The Raw Truth About Relationships, Intimacy, and Personal Growth

In this candid and heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the complexities of relationships and personal growth. We start by addressing viewer comments and questions, focusing initially on the idea of having sex before a date and how intimacy and anticipation play out in long-term relationships. We then discuss the importance of communication, dealing with physical and emotional changes, and the difficulties of maintaining passion as time progresses. The conversation also touches on heavier topics like cheating, the role of trauma in personal growth, and the importance of individual purpose within a relationship. We explore the concept of 'the drift' in relationships, where partners begin to feel like roommates and the steps needed to fix it through open communication and intentional actions. The dialogue further delves into controversial topics such as prenups and religious differences, examining how these can impact a relationship and what it takes to keep love alive. Finally, we share our insights on the significance of self-development and maintaining individuality while growing together as a couple.

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🎙 Episode 35: The Fall of Marriage — Why Love Quietly Dies & How To Save It

We used to think marriages ended with a big, explosive moment — yelling, betrayal, or someone walking out.
 But what we’ve learned is that most marriages don’t end that way.
 They die quietly.

They fade in the small spaces: in the silence between sentences, the quick “I’m fine,” or the decision to roll over instead of reaching out.

In this episode, we talk about the fall of marriage — the slow drift that happens when connection fades, purpose blurs, and two people stop choosing each other the way they used to. It’s not a failure. It’s a season.
And if you can recognize that season, you can rebuild from it.

We share our own experiences of disconnection, the uncomfortable truth about how love changes over time, and what it takes to rediscover each other again — before the distance becomes permanent.

In this episode:

• The subtle ways disconnection sneaks into a marriage
• How busyness and unspoken resentment slowly erode intimacy
• Why “falling” isn’t failure — it’s part of the cycle
• The difference between letting go and giving up
• How to begin rebuilding trust, communication, and connection

We believe every marriage has seasons — and the fall isn’t the end. It’s an invitation to reflect, realign, and choose again.

If you’re in a season where love feels distant or dull, this conversation is your reminder that you’re not broken… and it’s not too late.

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Everyone online seems to be talking about “Trad Wives”—traditional marriage roles, submission, dominance, and what it means to be a “good” husband or wife. But behind the clickbait is a deeper conversation: what actually works for your relationship?

In this episode, we unpack the “Trad Wife” trend, what it stirs up in us, and how we define partnership, leadership, and balance in our own marriage. We don’t have all the answers—but we’re asking the real questions.

We talk about:
💬 Why the “Trad Wife” movement triggers strong reactions
🧠 The difference between control and leadership in marriage
❤️ How couples can find alignment without falling into old stereotypes
⚖️ Why mutual respect matters more than roles or labels
🔥 The balance between independence and interdependence

This one is raw, honest, and filled with those “I’ve been there” moments. Whether you lean traditional or modern, this episode invites you to rethink what partnership actually looks like for you.

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We all get triggered.
 Sometimes it’s a tone, a look, or a comment that lands harder than it should. But those moments usually have less to do with what’s happening right now—and everything to do with something deeper.

In this episode, we open up about the times we’ve been triggered in our marriage and what those moments have taught us about ourselves. It’s not easy to talk about, but it’s real, it’s raw, and it’s probably something every couple will relate to.

We unpack how our triggers are connected to old stories, past experiences, and unmet expectations that keep showing up in new ways. More importantly, we talk about how awareness can transform those reactions into understanding—and turn frustration into connection.

This conversation isn’t about perfection. It’s about learning to pause before reacting, to own what’s yours, and to choose growth over blame.

In this episode, we explore:

• The hidden roots behind emotional triggers in marriage
• Why conflict often reveals what’s unhealed inside us
• How to communicate through tension without making things worse
• The difference between reacting to protect yourself and responding to connect
• What it really looks like to create safety and self-awareness in a relationship

If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I keep reacting like this?”—this one’s for you.

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“Division, Media & Marriage: Why We Need a Reset”

📖 Description (from Dave & Angie):
Everywhere we look, the world feels divided—politics, media, even our closest relationships. In this episode, we unpack how all that noise seeps into marriage, family, and our sense of purpose… and what it looks like to reset.

We talk about:
 ⚡ Why the media thrives on division—and how not to bring that home
 💬 The cultural obsession with outrage and how it erodes intimacy
 🧠 What “death and rebirth” really means for society and for marriage
❤️ Why family is the foundation of freedom, faith, and future generations
🌱 How we can choose connection over chaos, even in uncertain times

This isn’t about politics. It’s about people—us, you, all of us—learning to protect what matters most: love, family, and building something bigger than ourselves.

If you’ve felt the weight of the world pulling you apart, this conversation will help you breathe, reset, and remember you’re not alone.

🎧 Listen in and let’s keep building marriages and families that outlast the chaos.

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Discovering Unconditional Love through Equine Assisted Coaching: A Deep Dive

In this episode of the 'Wild and Wacky Adventures of Dave and Angie,' we explore the transformative experience of equine assisted coaching. We delve into what equine coaching entails and how the interaction between the facilitator, the horse, and the client can lead to breakthrough moments that might be challenging to achieve through traditional talk therapy. The horse acts as a mirror, reflecting unspoken emotions and energies, which provides powerful feedback for personal growth. We discuss how these experiences relate to the concept of unconditional love, both in relationships and self-acceptance. Angie and I share personal anecdotes and insights from our journey, including the importance of living in the present moment, the significance of loving oneself, and the challenges of truly surrendering to unconditional love in a marriage. By examining our own experiences with our horses and each other, we uncover valuable lessons on how to bring deeper love and connection into our lives.

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In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of 'marriage identity' and how it evolves with our individual growth. We explore how our personal journeys and transitions, such as career changes and material pursuits, shape our collective identity as a couple. We discuss the importance of aligning individual identities with the collective identity of the marriage and the challenges that come with it. We share our experiences and reflections on breaking old patterns, embracing new roles, and making conscious choices that align with our true selves. From reevaluating traditional roles to prioritizing intimacy and shared activities, we explore the dynamic nature of relationships and the continuous growth and evolution required to maintain a fulfilling marriage. Join us as we uncover the secrets to transforming our marriage and living a soul-aligned life together.

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“We’re On the Same Team—Even When We Forget”

In this episode, we get real about what it takes to shift from me vs. you into us vs. the problem—and why “Same Team Energy” might just save your marriage.

We talk about:
 🤝 What “Same Team Energy” actually means in day-to-day marriage
 💬 How small misunderstandings spiral when you forget you’re on the same side
 🧠 Mindset shifts that help you navigate conflict without keeping score
 ❤️ Why intimacy and connection depend on seeing each other as allies
 ⚡ How to repair faster after disagreements and move forward together

This isn’t a highlight reel—it’s our real marriage, in real time, with real tension. If you’ve ever caught yourself treating your partner like the enemy, this conversation will help you reset and reconnect.

We’re still learning it. We’re still living it.
 And we believe “Same Team Energy” can change everything—starting today.

🎧 Listen in and let’s grow together.

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Embracing Change and Overcoming Obstacles: Our Journey Towards Personal and Relational Growth

In this episode, we explore the importance of responding to life's callings and stepping outside of our comfort zones. We share our experiences traveling to Tennessee, and reflecting on our personal and relational growth.

We discuss the importance of recognizing old patterns, the concept of expansion and freedom, and the necessity of trying on new experiences. Because there really are no rules.

By sharing our journey, we highlight the significance of communication, the role of children in life changes, and the idea of creating a life without limits. Throughout our travels and conversations, we emphasize the belief in infinite possibilities and the need to be comfortable with discomfort to achieve personal and relational growth.

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What if you could completely restart your marriage with the person you love - burning away all the past baggage and creating something entirely new?

As we approach our 15-year anniversary, we're about to do something radical: completely burn down our current marriage to rebuild it from scratch. In this raw and vulnerable episode, we reveal Phase One of our revolutionary three-phase relationship transformation method that we'll be living out in real-time.

🔥 What You'll Discover:

• Why we're willing to "burn down" a GOOD marriage to create something extraordinary
• The critical first phase: Shadow work, resentments, and uncomfortable truths
• How to write an "obituary" for your current relationship
• The power of letting go completely before rebuilding
• Why comfort might be your relationship's biggest threat

⚠️ Warning: This isn't surface-level relationship advice. We're getting uncomfortably honest about the deep work required for true transformation - and we're doing it live, with you watching.

Whether your relationship is thriving or struggling, this episode will challenge everything you think you know about love, commitment, and what's possible when two people are willing to risk everything for something greater.

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Cheating isn’t always about sex. In this brutally honest episode, we break down the uncomfortable truths around infidelity—from emotional affairs to unresolved insecurities, unmet needs, and the real reasons people cheat.

We explore why cheating is often a self-betrayal before it’s ever a partner betrayal, the role emotional disconnection plays in long-term relationships, and why truth-telling, boundaries, and regular renewal are essential in modern marriage.

Whether you've been cheated on, cheated yourself, or want to protect your relationship from silent drift, this conversation is packed with perspective-shifting insights.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
- Why cheating starts as an internal split, not a physical act
- Why unmet emotional needs are more dangerous than you think
- The red flags you might be ignoring before infidelity happens
- The difference between physical vs. emotional cheating—and why both matter
- How the “10 Year Marriage” model creates space for honest renewal and truth-telling
- Why the betrayed partner isn’t always innocent—and what accountability really looks like

This is one of those episodes that might trigger you—and that’s the point. The conversations you’re afraid to have? They’re the ones that save your relationship.

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Dave and Angie share a deeply personal story about Dave's return to his Long Island hometown after 13 years—and the profound realization that changed everything. What started as a trip to show their kids where Dave came from became a powerful lesson about growth, identity, and why you can't go back to who you used to be.

In This Episode

Dave's emotional journey returning to Long Island after 13 years
Why their kids' reaction wasn't what he expected
The moment Dave realized he was doing it for himself, not them
How growth changes your perspective on everything—including your past
The fantasy football test for relationship health
Why harboring resentment toward your former self is toxic
The parallel between outgrowing places and outgrowing people

Memorable Quotes
"You can't go back to that, right? But there's beauty in it because that made you who you were."
"If you don't change that perspective, you're just setting yourself up for failure."
"If a marriage is only looking backwards, you got some fucking problems."
"Some people die at 25 and live until 70."
"I didn't realize how much I was harboring resentment to myself... resentment of holding on to something that had run its course."

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Exploring Trust, Surrender, and Growth Through Equine Therapy

In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of equine therapy and its impact on both personal development and relationships. Sharing a recent experience at an equine therapy retreat in Oregon, we discuss how horses can mirror our emotions and behaviors, leading to profound insights and shifts. From the initial connection with the horses to facing challenges and breakthroughs, we highlight the importance of trust, surrender, and support in fostering growth and healing. We also emphasize the value of shared experiences in strengthening our marriage and the importance of integrating new learnings into daily life. This episode is a testament to the power of vulnerability, courage, and the journey of self-discovery.

What started as a weekend of slowing down turned into a deep dive into trust, surrender, personal growth, and what it truly means to support your partner through transformation.

From confronting discomfort in group dynamics to the life-altering moment Dave sat eye-to-eye with a 1,400-pound horse, this episode explores the emotional intensity and relational insights that come when you leave your comfort zone and do the work—together.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
🐴 How equine-assisted leadership cracked open emotional walls
❤️ Why supporting your partner’s breakthrough is sometimes more important than having your own
🧠 The exact moment Dave experienced full surrender (and how it changed his nervous system)
👥 What it really looks like to hold space for your spouse—especially when things get tense
⚡ How couples can turn conflict, discomfort, and emotional triggers into next-level intimacy
🧭 Why shared experiences (not shared chores) are the key to a connected, fulfilling marriage

Whether you’re craving deeper connection, navigating stress in your relationship, or curious about equine therapy and nervous system healing, this episode delivers truth, vulnerability, and practical takeaways.

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Lessons from a Teenager: Insights into Marriage and Personal Growth

What can a 13-year-old’s breakup teach us about emotional maturity, identity, and intimacy in adult relationships? In this deeply reflective episode, Dave and Angie Tina open up about watching their daughter navigate her first heartbreak—and how it mirrored patterns many adults still struggle with in dating, love, and marriage.

This episode isn’t just about parenting—it’s about partnership.
 It explores the difference between love and significance, the danger of losing yourself in relationships, and how emotional validation often disguises itself as love.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
🔑 How early relationships shape our sense of self-worth
❤️ Why we often confuse attention with connection
🪞 The hidden cost of seeking significance over love
🧠 What it really means to “lose yourself” in a relationship
🚩 The invisible patterns we carry from teenage love into adult marriage
💬 Why you can’t build a fulfilling relationship without first building you

Whether you’re a parent, a partner, or someone healing from past patterns, this episode invites you to reflect on what your relationships are truly rooted in—and whether they’re serving the love you want or the validation you’ve been chasing.

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Thriving as a Couple: How Clarity In Our Roles Unlocks Our Risk-Taking Abilities

In this episode, we delve into the dynamics of our relationship, emphasizing the importance of identifying the right roles in marriage and teamwork. We share personal anecdotes about our impulsive decisions, including leasing a Mustang horse, traveling to unfamiliar places, and transforming property investments. We discuss the necessity of having a shared vision and executing plans together while balancing individual strengths and weaknesses. Highlights include stories of buying and remodeling homes, traveling adventures, and our journey into RV life. We also touch on how we maintain our connection and support each other's dreams, providing insights into how couples can align their goals and roles for a thriving partnership.

From impulsive big moves (like horses, RVs, and real estate deals) to learning how to play to each other’s strengths, they reveal how high-performing couples stay aligned—even when their styles clash.

This episode is for couples who dream big, fight hard, and are learning how to build something extraordinary without losing themselves—or each other—along the way.

In this episode, you’ll learn:
💬 Why your marriage needs a strategic plan (just like your business does)
🧠 How to identify your unique roles—visionary, integrator, supporter, finisher
🔥 Why faith, speed, and structure matter in building a shared life
🤝 How to avoid resentment by honoring your partner’s strengths (and limitations)
📌 What it means to “get the right people on the bus—but in the right seats”

Whether you're a couple navigating business, parenting, or just trying to stay connected through life’s chaos, this episode will hit home.

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Reimagining the American Dream: Living with Purpose and Breaking Free from Societal Norms

The Midlife Awakening...

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of purpose and alignment in life and relationships.

Reflecting on the sudden death of a well-loved dentist, we explore the fleeting nature of life and question conventional ideas of success and the American Dream. We discuss the importance of living authentically, challenging societal norms, and forging our own paths. The conversation also touches on the midlife awakening many individuals and even America as a whole are experiencing, highlighting the necessity of continuous growth and redefining what happiness and success mean in modern society. Emphasis is placed on the transformational power of community, nature, and passion, and the potential risks and rewards of pursuing a purpose-driven life, especially within a marriage.

This episode is packed with rich insights and calls to action for those ready to break free from the confines of traditional expectations and live a more meaningful and connected life.

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Maintaining Intimacy in Marriage: Avoiding the Roommate Trap.

Is your marriage starting to feel more like a roommate situation than a romantic partnership? In this raw and honest conversation, Dave and Angie dive deep into what it really takes to create a fulfilling relationship—one built on intimacy, honest communication, and intentional time together.

In this episode, we delve into the critical topic of marital intimacy and the pitfalls of becoming mere 'roommates' with your spouse. We explore the implications of drifting apart in marriage, sharing real-life examples and personal experiences. Our discussion covers the importance of prioritizing your relationship, maintaining physical and emotional closeness, and addressing potential issues head-on. We stress the significance of spending quality time together, having open conversations, and ensuring that your marriage continues to grow. We also highlight the challenges of balancing individual pursuits with maintaining a connected and fulfilling partnership. Join us for this candid conversation on how to keep the spark alive and build a lasting, loving relationship.

We explore the early warning signs of emotional drift in marriage, from sleeping in separate rooms to only talking about kids, work, and to-do lists. You’ll learn how to reconnect with your partner, rebuild intimacy, and shift from managing life together to truly living it side by side.

In this episode:

• How to talk to your partner when things feel disconnected
• The danger of "marriage autopilot" and how to break the cycle
• Why quality time is the key to emotional and physical intimacy
• The uncomfortable truths behind sexless marriages
• What it means to prioritize your relationship—before it’s too late

Whether you’re newly married or 15 years in, this conversation will help you get honest about where you are and what’s next. If you want a thriving, connected, purpose-driven marriage, press play.

Keywords:
marriage podcast, how to talk to your partner, marriage intimacy, relationship communication, emotional intimacy, married sex life, quality time in marriage, relationship fulfillment, how to reconnect in marriage, stop being roommates, healthy marriage habits, love after kids, long-term relationship advice, conscious relationship growth

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Risking It All: The Path to True Growth and Unapologetic Living

In this episode, we dive into why we continually risk comfort and certainty in both business and marriage to pursue true growth and fulfillment.
We explore the idea of triggering conversations on our podcast, discuss the personal growth journey that comes from vulnerability and communication, and contemplate the importance of risking what we have to reach for what we truly want.
We share insights on breaking routines, moving beyond the zone of excellence to the zone of genius, and the importance of innovative thinking for personal and professional success.
This candid discussion touches on everything from business success and financial risks to deepening relationship connections and the challenges of parenthood.
Join us as we ponder whether we're willing to risk it all to truly have it all.



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Commitment
Relationships
Love / Love Relationships
Money and finances
Parenting
Sexual connection / Intimacy / Seduction

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Exploring Intimacy and Sex Life in Modern Relationships

How often are you having sex? Do you wish it was more often?

In this episode, we dive deep into discussions around intimacy, sexual frequency, and the impact of modern distractions on relationships. We explore how often couples are really having sex, the truth behind these numbers, and what it means for the health of a relationship. We also discuss societal shifts, the role of spontaneous versus planned sex, and the influence of pornography. In addition, we cover the psychological aspects of sex, the importance of intimacy, and strategies for maintaining a vibrant sex life despite the challenges of modern life, like digital distractions and hectic schedules.

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Navigating Jealousy and Insecurities in Relationships

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of jealousy and insecurities within relationships.
We discuss personal experiences of feeling trapped and the fear of being hurt, addressing how past relationships and family dynamics contribute to these emotions.
By exploring the difference between jealousy and being territorial, we uncover the hidden escape routes and self-sabotaging behaviors that can arise.
Through candid conversations, which is something we have had to work on, we highlight the importance of communication, self-reflection, and showing up for oneself to foster trust and connection. We share insights on how these dynamics have been transformed in our marriage, emphasizing the significance of choosing each other and navigating discomfort for growth.

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Revolutionizing Education: Why Traditional Schooling is Failing Our Kids and What Options Do We Have?

In this episode, we dive into the pressing issues with the current education system. We discuss why today's schooling might not be preparing our children for real-world success, arguing that much of what is taught can easily be looked up online. Instead, we focus on what schools aren't teaching—skills like building a business, maintaining relationships, and understanding finances.
We share our personal experiences with different types of schools, including private, public, and micro-schools, and highlight the shortcomings and financial burdens of each. We emphasize the importance of experiential learning, values, and real-world applications like gardening, living off the grid, and starting a business.
We also touch on the potential role of AI and hybrid models in the future of education. It's a call to rethink how we prepare our kids for life, not just academically but holistically.

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The Importance of Vacation for Relationship Connection and Personal Reset

In this episode, we discuss the profound impact of vacations on relationships and personal well-being. We dive into how stepping out of the everyday routine can break the monotony of marriage, improve connection with your partner, and even enhance your sex life. We share personal stories about how vacations have rejuvenated our marriage, provided opportunities to reconnect as a couple, and offered much-needed respite from parental responsibilities. We also emphasize the importance of planning periodic getaways, both with and without kids, to maintain a healthy balance in life and relationships.

00:00 Setting the Scene: The Hotel Room Standard

00:43 Vacation Sex: The Ultimate Connection

01:02 The Importance of Vacations in Relationships

02:02 Challenges of Leaving Kids Behind

05:28 Memorable Vacation Stories

16:25 The Ideal Vacation Proclamation

20:37 Nostalgic Travel Memories

21:02 Family Vacations and Traditions

22:45 Balancing Quality and Quantity in Travel

24:29 Planning Upcoming Trips

28:59 Reflecting on Past Travels

30:48 The Importance of Date Nights and Mini Vacations

35:28 Travel Preferences and Compromises

39:54 The Impact of Travel on Relationships

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Exploring the 10-Year Marriage Contract: Commitment, Freedom, and Rebirth in Relationships

Diving Into YOUR Comments

In this episode of the 10 Year Marriage Podcast, Dave and Angie Tina discuss the concept of a 10-year marriage contract, inspired by the idea that marriage can evolve and transform over time. They dive into how setting potential end dates can create a richer and more committed relationship. Reflecting on their own experiences and insights from a previous podcast episode with Mark Groves, they address the viral reactions and poignant comments received from their audience. Through heartfelt and honest dialogue, they explore topics such as vulnerability, infidelity, personal growth, and the importance of continuous recommitment in relationships. The couple also tackle the growth curve model and how it applies to all aspects of life, encouraging listeners to embrace change, adapt, and show up for their partners and themselves every day.
00:00 Justin Timberlake's Heartbreak and Vulnerability
00:29 Welcome to the 10 Year Marriage Podcast
00:51 Exploring Viral Comments and Questions
01:52 Debating the Concept of Marriage and Commitment
04:40 Navigating Relationship Challenges and Growth
11:24 Freedom and Jealousy in Relationships
15:55 The Importance of Recommitting in Marriage
21:06 Betrayal and Moving to Vegas
21:27 Reflecting on Life Changes
22:25 Embracing Rejection and Loss
23:13 Learning from Relationships
25:22 The Impact of Divorce
26:58 Marriage and Personal Growth
31:22 Rebirth and Transformation
39:58 Podcast Purpose and Legacy

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Navigating the Rollercoaster of Mental Health in Life and Relationships

In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of mental health impacts on relationships and personal well-being. We start with an analogy of life as a rollercoaster, emphasizing the importance of emotional health checks in coaching. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing mental health, especially when individuals rate their well-being low. We acknowledge the epidemic of loneliness and explore how it can manifest even in seemingly normal circumstances. The conversation moves to discuss various experiences from people close to us who felt isolated and took drastic measures, stressing the need for open communication and seeking help. We also touch upon the role of gender and societal expectations in mental health issues, examining both men's and women's experiences. Practical tips like the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise, walking, breath work, and focusing on gratitude are offered to help manage anxiety and stress. Ultimately, this episode serves as a wake-up call to reach out, connect, and understand that no one is alone.

00:00 Introduction: The Rollercoaster of Life
00:32 The Health Check: Assessing Mental and Emotional Well-being
01:45 The Epidemic of Loneliness
02:11 Personal Stories and the Impact of Mental Health
08:50 Gender Differences in Mental Health
11:09 The Importance of Community and Communication
12:54 Balancing Vulnerability and Strength in Relationships
16:42 Culture Shock in Southeast Asia
17:36 Mental Health Struggles on Vacation
18:29 The Impact of Mental Health on Relationships
19:28 Reflections on Mental Health and Society
21:58 Coping Mechanisms and Strategies
26:52 The Importance of Community and Support
27:14 Practical Tips for Managing Anxiety
29:54 Final Thoughts on Mental Health

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Navigating Financial Trust in Marriage | The 10 Year Marriage Podcast

In this episode of the 10-Year Marriage Podcast, hosts Dave and Angie Tina explore the concept of treating marriage like a 10-year contract.

They delve into the significance of trust and shared finances in a marriage, recounting personal experiences and the transformative power of an abundance mindset.

The Tinas share lessons from their own relationship, including dealing with limiting beliefs about money, the importance of joint financial management, and the impact of material success on self-worth.

Their candid discussion encourages listeners to evaluate their own marriages, asking critical questions about trust, commitment, and financial transparency.

The episode also touches on societal triggers around money, the psychological aspects of spending, and the ripple effects of a growth mindset on relationships and personal success.

00:00 Introduction to the 10 Year Marriage Podcast

00:38 Money and Relationships: A Triggering Topic

01:09 Material Wealth and Self-Worth

05:25 The Science of Getting Rich: Changing Perceptions on Money

07:05 Abundance Mindset and Standards

09:00 Personal Experiences and Justifications

16:11 The Impact of Money on Relationships

21:41 Diverse Perspectives on Shared Finances

22:09 Trust and Responsibility in Relationships

22:26 Money Conversations and Triggers

24:15 Arguments Rooted in Financial Decisions

25:42 Traditional Roles and Financial Trust

28:38 Money as a Reflection of Personal Growth

30:17 Identity Shifts and Financial Decisions

31:52 Leadership and Financial Success

36:19 The Importance of Sharing Finances in Marriage

40:47 Concluding Thoughts and Call to Action

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Parenting with Tough Love and Communication: A Deep Dive

In this episode of the 10 Year Marriage Podcast, hosts Dave and Angie Tina explore our unique parenting approach, emphasizing resilience, independence, and unconditional love. We discuss our two crucial parenting rules: ensuring our children know they are loved and supporting them unconditionally through mistakes and failures. We share personal anecdotes, reflecting on our upbringing and experiences with our three children, Ella, Lola, and Gigi. We delve into the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and being present while balancing affection and discipline. The episode highlights the challenges and rewards of our parenting style, aiming to prepare our children for real-life situations while maintaining a strong, loving family bond.

00:00 Introduction and Parenting Philosophy

00:22 Welcome to the 10 Year Marriage Podcast

00:42 The Parenting Game: Building Resilience and Independence

00:54 Communicating Unconditional Love

01:48 Balancing Boundaries and Communication

03:32 Navigating Teenage Challenges

07:09 Reflecting on Our Own Upbringing

11:45 Different Parenting Styles and Values

19:19 The Impact of Environment on Children

20:42 Discussing Parental Traits

21:39 Navigating School Transitions

23:09 Resilience in the Face of Change

25:21 Tough Love and Parenting Challenges

28:44 Proud Parenting Moments

31:53 Balancing Discipline and Love

37:54 Final Takeaways on Parenting

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The Evolving Dynamics of Gender Roles and Feminism in 2025

In this episode, we dive into the double-edged sword of feminism and its impact on modern relationships. We discuss how traditional gender roles have drastically changed over generations, the balance between masculine and feminine energies, and the unintended consequences of feminism. As we explore our personal experiences and the dynamics within our marriage, we highlight the importance of purpose, mutual respect, and effective communication in navigating these evolving roles.

00:00 Introduction to Modern Leadership

00:30 The Evolution of Gender Roles

00:48 The Double-Edged Sword of Feminism

03:00 Masculine and Feminine Energies

04:44 Balancing Alpha Energies in Relationships

07:09 The Crisis of Modern Masculinity

09:50 The Duality of Strength and Success

12:29 The Trap of Superwoman Expectations

21:30 Gender Dynamics in Homosexual Relationships

23:11 The Epidemic of High-Quality Women and Few Choices

25:13 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies

26:44 The Overcorrection of Masculinity and Feminism

30:15 Tony Robbins' Date with Destiny Experience

34:29 The Importance of Purpose in Relationships

42:20 The Role of Communication and Support

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Finding Faith: From Reluctance to Revelation

In this deeply personal episode, we explore the spiritual journey of a couple (us) navigating our faith from Catholic roots to a broader and more inclusive understanding of spirituality.

We discuss early influences, the struggle with organized religion, and the new paths we've discovered through open-minded exploration.

Through candid conversations about God, spiritual practices, and raising our children in a faith-inclusive environment, we underscore the importance of curiosity, openness, and love in spiritual growth. Whether it's through traditional methods, meditation, or personal rituals, we share how they've embraced our spiritual beliefs without judgment, while encouraging listeners (you) to find their own paths.

00:00 Introduction: A Surprising Topic

00:12 From Sex to Faith: A Personal Journey

01:05 Strict Catholic Upbringing

02:24 Exploring Different Faiths

03:29 Mission Trip to the Dominican Republic

04:09 Vegas and Christian Rock Concerts

04:54 Questioning Spirituality and Church Experiences

13:37 Marriage and Religion

14:33 Raising Children with Diverse Religious Influences

15:56 Navigating Religious Differences in Family

22:30 School Choices and Religious Education

26:05 Exploring Religious Curiosity

26:54 Personal Experiences with Baptism

28:29 Spiritual Conversations and Community

30:05 Interpreting Religious Texts

31:48 The Power of Personal Scripture

32:44 Conversations with God

34:16 Faith and Science

36:53 Parenting and Spirituality

38:55 The Journey of Faith

41:54 Embracing Diverse Spiritual Practices

51:12 Final Reflections on Faith

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Growth Requires Discomfort—Here’s Why It’s Worth It

In this episode, we discuss our concepts for effective personal and relationship growth, emphasizing goals, unwavering faith, immovable energy, infectious joy, and living life without limits. We share our transformative experiences in 2023, including acquiring a horse and a new home, making significant business and personal decisions, and outlining plans for 2025. Their key message is about sustaining growth and joy within a partnership, illustrating the importance of setting big, empowering goals together. Learn how we create compelling shared futures as a way to continually evolve both personally and as a couple.
Various insights into balancing individual and collective aspirations while advancing through life's challenges are discussed & provided.

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🎙️ Episode 7: The True Art Of Seduction: What Makes a Man Attractive to Women?

In this powerful episode, Dave and Angie dive into the deep connection between attraction, purpose, and personal growth. They explore what truly makes a man attractive beyond looks—presence, confidence, and a clear vision for life. Through personal stories and honest reflections, they uncover how stepping into your purpose not only changes how you see yourself but also how others see you.

What’s Inside:

🔥 The Power of Purpose: Why attraction isn’t just about looks—it’s about energy, confidence, and living with intention.
💡 How Women Perceive Attraction: The subtle (and not-so-subtle) qualities that make a man irresistible.
👑 Self-Worth vs. Selfishness: Shifting the mindset from "selfish" to "self-worthy" and why prioritizing yourself isn’t a bad thing.
💬 Social Proof & Attraction: How past relationships shape perceptions and influence trust.
🚀 Why a Man with a Plan is Unstoppable: Having direction in life changes how you show up in relationships and how others perceive you.
💞 The Role of Support & Partnership: How strong relationships thrive when both partners are committed to growth.

🔥 Key Takeaway:

Attraction isn’t about chasing—it’s about becoming. When you live your purpose, confidence and magnetism follow.

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🎙️The Unspoken Conversations Before Divorce: Truth, Vulnerability, and Resolution
In this episode, the discussion centers around the critical conversations married couples need to have before contemplating divorce.
We explore the common thoughts and issues that lead to divorce, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and honest communication. 

We highlight the role of external third-party feedback, like from a therapist, and discuss the pitfalls of relying solely on biased opinions from friends. The narrative delves into the dynamics of relationship conflicts, how indifference and isolation can drive couples apart, and the necessity of having difficult yet vital conversations. The episode encourages listeners to face their relationship issues head-on, be vulnerable, and seek resolution through open and truthful dialogue.

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🎙️ Episode 5: The 10-Year Marriage - A Contract for Growth & Commitment

In this powerful episode, we dive deeper into the concept of the 10-year marriage contract, an idea that challenges traditional views on commitment and forces couples to continuously choose each other. We discuss the origin story behind this idea and how it has changed how we view this life we are building together. We explore how relationships evolve, why growth is essential, and how to keep passion alive over time.

What’s Inside:

• The 10-Year Marriage Concept: Why recommitting every decade makes relationships stronger.
• Personal Growth & Marriage: How evolving as individuals leads to deeper connection.
• Avoiding Stagnation: Why couples drift apart and how to stay aligned over time.
• Keeping the Passion Alive: How intentional effort transforms love and intimacy.
• The Future of Commitment: Rewriting the rules of long-term relationships.

🔥 Key Takeaway: The best relationships aren’t about obligation—they’re about choice. Continuously choosing each other leads to true intimacy, fulfillment, and lasting love.

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🎙️ Episode 4: How to Heal Relationship Wounds and Build Real Love with Mark Groves

In this deep and thought-provoking conversation, Dave and Angie sit down with relationship expert Mark Groves to explore what it truly means to choose your partner every day. They dive into love, commitment, communication, and personal growth, tackling questions about attachment, trust, and how to build a lasting relationship.

What’s Inside:

The Power of Choice in Relationships: Why your partner could leave at any time—and why that’s a good thing.
Attachment Styles & Relationship Dynamics: How past wounds shape the way we love.
The Truth About Love & Commitment: What it really means to “choose” someone over and over again.
Breaking Patterns & Healing Together: How awareness can transform relationships.
The Future of Connection & Social Media’s Role: Why real relationships matter more than ever.
🔥 Key Takeaway: Love is a daily choice. The strongest relationships are built on truth, vulnerability, and the willingness to grow together.

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📌 Check out his book Liberated Love and his courses.
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🎙️ Episode 3: The Story of Us: Love, Chaos, and Growth

In this heartfelt episode, Dave and Angie share the story of how they met, fell in love, and built a life together. From awkward first dates to building a business and raising a family, this episode is filled with humor, challenges, and lessons learned along the way.

What’s Inside:

How They Met: The real estate office banter, first impressions, and early sparks.
The Proposal: A Bellagio fountain moment complete with nerves and a cheesy twist.
Building a Life Together: Navigating business, family, and major life changes as a team.
The 10-Year Marriage Contract: Why recommitting every decade helps relationships grow stronger.
Lessons Learned: Personal growth, commitment, and how love evolves through chaos and change.
🔥 Key Takeaway: Love and growth happen when two people commit to showing up for each other, through all the mess, magic, and transformation of life.

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🎙️ **Episode 2: Who Pays the Bill? Money, Power, and Partnership**

In this episode, Dave and Angie tackle the often-taboo topic of money dynamics in relationships. They dive deep into how finances influence power, connection, and growth as a couple. From combining accounts to redefining roles, they share their experiences and philosophies on creating a united front in marriage. 

What’s Inside:

- Who Pays for Dinner?: A look at modern relationship norms and old-school values.
- Joint or Separate Finances?: The pros and cons of pooling your money as a couple.
- Money Mindsets: How scarcity vs. abundance shapes relationships and decision-making.
- Role Dynamics: Traditional vs. modern roles in partnerships and how to balance them.
- Big Moves and Big Risks: Building trust through all-in moments and mutual growth.

🔥 **Key Takeaway**: Relationships thrive when built on trust, shared goals, and open conversations about money and roles.

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🎙️ Episode 1: The 10-Year Marriage - Conflict, Communication, and Connection

In this candid debut episode, we, Dave and Angie open up about the highs, lows, and lessons of their 15-year relationship. We explore how conflict, communication styles, and shared goals shape a strong partnership. We discuss the following:

• The Importance of Fighting Right: Why healthy conflict can lead to deeper connection.
• Attachment Styles in Relationships: Avoidant, anxious, and secure dynamics—and how they manifest in everyday life.
• The Power of Communication: Real-time examples of how conversations can bridge emotional gaps.
• Building a Compelling Future Together: The importance of co-creating goals for a thriving relationship.
• How Vulnerability Transforms Relationships: From apologizing to intimacy, why letting your guard down matters.

🔥 Key Takeaway: Relationships aren't perfect, but the willingness to collide, communicate, and reconnect creates lasting strength.

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📚 Getting to Zero by Jayson Gaddis (Angie's book recommendation).
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The “10-Year Marriage” podcast is raw, real, and unapologetically honest. Hosted by Dave and Angie Tina this show dives headfirst into the messy, beautiful, and often hilarious realities of marriage.

No “off-limits” as they explore what it really takes to make a relationship work and whether or not it’s worth re-committing to each other. 

Inspired by the concept of treating marriage like a 10-year agreement, Dave and Angie share their experiences navigating over a decade of love, connection, conflict, growth and change. They ask the tough questions: if marriage came with a 10-year contract, would you sign up for another term? Or would you call it quits? 

Through raw conversations, relatable stories, and plenty of humor, this podcast offers a fresh perspective on relationships and what it means to choose love again and again–-or not. Whether you’re newlyweds, long-timers, or just curious about a new approach to commitment and relationships, this podcast is for you. 

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