia — Affectionate Love
4. Philautia — Self-love
5. Storge — Familiar Love
6. Pragma — Enduring Love
7. Ludus — Playful Love
8. Mania — Obsessive Love

https://www.lifehack.org/816195/types-of-love

 Quote from Will Smith about love:

"You cannot make a person happy. You can make a person smile, you can make a person feel good, you can make a person laugh, but whether or not a person is happy is deeply and totally and utterly out of your control."

Love according to Will Smith: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tVkWYv484Y

5 Love Langues by Gary Chapman
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/book/the-5-love-languages/

In this episode, we discuss a Facebook post from Code Red Flag (the link is below), where a man's girlfriend of 6 months lost her job and he wasn't comfortable enough to let her move in with him. Whose clothes are these? Rick tells a story about an ex that moved in without permission and the effects it had on their relationship.

Link to Code Red Flag post:
https://www.facebook.com/CodeRedFlag/posts/2784478064922753

Have you ever dated someone that you work with? Sometimes you know something is a bad idea but you do it anyway. A perfect example of this is dating someone that you work with. Rick and Namon discuss their stories of dating people that they shouldn't, including dating coworkers.

Have you ever been talking to someone online and when it came time to meet them they looked nothing like their picture? If this has happened to you then you have been a victim of goldfishing. In this episode, the boys talk about experiences they have had when meeting people IRL from online. 

Could you date someone that you disagreed with politically, religiously or someone that didn't want children if you did? This episode is all about the deal-breakers. Those things in a relationship you can't accept. Rick and Namon talk about some of their deal-breakers and whether or not they could be with someone with different political views.

Insider article: 11 of the biggest deal-breakers in a relationship, according to dating experts

Sometimes it feels like your just chasing your tail in a relationship. You break up to make up, just to break up again. In this episode, Namon talks about a situation a "friend" of his went through when they seemingly got broken up with for no reason. Come to find out they have broken up two different times prior to this, which makes this the third time.

Could you stay with someone that cheated on you? In this episode, we discuss Beyoncé's 2016 surprise album Lemonade, which dealt with rumors of infidelity from her husband Jay-Z. We also discuss how breakups and other misfortunate relationship events lead to some of the best music. 

Have you ever been on a coffee date? Dating can get rather expensive if you’re going out for dinner and drinks every time. In this episode, Rick talks about how he used coffee dates to save some cash and make a quick exit if the date wasn’t going well.

What do you get when you mix Straight Outta Compton, a Park, and a blanket? If you’re Rick, you get ghosted. Rick and Namon discuss stories of people getting ghosted, including Rick's personal story. We even have a couple of friends call in and share their stories as well. 

An introduction to our new show. Coming soon!