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  <description><![CDATA[<p>Navigate microaggressions.&nbsp;</p><p>Prevent burnout.&nbsp;</p><p>Speak with authority at work.</p><p><br></p><p>This podcast delivers <b>practical emotional intelligence and assertive communication</b> for Gen Z and millennial men and women of color in tech navigating male-dominated, high-pressure corporate environments.</p><p><br></p><p>Each episode breaks down <b>real workplace patterns</b>—the kind that label you “too aggressive” or “too quiet,” demand emotional labor without credit, and quietly push burnout while expecting peak performance.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>You’ll learn <b>what to say, when to say it, and how to protect your credibility</b> without over-explaining or shrinking yourself.</p><p><br></p><p>Expect actionable guidance you can apply immediately:</p><ul><li>Language you can use in your next meeting</li><li>Boundary-setting strategies that reduce career risk</li><li>Emotional intelligence tools that support leadership, clarity, and momentum</li></ul><p><br></p><p>This podcast recognizes that while many women share these challenges, men and <b>women of color often face tighter margins and higher consequences</b>.&nbsp;</p><p><br></p><p>Episodes intentionally address those layered dynamics—without separating, silencing, or flattening the experience.</p><p>No corporate buzzwords.<br>&nbsp;No emotional gaslighting.<br>&nbsp;No advice that ignores power, gender, or context.</p><p><br></p><p>This is <b>applied emotional intelligence for the workplace you actually operate in</b>—so you stop recovering and start navigating with clarity.</p><p><br></p><p>My link is for additional information</p><p>https://janepoe.gumroad.com/</p><p>corporate shield</p><p><a href="https://janepoe.gumroad.com/l/qbecp?_gl=1*dcd1sq*_ga*MjQyMjI3MDc3LjE3NjQ3MTA3NzY.*_ga_6LJN6D94N6*czE3NzkwMjkzNzAkbzcxJGcxJHQxNzc5MDI5NzMxJGo1OSRsMCRoMA..">janepoe.gumroad.com/l/qbecp</a></p><p><br></p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail 0600 Tactical Brief. Today, we’re looking for 'Scope Creep.' If you’re a POC in tech, you’re often asked to do the 'office housework'—taking notes,  ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail  "Mission Debrief. You made it. 18 years in tech taught me that the most productive thing you can do this weekend is nothing. Your CPU cannot stay at 100% indefinitely."   ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail "The morning Tactical Brief. It’s Friday. The 'Friday Zoom Bomb' is coming—that last-minute request at 4 PM designed to steal your weekend. We’re setting the perimeter now, so you don't have to fight for it later." Let's engage ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail "1700 Debrief. Thursday is usually the day the 'Identity Tax' hits its peak. You’re tired of the optics. You’re tired of the 'double-standard' performance bar. I’ve been there for 18 years. I know." Here is what I do... ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571168/fan_mail/new">Send us Fan Mail</a></p><p><b>&quot;1700 Debrief. Thursday is usually the day the &apos;Identity Tax&apos; hits its peak. You’re tired of the optics. You’re tired of the &apos;double-standard&apos; performance bar. I’ve been there for 18 years. I know.&quot;</b></p><p>Here is what I do...</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571168/fan_mail/new">Send us Fan Mail</a></p><p><b>&quot;1700 Debrief. Thursday is usually the day the &apos;Identity Tax&apos; hits its peak. You’re tired of the optics. You’re tired of the &apos;double-standard&apos; performance bar. I’ve been there for 18 years. I know.&quot;</b></p><p>Here is what I do...</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2026 17:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail Tactical Brief. By Thursday, everyone is panicking because they’re behind. Their 'urgent' is not your 'important.' Today, we will guard the delivery." Take a peek inside ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail "Mission Debrief. If you feel like your brain is 'shattered' tonight, it’s because you context-switched 50 times today. Every switch cost you 20% of your technical velocity. Let’s flush the cache." Here is how to start... ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/2571168/fan_mail/new">Send us Fan Mail</a></p><p><b>&quot;Mission Debrief. If you feel like your brain is &apos;shattered&apos; tonight, it’s because you context-switched 50 times today. Every switch cost you 20% of your technical velocity. Let’s flush the cache.&quot;</b></p><p>Here is how to start...</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail It’s Wednesday—the day meetings go to die. You’re going to share a technical win today, and someone is going to try to claim it. We’re not letting that happen." Wanna know how? ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail Did you spend today code-switching? Did you filter your 'directness' so you wouldn't be labeled 'aggressive'? ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send us Fan Mail Tactical Brief. Today, we’re looking for 'Scope Creep.' If you’re a POC in tech, you’re often asked to do the 'office housework'—taking notes ]]></itunes:summary>
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