The silence.
The freedom.
The hobbies.
Hot food.
Watching an entire movie uninterrupted.

In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, Brian talks honestly about the little parts of life dads secretly miss while also reflecting on the meaningful chaos that comes with fatherhood.

From kids stealing fries off your plate to emotional moments that hit harder than expected, this episode mixes humor, honesty, and relatable dad life moments every parent will understand.

Because missing parts of your old life doesn’t mean you love your kids any less.

It just means you’re human.

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The moments we replay.
The pressure we carry.
The fear of getting it wrong.
The struggle of trying to be better than the example we grew up with.

In this episode of Mostly Me Occasionally Wise, Brian gets real about fatherhood, the invisible weight dads carry, and the quiet moments that stick with us long after our kids forget them.

This episode is honest, emotional, relatable, and mixed with the humor and real-life perspective the podcast is known for.

If you’ve ever stayed up wondering whether you’re doing enough as a parent… this one’s for you.

Also, if you’re new to the show, be sure to check out previous episodes covering everything from hidden 80s movie gems to the hilarious things we swore we’d never say as parents.

Because none of us really know what we’re doing…
we’re all just trying our best.

Stay mostly you… occasionally wise.

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There’s something about 80s movies…

They weren’t always perfect…
 they weren’t always polished…

but somehow—they stuck with you.

In this episode of Mostly Me Occasionally Wise, I’m breaking down a list of 80s gems you need to watch at least once—the ones that flew under the radar but still left a lasting impression.

We’re talking about movies that were:

•  a little weird 
•  a little wild 
•  and sometimes… watched WAY too young 😂 

From hidden horror to offbeat comedy, emotional stories to straight-up chaos—these are the films that didn’t always get the spotlight, but definitely deserve your time.

🎬 Featuring:

• The Gate
• The Blob
• The Monster Squad
• The 'Burbs
• 48 Hrs.
• Awakenings

This episode is all about nostalgia, discovery, and those random moments that somehow stick with you years later.

Because at the end of the day…

it’s not always the biggest movies you remember—

it’s the ones that made you feel something.

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If you grew up in the 80s or 90s and now find yourself raising kids in the WiFi era, you’re in the right place.

We talk nostalgia, modern parenting, marriage, work-from-home life, and the occasional unpopular opinion (yes, E.T. is overrated… and Die Hard is not a Christmas movie).

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You say something…
 and immediately realize—

“Wow… I sound just like my parents.”

In Episode 10 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, we’re diving into the phrases we swore we’d never say… but now say all the time.

From the classics like:
 “We have food at home”
 “Because I said so”
 “Money doesn’t grow on trees”

…to the ones nobody prepares you for:
 “Don’t eat that”
 “Why is that wet?!”
 “Roll the window down!”

This episode is funny, chaotic, and way too relatable—but underneath it all, it’s about something deeper.

Because those phrases?
 They’re not just random.

They’re passed down.
 They’re learned.
 And somehow… they start to make sense.

If you’ve ever caught yourself sounding like your parents—or wondered how you got here—this one’s for you.

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They happen in our heads.

We rehearse them.
 We replay them.
 We tell ourselves we’ll say something… eventually.

But we don’t.

In this episode, we’re talking about the conversations we avoid—
with our spouse, our kids… and even ourselves.

Not because we don’t care…
 but because we don’t know how they’re going to go.

I share real-life moments from home, the hesitation we all feel, and how the things we don’t say don’t just disappear—they turn into distance.

Distance in relationships.
 Distance in connection.
 Distance in ourselves.

The truth is, most of these conversations aren’t as bad as we think…

But starting them?

That’s the hard part.

If you’ve ever said “I’m fine”… when you weren’t,
 or put off saying something that mattered…

This one’s for you.

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In Episode 7 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, I’m breaking down the official WrestleMania 42 match card—the big matches, the stories, the ones I’m hyped for… and the ones that have me raising an eyebrow 👀

But before we get into all that, we kick things off with the Dad Life Debrief—because life as a dad doesn’t stop just because WrestleMania season is here.

From there, we talk about why wrestling still hits the way it does… even now. The nostalgia, the moments, and why this stuff sticks with you over time.

Then we dive into the FULL card:
 🔥 Cody Rhodes vs Randy Orton
 🔥 CM Punk vs Roman Reigns
 🔥 Rhea Ripley vs Jade Cargill
 🔥 Seth Rollins vs Gunther
 🔥 And more…

With predictions, hot takes, and a few “what are we doing here?” moments along the way. 😂

If you’ve been watching all year—or you just show up for WrestleMania—this episode is for you.

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But what happens when one day… you finally do?

In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, we take a real and honest look at the difference between knowing something… and actually understanding it.

From parenting and relationships… to the people who’ve shaped us along the way, this episode dives into how life experience turns words into meaning—and how some lessons only make sense when you live them.

Plus, a new Week in Review segment—bringing you into the real moments behind the mic and the experiences that inspired this episode.

If you’ve ever looked back and thought…
 “Now I get it…”

This one’s for you.

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Is it nostalgia?
 Is it familiarity?
 Or is it just that feeling you get when you press play and know exactly what you’re about to experience?

In Episode 6 of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, we’re diving into the movies we keep coming back to — the ones that feel easy, familiar, and just right no matter the mood.

But this time, there’s a twist…

This list isn’t just mine. It’s a mix of my comfort movies and my wife’s — and I’m not telling you which is which.

As you listen, see if you can figure it out.
 Which picks feel obvious?
 Which ones surprise you?

And maybe more importantly… which ones did you get wrong?

This episode covers everything from nostalgic comedies and sports underdogs to cozy, feel-good favorites and unexpected picks — proving that comfort movies don’t follow one formula… they follow feeling.

🎧 After you listen, I want to hear from you:
 What are your comfort movies?
 And which ones do you think were mine vs. hers?

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There was a time when they were unstoppable.
 No fear. No weakness. No explanation needed.

They showed up… and handled it.

But somewhere along the way, that changed.

In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, we take a deep dive through the decades—from the larger-than-life icons of the 80’s, to the charismatic rebels of the 90’s, the grounded professionals of the 2000’s, and today’s more relatable, human heroes.

This isn’t just about movies.

It’s about how our idea of strength has evolved.

Why we used to admire perfection…
 and why we now connect with struggle.

Along the way, we break down some of the most iconic action stars of all time, share behind-the-scenes insights, and build a Mount Rushmore of action heroes that represents the evolution of the genre.

So the question is…

Which era are you choosing?

And who’s on your Mount Rushmore?

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In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, I reflect on raising my three kids—a four-year-old, a thirteen-year-old, and a nineteen-year-old daughter—and how each stage of life requires a different parenting approach.

From the challenges of building trust with a teen who has experienced trauma, to the heartwarming moments with my daddy’s-boy four-year-old learning to trust Momma, this episode explores the realities, growth, and lessons that come with parenting.

Because sometimes the most important thing a parent can do is simply keep showing up.

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What happened to great villains?

In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, I take a fun look at how villains have changed from the classic bad guys we grew up with to the darker, more complex villains we see today. From the over-the-top personalities of the past to modern characters like The Grabber and President Snow, villains aren’t just evil anymore—they’re layered, calculated, and sometimes even a little relatable.

Along the way, I share some thoughts, a few laughs, and maybe a couple of slightly wise observations about why these characters stick with us.

Are today’s villains better… or do we just miss the simple days when you knew exactly who the bad guy was?

Grab your coffee (or whatever gets you through the day) and let’s talk villains.

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In this episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, I reflect on the lessons I’ve learned over four decades of growing, adjusting, failing, and figuring it out as I go.

From how times have changed…
 To why mentality matters more than milestones…
 To learning when to say no, ask for help, and protect your peace…

This isn’t about having life mastered.

It’s about perspective.

Because 40 isn’t the finish line.
 And it’s never too late to grow.

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In this kickoff episode of Mostly Me, Occasionally Wise, I’m ranking my Top 10 80s movies of all time — based on one simple rule: rewatch value.

If I’m not casually putting it on when I’m bored, it doesn’t make the list.

We’re talking iconic moments, unforgettable villains, legendary soundtracks… and a few hot takes that might raise your blood pressure.

Yes, I said E.T. is overrated.
 And no, Die Hard is not a Christmas movie.

From Back to the Future and The Empire Strikes Back to The Karate Kid, Ghostbusters, and more — this is nostalgia with a little debate mixed in.

Drop your Top 3 and let’s argue respectfully.

Stay mostly you… and occasionally wise.

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