OffAir Podcast

Inside a Throuple: How Does It Really Work?

Fri, 13 Mar 2026 16:00:00 +0000

What happens when three people decide to build one relationship together?

On this episode of OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz, we meet Precious, Jeffrey and Chidinma, known as the Feral Throuple, who say their relationship is built on love, honesty and communication.

They share how their unusual relationship started, how they deal with jealousy, family reactions, and the biggest misconceptions people have about polyamorous relationships. From meeting at the Ice cream store to navigating love with two partners, this conversation is honest, surprising and sometimes hilarious.

Is this the future of relationships or just something that works for them?

Watch as the hosts ask the questions everyone is thinking.

Episode Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
1:12 What is a polycule?
3:05 How Jeffrey met Chidinma
5:20 How Precious entered the relationship
8:45 When the relationship became a throuple
12:10 Are they all in love?
15:00 Do their families know?
18:20 “Did you use jazz?”
21:10 What is intimacy like in a throuple?
26:40 Jealousy and communication
30:30 Planning children and marriage
36:15 Public reactions and criticism
41:40 Rapid fire questions
45:20 MonieZone with Moniepoint
52:10 Spin the Weekend with Gordon’s

Tyra Banks Documentary, Nigerian Streamer chaos, Simi backlash & More

Fri, 06 Mar 2026 16:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.
They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationship drama making the rounds online, and much more.
Plus, there’s Money Zone with Moneypoint and a fun Spin the Weekend moment with Gordon’s Gin.

If you enjoyed this episode, like, comment and subscribe. Drop the stories you want us to cover next in the comments.

00:00 — Season 9 kickoff
02:05 — Promo shoot
04:10 — Plato food shout out
06:00 — Tyra Banks documentary
11:20 — Reality TV then vs now
15:40 — Extreme makeovers debate
18:30 — Big Brother fame pressure
21:00 — Cardi B postpartum tour
23:20 — Beyoncé concert standard
26:00 — Nigerian concerts discussion
29:10 — Celebrity deaths & healthcare costs
33:40 — Mexico cartel crisis
38:10 — World Cup travel concerns
41:20 — Nigerian streamers drama
45:50 — IShowSpeed’s Africa tour
49:20 — Looking like you don’t need money
52:10 — Mirabel assault story
56:40 — Simi tweets controversy
1:02:10 — Feminism & Twitter dragging
1:06:00 — Engagement bait & fake stories
1:09:20 — Cubana Chief Priest DNA saga
1:12:50 — Tonto Dikeh rebrand
1:15:30 — Money Zone By Moneypoint
1:20:40 — Nigeria, money & savings
1:25:10 — Business tools & POS tracking
1:28:30 — Street fight story
1:31:10 — OffAir Reacts: Throuple discussion
1:33:30 — Celebrity crushes
1:35:40 — Gordon's Cocktail time
1:38:00 — Gordon's Spin the Weekend (Brunch & Gist)
1:40:20 — Episode wrap-up

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Gen X vs Gen Z on Sex, Self-Pleasure & Partner Pleasure | Say It With Your Chest

Wed, 25 Feb 2026 16:00:00 +0000

Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real.
We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural.

From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss:
Discovering self-pleasure growing up
Porn, performance myths & unrealistic expectations
Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures?
When does it become a problem in relationships?
Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want?
Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”?
The monogamy debate

We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it.

00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest
02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up
08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure & Unrealistic Expectations
15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More?
22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring
29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied?
36:15 – Communication, Ego & Giving Feedback
44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate
53:10 – Sexual Exploration & Personal Boundaries
01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem?
01:10:15 – Final Thoughts & Audience Reactions

Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?

Wed, 18 Feb 2026 16:00:00 +0000

In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner.

Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom.

Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way!

00:00 - Intro
02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?
07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations
13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure?
17:45 - Fake It 'Til You Make It?
22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure
27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions
32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight
36:00 - Closing Thoughts

Taking Charge in the Bedroom: Dominance, Desire & Speaking Up ft. Slumflower

Wed, 11 Feb 2026 16:00:00 +0000

In this special episode of Offair Air with Durex, Gbemi and Toolz are joined by the incredible Chidera aka Slumflower, a Sunday Times best-selling author, as they dive into the art of speaking your mind and owning your desires in relationships. With unfiltered honesty, they discuss how to confidently express your needs, especially when it comes to intimacy, and why it’s so important for both men and women to #SayItWithYourChest

Slumflower takes us through her journey as a dominatrix, sharing valuable insights on power dynamics, and how she navigates dominance and submission in a healthy and consensual way. Plus, get the inside scoop on her experiences in relationships and how to communicate what turns you on without fear, shame, or hesitation.

In partnership with Durex, this episode explores mutual pleasure, sexual confidence, and how both partners can truly understand each other’s needs in and out of the bedroom.

00:00 - Introduction: What Does It Mean to 'Say It With Your Chest'?
03:30 - Meet Slumflower: From Best-Selling Author to Dominatrix
07:00 - The Importance of Confidence in Communication
12:20 - Navigating Power Dynamics in Relationships
16:50 - Saying What You Want in Bed: How to Communicate Your Needs
22:00 - The Psychology of Men’s Submissive Tendencies
28:15 - Confidence, Consent, and Comfort: The Key to Great Sex
33:00 - Breaking Down Cultural Barriers: Owning Your Pleasure in Nigerian Society
39:30 - Sexual Exploration: How to 'Train' Your Partner (In a Fun Way)
44:00 - The Role of Praise: Why Men Love to Be Called 'Good Boy'
49:20 - Slumflower’s Take on Dominance, Submissiveness, and Consent
54:00 - A Conversation on Mutual Pleasure: Durex’s Role in Sexual Confidence
58:30 - Closing Thoughts: Speak Up, Own Your Desires, and Say It With Your Chest

Who Sets The Rules In The Bedroom: Men or Women?

Wed, 04 Feb 2026 16:00:00 +0000

In this episode of Say It With Your Chest, an OffAir mini-series brought to you by Durex, we talk intimacy, communication, confidence, protection, and the unspoken rules shaped by culture and judgement.

From women carrying condoms to awkward pharmacy moments, playlists, compliments, and why silence kills the vibe. Nothing is off-limits.

Join the conversation in the comments 👇
#SayItWithYourChest

Proudly powered by Durex.

00:00 – If I were president… more money, less traffic, better sex
02:08 – Who really sets the rules in the bedroom?
07:06 – Why society assumes men should lead sexually
11:46 – Silence, fear & the pressure on women
18:36 – Women carrying condoms: smart or scandalous?
24:19 – Pharmacy judgement, church leaflets & shame culture
32:14 – Should intimacy rules be discussed earlier?
40:18 – Compliments, playlists & setting the mood
53:44 – Final takeaways: comfort, confidence & consent

Kinks & Fantasies in Nigerian Bedroom

Wed, 28 Jan 2026 16:00:00 +0000

In this special episode of 'OffAir,' hosts Gbemi and Toolz, along with guest Yeside Olayinka Agboola, founder, Oloricoitus, delve into the intriguing world of kinks, fantasies, and sexuality in Nigeria. They define kinks and fantasies and discuss the contrasts between public conservatism and private liberalism in Nigerian attitudes towards sex. The episode highlights the booming industry of aphrodisiacs and sex enhancers, and the importance of communication, emotional security, and kindness in exploring sexual preferences with partners. Practical steps for safe exploration, such as testing and using condoms, are covered. The episode concludes with myth-busting statements about kinks and sexual communication and a detailed overview of Durex products designed to enhance sexual experiences. The hosts encourage viewers to explore their kinks and fantasies safely and communicate openly with their partners.
#SayItWithYourChest #OffAirXDurex

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview
00:35 Defining Kinks and Fantasies
03:26 Exploring Nigerian Attitudes Towards Sex
05:38 Communicating Desires and Overcoming Insecurities
11:13 Safe Sex Practices and Misconceptions
13:20 Encouraging Exploration and Emotional Security
19:09 Myth Busters and Product Recommendations
22:23 Final Thoughts and Closing Remarks

Simplify Global Payments with Paga: Eliminating Financial Hurdles for Africans Abroad

Fri, 12 Dec 2025 16:00:00 +0000

In this episode of FX Files an OffAir Specials brought to you by Paga, we address a significant concern for Nigerians and Africans when traveling abroad, the frustration of having cards from Nigerian banks declined due to network issues or suspected fraud.

Our hosts, Gbemi And Toolz discuss the challenges of making payments overseas and introduce Paga's innovative solution. Paga US now allows anyone with a US residential address to open a fully regulated US bank account, offering physical and virtual Visa cards, and seamlessly integrate with services like Apple Pay and Google Pay.

The highlight of this special episode is an insightful conversation with the CEO of Paga, Tayo Oviosu who explains how the new service removes the hassle of traditional banking processes, enabling users to manage multiple currencies, send and receive money effortlessly, and maintain a strong financial link back home.

Tune in to learn how Paga is transforming banking for the African diaspora, making global financial transactions smoother and more accessible.

The horror of dating in Nigeria Ft Skuki & Nimi

Fri, 05 Dec 2025 16:00:00 +0000

In this final episode of the season, Gbemi and Toolz discuss various hot topics including dating dynamics in today’s Nigeria with Nimi and Skuki Peeshaun, the challenges young professionals face, and insights on remote work. Highlights include a fan mail segment where a young listener seeks advice on handling financial pressures from her parents, debates on dating standards, emotional intelligence in relationships, and the impact of social media on dating. The episode also features a guest segment with Nadine, the market manager of GrabrFi, discussing the benefits of remote work and challenges like payment barriers for Nigerian freelancers. In addition, there's a special segment on the importance of sunscreen, particularly in Nigeria's intense sun, in collaboration with Beauty by Daz.

When Japa turns to Japada Featuring Mommychoplife, Chude jideonwo's new book

Fri, 28 Nov 2025 16:00:00 +0000

In this episode, the hosts cover a wide range of topics, from tech controversies and social media feuds to mental health, career advice, and personal growth.

Featuring special guests like Chude Jideonwo and Mommy Chop Life, the episode explores experiences with depression, relocating abroad, financial solutions, skincare tips, and navigating life’s challenges. Packed with candid stories, laughter, and practical advice, this episode is full of insights you won’t want to miss.

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Everything about Hair Care Ft Hairitage hub.

Fri, 21 Nov 2025 16:00:00 +0000

In this special on-location episode, we take you inside Hairitage, one of Lekki’s most trusted hair-care salons — and honestly, the experience was nothing short of impressive. This wasn’t just a salon visit; it was a full masterclass on healthy hair, personalized treatments, and what it really means to care for your hair the right way.

Our hosts sat down with the Hairitage team and explored everything that makes the salon stand out, including:
✨ Open 7 Days a Week — perfect for busy women who can’t squeeze salon days into a tight schedule.
✨ A Healthy-Hair-First Philosophy — Hairitage isn’t just about styling; the entire approach is built around nurturing, repairing, and caring for your hair.
✨ Tailored Treatments — no one-size-fits-all here. Whether your hair needs protein, moisture, strengthening, or balance, they actually diagnose it and create a treatment plan just for you.
✨ Specialized Services — from post-relaxer repair to scalp health treatments and moisture/protein balancing, Hairitage offers niche, hard-to-find services in Lekki.
✨ Cute & Quirky Treatment Names — “Leave Me Tender,” “Pink Power,” and more — the branding alone makes the experience fun and memorable.
✨ Treatment-Based Trims — even something as simple as a trim becomes intentional, with stylists checking split ends to prevent breakage and protect length.
✨ Education at Every Step — You don’t just get your hair done; you leave with knowledge, tips, and a better understanding of your hair’s needs.

From expert insights to behind-the-scenes details, this episode highlights why Hairitage has quickly become a go-to haven for women who want more than just a hairstyle — they want healthy, thriving hair.

Don't forget to share your thoughts, and hit the 'subscribe' button

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Lagos luxury lifestyle ft Delborough, Case 65 & BM Pro | S8, Ep 13

Sat, 15 Nov 2025 14:00:00 +0000

What does luxury really look like in Lagos? In this exciting episode, Gbemi and Toolz take you inside some of the most exclusive, high-end spots in the city — the kind of places people talk about but rarely get to experience up close. From elite aesthetics to five-star hospitality and celebrity-level glam, we explored it all.

Join us as we take you through:
✨ Cube 65 — the premium cosmetic clinic known for world-class skincare, non-surgical/surgical transformations, and the kind of beauty treatments only the boldest (and wealthiest) Lagosians sign up for.
✨ Delborough Hotel — often called the most expensive hotel in Lagos, where luxury isn't just a promise — it’s the entire lifestyle. Think gold finishes, impeccable service, breathtaking interiors, and a price tag that speaks for itself.
✨ BM Pro — the iconic beauty studio famous for shaping the glam game in Nigeria. From flawless makeup artistry to celebrity makeovers, this is where beauty meets mastery.

In this episode, the hosts share their honest impressions, the jaw-dropping prices, the ambience, the customer experience, and whether these premium spots are truly worth the hype. Expect laughs, surprises, behind-the-scenes moments, and a full breakdown of what it really costs to indulge in luxury in Lagos.

If you love lifestyle content, luxury reviews, or you’re simply curious about where the 1% go to glow up, relax, and get pampered — this episode is for you.

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Jesus is a Feminist ft Blessing Omakwu

Fri, 07 Nov 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Why does a word meant to promote equality still make so many people uncomfortable? In this episode, we unpack feminism — the so-called “Dirty F-word” and explore how it has evolved, been misunderstood, and sometimes misrepresented in today’s world.

Gbemi & Toolz dive into real, unfiltered conversations about what feminism truly means beyond the hashtags and headlines. We talk about the stereotypes, the backlash, the wins, and the messy middle ground that keeps the gender equality conversation alive and often heated.

Expect eye-opening insights, fiery debates, and honest reflections as we explore:
• What feminism really stands for vs. what people think it is
• The tension between feminism and cultural or religious beliefs
• The rise of online “anti-feminist” movements
• How feminism has evolved for Gen Z and modern women
• Why men should also be part of the feminist conversation

This episode isn’t just for women, it’s for anyone curious about equality, identity, and how social progress actually happens. Whether you agree, disagree, or fall somewhere in between, you’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of why feminism remains one of the most powerful (and polarizing) movements of our time.

Listen, share your opinions and don’t forget to hit the ‘Subscribe’ button

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Parenthood: The Good, The Bad & The Ugly ft Ibrahim & Linda Ejiofor-Suleiman

Sat, 01 Nov 2025 08:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz sat down with real parents (Ibrahim and Linda Ejiofor-Suleiman) to share honest, unfiltered experiences - the wins, the breakdowns, and everything in between. Expect laughter, a few tears, and plenty of “I can totally relate” moments as we talk about:

The unexpected realities of becoming a parent

Balancing personal identity and family responsibilities

Modern parenting pressures and social media comparisons

The emotional and financial challenges no one warns you about

The little moments that make it all worth it

Whether you’re a new parent, an expecting one, or just curious about the real talk behind raising kids, this episode offers insights, empathy, and a reminder that there’s no such thing as a perfect parent — just real people doing their best every day.

🎧 Tune in, laugh a little, learn a lot, and maybe even feel seen.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest conversations about life, love, and everything in between.

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Let's talk about S£X

Fri, 24 Oct 2025 16:00:00 +0100

We’re back on the topic everyone’s curious about but rarely discusses openly — S£X.
In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz sit down with our guests to unpack common misconceptions about sex and intimacy. From myths and mindsets to the truths we often overlook, this conversation is real, insightful, and unfiltered.

It's time to talk, learn, and maybe even rethink what you thought you knew about sex.

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Tax Doom 2026 feat Tosin Olaseinde

Fri, 17 Oct 2025 16:00:00 +0100

In this episode, we sit with Tosin Olaseinde, finance expert and founder of Money Africa, to unpack Nigeria’s new tax law set to take effect in 2026 and what it truly means for young Nigerians both working for companies at home and abroad.

From income brackets and digital remittances to side hustles and foreign earnings, Tosin breaks down the real-life impact of the new policy in simple, relatable terms — no jargon, no confusion, just straight facts and practical insights.

Don't forget to hit the 'Subscribe' button and share your opinions below.

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The internet, Rumors & Tiwa Savage

Fri, 10 Oct 2025 16:00:00 +0100

In this episode, we sat down with the Queen of Afrobeats herself — Tiwa Savage — for an unfiltered conversation about her journey, growth, what truly drives her and her truth about the salon drama with Seyi Shay. From music and motherhood to fame and faith, Tiwa opens up like never before.

Tune in for real talk from one of Africa’s biggest global icons.

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Seyi Shay on career, life beyond music and Tiwa savage

Fri, 03 Oct 2025 16:00:00 +0100

In this episode, Seyi Shay gets real about her journey,her music career, life beyond the spotlight, and her much-talked-about history with Tiwa Savage. She also opens up about motherhood, personal growth, and everything in between.

From stardom to stepping away from the limelight, Seyi Shay shares untold stories, lessons learned, and what’s next for her.

Tune in for an honest, unfiltered conversation you don’t want to miss.

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Are Nigerians badly behaved abroad?

Fri, 26 Sep 2025 16:00:00 +0100

In this episode, we dive into the debate about how Nigerians are perceived and treated overseas.

From cultural clashes and stereotypes to real-life experiences of Nigerians living abroad, we unpack whether the “badly behaved” label is fact, fiction, or simply gist.

Tell us your opinion and don't forget to hit the subscribe button

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Is stand up comedy dead?

Fri, 19 Sep 2025 16:00:00 +0100

From the rise of skits to the future of stand-up comedy, we delved into it all with bovi.

In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz sit with one of Nigeria’s greatest comedian to unpack the big questions:

✔️ Has the rise of skit-making changed the comedy game?

✔️ What does the future look like for stand-up comedy?

✔️ And why we have less female stand-up comedians?

You’re about to listen to a conversation that’s funny, insightful, and very real.

#OffAirWithGbemiAndToolz #bovi #standupcomedy

Forgiveness (The concept of letting go)

Fri, 12 Sep 2025 16:00:00 +0100

Society often tells us to “forgive and forget” but is it really that simple?

In this episode, we talked about the expectations placed on people to move on quickly after being hurt, and the pressure to always make peace, especially within families.

From the unspoken rule of automatically forgiving siblings, to the cultural weight of keeping things “cordial” no matter what, we explore the fine line between genuine healing and forced reconciliation.

This episode challenges the traditional idea of letting go and asks: Do we forgive for ourselves, or just to meet expectations?

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The Sweetest Era Of Nigerian Music.

Fri, 05 Sep 2025 16:00:00 +0100

🎶Was there ever a time when Nigerian music felt better than now?

In this episode of our podcast, we dive deep into “The Sweetest Era of Music in Nigeria”, a nostalgic and critical look at the different eras that have shaped the industry into the powerhouse it is today.

From the Afrobeat revolution spearheaded by Fela Kuti, Nigerian music has always been a cultural force. We also revisit the Hip-Hop/R&B influenced era of the early 2000s with stars like Styl-Plus, Plantashun Boiz, and 2Baba, the Afropop & Dancehall fusion of the 2010s that gave us Wizkid, Davido, Burna Boy, and Tiwa Savage, and of course, the global Afrobeats-to-the-world wave of the 2020s, where Nigerian sounds dominate international charts.

We ask:
✨ Which era had the most cultural impact?
✨ Is today truly the sweetest era of Nigerian music or just the loudest?

Whether you’re a lover of old-school classics or you live for the new-school beats, this episode is packed with history, nostalgia, and hot takes.

🔔 Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and share if you enjoy deep dives into music, culture, and everything in between.

👉 Drop your thoughts in the comments too

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Is your pastor a thief?

Fri, 29 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0100

We tackle religious leaders who fixated with prosperity preaching.

Full video on YouTube!

The Price of Slay

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 16:00:00 +0100

Can Nigerians still afford Nigerian designers and stylists?
In this episode, we dive into the hot debate around fashion, affordability, and culture in Nigeria!

We’ve got popular designer Tubo and celebrity stylist The Style Infidel sharing their thoughts on:
✔️Why Nigerian fashion has become premium (and if it should stay that way)
✔️ The real cost of creativity vs. affordability
✔️Nigerian fashion on the global stage
✔️Fun, unfiltered takes on what it’s like styling Nigerians today

From Lagos fashion streets to red carpet glam, this conversation will have you laughing, thinking, and maybe even rethinking your next outfit purchase.

Question: Do YOU think Nigerian fashion is overpriced or worth every naira? Drop your hot takes in the comments!

👉 Don’t forget to LIKE 👍, SUBSCRIBE 🔔, and SHARE with your fashion-forward friends.

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Now that we are back on YouTube,

Sat, 02 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0100

We talked about everything we missed while we were away, from the messy divorce, surrogacy discussion, etc just to show that your favorite duo is back right where we started!

Watch, share your thoughts and tell a friend to tell a friend, 'SHE"S BACKKKKKKKKK!"

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Buying Authorized Apple Devices in Nigeria: What You MUST Know

Fri, 06 Jun 2025 15:00:00 +0100

In this episode of Off Air with Gbemi & Toolz, we talk all things Apple in Nigeria — from spotting unauthorized or stolen devices to buying the real deal. Joined by Layi Wasabi and Kolawole Ogunwumi from Redington (Apple’s official distributor), we share tips, red flags, and real-life stories you don’t want to miss.

Stay informed. Buy Authorized.