Today I'm officially 31 years old. And year 30? It humbled me, grew me, and broke me in ways I didn't see coming.

In this episode of the Let's Parley Podcast, I'm pulling back the curtain on the most transformative year of my life. From moving to Houston and building real community, to giving up the things that were keeping me from God, to an unexpected ER visit and a major career pivot on the horizon. This birthday reflection is one of the most honest conversations I've shared on this show.

If you've ever felt like God was rearranging your entire life all at once, this episode is for you.

We talk about:

• What I gave up this year to grow closer to God
• Building real, faith-rooted community in a new city
• The health scare that landed me in the ER
• Why I'm pivoting my career — and what's next professionally
• How God uses transitional seasons to realign us
• Stepping into new opportunities to serve
• A few personal updates I've been holding close

Year 30 was a lot. But year 31? I'm ready.

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so why did everything still feel like it was falling apart?

After moving to Austin, I genuinely believed I was heading in the right direction. I was getting closer to God, surrounding myself with stronger believers, building healthier habits, and trying to create something meaningful through my business.

But behind the scenes… I was struggling.

Spiritually.

Emotionally.

Financially.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I continue the story (Part 3) — sharing how one of the most spiritually transformative seasons of my life also became one of the most difficult.

We talk about:

• Moving to Austin and trying to rebuild my life with God at the center
• How Christian community helped reshape my perspective
• The physical and spiritual transformation that came from 75 Hard
• My continued struggles with dating, lust, and validation
• Launching Fit in Faith and the pressure that came with rapid growth
• Why I became angry with God when things started falling apart again
• The isolation, financial stress, and internal battles that followed
• Why moving to Houston with my brother became necessary for my healing and growth

This episode is for anyone who thought following God would immediately make life easier…

Anyone trying to break old cycles but still battling temptation…

And anyone learning that surrender and transformation is a process, not a moment.

Sometimes God allows things to fall apart…

so you can finally build your life on the right foundation.

This is Part 3 of the series.

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Comment below: Have you ever gone through a season where you questioned why God was allowing things to happen?

Four years ago, I quit my 9–5 job to pursue entrepreneurship full time… and for a moment, it felt like everything was falling into place.

I was building my business. I felt closer to God than ever. I truly believed I was stepping into my calling.

Then everything changed.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I continue the story (Part 2) — sharing what happened after I made that one decision, how my life quickly turned into a roller coaster, and how I went from feeling aligned… to completely losing direction.

We talk about:

• The decision to quit my job and go all-in on my purpose
• How a viral moment led to an unexpected opportunity on reality TV
• The emotional highs and lows after Big Brother
• Moving to LA and stepping into a completely different lifestyle
• The habits and decisions that slowly pulled me away from who I was
• How everything began to spiral — financially, mentally, and spiritually

This episode is for anyone chasing a big opportunity…

Anyone who’s experienced success but still felt lost…

And anyone trying to find their way back after drifting from who they know they’re called to be.

Sometimes what looks like a breakthrough… can lead to a breakdown if you’re not grounded.

This is Part 2 of a 3-part series.

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Go to school.

Get a job.

Climb the ladder.

That’s exactly what I thought too.

But my life took a completely unexpected turn.

From working full-time as an engineer…

To quitting and becoming a business owner…

To stepping into the world of reality TV…

To moving across 4 different cities in just 5 years…

None of it was part of the plan.

In this episode, I’m taking you back to the beginning and sharing the real story behind how it all started, the moments that shaped me, and the decisions that changed everything.

Including:

• A moment from my childhood that I believe showed God’s hand on my life
• The first time someone boldly introduced me to Jesus
• The experience that led me to the altar… even though I didn’t fully understand it
• How I drifted back into the world and started seeking validation in the wrong places
• The internal battles I faced while working as an engineer

If you’ve ever felt like your life isn’t going according to plan…

this episode will show you that there may be a bigger purpose behind it all.

This is Part 1 of a 2-part series.

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Do they have a point? Or are they completely missing the mark?

The comment brought up my past — specifically my time on reality TV — and questioned how I could speak on being a “man of God” after what people saw.

And honestly… I don’t run from that.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I break down the comment, my initial reaction to it, and what I took away from the situation.

We talk about:

•The reality of having your past brought up publicly

•Why I don’t shy away from my past — I embrace it as my testimony

•The difference between living in your past vs being transformed from it

•Why my message isn’t based on my authority — but on God’s Word

•How to handle criticism when you’re walking in a new direction

This episode is for anyone who feels defined by their past…

Anyone who’s been called out or misunderstood…

And anyone learning how to stand firm in who God is calling them to be.

Your past doesn’t disqualify you.

It can actually be the very thing God uses to reach others.

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Like things that used to be moving fast — your business, your relationships, your progress — suddenly hit a wall?

I’ve been in that exact season.

At first, I thought something was wrong.

But what I’m starting to realize is… God didn’t slow things down to punish me. He slowed things down to realign me.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I share what this slower season has revealed in my life and how it’s allowed me to focus on areas I’ve neglected for far too long.

We talk about:

•Why slowing down can actually be a sign of alignment, not failure

•Shifting from chasing money → to creating real value in business

•Approaching dating with patience and genuine connection

•Being more intentional with family and friendships

•Building roots in your local community instead of constantly moving

This episode is for anyone who feels like they’re falling behind…

Anyone questioning their current season…

And anyone who needs a reminder that God is still working — even when things feel slow.

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And it’s only been a month.

Since moving here, my interactions with women have been… interesting. From conversations at the gym to unexpected reactions when I share my lifestyle and faith, this experience has already challenged some of my expectations around dating.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I share what I’ve experienced so far navigating the dating scene in Houston. More importantly, I’ll share what it’s teaching me about patience, standards, and staying grounded in who I am.

We talk about:

•My real interactions with women since moving to Houston

•The perception of “men of God” in today’s dating culture

•Why patience is necessary when dating with intention

•Letting go of people-pleasing and standing firm in your values

•My approach to meeting women and building genuine connections

This episode is for anyone navigating dating in a new city…

Anyone trying to stay aligned with their values…

And anyone realizing that finding the right person takes time.

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Not everything! There’s been a lot that’s been great. The worship has been powerful, the environments are welcoming, and the people have been incredible.

But there have also been moments that made me pause.

In one service, the pastor didn’t mention Jesus once.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I share my honest observations after visiting multiple churches in Houston. I talk about what’s been encouraging, what’s been concerning, and how I’m approaching the process of finding a church home that aligns with my faith.

We talk about:

•The strengths of the Houston church scene (worship, community, energy)

•Where some churches may miss the mark in their messaging

•Why Biblical teaching matters more than emotional delivery

•What I’m personally looking for in a home church

•The importance of community, mentorship, and serving

Finding the right church isn’t just about how it feels. It’s about what’s being taught, who you’re becoming, and how you’re growing in your relationship with Christ.

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That’s exactly how I’ve felt since moving to Houston.

The biggest surprise hasn’t been the city itself… it’s been the people. The hospitality, the support, and the genuine welcome I’ve received from complete strangers has completely shifted my perspective on what it means to move to a new place.

In this episode of Let’s Parley, I share what has stood out most since making the move to Houston, how my experience has been shaped by what I’ve been looking for, and what this transition is teaching me about community, brotherhood, and intentional living.

We talk about:

•The unexpected level of hospitality I’ve experienced in Houston

•How social media accelerated connection in a new city

•Why your experience is shaped by what you seek out

•Lessons from living with my brother and building together

•What I’m currently navigating: finding a home church, fitness community, and local spots

This episode is for anyone moving to a new city…

Anyone trying to build community from scratch…

And anyone looking to create a life that’s intentional, not accidental.

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I’m talking about no signs of traction. No clarity that you are on the right track. No visible progress of any sort.

I’m in that season right now.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I share what I’m doing to combat the temptation to give up and the four things you need to do when it feels like nothing is working.

We talk about:

•Why you must revisit your “why” when results disappear

•How testimony from others can rebuild belief during uncertain seasons

•The power of reflecting on past victories to reshape your mindset

•What Scripture says about seasons of silence and uncertainty

•Why Psalm 139:16 and Romans 8:28 change how you interpret delay

This episode is for anyone building something that hasn’t taken off yet…

Anyone praying for clarity that hasn’t come…

And anyone tempted to walk away from what they once felt called to.

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I learned that the hard way.

After months of grinding — 4 sets per exercise, 60 minutes of daily cardio, a 400-calorie deficit, high protein, low carbs — I got leaner than ever BUT…

My HRV was dropping.

My sleep was suffering.

And my body was clearly under stress.

In this episode of the Let’s Parley Podcast, I break down what happened when I made a bold shift: cutting my workout volume in half, increasing carbs, slightly raising calories, and training smarter instead of harder and what the data showed after a full month.

We talk about:

•Why there’s a phase where more work becomes counterproductive

•How reducing training volume improved my recovery without affecting leanness

•Why carbs became a recovery tool instead of something to fear

•The role of HRV and resting heart rate in guiding smarter decisions

•How muscle mass changes the amount of effort required to stay lean

This episode is for anyone grinding hard but feeling run down…

 Anyone afraid to eat more carbs while cutting…

And anyone who wants to earn the right to train less and still sustain results.

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