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  <description><![CDATA[<p>As mission-driven leaders, it's easy for you to prioritize the never-ending needs of your work and family over your own needs. After a lifetime of self-sacrifice, as you move into this next phase of your life you're asking yourself "who am I?" and "what do I want?" Listen as Michelle Vande Hey, International Life Coach &amp; Compassion Fatigue, Vicarious Trauma, and Burnout Specialist helps you rediscover who you are outside of what you do. You ARE Worth It!!</p>]]></description>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you the <em>default</em> person in your family, business, or community—and quietly burning out because of it?</p><p>In this deeply honest episode, Michelle Vande Hey shares what she’s navigating right now as a business owner, caregiver, and mission-driven leader—and the powerful reminder it brought about self-care, sustainability, and capacity.</p><p>If you love what you do but feel exhausted, disconnected, or on the edge of burnout, this episode is for you. Michelle explores why passion doesn’t replace rest, how being the “default human” creates a hidden burden for leaders, and why self-care that actually works must be systemic—not reactive.</p><p>You’ll walk away with practical, realistic steps to protect your energy, support your nervous system, and care for yourself in ways that sustain both <em>you</em> and your mission.</p><p><br/>In This Episode, We Cover:</p><ul><li>Why being the “default” person is a major (often invisible) contributor to burnout</li><li>The early signs of burnout mission-driven leaders often ignore</li><li>Why loving your work doesn’t mean you have unlimited capacity</li><li>The difference between reactive self-care and systemic self-care</li><li>How pre-scheduled care can support you during hard weeks</li><li>Why five-minute habits matter more than you think</li><li>How to build self-care systems that hold you when life gets heavy</li></ul><p><br/>Practical Takeaways:</p><ol><li>Identify where you are the default—and the cost of carrying that role</li><li>Schedule self-care like survival, because it is</li><li>Build your self-care systems for the hard weeks, not the easy ones</li></ol><p><br/>Thoughtful Three Reflection Questions:</p><ol><li>Where in my life am I the default—and what is that costing me right now?</li><li>What is one small act of care I can schedule <em>this week</em> (not someday)?</li><li>What support does future me need that I can plan for today?</li></ol><p><br/>Resources Mentioned:</p><ul><li>Free Self-Care Cheat Sheet:<br/> 20 self-care habits that take 5 minutes or less—designed for busy, overwhelmed leaders <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout</a> </li></ul><p>If this episode resonated, share it with someone who’s carrying a lot and say, <em>“I thought of you.”</em></p><p><em><br/></em> Your mission is worth it—and you are worth it too.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you the <em>default</em> person in your family, business, or community—and quietly burning out because of it?</p><p>In this deeply honest episode, Michelle Vande Hey shares what she’s navigating right now as a business owner, caregiver, and mission-driven leader—and the powerful reminder it brought about self-care, sustainability, and capacity.</p><p>If you love what you do but feel exhausted, disconnected, or on the edge of burnout, this episode is for you. Michelle explores why passion doesn’t replace rest, how being the “default human” creates a hidden burden for leaders, and why self-care that actually works must be systemic—not reactive.</p><p>You’ll walk away with practical, realistic steps to protect your energy, support your nervous system, and care for yourself in ways that sustain both <em>you</em> and your mission.</p><p><br/>In This Episode, We Cover:</p><ul><li>Why being the “default” person is a major (often invisible) contributor to burnout</li><li>The early signs of burnout mission-driven leaders often ignore</li><li>Why loving your work doesn’t mean you have unlimited capacity</li><li>The difference between reactive self-care and systemic self-care</li><li>How pre-scheduled care can support you during hard weeks</li><li>Why five-minute habits matter more than you think</li><li>How to build self-care systems that hold you when life gets heavy</li></ul><p><br/>Practical Takeaways:</p><ol><li>Identify where you are the default—and the cost of carrying that role</li><li>Schedule self-care like survival, because it is</li><li>Build your self-care systems for the hard weeks, not the easy ones</li></ol><p><br/>Thoughtful Three Reflection Questions:</p><ol><li>Where in my life am I the default—and what is that costing me right now?</li><li>What is one small act of care I can schedule <em>this week</em> (not someday)?</li><li>What support does future me need that I can plan for today?</li></ol><p><br/>Resources Mentioned:</p><ul><li>Free Self-Care Cheat Sheet:<br/> 20 self-care habits that take 5 minutes or less—designed for busy, overwhelmed leaders <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout</a> </li></ul><p>If this episode resonated, share it with someone who’s carrying a lot and say, <em>“I thought of you.”</em></p><p><em><br/></em> Your mission is worth it—and you are worth it too.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever had one of those tiny moments — so brief, so unexpected — that completely shifted your mood or your day? In this episode, I share a story from a cold, cloudy walk where a quick flash of sunshine reminded me of the incredible power of small, intentional moments of joy. For mission-driven leaders and changemakers, it’s easy to believe that you “don’t have time” for self-care or that meaningful rest must be big, long, or perfectly planned. But the truth?   Small doesn’t...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever had one of those tiny moments — so brief, so unexpected — that completely shifted your mood or your day? In this episode, I share a story from a cold, cloudy walk where a <em>quick flash of sunshine</em> reminded me of the incredible power of small, intentional moments of joy.</p><p>For mission-driven leaders and changemakers, it’s easy to believe that you “don’t have time” for self-care or that meaningful rest must be big, long, or perfectly planned. But the truth?<br/><br/></p><p>Small doesn’t mean insignificant. Small can be powerful — and sustainable.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:<br/> • How a 30-second moment of warmth shifted my entire emotional state<br/> • Why micro-moments of joy help regulate your nervous system<br/> • How tiny resets support burnout prevention and creative energy<br/> • The simple 5-Minute Joy Moment you can use anytime<br/> • The compounding effect of small practices over time<br/> • How these moments help you reconnect with yourself and your mission</p><p>At the end, I share my Thoughtful Three — three reflective questions to help you explore, embody, and elevate these practices so you can create sustainable impact <em>without losing yourself.</em></p><p>If you’re ready to reignite your inner light, join the Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge:<br/><br/></p><p>7 minutes a day for 7 days to cultivate mindfulness, joy, and inner peace.<br/> </p><p>👉 Link https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</p><p>Remember: you are worth the five minutes.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever had one of those tiny moments — so brief, so unexpected — that completely shifted your mood or your day? In this episode, I share a story from a cold, cloudy walk where a <em>quick flash of sunshine</em> reminded me of the incredible power of small, intentional moments of joy.</p><p>For mission-driven leaders and changemakers, it’s easy to believe that you “don’t have time” for self-care or that meaningful rest must be big, long, or perfectly planned. But the truth?<br/><br/></p><p>Small doesn’t mean insignificant. Small can be powerful — and sustainable.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:<br/> • How a 30-second moment of warmth shifted my entire emotional state<br/> • Why micro-moments of joy help regulate your nervous system<br/> • How tiny resets support burnout prevention and creative energy<br/> • The simple 5-Minute Joy Moment you can use anytime<br/> • The compounding effect of small practices over time<br/> • How these moments help you reconnect with yourself and your mission</p><p>At the end, I share my Thoughtful Three — three reflective questions to help you explore, embody, and elevate these practices so you can create sustainable impact <em>without losing yourself.</em></p><p>If you’re ready to reignite your inner light, join the Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge:<br/><br/></p><p>7 minutes a day for 7 days to cultivate mindfulness, joy, and inner peace.<br/> </p><p>👉 Link https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</p><p>Remember: you are worth the five minutes.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever questioned if you’re truly qualified to do the work you’re doing? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey shares a deeply personal story about her time in the NICU with her son—and how that experience revealed the foundation of everything she teaches about burnout, harmony, and self-leadership today. You’ll hear how intentional breaks, community support, and mindful structure helped her navigate an incredibly challenging time without burning out—and how those same tools ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever questioned if you’re truly qualified to do the work you’re doing? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey shares a deeply personal story about her time in the NICU with her son—and how that experience revealed the foundation of everything she teaches about burnout, harmony, and self-leadership today.</p><p>You’ll hear how intentional breaks, community support, and mindful structure helped her navigate an incredibly challenging time without burning out—and how those same tools can help <em>you</em> show up fully for your mission while honoring your own needs.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why “balance” isn’t the goal—and what to focus on instead</li><li>How to lean on your community without guilt</li><li>Simple ways to create harmony and prevent burnout</li><li>The truth about what makes you <em>qualified<br/></em><br/></li></ul><p>The Thoughtful Three + 1 Bonus:</p><ol><li>Schedule your breaks (even short ones count!)</li><li>Lean on your community—let others carry what they can</li><li>Focus on harmony, not balance </li></ol><p>Bonus: Be intentional with your time<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever questioned if you’re truly qualified to do the work you’re doing? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey shares a deeply personal story about her time in the NICU with her son—and how that experience revealed the foundation of everything she teaches about burnout, harmony, and self-leadership today.</p><p>You’ll hear how intentional breaks, community support, and mindful structure helped her navigate an incredibly challenging time without burning out—and how those same tools can help <em>you</em> show up fully for your mission while honoring your own needs.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why “balance” isn’t the goal—and what to focus on instead</li><li>How to lean on your community without guilt</li><li>Simple ways to create harmony and prevent burnout</li><li>The truth about what makes you <em>qualified<br/></em><br/></li></ul><p>The Thoughtful Three + 1 Bonus:</p><ol><li>Schedule your breaks (even short ones count!)</li><li>Lean on your community—let others carry what they can</li><li>Focus on harmony, not balance </li></ol><p>Bonus: Be intentional with your time<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever had a comment land so deeply it knocked the wind out of you? Recently Michelle was accused of being inauthentic and only asking her community to show up for her. In the past, a message like that would have sent her spiraling — apologizing, shrinking, defending.  This time she noticed the body’s reaction, paused, reflected, and chose curiosity over collapse. In this episode Michelle unpacks that experience and explains how trauma-sensitive yoga, mindful embodimen...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever had a comment land so deeply it knocked the wind out of you? Recently Michelle was accused of being inauthentic and only asking her community to show up for <em>her</em>. In the past, a message like that would have sent her spiraling — apologizing, shrinking, defending. </p><p>This time she noticed the body’s reaction, paused, reflected, and chose curiosity over collapse. In this episode Michelle unpacks that experience and explains how trauma-sensitive yoga, mindful embodiment, and small grounded practices can rebuild self-trust so other people’s judgments lose their power.</p><p>You’ll hear:</p><ul><li>What it felt like in the body when the accusation arrived (tightness, heat, urge to defend)</li><li>The exact pause-and-reflect process Michelle used to avoid reactivity</li><li>Why leadership rooted in self-trust is more sustainable than leadership rooted in self-sacrifice</li><li>How trauma-sensitive yoga and embodiment practices help you notice, name, and choose your response</li><li>Three reflective questions (The Thoughtful Three) to use when you’re triggered<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>Key takeaways:</p><ul><li>You can’t think your way into confidence — you have to feel your way back to it.</li><li>Being in service doesn’t require self-sacrifice; anchoring in your worth makes your service sustainable.</li><li>Not everyone will understand your power — that’s okay. The work is to remember your worth for yourself.</li></ul><p>Resources mentioned:</p><ul><li>Join the 7 Days to Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/store'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</a> </li><li>Join the Love Your Life On Purpose Facebook community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559</a> </li></ul><p>Thoughtful Three — Reflection Questions:</p><ol><li>When was the last time you felt the urge to shrink or apologize for your power?</li><li>What would it look like to <em>respond</em> instead of <em>react</em> in that moment?</li><li>What helps you reconnect to your inner sense of worth when others don’t see it?</li></ol><p>Subscribe / Review:<br/>If this episode landed for you, please subscribe, rate, or leave a review — it helps more changemakers find this work. Share this episode with someone who needs permission to take up space.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever had a comment land so deeply it knocked the wind out of you? Recently Michelle was accused of being inauthentic and only asking her community to show up for <em>her</em>. In the past, a message like that would have sent her spiraling — apologizing, shrinking, defending. </p><p>This time she noticed the body’s reaction, paused, reflected, and chose curiosity over collapse. In this episode Michelle unpacks that experience and explains how trauma-sensitive yoga, mindful embodiment, and small grounded practices can rebuild self-trust so other people’s judgments lose their power.</p><p>You’ll hear:</p><ul><li>What it felt like in the body when the accusation arrived (tightness, heat, urge to defend)</li><li>The exact pause-and-reflect process Michelle used to avoid reactivity</li><li>Why leadership rooted in self-trust is more sustainable than leadership rooted in self-sacrifice</li><li>How trauma-sensitive yoga and embodiment practices help you notice, name, and choose your response</li><li>Three reflective questions (The Thoughtful Three) to use when you’re triggered<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>Key takeaways:</p><ul><li>You can’t think your way into confidence — you have to feel your way back to it.</li><li>Being in service doesn’t require self-sacrifice; anchoring in your worth makes your service sustainable.</li><li>Not everyone will understand your power — that’s okay. The work is to remember your worth for yourself.</li></ul><p>Resources mentioned:</p><ul><li>Join the 7 Days to Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/store'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</a> </li><li>Join the Love Your Life On Purpose Facebook community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559</a> </li></ul><p>Thoughtful Three — Reflection Questions:</p><ol><li>When was the last time you felt the urge to shrink or apologize for your power?</li><li>What would it look like to <em>respond</em> instead of <em>react</em> in that moment?</li><li>What helps you reconnect to your inner sense of worth when others don’t see it?</li></ol><p>Subscribe / Review:<br/>If this episode landed for you, please subscribe, rate, or leave a review — it helps more changemakers find this work. Share this episode with someone who needs permission to take up space.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>How to Recover from Burnout (What Finally Worked For Me!)</itunes:title>
    <title>How to Recover from Burnout (What Finally Worked For Me!)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Burnout isn’t just about being tired — it’s about losing touch with who you are. In this heartfelt episode, host Michelle Vande Hey shares her personal story of burnout and the practices that helped her (and her clients) come back home to themselves. You’ll discover how slowing down, finding joy, and building authentic community can help you recover from burnout — not by doing more, but by being more of yourself. You’ll hear about: The real cost of pushing through: emotional, phys...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Burnout isn’t just about being tired — it’s about losing touch with who you are. In this heartfelt episode, host Michelle Vande Hey shares her personal story of burnout and the practices that helped her (and her clients) come back home to themselves.</p><p>You’ll discover how slowing down, finding joy, and building authentic community can help you recover from burnout — not by doing more, but by <em>being more</em> of yourself.</p><p>You’ll hear about:</p><ul><li>The real cost of pushing through: emotional, physical, and spiritual depletion</li><li>Why joy isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity for healing and creativity</li><li>How community can remind you of your worth when you’ve forgotten it</li><li>The mindset shift that helps you reclaim peace, freedom, and joy</li><li>What happens when you combine slowing down, joy, and community together<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>Mentioned in this episode:<br/>👉 <em>The Rediscovery RESET</em> — Nichelle’s 5-step framework to help you release what’s not serving you and open yourself to renewal and joy. [Insert link]</p><p><br/>✨ Connect with Michelle:<br/><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Burnout isn’t just about being tired — it’s about losing touch with who you are. In this heartfelt episode, host Michelle Vande Hey shares her personal story of burnout and the practices that helped her (and her clients) come back home to themselves.</p><p>You’ll discover how slowing down, finding joy, and building authentic community can help you recover from burnout — not by doing more, but by <em>being more</em> of yourself.</p><p>You’ll hear about:</p><ul><li>The real cost of pushing through: emotional, physical, and spiritual depletion</li><li>Why joy isn’t a luxury — it’s a necessity for healing and creativity</li><li>How community can remind you of your worth when you’ve forgotten it</li><li>The mindset shift that helps you reclaim peace, freedom, and joy</li><li>What happens when you combine slowing down, joy, and community together<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>Mentioned in this episode:<br/>👉 <em>The Rediscovery RESET</em> — Nichelle’s 5-step framework to help you release what’s not serving you and open yourself to renewal and joy. [Insert link]</p><p><br/>✨ Connect with Michelle:<br/><br/></p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Burnout Recovery for Leaders: When Passion Isn’t Enough Anymore</itunes:title>
    <title>Burnout Recovery for Leaders: When Passion Isn’t Enough Anymore</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text You’ve given everything to your mission — but now you’re the one running on empty. What happens when the work that once inspired you starts to leave you numb? In this heartfelt episode, Michelle shares her personal story of grief, burnout, and rebuilding from the ground up. She reveals what most leaders never learn about sustaining impact: your passion is only the ignition — not the engine. Through reflection, storytelling, and practical guidance, Michelle helps you explore how to...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>You’ve given everything to your mission — but now you’re the one running on empty.<br/>What happens when the work that once inspired you starts to leave you numb?</p><p>In this heartfelt episode, Michelle shares her personal story of grief, burnout, and rebuilding from the ground up. She reveals what most leaders never learn about sustaining impact: your passion is only the ignition — not the engine.</p><p>Through reflection, storytelling, and practical guidance, Michelle helps you explore how to reconnect to your deeper “why,” build systems of support, and lead from a place of peace, freedom, and joy — not depletion.</p><p><br/>🌿 In This Episode:</p><ul><li>The hidden emotional and financial cost of burnout</li><li>How to tell when your passion has become your pressure</li><li>Why your “why” needs to go five layers deeper</li><li>What a 10K race taught Michelle about resilience and renewal</li><li>How to shift from surviving to sustainable leadership<br/><br/></li></ul><p>💬 Quote from Michelle:</p><p>“Rediscovering your why isn’t about going back — it’s about going deeper and bringing others with you.”</p><p>🔗 Resources:</p><ul><li>Watch Michelle’s <em>When Stories Talk: </em><a href='https://youtu.be/iZlTc2xFRf0?si=vnXpoB4Zx4Oe8YKO'><em>https://youtu.be/iZlTc2xFRf0?si=vnXpoB4Zx4Oe8YKO</em></a></li><li>Previous episode: <em>How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt</em> — includes 3 ready-to-use scripts</li></ul><p>✨ Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>You’ve given everything to your mission — but now you’re the one running on empty.<br/>What happens when the work that once inspired you starts to leave you numb?</p><p>In this heartfelt episode, Michelle shares her personal story of grief, burnout, and rebuilding from the ground up. She reveals what most leaders never learn about sustaining impact: your passion is only the ignition — not the engine.</p><p>Through reflection, storytelling, and practical guidance, Michelle helps you explore how to reconnect to your deeper “why,” build systems of support, and lead from a place of peace, freedom, and joy — not depletion.</p><p><br/>🌿 In This Episode:</p><ul><li>The hidden emotional and financial cost of burnout</li><li>How to tell when your passion has become your pressure</li><li>Why your “why” needs to go five layers deeper</li><li>What a 10K race taught Michelle about resilience and renewal</li><li>How to shift from surviving to sustainable leadership<br/><br/></li></ul><p>💬 Quote from Michelle:</p><p>“Rediscovering your why isn’t about going back — it’s about going deeper and bringing others with you.”</p><p>🔗 Resources:</p><ul><li>Watch Michelle’s <em>When Stories Talk: </em><a href='https://youtu.be/iZlTc2xFRf0?si=vnXpoB4Zx4Oe8YKO'><em>https://youtu.be/iZlTc2xFRf0?si=vnXpoB4Zx4Oe8YKO</em></a></li><li>Previous episode: <em>How to Set Boundaries Without Guilt</em> — includes 3 ready-to-use scripts</li></ul><p>✨ Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Burnout Recovery for Leaders (3 Scripts To Say “No” Without Guilt)</itunes:title>
    <title>Burnout Recovery for Leaders (3 Scripts To Say “No” Without Guilt)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever said “yes” and instantly regretted it? You wanted to protect your time, but the guilt hit you like a truck. Setting boundaries can feel selfish or uncaring—but the truth is, they’re the very thing that allows you to stay in love with your mission instead of burning out. In this episode, I share 3 simple, word-for-word scripts you can use to say no without guilt. These scripts will help you: Protect your energy and focusStay present with family, work, and yourselfTie ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever said “yes” and instantly regretted it? You wanted to protect your time, but the guilt hit you like a truck. Setting boundaries can feel selfish or uncaring—but the truth is, they’re the very thing that allows you to stay in love with your mission instead of burning out.</p><p>In this episode, I share 3 simple, word-for-word scripts you can use to say no without guilt. These scripts will help you:</p><ul><li>Protect your energy and focus</li><li>Stay present with family, work, and yourself</li><li>Tie your boundaries to your values so others respect them</li><li>Lead by example, whether you’re at home or at work</li></ul><p>I also share a personal story about how a simple “stoplight” system transformed how my family respected my work boundaries—and how it helped me show up more fully in both places.</p><p>✨ Takeaway: Boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re the key to protecting your peace, honoring your values, and showing up as your best self for the people who matter most.</p><p>If you’ve ever struggled with the guilt of saying no, this episode will give you the words—and the mindset shift—you need.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever said “yes” and instantly regretted it? You wanted to protect your time, but the guilt hit you like a truck. Setting boundaries can feel selfish or uncaring—but the truth is, they’re the very thing that allows you to stay in love with your mission instead of burning out.</p><p>In this episode, I share 3 simple, word-for-word scripts you can use to say no without guilt. These scripts will help you:</p><ul><li>Protect your energy and focus</li><li>Stay present with family, work, and yourself</li><li>Tie your boundaries to your values so others respect them</li><li>Lead by example, whether you’re at home or at work</li></ul><p>I also share a personal story about how a simple “stoplight” system transformed how my family respected my work boundaries—and how it helped me show up more fully in both places.</p><p>✨ Takeaway: Boundaries aren’t selfish. They’re the key to protecting your peace, honoring your values, and showing up as your best self for the people who matter most.</p><p>If you’ve ever struggled with the guilt of saying no, this episode will give you the words—and the mindset shift—you need.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Real Reason You Can’t Say No (Even When You Know You Should)</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever felt like you’re disappearing under the weight of everyone else’s needs—like no matter how much you give, it’s never enough? In today’s episode of Love Your Life On Purpose, I dive into the deeper reason why saying no feels impossible, even when you know it’s costing you your joy, energy, and sense of self. Spoiler: it’s not just about kindness or time management. It’s about the beliefs we’ve been conditioned to carry—beliefs that say your worth comes from how much y...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever felt like you’re disappearing under the weight of everyone else’s needs—like no matter how much you give, it’s never enough?</p><p>In today’s episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I dive into the deeper reason why saying no feels impossible, even when you know it’s costing you your joy, energy, and sense of self. Spoiler: it’s not just about kindness or time management. It’s about the beliefs we’ve been conditioned to carry—beliefs that say your worth comes from how much you sacrifice.</p><p>I’ll share:</p><ul><li>Why helping others can feel addictive (and why you keep saying yes)</li><li>How overgiving slowly erodes your spark and identity</li><li>Why boundaries alone aren’t enough unless you heal the deeper beliefs</li><li>The paradox of generosity: the more you sacrifice yourself, the less you actually have to give</li><li>How to say no without being selfish—and finally reclaim your time, energy, and self</li></ul><p>If you’ve been struggling with people-pleasing, burnout, or feeling guilty every time you set a boundary, this conversation will help you see that saying no isn’t the end of your generosity. It’s the start of your real, sustainable impact.</p><p>👉 Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that their worth is not measured by how much they give.</p><p>✨ Subscribe to <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em> for weekly inspiration on burnout prevention, boundaries, compassion fatigue, and living a life filled with peace, freedom, and joy.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever felt like you’re disappearing under the weight of everyone else’s needs—like no matter how much you give, it’s never enough?</p><p>In today’s episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I dive into the deeper reason why saying no feels impossible, even when you know it’s costing you your joy, energy, and sense of self. Spoiler: it’s not just about kindness or time management. It’s about the beliefs we’ve been conditioned to carry—beliefs that say your worth comes from how much you sacrifice.</p><p>I’ll share:</p><ul><li>Why helping others can feel addictive (and why you keep saying yes)</li><li>How overgiving slowly erodes your spark and identity</li><li>Why boundaries alone aren’t enough unless you heal the deeper beliefs</li><li>The paradox of generosity: the more you sacrifice yourself, the less you actually have to give</li><li>How to say no without being selfish—and finally reclaim your time, energy, and self</li></ul><p>If you’ve been struggling with people-pleasing, burnout, or feeling guilty every time you set a boundary, this conversation will help you see that saying no isn’t the end of your generosity. It’s the start of your real, sustainable impact.</p><p>👉 Share this episode with a friend who needs the reminder that their worth is not measured by how much they give.</p><p>✨ Subscribe to <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em> for weekly inspiration on burnout prevention, boundaries, compassion fatigue, and living a life filled with peace, freedom, and joy.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Burnout Recovery WITHOUT Quitting Everything (The Reset Framework)</itunes:title>
    <title>Burnout Recovery WITHOUT Quitting Everything (The Reset Framework)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Are you exhausted, overwhelmed, and secretly wishing you could just walk away from it all? Burnout can make it feel like your only choices are total collapse or total sacrifice. But is that really true? In this episode of Love Your Life On Purpose, I share my 5R Reset Framework—a powerful yet gentle process that helps mission-driven leaders and changemakers recover from burnout without abandoning their purpose. What you’ll discover: The hidden reason most people fail at sustainabl...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you exhausted, overwhelmed, and secretly wishing you could just walk away from it all? Burnout can make it feel like your only choices are total collapse or total sacrifice. But is that really true?</p><p>In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I share my 5R Reset Framework—a powerful yet gentle process that helps mission-driven leaders and changemakers recover from burnout without abandoning their purpose.</p><p>What you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>The hidden reason most people fail at sustainable change</li><li>Why rest alone isn’t enough to heal burnout</li><li>The step-by-step 5Rs: Review, Remove, Restore, Rebuild, Repeat</li><li>How micro shifts create long-term transformation</li><li>Why you don’t need a crisis to create clarity</li></ul><p>If you’ve ever stared at your calendar and felt dread, or wondered if the only way out was burning everything down, this episode will give you a new perspective and a practical path forward.</p><p>✨ Gentle, sustainable change is possible. It doesn’t require quitting your mission—it requires a reset.</p><p>🔗 Mentioned in this episode:</p><ul><li>Last week’s episode {Why Rest Isn’t Working}</li></ul><p>👉 If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs encouragement today. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you exhausted, overwhelmed, and secretly wishing you could just walk away from it all? Burnout can make it feel like your only choices are total collapse or total sacrifice. But is that really true?</p><p>In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I share my 5R Reset Framework—a powerful yet gentle process that helps mission-driven leaders and changemakers recover from burnout without abandoning their purpose.</p><p>What you’ll discover:</p><ul><li>The hidden reason most people fail at sustainable change</li><li>Why rest alone isn’t enough to heal burnout</li><li>The step-by-step 5Rs: Review, Remove, Restore, Rebuild, Repeat</li><li>How micro shifts create long-term transformation</li><li>Why you don’t need a crisis to create clarity</li></ul><p>If you’ve ever stared at your calendar and felt dread, or wondered if the only way out was burning everything down, this episode will give you a new perspective and a practical path forward.</p><p>✨ Gentle, sustainable change is possible. It doesn’t require quitting your mission—it requires a reset.</p><p>🔗 Mentioned in this episode:</p><ul><li>Last week’s episode {Why Rest Isn’t Working}</li></ul><p>👉 If this episode resonates, share it with someone who needs encouragement today. And don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode.</p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Burnout Recovery: Why Rest Isn’t Working (and What Actually Does)</itunes:title>
    <title>Burnout Recovery: Why Rest Isn’t Working (and What Actually Does)</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever woken up after a full night of sleep and still felt exhausted? You’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. In this episode of Love Your Life On Purpose, Michelle explores why traditional rest and self-care often don’t relieve burnout, and what you can do instead. You’ll discover: Why sleep and rest aren’t always enough for true recoveryHow hustle culture, “no pain no gain,” and constant self-sacrifice harm your wellbeingThe shift from treating...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever woken up after a full night of sleep and still felt exhausted? You’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, Michelle explores why traditional rest and self-care often don’t relieve burnout, and what you can do instead.</p><p>You’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why sleep and rest aren’t always enough for true recovery</li><li>How hustle culture, “no pain no gain,” and constant self-sacrifice harm your wellbeing</li><li>The shift from treating your body as a problem to partnering with it</li><li>The role of rhythms, boundaries, delegation, and external support in sustainable wellness</li><li>How to create systems so self-care isn’t just another chore but part of who you are</li></ul><p>If rest alone isn’t fixing your burnout, it’s time to approach your wellbeing differently.</p><p>✨ Free Guide → Grab Michelle’s 20 Self-Care Habits for Busy Badass People (in 5 minutes or less!) here: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout</a> </p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><ul><li><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </li></ul><p>Remember—you don’t have to do it all alone. Burnout isn’t a badge of honor, and your body deserves to be your partner, not your opponent.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever woken up after a full night of sleep and still felt exhausted? You’re not alone—and it’s not because you’re doing something wrong. In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, Michelle explores why traditional rest and self-care often don’t relieve burnout, and what you can do instead.</p><p>You’ll discover:</p><ul><li>Why sleep and rest aren’t always enough for true recovery</li><li>How hustle culture, “no pain no gain,” and constant self-sacrifice harm your wellbeing</li><li>The shift from treating your body as a problem to partnering with it</li><li>The role of rhythms, boundaries, delegation, and external support in sustainable wellness</li><li>How to create systems so self-care isn’t just another chore but part of who you are</li></ul><p>If rest alone isn’t fixing your burnout, it’s time to approach your wellbeing differently.</p><p>✨ Free Guide → Grab Michelle’s 20 Self-Care Habits for Busy Badass People (in 5 minutes or less!) here: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP/checkout</a> </p><p>💌 Connect with Michelle:</p><ul><li><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </li><li><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </li></ul><p>Remember—you don’t have to do it all alone. Burnout isn’t a badge of honor, and your body deserves to be your partner, not your opponent.</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Are you showing signs of burnout… or is it something deeper? Many mission-driven leaders, caregivers, and changemakers think they’re experiencing burnout, but what if what you’re really feeling is losing who you are? In this episode, I’ll help you identify the difference between burnout symptoms and identity loss, why rest alone doesn’t always work, and how to start coming home to yourself again. What you’ll learn in this video: The key difference between burnout and identity loss...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you showing signs of burnout… or is it something deeper? Many mission-driven leaders, caregivers, and changemakers think they’re experiencing burnout, but what if what you’re really feeling is losing who you are?</p><p>In this episode, I’ll help you identify the difference between burnout symptoms and identity loss, why rest alone doesn’t always work, and how to start coming home to yourself again.</p><p>What you’ll learn in this video:</p><ul><li>The key difference between burnout and identity loss</li><li>3 signs you’re beyond burnout (and what to do next)</li><li>How compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma can quietly reshape who you are</li><li>Simple ways to start rediscovering your authentic self<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>If you’ve tried resting, setting boundaries, or taking breaks and still feel hollow, guilty for self-care, or unsure who you are outside your roles and titles—this is for you.</p><p>💡 FREE 7-Day Challenge: Ready to release the exhaustion and reconnect with yourself? Join my free challenge here: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/store'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</a> </p><p>Watch until the end for steps to begin healing and reclaiming your energy, joy, and identity—because you are worth it.</p><p>Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you showing signs of burnout… or is it something deeper? Many mission-driven leaders, caregivers, and changemakers think they’re experiencing burnout, but what if what you’re really feeling is losing who you are?</p><p>In this episode, I’ll help you identify the difference between burnout symptoms and identity loss, why rest alone doesn’t always work, and how to start coming home to yourself again.</p><p>What you’ll learn in this video:</p><ul><li>The key difference between burnout and identity loss</li><li>3 signs you’re beyond burnout (and what to do next)</li><li>How compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma can quietly reshape who you are</li><li>Simple ways to start rediscovering your authentic self<br/><br/><br/></li></ul><p>If you’ve tried resting, setting boundaries, or taking breaks and still feel hollow, guilty for self-care, or unsure who you are outside your roles and titles—this is for you.</p><p>💡 FREE 7-Day Challenge: Ready to release the exhaustion and reconnect with yourself? Join my free challenge here: <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/store'>https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</a> </p><p>Watch until the end for steps to begin healing and reclaiming your energy, joy, and identity—because you are worth it.</p><p>Connect with Michelle:</p><p><a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/'>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey'>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</a> </p><p><a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</a> </p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Burnout Prevention for People Who Refuse to Slow Down</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Are you burned out but still passionate about your mission? You’re not alone. This episode will help you understand why this happens, what it really means, and how to break the cycle without quitting what matters most to you. I’ll walk you through: * The real difference between burnout, compassion fatigue, and vicarious trauma * Why pushing through exhaustion can secretly damage your mission, relationships, and health * How to start setting healthy boundaries without feeling guilt...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you burned out but still passionate about your mission? You’re not alone. This episode will help you understand why this happens, what it really means, and how to break the cycle without quitting what matters most to you.</p><p>I’ll walk you through:</p><p>* The real difference between burnout, compassion fatigue, and vicarious trauma</p><p>* Why pushing through exhaustion can secretly damage your mission, relationships, and health</p><p>* How to start setting healthy boundaries without feeling guilty</p><p>* The one mindset shift that helps mission-driven leaders, caregivers, and changemakers thrive again</p><p>If you feel like you’re constantly running on fumes—balancing leadership, caregiving, and everything in between—this is for you. Burnout isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a signal that your purpose is ready to evolve with you, not against you.</p><p>✨ Free 7-Day Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge</p><p>Feeling stuck in survival mode? Grab my free challenge here: https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</p><p>Join Our Facebook Community</p><p>Connect with other passionate leaders and caregivers who want to make an impact without burning out: https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559</p><p>💬 Comment below: What’s one small boundary you could set this week to protect your energy?</p><p>If this video spoke to you, like, subscribe, and share it with someone who’s been carrying too much for too long. Your mission is too important to lose you.</p><p>Connect with Michelle:</p><p>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</p><p>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</p><p>#BurnoutPrevention #CompassionFatigue #LeadershipWellness #MissionDrivenLeaders #BoundariesMatter #MillennialLeaders #SelfCareForLeaders #PreventBurnout</p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you burned out but still passionate about your mission? You’re not alone. This episode will help you understand why this happens, what it really means, and how to break the cycle without quitting what matters most to you.</p><p>I’ll walk you through:</p><p>* The real difference between burnout, compassion fatigue, and vicarious trauma</p><p>* Why pushing through exhaustion can secretly damage your mission, relationships, and health</p><p>* How to start setting healthy boundaries without feeling guilty</p><p>* The one mindset shift that helps mission-driven leaders, caregivers, and changemakers thrive again</p><p>If you feel like you’re constantly running on fumes—balancing leadership, caregiving, and everything in between—this is for you. Burnout isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a signal that your purpose is ready to evolve with you, not against you.</p><p>✨ Free 7-Day Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge</p><p>Feeling stuck in survival mode? Grab my free challenge here: https://www.michellevandehey.com/store</p><p>Join Our Facebook Community</p><p>Connect with other passionate leaders and caregivers who want to make an impact without burning out: https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559</p><p>💬 Comment below: What’s one small boundary you could set this week to protect your energy?</p><p>If this video spoke to you, like, subscribe, and share it with someone who’s been carrying too much for too long. Your mission is too important to lose you.</p><p>Connect with Michelle:</p><p>https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/</p><p>https://www.facebook.com/lightoflovemichelle/</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey</p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey</p><p>#BurnoutPrevention #CompassionFatigue #LeadershipWellness #MissionDrivenLeaders #BoundariesMatter #MillennialLeaders #SelfCareForLeaders #PreventBurnout</p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Are you exhausted or expanding? When you're stretching into new territory, it can be hard to tell if you're growing or burning out. In this powerful episode, Michelle Vande Hey breaks down the key differences between burnout and personal growth—and why being able to tell them apart is essential for creating sustainable impact. You'll learn: The emotional, physical, and spiritual signals of burnoutHow growth feels different—even when it's hardWhy your “why” matters more than your w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you exhausted or expanding? When you&apos;re stretching into new territory, it can be hard to tell if you&apos;re growing or burning out. In this powerful episode, Michelle Vande Hey breaks down the key differences between burnout and personal growth—and why being able to tell them apart is essential for creating sustainable impact.</p><p>You&apos;ll learn:</p><ul><li>The emotional, physical, and spiritual signals of burnout</li><li>How growth feels different—even when it&apos;s hard</li><li>Why your “why” matters more than your workload</li><li>How to reconnect with your intuition and body</li><li>A simple 3-step practice to know what’s really going on</li></ul><p>✨ Plus: Join the <em>7 Days to Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge</em> — only 7 minutes a day to feel like yourself again. Sign up at<a href='https://michellevandehey.com/'> michellevandehey.com</a></p><p>Thoughtful Three:</p><ol><li>Pause and feel – Are you depleted or expanding?</li><li>Check your “why” – Is it from fear or alignment?</li><li>Notice your recovery – Does rest help or leave you dreading?<br/><br/></li></ol><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Are you exhausted or expanding? When you&apos;re stretching into new territory, it can be hard to tell if you&apos;re growing or burning out. In this powerful episode, Michelle Vande Hey breaks down the key differences between burnout and personal growth—and why being able to tell them apart is essential for creating sustainable impact.</p><p>You&apos;ll learn:</p><ul><li>The emotional, physical, and spiritual signals of burnout</li><li>How growth feels different—even when it&apos;s hard</li><li>Why your “why” matters more than your workload</li><li>How to reconnect with your intuition and body</li><li>A simple 3-step practice to know what’s really going on</li></ul><p>✨ Plus: Join the <em>7 Days to Reignite Your Inner Light Challenge</em> — only 7 minutes a day to feel like yourself again. Sign up at<a href='https://michellevandehey.com/'> michellevandehey.com</a></p><p>Thoughtful Three:</p><ol><li>Pause and feel – Are you depleted or expanding?</li><li>Check your “why” – Is it from fear or alignment?</li><li>Notice your recovery – Does rest help or leave you dreading?<br/><br/></li></ol><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Self-Confidence: The Key to Great Leaders at Work &amp; Home</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text In this episode of Love Your Life On Purpose, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into why self-confidence is the foundation of great leadership; at work and at home. Whether you're struggling with decision-making, saying no, or trusting your intuition, this episode offers five powerful reasons why building self-confidence is essential.  Learn how tuning into your inner wisdom not only transforms how you lead but also empowers those around you to step into their own leadership. Sta...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into why self-confidence is the foundation of great leadership; at work and at home. Whether you&apos;re struggling with decision-making, saying no, or trusting your intuition, this episode offers five powerful reasons why building self-confidence is essential. </p><p>Learn how tuning into your inner wisdom not only transforms how you lead but also empowers those around you to step into their own leadership. Stay tuned for the Thoughtful Three: a reflective question, a grounding affirmation, and an actionable step to help you embody the lessons shared.</p><p>What You&apos;ll Learn:</p><ul><li>Why self-confidence builds trust and credibility<br/><br/></li><li>How it supports healthy boundaries and joy<br/><br/></li><li>The link between intuition and decision-making<br/><br/></li><li>Why authenticity nurtures emotional safety<br/><br/></li></ul><p>How your presence inspires others to lead themselves</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into why self-confidence is the foundation of great leadership; at work and at home. Whether you&apos;re struggling with decision-making, saying no, or trusting your intuition, this episode offers five powerful reasons why building self-confidence is essential. </p><p>Learn how tuning into your inner wisdom not only transforms how you lead but also empowers those around you to step into their own leadership. Stay tuned for the Thoughtful Three: a reflective question, a grounding affirmation, and an actionable step to help you embody the lessons shared.</p><p>What You&apos;ll Learn:</p><ul><li>Why self-confidence builds trust and credibility<br/><br/></li><li>How it supports healthy boundaries and joy<br/><br/></li><li>The link between intuition and decision-making<br/><br/></li><li>Why authenticity nurtures emotional safety<br/><br/></li></ul><p>How your presence inspires others to lead themselves</p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Truth: Why Time Management Tools Are Failing You</itunes:title>
    <title>The Truth: Why Time Management Tools Are Failing You</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Do you feel like you’re always busy but never actually have enough time? You’ve tried the hacks, planners, apps—and still feel like you’re drowning. In this episode of Love Your Life On Purpose, I go deeper than tools and tips to reveal the real reason most time management strategies fail. Spoiler: It’s not about doing more—it’s about saying “no” more. I share how boundaries, confidence, and self-worth all impact your ability to manage time meaningfully. Plus, I introduce the “Tho...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Do you feel like you’re always busy but never actually have enough time? You’ve tried the hacks, planners, apps—and still feel like you’re drowning. In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I go deeper than tools and tips to reveal the real reason most time management strategies fail. Spoiler: It’s not about doing more—it’s about saying “no” more.</p><p>I share how boundaries, confidence, and self-worth all impact your ability to manage time meaningfully. Plus, I introduce the “Thoughtful Three” questions to help you shift from overwhelmed to empowered.</p><p>Whether you’re juggling meetings, caregiving, or your mission-driven business—this is your invitation to pause and realign.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why surface-level time hacks may not be working for you</li><li>The deeper emotional and energetic root of time mismanagement</li><li>The link between boundaries, self-worth, and time freedom</li><li>How to model sustainability for others through your own life</li></ul><p>The “Thoughtful Three” questions to help you become a time management hero<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Do you feel like you’re always busy but never actually have enough time? You’ve tried the hacks, planners, apps—and still feel like you’re drowning. In this episode of <em>Love Your Life On Purpose</em>, I go deeper than tools and tips to reveal the real reason most time management strategies fail. Spoiler: It’s not about doing more—it’s about saying “no” more.</p><p>I share how boundaries, confidence, and self-worth all impact your ability to manage time meaningfully. Plus, I introduce the “Thoughtful Three” questions to help you shift from overwhelmed to empowered.</p><p>Whether you’re juggling meetings, caregiving, or your mission-driven business—this is your invitation to pause and realign.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why surface-level time hacks may not be working for you</li><li>The deeper emotional and energetic root of time mismanagement</li><li>The link between boundaries, self-worth, and time freedom</li><li>How to model sustainability for others through your own life</li></ul><p>The “Thoughtful Three” questions to help you become a time management hero<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Compassion Fatigue vs. Burnout: Are They The Same Thing?</itunes:title>
    <title>Compassion Fatigue vs. Burnout: Are They The Same Thing?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text  Feeling exhausted, irritable, or disconnected—and not sure if it’s burnout or something else? In this episode, I break down the similarities and key differences between compassion fatigue and burnout so you can recognize the signs, understand the causes, and begin to heal. As a mission-driven leader, your work matters—and so do you. I’ll also share 5 practical tips to reduce and prevent both compassion fatigue and burnout, so you can continue your impact without sacrificing ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> Feeling exhausted, irritable, or disconnected—and not sure if it’s burnout or something else? In this episode, I break down the similarities and key differences between compassion fatigue and burnout so you can recognize the signs, understand the causes, and begin to heal. As a mission-driven leader, your work matters—and so do <em>you</em>. I’ll also share 5 practical tips to reduce and prevent both compassion fatigue and burnout, so you can continue your impact without sacrificing your wellbeing.</p><p>What You’ll Learn:</p><ul><li>The overlap and distinctions between compassion fatigue and burnout<br/><br/></li><li>How to identify which one you&apos;re experiencing<br/><br/></li><li>The emotional, mental, and physical symptoms of both<br/><br/></li><li>5 actionable ways to reduce or prevent them<br/><br/></li><li>Why recognizing the difference matters for your healing</li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> Feeling exhausted, irritable, or disconnected—and not sure if it’s burnout or something else? In this episode, I break down the similarities and key differences between compassion fatigue and burnout so you can recognize the signs, understand the causes, and begin to heal. As a mission-driven leader, your work matters—and so do <em>you</em>. I’ll also share 5 practical tips to reduce and prevent both compassion fatigue and burnout, so you can continue your impact without sacrificing your wellbeing.</p><p>What You’ll Learn:</p><ul><li>The overlap and distinctions between compassion fatigue and burnout<br/><br/></li><li>How to identify which one you&apos;re experiencing<br/><br/></li><li>The emotional, mental, and physical symptoms of both<br/><br/></li><li>5 actionable ways to reduce or prevent them<br/><br/></li><li>Why recognizing the difference matters for your healing</li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>The Power of Love: Change vs. Transformation</itunes:title>
    <title>The Power of Love: Change vs. Transformation</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever done all the right things to change your life… but still felt stuck? In this episode,Michelle Vande Hey explores the profound difference between quick-fix changes driven by shame and sustainable transformation rooted in love. Inspired by a powerful quote from Dr. Kobe Campbell, Michelle breaks down how love invites curiosity, compassion, and connection — while shame creates urgency, fear, and burnout. Whether you’re navigating a life transition, questioning your iden...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever done <em>all the right things</em> to change your life… but still felt stuck? In this episode,Michelle Vande Hey explores the profound difference between quick-fix changes driven by shame and sustainable transformation rooted in love. Inspired by a powerful quote from Dr. Kobe Campbell, Michelle breaks down how love invites curiosity, compassion, and connection — while shame creates urgency, fear, and burnout.</p><p>Whether you’re navigating a life transition, questioning your identity, or feeling lost after prioritizing others for too long, this episode will guide you back to your center.</p><p>Stick around to the end for three journal prompts that will help you reflect, re-align, and move forward with confidence.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why shame might be holding you back from lasting change<br/><br/></li><li>The difference between external change and internal transformation<br/><br/></li><li>What sustainable growth looks and feels like<br/><br/></li><li>How love, patience, and grace are essential for your becoming</li></ul><p>Dr. Kobe Campbell IG Video: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFpz7AJJ4uO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== '>https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFpz7AJJ4uO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== </a><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Have you ever done <em>all the right things</em> to change your life… but still felt stuck? In this episode,Michelle Vande Hey explores the profound difference between quick-fix changes driven by shame and sustainable transformation rooted in love. Inspired by a powerful quote from Dr. Kobe Campbell, Michelle breaks down how love invites curiosity, compassion, and connection — while shame creates urgency, fear, and burnout.</p><p>Whether you’re navigating a life transition, questioning your identity, or feeling lost after prioritizing others for too long, this episode will guide you back to your center.</p><p>Stick around to the end for three journal prompts that will help you reflect, re-align, and move forward with confidence.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>Why shame might be holding you back from lasting change<br/><br/></li><li>The difference between external change and internal transformation<br/><br/></li><li>What sustainable growth looks and feels like<br/><br/></li><li>How love, patience, and grace are essential for your becoming</li></ul><p>Dr. Kobe Campbell IG Video: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFpz7AJJ4uO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== '>https://www.instagram.com/reel/DFpz7AJJ4uO/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA== </a><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>What Does &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; Mean?</itunes:title>
    <title>What Does &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; Mean?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text  What does it really mean to "Love Your Life On Purpose"? In this episode, I break down the deeper meaning behind the phrase, clarify what it’s not, and share how it can become an attainable, empowering way of life—even in the messy, complex moments.  I’ll guide you through the powerful themes of intentional living, self-compassion, and embracing the “and” of joy and grief, fun and serious work.  Plus, I offer three reflective questions to help you explore where you...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> What does it <em>really</em> mean to &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot;? In this episode, I break down the deeper meaning behind the phrase, clarify what it’s <em>not</em>, and share how it can become an attainable, empowering way of life—even in the messy, complex moments. </p><p>I’ll guide you through the powerful themes of intentional living, self-compassion, and embracing the “and” of joy <em>and</em> grief, fun <em>and</em> serious work. </p><p>Plus, I offer three reflective questions to help you explore where you might be out of alignment and ready for a shift.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>What “Love Your Life On Purpose” <em>doesn’t</em> mean (hint: it’s not toxic positivity or perfection)<br/><br/></li><li>How this phrase can guide you through transitions and rediscovery<br/><br/></li><li>Why intentional living doesn’t have to come with judgment or guilt<br/><br/></li></ul><p>3 essential questions to help realign with your purpose and joy<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p> What does it <em>really</em> mean to &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot;? In this episode, I break down the deeper meaning behind the phrase, clarify what it’s <em>not</em>, and share how it can become an attainable, empowering way of life—even in the messy, complex moments. </p><p>I’ll guide you through the powerful themes of intentional living, self-compassion, and embracing the “and” of joy <em>and</em> grief, fun <em>and</em> serious work. </p><p>Plus, I offer three reflective questions to help you explore where you might be out of alignment and ready for a shift.</p><p>In this episode, you’ll learn:</p><ul><li>What “Love Your Life On Purpose” <em>doesn’t</em> mean (hint: it’s not toxic positivity or perfection)<br/><br/></li><li>How this phrase can guide you through transitions and rediscovery<br/><br/></li><li>Why intentional living doesn’t have to come with judgment or guilt<br/><br/></li></ul><p>3 essential questions to help realign with your purpose and joy<br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Episode Summary: Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of the world and your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode, Michelle shares three actionable ways to reduce stress and navigate uncertainty. From decluttering and taking intentional breaks to leaning on your community, these practical tips will help you regain control and feel more grounded. Plus, stick around for a powerful bonus tip that most people overlook! In This Episode, You'll Learn: How to purge and let go of what n...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Episode Summary: Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of the world and your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode, Michelle shares three actionable ways to reduce stress and navigate uncertainty. From decluttering and taking intentional breaks to leaning on your community, these practical tips will help you regain control and feel more grounded. Plus, stick around for a powerful bonus tip that most people overlook!</b></p><p><b>In This Episode, You&apos;ll Learn:</b></p><ul><li><b>How to purge and let go of what no longer serves you<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>The importance of taking short, intentional breaks<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>Why community support is key to overcoming overwhelm<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>A bonus tip that will shift your perspective on asking for help</b></li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Episode Summary: Feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of the world and your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode, Michelle shares three actionable ways to reduce stress and navigate uncertainty. From decluttering and taking intentional breaks to leaning on your community, these practical tips will help you regain control and feel more grounded. Plus, stick around for a powerful bonus tip that most people overlook!</b></p><p><b>In This Episode, You&apos;ll Learn:</b></p><ul><li><b>How to purge and let go of what no longer serves you<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>The importance of taking short, intentional breaks<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>Why community support is key to overcoming overwhelm<br/></b><br/></li><li><b>A bonus tip that will shift your perspective on asking for help</b></li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Therapy vs. Coaching: 3 Key Differences &amp; How to Choose the Right Support</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text One of the most common questions I get is, "What is the difference between therapy and coaching?" In this episode, I break down the three main differences between therapy and coaching to help you get the clarity you need. If you're feeling stuck and unsure which path is right for you, this episode will guide you through key distinctions and provide three powerful questions to help you decide. In This Episode, You'll Discover: The 3 main differences between therapy and coachingHow ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>One of the most common questions I get is, &quot;What is the difference between therapy and coaching?&quot; In this episode, I break down the three main differences between therapy and coaching to help you get the clarity you need. If you&apos;re feeling stuck and unsure which path is right for you, this episode will guide you through key distinctions and provide three powerful questions to help you decide.</b></p><p><b>In This Episode, You&apos;ll Discover:</b></p><ul><li><b>The 3 main differences between therapy and coaching</b></li><li><b>How to determine whether you need a therapist or a coach</b></li><li><b>Why a combined approach may be the best option for some</b></li><li><b>Three questions to ask yourself when choosing your support</b></li></ul><p><b>Listen &amp; Subscribe: Don&apos;t miss an episode—subscribe to &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; wherever you listen to podcasts!</b></p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>One of the most common questions I get is, &quot;What is the difference between therapy and coaching?&quot; In this episode, I break down the three main differences between therapy and coaching to help you get the clarity you need. If you&apos;re feeling stuck and unsure which path is right for you, this episode will guide you through key distinctions and provide three powerful questions to help you decide.</b></p><p><b>In This Episode, You&apos;ll Discover:</b></p><ul><li><b>The 3 main differences between therapy and coaching</b></li><li><b>How to determine whether you need a therapist or a coach</b></li><li><b>Why a combined approach may be the best option for some</b></li><li><b>Three questions to ask yourself when choosing your support</b></li></ul><p><b>Listen &amp; Subscribe: Don&apos;t miss an episode—subscribe to &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; wherever you listen to podcasts!</b></p><p><br/><br/></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Stop Apologizing: The Powerful Phrase Swap That Changes Everything</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Are you constantly apologizing for not replying fast enough? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into how our rushed, capitalist-driven culture conditions us to prioritize others over ourselves — and how this subtle habit of over-apologizing reinforces oppressive dynamics. Discover why saying "I'm sorry for the delay" may be doing more harm than you realize and how a simple phrase swap can empower you and others. Learn how to embrace a mindset that fosters peace, freedo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Are you constantly apologizing for not replying fast enough? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into how our rushed, capitalist-driven culture conditions us to prioritize others over ourselves — and how this subtle habit of over-apologizing reinforces oppressive dynamics.</b></p><p><b>Discover why saying &quot;I&apos;m sorry for the delay&quot; may be doing more harm than you realize and how a simple phrase swap can empower you and others. Learn how to embrace a mindset that fosters peace, freedom, and joy while breaking free from the hustle culture.</b></p><p><b>What You&apos;ll Learn:</b></p><ul><li><b>Why over-apologizing reinforces oppressive power dynamics</b></li><li><b>How hustle culture keeps us in a constant state of stress</b></li><li><b>A simple phrase swap to replace &quot;I&apos;m sorry&quot; and reclaim your time</b></li><li><b>How to prioritize yourself while maintaining compassionate communication</b></li></ul><p><b>Links &amp; Resources:</b></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Are you constantly apologizing for not replying fast enough? In this episode, Michelle Vande Hey dives deep into how our rushed, capitalist-driven culture conditions us to prioritize others over ourselves — and how this subtle habit of over-apologizing reinforces oppressive dynamics.</b></p><p><b>Discover why saying &quot;I&apos;m sorry for the delay&quot; may be doing more harm than you realize and how a simple phrase swap can empower you and others. Learn how to embrace a mindset that fosters peace, freedom, and joy while breaking free from the hustle culture.</b></p><p><b>What You&apos;ll Learn:</b></p><ul><li><b>Why over-apologizing reinforces oppressive power dynamics</b></li><li><b>How hustle culture keeps us in a constant state of stress</b></li><li><b>A simple phrase swap to replace &quot;I&apos;m sorry&quot; and reclaim your time</b></li><li><b>How to prioritize yourself while maintaining compassionate communication</b></li></ul><p><b>Links &amp; Resources:</b></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>5 Fast &amp; Free Self-Care Habits to Let Go of Guilt &amp; Prioritize YOU</itunes:title>
    <title>5 Fast &amp; Free Self-Care Habits to Let Go of Guilt &amp; Prioritize YOU</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Intro: Do you feel guilty about taking care of yourself?Are you constantly putting others' needs before your own?This episode shares 5 free, 5-minute self-care habits to help you let go of guilt and prioritize YOU.What is Self-Care? Oxford Dictionary Definition: The practice of taking an active role in protecting one's own well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress.Self-care is a practice, not perfection.It's about being intentional and active in protecting y...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Intro:</p><ul><li>Do you feel guilty about taking care of yourself?</li><li>Are you constantly putting others&apos; needs before your own?</li><li>This episode shares 5 free, 5-minute self-care habits to help you let go of guilt and prioritize YOU.</li></ul><p>What is Self-Care?</p><ul><li>Oxford Dictionary Definition: The practice of taking an active role in protecting one&apos;s own well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress.</li><li>Self-care is a practice, not perfection.</li><li>It&apos;s about being intentional and active in protecting your well-being (mental, physical, emotional).</li></ul><p>5 Free &amp; Fast Self-Care Habits:</p><ol><li>Pause:<ul><li>Close your eyes for 30 seconds.</li><li>Practice intentional breathing (box breathing or simple deep breaths).</li><li>Focus on a candle flame.</li></ul></li><li>Movement:<ul><li>Stretching.</li><li>Walking.</li><li>Dancing.</li><li>Shaking out your body.</li></ul></li><li>Self-Care Check-In:<ul><li>Ask yourself, &quot;How am I feeling right now?&quot;</li><li>Journal, speak into your phone, or use a notes app.</li><li>Be honest with yourself and allow yourself to feel your emotions.</li></ul></li><li>Nourish:<ul><li>Refill your water bottle.</li><li>Make tea or coffee.</li><li>Grab a healthy snack.</li></ul></li><li>Celebrate Yourself:<ul><li>Write down or say aloud &quot;I am fabulous because...&quot;</li><li>Focus on your strengths and positive qualities.</li></ul></li></ol><p>Bonus Tip (with a Partner):</p><ul><li>Hugging: Reduces fear, stress, and pain. Supports the immune system and cardiovascular health. <a href='https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits'><b>https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits</b></a><b> </b></li><li>If no one is around, hug a soft blanket, stuffed animal, or pet. Petting a pet can also be beneficial.</li></ul><p>Creating New Habits:</p><ul><li>Starting new habits can be challenging.</li><li>Join the free Facebook community &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; for support and connection. (<a href='https://www.google.com/search?q=loveyourlifeonpurpose.com'>loveyourlifeonpurpose.com</a> or search on Facebook)</li><li>Podcast listeners get a free 15-minute connect call!</li></ul><p>Call to Action:</p><ul><li>Which self-care habit will you try first?</li><li>Share your own self-care tips in the comments!</li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p>Intro:</p><ul><li>Do you feel guilty about taking care of yourself?</li><li>Are you constantly putting others&apos; needs before your own?</li><li>This episode shares 5 free, 5-minute self-care habits to help you let go of guilt and prioritize YOU.</li></ul><p>What is Self-Care?</p><ul><li>Oxford Dictionary Definition: The practice of taking an active role in protecting one&apos;s own well-being and happiness, in particular during periods of stress.</li><li>Self-care is a practice, not perfection.</li><li>It&apos;s about being intentional and active in protecting your well-being (mental, physical, emotional).</li></ul><p>5 Free &amp; Fast Self-Care Habits:</p><ol><li>Pause:<ul><li>Close your eyes for 30 seconds.</li><li>Practice intentional breathing (box breathing or simple deep breaths).</li><li>Focus on a candle flame.</li></ul></li><li>Movement:<ul><li>Stretching.</li><li>Walking.</li><li>Dancing.</li><li>Shaking out your body.</li></ul></li><li>Self-Care Check-In:<ul><li>Ask yourself, &quot;How am I feeling right now?&quot;</li><li>Journal, speak into your phone, or use a notes app.</li><li>Be honest with yourself and allow yourself to feel your emotions.</li></ul></li><li>Nourish:<ul><li>Refill your water bottle.</li><li>Make tea or coffee.</li><li>Grab a healthy snack.</li></ul></li><li>Celebrate Yourself:<ul><li>Write down or say aloud &quot;I am fabulous because...&quot;</li><li>Focus on your strengths and positive qualities.</li></ul></li></ol><p>Bonus Tip (with a Partner):</p><ul><li>Hugging: Reduces fear, stress, and pain. Supports the immune system and cardiovascular health. <a href='https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits'><b>https://www.healthline.com/health/hugging-benefits</b></a><b> </b></li><li>If no one is around, hug a soft blanket, stuffed animal, or pet. Petting a pet can also be beneficial.</li></ul><p>Creating New Habits:</p><ul><li>Starting new habits can be challenging.</li><li>Join the free Facebook community &quot;Love Your Life On Purpose&quot; for support and connection. (<a href='https://www.google.com/search?q=loveyourlifeonpurpose.com'>loveyourlifeonpurpose.com</a> or search on Facebook)</li><li>Podcast listeners get a free 15-minute connect call!</li></ul><p>Call to Action:</p><ul><li>Which self-care habit will you try first?</li><li>Share your own self-care tips in the comments!</li></ul><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Take This Tech Advice to Avoid Burnout</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Have you ever noticed how restarting your phone or computer makes it run smoother? What if you could do the same for yourself? If you're feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or on the verge of burnout, this episode is for you. In this episode, I introduce The Rediscovery RESET Framework and focus on the second step—EDIT, starting with eliminating what no longer serves you. I also share three powerful questions to help you declutter your life, reset your energy, and create space for wha...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Have you ever noticed how restarting your phone or computer makes it run smoother? What if you could do the same for yourself? If you&apos;re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or on the verge of burnout, this episode is for you.</b></p><p><b>In this episode, I introduce </b><b><em>The Rediscovery RESET Framework</em></b><b> and focus on the second step—EDIT, starting with eliminating what no longer serves you. I also share three powerful questions to help you declutter your life, reset your energy, and create space for what truly matters.</b></p><p><b>✨ </b><b><em>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:<br/><br/></em></b><b> ✔️ Why &quot;resetting&quot; is just as important for humans as it is for technology.<br/> ✔️ How autopilot mode leads to overwhelm—and how to break the cycle.<br/> ✔️ Three questions to help you declutter and eliminate with confidence.<br/> ✔️ The surprising reason we hold onto things (and how to let go).<br/> ✔️ The importance of community in making lasting changes.</b></p><p><b>💬 Join the Conversation! What’s one thing you’ve recently let go of that made a difference? Comment below or DM me on social media!</b></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a target="_blank" href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/twilio/text_messages/2434859/open_sms">Send a text</a></p><p><b>Have you ever noticed how restarting your phone or computer makes it run smoother? What if you could do the same for yourself? If you&apos;re feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or on the verge of burnout, this episode is for you.</b></p><p><b>In this episode, I introduce </b><b><em>The Rediscovery RESET Framework</em></b><b> and focus on the second step—EDIT, starting with eliminating what no longer serves you. I also share three powerful questions to help you declutter your life, reset your energy, and create space for what truly matters.</b></p><p><b>✨ </b><b><em>What You’ll Learn in This Episode:<br/><br/></em></b><b> ✔️ Why &quot;resetting&quot; is just as important for humans as it is for technology.<br/> ✔️ How autopilot mode leads to overwhelm—and how to break the cycle.<br/> ✔️ Three questions to help you declutter and eliminate with confidence.<br/> ✔️ The surprising reason we hold onto things (and how to let go).<br/> ✔️ The importance of community in making lasting changes.</b></p><p><b>💬 Join the Conversation! What’s one thing you’ve recently let go of that made a difference? Comment below or DM me on social media!</b></p><p>Download the <a href='https://www.michellevandehey.com/offers/DXtKeqHP'>Self-Care Cheat Sheet</a></p> <p>Join the community: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/groups/187015119071559'>Love Your Life on Purpose</a><br/><br/>Prefer to watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/@michellevandehey'>YouTube</a> (be sure to subscribe!) <br/><br/>Connect with me and DM me your aha moment, question, or to say hi!<br/>IG: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/michellevandehey/'>@michellevandehey</a><br/>FB: <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michelle.vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/>LI: <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-vandehey/'>Michelle Vande Hey</a><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Ditching Work-Life Balance Guilt: Embrace Work-Life Harmony  In this episode, Michelle VandeHey, Certified Holistic Life Coach and Compassion Fatigue Specialist, challenges the concept of work-life balance, arguing that it often leads to feelings of failure and guilt. She introduces the concept of 'work-life harmony' as a more flexible and realistic approach to managing life's demands. Michelle discusses the pitfalls of striving for balance, emphasizes the importance of eliminatin...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Send a text Prioritize Yourself: A Sustainable Approach to Avoiding Overwhelm  In this episode, Michelle VandeHey, a Certified Holistic Life Coach, addresses the common struggle of feeling pressured to put oneself first amidst overwhelming responsibilities. Michelle introduces a significant mindset shift from 'putting yourself first' to 'stop putting yourself last' and provides practical steps to achieve sustainable self-care. Michelle also delves into why understanding this priority shift is...]]></itunes:summary>
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