Some men walk away from the faith. Some never really arrive. Some sit in church every week and never actually follow Jesus. Seven reasons why, and every man thinks he's the exception. Knowing about Jesus isn't the same as following Him. The question isn't whether you show up. It's whether you've actually come.

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In this episode, we break down Luke 9:23-27. We talk about what it it is commonly thought to mean, and what it actually means to deny yourself, die to control, and follow Christ. A choice that we have to make every single day. This isn't about tolerating stress or minor inconvenience. It's about whether Jesus is your Savior only, or if He's also your Lord.

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This episode breaks down what passive living actually looks like, why comfort became the goal in the first place, and what God actually called men to do with their lives. Spoiler: it wasn't to float. The goal isn't maximum comfort. It's obedience and purpose.

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Thomas doubted. David lamented. Peter sank mid-miracle. The strongest men in Scripture had moments of deep uncertainty, and none of them kept it to themselves forever. Why doubt is common, why men hide it, and what it looks like to face it without walking away from faith.

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Most men are walking around anxious every single day and have no idea what to do with it. The difference between stress and anxiety, why God's grace covers even this, and three practical ways to start managing it today. Philippians 4:6-7 doesn't say don't be anxious and leave it at that. There's a reason the peace that follows doesn't make any sense.

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In this episode, we get personal about one of the most common and most destructive emotions men face - anger. Real stories, a breakdown of why anger is a leadership issue, and a dig into Romans 12:1-2 on what it actually means to renew your mind. 

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The Apostle Paul went from actively hunting and consenting to the deaths of Christians to writing nearly half the New Testament. In this episode, we break down what actually made Paul an Uncommon Man: his laser focus on the mission God gave him, his refusal to be defined by his past, his adaptability in impossible circumstances, and a joy that was less spiritual sentiment and more outright defiance. If you've ever thought you've gone too far or messed up too much, Paul's story is a direct answer to that lie.

Every Yes by Jen Matthews

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You can speak life or death. That is not an exaggeration, the Bible is clear on it. Jon and Devin break down how to stop speaking negatively over yourself and others, how to give correction without crushing people, and what it looks like to be intentional with every word.

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In this episode, we kept it simple. Five questions each, no prep, and no idea what was coming.

Some of it got thoughtful, some of it got random, and a lot of it was just fun. Questions that made us think on the spot, you get real answers without time to filter or overanalyze. Enjoy.

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This is part two of a two part episode. If God is speaking, are we actually making room to hear Him?

We talk about the power of silence, creating space to be with God, and why constant noise can keep us distracted from what He is trying to say. We also get into how God speaks through hardship, how dependence on Him is often built in the middle of struggle, and why some of the hardest seasons in life can shape us the most.

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This is part one of a two part episode. We've all asked at one point or another what it means to listen the the voice of God or how to even do that.

We talk about what it looks like to hear God in real life. Prayer as a relationship, not a performance. Slowing down, paying attention, and bringing honest questions to Him. We also wrestle with free will, big decisions, and why seeking God still matters when the answer isn’t instant.

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When life gets busy it is easy to drift and let spiritual leadership fall off. That quiet drift shapes your home. Church becomes optional, prayer becomes rare, and your kids notice more than you think.

This episode is a wake up call. Spiritual leadership is not control, it is responsibility. It is setting direction and leading by example so your family can actually see what faith looks like in real life.

Pray with your wife, pray with your kids, and get in the Word in a way that is visible. This is not about being perfect, it is about showing up consistently.

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Culture has a checklist for “real masculinity” that sounds strong but often leaves men isolated: be impressive, be untouchable, win at any cost, and never admit fault. In this episode, we look at the life of King David, the man Scripture calls “a man after God’s own heart”, to see what his story reveals about biblical manhood today.

We talk about why David was chosen for his heart instead of his image, what David and Goliath teaches about courage and obedience, and how David’s failure with Bathsheba, and his repentance in Psalm 51, shows the difference between defending sin and truly turning back to God.

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The friends you choose make more of an impact on your life than you might think.

We look at the real sources of influence in your life. Friends, books, music, and social media, and why not everyone with a voice deserves authority in your decisions. Using Scripture as our foundation, we talk about wise counsel, iron sharpening iron, and the difference between encouragement and empty flattery. We also unpack the idea that you become like the people you spend the most time with.

If you’re ready to take a hard look at your circle, raise your standards, and become the kind of friend who sharpens others, this episode is for you.

Share it with someone who pushes you to grow, subscribe for more conversations on uncommon leadership and faith, and leave a review telling us one change you’ll make to your circle this week.

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Living a generous life goes far beyond money. In this episode, we talk about generosity with time, talents, leadership, and resources. Why you can’t reap what you don’t sow, why doing just enough won’t move you forward, and how trusting God often looks like giving even when it’s hard. 

Scripture: Proverbs 11:24–25

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Communication isn’t just what you say—it’s how you listen, how you respond, and what your body language communicates before words ever leave your mouth. In this episode, we talk about why men internalize so much, how phones and distractions damage real connection, and why listening to respond instead of listening to understand breaks relationships.

Drawing from James 1:19 and Ephesians 4:29, we look at how Scripture calls us to communicate with patience, self-control, and purpose. Stronger relationships and better leadership start with learning to communicate beyond words.

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Real influence isn’t loud—it’s earned.
In this episode, we break down how character, consistency, and disciplined effort shape the kind of influence that actually lasts. We talk self-leadership, doing hard things, and aligning faith, family, and work so your life matches what you say you want. Influence grows when you become someone worth following—and that work starts daily.

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In this episode of The Uncommon Man Podcast, we talk about why protecting your Sabbath isn’t optional—and why time discipline matters more than hustle. From burnout and calendar overload to giving your family the leftovers, this conversation challenges the idea of “work-life balance” and reframes Sabbath as intentional rest in God, not just doing nothing.

If you feel constantly tired, stretched thin, or like your schedule controls you instead of the other way around, this episode is for you. Learn how to manage your time with purpose, protect what matters most, and live a more uncommon life.

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A lot of men are carrying more than they admit. The numbers prove it—depression is widespread, suicide rates are higher, and yet many of us are still told to stay quiet and handle it. In this episode, we talk honestly about why men avoid asking for help, what that silence costs, and how to change it without losing strength or responsibility.

We unpack the pressure of work, money, and health, how performance-based identity leads to burnout, and the role smartphones and loneliness play.

If this hits home, take one step today—reach out to a friend, set a nightly DND, or book that first counseling session. Share this episode with a man who needs it, and join the conversation.

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This episode explores how the way you view the world shapes the way you show up in it. We dig into the difference between perception and perspective, using real-life moments and Moses’ encounter with God in Exodus 33 to show why a broader, God-centered viewpoint leads to better decisions and calmer responses.

We talk through how quick assumptions form, how most conflicts come from misunderstanding rather than malice, and how empathy can turn tense situations into productive conversations. Along the way, we highlight practical mindset shifts around gratitude, fatherhood, and choosing responses that protect your peace.

To help you put it into practice, we lay out four tools for shifting your perspective: approaching God with an open heart, stepping back to gain mental distance, seeking wise and truthful counsel, and keeping your focus on what matters eternally.

If you want to grow in patience, clarity, and leadership, this episode gives you simple, actionable ways to develop a more grounded, uncommon perspective.

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Forgiveness is easy to talk about and hard to live out. In this episode, we get real about broken trust, resentment, and what it actually looks like to forgive while still using wisdom and protecting your peace. Forgiveness frees your heart, and rebuilding trust is a separate process that takes time and discernment.

If you’ve ever felt stuck waiting on an apology that never came or found yourself growing bitter, this conversation will help you breathe again. Forgiveness isn’t weakness—it’s clarity, discipline, and choosing grace when bitterness feels easier. That’s uncommon.

If this episode adds value to your walk, share it with a brother who needs it and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Your story might help someone else take the next step toward healing.

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What if the hardest person you’ll ever lead is the one in the mirror? In this episode, we dig into the real work of self-leadership—aligning your faith, mindset, and daily habits so you can become a man worth following at home, at work, and in your community.

We walk through Romans 12, the “six inches” between your ears, and the small private wins that shape who you are when no one’s watching. You’ll hear practical tools for breaking autopilot, keeping promises to yourself, setting goals that matter, and building routines that actually stick—plus a few honest stories and friendly jabs along the way.

If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a nudge, and let us know: what’s the first small win you’re stacking this week?

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Life gets busy fast—work, screens, sleep, repeat. We hit record to interrupt the autopilot and build what we were missing: a faith-driven space for men who want to lead well, love their families, and stop settling for ordinary. We share our stories—ministry, military, fatherhood—and how a simple small group became a brotherhood.

We unpack Matthew 14 and Peter stepping out of the boat: courage isn’t the absence of waves, it’s walking anyway. Peter walked before fear pulled him under—a reminder that pressure and doubt often mean you’re moving. We talk excellence over perfection, time with God, avoiding “vending machine faith,” and why self-leadership starts at home. If you lead yourself at a four, you won’t lead your family at a ten.

Uncommon Man is real stories, biblical truth, and practical steps you can use now. Next week we dive into self-leadership. If you’re ready to step out of the boat, we’re walking with you.

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