In today’s episode of Aspire, hosts Katie M. Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by student co-host Amyra for a conversation with Rachel Foster, a human rights attorney and co-founder and president of World Without Exploitation. Rachel shares how her career in law, community organizing, and survivor advocacy led her to build coalitions that challenge human trafficking, commercial sexual exploitation, and the systems that allow them to continue.

The conversation explores Rachel’s survivor-informed policy work, including efforts to close legal loopholes that fail to protect 15, 16, and 17-year-olds from commercial sexual exploitation. Rachel also discusses survivor leadership, the importance of bringing survivors into rooms where decisions are made, and how collective action can transform isolation into power. The group reflects on the role of youth activism, peer-to-peer education, and the need to compensate survivors for their advocacy.

Rachel and the hosts also examine the language surrounding “sex work,” pornography, OnlyFans, and online exploitation. They discuss how social media and algorithms can normalize exploitation, how financial privilege can create a false sense of consent, and why young people need the tools to pause, think critically, and recognize grooming and coercion. They close with a call to challenge systems that protect perpetrators and expose survivors, while building communities rooted in dignity, accountability, and support.

To learn more about World Without Exploitation, please visit https://www.worldwithoutexploitation.org/

To join I Have The Right To’s fight to create a world free of sexual violence, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire, host Ray Epstein is joined by student co-hosts Anna and Ryan for a conversation with former professional athletes James Smith-Williams and Pete LeBoutillier. They discuss their transitions from the NFL and NHL into advocacy, leadership, and mentoring, and how their experiences in professional sports shaped their understanding of vulnerability, connection, and accountability.

James and Pete reflect on the pressure athletes face to perform toughness, hide their emotions, and conform to locker-room expectations. They explain how leadership in sports is changing from intimidation and fear toward trust and safety. They also explore how coaches and teammates can create healthier environments by building real relationships, praising progress, and making space for honest conversations.

The group discusses the responsibility athletes have when they are given a public platform, including how to support survivors, challenge harmful behavior, and use influence to promote positive change. Pete and James share why being vulnerable is a form of strength and why their greatest legacy is helping young people become more caring, connected, and courageous human beings.

To learn more about I Have the Right To and bring trauma-informed programming to your school or community, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In today's episode of Aspire, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by student co-hosts Anna and Aubrey for a conversation with Lisa Kristine, an internationally recognized humanitarian photographer and activist. Lisa shares how her photography has documented modern slavery and human trafficking in over 150 countries, helping make hidden realities visible while honoring the dignity and humanity of the people whose stories she captures.

The conversation challenges the idea that human trafficking and forced labor are problems that happen “somewhere else.” Lisa explains how exploitation is embedded in global supply chains and exists in communities across the United States, including agriculture, domestic work, the sex industry, and other forms of forced labor. She discusses how photography can move people beyond statistics, helping viewers connect emotionally with individuals they might otherwise overlook.

Lisa also explains how she builds trust with communities, seeks permission, protects survivors’ ownership of their stories, and works to portray people with dignity rather than pity. The group discusses responsible storytelling, the risks of exploitative media coverage, and the importance of balancing difficult truths with hope, resilience, and survivor-led advocacy.

The episode also explores social media, the manosphere, attention culture, and the importance of teaching children about trafficking, grooming, and coercion instead of shielding them from difficult realities. Lisa emphasizes that knowledge can help young people recognize danger and protect themselves, while slowing down and engaging thoughtfully with art and stories can help rebuild empathy and connection.

To learn more about Lisa Kristine, please visit https://lisakristine.com/

To join I Have The Right To's fight to create a world free of sexual violence, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire - Real Men, Real Conversations, host Alex Prout is joined by three student co-hosts, Vishudh, Shreyas, and Kaiden, for a conversation with Peter Fisher. Peter is a research fellow at the Movember Institute of Men’s Health. He explains how his work looks at the social norms, identity pressures, and “man box” expectations that shape boys’ and men's behavior, especially around emotional expression and connection.

The conversation focuses on how harmful masculinity norms are formed early, reinforced by peers, schools, family systems, sports culture, and social media, and why young men often feel pressure to act tough even when it's against their own interest. Peter introduces Movember’s research on the “perception gap” and “pluralistic ignorance,” explaining how many boys and men overestimate how much others expect them to stay silent, self-reliant, or emotionally restrained.

A major theme throughout the episode is prevention through early intervention. Peter discusses Movember’s youth programs like Game Changers, which uses near-peer mentors, sports, and emotional literacy tools to help boys build healthier habits and stronger support systems. The co-hosts share their own experiences with friendship, competition, school pressure, and family relationships, grounding the conversation in real-life examples of how young men can learn to speak up, check in on others, and resist harmful norms.

They close with a hopeful message on correcting misperceptions, creating trusted spaces, and how making emotional expression feel normal can lower the barrier for boys and men to seek help and connect more honestly with others. Peter’s “I have the right to” statement, “I have the right to feel," captures the heart of the episode’s message about emotional freedom and healthier masculinity.

For more information on Movember, please visit https://movember.com/

To join I Have The Right To's mission to create a world free of sexual violence, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire, Alex Prout is joined by his daughter and co-host Lucy Prout, along with student interns Ryan and Sylvie, for a conversation with Gary Barker, founder and CEO of Equimundo Center for Masculinities and Social Justice. Gary reflects on the personal experiences that led him into this work, including violence he witnessed in school and his early exposure to neglect, abuse, and silence around harm.

The conversation explores how boys and men learn harmful ideas about strength, silence, and dominance, and how those norms can shape relationships, identity, and violence. Gary explains why he centers care in his work, arguing that boys and men need examples of emotional connection, fatherhood, self-care, and community responsibility if we want to prevent violence upstream rather than just responding after harm has happened.

Ryan and Sylvie share their own experiences of speaking up, while Lucy reflects on the importance of collective responsibility and restorative approaches. The episode closes with a hopeful vision of aspirational masculinity: one that makes room for tenderness, accountability, and choosing who you want to be rather than inheriting a narrow script.

To learn more about Equimundo, visit: equimundo.org

To join I Have The Right To's fight for a world free of sexual violence, please visit: ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, host Alex Prout is joined by student co-hosts Anna Turhan and Ryan for a powerful conversation with Robert Goodland, an equine-assisted therapy practitioner and coach. Robert shares how his lived experiences as a childhood sexual abuse survivor, firefighter, and first responder inspired his work helping others heal from trauma through an unorthodox approach.

Robert describes the unique role horses can play in supporting emotional regulation, nervous system awareness, and authentic self-reflection. He explains how equine-assisted therapy creates opportunities for deep insight, self-compassion, and meaningful healing, particularly for trauma survivors and those in recovery.

Throughout the episode, the group highlights the importance of reframing trauma through resilience and growth rather than shame. Robert, Alex, Anna, and Ryan discuss vulnerability, masculinity, accountability, and the transformative power of sharing our stories to foster connection, hope, and healing.

To learn more about Robert's work, visit www.theheartofahorse.com

To learn more about I Have The Right To's programming, visit www.ihavetherightto.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire - Advocacy in Action, hosts Chessy Prout and Susan Prout are joined by graduate student intern Meghan Boudreau and trauma therapist Peter Pruyn for a thoughtful conversation about trauma recovery, healing, and the importance of creating safe spaces for survivors. Peter shares how his journey into psychology and EMDR therapy was shaped by years of working alongside trauma survivors, and explains how healing begins with trust, collaboration, and empowering clients to remain in control of their own recovery. Together, they discuss why choosing the right therapist matters, how trauma therapy differs from other forms of care, and why slowing down is often an essential part of the healing process.

The conversation explores practical tools that anyone can use to support healing, including a simple grounding exercise, the role of emotional literacy, and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Peter introduces his "No Game," an exercise designed to help people practice saying no with confidence, prompting a broader discussion about consent, survivor empowerment, and the need for society to become more comfortable both expressing and respecting personal boundaries. Throughout the episode, the hosts emphasize that survivors are the experts on their own experiences and that meaningful healing comes through collaboration.

They close by discussing the larger cultural changes needed to prevent gender-based violence, from raising emotionally literate boys to encouraging healthy allyship and challenging systems that perpetuate inequality. Peter reflects on the power of storytelling to reduce shame, normalize conversations about trauma, and inspire change, while sharing his hope that future generations will continue creating communities where every person feels heard, respected, and empowered. It is a conversation that offers both practical guidance for survivors and a hopeful vision for building a more compassionate and trauma-informed world.

To learn more about Peter Pruyn and his work, please visit www.emdrforwomenshealth.com

For resources on mental health that Peter mentions, check out: www.equimundo.org
www.whiteribbon.ca
www.coachescorner.org
www.maineboystomen.org
www.joinonelove.org

To learn more about I Have The Right To's mission and programming, please visit www.havetherightto.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire - Real Men, Real Conversations, host Steve Peacock and co-host Jonas Wahl sit down with Judge Charles Ehrlich of the Philadelphia Court of Common Pleas for a thoughtful conversation about masculinity, accountability, and the role of the justice system in creating lasting change. Drawing on decades of experience presiding over criminal cases, Judge Ehrlich reflects on the patterns he has observed among young men, explaining how pride, retaliation, untreated trauma, and mental health challenges often contribute to cycles of violence. He also shares why true strength is not found in dominance, but in self-control, honesty, and the courage to seek help.

The conversation explores what meaningful accountability looks like beyond punishment, emphasizing rehabilitation, mental health treatment, education, and community support as essential tools for reducing future harm. Judge Ehrlich discusses the importance of early intervention through schools, recreation programs, faith communities, and trusted mentors, while highlighting how unresolved childhood trauma, including sexual abuse, can shape a person's life if left unaddressed. Together, the group examines how changing the conversation around masculinity can empower young men to make healthier choices before they ever enter a courtroom.

They close by discussing hope, personal growth, and the responsibility communities share in preventing violence before it occurs. Judge Ehrlich explains how consistent support can help individuals rebuild their lives, while encouraging young men to lead with integrity, ask for help when they need it, and define success by the positive impact they have on their families and communities. His closing reminder: everyone has the right to live in peace and build a life they are proud of.

To learn more about I Have The Right To's mission and programming, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire - Advocacy in Action, hosts Chessy Prout and Katie M. Shipp join I Have The Right To intern Jonas and guest Amy Mathieu. Amy is a trauma-informed attorney who represents survivors of adult sexual abuse, child sexual abuse, and CSAM. They discuss how civil litigation can support accountability while keeping survivor choice, control, and healing at the center. Amy explains why her first conversations with clients are paced carefully, often include an advocate, and focus on building trust before asking deeper questions.

The conversation also covers the difference between civil and criminal court, the importance of revival windows for decades-old abuse cases, and why coming forward can help other survivors recognize they are not alone. Amy and the hosts talk about prevention as well, including consent education, digital safety, and the need to shift responsibility away from victims and onto perpetrators and the systems that allow harm to continue.

They close by discussing online exploitation, school liability, and why institutions need more than good policy; they need real enforcement, transparency, and accountability. Amy’s work reflects a survivor-centered approach to law that prioritizes safety, agency, and meaningful change.

To learn more about Amy Mathieu, please visit https://hkm.com/attorneys/amy-mathieu/

To learn more about I Have The Right To's mission and programming, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire - Advocacy in Action, host Katie M. Shipp and co-host Ray Epstein speak with Finley Muratova, a childhood sexual abuse prevention specialist, teacher, and survivor, about turning lived experience into prevention-focused education. They discuss how survivor-centered, trauma-informed teaching can help young people build language, boundaries, and confidence around safety.

Finley shares how an anger-filled response to campus injustice led them from journalism into classroom-based prevention work, starting with Peer Health Exchange in Brooklyn. A pivotal moment with a student who needed help after a consent-related incident showed Finley how education can create real-time intervention and long-term change.

The conversation explores what age-appropriate prevention education looks like in practice across elementary and middle school settings. Finley explains tools like anonymous question mugs, body safety maps, and the use of phrases like “tricky adults,” “secrets vs. surprises,” and “adults should ask other adults for help” to teach children how to notice risk without shame or fear.

They highlight the importance of cultural competency and queer inclusion in education spaces. Finley and the hosts talk about using gender-neutral language, inclusive examples, and non-tokenizing approaches so more students can see themselves in the conversation.

Toward the end, Finley shares what gives them hope: students who learn and grow, teachers who respond with curiosity instead of punishment, and everyday moments of normalcy and joy.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire: Real Men, Real Conversations, host Alex Prout and co-host Jonas Wall sit down with John Stanczak, an educator, writer, and theology teacher at Seton Hall University, to explore what healthy masculinity really looks like. The conversation centers on identity, loneliness, vulnerability, faith, mental health, and how young men can grow into more emotionally honest and connected versions of themselves.

John shares how years of teaching and leading all-boys schools, along with his own lived experience with depression and anxiety, shaped his interest in men’s mental health and the emotional lives of teenage boys. He explains why he wrote Letters to Owen, What Manhood Requires of Us and how he hopes to offer a healthier counterbalance to the harmful messages many young men absorb online.

To learn more about I Have The Right To, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/take-action/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire – Advocacy in Action, host Katie M. Shipp and co-hosts Ryan and Maria welcome Dr. Susan Osborn, award-winning author of She's Such a Liar: Incest, Knowledge & Power—A Manifesto. Dr. Osborn discusses how incest has been historically hidden, minimized, and dismissed, and explores the social, legal, and cultural forces that shape whether survivors are believed.

The conversation examines the power of language in confronting abuse and accountability. Dr. Osborn explains why she uses the term “incestor” to describe a father who commits sexual violence against his daughter, arguing that precise language helps expose the systems that protect perpetrators and silence survivors.

Together, the hosts and Dr. Osborn explore the impact of survivor storytelling, the role of medical and legal institutions in perpetuating silence, and why young advocates like Ryan are essential voices in advancing change. Rather than viewing incest as a private family matter, Dr. Osborn reframes it as a systemic issue sustained by broader cultural and institutional structures.

This episode offers a thoughtful discussion on power, accountability, and the importance of creating communities where survivors are heard, believed, and supported.

For more information about Susan Osborn, visit susanosborn.net

To support the fight against sexual violence, sign the pledge at ihavetherightto.org/take-action

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire is a conversation about mental health, masculinity, and the power of asking better questions. Hosts Steve Peacock and Alex Prout, joined by student co-hosts Gabriel and Ryan, welcome Jon McLeod to the round table. Jon is an ESPN producer and mental health advocate who works at the intersection of sports, storytelling, and emotional well-being.

Jon shares how his upbringing in Brooklyn, his family’s values, and the pressures of traditional masculinity shaped his career and his understanding of burnout, self-worth, and vulnerability. He explains how many men are taught to push feelings aside, but that real strength comes from honesty, self-awareness, and the courage to speak about what is happening underneath the surface. He also discusses how his work in sports and media led him to see how many people are silently struggling and how often a simple conversation can change that.

A major theme of the episode is the importance of curiosity, trust, and asking questions without assumption. Jon tells a powerful story about challenging another man to tell the truth about his grief, which opened the door for vulnerability and healing among a group of men who had been suffering in silence. The conversation closes with reflections from the hosts on ripple effects, leadership, and the importance of creating safe spaces where men can be honest and emotionally supportive of one another.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire is a conversation about consent, faith, and what it means for young men to protect themselves and others. Host Alex Prout is joined by co-host Maria and guest Nathaniel Openshaw, a student at BYU-Idaho who is advocating for better health education, accountability for perpetrators, and healing for survivors.

Thaniel shares how hearing the experiences of friends and people he cared about pushed him to act, and how his own journey led him to recognize faults in society by analyzing his surroundings in his own life. He reflects on the lack of consent education in faith-based spaces and explains why he sees consent as a sacred principle rooted in agency, mutual respect, and ongoing communication. He also talks about how his Christian faith shapes his understanding of manhood, leadership, and the responsibility to protect others.

The conversation also explores how to teach these ideas in ways that resonate with students, especially in religious communities where sex and consent are often left out of the conversation. Thaniel shares the analogy he used in his talk to help others understand victim blaming and the importance of agency, while Alex and Maria reflect on the power of speaking up, listening, learning, and acting. In closing, Thaniel offers a simple but powerful statement: “I have the right to protect myself and others.”

Make sure to follow I Have the Right To and learn more at ihavetherightto.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire is a conversation about what it means to be an active upstander in a culture shaped by silence, harm, and pressure to conform. Hosts Alex Prouts and Gabriel Viscogliosi are joined by Dr. Jackson Katz, educator, author, and one of the leading voices in the movement to prevent gender-based violence.

Jackson breaks down why violence against women is not just a women’s issue, but a men’s issue that demands men’s leadership, accountability, and courage. He explores the bystander approach, the importance of speaking up in everyday moments, and how young men can use their sphere of influence to challenge sexism, misogyny, and harmful peer pressure. He also pushes back on narrow, cartoonish ideas of strength, arguing that true strength includes vulnerability, moral courage, and the willingness to do the right thing even when it feels uncomfortable.

The conversation also digs into the pressures facing young men today, from social media and the manosphere to the confusion many boys feel about identity and masculinity. Gabriel shares how aspirational masculinity is being taught in his school community, and Jackson responds with practical guidance for students, athletes, and anyone trying to build healthier peer cultures. In closing, Jackson offers a powerful reminder: everyone has the right to be treated with respect and dignity, and real change starts when people choose to be part of the solution.

Make sure to check out Jackson Katz’s book, Every Man: Why Violence Against Women Is a Men’s Issue and How You Can Make a Difference https://jacksonkatz.substack.com/p/every-man-why-violence-against-women

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire is a conversation about breaking silences around workplace harassment and discrimination, and how survivors can turn personal pain into policy change. Hosts Chessy Prout and Alex Prout are joined by intern co-host Kalaya Hudziec-Leiva, and guests Gretchen Carlson and Julie Roginsky, the co-founders of Lift Our Voices.

Gretchen and Julie share how their own experiences at Fox News led them to challenge the systems that kept people silent, including forced arbitration and non-disclosure agreements. They reflect on how difficult it can be to speak publicly, how institutions often protect power instead of people, and why educating young people about their rights is essential. The conversation also explores how public storytelling, legal advocacy, and bipartisan organizing helped move major federal reforms forward.

Chessy brings the discussion back to the survivor experience, naming the importance of holding onto a full identity beyond trauma and of building communities where people feel safe to speak up. Alex highlights the need to shift culture, not just law, while Kalea asks thoughtful questions about legislative change and the role of public voices in shaping public understanding. Together, they make a strong case that silence is what allows harm to continue, and that collective action can create real accountability.

Make sure to follow Lift Our Voices and learn more at https://liftourvoices.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week's episode of Aspire, host Alex Prout and student co-host Ryan welcome Charlie Pillsbury, a survivor, Quinnipiac law professor, and family friend to the Prouts, for a deeply personal conversation about his lifelong journey toward healing from sexual assault.

Charlie reflects on his early years at St. Paul's School, sharing a painful experience of sexual assault during his time as a young boarding student and the culture that allowed and encouraged the abuse. He speaks candidly about how he buried that experience until years later, a news story about another assault at the same institution brought back those memories and compelled him to act.

This moment became a turning point. Charlie wrote a public op-ed recounting his experience, breaking years of silence and becoming the first member of the St. Paul's community to publicly support Alex Prout's family following Chessie's assault.

The conversation explores how trauma lingers across decades, shaping one's sense of safety, identity, and belonging. Charlie shares how, even 50 years later, returning to campus required emotional preparation and trust.

Together, Alex, Ryan, and Charlie examine the broader themes of masculinity, power, and accountability. They lay the groundwork for a larger conversation about what it means to challenge harmful norms and build communities rooted in respect and care.

Breaking the silence is never easy, but it can create connection, spark change, and open the door for healing.

For more information, please visit ihavetherightto.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, Steve Peacock and Gabriel Viscogliosi welcome Sean Harvey, MSOD, MSED, founder of the Warrior Compassion Institute and author of Warrior Compassion: Unleashing the Healing Power of Men, for an honest conversation about men's healing, redefining masculinity, and driving systems change in hyper-masculine spaces like law enforcement, military, first responders, and beyond.

Sean shares his transformative journey from a "soulless" career in Wall Street consulting, where he led 150 people in superficial sessions, to discovering authenticity at Eileen Fisher, igniting his call to help men reclaim empathy, moral courage, and self-compassion. The discussion dives into trauma recovery, overcoming surface-level male friendships, and starting vulnerable conversations without triggering resistance from men who equate emotion with weakness.

Steve and Gabriel learn about Sean's practical strategies, like Men's Soul Adventures (which grew to 330 men seeking deeper connection and purpose), and his MLab framework for bridge builders: the Warrior Bridge (challenging ethos vs. humanity), Inner Bridge (self-awareness), Human Bridge (rehumanizing others), and Embodied Bridge (somatic integration). They address extremism (the "stew" of fear, shame, isolation, and the HYPE effect), and how blending personal transformation with systemic levers can create a lasting change in society.

Sean emphasizes compassionate curiosity over prescription to foster agency and creativity. He closes with the aspiration to bring compassion to every interaction, adversaries, and oneself; believing men have the capacity for profound healing.

For more on Warrior Compassion Institute, visit warriorcompassion.org

To learn more about I Have The Right To, visit ihavetherightto.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Steve Peacock and Gabriel Viscogliosi welcome Chief Warrant Officer Julian Bell, a Coast Guard veteran, survivor, advocate, and creator of Sailors Disgrace, for an honest conversation about military sexual assault, masculinity, healing, and the power of speaking out. Julian shares the long path from silence to disclosure, how a single safe conversation helped him begin telling the truth, and how his healing journey ultimately shaped the advocacy work he does today.

The conversation explores the culture of masculinity inside the military, the pressure to stay quiet and “push through,” and how those expectations can make it harder for survivors to seek help. Julian, Steve, and Gabriel also discuss the impact of institutional failure, the importance of community and accountability, and why real change starts by creating safer spaces for younger generations to speak, learn, and lead with empathy.

Julian closes with the message that true strength includes vulnerability, compassion, and the courage to protect others, and that survivors and allies alike can help build a better culture by refusing to stay silent.

For more on Julian’s podcast, follow them on Instagram @Sailors_Disgrace or listen wherever you get your podcasts.

For more information on Julian’s nonprofit Safe Waters, visit them at https://www.safewatersunited.org/

To learn more about I Have The Right To, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Steve Peacock and Hugh Eastman welcome Jim Maley, founder of The Maley Way, for an insightful conversation on masculinity, mental health, leadership, and the power of vulnerability. Jim shares his own story of struggling silently with depression in college, the role his mother played in helping him seek support, and how his experience shaped the work he now does with young men and students.

The conversation explores how boys are often taught to hide emotion, how that pressure can reinforce harmful behavior, and why accountability, empathy, and honest conversation play important rolls in building healthier communities. Jim, Steve, and Hugh also discuss the impact of modeling respectful behavior, the importance of addressing “small things” before they become bigger problems, and why sharing personal experience can help others feel less alone.

Jim closes with the message that we have the right to be ourselves and stand up for what we believe in, even when it’s uncomfortable or unpopular.

To learn more about Jim, visit https://www.themaleyway.com/

Follow jim on instagram @themaleyway

For more information on I Have The Right To, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of the I Have the Right to Aspire podcast, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout welcome guest co-hosts Maria and Kylie alongside Lauren Weingarten, founder of MTMV Community Support Network, one of the first social media-based support spaces for survivors of trauma, abuse, and sexual violence, plus their supporters. Lauren shares how she launched MTMV anonymously in 2019 amid her own healing journey, driven by isolation after assault and a stubborn belief that others needed connection too; it has since grown into global peer support groups, workshops, consulting, and events emphasizing "community as our culture."

The group unpacks survivor-informed care as building on trauma-informed principles, while navigating social media's unique challenges. They explore why joyful, bright, accessible online content counters silence around harm; how community becomes justice when legal systems fail (offering validation and solidarity instead); tensions in demanding survivor stories without support; and practical tips for building safer digital spaces. The conversation ends with Lauren's "I have the right to be me" statement, embracing her full self amid ongoing growth.

To learn more about MTMV Community Support Network, visit MTMVsupport.com or follow @MTMVcommunity on Instagram and Threads.

For more information on I Have The Right To, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/​

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire - Real Men, Real Conversations, hosts Alex Prout and Gabriel Viscogliosi sit down with Cody Ragonese, Associate Director of Programs at Equimundo: Center for Masculinities and Social Justice. Cody shares how his journey from academic work in public health and international development to Peace Corps service in Eswatini led him into engaging men and boys in gender equality, HIV prevention, and violence reduction, and eventually into global masculinity work at Equimundo. He describes how early “girls’ empowerment” programs revealed a critical missing piece, and how building boys’ clubs focused on behavior change, safer sex, and relationships became his entry point into gender-transformative programming.​

Together, Alex, Gabriel, and Cody unpack why “gender equality needs men just as much as men need gender equality,” reframing this work not as charity or “allyship” but as men’s empowerment and liberation from harmful, socially constructed masculinity. They dive into concepts like the “man box,” the crisis of connection, and boys’ emotional masks, exploring how norms of stoicism, dominance, and narrow definitions of strength leave many young men isolated, under-equipped, and convinced that “nobody cares if they’re okay.” Cody explains how Equimundo works across ecosystems, from preschool classrooms and sports fields to online spaces like Discord and influencer content, to help boys and men redefine what it means to be a man. The episode closes with Cody’s “I have the right to” statement, balancing accountability and care: a call for men to be held responsible for their actions while also being supported to express care in ways that build empathy and connection.​

To learn more about Equimundo, please visit https://www.equimundo.org/

For more information on I Have The Right To, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, host Chessy Prout is joined by co-hosts Maria and Steve Peacock for a powerful conversation with attorney, survivor, and advocate Hilary Simon. Hilary shares how, at 14, she arrived at Miss Hall’s School hoping for safety and support, only to be slowly groomed and sexually abused by a beloved teacher and coach. She describes how early patterns of putting others first and making herself small evolved into a survival response she later learned to call fawning; appeasing and performing in order to stay safe. 

The group explores the double wound of institutional betrayal. Not only did Miss Hall’s fail to protect students, it ignored reports for decades, even expelling girls and dismissing concerns as “gossip,” until multiple survivors, including Hilary, came forward and pushed the school to commission an independent investigation and implement concrete safety reforms. Hilary and the hosts break down what grooming really looks like in real life. It's often 

not “stranger danger,” but trusted adults who look like mentors and friends who commit sexual assault. They discuss how parents, educators, and institutions can intervene earlier, build safe reporting pathways, and teach children to trust their own internal alarm, including through age-appropriate tools and everyday conversations at home.

Hilary also shares how she moved from litigation into deeper healing and advocacy, using therapy and Internal Family Systems work to reparent the 14-year-old inside her and reclaim her voice. She is now helping champion a Massachusetts bill that would finally close a legal loophole by preventing teachers and other authority figures from using “consent” as a defense when they exploit 16- and 17-year-old students, and by strengthening prevention and training requirements in schools. Throughout the dialogue, the group underlines that justice is not just a verdict but the ongoing work of naming harm, changing laws and practices, and creating a world where every young person has the right to safety, dignity, and their own voice.

Follow Hilary Simon on instagram at https://www.instagram.com/hilary_simonesq/

To learn more about I Have The Right To, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, hosts Alex Prout and Gabriel Viscogliosi are joined by special guest Derrick Hurley, a father of three, retired retail technology executive, and author of Antiguan Justice: A Father’s Fight. Derrick shares the story of his eldest daughter, who while studying in Antigua, was drugged and raped by an off-duty UK police officer.

Derrick talks about the moment he and his wife first learned what had happened, and how he moved from a rush of rage and a desire for revenge into a posture of calm, unconditional support. He describes what it meant to tell his daughter, “You focus on school and healing, I’ll take care of justice,” and how that promise turned into a four-year battle through two countries’ legal systems, including an unprecedented and historic extradition.

The conversation explores what it looks like for fathers and caregivers to respond to disclosure in a truly trauma-informed way. Providing unconditional support, rejecting victim-blaming, and centering their daughters' needs over their own anger, are similarities that Alex and Derrick, both fathers of survivors, share. Derrick, Alex, and Gabriel discuss the toll that prolonged legal processes take on families, and what changed when they began to seek therapy, community, and advocacy as part of their healing.

They also zoom out to examine the broader systems that enable sexual violence to flourish: low rates of reporting and conviction, cultural myths about “staying safe,” and the ways law enforcement, embassies, and legal frameworks can either retraumatize survivors or protect them, sometimes even both. Drawing from Derrick's experience working with police and officials in Antigua and the UK, the hosts ask what true accountability should look like, and how survivor-centered reforms could transform outcomes for others.

Justice, they emphasize, is more than a verdict: it’s the daily work of showing up, listening, pushing systems to do better, and choosing not to let silence and denial have the last word. By sharing his family's story, Derrick offers a powerful example of how a battle for justice can ripple outward into changes in law, practice, and public conversation, and how even in the aftermath of profound harm, families can help build a world where survivors everywhere find justice.

To learn more about Derrick Hurley and his book, please visit https://derrick-hurley.com/product/antiguan-justice/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by guest co-host Maria and special guest Ashley-Lauren Elrod, a multi-assault survivor, Emmy-nominated producer, and nationally recognized leader in survivor advocacy and child safety education. Ashley-Lauren is the founder of Visionary Woman Productions and the creator of Maya’s Magic Word, a new children’s book and prevention platform designed to teach body autonomy and consent to kids in a non-fear-based, trauma-informed way.

Ashley-Lauren discusses how creativity and storytelling helped her survive childhood abuse and how those same tools now ground her work in prevention, healing, and systemic change. The conversation explores what it looks like to build “systems of freedom” in the entertainment industry; creating sets and workspaces where artists, parents, and young performers are respected, informed, and empowered to say no.

She also shares how Maya’s Magic Word was born at a UN conference and why she intentionally started with preschoolers, ages two to six, to normalize conversations about body safety long before adolescence. The hosts and Ashley-Lauren talk about moving beyond “stranger danger,” using everyday scenarios, affirmations, and games to help children trust their intuition, recognize unsafe behavior (even from people they know), and understand that their bodies belong to them.

Throughout the episode, Katie, Chessy, and Maria weave in reflections on their own experiences with harmful norms. They highlight how intergenerational patterns, cultural messaging, and silence can keep survivors from accessing help, and how trauma-informed, age-appropriate education can disrupt that cycle.

Prevention starts early and everywhere: in classrooms, on sets, in families, and in policy. By centering safety, consent, and self-trust over compliance and toughness, they invite listeners to imagine a world where children grow up knowing their voices are magic, their boundaries will be honored, and they have the right to help shape safer communities.

To learn more about Ashley-Lauren and her book Maya's Magic Word, visit https://www.ashleylaurenelrod.com/mayasmagicword

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by student intern Kalaya Hudziec-Leiva and special guest Dr. Charlotte Markey, a renowned psychology professor and leading expert on body image.

Dr. Markey discusses the updated edition of The Body Image Book for Girls and explores the critical intersection of body appreciation, mental health, and personal safety. The conversation delves into how caregivers can move past the “cringe factor” to have honest, age-appropriate conversations about puberty, navigate the impact of social media, and use anatomically correct language to empower children.

Dr. Markey also shares practical strategies for challenging cultural beauty standards and helping young people separate their self-worth from their appearance.

Throughout the episode, the hosts enrich the discussion with personal reflections on their own experiences with body image and societal expectations. Chessy shares her radical practice of “body gratitude,” reframing her body as a capable, powerful instrument rather than an object for aesthetic judgment. Katie reflects on the damaging double standards she faced in high school, disciplined for the length of her shorts while classmates crossed her physical boundaries.

Together, they highlight how shifting the focus from “beautiful” to “strong,” “smart,” and “brave” can help the next generation reclaim confidence, autonomy, and power.

Connect with Dr Markey:

https://www.instagram.com/char_markey/ 

https://facebook.com/drcharlottemarkey/

https://markey.camden.rutgers.edu/ 

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

Today on Aspire, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by communications director Maria Villegas and student intern Jonas Wahl, along with this week’s guest, author and advocate Leora Tanenbaum. Leora is a pioneering writer on slut shaming, sexual agency, and young women’s rights whose latest book, Sexy Selfie Nation, explores how young people are navigating an increasingly toxic, sexist, and hyper-digital culture.

Leora shares how reading a 1993 report on sexual harassment in schools helped her finally name the abuse she experienced as a teen, and how that “lightbulb moment” led to 30 years of research, interviews, and books amplifying girls’ and women’s stories. She traces the evolution from “slut bashing” in the 1990s to today’s landscape of social media, image-based abuse, and AI-driven deepfakes, explaining why what once felt like a hopeful turning point for change has instead become an era where harassment is constant, portable, and nearly impossible to escape.
Together, the group explores trauma-informed advocacy, internalized slut shaming, and the complicated ways survivors can blame themselves for violence they did not cause, even when they know better. They talk through what genuine allyship from boys, men, and peers can look like—starting with “I believe you, I’m here for you”—and how small shifts in everyday language.

Leora explains the concept of sexual citizenship—everyone’s right to determine if, when, and how sexual encounters occur, and to respect others’ equal rights—and highlights how this core principle is undermined by gendered dress codes, non-consensual sexualization, and victim-blaming narratives. 
She and the hosts dig into how societies police girls’ bodies, disproportionately target girls of color, and force young people to see themselves as sexual objects before they may be ready, as well as how students of all genders are organizing to rewrite these policies and reclaim their autonomy.

They close with a call for everyone, especially young people, to own their bodies, their images, and their stories without apology, to challenge non-consensual sexualization wherever they see it, and to stand together in creating schools, families, and online spaces where no one is shamed for simply existing in their own skin.

Leora Tanenbaum - link to: https://www.leoratanenbaum.com/ 

Sexy Selfie Nation - link to: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1538194007/ 

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

Today on Aspire, hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout are joined by student interns Jonas Wahl and Kyleigh LeBoutillier, along with this week’s guest, Laura Dunn. Laura is a nationally recognized civil rights attorney, survivor advocate, Congressional candidate, and the attorney who represented Chessy in her sexual assault case.

Laura shares how her own experience of campus sexual violence led her away from prosecution and toward representing survivors directly, challenging institutional failures and reshaping civil rights law to center those who’ve been harmed.

Laura explains that Title IX is no longer functioning as intended, and unpacks the recent Supreme Court decision that quietly gutted emotional-distress damages for many K-12 survivors. Laura explains how this shift has made many Title IX cases economically impossible for private attorneys to take on, and why she’s running for Congress to restore and strengthen protections for the next 50 years.

Together, the group explores trauma-informed advocacy, the complexity of survivor-offender dynamics, and the importance of centering offenders’ choices rather than blaming survivors. Laura also lays out her platform: government accountability, affordability for everyday people, and thoughtful regulation of emerging technologies like AI and crypto to protect survivors and marginalized communities.

They close with the powerful reminder, “I have the right to fight back,” which is an invitation for everyone - especially young people - to claim their power, know their rights, and step into leadership in any way they can.

To learn more, visit lauradunnforcongress.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire is a grounded conversation about dismantling male supremacy, reclaiming women’s anger, and building a consent-based culture amid political backlash and digital threats. Hosts Chessy Prout and Susan Prout are joined by intern Co-host Meghan Boudreau and award-winning author and activist Soraya Chemaly, whose new book All We Want Is Everything examines how patriarchy shapes our daily lives and the high cost of supremacist systems to everyone.​

Together, they explore how male supremacy feminizes marginalized people to maintain control, why “male fragility” mirrors white fragility in defensive responses to privilege, and the non-consensual foundations of tech platforms fueling misogyny and deepfakes. Soraya shares personal stories, like teaching her second-grader to reject a boy’s unwanted advances, while advocating feminist parenting, early emotional literacy, and Gen Z’s leadership in rejecting patriarchal norms.

Tune in to learn how to treat emotions as a form of intelligence, respond to privilege and bias without shame, and help build relationships and communities rooted in consent and shared power.

To learn more about Soraya, visit https://www.sorayachemaly.com/

To order Soraya's new book, All We Want Is Everything, please visit https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/All-We-Want-Is-Everything/Soraya-Chemaly/9781668205976

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, co-hosts Karen Udall and Chessy Prout are joined by Stacey Balducci, a longtime health educator at Syosset High School, along with her Adelphi University students, Gabriela Cataldo and Anthony Capozucca. Together, they explore how practical, experience-based health education can shape future generations and foster environments rooted in respect and consent.

Professor Balducci shares her nontraditional approach to teaching, one that moves beyond textbooks and quizzes in favor of storytelling, role-playing, and peer-to-peer engagement. These methods equip students with the skills to recognize when, where, and how to ask for help.

Gabriela and Anthony also reflect on how Chessy Prout’s memoir, which is taught in Professor Balducci’s college course, has deepened their understanding of consent. Tune in to hear how innovative teaching practices inspire future health educators and why interactive curricula create meaningful learning that extends well beyond the classroom.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This episode of Aspire explores what effective, inclusive sexual assault prevention can look like when it is shaped by research, technology, and deep empathy for survivors. Hosts Katie Shipp and Ray Epstein are joined by Dr. Adrienne Baldwin-White, a social worker, researcher, and professor whose work focuses on preventing gender-based violence and transforming the systems survivors encounter.

Dr. Baldwin-White shares how her work as a rape crisis advocate led her to focus on prevention and to create “Once Upon a Party,” a text-message-based video game for college campuses that aims to shift norms around sexism, rape myths, and bystander readiness. The conversation also highlights her trauma-informed training for medical professionals and patrol officers, the importance of centering marginalized identities and confronting institutional biases.

To demo Once Upon a Party, visit www.nobletech.org

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire offers a grounded conversation about empowered sexual health, consent, and agency in a world where young people are often navigating confusing or harmful messages about sex and relationships. Hosts Katie M. Shipp and host Chessy Prout, along with student co-host Maria Halter, welcome registered nurse, certified midwife, and author Dena Moes, whose book It’s Your Body provides a judgment-free, inclusive guide to puberty, birth control, STIs, pregnancy options, and sexual pleasure for teens and young adults.

Together, they explore Dena’s ABCs of sexual health (agency, boundaries, and consent) and discuss how practicing saying “no” and slowing down can lead to safer relationships. The conversation addresses the risks of pornography and photo-sharing, the importance of treating social media as entertainment rather than healthcare, and the critical role adults play in reducing shame and stigma for the younger generations. Tune in to find out what role you can play to create a safe environment for healthy relationships.

To read Dena’s book It’s Your Body, visit: http://itsyourbody.net/

Want to help us spread Aspire’s message across the world? Become a donor at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2444289/support

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week's episode of Aspire is a conversation about making “good trouble” for gender equity, and how friendship, courage, and voice drive lasting change. Co-founders Susan and Chessy Prout, are joined by Georgetown student and intern co-host Maria Halter. They welcome guests Bari Harlam and Meredith Curran, the duo behind Trouble and proud “troublemakers for good.”

Bari and Meredith reflect on years in male-dominated spaces and how being “the only woman in the room” shaped their shared mission. The group explores what it means to claim your voice at work and in life. Bari reflects on staying silent in the face of sexist comments and how earlier tools for setting boundaries could have changed those moments.

The conversation also touches on mentorship and role models who challenge the status quo. In closing, Bari encourages young women to prioritize people and values over prestige, Susan reminds listeners that careers unfold in chapters, and the episode ends with a powerful affirmation: “I have the right to be safe and confident”—and to make good trouble together.

Make sure to follow @troublemakersforgood on Instagram and YouTube
To support Trouble’s shop, visit https://shop.troublemakers.org/

Want to help us spread Aspire’s message across the world? Become a contributor at https://www.buzzsprout.com/2444289/support

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, Hosts Katie M. Shipp and Chessy Prout, joined by student Co-host Maria Halter, speak with Dr. Elizabeth Jeglic, who discusses the new blueprint “Understanding and Preventing Sexual Misconduct and Abuse by K-12 School Employees”. She explains the continuum from low-level misconduct to criminal abuse, the visual, verbal, and physical forms these behaviors take, and why grooming appears in every case. The conversation dispels myths about “stranger danger,” outlines her data-backed grooming model and the “yellow, orange, red” risk indicators that highlight how crossing even small boundaries can progress to unsafe behavior.

Dr. Jeglic emphasizes the roles of school boards, administrators, parents, and legislators, and offers evidence-informed strategies for families, like using anatomical language and practicing boundary-setting. Maria brings a student perspective on how grooming can unfold “in plain sight,” while Chessy and Katie connect the research to broader cultural themes. The episode ends with a hopeful vision for the future, where layered policies, awareness, and empowered communities create a safety net to protect students.

Download Dr. Jeglic’s Free Abuse Prevention Blueprint: https://www.ncsesame.org/_files/ugd/b75d1b_aee450e8b2a94b28aceae4296798ed52.pdf

To become a monthly supporter of Aspire, please visit: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2444289/support

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s episode of Aspire features a deeply reflective conversation with retired Allegheny College professor and longtime Bonner Program mentor Dr. Dave Roncolato. He joins host Alex Prout and student host Gabriel Viscogliosi to explore what it truly means to grow into a whole, authentic man in a culture that often narrows masculinity to roles like “warrior,” “athlete,” or “breadwinner.” Drawing on his upbringing, campus ministry, and decades of work with Bonner service scholars, Dave shares how following his inner voice, even when it meant defying expectations, led him to a life rooted in meaningful relationships.

Dave discusses how sports and militarized ideals can teach boys to disconnect from their bodies and emotions, and why unlearning that conditioning is essential for building healthier expressions of masculinity. He reflects on teaching himself to cry as an adult, helping his father sit with his mother’s grief at the end of her life, and how pain and vulnerability can become sources of empathy and healing.

The episode also explores the idea of discovering the work you “cannot not do.” Dave and Alex challenge listeners to know their deepest self so they can build authentic relationships that sustain commitment and inspire change.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, co-hosts Chessy Prout and Katie Shipp, joined by student co-host Maria, sit down with Tracy DeTomasi, CEO of Callisto and a longtime leader in the movement to end gender-based violence. Tracy traces her journey from supporting youth and survivors to creating Callisto’s encrypted platform, which discreetly connects people harmed by the same perpetrator so they can explore legal and healing options together, on their own terms.

The conversation explores what meaningful prevention education truly looks like, including the importance of engaging boys and men, teaching honest sex and consent education, and addressing the deep underfunding that holds back progress. Tracy also shares practical guidance for parents, educators, and allies: how to talk about sex and boundaries earlier, how to respond when someone discloses harm, and the importance of remembering that everyone is entitled to safety.

To learn more about Callisto, please visit: https://www.projectcallisto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, hosts Hugh Eastman and Gabriel Viscogliosi talk with multifaceted artist, composer, rapper, and producer, Benjamin Maffa. Known in the music industry as Maffa, he talks about his journey from nationally-ranked student athlete to creative storyteller in the studio and on stage. Ben shares how his early passion for tennis gave way to making music, blending classical roots, hip hop, and honest emotion into a style all his own.

Ben discusses the challenges and rewards of switching identities as an athlete and artist, the impact of musical role models, and his efforts to craft a positive, authentic idea of masculinity on and off the stage. They trade stories about the realities of a toxic team culture, what it means to speak up for your values, and why he believes the coolest thing you can do is make others feel seen and celebrated. Whether coaching tennis or channeling heartbreak into lyrics, Maffa shows how self-expression and integrity are foundations for both art and life.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout welcome Erica Thompson, Assistant Head of School for Equity, Diversity and Inclusion at St. Patrick’s Episcopal Day School, and her seventh-grade student Annalise. Erica shares how she uses hair, a public, personal, and changeable part of identity, as an approachable way to teach young students about boundaries, respect, and consent. Through stories, literature, and real-life examples, Erica’s workshops help students connect everyday experiences with larger lessons about autonomy and equity.​

Annalise describes the impact of these conversations at school, explaining how learning about boundaries at a young age made her more confident expressing them and more aware of the power of saying (and hearing) “no.” The episode offers a model for introducing equity and consent at the elementary and middle school level, showing how well-chosen, practical examples can spark open, lasting change.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, co-hosts Alex Prout and Hugh Eastman sit down with three juniors from Georgetown Day School (GDS) in Washington, D.C., Eli, Nathan, and Aaron, who are actively challenging outdated views of masculinity and building healthier school cultures. The group shares stories of how key experiences and educational initiatives helped them move from passive listeners to proactive leaders on issues like consent, identity, and social pressure.​

The conversation addresses the real obstacles young men face, like the influence of the “manosphere” on social media, and finding the courage to stand up for one's values even when it’s unpopular. They also discuss the critical role of upperclassmen as the role models who help their younger peers navigate transitions and resist toxic influences.

This conversation offers hope and practical ideas for anyone invested in the future of masculinity and positive school leadership. The takeaway: even small acts of integrity and empathy, especially from young leaders, can transform communities.​

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

This week’s impactful episode of Aspire features keynote speaker and resilience expert Trish Kendall, who shares her journey from childhood abuse and addiction to healing and redefining success. Hosts Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout speak with Trish about surviving the trauma and addiction that nearly ended her life by age 20. Through her story, Trish explains the five critical choices that brought her hope, trust, and a life centered on love and belonging.​

Trish highlights the importance of micro-choices, setting boundaries, and embracing “boundless love” as daily actions. She shares practical advice on building trust, making agreements, and creating community.

With honesty and hope, Trish shows that healing doesn’t have to be solitary, and that vulnerability and connection can lay the foundation for real, enduring success.​

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, former NFL defensive end James Smith Williams joins Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman for a powerful discussion about masculinity, accountability, and what it means to be a "good man" on and off the field. Known for his advocacy work through Set the Expectation and partnerships with survivor advocate Brenda Tracy, James has made it his mission to challenge the culture of silence and complacency around sexual and domestic violence.​

James shares how a single question — “If you are a good man, what are you doing to be a good man?” — changed the course of his life while at NC State, sparking a journey that has taken him from college athletics to the NFL and into national leadership in violence prevention. The conversation explores the realities of locker room culture, the balance between empathy and accountability, and how athletes can use their platforms to drive systemic change.

Tune in to a candid conversation on redefining what real strength and leadership look like. James offers a message that’s both challenging and hopeful: ending gender-based violence isn’t a women’s issue - it’s everyone’s responsibility.​

For guidance on what to do after an incident of sexual violence, how to support a survivor, and where to find additional resources, visit ihavetherightto.org/get-info

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

Violence prevention expert and author Meg Stone joins hosts Katie Shipp, Chessy Prout, and Gabriel Viscogliosi for an unforgettable conversation about reclaiming safety, autonomy, and resistance. Drawing from her new book The Cost of Fear, Meg exposes how traditional “safety” advice, rooted in fear, control, and sexism, has changed little since the 1970s, and why it continues to harm more than it helps.​​

Meg challenges outdated, compliance-based models of personal safety that burden women and marginalized people with preventing violence against themselves. Instead, she offers an evidence-based vision of safety through resistance and trauma-informed empowerment self-defense, built on research and lived experience. The conversation explores how agency differs from responsibility, why freeze responses never imply failure, and how movement-based, feminist self-defense can foster both healing and social change.​

The IMPACT Violence Prevention website lists all IMPACT organizations: https://impactboston.org/impact-organizations/

National Women’s Martial Arts Federation, for definitions and descriptions of empowerment self-defense: https://nwmaf.org/resources/empowerment/

Instructor directory: https://nwmaf.org/resources/empowerment/nwmaf-certified-instructors/

Empowerment Self-Defense Alliance: https://www.empowermentsd.org/find-a-practitioner

What to look for while assessing a self-defense class: https://defendyourself.org/whats-a-class-like/picking-a-self-defense-class/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

On this week’s episode of Aspire, hosts Alex Prout, Hugh Eastman, and Gabriel Viscogliosi welcome Jack Spiegel, a recent graduate of Quinnipiac’s media and journalism program, accomplished photographer, and new podcast producer, for an inspiring conversation about storytelling and advocacy. Jack shares how his upbringing and core value of “repairing the world” led him to a career centered around truth-telling, accountability, and using media for positive impact.

Reflecting on his master’s capstone, Jack describes diving into issues of sexual assault, justice, and survivor empowerment, using the language and photojournalism to amplify voices too often hidden. The discussion explores the role of media in perpetuating (and combating) harmful gender norms, how photographs can force audiences to confront uncomfortable truths, and the challenges of making institutions listen and change. Jack and the hosts share stories about responsible reporting, the ripple effect of personal stories, and why finding even one person’s voice can begin to heal fractured communities.

Whether you’re a student, parent, or survivor, this episode offers a fresh look at media and creative work can spark real-world change.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Katie Shipp and Chessy Prout sit down with Meghan Boudreau, a recent Allegheny College graduate and youth advocacy leader, for an insightful discussion about supporting young people through major life transitions. Meghan recounts her journey, sharing practical advice on navigating college, building supportive networks, and discovering her passion for advocacy through real-world experiences.

Meghan reflects honestly on finding her voice, embracing discomfort to foster growth, and utilizing a range of campus resources including mentors, professors, and counselors. The conversation highlights essential college topics like the “red zone,” strategies for bystander intervention, and ways to create meaningful change both personally and institutionally.

Drawing from her work with I Have the Right To, Meghan demonstrates how early, holistic conversations around respect and restorative justice can empower survivors and entire communities. Her lived experience and advocacy show how educators, parents, and peers can create a culture of respect and consent.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

Guy Adami, CNBC’s Fast Money veteran and Wall Street trader, joins co-hosts Alex Prout, Gabriel Viscogliosi, and Hugh Eastman for a candid exploration of masculinity, money, and cultural change on Wall Street. Guy shares personal reflections on the pressures and rewards of working in a male-dominated trading culture, from bold risk-taking and stoicism to the slow evolution away from “bro culture.” The conversation dives into Guy’s formative years at home and in the industry, the impact of family financial stress, and how societal ideas of manhood shaped his career decisions.

With humor and honesty, Guy reflects on lessons from failure, leadership, and vulnerability, recounting how authentic connection stands out amid competitive environments. Together with the Aspire team, Guy explores how financial stress and “winning” in the market can affect men’s self-worth, relationships, and growth. This episode challenges listeners to rethink what success means, why empathy matters in high-powered industries, and how models of manhood are changing for the better.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

Karen Udall, program director and facilitator at I Have the Right To, joins Susan Prout and Katie Shipp to share her journey from parent to prevention advocate. After her daughter’s assault, Karen faced challenges with institutional support and healing, inspiring her to shape programs that have reached over 30,000 students, educators, and parents nationwide.

Karen shares how her experience as a mom both challenged and motivated her to change the way schools and communities respond to survivors. She opens up about rediscovering purpose through education, building tools and curriculum for healthy relationships, and finding optimism in the resilience and curiosity of young people. The episode reflects on how honest connection, compassion, and persistent advocacy can impact students, parents, and educators everywhere.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In today’s episode of Aspire, Co-hosts Chessy Prout and Katie Shipp welcome new Co-host Charlotte Lee, a senior at Georgetown Day School interning with I Have the Right To. They sit down with Ray Epstein, a recent Temple University grad, survivor, and campus leader. 

Ray recounts her experience founding Student Activists Against Sexual Assault at Temple, and creating a supportive community on campus for survivors and allies. The group discusses the importance of early consent education, how school responses shape survivor experiences, and the challenges of the "red zone", the critical first months of college when risks are highest.

Ray emphasizes evolving definitions of justice, the vital role of adult allies, and expanding movements to include all students, not just survivors. Her leadership proves the importance the younger generations play in driving change to a culture of activism and allyship. 

To join Ray in fighting sexual assault on campuses, visit https://www.everyvoicecoalition.org/ or follow them on Instagram @everyvoicepa

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Katie M. Shipp, Chessy Prout, and student co-host Meghan Boudreau sit down with Jess Michaels, a survivor of Jeffrey Epstein, an outspoken advocate, and the founder of the #WithYouToo app.

Jess shares the deeply personal story that brought her from dancer and performer to sexual assault prevention advocate. She opens up about the often-misunderstood freeze response, what it meant for her self-identity, and how reframing that experience helped her reclaim her voice. Jess also explains why understanding trauma responses, and the language we use to describe them, is critical in breaking cycles of shame and isolation for survivors.

The conversation explores the science and power of survivor support, especially in the immediate days after assault, and how tools like the #WithYouToo app aim to empower communities to respond with safety, trust, and care. Along the way, Jess highlights the wisdom and determination of Gen Z, and why their empathy and activism give her hope for real cultural change.

This episode reminds us that healing is not only individual, it’s collective. By centering survivor voices and equipping supporters with the skills to respond, we can build a future where communities are safer, more compassionate, and more resilient.

Follow Jess Michaels on instagram @jessmichaelsspeaks

To learn more about the With You Too app, follow them on instagram @withyoutooapp

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit https://www.benhudak.com/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, co-hosts Katie M. Shipp and Chessy Prout sit down with Renee Williams, Executive Director of the National Crime Victims Bar Association, the nation’s first and only professional association dedicated to supporting attorneys who represent survivors of crime in civil cases. Together, they discuss the challenges survivors face in navigating both the criminal and civil justice systems, as well as the importance of building trauma-informed practices across the legal field.

Renee shares what it truly means to be trauma-informed, the ethical challenges attorneys may encounter when working with survivors, and the impacts of vicarious trauma on lawyers and advocates. She also reflects on her personal path to this work, her experience as a Court Appointed Special Advocate, and how tending to her small farm helps her stay grounded.

This conversation underscores the urgent need for victim-centered services in justice reform, the role of civil litigation in holding institutions accountable, and the innovative new programs the National Crime Victims Bar Association is launching to empower survivors who want to step into advocacy.

To learn more about the National Crime Victims Bar Association, visit https://victimbar.org
For resources on sexual assault, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/get-info/

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit https://BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Co-Hosts Katie M. Shipp and Chessy Prout sit down with Dr. Mona, a board-certified pediatrician and founder of Peds Doc Talk. They explore critical issues surrounding body autonomy, emotional intelligence, and the importance of early education on consent and boundaries for children. 

Dr. Mona shares practical advice for parents on how to create an environment that promotes body autonomy at home and in the doctor's office. The conversation underscores the importance of fostering open communication to empower children to express their feelings and protect their personal space. 

Tune in to this insightful discussion for invaluable tips on raising body-confident, emotionally intelligent kids.

To learn more about Dr. Mona, visit https://pedsdoctalk.com/

For resources on sexual assault, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/get-info/

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. To learn more, please visit https://www.benhudak.com/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, hosts Katie M. Ship and Chessy Prout sit down with Jean Ruggiero, a passionate advocate against sexual violence and an aspiring social worker. Jean opens up about her journey from surviving sexual assault in high school to becoming a powerful voice for other survivors.

Following her trauma, Jean found unexpected comfort and support from her dog, Boo Boo. That bond sparked her interest in the healing power of animals, a passion that continues to shape her work today.

Jean is the author of Healing Your Boo Boo, a children’s book that introduces concepts of body autonomy and consent in an age-appropriate way. She now works with Soul Friends, providing animal-assisted therapy that helps children heal emotionally while learning about boundaries, consent, and self-respect.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, hosts Alex Prout, Gabriel Viscogliosi, and Hugh Eastman are joined by production head Ben Hudak for a powerful one-year follow-up to their original “Aspire to Lead” conversation.

They discuss stepping into leadership as high school seniors, the ongoing impact of their school’s consent and sexual assault summit, and the value of showing up as empathetic, genuine members of their community.

Ben shares a story about his recent encounter with a survivor, highlighting the comradery that can come from supporting survivors. 

This episode is an honest look at what it means to grow as a leader, while staying grounded in your values.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit benhudakproductions.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this heartfelt episode of Aspire, host Katie M. Shipp welcomes co-host Karen Udall and special guest Dr. Stacey Hettes, professor of biology and neuroscience at Wofford College and author of the memoir Dispatches from the Couch.

Stacey shares her courageous journey as a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and her path to healing through therapy. The discussion touches on critical themes such as the importance of supportive responses to disclosures, understanding trauma triggers, and the role of therapy in the healing process. 

Stacey also delves into the neuroscience behind trauma reactions and offers invaluable insights for educators, parents, and survivors. This episode is a powerful testament to resilience and the ongoing effort to better understand trauma. 

Check out Stacey’s book for a deeper understanding of her journey and the science of survival.

To learn more about Dr. Stacey Hettes, check out her website: https://www.staceyhettes.com/

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. To learn more, visit benhudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In today’s episode of Aspire, hosts Alex Prout, Gabriel Viscogliosi, and Hugh Eastman are joined by Sherrie Westin, CEO of Sesame Workshop. Sherrie discusses the history and early days of the beloved children's show, Sesame Street. 

The conversation explores its origins during the Civil Rights Movement and the groundbreaking use of television to educate children from all backgrounds how to be smarter, stronger, and kinder.

Tune in to discover how these timeless characters continue to impact millions of lives around the world.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, co-hosts Katie M. Shipp, Executive Director of I Have the Right To, and Chessy Prout, Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, engage in a compelling conversation with Melissa Hoppmeyer, an experienced prosecutor and policy advocate with a strong background in criminal law, violence prevention, and legislative initiatives. She currently supports the development of the U.S. Army’s Office of Special Trial Counsel.

Melissa’s career encompasses significant contributions, including her pivotal role in transforming military prosecution regarding sexual assault and establishing pioneering protocols that drastically reduced intimate partner homicides. She discusses the importance of trauma-informed care, the necessity of early education on consent and healthy relationships, and shares powerful insights on the systemic changes needed within legal and educational domains to better support survivors. 

Personal reflections on parenting, self-awareness, and the future of advocacy work further enrich this profound dialogue on creating safer environments and a culture of respect and consent.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To, Alex Prout, and co-hosts and high school seniors, Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, return with an impactful and emotional discussion featuring Chris McGhee. 

Chris shares his family's harrowing experience after his daughter was sexually assaulted by a school resource officer. He narrates his journey from dealing with PTSD and trauma to taking legal action, ultimately leading to a new law in Pennsylvania aimed at closing legal loopholes for sexual predators in law enforcement. 

Tune in for an inspirational dialogue on turning personal tragedy into legislative action and community awareness.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To, Alex Prout,  alongside Co-Hosts Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, delve into the intricate topics of student safety, institutional accountability, and survivor empowerment. They are joined for the first time by Aspire’s producer, Ben Hudak, who is usually behind the scenes.

Highlighting the challenges surrounding traditional notions of masculinity, they discuss emotional vulnerability, the stigma around feelings, and how societal expectations suppress a full range of human emotions.

The team shares personal experiences and insights from their recent school visits, advocating for aspirational masculinity and the importance of consent. They stress the need for open conversations, proactive education, and the courage to break away from harmful cultural norms, aiming to create a safer and more respectful environment for everyone.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To, Alex Prout, joined by Co-Hosts and high school students Hugh Eastman and Gabriel Viscogliosi, welcome Dr. Stephen Burrell, lecturer in criminology at the University of Melbourne and Co-Host of Now and Then, a podcast exploring feminism and masculinity.

Dr. Burrell shares his journey and research on feminism, masculinity, and the prevention of violence. Originally from the UK and now living in Australia, he offers a global perspective on traditional masculinity, the value of emotional connectedness, and the power of embracing wholeness.

Tune in for a discussion that challenges norms and encourages a deeper understanding of identity and connection.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, I Have The Right To’s Founder, Chessy Prout, and Executive Director, Katie M. Shipp, join to welcome Melanie Barton — a survivor and passionate advocate for individuals impacted by childhood sexual abuse.

Melanie shares her deeply personal journey from experiencing sexual abuse at a young age to becoming a forensic interviewer and public speaker. She discusses the impact of child advocacy centers, the challenges of navigating the legal system, and the importance of finding one's voice. 

Melanie also highlights the ongoing toll of trauma, recounting how a life-changing plane crash led her to confront the lingering physical and emotional wounds she still carried with her as an adult from the abuse she endured as a child. Her story underscores the power of community, compassionate listening, and creative caregiving in the healing process. 

Join us for an inspiring conversation about resilience, hope, and turning pain into purpose.

If you or anyone you know is seeking help, please visit https://ihavetherightto.org/get-info/

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To, Alex Prout and co-hosts and high school seniors Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman dive deep into a powerful conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, and personal growth with guests Sean Doherty, a former Special Forces officer, and Peter Leboutillier, a retired NHL athlete. 

They discuss the challenges young men face today, the importance of accountability, the power of honest communication, and the impact of connecting with others. Through their personal stories and experiences, they offer valuable insights and encourage listeners to take a leap of faith in sharing their true selves.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Co-Host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To, Alex Prout, joins Co-Hosts Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman for a deep exploration of personal identity, core beliefs, and the challenge of staying true to oneself amidst societal pressures.

They discuss the importance of internal values over external appearances, how societal expectations can shape or stifle personal dreams, and the need to take intentional steps toward authenticity. Featuring candid conversations with 11th graders Hugh and Gabriel, the episode highlights the challenges young men face today and calls for a culture rooted in empathy, respect, and genuine self-expression.

Aspire is produced by Ben Hudak Productions. For more information, please visit BenHudak.com

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Host and Executive Director of I Have The Right To Katie Shipp and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To Chessy Prout are joined by Josephine A. Lauren, an author, activist, and co-founder of Incest Aware. They delve into the critical issues of incest awareness, prevention, and intervention. 

Josephine shares her personal journey as an incest survivor, discusses the need for inclusive and informed conversations around incest, and elaborates on her vision for community-based responses and transformational justice. 

Tune in to hear about the resilient efforts being made to normalize the discussion of incest and provide effective support systems for survivors.

If you or a loved one is seeking help, please visit https://www.incestaware.org/
Josephine’s Substack: https://josephinealauren.substack.com/
Josephine’s Full Story: https://www.josephineanne.com/
For more resources and support, visit https://ihavetherightto.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire - Real Men, Real Conversations, hosts Alex Prout, Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, welcome two high school juniors, David P. and Nick B., for an insightful discussion on student safety, institutional accountability, and survivor empowerment.

The men delve into the importance of self-awareness and the crucial role of “checking oneself,” the act of reflecting inward while making an important decision. They emphasize the power of friendships as a safe haven for vulnerability and growth. 

The episode highlights the young men's perspectives on authentic masculinity, the impact of social media, and the challenges of maintaining genuine connections. They also discuss the pressures of societal expectations and the importance of taking leaps of faith to achieve personal and communal growth. 

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this powerful episode of Aspire: I Have The Right To, Host and Executive Director Katie Shipp and Host and Co-Founder of I Have The Right To Susan Proutare joined by Australian author and educator, Jayneen Sanders, whose beloved children's books on consent and body safety are helping reshape how families and schools approach these critical topics. 

Together, they explore how early education around bodily autonomy can prevent abuse, empower children, and cultivate a culture of respect. Jayneen shares the deeply personal and professional experiences that inspired her writing—including confronting silence in school leadership and hearing from a neighbor whose children had been abused. 

The conversation dives into gender equality, parenting, and the challenges of getting this important work published. With raw, heartfelt stories and practical insights, this episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and advocates committed to protecting and empowering the next generation.

Make sure to check out Jayneen’s children’s books at https://e2epublishing.info/collections/consent/book

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this urgent and unscripted episode of Aspire, recorded just days after the 2024 presidential election, Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, Alex Prout, joins student Co-Hosts Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman for a deeply personal and honest conversation about the state of masculinity in America.

With Donald Trump’s re-election casting a long shadow, the team confronts the cultural messages being reinforced about leadership, character, and manhood. They speak candidly about the disturbing rise of phrases like “Your body, my choice” and the dangerous normalization of misogyny among young men—particularly in digital spaces and on social media.

Together, they explore what it means to model and encourage aspirational masculinity in a time when dominance, aggression, and disrespect seem to be celebrated. This conversation is a call to action—one that urges parents, educators, and young people alike to reclaim the narrative around masculinity and to start vital, sometimes uncomfortable, conversations around their dinner tables and in their communities.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, Executive Director of I Have the Right To and Co-Host Katie Shipp is joined by Co-Host Chessy Prout, Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, for a compelling conversation with bestselling author and women's empowerment expert Leslie Morgan Steiner. 

They delve into the complexities of domestic violence and survivor empowerment. Leslie shares her journey, detailed in her book 'Crazy Love,' and discusses the psychological and societal challenges survivors face. This conversation explores practical advice for parents and young people on recognizing unhealthy relationships and fostering healthy, supportive environments. Leslie emphasizes the importance of economic independence and self-care for living a fulfilling life post-trauma.

Learn more about Leslie here: https://www.lesliemorgansteiner.com/

If you or anyone you know may be suffering from domestic violence, please call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) or visit https://www.thehotline.org/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In today’s episode, we dive into the complex intersection of mental health and masculinity, with an honest and courageous conversation. Co-Host of Aspire and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, Alex Prout, opens a candid discussion with our special guest, Board Member of I Have the Right To, Steve Peacock.

Steve, an advocate, survivor, father, and friend, returns to Aspire to share his deeply personal story of navigating the trauma of childhood sexual abuse, growing up in a male-dominated environment, and learning to reconnect with his emotions after years of silence. Together, we explore how traditional norms around masculinity can prevent boys and men from expressing vulnerability, accessing support, and healing from trauma.

This episode also features our co-hosts, Hugh E. and Gabriel V., two high school students who bring powerful insight and passion to the discussion. They reflect on the state of male mental health today, the importance of dismantling stigma, and the role young people can play in creating change.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire, I Have the Right To Executive Director and Co-Host Katie M. Shipp joins Co-Host and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To Susan Prout to dive into a powerful conversation with Dr. Jo-Anne Finkelstein. Dr. Finkelstein is a clinical psychologist and author of Sexism and Sensibility. Together, they explore the subtle and systemic ways society undermines girls' confidence—from pink hockey sticks to dismissive labels like "too sensitive" or "overly emotional."

Dr. Finkelstein shares insights from decades of clinical work and her own experiences raising daughters, offering a compelling look at the "tiny psychological paper cuts" that accumulate over a lifetime. Her book provides a roadmap for raising empowered girls while also helping parents unlearn harmful cultural messages.

Make sure to check out her book, Sexism & Sensibility, an invaluable guide to understanding and dismantling sexism for parents trying to raise confident and powerful girls in a culture that often demeans them.

https://www.joannfinkelstein.com/

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this powerful conversation, we dive deep into what it means to lead with intention, empathy, and authenticity. Host and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, Alex Prout, joins Hosts and high school students Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman In this discussion on aspirational masculinity, they share how their lives are shifting as they transition from underclassmen to upperclassmen in high school.

They explore how leadership roles—on the soccer field, in the classroom, and within social circles—offer opportunities to challenge outdated norms of masculinity. They cover everything from the emotional impact of peer influence to the importance of self-awareness, modeling positive behavior, and cultivating confidence through kindness.

Listeners will walk away with new perspectives on what it means to lead through action and attitude.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In a world where outdated ideas of masculinity still hold power, Aspire seeks to redefine what it means to be a man. Host Alex Prout, Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, alongside Co-Hosts and high school students, Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, tackle the challenges young men face in breaking free from socially constructed norms.

Through honest conversations, personal stories, and expert insights, they explore how young men can embrace emotional vulnerability, challenge toxic behaviors, and become leaders in fostering a culture of respect, consent, and integrity.

Join us as we redefine masculinity—not as something restrictive, but as something to aspire toward.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this personal and thought-provoking episode of Aspire, host and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, Alex Prout, joined by hosts and high school students Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, welcome former NFL athlete Don McPherson. 

Don is Board Member of I Have the Right To, College Football Hall of Famer, and longtime advocate for gender-based violence prevention. He shares his journey from athlete to activist, discussing the importance of redefining masculinity and fostering positive, aspirational models for young men. He, Alex, Hugh, and Gabriel explore the challenges of engaging boys in conversations about respect, relationships, and identity—moving beyond prevention messaging to focus on what young men can become rather than what they should avoid.

Tune in for an inspiring discussion that challenges conventional narratives and offers a new vision for what it means to be a man.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire - The I Have the Right To Podcast, host Alex Prout, Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, joined by hosts and high school students Gabriel Viscogliosi and Hugh Eastman, explore the profound impact of fatherhood on masculinity. Together, they discuss how traditional roles shape men’s identities and the ways in which these norms can either strengthen or limit emotional expression.

They examine the concept of socially constructed masculinity, and how generations of fathers have passed down expectations of being the unwavering provider and protector, often at the expense of vulnerability and genuine emotional connection. Alex reflects on his own father’s stoicism and how it has influenced his approach to fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of openness and authenticity with his children.

Join us as we challenge outdated norms, encourage self-reflection, and inspire a new vision of fatherhood—one that fosters deeper relationships and a healthier, more inclusive perception of masculinity.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire, Executive Director of I Have the Right To, Katie Shipp and Co-Founder of I Have the Right To, Susan Prout, welcome Mal Wrenn Corbin, author of Raising Wrens. Mal shares her journey from a turbulent childhood in Worcester, Massachusetts, to becoming a first-generation college graduate and a leader in the financial services industry.

Her memoir, Raising Wrenns, intertwines personal history with the resilience of the wren—a bird as tough and adaptable as her family. Mal recounts the challenges of growing up in Worcester’s Main South neighborhood, the loss of her father to violence, and her brother’s tragic suicide. She reflects on the power of reclaiming her past and the healing process of writing her story.

Join us for an inspiring conversation about survival, family bonds, and finding beauty in hardship.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this week’s episode of Aspire - The I Have the Right To Podcast, host and Co-Founder of I Have the Right to, Alex Prout, speaks with Board Director of I Have the Right To, Steve Peacock. Steve is a father, financial industry professional, and advocate for survivors of sexual abuse. He shares his deeply personal journey of surviving childhood sexual abuse, the decades-long silence that followed, and the pivotal moment when he found the courage to speak out.

Through a chance encounter on LinkedIn, Steve discovered Alex’s advocacy work and reached out, sparking a friendship that would change both their lives. Together, they discuss the profound impact of trauma, the societal expectations of masculinity, and the challenges survivors face in reclaiming their voices.

This conversation is a testament to the power of connection, resilience, and the urgent need to change the narrative around sexual abuse and survivor support. Tune in for an honest, heartfelt dialogue that sheds light on healing, empowerment, and the fight for a world where every survivor is heard and believed.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire: The I Have the Right To Podcast, we explore the concept of failure and its impact on aspirational masculinity. Join hosts Alex Prout, Gabriel Viscogliosi, and Hugh Eastman as they dive into the societal pressures surrounding failure, the importance of embracing setbacks as opportunities for growth, and the role of encouragement and support in overcoming challenges. Together, they discuss how failure often conflicts with traditional notions of masculinity, where weakness is frowned upon, and how men can redefine success by prioritizing character and personal fulfillment over societal expectations. Tune in for an insightful conversation about vulnerability, self-acceptance, and finding strength in the face of adversity.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire: The I Have the Right To Podcast, host Alex Prout is joined by his co-hosts and high school juniors Gabriel Viscogliosi, and Hugh Eastman as they dive deep into the current state of masculinity, focusing on its impact on young men. The conversation explores the importance of aspirational masculinity, emphasizing empathy, integrity, and resilience. They discuss the challenges young men face today, including rising mental health issues, violence, and educational disparities, and how embracing open conversations and vulnerability can spark positive change. The episode encourages listeners to reflect on their beliefs and the importance of breaking free from socially constructed norms to create a healthier, more inclusive model of masculinity.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this episode of Aspire: The I Have the Right To Podcast, co-hosts Katie M. Shipp and Susan Prout are joined by Chessy Prout, a survivor, author, advocate, and filmmaker. Together, they discuss Chessy's journey as a survivor of sexual assault at St. Paul's School, her decision to share her story publicly, and the powerful role of community in her healing process. 

Chessy opens up about the emotional challenges she faced after the assault, the strength she found in speaking out, and how her book, I Have the Right To: A High School Survivor’s Story of Sexual Assault, Justice, and Hope, has connected her with other survivors. Susan shares her perspective as a mother supporting her daughter through this journey. This episode is a deep, moving conversation about empowerment, the importance of survivor voices, and the ongoing fight for justice and accountability in the fight against sexual assault.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In this powerful second episode of Aspire: The I Have the Right To Podcast, host Katie M. Shipp, Executive Director of the nonprofit I Have the Right To, is joined once again by co-hosts and co-founders Susan and Alex Prout. Together, they dive deeper into the topics introduced in the first episode, addressing the harmful concept of the "perfect victim" and the ongoing struggle for justice and support for survivors of sexual assault.

The conversation explores the devastating impact of institutional betrayal, as seen in the case of Chessy, a survivor of sexual assault at St. Paul's School, and how the institution's failure to support victims perpetuates a culture of silence and denial. Alex and Susan share their personal experiences with betrayal from within their community, and how this led them to create a space of healing, support, and advocacy through their nonprofit.

Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the importance of validation for survivors and the need for societal change in addressing sexual violence, focusing not on the behavior of victims, but on the perpetrators and the systems that protect them. Tune in for an inspiring conversation on how we can all be part of the solution, creating safer environments and a culture of respect and consent.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com

In the first episode of Aspire: The I Have the Right To Podcast, host Katie M. Shipp, Executive Director of I Have the Right To, is joined by co-hosts Susan and Alex Prout, co-founders of the nonprofit and parents of Chessy Prout, a survivor of sexual assault. 

In this powerful conversation, the Prouts share their personal journey following Chessy's assault at St. Paul's School, the challenges they faced, and their ongoing commitment to creating safer environments for students. They discuss the importance of institutional accountability, survivor empowerment, and how their nonprofit works to educate young people, especially young men, about the importance of safety, respect, and consent. 

The episode highlights the critical role of community support, the lasting impact of trauma, and the Prouts’ tireless advocacy for justice. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion on the need for change in the fight against sexual violence.

Support the show

Aspire is produced by BenHudakProductions.com