Growing Yet Grown Wed, 20 May 2026 12:05:14 -0400 https://youtube.com/@growingyetgrown?si=v2jDzHqkA31LQK7I en © 2026 Growing Yet Grown yes 43b12459-1328-5855-b9eb-324991de5acb Doyin & Simone episodic false Growing Yet Grown is a podcast hosted by two friends in their 30s. We explore the reality of growing after you’re already grown - careers evolving, relationships changing, money decisions getting heavier, identities shifting, and expectations colliding with real life.

Each episode is a candid, thoughtful conversation about the choices and tensions that define modern adulthood - no easy answers, just honest reflection, lived experience, and practical insight.

This podcast is for anyone who knows that adulthood isn’t a finish line - it’s a phase of continuous growth, questioning, and becoming.


]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Doyin & Simone https://storage.buzzsprout.com/oh9ck0e2e5dnkvdrg2oicl6xcwul?.jpg Growing Yet Grown https://youtube.com/@growingyetgrown?si=v2jDzHqkA31LQK7I The New Reality of Modern Marriages - Breadwinner Wives, Stay-At-Home Dads & More The New Reality of Modern Marriages - Breadwinner Wives, Stay-At-Home Dads & More Many women are now earning more than ever, and this is causing a shift in traditional marriage roles.  Even while this is  happening, so many couples still hold on to old expectations. 

What happens when the breadwinner is the woman? And how do stay-at-home dads challenge the norms? 

In this episode, We have an honest conversation about these dynamics in households, and how they are reshaping marriages today. 

We delve deeper into decades-old stereotypes around gender, money, and power in marriage. From eye-opening data: 16% of US marriages now have women as the primary breadwinners, and stay-at-home dads are on the rise. We share personal stories, cultural expectations, and practical advice on how couples can adapt, communicate, and thrive in the evolving relationship landscape. 

This episode emphasizes the opportunities this new dynamic opens, and the pitfalls to avoid. Whether you’re single and planning or married and want to lead a healthier, more flexible partnership, you’ll walk away with actionable insights and fresh perspectives. 

Are you ready to redefine what marriage means in your life? 

#ModernMarriage #BreadwinnerWife #StayAtHomeDad



]]> Many women are now earning more than ever, and this is causing a shift in traditional marriage roles.  Even while this is  happening, so many couples still hold on to old expectations. 

What happens when the breadwinner is the woman? And how do stay-at-home dads challenge the norms? 

In this episode, We have an honest conversation about these dynamics in households, and how they are reshaping marriages today. 

We delve deeper into decades-old stereotypes around gender, money, and power in marriage. From eye-opening data: 16% of US marriages now have women as the primary breadwinners, and stay-at-home dads are on the rise. We share personal stories, cultural expectations, and practical advice on how couples can adapt, communicate, and thrive in the evolving relationship landscape. 

This episode emphasizes the opportunities this new dynamic opens, and the pitfalls to avoid. Whether you’re single and planning or married and want to lead a healthier, more flexible partnership, you’ll walk away with actionable insights and fresh perspectives. 

Are you ready to redefine what marriage means in your life? 

#ModernMarriage #BreadwinnerWife #StayAtHomeDad



]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-19208710 Wed, 20 May 2026 12:00:00 -0400 3307 full false Why Changing Your Mind on Important Decision Feels Similar to Failure Why Changing Your Mind on Important Decision Feels Similar to Failure Most of us get stuck in feeling like changing our minds is a failure but what if it’s actually a sign of growth?

In this episode, We explore why changing your mind isn’t weakness, but rather a powerful indicator that you’re learning, growing, and refining your understanding of what’s right for you. We explore the delicate balance of making bold decisions in marriage, navigating fears, and respecting the impact on loved ones.

This episode is perfect if you’re at a crossroads: considering a career pivot, rethinking family plans, or simply wondering if you’ve lost your way. Whether you're a high-achiever or someone grappling with societal expectations, you'll leave motivated to see change as a sign of your resilience.

It’s time to challenge the narrative around failure and discover how your evolving mind can lead to your most authentic life. Tune in and start seeing change as a stepping stone, not a setback.



]]> Most of us get stuck in feeling like changing our minds is a failure but what if it’s actually a sign of growth?

In this episode, We explore why changing your mind isn’t weakness, but rather a powerful indicator that you’re learning, growing, and refining your understanding of what’s right for you. We explore the delicate balance of making bold decisions in marriage, navigating fears, and respecting the impact on loved ones.

This episode is perfect if you’re at a crossroads: considering a career pivot, rethinking family plans, or simply wondering if you’ve lost your way. Whether you're a high-achiever or someone grappling with societal expectations, you'll leave motivated to see change as a sign of your resilience.

It’s time to challenge the narrative around failure and discover how your evolving mind can lead to your most authentic life. Tune in and start seeing change as a stepping stone, not a setback.



]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-19170634 Wed, 13 May 2026 12:00:00 -0400 2470 full false The Surprising Truth About Returning to Work After Maternity Leave The Surprising Truth About Returning to Work After Maternity Leave 85% of working mothers left full-time employment within 3 years of having a baby — even though 98% of them said they wanted to go back. This is mostly Because the practical realities of motherhood from child care costs to work flexibility and societal expectations often make fulfilling career ambitions feel impossible. 


In this eye-opening episode, we explore how organizations unintentionally sideline moms through inflexible policies, and how the absence of community and support can derail both career progress and personal well-being. 


We also break down practical strategies for navigating the balancing act; from negotiating your return after maternity leave, to re-strategizing for promotions, and planning your career in seasons rather than all at once.


This episode is important because the current system often overlooks the real costs of motherhood. From sleep deprivation, career gaps, societal judgments, and the financial burden of support. It is Perfect for working moms, aspiring parents, HR professionals, and anyone committed to reshaping the narrative around women, work, and family. If you’ve ever wondered how to thrive in your career while raising children or want to support someone on that journey, this episode will equip you with the mindset and tools to do just that.

]]> 85% of working mothers left full-time employment within 3 years of having a baby — even though 98% of them said they wanted to go back. This is mostly Because the practical realities of motherhood from child care costs to work flexibility and societal expectations often make fulfilling career ambitions feel impossible. 


In this eye-opening episode, we explore how organizations unintentionally sideline moms through inflexible policies, and how the absence of community and support can derail both career progress and personal well-being. 


We also break down practical strategies for navigating the balancing act; from negotiating your return after maternity leave, to re-strategizing for promotions, and planning your career in seasons rather than all at once.


This episode is important because the current system often overlooks the real costs of motherhood. From sleep deprivation, career gaps, societal judgments, and the financial burden of support. It is Perfect for working moms, aspiring parents, HR professionals, and anyone committed to reshaping the narrative around women, work, and family. If you’ve ever wondered how to thrive in your career while raising children or want to support someone on that journey, this episode will equip you with the mindset and tools to do just that.

]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-19121304 Wed, 06 May 2026 12:00:00 -0400 2229 full false Protecting Yourself Before Marriage: Prenups, Red Flags & Financial Protection Protecting Yourself Before Marriage: Prenups, Red Flags & Financial Protection More women are realizing the power of financial protection before marriage and demanding prenups. 


Simone and Doyin discuss the purpose of prenups, how they impact trust, and why more women are asking their partners to sign them even in cultures where the idea still feels taboo. We discuss how modern women are reshaping the story around marriage and money. 


This episode is perfect for women in their 30s who are reevaluating what financial security means for their future. If you're ready to challenge old perceptions, educate yourself on navigating money conversations, or simply want to understand how to safeguard your assets without sacrificing love, this is your must-listen episode. Hit play now.



]]> More women are realizing the power of financial protection before marriage and demanding prenups. 


Simone and Doyin discuss the purpose of prenups, how they impact trust, and why more women are asking their partners to sign them even in cultures where the idea still feels taboo. We discuss how modern women are reshaping the story around marriage and money. 


This episode is perfect for women in their 30s who are reevaluating what financial security means for their future. If you're ready to challenge old perceptions, educate yourself on navigating money conversations, or simply want to understand how to safeguard your assets without sacrificing love, this is your must-listen episode. Hit play now.



]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-19045155 Wed, 29 Apr 2026 12:00:00 -0400 2164 full false Why You Feel Behind in Life: Even When You're Doing Everything Right Why You Feel Behind in Life: Even When You're Doing Everything Right Most of us are caught in the quiet storm of unmet expectations, making us feel like we're falling short despite all our efforts. If you're grappling with where you thought you'd be by now, this episode is your wake-up call. 


In this episode, Doyin and Simone get honest about one of the most common but least talked about feelings among women in their 30s.

They uncover startling research showing only 25% of women hit all four traditional milestones (career, marriage, home, children) while exploring why societal pressures often shape our self-worth more than our personal goals. 


In this episode, you'll discover how to identify whether these expectations are self-imposed or inherited, and how to reframe them to fit your unique journey. Whether you're frustrated about career stagnation, timing around family, or simply feeling behind with honest insights and practical advice show you how to manage these feelings without guilt.



]]> Most of us are caught in the quiet storm of unmet expectations, making us feel like we're falling short despite all our efforts. If you're grappling with where you thought you'd be by now, this episode is your wake-up call. 


In this episode, Doyin and Simone get honest about one of the most common but least talked about feelings among women in their 30s.

They uncover startling research showing only 25% of women hit all four traditional milestones (career, marriage, home, children) while exploring why societal pressures often shape our self-worth more than our personal goals. 


In this episode, you'll discover how to identify whether these expectations are self-imposed or inherited, and how to reframe them to fit your unique journey. Whether you're frustrated about career stagnation, timing around family, or simply feeling behind with honest insights and practical advice show you how to manage these feelings without guilt.



]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-18994649 Wed, 22 Apr 2026 11:00:00 -0400 1791 full false The Real Reasons Why We DON’T Talk About Money With Our Friends The Real Reasons Why We DON’T Talk About Money With Our Friends Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame?

In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealing why conversations about earnings are often viewed as taboo and how that costs us opportunities and growth.

Don't let silence keep you from the opportunities and relationships you deserve. Hit play and start transforming your financial conversations today.



]]> Most people secretly struggle with discussing their income, yet they also miss out on valuable insights from friends who understand their financial realities. What if honesty about money could unlock better opportunities, deeper trust, and smarter decisions without judgment or shame?

In this eye-opening episode, Simone and Doyin share personal stories, from Nigeria and Cameroon to the US, revealing why conversations about earnings are often viewed as taboo and how that costs us opportunities and growth.

Don't let silence keep you from the opportunities and relationships you deserve. Hit play and start transforming your financial conversations today.



]]> Doyin & Simone Buzzsprout-18999527 Wed, 15 Apr 2026 12:00:00 -0400 1501 full false How to Actually Find Someone Worth Building With How to Actually Find Someone Worth Building With In this season finale, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's world.


Dating in your 30s feels harder than it should be. You have the career and some stability - But finding a serious relationship still feels impossible.

We have an honest conversation about the challenges of modern dating, marriage, red flags, money, boundaries, dating apps, arranged marriages, and how to choose the right life partner.

Because love isn’t just chemistry — it’s decisions, character, and alignment

]]> In this season finale, we discuss the complexities of dating in today's world.


Dating in your 30s feels harder than it should be. You have the career and some stability - But finding a serious relationship still feels impossible.

We have an honest conversation about the challenges of modern dating, marriage, red flags, money, boundaries, dating apps, arranged marriages, and how to choose the right life partner.

Because love isn’t just chemistry — it’s decisions, character, and alignment

]]> Doyin & Simone ea825bfb-f612-4e94-a822-18d3601d3482 Wed, 25 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0400 2134 false Building Wealth - What ACTUALLY matters and what's HYPE? Building Wealth - What ACTUALLY matters and what's HYPE? In this conversation, Doyin and Simone explore the multifaceted concept of building wealth, emphasizing the importance of financial freedom, flexibility, and the various strategies one can employ to achieve financial stability. They discuss the significance of understanding personal definitions of wealth, the impact of lifestyle choices, and the necessity of making informed financial decisions. The conversation also touches on the challenges of societal expectations, the role of time in wealth accumulation, and the importance of having honest discussions about financial responsibilities with family.

 

Chapters

 

00:00 Introduction to Wealth Building

02:27 Defining Wealth: Freedom and Flexibility

05:28 Strategies for Building Wealth Without Inheritance

08:23 Understanding the Concept of 'Enough'

11:47 Key Money Moves in Your 30s

14:30 Overrated Wealth Strategies: Home Ownership and Side Hustles

17:41 The Reality of Passive Income

20:25 Quiet Wealth Decisions: Marriage and Time

23:26 Balancing Family Obligations and Wealth Building

26:03 Starting from Zero: Advice for New Wealth Builders

]]> In this conversation, Doyin and Simone explore the multifaceted concept of building wealth, emphasizing the importance of financial freedom, flexibility, and the various strategies one can employ to achieve financial stability. They discuss the significance of understanding personal definitions of wealth, the impact of lifestyle choices, and the necessity of making informed financial decisions. The conversation also touches on the challenges of societal expectations, the role of time in wealth accumulation, and the importance of having honest discussions about financial responsibilities with family.

 

Chapters

 

00:00 Introduction to Wealth Building

02:27 Defining Wealth: Freedom and Flexibility

05:28 Strategies for Building Wealth Without Inheritance

08:23 Understanding the Concept of 'Enough'

11:47 Key Money Moves in Your 30s

14:30 Overrated Wealth Strategies: Home Ownership and Side Hustles

17:41 The Reality of Passive Income

20:25 Quiet Wealth Decisions: Marriage and Time

23:26 Balancing Family Obligations and Wealth Building

26:03 Starting from Zero: Advice for New Wealth Builders

]]> Doyin & Simone 57c66f63-eb97-4fbc-bf12-0a01e6b60fc9 Wed, 18 Mar 2026 11:00:00 -0400 3049 false