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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I’m sharing what it really feels like to return to myself after a season of change, divorce finalizing, traveling through Europe, coming home to unexpected fear, unexpected grief, and the quiet rebuilding that happens in the messy middle. This isn’t a story about being “finished” or having it all figured out.  It’s a story about remembering who you are, even after life shakes you in ways you didn’t expect. Inside the episode, I talk about: Why self-discovery is a cycle, ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’m sharing what it really feels like to return to myself after a season of change, divorce finalizing, traveling through Europe, coming home to unexpected fear, unexpected grief, and the quiet rebuilding that happens in the messy middle.</p><p>This isn’t a story about being “finished” or having it all figured out.<br/> It’s a story about remembering who you are, even after life shakes you in ways you didn’t expect.</p><p>Inside the episode, I talk about:</p><ul><li>Why self-discovery is a cycle, not a destination</li><li>The version of me I met while traveling, and why I miss her</li><li>What knocked me off-center when I came home</li><li>Letting joy back in when fear takes over</li><li>Anchor points, shadows, and nervous system healing</li><li>What solitude taught me during a literal power outage</li><li>How I’m learning to be a better friend to myself</li></ul><p>If you’ve been feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or unsure of who you are lately, this episode is for you. You haven’t lost yourself. <b>You’re becoming.</b></p><p>🔗 <b>Listen &amp; Subscribe </b><a href='https://iwillknowyou.buzzsprout.com/'><b>here</b></a><b>!</b><br/>💬 <b>Let’s Connect!</b> <a href='https://www.instagram.com/QueenArlyne'>@QueenArlyne on Instagram</a><br/>⭐ <b>If this episode resonated, leave a review!</b> It helps more people find the show. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this deeply personal episode, Arlyne Solis explores how heartbreak, in all its forms, can become a portal to deeper self-love, healing, and connection.</p><p>From the loss of family members to the unraveling of a 15-year relationship, Arlyne shares how grief and love are inextricably linked, and how losing what (or who) we love can lead us back to ourselves.</p><p>This is a story of heartbreak, healing, and the unexpected ways love finds us when we’re willing to sit with pain, not run from it. If you&apos;ve ever felt lost inside your own story, this episode will remind you that grief is not just an ending, it&apos;s an invitation to return to who you really are.</p><p>Yes, this episode will break your heart a little… but it will also gently put it back together with more light and self-love than it had before.</p><p>🔗 <b>Listen &amp; Subscribe </b><a href='https://iwillknowyou.buzzsprout.com/'><b>here</b></a><b>!</b><br/>💬 <b>Let’s Connect!</b> <a href='https://www.instagram.com/QueenArlyne'>@QueenArlyne on Instagram</a><br/>⭐ <b>If this episode resonated, leave a review!</b> It helps more people find the show. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Content warning: This episode includes reflections on sexual assault and trauma. Please take care of yourself as you listen. In this deeply personal episode, I share one of the most life-altering experiences of my life—an incident of sexual assault that changed how I saw myself, the world, and what it means to heal. This episode is a story of survival, truth-telling, and reclaiming wholeness. I talk about trauma responses, anxiety, taking legal action, and the choice to heal from within. This...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Content warning: This episode includes reflections on sexual assault and trauma. Please take care of yourself as you listen.</em></p><p>In this deeply personal episode, I share one of the most life-altering experiences of my life—an incident of sexual assault that changed how I saw myself, the world, and what it means to heal.</p><p>This episode is a story of survival, truth-telling, and reclaiming wholeness. I talk about trauma responses, anxiety, taking legal action, and the choice to heal from within.</p><p>This isn’t just about pain—it’s about power.</p><p>If you’re going through your own “life quake,” I hope this reminds you that healing is possible, even from the deepest fractures. The ones no one else can see, but you carry every day.</p><p><br/></p><p>🔗 <b>Listen &amp; Subscribe </b><a href='https://iwillknowyou.buzzsprout.com/'><b>here</b></a><b>!</b><br/>💬 <b>Let’s Connect!</b> <a href='https://www.instagram.com/QueenArlyne'>@QueenArlyne on Instagram</a><br/>⭐ <b>If this episode resonated, leave a review!</b> It helps more people find the show. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome to the very first episode of I Will Know You! In this deeply personal and raw conversation, I share the pivotal moment that led me on an insatiable journey of self-discovery—staring in the mirror and realizing I didn’t fully know myself. From navigating loss and divorce to redefining identity, this episode is about embracing change, finding resilience, and allowing relationships to guide us toward knowing ourselves. If you've ever felt lost in transition or unsure of who you are, this...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to the very first episode of <em>I Will Know You</em>! In this deeply personal and raw conversation, I share the pivotal moment that led me on an insatiable journey of self-discovery—staring in the mirror and realizing I didn’t fully know myself. From navigating loss and divorce to redefining identity, this episode is about embracing change, finding resilience, and allowing relationships to guide us toward knowing ourselves.</p><p>If you&apos;ve ever felt lost in transition or unsure of who you are, this episode is for you. </p><p><b>What You’ll Hear in This Episode:</b></p><ul><li>The moment I realized I didn’t know myself—and how I started to change that</li><li> How major life shifts (divorce, loss, career changes) impact identity</li><li> The surprising role of community and relationships in self-discovery</li><li> Breaking free from societal expectations of success &amp; happiness</li><li> Why vulnerability and connection are essential for personal growth</li></ul><p>🔗 <b>Listen &amp; Subscribe </b><a href='https://iwillknowyou.buzzsprout.com/'><b>here</b></a><b>!</b><br/>💬 <b>Let’s Connect!</b> <a href='https://www.instagram.com/QueenArlyne'>@QueenArlyne on Instagram</a><br/>⭐ <b>If this episode resonated, leave a review!</b> It helps more people find the show. </p>]]></content:encoded>
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