STILL HERE BITCH Older Queer Living Podcast Wed, 27 May 2026 23:34:48 -0700 https://stillherebitch.buzzsprout.com en-us © 2026 STILL HERE BITCH Older Queer Living Podcast yes 82663710-55bb-54bd-baca-08ebb228705c LOUDAGENDA Productions episodic false STILL HERE BITCH Older Queer Living Podcast celebrates the art of Loud and Proud LGBTQ+ Living After 50. Host Gerry Walker, MMFT is the Associate Director of Engagement & Equity at the Los Angeles LGBT Center. Subscribe and share: https://www.youtube.com/@stillherebitchpodcast or search "SHB Podcast" Inquiries: loudagenda@gmail.com]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) LOUDAGENDA Productions https://storage.buzzsprout.com/qh3zrusc30n2dxucqrz0q8xqlrv0?.jpg STILL HERE BITCH Older Queer Living Podcast Doubling Down on Dementia and Grief with Tia Delaney-Stewart Doubling Down on Dementia and Grief with Tia Delaney-Stewart Gerry chats with Tia Delaney-Stewart, Director of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at Alzheimer's Association California Southland, about how to reduce the stigma around dementia; "Brain Age" vs. "Body Age;" the multilayered process(es) of grieving the loss of a loved one; and learning to live in The Duality of "And." This episode kicks off the new format of STILL HERE BITCH.

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]]> Gerry chats with Tia Delaney-Stewart, Director of Diversity, Equity and Inclusion at Alzheimer's Association California Southland, about how to reduce the stigma around dementia; "Brain Age" vs. "Body Age;" the multilayered process(es) of grieving the loss of a loved one; and learning to live in The Duality of "And." This episode kicks off the new format of STILL HERE BITCH.

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Composer: Karl Learmont

]]> https://www.stillherebitch.com/ LOUDAGENDA Productions Buzzsprout-18263209 Thu, 27 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0800 3069 dementia, grief, loss, griefandloss, alzheimersdisease, widowhood, trauma, LGBTQdementia, LGBTQmarriage, gaymarriage, LGBTQfamily, LGBTQrelationships, gayrelationships, queermarriage, queerfamily, queerrelationships, LGBT, LGBTQ 2 5 full false How LGBTQ+ History Propels Your Future with Tony Valenzuela How LGBTQ+ History Propels Your Future with Tony Valenzuela Gerry chats with Tony Valenzuela, the leader of One Institute, the longest continuously operating LGBTQ+ organization in the United States. Tony shares why LGBTQ+ folx are dangerous to social norms and constructs, why we are indispensable in society, and how our existence helps people of all backgrounds to realize their freedom - and their chains. He also talks about One Institute's Circa Festival - coming up in October throughout Metropolitan Los Angeles the entire month of October - which is the first and only Queer Histories Festival in the U.S. Plus: Tony's coming out story is one for the books - and directly connects with the crucial activism work he and One Institute are performing today.

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]]> Gerry chats with Tony Valenzuela, the leader of One Institute, the longest continuously operating LGBTQ+ organization in the United States. Tony shares why LGBTQ+ folx are dangerous to social norms and constructs, why we are indispensable in society, and how our existence helps people of all backgrounds to realize their freedom - and their chains. He also talks about One Institute's Circa Festival - coming up in October throughout Metropolitan Los Angeles the entire month of October - which is the first and only Queer Histories Festival in the U.S. Plus: Tony's coming out story is one for the books - and directly connects with the crucial activism work he and One Institute are performing today.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-17933248 Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:00:00 -0700 2431 circafestival, oneinstitute, LGBTQmarriage, gaymarriage, LGBTQfamily, LGBTQrelationships, gayrelationships, queermarriage, queerfamily, queerrelationships 2 4 full false The Icon Episode with Margaret Cho and DJ Larry Tee The Icon Episode with Margaret Cho and DJ Larry Tee Two of my favorite things in this world are smart comedy and great music. In my birthday month ("Virgo Season!") we're celebrating with 2 legit pioneers who've achieved ICON status in both worlds: the incredible Margaret Cho and the amazing DJ Larry Tee!
Margaret tells Gerry how she remains grounded and shares her view on self-love, growth and awareness.
*Fun Fact: Gerry appears in the beginning of Margaret's groundbreaking film, I'M THE ONE THAT I WANT, released 25 years ago this month. Catch Margaret Cho on her CHOLIGARCHY National Tour, coming soon to your city. margaretcho.com
A world class musician, producer and promoter who's worked with everyone from Charli XCX to Santigold to Scissor Sisters, DJ Larry Tee spills all the... well, tea about young life with RuPaul (and cowriting The Song), Michael Stipe and Lahoma Van Zandt, curating the Electroclash scene, Amanda Lepore's rap skills, and finding a new invigorating life via the 12 Step Recovery process.
Larry also knows what *really* went down during those Party Monster years. (Ryan Murphy, please hit him up. Tell him Gerry sent you.) https://www.discogs.com/artist/60567-Larry-Tee
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]]> Two of my favorite things in this world are smart comedy and great music. In my birthday month ("Virgo Season!") we're celebrating with 2 legit pioneers who've achieved ICON status in both worlds: the incredible Margaret Cho and the amazing DJ Larry Tee!
Margaret tells Gerry how she remains grounded and shares her view on self-love, growth and awareness.
*Fun Fact: Gerry appears in the beginning of Margaret's groundbreaking film, I'M THE ONE THAT I WANT, released 25 years ago this month. Catch Margaret Cho on her CHOLIGARCHY National Tour, coming soon to your city. margaretcho.com
A world class musician, producer and promoter who's worked with everyone from Charli XCX to Santigold to Scissor Sisters, DJ Larry Tee spills all the... well, tea about young life with RuPaul (and cowriting The Song), Michael Stipe and Lahoma Van Zandt, curating the Electroclash scene, Amanda Lepore's rap skills, and finding a new invigorating life via the 12 Step Recovery process.
Larry also knows what *really* went down during those Party Monster years. (Ryan Murphy, please hit him up. Tell him Gerry sent you.) https://www.discogs.com/artist/60567-Larry-Tee
If you literally wanna hear Gerry gag, press play.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-17737011 Tue, 26 Aug 2025 09:00:00 -0700 2624 LGBTQrelationships, gayrelationships, queermarriage, queerfamily, queerrelationships, qualifyinglifeevent, addition, alcoholism, electroclash, dj, AddictionRecovery, RecoveryIsPossible, SoberLife, SoberLiving, OneDayAtATime, 12Steps, MentalHealthAwareness 2 3 full false Advanced Care Directives with Dr. Meki Singleton Advanced Care Directives with Dr. Meki Singleton Gerry chats with a gerontologist who specializes in SGM (Sexual and Gender Minority) - including LGBTQ+ - people. Dr. Meki Singleton and Gerry discuss why advanced care directives have become increasingly important, the many ways they can be set up, when you might start thinking about it, and who should be involved. Meki also offers advice to 20-year-olds on how to use the aging process to live a life with no regrets and mastering the art of caring for yourself. No matter what age you are, YOLO - so find out how to make it clap.

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]]> Gerry chats with a gerontologist who specializes in SGM (Sexual and Gender Minority) - including LGBTQ+ - people. Dr. Meki Singleton and Gerry discuss why advanced care directives have become increasingly important, the many ways they can be set up, when you might start thinking about it, and who should be involved. Meki also offers advice to 20-year-olds on how to use the aging process to live a life with no regrets and mastering the art of caring for yourself. No matter what age you are, YOLO - so find out how to make it clap.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-17576680 Tue, 29 Jul 2025 04:00:00 -0700 2678 advancedcaredirectives, fivewishes, dementia, LGBTQdementia, LGBTdementia, alzheimers, hospice, palliativecare, LGBTQmarriage, gaymarriage, LGBTQfamily, LGBTQrelationships, gayrelationships, queermarriage, queerfamily, queerrelationships, divorce, queerdi 2 2 full false Secrets to Making Your Marriage Last with Mack and Ken Scott Baron Secrets to Making Your Marriage Last with Mack and Ken Scott Baron Gerry chats with 26-years-married activists and founders of "Black & White Men Together Southern California" Mack and Ken Scott Baron about: how to achieve longevity in relationships, the concept of "coordinating" sex, going to bed angry at your partner, the importance of Date Night, and finding your soulmate. 

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]]> Gerry chats with 26-years-married activists and founders of "Black & White Men Together Southern California" Mack and Ken Scott Baron about: how to achieve longevity in relationships, the concept of "coordinating" sex, going to bed angry at your partner, the importance of Date Night, and finding your soulmate. 

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/shb-ep-21-secrets-to-make-your-lgbtq-marriage-last Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-17393090 Tue, 24 Jun 2025 15:00:00 -0700 2439 SeniorLove, QueerLoveStories, MatureDating, LGBTQRelationships, Over50AndProud GoldenYearsLove, QueerElders, gaymarriage, queermarriage, lgbtmarriage, lgbtqmarriage, gayrelationships, queerrelationships, lgbtrelationships, lgbtqrelationships, gayintimacy, 2 1 full false Catching, Courting, & Keeping Your Partner Satisfied with Nena Walker Catching, Courting, & Keeping Your Partner Satisfied with Nena Walker Gerry chats with body products creator and designer Nena Walker of Nena's Organics about the factors that determine attraction; learning to recognize relationship red flags; handling jealousy; the role of your hands during foreplay; and some (not-so-) surprising advice on how to keep your partner coming home to you. This episode totally "stinks pretty."

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]]> Gerry chats with body products creator and designer Nena Walker of Nena's Organics about the factors that determine attraction; learning to recognize relationship red flags; handling jealousy; the role of your hands during foreplay; and some (not-so-) surprising advice on how to keep your partner coming home to you. This episode totally "stinks pretty."

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-16514811 Mon, 27 Jan 2025 15:00:00 -0800 2369 stinkpretty, relationships, lawofattraction, dating, courtship, gayjoy, queerjoy, lgbtqjoy, seniorrelationships, seniordating, olderadults, activeadults, seniorsex, seniorsexuality, foreplay 1 9 full false Decoding LGBTQ+ Caregiving with Mary-Anne Adams Decoding LGBTQ+ Caregiving with Mary-Anne Adams Gerry chats with Atlanta-based Lesbian activist, social worker & founder of  ZAMI NOBLA Mary Anne Adams about the unique & tricky factors surrounding caregiving as an LGBTQ+ family member; the power of Asking For Help; and the wisdom of Diversifying Your Social Community While Aging. Grab a pen - it's great stuff.

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]]> Gerry chats with Atlanta-based Lesbian activist, social worker & founder of  ZAMI NOBLA Mary Anne Adams about the unique & tricky factors surrounding caregiving as an LGBTQ+ family member; the power of Asking For Help; and the wisdom of Diversifying Your Social Community While Aging. Grab a pen - it's great stuff.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/shb-ep18-decoding-lgbtq-caregiving-with-mary-anne-adams Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-16336708 Tue, 24 Dec 2024 11:00:00 -0800 2464 Caregiving, caregivingtips, caregivingjourney, lgbtqcaregiving, queercaregiving, gaycaregiving, lesbiancaregiving, transcaregiving, gettingolder, aginginplace, gayrelationships, queerrelationships, queerfamily, gayfamily, alzheimers, dementia, lgbtqdement 1 8 full false Aging vs. Beauty: How to Age Enviously with Lashelle Ullie Aging vs. Beauty: How to Age Enviously with Lashelle Ullie Gerry chats with Beverly Hills skin care expert Lashelle Ullie to discuss how self-care can inspire the self-love, self-worth & self-awareness we need in order to become our complete selves.

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]]> Gerry chats with Beverly Hills skin care expert Lashelle Ullie to discuss how self-care can inspire the self-love, self-worth & self-awareness we need in order to become our complete selves.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-16177234 Tue, 26 Nov 2024 06:00:00 -0800 2489 queerbeauty, LGBTQbeauty, selfcare, malebeauty, gaybeauty, beautyandrelationships, maleskincare, skincare, beautyandaging, proaging, agingbeauty, skinproducts, isolation, loneliness, mentalhealth, mentalwellness, wellness, QueerHealth , SilverQueers, Love 1 7 full false Can Food Improve Your Relationship? with Alejandro Ramirez AKA "The Party Crasher" Can Food Improve Your Relationship? with Alejandro Ramirez AKA "The Party Crasher" Gerry chats with Google Maps Food Critic Alejandro Ramirez, AKA "The Party Crasher," about the expansive role that food plays in our relationships, the power of manifesting, and how staying grateful can change a life. Bonus: they also discuss certain foods that can add spice to your relationship (even our producer Karl gets in on the action).


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]]> Gerry chats with Google Maps Food Critic Alejandro Ramirez, AKA "The Party Crasher," about the expansive role that food plays in our relationships, the power of manifesting, and how staying grateful can change a life. Bonus: they also discuss certain foods that can add spice to your relationship (even our producer Karl gets in on the action).


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]]> Gerry Walker, 2024 LOUDAGENDA PRESENTS Buzzsprout-15970112 Tue, 22 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0700 1578 Cooking, DiningOut, FineDining, QueerHealth, SilverQueers, LoveIsAgeless, RainbowWisdom, GoldenConnections, AgingWithPride, QueerWellness, EldersInColor, LGBTQCare, AgePositive, QueerRelationships, SeniorAdvocacy, OutAndThriving, LGBTQCommunity, HealthyAg 1 6 full false Claiming Freedom Through She-Dom Pt. 2 with Sydney Rogers AKA Miss Barbie-Q Claiming Freedom Through She-Dom Pt. 2 with Sydney Rogers AKA Miss Barbie-Q Gerry chats with Sydney about her road to sobriety and self-assuredness, learning to forgive oneself, unearthing purpose in service, and the many ways that love can look. Also: Sydney shares her views on attraction, differentiating real love from fantasy, and how to approach trans women... the right way.

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]]> Gerry chats with Sydney about her road to sobriety and self-assuredness, learning to forgive oneself, unearthing purpose in service, and the many ways that love can look. Also: Sydney shares her views on attraction, differentiating real love from fantasy, and how to approach trans women... the right way.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-15809072 Tue, 24 Sep 2024 11:00:00 -0700 2667 translove, seniortranslove, seniortrans, eldertrans, translife, tgilife, tgiliving, tgilove, tgirelationships, tgidating, transdating, transrelationships, seniortgi, tgiseniors, tgielders, divinefemininity 1 5 full false Finding Your LGBTQ+ Tribe with Dr. Paul Nash Finding Your LGBTQ+ Tribe with Dr. Paul Nash Gerry chats with author, gerontologist, and University of Southern California Professor Dr. Paul Nash about the importance of health literacy, the need for more information about older adult sexuality, the beauty of social kindness, and the joy of finding your tribe. Cher would be proud.

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]]> Gerry chats with author, gerontologist, and University of Southern California Professor Dr. Paul Nash about the importance of health literacy, the need for more information about older adult sexuality, the beauty of social kindness, and the joy of finding your tribe. Cher would be proud.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker/Dr. Paul Nash Buzzsprout-15651168 Tue, 27 Aug 2024 09:00:00 -0700 2445 HealthEquity, HealthLiteracy, HealthAdvocacy, AgingHealth, SeniorHealth, SeniorSexuality, QueerHealth, SilverQueers, LoveIsAgeless, RainbowWisdom, GoldenConnections, AgingWithPride, QueerWellness, EldersInColor, LGBTQCare, AgePositive, QueerRelationships, 1 4 full false Claiming Freedom Through She-Dom Pt. 1 With Sydney Rogers AKA Miss Barbie-Q Claiming Freedom Through She-Dom Pt. 1 With Sydney Rogers AKA Miss Barbie-Q Gerry chats with activist, commissioner, social worker and entertainer Sydney Rogers - AKA drag performer Miss Barbie-Q - about learning to value her whole trans self, and her journey toward finding love and true connections in this world. (And stay tuned: she's returning soon for Part 2.) 

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]]> Gerry chats with activist, commissioner, social worker and entertainer Sydney Rogers - AKA drag performer Miss Barbie-Q - about learning to value her whole trans self, and her journey toward finding love and true connections in this world. (And stay tuned: she's returning soon for Part 2.) 

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker/ydney Rogers Buzzsprout-15458576 Mon, 22 Jul 2024 18:00:00 -0700 2317 translove, seniortranslove, seniortrans, eldertrans, translife, tgilife, tgiliving, tgilove, tgirelationships, tgidating, transdating, transrelationships, seniortgi, tgiseniors, tgielders, divinefemininity 1 3 full false Oust Your Inner Ageist with Dr. Charles Hoy-Ellis Oust Your Inner Ageist with Dr. Charles Hoy-Ellis Gerry chats with renowned Queer Aging scholar, researcher, therapist and activist Dr. Charles Hoy-Ellis about identifying internalized ageism in LGBTQ+ communities, and how to increase your chances for successful relationships later in life.

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]]> Gerry chats with renowned Queer Aging scholar, researcher, therapist and activist Dr. Charles Hoy-Ellis about identifying internalized ageism in LGBTQ+ communities, and how to increase your chances for successful relationships later in life.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker Buzzsprout-15320235 Wed, 26 Jun 2024 20:00:00 -0700 2173 QueerHealth, SilverQueers, LoveIsAgeless, RainbowWisdom, GoldenConnections, AgingWithPride, QueerWellness, EldersInColor, LGBTQCare, AgePositive, QueerRelationships, SeniorAdvocacy, OutAndThriving, LGBTQCommunity, HealthyAging, QueerSupport, LGBTQVisibili 1 2 full false Aging is a State of Mind with Annetta Daniel & Kristi Cecil Aging is a State of Mind with Annetta Daniel & Kristi Cecil Gerry chats with super-senior author Annetta Daniel and older adult advocacy expert Kristi Cecil about the unique challenges, triumphs and tricks surrounding Queer Older Adult relationships.

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]]> Gerry chats with super-senior author Annetta Daniel and older adult advocacy expert Kristi Cecil about the unique challenges, triumphs and tricks surrounding Queer Older Adult relationships.

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]]> https://soundcloud.com/still-here-bitch-podcast/ Gerry Walker with guests Annetta Daniel and Kristi Cecil Buzzsprout-15185807 Mon, 03 Jun 2024 11:00:00 -0700 2145 QueerHealth, SilverQueers, LoveIsAgeless, RainbowWisdom, GoldenConnections, AgingWithPride, QueerWellness, EldersInColor, LGBTQCare, AgePositive, QueerRelationships, SeniorAdvocacy, OutAndThriving, LGBTQCommunity, HealthyAging, QueerSupport, LGBTQVisibili 1 1 full false