Three women sit down and answer one question. What is the thing you stopped saying out loud, and when did you stop saying it?

Theresa Croft names the belief that she was not good enough, and how mind management quieted the chatter. Yara Garcia talks about the words she never spoke, and how the expectations she placed on herself did more damage than any critic ever could. Elana van Deventer explains why she stopped apologizing for everything and why she walked away from positive affirmations, because your brain knows when you are lying to it.

The conversation goes where most church conversations stop. Struggling does not make you a bad Christian. Prayer works better when someone actually listens first. Renewing your mind is your job, and it is hard work that takes time.

Theresa also shares the season that started the war for her voice, and the three years of work it took to come out the other side.

Pull up a chair. The table is set for you.