Better Beliefs Wed, 03 Jun 2026 10:05:14 -0400 https://www.buzzsprout.com/2513239 en-us © 2026 Better Beliefs yes 64f340bd-a36e-54c7-98b0-0d7768ea89b5 Brent Kocal episodic false Better Beliefs tells the stories of everyday people who change everything, by first changing their minds about themselves or what's possible.     

]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Brent Kocal https://storage.buzzsprout.com/wihdwawdfkm68ttka22lvt9l18pa?.jpg Better Beliefs You're Forgiving the Wrong Person You're Forgiving the Wrong Person There is at least one moment in every person’s life where they say the right things out loud, but silently believe something completely different. Usually, it’s harmless—like saying you’re "fine" when you’re actually a ball of stress. But sometimes, it’s about the grudges we hold. 

We all keep a list of the people who have wronged us, waiting for apologies that may never come. But in this episode of Better Beliefs, we uncover a different, older list—the one with our own name on it. It's the tally sheet of our regrets, our shame, and the times we didn't show up for ourselves. 

Joining the show is author, podcast host, and spiritual coach Rachel Harrison. Rachel shares her powerful personal journey through a chaotic family dynamic, codependency, and alcoholism, detailing the exact moment she realized that healing her life didn't start with changing the people around her. It started in the mirror. 

In this episode, we explore:

  • The Trap of Transactional Forgiveness: Why waiting for an apology keeps your peace of mind hostage. 
  • The Physical Toll of Resentment: Fascinating data from the Stanford Forgiveness Project on how holding grudges literally makes us sick. 
  • What Codependency Really Is: Understanding how "control disguised as love" drains our energy. 
  • Spiritual Forgiveness: How to take the judgment off your past so you can finally step into your present. 
  • The Power of Self-Compassion: Why beating yourself up at 2:00 AM doesn't protect you—it just keeps you stuck. 

The person you are becoming can't meet you halfway until the person you used to be stops blocking the road. It’s time to put down the weight you were never supposed to carry forever. 

✨ CONNECT WITH RACHEL:

  • Read her book: Grab a copy of Rachel's best-selling book, Recover Your Soul, on her website: https://www.recoveryoursoul.net/
  • Listen & Learn: Check out Rachel’s podcast and explore her coaching programs: https://www.recoveryoursoul.net/

🎵 SHOW CREDITS:

  • Written, Edited, & Produced by: Brent Kocal
  • Show Ownership: Better Beliefs is owned by 6350 Ventures 
  • Cover Art: Jenny H Designs 
  • Original Opening Music: Lonely Ramblers 
  • Additional music credits:
    • "Space Time Thought" by CTRL-S
    • "Lu sciccareddu" by TEO
    • "Orange Lullaby" by Nitzan Rom
    • "Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays
    • "This Must Be Love" by Rynn
    • "Oh Yeah, Life" by Just for Kicks
    • "Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

SUPPORT THE SHOW: If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to rate, review, and share it with someone who needs to practice a little self-forgiveness today. 

Watch the Video Version of This Episode: https://youtu.be/T_OOTCt5Bmk

]]> There is at least one moment in every person’s life where they say the right things out loud, but silently believe something completely different. Usually, it’s harmless—like saying you’re "fine" when you’re actually a ball of stress. But sometimes, it’s about the grudges we hold. 

We all keep a list of the people who have wronged us, waiting for apologies that may never come. But in this episode of Better Beliefs, we uncover a different, older list—the one with our own name on it. It's the tally sheet of our regrets, our shame, and the times we didn't show up for ourselves. 

Joining the show is author, podcast host, and spiritual coach Rachel Harrison. Rachel shares her powerful personal journey through a chaotic family dynamic, codependency, and alcoholism, detailing the exact moment she realized that healing her life didn't start with changing the people around her. It started in the mirror. 

In this episode, we explore:

  • The Trap of Transactional Forgiveness: Why waiting for an apology keeps your peace of mind hostage. 
  • The Physical Toll of Resentment: Fascinating data from the Stanford Forgiveness Project on how holding grudges literally makes us sick. 
  • What Codependency Really Is: Understanding how "control disguised as love" drains our energy. 
  • Spiritual Forgiveness: How to take the judgment off your past so you can finally step into your present. 
  • The Power of Self-Compassion: Why beating yourself up at 2:00 AM doesn't protect you—it just keeps you stuck. 

The person you are becoming can't meet you halfway until the person you used to be stops blocking the road. It’s time to put down the weight you were never supposed to carry forever. 

✨ CONNECT WITH RACHEL:

  • Read her book: Grab a copy of Rachel's best-selling book, Recover Your Soul, on her website: https://www.recoveryoursoul.net/
  • Listen & Learn: Check out Rachel’s podcast and explore her coaching programs: https://www.recoveryoursoul.net/

🎵 SHOW CREDITS:

  • Written, Edited, & Produced by: Brent Kocal
  • Show Ownership: Better Beliefs is owned by 6350 Ventures 
  • Cover Art: Jenny H Designs 
  • Original Opening Music: Lonely Ramblers 
  • Additional music credits:
    • "Space Time Thought" by CTRL-S
    • "Lu sciccareddu" by TEO
    • "Orange Lullaby" by Nitzan Rom
    • "Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays
    • "This Must Be Love" by Rynn
    • "Oh Yeah, Life" by Just for Kicks
    • "Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

SUPPORT THE SHOW: If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to rate, review, and share it with someone who needs to practice a little self-forgiveness today. 

Watch the Video Version of This Episode: https://youtu.be/T_OOTCt5Bmk

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-19284321 Wed, 03 Jun 2026 07:00:00 -0700 1471 full false When Life Destroys Your Plans (But Saves Your Life) When Life Destroys Your Plans (But Saves Your Life) Have you ever fought with everything you had to prevent a disaster, only to watch it fall apart anyway? 

We spend our entire lives trying to control our circumstances, engineer perfect safety nets, and avoid "bad" outcomes. But what if the very thing you are running from is the exact catalyst you need to break through to the next level? 

In this episode, we unpack a powerful story about the illusion of control and the hidden gift of forced transformation. We explore why our greatest moments of growth, resilience, and clarity rarely come when things go perfectly—they come when life completely wrecks our plans. 

If you are currently navigating a setback, a failed project, or an unexpected detour, this episode is a roadmap to shifting your perspective and uncovering the hidden path forward.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:
• The psychological trap of trying to control the uncontrollable.
• Why hitting rock bottom often provides the solid foundation you were missing.
• A framework for turning unexpected detours into your greatest competitive advantage.

Connect with the Community:
• Subscribe to the show so you never miss an episode.
• Enjoyed this story? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it’s the single best way to help us reach more people who need to hear this message.
• Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qkgnd1gAiho

Connect with the guest in this episode, Angela: https://www.healingenergy.world/

]]> Have you ever fought with everything you had to prevent a disaster, only to watch it fall apart anyway? 

We spend our entire lives trying to control our circumstances, engineer perfect safety nets, and avoid "bad" outcomes. But what if the very thing you are running from is the exact catalyst you need to break through to the next level? 

In this episode, we unpack a powerful story about the illusion of control and the hidden gift of forced transformation. We explore why our greatest moments of growth, resilience, and clarity rarely come when things go perfectly—they come when life completely wrecks our plans. 

If you are currently navigating a setback, a failed project, or an unexpected detour, this episode is a roadmap to shifting your perspective and uncovering the hidden path forward.

Inside this episode, you’ll discover:
• The psychological trap of trying to control the uncontrollable.
• Why hitting rock bottom often provides the solid foundation you were missing.
• A framework for turning unexpected detours into your greatest competitive advantage.

Connect with the Community:
• Subscribe to the show so you never miss an episode.
• Enjoyed this story? Leave a 5-star review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify—it’s the single best way to help us reach more people who need to hear this message.
• Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qkgnd1gAiho

Connect with the guest in this episode, Angela: https://www.healingenergy.world/

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-19250945 Wed, 27 May 2026 15:00:00 -0700 1346 full false Why Nothing In Your Life Is Actually Random Why Nothing In Your Life Is Actually Random What if every "coincidence" you've ever had wasn't actually a coincidence?

What if the chance encounter, the wrong turn that turned out to be the right one, the person you ran into three times in one week — what if all of it was part of something? Something you agreed to before you were even born?

In this episode, Brent sits down with Catherine Crestani — a channeler, intuitive, and former speech pathologist who now helps people read the language of their own lives. Through her stories — including the time she broke the same toe three times in three months before she finally got the message — we explore the possibility that nothing in your life is actually random.

We dig into Carl Jung's idea of synchronicity, the 2,500-year-old wisdom of the Bhagavad Gita, and the Buddhist concept of "hidden potential" — the idea that events themselves are neutral, and we're the ones who decide what they mean.

The question we sit with: Can we truly direct our lives in the direction we want them to go? Or are we doing our best to navigate the inevitable flow of life on life's terms?

By the end, you might start paying attention a little differently.

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Music Credits:

"The Tides" by Tom Meria Armony

"Teo" by Lu Sciccareddu

"Parallel Dimension" by Onyx Music

"Above The Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Writing On The Wall" by Rachel Gonzalez

"Lift" by Starlux

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> What if every "coincidence" you've ever had wasn't actually a coincidence?

What if the chance encounter, the wrong turn that turned out to be the right one, the person you ran into three times in one week — what if all of it was part of something? Something you agreed to before you were even born?

In this episode, Brent sits down with Catherine Crestani — a channeler, intuitive, and former speech pathologist who now helps people read the language of their own lives. Through her stories — including the time she broke the same toe three times in three months before she finally got the message — we explore the possibility that nothing in your life is actually random.

We dig into Carl Jung's idea of synchronicity, the 2,500-year-old wisdom of the Bhagavad Gita, and the Buddhist concept of "hidden potential" — the idea that events themselves are neutral, and we're the ones who decide what they mean.

The question we sit with: Can we truly direct our lives in the direction we want them to go? Or are we doing our best to navigate the inevitable flow of life on life's terms?

By the end, you might start paying attention a little differently.

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Music Credits:

"The Tides" by Tom Meria Armony

"Teo" by Lu Sciccareddu

"Parallel Dimension" by Onyx Music

"Above The Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Writing On The Wall" by Rachel Gonzalez

"Lift" by Starlux

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-19174019 Wed, 13 May 2026 16:00:00 -0700 1183 full false What Your Gut Is Trying To Tell You — And Why You Can't Hear It What Your Gut Is Trying To Tell You — And Why You Can't Hear It We've all felt it. That nudge. That tightness in the chest before we walk into a room. That feeling that says don't do this — right before we go ahead and do it anyway.

We call it a gut feeling. Then we override it. And weeks later, when the mess shows up, we say the same thing every time: I knew it.

So what is intuition, really? Where does it come from? And why is it so hard to trust?

In this episode, Brent sits down with Peggy Oberthier — a medical intuitive and energy channeler from Australia — who spent five years as a teacher in a juvenile detention center before a prison riot, a dark night of the soul, and a chance session with another intuitive completely changed the direction of her life.

Peggy unpacks the difference between intuition and fear, why most people block their own inner knowing without realizing it, and the one thing she says almost everyone gets wrong about hearing the signal: you can't think your way to it. You have to feel it in your body first.

We get into source energy, superconsciousness, shadow work, spiritual bypass, and what it actually looks like to get out of your own way long enough to hear what's already there.

If you've ever wondered whether that voice in your head is really yours — or whether something bigger is trying to reach you — this one's for you.

Connect with Peggy: https://www.peggyo.com.au/

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Music Credits

"Everlasting Flower" by Dani Ha Dani

"Blackbard" by Vakna Sal

"Untouched Valley" by Inon Zur

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Budham Sharanam Gaccami" by Yotam Agam

"Burning Silence" by Roie Shipigler

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yahezkel Raz


]]> We've all felt it. That nudge. That tightness in the chest before we walk into a room. That feeling that says don't do this — right before we go ahead and do it anyway.

We call it a gut feeling. Then we override it. And weeks later, when the mess shows up, we say the same thing every time: I knew it.

So what is intuition, really? Where does it come from? And why is it so hard to trust?

In this episode, Brent sits down with Peggy Oberthier — a medical intuitive and energy channeler from Australia — who spent five years as a teacher in a juvenile detention center before a prison riot, a dark night of the soul, and a chance session with another intuitive completely changed the direction of her life.

Peggy unpacks the difference between intuition and fear, why most people block their own inner knowing without realizing it, and the one thing she says almost everyone gets wrong about hearing the signal: you can't think your way to it. You have to feel it in your body first.

We get into source energy, superconsciousness, shadow work, spiritual bypass, and what it actually looks like to get out of your own way long enough to hear what's already there.

If you've ever wondered whether that voice in your head is really yours — or whether something bigger is trying to reach you — this one's for you.

Connect with Peggy: https://www.peggyo.com.au/

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Music Credits

"Everlasting Flower" by Dani Ha Dani

"Blackbard" by Vakna Sal

"Untouched Valley" by Inon Zur

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Budham Sharanam Gaccami" by Yotam Agam

"Burning Silence" by Roie Shipigler

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yahezkel Raz


]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-19111410 Fri, 01 May 2026 16:00:00 -0700 1383 full false The Lesson Hidden In Every Person You'll Ever Meet The Lesson Hidden In Every Person You'll Ever Meet What if every person you've ever met has been trying to teach you something — and the only thing standing between you and that lesson is whether you were willing to look? Romona Koehler is a yoga teacher and spiritual seeker who walked out of a strict religious upbringing at sixteen, joined the Marine Corps, and spent the next few decades slowly unlearning everything she'd been told to believe. What she found on the other side was something much simpler — and much harder — than any doctrine: get quiet, strip away the stories, and pay attention to the people in front of you.

In this episode, Romona talks about what it really means to be a teacher, why the best ones never try to teach anything, and what happened when she sat alone with her dying mother and became, in her own words, someone she didn't recognize. If you've ever felt like you're searching for meaning in all the wrong places, this one's for you.

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Music Credits:

Hearts Ease by Roie Shipigler

Sea Level by Buddha Kid

Like a Bird by Letra

Floating by DaniHaDani

Dream Life by DJ Taz Rashid

Venus by Alton Peretz

Eternal Recluse by Kyle Preston

Contemplative Question by Tennessee Pistols

]]> What if every person you've ever met has been trying to teach you something — and the only thing standing between you and that lesson is whether you were willing to look? Romona Koehler is a yoga teacher and spiritual seeker who walked out of a strict religious upbringing at sixteen, joined the Marine Corps, and spent the next few decades slowly unlearning everything she'd been told to believe. What she found on the other side was something much simpler — and much harder — than any doctrine: get quiet, strip away the stories, and pay attention to the people in front of you.

In this episode, Romona talks about what it really means to be a teacher, why the best ones never try to teach anything, and what happened when she sat alone with her dying mother and became, in her own words, someone she didn't recognize. If you've ever felt like you're searching for meaning in all the wrong places, this one's for you.

__________________________________

Music Credits:

Hearts Ease by Roie Shipigler

Sea Level by Buddha Kid

Like a Bird by Letra

Floating by DaniHaDani

Dream Life by DJ Taz Rashid

Venus by Alton Peretz

Eternal Recluse by Kyle Preston

Contemplative Question by Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-19059588 Wed, 22 Apr 2026 08:00:00 -0700 1345 full false The Part of You That Needs to Die (If You Want to Change Your Life) The Part of You That Needs to Die (If You Want to Change Your Life) We all say we want to change our lives.

A better career. A stronger relationship. A deeper sense of purpose.

But most people never do.

Not because they don’t want to… but because real change requires something we spend our entire lives trying to avoid.

Letting go of who we’ve been.

In this episode, we explore the hidden relationship between fear, identity, and transformation through the story of Josh Liles—a former high-performing real estate professional who came face to face with death during a craniosacral therapy session.

What followed wasn’t just a shift in perspective.

It was the collapse of everything he thought he was.

Through Josh’s experience, we take a deeper look at:

• Why we avoid the things that could change our lives
 • How fear shapes our identity without us realizing it
 • What happens when that identity begins to break down
 • The psychology behind near-death experiences and transformation
 • And the idea of a “quiet voice” that guides us when we stop forcing life

This isn’t about becoming someone new.

It’s about understanding what has to fall away before anything new can begin.

If you’ve ever felt stuck… like you’re capable of more but can’t seem to move forward…

This episode might help you understand why.

__________________________________

Music Credits:

"Fear Not The Water" by Kyle Preston

"Voices" by Openstate

"Dramatic Motion" by Lars Bork Andersen

"Pluto" by Alon Peretz

"Vacuum" by Buddha Kid

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> We all say we want to change our lives.

A better career. A stronger relationship. A deeper sense of purpose.

But most people never do.

Not because they don’t want to… but because real change requires something we spend our entire lives trying to avoid.

Letting go of who we’ve been.

In this episode, we explore the hidden relationship between fear, identity, and transformation through the story of Josh Liles—a former high-performing real estate professional who came face to face with death during a craniosacral therapy session.

What followed wasn’t just a shift in perspective.

It was the collapse of everything he thought he was.

Through Josh’s experience, we take a deeper look at:

• Why we avoid the things that could change our lives
 • How fear shapes our identity without us realizing it
 • What happens when that identity begins to break down
 • The psychology behind near-death experiences and transformation
 • And the idea of a “quiet voice” that guides us when we stop forcing life

This isn’t about becoming someone new.

It’s about understanding what has to fall away before anything new can begin.

If you’ve ever felt stuck… like you’re capable of more but can’t seem to move forward…

This episode might help you understand why.

__________________________________

Music Credits:

"Fear Not The Water" by Kyle Preston

"Voices" by Openstate

"Dramatic Motion" by Lars Bork Andersen

"Pluto" by Alon Peretz

"Vacuum" by Buddha Kid

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Buzzsprout-18897202 Mon, 23 Mar 2026 17:00:00 -0700 1431 full false Who’s Really Talking in Your Head? The Hidden Beliefs Shaping Your Life Who’s Really Talking in Your Head? The Hidden Beliefs Shaping Your Life Most of us believe we know how to think.

But what if many of the thoughts shaping your life aren’t actually yours?

From the moment we’re born, we start collecting words from the people around us — parents, teachers, coaches, and friends. Over time, those words become beliefs. And those beliefs quietly shape the way we see ourselves, the risks we take, the opportunities we pursue, and the limits we place on our potential.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits down with mental performance coach Lauren Johnson, former mental performance coach for the New York Yankees, to explore how beliefs are formed, why they can be so difficult to change, and how our brains can trap us in patterns that hold us back.

Lauren explains why the brain is a threat detection machine, how our thoughts influence our emotions and performance, and why many high achievers unknowingly operate from beliefs they formed in childhood.

You’ll also learn Lauren’s practical framework for changing beliefs by shifting identity and behavior — and why the actions you take today can reshape the story your brain tells about who you are.

If you’ve ever felt like your mind is working against you… or wondered why intelligent, capable people still struggle with doubt, fear, and self-limiting beliefs — this episode will change the way you think about thinking.

Because the voice in your head might not be the truth.

It might just be an echo.

Topics covered:

• How beliefs about yourself are formed
 • Why your brain defaults to threat instead of growth
 • The psychology behind self-doubt and imposter syndrome
 • How thoughts influence emotions, physiology, and performance
 • The identity + action framework for changing beliefs
 • Why high achievers often feel stuck despite success

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Music Credits:

"Pearl" by EVOE

"Fractal_1" by Yotam Agam

"Altitude" by Muted

"No More Suffering" by Dear Gravity

"Hallow" by Stephen Keech

"Morning Light" by DJ Taz Rishid

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Most of us believe we know how to think.

But what if many of the thoughts shaping your life aren’t actually yours?

From the moment we’re born, we start collecting words from the people around us — parents, teachers, coaches, and friends. Over time, those words become beliefs. And those beliefs quietly shape the way we see ourselves, the risks we take, the opportunities we pursue, and the limits we place on our potential.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits down with mental performance coach Lauren Johnson, former mental performance coach for the New York Yankees, to explore how beliefs are formed, why they can be so difficult to change, and how our brains can trap us in patterns that hold us back.

Lauren explains why the brain is a threat detection machine, how our thoughts influence our emotions and performance, and why many high achievers unknowingly operate from beliefs they formed in childhood.

You’ll also learn Lauren’s practical framework for changing beliefs by shifting identity and behavior — and why the actions you take today can reshape the story your brain tells about who you are.

If you’ve ever felt like your mind is working against you… or wondered why intelligent, capable people still struggle with doubt, fear, and self-limiting beliefs — this episode will change the way you think about thinking.

Because the voice in your head might not be the truth.

It might just be an echo.

Topics covered:

• How beliefs about yourself are formed
 • Why your brain defaults to threat instead of growth
 • The psychology behind self-doubt and imposter syndrome
 • How thoughts influence emotions, physiology, and performance
 • The identity + action framework for changing beliefs
 • Why high achievers often feel stuck despite success

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Music Credits:

"Pearl" by EVOE

"Fractal_1" by Yotam Agam

"Altitude" by Muted

"No More Suffering" by Dear Gravity

"Hallow" by Stephen Keech

"Morning Light" by DJ Taz Rishid

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18824694 Tue, 10 Mar 2026 12:00:00 -0700 1605 full false The Body Keeps the Score? Where Your Memories Really Live (And Why Your Nervous System Won’t Forget) The Body Keeps the Score? Where Your Memories Really Live (And Why Your Nervous System Won’t Forget) We all have memories.

Some are sharp and vivid… others are fragmented and blurry.

We assume they live in the brain — neatly stored away as stories from the past.

But what if the story isn’t the whole memory?

What if your body is holding onto something your mind already forgot?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent sits down with Darby to explore a powerful question:

Do we just remember events… or does the body remember how it felt to survive them?

From childhood instability to chronic pain, Darby shares how unresolved emotional experiences were stored not just in her thoughts — but in her nervous system. What began as a physical injury turned into a profound realization:

The body may be carrying emotional imprints long after the event is over.

We dive into:

  • How trauma and overwhelming experiences can get “locked” into the tissues
  • Why insight alone isn’t always enough to heal
  • The connection between chronic stress, fight-or-flight, and emotional suppression
  • How safety — not force — allows the nervous system to release what it’s been holding

If you’ve ever said, “I thought I was over that… so why do I still react this way?” — this conversation will change the way you think about memory, healing, and the intelligence of your body.

This episode invites you to consider:

Maybe the brain remembers the story.
 But the body remembers the charge.

And healing begins when we learn to listen.

______________________________

Music Credits:

"Wandering Souls" by Stanley Gurvich

"Floating" by DaniHaDani

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Opening Up" by Master Minded

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yehezkel Raz

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols 

]]> We all have memories.

Some are sharp and vivid… others are fragmented and blurry.

We assume they live in the brain — neatly stored away as stories from the past.

But what if the story isn’t the whole memory?

What if your body is holding onto something your mind already forgot?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent sits down with Darby to explore a powerful question:

Do we just remember events… or does the body remember how it felt to survive them?

From childhood instability to chronic pain, Darby shares how unresolved emotional experiences were stored not just in her thoughts — but in her nervous system. What began as a physical injury turned into a profound realization:

The body may be carrying emotional imprints long after the event is over.

We dive into:

  • How trauma and overwhelming experiences can get “locked” into the tissues
  • Why insight alone isn’t always enough to heal
  • The connection between chronic stress, fight-or-flight, and emotional suppression
  • How safety — not force — allows the nervous system to release what it’s been holding

If you’ve ever said, “I thought I was over that… so why do I still react this way?” — this conversation will change the way you think about memory, healing, and the intelligence of your body.

This episode invites you to consider:

Maybe the brain remembers the story.
 But the body remembers the charge.

And healing begins when we learn to listen.

______________________________

Music Credits:

"Wandering Souls" by Stanley Gurvich

"Floating" by DaniHaDani

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Opening Up" by Master Minded

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yehezkel Raz

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols 

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18709088 Wed, 18 Feb 2026 16:00:00 -0800 1466 full false He Survived Combat—But Nearly Lost His Life to Prescription Drugs | A Veteran’s Real Healing Story He Survived Combat—But Nearly Lost His Life to Prescription Drugs | A Veteran’s Real Healing Story Combat veteran Manny Rodriguez survived an IED explosion in Iraq—but the battle that nearly cost him his life didn’t happen overseas.

After back surgery and deployment, Manny was prescribed powerful combinations of opioids, sedatives, and stimulants that slowly pulled his body and mind out of balance. When he returned home, the prescriptions kept coming—until his health reached a breaking point and he realized the treatment meant to help him was making things worse.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Manny shares how he made the courageous decision to step away from the medical path he’d been told to follow, endured the brutal process of getting off medication, and discovered healing through breath work and nervous system regulation.

This episode explores:

  • The hidden risk of opioid dependence after surgery
  • What combat actually feels like vs. how medication changed Manny’s experience
  • How mixed medications affect the brain and nervous system
  • Why breath work plays a powerful role in recovery and regulation
  • And the courage it takes to question beliefs about authority, healing, and personal agency

This isn’t a story about rejecting medicine.
 It’s about learning to listen to your body—and finding the courage to change course when something no longer serves you.

If you’ve ever wondered whether the path you’re on is truly helping you heal, this conversation may change the way you think about recovery.

Learn tactical breathing with Manny at www.tacticalcalm.com 

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Music Credits

"Out of Flux" by Shutdown

"Lost" by Lars Bork Andersen

"Merciful" by Gruber

"The Uprising" by Gruber

"A Town Called Dismal" by Josh McCausland

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Pearl" by EVOE

"Moving Forward" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Combat veteran Manny Rodriguez survived an IED explosion in Iraq—but the battle that nearly cost him his life didn’t happen overseas.

After back surgery and deployment, Manny was prescribed powerful combinations of opioids, sedatives, and stimulants that slowly pulled his body and mind out of balance. When he returned home, the prescriptions kept coming—until his health reached a breaking point and he realized the treatment meant to help him was making things worse.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Manny shares how he made the courageous decision to step away from the medical path he’d been told to follow, endured the brutal process of getting off medication, and discovered healing through breath work and nervous system regulation.

This episode explores:

  • The hidden risk of opioid dependence after surgery
  • What combat actually feels like vs. how medication changed Manny’s experience
  • How mixed medications affect the brain and nervous system
  • Why breath work plays a powerful role in recovery and regulation
  • And the courage it takes to question beliefs about authority, healing, and personal agency

This isn’t a story about rejecting medicine.
 It’s about learning to listen to your body—and finding the courage to change course when something no longer serves you.

If you’ve ever wondered whether the path you’re on is truly helping you heal, this conversation may change the way you think about recovery.

Learn tactical breathing with Manny at www.tacticalcalm.com 

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Music Credits

"Out of Flux" by Shutdown

"Lost" by Lars Bork Andersen

"Merciful" by Gruber

"The Uprising" by Gruber

"A Town Called Dismal" by Josh McCausland

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Pearl" by EVOE

"Moving Forward" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18593199 Tue, 03 Feb 2026 12:00:00 -0800 1566 full false Letting Go of What Hurts: How We Heal After the Unexpected Letting Go of What Hurts: How We Heal After the Unexpected When life blindsides us, we don’t just remember what happened — we remember how it felt.
In this episode, Brent sits down with Nick, a father whose children survived the Nashville school shooting, to explore not just the event itself, but the quiet, complicated, deeply human process of healing that followed.

This isn’t a story about giving advice.
 It’s a story about how humans process the moments we never saw coming — the big shocks and the smaller emotional bruises we collect along the way.

Nick shares:

  • What happened the morning of the shooting
  • What his body felt before his mind could make sense of it
  • The blur that followed in the days and months afterward
  • The internal reset that saved his marriage
  • The unexpected ways his children showed strength
  • How returning to the school became part of their healing
  • And why some memories stay alive until we decide to release them

Alongside Nick’s story, we explore the neuroscience of trauma, how the brain stores painful events, why time feels strange after something life-altering, and what it really means to “let go” of memories that no longer serve who we’re becoming.

This episode is for anyone carrying something heavy — even if it’s not “big enough” to call trauma — and wondering why it still lives inside them.

Healing isn’t just about moving on.
 It’s about learning which memories to keep … and which ones to finally set down.

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Music Credits

"Land" by ANBR

"Espionage" by Solis

"Corals Under The Sun" by Yehezekel Raz

"Apollo" by Rotem Cinamon 

"Hallow" by Steven Keech

"Ea" by Hans Johnson

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols


]]> When life blindsides us, we don’t just remember what happened — we remember how it felt.
In this episode, Brent sits down with Nick, a father whose children survived the Nashville school shooting, to explore not just the event itself, but the quiet, complicated, deeply human process of healing that followed.

This isn’t a story about giving advice.
 It’s a story about how humans process the moments we never saw coming — the big shocks and the smaller emotional bruises we collect along the way.

Nick shares:

  • What happened the morning of the shooting
  • What his body felt before his mind could make sense of it
  • The blur that followed in the days and months afterward
  • The internal reset that saved his marriage
  • The unexpected ways his children showed strength
  • How returning to the school became part of their healing
  • And why some memories stay alive until we decide to release them

Alongside Nick’s story, we explore the neuroscience of trauma, how the brain stores painful events, why time feels strange after something life-altering, and what it really means to “let go” of memories that no longer serve who we’re becoming.

This episode is for anyone carrying something heavy — even if it’s not “big enough” to call trauma — and wondering why it still lives inside them.

Healing isn’t just about moving on.
 It’s about learning which memories to keep … and which ones to finally set down.

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Music Credits

"Land" by ANBR

"Espionage" by Solis

"Corals Under The Sun" by Yehezekel Raz

"Apollo" by Rotem Cinamon 

"Hallow" by Steven Keech

"Ea" by Hans Johnson

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols


]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18334526 Wed, 10 Dec 2025 17:00:00 -0800 1383 full false The Art of Letting Go: What Tibetan Monks Teach About Impermanence The Art of Letting Go: What Tibetan Monks Teach About Impermanence What if the things you spend your life building were never meant to last?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits with Tibetan monks creating a sand mandala—a sacred artwork that takes days to build and seconds to destroy. Their teaching? Everything in life is impermanent, and that truth is what makes it beautiful.

You’ll hear how these monks view life, effort, and the purpose of creation—not as something to cling to, but as something to experience fully and release with grace. Brent explores why Western culture struggles with impermanence, our deep attachment to results and outcomes, and how we can find lasting joy in the act of creation itself.

If you’ve ever felt like your achievements fade too fast, or your happiness depends on what you accomplish next—this conversation will shift your perspective.

Listen now to discover:

  • Why Tibetan monks spend days building mandalas they’ll immediately destroy
  • What impermanence can teach us about freedom and fulfillment
  • How to find joy without attachment to results
  • Why letting go might be the most powerful creative act of all

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Music Credits

"Breath Deep" by Master Minded

"Ea" by Hans Johnson

"Hallow" by Stephen Keech

"Flicker of Thought" by Eleven Tales

"Like a Bird" by Letra

"Moving Forward" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> What if the things you spend your life building were never meant to last?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits with Tibetan monks creating a sand mandala—a sacred artwork that takes days to build and seconds to destroy. Their teaching? Everything in life is impermanent, and that truth is what makes it beautiful.

You’ll hear how these monks view life, effort, and the purpose of creation—not as something to cling to, but as something to experience fully and release with grace. Brent explores why Western culture struggles with impermanence, our deep attachment to results and outcomes, and how we can find lasting joy in the act of creation itself.

If you’ve ever felt like your achievements fade too fast, or your happiness depends on what you accomplish next—this conversation will shift your perspective.

Listen now to discover:

  • Why Tibetan monks spend days building mandalas they’ll immediately destroy
  • What impermanence can teach us about freedom and fulfillment
  • How to find joy without attachment to results
  • Why letting go might be the most powerful creative act of all

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Music Credits

"Breath Deep" by Master Minded

"Ea" by Hans Johnson

"Hallow" by Stephen Keech

"Flicker of Thought" by Eleven Tales

"Like a Bird" by Letra

"Moving Forward" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18180537 Thu, 13 Nov 2025 07:00:00 -0800 1226 full false Do We Live More Than Once? What Past Life Regression Reveals About the Soul Do We Live More Than Once? What Past Life Regression Reveals About the Soul What if death isn’t the end—but a doorway we’ve walked through countless times before?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, host Brent Edward explores one of humanity’s oldest and most controversial ideas: reincarnation. Through the story of a woman who experienced vivid past life regressions and readings from the Akashic Records, we ask a question that challenges everything Western culture teaches us about life and death: Do we live more than once?

You’ll hear what she saw on the other side of death, what those memories revealed about the soul’s purpose, and why the experience gave her peace instead of fear. Along the way, we’ll look at ancient cultures that embraced reincarnation, modern psychological skepticism, and the possibility that consciousness continues long after the body stops breathing.

If you’ve ever wondered where we go when we die—or why some lives feel connected in ways we can’t explain—this conversation might change how you see everything.

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Music Credits:

"Duality" by Kyle Preston

"Suspicion" by The Bows

"Parallel Dimension" by Onyx Music

"Pluto" by Alon Peretz

"Hallow" by Steven Keech

"Resonate" by Romeo

"Lift" by Starlux 

]]> What if death isn’t the end—but a doorway we’ve walked through countless times before?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, host Brent Edward explores one of humanity’s oldest and most controversial ideas: reincarnation. Through the story of a woman who experienced vivid past life regressions and readings from the Akashic Records, we ask a question that challenges everything Western culture teaches us about life and death: Do we live more than once?

You’ll hear what she saw on the other side of death, what those memories revealed about the soul’s purpose, and why the experience gave her peace instead of fear. Along the way, we’ll look at ancient cultures that embraced reincarnation, modern psychological skepticism, and the possibility that consciousness continues long after the body stops breathing.

If you’ve ever wondered where we go when we die—or why some lives feel connected in ways we can’t explain—this conversation might change how you see everything.

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Music Credits:

"Duality" by Kyle Preston

"Suspicion" by The Bows

"Parallel Dimension" by Onyx Music

"Pluto" by Alon Peretz

"Hallow" by Steven Keech

"Resonate" by Romeo

"Lift" by Starlux 

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18092655 Wed, 29 Oct 2025 07:00:00 -0700 1475 full false Chasing Enough: Why We Seek Approval and How to Finally Let Go Chasing Enough: Why We Seek Approval and How to Finally Let Go Why does it feel so good to be praised — and so painful to be criticized?

From ancient tribes to modern timelines, our brains are wired to crave belonging. But that same wiring can trap us in a lifelong chase for validation, measuring our worth through the eyes of others.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, former NFL player Chase Winovich opens up about reaching the top of his dream — and realizing the applause that once defined him could no longer sustain him. Together, we explore what happens when the crowd’s approval fades, why criticism cuts so deep, and how to begin crafting your own definition of enough.

If you’ve ever wondered why external validation feels irresistible, or how to quiet the noise of others’ opinions long enough to hear your own truth — this episode will meet you there.

🎧 Listen to learn the science behind our need for approval, the cost of chasing it, and the freedom that comes when you finally stop needing to prove yourself.

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Music Credits

"Feeling" by Bortex

"Scarlett" by Dodo Danciu

"Flight of the Inner Bird" by Yehezekle Raz

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"The Gathering" by Will Van De Crommert

"Surfing On The Milky Way" by Semo

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Why does it feel so good to be praised — and so painful to be criticized?

From ancient tribes to modern timelines, our brains are wired to crave belonging. But that same wiring can trap us in a lifelong chase for validation, measuring our worth through the eyes of others.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, former NFL player Chase Winovich opens up about reaching the top of his dream — and realizing the applause that once defined him could no longer sustain him. Together, we explore what happens when the crowd’s approval fades, why criticism cuts so deep, and how to begin crafting your own definition of enough.

If you’ve ever wondered why external validation feels irresistible, or how to quiet the noise of others’ opinions long enough to hear your own truth — this episode will meet you there.

🎧 Listen to learn the science behind our need for approval, the cost of chasing it, and the freedom that comes when you finally stop needing to prove yourself.

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Music Credits

"Feeling" by Bortex

"Scarlett" by Dodo Danciu

"Flight of the Inner Bird" by Yehezekle Raz

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"The Gathering" by Will Van De Crommert

"Surfing On The Milky Way" by Semo

"Contemplative Question" by The Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-18014042 Thu, 16 Oct 2025 07:00:00 -0700 1484 full false Why Truth Resonates: The Power of Authentic Expression Why Truth Resonates: The Power of Authentic Expression Why do some voices, songs, and stories hit us so deeply that we just know they’re true? In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits down with Nahko to explore the connection between creativity, courage, and authentic expression. Together they dive into why humans feel an almost primal need to express themselves, the fear that often holds us back, and how truth carries a resonance that cuts through noise and connects us on a human level.

If you’ve ever struggled to find your voice, feared rejection, or wondered why certain words and music feel magnetic, this conversation will inspire you to listen inward, trust your truth, and express it freely.

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Music Credits

Hans Johnson - Every Breath

Borrtex - Feeling

Nahko and Medicine For The People - 4th Door (Live in Sacramento, CA 9.19.25)

Theater of Delays - Above the Clouds

Amick Cutler - Swell

Stanley Gurvich - Wandering Souls

Sparrow Tree - Shimmering Light

]]> Why do some voices, songs, and stories hit us so deeply that we just know they’re true? In this episode of Better Beliefs, Brent Kocal sits down with Nahko to explore the connection between creativity, courage, and authentic expression. Together they dive into why humans feel an almost primal need to express themselves, the fear that often holds us back, and how truth carries a resonance that cuts through noise and connects us on a human level.

If you’ve ever struggled to find your voice, feared rejection, or wondered why certain words and music feel magnetic, this conversation will inspire you to listen inward, trust your truth, and express it freely.

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Music Credits

Hans Johnson - Every Breath

Borrtex - Feeling

Nahko and Medicine For The People - 4th Door (Live in Sacramento, CA 9.19.25)

Theater of Delays - Above the Clouds

Amick Cutler - Swell

Stanley Gurvich - Wandering Souls

Sparrow Tree - Shimmering Light

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-17941687 Thu, 02 Oct 2025 08:00:00 -0700 1353 full false Echoes of Energy Echoes of Energy What if the key to healing wasn’t found in medicine … but in vibration?

For centuries, ancient traditions have spoken of a life force — chi, prana, pneuma — an unseen energy flowing through every living being. Modern science calls it biofields. But can sound really reach into that invisible current … and change the body itself?

My guest today lived the question. Once in a wheelchair, she discovered tuning forks — simple tools of sound and frequency — and used them to clear and realign her energy field. Within three months, she was walking again.

This episode explores her extraordinary story … and the mystery of the vibrations that may hold the power to restore balance, vitality, and life itself.

This episode is not to be considered medical advice.  We at the show are not doctors.  If you feel you are in need, please contact a medical professional.  

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Music Credits for this episode (used with permission from Artlist.io)

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Trust" by Master Minded

"Fog" by Dor Ben Lulu

"Free Radicals" by Stanley Gurvich

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yehezkel Raz

"Floating" by Dani Ha Dani

"Flicker of Thought" by Elven Tales

"Contemplative Question by The Tennessee Pistols


]]> What if the key to healing wasn’t found in medicine … but in vibration?

For centuries, ancient traditions have spoken of a life force — chi, prana, pneuma — an unseen energy flowing through every living being. Modern science calls it biofields. But can sound really reach into that invisible current … and change the body itself?

My guest today lived the question. Once in a wheelchair, she discovered tuning forks — simple tools of sound and frequency — and used them to clear and realign her energy field. Within three months, she was walking again.

This episode explores her extraordinary story … and the mystery of the vibrations that may hold the power to restore balance, vitality, and life itself.

This episode is not to be considered medical advice.  We at the show are not doctors.  If you feel you are in need, please contact a medical professional.  

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Music Credits for this episode (used with permission from Artlist.io)

"Eternal Recluse" by Kyle Preston

"Above the Clouds" by Theater of Delays

"Trust" by Master Minded

"Fog" by Dor Ben Lulu

"Free Radicals" by Stanley Gurvich

"A Journey's Epilogue" by Yehezkel Raz

"Floating" by Dani Ha Dani

"Flicker of Thought" by Elven Tales

"Contemplative Question by The Tennessee Pistols


]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-17863696 Thu, 18 Sep 2025 07:00:00 -0700 1706 full false The Currents We Follow The Currents We Follow A honeymoon in paradise turned into a fight for survival when the 2006 Thailand tsunami struck. In the chaos, a professional golfer’s life — and the future he believed was his — was torn apart. Unable to return to the game he had trained for his entire life, he faced not just physical injury but the deeper grief of letting go of who he thought he was meant to be.

But sometimes, purpose doesn’t wait for us to find it. Sometimes, it comes looking.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, you’ll hear how one man transformed tragedy into a new calling — not by holding tighter to the plan he once had, but by opening to the creative life waiting for him. His story is a reminder that when old identities wash away, what emerges can change not just our lives, but the lives of everyone we touch.


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Music Credits:

Dodo Danciu 'Scarlett'

Lift 'Starluxe'

Baker St.1 'Duffmusiq'

Michael Vignola 'Whole'

Ian Post 'New World'

Sparrow Tree - 'Shimmering Light'


]]> A honeymoon in paradise turned into a fight for survival when the 2006 Thailand tsunami struck. In the chaos, a professional golfer’s life — and the future he believed was his — was torn apart. Unable to return to the game he had trained for his entire life, he faced not just physical injury but the deeper grief of letting go of who he thought he was meant to be.

But sometimes, purpose doesn’t wait for us to find it. Sometimes, it comes looking.

In this episode of Better Beliefs, you’ll hear how one man transformed tragedy into a new calling — not by holding tighter to the plan he once had, but by opening to the creative life waiting for him. His story is a reminder that when old identities wash away, what emerges can change not just our lives, but the lives of everyone we touch.


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Music Credits:

Dodo Danciu 'Scarlett'

Lift 'Starluxe'

Baker St.1 'Duffmusiq'

Michael Vignola 'Whole'

Ian Post 'New World'

Sparrow Tree - 'Shimmering Light'


]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-17776491 Thu, 04 Sep 2025 06:00:00 -0700 1247 full false Nature? Nurture? Neither. Nature? Nurture? Neither. Most people believe who we are comes down to our nature … or the way we were nurtured.

But what if both answers are wrong?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, you’ll hear from a man who grew up in a violent home, broke free from generations of abuse, and built a company worth hundreds of millions—simply by changing one thing most people overlook.

Listen in and discover the surprising third force that shapes who we become.

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Music credits: 

"SpaceTimeThought" by CTRL S

"Follow You" by The North

"Wings of Imagination" by Ian Post

"Lu sciocareddu" by TEO

"Untouched Valley" by Inon Zur

"September" by Dor Ben Lulu

"Nexus" by Spearfisher

"Question" by Tennessee Pistols

]]> Most people believe who we are comes down to our nature … or the way we were nurtured.

But what if both answers are wrong?

In this episode of Better Beliefs, you’ll hear from a man who grew up in a violent home, broke free from generations of abuse, and built a company worth hundreds of millions—simply by changing one thing most people overlook.

Listen in and discover the surprising third force that shapes who we become.

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Music credits: 

"SpaceTimeThought" by CTRL S

"Follow You" by The North

"Wings of Imagination" by Ian Post

"Lu sciocareddu" by TEO

"Untouched Valley" by Inon Zur

"September" by Dor Ben Lulu

"Nexus" by Spearfisher

"Question" by Tennessee Pistols

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-17700945 Wed, 20 Aug 2025 10:00:00 -0700 1178 2 full true Science or Supernatural? Science or Supernatural? This episode follows the story of a Northern California man who used his non-physical thoughts to alter his physical reality.  You will hear the story of how he did it and an explanation of the unseen forces behind it, which goes into both the mystical and scientific realms.  The belief this episode challenges is that physical effects can only happen by initiating them with a physical cause.  The host's belief changed during the course to listening to the story and researching the possibilities.  Will your beliefs change by listening to it?

]]> This episode follows the story of a Northern California man who used his non-physical thoughts to alter his physical reality.  You will hear the story of how he did it and an explanation of the unseen forces behind it, which goes into both the mystical and scientific realms.  The belief this episode challenges is that physical effects can only happen by initiating them with a physical cause.  The host's belief changed during the course to listening to the story and researching the possibilities.  Will your beliefs change by listening to it?

]]> Brent Kocal Buzzsprout-17642905 Fri, 08 Aug 2025 16:00:00 -0700 1373 1 full false