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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you’ve found yourself in the same patterns in your relationships, different people, same outcomes, this episode will help you understand why. This is the foundational episode of Foundations We Lay. I share who I am, the work I’ve been doing across social work and coaching, and why this conversation around relationships needed a different approach. Most people focus on what is happening in their relationships. This podcast focuses on what is driving it. The patterns, the responses, and the ...]]></itunes:summary>
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