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]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Christian Living, Christian family, Foreign Missions, Church Encouragement, Marriage advice, Parenting tips, Faith-based marriage, Christian relationship advice, Family enrichment, Biblical marriage, Spiritual growth, Christian parenting, Marriage support Dan and Becky James dan@matthew257.com https://storage.buzzsprout.com/yx6vctqmu9hlbn2p3tubz95u5xo2?.jpg Trim the Wick https://matthew257.com How to Execute your plans for success How to Execute your plans for success This is the first of our new series called "quick hits." These podcast will be 5-10 mins focusing on different quick hit topics and ideas. We will be continuing our long form soon.

You have a goal, now you need to get there. You do your research, you make your plans and start on your path and miss your goal. Why because of lack of execution. We talk about what we can do to make sure we execute our plans to reach our goals.

#growth #goals #personaldevelopment #success

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]]> This is the first of our new series called "quick hits." These podcast will be 5-10 mins focusing on different quick hit topics and ideas. We will be continuing our long form soon.

You have a goal, now you need to get there. You do your research, you make your plans and start on your path and miss your goal. Why because of lack of execution. We talk about what we can do to make sure we execute our plans to reach our goals.

#growth #goals #personaldevelopment #success

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-19129081 Tue, 05 May 2026 13:00:00 -0400 578 7 1 bonus false What Motivates YOU! What Motivates YOU!  The podcast episode, "DISC: What Motivates You," hosted by Dan James, marks the show's return with a new focus on leadership, personal development, and motivation, often featuring solo hosting. The core of the episode is a talk Dan delivered using the DISC model—developed by Dr. William Moulton Marston—to explain how different personality styles are motivated, arguing that people leave jobs due to poor interpersonal relationships, not the work itself. Through a group exercise where attendees acted as city commissioners solving an infrastructure problem, Dan demonstrated the four styles: Dominant (D), who takes control and focuses on challenges; Influencer (I), who is outgoing, tells stories, and seeks fun environments; Steady (S), the reserved and stable backbone who values security and teamwork; and Compliant (C), who is detail-oriented, reserved, and thrives on excellence and precise planning. Understanding these motivators—such as giving a D control, an I praise, an S security, and a C time for detail—allows managers to place team members in roles where they are naturally driven, ensuring both job completion and high motivation. 

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]]>  The podcast episode, "DISC: What Motivates You," hosted by Dan James, marks the show's return with a new focus on leadership, personal development, and motivation, often featuring solo hosting. The core of the episode is a talk Dan delivered using the DISC model—developed by Dr. William Moulton Marston—to explain how different personality styles are motivated, arguing that people leave jobs due to poor interpersonal relationships, not the work itself. Through a group exercise where attendees acted as city commissioners solving an infrastructure problem, Dan demonstrated the four styles: Dominant (D), who takes control and focuses on challenges; Influencer (I), who is outgoing, tells stories, and seeks fun environments; Steady (S), the reserved and stable backbone who values security and teamwork; and Compliant (C), who is detail-oriented, reserved, and thrives on excellence and precise planning. Understanding these motivators—such as giving a D control, an I praise, an S security, and a C time for detail—allows managers to place team members in roles where they are naturally driven, ensuring both job completion and high motivation. 

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-18224548 Thu, 20 Nov 2025 11:00:00 -0500 1287 6 2 full false How to Motivate your Employees How to Motivate your Employees The podcast, hosted by Dan, marks the relaunch of the show after a break, announcing that future episodes will feature solo content, interviews with business leaders, and segments with "Becky," focusing on business growth, professional development, and leadership. The core belief driving the show is that everyone is a leader with a purpose, even if they don't realize it. The show is also expanding from audio to full video production.

The main topic of this episode is addressing a common concern among business owners: employee retention and motivation. Dan argues that businesses should strive for employees who "buy in" to the company's vision, as this leads to above-and-beyond work, citing Walt Disney's ability to cast a big vision as an example.

The host then presents a list of seven key strategies for motivating employees and encouraging greater participation:

7 Ways to Motivate Your Employees

  1. Recognize Employee Achievements: Go beyond simple gestures like a pizza party. Praise and encourage good work specifically and personally. Consistently pointing out flaws (as one of Dan's past managers did) leads to discouragement; acknowledging success is vital to making employees feel noticed and valuable.
  2. Provide Opportunities for Growth: Business owners, especially small business owners, cannot afford not to invest in their people's growth. Citing the "Law of the Lid" (from John Maxwell), the leader must grow first to be able to elevate those beneath them. Offering growth opportunities shows care, acknowledges talent, and enables the business to grow through its people.
  3. Create a Positive Work Environment: A positive environment is achieved through both emotional and physical means. Emotionally, it means being supportive even when times are tough. Physically, it requires a clean, tidy, and well-maintained workspace (no broken equipment or clutter), as a messy environment automatically spikes stress.
  4. Promote a Healthy Work-Life Balance: While employers don't have to "babysit," providing adequate time off, vacation, and sick leave is a powerful motivator and shows the business cares for the individual. Burning out employees with excessive hours and minimal time off will destroy morale and lead to high turnover.
  5. Provide Autonomy: Avoid micromanaging, which increases mistakes and frustration. Once an employee is properly trained, a leader should let them do their job. Granting autonomy is an acknowledgment of their competence.
  6. Foster a Culture of Collaboration: Move away from a top-down structure and involve employees in the process. The key is to teach them to be problem-solvers, not complainers. Leaders should initially present a small problem with a pre-prepared solution, opening it up for discussion and buy-in. By repeating this process, teams learn to offer solutions instead of merely complaining, which builds a collaborative and motivating culture.
  7. Be Respectful and Honest: Leaders must be honest about their own mistakes (i.e., admitting when a business decision didn't work). When coaching employees, be honest about facts ("You were late 5 out of the last 10 days") rather than using generalizations ("You're always late"). Treat employees, who are the helpers and the backbone of the business, with respect.

The episode concludes by encouraging listeners to use these strategies to lift up their people, who will, in turn, lift up the business.

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]]> The podcast, hosted by Dan, marks the relaunch of the show after a break, announcing that future episodes will feature solo content, interviews with business leaders, and segments with "Becky," focusing on business growth, professional development, and leadership. The core belief driving the show is that everyone is a leader with a purpose, even if they don't realize it. The show is also expanding from audio to full video production.

The main topic of this episode is addressing a common concern among business owners: employee retention and motivation. Dan argues that businesses should strive for employees who "buy in" to the company's vision, as this leads to above-and-beyond work, citing Walt Disney's ability to cast a big vision as an example.

The host then presents a list of seven key strategies for motivating employees and encouraging greater participation:

7 Ways to Motivate Your Employees

  1. Recognize Employee Achievements: Go beyond simple gestures like a pizza party. Praise and encourage good work specifically and personally. Consistently pointing out flaws (as one of Dan's past managers did) leads to discouragement; acknowledging success is vital to making employees feel noticed and valuable.
  2. Provide Opportunities for Growth: Business owners, especially small business owners, cannot afford not to invest in their people's growth. Citing the "Law of the Lid" (from John Maxwell), the leader must grow first to be able to elevate those beneath them. Offering growth opportunities shows care, acknowledges talent, and enables the business to grow through its people.
  3. Create a Positive Work Environment: A positive environment is achieved through both emotional and physical means. Emotionally, it means being supportive even when times are tough. Physically, it requires a clean, tidy, and well-maintained workspace (no broken equipment or clutter), as a messy environment automatically spikes stress.
  4. Promote a Healthy Work-Life Balance: While employers don't have to "babysit," providing adequate time off, vacation, and sick leave is a powerful motivator and shows the business cares for the individual. Burning out employees with excessive hours and minimal time off will destroy morale and lead to high turnover.
  5. Provide Autonomy: Avoid micromanaging, which increases mistakes and frustration. Once an employee is properly trained, a leader should let them do their job. Granting autonomy is an acknowledgment of their competence.
  6. Foster a Culture of Collaboration: Move away from a top-down structure and involve employees in the process. The key is to teach them to be problem-solvers, not complainers. Leaders should initially present a small problem with a pre-prepared solution, opening it up for discussion and buy-in. By repeating this process, teams learn to offer solutions instead of merely complaining, which builds a collaborative and motivating culture.
  7. Be Respectful and Honest: Leaders must be honest about their own mistakes (i.e., admitting when a business decision didn't work). When coaching employees, be honest about facts ("You were late 5 out of the last 10 days") rather than using generalizations ("You're always late"). Treat employees, who are the helpers and the backbone of the business, with respect.

The episode concludes by encouraging listeners to use these strategies to lift up their people, who will, in turn, lift up the business.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-18166583 Tue, 11 Nov 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1616 6 1 full false Our Week at the International Maxwell Conference 2025 Our Week at the International Maxwell Conference 2025 Have you ever done something or been a part of something that just blows you away? This week we share our experience at the International Maxwell Conference 2025. This was a time of challenge and inspiration that changed Becky and I forever. Join us as we share and hopefully will inspire you.

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]]> Have you ever done something or been a part of something that just blows you away? This week we share our experience at the International Maxwell Conference 2025. This was a time of challenge and inspiration that changed Becky and I forever. Join us as we share and hopefully will inspire you.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16844950 Tue, 25 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0400 2586 5 11 full false All the Clever Plans of Mice and Men: When things don't go as planned All the Clever Plans of Mice and Men: When things don't go as planned This week Dan and Becky share about the struggles of dealing with disappointment when this go awry. Sometimes you just got to be honest in sweat paints and slippers. They share about what helps them through the tough times.

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]]> This week Dan and Becky share about the struggles of dealing with disappointment when this go awry. Sometimes you just got to be honest in sweat paints and slippers. They share about what helps them through the tough times.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16768575 Tue, 11 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0400 1750 5 10 full false The Leadership Qualities of Jesus in Matthew 14 The Leadership Qualities of Jesus in Matthew 14 This we have a special episode of the Trim the Wick podcast. Dan is teaching at Connection Church Clermont FL. The Leadership Qualities of Jesus in Matthew 14 the feeding of the 5000.

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]]> This we have a special episode of the Trim the Wick podcast. Dan is teaching at Connection Church Clermont FL. The Leadership Qualities of Jesus in Matthew 14 the feeding of the 5000.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16734480 Tue, 04 Mar 2025 15:00:00 -0500 1559 5 9 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Joy (Replay) 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Joy (Replay) Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. 

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]]> Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. 

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16689885 Tue, 25 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1587 5 8 full false 9 Traits to cultivate a fruitful marriage: Love (Replay) 9 Traits to cultivate a fruitful marriage: Love (Replay) Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we replaying our series on marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This week we are focusing on LOVE.

If you have any questions please email us at dan@matthew257.com
What else are we doing? go to www.matthew257.com

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]]> Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we replaying our series on marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This week we are focusing on LOVE.

If you have any questions please email us at dan@matthew257.com
What else are we doing? go to www.matthew257.com

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16639929 Tue, 18 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2299 5 7 full false Special Episode: How to have a Strong Marriage part 2 Sex and Unity Special Episode: How to have a Strong Marriage part 2 Sex and Unity Happy Valentines Days everyone! This week is part 2 of our series how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we talk about the importance of intimacy and sex, and how to build unity in your decision making process. 

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]]> Happy Valentines Days everyone! This week is part 2 of our series how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we talk about the importance of intimacy and sex, and how to build unity in your decision making process. 

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16595801 Tue, 11 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500 2430 5 6 full false Special Episode: How to have a Strong Marriage part 1 Communication Special Episode: How to have a Strong Marriage part 1 Communication Welcome to the season of LOVE, Becky & Dan wanted to help you start this season off right. We have a 2 part series on how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we are focusing in the importance of communication in your marriage. Everything in a relationship lives and dies with communication but so many couples don't take the time to really connect in their communication. We hope this is a lesson for you to foster better communication.

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]]> Welcome to the season of LOVE, Becky & Dan wanted to help you start this season off right. We have a 2 part series on how to have a Strong Marriage. This week we are focusing in the importance of communication in your marriage. Everything in a relationship lives and dies with communication but so many couples don't take the time to really connect in their communication. We hope this is a lesson for you to foster better communication.

Learn More about the Maxwell DISC Assessment : https://www.matthew257.com/disc.html

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16554820 Tue, 04 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1845 5 5 full false Living Whole: The Benefits of Personal Development Living Whole: The Benefits of Personal Development This week Becky and Dan finish their series on Living Whole. They discuss the surprises and benefits of personal development. From increased confidence to being prepared for the things of life, focusing on personal development will be your key to better living.

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]]> This week Becky and Dan finish their series on Living Whole. They discuss the surprises and benefits of personal development. From increased confidence to being prepared for the things of life, focusing on personal development will be your key to better living.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16514380 Tue, 28 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1334 5 4 full false Special Episode at Podfest 2025 Living Whole: 3 Keys to Personal Growth Special Episode at Podfest 2025 Living Whole: 3 Keys to Personal Growth Becky and Dan are live from Podfest 2025. They share insights and lessons learned about the importance of personal growth. Join us as they stories of what they saw at Podfest 2025.

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]]> Becky and Dan are live from Podfest 2025. They share insights and lessons learned about the importance of personal growth. Join us as they stories of what they saw at Podfest 2025.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16470664 Tue, 21 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1372 5 3 full false Living Whole: When Personal and Spiritual Development Align Part 1 Living Whole: When Personal and Spiritual Development Align Part 1 Would you like to life as a whole person? Being able to balance your Personal and Spiritual Development or should you only focus on your Spiritual Development and everything else will fall in line. Also isn't it sinful to focus on yourself? This week Dan and Becky start a 3 part series on Living Whole. We dispel some myths, give encouragement and share practical helps to move forward.

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]]> Would you like to life as a whole person? Being able to balance your Personal and Spiritual Development or should you only focus on your Spiritual Development and everything else will fall in line. Also isn't it sinful to focus on yourself? This week Dan and Becky start a 3 part series on Living Whole. We dispel some myths, give encouragement and share practical helps to move forward.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16428715 Tue, 14 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500 1342 5 2 full false Personality Tests—Are They Worth It? Becky Takes the DISC Assessment! Personality Tests—Are They Worth It? Becky Takes the DISC Assessment! Have you ever taken a personality assessment? This week, Becky dives into the Maxwell DISC Assessment, and we unpack the results together. Was it accurate? What surprising insights did she uncover? Did it leave her pulling her hair out—or was it totally worth the time? Tune in as we explore Becky’s experience and discuss whether the DISC Assessment might be a game-changer for you too!

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]]> Have you ever taken a personality assessment? This week, Becky dives into the Maxwell DISC Assessment, and we unpack the results together. Was it accurate? What surprising insights did she uncover? Did it leave her pulling her hair out—or was it totally worth the time? Tune in as we explore Becky’s experience and discuss whether the DISC Assessment might be a game-changer for you too!

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16394258 Tue, 07 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500 4453 5 1 full false Trusting God with the Process: Goodbye 2024, Hello 2025! Trusting God with the Process: Goodbye 2024, Hello 2025! This week Dan and Becky look at the lesson learned from 2024. Over the course of a year the you understand that God has a plan and He has a process. They share some insight to what 2025 will be bringing.

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]]> This week Dan and Becky look at the lesson learned from 2024. Over the course of a year the you understand that God has a plan and He has a process. They share some insight to what 2025 will be bringing.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16356412 Tue, 31 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1768 4 44 full false The Christmas Story The Christmas Story Welcome to our home as we celebrate Christmas. Sit around the Christmas tree with us as we read the Christmas Story from Luke chapter 2.

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]]> Welcome to our home as we celebrate Christmas. Sit around the Christmas tree with us as we read the Christmas Story from Luke chapter 2.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16310068 Tue, 24 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500 391 4 43 full false UFO's, Drones and Trusting God UFO's, Drones and Trusting God This week Dan and Becky do a podcast ripped from the today's headlines!!! Are we safe? Are we seeing an alien invasion? Probably NOT! but do we see the small things and miracles that God performs around us everyday? Dan and Becky talks about how God proves to us on a daily how we can trust Him.

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]]> This week Dan and Becky do a podcast ripped from the today's headlines!!! Are we safe? Are we seeing an alien invasion? Probably NOT! but do we see the small things and miracles that God performs around us everyday? Dan and Becky talks about how God proves to us on a daily how we can trust Him.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16274897 Tue, 17 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1234 4 42 full false Living an Intentional Life Living an Intentional Life In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, hosts Dan and Becky discuss the importance of intentional living. As they reflect on the rapid passage of time, they emphasize the need to prioritize tasks that align with one's purpose and spiritual calling. 

Through engaging anecdotes and practical advice, they explore how to manage life's demands while focusing on what truly matters. Don't miss this insightful conversation on living a life of purpose and intention!

Chapters:

(00:00) Dan Wick says as he gets older, time seems to move faster

(08:44) Becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ is not just coming to church

(13:31) Spending time with your spouse, not just, you know, weekly dates

(16:43) If you want a better marriage, you're go going toa have to be intentional

(23:10) We want toa encourage you to have a great rest of 2024, but an amazing 2025

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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, hosts Dan and Becky discuss the importance of intentional living. As they reflect on the rapid passage of time, they emphasize the need to prioritize tasks that align with one's purpose and spiritual calling. 

Through engaging anecdotes and practical advice, they explore how to manage life's demands while focusing on what truly matters. Don't miss this insightful conversation on living a life of purpose and intention!

Chapters:

(00:00) Dan Wick says as he gets older, time seems to move faster

(08:44) Becoming a disciple of Jesus Christ is not just coming to church

(13:31) Spending time with your spouse, not just, you know, weekly dates

(16:43) If you want a better marriage, you're go going toa have to be intentional

(23:10) We want toa encourage you to have a great rest of 2024, but an amazing 2025

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16249763 Tue, 10 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1508 4 41 full false What do You do When God Redirects You? What do You do When God Redirects You? You might have your plans made. You prayed, considered, and asked friends for advice, but God redirects you. What do you do? How do you deal with the embarrassment and frustration. Over the last few months Dan and Becky have been dealing with this issue. In this episode they share what they did and how a redirect from God is for our good.

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]]> You might have your plans made. You prayed, considered, and asked friends for advice, but God redirects you. What do you do? How do you deal with the embarrassment and frustration. Over the last few months Dan and Becky have been dealing with this issue. In this episode they share what they did and how a redirect from God is for our good.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16206654 Tue, 03 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1269 4 40 full false Thanksgiving Thanksgiving This week Dan and Becky sit down and talk about Thanksgiving and how to focus on the blessings of your life. There is so much noise out there about how to stick it to your family members or avoiding fights around the "Thanksgiving" table that we sometimes forget the the joy of being thankful. Our prayer is that you and your family have a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving.

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]]> This week Dan and Becky sit down and talk about Thanksgiving and how to focus on the blessings of your life. There is so much noise out there about how to stick it to your family members or avoiding fights around the "Thanksgiving" table that we sometimes forget the the joy of being thankful. Our prayer is that you and your family have a wonderful and blessed Thanksgiving.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16176589 Tue, 26 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1005 4 39 full false 4 Keys to Good Leadership in the Feeding of the 5000 4 Keys to Good Leadership in the Feeding of the 5000 Join Dan and Becky on this week's episode of Trim the Wick as they explore the multifaceted qualities of leadership through the teachings of Jesus. Discover how compassion, teaching, challenging, and empowering others can transform you into an effective leader in any aspect of life. 

From the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 to personal anecdotes, learn how to inspire and guide those around you. Tune in to uncover the essential elements of leading with purpose and intention!


Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) The Concept of Leadership

(05:30) Jesus as the Ultimate Leader

(10:00) The Story of Feeding the 5,000

(15:30) Qualities of a Good Leader

(25:00) Personal Leadership Experiences

(35:00) Conclusion and Takeaways
__________

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]]> Join Dan and Becky on this week's episode of Trim the Wick as they explore the multifaceted qualities of leadership through the teachings of Jesus. Discover how compassion, teaching, challenging, and empowering others can transform you into an effective leader in any aspect of life. 

From the story of Jesus feeding the 5,000 to personal anecdotes, learn how to inspire and guide those around you. Tune in to uncover the essential elements of leading with purpose and intention!


Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) The Concept of Leadership

(05:30) Jesus as the Ultimate Leader

(10:00) The Story of Feeding the 5,000

(15:30) Qualities of a Good Leader

(25:00) Personal Leadership Experiences

(35:00) Conclusion and Takeaways
__________

Like what you heard? Listen to more episodes here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/trim-the-wick/id1496074089

Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/trimthewickglobal/

Follow us on Tiktok: tiktok.com/trim.the.wick

Join our community on Locals: https://trimthewick.locals.com/upost/5330018/welcome-to-trim-the-wick-community 

Want to learn more about what we do at Trim the Wick? Check us out here: https://www.matthew257.com/

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16123613 Tue, 19 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1752 Good Leader, Bad Leader, Personal Growth, Challenge, Empower Others, Intentional Leadership, Life Lessons, Abundant Life, Effective Leadership, Leadership Qualities 4 38 full false Kenya: Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life Kenya: Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life Join Dan and Becky in this heartfelt episode of the Trim the Wick podcast as they explore their passion for the mission work in Kenya. Discover the profound impact of a simple message, "Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life," on the lives of those living in the slums of Nairobi. 

Hear inspiring stories of transformation and hope as former gang members, addicts, and more embrace a new path. Learn how Pastor Steve and Mariam Becky are changing lives through the Nairobi Faith Rescue Mission, and find out how you can get involved in this life-changing ministry.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) The Impact of John 14:6

(05:30) Life in the Slums

(10:00) Transformation Stories

(15:00) How to Get Involved

(20:00) Conclusion
__________

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]]> Join Dan and Becky in this heartfelt episode of the Trim the Wick podcast as they explore their passion for the mission work in Kenya. Discover the profound impact of a simple message, "Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life," on the lives of those living in the slums of Nairobi. 

Hear inspiring stories of transformation and hope as former gang members, addicts, and more embrace a new path. Learn how Pastor Steve and Mariam Becky are changing lives through the Nairobi Faith Rescue Mission, and find out how you can get involved in this life-changing ministry.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) The Impact of John 14:6

(05:30) Life in the Slums

(10:00) Transformation Stories

(15:00) How to Get Involved

(20:00) Conclusion
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-16080361 Tue, 12 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1323 Kenya Mission, Nairobi Slums, Faith Rescue Mission, Transformation Stories 4 37 full false Simply Parenting: Ep 3 - Love People Simply Parenting: Ep 3 - Love People Join Dan and Becky in the final installment of their three-part series on "Simply Parenting." This episode dives into the profound connection between Christian living and parenting, emphasizing the importance of modeling godly behavior for children. 

Discover how to love your children as God loves you, addressing their strengths and weaknesses with compassion and guidance. Explore the balance between obligation and genuine love in parenting, and learn how to cultivate a heart of service in your children. 

Don't miss this insightful discussion on raising children with love and grace.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(03:10) Understanding Behavior and Diagnosis

(10:45) Loving Your Children Like God Loves You

(18:30) Balancing Love and Correction

(25:00) Modeling Love and Service

(32:15) Encouraging Action from Love

(38:00) Conclusion
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]]> Join Dan and Becky in the final installment of their three-part series on "Simply Parenting." This episode dives into the profound connection between Christian living and parenting, emphasizing the importance of modeling godly behavior for children. 

Discover how to love your children as God loves you, addressing their strengths and weaknesses with compassion and guidance. Explore the balance between obligation and genuine love in parenting, and learn how to cultivate a heart of service in your children. 

Don't miss this insightful discussion on raising children with love and grace.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(03:10) Understanding Behavior and Diagnosis

(10:45) Loving Your Children Like God Loves You

(18:30) Balancing Love and Correction

(25:00) Modeling Love and Service

(32:15) Encouraging Action from Love

(38:00) Conclusion
_______________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15962486 Tue, 05 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500 1474 parenting, Christian parenting, autism, loving children, discipline with grace, parenting tips, Jesus's example, loving neighbors, family ministry, behavior 4 36 full false Simply Parenting: Ep 2 - Love God Simply Parenting: Ep 2 - Love God In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. 

Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges.

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]]> In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. 

Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges.

_______________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15962439 Tue, 29 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400 3468 4 35 full false Simply Parenting: Ep 1 - Am I Doing it Right? Simply Parenting: Ep 1 - Am I Doing it Right? In this episode, Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. 

Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize the importance of focusing on principles rather than rules, and how aligning parenting with biblical teachings can simplify the journey.

Tune in to learn how to lift the weight of expectations and parent with a heart-centered approach.

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]]> In this episode, Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. 

Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize the importance of focusing on principles rather than rules, and how aligning parenting with biblical teachings can simplify the journey.

Tune in to learn how to lift the weight of expectations and parent with a heart-centered approach.

_______________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15962340 Tue, 22 Oct 2024 09:00:00 -0400 1375 4 34 full false Special Episode: Hurricane Milton Weathering the Storm Special Episode: Hurricane Milton Weathering the Storm Join Dan and Becky in a special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast as they navigate life without power after Hurricane Milton. Discover how preparation and faith can help weather life's storms, both physically and spiritually. 

Listen in as they share practical tips for hurricane preparedness and draw parallels to spiritual readiness, offering encouragement and insights on finding peace amidst chaos.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) Preparing for the Storm

(10:00) The Experience of Hurricane Milton

(20:00) Spiritual Preparedness

(30:00) Community and Encouragement

(40:00) Conclusion
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]]> Join Dan and Becky in a special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast as they navigate life without power after Hurricane Milton. Discover how preparation and faith can help weather life's storms, both physically and spiritually. 

Listen in as they share practical tips for hurricane preparedness and draw parallels to spiritual readiness, offering encouragement and insights on finding peace amidst chaos.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) Preparing for the Storm

(10:00) The Experience of Hurricane Milton

(20:00) Spiritual Preparedness

(30:00) Community and Encouragement

(40:00) Conclusion
________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15927796 Tue, 15 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1323 4 33 full false Kenya: The Places You Go and The Things You See Kenya: The Places You Go and The Things You See Join Dan and Becky as they take you on a vibrant journey to Kenya in this week's episode of Trim the Wick. 

Discover the unexpected beauty and rich culture of Kenya through their stories and experiences. From the bustling streets of Nairobi to the lush landscapes of Mount Elgon, get a glimpse of the warmth and hospitality of the Kenyan people.

Whether it's exploring city streets or sharing heartfelt moments with locals, this episode is a celebration of discovery, connection, and the joy of missions. Don't miss out on this captivating exploration of a land filled with surprises!

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:30) Travel Adventures

(10:45) First Impressions of Kenya

(20:15) Cultural Insights

(30:00) The Beauty of Kenyan Landscapes

(40:30) Connecting with the People

(50:00) Reflections on Missions

(55:00) Conclusion
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]]> Join Dan and Becky as they take you on a vibrant journey to Kenya in this week's episode of Trim the Wick. 

Discover the unexpected beauty and rich culture of Kenya through their stories and experiences. From the bustling streets of Nairobi to the lush landscapes of Mount Elgon, get a glimpse of the warmth and hospitality of the Kenyan people.

Whether it's exploring city streets or sharing heartfelt moments with locals, this episode is a celebration of discovery, connection, and the joy of missions. Don't miss out on this captivating exploration of a land filled with surprises!

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:30) Travel Adventures

(10:45) First Impressions of Kenya

(20:15) Cultural Insights

(30:00) The Beauty of Kenyan Landscapes

(40:30) Connecting with the People

(50:00) Reflections on Missions

(55:00) Conclusion
________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15862414 Tue, 08 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1762 4 32 full false Doom Scrolling & Task Paralysis: Symptoms of Spiritual Overwhelm Doom Scrolling & Task Paralysis: Symptoms of Spiritual Overwhelm In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky dive into the overwhelming impact of constant news and social media updates on our mental health and spiritual well-being. 

They discuss the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, the emotional toll of being inundated with global crises, and the importance of focusing on what we can control. 

Join them as they explore how to navigate this information overload by trusting in God, staying true to our purpose, and finding peace amidst the chaos.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:45) Aftermath of Hurricane Helene

(03:30) The Impact of Constant News Updates

(10:15) The Role of Social Media

(15:00) The Spiritual Perspective

(20:00) Trusting in God and Finding Peace

(25:00) Conclusion
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]]> In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky dive into the overwhelming impact of constant news and social media updates on our mental health and spiritual well-being. 

They discuss the aftermath of Hurricane Helene, the emotional toll of being inundated with global crises, and the importance of focusing on what we can control. 

Join them as they explore how to navigate this information overload by trusting in God, staying true to our purpose, and finding peace amidst the chaos.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(00:45) Aftermath of Hurricane Helene

(03:30) The Impact of Constant News Updates

(10:15) The Role of Social Media

(15:00) The Spiritual Perspective

(20:00) Trusting in God and Finding Peace

(25:00) Conclusion
________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15840812 Tue, 01 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1466 hurricane, anxiety, overwhelm, social media, technology, faith, trust, God, focus, mission, prayer, spiritual warfare, news cycle, paralysis, peace 4 31 full false All You Need Is A Child's Determination All You Need Is A Child's Determination In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan revisits a cherished discussion on determination, inspired by the simple yet profound actions of a ten-month-old child. Listen in as Dan recounts how watching a baby navigate their home sparked reflections on resilience, God's calling, and the importance of continual striving despite setbacks. 

Through personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, this episode offers a heartwarming and motivating look at how we can learn from the determination of a child to pursue what God has placed in our hearts.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:00) The Determined Child

(05:30) Reflections on Determination

(10:45) Scriptural Insights

(15:00) Lessons on Rest and Renewal

(20:00) Encouragement and Conclusion

________

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]]> In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan revisits a cherished discussion on determination, inspired by the simple yet profound actions of a ten-month-old child. Listen in as Dan recounts how watching a baby navigate their home sparked reflections on resilience, God's calling, and the importance of continual striving despite setbacks. 

Through personal anecdotes and scriptural insights, this episode offers a heartwarming and motivating look at how we can learn from the determination of a child to pursue what God has placed in our hearts.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:00) The Determined Child

(05:30) Reflections on Determination

(10:45) Scriptural Insights

(15:00) Lessons on Rest and Renewal

(20:00) Encouragement and Conclusion

________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15801216 Tue, 24 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1497 4 30 full false Growing Pains: Seeking First the Kingdom When the Cares of Life are Loud Growing Pains: Seeking First the Kingdom When the Cares of Life are Loud In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the challenges and growth that come with stepping out in faith. They share personal stories of trusting God through uncertain times, moving forward in their spiritual journey, and the importance of not becoming stagnant in one’s faith. 

Tune in to hear about their experiences with financial uncertainty, the lessons they’ve learned, and the books that have inspired them along the way.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) Life's Unexpected Changes

(10:15) The Importance of Moving Forward

(20:45) Trusting God in Uncertainty

(30:30) The Book That Inspired Us

(40:00) Encouragement and Resources


Books that have helped us and continue to help us move forward:
Ruthless Trust: The Ragamuffin's Path to God by Brennan Manning
Do Hard Things by Alex & Brett Harris
Love Does by Bob Goff
________

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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the challenges and growth that come with stepping out in faith. They share personal stories of trusting God through uncertain times, moving forward in their spiritual journey, and the importance of not becoming stagnant in one’s faith. 

Tune in to hear about their experiences with financial uncertainty, the lessons they’ve learned, and the books that have inspired them along the way.

Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(02:00) Life's Unexpected Changes

(10:15) The Importance of Moving Forward

(20:45) Trusting God in Uncertainty

(30:30) The Book That Inspired Us

(40:00) Encouragement and Resources


Books that have helped us and continue to help us move forward:
Ruthless Trust: The Ragamuffin's Path to God by Brennan Manning
Do Hard Things by Alex & Brett Harris
Love Does by Bob Goff
________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15760830 Tue, 17 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1727 4 29 full false The Person of Holy Spirit: Signs and Wonders The Person of Holy Spirit: Signs and Wonders In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on the person of the Holy Spirit. 

They share personal stories and insights about how the Holy Spirit works in the natural world, performing miraculous signs and healings. From breaking fevers to restoring hearing, they discuss the awe-inspiring power of the Holy Spirit and the importance of faith. 

Tune in to hear about their transformative experiences and the lessons they've learned about trusting in the Holy Spirit.


Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:00) Discussion on the Holy Spirit's Tangible Impact

(05:30) Story of Healing in Ecuador

(15:00) The Role of Faith in Miracles

(22:00) Balancing Expectation and Trust in the Holy Spirit

(28:00) Conclusion

________

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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on the person of the Holy Spirit. 

They share personal stories and insights about how the Holy Spirit works in the natural world, performing miraculous signs and healings. From breaking fevers to restoring hearing, they discuss the awe-inspiring power of the Holy Spirit and the importance of faith. 

Tune in to hear about their transformative experiences and the lessons they've learned about trusting in the Holy Spirit.


Chapters:

(00:00) Introduction

(01:00) Discussion on the Holy Spirit's Tangible Impact

(05:30) Story of Healing in Ecuador

(15:00) The Role of Faith in Miracles

(22:00) Balancing Expectation and Trust in the Holy Spirit

(28:00) Conclusion

________

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15720228 Tue, 10 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1649 Holy Spirit, Miracles, Faith, Healing, Signs And Wonders, Spiritual Gifts, Prophecy, Testimonies, Supernatural 4 28 full false The Person of Holy Spirit: One Body One Spirit The Person of Holy Spirit: One Body One Spirit In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky share their transformative experiences from mission trips, focusing on the vital role of the Holy Spirit.

They discuss how stepping out of their comfort zones in places like Kenya has deepened their reliance on God and strengthened their faith.

Tune in to hear amazing stories of divine intervention, the power of prayer, and the joy that comes from trusting the Holy Spirit, even in the most challenging circumstances.
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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky share their transformative experiences from mission trips, focusing on the vital role of the Holy Spirit.

They discuss how stepping out of their comfort zones in places like Kenya has deepened their reliance on God and strengthened their faith.

Tune in to hear amazing stories of divine intervention, the power of prayer, and the joy that comes from trusting the Holy Spirit, even in the most challenging circumstances.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15679349 Tue, 03 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1793 Holy Spirit, Mission Trips, Kenya, Faith, Divine Intervention, Prayer, Trust In God, Spiritual Growth, Christian Life, Unity, Dependence On God, Spiritual Comfort, Mission Field, Overcoming Challenges, Joy In Trials, Spiritual Encouragement, Holy Spirit'S 4 27 full false The Person of Holy Spirit: Recognizing His Presence The Person of Holy Spirit: Recognizing His Presence In this special road edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky take you on a journey as they delve deeper into the topic of the Holy Spirit.

Broadcasting from their car, they discuss how the Holy Spirit manifests in our lives, debunk common misconceptions, and share personal experiences of spiritual awakening.

Join them for an enlightening conversation about receiving and recognizing the Holy Spirit's presence in your life.
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]]> In this special road edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky take you on a journey as they delve deeper into the topic of the Holy Spirit.

Broadcasting from their car, they discuss how the Holy Spirit manifests in our lives, debunk common misconceptions, and share personal experiences of spiritual awakening.

Join them for an enlightening conversation about receiving and recognizing the Holy Spirit's presence in your life.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15647340 Tue, 27 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2143 Holy Spirit, Spiritual Awakening, Faith Journey, Testimonies, Spiritual Gifts, Holy Spirit, Misconceptions About Faith, Faith Deconstruciton 4 26 full false The Person of Holy Spirit: Being Counter-Cultural The Person of Holy Spirit: Being Counter-Cultural In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the transformative difference between religious Christianity and Spirit-filled living. They discuss:

  • Pitfalls of focusing on worldly church success metrics
  • The Holy Spirit's demand for genuine life change
  • How Spirit-filled living can be counter-cultural
  • Personal experiences transitioning from religious routine to Spirit-led life
  • Biblical insights on embracing the Holy Spirit's power

Join them to discover how moving beyond religious rules into a dynamic relationship with the Holy Spirit can equip you to overcome life's challenges with authentic spiritual power.
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]]> In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the transformative difference between religious Christianity and Spirit-filled living. They discuss:

  • Pitfalls of focusing on worldly church success metrics
  • The Holy Spirit's demand for genuine life change
  • How Spirit-filled living can be counter-cultural
  • Personal experiences transitioning from religious routine to Spirit-led life
  • Biblical insights on embracing the Holy Spirit's power

Join them to discover how moving beyond religious rules into a dynamic relationship with the Holy Spirit can equip you to overcome life's challenges with authentic spiritual power.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15605609 Tue, 20 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1890 Spirit Filled, Christian Living, Holy Spirit, Faith Journey, Spiritual Growth, Church Life, Biblical Truth, Transformation, Trim The Wick, Power Of God 4 25 full false Finding Real Peace in a Crazy World Finding Real Peace in a Crazy World In this special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, we revisit an enlightening episode from our previous podcast, "Seeing God in the Everyday," where we explore the concept of real peace.

Join us as we discuss how to maintain peace amidst life's chaos, what true peace looks like, and how to rejoice in God regardless of circumstances.

Tune in for practical tips and spiritual insights that will help you find and keep peace in your daily life.
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]]> In this special edition of the Trim the Wick podcast, we revisit an enlightening episode from our previous podcast, "Seeing God in the Everyday," where we explore the concept of real peace.

Join us as we discuss how to maintain peace amidst life's chaos, what true peace looks like, and how to rejoice in God regardless of circumstances.

Tune in for practical tips and spiritual insights that will help you find and keep peace in your daily life.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15567226 Tue, 13 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1503 Real Peace, Finding Peace, Maintaining Peace, Rejoicing In God, Philippians 4, Peace In Chaos, Spiritual Peace, Peace In Daily Life, Trim The Wick Podcast, Seeing God In The Everyday, Prayer And Thanksgiving, Emotional Peace, Biblical Peace, Anxiety Relie 4 24 full false Cheptais Kenya: African Drums, Tribal Wars and Praising the Lord Cheptais Kenya: African Drums, Tribal Wars and Praising the Lord In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share an incredibly moving story from their time in Kenya.

Despite facing unimaginable hardships, the faith and resilience of a Kenyan village left a profound impact on them. They recount their journey up Mount Elgon, where they encountered a community that, despite losing many of its men to tribal conflict, displayed unwavering faith and joy.

This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and hope that can be found in the most difficult circumstances. Tune in to be inspired and encouraged by this heartfelt testimony.
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]]> In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share an incredibly moving story from their time in Kenya.

Despite facing unimaginable hardships, the faith and resilience of a Kenyan village left a profound impact on them. They recount their journey up Mount Elgon, where they encountered a community that, despite losing many of its men to tribal conflict, displayed unwavering faith and joy.

This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the strength and hope that can be found in the most difficult circumstances. Tune in to be inspired and encouraged by this heartfelt testimony.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15535625 Tue, 06 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1454 Kenya, Faith, Resilience, Tribal Conflict, Mount Elgon, Encouragement, Christian Faith, Village Life, Mission Trip, Joy In Hardship, Community Strength, African Culture, Spiritual Growth, Inspirational Stories, Overcoming Adversity, Trim The Wick Podcast, 4 23 full false The World is on Fire! Are You Ok? The World is on Fire! Are You Ok? In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky dive deep into the theme of enduring faith amidst life's trials. They discuss the constant challenges we face, from personal setbacks to global crises, and how to hold on to faith and confidence through it all. 

With heartfelt encouragement and scriptural insights from Hebrews and Romans, they remind us of the importance of perseverance, community, and genuine love. 

Tune in for a powerful message of hope and resilience.
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]]> In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky dive deep into the theme of enduring faith amidst life's trials. They discuss the constant challenges we face, from personal setbacks to global crises, and how to hold on to faith and confidence through it all. 

With heartfelt encouragement and scriptural insights from Hebrews and Romans, they remind us of the importance of perseverance, community, and genuine love. 

Tune in for a powerful message of hope and resilience.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15494000 Tue, 30 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2141 Faith, Endurance, Trials, Perseverance, Hebrews, Romans, Scripture, Encouragement, Podcast, Trim The Wick, Dan And Becky, Personal Challenges, Global Crises, Community, Genuine Love, Resilience, Hope, Spiritual Growth, Prayer, Ministry 4 22 full false Am I Doing It Right? Reading the Bible Am I Doing It Right? Reading the Bible In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky delve into the transformative power of the Bible. They discuss the importance of engaging with the word of God beyond mere academic study, emphasizing the role of the Holy Spirit in illuminating and applying scripture to our lives.

Dan and Becky explore four distinct methods of Bible study—devotional reading, structured reading programs, topical studies, and unstructured personal study—highlighting the benefits and challenges of each.

Whether you're a seasoned believer or new to the faith, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement for deepening your relationship with God through His word.
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]]> In this episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky delve into the transformative power of the Bible. They discuss the importance of engaging with the word of God beyond mere academic study, emphasizing the role of the Holy Spirit in illuminating and applying scripture to our lives.

Dan and Becky explore four distinct methods of Bible study—devotional reading, structured reading programs, topical studies, and unstructured personal study—highlighting the benefits and challenges of each.

Whether you're a seasoned believer or new to the faith, this episode offers practical insights and encouragement for deepening your relationship with God through His word.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15452353 Tue, 23 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2211 Bible Study, Devotional, Topical Studies, Scripture, Holy Spirit, Christian Life, Faith Journey, Bible Methods, God's Word, Renewing Mind, Relationship With God 4 21 full false Rediscovering Community: How Can Today's Church Build Genuine Fellowship? Rediscovering Community: How Can Today's Church Build Genuine Fellowship? Does it seem like these days the only way to have fellowship and build community you have to do a big event or go to an expensive outing. I wonder if we are missing the point trying to make events and memorable occasions we have lost the ability to just "be" and hang out. This week Becky and Dan discuss this and how to get back to building genuine fellowship.
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]]> Does it seem like these days the only way to have fellowship and build community you have to do a big event or go to an expensive outing. I wonder if we are missing the point trying to make events and memorable occasions we have lost the ability to just "be" and hang out. This week Becky and Dan discuss this and how to get back to building genuine fellowship.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15415934 Tue, 16 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1875 Fellowship, Community, Church, Early Church, Acts 2, Hospitality, Vulnerability, Relationships, Unity, Love, Spiritual Growth, Bible Study, Christian Living, Trim The Wick Podcast, Dan And Becky, Faith, Simplicity, Modern Challenges, Genuine Connections, 4 20 full false Work is Worship Work is Worship In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky tackle a topic that affects everyone: work. They delve into how our daily labor, whether paid or unpaid, can be an act of worship and service to God. Drawing from biblical teachings and personal experiences, they explore the idea that all work, no matter how mundane or difficult, has intrinsic value and can glorify God. Tune in to discover how to find joy and purpose in your everyday tasks and to hear inspiring stories of how God uses our work to fulfill His plans.
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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky tackle a topic that affects everyone: work. They delve into how our daily labor, whether paid or unpaid, can be an act of worship and service to God. Drawing from biblical teachings and personal experiences, they explore the idea that all work, no matter how mundane or difficult, has intrinsic value and can glorify God. Tune in to discover how to find joy and purpose in your everyday tasks and to hear inspiring stories of how God uses our work to fulfill His plans.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15378320 Tue, 09 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1856 Work as worship, purpose in work, biblical work view, daily joy, Christian ethics, ministry beyond church, work challenges, faith stories, glorifying God, work mindset, Ephesians 2:10, Genesis, faith at work 4 19 full false Kenya: Feed the Body, Feed the Soul Kenya: Feed the Body, Feed the Soul In this heartfelt episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share their passion project, connecting their church community with the transformative work being done in the slums of Nairobi, Kenya. They recount their experiences with Pastor Steve and Pastor Mary, who are dedicated to bringing hope and change to some of the most impoverished areas. From feeding programs to job training and education initiatives, discover how this incredible ministry is making a difference and how you can be a part of it.
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]]> In this heartfelt episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky share their passion project, connecting their church community with the transformative work being done in the slums of Nairobi, Kenya. They recount their experiences with Pastor Steve and Pastor Mary, who are dedicated to bringing hope and change to some of the most impoverished areas. From feeding programs to job training and education initiatives, discover how this incredible ministry is making a difference and how you can be a part of it.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15333740 Tue, 02 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2224 Nairobi Slums, Pastor Steve, Feeding Program, Job Training, Education Initiatives, Mission Work, Trim The Wick Podcast, Kenya Ministry, Poverty Alleviation, Faith-Based Outreach 4 18 full false Simply Parenting: Ep 3 - Love People Simply Parenting: Ep 3 - Love People In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky wrap up their "Simply Parenting" series by discussing the importance of loving others as ourselves, based on Matthew 22:39. They share personal stories and biblical insights, emphasizing the need to parent with love and grace. Key points include understanding child behavior, balancing love and discipline, and teaching genuine acts of love.

Key Takeaways:

  • Parenting requires modeling godly love and grace.
  • Understanding behavior helps guide better actions.
  • Love involves both defending and correcting.
  • Genuine acts of love teach children more effectively than obligation.

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]]> In this episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky wrap up their "Simply Parenting" series by discussing the importance of loving others as ourselves, based on Matthew 22:39. They share personal stories and biblical insights, emphasizing the need to parent with love and grace. Key points include understanding child behavior, balancing love and discipline, and teaching genuine acts of love.

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  • Parenting requires modeling godly love and grace.
  • Understanding behavior helps guide better actions.
  • Love involves both defending and correcting.
  • Genuine acts of love teach children more effectively than obligation.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15296956 Tue, 25 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1474 Christian Values, Self-Reflection, Matthew 22, Practical Advice, Raising Children,Teaching By Example, Spiritual Growth, Child Development, Neurodivergence, Autism Spectrum, Parental Guidance 4 17 full false Simply Parenting: Ep. 2: Love God Simply Parenting: Ep. 2: Love God In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges.

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]]> In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky continue their series on "Simply Parenting." Dive into a conversation about the importance of loving God and how it forms the foundation for effective and heartfelt parenting. Discover practical tips on modeling a genuine relationship with God for your children and learn how to instill values that will guide them through life's challenges.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15264970 Tue, 18 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400 3468 Parenting Tips, Simply Parenting, Love God, Heart Motivations, Parenting From Love, Christian Parenting, Teaching Faith, Modeling Faith, Relationship With God, Spiritual Growth, Family Values, Raising Children, Faith And Parenting, Child Development, Chri 4 16 full false Simply Parenting: Am I Doing it Right? Simply Parenting: Am I Doing it Right? In this episode, hosts Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize the importance of focusing on principles rather than rules, and how aligning parenting with biblical teachings can simplify the journey. Tune in to learn how to lift the weight of expectations and parent with a heart-centered approach.

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]]> In this episode, hosts Dan and Becky kick off a new series called "Simply Parenting," aimed at breaking down the overwhelming expectations placed on parents today. They discuss the pressures from social media, societal norms, and even government regulations that make parenting feel like an insurmountable task. Drawing from their own experiences of raising four children to adulthood, Dan and Becky share how they navigated through external judgments and internal pressures. They emphasize the importance of focusing on principles rather than rules, and how aligning parenting with biblical teachings can simplify the journey. Tune in to learn how to lift the weight of expectations and parent with a heart-centered approach.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15218806 Tue, 11 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1375 Parenting Advice, Social Media Pressure, Family Expectations, Biblical Parenting, Raising Children, Heart-Centered Parenting, Parenting Principles, Modern Parenting Challenges, Judgment On Parents, Parenting Series, Parenting Tips, External Expectations, 4 15 full false Kenya: No Money? No Contacts? No Problem. Kenya: No Money? No Contacts? No Problem. In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky take us on an incredible journey of faith, family, and international ministry. They share their experiences of saying "yes" to God's calling, which led them to preach in Kenya, connect with pastors, and witness the transformative power of faith in the slums of Nairobi and the villages of western Kenya. Tune in to hear how their family came together to support their mission, the challenges they faced, and the miraculous ways God provided for their trip. This episode is a testament to the power of obedience and the global reach of technology in spreading the gospel.

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]]> In this week's episode of the Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky take us on an incredible journey of faith, family, and international ministry. They share their experiences of saying "yes" to God's calling, which led them to preach in Kenya, connect with pastors, and witness the transformative power of faith in the slums of Nairobi and the villages of western Kenya. Tune in to hear how their family came together to support their mission, the challenges they faced, and the miraculous ways God provided for their trip. This episode is a testament to the power of obedience and the global reach of technology in spreading the gospel.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15183492 Tue, 04 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1948 International Ministry, Preaching in Kenya, Faith Journey, Global Missions, Family Support, Nairobi Slums, Western Kenya, Saying Yes to God, Technology in Ministry, Missionary Work, Overcoming Challenges, Faith and Obedience, Transformative Power, Preachi 4 14 full false We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships. Ep. 3 - I Can Still Love You We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships. Ep. 3 - I Can Still Love You In this week's episode of Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the intricate subject of conflict resolution and reconciliation. They explore the complexities of resolving disagreements, emphasizing that separation is not always a failure but sometimes a necessary step to maintain peace. Using biblical references like the story of Paul and Barnabas, Dan and Becky illustrate how even strong relationships can face conflicts that lead to separation while still maintaining love and respect. The episode also touches on the importance of forgiveness, the difference between resolution and reconciliation, and the unique dynamics of conflict within marriage.

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]]> In this week's episode of Trim the Wick podcast, Dan and Becky delve into the intricate subject of conflict resolution and reconciliation. They explore the complexities of resolving disagreements, emphasizing that separation is not always a failure but sometimes a necessary step to maintain peace. Using biblical references like the story of Paul and Barnabas, Dan and Becky illustrate how even strong relationships can face conflicts that lead to separation while still maintaining love and respect. The episode also touches on the importance of forgiveness, the difference between resolution and reconciliation, and the unique dynamics of conflict within marriage.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15147802 Tue, 28 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2225 Conflict Resolution, Reconciliation, Forgiveness, Biblical Conflict, Internal Conflict, Listening, Truthfulness, Separation, Marriage Conflict, Professional Counseling, Unity, Arguments, Holy Spirit 4 13 full false We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships. EP. 2- I'm Ready Let's Talk We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships. EP. 2- I'm Ready Let's Talk In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the power of reconciliation in conflict resolution. Learn how to align your responses with Christ's character, prepare for confrontations, communicate truthfully, and listen to understand. Discover biblical principles for restoring relationships and the ongoing process of reconciliation. Whether facing personal disputes or seeking peace in your community, gain insights to mend and strengthen bonds.

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]]> In this week’s episode of Trim the Wick, Dan and Becky explore the power of reconciliation in conflict resolution. Learn how to align your responses with Christ's character, prepare for confrontations, communicate truthfully, and listen to understand. Discover biblical principles for restoring relationships and the ongoing process of reconciliation. Whether facing personal disputes or seeking peace in your community, gain insights to mend and strengthen bonds.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15100597 Tue, 21 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1731 Conflict Resolution, Reconciliation, Christian Living, Holy Spirit, Effective Communication, Forgiveness, Biblical Principles, Self-Control, Emotional Intelligence, Relationship Building, Spiritual Growth, Confrontation Strategies, Trim the 4 12 full false We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships EP. 1 - Me First We've Got a Problem: Reconciling Conflict in Relationships EP. 1 - Me First Every human relationship faces times of disagreement, hurts, and wrongs against one another.  How we handle those times can restore the relationship or rip it to pieces. Join us this week as we discuss how the first moments of any conflict need to start with managing our own emotional and physical responses before we can hope to address the other person involved. 
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]]> Every human relationship faces times of disagreement, hurts, and wrongs against one another.  How we handle those times can restore the relationship or rip it to pieces. Join us this week as we discuss how the first moments of any conflict need to start with managing our own emotional and physical responses before we can hope to address the other person involved. 
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15059875 Tue, 14 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1588 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Conflict Resolution, Marriage counseling 4 11 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Self Control 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Self Control Ok to all our Trim the Wick fans we made it to final episode in our series 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. This week we finish strong discussing Self Control. Understanding self control more fully as having mastery over you self, emotions, thoughts and actions leads to a more fruitful marriage.
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]]> Ok to all our Trim the Wick fans we made it to final episode in our series 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. This week we finish strong discussing Self Control. Understanding self control more fully as having mastery over you self, emotions, thoughts and actions leads to a more fruitful marriage.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-15019319 Tue, 07 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2040 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based help, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, Christi 4 10 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Gentleness 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Gentleness Episode 8 of our 9 part series on a fruitful marriage. This week Dan and Becky talk about the Fruit of Gentleness. Being gentle is more than just being soft or even weak around each other. Gentleness requires strength and a standing with your spouse when they are going through troubles. 
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]]> Episode 8 of our 9 part series on a fruitful marriage. This week Dan and Becky talk about the Fruit of Gentleness. Being gentle is more than just being soft or even weak around each other. Gentleness requires strength and a standing with your spouse when they are going through troubles. 
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14980515 Tue, 30 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1945 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 9 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Faithfulness 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Faithfulness Being Faithfull is so much more than your physical actions. Faithfulness is about your character and does it match God's character. Faithfulness is where you wedding vows become a part of your marriage.
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]]> Being Faithfull is so much more than your physical actions. Faithfulness is about your character and does it match God's character. Faithfulness is where you wedding vows become a part of your marriage.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14935438 Tue, 23 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0400 1895 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 8 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Goodness 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Goodness I do something for her, she does something for me... I thought marriage was all about give and take... No not really. This we talk about Goodness and how powerful it is to just be Good to one another.
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]]> I do something for her, she does something for me... I thought marriage was all about give and take... No not really. This we talk about Goodness and how powerful it is to just be Good to one another.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14935418 Tue, 23 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400 1912 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 7 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Kindness 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Kindness So if you don't say anything you are being Kind right? Well not really, this week Becky and Dan talk about the Trait of Kindness in your marriage. Kindness is draws a husband and wife closer together because space is given to grow. You are going to be blessed during this episode.
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]]> So if you don't say anything you are being Kind right? Well not really, this week Becky and Dan talk about the Trait of Kindness in your marriage. Kindness is draws a husband and wife closer together because space is given to grow. You are going to be blessed during this episode.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14895358 Tue, 16 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2107 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 6 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Patience 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Patience Over the years of being married I think that this one trait keeps the fighting to a minimum. But patience is not about a "grinning and bearing it" mentality. Patience takes work and discipline, and the power of Holy Spirit so that your marriage can endure. 
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]]> Over the years of being married I think that this one trait keeps the fighting to a minimum. But patience is not about a "grinning and bearing it" mentality. Patience takes work and discipline, and the power of Holy Spirit so that your marriage can endure. 
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14854280 Tue, 09 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2052 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 5 full false 9 Traits to cultivate a fruitful marriage: Peace 9 Traits to cultivate a fruitful marriage: Peace This week we continue to build on the 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. We are talking about Peace, but in the words of that brilliant philosopher Fezzik in the Princess Bride. "You keep using that word I don't think it means what you think it means." Peace in a marriage does not mean quiet and enough is enough... Join Dan and Becky as we look into the word Peace, and the beautiful music it makes.
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]]> This week we continue to build on the 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage. We are talking about Peace, but in the words of that brilliant philosopher Fezzik in the Princess Bride. "You keep using that word I don't think it means what you think it means." Peace in a marriage does not mean quiet and enough is enough... Join Dan and Becky as we look into the word Peace, and the beautiful music it makes.
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14810085 Tue, 02 Apr 2024 09:00:00 -0400 1742 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 4 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Joy 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Joy Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. 

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]]> Is there more than just striving after happiness? Is my marriage supposed to hit that dopamine button over and over again? What do I do when times are bad and I'm in a place of desperation? This is where Joy steps in and gives us strength to overcome even in the worst of situations. This week Becky and I talk about having Joy in your marriage and why it is essential. 

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14770841 Tue, 26 Mar 2024 10:00:00 -0400 1587 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 3 full false 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Love 9 Traits to Cultivate a Fruitful Marriage: Love Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we start a series about marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This week we are focusing on LOVE.

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 You can join our community and hear our podcast a week earlier. Plus Becky writes a bi-weekly article on all topics of life. 
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]]> Welcome back the the Trim the Wick podcast. This week we start a series about marriage. Becky and I have been married for over 33 years and have a lot of experience of doing marriage right and wrong. We have four children who are all adults and a list of life's ups and downs, from military, college moving across country to being homeless we have experienced a lot. In this series we what to share with you the things that we have learned and to help you to have a fruitful marriage. This week we are focusing on LOVE.

If you like what you are hearing you can support us at https://trimthewick.locals.com 
 You can join our community and hear our podcast a week earlier. Plus Becky writes a bi-weekly article on all topics of life. 
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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14710803 Tue, 19 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0400 2299 Christian podcast, Marriage advice, Family guidance, Relationship tips, Biblical wisdom, Faith-based counseling, Spiritual growth, Christian marriage, Parenting advice, Marriage enrichment, Christian family, Relationship counseling, Marriage counseling, C 4 2 full false What's in a Name? What's in a Name? Welcome to the new Trim the Wick podcast. This is our first podcast where we will be discussing out name Trim the Wick. We will be diving into Matthew 25 as Jesus tells the parable of the ten virgins. We will be sharing about our community and what is to come. Please leave commits and ask questions you would like us to address.

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]]> Welcome to the new Trim the Wick podcast. This is our first podcast where we will be discussing out name Trim the Wick. We will be diving into Matthew 25 as Jesus tells the parable of the ten virgins. We will be sharing about our community and what is to come. Please leave commits and ask questions you would like us to address.

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]]> Dan and Becky James Buzzsprout-14632159 Tue, 12 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0400 2400 4 1 full false How to have real Peace How to have real Peace Join us around the kitchen table for a discussion about having real Peace.

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]]> Join us around the kitchen table for a discussion about having real Peace.

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]]> Dan & Becky Buzzsprout-13526341 Mon, 04 Sep 2023 12:00:00 -0400 1656 #peace, #Christiantalk, 4 1 full false Determination Determination Becky and I see the gift of determination at work in a friend's baby; even grown-ups can learn from baby steps!


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]]> Becky and I see the gift of determination at work in a friend's baby; even grown-ups can learn from baby steps!


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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8474249 Thu, 06 May 2021 19:00:00 -0400 1783 3 8 full false 30 Year Anniversary Part 2 30 Year Anniversary Part 2 Years 15 to 30 as We look back at the hard times and amazing times. God is faithful and good.
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]]> Years 15 to 30 as We look back at the hard times and amazing times. God is faithful and good.
This weeks podcast was recorded during a thunderstorm at the Walt Disney Resort.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8432481 Thu, 29 Apr 2021 22:00:00 -0400 3308 #marriage, #Godisfaithful, 3 7 full false 30 Year Anniversary Part 1 30 Year Anniversary Part 1 Becky and I are celebrating 30 years of marriage this year.  We go back in time to talk about the ups and downs of young married life and how to build a marriage that can last the trials of life.
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]]> Becky and I are celebrating 30 years of marriage this year.  We go back in time to talk about the ups and downs of young married life and how to build a marriage that can last the trials of life.
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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8344568 Thu, 15 Apr 2021 22:00:00 -0400 3151 Christian living, Kingdom living, Marriage, Healthy Marriage, 3 6 full false Appliances Break But Your Relationships Don't Have To Appliances Break But Your Relationships Don't Have To A new family favorite show, and how washers and dryers and refrigerators teach some great lessons about what's worth investing yourself in!

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]]> A new family favorite show, and how washers and dryers and refrigerators teach some great lessons about what's worth investing yourself in!

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8306041 Fri, 09 Apr 2021 18:00:00 -0400 2267 #thechosen, marriage, investing 3 5 full false Jesus in the Passover Jesus in the Passover This week we tie it all together with the 3rd and final episode in our series.  Join us as we see how God gives a picture of His promise in the salvation of the Israelites from Egypt...and how Jesus shows Himself as the fulfillment of that promise during His last Passover meal with the disciples. 

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]]> This week we tie it all together with the 3rd and final episode in our series.  Join us as we see how God gives a picture of His promise in the salvation of the Israelites from Egypt...and how Jesus shows Himself as the fulfillment of that promise during His last Passover meal with the disciples. 

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8256873 Thu, 01 Apr 2021 17:00:00 -0400 1953 Jesus, Passover, Easter, 3 4 full false Why do you do Passover? Why do you do Passover? This week we go and get new chairs, and continue our History and discussion on Passover.

https://jewsforjesus.org/jewish-resources/jewish-holidays/passover/

http://www.sheepfoldgleanings.net/2019/The%20Messianic%20Passover%20Haggadah.pdf

https://www.amazon.com/Celebrating-Biblical-Feasts-Your-Church-ebook/dp/B0090OH7VM/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1458628695&sr=1-1&keywords=celebrating+biblical+feasts&linkCode=sl1&tag=leaaleg03-20&linkId=b5d8a9454e54a75032805340a2c37c3a

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]]> This week we go and get new chairs, and continue our History and discussion on Passover.

https://jewsforjesus.org/jewish-resources/jewish-holidays/passover/

http://www.sheepfoldgleanings.net/2019/The%20Messianic%20Passover%20Haggadah.pdf

https://www.amazon.com/Celebrating-Biblical-Feasts-Your-Church-ebook/dp/B0090OH7VM/ref=as_li_ss_tl?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1458628695&sr=1-1&keywords=celebrating+biblical+feasts&linkCode=sl1&tag=leaaleg03-20&linkId=b5d8a9454e54a75032805340a2c37c3a

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8212731 Thu, 25 Mar 2021 18:00:00 -0400 3590 Passover, Christian Living, 3 3 full false The Little Things The Little Things This week we have a quick COVID19 update from our friends in Kenya, Dan washes the car and we prepare for Passover.
My Podcast interview with Pastor Steve in Kenya
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]]> This week we have a quick COVID19 update from our friends in Kenya, Dan washes the car and we prepare for Passover.
My Podcast interview with Pastor Steve in Kenya
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]]> Dan and Becky Buzzsprout-8169353 Thu, 18 Mar 2021 21:00:00 -0400 2053 Passover 3 2 full false We are Back! We are Back! It has been a long 3 months and we missed you.
Becky and I recap the last 3 months and look forward to the future.
We discuss about our new Blog on our Facebook page @seeinggodintheeveryday.

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]]> It has been a long 3 months and we missed you.
Becky and I recap the last 3 months and look forward to the future.
We discuss about our new Blog on our Facebook page @seeinggodintheeveryday.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-8112180 Thu, 11 Mar 2021 09:00:00 -0500 1796 3 1 full false We got us some Rest and the beginning of Advent We got us some Rest and the beginning of Advent This week Becky and I talk about the crazy of the Holidays and the fact that we all need rest.
Plus we start are 4 week series on the names of Jesus and the Advent.

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]]> This week Becky and I talk about the crazy of the Holidays and the fact that we all need rest.
Plus we start are 4 week series on the names of Jesus and the Advent.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-6681260 Thu, 03 Dec 2020 19:00:00 -0500 1973 Resting, Thanksgiving, Christmas, Advent Season 2 4 full false November hurricane plus dead tree equals cold shower November hurricane plus dead tree equals cold shower We have the fun experience of a November hurricane plus dead tree equals cold shower.  Where is God when our power goes out and the TV falls off the wall.

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]]> We have the fun experience of a November hurricane plus dead tree equals cold shower.  Where is God when our power goes out and the TV falls off the wall.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-6521110 Mon, 23 Nov 2020 19:00:00 -0500 1886 No Power, Hurricane, Down Power Lines 2 3 full false Kingdom Living Kingdom Living S2E2 
How are things going?  Feeling a little stressed? Concerned about the future?  COVID19, Election results, 401K ok?  Well, this week Becky and I talk about the current events and how Kingdom living is the answer to seeing God in your everyday.

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]]> S2E2 
How are things going?  Feeling a little stressed? Concerned about the future?  COVID19, Election results, 401K ok?  Well, this week Becky and I talk about the current events and how Kingdom living is the answer to seeing God in your everyday.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-6334135 Wed, 11 Nov 2020 19:00:00 -0500 1942 Christian living, Kingdom living, election, 2 2 full false Becky and I start something new! Becky and I start something new! Kick off to Season 2.  Join Dan and new co-host Becky as they talk about how relationship is key to learning to see God in everyday things.

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]]> Kick off to Season 2.  Join Dan and new co-host Becky as they talk about how relationship is key to learning to see God in everyday things.

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]]> Dan & Becky Buzzsprout-6228688 Thu, 05 Nov 2020 12:00:00 -0500 1616 Relationship, Christian living, marriage, 2 1 full false The Way of Love The Way of Love Welcome back!  Have you ever been listening to someone and it sounds off?  Even if what they are saying is right its have to get past their tone of motivation.  If there is no Love in what we do we are nothing. 1 Corinthians 13 

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]]> Welcome back!  Have you ever been listening to someone and it sounds off?  Even if what they are saying is right its have to get past their tone of motivation.  If there is no Love in what we do we are nothing. 1 Corinthians 13 

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-4990715 Thu, 13 Aug 2020 20:00:00 -0400 1439 love, Spiritual gifts, 1 16 full false Eating and Serving Fish Eating and Serving Fish Intro/ opening Thank you for listening we are moving on from the political and back to seeing God in our everyday.

 

Segment 1: Father’s day 

 

Segment 2: Feeding of the 5000.  We all know the story but what is the lesson and who is it for and where is the application for today? Let’s look at v5ff .  The there is something to learn here because Jesus said it will be on the test.  Of you faith when in leadership.  

I was talking in text to a pastor friend I have in Kenya.  He was sharing with the hardship they are having right now because of the government lock down because of the COVID19.  He said people can only go out of their homes if they have masks, and they cannot have more than 10 people together.  He said you in America are blessed because you have TV and internet in every home so you can send the service to the people and everyone has the Bible and can read.  So my friend looked up and saw that the people were hungry not for food but for the word of God.  So he was asked the question.v5

Read on about the lack of money and the boy.v9

Closing : Former NFL player Marquette King Punter played for Oakland and Denver.  Organized a clean up Phoenix where about 15 people white and black young and old hit the streets to clean up after the protests turned destructive.  He said on Twitter “It’s ok to be different! I choose to make an impact in showing love n peace.  Make a difference but be smart and calculated.”

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]]> Intro/ opening Thank you for listening we are moving on from the political and back to seeing God in our everyday.

 

Segment 1: Father’s day 

 

Segment 2: Feeding of the 5000.  We all know the story but what is the lesson and who is it for and where is the application for today? Let’s look at v5ff .  The there is something to learn here because Jesus said it will be on the test.  Of you faith when in leadership.  

I was talking in text to a pastor friend I have in Kenya.  He was sharing with the hardship they are having right now because of the government lock down because of the COVID19.  He said people can only go out of their homes if they have masks, and they cannot have more than 10 people together.  He said you in America are blessed because you have TV and internet in every home so you can send the service to the people and everyone has the Bible and can read.  So my friend looked up and saw that the people were hungry not for food but for the word of God.  So he was asked the question.v5

Read on about the lack of money and the boy.v9

Closing : Former NFL player Marquette King Punter played for Oakland and Denver.  Organized a clean up Phoenix where about 15 people white and black young and old hit the streets to clean up after the protests turned destructive.  He said on Twitter “It’s ok to be different! I choose to make an impact in showing love n peace.  Make a difference but be smart and calculated.”

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-4286000 Tue, 23 Jun 2020 10:00:00 -0400 1827 Serving, Jesus, 1 15 full false Abuse and Racism is a Sin Abuse and Racism is a Sin We look at the events around George Floyd's death.  What should we be looking to change and defend.

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]]> We look at the events around George Floyd's death.  What should we be looking to change and defend.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-4139447 Thu, 11 Jun 2020 18:00:00 -0400 1669 Abuse, Racism, God's Love 1 14 full false Fear Part 2 Worship with Ben Horne Fear Part 2 Worship with Ben Horne Building on last weeks episode we talk about fear.  My good friend Ben and I talk about the importance of Worship in the lives of every believer and as a by product fear is cast out.  I hope you enjoy this conversation and it encourages you to become daily worshipers. 

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]]> Building on last weeks episode we talk about fear.  My good friend Ben and I talk about the importance of Worship in the lives of every believer and as a by product fear is cast out.  I hope you enjoy this conversation and it encourages you to become daily worshipers. 

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-4066766 Sat, 06 Jun 2020 15:00:00 -0400 1822 Fear, Worship, Covid19 1 14 full false Fear Part 1 Fear Part 1 What is fear, and why does it seem to be everywhere.
1.       Webster defines fear:  an unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger: profound reverence and awe especially toward God
2.       What does the bible say about Fear: Fear is a natural and, in its purpose, beneficent feeling, arising in the presence or anticipation of danger, and moving to its avoidance; it is also awakened in the presence of superiors and of striking manifestations of power, etc., taking the form of awe or reverence.
3.       An article in Psychology Today by Theo Tsaousides Ph.D. is a neuropsychologist and the author of the book Brainblocks: Overcoming the Seven Hidden Barriers to Success. Says FEAR can be uncomfortable and crippling, but eliminating it would be like shutting your home alarm system because it makes an irritating noise.
a.       Fear is Healthy: It is a natural chemical or electrical response in your brain to give you a heighten sense of what is going on.
i.      Fear can help you from doing something really stupid : Proverbs 14:27 ESV / The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death.                  ii.      Fear can inspire you to search deeper into something you don’t understand. Psalm 111: 10: The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. His praise endures forever!         iii.      Revelation 1:17 ESV When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead. But he laid his right hand on me, saying, “Fear not, I am the first and the last,"
b.       Fear comes in many shades: Fear can range from mild to paralyzing:
i.      Mild might be a simple as not wanting to go on a roller coaster, or sticking your hand into a dark hole not knowing what was on the other side.                                                        ii.      Paralyzing to not wanting to get out of bed because you are going to die from the virus. iii.      Psalm 56:3-4 ESV When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?                                      iv.      1 Peter 5:7 ESV  Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
v.      Psalm 27:1 ESV Of David. The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?c.       Fear is not automatic: Fear is part instinct, part learned, part survival. i.      Psalm 112:7-8 ESV He is not afraid of bad news; his heart is firm, trusting in the Lord. His heart is steady; he will not be afraid, until he looks in triumph on his adversaries.
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]]> What is fear, and why does it seem to be everywhere.
1.       Webster defines fear:  an unpleasant often strong emotion caused by anticipation or awareness of danger: profound reverence and awe especially toward God
2.       What does the bible say about Fear: Fear is a natural and, in its purpose, beneficent feeling, arising in the presence or anticipation of danger, and moving to its avoidance; it is also awakened in the presence of superiors and of striking manifestations of power, etc., taking the form of awe or reverence.
3.       An article in Psychology Today by Theo Tsaousides Ph.D. is a neuropsychologist and the author of the book Brainblocks: Overcoming the Seven Hidden Barriers to Success. Says FEAR can be uncomfortable and crippling, but eliminating it would be like shutting your home alarm system because it makes an irritating noise.
a.       Fear is Healthy: It is a natural chemical or electrical response in your brain to give you a heighten sense of what is going on.
i.      Fear can help you from doing something really stupid : Proverbs 14:27 ESV / The fear of the Lord is a fountain of life, that one may turn away from the snares of death.                  ii.      Fear can inspire you to search deeper into something you don’t understand. Psalm 111: 10: The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all those who practice it have a good understanding. His praise endures forever!         iii.      Revelation 1:17 ESV When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead. But he laid his right hand on me, saying, “Fear not, I am the first and the last,"
b.       Fear comes in many shades: Fear can range from mild to paralyzing:
i.      Mild might be a simple as not wanting to go on a roller coaster, or sticking your hand into a dark hole not knowing what was on the other side.                                                        ii.      Paralyzing to not wanting to get out of bed because you are going to die from the virus. iii.      Psalm 56:3-4 ESV When I am afraid, I put my trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can flesh do to me?                                      iv.      1 Peter 5:7 ESV  Casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
v.      Psalm 27:1 ESV Of David. The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?c.       Fear is not automatic: Fear is part instinct, part learned, part survival. i.      Psalm 112:7-8 ESV He is not afraid of bad news; his heart is firm, trusting in the Lord. His heart is steady; he will not be afraid, until he looks in triumph on his adversaries.
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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3943169 Wed, 27 May 2020 20:00:00 -0400 2336 christian hope, fear, God, grace 1 13 full false Serving Those With Great Need w/ Pastor Steve Nairobi Kenya Serving Those With Great Need w/ Pastor Steve Nairobi Kenya Pastor Steve’s FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/stephen.mbugua.10297

Faith Evangelistic Ministry Korogocho FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/www.faithrescuenetwork.org

 

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]]> Pastor Steve’s FaceBook: https://www.facebook.com/stephen.mbugua.10297

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3639703 Tue, 05 May 2020 23:00:00 -0400 1906 CoronaVirus, Nairobi, Kenya 1 13 full false Check Your Attitude Check Your Attitude Intro/ Welcome

Segment 1: Don’t let your circumstances affect your attitude.  

1.       Colossians 3:23

2.       Philippians 2:14

Segment 2: What are you going to do during this time of upheaval? 

1.       Sir Isaac Newton “Year of Wonders”

2.       Eleanor Abbott inventor of Candy Land board game.

Segment 3: 

1.       Love your Neighbor.

 

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]]> Intro/ Welcome

Segment 1: Don’t let your circumstances affect your attitude.  

1.       Colossians 3:23

2.       Philippians 2:14

Segment 2: What are you going to do during this time of upheaval? 

1.       Sir Isaac Newton “Year of Wonders”

2.       Eleanor Abbott inventor of Candy Land board game.

Segment 3: 

1.       Love your Neighbor.

 

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3472345 Thu, 23 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400 1955 Christian, Attitude, Candyland 1 13 full false Hope in the Good and Bad Times Hope in the Good and Bad Times This weeks Episode focuses the Hope of God in the Good things that people are doing and some of the bad things that are happening in our world.

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]]> This weeks Episode focuses the Hope of God in the Good things that people are doing and some of the bad things that are happening in our world.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3409705 Sat, 18 Apr 2020 14:00:00 -0400 2114 Thank you, Hope, Good Things 1 12 full false Hearing a Whisper (Special Guest, My Wife Becky) Hearing a Whisper (Special Guest, My Wife Becky) This week I am inspired by my Pastor Carlos Castillo of Connection Church about "Hearing God Whisper" during this time dealing with the Corona Virus.
My special guest Becky and I look at the passage 1 Kings 19:11-12

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]]> This week I am inspired by my Pastor Carlos Castillo of Connection Church about "Hearing God Whisper" during this time dealing with the Corona Virus.
My special guest Becky and I look at the passage 1 Kings 19:11-12

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]]> Dan/ Becky Buzzsprout-3307768 Thu, 09 Apr 2020 21:00:00 -0400 2640 Christian hope, hearing God 1 11 full false The Rock, The Light, and Bethlehem The Rock, The Light, and Bethlehem We make a visit to an amazing light house in York Maine and visit a Maple tree farm in New Hampshire.  

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]]> We make a visit to an amazing light house in York Maine and visit a Maple tree farm in New Hampshire.  

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3127819 Thu, 26 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400 1919 lighthouse, maple syrup, standing on the rock. 1 10 full false Special Edition Covid 19 March 20 update Special Edition Covid 19 March 20 update Hello everyone, I wanted to do a update to my Corona Virus podcast earlier this month.

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]]> Hello everyone, I wanted to do a update to my Corona Virus podcast earlier this month.

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-3076369 Sat, 21 Mar 2020 14:00:00 -0400 1207 Covid19, Coronavirus 1 bonus false The Rabbit Hole The Rabbit Hole Intro/Opening: Today we Look for God while chasing a rabbit, and learn the benefit of discipline from Bamboo and a Pine Tree.

Segment 1: Why I love movies.  Jojo rabbit the movie who, what, and when.

A.      A boy being raised where “the hero” is an evil person. Eph. 2:2

B.      The demonizing of the Jews.  Acts 16:18-23

C.       The realization that your “hero” is not your friend and the battle between the two. 
Col. 3:5-7.

D.      Salvation is for all, even Nazi boys. Rom. 10:8-13

Last thought on the movie it is worth a watch, I don’t believe that the director was trying to bring out these truths in the movie, but as I have said before God is everywhere and if you look for Him he will reveal Himself to you because Truth is Truth.

Closing : Pine trees and bamboo tells us about discipline.

A.      Proverbs 5:23

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]]> Intro/Opening: Today we Look for God while chasing a rabbit, and learn the benefit of discipline from Bamboo and a Pine Tree.

Segment 1: Why I love movies.  Jojo rabbit the movie who, what, and when.

A.      A boy being raised where “the hero” is an evil person. Eph. 2:2

B.      The demonizing of the Jews.  Acts 16:18-23

C.       The realization that your “hero” is not your friend and the battle between the two. 
Col. 3:5-7.

D.      Salvation is for all, even Nazi boys. Rom. 10:8-13

Last thought on the movie it is worth a watch, I don’t believe that the director was trying to bring out these truths in the movie, but as I have said before God is everywhere and if you look for Him he will reveal Himself to you because Truth is Truth.

Closing : Pine trees and bamboo tells us about discipline.

A.      Proverbs 5:23

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2978974 Wed, 11 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400 2043 Jojo Rabbit, discipline, Christianity 1 8 full false The Sky is Falling,(not Really) Corona Virus, Rich Mullins The Sky is Falling,(not Really) Corona Virus, Rich Mullins Talk about how to see God in dealing with the Corona Virus.  The life and music of Rich Mullins.

www.worldmeters.info/coronavirus
World Health Organization director Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus " Stigma, to be honest, is more dangerous than the virus itself.  Fear and panic are dangerous." "It's fine to be concerned and worried, but let's calm down and do the right things." San Diego Union-Times

Rich Mullins: What Susan Said from The World as Best I Remember It, Vol. 2
Rich Mullins: Creed From A Liturgy, A Legacy & A Ragamuffin Band

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]]> Talk about how to see God in dealing with the Corona Virus.  The life and music of Rich Mullins.

www.worldmeters.info/coronavirus
World Health Organization director Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus " Stigma, to be honest, is more dangerous than the virus itself.  Fear and panic are dangerous." "It's fine to be concerned and worried, but let's calm down and do the right things." San Diego Union-Times

Rich Mullins: What Susan Said from The World as Best I Remember It, Vol. 2
Rich Mullins: Creed From A Liturgy, A Legacy & A Ragamuffin Band

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2921992 Thu, 05 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0500 1930 Corona Virus, Christian, Rich Mullins 1 7 full false Beautiful Guatemala and the Daytona 500 Beautiful Guatemala and the Daytona 500 I recap my trip to Guatemala and what an incredible ending to the Daytona 500.
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]]> I recap my trip to Guatemala and what an incredible ending to the Daytona 500.
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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2801986 Thu, 20 Feb 2020 23:00:00 -0500 1666 Christian, Guatemala, Daytona 500 1 6 full false Surprise at the Oscars, and Rejoicing at a Skin Disease Surprise at the Oscars, and Rejoicing at a Skin Disease We chat about Christian movies and the Oscars and how a skin disease brings joy.

"I'm standing with you" from Breakthrough : https://youtu.be/xE2s1pQcADM

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]]> We chat about Christian movies and the Oscars and how a skin disease brings joy.

"I'm standing with you" from Breakthrough : https://youtu.be/xE2s1pQcADM

Just a quick update I have been saying the email wrong!!!!
The right email is seeinggodintheeveryday@gmail.com

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2739718 Thu, 13 Feb 2020 21:00:00 -0500 1530 Christian Movies, The Oscars 1 5 full false Seeing God during the Super Bowl Seeing God during the Super Bowl Fix the World – Snickers https://youtu.be/dKGgKGS2VCQ

Groundhog Day – Jeep https://youtu.be/AnhzGUcENWo

Loretta – Google https://youtu.be/6xSxXiHwMrg

Love Takes Action- New York Life Insurance https://youtu.be/-3LTR32dMgI

 

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”
 ― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

 

Closing: Memories not photos.  https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/mike-kerrigan-family-photos-trump-family-memories

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Groundhog Day – Jeep https://youtu.be/AnhzGUcENWo

Loretta – Google https://youtu.be/6xSxXiHwMrg

Love Takes Action- New York Life Insurance https://youtu.be/-3LTR32dMgI

 

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact you must give it to no one, not even an animal. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements. Lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket, safe, dark, motionless, airless, it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable. To love is to be vulnerable.”
 ― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves

 

Closing: Memories not photos.  https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/mike-kerrigan-family-photos-trump-family-memories

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2604205 Tue, 28 Jan 2020 18:00:00 -0500 1662 Iran riots, Toby Mac, christian, 1 2 full false Welcome to the Podcast, 2019 Year in Review. Welcome to the Podcast, 2019 Year in Review. Hi, everyone. I am so excited to start my Podcast.  This episode I share why and how the podcast began, plus I will be talking about the top events of 2019.  

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]]> Dan Buzzsprout-2604169 Tue, 28 Jan 2020 18:00:00 -0500 2372 year in review, 2019, christian, Tiger Woods 1 1 full false Introduction to Seeing God in the Everyday with Dan James Introduction to Seeing God in the Everyday with Dan James Welcome to, Seeing God in the Everyday with Dan James.  Learn about Dan and what Seeing God in the Everyday podcast is all about.

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