Blended Kingdom Families Podcast

Our Final Goodbye: When God Calls a Season to End

Mon, 12 Jan 2026 03:00:00 -0600

Six years ago, we felt God's call to help blended families discover their true kingdom identity and live abundantly in Christ. We believed that when families are rooted in the truth of God's word, they don't just survive, they thrive. We wanted to create a space where blended families could find practical tools, biblical truth, and a community that understood the unique journey of blending. What we didn't expect was how much you would give us in return.

After much prayer and seeking the Lord's heart, we feel His gentle, clear release from actively carrying Blended Kingdom Families forward. God's assignments have seasons, and our season of leading this ministry has reached its completion. This is about walking forward in obedience to where He's leading us next.

Blended Kingdom Families has never truly been ours, it's always been His. From the very beginning, this has been God's ministry, and we have simply had the profound honor of stewarding it. Every breakthrough, every transformation, every marriage that chose to stay and fight, that's been the Lord's work. We were just privileged to witness it.

You have been one of the greatest blessings of our lives. Every vulnerable conversation, every time you trusted us with your story, those moments have been sacred to us. You have shaped who we are as people, as a couple, and as a family.

The mission of Blended Kingdom Families doesn't end here. The true fruit of this ministry is lived out in your homes, in your marriages, in how you parent and stepparent. Every time you choose your marriage when it's difficult, every time you extend grace to a bonus child, that's the legacy of BKF continuing.

While we're no longer actively operating the ministry, our books remain on Amazon, podcast episodes are still accessible on all platforms, and resources are there for anyone who needs them. The need for blended family support hasn't gone away, and we trust God will continue to raise up new voices and communities.

Our prayer is that you keep going. That when it gets hard, you remember you're not alone. That you keep choosing your marriage, keep showing up for your kids and bonus kids, keep believing God can redeem and restore what's been broken.

Thank you for walking this journey with us. We're cheering for you. We're praying for you. And we believe the best is still ahead for your families.

Be blessed in all that you do.

Scott & Vanessa

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New Year Tips: Trusting God's Timing

Mon, 29 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

Happy New Years from Blended Kingdom Families!

In this New Year reflection episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale invite listeners to pause, reflect, and trust God’s timing after a year that may not have gone as planned.

They talk openly about unmet expectations, waiting seasons, disappointment, and the human tendency to control outcomes instead of surrendering them to God. Through Scripture, personal testimony, and encouragement, Scott and Vanessa remind families that delays are not denials and that God is always working, even when we cannot see it.

The conversation encourages listeners to release regret, relinquish control, and enter the new year with faith, peace, and expectancy. They also discuss the value of choosing a word for the year as a spiritual anchor and how reflection and gratitude help realign hearts with God’s purpose.

This episode offers hope and clarity for anyone stepping into a new season and longing to trust God more deeply.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Finding Joy and Hope in a Stressful Holiday Season

Mon, 22 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this special Christmas episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the true meaning of Christmas and how families can experience joy and hope even during stressful seasons of life.

They discuss how blended family dynamics, busy schedules, grief, and unresolved relationships can make the holidays challenging, yet remind listeners that the birth of Jesus brings good news of great joy for all people. Using scripture from Luke 2 and Romans 15, Scott and Vanessa encourage families to pause, reflect, forgive, and choose gratitude as they close out the year.

This episode offers practical ways to keep Christ at the center of Christmas through prayer, reflection, family traditions, and meaningful conversations. Listeners are invited to end the year well and enter the next season with renewed faith, hope, and joy.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The Danger of Not Setting Boundaries With Family

Mon, 15 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa dive into one of the most requested and challenging topics in blended families: setting boundaries with extended family, adult children, and in laws, especially during the holiday season.

Using real life coaching examples and personal stories, they explain why boundaries are essential for healthy family dynamics, how boundaries without consequences lose their power, and why couples must first get on the same page before addressing outside relationships.

Scott and Vanessa discuss common holiday stressors, blended family tension, adult children navigating independence, and how to protect the peace of your home without guilt or fear. They also share practical steps for communicating boundaries respectfully, following through consistently, and maintaining compassion while standing firm. Biblical wisdom from Matthew 18 guides the conversation, reminding listeners that healthy conflict resolution and mutual respect are key to thriving families.

This episode is essential listening for any couple feeling overwhelmed, disrespected, or uncertain how to address ongoing family tension.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The Gift of Parenthood and the Benefits of Presence Over Perfection

Mon, 08 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk honestly about the gift of parenthood, the challenges and joys of raising children, and the powerful ways parenting reflects the heart of God and how He loves and leads us.

They discuss how every stage of parenting brings lessons, growth, and opportunities to surrender control to the Lord. From toddlerhood to the teenage years to adult children, Scott and Vanessa unpack the beauty, struggle, refinement, and reward of raising kids well.

Listeners will hear encouragement on how to let go of guilt, embrace God’s grace, resist comparison, and focus on presence over perfection. The episode also highlights the role of co-parents and step-parents, reminding them that they have a vital and God-given place in their children’s lives.

This conversation provides hope, perspective, and truth for all parent and especially those who feels overwhelmed, discouraged, or unsure if they are doing enough.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The Truth About Coaching vs Therapy in Blended Families

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco explain the clear differences between coaching and therapy and why blended families often need both at different stages of their journey.

They discuss what coaching can accomplish, what therapy is required for, and why understanding the distinction is essential for couples, step-parents, and co-parents. Vanessa and Dan share real experiences from working with families who face step-parenting tension, high conflict co-parenting, trauma, anxiety, depression, and communication breakdowns.

Listeners will learn how coaching helps families create goals, build structure, strengthen communication, and form healthy boundaries, while therapy is needed for deeper emotional work such as trauma, severe anxiety, depression, past wounds and exploring mental health challenges impacting the present.

This episode clarifies how each method equips families to grow, heal, and build stronger, healthier homes with God at the center.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Stay Thankful During the Holiday Season In A Blended Family

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this Thanksgiving week episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale shares an encouraging message on the power of gratitude during the holiday season, especially important for blended families navigating holiday transitions, co-parenting challenges, grief, or unmet expectations.

Through Scripture, practical examples, and personal reflection, Vanessa explains how gratitude shifts our perspective, softens our hearts, strengthens relationships, and invites the peace of God into every circumstance. She offers simple practices to cultivate gratitude, along with reflection questions to help families reconnect with God and one another during the holiday season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

When Your Kids Become Idols and What to Do About It

Mon, 17 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa Martindale and Dr. Dan Ennaco discuss one of the most convicting topics for Christian parents, what happens when we unintentionally place our children above God.

Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they explore how parents can idolize their kids through sports, academics, or even family schedules, and how this shift can slowly pull families away from faith and obedience to God.

You will hear practical advice on how to realign your heart, model obedience for your children, and keep Christ at the center of your home.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Leading with Integrity: Godly Leadership in Your Home and Everyday Life

Mon, 03 Nov 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale explore what true leadership looks like, inside and outside your home.

They discuss how godly leadership begins with integrity, humility, and consistency, and how being a servant leader means prioritizing the growth and well-being of others. From managing your home with grace to leading your family through example, this episode will inspire you to lead like Christ, with love, strength, and purpose.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Different Parenting Styles? How to Parent in Unity in Marriage and Blended Family Life

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle one of the most common struggles couples face: parenting differences.

They discuss how to parent as a united team even when you disagree on discipline, routines, or expectations. With wisdom from counseling and coaching blended families, they share practical ways to find alignment, communicate effectively, and build a marriage rooted in God’s truth and grace.

Learn how to effectively handle disagreements about discipline, create a parenting plan, and stay connected as a couple through every parenting season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Raising Godly Sons with Purpose: Building Faith, Character & Courage

Mon, 20 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martingale discuss the sacred calling of raising godly sons in today’s world.

They discuss the biblical role of fathers and mothers, including single moms, in shaping boys into godly men of strength, humility, and integrity. Discover how to instill discipline, accountability, and a love for God’s Word while creating a home that models truth and faith.

Whether you’re a dad striving to lead your family well or a mom guiding your son with prayer and wisdom, this conversation will encourage and equip you to raise sons who stand firm in Christ.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Support Your Spouse God’s Way: Build a Strong Marriage Today

Mon, 13 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa share biblical and practical ways husbands and wives can support one another emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Learn how to listen without judgment, show appreciation, prioritize quality time, and build deeper intimacy God’s way.

Whether you’re newly married or blending a family, this episode will help you strengthen your relationship, honor your spouse, and create a marriage rooted in faith and love.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Work-Life Balance God’s Way: Prioritizing Marriage & Family in a Busy World

Mon, 06 Oct 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Is your marriage, family, or faith taking a back seat to your career or busy schedule? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott & Vanessa Martindale share practical, faith-filled strategies to create healthy work-life balance.

Discover how to:
Set boundaries between work and family life
Prioritize your spouse and children without guilt
Say “no” to good things so you can say “yes” to God’s best
Create intentional time for marriage, family, and faith
Avoid burnout and live in God’s will for your family

According to studies, prioritizing family increases joy, health, and overall well-being. Scott and Vanessa remind us that your blended family has a 100% chance of success when you do it God’s way.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections

Mon, 29 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0500

The relationship between a stepparent and their stepchildren can be complicated and complex because there are so many factors at play. Sometimes, those dynamics can delay or derail step-parent/stepchild bonding.

In this episode, How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Scott and Vanessa talk about the role step parents play in creating a solid bond with their stepchild; they also offer suggestions for nurturing and growing those relationships.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting is a Team Sport

Mon, 22 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0500

As we continue to relive our top episodes of all time, this week we discuss co-parenting in episode titled, Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting is a Team Sport. As co-parents, it is possible to experience peace and unity as we work together for the well-being of our children. This podcast is for you if you are seeking to improve your co-parenting relationship or trying to establish a healthy dynamic with your ex-spouse. This month's podcast series focuses on co-parenting and how the relationship between you and your ex-spouse can affect your children.

We will discuss three major factors: communication, discipline, and finances. We also share how prayer and obedience to God's word can equip you in your efforts to parent together peacefully.

If you are looking for more episodes on co-parenting or blended family relationships, you can find us on all major podcast platforms. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Blending Your Bunch: Putting the ‘Fun’ in Dysfunctional

Mon, 15 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0500

How do you and your blended family put the 'fun' in dysfunction? We know that blending can be difficult, but you and your family can find ways to overcome the trials of transitioning into blended family life. This podcast is for you if you are seeking strategies for finding fun in seasons of dysfunction or you want to overcome expectations for blending.

This week's episode is all about expectations and dysfunction in blended families. We share ideas for fun activities to do as a family that can help overcome dysfunction and build relationships, explain how expectations can cause additional stress to the blending process, and offer encouragement for overcoming both dysfunction and expectations with God's guidance.

We're so excited to share the last installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the previous episodes of this series, you can listen now. You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com.

Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: What is Your Parenting Perspective?

Mon, 08 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode, Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: What is Your Parenting Perspective?, we discuss the effects that our attitudes have on the way we parent and co-parent, and the influence of comparison in our relationships with those around us. We will also share some practical strategies for overcoming a negative attitude and overcoming a spirit of comparison.

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken

Mon, 01 Sep 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode we revisit an incredible episode full of Godly wisdom for your blended family; Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken. In this episode we discuss the term “broken home” and the importance of removing the phrase from our vocabulary. When our families are built on the foundation of Jesus Christ, they cannot be broken. Whatever is in your past does not hinder you from experiencing the blessings that God has in store for your blended family.

Whether you are new to blended family life, beginning to blend or are in any way impacted or influenced by blended family issues, this episode is for you!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blending Your Bunch: How Kids Spell Love — Why TIME Matters Most in Parenting & Stepfamilies

Mon, 25 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Do your children spell love the same way you do?

For most kids, LOVE = T-I-M-E.

In this episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we revisit a top series - Blending Your Bunch, and unpack the powerful connection between time and love in parenting and step-parenting.

Whether you’re looking for practical ways to spend more intentional time with your kids, or you’re a stepparent seeking strategies to strengthen bonds with your stepchildren, this conversation is for you.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:

- Why children interpret love as time spent with them

- Simple, intentional ways to maximize time with your kids

- How to balance busy schedules while still prioritizing family

- Biblical encouragement on being prayerful, patient, and persistent in your parenting journey

We pray this episode blesses you today

Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: How to Have a God-Centered Marriage

Mon, 18 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Marriage works best when our priorities are in the right order: God first, spouse second, children third; but living that out isn’t always easy, especially in a blended family.

In this first episode of our 4-part series from our book, Blended & Redeemed, Scott and Vanessa share biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you build (or rebuild) a God-centered marriage that thrives.

Whether you’re:
Engaged or newly married and ready to start strong
Remarried and determined to do things God’s way
In a blended family navigating complex priorities
Or wanting to renew your marriage after challenges, this episode will give you hope, clarity, and action steps.

We’ll cover:
How to set priorities for a healthy, God-centered marriage
The role and benefits of premarital counseling
The unique challenges of rearranging priorities in blended families
Why modeling a healthy marriage can help your children heal

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The False Promise of Inner Vows: Self-Proclaimed Promises

Mon, 11 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Are you unknowingly living by a promise you made to protect yourself from past pain?
In this powerful episode from our Blended & Redeemed book teaching series, Scott and Vanessa Martindale unpack the destructive impact of inner vows, those silent promises we make to ourselves that shape our actions, relationships, and faith.

You'll learn:
What inner vows are and how they form
How they can go unnoticed for years
Real-life examples of inner vows in marriage and family
How to surrender inner vows to God for true healing

Whether you're preparing for marriage or navigating challenges in your blended family, this episode will help you identify and break free from inner vows so you can build stronger, Christ-centered relationships.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blending Your Bunch: The Stepparent Name Game

Mon, 04 Aug 2025 03:00:00 -0500

How did you navigate the Stepparent Name Game in your blended family? We know there is a lot to consider when it comes to this part of the blending journey. This podcast is for you if you, your spouse, and your co-parents are struggling with Stepparent Names or if you are unsure of how to approach the subject with your children.

A question we receive frequently is: What should a child call their stepparent?

In this episode we share why we feel that it is important for children to have input in naming their stepparent and provide strategies for bio and stepparents to support and find peace in your child's decision. We're so excited to share the third installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the first two episodes of this series, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel, or listen to them on any podcast streaming platform!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blending Your Bunch: Different Types of Love in Your Blended Family

Mon, 28 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Biblical Priorities in Your Blended Family

Mon, 21 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family podcast episodes! Living blended their entire lives, Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first hand both the joys and difficulties of living blended. After coming out of one of the hardest seasons of their life, God asked them to partner with Him, in building Blended Kingdom Families everywhere. This has now birthed a ministry that desires to help others in remarriage and cultivate community among blended families.

Today Scott and Vanessa share biblical truths in how you can establish the right priorities in your blended family. How do you prioritize God, your marriage, your children, and everything else in between? When your priorities are in line, the dynamics of your blended family will drastically change for the better!

Thanks for watching and we look forward to walking with you on your blended family journey!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Triggered Parenting Transformed with Special Guest Wendy Speake

Mon, 14 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0500

What triggers you and how do you respond when it happens? Triggers are real, and they are tough to manage, but they do not have to define you! Join us as we continue to relive our top Blended Kingdom Family Podcast episodes!

In this powerful episode, we’re joined by author Wendy Speake to unpack what it looks like to face triggers head-on, especially in parenting and blended families. Together, we explore practical strategies for breaking the cycle of reactive behavior and embracing God’s redemptive grace in the hardest moments.

Wendy Speake is a mother, host of the 40 Day Sugar Fast, and co-author of the book Triggers. She brings wisdom, warmth, and real-life stories to this honest conversation. If you’ve ever wished you could rewrite your response to triggers, this episode is for you!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: Healthy Parental Influence

Mon, 07 Jul 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they revisit one of the most impactful episodes of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. In this must-listen conversation they explore how parental behavior shapes the emotional, spiritual and relational development of children in blended families.

Whether you are a stepparent, co-parent or navigating a new season of remarriage, this episode dives into how your daily actions influence your child's understanding of love, conflict, marriage, and grace. Kids are always watching and what they see becomes part of who they become. Discover how to model intentional parenting lead with compassion and reflect Christ in your blended family journey.

Key topics include healthy parental influence in stepfamilies, the silent power of role modeling, teaching grace, kindness, and love by example, why your kids future relationships depend on what they see today and more!

Want to learn more practical tips and strategies to help your blended family thrive? Order a copy of Blended and Redeemed today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Facing New Family Challenges Together: Working Through Child Manipulation

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0500

We continue to relive our top BKF episode and in this week’s episode, we look at Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation behaviors. We discuss strategies for recovering from such behaviors as well as sharing steps toward building a better, healthier co-parenting relationship.

The pain of divorce can cause us to speak and act in ways that we never would have expected and can negatively impact our children. Examining our hearts on a daily basis can help us to overcome any spirit of fear that may cause us to behave in unhealthy ways. You can find more episodes about Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation on our YouTube channel or search "blended kingdom families podcast" on any streaming platform. Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which is available NOW! Order your copy today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation with Special Guest Dr. Les Carter

Mon, 23 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to relive this top episode, “Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation”, with Dr. Les Carter. Dr. Carter is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me".

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

- How to handle a narcissistic ex-spouse

- What child manipulation looks like

- Teaching your child to know the essence of love

- Parent alienation

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blended & Redeemed: Blended Families, God’s Redemption

Mon, 16 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0500

As we continue celebrating 5 years and over 270 episodes of the BKF Podcast, we’re revisiting the most powerful, hope-filled conversations we’ve shared with you!

In this week’s top episode, we discuss blended families as a beautiful example of God’s redeeming power. Everything we bring with us into our blending journey - pain, fear, anger, resentment, expectations - can be revealed and healed by our Heavenly Father if we surrender it into His hands. The fire you and your family may be walking through is no match for God’s power and love. He can lead you out of any wilderness season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Biological Parent and Stepparent Relationships: Comparison & Competition Between Biological Parent and Stepparent

Mon, 09 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Join us as we relive our top BKF episodes of all time! Up first, Rachel Scott joins us on the podcast for a discussion about biological and stepparent relationships. She joins Scott and Vanessa to talk about the problem of comparison and competition and the reasons those traps surface, particularly for women. They talk about the value of humility and empathy in the biological parent/stepparent relationship and offer suggestions for better interactions.

To learn more about Rachel Scott visit:
Website: www.rachelgscott.com
Instagram URL: iamrachelgscott
Facebook URL: iamrachelgscott

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Unified Parenting in Blended Families

Mon, 02 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Struggling to get on the same page with parenting in your blended family? You're not alone. In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale share practical, biblical advice for couples who feel divided when it comes to parenting and discipline. This episode will help you learn practical skills to protect your marriage, raise confident kids, and bring peace back into your home.

Key points discussed:

What to do when your parenting styles clash

How to build a unified plan with your spouse

Discipline strategies that actually work

How to avoid putting kids before your marriage

When to get help and why it's worth it

We pray this episode blesses you today!

What to Do When Step-Grandparents Reject Your Kids

Mon, 26 May 2025 03:00:00 -0500

What do you do when step-grandparents treat your kids like outsiders? On this week’s episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale answer a raw and emotional listener question: "What to do when step grandparents do not include my kids as their grandchildren?"

They unpack the hurt, offer biblical perspectives, and provide real strategies for setting boundaries, fostering healthy communication, and seeking lasting healing. Whether you're dealing with favoritism, awkward family dynamics, or outright rejection, this episode will guide you toward peace and protection for your kids.

In this episode you will learn about:

- Boundaries that protect

- What inclusion should look like

- Why empathy matters

- When it’s time for counseling

- The role your spouse must play

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Fight for Your Marriage and Build a Lasting Legacy Today

Mon, 19 May 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale welcome marriage coaches and high school sweethearts Chad and Megan Lacefield, hosts of the Built for Two podcast. With over 30 years of marriage experience, they open up about the reality of fighting for your marriage, not against it, and what it really takes to leave a godly legacy.

From learning selflessness and setting “fight rules” to raising adult children and enjoying their role as grandparents, Chad and Megan share real stories, raw wisdom, and biblical truth. They discuss how humor, humility, confession, and grace have sustained them through decades of challenges and victories.

Whether you're newly married, parenting in a blended family, or facing conflict in your relationship, this episode will give you practical tools, spiritual insight, and hope for the journey ahead.

Topics Covered:
- How to fight with your spouse, not against them
- Building legacy through everyday choices
- Healthy conflict resolution with “fight rules”
- Why laughter and fun matter in marriage
- Parenting your grandkids' parents
- God’s redemption in messy family stories

To learn more about Chad and Megan please visit: https://builtfortwo.com

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How Quality Time Strengthens Blended Families

Mon, 12 May 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Do your kids or step-kids feel distant or disconnected? In this episode, we unpack why one-on-one quality time is a powerful tool for building deep relationships in blended families. Whether you're a stepparent or biological parent, learning how to connect with each child individually helps them feel safe, seen, and secure. We share real life tips, biblical wisdom, and personal stories that highlight how intentional time creates trust, helps kids open- up emotionally, and strengthens the entire blended family unit.

Your blended family has a 100% chance of success when you do it God’s way, and it starts with intentional connection.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

When Family Loyalties Hurt Your Marriage

Mon, 05 May 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In blended families, one of the biggest challenges couples face is divided loyalty—choosing between your spouse and your children or extended family. In this honest and hope-filled episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss the emotional and spiritual toll of misplaced priorities in marriage.

You’ll discover how putting your spouse first—God’s way—can actually strengthen relationships within your blended family. With practical advice grounded in biblical truth, Scott and Vanessa share real-world scenarios that many blended couples face, from dealing with stepchild resentment to navigating holiday expectations with in-laws. They offer tools for setting healthy boundaries, improving communication, and realigning your home with God’s design.

Whether you’re in a new blended marriage or years into the journey, this episode will help you build unity, reduce resentment, and prioritize your relationship in a way that blesses everyone involved.

This episode is for blended couples and families ready to move from surviving to thriving—starting with a stronger marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How God Heals Blended Families with Pastor Brandon Freeman

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this powerful episode, Pastor Brandon Freeman, lead pastor of IMRSN Church, powerful communicator and character coach, shares his heartfelt testimony of how God transformed his blended family through hard conversations and radical obedience to the Holy Spirit. Pastor Brandon shares personal reflections about his blended family and how what began as disconnection has become a story of redemption—all sparked by attending the Blended Family Conference.

What you will discover in this episode:
-Why real transformation starts with personal healing
-How one act of obedience can change your entire family dynamic
-The power of creating a new normal in blended families
-How to let go of pride, pursue unity, and choose peace
- Encouragement for parents struggling with coparenting or estrangement

Pastor Brandon’s story will leave you inspired, challenged, and hopeful—especially if you’re wondering if God can restore and bless your blended family too.

To learn more about Imrsn Church: https://imrsnchurch.com
To follow Pastor Brandon Freeman on social media: at a_yo_free

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Why Date Nights Matter in Blended Families

Mon, 21 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of continuing to date your spouse—even when life gets busy, budgets are tight, and parenting in a blended family adds extra layers.

They share practical tips for creating meaningful connection through date nights, staying emotionally close, and how these moments can deepen physical intimacy and reduce conflict. Whether you're newlyweds or decades in, there's power in intentional time together. They also discuss financial obstacles many blended families face—and how you can still have great date nights without spending a dime.

Tune in for practical tips, encouragement, and biblical truth to help your marriage thrive in a blended family.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blending Families After Loss: How to Trust God in Your Healing

Mon, 14 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Blending a family is hard—but blending with adult children after loss adds a whole new level of emotional depth. In this heartfelt episode, we sit down with Uncover Marriage founders, Shannen Fields Braswell and Anthony Braswell to hear their inspiring faith-driven journey of building a blended family after grief. They walk through what it’s like to blend with adult children while keeping Christ at the center of their marriage and family. Whether your blended family was born from divorce or loss, this episode will give you hope, practical tools, and reassurance that you’re not alone.

Topics We Cover:
- What it’s like blending after the death of a spouse
- Loving your spouse while honoring the past
- Gaining trust from adult stepchildren
- The power of prayer, patience, and consistency
- Letting go of control & letting the Holy Spirit lead
- Why living life afraid is still living in faith

Tune in now for biblical encouragement, real conversations, and grace-filled wisdom for your blended family journey.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Talk to Your Spouse: Marriage Communication Advice That Works

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Communication can make or break a marriage, especially in a blended family. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of effective communication in marriage. Learn how healthy conversations can prevent and resolve conflicts, strengthen trust, and create authentic, lasting bonds between spouses.

Join us as we share real-life strategies and faith based wisdom to help you and your spouse connect on a deeper level. Whether you're navigating coparenting challenges or simply want to build a stronger foundation, these practical communication tips will help your marriage thrive.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
How to communicate effectively in marriage
The role of active listening in conflict resolution
Faith based strategies for stronger communication
Practical tips to strengthen your blended family marriage

Don't miss this transformative episode—tune in now and start building a marriage that thrives!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Faith, Finances & Blended Families: How to Handle Money God’s Way

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Money can be one of the biggest stressors in a blended family, but it doesn’t have to be! In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we dive into faith-based financial wisdom—how to navigate money in marriage, handle financial transparency, and trust God as your provider.

In this episode Scott and Vanessa discuss:
Should blended families have joint or separate accounts?
How to prevent financial conflict in your marriage
Biblical wisdom on money & marriage (Matthew 6:24)
Why budgeting together builds unity
The importance of financial planning for blended families

Don’t let financial stress divide your family! Tune in for practical tips, and biblical encouragement to strengthen your blended family, marriage and financial future. Hit play now and start thriving in your blended family!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Co-Parenting Across 3 States: Navigating Travel, Custody Schedules & Blended Family Challenges

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Co-parenting in one home is challenging—but what happens when you're coordinating custody across three states? In this insightful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with BKF coaches and group leaders, Scott and Lindsay Schmitz, to share their personal journey of co-parenting across multiple states.

From long-distance custody exchanges and time-sharing struggles to practical tips for communication and keeping Christ at the center, this conversation is packed with real-life experiences and faith-based wisdom. Whether you’re navigating co-parenting logistics, seeking encouragement, or looking for co-parenting tips that actually work, this episode will equip you with strategies to strengthen your blended family.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The Benefit of Small Groups and Coaching for Blended Families

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we sit down with BKF group leaders and coaches Scott and Lindsay Schmitz to explore the transformative impact of small groups on blended families. They share their personal experiences in leading small groups, how these communities provide support, and practical steps to start one in your own church or home. They also share personal insights about what it is like serving as BKF coaches. Tune in as we discuss the unique needs of blended families, the power of faith-centered coaching, and how small groups create a space for healing, connection, and growth.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blended Family Bucket List: How to Create Meaningful Memories with Godly Vision

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0500

Have you ever thought about creating a family bucket list? While material goals can be fun, the most meaningful bucket list items focus on cherishing special moments, building lifelong memories, and celebrating blended family milestones together. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Blended Family Bucket List: How to Create Meaningful Memories with Godly Vision, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore how to create and enjoy bucket list experiences that bring your blended family closer — while keeping God at the center.

In this episode you will learn about the importance of family vision and how it connects to your bucket list, why the pursuit of bucket list goals are often more rewarding than the goals themselves, practical steps to thrive in your blended family with intentional experiences and more!

God has equipped you to flourish in marriage and blended family life when He is your foundation. Don’t just dream — start living your family’s God-given vision today! Tune in now and start creating a legacy of faith-filled memories!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Navigating Blended Family Marriage Well: What We Wish We Knew

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 03:00:00 -0600

Building a blended family comes with unique challenges—some we never saw coming! In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale get real about what they wish they had known before blending their family. From step parenting struggles to managing relationships and expectations, why grace and patience are key in blended families and handling unexpected emotions, this episode is full of practical, honest, and faith-based advice to help your blended family thrive. Join us for an insightful conversation filled with hope, wisdom, and encouragement for your blended family journey.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Asking A Pastor Hard Church Questions with Special Guest Pastor Wade Smith

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0600

Can you be a Christian without going to church? Many believers struggle with attending church due to their past, skepticism, or discomfort with church culture. In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale sits down with Pastor Wade Smith to answer your most pressing and difficult church questions. Listen in as they discuss the real reasons people avoid church, how to find authentic community, why your past doesn’t disqualify you from God’s house and more!

What You'll Learn in This Episode:
Why some believers choose not to attend church – and what the Bible says about it
Overcoming church hurt, skepticism, and past struggles
The importance of finding a healthy, Christ-centered church community
Encouragement for blended families and individuals seeking spiritual growth

We pray this episode blesses you today!

God's Blueprint for Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0600

Are gender roles in marriage outdated—or do they hold the key to a thriving relationship? In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, God's Blueprint for Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: The Truth About Gender Roles in Marriage: What the Bible Says, Scott and Vanessa Martindale explore the biblical foundation of marriage, debunk misconceptions about submission, and reveal how embracing God’s design can prevent conflict and divorce. Whether you are newly blended or have been married for years this episode is for you!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Rekindling Intimacy: How to Improve Marriages in Blended Families

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Rekindling Intimacy: How to Improve Marriages in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss the importance of intimacy in marriage—including emotional, physical and spiritual intimacy. They discuss how life’s busyness, especially in blended families, can make it challenging to maintain closeness with your spouse. From the power of date nights to practical ways to strengthen connection, they share insights that will help couples navigate intimacy despite the important responsibilities and obligations blended families experience. If you’re looking for ways to deepen your bond and keep the spark alive, this episode is for you!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Building a Thriving Marriage and Blended Family Through Personal Growth

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Building a Thriving Marriage and Blended Family Through Personal Growth, Scott and Vanessa share insights on personal growth and its transformative impact on marriage and blended families. Discover the power of self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and faith as key ingredients for thriving relationships. Learn practical steps for setting healthy expectations, fostering open communication, and embracing personal development for the sake of your blended family, marriage and future generations. Start your journey toward deeper connections and greater joy in your blended family today.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

New Year, New Word: God’s Plan for Blended Families in 2025

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600

As we close out 2024 and step into 2025, Scott and Vanessa Martindale reflect on the past year's lessons, challenges and how God remained a faithful anchor during challenging times. In this episode of the BKF podcast, they share about the power of seeking God for a “word for the year” through prayer and scripture, and how doing so can provide clarity and direction for your blended family.

Tune in as they discuss the importance of setting meaningful goals, embracing the journey of life with its ups and downs, and finding hope in God’s faithfulness. Whether you're celebrating a successful year or navigating tough seasons, this episode will inspire you to step into 2025 with renewed purpose, faith, and unity as a blended family

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Christmas Hope: God's Transformative Power for Blended Families

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Merry Christmas! Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale for this special Christmas episode, Christmas Hope: God's Transformative Power for Blended Families, as we reflect on the hope we find in Jesus, celebrate the moments of growth and transformation from this past year, and look forward to the promises of God’s continued work in blended families. Whether you’re navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this conversation is filled with encouragement, faith, and practical wisdom.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Top Tips from 20 Years of Successful Blended Family Marriage

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Top Tips from 20 Years of Successful Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Ben and Debbie Kohnle, a happily married couple with nearly 20 years of experience navigating the unique challenges of blended family life. They share valuable insights about prioritizing marriage, raising children with intentionality, keeping faith at the center of family dynamics and more. From building strong co-parenting relationships to the power of setting spiritual and practical goals, Ben and Debbie reveal the keys to their enduring family success. Whether you're just starting your blended family journey or are looking for new strategies, this conversation will inspire and equip you to thrive.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blended Family Challenges & Triumphs: Building a Christ-Centered Home

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Dr. Michael and Tracey Maxwell. Dr. Maxwell is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Tracey is an Independent Health Coach, together they discuss the complexities of blending families, remarriage, parenting, and maintaining a firm foundation centered on Christ.

Discover practical tips for building and maintaining strong family relationships with biological and bonus children, balancing cultural differences, and persevering in the face of family challenges. Whether you're newly blending or an empty nester, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and actionable strategies from the Maxwells, a thriving blended family.

👉 Don’t miss the wisdom-packed advice from experienced parents who share how they overcame challenges and fostered love and unity in their home.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Connect with Tracy and Michael Maxwell:
Learn more about Dr. Michael Maxwell: drmichaeljmaxwell.com
Learn more about Tracy Maxwell on Facebook and Instagram at: sincerelymbs

Building a Christ-Centered Legacy That Lasts for Your Blended Family

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this powerful episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down with Pastor Brandon and Susan Thomas, founders of Keystone Church and authors of A Legacy That Lasts. Together, they explore practical strategies for instilling Godly character in children, modeling resets, and embracing humility by owning mistakes.
Discover how these Christ-centered principles can transform your blended family, strengthen relationships, and create a legacy of faith, love, and purpose that impacts future generations. Whether you're navigating blended family challenges or looking for ways to grow spiritually as a family, this conversation is packed with wisdom and actionable insights to inspire your journey. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn how your family can make a lasting impact for Christ!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Thanksgiving, Gratitude, and God’s Blessings for Blended Families

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this Thanksgiving-inspired episode, we explore how blended families can thrive by embracing gratitude. Discover practical ways to choose thankfulness, reflect Christ's love, and celebrate the blessings God pours out on your blended family. Whether you're navigating challenges or celebrating victories, this episode equips you with encouragement and faith-filled insights to represent Christ in your home. Join us as we uncover how a heart of gratitude transforms relationships, strengthens unity, and leads to thriving as a blended family.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Marriage God’s Way: The 4 Laws for a Lasting, Thriving Relationship

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Whether you’re preparing for marriage, are newlyweds, or have been married for decades, this episode of BKF podcast, Marriage God’s Way: The 4 Laws for a Lasting, Thriving Relationship, is packed with wisdom to help you build a lasting marriage that honors God.

Scott and Vanessa are joined by President and Founder of XO Marriage, Pastor Jimmy Evans, for an inspiring and encouraging conversation about how to do marriage God's way. This episode includes practical conversation about the 4 Laws of Marriage, advice on how to serve your spouse, embrace differences, cultivate a loving, resilient partnership and more! Join us for insights that will guide your blended family journey, and help you create a relationship that reflects God’s purpose and love.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Beating Blended Family Burnout: Overcoming Invisible Mental Loads Together

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600

On this exciting episode of the BKF podcast, Beating Blended Family Burnout: Overcoming the Invisible Mental Load Together, Scott and Vanessa discuss an important topic impacting many marriages and blended families - the invisible mental and emotional load that so many spouses in blended families carry. Join us as we explore what this often-overlooked burden looks like and how it affects your relationships, well-being, and joy at home. We’ll share practical strategies for overcoming burnout, communicating openly, and creating a healthy home environment for your blended family. Discover the power of saying “no” to unnecessary obligations and the freedom that comes with creating space to genuinely enjoy life together. These essential skills will not only help you relieve stress but will also empower your blended family to thrive with a stronger, healthier bond.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

A Stepmom’s Faith-Based Guide to a Thriving Blended Family

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, A Stepmom’s Faith-Based Guide to a Thriving Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by Courtney Williams—a wife, mother, stepmom, and faith-driven lifestyle influencer—to share her journey in creating a thriving blended family. From single motherhood to a beautiful family of eight, Courtney opens up about the challenges of merging households, finding balance between independence and unity in marriage, and the strength she draws from her faith. Whether you’re a seasoned step-parent or just starting the blending journey, Courtney's insights on patience, prayer, maturity and intentionality provide practical advice and hope for families facing similar struggles. Tune in to learn how you can create a Christ-centered, thriving blended family that stands the test of time.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Spotting the Signs: Tips for Parents to Tackle Bullying For Good

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Spotting the Signs: Tips for Parents to Tackle Bullying For Good, Scott and Vanessa unpack the challenging topic of bullying— from cyber to verbal to physical, and how bullying affect kids today. Learn from real-life examples, discover the common signs of bullying, and gain valuable tips on how parents can create safe, open environments for communication and support for the entire blended family. We believe you will enjoy this conversation and learn proactive strategies to help parents address bullying, foster empathy, and build resilience in your kids. Tune in for actionable insights on protecting your children from social pressures and the important role of nurturing emotional well-being.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Are you starting the journey of blending a family and striving to build a marriage that honors Christ? In this episode, Beginning to Blend: Building a Christ-Centered Blended Marriage and Family, Scott and Vanessa are joined by friends Stephen and Kate Srein, a newly blended family navigating the challenges of merging two families into one. From parenting styles, co-parenting dynamics, to building a foundation of trust and faith, Stephen and Kate share real and raw insights from their first year of marriage. Learn how to lay a solid foundation, trust God's timing, and embrace blended family challenges with joy. Whether you're in a blended family or preparing to start one, this episode is packed with biblical wisdom and practical tips to help you thrive. Tune in for honest conversations, uplifting encouragement, and tips on blending your family in a way that aligns with your faith.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Screen Time Tips: How to Navigate Screens & Technology in Blended Families

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss a challenging issue that impacts all blended families: understanding and managing screen time. With statistics showing kids spend up to 9 hours a day on screens, they explore practical solutions to create balanced and healthy media habits. They share their own family’s rules on screen time, discuss the dangers of excessive exposure, and offer strategies for parental controls. Tune in to learn how to build a media plan that encourages communication, family time, and healthier digital habits for your children.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family

Mon, 07 Oct 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF podcast, How to Overcome Favoritism - Practical Tips to Improve Your Blended Family, Scott and Vanessa discuss the challenging dynamics of favoritism within blended families. They discuss how favoritism can impact both biological and stepchildren, ways to identify signs of favoritism, and share strategies you can implement to help ensure every child feels valued. With real-life examples and expert advice, they explore how open communication, establishing clear boundaries, and intentionality can help build unity and avoid feelings of resentment. Whether you're a stepparent, biological parent, or both, this episode provides valuable insights on creating a cohesive and loving family environment for your blended family to thrive.

We pray this episode is a blessing to you!

When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, When Your Spouse Puts The Kids First: Reclaim Your Blended Family Marriage, Scott and Vanessa tackle a common issue faced by blended families: when one partner feels like their spouse is choosing their children over them. Learn how to set healthy boundaries, communicate openly, and maintain a strong marriage while raising a blended family. They also share practical tips for addressing challenges with adult children and offer insights into creating a family dynamic that honors both your marriage and your kids.

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Navigating Legal Issues and Going Back to Court in Blended Families

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 07:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Family podcast, Scott and Vanessa explore the complex legal challenges faced by blended families, including child custody modifications, visitation rights, co-parenting struggles and more. Whether you are going through or preparing for a legal dispute, this practical advice, rooted in both faith and professional guidance, can help you navigate these tough situations with grace.

They also share insights from their book, Back to Court, co-authored with family law attorney Denny Brewer. This book provides step-by-step guidance on preparing for custody modifications and other legal processes, ensuring you’re spiritually and practically ready. Discover how to maintain peace, protect your family, and trust God's plan through every trial.

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Marriage After Addiction: Blended Family Success with Eric Kennedy

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Eric Kennedy, author of Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together. Eric shares his inspiring journey from battling addiction to finding faith, recovery, and building a blended family. Learn how he overcame addiction, rebuilt his life through faith, and now helps others navigate the challenges of addiction and recovery within their relationships. Eric’s testimony offers hope for those battling addiction or supporting loved ones through the journey. Tune in for insights on faith, healing, and blended family success!

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Effectively Lead Your Blended Family with Dr. Jon Chasteen

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott Martindale is joined by friend and special guest Dr. Jon Chasteen, Senior Pastor of Victory Church. Together, they discuss leadership and how to be a "Re-Leader" in your blended family. Learn how to navigate the complexities of trust, patience, and leadership when you’re tasked with fixing something you didn’t break. Discover biblical principles and practical advice that will help you build a strong, resilient family foundation to serve current and future generations.

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to another exciting episode of the Blended Family Podcast! On this episode, How to Teach Core Christian Values in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale dive deep into one of the biggest challenges in blended families: How to teach values to both biological and stepchildren. Are you struggling to integrate different backgrounds and traditions in your family? Don’t worry! We’ve got you covered with practical tips and real-life examples to help you build a strong, faith-centered foundation for your family. Tune in as we uncover how to incorporate biblical teachings into blended family life!

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families with Pastor Wade Smith

Mon, 26 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Strengthening Church Communities in Blended Families, Scott is joined by Pastor Wade Smith, the Executive Pastor at Victory Church, to discuss the critical role of community within the church. They dive deep into why small groups are essential for growth, especially in today's content-driven world, and how intentional relationships with godly friends can transform your spiritual journey. Whether you're a pastor, a church member or navigating blended life, this conversation will encourage you to take that next step in building a stronger community around you. Tune in for practical advice, personal stories, and a fresh perspective on why church isn't just a place to attend but a community to be part of.

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Navigating life in a blended family comes with its own set of challenges, from connecting with children to overcoming the social stigma that often surrounds these unique family dynamics. In this powerful episode, How to Overcome Social Stigma in Blended Families, we explore the keys to building strong, lasting bonds with your children while addressing the external pressures that can impact your blended family. Whether you’re a biological parent or a stepparent, this episode is packed with advice and actionable insights to help you successfully navigate blended family life. Join us as we uncover the path to a thriving, resilient blended family!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It

Mon, 12 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Welcome to the BKF Podcast! In this episode, What is Parental Role Confusion in Blended Families and How to Overcome It, Scott and Vanessa dive into the challenges of defining parental roles within blended families. Discover how to tackle role confusion between biological and stepparents, address inconsistencies across households, navigate loyalty conflicts that children may face and much more! Join us for an enlightening discussion that offers practical guidance and scriptural wisdom to help your blended family thrive.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Don't Miss Out! Register for the upcoming Blended Family Conference on October 5th. Attend in person in DFW at Compass Church in Colleyville, TX, or join online. Visit our website's events page to sign up today!

Top 4 Co-Parenting Tips for Blended Families

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Top 4 Co-parenting Tips for Blended Families. In this episode we welcome back Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) Ambassador Sidney Chaplin to discuss her top 4 tips for effective co-parenting in blended families. Sidney shares personal experiences relate to fostering healthy blended family communication, avoiding making kids choose between parents, and more! Whether you are new to blended family life or looking for ways to improve your co-parenting skills, this episode is packed with practical advice and encouragement. Don't miss out on these essential tips!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment

Mon, 29 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the BKF Podcast, Mastering Co-Parenting: The Power of Discernment , Scott and Vanessa Martindale explain the vital role of discernment in co-parenting. Discover how the Holy Spirit guides us to make wise decisions, maintain healthy relationships, and avoid common pitfalls in blended families. Whether you're struggling with communication, dealing with manipulation, or seeking peace in your co-parenting journey, this episode offers practical advice and spiritual insights to help you navigate these challenges.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Unhealthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective, Vanessa Martindale interviews Blended Kingdom Teens (BKT) ambassador Sidney Chaplin. Enjoy this encouraging discussion about common toxic co-parenting behaviors and how to avoid them. Sidney shares her experiences and offers practical tips for maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship. From avoiding negative talk about the other parent to fostering open communication, this episode is packed with valuable advice for blended families.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Join us in this insightful episode of the BKF Podcast, Healthy Co-Parenting from a Teen's Perspective as Vanessa interviews Sidney Chaplin, a Blended Kingdom Teens ambassador, about healthy co-parenting from a teen’s perspective. Sidney shares her experiences and offers valuable advice for parents navigating co-parenting relationships. From setting boundaries to encouraging positive relationships with bonus parents, Sidney provides practical tips for creating a supportive environment for teenagers and children in blended families. Tune in for heartfelt stories and actionable strategies to improve your co-parenting journey.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist?

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Join us on this episode, Are you Co-Parenting with a Narcissist, as Scott and Vanessa discuss the complexities co-parenting relationships can have with a narcissist in blended families. They also provide insights into understanding narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and the impact it can have on co-parenting dynamics. They offer practical advice on setting boundaries, maintaining your mental health, and focusing on what’s best for your children. Learn about the importance of documentation, seeking legal counsel, and building a strong support system to help you through these tough situations.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice

Mon, 01 Jul 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast! In this episode, How to Handle a Toxic Co-Parent: Practical Advice, we dive deep into the challenging world of co-parenting and discuss how to avoid toxic behaviors that can harm your blended family's dynamic. Join Scott and Vanessa as they share practical tips to help you navigate co-parenting with respect, communication, and love. Whether you are dealing with passive-aggressive communication, inflexibility, or attempts to undermine your authority, this week's episode provides valuable insights to help you create a healthier environment for your children and bonus children. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more expert advice on managing blended families!

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Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Discover the transformative power of effective co-parenting in our latest episode, Master Co-Parenting: Transform Conflicts into Cooperation with These Tips! Join us as we delve into practical strategies and encouraging truths for navigating the complexities of co-parenting with love and respect. Whether newly separated or looking to improve your co-parenting dynamic, you will discover insights to help you navigate co-parenting conflicts and provide a supportive environment for your children and bonus children. You can turn conflict into cooperation!

Be blessed in all you do!

Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Unlock the secrets to successful co-parenting in our latest episode, Co-Parenting with Love as a Verb: Strategies for Harmonious Parenting! Learn practical strategies to foster a loving, supportive environment for your children and bonus children, even after separation or divorce. Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of viewing love as an action and provide actionable advice to navigate co-parenting challenges.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Summer can bring new challenges for blended families as routines change and kids move between households. In this episode, Summer Transitions and Best Practices for Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share valuable strategies and tips to help families navigate summer transitions smoothly. From planning quality time with all children to nurturing your marriage and personal growth, this episode provides a comprehensive guide to making the most of the summer season.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Finding Hope in the Storm

Mon, 03 Jun 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Finding Hope in the Storm, Vanessa, Kristen, and Dan have an inspiring roundtable discussion about finding hope and joy in the midst of life's challenges. They share powerful Bible verses that have encouraged them during difficult seasons and provide practical tips for staying grounded in God's truth. Whether you are facing a difficult blended family situation, a personal crisis, or everyday worries, this conversation can uplift and strengthen your faith.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families

Mon, 27 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500

Stress is a common challenge in blended families, but it doesn't have to control your life. In this podcast episode, 3 Tips for Better Stress Management in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa share 3 practical tips for managing stress through spiritual intimacy, physical activity, and setting healthy boundaries. Enjoy this discussion as you learn how to reduce stress levels, increase trust in God, and create a more peaceful environment for your blended family.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion

Mon, 20 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this podcast episode, Sex and Intimacy - An Honest Discussion, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of physical intimacy in marriage and how to navigate challenges that can arise, such as stress, life transitions, and physical or emotional barriers. They encourage couples in blended families to prioritize open communication, cultivate intentionality in nurturing their physical connection, seek professional help when needed and more. The episode highlights the value of physical intimacy in strengthening emotional bonds and building a healthy, fulfilling marriage.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever

Mon, 13 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this podcast episode, God's Grace: 20 Million Lives Changed Forever, Vanessa and Dan discuss the growth and impact of the Blended Kingdom Families (BKF) ministry over the past 4 years. They share their personal journeys, celebrate the impact of God through BKF for millions of blended families, discuss challenges of ministry work, and the exciting vision for the future of BKF, including the launch of coaching programs, family conferences and more! This candid conversation provides a glimpse into the heart and mission of Blended Kingdom Families.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage

Mon, 06 May 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this insightful podcast episode, Increasing Masculine and Feminine Energy in Your Marriage, Scott and Vanessa discuss the importance of embracing masculine and feminine energies in marriage and blended family life. They share personal experiences and provide practical advice on how couples can promote and nurture these God-given qualities within their relationship. Recognizing and embracing your unique design can allow you and your spouse to flourish in your marriage, so don't miss this conversation!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage

Mon, 29 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Breaking Your Phone Addiction: Reclaiming Intimacy in Your Blended Family Marriage, Vanessa and Scott discuss the challenges of cell phone usage and how screen time can impact blended family marriages and parenting. They discuss their own past struggles with managing screen time and provide thoughtful advice to help you manage screen time, including putting down devices when your spouse asks you to, finding alternative activities to replace screen time, being sensitive to your partner's needs and more. This episode illustrates the importance of being present and engaged with your spouse and children and how effectively managing screens in your home can foster deeper blended family connections. If you enjoyed this episode please share it with a friend and leave a podcast review!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, How to Overcome Infidelity in Marriage, Scott and Vanessa dive deep into the challenging topic of infidelity and blended family marriage. They share personal experiences and offer practical advice for couples seeking to rebuild trust and restore relationships after betrayal. This episode covers topics including the importance of transparency, forgiveness, seeking professional help and more! If you or someone you know has been impacted by infidelity, this episode offers encouragement and a path forward.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Navigating Complex Blended Family Dynamics with Faith and Patience, Vanessa and Jessica have an honest and emotional conversation about Jessica's unique blended family experiences. After the unexpected loss of Jessica's sister-in-law, Jessica and her husband found themselves in an unexpected co-parenting role with their niece's father and stepmother. Through patience, trust-building, and a reliance on their faith, the two families have come together to provide a united support system for the child they all love. This powerful story offers insights and encouragement for others navigating the complexities of blended family dynamics.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Dating Red Flags Revealed: Warning Signs You Shouldn’t Ignore, Scott and Vanessa discuss the critical importance of recognizing pre-marriage red flags and determining non-negotiables in a potential spouse. They highlight common relationship red flags like differing spiritual foundations, unresolved past trauma, ongoing legal issues, and financial conflicts, all of which can sabotage a marriage.

Scott and Vanessa provide valuable guidance, emphasizing premarital counseling, biblical wisdom, and mentorship from godly couples to navigate these challenges. They encourage singles to pray for their future spouse and pursue a deeper relationship with God during the waiting season.

Whether you're dating, engaged, or seeking wisdom for a godly relationship, this episode offers essential insights into building a strong foundation and avoiding major pitfalls. Don't miss these pre-marriage tips from a couple who has traveled this path themselves.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Ex-Spouse Sabotage in Blended Families

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 03:00:00 -0500

How do you handle an ex-spouse who actively tries to undermine your new marriage? Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle this topic in this week’s podcast.

They provide proven strategies and tips for setting healthy boundaries, seeking professional counseling, fostering open communication with your spouse, and making your marriage a top priority. In addition, Scott and Vanessa emphasize the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive, godly couples, establishing clear rules, and relying on prayer and spiritual discernment to protect your marriage from external threats.

Whether you're newly married or have been married for years, this episode offers invaluable guidance on navigating the challenges posed by a hostile ex-spouse.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism & Alienation

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500

In this thought-provoking episode, Exposing Co-Parenting Traps: Narcissism and Alienation, Scott and Vanessa delve into the complex issue of Narcissistic Parental Alienation Syndrome (NPAS). They provide insights on recognizing the signs, confronting the situation, and finding healing for parents and children affected by this toxic form of co-parenting. Through biblical wisdom and practical advice, they offer guidance to families navigating this challenging terrain.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Why You Need A Mentor

Sun, 17 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0500

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we discuss everything from intimate moments with the Lord to practical guidance in blended family dynamics. Listen to real-life stories and biblical wisdom that illustrate the transformative power of having a mentor. Join us as we delve into the value of mentorship and how it can deepen your relationship with God and others.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How To Be A Better Stepparent

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Vivian Cumins as she shares her journey of healing and growth within her blended family. From managing expectations to seeking forgiveness, Vivian's insights offer wisdom and encouragement for all blended families. Don't miss out on this inspiring discussion!

Join Our Community - Ready to connect with other blended couples who understand exactly what you're going through? Find out how you can join or start a small group in your church or home. https://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/groups/

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Praying with Your Spouse

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 03:00:00 -0600

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa delve into the transformative power of prayer in marriages and blended families. They discuss encouraging statistics revealing the significant decrease in divorce rates among couples who pray together daily. Throughout the episode, Scott and Vanessa share practical advice on incorporating prayer into daily routines and nurturing spiritual intimacy as a couple. The hosts emphasize the importance of persistence in prayer and its profound impact on relationships, urging listeners to actively pursue this practice. Tune in for valuable insights and encouragement to strengthen your marriage and family through the power of prayer.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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The Power of Resilience: Embracing God Amidst Trials in your Blended Family

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Discover the power of resilience in this latest episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Special guest Rebekah Lyons joins Scot and Vanessa Martindale to talk about her journey of faith and seeing God's hand in every season, especially the hardest ones. Our hosts and their guest share profound insights on dying to yourself to discover your true self in God, as well as the beauty in surrendering your dreams to embrace God's greater plan. The podcast also explores the concept of finding balance and purpose in tragedy, the role of blended families in God's kingdom, and how every difficult season is an opportunity to grow closer to God and help others.

You can connect with Rebekah Lyons at"

https://www.rebekahlyons.com/

https://www.instagram.com/rebekahlyons/

https://www.facebook.com/rebekahlyons

#BlendedFamilies #blendedkingdomfamilies #rebekahlyons #Resilience #PurposeInPain #FindYourPurpose #OvercomingAdversity #GodsHandInEverything

Intimacy & Sex in Second Marriages

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600

On this episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa tackle the sensitive topic of physical intimacy and sex within second marriages. They share vulnerably about their own experiences, and highlight the importance of working through past trauma, triggers, and comparison. The conversation centers on the importance of open communication, patience and grace for each other, and embracing joy and pleasure in physical intimacy. If you’re struggling in this area of your marriage, we hope this episode gives you courage to have those needed conversations with your spouse. Don’t let comparison and the past steal your joy in your current marriage!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

I Feel Alone! Finding Community in Blended Families

Mon, 12 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600

If you have ever felt alone and isolated or have struggled to find a supportive community while navigating blended family challenges then this episode is for you!

Navigating life in a blended family can be a beautiful but complex journey. In this episode, I Feel Alone - Finding Community in Blended Families, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by special guests Tim and Sandie Noack, small group leaders with 20 years of experience! In this episode they dive into the life-changing value and importance of small groups specifically designed for couples in blended families. Join us as we explore how small group gatherings can provide encouragement, understanding, godly counsel, prayer, and growth for you, your partner and blended family.

Why Small Groups?
Small groups offer a unique setting where couples in blended families can share experiences, challenges, and successes. It's a space where vulnerability is welcomed and personal growth is nurtured. Discover how these groups can provide you with the tools and confidence to strengthen your marriage and blended family dynamics.

From improved communication to deeper empathy, learn how sharing your journey with others can pave the way for a stronger, more unified blended family.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Enmeshment With Ex-Spouses: Blended Family Boundaries

Mon, 05 Feb 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Welcome to the latest episode of the Blended Family Podcast - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: Setting Boundaries in Blended Families. Join hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they discuss the intricate dynamics of blended families, focusing on the challenges and nuances of enmeshment between ex-spouses.

In this episode - Enmeshment with Ex-Spouses: Blended Family Boundaries, we explore what enmeshment means in the context of ex-spouses, discuss several examples of enmeshment and solutions.

Learn about these topics and more!
- Signs of Unhealthy Enmeshment: Learn about the red flags such as inappropriate closeness, emotional manipulation, and feelings of obligation that might indicate unhealthy ties between ex-spouses.
- Strategies for Setting Boundaries: Scott and Vanessa discuss practical ways to establish boundaries for the well-being new marriages and blended families.
- Co-Parenting Communication: Tips on how to involve both spouses in co-parenting conversations to foster a respectful and healthy co-parenting relationship.

Listen to gain insights and strategies to help navigate the complex relationship between ex-spouses and its impact on your blended family. Whether you are newly blended, starting to date again after divorce, or just interested in remarriage dynamics, this episode offers valuable advice and real-life examples.

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We pray this episode blesses you today!

Enmeshment Between Parents & Kids - Maintaining Healthy Boundaries in Blended Families

Mon, 29 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Enmeshment between parents and kids is an important factor in families and maintaining healthy boundaries in blended families can help.

Dive into the complexities of enmeshment in blended families on this podcast episode: Enmeshment Between Parents & Kids - Maintaining Healthy Boundaries in Blended Families. Hosts Scott and Vanessa shed light on scenarios in which parents and children grapple with enmeshment issues that may have formed after a divorce or other life-changing event. This can include a parent's over reliance on a child for emotional support, a parent inhibiting a child's independence, or other similar unhealthy connections.

Scott and Vanessa offer practical advice on overcoming enmeshment, emphasizing the importance of open communication and setting clear boundaries. They talk about the benefits (and necessity) of seeking counseling to re-prioritize the marriage and foster healthier relationships within the blended family unit. They also discuss the importance of the child’s mental health.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blended Families: My Nest is Empty—Coping with Kids Leaving Home

Mon, 22 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez to talk about the empty nest phase of marriage and family. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Together, they talk about preparing for the empty nest before the last child leaves, the importance of intentionality in growing your marriage in this phase, and some of the fun benefits of living in a house with no kids.

We pray this episode blesses you!

Preparing to Launch - Sending Kids to College in a Blended Family

Mon, 15 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by guests Eric and Keisha Gomez. Eric is the XO Marriage Chief Operating Officer (COO) and Keisha is a Marriage Mediator at XO Marriage. Eric and Keisha share personal experiences and advice for sending kids to college as a blended family, including preparing children academically and spiritually, coping with letting go, dealing with identity attacks and much more!

We pray this episode blesses you today!

The Power of Untethered Worship - 2024 Word of The Year

Mon, 08 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600

In this podcast episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about their practice of asking God to give them a word for the year ahead. They share how they both seek God for a word individually as well as for their blended family, and how this annual activity draws them closer together.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Trusting the Uncomfortable & Growing Through Discomfort

Mon, 01 Jan 2024 03:00:00 -0600

Scott and Vanessa reflect on 2023, a year of growth through trusting God during hardship. They recap ministry highlights like launching video curriculum, Uversion devotionals, conferences, groups across the country, BKF coaching, and podcasts. Looking ahead, 2024 plans include expanding coaching, more resources like books and studies, events, fundraising, and partnerships to help more blended families.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

Blended Family Traditions: Finding Joy, Love, and Peace During the Holidays

Mon, 25 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600

Join us in this special episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast as we share heartwarming stories and tips on navigating the holiday season in blended families. From decorating Christmas trees to serving the community, discover how new traditions can bring joy, gratitude, love, and a sense of connection.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

How to Navigate Blended Family Holidays: A Teen's Perspective

Mon, 18 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this special holiday episode of the podcast, Vanessa and her son, Michael, to talk about the holiday season from a teenager's perspective. He shares tips for blended families on making holiday transitions smoother for kids. He talks about the importance of communication, flexibility, and involving kids in the planning. Vanessa and Michael also discuss setting boundaries, laying aside differences, and focusing on what is best for the children.

We pray this episode blesses you today!

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Q&A: Answering Audience Questions So You Can Build a Healthy Blended Family

Mon, 11 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600

Discover the secrets to a healthy blended family in this insightful Q&A episode of the Blended Kingdom Families podcast. Join Vanessa and Jessica Russo, Director of Donor Relations here at BKF, as they tackle real questions from audience members facing past relationship wounds, co-parenting conflicts, and frustrations with former spouses. Vanessa shares her personal journey as a divorced and remarried mom, offering valuable perspectives on the challenges of blending families. Gain prayerful and Kingdom-focused encouragement for your own blended family journey. Don't miss this empowering conversation on overcoming obstacles and fostering a thriving blended family.

Q&A: Managing Stepchild and Biological Child Relationships in Blended Families

Mon, 04 Dec 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, liscensed professional counselor and blended family coach Scott Martindale takes the mic to answer listeners' questions. He shares practical advice on stepchild relationships, discipline roles, conflict resolution, and more. His unique perspective will give you actionable steps for improving your blended family relationships. Listen in to hear your questions answered!

We hope this episode blesses you today!

The Heart of Step-parenting: A Stepmom's Perspective with Special Guest Cheryl Shumake

Mon, 27 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600

On this week’s podcast episode, hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale are joined by a special guest, Cheryl Shumake, a stepmom with a powerful ministry dedicated to supporting and inspiring stepmoms. Cheryl shares her insights on navigating the challenges of blended families and discusses her latest book, "Waiting to Be Wanted: A Stepmom's Guide to Loving Before Being Loved."

The conversation delves into the importance of empathy, the 100% chance of success in blended families when done God's way, and the role of faith in the journey of step-parenting. Cheryl encourages listeners to shift their focus from the pain of waiting to how God wants them to show up in their roles.

Join the BKF podcast community as Cheryl, Vanessa, and Scott share stories, wisdom, and practical advice to help you thrive in your blended family journey. Don't miss out on the full video format available on the Blended Kingdom Families YouTube channel. Like, share, comment, and leave your reviews to let us know your thoughts.

Our guest, Cheryl Shoemake, is the founder of Stepmom Sanity and author of four books, including "Waiting to Be Wanted." Explore more about Cheryl and her ministry at StepmomSanity.com and follow her on social media @stepmomsanity.

Thank you for tuning in to the BKF podcast. Remember, your blended family journey is part of God's larger story, and as you wait, trust that God is working in your life. Stay connected, stay encouraged, and keep seeking God's guidance in your blended kingdom family.

Blended Family Holidays: Fostering a Heart and Mind of Gratitude

Mon, 20 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600

The holidays can be a challenging time for blended families. In this uplifting episode, Scott and Vanessa share how cultivating gratitude and thankfulness can bring joy and strengthen family bonds.Learn how starting traditions, quiet reflection, and extending grace to co-parents can foster unity and create new positive memories. Whether you're gathering with grandparents, looking back on the year, or facing grief, you'll be inspired to see blessings and goodness. Tune in for a hope-filled perspective on embracing thankfulness in all circumstances and discover how gratitude can deepen your connection with God and others this holiday season!

We hope this episode blesses you today!

Learning to Honor God in Dating and Marriage

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600

Honoring God in dating can be challenging in todays world. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa discuss God's design for dating and marriage. They emphasize the importance of identifying values and traits that are non-negotiable in a spouse, while also being open to the Holy Spirit’s leadership. They also discuss the importance of open communication, premarital counseling, and being bold about pursuing a Christ-centered marriage.

We hope this episode blesses you today!

How to Set Boundaries with Extended Family: Extended Family Dynamics in Blended Families, Part 3

Mon, 06 Nov 2023 03:00:00 -0600

One challenge that blended families face is setting healthy boundaries with extended family members. Boundaries are the limits and rules we set for how others will interact with us, and they are vital for the health of any family. In this final episode in our series on extended family dynamics in blended families, we unpack the importance of boundaries as a means to protect and preserve the nuclear family unit. We also provide examples of boundaries and the process for creating and maintaining them.

We hope this episode blesses you today!

Fostering Positive Relationships: Extended Family Dynamics in Blended Families, Part 2

Mon, 30 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500

When we go through a divorce, our relationships with our extended family members can be affected, which can then affect our (step)child’s relationships with them. In the second episode of this series, we discuss the value of allowing our children and stepchildren to keep strong bonds with their extended family members after divorce, and we offer small steps we can take to rebuild or maintain those bonds.

We pray this podcast blesses you today!

How to Be a Great Step-Grandparent: Extended Family Dynamics in Blended Families, Part 1

Mon, 23 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Blended family life can be a challenge, but what is it like to be a step-grandparent? What are some best practices for being a great step-grandparent? In this episode, our hosts Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk with a step-grandparent, Mike Hill. Mike is the Marriage Pastor at Beltway Park Church in Abilene, Texas. Together they talk about the experience of being a step-grandparent, what it means to foster healthy relationships with grandchildren and step-grandchildren, and how to support their adult children who are in a blended family.

We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Mirror Mirror: An Honest Look at Body Image

Mon, 16 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Welcome to a special episode of the podcast, where we dive deep into the important subjects of image and body image. Join hosts Scott and Vanessa as they sit down with Rachael Gilbert, a licensed therapist, author, speaker, and podcast host. Together, they explore the impact of media, culture, and personal experiences on our self-perception and body image. They also discuss actionable steps to bring our self-perception into alignment with what God says about us.

Rachael is the author of Image Restored: Tear Down Shame And Insecurity To Experience A Body Image Renovation, a book/workbook that helps individuals and small groups begin to experience healing and wellness grounded in God’s love and builds us up in truth. She also hosts the podcast, Real Talk With Rachael, which bridges the gap between mental and emotional health and faith.

We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Rachels Info:
Website rachaelgilbert.com
Instagram.com/rachaeljgilbert
Facebook: facebook.com/rachaeljoygilbert
Podcast: Real Talk with Rachael podcast
Image Restored: https://www.amazon.com/Image-RESTored-Insecurity-Experience-Renovation/dp/0830782893?maas=maas_adg_2A36CD24695E1812CCFA896175B915C6_afap_abs&ref_=aa_maas&tag=maas

How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, A Teenager's Perspective, Part 3

Mon, 09 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we dive into the unique experiences of a teenager navigating life within two blended families. Michael Singleton, in a conversation with his stepfather, Scott Martindale, shares candidly the highs and lows of parental divorce and subsequent remarriage. The two of them talk about the early blending years, how their relationship has evolved over time, and how their relationship is changing again as Michael prepares for college. If you’re a new stepparent seeking insights and guidance, this episode is a must-listen!

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, The Dos, Part 2

Mon, 02 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Discover the keys to nurturing a resilient stepparent-stepchild bond in the second episode of our series on "How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Part 2." In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale discuss crucial action steps for fostering trust and connection. Learn how both biological parents and stepparents can create a safe and comfortable environment, encouraging the stepchild to embrace and flourish within the blended family dynamic. Listen in to ensure your stepparent-stepchild relationship thrives!

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

How To Build Strong Stepparent-stepchild Connections, Part 1

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500

The relationship between a stepparent and their stepchildren can be complicated and complex because there are so many factors at play. Sometimes, those dynamics can delay or derail step-parent/stepchild bonding. In this episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about the role step parents play in creating a solid bond with their stepchild; they also offer suggestions for nurturing and growing those relationships.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Married Men Tell All: Mindset, Motives, And Needs

Mon, 18 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this special podcast episode, Pastor Jon Chasteen and Brent Evans, join Scott Martindale in the studio to talk about life, marriage, and parenting from the male perspective. They clear up some common misconceptions wives have and peel back the curtain on how men think differently than women. They talk about the unique mega needs of men, men’s desire to please their wives, and why they want their wives to be their best friends.

To connect with our guests: Pastor Jon Chasteen is the Lead Pastor of Victory Church and Podcast host of The ReLeader
https://www.instagram.com/jonchasteen/
https://www.youtube.com/ @TheReLeader

Brent Evens is the CEO of XO Marriage and host of the XO Marriage Podcast https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Co-Parenting Boundaries: Navigating Transitions for Your Child's Well-Being

Mon, 11 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This week, Scott and Vanessa discuss how to establish healthy boundaries with a co-parent during the child’s transition from one home to the other. They talk about their experiences during both successful and challenging co-parenting seasons. They also shed light on essential factors to consider when creating boundaries with an ex-spouse and emphasize the importance of prioritizing children's needs.

How To Create A Financial Plan, Blended Family Finances, Part 3

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Financial planning in blended families can be complex and overwhelming. This episode talks through practical steps to simplify and start planning. We cover vital facets of financial well-being, including transparent money management, strategic estate planning, beneficiary designations, and the importance of tax planning.

You don't want to miss the conversation Vanessa and Scott Martindale have with Tim & Alexis Woodward are Certified Financial Planners™, Certified Kingdom Advisors® and Co-Founders of Blend Wealth, a Kingdom-focused financial planning firm that serves clients virtually all over the country.

Budgeting apps mentioned:
You Need a Budget (YNAB)- https://www.ynab.com/
Everydollar- https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/everydollar
FaithFi - https://www.faithfi.com/

You can connect with Tim and Alexis at:
Website: https://blendwealth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theblendcouple/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blendwealth
Twitter: https://twitter.com/theblendcouple

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Money Talk: How To Have Better Conversations About Money, Blended Family Finances, Part 2

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Scott and Vanessa talk about the importance of discussing finances with your spouse when you are newly blended, especially if the two of you did not have those conversations before marriage. They also offer suggestions for ongoing financial conversations moving forward.

If you’re newly blended and you haven’t talked about money, it’s important to start having those financial conversations as soon as you can. Lay it all out on the table: monthly bills, consumer debt, child support, sources of income, a monthly budget, and any triggers from a past marriage. Also discuss whether the stepparent will participate in the financial obligations related to their stepchildren. Transparent, ongoing conversations around money is a key aspect of a healthy marriage.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Back to School with Blended Families

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this special episode, BKF founders Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about the unique situations blended families face as school ramps up for another year. They discuss how parents and co-parents can prepare for school and how to help their children and stepchildren thrive in an educational setting. They also offer practical suggestions for using back-to-school activities as an opportunity to build bridges with co-parents.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Resources
Free download for 7 Prayers for the New School Year: http://blendedkingdomfamilies.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/7-Prayers-for-the-New-School-Year.pdf

Blended Family Conference - in person or watch online
https://blendedkingdomfamiliesministries.brushfire.com/blendedcouplesconference/540816

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Blended Family Finances, Part 1

Mon, 14 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode is the first in a new series, “Blended Family Finances.” Scott Martidale shares his perspective as a therapist. He has worked with many couples who are in conflict because they don’t know how to handle finances as a blended family. He suggests areas of financial conversations to discuss before marriage, as well as ongoing money conversations that are important for blended family finances.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Sibling Unity in Blended Families, Part 4

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This is the fourth and final episode in our series on sibling unity in blended families. Scott and Vanessa tackle the topic of creating unity among siblings and stepsiblings when you are beginning to blend. They provide a child’s perspective of blending (it’s not easy!), and they explain why the kids can get along one minute but despise each other the next (it’s normal!). If you and your new spouse bring children into the marriage, this episode should be at the top of your playlist!

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Sibling Unity in Blended Families, Part 3

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this third episode in our series “Sibling Unity in Blended Families,” we talk about helping step siblings build strong bonds when there is a significant age gap. We share from our childhood experiences of having step siblings, and we offer suggestions for fostering step sibling relationships despite the differences in ages. If you are a parent, stepparent, or co-parent of step siblings, check out this episode!

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Sibling Unity in Blended Families, Part 2

Mon, 24 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This is our second episode in our series, “Sibling Unity in Blended Families.” If your children and stepchildren are struggling to get along, this podcast is for you! We give you an honest look at siblings and stepsiblings, what to expect as your family blends (all kids argue from time to time!), and practical suggestions for fostering better relationships among them.

We pray this podcast blesses you!

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Sibling Unity in Blended Families, Part 1

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This podcast kicks off a new series on sibling unity in blended families. Scott and Vanessa offer practical tips for working toward sibling unity and the challenges inherent when two families merge into one.

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Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Biological Parent & Stepparent Relationships, Part 5

Mon, 10 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This is the fifth episode in our series on the biological parent-stepparent relationship. Vanessa and Scott talk about the benefits of developing a good relationship–and possibly a friendship–with our ex and their spouse. They discuss how these relationships can make co-parenting smoother and help our children and stepchildren thrive in the home and beyond.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Biological Parent & Stepparent Relationships, Part 4

Mon, 03 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This is the fourth episode in our series on the biological parent-stepparent relationship. Vanessa and Scott discuss how a good relationship with your ex-spouse can make co-parenting smoother and help our children and stepchildren thrive in the home and beyond.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Biological Parent & Stepparent Relationships, Part 3

Mon, 26 Jun 2023 14:00:00 -0500

This is the third episode in our series on the relationship between biological parents and stepparents. Scott and Vanessa talk about parent alienation and child manipulation and its negative effects on children of divorce. They talk about repairing your relationship with your ex (if possible) for the sake of the kids and for your own mental health.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Biological Parent & Stepparent Relationships: Part 2

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about expectations, how comparison affects identity, and the unique but different roles of parents and stepparents in blended families. They also offer suggestions for overcoming comparison and competition.

Biological Parent and Stepparent Relationships: Part 1 - Comparison & Competition Between Biological Parent and Stepparent

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Rachel Scott joins us on the podcast for a discussion about biological and stepparent relationships. She joins Scott and Vanessa to talk about the problem of comparison and competition and the reasons those traps surface, particularly for women. They talk about the value of humility and empathy in the biological parent/stepparent relationship and offer suggestions for better interactions.

Website: www.rachelgscott.com

Instagram URL: iamrachelgscott

Facebook URL: iamrachelgscott

We pray this podcast blessed you today!
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Mental Health Awareness Month: Part 5 - How Do I Heal From Generational Trauma?

Mon, 05 Jun 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This is the fourth episode on mental health in blended families. In this segment, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Sonia Noorany, a licensed professional counselor, to talk about generational trauma. They define it and identify ways to recognize it, and they talk about EMDR, a unique therapeutic tool for dealing with past trauma.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Mental Health Awareness Month: Part 4 - What a Pastoral Counselor (and Parent) Notices in Kids

Mon, 29 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Kammerin Hunt, former youth minister and currently a pastoral counselor with SEVN Therapy, is in the house! He joins Scott and Vanessa to talk about parenting–the fears, the struggles, and the need to give grace to ourselves. They offer a peek behind the counseling curtain and explain what children and teens are thinking and feeling, and they offer suggestions for getting help for kids when they need it.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Let's Therapy: A Look Back at Let’s Therapy, Season 1

Wed, 24 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this final episode of Season 1, Scott and Vanessa look back at their favorite topics and the importance of mental health. They also share the subject they’ll be talking about to kick off Season 2.

Mental Health Awareness Month: Part 3 - When Should You Go to Couples' Therapy?

Mon, 22 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Alicia Williams, LPC, joins Scott and Vanessa for this episode. Together, they discuss the signs that tell you it’s time to see a counselor. They highlight the misconceptions about therapy and discuss the benefits of having an unbiased counselor to speak into your situation.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

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Let's Therapy: Co-Parenting Versus Parallel Parenting, Part 3

Wed, 17 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This podcast builds on Part 1 and Part 2 of Co-Parenting Versus Parallel Parenting. Scott and Vanessa discuss the process of navigating back and forth between co-parenting and parallel parenting in different stages of the child’s life. They also offer suggestions for how to avoid contention in the co-parenting relationship.

Mental Health Awareness Month: Part 2 - The Role of Empathy in Your Blended Family

Mon, 15 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode features Sean Reed, pastoral counselor and Director of Operations and Outreach at Sevn Therapy. He talks with Scott and Vanessa about the importance of empathy within the blended family. They talk about the role of empathy in conflict resolution, triggers, anxiety, and parenting.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

To contact Sean Reed:

https://www.seanandlanette.com

IG: @seanandlanettereed

FB: @seanandlanette

YT: @LifeWithSeanandLanette

TikTok: seanandlanette

Let's Therapy: Co-Parenting Versus Parallel Parenting, Part 2

Wed, 10 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode is the second in a series on co-parenting vs. parallel parenting. Scott and Vanessa focus on parallel parenting, the reasons why ex-spouses may choose it over co-parenting, and situations in which parallel parenting can be extremely beneficial or supportive. They explain how parallel parenting can affect a child, and they offer a word of encouragement for parents in high-conflict situations.

Mental Health Awareness Month: Part 1 - Working Through Trust and Trauma with Your Spouse

Mon, 08 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode features a conversation with Heather Seguin, a licensed counselor specializing in couple’s therapy. Vanessa and Scott talk with Heather about building and rebuilding trust in marriage, working through trauma, and navigating difficult conversations.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy: Co-Parenting Versus Parallel Parenting, Part 1

Wed, 03 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode is the first in a series on co-parenting vs. parallel parenting. Scott and Vanessa briefly define the two styles of parenting. They also discuss the benefits of co-parenting for the children, and they offer a few ideas for developing a better co-parenting relationship.

Working Through Traumas and Triggers as a Couple

Mon, 01 May 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa dive into the topic of past trauma and the triggers that often accompany them. They define trauma and triggers, identify common origins of trauma, and explain how men and women express their triggers differently. They also provide suggestions for how husbands and wives can support, encourage, and help each other work through trauma.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy: The Power of Affirming Yourself

Wed, 26 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about the power of self-talk and positive affirmation. They discuss the role that thoughts play in our beliefs and our actions. They also provide several examples of truths we can speak over ourselves to counter the enemy’s lies.

Being the New Stepparent in a Blended Family

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode features Alex and Marshall Dilworth, a blended couple learning how to do life together. They talk with our host Vanessa Martindale about the different dynamics involved in both the co-parenting relationship and the relationship with the children. They offer suggestions on how spouses can support each other as they engage with co-parents and as they parent.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy: Projection in Blended Families

Wed, 19 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode features Scott and Vanessa Martindale as they talk about how projection takes place in blended families. They define and offer examples of projection, and they share tips on how you can respond when someone tries to project their emotions onto you.

Co-Parenting in Your Blended Family

Mon, 17 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Special guest and BKF team member Alex Dilworth joins Vanessa in the studio to talk about co-parenting. They talk about the unique challenges of being a single parent and co-parenting, some good practices for the co-parenting relationship, and mistakes they have made and want you to avoid.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy: Trauma and Triggers in Marriage

Wed, 12 Apr 2023 21:00:00 -0500

Pastor Charla Janecka M.A., LPC-A, joins Vanessa Martindale as they discuss trauma and triggers in remarriage and blended families. They discuss the physiological elements of trauma and triggers and how to identify triggers. They highlight resources for individuals, and highlight the importance of working through your past trauma so that it doesn’t sabotage your current marriage and blended family.

Free Resources from Pastor Charla Janecka can be found on her website https://originaldesignconsulting.com/

What Happens When You Don’t Communicate with Your Co-Parent

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Dr. Cassie Reid joins Scott and Vanessa Martindale in the studio again to talk about a common issue co-parents face: lack of communication. They talk about what motivates a co-parent to keep their ex-spouse out of the loop in making decisions about their children. They also talk about repercussions of not communicating– the children bear the consequences.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Dr. Cassie Reid is the Director of Marriage and Family Therapy at The King’s University in the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex. To find out more about Dr. Reid, go to any of these links:

https://www.tku.edu/faculty/dr-cassie-reid/

https://cassiereid.com/

https://www.instagram.com/drcassiereid/

https://diaryofatherapist.podbean.com/

Let's Therapy: The Mental Mind Game You May Be Playing

Wed, 05 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

In this episode, licensed therapist Scott Martindale talks about gaslighting. He gives listeners a working definition (think manipulating a person in order to control them), provides examples, and offers suggestions for dealing with it in relationships.

When Co-Parents Disagree About Faith

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Dr. Cassie Reid is back in the studio! In this episode, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk with Dr. Reid about what to do when your co-parent holds different faith beliefs than you do. They discuss the importance of respect, laying a solid foundation in your home, and living out your faith for your children. They also talk about the danger of using faith as a tool for child manipulation and parent alienation.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Dr. Cassie Reid is the Director of Marriage and Family Therapy at The King’s University in the Dallas/Fort Worth metroplex. To find out more about Dr. Reid, go to any of these links:

https://www.tku.edu/faculty/dr-cassie-reid/

https://cassiereid.com/

https://www.instagram.com/drcassiereid/

Let's Therapy - Setting Goals: Developing the Best Version of Yourself

Wed, 29 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This podcast focuses on the value and importance of setting goals for yourself and your blended family. Scott and Vanessa define SMART goals and explain how to set them and work toward them.

Beginning to Blend, Part 4: The Damage of Misplaced Priorities

Mon, 27 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this final episode of the series, “Beginning to Blend,” Scott and Vanessa talk about the importance of keeping your marriage as the top priority (after Christ) in your blended family. They offer practical suggestions for guarding and cultivating your relationship with your spouse when the nitty-gritty of real life makes blended family life a challenge.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - I’m Not Angry!!

Wed, 22 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

Anger is the topic of discussion for this edition of Let’s Therapy. In it, Scott and Vanessa Martindale talk about anger, especially as it relates to your marriage and blended family. They offer signs that point to out-of-control anger, and they offer suggestions for working through anger so that it doesn’t cause problems in your relationships.

Beginning to Blend, Part 3: We’re All in One House, Now What?

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this third podcast in the series “Beginning to Blend,” Scott and Vanessa discuss potential challenges facing blended families after everyone has merged into one household. They talk about how to navigate rivalries, guidelines for blending children of differing genders, and fostering relationships among family members.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - Alcohol: The Overlooked Marital Stressor

Wed, 15 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

This episode focuses on a problem that goes overlooked in many marriages: alcohol addiction. Scott and Vanessa lay out the risk factors for alcohol dependency as well as its signs and symptoms. They also offer suggestions on how to help your spouse (or yourself) if you suspect an addiction is developing.

Beginning to Blend, Part 2: Prepare for Blending While You’re Engaged

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0500

In this second podcast in our series on “Beginning to Blend,” Scott and Vanessa discuss what you can do during the engagement period to prepare for blending your families. These discussions and action steps can pave the way for smoother transitions into your new life together.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - Understanding Teenage Suicide

Wed, 08 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, counselors Scott and Vanessa Martindale tackle the issue of teen suicide. They discuss the warning signs that might point to suicidal ideation and the difference between suicide and self-harm (like cutting). They also offer help to parents whose child or teen might be struggling with their mental health.

Beginning to Blend, Part 1: When Do I Introduce a Potential Spouse to My Children?

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we address a question we get asked a LOT: When do I introduce a potential spouse to my children? Scott and Vanessa use their dating story as the backdrop for this conversation. They share their experience and offer their suggestions for when and how to talk to your children about your romantic relationship.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - How to Divorce-Proof Your Marriage

Wed, 01 Mar 2023 11:00:00 -0600

This podcast episode is all about practical steps you can take to make sure your marriage stands on strong footing. These tips might seem simple, but they are powerful. Try them out and you’ll see just how much they will strengthen your relationship with your spouse.

Communication in Blended Families with Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we had the privilege of talking with Dr. James and Ginger Dellaripa, creators of The Family Core, an app to help families of all kinds with communication, organization, and engagement. Together, we talk about the importance of communicating and staying informed across blended households. Their app is available on their website, www.thefamilycore.com, in the App Store (iOS) or in the Google Play Store (Android).

Website:

www.thefamilycore.com

Facebook URL

@thefamilycore

Instagram URL

@thefamilycore

Twitter URL

@thefamilycore

Let's Therapy - Substance Abuse in Blended Families: Hiding in Plain Sight

Wed, 22 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this podcast episode, Scott and Vanessa discuss the signs and symptoms of substance abuse in both adults and teens. They also share the best way to approach a loved one who is struggling with an addiction.

Enhancing Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this last episode in a three-part series on sex, we have an honest discussion about enhancing sexual intimacy. We offer you the perspective of both the husband and wife. We also give you tips on cultivating a more fulfilling sex life with your spouse.

Let's Therapy - Can You Spot Anxiety in Your Teen?

Wed, 15 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

For this podcast, we address anxiety in children and teens. We talk about the types of anxiety, symptoms to look out for, and how we as parents and stepparents can help our children and stepchildren as they deal with anxiety.

How to Talk About Sex in Your Marriage

Sun, 12 Feb 2023 20:00:00 -0600

This podcast addresses an important question: How do I talk about sex with my spouse? Communication about physical intimacy is an important part of your marriage. Sometimes these conversations will feel awkward and uncomfortable, but they are necessary for a more fulfilling marriage. We talk about the best ways to approach the subject.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - When Your Spouse is Struggling with Mental Health Issues

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

This episode focuses on how to support a spouse who is dealing with mental health struggles. We talk about some of the signs and symptoms that indicate your spouse might be struggling emotionally, and we offer suggestions for how you can show your support and concern in a healthy, helpful way.

Be blessed in all you do!

How To Have More Sexual Intimacy In Marriage

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 20:00:00 -0600

This podcast is the first in a series focusing on physical intimacy in marriage. We discuss what may be hindering more frequent connections as well as steps you can take to create more intimate encounters. Every marriage is different, but sex is vital to every marriage.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let's Therapy - Your Mental Health Matters

Wed, 01 Feb 2023 03:00:00 -0600

Welcome to the first episode of Let's Therapy!!

In this first episode of Talk Therapy, we discuss the intersection of mental health, faith, and blended family. Everyone faces mental health challenges, even characters in the Bible! Those struggles can affect your marriage and blended family, so getting the help you need is important. A healthier you leads to healthier relationships!

#letstherapy #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

When Your Ex Marries Again

Sun, 29 Jan 2023 20:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we tackle the tough topic of what to do when your ex marries again. We talk about the emotions that can surface for you and your children, how to have those awkward conversations with your ex’s new spouse, and how marrying again can affect your children.

Episode 158 - Conversations About Sex in Your Remarriage with Dave and Ashley Willis

Sun, 22 Jan 2023 20:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we sit down with Dave and Ashley Willis to talk about their book, The Counterfeit Climax. We broach the subject of talking about sex with your spouse, overcoming intimacy issues together, and more. If you and your spouse are going through a rough patch, do not lose heart. Your marriage—and your physical intimacy—can be rich and meaningful.

For more of Dave and Ashley Willis:

https://www.instagram.com/daveandashleywillis/

https://www.youtube.com/@DaveandAshleyWillis

https://www.daveandashleywillis.com/

Be blessed in all you do!

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Blending with Children in College with Dr. Phil Schubert

Sun, 15 Jan 2023 20:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we sit down with the president of Abilene Christian University, Dr. Phil Schubert. We talk about the benefits of Christian universities, important college experiences, and how parents in blended families can prepare as their children leave for college. Letting go of our children and stepchildren can be scary, but God has already prepared them and you for this chapter in your blended family life.

We pray this podcast blessed you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

www.acu.edu

president@acu.edu

Why We Don’t Say “Divorce”

Mon, 09 Jan 2023 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we discuss the danger of mentioning divorce in a season of marital difficulty. We talk about the power in deciding it is not an option (except in some cases, of course), and we share tips to strengthen and fortify your marriage.

We pray this podcast blesses you this week! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

#marriagematters #marriagepodcast #marriageisforever #healthymarriage #marriagegodsway #marriageminded #strongmarriage #couplespodcast

Q&A with Scott and Vanessa Martindale

Tue, 03 Jan 2023 08:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa sit down with our podcast producer, Dyanna Groves, to answer questions brought to us by our Blended & Redeemed Launch Team. We discuss a variety of topics, from working with your spouse and using the Blended & Redeemed Study Guide to parenting teens in blended families and praying for your ex-spouse.

If you have questions that aren’t answered in this episode, please comment below. We love hearing from our community members, and we hope to be able to do more Q&A sessions soon.

We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Money, Sex, and Time: Three Potential Roadblocks in Marriage With Special Guest Brady Boyd

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we meet with Pastor Brady Boyd to discuss essentials for a healthy marriage , God’s redemption in blended families, and His faithfulness to bless generosity. Your remarriage and blended family story can be a testimony of hope and a tool for sharing the gospel. Your marriage can be an example for your children and can help break the generational cycle of divorce. Whatever your blended family is facing, God is always with you and nothing is impossible with Him!

Connect with Pastor Brady Boyd:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pastorbradyboyd/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Bradyboydnewlife/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/pastorbrady?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Eauthor
Podcast: http://theessential.church/podcast/

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Finding Moments of Gold in Your Story of Rejection With Special Guest Kait Tomlin

Mon, 19 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Since filming this episode, Kait Warman became Kait Tomlin in marriage. Congratulations, Kait!

For this week’s episode, we had the opportunity to meet with Kait to discuss relationships, dating, and dealing with rejection. You may have heard the saying, “You can’t love someone else until you learn to love yourself.” There is truth in those words. Knowing your worth in Christ allows you to bring groundedness and wholeness into dating.

Connect with Kait:
Kait's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kaitness/

Connect with Heart of Dating:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heartofdating/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heartofdating
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@heartofdating
Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heart-of-dating/id1358733969
Website: https://www.heartofdating.com

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Extending the Olive Branch as a Co-Parent

Mon, 12 Dec 2022 03:00:00 -0600

This week, we discuss how and why we might want to extend an olive branch to our ex-spouse and why the holiday season is a great time to do so. If there is any lingering contention between your ex-spouse and you, we want to share some strategies and opportunities to improve that relationship. You can make this season less stressful for your blended family.

We pray this podcast blessed you today!

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Coping with House Transitions During the Holidays

Mon, 05 Dec 2022 07:00:00 -0600

This week’s episode is all about navigating holiday transitions between homes. No matter what time of year, transitions can be difficult for everyone involved. We share some practical ways you and your co-parent can work together to ease the stress, anxiety, and frustration your children may be feeling so that they can have fun and experience joy during the holiday season.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Biggest Holiday Challenges for Blended Families

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0600

For this week’s episode, we talk about the unique challenges facing blended families during the holidays. Scheduling and planning, sharing time with children, and trying to work with your ex-spouse can feel like a daunting task. We share some practical ways to navigate this season so your blended family, your children, and your ex’s family can all enjoy the holidays.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Creating Holiday Traditions as a Blended Family

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0600

In this week’s episode, we talk about creating traditions for our blended family. Blending can be challenging, especially when holidays are involved. Creating new holiday traditions can help family members bond with one another and feel more connected.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Raising My Children With Scripture With Special Guest Quinn Kelly

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 03:00:00 -0600

In this week’s episode, we chat with Quinn Kelly about living out our faith as we parent our children. Scripture tells us to train them up in the way they should go (Proverbs 22:6), but we often struggle with how to put that into practice. The good news is it doesn’t have to be difficult, time-consuming, or forced. When our children see our walk with Jesus, God can draw them to Himself through us.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Finding Common Ground for Your Blended Family With Special Guests John and Jill Miller

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 04:00:00 -0600

For this week’s episode, we sat down with John and Jill Miller to discuss God’s faithfulness to redeem our past, bless our obedience, and uphold us through difficult seasons of blended family life. When we keep God at the center of our marriage, family, and co-parenting relationships, we can overcome any obstacle we face.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Let Your Painful Past Be Your Testimony of Hope With Special Guest Jay Fantom

Sun, 30 Oct 2022 20:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we sit down with Jay Fantom, host of The Story Box Podcast, to talk about God’s faithfulness in our lives and how He uses every situation and experience we face for good. Jay shares his story, God’s light and faithfulness through it, and the blessings he has experienced through sharing his God-glorifying testimony.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Connect with Jay Fantom!
Website: https://thestoryboxpodcast.com
Book: https://thestoryboxpodcast.com/book/#buy-book
Podcast: https://thestoryboxpodcast.com/storybox-podcast/

Blended & Redeemed: Your Family Legacy - Part 4

Sun, 23 Oct 2022 20:00:00 -0500

This week, we discuss creating a legacy for your family that cannot be hindered by Satan, generational cycles, or our personal histories. The enemy wants us to think we are doomed to repeat the behaviors of the past. But Satan is a liar. When we seek God and build our marriage and family on His firm foundation, we can create a Kingdom legacy that can be carried on for generations to come.

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Blended & Redeemed: A Crown of Beauty instead of Ashes - Part 3

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode, we discuss the beauty of being refined, how God led called us to creating BKF, and why Isaiah 61:1-3 is our ministry's life verse. God knows that blended families often face fire seasons, and He is always faithful to lead us safely to the other side. He takes our despair, hurt, wounds, and scars and creates beauty.

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Blended & Redeemed: Your Home is Not Broken - Part 2

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode, we discuss the term “broken home” and the importance of removing the phrase from our vocabulary. When our families are built on the foundation of Jesus Christ, they cannot be broken. Whatever is in your past does not hinder you from experiencing the blessings that God has in store for your blended family.

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Blended & Redeemed: Blended Families, God’s Redemption - Part 1

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode, we discuss blended families as a beautiful example of God’s redeeming power. Everything we bring with us into our blending journey - pain, fear, anger, resentment, expectations - can be revealed and healed by our Heavenly Father if we surrender it into His hands. The fire you and your family may be walking through is no match for God’s power and love. He can lead you out of any wilderness season.

We pray this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamiliesmovement

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Finding the Blessings in Being Single with Special Guest Kaley Gray

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500

For this week's episode, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Kaley Gray to talk about navigating singleness as a Christian. They discuss how to make the most of the time you have before you find your spouse, the importance of prayer and community as a single, and ways to practically and spiritually prepare for marriage. We know singleness can sometimes feel endless, but there are blessings to be found when you can focus all your attention on your relationship with God!

We pray this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: Parenting Through Them

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Litigation is the last thing any of us wants to go through, and it can be a heavy load to bear. It is human nature to worry about the outcome of legal battles, but it is important to avoid letting fear control how we live.

In this episode, we discuss fear as a tactic of the enemy, how it can cause us to parent differently, and seeking God’s comfort and strength instead.

Additional information on litigation can be found in our new book, Blended and Redeemed, which has just released. It is available on our website, XO Marriage, Amazon, and Barnes & Noble.

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: What You Need to Know About Litigation - Part 5

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500

If you are getting ready to walk into litigation, or if you are in the midst of it, emotions are running high. When we are feeling strong emotions, we can act and react in ways that may do more harm than good. In this week’s episode, we share some important warnings for walking through litigation and navigating those heightened emotions.

Additional tips can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information!

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: Finding the Right Lawyer - Part 4

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0500

If a new custody agreement cannot be reached without a court case, the next step is litigation, and you need to be prepared. The first task in that process is finding the right lawyer. In this episode, we share best practices for selecting legal representation that is right for you and your family.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: Knowing your Options - Part 3

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500

When change needs to be made, it is important to know what your options are and what will work best for your situation. Depending on the relationship you and your ex-spouse have, you may or may not need to utilize a third party to help you reach a consensus. In this week’s episode, we discuss different options for communication and legal action that can prevent the need to involve a judge by helping you and your ex-spouse come to an agreement that is best for your child.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!!

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: Why You Want to Avoid it - Part 2

Mon, 22 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500

While sometimes necessary, entering into litigation is a big decision with potentially life-altering ramifications, so you need to explore all other options first. Resolving problems without going to court can protect you and your blended family from the stress, anxiety, fear, and uncertainty that accompany legal action.

In this episode, we will talk about why seeking other options is so important, and we will provide some insight into the expenses, spiritual warfare, and expectations inherent with litigation.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!!

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Litigation and Lawsuits Within Blended Families: Custody Changes - Part 1

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500

There may come a time in your blended family journey when changes need to be made to your custody agreement. In many cases, this can happen because something has changed for one or both of the biological parents, but it could also be brought about by risk to the safety of the child.

In this week’s episode, we will discuss the variety of reasons to change your custody agreement, share some important considerations, and provide basic information about litigation and what it entails. Remember, you are working for a better situation for your child to live and thrive.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!!

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Understanding Where We Fit in God's Family with Special Guests Addison and Juli Bevere

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We are excited to share this bonus episode with you! Addison and Julianna Bevere stopped by to talk about the importance of community in an isolation-driven culture, what it looks like to be a saint (it's not what you think!), and the crucial role of the Holy Spirit in bringing reconciliation in places and places that seemed irreconcilable.

We pray this podcast blesses you! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: What is Your Parenting Perspective? - Part 5

Mon, 01 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0500

In this week’s episode, we discuss the effects that our attitudes have on the way we parent and co-parent, and the influence of comparison in our relationships with those around us. We will also share some practical strategies for overcoming a negative attitude and overcoming a spirit of comparison.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: Working Through Child Manipulation - Part 4

Mon, 25 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500

The pain of divorce can cause us to act and react in ways that we never expected we would, and our children can end up feeling the effects. It is important that we examine our hearts regularly and seek revelation and healing from God, so that we can overcome any spirit of fear that may cause us to behave in unhealthy ways.

In this week’s episode, we look at Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation behaviors. We will discuss strategies for recovering from such behaviors for the well-being of our children and we will share steps toward building a better, healthier co-parenting relationship.

You can find more episodes about Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation on our YouTube channel or search "blended kingdom families podcast" on any streaming platform. Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: Parent and Child Communication - Part 3

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Take a minute to think about how awesome it is when your child is telling you a story or celebrating something that happened at school. The moments we are able to listen to their creativity, celebrate with them, or just have a conversation with them are some of the greatest moments in life!

In blended families, custody situations can cut down on the amount of time one parent gets with the child. This can be difficult for both the child and the parent. We all want those precious moments we mentioned above and they’re so important for building a strong bond. In this week’s episode, we will talk about keeping your child and co-parent connected while they are not together, how communication methods can change as your children grow, and so much more!

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Facing New Step-Family Challenges Together: A Foot in Two Homes - Part 2

Mon, 11 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500

In blended families, we can sometimes get caught up in the routine or the hustle of everyday life and forget that our children are shifting back and forth between two homes and different routines.

This week’s episode is all about finding out how we can make life more comfortable for them. Making accommodations in our home to create a sense of unity or sameness between both parents’ houses will allow children to feel less like they live two separate lives, and more like they have a home in two places. We’ll share some practical ways to talk to your children and make adjustments to meet their needs in both homes.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Facing New Stepfamily Challenges Together: Parental Influence - Part 1

Mon, 04 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Parental influence is a powerful thing. Children watch their parents’ every move. learning from the actions and behaviors they see. They are likely to pick up these behaviors and carry them for years to come. For that reason, it is important that we take steps show our children how to speak life into everyone we meet and treat others with love, kindness, and grace.

In this week’s episode, we introduce our newest podcast series, “Facing New Family Challenges Together,” with a discussion about the strength of parental influence on our children. They learn so much about life, marriage, family relationships, and social interactions by watching us, so self-awareness and intentionality in how we interact with others in front of our children are crucial.

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting means Co-Financing with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Are finances and child support payments pain points in your blended family? Finances are often difficult to navigate, and they can be especially challenging to figure out when it comes to co-parenting. This podcast is for you if you are seeking financial strategies with healthy and beneficial outcomes for your family.

This week's podcast topic covers financial matters in co-parenting relationships and how to better navigate financial agreements. We also discuss God's faithful provision, how He can bless your family in seasons of financial difficulty, and the blessings of a generous heart.

This is the final episode of our Parenting and Co-Parenting series. If you missed the first three, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel or listen on any podcast streaming platform. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in
September of 2022. Check out our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Parenting and Co-Parenting: Discipline Together with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 20 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500

This week's podcast topic is about the second major factor of Parenting and Co-parenting: discipline. This can be a hot topic when it comes to blended families and requires effective communication between both biological parents and stepparents. Today, we will share a five-point plan for discipline in blended families and go over each point in detail.

This is the third episode of our Parenting and Co-Parenting series. If you missed the first two, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel or listen on any podcast streaming platform. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Parenting and Co-Parenting: Teammate Talk with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500

What does communication and co-parenting between you and your ex-spouse look like? Would you consider it peaceful and consistent, or in need of improvement? Today we discuss:
- strategies for improving communication with your ex
- how technology can help facilitate effective co-parenting decisions
- taking the first steps toward a healthy relationship with your ex-spouse

This is part two of this month's series on Parenting and Co-Parenting. If you missed the first episode you can watch it here on our YouTube channel or listen on any podcast streaming platform. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Parenting and Co-Parenting: Co-Parenting is a Team Sport with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0500

As co-parents, it is possible to experience peace and unity as we work together for the well-being of our children. This podcast is for you if you are seeking to improve your co-parenting relationship or trying to establish a healthy dynamic with your ex-spouse.

This month's podcast series focuses on co-parenting and how the relationship between you and your ex-spouse can affect your children. We will discuss three major factors: communication, discipline, and finances. We also share how prayer and obedience to God's word can equip you in your efforts to parent together peacefully.

If you are looking for more episodes on co-parenting or blended family relationships, you can find us on all major podcast platforms. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Additional resources can be found in our book, Blended and Redeemed, which releases in September of 2022. Check out our website for more updates and information on the book!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Triggered Parenting Transformed with Scott and Vanessa, and Special Guest Wendy Speake

Mon, 30 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500

What triggers you? How do you react in the moment? Triggers can be difficult to navigate, but they do not have to control you. This podcast is for you if you want to rewrite the script of triggered reactions.

In this month's bonus episode with special guest, Wendy Speake, we talk about triggers, how they affect our parenting, and strategies for overcoming them. We also discuss the special triggers that can exist in blended families, as well as God's redemptive power.

We are so excited to share this bonus episode with you! Wendy Speake is an author, speaker, Bible teacher, mother of three boys, host of the 40 Day Sugar Fast, co-author of Triggers, and more. We had a blast getting to sit down with her to talk about blended families, triggers, and God's redemption. We hope you enjoy it!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Blending Your Bunch: Putting the ‘Fun’ in Dysfunctional with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 23 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500

How do you and your blended family put the 'fun' in dysfunction? We know it can be tough, but dysfunction is part of life and you and your blended family can make the best of it and build relationships while you're at it! This podcast is for you if you are seeking strategies for finding fun in seasons of dysfunction or you want to overcome expectations for blending.

This week's episode is all about expectations and dysfunction in blended families. We share ideas for fun activities to do as a family that can help overcome dysfunction and build relationships, explain how expectations can cause additional stress to the blending process, and offer encouragement for overcoming both dysfunction and expectations with God's guidance.

We're so excited to share the last installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the previous episodes of this series, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel, or listen to them on any podcast streaming platform! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Blending Your Bunch: The Stepparent Name Game with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 16 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500

How did you navigate the Stepparent Name Game in your blended family? We know there is a lot to consider when it comes to this part of the blending journey. This podcast is for you if you, your spouse, and your co-parents are struggling with Stepparent Names or if you are unsure of how to approach the subject with your children.

A question we here a lot is: What should a child call their stepparent? In this episode we share why we feel that it is important for children to have input in naming their stepparent and provide strategies for bio and stepparents to support and find peace in your child's decision.

We're so excited to share the third installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the first two episodes of this series, you can watch them here on our YouTube channel, or listen to them on any podcast streaming platform! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Blending Your Bunch: How Do Children Spell Love? with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 09 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Do you and your children spell love the same way? For children, T-I-M-E = Love. This podcast is for you if you are looking for new ways to spend time with your children or if you are a stepparent seeking strategies for building your relationship with your step-children.

This week is all about time! There never seems to be enough of it. Before we know it, our kids will be all grown up and out of the house, so it is important that we are intentional in our time with them now. In this episode, we talk about why our children need our time, how to make the best use of our time, and how to be prayerful, patient, and persistent in our relationship with our children.

We're so excited to share the second installment of Blending Your Bunch with you! If you missed the first episode of this series, you can watch it here on our YouTube channel, or listen to it on any podcast streaming platform! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Blending Your Bunch: Different Types of Love in Your Blended Family with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 02 May 2022 03:00:00 -0500

How are you navigating blending your family? This podcast is for you if you and your family are just starting your blending journey, you're a new stepparent wanting to bond with your stepchildren, or you are in a later season of blending and hoping to strengthen your family relationships.

Hey, friends! We have a new podcast series called Blending Your Bunch. Continuing to teach on topics from Blended and Redeemed, the book we will be releasing in September, this month we want to share some support, encouragement, and guidance for blending your family!

This series will cover the different types of love in blended families, the importance of spending time building the stepparent/stepchild relationship, determining what your children call their stepparent, and embracing family dysfunction. We'll share personal experiences, biblical truth, and practical advice to help you navigate the ins and outs of becoming a blended kingdom family!

In this week's episode, we discuss love as defined by the Word of God, how love between biological parents and their children can be different compared to that of the stepparent and stepchild relationship, creating the ideal environment for the members of your blended family to build strong relationships with one another, and so much more.

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The False Promise of Inner Vows: Overcoming Your Inner Vows with Your Spouse with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Happy Monday, friends! We are so excited to share this week's podcast, "The False Promise of Inner Vows: Overcoming Your Inner Vows with Your Spouse" - Part 4 of 4!!

This is our fourth teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series focuses on the destructive power of inner vows. We discuss how inner vows are a false promise to ourselves and a declaration of what we will or will not do to keep ourselves from ever experiencing the hurt from our past again. We also talk about how inner vows affect our relationship with God and our loved ones, and how to let go of our inner vows.

In this week’s episode, we share reflection questions for you, your spouse, and your family that help you in your journey to healing and freedom from inner vows. We also discuss the importance of sharing your feelings and your healing journey with your spouse, as the two of you become one in marriage.

This podcast is for you if:
- You and your spouse are seeking strategies for overcoming inner vows together
- You are struggling to share your feelings with your spouse
- You want to be free of inner vows but you are unsure of where to start

In this episode, we discuss:
- The journey to healing and freedom
- Sharing your thoughts and feelings with your spouse
- The importance of examining your heart regularly

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The False Promise of Inner Vows: Clearing Out Your Past with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We hope you had a wonderful Easter weekend, friends! Today is another awesome Monday and we have another awesome podcast to share with you! This week's episode is "The False Promise of Inner Vows: Clearing Out Your Past" - Part 3 of 4!!

This is our fourth teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series focuses on the destructive power of inner vows. We discuss how inner vows are a false promise to ourselves and a declaration of what we will or will not do to keep ourselves from ever experiencing the hurt from our past again. We also talk about how inner vows affect our relationship with God and our loved ones, and how to let go of our inner vows.

In this week's episode, we start cleaning out the storage unit - taking the time to shine a light on the feelings and baggage from the past and working to clear it out of our hearts. We discuss important steps toward healing and forgiveness, as well as surrendering control back to God.

This podcast is for you if:
- You want to unload baggage from your past
- You are experiencing unexpected misunderstandings with your spouse
- You are seeking guidance for overcoming unforgiveness

In this episode, we discuss:
- Surrendering our false promises to Christ in exchange for His faithful promises
- The journey of achieving healing and freedom
- The different perspectives on inner vows that come with different seasons of life
- And more!

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The False Promise of Inner Vows: What Landmines Are Awaiting You? with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Hey, friends! It's Podcast Monday and we are so excited about this week's episode, "The False Promise of Inner Vows: What Landmines Are Awaiting You?" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2 of 4!!

This is our fourth teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series focuses on the destructive power of inner vows. We discuss how inner vows are a false promise to ourselves and a declaration of what we will or will not do to keep ourselves from ever experiencing the hurt from our past again. We also talk about how inner vows affect our relationship with God and our loved ones, and how to let go of our inner vows.

In this week's episode, we explain how creating inner vows in defense against someone or something often turns into drinking your own poison - an attempt at self-protection that ends up being negativity that takes over your life. We also discuss how inner vows can become emotional, mental, and spiritual landmines that often have unknown triggers.

This podcast is for you if:
- You and your spouse are in a season of misunderstood tension with one another
- You are seeking guidance in letting go of unforgiveness
- You want to uncover and understand your inner vow landmines

In this episode, we discuss:
- The toxicity of inner vows in your own heart
- The sensitivity and mystery of landmine triggers
- The importance of uncovering landmines before they are set-off

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The False Promise of Inner Vows: Self-Proclaimed Promises with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "The False Promise of Inner Vows: Self-Proclaimed Promises" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1 of 4!!

This is our fourth teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series focuses on the destructive power of inner vows. We discuss how inner vows are a false promise to ourselves and a declaration of what we will or will not do to keep ourselves from ever experiencing the hurt from our past again.

In this week's episode, we explain what an inner vow is, how they are created, and how they come to light, even when we are unaware that we have made them. We provide some examples of common inner vows and share personal experiences with inner vows.

This podcast is for you if:
- You want to understand what inner vows are
- You want to conquer your inner vows with God and your spouse
- You are seeking strategies for uncovering inner vows before you get married

In this episode, we discuss:
- The importance of understanding inner vows
- How inner vows can go unnoticed for years
- The damage an inner vow can do if it is not dealt with in a healthy way
- Surrendering inner vows to God
- And more!

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

God's Presence in Every Season of Marriage, with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and Special Guests, Dillon and Mia Mathes

Fri, 01 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this month's bonus episode, "God's Presence in Every Season of Marriage," with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and Special Guests, Dillon and Mia Mathes!!!

In this episode, we discuss God's plan for your life, your marriage, and your family and the fact that God's plans for your future are greater than what happened in your past. We cover how prayer helps you come into agreement with your spouse in any season of life and marriage, as well as creating a lineage of healthy and joyful marriage for future generations.

This podcast is for you if:
- You’re newly married and looking for ways to prepare for your future
- You and your spouse are struggling to adapt to new circumstances
- You are seeking ways to break the generational cycle of divorce in your family
- You are unsure of how to set healthy boundaries for your marriage and family

In this podcast, we discuss:
- God’s faithfulness to answer prayers
- How to grow closer to your spouse in any season of marriage
- God’s plans for your future are greater than what was in your past
- And more!

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

A Marriage Reflecting God: Seeing Your Spouse Through the Eyes of God with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "A Marriage Reflecting God: Seeing Your Spouse Through the Eyes of God - Part 4" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4 of 4!!

This is our third teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series on marriage focuses on building a marriage that reflects God and His design for spousal relationships. Marriage is not only a covenant with your spouse but also with God. When we intentionally maintain a relationship with God in our marriage and align ourselves with His perfect design for marriage, we are equipped to be the best spouse we can be for our husband or wife.

In this week's episode, we share some ground rules for marriage and what it means to see your spouse the way God sees them. We discuss intentional communication, healthy boundaries, and maintaining an attitude of respect and honor toward your spouse.

This podcast is for you if:
- You are looking for ways to strengthen your marriage
- You want to develop healthy expectations with your spouse
- You want to understand and share God’s perspective of your spouse

In this episode, we discuss:
- Healthy ways to communicate with your spouse
- Important boundaries that can strengthen your marriage
- Understanding God’s perspective and expectations of your spouse
- And more!

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

A Marriage Reflecting God: Free Your Marriage from Pride and Arrogance with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "A Marriage Reflecting God: Free Your Marriage from Pride and Arrogance - Part 3" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3 of 4!!

This is our third teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series on marriage focuses on building a marriage that reflects God and His design for spousal relationships. Marriage is not only a covenant with your spouse but also with God. When we intentionally maintain a relationship with God in our marriage and align ourselves with His perfect design for marriage, we are equipped to be the best spouse we can be for our husband or wife.

In this week's episode, we introduce the remaining three steps (out of six) toward a marriage reflecting God: forgiving freely, extending God's grace toward your spouse, and loving your spouse with humility. We discuss the power of forgiveness, grace, and humility and how God included them in His design for marriage.

This podcast is for you if:
- You want to understand the power of forgiveness
- You want to overcome pride and arrogance in your marriage
- You are unsure of how to extend God’s grace to your spouse.

In this episode, we discuss:
- The importance of forgiveness in marriage
- What it means to extend God’s grace toward your spouse
- How humility combats pride and arrogance
- And more!

You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

A Marriage Reflecting God: Drawing Closer to God and Your Spouse with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "A Marriage Reflecting God: Drawing Closer to God and Your Spouse - Part 2" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2 of 4!!

This is our third teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series on marriage focuses on building a marriage that reflects God and His design for spousal relationships. Marriage is not only a covenant with your spouse but also with God. When we intentionally maintain a relationship with God in our marriage and align ourselves with His perfect design for marriage, we are equipped to be the best spouse we can be for our husband or wife.

In this week's episode, we introduce the first three steps (out of six) toward a marriage reflecting God: praying together, intentional communication, and recognizing marriage as a faithful commitment to both your spouse and God. We explain the power of prayer and healthy communication in your marriage, and what the marriage covenant really means.

This podcast is for you if:
- You want to build a God-centered marriage and family
- You’re seeking guidance for praying with your spouse
- You want to learn more about the importance of healthy communication in your marriage

In this episode, we discuss:
- The power of praying with your spouse
- The importance of healthy communication in your marriage
- The significance of God’s role in your marriage

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

A Marriage Reflecting God: How God Sees Marriage with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "A Marriage Reflecting God: How God Sees Marriage - Part 1" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1 of 4!!

This is our third teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

This month's series on marriage focuses on building a marriage that reflects God and His design for marriage. Marriage is not only a covenant with your spouse but also with God. When we intentionally maintain a relationship with God in our marriage and align ourselves with His perfect design for marriage, we are equipped to be the best spouse we can be for our husband or wife.

In this week's episode, we explain what it means to have a marriage that reflects God. We discuss the importance of understanding God's design for marriage and how that design equips us to be a good spouse. We also talk about maintaining and building a relationship with God, both individually and as a couple.

This podcast is for you if:
- You want to understand God's plan for marriage
- You are looking to strengthen your marriage
- You are seeking a deeper relationship with God

In this episode, we discuss:
- God's perfect design for marriage
- The importance of modeling marriage after His design
- How to support your spouse in their walk with Christ

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Creating a Legacy for Your Children with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Creating a Legacy for Your Children - Part 4" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4 of 4!!

This is our second teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

Priorities for a healthy, God-centered marriage are: God first, spouse second, and children third. We know that setting and maintaining this list of priorities, in this order, can be difficult to navigate, so we wanted to sit down to explain why the order of these priorities is so important. We also wanted to provide some practical advice and suggestions to help you and your spouse get your marriage to a healthy, God-centered place.

In this week's episode, we discuss why your children should be your third priority after God and your spouse. We talk about the difficulty of maintaining the order of priorities, how important it is to model healthy marriage for your children, and why time spent with your children is sacred.

This podcast is for you if:
- You are wanting to set priorities for your marriage
- You are unsure how to maintain the order of priorities
- You are seeking new strategies to spend time with your children.

In this episode, we discuss:
- Why your children should be your third priority
- The importance of setting a good example of a healthy marriage for your children
- How spending time with your children can create a legacy for their future
- And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Being One With Your Spouse with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Being One With Your Spouse - Part 3" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3 of 4!!

This is our second teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

Priorities for a healthy, God-centered marriage are: God first, spouse second, and children third. We know that setting and maintaining this list of priorities, in this order, can be difficult to navigate, so we wanted to sit down to explain why the order of these priorities is so important. We also wanted to provide some practical advice and suggestions to help you and your spouse get your marriage to a healthy, God-centered place.

In this week's episode, we discuss why your spouse should be your top priority, after God. We cover strategies for prioritizing your spouse, supporting your spouse's faith through spiritual intimacy, and the importance of intentional quality time with your spouse! We also explain the importance of physical, emotional, and financial intimacy for your marriage.

This podcast is for you if:
- You are seeking new ways to have a healthy marriage
- You are unsure of how to best prioritize your spouse
- You want to better understand the importance of intimacy in your marriage.

In this episode, we discuss:
- Why your marriage should be your second priority, after God.
- Different types of intimacy and how they are important for the health of your marriage
- The importance of being intentional about spending time with your spouse

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Strategies for Breaking Negative Habits in Your Marriage, with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and Special Guests, Sean and Lanette Reed

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this month's bonus episode, "Strategies for Breaking Negative Habits in Your Marriage," with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and special guests, Sean and Lanette Reed! This podcast is for you if you and your spouse are in a season of transition, you feel resentment toward your spouse and don’t know why, or you want to prepare for navigating future transitions!

Sean and Lanette Reed are speakers, authors, and podcasters partnered with XO Marriage, and are the Marriage pastors at Open Door Church. They've been married for 21 years and currently live in Greenville, North Carolina with their three children who getting ready to graduate college. They wrote Marriage in Transition and have a podcast with the same name!

In this podcast we discuss:
- The negative habits you and your spouse may fall into in seasons of transition
- Strategies for breaking those habits
- Creating a legacy for your family
- And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!⁠ #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Sean and Lanette?
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seanandlanette
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/seanandlanette
Website: https://www.seanandlanette.com/
Marriage in Transition Book: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/best-sellers/products/marriage-in-transition-1-preorder-now

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Why Christ Should Come First with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: Why Christ Should Come First - Part 2 " with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2 of 4!!

This is our second teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

In this week's episode, we discuss the importance of keeping God as our top priority in life. We cover why God should be at the center of everything we do, how your marriage will flourish from God being the number one priority, and practical steps for getting in God's presence.

This podcast is for you if:
- You are seeking guidance for how to make God the number one priority over your spouse
- You want to get into God’s presence more often but are unsure how
- You want to grow spiritually with your spouse.

In this episode we discuss:
- Why God is the #1 priority
- How to get into God’s presence as an individual and with your spouse
- Understanding that you and your spouse might experience God differently

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: How to Have a God-Centered, Healthy Marriage with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "Priorities for a Healthy Marriage: How to Have a God-Centered, Healthy Marriage - Part 1" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1 of 4!!

This is our second teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our episodes will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

Priorities for a healthy, God-centered marriage are: God first, spouse second, and children third. We know that setting and maintaining this list of priorities, in this order, can be difficult to navigate, so we wanted to sit down to explain why the order of these priorities is so important. We also wanted to provide some practical advice and suggestions to help you and your spouse get your marriage to a healthy, God-centered place.

In this week's episode, we discuss the importance of setting priorities for your marriage and family early on and the benefits of premarital counseling. We also cover the struggles of rearranging priorities in a blended family, how an example of a healthy marriage can help your children heal, and more! We also announce the title of our upcoming book!

This podcast is for you if
- You’re engaged or newly married and want to set a good foundation for your marriage
- You’ve been married before and you want your new marriage to be done God’s way
- You’re looking for ways to renew your current marriage

In this episode we discuss:
- How to set priorities for a healthy, God-centered marriage
- The benefits of premarital counseling
- Why right priorities are important for a healthy marriage

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

Growing Closer to God and Your Husband with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Amanda Davison

Mon, 31 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this month’s bonus episode, "Growing Closer to God and Your Husband" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Amanda Davison. This podcast is for you if you’re a wife trying to connect better with your husband, you’re looking for resources for wives, or you’re seeking encouragement for your marriage!

Amanda Davison is the founder and president of a nonprofit ministry, A Wife Like Me, which consists of a team of speakers, pastors, leaders, etc. She is an author, a speaker, a wife, and a mother of 3! Her book, "Dear Wife: 10 Minute Invitations to Practice Connection with Your Husband", was written with the hope that wives would not only have a better connection with their husbands but also that they would find a deeper and greater connection with God.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:
- The struggle wives sometimes feel in connecting with their husbands
- “Micro-moments” and the little things that make the biggest difference
- How God’s presence can change how we see our husbands
- And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Amanda Davison?
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awifelikeme/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/awifelikeme
Website: http://awifelikeme.com/

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The Church and Blended Families: Embracing the Opportunity with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600

Well, it's Monday, friends, and we are so excited to share this week's podcast, "The Church and Blended Families: Embracing the Opportunity" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 4 of 4!! This is our first teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We can't wait to share this new content with you!

In this week's episode, we discuss the importance of starting the conversation about blended family ministry in churches, the sacred gifts that marriage and family are in God's eyes, steps to a godly marriage, the importance of teaching our children, and the next generation, and much more!

We want to help bring more opportunities for the church to support blended families. Many blended families are seeking biblical tools and faithful community, but do not know where to start. Blended Kingdom Families exists to break the cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families in the truth of God's word. We believe that there is an untapped opportunity for the church in blended family ministry!

This podcast is for you if you want to know more about blended family ministry, you’re seeking ministry for your blended family, or you want to start a blended family ministry.

In this episode we discuss:
- The importance of ministry for blended families and children in blended families
- Breaking the cycle of divorce
- Ways to support and equip blended families in the church and in our communities
- Steps to a godly marriage and modeling that for our children

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The Church and Blended Families: Silence From The Church with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 3

Mon, 17 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600

This is our first teaching series from the book we will be releasing in the second half of 2022! Every month our podcasts will cover a different topic from the book, each separated into parts! We are so excited to share this week's episode, "The Church and Blended Families: Silence From The Church!"

In this week's episode, we talk about the need to discuss the topics of marriage, divorce, and remarriage within the church. It is important to share God's great forgiveness and His willingness and ability to bless remarriage!

We want to help bring more opportunities for the church to support blended families. Many blended families are seeking biblical tools and faithful community, but do not know where to start. Blended Kingdom Families exists to break the cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families in the truth of God's word. We believe that there is an untapped opportunity for the church in blended family ministry!

This podcast is for you if you are a pastor looking for resources for your congregation, you are a blended family in need of encouragement and support, or you are recovering from divorce and need encouragement!

In this episode we discuss:
- The need for the church to minister to divorce recovery, remarriage, and blended families
- Finding the balance between Truth and Grace
- Healing and Forgiveness after divorce

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The Church and Blended Families: Does Your Church Have Answers? with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 2

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share the second episode of our new podcast series! In this episode, "The Church and Blended Families: Does Your Church Have Answers?," we continue to discuss Blended Families in the Church!

In this week's episode, we talk about whether the church can provide answers for blended families or simply leave them with more questions than they came in with. We also cover the power of God's love and presence, knowing your worth in God, and the enemy's attempts at isolation!

We want to help bring more opportunities for the church to support blended families. Many blended families are seeking biblical tools and faithful community, but do not know where to start. Blended Kingdom Families exists to break the cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families in the truth of God's word. We believe that there is an untapped opportunity for the church in blended family ministry!

This podcast is for you if you’re looking for more information on the needs of blended families, you are feeling alone after divorce and/or remarriage, or you are searching for more resources for blended families!

In this episode we discuss:
- God’s overwhelming love
- The needs of blended families, divorced individuals, and remarried couples
- The importance of community against attacks from the enemy

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

The Church and Blended Families: The Greatest Untapped Ministry with Scott and Vanessa Martindale - Part 1

Mon, 03 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share the first episode of our new podcast series! This year we are sharing teachings from our upcoming book! In this episode, "The Church and Blended Families: The Greatest Untapped Ministry - Part 1," BKF founders Scott and Vanessa Martindale sit down to discuss Blended Families in the Church!

In this week's episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about new podcast plans, their upcoming book, the Blended Kingdom Project and what it revealed, specific needs of blended families, the need for biblically-based resources within the church, and so much more!

We want to help bring more opportunities for the church to support blended families. Many blended families are seeking biblical tools and faithful community, but do not know where to start. Blended Kingdom Families exists to break the cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families in the truth of God's word. We believe that there is an untapped opportunity for the church in blended family ministry!

This podcast is for you if you’re searching for Bible-based resources for your blended family, you’re seeking encouraging community for your blended family, or if you're a pastor or group leader searching for ways to start a blended family ministry in your church!

In this episode we discuss:

The need for more biblical resources for blended families within the church
The opportunity for pastors to learn more about blended family ministry
The special needs of blended families
The importance of community for blended families

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community? Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

One Hundred Episodes of Sharing God's Word with Scott and Vanessa Martindale

Mon, 27 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0600

100 episodes of Blended Kingdom Families Podcast!!!

We are so blessed to be sharing God's Word this way! Thank you all for sharing our content and helping us spread the word to more and more marriages and families! We pray that we can continue His work through many more podcasts and videos in the years to come!

This podcast is for you if:
- You’re new to BKF
- You’re a blended family looking for resources
- You know a blended family searching for resources

In this episode we discuss:
- The birth and future of BKF
- The growth of the ministry
- The Vision of BKF
- What Blended Kingdom Families mean to us
- And more

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe so you never miss an episode!!⁠

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to join the Blended Kingdom Families Community?
Connect with us: https://linktr.ee/blendedkingdomfamilies

How to save your Marriage in Crisis with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest, Dr. David E. Clarke

Mon, 20 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week's episode, "How to save your Marriage in Crisis" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and special guest, Dr. David E. Clarke. This podcast is for you if you feel your marriage is past saving, you are seeking resources to save your marriage, or you are entering a blended family and want to heal from past hurts.

Dr. David E. Clarke is a clinical psychologist, an author, a podcaster, and a popular speaker. He began his work in psychology in 1986, counseling all kinds of mental health situations, family and relationship issues, and more. He earned his Ph.D. at Western Conservative Baptist Seminary.

Dr. Clarke is, first and foremost, a follower of Christ. He and his wife, Sandy, have been married for 39 years, and have worked together in their ministry. Sandy works with David with book orders, tough cases, and ministry. They have three daughters, one son, and four grandchildren.

In this podcast we discuss:

Resources for marriages in crisis
God’s plan for your marriage
Best practices for saving your marriage
Common misconceptions about marriage issues
And more

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Dr. David E. Clarke?
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/davideclarkephd/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/davideclarkephd/
Website: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-EUb8w7j2nM1LbmiopvkYg
Book: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/i-didn-t-want-a-divorce-now-what

How to Transition from Engaged to Blending a Family with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and Special Guest, Ron Deal.

Mon, 13 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week's episode, "How to Transition from Engaged to Blending a Family," with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and special guest, Ron Deal. This podcast is for you if you’re struggling to create a family dynamic leading up to your wedding, you're looking for a resource in preparation for remarriage and blended family life, or you’re feeling like an outcast as a blended family in the church.

Ron Deal is an author, a speaker, and has been in ministry for 35 years. Ron and his wife, Nan, have been married for more than 30 and are the parents of three sons. Ron and Nan met in 7th grade in Des Moines, Iowa, went to high school and college together, and got married halfway through undergrad.

Ron and Nan are part of a ministry for rescuing trafficked children in Ghana, Africa in memory of their middle son, who they lost at the age of 12. They also host a virtual support group for parents who have lost children twice a month.

In this podcast we discuss:

How to find the familial relationship you desire in your new marriage
God’s redemption and narrative in your story
Changing the church’s approach to premarital counseling for remarriages
And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Ron?
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylifeblended/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylifeblended/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/RonLDeal
Website: www.FamilyLife.com/blended
Podcast: https://www.familylife.com/podcast/series/preparing-to-blend/
Book: https://shop.familylife.com/p-6133-preparing-to-blend.aspx

The Power of Healthy Community with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guests Zach and Brenda Vertz

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "The Power of Healthy Community" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guests Zach and Brenda Vertz. This podcast is for you if you’re looking for a like-minded community, you need resources for your blended family, or you’re feeling alone in your life struggles.

Zach and Brenda Vertz are a blended family with their two children (and one on the way.) Brenda brings a daughter, Aniya, from her previous marriage, and together they have a one-year-old son, Judah. Zach studied Christian Ministry at Dallas Baptist University and was a youth pastor for three years. Brenda is now a stay-at-home mom but was previously an elementary school teacher.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Struggling without community
Resources for blended families
Finding healthy community
Importance of Community for the whole family
And more!

Blending Families After Tragedy and Loss with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest, Jessica Ronne

Mon, 29 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Blending Families After Tragedy and Loss" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and special guest, Jessica Ronne. This podcast is for you if you’re looking for support as a caregiver, would like to learn how to support the caregiving community, or you’re in need of hope in the season of blending your family after tragedy and loss.

Jessica and her husband, Ryan, are parents to 8 children one of which, Lucas, has profound special needs. She is an author, speaker, podcast host, documentary producer, caregiver, advocate, and executive producer of “The Lucas Project.” Jessica’s book “Blended with Grit and Grace,” tells the story of her family and their trials and tribulations through stories about their blended life together, and she wrote it as a follow up to her first memoir about meeting Ryan. She and her family live in Michigan and are working to build their dream accessible home. Jessica’s mission through her work with The Lucas Project is to provide recognition and respite to special needs caregivers.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Jessica’s story of blending her family after tragedy
Processing grief and healing as a family
The Lucas Project and caring for a child with profound special needs
Walking in obedience to what God is calling you to
And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today!
#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Jessica Ronne?
Facebook: https://Facebook.com/jessplusthemess
Instagram: https://Instagram.com/jessplusthemess
Twitter: https://Twitter.com/jessplusthemess
Website: www.jessplusthemess.com or www.thelucasproject.org

Taking Steps Towards Inner Healing with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Kerrie Oles

Mon, 22 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Taking Steps Towards Inner Healing" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Kerrie Oles. This podcast is for you if you’re looking to improve your relationship with God, your spouse, and your family, or you’re looking for practical steps to experience inner healing, or you’re tired of listening to the lies of the enemy and need help leaning into God’s love.

Kerrie Oles is funny, authentic, and committed to helping others with the keys to unlock real, healed, and victorious lives. She is a seasoned conference speaker and brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to platforms across the country. Her humorous straightforward approach and in-depth biblical insight are healing hearts and transforming lives as she delivers messages of encouragement, freedom, and victory by loving the real and being real.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

What is Inner Healing?
The importance of being in tune with the Holy Spirit and getting in God’s presence daily
How getting before THE truth (God and His Word) will drown out lies of the enemy
Vulnerability breeds vulnerability
And more!!

What is Extraordinary Parenting? with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Pastor Jonathan Pokluda

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “What is Extraordinary Parenting?” with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Pastor Jonathan Pokluda. This podcast is for you if you’re looking to learn extraordinary parenting patterns and habits, you need encouragement on boundaries and discipline, or you’re looking for tips on being intentional with the time you have left with your kids in the home.

Jonathan “JP” Pokluda is the Lead Pastor of Harris Creek Baptist Church in Waco, TX. He was formerly the leader of The Porch in Dallas, TX which hosted a phenomenal young adult gathering. Pastor Jonathan is the author of the best-selling book, “Welcome to Adulting'', as well as his most recent best-seller, “Outdated”. JP's partner in ministry is Monica, his wife of 16 years, and together they disciple their 3 children, Presley, Finley, and Weston.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Modeling a real authentic relationship with Jesus to our children
Preventing the enemy from coming into our homes instead of inviting him in
Modeling forgiveness, grace, setting boundaries, and discipline
And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today!
#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Pastor Jonathan Pokluda?
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jonathanbpokluda
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jpokluda/?hl=en
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JPokluda
Podcast: Becoming Something Podcast with Jonathan Pokluda

Healing and Restoration with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Dr. Shannan Crawford

Mon, 08 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Healing and Restoration” with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Dr. Shannan Crawford. This podcast is for you if you’re interested in learning more about the conscious and unconscious mind, you’re struggling to heal over past hurt and childhood traumas, or you’re in need of healing and restoration.

Dr. Shannan Crawford is a licensed clinical psychologist, conference speaker, adjunct professor at The King’s University, podcast host, and leadership consultant. Dr. Shannan Crawford has invested over 15-years in honing strategies for optimal performance for those leading in the creative, corporate, faith-based, and entrepreneurial spaces. Founder of the educational non-profit 7M Culture. She is also the host of the “Unlock U with Dr. Shannan Crawford” podcast in which she uses her experience and passion to help others understand and resolve the unconscious dynamics that have been sabotaging their best efforts.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

The concept of reenactments and how they impact feelings
Passive Aggression: What is it?
Inner Vows & Breaking strongholds
The difference between forgiving and healing
And more!!

Placing Your Hope in Christ | Overcoming Postpartum Depression with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guests Daniel & Ashley Morgan Jackson

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Placing Your Hope in Christ | Overcoming Postpartum Depression” with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and special guests Daniel, and Ashley Morgan Jackson. This podcast is for you if you’re currently battling Postpartum Depression or any variation of depression or anxiety, or you’re looking for practical and spiritual tips to support a loved one battling depression.

Daniel and Ashley have been married for 12 years, and they have 2 little boys. Daniel grew up in a blended family, with 2 half-siblings and 5 full siblings. He graduated from Liberty University with a Bachelor's Degree in Communications. Daniel loves being a dad, husband, and coaching youth sports. Ashley is currently the COMPEL community coordinator. COMPEL is a branch of Proverbs 31 Ministries, which is a writer’s training program. She is the author of “The Blessing of Being Broken” as well as “Called to Build”, a Bible study on the book of Nehemiah. Recently, she released a podcast also by the same name of “Called To Build” in order to equip women to take steps toward the dreams God has placed in their hearts.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Enduring through and triumphing over depression
The paralyzing nature of depression
God’s love for you that surpasses understanding
The authority you have after going through the wilderness season
And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today!
#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Daniel and Ashley Morgan Jackson?
Website: ashleymorganjackson.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AshleyMorganJacksonblog
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashley.morgan.jackson/
Twitter: twitter.com/ashleymjackson

Contract Vs. Covenant | A Biblical Mindset on Marriage with Scott & Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guests Matthew & Rachael Gilbert

Mon, 25 Oct 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Contract Vs. Covenant | A Biblical Mindset on Marriage” with Special Guests Matthew & Rachael Gilbert. This podcast is for you if you’re trying to understand the difference between a worldly view of marriage and a Christian view of marriage, you’re looking for practical and spiritual tips to experience healing in your marriage, or you’re wondering how to submit your marriage to God.

Matthew and Rachael have been married for 16 years and have 3 kids. Matthew is a chiropractor practitioner and CEO of The Back and Body Clinic (Award-winning in Denton county). Rachel is a counselor, business owner, speaker, podcast host of ‘Real Talk with Rachael’. Rachael loves to help women find their voice and be brave enough to use it!

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Contract vs. Covenant
Loving your spouse through the hard seasons
Submitting your marriage to God
Special recognition and piece of encouragement for stepparents
and more!!

Prioritizing Your Marriage in Seasons of Busyness with Scott and Vanessa Martindale, and Special Guest Dr. Kim Kimberling

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Prioritizing Your Marriage in Seasons of Busyness" with Scott and Vanessa Martindale and Special Guest, Dr. Kim Kimberling. This podcast is for you if your marriage is on hold or stuck in a cycle of busyness, you’re looking for practical tips to stay connected to your spouse, or you’re looking to take the next step in your prayer life with your spouse.

Dr. Kim Kimberling is President and Co-Founder of Awesome Marriage, he is the author of “7 Secrets to an Awesome Marriage” and “14 Keys to Lasting Love.” Dr. Kim has a Ph.D. Doctorate of Ministry and Christian Counseling, Masters Degree in Christian Ministry and Theological Studies, and has been a professional counselor for over 40 years.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

Establishing healthy habits for your marriage to help in busy and transitional times
Pursuing your spouse
Modeling a healthy marriage relationship for your kids
and more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Dr. Kim Kimberling?
Ministry Website - AwesomeMarriage.com
Personal Website - KimKimberling.com

Ministry Instagram - www.instagram.com/awesome_marriage/
Personal Instagram - www.instagram.com/kimkimberling/

Ministry Facebook - www.facebook.com/awesome.marriage/
Personal Facebook - www.facebook.com/drkimkimberling

How to Find Your Place as a New Stepdad with Scott Martindale and Special Guest Zach Vertz

Mon, 11 Oct 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "How to find your place as a new stepdad", with Zach Vertz and Scott Martindale. This podcast is for you if you’re a new stepdad, you’re wanting to bond with your stepchildren, or you’re feeling discouraged as a stepdad.

Zach graduated from DBU and worked as a Youth Pastor for 3 years. Then, got married to his wife, Brenda. She had a daughter, Aniya and so he also became a dad at that time. They have since had a son together, he is a little over a year old.

As a Christian Licensed Professional Counselor, Scott Martindale specializes in counseling blended pre-marriage couples, marriage, and families with over 15 years of experience. When Scott and Vanessa first got married, Vanessa had a son who was 7 years old. They have been married for 8 years in November, and have 3 boys together.

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

How to create a bond with your stepkids
Why it’s important to pursue your wife AND your stepkids
Creating a good relationship with the birth father
Navigating your place as a stepfather

Allowing the Holy Spirit to Guide Your Marriage with Special Guest Jen Weaver

Mon, 04 Oct 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, “Allowing the Holy Spirit to Guide Your Marriage”, with Jen Weaver. Jen is a wife, mom of two young boys, and currently serves as a ministry coach. She is the author of “A Wife’s Secret to Happiness.” We were so blessed by this conversation and are so excited to share it with you!
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IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:⁠
- How to pray together in marriage
- What it looks like to let the Holy Spirit lead your marriage
- How to be a Godly wife and lead in your position
- Making God the center of the marriage
- Embracing your role in marriage based on what God says

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Jen Weaver?
Jen’s Book: https://www.thejenweaver.com/a-wifes-secret-to-happiness/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejenweaver/
Website: https://www.thejenweaver.com

Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation with Special Guest Dr. Les Carter

Mon, 27 Sep 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, “Dealing with Child Manipulation and Parent Alienation”, with Dr. Les Carter. Dr. Les Carter is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me".

IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:

How to handle a narcissistic ex spouse
What child manipulation looks like
Teaching your child to know the essence of love
Parent alienation

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Want to connect with Dr. Carter?
Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/SurvivingNarcissism
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/survivingnarcissism101/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/survivingnarcissism101/
Website: https://courses.survivingnarcissism.tv/

Single Parents and The Freedom Journey with Special Guest Samantha Golden

Mon, 20 Sep 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, “Single Parents and The Freedom Journey”, with Samantha Golden. Samantha is the Women’s Pastor at the Gateway NFW Campus. She is also the CEO of She Rises and Co-founder of the non-profit group, Help Her Rise. Pastor Samantha is the Chairman of the board of Embrace Grace and on the Advisory board of Hope Academy. She is a wife, mother, and grandmother, and mentor to hundreds of single mothers in the Dallas-Fort Worth area.

In this episode, we discuss:

How to embark on your freedom journey
Establishing the right view of God
God + parenting = success
Samantha’s nonprofit, @helpherrise
And more!

Where to find Samantha:
Samantha’s nonprofit: https://www.helpherrise.com/
Samantha’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samanthaagolden/
Samantha’s Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/people/Samantha-Donohoo-Golden/1647423999

Starting The Conversation: Blended Families & The Church, with Scott and Vanessa Martindale

Mon, 13 Sep 2021 04:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Starting The Conversation: Blended Families & The Church", with Scott and Vanessa Martindale. Scott and Vanessa founded Blended Kingdom Families in 2020 with a God-given desire to encourage and equip remarried couples, blended families, and local churches across the nation.

Since both Scott and Vanessa grew up in blended families, they know firsthand the joys and difficulties that can come along with blending a family. As a Christian Licensed Professional Counselor, Scott Martindale specializes in counseling blended pre-marriage couples, marriage, and families with over 15 years of experience. Scott’s heart is to partner with couples as they navigate the beautiful processes of marriage and blending families with Kingdom foundations. Vanessa Martindale is a wife, mother, registered nurse, and current graduate student at The King’s University in pursuit of a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy. The Martindales have been married for over 7 years and enjoy their blended family of four boys and three golden retrievers.

In this episode, we discuss:
- Opportunities for the church to better serve blended families
- Church community for blended families
- The weight of divorce on children
And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Scott and Vanessa:
Vanessa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessammartindale/
Scott's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scott_martindalelpc/
Vanessa's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VanessaMMartindale
Scott's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scott.martindale.54

Marital Infidelity: A Story of Redemption with Bob and Audrey Meisner

Mon, 06 Sep 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, "Marital Infidelity: A Story of Redemption", with Bob and Audrey Meisner. The Meisners are best-selling authors, conference speakers, and founders of Love Married Life. They both have their doctoral degrees in ministry and specialize in helping marriages build and maintain phenomenal love. Their message of hope is authenticated by their own compelling story of God rescuing their marriage. 20 years ago, Audrey had an affair, confessed to Bob, and later found out that she had become pregnant. After the baby was born, Bob gave him his own name: Robert. The Meisners' journey to wholeness and redemption has allowed them to help relationships and marriages for the past 15 years, as well as gain a wide range of insight into topics such as communication, forgiveness, personality traits, conflict, sex, and more.

In this episode, we discuss:
- Healing from an extramarital affair
- The barrenness of busyness
- Forgiveness: the greatest gift to couples
- Healing from shame, walking in freedom
And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Bob and Audrey:
Bob and Audrey's website: https://www.bobandaudrey.com/
Bob and Audrey's podcast:
- Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/all-about-relationships/id1461725348
- Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/22aHoEy22LYLH0YuO5BPeH?si=AcNrC0RIQYabw7kUSn1d0Q&dl_branch=1
Bob and Audrey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bobandaudrey/
Bob and Audrey's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bobandaudreymeisner

Litigation: Practical and Spiritual Advice, with Scott and Vanessa Martindale

Mon, 30 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Litigation: Practical and Spiritual Advice", with Scott and Vanessa Martindale. Scott and Vanessa Martindale are the founders of Blended Kingdom Families, a ministry that exists to break the cycle of divorce, equip marriages, and unite blended families with the truth of God's Word. Scott and Vanessa grew up in blended families and have experienced firsthand the joys and difficulties that can come along with blending a family.

As a Christian Licensed Professional Counselor, Scott Martindale specializes in counseling pre-marriage couples, married couples, and blended families. With over 15 years of experience, Scott partners with couples as they navigate the beautiful processes of marriage and blending their families with Kingdom foundations. Vanessa Martindale is a wife, mother, registered nurse, and current graduate student at The King’s University in pursuit of a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy. The Martindales have been married for over 7 years and enjoy their blended family of four boys and three golden retrievers.

In this episode, we discuss:

Pursuing mediation and facilitation before litigation
The benefits of a Christian divorce lawyer
Who wins in litigation?
What does God have to say?
And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Scott and Vanessa:
Vanessa's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessammartindale/
Scott's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scott_martindalelpc/
Vanessa's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VanessaMMartindale
Scott's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scott.martindale.54

BKF's Upcoming Blended Couple's Event: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/your-place-at-the-table-a-blended-couples-gathering-registration-165898618233

Conquering Shame, Choosing Hope, with Toni Collier

Mon, 23 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to announce our new podcast episode, "Conquering Shame, Choosing Hope", with Toni Collier. Toni Collier is the Co-Lead Pastor of Hillsong Atlanta and founder of an international women’s ministry called Broken Crayons Still Color that helps women process through brokenness and get to hope. She is a speaker, host, and consultant that has helped organizations with creative marketing, leadership, student ministry, and strategic planning.

In this episode, we discuss:

The co-existence of hope and joy
Redemption from shame
Building grit to endure life’s valleys
Toni Collier’s ministry, Broken Crayons
And more!!

Blended Families From a Child's Perspective with Emily Schwartz

Mon, 16 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Blended Families From a Child's Perspective" with BKF's very own administrative coordinator, Emily Schwartz. At age 11, Emily and her four siblings moved from Florida to Texas, where they were adopted by her aunt and uncle. When her family blended, she gained three more siblings, making her one of eight children. This past June, Emily recently got engaged to her fiancé, David. In her free time, with her culinary education, Emily enjoys cooking, as well as hiking, reading, and listening to podcasts.

In this episode, we discuss:

Practical ways to unite your family
Improving relationships between bio and stepsiblings
Encouragement for parent-child relationships
How Emily’s family of 10 navigate blended life
And more!

Blended Families: Letting Go of Expectations, with Andrea Fortenberry.

Mon, 09 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, "Letting Go of Expectations", with Andrea Fortenberry. Andrea is a writer, speaker, and Bible teacher. She is the host of The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering, a podcast that equips moms to find freedom from perfectionism and show up for the life God has for them. She is on staff with MOPS International as an Executive Leadership Coach, where she encourages and supports coordinators across the country.

In this episode, we discuss:

Expectations versus expectancy
Perfectionism and motherhood
Unhealthy expectations within your marriage
Andrea’s podcast, The Perfectionist’s Guide to Mothering
And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Andrea:
Andrea's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/andreafortenberry/
Andrea's website: https://www.andreafortenberry.com/
Andrea's podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-perfectionists-guide-to-mothering/id1514529622

Pre-Marriage Prep: Am I Ready to Blend? with Scott Kedersha

Mon, 02 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Pre-Marriage Prep: Am I Ready to Blend?”, with Scott Kedersha. Scott got married on September 15, 2001 to his lovely wife Kristen. Soon after, the Kedershas moved to Dallas so he could attend seminary. The Kedersha family thought they’d be in Texas for four years and then move out of state soon after. 19 years and four boys later, however, they’re still in Texas. Scott served in Marriage Ministry at Watermark Community Church for 14 years, and in July 2020, his family moved to Waco, TX where he currently serves as the Marriage and Family Pastor at Harris Creek Baptist Church. Scott is also the author of "Ready or Knot: 12 Conversations Every Couple Needs to Have Before Marriage" and writes about marriage, parenting, leadership, and ministry.

In this episode, we discuss:

Having fun in your marriage
Questions to ask before you get married
The definition of an offensive marriage
Destigmatizing marriage counseling
Scott Kedersha’s book, Ready or Knot?
And more!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Scott Kedersha:
Scott's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/skedersha/
Scott's website: ScottKedersha.com
Scott's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorScottKedersha/
Scott's book: https://www.scottkedersha.com/ready-or-knot

Adding an “Ours” Baby To Your Blended Family with Heidi Farrell

Mon, 19 Jul 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Adding an 'Ours' Baby in Your Blended Family”, with Heidi Farrell. Heidi Farrell is a stepmom and mom of five, whose ages range from 23 down to 5 years old. She and her husband have seen the full range of child development in their house...often all at once! Heidi loves connecting with moms and stepmoms by coaching and encouraging them on their journey. She writes about her experiences and provides practical strategies for stepmoms, and you can find her eBook about the joys and complications of adding an ours baby on her website.

In this episode, we discuss:

Overcoming resentment between stepchildren and “ours” children
Parenting with the gift of the Holy Spirit
Communicating needs and recognizing love languages
Heidi’s eBook, “How to Add an Ours Baby to Your Stepfamily…Without Letting Resentment Get in the Way”
And more!!

Heidi's website: https://notjustastepmom.com/
Heidi's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/notjustastepmom/
Heidi's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/notjustastepmom/
Heidi's eBook: https://notjustastepmom.com/product/ebook/

Processing Grief with Your Children After Divorce with Lauren Reitsema

Mon, 12 Jul 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Processing Grief with Your Children After Divorce”, with Lauren Reitsema. Lauren’s interest in relationship skills began when her parents divorced after almost 20 years of marriage. Seeking to understand better patterns for her own future legacy, she earned a Bachelor in Communication from TCU. Lauren is the author of In Their Shoes, a book dedicated to helping parents better understand and connect with children of divorce. Her second book, titled Relationship Essentials, is scheduled to be released this coming November. Lauren's vocational speaking experience spans over 15 years, teaching a variety of relationship skills to youth, adults, and corporate teams. Lauren recognizes relationships are one of life’s most important assets and energizes a room to prioritize the people in their lives. She and her husband, Josh, love adventures with their three children. All Colorado natives are avid skiers, outdoor enthusiasts, and Broncos’ fans.

In this episode, we discuss:

Connecting with your children after divorce
The role of counseling after a divorce
How grief can manifest in your child
The role of community as you and your children heal
Lauren’s book, In Their Shoes
And more!

Lauren's socials:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurenreitsema/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/authorlaurenreitsema/

Lauren's book:

https://www.amazon.com/Their-Shoes-Helping-Understand-Children-ebook/dp/B07PZVCDBY

Stepparenting: Where Is The Reward?

Mon, 05 Jul 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Stepparenting: Where is the reward?”, with our founders, Scott and Vanessa Martindale. As a Christian Licensed Professional Counselor, Scott specializes in counseling blended families, marriage, and pre-marriage with over 13 years of experience. Scott’s heart is to partner with married couples and families as they navigate the beautiful processes of marriage and blending families with Kingdom foundations. Vanessa Martindale is a wife, mother, registered nurse, and current graduate student at The King’s University in pursuit of a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy. Scott and Vanessa have been married for over 7 years and enjoy their blended family of four boys and three golden retrievers.

In this episode, we discuss:

A stepparent’s God-ordained purpose and responsibility
A biological parent’s role within a marriage
The reward of stepparenting: is it earthly or heavenly?
Raising up a child in Christ
The blessings of placing God’s will above our own

Where to find Scott Martindale:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scott_martindalelpc/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scott.martindale.54

Where to find Vanessa Martindale:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessammartindale/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VanessaMMartindale

Blended Kingdom Families website: www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com

Divorce, Remarriage, and Blended Families with Pastor Jimmy Evans

Mon, 28 Jun 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Divorce, Remarriage, & Blended Families”, with special guest, Pastor Jimmy Evans. Jimmy Evans is the founder and president of XO Marriage, a ministry that is devoted to helping couples thrive in strong and fulfilling marriages. After serving as senior pastor of Trinity Fellowship Church in Amarillo, Texas for 30 years, he now serves as apostolic elder. Jimmy has authored more than seventeen books. He and his wife Karen have been married for 48 years, and they have two married children and five grandchildren.

In this episode we discuss:

Can God bless your marriage after a divorce?
How to overcome shame can affect blended families
Setting boundaries for your children to the benefit of your marriage
The role of repentance in your life and your ex-spouse’s life
Jimmy Evans' book: The Four Laws of Love
And more!

Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!! We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Pastor Jimmy Evans:
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCoQ_Psj81henXRMe9ZAynbQ
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psjimmyevans/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PsJimmyEvans/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/psjimmyevans?lang=en
MarriageToday Podcast with Jimmy and Karen: https://xomarriage.com/podcasts/marriagetoday/
Link to his book, The Four Laws of Love: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/jimmy-evans/products/the-four-laws-of-love

Where to find his ministry, XO Marriage:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xomarriage/
Website: https://xomarriage.com/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyeUw8LCw7srWnk5c267Alg

Am I A Good Stepparent?

Mon, 21 Jun 2021 08:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Am I A Good Stepparent?”, with special guests, Jason and Lauren Vallotton. Jason is the Pastoral Care Overseer at Bethel Redding. He is a counselor, teacher and outdoor adventure enthusiast! He's given his life to resourcing and equipping people with tools for emotional and relational health and is the founder of BraveCo, an online community of men pursuing wholeness, purpose and brotherhood. Jason is also the author of Winning the War Within and co-author of Moral Revolution. Lauren is an Executive Pastor at Bethel Church in Redding, California where she helps bring pastoral and logistical leadership to the Church Team. With a knack for organizational leadership and strategy, she's fueled by her heart to see individuals, families, and cities transformed to display their greatest potential! She and Jason have recently added a beautiful baby girl to the party, and their family continues to be their greatest joy and deepest fulfillment.

In this episode we discuss:

How to date after divorce
Co-parenting as a team with your spouse
Building connections and establishing trust with your stepchildren
Jason’s book: Winning the War Within
And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find Jason and Lauren Vallotton:
Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton
Lauren's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lvallotton
Jason's new book, Winning the War Within: https://shop.bethel.com/collections/jason-vallotton/products/pre-order-winning-the-war-within-the-journey-to-healing-and-wholeness
Jason's Men's Discipleship Program: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men

Are you winning at Marriage? with Brent Evans

Mon, 14 Jun 2021 02:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Are you winning at Marriage?,” with special guest, Brent Evans (@marriage). Brent Evans is the CEO of XO Marriage and host of the XO Marriage Podcast. Brent joined the organization in 2005 after many successful years helping businesses and nonprofits achieve greater results online and the organization has grown tremendously under his leadership!

In this episode we discuss:
- What is XO Marriage?
- XO Marriage Conference
- You have a 100% chance of success at marriage if you do it God’s way
- Why is it so important to equip your marriage?
- And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com. Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!
#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Where to find XO Marriage:
Brent's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriage/
XO Marriage website: https://xomarriage.com
XO Marriage conferences: https://xomarriage.com/conferences/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/xomarriage/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/xomarriage/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/xomarriage/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/xomarriage

Are You Leading Your Spouse Well? with Rashawn and Denisse Copeland

Mon, 07 Jun 2021 02:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Are You Leading Your Spouse Well?,” with special guests, Rashawn and Denisse Copeland. These two have the biggest heart for young adults and sharing Christ’s love with others. We sat down and discussed their books, ministry, and all that they’re doing for the kingdom!

Rashawn Copeland is the founder of I'm So Blessed Daily and Without Walls Ministries.He is a writer, podcast host, and serves on the Life.Church (YouVersion) Bible app team! Denisse was born and raised in Bayamon Puerto Rico. She is currently a stay home to three boys and the author of the book ‘Set Apart: Stop Comparing, Own Your Giftedness, and Rest in Jesus.’

In this episode we discuss:
- Embracing the gifts God has given you
- When we are new in Christ, we are set apart
- Love your spouse and children's wounds well
- Leading not just your words, but your actions
- Parenting in messy and hard seasons
- And more!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Growing Up In A Blended Family: Pursuing Your Stepchildren with Kory and Ashley Miles

Mon, 31 May 2021 08:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Growing Up In A Blended Family: Pursuing Your Stepchildren,” with special guests, Kory and Ashley Miles. Kory and Ashley are long time friends of Scott and Vanessa, and are so special to our community. We were so blessed to sit down with these two and hear their hearts on growing up in blended families, breaking the cycle of divorce, and tips to protect your marriage.

In this episode we discuss:

Coming from blended families and their experiences
Pursuing your stepchildren and making them feel secure
Pressure on the children of blended families
Practical and spiritual advice on breaking generational curses (A special prayer if you’re in this situation)
And more!!

Be sure to check out the full episode wherever you listen to your podcasts -- it is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

The God of New Opportunities with Luis and Kristen Roman | Blended Kingdom Families

Mon, 24 May 2021 03:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “The God of New Opportunities,” with special guests, Pastor Luis and Kristen Roman! Luis and Kristen have been married for almost 28 years and have 3 amazing sons! They are a part of the XO Marriage family and host the ‘Exito en la Familia’ (Success in the Family) podcast. They are the authors of “Un Matrimonio Divino” (A Divine Marriage) and we are so blessed to have them on the show. They have a passion for helping marriages and families, and God has equipped them to do so!

In this episode we discuss:
- Divine marriage comes from the heart of God
- God of new opportunities
- Walking through healing, repentance, and forgiveness
- Advice for marriages and blended families
- And more!!

Be sure to check out the full episode wherever you listen to your podcasts -- it is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and watch it on our YouTube channel! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Happy, Healthy, and Whole in Your Single Season with Jeanine Amapola

Mon, 17 May 2021 02:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Happy, Healthy, and Whole in Your Single Season,” with special guest, Jeanine Amapola. Jeanine Amapola is a 27 year old Dallas based Christian YouTuber & podcaster. Jeanine posts content regarding faith, health, fashion, her life, and more! She is passionate about community and young women finding their identity in Christ.

We were so blessed to sit down with Jeanine to hear her heart on abiding in Christ, singleness, and dating in a healthy way. Jeanine shares with us truths about your single season and how you are always complete in Christ.

In this episode we discuss:
- Dating out of abundance
- Practical steps to being happy, healthy, and whole in your single season
- Importance of finding your tribe
- What your alone time says about you?
- And more!!

This podcast is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

Where to find Jeanine:
Youtube: @Jeanine Amapola
Apple Podcasts: Happy and Healthy with Jeanine Amapola
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeanineamapola/
https://www.instagram.com/abidetribe/

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Choosing Love Everyday in Your Marriage with Meygan and Casey Caston | Blended Kingdom Families

Mon, 10 May 2021 07:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Choosing Love Everyday in Your Marriage” with special guests, Casey and Meygan Caston. Casey and Meygan have been married for 18 years and are the founders of Marriage365! They met in college, fell in love, got married, and by year 3 were headed towards divorce. They knew they didn’t want their marriage to end and decided to make a change.

We were so blessed to sit down with these two and hear their hearts for marriage. They blessed us with so much wisdom and encouragement by sharing their journey.

In this episode we discuss:

If you want a better marriage, you need to work on a better you.
Pride and Vulnerability
Skewed expectations of marriage
Selflessness of marriage
Divorce and God’s grace
And more!!

You can find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Marriage in Transition with special guests, Sean and Lanette Reed

Mon, 03 May 2021 09:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Marriage in Transition,” with special guests, Sean and Lanette Reed. We were so blessed to sit down with these two and hear their hearts on their new book, ‘Marriage in Transition: Creating Connection Through Uncontrollable Change.’ These two brought so much encouragement and practical tips on communication, patience, and humility!

In this episode we discuss:

The power of your legacy
Staying connected with your spouse through transition
Learning personalities and communication styles
And more!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Amazing Grace & the Power of Your Testimony

Mon, 26 Apr 2021 07:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Amazing Grace & the Power of Your Testimony,” with special guests, Rick and Yesi Botello. We were so blessed to sit down with these two and hear their hearts on overcoming divorce and shame and how your testimony can give hope and encouragement to other people walking in a similar journey. Rick and Yesi are a blended family of 6 and do ministry together as a family.

In this episode we discuss:

Don’t be ashamed of your scars
The power of your testimony
A piece of encouragement for single moms
Healing and Restoration
And more!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

The Importance of Having a Church Community for Your Blended Family

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 05:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “The Importance of Having a Church Community for Your Blended Family,” with special guest, Claire Jennings. We were so blessed to sit down with Claire and hear her heart on growing up and being raised by a single mom and navigating both of her parents' remarrying. She shared with us that the church was her refuge and why it is so important to get plugged into the church community.

In this episode we discuss:
- How the church is a refuge and safe place for children
- Worries that come along with blending and remarriage from the child’s perspective
- Attacks from the enemy and how to stop them
- Perspective as a daughter of the King
- And more!!

Be sure to check out the full episode wherever you listen to your podcasts -- it is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

Be blessed in all you do today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

God Breathes on Blended Families

Mon, 12 Apr 2021 08:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “God Breathes on Blended Families” with special guests, Moe and Paige Becnel! We were so blessed to sit down with Moe and Paige and hear their hearts and advice for blended families.

Moe and Paige are the authors of ‘God Breathes on Blended Families,’ which is an incredible book that personally spoke to Scott and Vanessa during the early years of blending their family. Moe and Paige have been married for 32 years and are a blended family of 5!

In this episode discuss:
Inspiration for writing their book: God Breathes on Blended Families
Challenges that remarried couples face while blending
Respecting differences of opinions
Stepparenting Do’s & Don’ts
The Power of Prayer
And more!!

Be sure to check out the full episode wherever you listen to your podcasts -- it is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Blending a Family After Loss with Kelley Johnson

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 06:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Blending a Family After Loss,” with special guest, Kelley Johnson! We were so blessed to sit down with Kelley and hear her story of growing up in a blended family after the loss of her biological father at 4 years of age. Kelley shared her perspective with us through her personal experience and gives great encouragement to families who are currently going through loss.

Kelley Johnson is a Registered Nurse, nursing advocate, public speaker, and the most recent former Miss California USA. Previously, she represented the Miss Colorado Organization across the nation as Miss Colorado 2015.

Kelley is remembered for her nursing monologue performance in 2015 that led to the famous "Doctor's Stethoscope" comment on the television show The View and the #NursesUnite campaign ignited across America.. The past three years for Nurse Kelley have included appearances on the Ellen DeGeneres Show, Dr. Oz, The Doctors, E News, Inside Edition, and various other television, radio, and over 80 speaking engagements across our country where Kelley has consistently represented and advocated for the profession of nursing on a national level.

In this episode we discuss:

Blending a family after tragedy
Hope and encouragement for those walking through loss
Grace and patience
Encouragement for stepparents
And more!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Follow Kelley Johnson:
instagram.com/realnursekelley
https://nursekelley.com
https://www.facebook.com/realnursekelley
https://twitter.com/realnursekelley

Keeping Christ at the Center of Your Marriage and Blended Family

Mon, 29 Mar 2021 06:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Keeping Christ at the Center of Your Marriage and Blended Family,” with our amazing guests, Jim and Tanya Phillips! Jim and Tanya have been married for 9 years and are a blended family of 7! They are the founders of Blended By His Grace and we have so much we can learn from them!

On today’s episode we discuss:

With God all things are possible
The importance of spending time together in prayer and scripture
The importance of your personal relationship with the Lord
Advice for blended families in the midst of chaos
And more!!

Be sure to check out all of our episodes wherever you listen to your podcasts -- it is available on all major podcast platforms! You can also find our podcast on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe to never miss an episode!!

https://blendedbyhisgrace.com/
https://www.facebook.com/BlendedByHisGrace/
instagram.com/blendedbyhisgrace
instagram.com/tanyaphillips77

The Argument Hangover with Guests Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman

Mon, 22 Mar 2021 05:00:00 -0500

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “The Argument Hangover,” with special guests, Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman! We were so blessed to sit down with the Freemans and hear their hearts on healthy conflict and communication!

Aaron and Jocelyn are sought after relationship coaches, the founders of Empowered Couples University, authors of ‘The New Power Couple’ and ‘The Argument Hangover!’ They have a passion for helping couples with relationship skills and are on a mission to lower the divorce rate!

In this episode discuss:

Why conflict doesn’t have to be something you avoid
How to keep arguments from escalating
Embracing conflict
Unconditional love
And more!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Growing Up in a Blended Family

Mon, 15 Mar 2021 04:00:00 -0500

We’re so excited to be sharing episode 59, “Growing Up in a Blended Family” with Meagan Funk! We were so blessed to sit down with Meagen and hear her heart on this topic! Meagan brings such a great perspective on growing up blended and how it has shaped the person she is today.

Some topics we discuss:

The importance of transparency as parents
Processing your emotions and identity
Taking care of yourself so you can take care of your children
The importance of seeking counseling and healing for past traumas

To find this episode (and more!) search ‘Blended Kingdom Families’ wherever you listen! We’re available on all major podcast platforms, our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com, and YouTube! Be sure to subscribe and stick around for more episodes!

We pray this podcast blesses you today! ❤️🙏🏼#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Co-Parenting In Unity With Joe And Mandi Marco

Mon, 08 Mar 2021 05:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s episode, “Co-Parenting in Unity with Joe and Mandi Marco.” with you today! We had the best time sitting down with Joe and Mandi Marco and hearing their blended family testimony. We met the Marcos through the Blended Kingdom Project and wanted to bring them on the show to share their experiences and knowledge of blending a family.

On this episode, they share with us what it is like to become an ‘instant’ parent, grace in learning your new role, and coparenting the best way that you can.

Find it on our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com, on any major podcast platform, and YouTube! While you’re there check out all our other amazing episodes and guests we’ve had on the Blended Kingdom Families podcast!

We pray this blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Stepparenting With Grace

Mon, 01 Mar 2021 05:00:00 -0600

You are still loved and worthy even though you walked through divorce
The church is not for perfect people
Stepparenting with grace
How to deal with circumstances you cannot control

This episode plus the entire Blended Kingdom Families Podcast library is available on all major podcasting platforms as well as our website and YouTube channel!! Be sure to subscribe so you’ll never miss an update!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! 🙏🏼❤️

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

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Gods Redemptive Power In Your Blended Family | Callie Shipp Gray & Lauren Luna

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 03:00:00 -0600

Welcome to Blended Kingdom Families! Living blended their entire lives, Scott and Vanessa Martindale know first-hand both the joys and difficulties of living blended. After coming out of one of the hardest seasons of their life, God asked them to partner with Him, in building Blended Kingdom Families everywhere. This has now birthed a ministry that desires to help others in remarriage and cultivate community among blended families.

We are so excited to release this week’s episode, “God’s Redemptive Power in Your Blended Family” with Callie Shipp Gray and Lauren Luna! This mother-daughter duo shared their hearts and wisdom on this episode!

Callie and Lauren share their experiences navigating the lowest parts of their life, divorce, blending, and God’s redemptive power through it all! It was such a powerful episode and testament to God’s faithfulness. You will not want to miss this episode!

Some topics discussed on this episode are:
- Recognizing we are powerless without the Holy Spirit
- Only placing expectations on God
- A special message for the stepmoms listening
- Divorce, forgiveness, and healing
- And more!!

This episode plus the entire Blended Kingdom Families Podcast library is available on all major podcasting platforms as well as our website and YouTube channel!! Be sure to subscribe so you’ll never miss an update!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! 🙏🏼❤️

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Stepdad Success in Your Blended Family.

Mon, 15 Feb 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share with you this week’s episode, “Stepdad Success in Your Blended Family.” We’re blessed to have Rev. Slavoski Wright join us again to discuss finding success in your blended family as a stepdad! We love the perspective that this episode brings and the opportunity to speak to all the stepdads out there.

On this episode we discuss:
- Preparing yourself for stepparenting
- The importance of Communication
- Coming along side as support as a stepdad
- Expectations in this new role
- And much more!

We pray this episode blesses you today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Importance of Open Communication and Prayer in Your Blended Family

Mon, 08 Feb 2021 03:00:00 -0600

We are so excited to share this week’s podcast episode, “Importance of Open Communication and Prayer in Your Blended Family” with Slavoski and Umeka Wright! Slavoski and Umeka are the authors of Blended and Loving It: A Thirty Day Devotional for Blended Families.

In this episode, we dive into what open communication looks like within your blended family and the importance of prayer. Blending a family can be hard work but pairing it with prayer and smart communication skills can really help on your journey.

We pray that this blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

God Can Use Anyone - Your Story Is Powerful

Mon, 01 Feb 2021 10:00:00 -0600

On today's episode, "God Can Use Anyone: Your Story is Powerful", Scott and Vanessa sit down with David Meyer, Executive Minister at the Hills Church. David shares with us his experiences growing up in a blended household, and how God's love has been shown through at all stages of his life. David gives families the encouragement that your story matters! What you are going through now will give you the tools to help someone else through this exact situation, and that is a huge blessing! We cannot wait for you to hear what David has to share.

Today we discuss:
- Blended families and the church
- Beauty can be created from ashes
- Your story will be used for good
- How to trust God's plan for your life
- And much more!

This episode plus the entire Blended Kingdom Families Podcast library is available on all major podcasting platforms as well as our website and YouTube channel!! Be sure to subscribe so you’ll never miss an update!!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Growing in Intimacy with Your Spouse with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

Mon, 25 Jan 2021 03:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, “Growing in Intimacy with Your Spouse,” our guests
Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo from ONE Extraordinary Marriage share with us their personal story of their marriage when they were feeling disconnected and potentially headed for divorce. They share their radical plan that completely changed the trajectory of their marriage for the better. We discuss the importance of sex, intimacy, and setting aside intentional time with your spouse! We absolutely loved having them on the podcast and are so grateful for their heart for marriages and relationships!

Today we discuss:
- The importance of sex in your marriage
- Practical tips to grow in intimacy with your spouse
- The Sex Challenge
- The Six Pillars of Intimacy
- Being intentional about your sex life
- And much more!

Want to connect with Tony and Alisa?
Instagram: @oneextraordinarymarriage
Website: https://oneextraordinarymarriage.com/

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! 🙏🏼❤️

#blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Living with Joy in Your Blended Family Journey

Mon, 18 Jan 2021 03:00:00 -0600

On today's episode, “Living with Joy in your Blended Family Journey,” we sit down with Kyleen Baptiste, founder of Blended Family Hope. She shares with us how she has experienced true joy through her blended family, and how you can too! We can't wait for you to hear what Kyleen has to say!

Today we discuss:
- We're all in this together!
- We all have a different story to share
- Struggling with expectations
- Importance of the posture of our hearts
- Finding community for blended families

We hope this episode blesses you today!

8 is Enough: Worship is Something You Live

Mon, 11 Jan 2021 03:00:00 -0600

Today we have a new episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, "8 is Enough: Worship is Something You Live" with Sion and Shannon Alford. Sion and Shannon share with us what God has shown them throughout their journey of raising 8 children. This episode is filled with so many good nuggets of wisdom, and we can't wait for you to listen!

Today we discuss:
- Worship is not something you do, it's something you live
- The benefit of sharing your struggles to help others in similar situations
- How to live out forgiveness
- Knowing your identity in Christ
- Conflict and resolution in marriage
- and much more!

Our podcast is available on all major podcast platforms, our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com, and YouTube channel! When searching for our podcast, be sure to subscribe so that you will never miss an episode!!

Be blessed in all that you do today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

A Testimony of a Childless Stepmom & God’s Grace for You with Kelly Cornog

Mon, 04 Jan 2021 08:00:00 -0600

On today’s episode, "A Testimony of a Childless Stepmom & God’s Grace for You", we sit down and talk with our good friend Kelly Cornog. Kelly shares with us her testimony that stems from being a childless stepmom. She has a heart for blended families, step parents, and childless stepmoms, and we can't wait for you to be encouraged by Kelly's words! You won't want to miss this episode!

Today we discuss:

The ministry of being a step-parent
How God equips you specifically for each child
How to combat the shame the world brings upon childless stepmoms
God's grace for step parents
and much more!

Our podcast is available on all major podcast platforms, our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com, and YouTube channel! When searching for our podcast, be sure to subscribe so that you will never miss an episode!! We pray that this episode blesses you today!

Be blessed in all that you do today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

A Blended Family Testimony: Children Walking through Addiction, Parent Shaming, and Healthy Dependency" with Rudy and Charla Janecka

Mon, 28 Dec 2020 08:00:00 -0600

On this weeks episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we have the privilege of interviewing our good friends Rudy and Charla Janecka, On this episode "A Blended Family Testimony: Children Walking through Addiction, Parent Shaming, and Healthy Dependency" Rudy and Charla share a powerful testimony of God's healing and restoration within their children and family. We cannot wait for you to grab hold of what they have to share today.

Today we discuss:

Walking through addiction with your children and how to let God heal in that situation
Finding Godly community and counsel when walking through trying seasons
Maintaining unity in your family
Feeling like a failure as a parent and how to overcome those feelings
Releasing your spirit of fear
and much more!

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Be blessed in all you do today!! ❤️🙏🏼#blendedkingdomfamilies

Healthy Mindsets & Behaviors When Dating Before Blending with Brittney Moses

Mon, 21 Dec 2020 08:00:00 -0600

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we had the honor and pleasure of interviewing our good friend Brittney Moses. Brittney has created her online platform in the mental health space, and is a single mom beginning to blend! We were honored that she opened up to us regarding her divorce, life with her son, and how she is currently stepping into the process of blending. You won't want to miss this episode!

Today we discuss:

Shame that can come through divorce
The fear of marriage after divorce
When and how to introduce your child to a significant other
Letting Christ lead the way in your relationship
And much more!

You can watch our podcast on YouTube! While you’re there be sure to subscribe to never miss an update!! We pray this episode blesses you today!

A Journey Through Adoption & Foster Care with Kevin & Brittney Borders

Mon, 14 Dec 2020 08:00:00 -0600

Today's episode, "A Journey Through Adoption and Foster Care" with Kevin and Brittney Borders, focuses on blending through adoption and fostering. Kevin and Brittney share with us their testimony with fostering, and how it has affected their family and faith! They have great nuggets of wisdom to share on obeying God's call for you, how to combat the fear of the unknown, how to trust in God's word, and more! You won't want to miss this episode!

Today we discuss:

Trusting in God and His word

Being obedient to what God has set out for us

The ministry of fostering and adoption

Using what you have to bless others

And much more!

Need some encouragement in this area? Check out the podcast on all major podcast platforms! It is also available on our website, along with other incredible resources. Prefer to watch? Check it out on YouTube! While you’re there be sure to subscribe to never miss an update!! We pray this episode blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Preparing for Marriage in Your Single Season with Keisha Montfleury

Mon, 07 Dec 2020 08:00:00 -0600

Happy Monday, friends! We have a new episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, "Preparing for Marriage in Your Single Season" with Keisha Montfleury, and we can't wait for you to listen! Keisha is a mom of 3 with a heart to instill healthy confidence in young girls through their identity in Christ! She has great nuggets of wisdom to share regarding singleness, divorce, and preparing yourself for marriage... you won't want to miss this episode!

In this episode we discuss:

*How to find purpose through your divorce

*What you can do to prepare yourself for marriage

*Letting the Lord equip you for your relationships

*How God walks with you to your purpose

And much more!

Our podcast is available on all major podcast platforms, our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com, and YouTube!

Do you love what you're hearing on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast? We'd LOVE your help by liking, sharing, commenting, and tagging any friends or family who you believe would benefit from listening to the podcast. Our mission and purpose is to help as many blended families and marriages as possible, and we could not do it without your support and help!

We pray this episode blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies

A Naked Marriage with Dave and Ashley Willis

Mon, 30 Nov 2020 05:00:00 -0600

Monday is here! We've got a new episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, "A Naked Marriage" with Dave and Ashley Willis, ready for you!

Dave and Ashley are passionate about helping couples have a stronger marriage full of intimacy, happiness, and lifelong love. They believe that every couple can have a relationship that is full of fun, laughter and intimacy. Dave and Ashley have so much to share with you in regard to having a "naked marriage", and we cannot wait for you to dive into this episode!

On this episode we will discuss:
What is a “naked marriage”?
How to build a strong relationship with your spouse
Practicing patience
How to prioritize your marriage
How to invest in your marriage
And much more!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Overcoming Anxiety & Depression in Your Blended Family with Melissa Clark

Mon, 16 Nov 2020 03:00:00 -0600

We are excited to announce the newest episode of The Blended Kingdom Families Podcast with Melissa Clark, LPC-S, “Overcoming Anxiety and Depression in Your Blended Family”. Melissa is a Dallas-based counselor whose work flows from a deeply rooted faith in Christ, who brings transformation to the true needs of the human heart. Are you or a loved one struggling with feelings of anxiety during this time? This is an episode that you don't want to miss!

On today's episode we discuss:
- What are the common signs of anxiety?
- How to reduce anxiety and depression
- What does it look like if your child struggles with anxiety?
- Practical tips for parents whose child is dealing with mental health issues
and much more!

Do you love what you're hearing on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast? We'd LOVE your help by liking, sharing, commenting, and tagging any friends or family who you believe would benefit from listening to the podcast. Our mission and purpose is to help as many blended families and marriages as possible, and we could not do it without your support and help!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies #restoredfamilymovement

Narcissistic Personality Disorder & Blended Families with Dr. Les Carter

Mon, 09 Nov 2020 03:00:00 -0600

On today’s episode, “Narcissistic Personality Disorder & Blended Families," Scott and Vanessa sit down with Dr. Les Carter to discuss how to deal with narcissistic behavior in your blended family. We cannot wait to share with you the wisdom that Dr. Carter brings!

Today’s guest, Dr. Les Carter, is an author, psychotherapist, and counselor with 40+ years of experience in the field. He is the author of over 20 books and resources including "The Anger Trap" and "When Pleasing You is Killing Me".

In today’s episode Dr. Carter will discuss:
- What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
- How do you co-parent with someone who is a narcissist?
- What to do if the characteristics of a narcissist describe you
- And much more!

We pray this podcast blesses you today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Marriage Triggers & Blended Families with Amber & Guy Lia | Blended Kingdom Families

Mon, 02 Nov 2020 03:00:00 -0600

On today's episode, we have special guests, Amber and Guy Lia. Amber is an author, speaker, producer, and health coach. Guy is an author, speaker, and producer. Together they have 4 boys and love the Lord! Amber and Guy encourage couples in their marriage and families through sharing their own trials and triumphs in their book "Marriage Triggers: Exchanging Spouses' Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses."

On today's episode "Marriage Triggers and Blended Families, " we talked about, "Marriage Triggers," and the story behind it. Amber and Guy shared its not a book they necessarily wanted to write but God called them to it. Sharing their personal struggles and examining their own relationship helped them be able to encourage other couples in the same position.

A few key takeaways from this week's episode are:

-How to identify triggers in your marriage?
- How to address those triggers?

- Setting aside time for important conversations with your spouse.

-The difference between righteous and unrighteous anger.

- Encouragement from them & more!!

To find this podcast, search 'Blended Kingdom Families' wherever you listen! It is available on all major podcast platforms, YouTube, and our website at www.blendedkingdomfamilies.com! While you're there subscribe to never miss an update and stay current on all things BKF! We pray that this blesses you today!!

Be blessed in all you do today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Train Up Your Children: Blended Families & Faith | Scott & Vanessa Martindale

Mon, 26 Oct 2020 03:00:00 -0500

On this week’s episode, we hear from the founders of Blended Kingdom Families, Scott and Vanessa. They share with us the importance of training up a child in the word of God, practical ways to do so, and how they practice faith in their own family!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!! Be blessed in all you do today!!

Blended Families & The 5 Love Languages | Ron Deal | Blended Kingdom Families

Mon, 19 Oct 2020 08:00:00 -0500

On today’s episode, “Blended Families and Love Languages”, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Ron Deal of FamilyLife Blended to discuss how you can use the 5 love languages to navigate and nurture your relationship with your step children. Do you feel rejection from your stepchild? Do you feel lost as to how to communicate with your step children? Ron encourages us all to lead with love as you navigate the blended family life! We cannot wait to share with you the wisdom that Ron has to share!

Today’s guest, Ron Deal, is an author, speaker, husband, father, an expert on blended families, founder of Smart Stepfamily, and director of FamilyLife Blended. He is the author of over a dozen books and resources including “The Smart Stepfamily: 7 Steps to a Healthy Families”, as well as “Building Love Together in Blended Families: The 5 Love Languages and Becoming Step Family Smart” with Gary Chapman. . Ron and his wife, Nan, have three sons and live in Little Rock, Arkansas.

In today’s episode Ron will discuss:

What are the 5 love languages?
How do you discover your love language and the love language of your children?
Starting to show love with the love languages that your stepchildren easily receive
How to pace with your stepchild and how to progress your relationship at their speed
And much more!

We pray this podcast blesses you today!!

Equipping Singles for Blending with Amy Ford

Mon, 12 Oct 2020 03:00:00 -0500

Today, Scott and Vanessa sit down with their good friend, Amy Ford, the founder of Embrace Grace. In Episode 38, “Equipping Singles for Blending”, Amy shares tips for single parents on being introspective during this time of singleness, finding your identity and worth in Christ, and what to consider as you are heading into creating a blended family.

Amy Ford is the President of Embrace Grace, Inc., a non-profit organization formed for the purpose of providing curriculum and leadership support for churches nationwide to open their arms to young women with unplanned pregnancies. Embrace Grace is utilized by over 700 churches across the nation and world. She is also the author of A Bump in Life: True Stories of Hope & Courage during an Unplanned Pregnancy. Amy and her family reside in Arlington, Texas, and have been married for over 22 years and have 4 beautiful children. Amy has been featured on Focus on the Family broadcast, Daystar, Life Today with James Robison, and much more, and we are so thankful to have her as a guest on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast!

Some Themes in Today’s Episode:

Looking at your past and seeking out healing and forgiveness
Taking something that is “unplanned” and seeing the beauty in it all
Finding happiness within yourself and your relationship with Christ prior to engaging in a dating relationship
What it looks like to surrender it all
And much more!

We pray this podcast blesses you today! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Marriage & Sex: Not Just Roommates with Sean & Lanette Reed

Mon, 05 Oct 2020 03:00:00 -0500

On today’s episode, “Marriage and Sex: Not Just Roommates”, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Sean and Lanette Reed to discuss how to determine if you and your spouse are just ‘roommates’, and what steps you can take to intentionally create time to increase intimacy. Do you feel like you and your spouse are losing intentionality in your intimacy and simply living together while going through day to day tasks? You will love the nuggets of wisdom that Sean and Lanette have to share that can easily be applied to your everyday life!

In today’s episode Sean and Lanette will discuss:
• What are the signs you look for in your marriage that indicate you have become just “roommates”?
• Scheduling appointments with your spouse for intimacy
• Discussing sensitive topics with your spouse: how to seek to understand and not accuse
• What is submission and how to take submission to your spouse to the next level
• And much more!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!!

Building Up Your Spouse & Walking through the Seasons of Life

Mon, 28 Sep 2020 03:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we have, “Building Up Your Spouse & Walking through the Seasons of Life.” Our guests for today’s episode are our new friends, Manny and Marlene Dominguez!

Manny is the Youth Pastor for The Hills Church in North Richland Hills and Marlene is a life style blogger (follow her at @curlswithapromise !), mom, and friend.

On today's episode, Manny and Marlene will be sharing how they learned to listen to God, follow His call, and walk in obedience, as well as so many other encouraging thoughts, tips, and nuggets of wisdom! They share about how God led them from their life in New York City heading up a dance studio to where they are now—in Fort Worth, married, with a sweet little baby boy, ministering to the community at the Hills Church!

In this episode we cover:
- Making the most of the season you are in and letting God use you in your time of seeking and waiting
- How to add value to your spouse and the importance of building them up
- Making the most of the season you are in and letting God use you in your time of seeking and waiting
- The importance of focusing on your mental and emotional purity in relationships
- How God can use you when you choose to walk in obedience
- And more!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!! #blendedkingdomfamilies

Overcoming Shame and Blame and the Pitfall of Adultery

Mon, 21 Sep 2020 03:00:00 -0500

On today’s episode, “Overcoming Shame and Blame and the Pitfall of Adultery”, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Bailey and Lacey Bryant and discuss what they have learned through their experiences with adultery, divorce, and remarriage and finding God’s redemption through it all.

Bailey is the pastor at Shiloh Family Church in Flower Mound, Texas and Lacey is a stay at home wife and mom. They are so open and honest with their testimony, and we know you will be positively impacted by hearing their story. They encourage you to remember that God is not limited—He wants to use YOUR family for the good of his Kingdom!

In today’s episode Bailey and Lacey will discuss:
• Dealing with shame and regret from past decisions
• Feeling freedom from shame through God’s redemption...FREEDOM IS POSSIBLE!
• Safeguards to prevent falling into adultery
• The importance of honesty, humility and grace with your spouse
• And much more!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!!

6 Hidden Behaviors that Destroy Families & the Power of Forgiveness

Mon, 14 Sep 2020 01:00:00 -0500

On today's episode, Scott and Vanessa sit down with Dr. Magdalena Battles to go into detail on the 6 hidden behaviors that destroy families and how YOU can make a change in your family by learning to forgive.

Dr. Magdalena Battles has a PhD in psychology, a master's degree in professional counseling, and a bachelor of science degree in child psychology. She is a writer and conference speaker who specializes in parenting, child development, family relationships, domestic violence, and sexual assault.

On today’s episode, Dr. Battles discusses:
• How do identify these 6 hidden behaviors in your family
• How YOU can be the agent of change in your family
• Setting an example of love and not judgment
• Learning to forgive without waiting for an apology
• The importance of a true genuine apology
• How to turn your bitterness over to God

We hope you are blessed by today's episode! Thanks for watching!

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Justin and Michaela’s Blended Family Journey

Fri, 04 Sep 2020 07:00:00 -0500

On episode 33 of the Blended Kingdom Project, “Justin and Michaela’s Blended Family Journey, Scott and Vanessa sit down with their good friends Justin and Michaela and discuss their blended family journey and what they have learned so far in beginning to bring their families together.

We love hearing from couples in the blended family community and how they are navigating this new family dynamic, and we can’t wait for you to hear the nuggets this couple has to share! On today’s episode, Justin and Michaela discuss:
• Blended family resources that they have found valuable as they are beginning to blend
• The importance of seeking community and support on your blended family journey
• Communication, communication, communication!
• Placing your selfishness aside for the good of your new blended family
• And more!

We pray this podcast blesses you today!!

Sex in Marriage & Conflict Conversation

Thu, 27 Aug 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On Episode 32 of the Blended Kingdom Podcast, "Sex in Marriage and Conflict Conversations" we discussed the best and worst times to discuss conflict conversations and the differences between men and women in romance. Our guests, Chris and Stacie Hatchett share challenges they've overcome in their own marriage, the best and worst times to have conflict conversations, and encouragement!

Chris is the campus pastor at The Hills Church here in the DFW area and together they do marriage and pre-marital counseling . We loved the encouragement and wisdom they brought to set and can't wait for you to hear on the podcast!

We hope this blesses you today!!

Surrendering Control

Thu, 20 Aug 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On Episode 31, “Surrendering Control”, Scott and Vanessa sit down with their friends Josh and Sarah Hurley to discuss surrendering control in your blended family, and how that can positively affect your marriage, children, and coparenting relationship.

“Surrender yourself to the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” Psalm 37:7

Do any of you struggle with surrendering control in your family and in life in general? We all can fall into this trap! In this episode, Josh and Sarah share practical tips on how to begin to surrender your life and relationship to God that you can apply to your everyday life. We also hear from Josh as he shares his powerful testimony of how he surrendered his addictions to God, and his life drastically changed for the better. We know that his testimony will connect with many of you, and we can’t wait for you to hear it!

Throughout the episode, we learn about Josh and Sarah’s nonprofit Switch Life which aims to provide empowerment and opportunity for at-risk youth to redirect their paths, teaching life skills and character building through skateboarding lessons and workshops. Through their nonprofit, they promote goal setting, personal responsibility, and self- awareness. Learn more at www.switchlife.org!

We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Striving to Thriving in Motherhood

Thu, 13 Aug 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On Episode 30 of the Blended Kingdom Podcast, "Striving to Thriving in Motherhood", Vanessa shares her heart on being a mother. She suggests practical things that you can implement in your daily life to not just survive motherhood, but thrive! Vanessa emphasizes how important it is to take time for yourself to fill your cup with Jesus so you can become the best wife, mom, and Godly example for your family. On this episode, will hear how God encouraged her that her motherhood ministry matters, and so does yours!

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!!

God, Marriage, & Family

Wed, 05 Aug 2020 19:00:00 -0500

In this week's podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss priorities within your marriage and home. They stress the importance of putting God first, your marriage second, and your children next. When you and your spouse are drawing closer to God, you will also grow closer to each other.

God designed marriage to be a perfect reflection of who He is. When couples put God first and allow themselves to have an intimate relationship with Him first, He will bless their marriage. By serving God in this way, you are serving your spouse and children. Your children will watch you honoring God and each other. They will have a great example of what a Godly relationship and home is.

We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

Being A Stepdad & What I Wish I Knew

Thu, 30 Jul 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott shares with us his heart and experiences with becoming a stepdad and what he wish he had known before hand. He shares practical advice to stepdads and soon-to-be stepdads. He encourages them that there is beauty in the blending and opportunities along the way to learn and grow. We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Hierarchy of the Home with Summer Butler

Fri, 24 Jul 2020 10:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we had the honor of interviewing our friend Summer Butler of the Blended Book Company. Summer is a wife, mother, and author of her new book "Blended: Aligning the Hierarchy of Heart and Home."
In this interview, Summer talks about her ministry, book and experiences as a step-mom and how God spoke to her in the car one day and showed her that she was to raise her step-sons to love Him and call him Father.

We dive into the topic of hierarchy in the home that summer speaks about in her book, and how when we place God first in our home followed by our marriage and then our family, it aligns the home into perfect order. Summer gives amazing insight and wisdom from a step-parents perspective on how we can be a support and encouragement for our stepchildren and that despite all we do for them, the reward of our hard work may not fall on our weekend or in a way that we would expect, but it's our service to them that matters. Our call as a parent is to steward and shepard our children to know and love Him above all. Summer's book releases July 29th 2020, be sure to check it out and to find out more about her and her ministry you can visit www.blendedbookco.com. We pray this podcast blesses you today!

Be Still & Know with Jonathan & Hannah Boles

Thu, 09 Jul 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode we had the opportunity to interview our good friends Jonathan and Hannah Boles. We're so grateful for their heart to share their blended family journey with us. Jonathan and Hannah stress the importance of being still and knowing that God is in control.

When we are still and surrender control to God, He shows us what only He can do. Surrendering your troubles to God and leaning into your spouse will bring you closer to each other and to God.

Child Manipulation & Parent Alienation

Thu, 09 Jul 2020 16:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we talked about the topic of child manipulation and parent alienation. Child manipulation and parent alienation are tools used by the enemy to steal, kill, and destroy. It comes from feelings of guilt, shame, and fear which all come from the enemy.

When you manipulate a child it isolates them from the other parent and discourages a healthy relationship. Scott and Vanessa discuss that it can happen subtly, directly, and indirectly. As parents we need to be aware of how our words and actions effect our children.

Parent Guilt

Thu, 02 Jul 2020 13:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we talked about the topic of parent guilt. Guilt is a powerful emotion that when not addressed can cause turmoil in your faith, relationships, and parenting. Recognizing and addressing parental guilt is an important step in the healing and restoration of your blended family journey.

Guilt is a tool used by the enemy to manipulate you and your relationships with others. It can manifest itself in many ways including through your past experiences, children, and personal convictions. Scott and Vanessa share biblical truth to help navigate parent guilt and how to discuss topics of guilt with your children.

Single Parenting with Liz Whyete

Thu, 25 Jun 2020 15:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we had the great pleasure of interviewing our good friend Liz Whyete. Liz is single mother raising two sons and works as a medical assistant. She and Vanessa met four years ago while serving in the Embrace Grace Ministry.

Liz gives great insight into her personal relationship with Christ, her struggles in past relationships, and lies the enemy feeds you in your darkest times. She explains the struggle of being in an abusive relationship and the shame that comes along with it. Liz shares how breaking the negative self talk on being single is so important in trusting God with your future relationships. We pray that this podcast would bless you today!

Step-Parenting with Craig & Gina Morgan

Thu, 18 Jun 2020 22:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we had the privilege of interviewing our friends Craig and Gina Morgan, who are the founders of Blended Together Forever. Craig and Gina have been married for 24 years and have a lot of wisdom and advice when it comes to step-families, and relationships with your step-children and marriage. This episode is packed full of great nuggets that can help you in establishing a better relationship with your step-children, and building up your marriage and family.

Gina discuss the importance of date nights as a married couple and taking that time to be together intentionally with distractions. She also discusses that as a mother, taking time to be with yourself to renew and refresh your mind and heart is one of the best things that we can do for not only ourselves, but for our husband and children. Craig talks about getting involved with community and "Don't go it alone" in your blended family journey. Getting involved with mentoring, your church and groups to help one another is a great tool that you can give your marriage and family. Craig also discusses the importance of family traditions and how you can still "honor the old" but now create new family traditions. We are excited to launch the new open of our podcast on this episode as well and pray that it blesses you today!

We love serving you and your family and would love to hear from you!! Please be sure to leave us a review, share, subscribe and like our video on our YouTube channel, social media platforms and podcast reviews! Be blessed in all that you do!

Blended Families & Litigation with Leslie Barrows

Fri, 12 Jun 2020 22:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we had the privilege of interviewing Leslie Barrows of The Barrows Firm in Southlake Texas- Lawyer and Mediator. Leslie gives great wisdom and insight on family law and some tips for Do's and Don'ts when having to deal with court issues in your blended family. Litigation and lawsuits are difficult to go through and having the right attorney can be a great blessing to you and your family as you navigate the process. Leslie speaks on how going to court should be a last option and what steps we can take to help prevent that from occurring and provide the best positive resolution for the children. We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

Faith and Overcoming Divorce with Trenton Chaplin

Thu, 04 Jun 2020 20:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we interviewed our dear friend, Trenton Chaplin and talked about his faith and overcoming his recent divorce. Trenton shares his testimony with us about the things God taught him during that season and leads us through the process of how he chose to walk with God in midst of divorce and how God changed his heart towards his ex-spouse in the process. Trenton discusses how he would capture his thoughts from the enemy to protect his heart and mind and how praying for his ex-spouse brought him true peace and a desire for his ex-spouse to experience peace as well. We pray that this episode would bless you today!

Winning at Step-Parenting

Thu, 28 May 2020 22:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast Scott and Vanessa dive into the topic of step-parenting and discuss practical ways that you can help engage your children in relationship with their step-parent. Vanessa discusses the 3 E's (Encourage, Excite, Elevate), when it comes to building a solid relationship with your step-children and how this can build a stronger child and family unit. Stronger step-parent and step-child relationships, build stronger and more confident children, and bring unity to the blended family unit. We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

Faith and Family with The Phillips

Thu, 21 May 2020 18:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, we have our awesome friends back with us, Tanner and Jenny Phillips. If you listened to the last episode you heard us talk about God's redemption and restoration in our lives, marriages and families.
This week we are discussing faith and the family unit and how we can use this time during COVID to come together as a family and strengthen the faith within it. We believe that God is making good out of what the enemy has sought out to destroy, which is families, marriages and God's people. You will hear us talk about things we can do to build our faith, ways to better help our family, and become more aware of the things that God is wanting to do in and through us during this time. We pray that this episode blesses you today!

Redemption & Restoration with Tanner and Jenny Phillips

Fri, 15 May 2020 00:00:00 -0500

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast we had the pleasure of interviewing Tanner and Jenny Phillips, two amazing friends of ours who are God fearing individuals that love the Lord and are filled with the Holy Spirit. Tanner recently left project management and is on a personal journey with the Lord and Jenny is a pastor, author and writer. They have been married 21 years and have three amazing kids. Tanner and Jenny join Vanessa in conversation about God's redemption and restoration in our lives, marriages and family's. This was such an incredible time together and the Holy Spirit showed up big time! We pray that this episode blesses you today!

Blended Families & COVID with Dr. Cassie Reid

Fri, 08 May 2020 22:00:00 -0500

Dr. Reid is back with us this week in Episode 16 of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast. Dr. Reid is an LPC-S, author, wife, mother and Program Director and Professor at The King's University in Southlake Texas. She is the founder of Dr. Cassie Reid Counseling and is amazing woman of faith. On this episode we discuss blended family situations during COVID-19 such as isolation, open communication and behavior of children during this time. We pray that this episode blesses you and your family today!

The Counselor's Corner with Special Guest Dr. Cassie Reid

Sun, 03 May 2020 20:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott had the privilege of interviewing Dr. Cassie Reid who is an LPC-S, Author, Wife, Mother, Program Director and Professor at The King's University in Southlake Texas. Dr. Reid and Scott discuss her book Unwrapped and how it relates to COVID and the worlds current quarantine situation. Dr. Reid is known as an expert in her field and gives great biblical insight and encouragement, as she and Scott dive into topics of anxiety/fear/depression, accountability partners and friends and the benefits of counseling. We pray that this episode blesses you today!

Getting Real & Raw About Shame & Remarriage with Amy Coleman

Thu, 16 Apr 2020 22:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Vanessa interviews special guest and friend Amy Coleman, and discuss the real and raw emotions that come from divorce. Amy opens up about her feelings on being divorced and remarried twice and how you can overcome the lies of the enemy and break free from shame and the spirit of rejection. This is a personal testimony that many divorced couples can relate and resonate with and we are so excited to share it with you. We pray that this episode blesses you today!

Blended Families & Counseling

Fri, 10 Apr 2020 18:00:00 -0500

On this weeks Episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa talk about counseling and the benefits it can bring to a blended family. This can be a wonderful tool and outlet for children in a blended family, so that they can express any and all feelings that they may be having without worrying about an alliance to mom or dad. Counseling is a wonderful tool that can help in many facets and be beneficial to the health and growth of your family and marriage. We pray that this podcast blesses you today!

Co-parenting & Ex-spouses with Bryson Hurt and Amy Coleman

Fri, 03 Apr 2020 21:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa interview their good friends Bryson Hurt and Amy Coleman. Bryson and Amy are a dynamic duo when it comes to co-parenting together and discuss how they have overcome past resentments and hardships with one another, to living in peace and unity as ex-spouses. Together they share practical ways to work together for the betterment of their son and both of their families. We pray that this episode would bless you and give you some light of hope and encouragement, if you happen to be in a difficult season with your ex-spouse.

Blended Families and COVID 19

Fri, 27 Mar 2020 16:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa talk about Blended Families and the COVID 19 pandemic that has changed the world. In a time of uncertainty, we know one thing that is certain, and that God is still the same yesterday, today and tomorrow. Vanessa fills us all in on what the ministry is doing currently and the plans it has for this next year. We pray that this episode blesses you all today!

Dealing with Challenging Ex-Spouses

Fri, 13 Mar 2020 13:00:00 -0500

In this weeks Episode 10 of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa talk about dealing with a challenging ex-spouse and how to use both spiritual and practical applications. Vanessa lists three simple steps that you can implement when responding to harassing or argumentative texts and emails that include: 1.) Praying about your response and/or not to respond, 2.) Let your response sit before sending it over a couple of hours or overnight (do not write out of reaction or anger) and 3.) Have your spouse read over your text/email. When taking these simple steps into consideration, you can help protect yourself and prevent further discord between you and your ex-spouse. We pray this episode blesses you today!

Dealing with Ex-Spouses and "Ex-Spoustations"

Wed, 04 Mar 2020 21:00:00 -0600

On this weeks Episode of the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa talk about dealing with ex-spouses and ways that we help bring peace and unity into those relationships. This can include praying for your ex-spouse and making an effort to be cordial to them, having those intentional positive interactions and covering your children and ex-spouse in prayer. Scott and Vanessa talk about how you can implement resources such as My Family Wizard, biblical counseling and a parent facilitator to help ease any communication barriers or issues at hand. We pray that this episode and encouragement blesses you today!

Blended Families and Lively Conversations

Fri, 28 Feb 2020 20:00:00 -0600

This week on the Blended Kingdom Families Podcast, Scott and Vanessa interview friend Dana Williams who is the founder of Table 112 Foundation and Lively Conversations Podcast. Dana's ministry serves to equip parents to have those much needed conversations with their teens, to help bring community and growth into the family unit. We love her passion for families and Jesus, and we are so excited for you to hear all of the good nuggets that she gives on this episode! You won't want to miss this!

Parenting & Discipline

Thu, 20 Feb 2020 23:00:00 -0600

On this weeks Episode of Blended Kingdom Families podcast, Scott and Vanessa discuss parenting and discipline. Together they dive into questions such as who should discipline the children, what are the three "P's" and how you can use them and the difficulties and challenges with disciplining in blended families. This can be an area of contention in blended families, but it doesn't have to be, because when we do it in a way that is obedient to God's word, blessings will always abound.

Blended & Co-parenting with Tony & Yolanda Banks

Thu, 13 Feb 2020 21:00:00 -0600

Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale on this weeks episode with special guests and friends, Tony and Yolanda Banks. Tony is a retired NFL quarterback and current high school football coach and Yolanda is a culinarian, cookbook author and executive director of child nutrition. Together they have a son and an amazing co-parenting relationship. On this episode, they discuss a little bit about their story, how they work together for the betterment of their son and ways that you can co-parent in peace and unity together with your ex-spouse.

Breaking The Cycle of Remarriage

Fri, 07 Feb 2020 17:00:00 -0600

In today's episode, Scott and Vanessa discuss Breaking The Cycle of Remarriage. The statistics are alarming, as they show that 60% of remarriages fail in divorce. On this episode they will give practical tips and encouragement on best practices to implement in your marriage and family unit. Together they help give insight and discuss biblical foundations to protect your marriage and family from experiencing divorce!

Day 1 Dynamics

Fri, 24 Jan 2020 10:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Scott and Vanessa talk about Day 1 Dynamics. You are newly married, and now the reality of a new marriage and blended family come into play. Find out how things like past baggage, trust issues and even unfair expectations can put a strain on your new marriage and your blended family.

Establishing Right Priorities

Fri, 03 Jan 2020 10:00:00 -0600

Join Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families as they share biblical truths in how to establish right priorities for your marriage, children, work and even extended family and friends. These tips, once applied can totally change the dynamics of your blended family forever!

Our Story

Thu, 02 Jan 2020 11:00:00 -0600

Scott and Vanessa Martindale of Blended Kingdom Families tell about being blended as children and their present day blended life together. Hear how their journey started and how God called them into ministry for Blended Kingdom Families.

"BKF exists to equip, restore and transform the modern day interpretation of the blended family relationship. We educate families with resources and practical skills through the truth of God's word, empowering them to flourish in their kingdom identity and live life abundantly." Scott & Vanessa Martindale