Almost exactly 11 months after our family experienced the heartbreaking loss of our second grandbaby, my third granddaughter, Teegan, was born. After a high-risk pregnancy filled with worry, fear, prayers, and memories of what we'd been through before, the moment she arrived felt like the complete opposite end of the spectrum.

In this episode, I tell you the story of the days leading up to Teegan's birth, the long hours of wondering whether my daughter, Hannah, was actually in labor, and the moment everything changed. I share what it was like to stand beside my daughter through her C-section, watch my granddaughter take her first breaths, and hold her for the first time.

And yes... I cried. A LOT.

I also talk about watching Hannah and Teegan's dad step into parenthood again, how much they've grown since becoming parents at 17, and why watching them raise their beautiful girls is one of the greatest blessings of my life.

This episode is about grief, answered prayers, motherhood, grandmotherhood, family, and the overwhelming gratitude that comes when something you've prayed so hard for finally arrives.

Welcome to the world, sweet Teegan. ♥️

Thank you for listening to another completely unedited 10 minutes of my time... which somehow turned into almost 20.

Love you guys. ♥️

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After a four-week hiatus, I am finally back behind the microphone—and WOW, what a four weeks it has been!

In this episode, I catch you up on where I've been and why I've been away. I had a hysterectomy, which meant going from perimenopause to menopause basically overnight, and let me tell you… recovery has been one of the strangest experiences of my life.

I'm sharing what those first four weeks really looked like—the surgery, the pain (and the pain medicine 😂), the exhaustion, the brain fog, hot flashes, hormones, and the frustrating realization that even when you think you're ready to get back to normal, your body may have other plans.

But there have also been so many blessings tucked into these past few weeks, and I'm incredibly grateful for the doctors, nurses, family, friends, prayers, and people who have cared for me along the way.

And just when I thought I was finally ready to get back to the podcast… my daughter had a baby! ❤️

So this is just Part One of my comeback. Tomorrow, we're talking about THAT story—and trust me, you're going to want to hear it.

Thank you for sticking with me, supporting me, and praying for me while I was away. I have missed you guys more than you know.

I'm back. ♥️

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Today's episode began with a beautiful letter from my dear friend, Rebecca, sharing her own journey as an aunt. Her words stirred something in my heart and reminded me just how much my nieces and nephews have shaped my life. Being their aunt has been one of my greatest joys, and I hope they always know how deeply they are loved.

As I prepare for surgery tomorrow, this conversation naturally turned into one of gratitude—for family, for friendships, for prayers, and for the people who stand beside us through every season of life.

If you're blessed to be an aunt, uncle, parent, grandparent, or simply someone who loves a child with your whole heart, I hope this episode reminds you to never take those relationships for granted.

Thank you for spending these 10 unedited minutes with me. Your prayers and encouragement mean more than words can say. Until next time...remember, life isn't perfect, but it's beautiful. ♥️

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Maybe it's a cousin, a best friend, a sibling, or someone who has quietly stood by your side through every season of life.

In today's episode, I share a heartfelt letter my friend Rebecca wrote to her cousin Amanda. As I read her words, I couldn't help but reflect on my own cousin Amanda and the countless ways she's been a source of strength, encouragement, and unwavering support throughout my life.

This episode is a reminder to pause, appreciate the people who carry us through life's highs and lows, and maybe even let them know just how much they mean to us.

Who's the Amanda in your life? ♥️

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They're just...Mondays.

This episode is part of my 28 Love Letters series, proudly sponsored by my dear friend, Rebecca Conklin-Klieboemer. Rebecca spent the month of February writing a love letter every single day, and this series is my way of carrying that same spirit of encouragement, gratitude, and genuine connection forward. I'm so grateful for her generosity in making these conversations possible.

In today's unedited ten minutes, I'm sharing a little bit of everything—my granddaughter's latest adventures, a look ahead at the week, and a few random thoughts that were on my mind as another week begins.

Life isn't always polished, and neither is this podcast. Sometimes it's simply about sitting down with a cup of coffee and catching up like old friends.

As I wrap up today's episode, I also share about an upcoming surgery and ask for your prayers. Your encouragement, friendship, and support mean more to me than you know, and I'd truly appreciate you keeping me in your prayers in the days ahead.

If you've ever needed a quiet conversation and a reminder that ordinary days still matter, this episode is for you.

♥️ Thanks for spending ten unedited minutes with me.

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In today's episode, I share a handwritten letter from my dear friend, Rebecca, that challenged me to choose kindness, extend grace, and remember that every person we meet has a story we may never fully understand.

Her words led me to reflect on a few recent experiences that reminded me just how quick we can be to judge—and how much our world needs people who choose compassion instead.

Join me for ten unedited minutes as we talk about giving others the benefit of the doubt, leading with grace, and discovering how even the smallest acts of kindness can leave a lasting impact.

♥️ Thanks for spending ten unedited minutes with me today. If this episode encouraged you, I hope you'll share it with someone who could use the reminder.

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Written years ago by my dear friend Rebecca Conklin-Kleibomer, it's a reminder that before we pour into everyone else, we have to take care of ourselves. Her words challenged me to ask an important question: What would I say if I wrote myself a love letter?

That message became even more meaningful after I missed yesterday's podcast because of a chronic migraine. I share what migraines really feel like, why they're so much more than "just a headache," and how learning to listen to my body has been an important part of taking care of myself.

It's a conversation about grace, invisible battles, self-compassion, and remembering to fill our own tanks before trying to fill everyone else's.

I hope today's episode encourages you to pause, show yourself a little kindness, and maybe even write your own love letter.

♥️ Marlena

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What started as a simple Route 66 dream is beginning to take on a life of its own.

What if, for a special series, this podcast hit the road? What if I traveled Route 66, stopped in small towns, highlighted local businesses, shared their stories, and invited you along for the adventure? It's still just an idea—but sometimes the best dreams begin by simply saying them out loud.

I also read another beautiful letter from my dear friend Rebecca Conklin Kleibomer as part of her 60-episode sponsorship series, reflecting on her love for the Toledo Opera and the impact one person can have on a community.

This episode is about dreaming big, celebrating small businesses, believing in rural America, and having the courage to share an idea before you know exactly how it's going to happen.

Maybe this is the beginning of something really special.

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This weekend, God answered that question for me in a way I never expected.

Through two completely different conversations, I was reminded that sometimes we never truly know how our words, our kindness, or even a simple podcast can impact someone else's life. It was one of those moments where I couldn't help but stop and say, "Okay, God...I hear You."

In today's 10 unedited minutes, I'm sharing those unexpected encounters, why they meant so much to me, and how they reminded me that God often uses ordinary people in extraordinary ways.

Maybe you've been wondering if your own efforts matter. I hope today's episode encourages you the way this weekend encouraged me.

Thanks for spending 10 unedited minutes with me.

♥️ Marlena

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A heartfelt thank you to Rebecca Conklin-Klieboemer for sponsoring this special 60-day series of 10 Unedited Minutes of Marlena's Time. Your generosity helps keep these conversations going and allows stories of faith, hope, and encouragement to reach listeners around the world.

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Today I share another beautiful letter from my dear friend Rebecca, this time honoring the intervention specialist who helped shape her son's early school years with patience, compassion, and unwavering encouragement.

That simple act of gratitude leads us into a conversation about remarkable teachers, a memorable evening spent sharing dinner with our new parish priest, and why I believe hope for the next generation may be stronger than we sometimes realize.

Sometimes the best conversations aren't planned—they simply unfold one thought at a time.

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In today's episode, I share the story behind "Beastie Day," a tradition that celebrates one of the most meaningful friendships in my life. Inspired by a beautiful love letter from today's sponsor, I'm reflecting on the people who walk beside us through every season—the friends who know our stories, cheer us on, and remind us that distance and time don't have to weaken genuine connection.

If you've ever been blessed with a lifelong friend, I hope this episode reminds you just how precious those relationships really are.

Today's Sponsor: Rebecca Conklin-Klieboemer. Thank you for supporting 10 Unedited Minutes with Marlena and helping keep these conversations going. ♥️

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In this episode, I reflect on what it feels like to see yourself through someone else's eyes, share the hilarious story behind Rebecca's infamous "cow tongue" comment, and talk about why the people we surround ourselves with can change the direction of our lives.

I also share my first impressions of Empty Your Backpack by Sam Demma, a book that's reminding me how important it is to invest in relationships that encourage, challenge, and inspire us.

Sometimes the greatest gift isn't advice...it's having someone who truly sees the best in you.

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Today begins with another beautiful letter from my dear friend Rebecca, whose words have been inspiring this special sponsored series. As I reflected on her message, I couldn't help but think about a conversation I had earlier today with a young couple looking for parenting advice.

Funny how life works that way.

A letter written years ago and a simple conversation today somehow found each other, leading me to think about what we leave behind, the people we shape, and how our perspective changes with time.

This episode is about legacy, family, and one of the greatest blessings that often isn't fully understood until years later.

I hope it gives you something to think about.

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Today I continue sharing another one of Rebecca Conklin Klieboemer's beautiful "love letters" from February 2017. This one was written to her sister, Melissa, and as I read it aloud, I realized something that had somehow escaped me all these years—we both have sisters named Melissa.

That simple realization opened the door to memories of my own sister, who passed away after years of struggling with mental illness. I found myself remembering who she was before life became so difficult, wondering what she might have been like today, and feeling grateful for the time we did have together.

I also share a simple moment from my weekend that reminded me how much life has changed. Floating peacefully in the pool, talking with God, and reflecting on His faithfulness, I realized just how far I've come from a season of constant stress and worry. Sometimes healing isn't loud. Sometimes it looks like quiet gratitude, peaceful moments, and trusting God with the things we can't control.

Thank you for spending a few unedited minutes with me today.

If this episode encourages you, please consider following the podcast, sharing it with a friend, or leaving a review. Your support means more than you know.

♥️ This episode is proudly sponsored by Rebecca Conklin Klieboemer, whose generosity helps keep 10 Unedited Minutes with Marlena on the air.

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Today begins with another beautiful love letter from my dear friend Rebecca—a reminder of the incredible impact one person can have on another—before taking an unexpected turn through everyday life. From witnessing a frightening moment at the local pool, to an incredibly kind cashier at Meijer, to reflecting on social media, today's conversation is a reminder that every interaction matters. And because life always has a way of keeping things interesting, I also share the story of the tiny mouse that decided to move into our house overnight.

If today's episode leaves you with one takeaway, let it be this:

Kindness costs nothing...but it can mean everything to someone else.

Thank you to Rebecca for sponsoring this special podcast series and believing in this little dream. Your friendship, encouragement, and unwavering belief in this podcast continue to inspire me every single day.

As always, thank you for spending 10 unedited minutes with me. Until next time...choose kindness.

♥️

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In this episode, I share another one of Rebecca's beautiful February Love Letters before reflecting on the small moments that often make the biggest impact. In a world where anger, division, and negativity seem louder than ever, maybe the greatest thing we can do is intentionally choose kindness.

Sometimes a smile...
Sometimes a conversation...
Sometimes simply slowing down long enough to truly see another person...

Those moments matter more than we realize.

If today's episode encourages you, I'd love for you to share it with someone who could use a reminder that kindness still has the power to change lives.

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Today's episode begins with another beautiful letter from Rebecca's "Love Letter Project"—this one written to her father during his recovery from heart surgery. It's a heartfelt reminder of how love is often found in ordinary moments and lifelong memories.

From there, I reflect on something very personal. Yesterday marked one year since I publicly announced the closing of The Dough Hook Meat Market. Looking back over the past 365 days, I realized just how much has changed—not only in my life, but in me.

Sometimes we carry burdens for so long that they begin to feel normal. We don't realize how heavy they are until we finally set them down.

In this episode, I share what I've learned about letting go, finding peace, strengthening my faith, spending time with family, and discovering that some endings quietly make room for a better beginning.

If you've ever walked away from something you poured your heart into, I hope this conversation reminds you that healing often comes one day—and one decision—at a time.

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Several years ago, my dear friend Rebecca began a simple but extraordinary project: she spent the entire month of February writing daily love letters to people who had impacted her life. Those posts became a beautiful reminder of the power of gratitude, encouragement, and speaking kindness out loud.

When Rebecca generously chose to sponsor this podcast, I knew I wanted to honor her in a meaningful way. So today begins a brand-new series.

For the next 28 episodes, I'll be revisiting Rebecca's original February Love Letters—sharing them with you one by one and reflecting on the incredible impact they've had on my own life.

Sometimes the smallest acts of kindness become the memories we carry forever.

If today's episode encourages you, consider writing a letter, sending a text, or simply telling someone how much they mean to you. You never know how much those words might matter.

Thank you for listening, and thank you, Rebecca, for reminding us that love is something worth sharing every single day.

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Today's episode is one of them.

Mental health isn't something I've ever felt completely comfortable talking about—not because it isn't important, but because I've always worried about saying the wrong thing. Instead of waiting until I had all the answers, I decided to simply be honest.

In this episode, I share why these conversations can feel so difficult, how they've changed over the years, and why sometimes the most meaningful thing we can do is simply check in on someone we care about.

I'm still learning how to talk about mental health...and maybe that's exactly where the conversation begins.

If today's episode encourages you to reach out to one person, ask one sincere question, or remind someone they aren't alone, then these ten unedited minutes were worth it.

Thank you for spending a few minutes with me today.

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After recording most of the episode, my granddaughter had other plans, my daughter walked in, and I realized life was reminding me exactly why this is called 10 Unedited Minutes of Marlena's Time.

Today I'm sharing a little about our unexpected weekend, my daughter's return trip to the hospital, meeting our new priest, celebrating an exciting milestone of more than 1,000 podcast downloads, and why I believe God placed this podcast on my heart in the first place.

Sometimes the interruptions become the story.

As always...thank you for spending a few unedited minutes with me.

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I'm sharing a memory of my dear friend Rebecca taking me to the home where she grew up and introducing me to her parents. It was such a simple afternoon, but one I'll always treasure because she invited me into a very special part of her story.

Then we catch up on where I've disappeared to for the last few days.

I've been spending my time at The Ohio State University Wexner Medical Center with my pregnant daughter after a frightening hospital stay. While the doctors still don't have all the answers about what caused her bleeding, they were able to rule out the most serious possibilities, and for that, our family is incredibly grateful.

I also wanted to take a few minutes to recognize the amazing physicians, nurses, and staff at OSU Wexner. Their compassion, professionalism, and exceptional care turned a very scary experience into one where we felt informed, supported, and genuinely cared for every step of the way.

Now that we're finally home, it's time to dust off the to-do list that's been patiently waiting for three days and get life moving again.

Sometimes life puts everything on pause, and all you can do is be present, trust the people caring for the ones you love, and count your blessings.

I hope you'll join me for another unedited ten minutes of life, gratitude, and whatever happens to be on my mind today.

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My daughter, who is in the middle of a high-risk pregnancy, had a bleeding scare, and was on her way to pick me up so we could head to the hospital. We both expected a quick checkup, some reassurance, and a trip back home. Instead, she was transferred by ambulance to the High-Risk OB team at Ohio State.

As I followed the ambulance down the highway, I found myself channeling one of my favorite people—Rebecca. Let's just say her legendary road-rage spirit came in handy when another driver thought it was a good idea to attempt to cut in front of the ambulance carrying my daughter!

Thankfully, this story has a happy ending. Mom and baby are doing well; we made it home safely, and I'm incredibly grateful.

But after a day like today, I found myself staring at a to-do list that never had a chance. So the question became...do I push through tonight, or do I give myself permission to rest and start again tomorrow?

Sometimes life reminds us that our plans aren't always the most important thing on the calendar.

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You blink, it's late afternoon, and you can't shake the feeling that you've been physically present all day but mentally somewhere else. Today was one of those days for me. I seriously considered saying, "Forget it," skipping the podcast, and calling it a day.

Instead, I hit record.

Today's Rebecca memory is exactly what you'd expect—our shared appreciation for the versatility of one particular four-letter word. If there's a funny video involving the word "fuck," chances are one of us is sending it to the other within minutes. Sometimes laughter really is the best therapy.

From there, I talk about something much deeper: showing up even when you don't feel like it. My gratitude jar reminded me how thankful I am for the home my husband and I have built together, especially after we spent an evening watching the FIFA Club World Cup projected onto the side of our house. It was such a simple moment, but one that reminded me how easy it is to overlook the good things when we're stuck in our own heads.

This episode is a reminder that motivation comes and goes, but commitment is a choice. I didn't want to record today... but I did it anyway. And somewhere between pressing "Record" and "Stop," I found the part of myself I'd been missing all day.

Maybe today is one of those days for you, too.

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Then I take you camping with me to Van Buren State Park. My husband and I hadn't been there in over a decade, and I was blown away by the transformation. What was once mostly stone campsites has become one of the prettiest campgrounds I've visited, complete with paved roads, beautiful grass, mature trees, and concrete patio pads at every campsite. It's definitely earned a spot on my "I'll be back" list.

Finally, I share a dream that's been growing in my mind ever since falling down the Route 66 rabbit hole. What if someone sponsored the podcast so I could take 10 Unedited Minutes of Marlena's Time on the road? Imagine following historic Route 66, meeting incredible people, discovering hidden gems, and sharing the adventure one unedited episode at a time.

Sometimes the best adventures begin with a simple idea...and maybe this is one of them.

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Then we trade newspaper deadlines for country roads.

I share the story of a much-needed day spent exploring Ohio with my best friend. From visiting Grandpa's Cheese Barn to stopping at an Amish nonprofit grocery store that supports women choosing a different path in life, to wandering back roads in search of roadside produce stands, it was one of those simple, unhurried days that reminds you how refreshing it is to slow down.

Sometimes the best adventures aren't planned. They're found somewhere between good conversation, winding roads, and making memories with the people who make life better.

I hope you'll come along for the ride.

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Then I share why yesterday's episode never happened.

Instead, I found myself in the emergency room with acute chest pain that radiated into my back and shoulder. Thankfully, I'm home today, but the experience left me with a lot to think about.

I spend a few minutes venting my frustration with healthcare before arriving at a realization that surprised even me. I don't think my frustration is really with doctors. I think it's with a system where the business side of medicine often seems to overshadow the care side. Doctors are expected to balance policies, paperwork, productivity, and people—and somewhere in the middle, patients can feel like they're just another appointment on the schedule.

It's an honest, unedited conversation about fear, frustration, compassion, and trying to see the bigger picture...all after one unforgettable splinter story.

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Today's memory takes me back to one of Rebecca's incredible acts of generosity. As she cleaned out her closet, she invited me to "shop" through clothes that no longer fit her style. If you know Rebecca, you know she has amazing taste, and at a time when I desperately needed to refresh my wardrobe, her kindness couldn't have come at a better moment. What started as a closet cleanout became a reminder that generosity doesn't always come wrapped in a box.

I also share today's entry in my Daily Gratitude Jar, celebrating another person who has made a lasting impact on my life.

Then we celebrate a milestone together—50 episodes! I'm blown away that listeners have found this little podcast not only across the United States, but in places like Australia, Mexico, and Africa. Thank you for spending a few minutes of your day with me.

Finally, I give a candid update on my health journey and the emotional ups and downs that have defined this year. Just when I feel ready to move forward, life seems to throw another curveball. Through it all, this podcast has become more than a creative outlet—it's become part of my healing. Choosing gratitude every day hasn't changed my circumstances overnight, but it has changed me.

Thank you for being here for Episode 50. Here's to finding joy, one memory and one grateful heart at a time.

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Every morning, she'd spend 10–15 minutes writing down ten things she was thankful for. They weren't extravagant blessings or lottery winnings. They were simple gifts—a warm shower, a comfortable pillow, a meal on the table, another sunrise.

Somewhere along the way, I stopped doing it.

Then yesterday, my mom—who has always been my biggest cheerleader and truly my best friend—sent me a devotional with a simple message: "This made me think of you this morning." It couldn't have arrived at a better time.

The devotional reminded me that God's provision isn't always financial. Sometimes He provides strength when you're exhausted, wisdom when you're confused, a conversation you didn't know you needed, an idea that changes everything, or peace in the middle of chaos. His resources show up in countless ways if we're willing to notice them.

As I reflected on those words, I couldn't help but think about the gratitude practice Rebecca taught me years ago. It all came full circle.

Today I'm sharing Rebecca's lesson, my mom's thoughtful message, and why I believe gratitude doesn't just change your attitude—it changes what you're able to see.

I've decided to start a gratitude jar on my desk. Every day I'll write down one blessing and place it inside. My hope is that by the end of the year, I'll have hundreds of reminders that God has been providing all along.

And I'd love for you to join me.

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I started by sharing another memory about my wonderful sponsor, Rebecca. Years ago, when my daughter spent what felt like endless days in the hospital as a toddler, Rebecca was one of the people who carried me through that season. She didn't just help herself—she asked her family to step in, too. Her sister would pick me up from the hospital so I could run errands, breathe for a little while, and remember there was still a world outside those hospital walls.

And then there were the chicken fajitas.

Rebecca made them for me one afternoon, and to this day, every single time I make chicken fajitas, I think of her. Funny how love has a way of attaching itself to the simplest things.

From there, the conversation took a sharp turn into my thoughts after watching the Netflix documentary Maternal Instinct. It left me wrestling with some difficult questions about evil, forgiveness, grace, and whether someone who spends a lifetime living a lie can truly find God's forgiveness. They're heavy questions, and I don't pretend to have all the answers—but they're worth talking about.

Oh...and because this really is 10 Unedited Minutes of Marlena's Time, I also confessed that I somehow forgot to hit "record" on my camera. 🤦‍♀️ So if you're watching on YouTube, you'll only catch the second half of today's episode!

To top it all off, I was absolutely exhausted after spending the day preparing food for a friend's gathering. I realized I haven't felt this tired since my days at The Dough Hook. If you've ever wondered what happens when memories, faith, documentaries, technical mishaps, and sheer exhaustion collide...this episode is for you.

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Picture this: We drove two hours to a huge purse sale only to discover a line so long we'd have to wait four hours just to get inside. Nope. Not happening! 😂

Instead, we did what good friends do—we pivoted. We wandered through a thrift store, grabbed something to eat, laughed, talked, and simply enjoyed each other's company. Looking back, I wouldn't trade that day for all the discounted purses in the world. Sometimes the best memories are made when the original plan falls apart.

Then...I climb up on my soapbox.

After seeing someone publicly tear down a brand-new local small business on social media, I couldn't stay quiet. As someone who spent twelve years owning a small business, I can promise you this: the owner already knows every mistake that's been made. They're already carrying the weight. What they probably need today isn't another public criticism—they need a little grace and encouragement.

I know the sleepless nights, the financial stress, the sacrifices, and the emotional investment that go into opening those doors every single day. Small business owners don't just invest their money—they invest their hearts.

Here's my challenge: Before leaving a negative comment online, remember there's a real person behind that business. Someone who is doing everything they can to keep their dream alive.

Better yet, think of a local small business you love. Leave them a five-star review. Comment on one of their Facebook posts. Share one of their posts with your friends. Those simple acts of kindness can reach far more people than you realize, and they can mean the world to the owner.

We all have enough critics in this world. Let's become someone's encourager instead.

Thanks for spending 10 unedited minutes with me today. ❤️

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I'm sharing Part 1 of a two-part Rebecca memory about the time I nearly scared the life out of her during a road trip to Fort Wayne, Indiana. Why? Because I was determined to get to Indiana "first." It made perfect sense in my head at the time...you'll have to decide if you agree after hearing the story. 😂

Then this episode takes an unexpected turn.

What started as a simple conversation about moving to the UK somehow transformed into a deep discussion about what I actually want my life to look like two years from now. It wasn't really about England at all. It was about discovering that what I'm truly chasing isn't a different country—it's a more peaceful life.

Sometimes the best conversations are the ones that end somewhere completely different than where they began.

Oh...and despite the name of the podcast, this one clocked in at about 20 unedited minutes. Apparently, I had a lot on my mind.

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My dear friend and podcast sponsor, Rebecca, is celebrating another trip around the sun, and I spent a few minutes reflecting on what a gift her friendship has been in my life. Recently, she called me while driving home from a long road trip with her son—not because she needed anything, but simply because she was tired and wanted someone to talk to. Of all the people she could have called, she called me. There's something incredibly special about having a friend who knows she can pick up the phone at any time, and you'll be there.

Then, because this podcast is unedited and life happens, I shift gears and tell the story of my recent fall. If you've been following along, you know this skinned knee has become the main character of my week. I share exactly how it happened, the embarrassing details, and how one unexpected tumble managed to derail far more than I ever expected.

So today we're talking about friendship, gratitude, birthdays, concrete sidewalks, and the reality that sometimes life can be both meaningful and painful all at the same time.

Welcome to another unedited ten minutes.

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Years ago, after exhausting my FMLA leave while caring for my daughter during a long illness, I lost my job at the newspaper where Rebecca and I worked together. While it was a difficult season, what I remember most isn't the loss of the job—it's the friend who walked beside me as I left. Rebecca's quiet act of loyalty and steadfast friendship became one of the most meaningful memories of our relationship.

From there, I share highlights from a wonderful weekend: attending the Bluffton Festival of Wheels from a completely different perspective than I had as a business owner, enjoying a Father's Day cookout with family, and reflecting on the joy that comes from simply being present with the people we love.

I also tell the story of a less-than-graceful tumble after Mass on Sunday morning that left my knee—and my pride—a little worse for wear. 😜

It's a gloomy, rainy Monday, but this episode was exactly what I needed. Sometimes all it takes is getting out of bed, showing up, and taking that first step into the day.

Thanks for spending 10 unedited minutes with me.

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I begin with today's Rebecca memory—a story from our days working together during a historic flooding event. Overwhelmed, exhausted, and unable to make it to church on Ash Wednesday, Rebecca found herself having a moment in the workplace bathroom. As fate would have it, I walked in at exactly the right time. What happened next involved a little friendship, a little faith, and one very unconventional sharing of ashes that still makes us laugh all these years later.

From there, I somehow wander through today's to-do list, my newfound fascination with drones after watching Bluffton's incredible drone show, and our family's plans to celebrate Father's Day this weekend.

Was there a clear path connecting all of these topics? Not really.

Was it ten completely unedited minutes from inside my brain? Absolutely.

Thanks for coming along for the ride.

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In today's episode, I share another memory from my friendship with Rebecca and tell the story of the moment I knew she was someone I could trust. It was one of those moments that quietly revealed the kind of friend she would become: loyal, honest, and genuine. Looking back now, it's easy to see how that small moment helped lay the foundation for a friendship that has blessed my life for years.

Then we take a sharp turn from friendship to sleep (because that's how this podcast works!) as I recap a recent Mel Robbins podcast that offered seven practical tips for getting a better night's sleep. If you've ever laid awake replaying conversations, making tomorrow's to-do list in your head, or wondering why you're still tired after eight hours in bed, you'll want to hear these simple but powerful suggestions.

So grab your coffee...or maybe don't if you're trying to sleep better...and join me for ten unedited minutes of friendship, laughter, life lessons, and a few ideas that might help you wake up feeling more rested tomorrow.

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DIET COKE!!!

If you know, you know. And if you don't, you'll have to listen.

After sharing another favorite memory of my dear friend Rebecca, I ramble through my morning at Mass, a visit with the homebound, and the unexpected challenge of trying to keep my eye makeup intact. With Father preparing to leave, I find myself getting emotional during nearly every service. Over the years, I've grown incredibly attached to the priests I cook for each day. Food has always been my love language, and saying goodbye never gets easier.

The conversation also brings back memories of another beloved priest who became a dear friend before moving on to his next assignment—a reminder that some of the most meaningful relationships enter our lives for a season, but leave a lasting impact.

This episode is a little funny, a little sentimental, and a reminder that one of the best ways to lift your own spirits is to go out and do something kind for someone else.

So today, share a smile, lend a hand, say a prayer, or simply be present for someone who needs it. I think you'll be glad you did.

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Rebecca has generously sponsored the next two months of podcast episodes, and to honor her friendship, I'll be starting each episode with a sweet, funny, or meaningful memory we've shared over the years.

For this first installment, I'm taking you back to where it all began: The Courier in Findlay. Rebecca worked in the newsroom, and I worked in the pre-press department. One afternoon she came over to check on some pages, we struck up a conversation, and something clicked immediately. I remember thinking, "Yep, we need to be friends."

What started as a workplace acquaintance blossomed into one of the most treasured friendships of my life. Though miles separate us these days, our long-distance friendship remains one of my greatest blessings.

Join me as I share the story of how we met, how our friendship grew, and why Rebecca is so deserving of 60 days of celebration.

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No endless scrolling. No rushing from one commitment to the next. Just time together.

This weekend, my family enjoyed a camping trip that was gifted to us by Mom and Dad for Christmas, and what I thought would be a fun getaway became a powerful reminder of what matters most. We fished, made crafts, cooked over the fire, shared stories, laughed until our sides hurt, and simply enjoyed being together.

In a world that constantly demands our attention, being intentional about family doesn't happen by accident—it happens by choice.

In today's episode, I share some of the special moments from our weekend and why I believe the greatest gift we can give the people we love isn't money, possessions, or even experiences. It's our presence.

This episode might just inspire you to put down your phone, gather your family, and make some memories of your own.

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I share my excitement for a long-awaited weekend with family, but also the sadness of missing a special farewell dinner for a priest who has been an important part of my daily life. Caring for the three priests I cook for each day has become much more than a job—it's been a blessing and a relationship I'll always cherish.

Along the way, I reflect on gratitude, God's faithfulness, and some of the ways He's been working in my life lately. Sometimes joy and sadness show up at the same time, and this episode is a reminder to appreciate both the people and the moments God places in our path.

Grab a cup of coffee and join me for a few minutes of heartfelt conversation.

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As my daughter enters her seventh month of pregnancy, I've found myself right there beside her through the excitement, planning, worrying, and anticipation. At this point, I'm joking that I'm seven months pregnant too.

Then I watched Netflix's "The Plastic Detox."

What I thought would be a documentary about reducing plastic use turned into something much bigger. The film explored the possible connection between everyday plastics and infertility, following couples who were struggling to conceive. The results surprised me and raised questions I hadn't considered before.

This topic hit close to home because my husband and I faced infertility challenges early in our marriage. Watching the documentary brought back memories of that journey and gave me a new perspective on the challenges many couples face today.

Join me as I share a little about life with a pregnant daughter, my own experience with infertility, and the eye-opening documentary that had me thinking long after the credits rolled.

Grab a cup of coffee and let's chat.

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When asked what helped her through difficult times, Marvel answered, "Being thankful for what I have." Later, after being warned that cancer treatments could be painful, her response was simply, "So what."

Those two quotes reveal a life built on gratitude, faith, and the unwavering belief that God would provide the strength needed for whatever came her way. In this episode, I reflect on Marvel's remarkable outlook, what we can learn from her example, and how her words challenge us to face life's struggles with courage and trust in the Lord.

Sometimes the greatest lessons come from ordinary people living extraordinary lives of faith. Marvel Hilty was one of those people.

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From there, the conversation took an unexpected turn into the world of artificial intelligence. After spending the weekend watching documentaries, I found myself fascinated by a film that explored both sides of the AI debate. Is AI a dangerous technology that could harm society, or is it a powerful tool that could improve lives and solve some of our biggest challenges?

Join me as I share my thoughts on criticism, staying focused on your purpose, and the growing conversation surrounding AI. As usual, this episode is an honest, unscripted journey wherever the conversation decides to go.

#Podcast #ArtificialIntelligence #AI #Motivation #PersonalGrowth

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Before recording today's episode, I prayed and asked God what He wanted me to talk about. Almost immediately, my mind went back to a video I had watched of Jelly Roll performing at the CMA Awards. In the clip, he shared how he once sat next door in a juvenile detention facility dreaming of simply attending the CMA Awards someday. Years later, he wasn't sitting in the audience—he was standing on the stage performing.

Today, I talk about the incredible transformation of Jelly Roll's life, the power of God's mercy and forgiveness, and why I admire the way he openly gives glory to Jesus. His story is proof that our past doesn't determine our future and that God can do far more with our lives than we could ever imagine.

If you've ever felt unworthy, stuck, or defined by your mistakes, this episode is a reminder that God's grace is bigger than your past.

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From there, the conversation wandered into some current news stories, including school closures due to extreme heat and the incredible story of a police officer who risked his own safety to pull a woman from a burning vehicle. That story reminded me of a tragic local accident and led me to reflect on the compassion, courage, and emotional strength required of our law enforcement officers and first responders every single day.

Sometimes the most meaningful conversations are the ones we never planned. Join me as I share thoughts on family, current events, and a heartfelt appreciation for the people who answer the call when others are facing their worst moments.

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In today's episode, I challenged myself to focus on the positive and find the blessings in everyday moments. I shared why there wasn't a podcast episode yesterday, as my day was spent taking my mom to an appointment, supporting my daughter and future granddaughter through a little pregnancy scare, and then simply enjoying an evening together.

One of the highlights of my day was watching my granddaughter run through a sprinkler for the very first time. The pure joy on her face reminded me how beautiful life's simple moments can be. As if that wasn't enough, I spent the evening getting snuggles from her, and my heart couldn't have been fuller.

I wrapped up the episode with a reminder we all need sometimes: when we get off track with our goals, we don't quit—we simply get back up and keep going. Progress isn't about perfection; it's about continuing forward.

Join me for a conversation about family, gratitude, living in the moment, and giving yourself grace when life interrupts your plans.

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As a mother, I cannot begin to comprehend the depth of their grief, but I felt called to share a story from one of Father's sermons given during the funeral of another young man whose life ended far too soon. In moments like these, we are reminded that life is precious, tomorrow is never promised, and every day is a gift.

While we may not understand God's plan or the reasons behind such heartbreaking losses, we can trust that He remains present in our sorrow, carrying us through the darkest valleys. Today, I reflect on faith, grief, Heaven, and the comfort that comes from knowing that God is always in control—even when our hearts are broken.

Please join me in praying for this family and all those whose lives have been forever changed by this tragedy.

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But as often happens, the conversation took a deeper turn. Inspired by Father's sermon on Sunday, I reflected on the sanctity of marriage, the importance of honoring God's design for relationships, and how my faith has been shaping the way I view the world around me.

That reflection led me to a personal decision: I've chosen to step away from reality dating and love-based television shows. While I know some people may find that surprising—or even think I'm strange for feeling this way—I share why I believe these programs often promote values that no longer align with my faith journey.

This episode is an honest conversation about convictions, growth, and being willing to stand by your beliefs even when they're not the popular opinion.

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Today's episode started with absolutely no agenda, no notes, and no idea what I was going to talk about. I simply turned on the microphone and started sharing whatever was on my heart. Somehow, that led me to tell the story of my sister and the small signs that have appeared since her passing more than 15 years ago.

From pennies with hearts on them to unexpected dimes showing up in the most unlikely places, I share some of the moments that have made me stop, smile, and feel connected to her all these years later.

Whether you believe these little occurrences are coincidences, reminders, or something more, this episode is a heartfelt reflection on love, loss, memory, and the ways the people we miss can continue to touch our lives long after they're gone.

Thank you for spending a few minutes with me today as I share a piece of my story.

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In today's episode, I share the story of a man on TikTok who was completely baffled after repeatedly seeing the number 22 in the strangest places—including on his microwave, which appeared to display 11:22 even though it was actually 1:15 in the afternoon! It sparked a conversation about signs from God, divine timing, and those moments that make us stop and wonder if something bigger is at work.

I also share a funny and unexpected update from yesterday's podcast. After talking about the possibility of selling products on TikTok Shop, I received a message from a company asking if I'd be interested in demonstrating one of their floor mop/vacuum products. Talk about timing!

Whether you believe in signs, coincidences, or a little bit of both, this episode is a lighthearted look at how God can show up in everyday moments and remind us that He's always working behind the scenes.

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I also chat a little about my plans for the day and throw a question out to all of you: does anyone have experience selling on TikTok Shop? I’m curious, eager to learn, and thinking about giving it a try! If you’ve explored that world before, I’d love to hear your advice and experiences.

This episode is a mix of faith, real life, gratitude, and curiosity for what’s next. Thank you for continuing to walk this journey with me. 💛

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I also touched on the heartbreaking reality of where much of our discarded clothing ends up — piling into landfills, oceans and even communities in third-world countries that are forced to live among mountains of waste created by the rest of the world.

This episode is passionate, a little chaotic (as usual 😂), and hopefully encouraging for anyone who loves to thrift, upcycle, recycle or simply shop more intentionally. Because sometimes buying secondhand isn’t just a hobby… it’s helping make a difference. 💛

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I reflected on the ways the Holy Spirit has moved in my life over the past year, especially through the emotional journey of deciding to sell The Dough Hook. In moments of uncertainty, fear, and transition, God has continued to provide, guide, and take care of me in ways I can’t ignore.

This episode is about faith, surrender, growth, and recognizing the quiet but powerful ways the Holy Spirit works in our lives every single day. ❤️

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Also…your girl is officially taking a two-day podcast break for a much-needed mental and technology reset. 🎤✌️ Sometimes unplugging is the healthiest thing we can do. See you after the weekend!

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BUT before technology betrayed me, we got deep into one of my favorite things ever: THRIFTING. From random finds to the thrill of discovering hidden gems, I could talk about thrifting for HOURS. I also introduced what might be my greatest idea yet — a thrifting penpal. Yes, I’m serious. Someone thrift with me spiritually from afar. Send pictures. Share finds. Hype each other up over vintage treasures and weirdly perfect home décor.

Chaos, glitches, and secondhand treasures…this episode has it all. 😂

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I talk about the importance of recognizing that stay-at-home moms are working just as hard and how valuable that role truly is. Then the episode naturally transitions into me spending the entire day with my daughters today and why those moments matter so much.

A little chaos, a little honesty, and a whole lot of appreciation for moms everywhere. ❤️

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Was it organized? Not exactly. Was it entertaining? Absolutely. 😂

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After surviving that adventure, I share the joy of attending the graduation ceremony at the career center where I substitute teach. It was such a special evening celebrating hardworking students stepping into their futures — including my nephew!

This episode is a little bit stress, a little bit pride, a lot of laughter, and a reminder that even the messiest days can still end with beautiful moments.

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I also pass along some meaningful advice from one of my favorite TikTok creators, Mike Malagies, on growing closer to God and strengthening your faith journey.

This episode is full of reflection, encouragement, gratitude, and reminders that even the smallest acts of love and kindness matter more than we realize. 💛

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Life is going to life sometimes, but our attitude really can change everything.

And truly… thank you to everyone who reached out to me yesterday. Your kindness meant more than you know.

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After disappearing for a day, I’m opening up about the emergency room visitsss that completely shook me and the women’s health news that followed. I’m scared, overwhelmed, emotional, and trying to work through it all while still showing up here with you.

There IS some really good news mixed into today’s episode too...because apparently life likes to hand us everything at once.

⚠️ Trigger Warning: Women’s health and medical discussion.

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In today’s completely unedited episode, I talk about learning to see the beauty God placed inside of you, the lengths we’ll go to for our children, and the indescribable love a grandma carries for her grandbabies. What started as a slow burn turned into one of the most heartfelt conversations yet — honest, emotional, relatable, and full of real life moments.

Just 10 minutes. No script. No filters. Just perspective, love, and a reminder that the smallest conversations sometimes leave the biggest impact.

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Today’s podcast is a little bit of everything and absolutely nothing all at once — getting ready, wasting time, trying to wake my brain up, and somehow stumbling into a few tiny life lessons along the way.

It’s real life, unfiltered morning chaos, random thoughts, and proof that sometimes the best conversations happen when you don’t really have a plan at all.

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And in true “real life” fashion…my granddaughter sat beside me through most of the recording until we had to pause mid-podcast to let her out of the room. 😂 But honestly? That interruption perfectly summed up the entire message of today’s episode: sometimes the most important things deserve our attention right in the middle of everything else.

This episode is heartfelt, honest, a little funny, and full of reminders that success means nothing if we miss the people and moments that matter most.

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Today’s episode is full of movie nostalgia, motherhood reflections, and a little “Miranda Priestly energy.” My husband took me to see The Devil Wears Prada 2 and let me tell you… the original movie has always been one of my absolute favorites! There’s just something about the confidence, drive, and passion that Miranda and Andy bring to the screen that always inspires me.

That inspiration somehow turned into a little “momming” lesson as I reflected on raising my daughter through her teenage years and the balance between pushing our kids, loving them fiercely, and helping them grow into confident adults.

It’s a fun, heartfelt Mother’s Day episode filled with movies, memories, motherhood, and real-life moments… just the way we like it around here. ❤️

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Today’s episode is a real-life conversation about navigating parenting through every stage…from little kid meltdowns to learning how to support older kids through difficult moments too. I also shared a really interesting tool I came across from the Occuplaytional Therapist Facebook page called The Green Wall Method — a simple idea to tuck away for those moments when a child is struggling to self-regulate.

Along the way, I also chatted about today’s ever-growing to-do list because, honestly, real life doesn’t pause while we try to parent well.

If you’ve ever felt like parenting is beautiful, exhausting, confusing, rewarding, and chaotic all at the same time…this episode is for you.

And a quick reminder — I’m still looking for a podcast sponsor! For just $25/month, you can help support the show and keep these everyday conversations going. ❤️

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I talked about my love for camping, tried to remember the southern Ohio state park that just added full hook-up campsites, shared stories about making cinnamon rolls with my granddaughter, and gave a little preview of a special upcoming episode diving into the beef industry and our food chain. That one’s going to take some extra research because I want my facts straight before I share my opinions.

Basically? Today was busy, chaotic, cozy, and very real life.

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I spent the night in the ER with my daughter, and I’d truly appreciate your prayers as we navigate this pregnancy. ❤️ In the middle of all that, I’m also sharing something important—I’m officially looking for a podcast sponsor. For just $25/month, you can help keep this show going as my Buzzsprout trial comes to an end.

And because life doesn’t pause for perfect recording conditions… my granddaughter makes a surprise appearance halfway through. 😂 Honestly, it doesn’t get more “real life” than that.

We also lighten things up with something unexpectedly brilliant—the newest Denali sled dog team and their adorable puppy cam (fair warning: you will get sucked in). It’s such a great example of organic, authentic marketing done right.

And can we talk about the National Park Service’s LinkedIn page? Whoever is running that deserves a standing ovation—funny, clever, and a masterclass in building a brand people actually want to follow.

This episode is messy, meaningful, a little interrupted—and exactly what life (and business) really looks like behind the scenes.

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Today’s quick 10-minute episode is basically me recapping the final showdown, running through the four finalists, and reacting to what’s next for each of them. Because honestly? Every single one of them could’ve walked away with the win.

We’re talking standout moments, future potential, and of course… the winner. 🏆

Was it the right call?
Did I agree?
Am I now emotionally invested in strangers’ comedy careers? Absolutely.

If you love stand-up, competition shows, or just listening to someone passionately spiral about TV—this one’s for you.

🎧 Short, spicy, and straight to the punchline.

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I’m diving headfirst into the science behind cookies (yes, we’re talking the why behind the perfect texture, flavor, and consistency) as I work on developing new recipes for my Etsy shop. Because if we’re going to do it… we’re going to do it right. 😉

But the real highlight? Celebrating a huge win—my daughter officially received her massage license and is stepping into her own business journey. Watching her build something of her own has me in full proud mom mode, and I had to share it with you.

And just to keep things interesting… I’m giving you a little teaser of what’s coming next: we’re about to dig into the beef industry in an upcoming episode, and I’ve got some thoughts.

This one’s about growth, curiosity, and building something meaningful—whether that’s in your kitchen, your business, or your life.

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I decided to mix things up and go live on TikTok while recording, which felt like a great idea… until it just threw me off. 🤦‍♀️ We'll try again tomorrow....

Somewhere in the middle of all that, I found myself having one of those full-circle mom moments—when my daughter called me for moral (and mental) support while navigating life with a strong-willed 3-year-old. And let me tell you… it felt like I was staring straight into a mirror of my past.

If you’ve ever raised—or are currently raising—a headstrong toddler, you’ll understand exactly what I mean. The sass, the independence, the why are you like this moments… all of it.

This episode may only be about 6 minutes long, but it’s packed with real-life chaos, a little humor, and one of those reminders that parenting has a funny way of coming full circle.

🎧 Quick listen. Real talk. Slight train wreck energy… but we’re rolling with it.

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I’m sharing the impact Father’s sermon had on me this morning and the thoughts that really stuck with me as I walked out of church. Then we shift into one of the sweetest moments of the day… my husband taking our granddaughter fishing for the very first time (and yes, it’s as wholesome as it sounds 🥹).

And to wrap it up, I’m leaning into what Sundays are really meant for—slowing down, being present, and spending intentional time with family.

This episode is simple, real, and a reminder that sometimes the most meaningful days aren’t the busiest—they’re the ones we actually feel.

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I opened up about something deeply personal—the stillbirth of my second granddaughter—and a moment that completely stopped us in our tracks. My daughter saw a cardinal yesterday… and in her heart, she knew it was her baby saying hello.

And yes… I cried. Like, real cried.

But here’s the part nobody talks about—life doesn’t pause for grief.
One minute you’re feeling something that deep… and the next? You’re laying in bed, doom scrolling social media like your brain just said, “nope, we’re not processing this today.”

That emotional back-and-forth? It’s real. It’s messy. And honestly… it’s kind of wild.

We round it out with a complete pivot—because of course we do—talking about thrifting with my daughter and ending the day at church.

Because somehow, in the same 24 hours, you can experience heartbreak, healing, distraction, connection… and yes, thrifting too.

This episode is raw, unfiltered, and a little all over the place—just like real life.

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A phone call hijacked my recording halfway through, my tech said “absolutely not,” and somehow I ended up sounding like a caffeinated chipmunk for a hot second.

Am I fixing it? Nope.
Do I have time for that? Also nope.

We’re embracing the chaos today, because honestly… this is what running a business really looks like sometimes.

Hit play if you’re here for the real, unfiltered version of entrepreneurship—glitches and all. 🎙️

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From there, I dive into something every business owner knows all too well: overwhelm. When your business is growing, busy, and demanding everything from you, it can feel like a lot…fast. But here’s the thing—feeling overwhelmed doesn’t mean you’re failing. It often means the opposite.

I’m sharing what that looks like for me right now, along with a few simple, practical ways I work through those overwhelming moments and get myself back on track.

Plus, I’m giving you a peek into what I’m working on today and what’s currently on my plate.

This one is unfiltered, honest, and probably a little too relatable.

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But we’re also getting into something that’s been on all of our minds…AI.

Let’s be honest—we’ve all got a bit of a love/hate relationship with it. It’s powerful, it’s fast, and sometimes it feels like it’s doing too much. But here’s the truth: AI isn’t here to replace you—it’s here to support you.

In this episode, I share why we need to stop resisting it (or relying on it too much) and start using it as the tool it was meant to be.

Because your ideas, your voice, and your vision?
Those are still the most important part of the equation.

If you’re building something, growing something, or just trying to figure it all out as you go—this one’s for you.
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I’m sharing an unexpected update from my substitute teaching journey and how I’ve started to find my groove specifically within career centers. It’s funny how the right environment can completely shift your perspective on something.

I also talk about the work I’ve been doing behind the scenes creating materials for my daughter’s massage practice, and it sparked a reminder that too many businesses overlook: your brand shouldn’t stop at your logo or your social media.

From intake forms to internal documents, every touchpoint is an opportunity to reinforce your identity and professionalism—and I’m breaking down why that matters more than you might think.

If you’re building something, pivoting, or just trying to figure out where you fit, this one’s for you.

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I talk about what it feels like to hit my first goal with this podcast: simply being present and pressing record. But more than that, I open up about the faith it’s taken to start Hook & Rise Creative… even when I don’t have the full picture.

This is about trusting the process, doing it anyway, and building something before you feel “ready.”

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No script, no plan… just hitting record and seeing what happens.

In this first episode, Marlena kicks off Ten UNEDITED Minutes of Marlena’s Time exactly how it was intended: real, off-the-cuff, and completely unfiltered. A little bit about why this podcast exists, a little bit of figuring it out in real time, and a whole lot of just starting before everything feels perfect.

If you’re someone who’s been overthinking starting something… this one’s for you.

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