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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text When you've seen your child almost die numerous times and you've been living on your nerves for years, your priorities change. You change. Forever. Friendships lapse and new friendships form - forged through common hardships. In this episode of Let's Take Care, mums Jane and Melissa discuss how handling their daughters' illnesses has shaped them. The two friends explain how trauma has changed their take on life - but they wouldn't have it any other way. In their usual warm and wit...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text The runaway wheelchair and the havoc of the hoist!  Jane and Melissa look on the bright side in this episode of Let's Take Care, as they remind us laughter really is the best medicine, especially if you're the carer of a young adult or child with disabilities. The pressure of being a full-time carer is immense and the two mums discuss how looking back on disasters with a smile has helped them face many challenges.  Mel reveals how she put a ghastly social worker in his p...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>The runaway wheelchair and the havoc of the hoist! </p><p>Jane and Melissa look on the bright side in this episode of Let&apos;s Take Care, as they remind us laughter really is the best medicine, especially if you&apos;re the carer of a young adult or child with disabilities.</p><p>The pressure of being a full-time carer is immense and the two mums discuss how looking back on disasters with a smile has helped them face many challenges. </p><p>Mel reveals how she put a ghastly social worker in his place and Jane tells us about a toy of Kitty&apos;s that went rogue.</p><p>This episode is sure to put a smile on your face, whether you&apos;re a parent carer or not - and there&apos;s help for people who don&apos;t know how to act around people with disabilities.</p><p><br/></p><p>#ParentingADisabledChild #DisabilityParenting #SpecialNeedsParenting #CarerSupport #ParentCarers #CarerLife #TiredParentsClub #CaregiverSupport #ParentingJourney #InvisibleLoad #newyeartips #selfcaretips </p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Being a carer can take a mental and physical toll.  In this New Year episode Jane and Melissa talk about how over the years, they sacrificed their health as they prioritised their children - and why they wished they hadn't. Melissa opens up about her cancer, and Jane talks about her heart condition. The two mums share their tips on staying healthy, and they discuss how looking after themselves has made them better parents and partners.   From sound baths to country walks...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Being a carer can take a mental and physical toll. </p><p>In this New Year episode Jane and Melissa talk about how over the years, they sacrificed their health as they prioritised their children - and why they wished they hadn&apos;t.</p><p>Melissa opens up about her cancer, and Jane talks about her heart condition.</p><p>The two mums share their tips on staying healthy, and they discuss how looking after themselves has made them better parents and partners.  </p><p>From sound baths to country walks, this episode is full of practical tips plus, as always, plenty of laughs.</p><p><br/></p><p>#ParentingADisabledChild #DisabilityParenting #SpecialNeedsParenting #CarerSupport #ParentCarers #CarerLife #TiredParentsClub #CaregiverSupport #ParentingJourney #InvisibleLoad #newyeartips #selfcaretips </p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Being a carer can take a mental and physical toll. </p><p>In this New Year episode Jane and Melissa talk about how over the years, they sacrificed their health as they prioritised their children - and why they wished they hadn&apos;t.</p><p>Melissa opens up about her cancer, and Jane talks about her heart condition.</p><p>The two mums share their tips on staying healthy, and they discuss how looking after themselves has made them better parents and partners.  </p><p>From sound baths to country walks, this episode is full of practical tips plus, as always, plenty of laughs.</p><p><br/></p><p>#ParentingADisabledChild #DisabilityParenting #SpecialNeedsParenting #CarerSupport #ParentCarers #CarerLife #TiredParentsClub #CaregiverSupport #ParentingJourney #InvisibleLoad #newyeartips #selfcaretips </p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Being Leader of the Liberal Democrat Party hasn't stopped Sir Ed Davey from taking care of his disabled son. In this frank, compassionate and at times, witty discussion Sir Ed talks fondly about his family and the challenges of being a parent carer. Caring for a loved one has been a way of life for Sir Ed who first took on caring responsibilities as a child. Join Jane and Melissa in this intimate, no holds barred chat.   #EdDavey #LiberalDemocrats #ParentCarer #CaringForCarers #Ca...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Being Leader of the Liberal Democrat Party hasn&apos;t stopped Sir Ed Davey from taking care of his disabled son.</p><p>In this frank, compassionate and at times, witty discussion Sir Ed talks fondly about his family and the challenges of being a parent carer.</p><p>Caring for a loved one has been a way of life for Sir Ed who first took on caring responsibilities as a child.</p><p>Join Jane and Melissa in this intimate, no holds barred chat.</p><p><br/></p><p>#EdDavey #LiberalDemocrats #ParentCarer #CaringForCarers #CarersVoices #DisabilityParenting #FamilyFirst #PoliticalLife #CarerLife #CaregiversJourney #DisabilityAwareness #InConversation #PodcastInterview #RealStories #HumanSideOfPolitics #CompassionInAction #CaringResponsibilities #letstakecare #HonestChat #LeadershipAndLife</p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Being a carer for a young adult with profound disabilities is tough - but it's not our children that make it hard - they're a blessing. It's the system that puts carers under constant pressure. In this episode Melissa and Jane share their greatest frustrations and discuss the many difficulties families face when they're caring for a child with disabilities. This episode is a tongue-in-cheek glimpse at the worries caused by the seemingly never-ending bureaucracy that weighs them do...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Being a carer for a young adult with profound disabilities is tough - but it&apos;s not our children that make it hard - they&apos;re a blessing. It&apos;s the system that puts carers under constant pressure.</p><p>In this episode Melissa and Jane share their greatest frustrations and discuss the many difficulties families face when they&apos;re caring for a child with disabilities.</p><p>This episode is a tongue-in-cheek glimpse at the worries caused by the seemingly never-ending bureaucracy that weighs them down. </p><p>As always, Melissa and Jane manage to look on the bright side as they rage against the machine.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re a carer or not, you can&apos;t fail to be touched by this insightful episode of Let&apos;s Take Care.</p><p>Plus...the two mums reveal details of a very special guest who&apos;s lined up for the next episode.</p><p><br/></p><p>#ParentingADisabledChild #DisabilityParenting #SpecialNeedsParenting #CarerSupport #ParentCarers #CarerLife #TiredParentsClub #CaregiverSupport #ParentingJourney #InvisibleLoad</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2518012/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Being a carer for a young adult with profound disabilities is tough - but it&apos;s not our children that make it hard - they&apos;re a blessing. It&apos;s the system that puts carers under constant pressure.</p><p>In this episode Melissa and Jane share their greatest frustrations and discuss the many difficulties families face when they&apos;re caring for a child with disabilities.</p><p>This episode is a tongue-in-cheek glimpse at the worries caused by the seemingly never-ending bureaucracy that weighs them down. </p><p>As always, Melissa and Jane manage to look on the bright side as they rage against the machine.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re a carer or not, you can&apos;t fail to be touched by this insightful episode of Let&apos;s Take Care.</p><p>Plus...the two mums reveal details of a very special guest who&apos;s lined up for the next episode.</p><p><br/></p><p>#ParentingADisabledChild #DisabilityParenting #SpecialNeedsParenting #CarerSupport #ParentCarers #CarerLife #TiredParentsClub #CaregiverSupport #ParentingJourney #InvisibleLoad</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>https://www.bftf.org.uk/</p> <p>Email us at: letstakecare@bftf.org.uk</p> <p><br/></p> <p>#DisabilityAwareness #ChronicIllness #HiddenDisability #SENDParent #AdditionalNeeds #SpecialNeedsParent #DisabilityCommunity #InclusiveFamilies #CarersUK</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Episode 3: Handling relationships when your child is disabled</title>
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