The MentalEdge Podcast

E. #138 Your Life Is A Song!

Wed, 07 May 2025 20:00:00 -0400

The 7th Episode of the 7th Season!

The completion of the Calibrations Series: Your Life is a Song! its the perfect metaphor for picturing how to manage balance in your life.

Just like a live mixing engineer riding the faders, you get to choose what shines out front during each era of your life. You get to choose when some of the faders get pulled back and some pushed forward. With great care you learn how to delicately manage those important faders in your life.

Listen to Fernando and Jay describe this powerful analogy and ask youself how you can use this system of thinking to balance all of the most important things in you life to make sure that they get the attention they deserve in the era they deserve it. All without pushing your life's song to the breaking point of undesirable clipping.

Spoiler alert, if you manage your mix well, God will manage the master fader and help you turn up your life in 2025!

E# 137 "That No Contingency Life"

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 22:00:00 -0400

Cuz what I Do, don't depend on You!

There is a way to live that creates a sense of relevance without the requirement of eventual accolades.

It's called...."living a no contingency life." Meaning in short, that you decide you won't rely on recognition to fuel your desire to do what's right. You won't give for the sake of someday receiving. You won't love for the sake of someday being loved. It sounds impossible but it's not...it's all about the focus! and Yes, for us its a work in progress too!

This is the 6th episode of the Calibration Season...Season 7

Do everything as if you are doing it for the Lord!

So dive into this insightful conversation between Fernando and Jay and Be sure to like, subscribe, follow and share!

E. #136 The Decision Vision

Sun, 16 Feb 2025 22:00:00 -0500

Tune in to the 5th episode of the Season 7's Calibration Series. It's a season dedicated to making the most of 2025. This is your year!

This episode is about making the most of the blessings that are already sewn into your timeline. Your Victory has already been written and you're marching toward opportunities and blessings everyday.

Your ability to make the most of them is directly related to the way you live your life. Are you positioned to utilize the blessing for propulsion or for another rescue that digs you out of a hole.

Surely you are thankful for both but, surely one is better than the other. Its you who chooses where to meet the Father...The God of the Valley is also the God of the mountain.

Where will his blessing find you next?

E #135 Power Trip'n: Don't Be a Butthole!

Thu, 16 Jan 2025 21:00:00 -0500

Have you ever caught yourself being an absolute butthole to somebody who loves you? 🤔
Did you ever feel deeply convicted right in the middle of it? What a blessing that can be!

That's exactly what happen to Jay the day he and his wife set out to build the local stray cat (Fred) a house made of readily available scraps. The menial task began to dredge up emotions associated with previous difficult projects from the past.

Luckily, before Jay could ruin the day the Holy Sprit gave him a hard backhand right in his kitchen. Thankfully once the sabotage was surrendered the awareness allowed the inclination to be examined and discussed!

Jay and Fernando dive into the topic of what it means to have a little power and almost get caught up in the cheap idea of seizing the moment to make a fruitless point.

We know you're intrigued now....For more your just gonna hafta get ta click'n to have a listen!

E. #134 The Alignment Assignment!

Sun, 08 Dec 2024 18:00:00 -0500

2025 is going to be your year. This is not fluff!

Over the past few years if you are one of the people who did the hard thing and took the promotion, but it didn't pay what it was supposed to, or you got up early and did that extra thing that makes other people feel special, this is going to be the year that it all counts. This is the year that the last 4 years of faith adds up to something great for the faithful!

We are gonna ask you to declare your 2025 goal today!

But to be sure that you are ready to be propelled forward and to be sure that everything is headed in the same direction it's going to be important to get that allignment check done.

Are the critical areas of your life working together for the good of your goal?
So click play to make your day...compliments of Fernando and Jay!

E #133 The Problem with Reluctance

Tue, 12 Nov 2024 20:00:00 -0500

We had the pleasure of introducing to you 3 of our podcast students. Meet Becca, Nancy, and Nathan!

Each Student has their pod-concept brewing in their creative minds and we are so thankful they have chose us to guide them on their PodJourney!

This recording session was actually part of their 3rd lesson.

Clicking to participate in this class will prove to be a major step in the resilincy of their podcast. The dicsussion about why they choose us to lead them in their podcast journey also led to an interesting talk about dealing with reluctance.

As devlopers of this podcast course we were also reluctant to offer it to the public. But as a result of pushing through those doubtfull emotions we gained valuable insight about how to make this course more impactful for people desiring to learn how to prouduce a podcast. Sometimes you have to call out your own reluctance and embrace the fact that action gives you traction.

So tune in and don't forget to like and share this awesome insightful Podcast with your friends!

E# 132 "That Knife Life"

Tue, 05 Nov 2024 20:00:00 -0500

My good men, if you to were to assume the life of a knife which one would you be? the one that spreads butter or the one that splits the tree.

This is the poetic question posed by Jay and Fernando in this relevant MENtal Metaphor Episode.

Surely you would choose the Sharp edged knife, whose very make up, craftsmanship and precision screams purpose. What other comparisons can be made?

Tune in to find out. As always...Prepare to be MENtally MANsformed.
That Knife Life is the inspirational episode you deserved today! 🔪

E #131 Miguel Negroni: A Mentor And So Much More!

Wed, 05 Jun 2024 21:00:00 -0400

Mr. Negroni aint no phony! He's earned his whiskers in the barber world for sure. He earned his notoriety through consistency despite circumstances.

It's a trait he makes sure he sows into the many young barbers and young men that he mentors. Miguel has the ability to be totally submitted and present to the young men he champions. He has a spirit that's easy to talk to and he never seems to be in a hurry...He's not just present for a moment...he's here to stay.

There is no sense of desperation to complete the task of building relationships when he engages you. Because, he knows consistency and availability are the keys to solidifying the relationships young men deserve.

Don't hesitate to sit in on this one. You're gonna love Miguel as much as we do.
Now get ta clicking and give it a listen!

E# 130 What Makes You Feel Like A Man!

Tue, 28 May 2024 20:00:00 -0400

Thanks to our listeners we are about to cross over the 10,000 listen mark. Yeah, it's a really big deal..at least it is to us.

Are we famous? Not exactly.

Do a simple google search and you will find that we fall a little short of Joe Rogan status. So why do we do what we do? It's simple, it makes us feel relevant to talk men about life and at just the right moment...you great people reach out and tell us we matter.

We really don't need much more than that to keep going.
What do you do that makes you feel like a man? We can't wait to hear about it.

E# 129 "That One Time I Stole A Candy Bar"

Wed, 01 May 2024 22:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay talk about Jay's life of crime. It's an all out confessional. Now full disclosure, the lesson here isn't really about being a candy snathcer! It's about how the presence of security in your life facilitates the lack of scarcity.

So sit back and shove a little fun size candy bar in your mouth while you shove this episode in your ears and in your spirit!

S.6 E#128 God Math!

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 19:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay talk about a phenomenon known as God Math.

You heard it right. Not Trigadumetry or Advance Calcubutz, we are talking about the devine often unconventional way God takes what seems impossible and metaphorically and even sometimes literally, feeds the masses.

So strap in, pluck in those ear buds, grab a note pad and pencil and we promise, this aint no "arithmatrick", nope!

This is the type of multiplication that matters!

E #127 Is Love Selfish?

Thu, 30 Nov 2023 20:00:00 -0500

This coversation between Fernando and Jay was the result of overhearing somebody saying this all too common phrase: "I can't believe you are doing this to me after all I have done for you!"

Don't get us wrong.... We're fairly certain that we all might have said this or thought this at some point in our lives but..Ultimately, it's a glimpse into a flawed philosophy. The belief that your kindness somehow creates a debt that will always be honored. When in fact, if your motivation for doing good things is in the expectation of recipricahol love...we are so sorry

Please prepare yourself for massive dissapointment. Instead remember, do all things as if you are doing them for the Lord...because you are. And he never lets you down even though he doesn't keep score.

So eavesdrop in on Fernando and Jay and let us know what you think.
Now don't be a chick'n, get ta click'n

E #126 Feels Vs Realz

Sun, 22 Oct 2023 22:00:00 -0400

In a world that caters to feelings does the truth even still matter?

Listen to Fernando and Jay talk about their perspective on the Feelz Vs Realz debate. Is your kindness contributing to somebody else’s blindness?

Are you capable of lovingly telling the truth to somebody who matters to you?
Oh there is so much good stuff to talk about. So let this episode be the truth you invest in for the next 32 minutes.

And don’t be shy, let us know how you “feel” about it.

E#125 It's Simple.."Get off the Nipple"

Sun, 01 Oct 2023 22:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay discuss a relational dynamic that is poisonous for men to be in.

Based on overhearing a conversation in the parking lot this topic was catapulted to the forefront of our podcast line up. That right, what dynamic would enable a fully capable middle age man to be talked down to like a child…..Its typically, a dependency issue.

Does somebody you depend on treat you badly? And do you feel helpless…What can you do about it?

The hard truth is: Ur Gonna Haft Get Off Da Nipple!

E# 124 An Interview with Dr. Catherine Murphy..."A Breath of Fresh Care"

Sun, 10 Sep 2023 22:00:00 -0400

The Dr. is in the house. Ok, by house we mean The MentalEdge Studio!

Dr. Catherine Murphy DDS, Orthodontist, Author, Speaker, Mom and Wife is here to give us some breath”making” advice.

You are going to be captivated from jump street in this episode.

Whats so special about Dr. Murphy, well…whats not.
As you sit and talk to her you realize she doesnt have a pretentions bone in her body. Its like she has never met a stranger!
You feel like she is instantly your friend and her infectious personable demeaner might just be her most amazing super power.

Whether you are her patient or whether you are her chance encounter engaging in initial passive conversation, she has one desire, to be a part of you life's progression toward fulfillment, purpose, passion and healing.
And...She is chomping at the bit to show you how to do it, one intentional breath at a time. So sit back..take a deep breath and breathe in this life changing wisdom.

Dr. Murhphy is in the house dollling out a “Breath of Fresh Care”.

E# 123 Do You Experiment With Yourself? "That Cold Shower Power"

Tue, 22 Aug 2023 22:00:00 -0400

Seriously, when was the last time you shook things up and decided you were going to try something radically different.

We're talking about testing your limits and seeing what new disciplines or regiments might catapult you into a new realm of manly confidence!

For example, have ever wondered, "do cold showers really make you feel better"...or do they just rob you of joy and piss you off? well hop on in and crank down that lever and find out for yourself. What are you waiting for?

When was the last time you did something just because you knew it was hard and you wondered if you still had what it takes to suffer and persevere. Was it 20 years ago? Why not tongiht!

In this Episode Fernando and Jay discuss a few personal growth experiments they have completed on themselves and you might be surprised to find out what happened. So don't hesitate to listen in.
All you gotta do is click the link and hit play!

E#122 True Generosity = 0 Expectation!

Wed, 02 Aug 2023 19:00:00 -0400

Fernando had something on his heart that he wanted to talk about.
There are many facets of generosity. But true Generosity goes beyond the tithe and it expects nothing in return.

"Are you a generous man"? Fernando Asks!
Let us know fellas.

Click the play button to hear all about it!

E #121 An Interview With Leah Peksenak: Open Mic, Insert Heart!

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 18:00:00 -0400

Leah Peksenak is quite simply, an awesome human and her interview as our 6th incredible woman will not disappoint.

We met Leah on the set of a local Charity Event known as “Listen to your Mother”. She had been spotted at a local open mic night singing an original song and that appearance had prompted the producer of the event to ask Leah to write a new song about motherhood for the event.

She agreed and the rest is history. When we heard Leah singing about combating generational curses we knew she was for sure one of our 7 awesome women. So we cornered her backstage and once again, Leah promptly agreed to not shy away from the mic and to being a MentalEdge guest.

You’re going to love this entertaining and insightful interview of a song writing vocal phenom who also happens to be a newly ordained Methodist minister…you read that right, now get to click’n and let’s dig in.

E #120 Shed the Shame: An Interview with Susanna Lopez

Thu, 27 Apr 2023 18:00:00 -0400

Susanna Lopez is the wife of handsome MentalEdge Co-host Fernando Lopez Jr.
She aint to shabby herself, lemme tell ya.

She's a beautiful person inside and out and thats not fluff I assure you. Just listen to her candidly reflect on her life. The only thing that trumps her beauty is her modesty and her work ethic.

Her openness and honesty will prove to be refreshing and astoundingly brave as she reveals something she has never told anybody.

Please do yourself a favor and listen to this episode.

Young ladies, if you have ever been taken advantage of and you struggle to shake the shame that often acompnaies that victimization, you deserve to hear about this freedom!

This episode is laced with hope that isn't just for Susanna...it's for you too.

E# 119 An Interview with Carrie Bedwell: The Courage to Connect!

Tue, 07 Mar 2023 21:00:00 -0500

Ladies and Gentleman meet the 4th Incredible woman in our series of 7 amazing woman!

Mrs. Carrie Bedwell, applause applause applause

Carrie is a teacher by trade, 29 years in the making but she also doubles as an intuitive connector of people places and things.

Despite swearing that she grew up fairly shy, she is never bashful about her suggestions of what and who should be paired. She sees the gap and becomes the bridge. Spoiler alert, We are super thankful that she lets her heart lead her in the connection direction.

Her success rate can't simply be measure by counting the completed social puzzles she solves. To fully understand her impact you would need to also visit one of the Listen to your Mother artistic piece reading she directs and produces.

Thats right her influence isn't just limited to the digital world and the social world..it even reaches the theater.

Dont waste any more time, get to click'n to have a listen!

E# 118 An Interview with Sade Carrasquillo "For the Love of the Arts"

Wed, 22 Feb 2023 23:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay sat down with Sade Carrasquillo, our third incredible woman in a series of 7!

Sade is The Founder and Executive Director of For the Love of the Arts.
A non profit organization dedicated to reducing youth violence by introducing them the arts and helping them discover their hidden talents.

Sade has a personal story that helps her connect with the youth she serves. Isn't it awesome that through surrender, your conquered past becomes part of someone else's future.

Amen!

E# 117 "Full of Purpose" and Interview with Jena Rae Maldonado!

Tue, 14 Feb 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay sit down with another amazing woman.

Jena Rae Maldonado, a Celebrate Recovery lead Facilitator, the President of the Porter County Republican Women and a newly elected Portage Township Board member. Wow!

To be so effective and valuable within the community she must have always made the right choices in life right.

Not hardly, in fact...The enemy had destructive plans for Jena.

But then God!

E #116 "Always on the Run" an Interview with Missy Wacasey!

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 00:00:00 -0500

Ladies and Gentleman, The MentalEdge would like to introduce you to the Alpha Queen of CreataSpacePlace....Missy Wacasey

Fernando and Jay are dedicating the next 7 episodes to women who have inspired them.

First up. A lady that has inspired so many, Missy Wacasey.
Whats so impressive and inspirational you might ask....How about the fact that she's a real deal USW Local 1011 Steel Worker and has been for the past 24 years. Using a torch as tall as her to scarf cracks out of steel slabs. Yeah that's her daily lineup!

How about that fact that she doesn't just run an occasional marathon, she has actually completed a 52.6 mile trail run in the Black Hills of South Dakota...you know, just your average 14 hour race at elevation running on trecherous ATV trails...a real stroll in the park right.

Oh BTW, here's the thing. This is a woman that could barely run around the block 5 years ago. Straight Facts.

Yeah, you're gonna wanna hear the rest of her story. So dont waste another minute..click that link and have a listen!

E# 115 Turn Down to Turn Up!

Fri, 20 Jan 2023 18:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay discuss the value of taking a break from perceived need.

Jay is about to take the next weeks and dedicate one day each week, to a complete food and social media fast. What day?...MANday of course.

Fernando has a private commitment he will fill you in on in the coming weeks as well.

How do you make Monday even more of a MANday in MentalEdge land. You deny yourself the things you have been taught you're supposed to need and tell the Creator that you have purposely turned down the noise and the distractions in order to hear from him more clearly.

We believe that this discipline and intent will result in parallel benefits. More focus, a better physical well being most importantly, a deeper relationship with God.

But we shall see. In typical MentalEdge fashion, we will be courageous enough to be honest. Was it worth it. Only time (8 weeks of time) will tell.

So dont be shy...Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the Goal. Tune in to learn what it means to "Turn Down to Turn UP."

E #114 The Real Laws of Attraction!

Sun, 08 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0500

Very few things in life turn out the way they were first perceived. The laws of attraction are no different.

In-fact, you come to the realization as you grow wiser that although looking great is for sure an initial igniter, it really won't keep the home-fire burning all by itself.

So in the end, being sustainably attractive has a lot to do with who you are as human. Are you dependable, supportive, a pleasure to be around? Do you care enough about your self to eat well, take care of yourself and not be a slob? Men do you smell good, dress nice and are you a lifetime learner who is always up-skilling? Are you kind? Can you respectfully stand your ground?

We hope you said yes to all of these things because if you did, you are not only attractive...you are attracting the right people.

Now get to click'n and have a listen!

E #113 The Difference Is The Discipline

Wed, 28 Dec 2022 10:00:00 -0500

Occasionally you will find a creative person at the top of the hottest, trend setting company. When they are fortunate to attain a position at the top they typically receive accolades for being out of the box thinkers and genius's.

But what separates them from the "creative" people who never seem to make any progress?

The difference is the adoption of the disciplines that the rest of the world deems as reliable and trustworthy.

As we progress toward sustainable personal growth in the new year we must learn to do the productive things that demonstrate we are dependable to the masses.

You are not selling out my friends...you are helping them, buy into you!

Don't be afraid to adopt the disciplines that speak so prominently to world and then, when the time is right to shine...let your creativity separate you from the rest of the pack! And it will!

E. 112 An Interview with Bullseye Bob Owen, Environment, Ingredients and Sequence!

Thu, 24 Nov 2022 23:00:00 -0500

Bob Owen's story is amazing.
His life long passion for the court and his ability to be resilient despite his surroundings and early limitations, pushed him naturally toward the development of a renowned and effective shooting system. One that has awarded him 10 World Medals.

A system of sequence that is as much about life as it is about swishes. His highly effective system is about to be packaged in a convent learning experience for the public but before that happens..here is your opportunity to listen to the wisdom Bob Owen purchased with his life long grind.

The Bob Owen Origin Story, Environment, Ingredients and Sequence!

S.4 E #30 Do Dads Matter?

Tue, 15 Nov 2022 22:00:00 -0500

Do dads matter?
They do! And Fellas, listen up, you are about to listen to some startling statistics that support the need of your presence in your Childs life.

So many moms have held down the double role for too long. Honestly, no matter what the situation is...a day-in and day-out relationship with your Daughter or Son is worth the effort.

There are critical roles in the family hierarchy that you were always meant to fill. Its not like the ladies won't hunker down and fill your role, it just as simple as this..nobody is better at being dad, than dad is.

So click that link. You deserve to be reminded how much you matter. The question is...what will you do with your new found confirmation?

S.4 E #29 The Course of Divorce Part 3 The Future of Me!

Wed, 09 Nov 2022 23:00:00 -0500

It' all said and done, right? You're just waiting for that final official legal notification that comes in the mail. You are officially divorced.

Most will tell you that this letter arrival was a liberating moment. But Fernando and I would like you to know that it's ok if at first its not so celebratory and instead feels a little like a surreal low moment.

And even though its considered final in the eyes of the court, what's separated on paper isn't always as separated in our hyper connected world.

How do you manage the friends you had in common? How do you mange the Children you both love and must co-parent together...doesn't sound so "separated and final" after all does it?

Don't worry, its a little messy but, we made it..and so will you.
Have a listen and dont forget to like...and share!

S.4 E#28 The Course of Divorce Part 2 "Order In the Court"

Tue, 01 Nov 2022 23:00:00 -0400

The course of Divorce part 2, Order in the court.
Here we go..I hope you landed yourself a real Perry Mason cuz you gonna need it.

All kidding aside, we hope that all litigation regarding the dissolution of your marriage will be cordial and fair...but we also want you to know, thats typically not the game plan formulated against you by your soon to be ex's attorney.

They're in it to "win it" if there is such a thing in divorce. The best way to be the winner in court is to paint your opponent as the looser. At least thats what the world thinks.

It's going to feel like a personal attack at the worst time in your life. Because it is. It's not going to be easy but, its right here where you need to be resilient. This might get ugly..but your not about to go there.

Nope, the new you knows you have a future and that future is too valuable to allow yourself to be manipulated by a professional arguer. Dont take the bait.

let's get to talking about it.

S.4 E#27 The Course of Divorce Part 1

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 21:00:00 -0400

Full disclosure, this is not an episode about reconciliation. Although we will usually give the advice that you should always try to save your marriage, this is not an episode about that...for the sake of this conversation, we are going to say.."that ship has sailed".

In addition this is not an episode where you'll hear two previously divorced men, bash their ex-wives. As Fernando would say..."we don't sip that poison".

This is an episode where we acknowledge the many emotions you will feel during the process of divorce. This is an episode where we acknowledge that in the middle of divorce you feel like peace in you life is impossible and you feel like loneliness is inevitable and unbearable.

But this too shall pass my friend.

This is an episode where we share the actions with intent and the thoughts that ultimately helped us through that journey. Where we detail the behaviors that we think will help you heal.

And guess what...this is just part 1

S.4 E# 26 Positioned For Transition, An Interview with Scott Miller

Sun, 09 Oct 2022 17:00:00 -0400

Have you ever felt like it was time to make a move? Have you ever felt like you were no longer in love with what you do for a living?

No longer loving your living is a tough place to be.....What did you do about it?

Career transitions can be scary to say the least. Sometimes it's the fear of financial in-stability that keeps you on lock down. Sometimes its the lack of personal confidence.

But once in a while, a courageous career transition story comes along to inspire us. This is a story you deserve to hear and its only a click away.

Pay close attention to the foundational elements that gave Scott Miller the desire and the strength to make a world class transition to a completely different career.

Your gonna love this story and when you do...remember to like and share.

S.4 E #25 Things You Just Don't Do!

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Sometimes Fernando and I like to have a little fun. Cut it up as they say...So, we asked the question to some of our Social Media Friends.

What are some things that you just don't do? Here's a few.

Yes of course that Rhymes...just like the little ditty at the end of the episode.

Some of our gracious friends responded. Were you one of them? Your gonna hafta listen to find out. So dont be a chicken and get ta click'n

S.4 E#24 Harnessing the Power of Anger

Tue, 27 Sep 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Anger is a natural response to injustice. However, it often results in uncontrollable responses that evolve into regret. But it doesn't have to be that way.

Is it possible that anger can be used for construction instead of destruction? Of course it is.

Remember it's not the fuel that is the problem, it's how we choose to burn it. Anger can be motivational propellent or catastrophic combustion.

Its up to us!

So make the decision to be in charge of your emotional response toward being angry. Listen to Jay and Fernando put it into perspective.

S.4 E#23 Crazy About God, An Interview With Christian Rap Artist Butta The Preacher!

Wed, 07 Sep 2022 22:00:00 -0400

This is why we do the MentalEdge Podcast. We sat down to interview an Amazing Christian Rap Artist, “Butta the Preacher” AKA Michael Watson and what does he do right after we hit record.

Butta bowed his head and said a thankful prayer to the one true King. He didn't waste time asking if we wanted to pray. We just got to pray’n

Why, because he knows every day is a gift. He knows that every opportunity to shine for the father should not be dismissed as coincidence. Each and every moment we are chosen to represent the Lord is an honor a privilege and a blessing

Butta the Preacher has a lot to be thankful for. In this interview you will get a glimpse of his amazing story. We thank we captured it all but don’t worry if we missed a detail or two..why?...because the movie, yes I said the movie for realz is in pre-production right now.

The Movie is scheduled for release in February of 2023 but you can stream his amazing music right now. In fact, his newest single “Crazy About God” CAG is storming up the charts as we speak.

There is so much more to this interview so don't wast another minute, just click that link to tune in

Don’t forget to like and share.

S.4 E#22 Can Your Future Shape Your Past?

Sun, 28 Aug 2022 22:00:00 -0400

The Question is..."Can your Future shape your past?" Fernando and I believe it can.
We have one request, don't try to answer the question until after you listen to the Episode.

Then please, let us know what you think! Remember...if you like what you heard. The most flattering thing you can do is like and share!

S.4 E#21 War, Cake and Cars

Tue, 16 Aug 2022 07:00:00 -0400

3 Awesosme people spent time with us last Thursday.

Carter, a young man who explained to us how his Grandfathers stories intrigued him into becoming a military historian.

Ms. Pauletta Washington from Polly Ann Cakes, who's personal poundcake, and signature ouey gooey Cakes will make your heart skip a beat and your head spin.

To our Friend Rianna whose grandparents love of vintage cars has fueled her desire to consume podcasts that go in to great detail bout the restoration process.

We loved connecting with people at the market and we loved the way these much deserved good people got a chance to step up to the mic and made the most of it!

S.4 E#20 Random Conversations With Awesome People!

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 22:00:00 -0400

The verdict is in, people are awesome. To prove this Fernando, Jay and Missy set up tent at Hobart's Amazing Thursday Night Summer Market to share the news that an incredible new business has arrived in Hobart (CreataSpacePlace and the MentalEdge Studio) and to randomly interview anybody who was game.

The Night was full of great conversation and a little surprise for old Jay. Somehow I "accidentally " witnessed my youngest son land his first Kiss. Or at least I saw it get landed on him. Thats his story anyway.

Let's just leave it at that. Tune it to find out all about it!

Check it out..Now get to click'n

S.4 E#19 Netflix and Chill on Your Highlight Reel!

Mon, 25 Jul 2022 18:00:00 -0400

Fernando And Jay get to talking about how you can sometimes get caught up in believing that you whole life aught to look like a non-stop highlight reel of incredible events. It's a silly un-realistic fantasy that can make you feel like you're not succeeding.

The truth is, Whether it be Netflix and Chill leisure or mountain top victory, those moments are only a tiny percentage of your life.

You have to do battle with your mind and your social media feed to in order to not be fooled by the silly notion that your life should be filled with non stop leisure and constant success...nope, passive my assive. To legitimately even have a few, your gonna hafta get it!

In fact, the rarity of those moments is what make them speicial. So don't sip that poisonous cool aid..not only are you making it, your killing it. And those moments are going to come but make no mistake....for the real hardworking, progress sustaining, men and women...your going to have to earn'em!

S.4 E#18 When You're The Right Man For The Job!

Sun, 17 Jul 2022 19:00:00 -0400

Have you ever been asked to speak in front of a crowd? The mere mention of public speaking can tie your stomach up in knots. Sometimes it's not that pivotal though. So it's not a big deal when you say "no, no, that's ok..pick somebody else".

But there are Occasions in a mans life where it is his duty to "take the mic". Its not about notoriety, its about there being no other human on the planet but you who is supposed to honor this person.

In this Moment, as much as there might be doubt and fear in your gut you will notice that those emotions will be competing with an overpowering sense of duty as well. It's in these special times that we must make sure we heed the calling.

Why? because you were made for such a time as this and the person you love deserves to know, feel and experience the depth of your love. Only you can deliver it. So get to deliver'n

S.4 E#17 An Interview With Dana Fitzpatrick: Under Attack and Fighting Back!

Tue, 12 Jul 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Dana's story is extraordinary, He is a highly accomplished and Intelligent man who has decided to live a life of discipleship.

His ministry is far from conventional. Dana's calling is to help people discover a deeper relationship with Christ and he does this by waiting for an invitation and then embedding himself with the person in need who desires that deeper relationship.

Why embed, because as Dana says "to see the root of the problem you need more than an hourlong superficial connection". You need a companion in Christ who is accessible. So move on over, here comes Dana.

To accomplish this Dana knew he needed to be free. So he began to shed all of his worldly possessions which often saddle us with debt. He knew that his new superpower would be his availability and it could be purchase by shedding financial burdens.

He and his wife have done incredible things for the Kingdom but despite engaging in personal asset sacrifice and letting go of material things Dana felt like something still had a hold on him.

We're not gonna steal that thunder though, we'er gonna let Dana drop those truth bombs.

S.4 E#16 The Long Shot Long Snapper! Luke Granzow!

Wed, 06 Jul 2022 11:00:00 -0400

You might think that this isn't the espisode for you! That would be a mistake. The MentalEdge firmly believes that all around us lessons are passively being taught. All you have to do is pay attention.

In this episode you will hear a young man speak who is wise and respectful beyond his years. A young man who has found his path, a young man who doesn't make excuses. what could possibly be more powerful than that?

Its refreshing on so many levels to hear somebody say. "I didn't get what I wanted because I was out worked".

So give this Episode a listen, snap to it. Yes, we can learn something from hardworking young people. All we have to do is pay attention!

S.4 E#15 Lean In When You Hear the Whisper!

Tue, 24 May 2022 22:00:00 -0400

If we've said it once, we've said it 1000 times. As you step forward faithfully often times the road will not resemble the way you imagined it. But if you have listened to the still small voice and continued to move forward and trust, then one thing is for sure...you won't be able to add the progress up on paper and make it make sense.

Because God math isn't conventional, its EXTRAordinary. It doesn't make sense on paper, just like the fishes and the loaves. You might be compelled to dismiss the divine suggesetions as nonsense but instead lean in and take a small step toward the promise and watch the doubt and fear tremble at your obedience.

Pray to know your purpose. Be intentional, yet patient. All of these things are declarations of your faith and they will be honored with relevant timely rewards you can't possibly imagine.

S.4 E.14 Service With A Smile

Sun, 08 May 2022 23:00:00 -0400

Fernando and I have learned many valuable lessons in 4 seasons. Many of those lessons have served us well in the future in ways we didn't expect!

One of the most valuable lesson we've learned is that Compensation for service isn't always the type you swipe. You don't alway get that gas money. But we seem to have this intuitive, life learned, boomerang blessing, confidence that helps us discern when it makes sense to be part of the solution and not worry about that milk money.

Each and every time we have dedicated our time and didn't worry about the green the Lord has always made it count for us in ways we couldn't have dreamed of.

We can't always say yes and neither can you...The trick is, to learn when its the right thing to do and then....Serve with a Smile

S.4 E.13 The Slap Heard Around The World!

Sun, 24 Apr 2022 12:00:00 -0400

Question, did you happen to see Will Smith Slap his friend across the face on live Television just before he received the Coveted Best Actor Award? Mind-boggling!

We often look at Celebrities and think that they have most of the things we want. Fame, fortune and favor to name a few.

We press our faces against the glass and stare with envy or admiration yet we often forget that they are mere humans just like us..they literally put their pants on just like you to use an old analogy...the only difference...theirs are Jordache and ours are often wranglers. yes Jordache jeans were the bomb, just ask your mom!

When their life unravels just like ours we seem shocked. The more I see it the less I am surprised.

Men, if you are respected and supported and loved inside your own home you are rich beyond many billionaires. Be sure to thank those who breath life into you. Be sure to be thankful to the Lord who built the foundation that created your bullet proof home.

Inside those fortified walls are all the riches a man will ever need.

S.4 E. 12 "Listen To Your Mother" An Interview with Britany and Jaime

Sun, 17 Apr 2022 20:00:00 -0400

MentalEdgers, you are about to be blessed with the presence of two exrodinary women. It takes a special gift and courage to put your story down on paper and bravely share it with the rest of the world.

The only thing more amazing and courageous is to stand on the stage of a beautiful auditorium in front of eager listeners and read it aloud to a full house. That's what Britany Miller Dawson and Jamie El-Talabani are just about to do.

The "Listen To Your Mother Event" is a charitable artistic event whose proceeds benefit St. Jude House. But guess what ....the charitable giving doesn't stop there because everybody in the house gets blessed by the Authors as they read their personal pieces.

There are two show this year. One at the incredible Hoosier Theater in Whiting on April 30th at 7pm. and the second show will be held at Hobart's Historic Art Theater May 1st at 3pm.

Both shows are being seamlessly organized by Event Director Carrie Bedwell

So get to click'n and give a listen, then hop on over to Facebook to look up the event and get some tickets.

S.4 E.11 An Interview with Shane Evans..Transforming The "Art" of Music!

Sun, 10 Apr 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Sometimes we get a person in the MentalEdge hot seat and turn on the mics and its just flows like lava..and that's exactly what happened with Shane Evans.

He's the owner and operator of the Hobart Art Theater and he shares the buisness with a trusted partner who runs the incredible Bar and Grill right next store. Together they've brought something special to the region that's hard to believe..an all inclusive top notch live music and restuarant experience that attracts national touring talent.

Somehow, despite all of the integration of new power and sound equipment, Shane has managed to keep that special old school theater charm at the forefront. So even though in the background, technically the theater hardly resembles its original musty self...at the user end, it still feels like home.

I don't want to steal any more thunder from this amazing episode. Just get to clicking..Shane's passion and exuberance is exactly what you need today..and The Art Theater and BrickHouse Bar and Grill is exactly what you need tonight!

S.4 E.10 The Power of "Soft Skillz"

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 22:00:00 -0400

What are these Soft Skillz you speak of.? Tune in to find out....but here is sneak a peek cuz we love ya
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They are Interpersonal communications skills and respectful courtesies that help you lead your team intuitively all while building bullet proof relationships.

Now that was a mouthful but if you want a more comprehensive understanding all you gotta do is listen in to the conversation and the whole concept will come pristinely into focus.

So get to cClick'n don't be a Chicken

S.4 E.9 Do You Believe in Hidden Progress?

Sun, 27 Mar 2022 22:00:00 -0400

Fernando had this vision of a stone worker striking a rock. 100 or 1000 times..boom boom boom boom, over and over and over again and then suddenly, after what seemed like no progress, the rock broke. Was it all about the last Blow?

How often do we stay vigilant until the work is done. How often do we peel off just before the breakthrough? How often do we fail to realize that the delay in completion is exactly where we experience the most growth? Where our character is developed in ways that immediate success simply couldn't have fostered.

We have to believe that every blow counts. Invisible personal progress is happening when conventional proof seems to be illusive.

Now the Hands of this Stone Worker are incredibly strong, His mental fortitude fully developed and his callouses are ready for war. Yes indeed hidden progress has been made, it wasn't the last blow the completed the task. It was all 1000 and 1 mighty faith filled strokes that culminated into success.

S.4 E.8 An Interview with Mayor Brian Snedecor, Measuring His Success By Honoring His Faith

Sun, 20 Mar 2022 23:00:00 -0400

Its so rare in modern Politics to hear sombody gush about their Love of the Lord. It almost seems out of place and as if God and Politics can't be residents of the same sentence without it being insanely divisive.

But hold the presses, Insert the Mayor of the Great City of Hobart Indiana...Mayor Brian Snedecor. Listen to him explain his decision precision process. Listen how he handles enevitable criticism. Spoiler alert his armor is the Armor of God. His means by which he measures his inclinations to respond and decide are influenced by his desire to please the Lord and do what's right for the community as a whole. That's a bullet proof Philosophy.

Somebody please help us find our mic...cuz The Mayor kept on drop'n it. Boom!
So Get to clicking, What are you waiting for. All the good stuff is on the other side of the Click!

S.4 E.7 How Important Is Respect In A Mans Life?

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 20:00:00 -0400

There are few words more powerful in a mans life than to hear that he is highly respected. As young men we are told that this thing which is so important to us has to be earned. It seems love is supposed to be unconditional yet respect is very conditional. At times we have gone to great lengths to facilitate being respected and sometimes we have done things we regretted when we felt dis-respected!

Many of us have tried to purchase respect through the acquisition of possessions but the tradeoff is costly and those things didn't generate the lasting respect we craved.

Real respect is earned through service and availability to the people you love and whom love you. Turn on your respect generating factory by being present. Basic Dude Stuff as Fernando always says, I couldn't agree more.

S.4 E.6 The Problem With Beating Your Meat!

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 19:00:00 -0500

Attention...Ladies and Children..this episode is not for you...Men only please.

Fernando and I think Its time to get back to the Man topics that made this show great. So what do we do?..We tackle the one topic nobody will dare touch. Beating your Meat...Like Fernando says..this was a tough one to talk about but..this is why we do this show.

Listen to this no holds barred conversation about this taboo topic. If your favorite little rascal is Spanky..this ones for you. Heck its for all of us.

It's important to understand what this practice will cost you. So if your game and if you're a Dude then please get to clicking, you're gonna love what you hear.

S.4 E.5 You Can't Read a Poem Like A Science Book!

Wed, 02 Mar 2022 08:00:00 -0500

Sometimes the tried and true method just doesn't fit. You may have had success as a parent and watched your oldest child stand on the podium and accept the spelling bee trophy only to find that for you second child, reading doesn't come easy. In this example a blanket approach to parenting might fall short.

Yet this same child who struggles to spell and read seems to be able to play the piano by ear. Its so important to understand and respect their uniqueness. Whether it be children or our opportunities it may require us to be flexible and look for the special ingredient that brings out the most in that person or opportunity.

listen to Jay and Fernando talk about the difference between Poems and Science books. See if you can metaphorically apply this important understanding to different areas in you life.

Now get to clicking MentalNation....and let's get it.

S.4 E.4 Mental Quickie, The Trifecta of Feelz!

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 22:00:00 -0500

What is the Trifecta of Feelz...The MentalEdge breaks it down for ya!
#1. There is the way you Spiritually feel which is your current closeness to God..its the pinnacle of course and if you don't get that point right you will never "feel complete".

#2. The Mental Emotional Side, that if not kept in check will derail you in infinite ways and leave you wondering why you're alone.

#3. Lastly but certainly not leastly there is a physical side to the triangle. It's not a coincidence
that they test you for stress on a treadmill. We firmly believe that a man that takes good physical care of himself will prosper in his confidence in all circumstances so long as he is allowing God to guide his heart. Additionally, we "feel" like being physically prepared has great leverage on your mental emotional side of the triangle.
Yes Jesus is the pinnacle..but keep that Mentaleaze muscle triangle point sharp too to help keep your emotional side in check.

S.4 E.3 Restore to More, An Interview with Marco and Delia of Restored Nutrition!

Sun, 13 Feb 2022 23:00:00 -0500

What does success look like to you? In the beginning of this Interview Marco turned the question back on me because it's an important question to him and Delia and he wanted to make sure we weren't getting it twisted. It was an easy question to answer though, because we felt like we were sitting across from success.

Fernando bounced off of that defining moment and we began to breakdown where this couples drive and determination comes from...spoiler alert, its the same place their favor comes from. You won't want to miss a second of this first interview with this amazing couple. This is about to be an amazing 28 minutes. Here we go!

S.4. E.2 An Interview With Roy Serafin.."Your Once In A Life Time Moment is Safe With Him"

Sat, 05 Feb 2022 20:00:00 -0500

MentalEdge Nation your about to meet one of the most inspirational Entrepreneurs that has ever appeared on our show.

Mr. Roy the Photographer Serafin. You don't want to miss a minute of our conversation with this fascinating creative mind. During our conversation both Fernando and I felt like we should have been paying Roy for some of his secrets.

But he was as generous as ever. Why, because that's the type of relationship he wants to have with the people he Coaches and Photographs. Roys a full time highly successful Wedding photographer and Business coach. And although his photography skills easily set him apart from the completion its the business coaching that seems to be providing him with the most fullfilling purpose. So soak up some of these tips for free while you can and then if you wanna take your creative business to the next level..Roy is the man you want to hire to set your progress on fire.
Here we go.

S.4 E.1* Give More CompliMENts

Sat, 29 Jan 2022 17:00:00 -0500

Welcome to a new MentalEdge Episode Series we like to call Quickies. These EPICsodes are shorter, bitesized, highly concentrated conversational snacks. Just like snacks, they can get randomly consumed as they randomly drop.

We sincerely hope you enjoy this tasty conversation about the power of Men being courageous enough to compliment each other. No need to explain any further...just click and listen and please remember, If you liked what you heard...the most flattering thing you can do is Like, Subscribe and Share!

S.4 E.0 New Year, New Gear, New Sponsor!

Wed, 19 Jan 2022 18:00:00 -0500

And...We're Back! The MentalEdge Podcast has so much to share with its listeners this season. We have a new location, we have a new Sponsor, we have brand new gear and and we can't wait to get it pop'n as the episodes start drop'n.

So have listen to this quick Episode and trust that although a lot has changed one thing hasn't...we are still both very good looking and...we gonna bring the fire.

S.3 E.22 An Interview a with Mario Dee..Making It Shine, Just In Time!

Sun, 13 Jun 2021 23:00:00 -0400

In the middle of the pandemic this entrepreneur knew he couldn’t just simply hole up and ride out the storm. That’s not what makes him special. Deep down he knew that the members of his awesome health club would be loyal to him and return as soon as it was safe. So he decided to take advantage of the down time to make their return even more special. But it wasn’t going to be cheap. Regardless of the cost, he knew that an investment in this special place would be another glint of hope for his members at just the right time. Based on the social media buzz as he shared his upgrade progress...he was right. Sit back and listen to the whole sorry straight from Mario Dee himself, Chicago Fitness is a very special gym..and just like Fernando says...it’s an extension of the man that Mario is...imagine that.

S.3 E.21 Forging Your Mental Forti-Dude!

Sun, 06 Jun 2021 23:00:00 -0400

The word Forging was used in the Episode title for a reason. Its Because the best version of you is found in the fire. We talk about it all the time but we felt it was super important to emphasize the mental aspect of the battle with its very own episode. Its the mind that seems to get fatigued and then, that translates into physical, emotional and spiritual defeat.
So get your mind right to get your fight Tight. Listen to Fernando dish out some advice and don't be afraid to hit us up at...
thementaledge@yahoo.com to give us some of you own successful MentalForti-dude tips..don't be stingy wit em fellas..are you talking yourself up in the mirror, awesome...do you whisper to yourself powerful words spoken over you by somebody who loves you..whatever it is.. let us know, we wanna here about your techniques...and don't forget, if this episode was meaningful please like, subscribe and share!

S.3 E.20 Danny Camacho, a Bold Depression Confession from a Rising Gospel Rapper!

Sun, 30 May 2021 23:00:00 -0400

This Episode is World Changing. Depression is a silent killer amongst men because it capitalizes on the fact that we often struggle to confess we're dealing with it. Why, because this is an illness that makes us feel lonely and lost as we seek isolation so we won't be discovered as "weak". It's a reciprocal nightmare.

Throw Christianity into the mix and guess what...it sometimes even gets harder. Why....didn't you know, Christians are supposed to have the "joy of the Lord" and not be susceptible to such an emotional rut. Cant we just pray it away in one alter call...maybe not.

But its real talk time...we struggle too. We struggle silently and as Danny says..its not just mental and spiritual, its even physical. So what did this amazing young man do...spoiler alert, he just keep surrendering, praying, fasting, serving and...Waiting. Then he took all that our Great God carried him through and poured it into the thing God created him to do. He made great Music about how he..."Got Through".....Danny Throat Punched the Devil...and His new EP is about to drop this month. Get Through will be his first single released off his EP. Don't miss a word of this amazing interview. As always, the most flattering thing you can do is like...and Share Share Share!

S.3 E.19 Challenge Accepted..An Interview with Jimmy James Bannister of Synergy Media!

Sun, 23 May 2021 18:00:00 -0400

Jimmy James Bannister is a man who understands what makes him tic. He is focused sometimes to a fault. He engrosses himself in the task at hand and becomes almost obsessed with progressing. He decided a long time ago that it didn't matter if a degree wasn't hanging on his wall in a perfect picture frame. Oh it might some day. He just knows deep down, to be successful..Hard work trumps paper. At the beginning of this year he decided to participate in a transformation program called 75 hard. Its no ordinary "get ready for the class reunion" program..its the type of transformation program that develops more than just the body. Listen to Jimmy talk all about it. If you're a MentalEdger..you're gonna love every work he says. Now get ta click'n

S.3 E.18 Sprinkle Your Special Spice!

Sun, 16 May 2021 22:00:00 -0400

Many Men define themselves by what they do for a living, yet most men have chosen to err on the side of provision. Let's just say..a-lot a dudes aren't exactly holding down their dream Jobs... sometimes this leaves them believing that they have compromised their dreams for a paycheck. They start to believe that they've sold themselves out and that they have squandered their gifts.
MentalNation...nothing could be farther from the truth. You and your gifts are very special and to believe that you're not relevant because you didn't chase your adolescent dreams is down right ridiculous. You are only defined by what you do for a living if you so choose to be. The real truth is, the most effective, productive and happy people..find a way to flourish and contribute no matter where the have been deposited. They make the most of all situations by being what nobody else is equipped to be...Themselves...they bring their own unique special spice to the table and it generates appreciation that fosters a sense of relevancy. Because nobody is better at being you than you. now get ta sprink'n that special spice

S.3 E.17 The Flawed Man..A Deep Discussion with Bill Cumbee!

Sun, 09 May 2021 21:00:00 -0400

Flaws Flaws Flaws..I don't know about you..but I'm full of em. But at the MentalEdge we've come to realize that WE get to choose how much power those "flaws" have over us. And to take it to a whole new level that most men cant even fathom...a straight up divine epiphany...we are starting to believe, that flaws are actually essential to development.

Listen to Pastor and Friend Bill Cumbee lay it all out for us. This is an outstanding conversation with an amazing man.

S.3 E.16..Five Life Lessons You Should Know Before 40

Sun, 02 May 2021 22:00:00 -0400

You're In your 40s now or pretty dang close. You seem to have most things figured out or at least you're well on your way.... But just in case, here are 5 things we think our close friends and MentalEdgers aughta know fo sho before they hit the Big Four Ohhhh. So sit back, relax and soak these 5 tips in and let em marinate.

5 Life Lessons You Should Know Before 40!!!!

S.3 E.15 How to Know When to Go...An Interview with Pastor Sam Hamstra of Anthem Church!

Sun, 25 Apr 2021 23:00:00 -0400

The MentalEdge sits down with another amazing man of God and asks an important question.

Pastor Sam, "How does a person know when it's time to go?" Wow what a doozy right....you might be asking yourself this very question right now...yes this episode is for you!

Sometimes we stay too long, sometimes we leave too early. Worse even still, sometimes we spend an eternity wondering if we made the wrong choice. But Pastor Sam Hamstra has some sound Kingdome Advice for the answer seekers. He has 3 simple steps he uses to analyze the proposed pivot. But to hear em..you're just gonna haft listen. Sam gets to dropping nuggets like they're going outta style and we just about broke our Midi controller trying to keep up with em.
So sit back, have a listen and we promise.... you won't regret a second.

S.3 E.14 Your "No" Defines Your Worth!

Mon, 19 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Is it possible that the reluctance to say the word "no" in your life might be weighing you down.
Its seems like counter intuitive advice for a Podcast that's all about growth through service but ask yourself one simple question. "Is it possible that your passion and your purpose which are both worthy of your Yes's, are suffering from not getting the attention they deserve because its been diverted toward unnecessary busy work. You're just trying to people please and you can't seem to say no...yes..your legacy will be delayed, your passion is competing for the attention it deserves. And all you have to do to right the ship and re-prioritize is simply say.."im sorry but that's a no for me this time. I have a full plate"....don't clutter your life up with a bunch of unnecessary yes's..pray about it and understand that you are not the solution to everybodys problem. if you try to be...you will simply be the solution to none.

S.3 E.13 The Projection of the Expectation of Perfection

Sun, 11 Apr 2021 21:00:00 -0400

So what are the odds that Fernando and I both experienced the very same parenting epiphany in the same week. Yup..we sure did and we decided it was no coincidence. Are you a parent who is deeply involved with your Kids athletic or academic life and do you catch yourself wearing your "in the moment" dissapointment on your shirt sleeve? Have you blurted out the wrong, hardly inspirational, sarcastic criticism from the stands? Did he or she see you shaking your head in disappointment? Its ok, its happen to the best of dads and moms. Its a product of insecurity that becomes inflamed when you want the best for your children but something goes wrong..it doesn't play out the way it should have. You were hoping that they would have this moment where all their hard work counted for them but instead....they made a mistake..because they're human...Your blurt, or your facial expression isn't really the best representation of your love....you too, just failed a little in the moment. But don't worry...its certainly salvageable..in fact, you might have just accidentally created an awesome opportunity to express your love with a genuine appology. Don't waste another minute. As my old baseball coach would say..day lights a burnin.

S.3E.12 Grill'n the Groom! An Interview with Jays future Son in Law..Alex Campe!

Mon, 05 Apr 2021 00:00:00 -0400

The MentalEdge sat down with Jays soon to be Son In law Alex Campe. that's right, He's trapped between two seasoned men who are close to his soon to be bride...but have no fear, we have the best of intentions.
We're actually big Fans of this Stellar young man. According to Alex Its a story as old as time..boy meets gurl, and then , Alex's version goes like this....she relentlessly pursues him until he gives in...twice I had to remind him, hey...you know you're talking about my daughter right...I'm totally right here dude....seriously though. we asked Alex about leadership, expectations and boundaries.. He aced em all.
I want the world to know. I trust this young man with my daughter. He's impressive on so many levels and his maturity about life far exceeds many of his peers...but most importantly....I know he loves my daughter and I know she loves him. In the end..what else do they really need.

S.3 E.11 He's Without a Doubt..."Totally Sold Out." An Interview with Gospel Rapper Verdell Gray

Sun, 28 Mar 2021 21:00:00 -0400

Verdell TSO Gray stepped into the MentalEdge Studio and didn't miss a beat..Why was it so easy for him...cuz the studio and stage are exactly where Verdell feels comfortable. His mind was made for it. Verdell is a highly accomplished gospel Rapper with chart toping hits speckled throughout his career. Verdell's Nickname is TSO. Whats that stand for?...it stands for..."Totally Sold Out"...for the Lord that is. He can't help himself, reasons to be thankful flow from him as easy as his rhymes. He's not shy about letting his life changing phylysophys fly either. He gets it....Hes not interested in normal compensation. He's interested in breathing life into the youth he is so blessed to mentor in order to watch them reach and even exceed their goals. Thats all the compensation he will ever need. Ladies and Gentlemen, sit back and listen to Verdell tell it like it is and we promise you...the way you think will never be the same.

S.3 E.10 An Interview With The CEO of Flight Levelz Entertainment...Tyrus Joseforsky

Sun, 21 Mar 2021 17:00:00 -0400

Even in the Middle of our conversation you can see Tyrus thinking about his next move. And hes made a lot of amazing moves in his young life. "With risk comes reward" he says, with the greatest of confidence. A confidence born out of an innate focus the was a direct gift from God. "I was lucky" he says..It's not that I didn't have to work, "just lucky that I recognized my calling at a young age." That passion pushed him into the sky as a young First Officer for Spirit Airlines, but then from that perch he spied his next endeavor. Now he's bringing top tier Nashville talent to the region on the regular. He's doing what a lot of people said was impossible and hes's making impossible look easy. Behind the scenes of each incredible show his team of young Pilots flawlessly flow from hurtle to hurtle like Olympians looking for the gold. If you haven't had a chance to see a Flight Levels Entertainment show, you gotta make it happen this summer. In-fact there's no need to wait. Get your tickets right now...the next three shows are going to blow your mind
Lee Brice..at the 2021 Hometown Country Jam
The SteelWoods at the legendary Hobart Art Theater
The Eli Young Band at the Pavilion in Valparaiso Indiana
tickets are going fast...don"t hesitate.

S.3 E.9 When Your Hero's Become Zero's! With Dr. Dale Combs!

Sun, 14 Mar 2021 22:00:00 -0400

We know, its happened countless times. You find this person that seems to inspire you. There's usually something charismatic about way they talk, the way they walk, or the way they light up the room. It just seems like their life is flawless...then boom, you find out the dirty truth. The scandalous details of disappointment. Sadly, all is not what it seemed to be. But when you think about it, this all too common phenomenon, this firmiliar fall from grace, is exactly why we can't sew all of our faith in men. The bottom line is... there are plenty of great leaders in the world but when push comes to shove...they're really just men and women with the same struggles you and I have. So don't be discouraged by their failure or their exposed moments of weakness...instead just understand that our faith must reside primariliy in a father that has never let us down...yeah you know the one.
Hero's to Zero discussion with the Amazing Pastor of Jubilee Worship Center, Dr. Dale Combs

S.3 E.8 The Fear of Masculinity..Featuring Pastor Mike Hendon

Sun, 07 Mar 2021 22:00:00 -0500

Look Out Ladies, Here We Come. We've decided to be un-applogectcally Masculine. But fear not, because despite a plethora of bad examples in our past, we really feel like we're on the right path this time. In the absence of good male influence we were left stabbing in the dark to find out who we were supposed to be. This has left the door open for influence that although truly appreciated, fell a little bit short. You see, we need more men to step it up and be present. We need a reference we can count on and that reference needs to start coming from powerful, thoughtful, intelligent, Men. Only then will the world see that Masculinity isn't just pig headed bullies that want to rule the world. It's about Men embracing the role God has always intended to be ours. Thank you Pastor Mike Hendon of City Point Church for courageously stepping in and having this Conversation with the Men of the MentalEdge

S.3 E.7 The Right Heart Is the Hard Part!

Sun, 28 Feb 2021 22:00:00 -0500

This Episode is inspired by one of Fernandos #ChampionMind...a daily inspirational social media post. Fernando writes..."its Easier to Look the Part, than to Have the Right Heart" . Wow right..its a statement that ignited a great conversation between Fernando and Jay. So Please sit back relax, enjoy your commute to GrindVille and get some of this good convo flowing through your MENtal MemBRAIN!

S.3 E.6 An Interview with The Engaging, Thought Provoking, Fascinating Jerry Davich

Mon, 22 Feb 2021 00:00:00 -0500

He's spent the last 30 years of his life perfecting the ability to observe and report. He's a self proclaimed sponge that soaks up the unfiltered details of a great story in the making and then with one impressive 1000 word squeeze, delivers an unforgettable Mental Mosaic. Thats why he's perfect for the MentalEdge Hot Seat. You can hear tale tell signs of Jerrys story telling gift embedded in his voice as each complete thought tails off with a whispery confidence...confidence born out of 30 years of crafting his purpose. Confidence he is reluctant to embrace despite his prowess. This interview left us gasping for more...so sit back relax..turn those headphones up...Professor Davich is about to take the podium.

S.3 E.5 Elemental Consistencies

Sun, 14 Feb 2021 22:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay discuss the elemental consistencies of the first four guests of season 3. Each guest came from a distinctly different background or era. One was a former gang banger who became a trailblazing personal trainer and life coach, one a young driven politician, one a sucessfull musician and one a CEO of a local digital communications company. Their fields of expertise didn't cross obvious paths but buried deep between the layers of their hard earned success were those same MentalEdge core values that we've been talking about for more than a year now. These guys were tangible evidence. It was so refreshing and inspirational to know that we could find good, driven, resilient men right in our own back yard. Have a listen to the way we sum it all up. You're gonna love this episode.

S.3 E.4 An Interview with GreatNews.Life founder, Chris Mahlmann

Sun, 07 Feb 2021 15:00:00 -0500

Story tellers are some of the most selfless and gifted people in our lives. We rely on them to deliver information in a way that we hope can inspire us. Yet all too often we seem to gravitate toward the stories that depict demise and failure. It's unacceptable that we let that phenomenon dictate our falsely perceived legacy. We are so much better than that. Insert Chris Malhmann and his talented GreatNews Life team. They courageously recognized the need for positive news reporting and risked it all to deliver us a dose of vitamin hope. Chis has more than a few simple rules he lives and works by that were fostered through an upbringing he cherishes and appreciates. Chris does'nt hesitate to share those successful family ingredients. You're going to love this very special MentalEdge Episode. When you do...be just like the GreatNews team..don't be stingy with it. Get to share'n

S.3 E.3 An Interview With Jonny James..Nobody's Gonna Grind For You..Like You!

Sun, 31 Jan 2021 17:00:00 -0500

Oh man..this episodes is almost as hot as one of Jonnys singles. With a quarter of a million streams he's easily one of the regions hottest singer songwriters. His philosophy is simple, not a lot of people are making the music I love to listen to...so Im gonna make it. And make it he does. This June Jonny will be the opener for the greatest "coming outta Covid party this side of the Mason Dixon line. The HomeTown Country Jam. Opening up for Lee Brice and a slew of other accomplished Nashville artists. Jonny is sure to fit right in and maybe even steal the show. So sit back, buckle in and listen to this great Episode..then when its over, go get your HomeTown Country Jam tickets.

S.3 E.2 An Interview with Jessie Casas...Bold Strength Fitness

Sun, 24 Jan 2021 22:00:00 -0500

The MentalEdge has been watching Jessie Casas for a long time. Consuming every morsel of his testosterone laced, inspirational social media content. We were attracted to his unapologetic approach of embracing his man hood as well as his fearless desire to spit the truth. Jessie is not in the personal training business to make you feel all warm and fuzzy. He's here to facilitate change in young men and women who are willing to put in the work. Willing to challenge themselves. Willing to learn. Willing to look in the mirror and say..."it all on you". This is how he vets his clients. You get one free work out with this life changer and its not just for you. Jessie feels you out to see if you're ready. But what made this man so powerful....well, just like you Jessie has a story. His is full of deep thinking, love, Jesus and accountability. Buckle in....You're going to love this episode and when you do..please share it.

S.3 E.1 Lets Talk Politics..With a Young Politician..Josh Huddlestun

Mon, 18 Jan 2021 01:00:00 -0500

Ladies and Gentlemen of the Mental Nation. Let's talk Politics with a young politician. Josh Huddlestun represents the 2nd District of Hobart Indiana. It's his hometown and he desires to "Be the change". Now I know you've heard it all before but I promise you, Josh is different. He's a young man but he's an old sole. His political style was influenced and nurtured by his grandfather who was a politician before him. When you sit and talk with Josh its like a breath of fresh air. You realize that there really is hope for the future. You realize you really should show up and vote for guys like this, you realize you just might like some of these tech savvy millennials after all. All we have to do on our end is pray for them. Lord, keep them strong, We need the next generation to be so powerful and passionate. God Bless America, and if Josh is a sample of what's to come, God is certainly blessing America.

S.2 E.20 Hindsight is 2020

Sun, 27 Dec 2020 18:00:00 -0500

As we exit 2020 like a persons whose pants are on fire its important to also look back like a true MentalEdger would and purposly acknowledge what God did for us despite all the drama. If you're a regular MentalEdge listener you know we firmly believe that some of our best attributes are forged in the fire. 2020 was basically a metaphorical Instapot. The most powerful thing you can do right now is look back at this year with a purposeful sense of thankfulness. How unstoppable have you become that you recognize 2020 as being the reason you are more resilient and then having the ballz to be thankful for it. You made it my friend and you're about to walk into 2021 and take its lunch money.

S.2 E.19 An Interview with Mike Signorelli..No Matter What!

Sun, 20 Dec 2020 18:00:00 -0500

If you want to hear a story about a guy who understands the phrase "all in to win". Then you want to hear Mike Signorelli's story. He is the lead pastor of one of New York"s fastest growing Church..How does a region guy...make it all the way to New York City and make such a huge Impact? Well, Mikes ability to connect to more than a million people digitally each month is deeply rooted in his transparency. Thats right..that number is real, its even bigger than New York. He connects to over 2 million people each month, from his phone.
He's not shy about where he came from. He's not shy about telling people it hasn't always gone according to plan. But because Mike doesn't bail..because he keeps seeking Gods plan and he stays the course..he has seen his ministry grow. Listen up, the principals of success Mike so courageously talks about can be applied to any noble path in life. So strap in and soak up all of the nuggets Mike is about to drop. You won't regret it. No Matter What!

S.2 E.18 Dukes Up..An Interview with Charles Duke Tanner!! Desire,Discipline,Drive

Sun, 13 Dec 2020 15:00:00 -0500

16 Years ago a Man with a promising future made a terrible mistake. Charles Duke Tanner was 19-0 and was taking the boxing world by storm. But Boxing slowed down, like he said.."you only get paid when the cameras are on" in a moment of desperation fueled by his desire to lift his family and close friends out of poverty, he made a compromise. One he owns up to by the way. Duke received a double life sentence for a non violent first offense. A sentence that would be unheard of today. But this was the Era of the War on drugs and Duke was being used as an example. Listen to this powerful story of hope,
On the heels of many great people advocating for Duke. The President of the United States of America, Donald Trump read Dukes file and said.."Grant him Clemency" As amazing as that is its just the beginning for this Champion. Its boots on the ground and gloves in the ring for this man who desires to be part of the change we so desperately need. Duke wants to use his story to connect and build leadership skills in this new generation of world changers. Its not about gaining followers. "Its about leaders making leaders that pass em up" Then as they reach a new level of achievement, they turn around and point to us and say. "I learned this from him" Thats all the Glory we need.
Dukes Got Next Tanner, Desire, Discipline, Drive.

S.2 E.17 Talk'n to Brad About When He Was Bad!

Sun, 06 Dec 2020 20:00:00 -0500

The MentalEdge Podcast brings Brad Kellett into the studio to have an in-depth discussion about his past and about his astonishing deliverance. He tells his story with such a peace that it almost doesn't make sense....News flash.....Divine deliverance rarely ever makes conventional sense. How can two Heroine addicts go from a $400 a day family drug habit to ultimately helping to manage a correctional facility. Why, with Jesus of course. So sit back, relax and listen to a MAN talking about his journey from the pit to the peak. If you listen, just like Brad, you will never be the same...There aint no grave, that can hold his body down.

S.2 E.16 An Interview With Legendary Comedian Tom Dreesen!

Sun, 29 Nov 2020 18:00:00 -0500

Thats Right, Right here on the MentalEdge Podcast we had a chance to Interview legendary commedian Tom Dreesen and ask him about his prolific career. Maintaining a 50 plus year career as a respected Entertainer is no easy task but Mr. Dreesen was made it.
Listen to him talk about his humble beginnings in Harvey Illinois, Tom would shine shoes at the local tavern where his uncle was a bartender. He would listen to his uncle tell jokes and when the crowd would react to his uncles punch lines and the air would fill with laughter, Tom called it electricity. He could feel it. He thought..."that's what i want to do" but it didn't happen over night. In fact it was Toms desire to be of service to his community that ignited his career after he prayed for direction from God much later in life.
Tom drops so many nuggets of gold in this interview that we almost got lost in an educational trance..lucky for us and for you..we captured it all and here it is. Don't be stingy with it either..its worthy of a like...and many many shares. Special thanks to listener Eddie Persin for making this interview happen.

S.2 E.15 How To Score That Mentor

Sun, 22 Nov 2020 22:00:00 -0500

Not everybody has the skills to be a Meaningful Mentor. Its not just about being a subject matter expert, its about the ability to transfer the knowledge in a digestible way that not only fills the protege up..but also magically keeps em hungry. Listen to Fernando tell his story. At a critical moment all of the stars aligned for him because he soaked up every last nugget she dropped for him along the way . His most memorable mentor brought the best out of him all while she was preparing him for a future he could only dream of. Now I know you wanna click that. So Get to clickin'

S.2 E.14 An Interview With The Marine Josh Unsworth!

Sun, 15 Nov 2020 17:00:00 -0500

This isn't just an Episode...its An EPICsode. In the middle of a pandemic this former Marine decided that he would no longer embrace the excuses which keep us in a rut. He channeled his inner Warrior and surrounded himself with the support system necessary to achieve his goal...the result..he's gonna need another goal. That old goal is in his rearview mirror. Listen to Josh explain why his MANsformation was different this time. Thank you Josh for courageously sharing your story..let the landslide of life changing influence begin.
The Josh UnsWorth Journey, you can't handle his Truth!

S.2 E.13 An Interview with Sensei Tony Milevsky

Sun, 08 Nov 2020 23:00:00 -0500

Join us as we dive deep into the history of what makes this man so special. Sensei Tony Milevsky, 7th Dan, Shotokan Karate Black Belt, whose accomplishments are endlessly inspirational. Listen to Tony talk about accountability and integrity. He's been changing lives since 1967. Everybody from Chicago Professionals to steel workers to flying squirrels. You read it right...even flying squirrels. He dropped one of my all time favorite nuggets during our interview when he said..."flunking made me better". please listen in on our discussion with a man that Fernando considers to be an essential MENtor in his life....
Once again.. The Amazing Honorable Sensei Tony Milevsky!!!

S.2 E.12 Death By A Thousand Compromises

Sun, 01 Nov 2020 19:00:00 -0500

A lot of times we look back and seem to assign a lot of power to a single bad decision or bad moment in our lives. We believe that these moments are the roots of our diversion from our intended path. But the real man skill that will pay huge dividends toward your future is the one that allows you to see the pitch coming a mile away. It's the ability to spot the contributors and avoid or rebuke them that is the ultimate key. If they go unchecked the their sum total is like to death by 1000 cuts. Each cut seems to be nothing by itself but when working in tandem with their evil cohorts they are powerful contributors to an unnecessary demise. No more compromise.

S.2 E.11 Dealing With Dark Days

Sun, 25 Oct 2020 23:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay engage in a deep yet hopeful MentalEdge discussion about what it's like to be emerging from our Covid influenced lockdown. The lack of normal social stimulation coupled with the coming change of season is the perfect concocktion to encourage the onset of depression. Listen to Fernando give 4 vital tips for combating this phenomenon. You have all the tools you need and we are so very happy to be considered one of them.

S.2 E.10 They don't get you...Cuz They're Not On Ur Level!

Sun, 18 Oct 2020 22:00:00 -0400

You have made so much progress its down right MANspirational. You want to share all that you have learned. Your delivery is good, you're meek and smell great. All your ducks are in a row and the people should be flocking to you but for some reason....when you speak they just don't get you...don't worry. They don't understand your grind or your language just yet because even though they are headed in the same general direction as you..they are simply not on you level yet. Yes, we are talking about your kids, you friends, your spouse and your coworkers..but don't worry. In time, if they press in and grind just like you, all the seeds you have planted in them will help them come to fruition. So don't panic. panic is not a trait of a truly faithful MENtor. Relax, be present, be available, be kind..you know..just like Jesus.

S.2 E.9 Freedom or Freedumb?

Sun, 11 Oct 2020 21:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay talk about the differences between fake, fleeting, freedom which is the product of compromise and long lasting real freedom which is born out of the embracing of discipline. Not everybody is ready for this truth and we purposely talked about truth last week so we could set up this very in-depth discussion about acquiring, respecting and earning true freedom. Lets get to talking bout it.

S.2 E.8 The Truth About The Truth!

Sun, 04 Oct 2020 23:00:00 -0400

The Truth hurts, the Truth will set you free, You can't handle the truth..oh yes you can, in fact...just like you, its essential. Yes, embracing it is essential. You have to separate the facts from the emotionally influenced garbage and you must use the knowns as a means by which you measure. There are truths weaved in our Bible that have been handed to us on a silver platter and yet it often feels more convenient and comfortable to simply ignore them and adopt our own false sense of freedom. But what you have really adopted is a future full of bondage. Have no fear my friends, you can start right now. Have the courage to make an honest self assessment today. It's only then that the freedom begins to feel tangible.

S.2 E.7 Goals part 2..Are Your Goalz Black Holez?

Sun, 27 Sep 2020 15:00:00 -0400

Listen to Fernando and Jay talk about a hidden potential pitfall of Goal Setting that isn't often talked about. Goal setting is great, we don't want to take anything away from it but it can also be a little short sighted as well. Sometimes the goal serves as an end to your journey and what sometimes follows is a season of rest influenced by the lack of direction toward a new target. The bottom line, you can't give all the glory to the moment, as Fernando says "you have to fall in love with the journey "and understand that one single moment of success is just another notch in your impressive belt..bring on the next mountain..because you my friend are a mountain climber always seeking the next rock to scale.

S.2 E.6 Goal Getta

Sun, 20 Sep 2020 15:00:00 -0400

On this weeks Episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Hosts Fernando Lopez and Jay Wacasey discuss some of the finer points of being a Goal Getta..Fernando lets you in on a secret visualization technique that he uses to address the inevitable obstacles that always seem to come between you and your Goals. Don't hesitate to tune in and remember, if you loved this content...the most flattering thing you can do is like and share.

S.2 E.5 That Ugly Pride Deep Inside!

Mon, 14 Sep 2020 00:00:00 -0400

There is an alternate persona lurking deep inside some of us. It's a persona fueled by personal grace afforded through self righteousness. It needs to be identified understood and ripped out by the root. Do you have a spirit of Ugly Pride Deep inside? Listen to the indicators offered up by Fernando and use them to help identify this damaging trait. Its existence in your heart is sabotaging true progress. Have a listen to this weeks Episode...and let us know what you think....That Ugly Pride Deep Inside!

S2.E.4 Do You Have The Stuff To Be MENtally Tough?

Sun, 06 Sep 2020 09:00:00 -0400

Every where you look you are being given an excuse on a platter. Nobody is going to hold you accountable in the season of the sick. Oh, you didn't get it done, don't worry, its cuz of Covid. It's no big deal, accountability is on hold. Just let it ride. But that's not who the MentalEdge MENtors are. This is not the season of the sick, it's the season of progression and ascension for the mentally tough. Are you going to sit on the side lines of life right now and let it all just happen while you watch Netflix in your pajama pants?...nope not you. As Fernando says...Being Mentally tough is not optional. It's your Duty. No get to clicking, liking and sharing this awesome conversation.

S.2E.3 AdversityTeaches Me

Sun, 30 Aug 2020 15:00:00 -0400

The Struggle might be real but that's not the end of the story. The struggle is also a pivotal part of our development. Time and Time again we have witnessed people who are naturally talented simply fall off of the face of the earth because their natural talent or blessing which seemed to propel them far ahead of the crowd also ended up being the thing that discouraged them from purposing themselves toward continued improvement. In this episode Fernando and Jay talk about some of the finer points of acknowledging the moments we are struggling and then honoring the struggle with more grind. All the while tangentially developing the work ethic that will separate you from the rest of the world. Don't be stingy..once you recognize this phenomenon share it with the people you are so fortunate to mentor. Remember, your story matters and it isn't just for you.

S.2 E.2 What Are You Made Of?

Sun, 23 Aug 2020 17:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay have a deep discussion about whether or not the things you consume mentally physically and spiritually, eventualy become your fiber. Sometimes it seems like some people have superior resiliency. Whats their secret? Why does it seem like these people look as good on day 10,000 as they did on day 1? They seem to be timeless. Or in some cases, they look better. Could it be that the disciplines that are part of their everyday lives and which seem to be so difficult to commit to, are also the things that makes them so stoic? So many great things to talk about as we dive deep into the discussion about what you're made of. Please join us and if you loved what you heard...please like and share.

S.2 E.1 Passionate Pursuit Provides Protection

Sun, 16 Aug 2020 16:00:00 -0400

Have you ever witnessed somebody speak fluently about a topic that they are passionate about. Their words seem to flow so fluidly from their mind and heart that you almost assume that they must just be gifted speakers. Oh my friends, this is not always the case. Their prowess is the product of their passionate pursuit. Their desire for growth has influenced them to immerse themselves in the knowledge of the topic they are passionate about and in their seeking they have also acquired confidence that gives birth to freedom. It's the type of freedom that allows you to hedge forward not afraid of make mistakes because even your mistakes will make you more powerful. The Lord can use everything for your growth and once you realize that it produces a freedom that is rarely understood by the rest of the world. Join us on this journey of this discussion about how Passionate Pursuit Provides Protection!

Making Tough Decisions!

Sun, 09 Aug 2020 20:00:00 -0400

Sometimes you gotta make tough decisions. Fernando and Jay ask some tough questions about your process. Like, Bruh, do you even have a process? Most of us do but we doubt that many of us have analyzed it to make sure it's truly valid. What questions do you ask yourself before making a tough decision? If your stuck do you consult a trusted friend, do you have the skills to discern who will give you good advice and most importantly what is your process for ensuring that you are striving to make decisions inline with Gods plan for your life? Oh man, so much to talk about. So have a listen and if you like what you hear..please let us know and share with your friends.

Hope Is Dope

Sun, 02 Aug 2020 14:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay dive deep into the topic of choosing to be hopeful despite all the negativity bombarding the world. Can it be that simple, can you choose to consciously look back on your life and acknowledge that even the toughest things you have endured have only served to make you stronger. When you choose to think this way and pray this way and live this way you become an unstoppable growth machine whose optimism is rooted in the understanding that the Lord has already gone before you to prepare the way. All things will be used for the good. But you can't have an off switch. Nothing past present or future can rob you of your joy.

Legitimize How You Criticize!

Sun, 26 Jul 2020 19:00:00 -0400

You have so much to say. In addition, what you have to say and share is so relevant because you have put yourself out there and lived your life fruitfully. Now its your turn to share but no matter what level of authority or status you have achieved, all of it is worthless to share if your delivery is crap. So listen to Fernando and Jay talk about some of the selfless techniques that they believe separate the most effective advice and criticism delivers. You're gonna love the nuggets these guys drop.

E.33 Haters Gonna Hate

Sun, 19 Jul 2020 15:00:00 -0400

There you go grinding...putting yourself out there because you know stretching is how your grow. But from a distance you hear the faintest words spoken by somebody who isn't on you team and doesn't want to be. Somebody who would rather work all day long to bring you down instead of building themselves up. The MentalEdge wants its listeners to know that when you grow you attract attention. Your progress will inspire some and threaten others. Take their words in stride and know that they don't understand where your peace comes from. So it won't make sense when their attack renders no injury. Your peace and armor come from a place that doesn't resonate with the haters just yet. Do not be corrupted by their attacks. Sleep like a baby. They have on power over you except that which you give them...they get none...be not deterred...Let your light shine so you're easy to find.
Haters gonna Hate.

The Ins and Outs of Sex....You Know You Wanna Click Dat!

Sun, 12 Jul 2020 14:00:00 -0400

Can two Jesus guys have a serious conversation about sex? probably not without laughing and making a few really good locker room jokes...none of our episodes are explicit and none will ever be but...The MentalEdge doesn't want to shy away from important conversations that sometimes seem hard to have. So please have a listen without the kids in the car....all the way till the end before you decide to send the hate mail...Dont worry, nobody will know why you are doubled over laughing...no shame in our game. Ladies and Gentleman..lets talk bout that Sexytime

Flexibility=FlexibiliME

Sun, 05 Jul 2020 16:00:00 -0400

Has your personal rigidity provided you a level of success that also makes you unwilling to see the advantage of being flexible. Yes sometimes it is good to be able to run the ball right down your opponents throat. To bull doze your way right into the end zone of life. But what happens when life sends its two strongest linebackers through the one and two hole...Bruh..you better have some sweep game. Yes you can be flexible with out compromising who you are. So get to stretching...a great place to start is by listening to this episode..if you like what you hear please let us know and the most flattering thing you can do is like...and share.

Uncovering The Lies On Your Journey To Discovering The Truth

Sun, 28 Jun 2020 14:00:00 -0400

Have you ever felt so passionate about something but then all of a sudden somebody plants a seed of doubt and it questions everything you believe in. You weren't ready for their educated attack. It's at these moments that an opportunity for real growth has presented itself. Your passion may not be as miss-guided as you might think though. All that is missing is for you to dive deep into understanding why you believe what you believe. This journey will help produce a sense of confidence that is not so easily shaken, that doesn't result in your lashing out in fear. Uncover the lies on your way to fortifying the truth. Because, you will be full of the known and not the unknown. Each challenging question is critical to your journey. Have you been lied to? `lets find out.

The Danger of Weak Words

Sun, 21 Jun 2020 23:00:00 -0400

On The MentalEdge we talk a lot about the power of Action. But we thought it was about time to acknowledge the power of purposefully choosing your words. It's time to stop praying or talking from a spirit of weakness. Please tune into what Fernando and Jay talk about as they describe phrases and words we sometimes use that nonchalantly promote a sense of defeatism. Thats not how the listeners of this Podcast speak. We proudly declare that we are the Children of the One True God and nothing about that Royal Blood is weak. The Dangerous, Weak, Speak, stops now.

Meekness is not Weakness

Sun, 14 Jun 2020 16:00:00 -0400

There is something special about you, people struggle to put their finger on it. It's a quiet confidence that seems unwavering and unshakable. Where does it come from? It comes from the understanding that you are a child of the one true God. You find great joy in the fact that the nicest things ever said about you never came from your own lips. They came from people who admired your humble and down to earth meekness. It's one of the many qualities that makes you special. Although you remain un-provoked by people who attempt to shake you its important for you to understand that your restraint is also another example of your faith and your confidence. You have nothing to prove, you are not desperate for acceptance. Your Meekness is not a Weakness, it's a Super Power.

Are You Contagious? E27

Sun, 07 Jun 2020 16:00:00 -0400

You've been spending your days and nights pressing in and devoting yourself toward transformation. Pouring yourself into purposeful perspective that carries you through the valley. But in the back of your mind you have this nagging question shrouded in doubt. Am I doing this all for myself or is it also positively affecting the people i love who surround me. The answer is yes, it's affecting them too. Because you and your powerful changes are contagious. More than you can imagine. Those teenagers that seem to never look up from their devices are watching you more than you think. You are setting a tremendously powerful example for them. You're about become their reference when they need it most....You're contagious, yet you're not a virus, you're part of the cure, isn't it awesome to know, that the cure is contagious? oh yes it is!

Squad Check...It's Time To Tighten Up That Circle!

Sun, 31 May 2020 17:00:00 -0400

Your friends at the MentalEdge would like to give you permission to take a good hard look at the people who surround you. You really didn't need our permission but rest assured, we understand that its not easy to decide to cut ties with those people who have been with us for so long, even if its obvious that we are not headed in the same direction. So we decided to dedicate an entire episode where we discuss the importance of taking a good hard look at whether or not you and your friends are headed in the same great direction. If not, then get to clipping those cords. It's time for some healthy boundaries and some freed up friend space. We need to surround ourselves with people who want more out of this awesome life. So much to talk about, please join us and you like what you hear.....Please share.

E25 Your Past Doesn't Have The Right To Dictate Your Future.

Sun, 24 May 2020 17:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay would like to make a statement. Your past doesn't get to define you. Yes it can be a motivational tool by which you reflect and measure your growth and success but, If you past sometimes feels like a boat anchor do you self a much deserved favor. Cut it loose. Here’s another suggestion, tap into that Supernatural power given to you in the Name of the one true Father and look back at your past with gratitude. Yes, purposely glance over your shoulder with only one purpose. To reflect with a sense of thankfulness for having been blessed with seasons of new found wisdom and growth. And your just getting started🙌🔥🌎🎙🌎💪👊🔥

Are You Even Approachable Bruh?

Sun, 17 May 2020 15:00:00 -0400

Fernando and Jay explore the topic of being approachable. Make no mistake, this is a critical man skill that requires and deserves your attention. We must become masters of non verbal communication and recognize that our first impulsive instinct to lash out when a problem is brought to us at an inconvenient time, needs to kept in check. It's an emotional response that's linked to so much that we can talk about and we will. Dive right in. You're going to love this episode and yes, this skill is directly related to your legacy because its directly related to your blessed opportunities to equip you Children.

E.23 You Can Tell The Size of A Man By The Size of The Things That Bother Him!

Sun, 10 May 2020 15:00:00 -0400

Fernando a Jay talk about some of the things that might have you Shak'n Your Head. Yeah there are things that can get under your skin a little. But honestly ,they should never be in charge of the way you respond. Your life is a non stop Sermon that is constantly teaching you valuable lessons. You should treat it as such and greet every adversity and annoyance as an opportunity to prove why you're special. Don't react like the rest of the world does. You're hope, you faith and your calling is other worldly. Start acting like it.

Push Through The Worry

Sun, 03 May 2020 19:00:00 -0400

Listen to Fernando and Jay try to pin down the difference between Paralyzing Worry and Healthy Concern. One has you enslaved, one Sets you free. One makes you feel Helpless and one is the ignitor of an ustoppable inner fire.
Turns out, the one you embrace is completely up to you.

E.21 Are You a Man With a Plan

Sun, 26 Apr 2020 16:00:00 -0400

You've picked out your destination, you know where you want to be. But not only have you not made the first turn on your journey, you haven't even filled up your tank. If you're like us, sometimes you have given the Vision Statement all the Glory. You have forgotten how important it is to have a real, sustainable plan that pays attention to the mind, body and soul development you deserve.
If we just praise the peak we are never going to get there. It's the Journey that makes the Man. It's time to ask the question: "Are you a Man with a Plan?" Yes you are.

Confessions of Cat Love From a Dog Guy

Fri, 24 Apr 2020 00:00:00 -0400

DediCATed to the life of the most adventurous sole I have ever had the pleasure of petting. Our Boy Rocky, Rest in Peace my friend. Rocky Wacasey 2003 to 2020

E.20 What Makes You Beautiful

Sun, 19 Apr 2020 18:00:00 -0400

Aside from the fact that we know that all of our MentalEdge friends are visually stunning we wanted to spend a little time talking about the depth of real sustainable beauty. Lets face it, its great to be hot right, but if that's all you got on your plate you're gonna be running on empty real soon.
So take what little Corona Quarantine time you have left and think about what makes the people you love special. I bet it won't take long and you will easily see that real beauty has a whole lot more to do with being genuine and unique......you know, just the way God made you.

E19 Why Do Your Sorry's Suck

Sun, 12 Apr 2020 21:00:00 -0400

If you listen to only one MentalEdge Podcast episode, make it this one. The ability to apologize like a boss is easily our greatest overlooked and underdeveloped skill. And here's the thing, having the balls to do it right my friend is a game changer. Saying I'm sorry without disclaimer speaks volumes about your character. It communicates your worth far beyound any excuses you have lurking in the nether regions of your mind. Rebuke that insecure devil...show ownership, yeah i know. But it feels like I'm giving something up. You are, you're giving up dangerous pride that has you boat anchored to the bottom. So despite all of the little tingly things telling you to go watch MacGyver, instead let the MentalEdge get all up in your head.

E.18 How to get "Mo Happiness"

Sun, 05 Apr 2020 17:00:00 -0400

Life is all about the pursuit of happiness right? Ok, i see you nodding up and down. If you know it so well..why you walkin aound so angry?... Fernando and Jay talk about finding more happiness. Spoiler Alert Fellas...you probably not gonna hafta go on an expedition to a Majestic Secluded Peak..Your journey is gonna look a whole lot more like soul searching. Which is great since Carona got you on lockdown anyway. Cant wait to talk all about it. Check it out, have a listen.

E.17 The Truth About Talent

Sun, 29 Mar 2020 22:00:00 -0400

Theres a lie being told...it sounds like this. "All of the really talented people were born with it". We're calling B.S. on this one. Which stands for "bad saying"...what did you think we meant? Anyway, don't be discouraged by the people who seem more talented than you. Seek to become great at what inspires and excites you. Later on in life an amazing truth becomes astonishingly clear. The people who experience sustainable successful remain in the game not because they were necessarily born talented, but because they were born hungry. This unrelenting desire to become better propelled them well beyond the people with fleeting natural initial talent. Tortoise and the Hare kinda stuff here and your gonna love it.

EP. 16..Whatchu doing with that Corona Time

Mon, 23 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

It's an unprecedented moment in American History. A Virus has invaded our nation and whether you feel like the mandated isolation is an over reaction or whether you are certain death is inevitable, one thing is definately true.....you have some "rarely available" free time that you never imagined you would have. How are you going to spend it? Hopefully you will make this moment count for you. You can come out of it better than you went in and the MentalEdge would love to be part of it....from a distance of course.

Special episode of the MentalEdge...RazorEdge

Mon, 16 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

We sliced em and diced em to make em delicious and digestible. check out some clips of our favorite moments and when you like what you hear, head on over to the full episode for the full MentalMeal.

What the Smell is wrong with you? Bruh..do you even smell good?

Mon, 09 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0400

Fellas, on the real real real, A little bit of healthy pride about the way you present yourself can go a long long way. Is it a pleasure to be around you, from your smile to your smell. What can you do in the next 10 minutes to sharpen your personal presentation skills? Fernando and Jay dive right in and have a little fun with the topic. Like only the MentalEdge Podcast can.

EP 14..Are You A Dream Crusher?

Mon, 02 Mar 2020 00:00:00 -0500

We have a MentalEdge team confession...nothing makes us wanna throat punch a brutha more than listening to a person crush another persons dreams. Are you wearing fa edora of fear everywhere you go and are spreading a seed of doubt. Maybe you're confused and a slave to your own subconscious not realizing that your negative outlook is some sort of twisted protective mechanism for your ego. Yeah i know..I'm being a little harsh.

Your petrified words are just the faux reality that you choose to believe. Don't be a dealer of doubt. Don't be a player hater. Your story of failure could end differently today so long as you are courageous enough to not be intimidated by the twinkling in that dreamers eye. Choose to fan their flame. Leave the extinguishing to the firemen.

EP 13 The Courage to be Courageous

Mon, 24 Feb 2020 00:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay dive into the modern day meaning of Courage. They talk about achieving micro victories and how those victories help to prepare you for your greatest moments. The power of your tomorrow can hinge on the Courage you display today. Fear is a liar, punch it in the face on the playground of life and set your future on fire. It can all start by making your bed! Whuuut. yes you will have to listen for that to make sense. But rest assured our friends, we promise the time we share together will be worth it.

EP12 Special Valentines day Episode..If you wanna make withdrawals, you best put somethin in that bank Bruh!

Fri, 14 Feb 2020 00:00:00 -0500

Check it...this episode is full of super secretive stuff only for guys. If we are being honest....its really just for Married guys. Its not Rocket science tho fellas..just love the one you got...love the pants of those wives..quite literally. Like Fernando says..if you wanna make a withdrawal, you gotta put somethin in that bank.

EP 11...From Bitter to Better

Sun, 09 Feb 2020 22:00:00 -0500

On this Episode of The MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay talk about what it takes to transition from bitter to better and why it so important. Fernando shares a personal story of forgiveness that is sure to touch the heart of every listener. Please check it out.

EP 10 Cool Head, Warm Heart, Thick Skin..Say It Again

Sun, 02 Feb 2020 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode Fernando and Jay talk about 3 essential elements of Man Life. A Cool Head, A Warm Heart and Thick Skin. A triangle of power. A Trifecta that'll Protect ya. My favorite line of the of the Podcast....Fernando says "Don't mistake my Kindness for weakness". That nugget and so much more. please tune in...to The MentalEdge Podcast EP 10

The MentalEdge Podcast EP9.....What Are You Waiting For?

Mon, 27 Jan 2020 00:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay talk about the importance of picking yourself. There has never been a better time to take a step toward your dreams. A world of opportunity is nothing more than a click away. What are the things that stop you from taking that first step? We talk discuss them all as well as covering why you will always be worth the risk. Quit waiting for it to be your time. Make it your time. Start Now.

The MentalEdge EP 8 Choose your views...the Power of Positive Perspective

Sun, 12 Jan 2020 15:00:00 -0500

In this weeks episode Fernando and Jay talk about the power of purposely choosing to have a positive perspective. Can you choose to use the power of a positive perspective? spoiler alert...Jes Ju Can.

The MentalEdge EP 7....Man does not live by likes alone!

Sun, 12 Jan 2020 15:00:00 -0500

In this weeks episode Host Fernando details what itswas like to give up using social media for 33 days. Man does not live by likes alone. "Tune in" to hear us talk about what it means to "tune out".

The MentalEdge Podcast: Episode 6, What You Bring To the Table.

Sun, 05 Jan 2020 21:00:00 -0500

On this weeks episode of the MentalEdge Podcast Fernando and Jay ask the question, "What do you bring to the table?". Spoiler alert fellas, it's a whole lot more than just shiny things. Have a listen see what you been missin.

The MentalEdge Podcast episode 5 the Remix

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 23:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay revisit and remix the first 4 episodes. They recap the highlights and then put special emphasis on some of the stuff they realized they had neglected to cover.

The MentalEdge Podcast Episode 4 Why have you given up what you love

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 22:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay ask the question, men why is it that you have given up the things you love? Later in life as you list of responsibilities and relationships grows you find yourself giving up more than a few of the things that make you special. Fernando and Jay talk about how it is essential to manager you're time to ensure that there is still some left for you.
Go get your glow back my friend.

The MentalEdge Podcast episode 3 Your greatest comeback

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 21:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay talk about your greatest comeback. Everybody wants to become the Hero of their own comeback story.

The MentalEdge Podcast episode 2 Inside every good man is a Bad Boy

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 20:00:00 -0500

Fernando and Jay talk about taping into that inner bad boy. You know the one I'm talking about. He's alive and well inside you. However its important the call on him but also keep him in check because quite frankly, neither one of you would do really well in the jail.

The MentalEdge podcast episode 1 The Origin Story

Mon, 23 Dec 2019 19:00:00 -0500

Hosts Frenando Lopez and Jay Wacasey talk about the origin of their new podcast. They masterfully quoted their mission statement as well as discuss Jay's newly release book.
The MAN-U-SCRIPT.