We discuss the complicated issue of the dun dun dun…. FRIEND ZONE. Have you ever been stuck in the friend zone when you wanted more? And have you heard about the f*** zone? Can one exist without the other? Is this click bait? Yes. And you should listen anyways. Thanks yall! 

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We’re back! With this beautiful human Valerie. We talk about family estrangement. This is her experience she is sharing with us. We so appreciate her taking the time to share. As hard as this topic is to talk about, we really enjoyed having her on.  Thanks yall for hanging in there! I know it's been a while!

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We explore the meaning of having a “bad” picker. Have you heard about this before? Basically people will claim this after a string of bad relationships. We explore if this is a real thing. Thanks for listening yall!

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Hey yall! We are back with a new episode featuring our good friend Sage the acupuncturist from Laughing Dragon Wellness. We talk about how to settle into the Fall season and what themes come up for us this time of year. 

Speaking of Fall… Cyndi is hosting her Descent into Darkness breathwork series in person here is Bremerton at her beautiful studio! For more info follow her on facebook https://www.facebook.com/cyndislight or here’s her website: https://www.cyndislight.life/

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Couldn’t we just all use some joy these days? We talk about what brings us joy. Also, apologies this episode is from a while ago but I am slowly catching up on editing episodes!!! Love yall and thanks for sticking with us! Take care!

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What do the kids mean when they say glizzy? Well, don’t ask us because that’s not the kind of stuff you should ask women over 30. But we do talk about what people are actually asking! Janissa picks her favorite questions to discuss with Cyndi. Enjoy! Thanks for listening yall!

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This episode we have one of my favorite people ever. Lola! Lola also known as "Island 

Turtle" is the founder of Bomispirit. Where she is a writer, ceremonialist, earth advocate, and an

intuitive astrologer. Find her on YouTube (@bomispirit.com), Patreon, and Spotify. Her website is https://www.bomispirit.com/ if you’re interested in working with her or finding more information. 

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We had so much fun making this pod, please listen to it. We have our friend Shannon on this episode to talk about all the things. We talk about online dating, being a mom, so much. 

A couple dating questions to ponder… Do you f*** your friends? Does it always change your relationship? What boundaries do you have when dating? What qualities do you look for in a partner? Sponsored by Manscaped. Just playin, that’s a joke. But to understand it you’ll have to listen! Thanks yall!

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This episode we talk about personal mastery. Tune in because it's a fun one. And you know we're gonna be off topic. Teehee. Enjoy! Thanks for listening!

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Today we start out our episode by talking about faking the big O. We also visit turn on’s and desire. This is def a blushy, Cyndi episode so we hope you enjoy it! Thanks for listening!

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We are baaaack. We took a lil break… If you want to know why you’ll have to listen to Episode 45 and you can get all the updates! Otherwise tune in cause we’re getting saucy here! Definitely gonna be a lot of blushing here on Janissa’s part. If you have young ears, you may want to skip this episode. This episode is about vanilla and kink and some things in between.

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A very special treat for us today at Daytime Slumber Party. Cyndi walks us through a beautiful meditation of self-love. Join us! It’ll be fun! If you’re driving or straight up not in the mood to take a moment start the episode at 13 mins. Book mentioned is Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski 

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Hey yall! Ever felt like life was a fucked up roulette game? Well this is the episode for you! We’re back after taking a week off and we have some news from Janissa! Wanna know the hot goss? Better tune in!!! Thanks so much for listening! 

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Today we go on many tangents and hope you will join us. One of our tangents is talking about expectations we have for ourselves when we are younger and how things actually end up. Maybe we’ll even go down the rabbit hole and talk about what happens when you die or if we believe in reincarnation. Idk. Love yall!

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We talk about crush energy! What are you crushing on? Is it just for people or things? We talk about what lights us up. Thanks for listening yall!

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In this episode we see if Janissa is invited to the slumber party. But really… What are we leaving behind in the winter and not bringing with us into Spring? We talk about living with the seasons! Of course we’re gonna veer off and talk about many other things, too cause why the hell not?

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Recorded on the day of the lunar eclipse, kinda fun. Okay so we were way too excited because we finally got fan mail!!! YES!! If you would like to send us a message, tap the send us a text link at the top of our episode description. You can send a text anonymously right from your phone. If you prefer to send us dm on our facebook or instagram that’s cool too! So this episode we deep dive into our first fan mail by talking about having hard conversations with our partner! What is the proper timing when you need to have the talk? Or how do you bring it up if you don’t want to bring up the dreaded phrase “we need to talk.” We also discuss firsts as well. What was your first kiss like? What about losing your virginity?

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Our first male guest! We had a great time recording an episode with Jimmy. We talk about lots of things from raising kids to figuring out who we are when we become empty nesters among many other things. He’s our favorite societal uncle and we hope you enjoy this episode! 

Reference books 

Behave by Robert Sapolsky https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/311787/behave-by-robert-m-sapolsky/

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This was a super fun episode. We talk about the top 10 relationship questions people ask google! Super cool you get to hear what a real life sex and relationship coach  thinks about these questions. You might be shook to hear what number one ends up being... But you’ll have to listen to find out. Teehee. Thanks yall!

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Is it true that energy flows where the mind goes? We explore some of the more new-age common sayings and what they mean to us. Of course we’re gonna go off topic and chit chat.

This episode is brought to you by Taco Bell. Jk but you need to listen to hear why this is a silly joke. Thanks yall for listening!

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This is a very special episode where we consult with the Oracle! Jess is our very cool friend who is magical af. We talk about our first tarot decks, spiritual ethics and lots more!

Here’s a lil blurb from her website: Meet Jess, the Psychic Consultant behind Down To Earth Oracle, offering virtual tarot readings, spiritual guidance, and energetic space cleansing. With 30 years of tarot experience and 20+ years of professional expertise in accounting and business, Jess brings a no-nonsense approach to her readings, providing alternative perspectives, and unconventional solutions. Her background in social sciences, psychology, and management adds versatility to her intuitive work, making her an invaluable advisor.

We had such a blast visiting with her and we hope you enjoy this episode! Thanks yall!

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Ellecia Paine is a non-monogamy relationship coach who helps people navigate ENM (Enthusiastic non-monogamy), polyamory, open relating, swinging, kink, and life in general. I took that from her website. Lol. She also has a podcast called Nope! We’re Not Monogamous. Which you should def check out if you want to hear more from her! We had so much fun recording this pod. Def worth a listen. Teehee. Thanks yall!

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This is a very special episode of Daytime Slumber Party. Cyndi blesses us with a beautiful way to  connect to the breath and ground ourselves using earth energy. Ooooo. What a treat! If you want to skip the breathwork skip forward to 18 minutes.

Book Referenced:

Breath

The New Science of a Lost Art

By James Nestor

Shout out to Aphrodesia in Port Orchard.

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Join us this week as we talk to our bestie Sarah Baker! She is so fun to talk to and we are so grateful she could be a guest on our show! We talk about our love for Bremerton, Washington and share some memories and talk about the future of our city. Maybe love conquers all…

Book referenced: Unbound: A Woman's Guide to Power by Kasia Urbaniak

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Today we are unpacking trust and faith. What do those words mean to you? You know Cyndi and I love to get deep and ponder... Thanks for listening yall! 

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 Well we were able to get it together and record this very interesting episode for you. Just a heads up, it’s a bit spicy so you might want to skip this one if you’re listening around young ears. So here we go… Has anyone ever touched your no-no zone without expectations? If you’re like WTF like Janissa, listen to this episode. Or if this is normal conversation for you like apparently it is for Cyndi, still recommend a listen. Thanks yall!

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How’s life going? We’re talking about how we’re getting along. This year is the first year Janissa’s goal is to start doing less. What a concept! Mostly, we really dilly-dally but what do you expect from us?

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Happy New Year! We skipped a week during the holidays but we are back! Are you camp New Year resolution or do you skip it this time of year?
Winter is a time for introspection and dreaming or for hard core goals and aspirations. You decide what your winter is gonna look like… As you can imagine we have some suggestions. Teehee.

P.S. Just so you know, Maury Povich is 85 years old.

Throw us a frikken bone here and come on the pod! Thanks yall!

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We are coming into gift-giving season and we talk all about giving and taking. When you go to do something or give something for somebody, who is it for? We also talk about solstice and if aries are kinda emo.
Book referenced is The Art of Receiving and Giving by Betty Martin. 

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What are barriers to communication that are preventing you from having that conversation you’ve been avoiding? Let’s talk about it. Where can we get support to build up our toolbox and fortify ourselves?

Next we talk about being petty and bratty. There’s something about this guilty pleasure… 

Cyndi references a book called Existential Kink: Unmask Your Shadow and Embrace Your Power by Carolyn Elliott in case you were curious.

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We’ve all heard about protecting our peace. But what’s the cost? We dive into the saying and the journey of experiencing your most peaceful life. Especially during the holidays, hopefully we can ask for what we need, to be a little selfish and to set all the boundaries  Even if things are a little hectic. Also, just a note if you listen around any children we talk about Santa and the tooth fairy, just sayin. 

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We talk about dating and the changing roles in our relationships from the apps to first dates and happily ever after. What is flirting? Are you a man and hoping the next girl you meet starts the conversation with you? Do you prefer to be pursued? Are things changing? This episode isn’t only for romantic relationships there’s still plenty of good stuff for everyone. Also, should we do a singles mixer or some kind of dating event? It sounds fun! Thanks for listening!

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Our second time with our favorite acupuncturist Sage! We dive into some topics of Chinese medicine, talk about qi, yin and yang, and you know the randomness of Daytime Slumber Party will happen of course but that’s the jist. The book Janissa references is the Sacred Mushroom and the Cross by John Marco Allegro. Fun fact: mushrooms are more closely related to animals than plants. Just sayin. Hope you join the party for this episode. We had a blast recording it for you! If you’re local and wanna visit Sage, here’s her website! http://laughingdragonwellness.com/index.htm

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Okay yall, for reference this episode was recorded right after our election! Vibes were off for many last week but we did our best to continue our Daytime Slumber Party responsibility of bringing an episode to the people. We’re not good vibes only by any means tho so hang on for this ride! 

We’re not trying to get to the conclusion that we’re all fucked so hang with us. As always, so much love and thanks for listening!!!

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We’re so close to the holidays, which can be super fun or you can be feeling the stress already. So we’re gonna talk about ways to embrace the good stuff and manage our stress for the not fun stuff. We ask Cyndi about how to handle awkward questions from friends/family at social gatherings and share ways to create boundaries for your most peaceful holiday season yet! We’re all in this together people! And you have your besties at Daytime Slumber Party so that’s pretty cool.

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How do we avoid carrying the weight of heavy conversations after the fact? In the time where we are often on our phones, is it harder to avoid dumping all our problems on our homies? What if our bestie is dating someone we can't stand? We talk about this, astrology, spiritual ethics and our new patreon. The patreon comment is a joke but you have to listen to the episode to understand it. So get to it! Thanks yall. 

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Janissa shares her protocol for sinus woes, we share some fun interactions with spirits, honoring the ancestors and so much more. If you want more on building your own altar and hanging out with your loved ones who have passed on check out our second episode good grief. Asking for a friend... Do you acknowledge hauntings when they happen or do you ignore it?

Also, if you are local Cyndi is hosting Evening with the Ancestors here in Bremerton at her lovely space on October 30th at 6pm. More info here: https://www.facebook.com/share/KxUtJeN3pqMEJy7o/

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Come as you are and join us on talking about owning your power! 

We hope you have people in your life that are cheering you on and if there isn’t are you doing it yourself? Just so you know, I believe in you. 

Wanna join the conversation? Send us a DM! We’d love to hear from you!

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We talk about professional cuddling, Cyndi’s CB radio handle, and listening to albums start to finish. 

But just a reminder, wherever you are is right where you’re supposed to be.

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Come on, don't hog all your human-ish goodness to yourself! This episode we talk about bettering ourselves not only for I-Me-Mine but for the collective. Janissa brings up The Labyrinth for the hundredth time among other things. We talk internet trolling, the “m” word, distractibility, and more! If you’d like to join the party send us a DM. Thanks yall!

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We interview the lovely, magical Heidi. This is actually one of my favorite episodes so far. No one is better equipped to celebrate spooky season with us! The small piece of her story we hear is so beautiful and I’m so grateful she decided to come on our little show and hang out with us. We talk about practical magic and those who are born witches (we’re all born with gifts, y’all), we talk about the power of words and sigils. You will hear Janissa say “wow” too many times but listen and see why. Check out her biz Lumen Moon. She is an amazing witch that does tarot, mediumship, house cleansing, a lot… And now she owns this very cool shop in Bremerton that you definitely need to check out.

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Our sauciest episode yet! Today we’re talking about seduction! And yes there are sound effects and blushing at every turn. This isn’t only for coupled or dating people okay. Cyndi talks about how to seduce yourself even, WHAT?! Maybe this episode will inspire you to be more spicy in your everyday life.

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Our regularly scheduled unsolicited advice from our podcast. We discuss popular relationship questions from Reddit. Don’t forget that Cyndi is a love and relationship coach, so maybe you should ask us a question, too! On that note, do you think being penetrated by a friend is sacred? We talk about the friendzone, mismatched love-languages and learning new things about yourself in long term relationships! Come have a listen!

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The first and only podcast recorded from a tantric position with our chakras aligned.... Just playing. On this episode we talk about confidence! What does confidence mean? Have you ever had a candid photograph taken and look like a gremlin? Then this episode is for you.

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We discuss the complexities of language in our modern day culture. Have you chosen to drop the word “crazy” from your vernacular? Is there TMI when you rip hairs out of someones' privates for a living? Do you cuddle your friends for comfort? When’s the last time you invited your bestie into your bed? We talk about prioritizing friendship! Yes, and what Cyndi means by everyone is polyamorous and what it means to be the creative director of your own life.

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Why do we suck in our bellies all day? Who the f*** cares? We talk about loving our bodies and being more present! Have you been grateful to your big toe lately? What does it mean to connect to our bodies? What can we do today to make Janissa blush? Also, how do we feel about doing a spooky episode in the fall? Let us know! We go over sayings that we hate and other things. We are all over the place so apologies in advance. Love youuuuu

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It's true, we're not classy but we're not trashy either, somewhere in between. And between that is us talking about conflict! This podcast dives into learning to explore conflict in your relationships. What's a healthy amount of conflict? How does getting deeper in relationships inspire you and push you? And remember folks, resentment is a boner killer. Lady boners, too! 

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Are you sick of hearing about self-care? Janissa is! What is self-care to you? Are your vacations relaxing ever? Let's talk about taking care for ourselves post-vacation and everyday. What is really enlivening and enriching to you? You know skin care is gonna be mentioned in this, I'm sorry we can't help it because Janissa is an esthetician.

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This episode we pick random relationship questions from reddit and wow there's lots to unpack there! We talk about loving people for people, ghosting and getting out of your head when dating outside of your norm. What happens when a girl your dating with tells you your penis is the wrong format. Let's make it safe and fun!  

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Are you an inconsiderate empath? We talk about meeting people where they are at and reading the room. Chemistry also comes up. How fun!

Have a relationship question or curiosity? Send us a dm!

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Kinda cool Sage is here and was part of making Daytime Slumber Party coming to fruition whether she wanted to or not. Sage is lovely and is an acupuncturist here in our city and we're so happy we got the opportunity to spend time with her! She will def be a regular guest on our podcast so if you have any questions for her send us a DM! There's a lot of giggles in this episode but hopefully our fun spills into your own life. Also, there is some talk about self love, jade eggs and big O's so if you're listening around littles or are triggered maybe skip this one. Love yall!

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Arrive for the podcast, stay for the bad segues. We talk safety and boundaries! Starting with personal safety and being able to meet what comes into your life with an open heart. What are your rules of engagement? What do you do when facing a difficult situation or having a hard conversation? 

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Partially Cyndi talking Janissa off a cliff but at the same time talking about anger. What do you do with yours? What role does petty bitch play in your life? Have you screamed into the abyss today?
We also discuss rules of engagement in relationships and making hard decisions not only in romantic relationships but all others. This episode might help you if you're contemplating if you should stay or if you should go in a relationship. 
Send us a DM if you would like to ask a relationship question. Thanks yall! 

If you're interested in signing up for Cyndi's email list you can send us a DM or go to her website https://www.cyndislight.life/?lightbox=image11fw

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In this episode we talk courage! Courage to take the time to know yourself, to enjoy your own company. Courage to take the leap of faith and to live your best life. YES!
Randomly, Third Eye Blind comes up and a quick short show correction-no, Janissa, they are from California. Should've known better!
We also discuss what our roles in a cult would be, do you have a the face for a cult?
Cyndi also breaks down stress and nervous system regulation and MORE!

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What's delicious in life to you? 
We discuss finding the deliciousness of everyday life. Making the mundane into an exercise of gratitude. That sounded really woo-woo but I promise we'll make it fun. 

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This one is a personal one! But also, we all experience grief at some point. It can be beautiful, messy, ugly-all the things. We talk altars and ways to honor your loved ones who have passed on. Yes, there's some feels in this particular episode but it's worth it!

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Just want to introduce ourselves and talk about what to expect from our new podcast! Hope you'll join us!

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