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    <itunes:title>2. Welcome to Better Thinking Better Living. A Life Transitions Podcast</itunes:title>
    <title>2. Welcome to Better Thinking Better Living. A Life Transitions Podcast</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[You've done the work, the therapy, the books, the routines and something still feels slightly out of reach. This first episode is an invitation to anyone who is self-aware enough to know they're capable of more, and honest enough to admit they're not quite there yet. Host Tonya Shankle introduces the show through two personal stories about what happens when you stop making everything about you. New episodes drop every other week on Wednesdays, some solo, some conversations with guests.  ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[There are moments…… and maybe you've felt them…. where you look at your life and think: this is fine, but fine isn't enough anymore. I've had those moments too. More than once, honestly. Hi, I'm Tonya Shankle. I'm a therapist, a coach, and I like to refer to myself as a therapist with a journal and a passport. I've navigated my own transitions, done my own hard work, and I'm still in the middle of becoming…..just like you might be. This show is for the person who has done all the right things...]]></itunes:summary>
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