Co-Active for Sport leaders Mon, 27 Apr 2026 13:58:20 -0400 https://coactiveforsportleaders.buzzsprout.com en-us © 2026 Co-Active for Sport leaders yes af7b9aa4-a5cf-5207-82be-f28def4675e9 Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective serial false Most coaches are excellent at developing athletes. Few have had space to look at who they are becoming as leaders. 


Co-Active for Sport Leaders brings Co-Active coaching frameworks to coaches and sport leaders across youth, college, and professional contexts.   


Hosted by Marc-André Maillet, Executive Coach. ACC, CPCC

]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) coaching, sports leadership, co-active coaching, sport leaders, leadership development, head coach, athletic performance, team culture, executive coaching, mental performance, coach development, being before doing Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective https://storage.buzzsprout.com/51lj2imof5o8zfru3vs2dq6g8pj2?.jpg Co-Active for Sport leaders Being and Doing Being and Doing Most of us know the feeling.

You pour yourself into something. You care deeply. You do the work. And somewhere along the way, you realize there is a quiet disconnection between who you are and what you are doing every day.

I know that feeling from the inside. I built a company called Beyond Pulse for seven years. The mission was real. I believed in it completely. And still, the distance between the why and the daily reality had me drifting without fully realizing it.

This episode is where the philosophy behind the whole series finally lands. Every tool we have explored so far, listening, the saboteur, all of it, flows from one idea. Being before doing. And the order matters.

We get into:

  • What the being actually is and why it lives in the body before the mind
  • The difference between leading from doing and leading from being
  • Why a twelve-year-old reads your energy before your words
  • Josete in Spain and what it means to stay yourself when the environment pulls hardest
  • Ken Lolla at Louisville and what being looks like at the highest level
  • Three questions that start the most important work a coach can do
  • Why you have to design your life to return to your being, again and again

The being shapes the doing. Not the other way around.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> Most of us know the feeling.

You pour yourself into something. You care deeply. You do the work. And somewhere along the way, you realize there is a quiet disconnection between who you are and what you are doing every day.

I know that feeling from the inside. I built a company called Beyond Pulse for seven years. The mission was real. I believed in it completely. And still, the distance between the why and the daily reality had me drifting without fully realizing it.

This episode is where the philosophy behind the whole series finally lands. Every tool we have explored so far, listening, the saboteur, all of it, flows from one idea. Being before doing. And the order matters.

We get into:

  • What the being actually is and why it lives in the body before the mind
  • The difference between leading from doing and leading from being
  • Why a twelve-year-old reads your energy before your words
  • Josete in Spain and what it means to stay yourself when the environment pulls hardest
  • Ken Lolla at Louisville and what being looks like at the highest level
  • Three questions that start the most important work a coach can do
  • Why you have to design your life to return to your being, again and again

The being shapes the doing. Not the other way around.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> https://www.acumencollective.co/blog/being-and-doing Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective Buzzsprout-19020940 Mon, 27 Apr 2026 13:00:00 -0400 1478 being, doing, leadership, presence, coach development, sport leaders, flow, identity, co-active, self-awareness, coaching education 1 4 full false The Saboteurs - The inner critics running your team The Saboteurs - The inner critics running your team I never thought I was running a critical inner voice. I was just moving too fast to hear it.

Then I went through Co-Active training. Hundreds of hours of coaches coaching coaches. You can't hide behind the theory when someone is always sitting across from you, paying attention. And somewhere in those sessions, I heard it. The saboteur. And everything changed.

In this episode, I walk through what the saboteur actually is, where it comes from, and how it is quietly running your locker room right now. We cover the Judge, the nine accomplice saboteurs, and what neuroscience tells us about why you cannot be fully present and in judgment at the same time.

We get into:

  • What the saboteur is and why it feels like the truth
  • The Judge and the three directions it points
  • The nine accomplice saboteurs and the ones most common in sport
  • How you are authoring your athletes' inner voice every single day
  • The Anson Dorrance approach to comparison and why transparency works
  • What this means for youth, elite, and professional athletes
  • And the question that rarely gets asked in coaching rooms: how are you actually doing?

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> I never thought I was running a critical inner voice. I was just moving too fast to hear it.

Then I went through Co-Active training. Hundreds of hours of coaches coaching coaches. You can't hide behind the theory when someone is always sitting across from you, paying attention. And somewhere in those sessions, I heard it. The saboteur. And everything changed.

In this episode, I walk through what the saboteur actually is, where it comes from, and how it is quietly running your locker room right now. We cover the Judge, the nine accomplice saboteurs, and what neuroscience tells us about why you cannot be fully present and in judgment at the same time.

We get into:

  • What the saboteur is and why it feels like the truth
  • The Judge and the three directions it points
  • The nine accomplice saboteurs and the ones most common in sport
  • How you are authoring your athletes' inner voice every single day
  • The Anson Dorrance approach to comparison and why transparency works
  • What this means for youth, elite, and professional athletes
  • And the question that rarely gets asked in coaching rooms: how are you actually doing?

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> https://www.acumencollective.co/blog/the-saboteurs-the-inner-critics-running-your-team Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective Buzzsprout-19014084 Tue, 14 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0400 2318 saboteur, inner critic, self-awareness, sport leaders, coaching, positive intelligence, mental performance, co-active, judge, coach wellbeing, coaching education 1 3 full false Are you really listening to your athletes? Are you really listening to your athletes? I never thought I was a bad listener. I just had no idea what real listening actually was.

For 30 years, I was at Stage 1 without knowing it. Unconsciously incompetent. You don't know what you don't know.

In this episode, I walk through the Co-Active framework that changed how I show up with athletes. Four stages of learning. Three levels of listening. And what it actually looks like on the ground with youth, college, and professional athletes.

We get into:

  • Why most coaches are stuck at Level 1 without knowing it
  • What Level 2 listening looks like in a real conversation with an athlete
  • How Level 3 changes everything -- what isn't being said matters as much as what is
  • Why the kid on the bench is carrying something, and what to do about it
  • What elite and professional athletes actually need from a coach

The athletes in front of you already have the answers. Your job is to listen at a level that lets them come forward.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> I never thought I was a bad listener. I just had no idea what real listening actually was.

For 30 years, I was at Stage 1 without knowing it. Unconsciously incompetent. You don't know what you don't know.

In this episode, I walk through the Co-Active framework that changed how I show up with athletes. Four stages of learning. Three levels of listening. And what it actually looks like on the ground with youth, college, and professional athletes.

We get into:

  • Why most coaches are stuck at Level 1 without knowing it
  • What Level 2 listening looks like in a real conversation with an athlete
  • How Level 3 changes everything -- what isn't being said matters as much as what is
  • Why the kid on the bench is carrying something, and what to do about it
  • What elite and professional athletes actually need from a coach

The athletes in front of you already have the answers. Your job is to listen at a level that lets them come forward.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> https://www.acumencollective.co/blog/are-you-really-listening-to-your-athletes Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective Buzzsprout-19007360 Mon, 13 Apr 2026 10:00:00 -0400 937 listening, coaching, athletes, sport leaders, co-active, communication, youth sports, elite athletes, coach development, sports coaching 1 2 full false Co-Active for Sport Leaders: Why Being Comes Before Doing Co-Active for Sport Leaders: Why Being Comes Before Doing Most sport leaders are trained to perform. To plan, execute, and deliver results. But somewhere between the scoreboard and the locker room, something gets lost -- the human doing the leading.

This is the first episode of Co-Active for Sport Leaders, a series that follows the Co-Active coaching model as a guide for sport leaders who want to lead from the inside out. Not just manage performance, but develop the person behind it.

In this episode, we introduce the core idea: Being before Doing. What it means to be grounded in who you are before deciding what you do. And why the best sport leaders aren't just tactically sharp -- they're deeply self-aware.

Whether you're a head coach, an athletic director, or a leader in sport who feels like something is missing, this series is for you.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> Most sport leaders are trained to perform. To plan, execute, and deliver results. But somewhere between the scoreboard and the locker room, something gets lost -- the human doing the leading.

This is the first episode of Co-Active for Sport Leaders, a series that follows the Co-Active coaching model as a guide for sport leaders who want to lead from the inside out. Not just manage performance, but develop the person behind it.

In this episode, we introduce the core idea: Being before Doing. What it means to be grounded in who you are before deciding what you do. And why the best sport leaders aren't just tactically sharp -- they're deeply self-aware.

Whether you're a head coach, an athletic director, or a leader in sport who feels like something is missing, this series is for you.

Connect with me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mamaillet/ 

If this resonates -- I work 1:1 with sport leaders who want to lead themselves first, so they can show up differently for the people they coach. 

Learn more at acumencollective.co

]]> https://www.acumencollective.co/blog/co-active-for-sport-leaders Marc-Andre Maillet - Acumen Collective Buzzsprout-18989630 Thu, 09 Apr 2026 15:00:00 -0400 455 co-active, sport leaders, coaching philosophy, coach development, leadership, being before doing, youth sport, elite sport, professional sport, coaching identity 1 1 full false