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Betting On Myself

Fri, 17 Jul 2026 00:00:00 -0400

With my birthday arriving in the middle of July, I’m taking a rare step back to look at how much my life has changed.

I talk about leaving behind a career writing about professional wrestling, finding my real voice through stories about Lucas and Olivia, starting over after heart surgery and divorce, and learning to stop taking responsibility for everyone else’s behavior.

Most of all, I share how Lucas has taught me to be myself without apologizing, trust my instincts, and keep betting on the life I’m building.

It’s an old-school, personal episode about boundaries, growth, unexpected dreams, and realizing that the best birthday gift I could give myself was knowing I can handle whatever comes next.

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The Thing People Get Wrong About Profound Autism

Fri, 10 Jul 2026 00:00:00 -0400

This week, I'm talking about something that's been on my mind for a long time.

People often debate labels like "high functioning," "low functioning," and "profound autism," but I think they're missing the bigger point. My son Lucas doesn't measure his life by jobs, marriage, or fitting into society's expectations. So why do so many other people?

In this episode, I explain why comments about "eradicating autism" struck such a nerve, why I was disappointed by much of the reaction that followed, and why I believe a person's value has nothing to do with how much they contribute to everyone else. Most of all, I share what Lucas has taught me about authenticity, freedom, and appreciating people for who they are instead of what they can do.

Patience Is Different When You're Raising A Child With Autism

Fri, 03 Jul 2026 00:00:00 -0400

My son Lucas accidentally dumped an entire cup of water over my head. The surprising part wasn't the mess. It was what happened next.

In this episode, I explain why raising a child with autism has completely changed the way I think about patience, discipline, and emotional regulation. Some parenting lessons happen in the moment. Others have to wait until the moment has passed. Understanding the difference has transformed not only how I parent Lucas, but how I respond to frustration in my own life.

I share the story behind the "spill-proof" cup that somehow wasn't, why yelling teaches my son nothing, how staying calm helped us navigate everything from public meltdowns to everyday mishaps, and why I believe children often mirror the emotions we bring into the room.

This isn't a conversation about letting bad behavior slide. It's about recognizing that every child learns differently and that sometimes the most effective lesson begins only after everyone has taken a breath.

If you've ever wondered what parenting a child with autism really looks like, or if you've ever struggled to stay patient in a difficult moment, I hope this episode helps.

They Tell Me My Baby Is An Adult Now

Fri, 26 Jun 2026 00:00:00 -0400

My daughter Olivia turned 18, and somewhere between scholarship nights, senior prom, and graduation, it finally hit me: my baby isn't a little girl anymore.

In this episode, I look back at the journey that started long before graduation. I talk about the early days of HiBlogI'mDad, when Olivia colored the original blog logo, why surviving my quintuple bypass changed the way I looked at fatherhood, and how my relationship with my son Lucas taught me that parenting has never been about perfection. It's about connection.

I also share one of the most important lessons I've ever tried to teach my children: I don't care how many awards, grades, or diplomas they earn if they aren't good people. Watching Olivia grow into a fiercely loyal, compassionate young woman has shown me that sometimes the greatest accomplishment isn't raising a successful child. It's raising a kind one.

This episode is about letting go, holding on, surviving the teenage years, and realizing that the future you've spent years preparing for eventually becomes your past. If you're a parent wondering where the time went, this one's for you.

A Pool Day With A Grown-Up Kid

Fri, 19 Jun 2026 00:00:00 -0400

A quick tap on your kid's leg used to feel like nothing. Then one day it doesn't.

This week, James shares a simple summer pool trip with his nonverbal son Lucas that turned into something much bigger. As his daughter prepares to graduate high school, he's already feeling the weight of time moving faster than ever. That reality hits again when he realizes the little boy he's spent years taking to the pool is now a full-sized young man.

What follows is a story about routines, trust, transitions, and the quiet ways communication happens without words. James talks about preparing Lucas for outings, handling difficult transitions, and why successful days aren't accidents. They're built on years of trial and error, patience, and learning to understand each other.

Most of all, it's a reminder that growth doesn't happen all at once. It stacks up over time, often in ways you don't notice until one ordinary day suddenly feels extraordinary.

If you're raising a child with autism, navigating special needs parenting, or simply trying to stay connected as your kids grow older, this episode is about the relationships that make progress possible.

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The Relationship I Thought I'd Never Have

Fri, 12 Jun 2026 00:00:00 -0400

When my son Lucas was little, one of my biggest fears had nothing to do with autism itself.

It was language.

As a writer, words have always been how I connect with people. They're how I explain myself, build relationships, and make sense of the world around me. So when it became clear that Lucas wasn't developing verbal language, I assumed there would always be a wall between us.

I couldn't have been more wrong.

This week, I talk about the early days of autism parenting, the isolation that comes from not having answers, and why I used to avoid taking Lucas out in public. More importantly, I share what happened over the years as I learned that communication is about far more than speech.

Today, Lucas and I have our own language. It's built through trust, routines, humor, gestures, and years of understanding each other. We share jokes. We make each other laugh. We have a relationship that I once thought would be impossible.

If you're raising a nonverbal child, wondering what the future might look like, I hope this episode gives you some reassurance. The fears you have today aren't always the reality you'll be living tomorrow.

Sometimes the most important things we'll ever hear are said without words at all.

My Son Doesn't Need Words To Be Understood

Fri, 05 Jun 2026 00:00:00 -0400

When my son Lucas was first diagnosed with autism, I thought speech was everything.

How would he tell me what he needed? How would he make friends? How would he navigate the world? Like many parents, I became fixated on words because I believed they were the key to everything else.

I was wrong.

In this episode, I talk about what happened when I stopped focusing on speech and started focusing on communication. From picture exchanges and communication devices to gestures, routines, and receptive language, I learned that being understood is far more important than speaking.

I also share why parents sometimes become attached to specific milestones, how our own fears can cloud what our children actually need, and the moment I realized that my son's success wasn't tied to verbal language.

Most of all, this episode is about acceptance, connection, and understanding that communication comes in many forms. My goal was never for Lucas to speak. My goal was for him to be understood.

And there's a big difference between the two.

When Childhood Ends For My Nonverbal Teen

Fri, 29 May 2026 00:00:00 -0400

My daughter turned 18 this week, and suddenly I found myself thinking about how fast childhood disappears. One minute your kids are toddlers running through the living room with The Wiggles on in the background, and the next they’re adults making plans for the future.

That realization hits differently when you’re raising a nonverbal autistic teenager.

This week, I talk about the fear that comes with watching Lucas grow older, why routines can sometimes hide the passage of time, and what it feels like to realize the future you once dreaded is already here. When Lucas was three, the idea of him being 15 and still nonspeaking felt impossible to process. Now we’re living it — and the truth is, life didn’t end. He’s happy. I’m happy. And the worst-case scenario I built in my mind years ago never fully matched reality.

I also talk about how a quintuple bypass in 2012 permanently changed the way I look at fear, gratitude, and the life we actually have instead of the one we imagined. We get into parenting, uncertainty, adulthood, and why I refuse to define my son by a checklist of deficits or milestones.

Most of all, this episode is about learning to see the beauty in the child you have instead of mourning the version the world expected.

The Bar For Dads Is So Low It Makes Me Uncomfortable

Fri, 22 May 2026 00:00:00 -0400

People tell me, “We wish all dads were like you,” and I know they mean it as a compliment. But after hearing it enough times at parent-teacher conferences, CSE meetings, and school events, I started wondering what it really says about the expectations we place on fathers.

This week I talk about raising Lucas, why involved dads still get treated like exceptions, the strange culture of applauding fathers for basic parenting, and why the bar for men might be set way too low.

Because showing up for your kids shouldn't be extraordinary. It should be expected.

Why My Son With Autism Melts Down Less With Me

Fri, 15 May 2026 00:00:00 -0400

People think raising a child with autism is about behavior management, routines, or finding the perfect strategy. For me, the biggest breakthrough came when my son Lucas finally trusted that I understood him.

This week, I talk about how everything changed once that trust clicked into place. From meltdowns in parking lots to waiting for food at restaurants, I share the small moments that taught Lucas I wasn’t ignoring his needs, even when the answer was “not yet.”

I also talk about the way I communicate with him through gestures, repetition, exaggerated expressions, and consistency, plus why I think patience and emotional regulation matter more than lectures ever could. Along the way, I get into parenting advice, “autism expert” culture, social stories, receptive language, and why every child with autism is different, even when people online try to make it sound simple.

Most of all, this episode is about trust, understanding, and the relationship that grows when a child knows you truly have their back.

I Understand My Son Better Than Anyone Else

Fri, 08 May 2026 00:00:00 -0400

People hear that my son Lucas is nonverbal with autism and usually ask the same question: “How do you understand each other?”

The truth is, I understand him better than I understand almost anyone else.

This week, I talk about the strange honesty that comes with raising a child who doesn’t hide what he wants, doesn’t play social games, and communicates in ways that are often clearer than words. From Lucas launching himself upstairs the second I finally say “okay, go,” to the trust we’ve built around food, waiting, routines, and emotional regulation, this episode is about the kind of understanding that grows when two people truly learn each other.

I also talk about communication devices, gestures, impulse control, and why I think a lot of the online conversation around autism misses the humanity of kids like Lucas completely.

Most of all, this episode is about trust, authenticity, and why my relationship with my son is one of the greatest parts of my life.

Living The Life I Was Afraid Of

Fri, 01 May 2026 00:00:00 -0400

This week’s episode comes from a thought I’ve had for years but finally put into words.

When my son was first showing signs of autism, I was terrified of what the future would look like. The things that kept me up at night. The delays, the struggles, the uncertainty...they all felt like deal breakers.

The truth is, a lot of those fears came true.

My son is nonverbal. He needs help with things most people don’t think twice about. The life I imagined back then as a worst-case scenario is, in many ways, the life we’re living now.

And we’re happy.

In this episode, I talk about how that happened, why the things I thought I needed turned out not to matter the way I expected, and why I’m more at peace in this life than I ever thought I’d be.

This isn’t a universal story. It’s mine. But if there’s something in it that connects with you, take it.

How My Nonverbal Son Learned to Wait (And Why It Matters)

Fri, 24 Apr 2026 00:00:00 -0400

“Kids with autism don’t like to wait.”

I heard that in a waiting room while my nonverbal son Lucas was sitting quietly a few feet away. I was ready to be offended...and then realized they weren't talking about us.

What started as a simple oil change turned into something bigger. A busy drop-off counter, a quiet moment with his iPad, then a long walk through construction to a strip mall that used to feel impossible.

And he handled all of it.

No meltdown. No fight. No chaos.

Just patience.

In this episode, I talk about what changed and why it wasn’t luck. It was something we built over time. Trust, consistency, and understanding. A rhythm.

I also get into what that actually looks like in real life:

Why waiting used to be so hard
How things like food grabbing changed
What I do when he gets overwhelmed
...and why this has never been a one-way street

Because as much as I’ve worked to understand him, he’s been learning me too.

If you’re raising a child with autism or just trying to understand progress that doesn’t always look obvious, this one’s for you.

He Doesn’t Need Words. He Needs Trust.

Thu, 16 Apr 2026 06:00:00 -0400

Ten years ago, I started writing about my son Lucas. What I didn’t realize back then was how much I would change along the way.

When your child is nonverbal, it’s easy to get stuck waiting. Waiting for words. Waiting for progress. Waiting for a moment that may never come.

But what I’ve learned is this: communication was always there. It just didn’t look the way I expected.

In this episode, I talk about what finally shifted my perspective from focusing on speech to recognizing understanding, intent, and connection through actions, routines, and trust.

Because trust changes everything.

When Lucas trusts me, he waits. He stays regulated. He doesn’t grab food, melt down, or panic in the same ways he once did. Not because he suddenly “learned behavior”, but because he knows I understand him and I’ve got his back.

I share real moments, from food struggles to transitions to a birthday party that showed me just how far we’ve come.

If you’re raising a child who communicates differently, this episode is about seeing what’s already there and building from it.

I Stopped Waiting For My Nonverbal Son To Be “Fixed”

Fri, 10 Apr 2026 00:00:00 -0400

I used to feel like I was waiting for something that would finally make everything make sense - my son’s verbal language. When you’re raising a young child with nonverbal autism, the hardest part isn’t always the day-to-day. It’s the uncertainty, the questions, and not having answers for any of it.

In this episode, I talk about those early years, the pressure from other people, and the reactions that come when your child doesn’t fit expectations. From denial disguised as reassurance to “cures” that miss the point entirely, it’s a reality a lot of parents quietly deal with.

The shift came when I stopped waiting. Not because everything got easier, but because I started seeing my son for who he is right now—not someone I’m still waiting to meet. That’s where autism appreciation began for me, and it changed everything about how I see him, our life, and what actually matters.

What If Your "Normal" Is Just Something You Learned To Hide?

Fri, 03 Apr 2026 00:00:00 -0400

I didn’t have answers when people asked why my nonverbal son was clapping, making sounds, or doing things they didn’t understand.

And that wasn’t because I was embarrassed.

It was because I genuinely didn’t know.

Over time, that changed. Not because someone explained it to me, but because I started paying attention. What looked random wasn’t random. What looked confusing actually had a purpose.

And once I understood that, something else clicked.

This isn’t just something my son does.

We all do it.

We just don’t do it out loud. We don’t do it in public. We don’t let ourselves.

This episode is about stimming, what it really is, and why the difference between my son and the rest of us might not be what you think.

What My Son Understands That I Used to Miss

Fri, 27 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0400

I used to think the hardest part of raising a nonverbal child was what he couldn’t say.

I was wrong.

This week, I talk about something I didn’t understand for years and honestly, didn’t even believe in at first: receptive language.

There’s never a moment when my son tells me what he’s learned. No updates. No explanations. One day he just knows what something means, and I’m left wondering when it happened.

It finally clicked when I lost my voice.

I thought I could just gesture, point, and figure things out without speaking. It didn’t work. Because my son doesn’t just communicate without words, he understands them.

That realization changed everything.

This episode isn’t about what he can’t say. It’s about everything he’s been understanding this whole time and what I almost missed because I was focused on the wrong thing.

When Your Nonverbal Teen Starts Growing Up

Fri, 20 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0400

My son Lucas just turned 15, and I’m still catching my breath. He’s nonverbal, he has profound autism, and in my head he’s always been my “baby” — the kid with the same songs, the same books, and the same comfort routines. Then I look up and realize he has a mustache, he’s tall, and I’m standing there saying “go potty” like time hasn’t moved at all.

This week, I talk about what that moment brought up for me as his dad. I get into why I’ve always hated the “mental age” shortcut and why Lucas isn’t “really five” just because some parts of his life look younger to the outside world. He’s 15. He’s a teenage boy. And like everyone else, he’s fully himself.

I also talk about something that surprised me recently: Lucas’s receptive language. When I lost my voice, I learned pretty quickly that we can’t do life through pantomime alone, and that he understands far more than I sometimes stop to realize. It made me think about the words I use with him, the respect he deserves, and the reality that my little boy is growing into a young man.

My Nonverbal Son Never Pretends

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0400

This week on Hi Pod! I’m Dad, I talk about something I’ve come to admire about my son Lucas as he’s gotten older: he never pretends.

Lucas is a nonverbal teenager with profound autism, and one of the things that stands out to me more and more is how real he is. He can’t fake a smile. He can’t hug someone just to be polite. If he’s happy, you see it. If he’s excited to see you, you know it. Everything about him is genuine.

I think about how many people spend time telling the world who they are — funny, generous, authentic — while Lucas simply shows you. There’s no performance, no pretending, and no trying to be the person someone else expects.

Years ago, when Lucas was very young, I worried I might never understand him without words. What I didn’t realize then is that I would end up understanding him better than most people I’ve ever met.

This episode is about authenticity, parenting, and why sometimes the person who says the least can still teach you the most.

My Nonverbal Son Doesn’t Need A Movie Ending To Be A Hero

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 00:00:00 -0500

Last week was the first time in a long time that I missed an episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad. The reason was simple: I lost my voice.

At first I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal. My son Lucas is nonverbal, and I’ve always believed we don’t need words to communicate with each other. But once my voice was gone, I realized pretty quickly that we actually rely on those words more than I thought.

That experience led into something I wrote about this week on the blog: autism appreciation. I talk about why appreciating my son’s autism doesn’t mean pretending life is easy or ignoring the real challenges that come with raising a child with severe autism. Those things are real. I just choose not to make them the focus of our story.

Lucas is honest in a way most people aren’t. If he’s happy, he’s happy. If he loves you, he loves you. There’s no pretending, no manipulation, no trying to be something he isn’t. That honesty is part of what makes him who he is.

I also talk about how surviving a quintuple bypass in 2012 changed the way I see life and parenting. It made me realize that the moments we have right now matter more than the worries about the future.

Lucas doesn’t need a movie ending to be a hero. He doesn’t need hidden powers or some big milestone to make his story meaningful.

He’s already Lucas. And that’s enough for me.

My Son Doesn’t Need Fixing

Fri, 20 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0500

This week, I talk about a word that comes up far too often when you’re raising a child like my son Lucas: “fix.”

For many people, it sounds logical. If a child is nonverbal or has autism, they must need to be corrected, changed, or fixed. But as Lucas has grown, I’ve learned something very different. My son isn’t broken. He never was.

In this episode, I share how my perspective changed over time, from trying to correct the way Lucas played and communicated to realizing that teaching and fixing are not the same thing. I talk about the moments that helped me understand his world, why I would never want to change who he is, and how acceptance, trust, and patience shaped the bond we share today.

It’s an honest conversation about parenting, expectations, and what it really means to love your child unconditionally.

The Things We Started Before They Mattered

Fri, 13 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0500

When Lucas was little, some of the things we worked on felt almost ridiculous.

They didn’t seem urgent. They didn’t feel important. And at the time, everything else felt like it was on fire. If it wasn't language, it wasn't a priority in my mind. Yet, we worked on them anyway.

Now he’s almost 15. He’s bigger than me. He’s growing into himself. And some of those early moments, the ones that didn’t seem to matter yet, suddenly do.

This episode isn’t about puberty, or milestones, or “getting it right.” It’s about what happens when you accept who your child is early, keep working anyway, and realize years later why it mattered.

Understanding Isn’t the Goal. Trust Is.

Fri, 06 Feb 2026 00:00:00 -0500

This week, I talk about a moment that made something click for me as a dad.

For years, I thought understanding why my nonverbal son does things was the key to helping him. But raising Lucas has taught me something different.

I don’t always need answers. I need awareness. I need trust.

In this episode, I share how learning to respect what my son does, even when I don’t fully understand it, has reshaped the way I parent, the way I protect him, and the way I see my role as his dad.

This is about trust, transitions, and what happens when you stop trying to decode your child and start meeting them where they are.

What My Nonverbal Son Taught Me About Trust at 4 AM

Fri, 30 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500

This week, I’m talking about trust.

Not just the trust we work to earn from our nonverbal kids, but the trust they place in us every day, often without us realizing it.

It starts in the middle of the night, when my 14-year-old son Lucas wakes me up the way he always does. What I walked into wasn’t the part that stayed with me. What stayed with me was how easily he trusted me when I told him what to do, even when he didn’t fully understand why.

In this episode, I reflect on the responsibility that comes with being someone your child trusts unconditionally, and why autism appreciation means acknowledging both the weight and the beauty of that role.

This isn’t about having all the answers. It’s about showing up.

Trust Goes Both Ways When You’re Raising a Nonverbal Child

Fri, 23 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500

This week’s episode builds on Monday’s blog about talking to my nonverbal son even when I didn’t know it mattered.

I reflect on trust, not just the trust my son has in me, but the trust I’ve learned to have in him. When Lucas was little, I assumed most of what I said wasn’t landing. He had significant delays, no words, and very little visible response. It would have been easy to stop talking.

Instead, I kept going.

I share how bedtime was the first concept Lucas ever truly understood and how something as simple as him running and hiding changed the way I viewed his comprehension entirely. Not because he followed instructions, but because he understood meaning.

This episode isn’t about drills, milestones, or breakthroughs. It’s about repetition, familiarity, tone, and learning to trust that understanding can form quietly over time. It’s about believing that a child is always trying — even when you can’t see the results yet.

I Forgot That Not Everyone Knows What This Life Is Really Like

Fri, 16 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500

Some mornings don’t announce themselves.

You wake up tired, have a cup of coffee, do the same things you always do, and then suddenly you realize that the years you spent believing you could teach your son everything might not be enough.

In this episode, I talk honestly about what it feels like to raise a 14-year-old boy with autism while carrying a deep love for who he is and a growing fear about what I may never be able to give him. I share why I avoid labels, why I protect my son’s privacy, and how lonely it can feel when the people around you simply cannot understand the realities you live with every day.

This is not about despair. It is about the quiet grief that lives inside love. It is about the guilt that shows up when progress stalls. It is about the relief of finally saying the unspeakable to someone who already knows.

There is no tidy ending here. Just the truth of being a father who adores his son and sometimes forgets that not everyone else knows what this life is really like.

I Thought I Was Helping. I Wasn’t Listening.

Fri, 09 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500

I used to think being helpful meant being loud. That if I could just explain things clearly enough, I could turn frustration into understanding. But I wasn’t helping. I was trying to rescue myself from the discomfort of not being understood.

In this episode, I talk about how that instinct followed me into parenting, how it nearly cost me the connection I was trying to protect, and how my son Lucas taught me that trust doesn’t come from clarity. It comes from staying.

This isn’t about techniques or fixes. It’s about presence. It’s about learning when to put things down, stop performing understanding, and actually listen.

When My Non-Verbal Son Finally Knew I Was Listening

Fri, 02 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, James Guttman reflects on the quiet shift that followed his decision to adapt communication for his non-verbal son, Lucas.

What began as a practical change soon became something far deeper. As Lucas realized that his father truly understood him, everyday moments stopped feeling like emergencies. Instead of panicking, he began checking in. Instead of fighting for attention, he started trusting that his needs would be met.

Rather than focusing on techniques or behavior strategies, this conversation explores how trust transforms a child’s entire world and why the real breakthrough wasn’t communication, but connection.

Why I Stopped Forcing My Nonverbal Son to Communicate “The Right Way”

Fri, 26 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, James talks about something he hasn’t addressed before: what happens when the communication tools everyone recommends simply don’t work for your child.

When James’s nonverbal son, Lucas, couldn’t physically use American Sign Language due to dexterity challenges, it felt like yet another failure in a long list of “solutions” that sounded good on paper but didn’t work in real life. Instead of forcing Lucas to fit a system that wasn’t built for him, James made a different choice. They changed the system.

This episode explores how gesture-based communication evolved in their home, why being understood matters more than doing things “the right way,” and how connection, safety, and dignity often come before progress charts and programs.

If you’ve ever worried you were doing it wrong, this conversation is for you.

Holiday Respect for My Nonverbal Son: Trust and Autism Appreciation

Fri, 19 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Hi Pod, it's James Guttman. As the holidays approach, I talk about what respect really looks like when you’re raising a nonverbal child with autism. My son doesn’t care about Christmas traditions, gift-opening, or big holiday moments, so instead of forcing him into them, I’ve learned to build the season around who he actually is.

In this episode, I share how trust became the foundation of our relationship, from a moment after my heart surgery that changed how I parent forever to the everyday choices that make holidays calmer and more meaningful for him. I explain why I follow my son’s lead instead of correcting him, why consistency matters more than control, and how keeping my word has shaped his behavior in public and at home.

I also talk candidly about single fatherhood, rejecting the “helpless dad” stereotype, protecting peace after major life changes, and what it means to invite someone into a life that already works. This episode is about autism appreciation, setting boundaries with kindness, and choosing respect over performance, especially during the holidays.

If you’re a parent of a child with autism, a single parent, or someone looking to make the holidays gentler and more authentic, this conversation is for you.

Thirteen Years, One Scar: Learning To Care For My Heart

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0500

What started as a walk to urgent care ended with the words, ‘you’re having a heart attack,’ and a truth I never saw coming. An angiogram gone silent, and five blocked arteries that shouldn’t have let me stand. Then the doctor’s words about my eventual fate - “that was going to be you” - became the line that split my life in two. That surgery didn’t just save me. It became the compass I’ve followed ever since.

In this episode, I talk about what changed after that day: eating with intention, moving with purpose, and communicating without yelling, gaslighting, or going to emotional war. That shift carried into fatherhood too. I stopped worrying about who my son might become and started appreciating the boy right in front of me.

There’s also the peace part and the ongoing lessons that continue to this day. The boundaries I drew, the twisted people I sent to the “cornfield,” and the stress I finally stopped confusing with responsibility. This is a conversation about survival, yes, but more than that, it’s about design. How you design your days, your circle, and your energy when you realize you don’t get unlimited minutes.

How To Offend An Autism Parent

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Hi Pod...Where Ya Been?

James Guttman returns after a long break to reset the show and refocus on honest stories about autism and respect. We dig into myths around RPM, the “you don’t look autistic” trope, and why dignity beats spectacle every time.

• why the format shift matters and keeping it ad-free
• curiosity vs offense when asking about autism
• why “you don’t look autistic” misses the point
• RPM’s (Rapid Prompting Method) place, limits, and consent
• the barbecue incident and speaking for someone
• pushing back on “nonverbal understands everything”
• rejecting telepathy myths and miracle promises
• dignity over content and never filming meltdowns
• parents as experts on their own children
• how we’ll handle topics and questions going forward

Check it out, HiBlogImDad.com every Monday, every Wednesday
Every Friday, new HiPodImDad.com

No Words Needed: Podcasting With My Non-Verbal Son

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0400

This week’s co-host doesn’t say a word, but his presence says everything.

James sits down with his son Lucas, a non-verbal teenager with autism, for a special episode. With the help of Pirate Booty, duck noises, and an AAC device, Lucas shows listeners what communication looks like when it’s completely authentic. Whether it’s asking for water or no-selling a dad joke, nothing Lucas does is performative and that honesty has become one of James’s greatest parenting lessons.

You’ll hear about real moments: a silly game that’s only funny when Lucas says it is, how years of practice lead to a single successful request on a talker, and the deep frustration of strangers assuming they know your child better than you do. This is more than a podcast episode, it’s a window into trust, growth, and fatherhood that doesn't need subtitles.

See The Show Here on YouTube: https://youtu.be/jcTwR72r_k4

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My Nonverbal Son With Autism Is Everything He Needs to Be

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0400

In this episode, James Guttman explores how his nonverbal son with autism, Lucas, redefined the very idea of perfection. It’s not about milestones, math scores, or sports trophies. It’s about honesty, love, and authenticity.

Lucas doesn’t hide his intentions. He doesn’t play emotional games. And while life with severe autism comes with real challenges, James shares how those challenges are matched by something even more powerful: a son who is, in every meaningful way, perfect.

If you’ve ever felt like the world’s definition of “normal” doesn’t fit your life, this is the episode for you.

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How My Son and I Learned to Laugh Without Words

Fri, 15 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0400

What if your child couldn’t speak...but still knew exactly how to make you laugh?

In this heartfelt episode, James Guttman shares the unexpected ways he built a private language of humor with his nonverbal son, Lucas. From early fears about never sharing a laugh to perfectly timed glances and paused songs, this story is a reminder that connection doesn’t need to be spoken. Sometimes, all it takes is a sideways look and a shared moment.

Whether you’re on your own autism journey or just need a reminder of how deep love can go without words, this one’s for you.

Life After Heart Surgery: From Near-Death to Autism Appreciation

Fri, 08 Aug 2025 06:00:00 -0400

At 35 years old, James Gutman was given just four hours’ notice before undergoing a quintuple bypass with no prior health issues, no medications, and no warning signs. But that life-saving operation wasn’t the end of his story. It was the beginning of a new one.

In this powerful episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James shares how surviving heart surgery changed everything: how he viewed stress, how he approached parenting, and how he discovered a deeper connection with his nonverbal son Lucas through what he now calls “autism appreciation.”

Lucas became an emotional mirror, reflecting James’s calm or stress back at him, and their bond grew stronger when James stopped trying to control everything and instead entered his son’s world. From heart health to emotional growth, this episode is a raw, inspiring look at what happens when life delivers challenges that turn into unexpected gifts.

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When Haircuts Hurt: A Father’s Autism Parenting Breakthrough

Fri, 01 Aug 2025 00:00:00 -0400

Every parent has their share of parenting challenges, but when your child has severe, non-verbal autism, even something as ordinary as a haircut can become a years-long emotional battle.

In this week’s episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman shares the raw and personal story of how a supposedly “autism-friendly” salon failed his son Lucas and how that painful moment led him down a years-long journey of cutting his son’s hair himself.

From heartbreaking meltdowns to trying every trick in the book (and on Amazon), James reflects on what it truly means to parent through difficulty and how progress often looks nothing like what we expect. The solution? Not special clippers or a miracle strategy, but growth, both his son’s and his own.

This episode is a powerful reminder that yesterday’s impossible struggles can become tomorrow’s triumphs.

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Leaving “Charming”: Finding Peace With the Life I Didn’t Expect

Fri, 18 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0400

We all have stories we tell ourselves about who our kids will become, how our relationships will unfold, and what life is supposed to look like. But what happens when reality tears those stories apart?

In this week’s episode of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman shares a raw, honest reflection on the life he never expected. From a divorce during the pandemic to parenting a nonverbal son with autism, James opens up about the imagined futures he had to grieve and the unexpected beauty he found in letting them go.

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When They Stop Being Babies: A Father’s Journey Between Two Worlds

Fri, 11 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman reflects on the emotional milestones of parenting a neurotypical teenager and a nonverbal son with autism. In this week’s heartfelt episode, he shares how Olivia has grown from the little girl who monopolized his time after school into a self-sufficient 17-year-old — and how their bond has evolved along the way.

At the same time, James discusses the equally powerful connection he shares with Lucas, built on unspoken cues and trust. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, he explores:

How his blog shifted focus as Olivia requested privacy
The unique but equal importance of both of his children
Family values that center on unity, not hierarchy
Lessons learned from heart surgery, divorce, and parenting through change
How positivity and self-respect shape the people we attract into our lives

This episode is a tribute to the evolution of parenthood, the power of love without comparison, and the beauty of building a life you’re proud of — one moment at a time.

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What My Non-Verbal Son Taught Me About Love, Toys, and Letting Go

Fri, 04 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0400

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James Guttman shares a deeply personal look at the evolution of his parenting journey with Lucas, his 14-year-old son with severe autism. From the emotional tug-of-war over age-appropriate toys to unexpected moments of connection in thrift stores and living rooms, James explores how he learned to stop correcting his son’s play and instead joined him in it.

This episode dives into the beauty of authenticity, the pressure of societal expectations, and the unspoken bond between a father and son. James opens up about dignity, boundaries, and why he now lets Lucas lead the way, because loving a child sometimes means letting go of what the world tells you is “right.”

It’s not just a parenting story. It’s a story about unconditional love, acceptance, and finding peace in unexpected places.

Appreciating Autism Changed How I See Everything

Fri, 27 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0400

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What does it really mean to appreciate autism - not just accept it? In this personal episode, James Guttman reflects on how his non-verbal son Lucas has reshaped his perspective and brought unexpected joy into their lives.

Through emotional honesty and candid moments, James shares how their bond has grown through trust, gestures, and a shared understanding that goes far beyond words.

Learning to Love Autism - One Heartbeat at a Time

Fri, 20 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0400

In this special episode, James Guttman celebrates the release of his new book Hi World, I'm Dad and officially launches the video version of his podcast - available here on YouTube. He opens up about autism appreciation, what it truly means to love without conditions, and how his son Lucas, who is non-verbal with autism, has shaped his understanding of life, connection, and purpose. From surviving a heart attack and quintuple bypass to embracing his son’s unfiltered authenticity, James shares the powerful moments that led to his most personal work yet.

Catch new blogs every Monday and Wednesday at HiBlogImDad.com and follow James on social media @HiJamesGuttman.

Squeaky Wheels and Silent Strength

Fri, 13 Jun 2025 03:00:00 -0400

With just days until the release of Hi World, I’m Dad, James Gutman opens up about the journey that inspired his most personal work yet. In this heartfelt episode, James reflects on parenting his non-verbal son, Lucas, the fears that never came true, and the quiet beauty that replaced them. This isn't a tragedy- it’s a love story.

🔹 Hi World, I’m Dad will be available in stores, on Amazon, and as an audiobook narrated by James
🔹 Lucas, now 14, remains non-verbal, but joyful, kind, and fully present
🔹 “Autism appreciation is easy when you love them”
🔹 Acknowledges the unique bond with both his children: Lucas and his neurotypical daughter, Olivia
🔹 Describes the moment he stopped waiting for his son to speak and finally found peace
🔹 Pushes back on fear-based autism stories, offering hope and hard-won wisdom
🔹 Shares how Lucas taught him to live in the moment, let go of expectations, and embrace joy
🔹 New blog posts on HiBlogImDad.com: The Words My Son Never Said and He Never Says I Love You, But I’ve Never Been More Sure

Visit HiBlogImDad.com to read more, and pre-order Hi World, I’m Dad wherever books are sold. Tune in next week to hear James reflect on release day and early reader reactions.

What Lucas Taught Me About Living Without Fear

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman shares his journey of learning to truly see and appreciate his nonverbal son Lucas, transforming what many would consider a challenging situation into a source of profound joy and personal growth. This deeply personal episode explores how a heart surgery became the catalyst for shifting from constant worry about what he wasn't doing for his son to genuine appreciation for who his son actually is.

• The contrast between raising a neurotypical daughter who hit all developmental milestones early and a son with autism who missed them
• How people often take credit for their children's successes but blame themselves for developmental delays
• The transformative impact of heart surgery and facing mortality on James's perspective about what truly matters
• Moving from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation
• Learning to understand Lucas on his own terms rather than trying to change him
• How Lucas embodies the qualities most parents want in their children—authenticity, joy, and living in the moment
• The beautiful relationship between Lucas and his sister Olivia
• Finding positivity in life's challenges by learning from them
• The upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation"

Pre-order my book "Hi World, I'm Dad" available June 19th everywhere books are sold—in print, digital, and as an audiobook narrated by James himself

My Son's Love Is Louder Than Any Challenge We Face

Fri, 30 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman shares personal stories about raising his son Lucas who has severe autism, revealing how his perspective evolved from fighting against pity to embracing complete appreciation for who his son is.

•James discusses his upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance, to Appreciation," releasing globally on June 19, 2025.
• Started blogging in 2017 to share stories about Lucas without the pity that often came with in-person conversations
• Why he's glad early pitches for the book didn't go through until the time was right
• Describes beautiful moments like "Reunion Wednesday" hugs that demonstrate Lucas's clear love
• Shares a breakthrough moment when Lucas understood food needs time to cook
• Explains how these small victories exceed his early expectations when Lucas was first diagnosed
• Emphasizes that his love for Lucas isn't despite autism but encompasses his entire being
• Wouldn't change or "cure" his son even if he could

Follow James on social media @HiJamesGutman and visit HiBlogImDad.com with new content every Monday and Wednesday. Reserve your physical and audiobook copy of "Hi World, I'm Dad" on Amazon, Audible, Google, and everywhere books are sold, available June 19th.

Hi World I'm Dad: The Audiobook - Available Everywhere June 19

Fri, 23 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman makes a major announcement about his upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" being released as an audiobook on June 19th, 2025. He shares personal reflections on recording the audiobook and his authentic approach to parenting his son Lucas.

• The audiobook will be available on multiple platforms including Audible, Amazon, Spotify, Apple Books, Google Play, and Kobo. It is available for pre-order now.
• James describes his initial hesitation about recording the audiobook but ultimately enjoyed the experience
• Authenticity is key to his approach to parenting and advocacy
• He emphasizes finding joy in everyday moments with his son rather than lamenting challenges
• James shares touching anecdotes about his relationship with Lucas, including why he can never stay mad at him for more than five minutes
• The book demonstrates his journey from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation

Visit HiBlogImDad.com every Monday and Wednesday for new blog posts and follow James on Instagram @Hi_JamesGutman.

From Worry to Wonder: When Life Forces You To See Differently

Fri, 16 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James reflects on his journey from worried father to advocate for autism appreciation, crediting his quintuple bypass surgery at 35 as a turning point in how he viewed his son Lucas's autism. Rather than focusing on what needed to be "fixed," James began appreciating Lucas's unique perspective and finding joy in moments others might misinterpret as sad.

• The podcast grew from James's frustration with not being able to share funny stories about Lucas without receiving sympathy
• James explains the difference between autism awareness, acceptance, and his preferred term: appreciation
• Shares the memorable "pretzel story" that triggered the blog
• Reflects on writing about Lucas from age 5 to 14 and watching him grow through the blog
• Talks about his upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation"
• Expresses gratitude for the supportive community that has made him feel less alone

The Journey From Fear to Pride

Fri, 09 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400

From being unable to say the word "autism" aloud to embracing the term "severe autism," James Gutman shares his transformative seven-year journey with his son Lucas in this heartfelt episode. He recalls a pivotal moment when someone referred to his non-verbal son's condition as "the real autism," triggering both offense and reflection about how we label and understand neurodiversity.

James takes us through his evolution as a father and writer, revealing how his blog "Hi Blog, I'm Dad" (launched in 2017) chronicles their journey from fear to appreciation. He describes the early days of struggling to explain his son's silence to strangers, followed by years of growth that changed his perspective entirely. Rather than defending against pity or judgment, James now focuses on celebrating Lucas's unique way of experiencing the world—from the gentle finger games he plays with his sister to the fascinating way he studies his own hand in the sunlight.

The episode offers rare insight into parenting a child with severe autism, balancing the clinical realities with moments of pure joy. James reflects on how Lucas brings him happiness even during challenging moments, and how his son's unfiltered emotions have taught him to live more authentically. With his book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" launching soon, James invites listeners to understand that while labels serve their purpose, they never tell the complete story. Pre-order his book now on Amazon to join him on this continuing journey of discovery and appreciation.

Autism Appreciation Isn't Just About The Happy Times

Fri, 02 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman explores the evolution from autism awareness to acceptance to appreciation as a father raising his nonverbal son, Lucas. He shares personal stories about appreciating his son's unique perspective on life, including the refreshing honesty that comes with autism even during challenging moments.

• The differences between autism awareness, acceptance, and appreciation from both a parent's and society's perspective
• How public understanding of autism has improved significantly since 2011
• The refreshing honesty and authenticity that comes with autism, even during mischievous moments
• Why James appreciates rather than wants to "cure" his son's autism
• Personal stories about Lucas knowingly breaking the rules while maintaining direct eye contact
• The journey of learning to appreciate autism as an integral part of who his son is

James's new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" will be available June 19th. Pre-order now on Amazon, and follow James on social media at @HiJamesGutman or read his blog at hiblogimdad.com for more stories and updates.

Why I Don't Want To "Cure" My Non-Verbal Son's Autism

Fri, 25 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400

What does it really mean to love your child unconditionally? In this raw, heartfelt episode, James Gutman tackles the controversial topic of "curing" autism, sharing why he celebrates rather than seeks to change his 14-year-old non-verbal son Lucas.

After his recent HuffPost article went viral, James found himself at the center of an intense debate. Many readers assumed his son must be "high-functioning" simply because he writes positively about him. The reality? Lucas faces significant daily challenges, yet James still wouldn't change who his son fundamentally is. "My son is just a pure person who is so in touch with his feelings and emotions," he explains. "When he's sad, he cries. When he's happy, he screams for joy."

The podcast explores the dangerous assumption that parents of children with more significant support needs should want different kids. James pushes back against this narrative, highlighting the beautiful qualities often overlooked in discussions about autism – authenticity, emotional honesty, and lack of cruelty or deception. He shares his journey from making desperate bargains with God when Lucas was young to reaching a place of genuine appreciation for who his son is.

My Son With Autism Is More Than Just What People See

Fri, 18 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400

Ever wondered what pure, unfiltered humanity looks like? My son Lucas shows me every day. Through the lens of raising a nonverbal child with autism, I've discovered something remarkable about human connection that I never expected to find.

Most people see limitations when they look at someone like Lucas. Politicians make sweeping statements about what autism is, focusing on what's missing rather than what's present. But they're missing the extraordinary gifts hiding in plain sight. Lucas communicates his desires more clearly without words than many people do with thousands of them. There's no social game-playing, no hidden agendas—just pure, authentic expression.

What makes Lucas truly exceptional isn't just how he communicates, but who he is at his core. When he discovers joy in something—even a YouTube video he's watched hundreds of times—his excitement eclipses nearly anything I experience. And what does he do with that joy? He shares it with everyone around him, tapping strangers on the shoulder to include them in his happiness. He feels emotions deeply, loves unconditionally, and lives without the burden of caring what others think about him. He'll never bully anyone. He'll never be intentionally cruel. In many ways, he embodies exactly what I'd hope for in any child.

The journey from hearing "autism" for the first time to where we are today has transformed me completely. The "worst-case scenarios" I feared have come true, yet here we are, living our best life together. That's why I wrote "Hi World, I'm Dad"—to show others that the autism journey holds unexpected treasures for those willing to see beyond society's narrow understanding. Pre-order my book now on Amazon, follow me on social media @HiJamesGutman, and join me every Friday for new podcast episodes where we continue exploring this extraordinary journey together.

Taking Our Autism Journey Step By Step

Fri, 11 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman explores the journey of raising his nonverbal son Lucas, challenging societal expectations about fatherhood and special needs parenting. Through this experience, he's discovered that the future he once feared has become the life he now cherishes, finding unexpected beauty in raising a child who reflects his purest values.

• Raising a nonverbal child means gradual adaptation rather than sudden change
• Society often sets low expectations for fathers, especially special needs dads
• Growing alongside Lucas has taught James to worry less about everything in life
• The fears we have about future challenges often dissolve when we actually face them
• Character and kindness matter more than developmental milestones or achievements
• Lucas reflects James's values through his kindness, pure heart, and genuine nature

Pre-order James's upcoming book "Hi World I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance, to Appreciation" to join us on this journey.

Awareness to Appreciation: Navigating Autism in April and Beyond

Fri, 04 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman reflects on Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation Month, sharing personal insights as the father of Lucas, his 14-year-old nonverbal son with autism. He explores how language creates conflict even among those advocating for people with autism, while emphasizing that his son's non-verbal communication has shown him how "overrated" words can be.

• Terminology matters but creates division—"child with autism" vs "autistic"
• Autism Awareness helps others understand behaviors like unexpected loud noises or clapping
• Autism Acceptance benefits those seeking inclusion in workplaces, schools and social settings
• Autism Appreciation recognizes beautiful qualities like honesty and authenticity across the spectrum
• Lucas demonstrates refreshing directness—wanting only what he truly wants without social pretense
• Avoiding both superhero narratives and disability-focused labels helps see the whole person

Pre-order James' new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: A Journey from Autism Awareness to Acceptance to Appreciation" now on Amazon, available in stores this June.

The Karate Chop Hand-Washer: Life Skills & Growing Up

Fri, 28 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0400

My 14 Year Old Non-Verbal Son

Fri, 21 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman shares his journey raising his nonverbal son with autism, Lucas, who is about to turn 14, reflecting on how initial fears have transformed into deep appreciation for their perfectly imperfect life together. He describes the breakthrough moment when he joined Lucas in play rather than trying to correct him, leading to a connection that showed him his son understood more than he realized.

• Discussion of James' new book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance and Appreciation" coming June 19th and the big news still to come.
• Reflections on Lucas turning 14 and how reality has defied early fears about the future
• The joy of having a loving, affectionate teenage son who still wants to spend time with his dad
• The pivotal "toy phone" moment that changed their relationship
• Learning that children don't need to be "fixed" to have a wonderful life
• Understanding that love isn't about getting something in return
• Recent blog posts about sitting with Lucas during meltdowns and learning to hear him without words

Pre-order "Hi World, I'm Dad" now on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or Jessica Kingsley Publishing's website, and follow James on social media @HiJamesGutman and at HiPodImDad.com and HiBlogImDad.com for new content every Monday and Wednesday.

Hi World I'm Dad: Details On The New Book Coming June 19th!

Fri, 14 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0400

James Gutman announces his upcoming book "Hi World, I'm Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance and Appreciation," now available for pre-order and due in stores June 19th. This deeply personal work chronicles his journey with his 14-year-old nonverbal son Lucas, moving beyond society's fear-based narrative about autism to discover the pure joy and genuine connection that comes from appreciating autism.

• Book explores the journey from fear and confusion to genuine appreciation of autism
• Available for pre-order on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Jessica Kingsley Publishing's website
• Written in the same storytelling style as James's blog and podcast
• Shares both challenging moments and beautiful revelations about raising Lucas
• Describes how the "worst case scenario" became a perfect life
• Highlights the refreshing honesty and purity that autism brings to Lucas's personality
• Intended for new parents, experienced parents, grandparents, and anyone wanting to understand autism
• Contains funny, emotional, and thought-provoking stories from their lives together
• Moves beyond awareness and acceptance to true appreciation

Preorder Today - https://amzn.to/4itLPPL - Let's spread the word about autism appreciation together—it's long overdue and will make the world a better place.

What If Everything You Assumed About Autism Was Wrong?

Fri, 07 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500

"Lucas is straightforward. There's no manipulation with him. He doesn't lie... If Lucas loves you, Lucas loves you."

James Gutman reflects on the unexpected joys and profound lessons of raising his nonverbal son Lucas, who has autism. He challenges common misconceptions about special needs parenting and explains his concept of "autism appreciation" – recognizing his son's unique qualities as strengths rather than deficits.

• Distinguishing between wanting certain capabilities for Lucas versus needing him to achieve specific milestones
• Finding beauty in Lucas's authenticity – his inability to manipulate, lie, or be arrogant
• Appreciating the purity of Lucas's emotional expressions, especially his unfiltered joy
• Challenging the imaginary scenarios people create when thinking about special needs parenting
• Writing about Lucas through his blog to share these perspectives with others
• Balancing acknowledgment of real challenges with celebration of unexpected blessings

Visit HiBlogI'mDad.com on Monday for a big announcement! Follow James on Instagram at HiJamesGutman.

Supermarket Adventures: My Son Is Growing Up

Fri, 28 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0500

This episode delves into the journey of watching my son Lucas grow up and the emotional complexities that accompany it. As he approaches his 14th birthday, I reflect on our experiences, navigating life as a father of a child on the autism spectrum. Every milestone reminds us that time is fleeting, and the transformation from child to young adult can be jarring yet beautiful.

Join me as I recount our recent supermarket adventure where Lucas demonstrated newfound independence, showcasing the progress he has made along his path to adulthood.

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The Joy of Understanding Lucas

Fri, 21 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Celebrating milestones and bonding with loved ones brings a deeper understanding of acceptance in parenting a child with autism. Through personal stories, James Guttman explores the significance of appreciating individuality and evolving perceptions about disabilities, focusing on love and growth as his non-verbal son prepares to turn 14.

• Reflections on eight years of blogging about autism parenting
• Celebrating upcoming 14th birthday and family milestones
• Shifts in understanding and bonding across different developmental stages
• The importance of reframing perspectives on autism and acceptance
• Insights on shared joy and the value of individuality in children
• Addressing misconceptions about autism parenting and societal expectations
• Future hopes and upcoming projects related to experiences shared in the podcast

Finding Beauty in Parenting's Chaos

Fri, 14 Feb 2025 04:00:00 -0500

This episode beautifully captures the joys and challenges of parenting a child with autism (and one without), highlighting the spontaneous love and honest nature of Lucas. Through anecdotes and reflections, the discussion emphasizes the importance of embracing inconvenient moments and fostering open lines of communication in family dynamics.

• Exploring the unique ways a non-verbal kid can irk his dad
• Celebrating the unique quirks and personality traits of Lucas
• Emphasizing the beauty of spontaneous gestures of affection
• Discussing the significance of honesty in Lucas's character
• Highlights from writings on hiblogondad.com about parenting experiences
• Updates and excitement surrounding the upcoming book release

Embracing Individuality: Parenting Perspectives and Autism Appreciation

Fri, 07 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0500

This episode explores the joys and challenges of parenting a child with autism, revealing personal stories of parenting regrets and the importance of acceptance. The discussion emphasizes the value of embracing children's unique traits and invites listeners to share their stories.

• The beauty of embracing a child’s unique personality
• Reflections on stimming behaviors and their significance
• Personal stories of parenting regrets
• Insights from parenting a neurotypical child alongside a child with autism
• The upcoming book sharing these experiences

Creating a Loving Space for My Non-Verbal Child

Fri, 31 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0500

The episode explores the journey of parenting a nonverbal child, focusing on the bond between the host and his son, Lucas, who has autism. It addresses the challenges of communication, the importance of establishing security and connection, and the host's reflections on his ongoing role as a father.

• Discussion on the gate as a symbol of security
• Reflection on eight years of blogging about autism
• Personal insights on the unique aspects of Lucas's relationship
• Exploration of communication beyond verbal language
• Questions of doing enough for a nonverbal child
• Importance of maintaining engagement and connection
• Encouragement to other parents navigating similar experiences

Finding Joy and Understanding Through Parenting a Nonverbal Child

Fri, 24 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0500

The conversation focuses on the father-son relationship between James and his son Lucas, who has autism. Through personal anecdotes, James shares the lessons he's learned about understanding autism, fostering connection, and appreciating individuality, while encouraging other parents to embrace their own journeys with hope.

• Discusses the upcoming release of James's book on autism appreciation
• Reflects on past experiences as a published author
• Describes challenges in parenting a nonverbal child with autism
• Highlights moments of joy found in Lucas's unique expressions
• Dispels common misconceptions about autism portrayed in media
• Shares how observing Lucas led to deeper understanding and connection
• Emphasizes the value of acceptance and love in parenting autistic children
• Mentions progress in their journey as father and son over the years
• Encourages parents facing similar situations to maintain hope and celebrate progress

Finding Beauty in Autism's Challenges

Fri, 17 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0500

This episode explores the evolving bond between a father and his nonverbal son, Lucas, who is on the autism spectrum. James Gutman shares heartfelt reflections on acceptance, appreciation, and the value of challenging societal pity towards children with autism.
• Importance of autism appreciation
• Personal journey of parenting Lucas
• Misrepresentation of autism in media
• Lucas's unique traits and experiences
• Navigating challenges and personal growth
• Rejection of pity and embracing joy
• Call for community engagement and understanding

Parenting in 2025: Embracing Autism and Celebrating Individual Journeys

Fri, 03 Jan 2025 06:00:00 -0500

This first episode of 2025 episode beautifully captures the evolution of autism awareness, acceptance, and appreciation as a father reflects on raising his nonverbal son in a changing world. It highlights personal anecdotes alongside broader societal themes, weaving together love, hope, and the importance of continuous learning.
• The year 2025 brings reflections on societal perceptions of autism
• Sharing personal experiences of parenting a nonverbal autistic child
• Importance of transition from autism awareness to acceptance and appreciation
• Autism advocacy organizations play a crucial role in changing public perception
• Encouraging effective communication methods and celebrating small milestones
• The significance of teaching children everything to embrace knowledge
• Embracing the journey: love and resilience in parenting an autistic child
• Optimism for a more accepting world and brighter future for children on the spectrum

A Clear and Present Strategy

Fri, 27 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In the final Hi Pod of 2024, James Guttman looks at his approach to gift giving with his non-verbal son at Christmas, a look ahead towards 2025, and why he needs to drink more water.

Why Holidays Are Sometimes Hard For Special Needs Parents

Fri, 20 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman has happy holidays now with his non-verbal son and loved ones, but there was a time when they weren't so merry. James talks about why celebrations were difficult when his son was first diagnosed with autism and how he's learned to make the perfect Christmas.

Twelve Years Ago Today

Fri, 13 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500

On the 12 year anniversary, James Guttman looks back at the surprise quintuple bypass that changed his way of thinking, goals for life, and feelings about Autism Appreciation.

My Son's Growing Up Before My Eyes

Fri, 06 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman returns with a look at his non-verbal son's recent developments, physical growth, and how the things he couldn't do before, he can do now...but only if you know to have him do them.

The Benefits of Being Open and Honest About My Son's Autism

Fri, 15 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500

On the heels of exciting news regarding his new book coming out next year, James Guttman looks at his reasons for starting HiBlogImDad.com, his previous life, and the importance of keeping things honest when talking about his non-verbal son.

A Stranger's Kindness To Our Special Needs Family

Fri, 08 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about a stranger's kind gesture towards him, his girlfriend, and their special needs children last week. James speaks about how he, like Lauren, takes care to make sure his non-verbal son is a positive part of the community, and why it's important to have good like-minded people around you.

Why Looking Back Is Important For Special Needs Parents

Fri, 01 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the days gone by, how the kids grow up so fast, and why it's important to remember his son's younger days in order to truly have autism appreciation.

Autism Goals You Don't Put On The IEP

Fri, 25 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the progress his non-verbal son has made and how some would never be put on his Individualized Education Program. Also, looking back on this past week's speaking event for SEPTA and where you can see the videos.

Repeat, Repeat, Repeat Until It Clicks

Fri, 18 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at repetition - whether activities, words, or skills - and how it helps his non-verbal son along in the world.

Offering Optimism For New Special Needs Parents

Fri, 11 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at one of the reasons he started HiBlogImDad.com and focuses on Autism Appreciation.

The Importance of Honesty When Talking About Special Needs Parenting

Fri, 04 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman goes back to the days of making deals with God over when his son would talk, how he felt when those dates would pass, and how he needed to overcome that to find autism appreciation.

Things My Non-Verbal Son Does, Doesn't, and Use To Do

Fri, 27 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the importance of remembering the things your special needs child did and compare them to what they do today, advice he was given early on, and the painful questions new parents to special needs kids struggle to answer.

Two More Reasons For Autism Appreciation

Fri, 20 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and how two topics illustrate that his son's non-verbal autism is something to be appreciated, not pitied.

Getting My Special Needs Son To Wear Jeans

Fri, 13 Sep 2024 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at how his non-verbal son is becoming a little man seemingly overnight, why it's hard to realize sometimes, and the many aspects of this week's blog post "How I Got My Special Needs Son To Wear Jeans".

The Rewards Outweigh The Struggles in Special Needs Parenting

Fri, 06 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at autism appreciation, finding the good aspects of non-verbal autism in his son's personality, and how to get the most of raising a child like him.

Walking, Carrying, and Cups

Fri, 30 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at this week's trip to the Fire Island Lighthouse with his non-verbal son and the remarkable job he did. Also, thoughts on his son's cup collection and times he had to carry him miles in Disney World.

Who My Non-Verbal Son Is When He Leaves My House

Fri, 23 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks back on Wednesday's HiBlogImDad.com post about how the behavior his son with autism displays at home might not match what the world sees, why that's OK, and how it makes being open to questions so important for spreading Autism Appreciation.

How My Non-Verbal Son With Autism Brought Me Peace

Fri, 16 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman returns to reflect on autism appreciation and the gift of peace his non-verbal son with autism has given him.

Lies People Tell, But My Child With Autism Doesn't

Fri, 26 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the lies people tell about each other and themselves, how to spot a lie, and how his non-verbal son's intentions and motivations remain truer than anyone else he knows.

How I Tune Out Toxic Opinions On My Parenting

Fri, 19 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the foundation he built with his kids, how he has been his non-verbal son's main caregiver his whole life, and why no one else's opinion matters but theirs.

Broken TV, Broken iPad, Happy Kid

Fri, 12 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's destructive week and the many reasons he doesn't get angry at him for it.

The Reality of Protecting My Non-Verbal Son

Fri, 28 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about the fears of raising a child with autism vs the reality and the battles he didn't have to fight on his behalf.

What Makes Raising My Non-Verbal Child With Autism Easy

Fri, 21 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the early worries he had over raising a non-verbal son, memories of seeing other special needs children, and what makes it so much easier than he realized it would be.

My Future Adult Son With Autism

Fri, 14 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son at 13 and how the groundwork of today will make him the adult he becomes tomorrow.

My Cringiest Moments As A Dad

Fri, 07 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at positivity, happiness, Autism Appreciation, and some of the ways being a father warps his social interactions.

Learning What Autism Meant For My Family

Fri, 31 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks back on the early days of his son's life, the missed milestones, and worries over what nonverbal autism would mean for their lives.

The Non-Verbal Speaking Dream

Fri, 24 May 2024 06:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the dream he talked about having on HiBlogImDad.com (link) where his non-verbal son spoke.

Livin' The Dream

Fri, 17 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is finishing up his upcoming book and getting it to the publisher. JG talks about reliving old stories, the day he stopped caring about stares from strangers, and living the dream.

Taking A Wrong Turn Down Sesame Street

Fri, 10 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman and Lucas are back. James talks about his epiphany when taking his non-verbal 13 year old to Sesame Street Live.

Appreciating My Non-Verbal Son's Autism Was Easier Than I Imagined

Fri, 03 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about how the recovery from his quintuple bypass required accepting some realities, but his non-verbal son's autism was one of the easiest of all to embrace.

When I Tell My Son "No"

Fri, 26 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0400

The kids are home from school and James Guttman is tired. James talks about his non-verbals son's stubborn moments, similar to a neurotypical kid, and how "no" has to have meaning to deal with that - even when it makes James's life (and sleep schedule) more difficult.

My Non-Verbal Son Won't Let Me Be Unhappy

Fri, 19 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman had a rough start to the week, but his kids came back and it all turned around. James speaks on Autism Appreciation and how his non-verbal son pulls him back from overthinking.

That's Lucas In The Background

Fri, 12 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman hosts this episode of Hi Pod with his non-verbal son, Lucas, shouting in the background. JG looks at this authentic edition of the show and explains how this has become the soundtrack of his life.

Awareness and Acceptance of Autism Appreciation

Fri, 05 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the debate between Autism Awareness Month and Autism Acceptance Month by breaking down when each is most needed, then showing how Autism Appreciation encompasses it all.

Helping My Non-Verbal Child Find Peace

Fri, 29 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at how he helps his child with autism find his peaceful moments by letting go of things he no longer needs.

My Non-Verbal Son Is Turning 13

Fri, 22 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0400

Happy Birthday to Lucas! James Guttman looks at his nonverbal son's entrance into the teens and what it means for his maturity, outlook on life, and future.

Happy Family

Fri, 15 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman on keeping your family happy and teaching his non-verbal son to do new things.

The Importance of Teaching Gestures To My Non-Verbal Son

Fri, 08 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about the hand motions that he taught his non-verbal son with autism and why it was important to ignore "expert" advice when doing so.

Keep Breathing

Fri, 01 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman and Lucas host this one. Talk of why Lucas doesn't wear headphones for his iPad, why he doesn't bring it into restaurants anymore, and why we all should breathe in the moment.

The Power of Less Words

Fri, 23 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman looks at his HiBlogImDad.com blog post about the unexpected upside of his son's nonverbal autism and a story about discovering that Lucas had learned a skill he didn't know about.

My Son's Unspoken Party Milestone

Fri, 16 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is having a great week and it started with his non-verbal son's wonderful behavior at a friend's birthday party. James looks at why that is, how it happened, and lessons learned for everyone.

The Autism Appreciation Book Announcement

Fri, 09 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Another big news week for Hi Blog! James Guttman talks about signing with Jessica Kingsley Publishers and the upcoming Autism Appreciation book that's in the works,

The Levels of Autism and Representation At Jubilee Middle Ground

Fri, 02 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about his appearance on Jubilee's Middle Ground YouTube series looking at Autism and why it's so important that his voice is heard regarding his non-verbal son.

Why Autism Appreciation?

Fri, 26 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman looks at the different role that Autism Acceptance plays for some and why "Autism Appreciation" works best when writing about his non-verbal son, Lucas.

How I Make Sure My Non-Verbal Child Grows Into a Good Man

Fri, 19 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about his initial fears about teaching his non-verbal son life lessons and the ways he found to connect without words.

Appearing On Jubliee's Middle Ground: Autism and Neurotypical Episode

Fri, 12 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about flying across country for the day to appear on Jubilee's Middle Ground YouTube Series featuring autism and neurotypical panelists. JG looks at his reception there and how much it all means to share Autism Appreciation and HiBlogImDad.com with the world.

How My Child With Autism Handles Routines

Fri, 05 Jan 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Hi Pod! It's 2024. James Guttman returns to talk about morning and bedtime routines for his non-verbal son, the role an iPad plays in disrupting that, and how knowing what's best for your kid is most important whether they're on the spectrum or not.

Involving My Non-Verbal Son In Christmas

Fri, 22 Dec 2023 09:00:00 -0500

Does James Guttman's son with autism understand Christmas? Santa? Presents? Reindeer? Maybe. But even if he doesn't, he's a part of it anyway. James looks at why that is and the road that brought us here in the last edition of Hi Pod for 2023.

Heart Attack Don't Crack

Fri, 15 Dec 2023 08:00:00 -0500

It is the 11 year anniversary of James Guttman's quintuple bypass and JG looks at stress, life changes, and remembering what's important.

Autism Experts Who Know Nothing About Autism

Fri, 08 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about seeing the Broadway musical, "How To Dance In Ohio" and how real the subject matter was. James also mentions how those with the most to say about children like his non-verbal son know the least about it.

Autism Parent Fear, Autism Parent Reality

Fri, 01 Dec 2023 09:00:00 -0500

James Guttman looks at the fears of raising a child with autism versus the eventual reality and how it affects a parent's life.

This Is Why I'm Thankful

Sat, 25 Nov 2023 12:00:00 -0500

James Guttman checks in for a special weekend edition of Hi Pod. Still slightly sniffly, JG talks about why he's thankful and how writing about Autism Advocacy has changed his life.

Sick Day

Fri, 17 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0500

James Guttman kept Lucas home sick today. JG discusses the importance of recognizing when your non-verbal child doesn't feel well...especially when they can't tell you.

Recognizing Autism Milestones

Fri, 10 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0500

James Guttman looks at what his non-verbal son with autism does now versus what he used to do and why he always takes him to parties.

Heart Surgery, Autism Appreciation, Silver Linings

Fri, 03 Nov 2023 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks back on Autism Appreciation and the quintuple bypass that made it all possible. Silver linings.

Autism Appreciation During The Down Times

Fri, 20 Oct 2023 03:00:00 -0400

For James Guttman, 2023 has come in like a lion and is going out like a lamb. It has been a roller coaster year and, during the low moments, his non-verbal son's in-the-moment approach to the world has lifted him up. JG talks about why he appreciates his son so much, how all children (on or off the spectrum) are different, and the way he's changing the way he sees the good times.

Who Were You A Year Ago?

Fri, 13 Oct 2023 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at life a year ago versus today and how that advice was first given to him for tracking his non-verbal son's milestones, but applies to everyone.

Trying To Be A Great Special Needs Parent

Fri, 06 Oct 2023 06:00:00 -0400

With Lucas in the background screaming with delight, James Guttman looks at what it takes to be a great special needs dad and how he is trying remember this giant non-verbal 12-year-old boy isn't a baby.

Frustration!

Fri, 22 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400

Chipped tooth, spilled Flat White, and AEW Fight Forever - some frustrations, you can't fix. But when it comes to his family, there are some frustrations for his daughter and non-verbal son that can be fixed with a simple pivot.

A Different Kind of Conversation: Finding Happiness In Non-Verbal Autism

Fri, 08 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400

With his non-verbal son by his side, James Guttman talks about the worries he had when Lucas was young and how things turned out great... while staying the same.

I Can See The Future

Fri, 01 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at why time seems to move faster when you're thinking about your non-verbal child's future...but also for most adults.

No Need To Cure My Son's Autism

Fri, 25 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and explains why he doesn't want to "cure" his son's autism.

The Worries Of A Special Needs Father

Fri, 18 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com including the worries he faces that his non-verbal son with autism can't and how that's a perfect of example of his Autism Appreciation.

Understanding Autism Appreciation

Fri, 11 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks Autism Awareness, Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation as it relates to parents and society.

Silent Symptoms

Fri, 04 Aug 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about the often unmentioned issue of knowing when your non-verbal child with autism is sick...especially when that person is a trooper like his son.

Guilt & Shame

Fri, 21 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the strange ways in which guilt and shame enter the mind of a new special needs parent...and not in the ways you might think. James looks at how it is important to be honest about that time, despite how much things may have changed since his non-verbal child with autism was a baby.

My Unspoken Fears As A Special Needs Parent

Fri, 14 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400

People are aware of some of James Guttman's worries as a father to a non-verbal boy. James addresses the worries and fears that are rarely spoken of, but vastly outweigh communication concerns.

Never Giving Up On Teaching My Non-Verbal Son To Speak

Fri, 07 Jul 2023 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about his son's attempts to find language and how a communication device didn't hinder that...although he worried it might,

Texts From My Teenage Daughter

Fri, 30 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman, with Lucas by his side, talks about being a girl dad, the balance of special needs parenting with raising his teenage daughter, and the "idk" text messages that haunt him.

A Special Graduation For My Special Boy

Thu, 22 Jun 2023 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman's non-verbal son has just graduated elementary school. James looks at the stark contrast between this ceremony and the debacle that was is preschool one. #AutismAppreciation

Lucas's Picnic

Fri, 16 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks back on his non-verbal son's last elementary school picnic before moving to his new school and the difficult decision behind it.

My Non-Verbal Child's Frustrations

Fri, 09 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at his son with autism's meltdowns and how, no matter how frustrating it is for him as a parent, it's worse for his boy. (corrected audio)

No Thank You, I'm A Parent

Fri, 02 Jun 2023 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the little gratitude parents get, the overwhelming leeway absentee dads get, and why he sometimes forces his non-verbal to leave the comfort of his room to live life.
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Lucas In The Background

Fri, 26 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400

With Lucas in the background, James Guttman talks about things people might say, things people might ask, and a reminder that none of us are alone.

Self-Deprecating Silver Linings

Fri, 19 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman doesn't include hidden references to people in his blogs...kind of. James talks about learning from mistakes, the repeating patterns of his life, how they don't affect his work as an autism advocate for his son or father for his daughter, and why it's all much healthier than it seems.

Let's Play Pretend

Fri, 12 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the lies we tell others about who we are. When it's good, when it's bad, and why being honest actually makes you more relatable.

I Wasn't Raised To Be Like This

Fri, 28 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at people evolving as people and the people who try to stop them.

Speak Your Truth

Fri, 21 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400

We are our experiences. Don't let anyone stop you from telling your story.

What Is Autism Appreciation?

Fri, 07 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman breaks down what Autism Awareness, Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation means for parents to children on the spectrum and what they mean to the world.

Hi Pod. I'm Single.

Fri, 31 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400

It's one of the first time in over 25 years that James Guttman is single. He has some thoughts on that.

Non-Verbal Birthdays

Fri, 24 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's birthday, how a special needs parent's view of that changes through the years, and how to judge if he's giving his boy a great day.

Autism Acceptance For Parents

Fri, 17 Mar 2023 06:00:00 -0400

James Guttman on the most important form of Autism Acceptance that every parent needs to accept as their child grows.

Hi Guys! I'm Back.

Fri, 10 Mar 2023 05:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is back after a layoff with an explanation, a plan, and a new outlook on life.

Ten Years After A Quintuple Bypass

Fri, 16 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500

A decade after his emergency heart surgery, James Guttman looks back at how he has changed.

Families With Special Needs Children

Fri, 09 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500

This week, James Guttman looks at his journey as a special needs parent and the worry he had early on. JG explains why he began writing HiBlogImDad.com and searching for his place among parents to children with autism as his non-verbal song grew.

Autism Friendly

Fri, 02 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500

Autism Friendly Podcast. Listen to us on your autism-friendly headphones. James Guttman looks at the phrase "autism-friendly" and discovers a place where it actually meant what it said.

Sometimes I'm Chill, Sometimes I'm Not

Fri, 25 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500

Audio Fixed: Last week, James Guttman wasn't feeling it. This week, James Guttman returns to talk about the times he wasn't feeling it. From the near fight with the garbage tattler to a high school kid at lunch, JG recounts tales from the temper.

Playing Hooky With My Non-Verbal Co-Host Son

Fri, 11 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500

Lucas could probably go to school and be fine, but James Guttman kept him home anyway. JG, with his non-verbal son by his side, talks about bad days, why a support system is so important, people who can't understand raising a child with autism, and the good points of parenthood that get lost in the memes.

Lady Movie

Fri, 04 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman and Lauren went to see a lady movie this week. JG talks about the massive changes to movie theaters and presents a Lady Movie Trailer of his own.

Non-Verbal Trick-Or-Treating

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman on Halloween for a non-verbal child with autism, the problem with teal pumpkins, and helping his son find language.

Learning The Meaning Of Family

Fri, 21 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400

From the bad to the worse to the painful to the redemption, James Guttman looks at his experience with "family" and how he's ready to finally do it right. (based on this week's blog post)

A Place Where No One Can Hurt You

Fri, 14 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400

How are you doing? James Guttman is doing good and he explains how that changes everything.

Honest Talk About Suicide & Mental Health

Fri, 07 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman speaks out about mental health issues and suicidal ideation. JG shares the story of losing a friend to suicide, what he learned after that death, and the ways bipolar depression can overpower many other factors. If you are struggling, dial "988" for help.

Normalizing Special Needs Families

Fri, 30 Sep 2022 01:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at building a bond between a special needs sibling and his neurotypical sister without micromanaging their relationship. Also, the importance of normalizing how outsiders see special needs families.

How To Find The Happiness You Deserve

Fri, 23 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is back after a major life-changing week. He tells you about it, the road to get there, and the people who made it possible.

Always Advocating Autism

Fri, 09 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0400

Being an advocate for anything requires handling uncomfortable situations, but as the father of a non-verbal child with autism, it's important. James Guttman tells a story about a recent time that happened online and in person.

Why I Write About My Non-Verbal Child With Autism

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about the reasons why he started HiBlogImDad.com and the social media posts that inspired him to speak out.

Mo Kids, Mo Money

Fri, 26 Aug 2022 02:00:00 -0400

Got kids? They cost money, right? James Guttman has two.

That's Not My Underwear

Fri, 19 Aug 2022 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is back and looking at patience as a special needs parent, how his heart surgery lead to his healthy lifestyle, how his kids are the reason he stuck by it, and the long red underwear that isn't underwear.

Learning To Raise A Teenage Daughter

Fri, 12 Aug 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about writing Girl Dad, becoming the parent to a daughter, why he lets her watch movies with bad words, and the joke that he still doesn't understand like 40 years later.

Breaking The Cycle Of Childhood Abuse

Fri, 05 Aug 2022 05:00:00 -0400

This week, James Guttman spoke openly about childhood abuse on HiBlogImDad.com. Now he speaks about how he overcame it to be a better father, the steps he made to recognize the changes he had to make, and the most important thing anyone needs to do in order to break the cycle of mental, emotional, physical, or any form of childhood abuse.

That's Not Me Anymore

Fri, 29 Jul 2022 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is back with a look at who he was, who he is, and how life is all about changes.

Special Needs Parent Etiquette

Fri, 22 Jul 2022 00:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks back on stories of his nonverbal son with autism stealing coffee and food from strangers and why the reaction he got differs from the ones others sometimes get. All based on the latest classic repost on HiBlogImDad.com

Crazy Things People Say To An Autism Parent

Fri, 15 Jul 2022 07:00:00 -0400

Building on his recent HiBlogImDad.com post about how people react when your child has autism, James Gutman looks at some of the more outlandish comments he's heard involving his non-verbal son.

My Non-Verbal Son's Uncertain Future

Fri, 08 Jul 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks openly about special needs schools, group homes, and the difficult decisions that are always looming in his non-verbal child with autism's future. JG looks at what needs to be done before making these choices and the importance of doing what's right.

Raising A Freakin' Teenager

Fri, 24 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is raising a teenage daughter. That's it. That's the podcast. If you're the parent to a teen, you get it. If you're not, you're about to...

E For Everyone

Fri, 17 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman's blog and podcast aren't just for autism parents, girl dads, or divorced parents. JG looks at how he tries to write for everyone and how, for dads, the same courtesy isn't always extended.

Live Your Best Life, Be Your Best Self

Fri, 10 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at facing adversity and becoming a better person.

Don’t Hide Your Happiness

Fri, 03 Jun 2022 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at finding happiness, sharing your happiness with the world, and never letting anyone hide you.

My Old Neighbor Thinks The Divorce House Is Cursed

Fri, 27 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

In a new shorter and experimental format, James Guttman speaks out in this Fun Size episode on his former neighbor, who isn't one to gossip, and the thing she said that doomed the Divorce House. James looks at what we don't know about what happens behind the closed doors of others.

Lindenhurst, New York: My Hometown

Fri, 20 May 2022 02:00:00 -0400

This week's podcast is green and white with Lindy Pride as James Guttman talks about Lindenhurst, New York, the town he grew up in. James looks at hometown pride and how it grows the most once you're gone. Plus, talk of the Lindy Docks, Babylon Town House Diner, Lindy Movie Theater/Boat Store/CVS, and more. Also, making sure his non-verbal son with autism lives his best life.

Accepting What We Can Not Change

Fri, 13 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is talking about frustration this week. Plus, knowing when his non-verbal son with autism is confused vs. naughty and an unexpected change with drop-off and pick-up.

"Getting Closure" Is A Scam

Fri, 06 May 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Going back to a toxic person to hash it out one last time post-relationship? How'd that work out for ya? James Guttman looks at the scam of "getting closure", why you wouldn't need it if the person was capable of it, and how it can stick you in a loop forever. Plus, blaming yourself when your child has special needs...or disabilities? Challenges? James also talks about the difficulty of finding a word that's appropriate when describing how autism manifests itself for his non-verbal child.

Finding Love When You Feel Damaged

Fri, 29 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at how feeling damaged can lead to a life where you fear love. JG talks about pushing people away, feeling unworthy, and being happy that he's allowed someone into his life. Plus, talk of his non-verbal son's best friend and amazing mom, the jerky kid on the cruise, and having a 14-year-old. 14?!

Live Your Best Life

Thu, 21 Apr 2022 18:00:00 -0400

James Guttman woke up a different person this week. He talks about living like you're dying, how he lives after his quintuple bypass, thinking he would die, why he doesn't want his non-verbal child with autism melting down in front of people (and it's not why you think), and more.

Letting People Go

Fri, 15 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

It's not easy to let people go, but James Guttman has some new insight into it. After a pretty chaotic week, JG looks at finding the people who deserve you, fighting to keep people who don't, and putting yourself first. Plus, the relaxation bowl from Tibet and the stories that go away when you write them down.

Autism Unawareness & Handling Frustration

Fri, 08 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at handling frustration and why that's the secret to everything including how he has changed his point of view on many things. Plus, how Autism Awareness has changed in the past ten years, why Nirvana shocked him this week, and a special cameo from his son Lucas.

Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation

Fri, 01 Apr 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Happy Autism Awareness Day. James Guttman looks at how his non-verbal son's journey has gone from Autism Awareness to Autism Acceptance to Autism Appreciation. Plus a segment dripping with machismo.

Honest Talk About A Special Needs Parenting Struggle

Fri, 25 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is having kind of a rough week and speaks about how his phone call regarding services for his non-verbal son with autism hit kind of hard. JG looks at wanting his son to be the best he can be, but making sure to focus on the "he can be" part. Plus, a look at bullying and why it's so hard to get rid of it, and more.

Who Were You A Year Ago?

Fri, 18 Mar 2022 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about "handling" his son's autism, how his non-verbal son's achievements are tracked by remembering what he did a year ago, how that holds true for himself too, the reality of his son's future, letting him know that his sister is there for him too, and more. Plus the infamous "You Beat Me To It" story.

Divorce, Private Issues, and Service Job War Stories

Fri, 11 Mar 2022 03:00:00 -0500

It's a massive and personal edition of Hi Pod as James Guttman talks about the emotions surrounding divorce and overcoming fear of his non-verbal son growing up. Plus, a dive into the things he doesn't share (including sharing one) and some insane stories from his time working in the retail/service industry. Along with tales of one former family "friend" who was the worst of the worst to wait staff.

Pity Party Parenting & Fresh Tattoos

Fri, 04 Mar 2022 02:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is playing the best hits of the 80s, 90s, and today as he talks about special needs parents using their children for pity, why it's unfair to the kids, his non-verbal son with autism's improving behavior at parties, the key to making that happen, and more.

Funny & Awkward Moments For An Autism Dad

Fri, 18 Feb 2022 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is back with a look at humorous moments from his non-verbal son with autism's interactions with others, their reactions, and how accepting him brought about some open, funny, and honest stories. Plus, the vanishing face of offensive music.

I Think I Had A Religious Experience

Fri, 11 Feb 2022 10:00:00 -0500

The week has taken a turn for James Guttman as he speaks about coping with grief and the shocking religious sign he received the other day. Plus, in the midst of it all, the passing of his 17-year-old cat Tipsy on Thursday.

Five Years Of Hi Blog! I'm Dad.

Thu, 03 Feb 2022 15:00:00 -0500

On the fifth anniversary of HiBlogImDad.com, James Guttman reflects on how things have changed in the past five years, including a look back at the two articles he republished (for the first time) this week. The first dealt with his quintuple bypass and the life-changing effect it had. The other was the first time he had written about his son's autism and evolving understanding of parenting a non-verbal child on the spectrum.

Cool Dad, Good Teacher, Bad Teacher, and Autism-Friendly Haircuts

Fri, 28 Jan 2022 03:00:00 -0500

James Guttman tells the story of a teacher who made a difference by being "cool" and expecting the best versus one who let the kids do anything and taught nothing. He examines how he's emulated one in his fathering, how being open and honest changes everything, the way his son with autism overcame haircut fear, and more.

When My Health Teacher Made Me The Villain

Fri, 21 Jan 2022 04:00:00 -0500

Continuing the week's raw stories started on HiBlogImDad.com earlier, James Guttman tells another tale he never thought he would. It's the purple-tinged tale from 12th-grade health when a merry teacher chose to mock him rather than teach. Plus, the train incident and the insanity of dropping off his kids at school.

Garbage People Talk Trash (It's What They Do)

Fri, 14 Jan 2022 02:00:00 -0500

James Guttman looks at this week's HiBlogImDad.com posts including a story about someone who talked trash and then proved, when confronted, that their opinions weren't based on reality. Plus, his non-verbal son's sense of humor, Saving The Cheerleader and Saving the World, along with Miracle Berries, the fruit that lets you eat lemons. Seriously.

Autism Transitions & Mental Health Triggers

Fri, 07 Jan 2022 04:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks in-depth about living with bipolar disorder, how he was diagnosed, the triggers that he looks out for, and how he's learned to push past the feelings that used to rock him. Also, his non-verbal son's recent issues with autism transitions, why he forgot that was a thing, and the ways they've managed it. Plus, the five year anniversary of HiBlogImDad.com, celebrities you never heard of, life resumes, Lil Tay, Linda McMahon, and more.

'21 & Done

Fri, 31 Dec 2021 04:00:00 -0500

Ring in 2022 with James Guttman in an episode that looks back on the most challenging and rewarding year of his life. JG looks back on his first post-divorce year, the people he's blessed to have, the people he's blessed to be rid of, and the family he doesn't know who have their Christmas Card hanging upon his whiteboard.

A Special Christmas Christmas Special

Fri, 24 Dec 2021 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman has the Christmas Spirit for, perhaps, the first time ever. James looks at this year's autism-inclusive event, past battles with bipolar and seasonal depression, the disastrous 2019 Christmas, JG's big changes this past year, being grateful for new people in his life, and more. Plus, this week's posts on HiBlogImDad.com and discovering Christmas Lights.

The Broken Toe Sessions

Fri, 17 Dec 2021 05:00:00 -0500

Who has two thumbs and a broken toe? James Guttman. J.G. gives the story of how, on his way to record last week's podcast, he broke his toe. The tale includes the return of the soft-spoken corona-doc from March, learning what a fracture is, the punishment of exercise, and more. Plus, the latest on HiBlogImDad.com about his snazzy non-verbal son with autism's attire, leaving parties early with a special needs child, a TV show that will make anyone feel ancient, the old movies at the Lindenhurst Movie Theater, Shel Silverstein, and a 2nd-grade story that has never faded from the annoying memories section.

Find Your People

Fri, 26 Nov 2021 00:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is thankful even on the final Friday of November for finding his people but offers a cautionary look at how those people can be hard to spot after a lifetime of others. Including the recent reminder he had of how far he's come, the big evolutionary year, rewatching his son with autism's baby videos, 90s nostalgia, and the infamous 1994 story of when James met Joey Buttafuoco.

How To Break The Cycle Of Abuse

Fri, 19 Nov 2021 02:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks about his blog post, "The Year Santa Gave Me Coal For Christmas", and why he felt it was time to speak out, how there are stories far worse than that from his childhood, and the realization he had to come to in order to not repeat the cycle of abuse with his own children. Also, watered-down orange juice for his non-verbal son, dated Mr. Belvedere references, and the time James helped a parrot save the day.

The Mega-Noveaster Special

Fri, 12 Nov 2021 02:00:00 -0500

Happy Noveaster! James Guttman explains the annual tradition in his home for those who aren't familiar, what gross food they ate this year, how it started, and why he offered to call it off in 2021. Plus, dealing with an autism diagnosis, the Autism Speaks walk that changed everything for James's family, the mega kid, an impromptu Pete Davidson impression, old Big Brother contestants, and more.

Who, Why, & When Special Needs Parents Need To Trust

Fri, 05 Nov 2021 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the checklists special needs parents need to fill out, trusting teachers to have the best interests of his non-verbal child with autism, when his defensive mode softened, what makes him feel old, and more.

Today, I Am Raffi's Father

Fri, 29 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

It might not be Halloween, but James Guttman's son, Lucas, is all dressed up in his Raffi costume. James discusses the love his non-verbal son has for Raffi's music, the concert they attended, James's word-for-word memorization of Raffi's 1984 concert in Canada, and more. Plus, misconceptions about special needs families, helping his son learn new things, the wonderful person his daughter recently compared him to (in a terrible way), and much more. Remember, you can now listen to this podcast everywhere including directly on Facebook at - https://www.facebook.com/HiPodImDad

The Important Things We Can't Discuss

Fri, 22 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the post about his son's special education that Facebook said was "too political" to boost, how we are stopping ourselves from being able to discuss important issues with each other, healing broken hearts, a near fight with a college football team, the times he thought he would die, appreciating the sky, taking his non-verbal son on car rides, and more. Plus, a brand new grumpy old segment.

Now We're Here

Fri, 15 Oct 2021 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman returns with stories of his 2021 rebuilding after a divorce, overcoming hard times, his non-verbal son's autism diagnosis, heart surgery, parents helping kids in art contests, and where the family Elf on a Shelf came from. (HiBlogImDad.com Post: "The Boy In My Son's Window")

What If They Pick On My Special Needs Child?

Fri, 01 Oct 2021 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at his non-verbal son's journey into middle school next year, his daughter's concerns about it, and why it doesn't cause him as much anxiety as it probably should. Plus, a great parenting moment, times he assumed his kids were being bad when they weren't (and vice versa), and more.

Middle Age, Middle School

Fri, 24 Sep 2021 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman takes you to back to school night and how his first time attending his daughter's middle school tour brought with it epiphanies about education, adulthood, and the inspiration those seven minute speedy introductions brought. Plus, celebrating his new achievements, raising a great special needs sibling, and an unforgettable moment from his childhood...that James wasn't even a part of.

Little Versions Of Us

Fri, 17 Sep 2021 04:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at the weird things our kids do, including similarities to us that we love to see and the similarities we hate to see. Plus, how some are hard-wired into our DNA, insane bedtime stories, and an important lesson about Halloween decorations.

Defending My Kids With Claws And Fury

Fri, 10 Sep 2021 02:00:00 -0400

The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Those who attempt to poison and destroy my children will know my name when I lay my vengeance upon thee. Then, James Guttman will get free prison pudding. Plus, autism parenting phrases to know, how to feel old instantly, and a back to school jolt of electricty.

North Korea, South Korea, Marilyn Monroe

Fri, 03 Sep 2021 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman repeats weird things in his head and sometimes out loud. You do too. James looks at how similar that is to the way his non-verbal son might call out based on impulse, tantrums, chores, and a Moment of Sanity that happened today.

Patience, Parenting, and Mr. Drummond

Fri, 27 Aug 2021 02:00:00 -0400

On this week's show, James Guttman looks at the virtue of patience, starting his life over in 2021, other kids in his son's special needs class, Diff'rent Strokes (seriously), and a new feature's musical intro that hopefully everyone doesn't hate - but no promises.

Melting S'Mores & Melting Down

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 02:00:00 -0400

This week, James Guttman talks about his son's meltdown at the pool and kind words from a stranger, his daughter's strange thoughts about s'mores and how he can relate, plus "IEP", Archie Bunker, and not making excuses.

What Are You Capable Of?

Fri, 13 Aug 2021 02:00:00 -0400

With his son, Lucas, by his side, James Guttman looks at how his kids keep him going, stimming, the freedom of being hated, and what he tells his daughter is the secret to knowing you're good at something.

PECs, Hand Lickers, and My Kids' Hot Dad

Fri, 06 Aug 2021 03:00:00 -0400

James Guttman returns with a look at annoying his children, his non-verbal son's evolving social skills, people who let their kids be weird, adults who expect you to correct behavior that you shouldn't correct, and why horror movies don't let 40 year old men play the hero. Momet of Sanity, Word & Phrases, and More - Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/Contact

Mentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: THE CLEVER WAYS I ANNOY MY CHILDREN, EVERY GOOD BOY DESERVES FUN, THE WAYS MY KID MESSES WITH ME

"With Autism" vs. "Autistic", New Segments, & Returning Favorites

Fri, 30 Jul 2021 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is evolving Hi Pod! with a brand new segment, the return of a favorite, and a ton of topics including his place in Autism Acceptance for others, not being so ready to be offended, those who are, rude comments from people, genuine misunderstanding from others, and the day he decided to just "let them look." Tell James your thoughts at: HiBlogImDad.com/Contact

Mentioned HiBlogImDad.com Posts: Let Them Look, Handling People Who Know Nothing About Autism, The Boy In My Son's Window

The Brutally Honest End Of My Beginning

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 02:00:00 -0400

This is the podcast that is decades in the making. James Guttman takes you behind the basement door as he looks at the state of his life, friends who have gone, friends he sent away, multiple families lost, and how the most important person never left.

Moments Of Awkward, Special Needs, & Life Skills

Fri, 16 Jul 2021 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is back in full form with a look at awkward moments we all share, how alternate timelines of existence have diminished his trepidation around people, his daughter's first "Moment of Awkward", and more. Plus, a look at the term "special needs" and why he sometimes uses it instead of "autism" for his child, plus how extra time with his non-verbal son today can make a world of difference years from now.

It's Just A Stupid Cold

Fri, 09 Jul 2021 02:00:00 -0400

James Guttman spent the morning at the emergency walk-in center with stories of insanity. social media aggravation, and more. Plus, talk of this week's blogs about autism, school, and Chromebooks at HiBlogImDad.com.

Important Notes On Sending A Non-Verbal Child To School

Fri, 02 Jul 2021 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at sending his non-verbal son with autism to school and the different things any parent in his situation needs to do, remember, and realize in order to minimize worry.

Overcoming Negative Thoughts, Achieving Special Victories

Fri, 25 Jun 2021 01:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks tee ball with his son, the reminder that his special needs child is growing in both abilities and height. Plus the negative thoughts that we all sometimes encounter and how he has learned to manage them.

How I Help My Special Needs Child Discover Things He Loves

Fri, 18 Jun 2021 09:00:00 -0400

On the heels of a successful, albeit brief, tee ball outing, James Guttman looks at how he helps his special needs son find new activities, toys, and events he enjoys. Why it can feel thankless and requires time, repetition, patience, repetition, energy, repetition, and repetition.

Hypnosis, Positivity, And A Third T.V.

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman shares a story about being "hypnotized" that sums up how we should all approach being positive. Plus, his son's third television in the middle of the night and how it all gets better in the morning. Also a look at this week's blog posts.

For Special Needs Parents Without A Support System

Fri, 28 May 2021 09:00:00 -0400

Are you a special needs parent without a family or support system? James Guttman can relate...because he is one too.

Life Lessons Worth Sharing

Fri, 21 May 2021 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman offers some "words of wisdom" based on lessons he's picked up from trial, error, and interacting with people in life. These are the things he tells his daughter to help her navigate the world and things he reminds himself of in order to do the same.

How I (Mostly) Got Past Anxiety

Fri, 14 May 2021 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman talks about long-term anxiety and the ways he was able to eliminate it from his life. Plus, forgiveness, crazy teachers, and how his emotional roller coaster has been going haywire a bit.

10 Things You Don't Know About Me

Fri, 07 May 2021 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman has shared a lot of his life, but these ten things many, even those he knows personally, might not be aware of. JG's list, like any of ours, goes from shocking to silly. From near-death experiences to Hootie & The Blowfish.

Don't Let Resentment For Others Change You

Fri, 30 Apr 2021 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at how the challenges we face can create bitterness for others. He also looks at how the bitterness from others can create bitterness for others too. Yet, staying true to yourself is all that really matters. Plus, his non-verbal son's early morning mosh-pitting, Autism Inclusion, and much more.

How I Overcame Childhood Abuse To Break The Cycle

Fri, 23 Apr 2021 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman opens up in a podcast unlike any other he has done, looking at his own childhood and how he managed to avoid the abusive cycle he saw from others. James talks about the methods he used to see the world differently and how others in his position don't have to be like the people that may have hurt them. Plus, his evolving life and a very open week on HiBlogImDad.com

Autism Awareness Acceptance

Fri, 16 Apr 2021 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is back after a month with a look at Autism Awareness Month and the backlash that it sometimes faces. JG looks at those in the community who are offended at the idea, why he gets it but doesn't always agree, the lines he tries not to cross when writing about his kids, why he began HiBlogImDad.com to start with, and more. Also, the strange lingering effect from his COVID battle last month.

I Have COVID

Fri, 19 Mar 2021 00:00:00 -0400

Some people got hammered on St. Patrick's Day. James Guttman got COVID.

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Weird Childhood Moments

Fri, 12 Mar 2021 12:00:00 -0500

James Guttman talks insane childhood interactions retained within his brain including jokes that made no sense, Luchiese The Boy Wonder, and Bill Walker (go tell your father).

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Sit At The Head Of The Table

Fri, 05 Mar 2021 09:00:00 -0500

James Guttman is making things happen and telling his daughter she can too. JG looks at his new position as content editor for TheRichest.com, how it came about, and the piece of advice he was told as a kid that held him back for decades. Plus, coping with good news in a positive way and more.

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Handicap Parking & Energy Drink Mornings

Fri, 26 Feb 2021 09:00:00 -0500

After a morning that sadly didn't include coffee, James Guttman gives details on the realities of handicap parking, what made him realize he needed it for his son, why it's not what people think, and the heartbreaking drop-off at school because of it. Plus, a bonehead story left out of this week's blog about how easy it is to accidentally screw your kids up.

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When My Kids Aren't Here

Fri, 19 Feb 2021 13:00:00 -0500

Lucas is the unofficial non-verbal co-host as James Guttman looks at how divorce has affected his sleeping pattern, time with the kids, and why some stories seem sad, when they're not...but kind of still are.

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Saying Things Out Loud That Scare You

Fri, 12 Feb 2021 18:00:00 -0500

With Lucas yelling in the background, James Guttman explains how much better life is when you can finally admit to certain things including his son's autism, stories of his upbringing, his insane heart surgery fallout, the cablevision bird man, and more.

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Open and Honest

Fri, 05 Feb 2021 21:00:00 -0500

James Guttman continues his unfiltered week with a podcast that is both open and honest about his estranged relationship with his family, the catalyst to his heart attack, and finally betting on himself at 43 years old.

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You're The Villain In Someone Else's Story

Fri, 29 Jan 2021 09:00:00 -0500

When the Joker tells his tale, Batman is a jerk. James Guttman looks at accepting the fact that we all are portrayed in different ways when different stories are told by different people.

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Finally Telling My Story

Fri, 22 Jan 2021 09:00:00 -0500

James Guttman on two things that he has never discussed before - his estrangement from his family following heart surgery and his upcoming divorce. He looks at the parallels of his life and the reason why no one should ever tell you that you can't tell others your own story.

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Hidden Anxiety

Fri, 15 Jan 2021 09:00:00 -0500

Anxiety isn't just stress just like depression isn't just sadness. James Guttman looks at how his own anxious feelings manifest themselves in the absence of stress and how it has evolved through the years.

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Are You Happy?

Fri, 08 Jan 2021 14:00:00 -0500

Are you happy? It's not a trick question. James Guttman looks at a sentence that can require a lot more thinking than it should and how, as the years go by, he's learning how to truly be happy.

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New Year's Evolutions

Fri, 01 Jan 2021 12:00:00 -0500

It's officially 2021 and James Guttman is recording this episode on New Year's Day. JG looks at resolutions, evolutions, and why exactly the new year brings new hope. Plus why sometimes charting a new path in the new year works and why sometimes it doesn't.

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Merry Christmas, Archibald!

Fri, 25 Dec 2020 00:00:00 -0500

Merry Christmas, 2020! James Guttman looks at a holiday season that definitely had more ups than downs including his Elf on a Shelf disaster, the annual tradition of Sadder Claus fighting his daughter, and the story of Archibald, Reginald, and Captain Crazy Pants!

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Don't Let Them See You Fake It

Fri, 18 Dec 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Bad day? James Guttman has those. Had one yesterday morning, but it stayed there. James looks at the awful advice to "not let them see that they got to you" and why, if it's not real, it's not helpful. How to stay genuinely positive in the face of adversity and why an extended bout of anger or a false smile doesn't help you in the long-run.

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Struggling With Seasonal Depression

Fri, 11 Dec 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Brutally honest, this week's episode has James Guttman talking about his personal struggles with depression, both seasonal and otherwise, and how he's learned to get ahead of it. From the tale of his December quintuple bypass that changed his life to the memories the holidays bring up to last year's disastrous Christmas, James bears his soul to talk about something he feels many others can relate to, but few talk about.

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(Mentioned In The Episode) - The Almost Worst Christmas Ever With My Favorite Person: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/12/30/the-almost-worst-christmas-with-my-favorite-person/

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Finding Light In A COVID Tunnel

Fri, 27 Nov 2020 12:00:00 -0500

James Guttman on the mandates surrounding COVID-19, understanding both sides of the argument, how those in power aren't helping, and the desire to make it through even when it seems there's nothing there to make it through to.

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The Things We Say To Kids

Fri, 20 Nov 2020 09:00:00 -0500

What we say to kids stays with them forever. James Guttman offers stories of crazy teachers from his childhood including the gym teacher who beat up a 6th grader and how the things adults say can have long lasting effects on any child.

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And Then You Win

Fri, 13 Nov 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Happy Noveaster! James Guttman is back to talk about this year's fifth annual celebration in his house, plus a look at how you - yeah you - may not be able to do anything, but you can do whatever you believe yourself capable of. With personal stories about how the world will try to knock you down for good, but can't unless you let it.

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How To Spot Toxic People

Fri, 06 Nov 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Do you have toxic people in your world? James Guttman has been around them his whole life and tells you the warning signs to discover who they are, what they do, and how to move forward without letting them spin you back around.

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Don't Forget The Autism Dads

Fri, 23 Oct 2020 09:00:00 -0400

Social media may tell you to "keep going, mama", but dads are doing their part too. James Guttman is one of them and he talks about the annoyance of reading memes about fathers not doing their part. He gives examples, stories, and insight into why we should expect more from fathers and not make them feel unwanted in a community that needs them. Plus, a look at the term "autism parent" and why he doesn't use the word "autistic" to describe his son (but doesn't have an issue if someone else does).

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Stress, Karma, and Heart

Fri, 16 Oct 2020 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is having a rare week and, if his blog posts haven't told you, then he will himself. JG's raw grasp of sanity is explained in detail dating back to his surprise quintuple bypass, coming to grips with his son's autism, trying to squash anxiety, and thoughts about karma not existing at all. Unfiltered. That's a good word for it.

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Somewhere In The Middle

Fri, 09 Oct 2020 11:00:00 -0400

Everyone is busy picking sides and James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, explains how arguing keeps us all divided while discussions can help find a happy medium. He then looks at the new idea of "losing it in front of your kids" is the perfect example of why that thinking is flawed. Plus, JG's newest venture as writer and breaking news analyst for BabyGaga!

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Picture Day On The Spectrum

Fri, 02 Oct 2020 08:00:00 -0400

James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, looks at the plight of picture-taking when your child has autism. Including photo shoots for his non-verbal son, professional "autism-friendly" photographers who weren't, candid shots, class pictures, and the way his boy has done his part to make his picture-loving dad happy. Plus, as is up on Instagram, JG's kids - the DVD series.

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5 Major Tips For New Dads

Fri, 25 Sep 2020 08:00:00 -0400

James Guttman, author of The Expectant Father's Activity Book, presents five vital, but overlooked tips that any new dad should take notes on. Plus, this week's blog posts, and all the insanity that comes from raising a non-verbal nine year old son with autism and a nonstop verbal preteen daughter with attitude.

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Those Who Support Us, Those Who Don't

Fri, 18 Sep 2020 07:00:00 -0400

As James Guttman prepares for the release of his new book this Tuesday, he talks openly about issues he has with celebrating his own achievements. While looking back at some of the struggles releasing his first titles in an industry that eats its own, JG speaks about the overwhelming support from some, the stinging lack of support from others, and why learning to love yourself is the key to it all.

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Horror Stories From Music Together

Fri, 11 Sep 2020 15:00:00 -0400

Prepare to cringe as James Guttman looks back at his time at the Music Together "Mommy and Me" program with his son, Lucas, whose special needs were first becoming apparent. How apparent? He laid down on a baby. What? Yeah. You need to hear this.

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Take Your Victory Lap

Fri, 04 Sep 2020 11:00:00 -0400

Having a rough day? James Guttman can relate and this is the episode for you. James doesn’t sugar-coat his own struggles. He also talks why he stays brutally honest when telling the story of his non-verbal son with autism, bloggers who veer too far in positive/negative directions, and learning how to be proud of himself.

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Announcing The Expectant Father's Activity Book! (Now Available For Preorder)

Fri, 28 Aug 2020 08:00:00 -0400

After long last, James Guttman can finally announce that his new book, The Expectant Father's Activity Book, is available for preorder on Amazon (https://amzn.to/3klOWMa) and wherever books are sold. JG goes through the process of writing it, how it stands out from other titles, and tons more in a podcast months in the making. Plus, how he tamed his non-verbal Lord of the Living Room on Monday, vowing to not let the summer/lockdown blues keep his child with autism cooped up inside.

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Knowing What My Special Needs Child Is Capable Of

Fri, 21 Aug 2020 10:00:00 -0400

With a big announcement just days away, James Guttman looks at the high price we pay for not spoiling our children, what he's learned about dealing with his non-verbal son's silent protests in public places, and more. Plus the story of a special needs father whose interaction with his daughter in the lobby of a preschool taught him how to deal with his own son years later.

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Ugh...These Kids

Fri, 14 Aug 2020 10:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is tired - a two and a half second tired, at that - and his kids are to blame. Channeling Bernie Mack, JG explains it all. Plus, a look at how he still can't stop himself from being the embarrassing dad to his twelve year old daughter and the beautiful gentle nature that autism has given his non-verbal son...and how so many in the world can't even fathom it.

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Love The Things Your Kids Love

Fri, 07 Aug 2020 07:00:00 -0400

James Guttman watches plenty of shows below his age range, but his kids appreciate every minute. JG talks about the importance of loving the activities, events, and programs that your kids do from Liv and Maddie to Big Brother and how The Brady Bunch taught him the life lesson that made it happen. Plus, how this point of view extends to his son with Autism too.

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A Toast To Our Haters

Fri, 31 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

You may have done good things for others and still had people burn you for it. The trick is to not let it change or destroy you. James Guttman is committed to that, but, man, is it ever hard sometimes. So for those who have betrayed, attacked, trolled, and hurt us, and for those who have chosen sides against us before knowing if there even was a side, this is for you.

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Teaching My Special Needs Son Anything And Everything

Fri, 24 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

James Guttman discusses all the things he has helped his non-verbal child with autism learn including things he never thought possible. Plus, talking about concern over masks in a Covid world for a child with sensory issues, mental health breaks, and more.

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The Bond Between My Son With Autism And My Daughter Without

Fri, 10 Jul 2020 07:00:00 -0400

The bonds between a brother and sister go beyond words or spectrums. James Guttman looks at the relationship between his neurotypical daughter and his non-verbal son including what he, as a father, does to help those bonds grow, stories of protection, and the similarities that are hard-wired into their DNA. Plus, sending his special needs child back to school after lockdown, brawling with your kids, and more.

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Life Outside The Autism Bubble

Fri, 03 Jul 2020 08:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at why it's important to remember his life before having a child with Autism and not erasing his days of ignorance about it. His non-verbal son, to some, might be their only exposure to Autism and James works to give them the best possible example while remembering that they could represent an entire community.

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How I Eliminated Stress From My Life

Fri, 26 Jun 2020 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman looks at how a sudden heart surgery changed a lifetime of stress. How things ranging from having a non-verbal child to frantic bosses seem like they would knock him back, but they don't. Including childhood stories, reasons, and tips. Rate, review, like, and subscribe, Poodle Noodle.

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Things People Say To Autism Parents

Fri, 19 Jun 2020 09:00:00 -0400

Sometimes it's not what someone says but how and when they say it. James Guttman looks at comments and questions he's heard about his non-verbal child with autism that can stir up some pretty deep emotions, often unintentionally.

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Fighting For My Special Needs Child's Education

Fri, 05 Jun 2020 09:00:00 -0400

In what might be one of the most controversial and pointed shows to date, James Guttman looks at the protests and the response people have had to them, how he explains what is happening to his daughter, thoughts on Black Lives Matter, thoughts on good cops vs. bad cops, and more. Also, the battle over his son's summer services and anger with New York deeming liquor stores and summer camps essential, but his son's right to an education falling through the cracks. With the podcast on the verge of some big changes, this is one that you don't want to miss.

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A 15 Minute Day Of Fun: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/06/01/a-15-minute-day-of-fun/

Her Seriously Ridiculous Dad: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/06/03/her-seriously-ridiculous-dad/

Nearly Missing Our Greatest Memories: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/07/05/nearly-missing-our-greatest-memories/

But, They're Our Babies...

Fri, 29 May 2020 09:00:00 -0400

Life is returning to normal and James Guttman looks at his first post coronavirus Target run and the toll that cancelled summer school in New York will take on his non-verbal son. Plus, his daughter's first year of middle school being cut short, the clubs James loved that his daughter wouldn't hear of, and more. Then, it's a look at online bullying and torment, the role that Hana Kimura's passing played in the writing of one of his blog posts, and gross stories from parenting young children in an always-evolving, jam-packed show.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- Letting Her Have Her Own Dreams: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/25/letting-her-have-her-own-dreams/

- A Note To The Rude, Bitter, and Broken: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/27/a-note-to-the-rude-bitter-and-broken/

Birthday Parade!

Fri, 22 May 2020 09:00:00 -0400

With his daughter's birthday around the corner, James Guttman looks at the influx of birthday parades during the coronavirus pandemic - the good, the bad, and the annoying. Plus, the yearly tradition he does each year for her birthday, the woes of being a kid with a summer birthday, and more. Also, JG goes in-depth on his blogs from the week about mental illness, the stigma that surrounds it, the surprising place where he first realized how misunderstood it often is, and what we should all do to support each other. Plus, how to teach a non-verbal child with autism about danger. (Spoiler Alert: It's tough!)

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- The Deafening Silence of Mental Illness: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/18/the-deafening-silence-of-mental-illness/

- Teaching My Non-Verbal Son About Danger: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/20/teaching-my-non-verbal-son-about-danger/

- Sad For No Reason: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/10/15/sad-for-no-reason/

Good Grief

Fri, 15 May 2020 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman taught his daughter an important life lesson this week...through socks. Now, JG explains how his partnership with DivvyUp custom socks allowed him to keep the memory of his cat, Buddy, alive for his 11 year old. He looks at grief as a whole, why ignoring the pain only pushes it forward, and all the things he's picked up from loss through the years. Plus, the tales of his non-verbal son's incredibly loud wake-up calls, going nuts in quarantine, the return of his Starbucks, a pool party his son attended, and why his daughter refused to talk to a kid in the pool on vacation.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- Two Feet Of Memories: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/11/two-feet-of-memories/

- Cleaning Up The Crash Scene: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/13/cleaning-up-the-crash-scene/

- Before and After: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/03/08/before-and-after/

- Empty, Tired, and Sick To My Stomach: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/06/empty-tired-and-sick-to-my-stomach/

Serving The Heroes

Fri, 08 May 2020 08:00:00 -0400

This week, James Guttman tackles celebrity culture and how we don't know the people on television like we think we do. Featuring a Moment of Sanity intro from Nickie Weisensee Egan of the Chasing Cosby Podcast and book, James speaks about how that podcast changed his entire view of the Bill Cosby trial, Cosby as a person, and why #MeToo should transcend gender in its supporters. Plus, James offers a story of a wrestler he interacted with who was nothing like people expected. Also, a look at school closing during the coronavirus lockdown, how it has potential to severely impact his non-verbal son, dealing with unexpected grief during a happy family outing in 2014, and more.

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- Chasing Cosby on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6msp9rQSGRiGqJvJj7xrHh

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- And Then They Canceled The Rest Of The School Year: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/04/and-then-they-canceled-the-rest-of-the-school-year/

- An Important Part Of Being A Grown Up: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/05/06/an-important-part-of-being-a-grown-up/

- Then Why Do We Do It?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/03/25/then-why-do-we-do-it/

I Can't Take These Kids Anywhere

Fri, 01 May 2020 09:00:00 -0400

It's literal now, but it's always been true. James Guttman can't take these kids anywhere. With his daughter, Olivia, joining him for a Moment of Sanity looking at ridiculous restaurant antics, Tik Tok challenges, Jelly Fruits, and the $30 12-pack of apple juice you bite because it sounds like an apple (what?!), it's a view of life as the dad to a daughter who's eleven going on terrifying. Plus, why smiling at strangers doesn't have the same impact during a pandemic, public views on children with nonverbal autism, and a restaurateur giving back to the community during Covid-19.

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- The Restaurants of George Constantinou:
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* Miti Miti Latin -https://www.mitimitinj.com/

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- If I Had An Autism Magic Wand: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/27/if-i-had-an-autism-magic-wand/

- Eleven Going On Terrifying: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/29/eleven-going-on-terrifying/

- My Kids Embarrass Me At Restaurants: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/09/05/my-kids-embarrass-me-at-restaurants/

Bully For You

Fri, 24 Apr 2020 08:00:00 -0400

Hi Pod! It's James Guttman looking at raising kids and wearing masks. After speaking about the support he has received following the pet episode, James talks at how his daughter has handled grief like a champ. Then, JG takes a look at his non-verbal son's propensity for eating, how he uses that to increase communication, the perils of handling disobedience as an autism parent, and why certain things have to be done differently. From there, following a Moment of Sanity from a fraternity brother wise beyond his years, he turns to bullying, the class he took about it, and why he's glad his children are in this generation rather than the one before it.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- Please, Kid, Stop Eating: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/20/please-kid-stop-eating/

- Handling Disobedience For My Child With Autism: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/22/handling-disobedience-when-your-child-has-autism/

The Pet Episode

Fri, 17 Apr 2020 08:00:00 -0400

Following the loss of his cat, Buddy, after 15 years, James Guttman talks about the importance of pets in our lives, how past grief doesn't soften the blow of losing a long time pet, stories of getting Buddy, how Tipsy (his other cat) immediately protected him, stories of how his pets behaved in ways that he never expected, and more. Plus, talk of raising a daughter, why "losing your baby" isn't really a loss, the ways Autism Awareness affects his family, and other topics.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- Where Did That Baby Go?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/13/where-did-that-baby-go/

- Losing Our Buddy: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/15/losing-our-buddy/

- Why autism awareness, understanding and acceptance is important to us: https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/why-autism-awareness-understanding-and-acceptance-important-us

Trampolines, Quarantines, and Wrestling Tees

Fri, 10 Apr 2020 09:00:00 -0400

James Guttman is wearing his leather Dexter gloves and a homemade facemask for another week behind locked Covid-19 doors. James looks at how the extended social distance has affected us all including his kids. Plus, his thoughts on Autism Appreciation for his son Lucas, how autism (and far more) make him a wonderful person, stories of the first time they bonded in Lucas's world, and more. Finally, it's a Moment of Sanity intro from the a special education teacher who happens to be the daughter of wrestling's greatest announcer...EVER followed by stories of James bringing his daughter to her first wrestling event, why she was willing to sit through AJ Styles versus Undertaker this week, and the wrestling shirts his son happily lets him force into his wardrobe.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

- How Are The Kids?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/06/how-are-the-kids/

- More Than Autism: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/08/more-than-autism/

- Why Does Autism Make Him Do That?: https://hiblogimdad.com/2017/02/15/why-does-autism-make-him-do-that/

Appreciating Autism, Our Reality, and Each Other

Fri, 03 Apr 2020 09:00:00 -0400

Don’t hate, appreciate. James Guttman is here with a packed edition of Hi Pod looking at Autism Awareness Month, why he says “person with autism” rather than “autistic”, the importance of not building walls around loved ones with autism, what “autism awareness” was like in the 1980s, the Twilight Zone episode that proves autism isn’t new, what Jake The Snake vs. Rick Rude taught him about defending his family’s honor, and more. Plus, appreciation for what we’re all going through right now, those who divide the world up into groups, how insane that it is at a time like this, and more. Then, a Moment of Sanity that looks at the importance of grandparents, including some stories of how his late father-in-law showed him what it meant to be a father figure, and how both he and his wife embraced both their grandchildren – on and off the spectrum.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

Parenting a child with autism during COVID 19 (Autism Speaks): https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/parenting-child-autism-during-covid-19

Mutual Awareness, Mutual Acceptance: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/30/mutual-awareness-mutual-acceptance/

No Offense For Autism Awareness: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/04/01/no-offense-for-autism-awareness/

Rage Against The Quarantine

Fri, 27 Mar 2020 09:00:00 -0400

We’re living in the part of the story they skip in the zombie movies. Rick Grimes slept through it. These times “when everything changed” is retold later in the post-apocalyptic world by warriors wearing bones as hats. Anyway, how are you? Good? Good. James Guttman looks at our new normal, roller coaster moods over a quarantined life, his memories as a New Yorker on September 11th, and more Twilight Zone references than he really should. Plus, a welcome Moment of Sanity talking about how our children may grow up before our eyes, but they stay the same – for better or worse.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

We’re Going To Miss These Chaos Days: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/23/were-going-to-miss-these-chaos-days/

Positively Fed-Up: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/25/positively-fed-up/

Locked Inside With These Kids

Fri, 20 Mar 2020 09:00:00 -0400

So...what's new this week? Oh yeah. Armageddon. James Guttman is locked in his house as Coronamania sweeps the world. It's a look at how to talk to your kids about pressing times, homeschoolin' with sock puppets, stealing cookies, and more. Plus a Moment of Sanity that praises the teachers, teaching aids, and all educators of the world while also going over the time the aggressively pleasant Dad on the microphone almost started a high school brawl on the way to his son's class party.

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This Week's Referenced Posts -

Calmly Talking To Your Kids About The End Of The World: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/16/calmly-talking-to-your-kids-about-the-end-of-the-world/

The Social Distance Of An Autism Parent: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/18/the-social-distance-of-an-autism-parent/

Click, Click, Boom: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/20/click-click-boom/

Autism, Parties, Presents, and Presence

Fri, 13 Mar 2020 07:00:00 -0400

With his non-verbal son's birthday around the corner, James Guttman looks at how the annual celebration has changed (for the better) through the years. Plus, the importance of both his children supporting each other, thoughts on meeting your child's friends when your child can't tell you who they are, a random act of kindness from a stranger on a plane, writing for Autism Speaks, thoughts for those who forget that autism might mean something different for different people, and more. Plus, a Moment of Sanity from long time friends, a story that can finally be told without anonymity, a well-deserved trip up a bouncy ladder, and the Mandisa song that has been changing mornings since preschool.

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This Week's Posts -

Autism Speaks - A moment of unexpected kindness towards my son: https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/moment-unexpected-kindness-towards-my-son

Autism Support Goes Both Ways: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/09/autism-support-goes-both-ways/

A Perfect Nonverbal Birthday: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/11/a-perfect-non-verbal-birthday/

Posts Mentioned On This Week's Episode:

It's His Favorite Song: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/07/01/its-his-favorite-song/

Hi Pod! Episode 3 - Because I'm The Daddy, That's Not Why: http://hipodimdad.com.buzzsprout.com/659650/2018796-because-i-m-the-daddy-that-s-not-why

Speaking of Autism

Fri, 06 Mar 2020 07:00:00 -0500

In, what has been a whirlwind week James Guttman discusses his debut blog post for Autism Speaks. JG talks about how this piece of the puzzle fits perfectly in his life and the pride he has bringing stories of his children to AutismSpeaks.org just as he has for HiBlogImDad.com. Plus, a look back at showing his daughter the importance of being a friend, how his own grief made the lesson so important, focusing on milestones your child reaches rather than misses, and more. Then, it's a Moment of Sanity on learning about his non-verbal son's life at school including friends, goals, and achievements, and how that can sometimes take some extra work to find out.

Autism Speaks Debut: "My Son May Be Different, But We're All Different": https://www.autismspeaks.org/blog/my-son-may-be-different-were-all-different

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This Week's Posts -

Raising Her To Be The Friend I Wasn't: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/02/raising-her-to-be-the-friend-i-wasnt/

Autism Isn't About Impossibilities: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/03/04/autism-isnt-about-impossibilities/

Sitting On The Waiting Room Floor

Fri, 28 Feb 2020 08:00:00 -0500

It's been a big week for James Guttman and, as he prepares for some exciting news, he looks back on the posts that dealt with raising kids in a world where it's sometimes hard to face another day, defining what he meant by calling out the people who judge those with autism in a harsh way online, what those people don't understand, and more. Then, after a Moment of Sanity intro from Maureen of the Autism at the Parks, JG goes back to Disney for a life lesson he taught his daughter in the face of a rude interaction and the impromptu sociological experiment that played out before their eyes.

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This Week's Posts -

If Not For These Kids: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/24/if-not-for-these-kids/

For Those Who Judge My Child's Autism From Afar: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/26/for-those-who-judge-my-childs-autism-from-afar/

Haters, Horror Shows, and Middle Schooler Advice

Fri, 21 Feb 2020 08:00:00 -0500

Haters gonna hate. That doesn't make it any less infuriating. James Guttman talks about how that one tormenter can drown out the positives, but why you shouldn't beat yourself up for letting that happen. Plus, the plight of teaching his son not to steal your food, not being a parenting cliche to his children, and more. Then, in a Moment of Sanity, he's joined by his daughter Olivia to talk about middle school issues ranging from puke on the school bus pickles and cheese on a sleepover and Creeped Out on Netlfix.

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This Week's Posts -

You Don’t Have To Be A Parenting Cliché: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/17/you-dont-have-to-be-a-parenting-cliche/

Teaching My Son To Not Steal Your French Fries: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/19/teaching-my-son-to-not-steal-your-french-fries/

Back To The '90s

Thu, 13 Feb 2020 09:00:00 -0500

Let’s head back to the 1990s with James Guttman, The Simpsons, Girl Scout Cookies, and Playstation One. Including the stories from his fraternity that he’s legally allowed to share, Boys 2 Men, plus brothers he’s lost and memories he’s ready to remember again. So, come on. Let’s go back to Hofstra. It’ll be funny. People will be like, “wha-a-a?”

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This Week's Posts -

My Family Deals Girl Scout Cookies: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/10/my-family-deals-girl-scout-cookies/

I Want To Give My Non-Verbal Son Everything...But Shouldn't: https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/02/12/i-want-to-give-my-non-verbal-son-everything-but-shouldnt/

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Moment of Sanity Posts -

Survivor's Guilt: https://hiblogimdad.com/2018/09/24/survivors-guilt/

Empty, Tired, and Sick To My Stomach: https://hiblogimdad.com/2019/05/06/empty-tired-and-sick-to-my-stomach/

The Happiest Pod On Earth

Thu, 06 Feb 2020 10:00:00 -0500

It's the three year anniversary of Hi Blog! I'm Dad and James Guttman looks back on the main reason why he began writing about his family to begin with. Plus, a look at trips to Walt Disney World, the accommodations they offer to guests with special needs, the Michael Jackson Snow White, and the time Grandpa beat up Alice in Wonderland. Plus, a reminder that our kids aren't as cute to the outside world as they are to us.

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The Disney World Pictures JG Mentioned on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/p/B8RBS16h9--/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

Accepting Autism Awareness

Thu, 30 Jan 2020 14:00:00 -0500

Autism Acceptance? Great. Autism Appreciation? Even better. Autism Awareness? Well...not so much. James Guttman looks at why this hashtag, often looked down upon in some circles, can be important for those who aren't exposed to Autism on a daily basis with real-life examples of terrible plane rides that weren't so terrible because of it. Plus, some stories about the ways in which his non-verbal son's Autism has affected his family's life including delicious chalk, sneezy sushi, and birds that don't exist (no matter what the cable guy says).

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5 Ways I Communicate With My Non-Verbal Child

Thu, 23 Jan 2020 18:00:00 -0500

It's a question often wondered but rarely asked. How does a parent communicate with their non-verbal child? James Guttman reveals that it's not just one, but five different approaches that makes something that once seemed impossible more than possible. He details the different methods that he and his son with Autism use to interact including the way his family implemented each one, the order they happened, and a side rant about the way companies charge far more for "special needs" necessities than they need to (and the sled that proves his point). Plus, crane games, arcade tickets, and a story that can only be told now that the statue of limitations has run out.

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Bus Runs and Reruns

Fri, 17 Jan 2020 07:00:00 -0500

Sending a non-verbal child onto the school bus can be more difficult for the parent than the kid. That was the case for James Guttman as JG looks at the challenges that came with that first bus ride, the peace of mind conversation he couldn't have beforehand with "the baby of the family", crazy stories of crazy bus aides, and much more. Plus a Moment of Insanity intro from the coolest wrestler in WCW history and a look at the shows you can share with your kids including Fifteen, The Next Step, Liv and Maddie, and the Diff'rent Strokes where Sam almost got his parents killed.

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Baby Godzilla

Thu, 09 Jan 2020 15:00:00 -0500

A child on the autism spectrum might learn in unique ways at times. James Guttman looks at one way that he and his daughter used an unconventional technique to teach his non-verbal son an important lesson. Plus, the cartoonish Gamestop visit that made it important, why keeping a list of milestones is even more important, and other reasons Godzilla was unleashed. Plus, a look at James's return to The Mighty (https://themighty.com/2020/01/dad-son-autism-not-hero/) and an in-depth look at Monday's post about losing the "crown jewel" behind his son's behavioral therapy (https://hiblogimdad.com/2020/01/06/losing-his-crown-jewel/). Then it's a clutter-clearing Moment of Sanity that looks at youth sports and how JG's little league record shows that wins and losses don't mean much at that age.

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Colin Moore on Clearing Out The Clutter: https://www.clearingouttheclutter.com/

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Happy Holidays (Are Over)

Fri, 03 Jan 2020 06:00:00 -0500

Twas the month after Christmas and James Guttman was thrilled. JG returns for season two with a look back on the disaster that was the holiday season, how the festive spirit can kick the tinsel out of the best of us, the red flag story of his crazy eyed boss and his buggy permanent tree, and more. Plus, a lesson about making memories...and the Great Boston Molasses Flood of 1919.

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Holiday Toys and Wrestling Tales

Thu, 12 Dec 2019 14:00:00 -0500

It's the Hi Pod! Holiday Special that any fan of toys, wrestling, and special guests needs to hear. James Guttman is joined by his daughter, Olivia, for the first time to give you a guide on how to talk to kids about the popular gifts of the season. You'll never have to hear "OK Boomer" again!

Then, it's a major surprise from the wrestling world for the Moment of Sanity intro as JG takes a look back at his past world of wrestling insanity and talks about conducting some of the Internet's first ever wrestling podcasts with stories about tons of stars like Kevin Nash, Buff Bagwell, The Rock's mom, Donald Trump (?) and more. Plus, a personal story about how the passing of Lance Cade changed his perspective on celebrity culture and the wrestling industry as a whole. (starting at the 23:14 marker)

It all closes out with a message from RD Lee of Pops For Patients on how you can brighten a hospitalized child's day this holiday season. You don't want to miss this jam-packed edition!

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Trauma, Drama, and Going To Therapy

Fri, 06 Dec 2019 06:00:00 -0500

Thinking about going to therapy? James Guttman wasn't, but he's glad he did. James talks about all the reasons he didn't want to and provides answers to all the questions he had that kept him away for his entire life. Plus, why he speaks openly about a subject he was raised to keep private. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that went from being the least favorite thing he did to something he barely notices.

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Sharing About Your Kids While Respecting Their Privacy

Fri, 29 Nov 2019 08:00:00 -0500

Parenting stories are fun to share, but there's a delicate balance when it comes to maintaining the privacy of your child. James Guttman looks at how he strives to do that with both his non-verbal son and his overly-verbal daughter. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that shows how keeping memories alive is rewarded in the long run.

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Age Appropriate Bedtime Stories

Fri, 22 Nov 2019 06:00:00 -0500

If an adult can wear a pony costume to a comic convention, an eight year old with Autism can watch Sesame Street. James Guttman talks about his non-verbal son's unique views on entertainment including Sesame Street Live, the thrift store salesperson from the Twilight Zone, a speech teacher that steered him in the wrong direction, and more. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that embodies the phrase "Reading Is Fundamental."

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Autism Inclusion and Noveaster Celebrations

Fri, 15 Nov 2019 06:00:00 -0500

In the latest edition of Hi Pod! I’m Dad, James Guttman explains the desire to have his son with Autism included in all the places he deserves to be, but for the right reasons. Plus, the Facebook post that led to the creation of Hi Blog, the unexpected source that made him see his child had more than just “delays”, the story of how a joyous preschool graduation became a heart-breaking nightmare, and emerging from the other side of it all with happiness and pride. Plus, a Moment of Sanity that talks about Noveaster, Sadder Claus, and patriotic inception photos that redefined his holidays.

Because I'm The Daddy, That's Not Why

Thu, 07 Nov 2019 16:00:00 -0500

Saying "I'm not their friend, I'm their father" depends on how you define friend. James Guttman explains his definition and looks at teaching them not just right from wrong but why. Plus, the deal he made with his daughter, a lesson in karma, shock over his own age, the guy who never apologized, and many more parenting moments that seem to fly in the face of conventional wisdom. Plus, this week's Moment of Sanity found in the most unexpected places.

Autism Appreciation

Fri, 01 Nov 2019 06:00:00 -0400

You can be aware of it. You can accept it. Autism Appreciation, however, is an entirely different thing. James Guttman explains how his non-verbal son taught him exactly what that means. From the early days of uncertainty to the realization that Autism isn't the boogeyman it was portrayed to be, it's a frank explanation of why he wouldn't wave a magic wand to change his son into anything other than the eight year old boy he has grown to be.

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So, What's Your Story?

Fri, 25 Oct 2019 05:00:00 -0400

Everyone has their own unique story. In our debut episode, James Guttman tells his full story for the first time ever. From becoming a parent and dealing with his son's early signs of Autism to how an unexpected heart surgery literally changed everything. Plus, the first ever weekly "Moment of Sanity".

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Hi Pod! I'm Dad: Debuting October 25th

Tue, 15 Oct 2019 20:00:00 -0400

From James Guttman, the Dad behind "Hi Blog! I'm Dad", Hi Pod looks at raising a non-verbal child with Autism and a non-stop verbal child without after surviving a quintuple bypass at 35 years old.

After getting a new lease on a life and a new stress-free point of view, JG breaks free of past insanity to show that families, no matter the needs of those in them, are all really the same. Focusing not just on Autism Awareness, but Autism Acceptance, and Autism Appreciation. New episodes every Friday starting on October 25th!