In this video I discuss with Dr. Fiona Girkin, a specialist in female psychopaths and their traits, the dark reality of psychopaths, exploring the complexities of psychopathy how it can manifest differently in men and women. She shares insights into her research journey and what initially sparked her interest in this area, discussing the nuances of psychopathy. 

We look at the dark tetrad, which includes psychopathy, narcissism, Machiavellianism, and sadism, which is a fascinating yet unsettling topic that sheds light on the callous and antisocial tendencies of individuals with psychopathic personalities.

Female psychopathy, in particular, is often misunderstood or overlooked, but we discuss how female psychopaths can be found in various settings, including the workplace, where they may use their charm and charisma to manipulate and exploit colleagues and achieve their goals.

By exploring the intricacies of female psychopathy, Dr. Girkin aims to raise awareness about the warning signs of psychopathic behaviour and the importance of recognising the manipulation and exploitation that can occur in both personal and professional relationships. This video is a must-watch for anyone interested in understanding the psychology of psychopaths and the impact of their behaviour on others.

Dr Girkin's channel: https://www.youtube.com/ ⁨@DrFionaGirkin⁩  
Podcast: leadershipshenanigans.podbean.com 

Mark Beare joins me to explore the complex and often devastating effects of narcissism and narcissistic abuse, and the journey towards emotional healing and recovery. We discuss his work on Mirrored Psychic Inversion Theory (MPIT), and his work with Sam Vaknin. As a survivor of a toxic relationship, it's common to experience a breakdown, both emotionally and mentally, due to the manipulative tactics of gaslighting and emotional manipulation.

However, with the right support and mindset, it's possible to start the trauma healing process and begin moving on from the abuse. The healing journey is not an easy one, but it's a necessary step towards regaining control over your mental health and well-being. By understanding the dynamics of narcissistic abuse and the impact it has on your life, you can start to rebuild and rediscover yourself, and ultimately, find the strength to move forward and start a new chapter in your life.

Mark's Books:
Narcissistic Redeemer: 
https://www.amazon.com/Narcissistic-Redeemer-Bringing-Collapse-Inversion/dp/B0FMQW2QH3

The Organising Gate and the reconstruction of reality after Narcissistic Abuse: 
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Organising-Gate-Reconstruction-Narcissistic-Inversion/dp/B0GHJZGFSK

Academical Work:
https://www.confmeets.com/journals/jppc/articles_in_process/mirrored-psychic-inversion-theory-the-anticipatory-stress-reflex-as-the-organising-gate-of-reality

Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@r_mpi?_r=1&_t=ZN-968wDShoAXG

YouTube: 
https://youtube.com/@MPI-THEORY?si=kX5u3bwJ4ovG7A1r

#recoveryispossible #narcissism #toxicrelationships

Have you ever found yourself pouring emotional energy into helping people only to see them resist any real change? Looking at the Rescue Dilemma through Karpman's Drama Triangle, Melody Beattie's book 'CoDependent No More' and both classical and operant conditioning, this video explores the frustration of trying to assist individuals who consistently make choices that hinder their progress. 

Despite offering help, they remain unhappy, highlighting a deep-seated resistance to change and the strain it puts on other people's mental health.

Amber Hollingsworth is an expert in working with individuals and families facing challenges with addiction. With over two decades of experience, Amber brings valuable insights into topics like the nature of addiction, relapse and how to break an addiction. Her work includes founding Hope for Families Recovery Consultants and hosting a recovery podcast, offering support and guidance to those on the path to sobriety.

In this conversation we discuss the nature of addiction,  not only from the perspective of the addict but also to the loved ones around them, dispelling a few myths and practical ideas to help with recovery.

Amber's Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT8PE1v0xFR9zLXOijxM6hg 

familyrecoveryacademy.online 

Tegan Osmond and I discuss the hidden reality of narcissistic workplaces and how some professional environments can develop cult-like dynamics driven by manipulation, group psychology, and workplace mobbing.

Throughout this conversation, we explore psychological insights into outsider targeting, group conformity, manipulation tactics, and the emotional impact of prolonged workplace harassment. If you have ever felt isolated, unfairly targeted, or confused by sudden shifts in workplace dynamics, this discussion may help you better understand what could be happening beneath the surface.

For more information on workplace mobbing and bullying check out Tegan's channel at https://www.youtube.com/@TheTeganOsmondChannel 

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In this seminar I break down the hidden dynamics of the narcissistic family system and how it often operates like a cult-like environment.

You’ll learn how narcissistic family roles develop, from the matriarch or patriarch to the golden child, scapegoat, and other key roles that shape behaviour and identity. Exploring how narcissistic parents use emotional control, manipulation, and conditional love to maintain power within the family.

This talk also dives into the long-term effects of narcissistic abuse, including trauma, people-pleasing, and loss of self, and offers insight into how to break free from toxic family patterns, rebuild confidence, and move forward.

If you’ve ever questioned your family dynamics or struggled with toxic relationships, this will help you understand what’s really happening and how to heal.

Like many other professions, Artificial Intelligence is rapidly entering the world of mental health, but can AI really replace human therapists?

In this in-depth discussion, we explore the limits of AI therapy, the risks and benefits of using artificial intelligence in psychotherapy, and why the human connection remains central to real healing.

Dr. Philip Sarpong, a clinical psychologist, shares a balanced perspective on AI in mental health. We discuss:

• Can AI replace therapists
• The pros and cons of AI therapy
• AI as a tool vs AI as a therapist
• Emotional regulation and human connection
• The therapeutic relationship and why it matters
• Loneliness in the digital age
• The future of psychotherapy in an AI world

While AI can offer accessible support tools such as journaling prompts, mood tracking, and mindfulness exercises, therapy outcomes consistently show that the therapeutic alliance, the relationship between therapist and client, is one of the strongest predictors of healing.

As technology evolves, we ask a deeper question: Are we engineering convenience at the cost of connection?

If you are interested in psychology, mental health, artificial intelligence, digital wellness, and the future of therapy, this conversation will give you a thoughtful, honest perspective on where AI fits, and where it does not.

Subscribe for more conversations on psychology, resilience, mental health, and navigating cultural and technological shifts.

Dr Sarpong's channel https://www.youtube.com/@philsguidetopsyd

Watch on Youtube: 

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance with Dr Peter Salerno

Why does narcissistic abuse leave you feeling confused, stuck, and disconnected from your own reality?

In this in-depth conversation, Dr Peter Salerno, retired licensed psychotherapist and clinical psychologist, explains traumatic cognitive dissonance, a psychological state that develops through intentional manipulation, coercive control, and pathological abuse.

This episode explores how narcissistic relationships distort belief systems, create internal conflict, and keep survivors trapped in cycles of self doubt, rumination, and emotional paralysis.

Dr Salerno's Youtube Channel
https://www.youtube.com/@DrPeterSalerno 

Dr Salerno's website
https://www.drpetersalerno.com/ 

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship With A Disordered Personality 
https://amzn.eu/d/05Tcg9F1 

Cruelty by Nature The Science of Intentional Abuse
https://amzn.eu/d/033mltJW 

The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene
https://amzn.eu/d/0eI3Esck 

Thought Detox: 77 Days of Quotes & Reflections to Challenge and Eliminate Negative Thinking Habits
https://amzn.eu/d/0fiuTToN

This is part two of a conversation with Sara Crouson, host of the YouTube channel Cluster B Milkshake. Sara has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits.

We discuss narcissism, psychopathy, predatory behaviour and how these things manifest in day to life, as well as in her relationships and interactions.

Among other things we also address infidelity, envy, lack of remorse, narcissism and social media and the true nature of an apology from a narcissist.

Please be advised, it is a candid and often frank discussion, so be warned there is some explicit language and descriptions.

Watch on Youtube https://youtu.be/Ugj48rCKEbA

Part one of our discussion to can be found here: https://youtu.be/FHVnGNEO9HU 

Sara's channel can be found at: https://www.youtube.com/@UC7mkAC2N4PqlGqXfBJMyqCA 

0:00:00 Intro
0:01:12 Narcissism and Social Media
0:04:33 Bereavement
0:05:54 Need for chaos
0:07:06 Doing vs Being
0:09:49 Building Self Awareness
0:15:25 Narcissistic Apology
0:18:10 Paranoia
0:19:46 Projection
0:22:00 I won't give you closure
0:25:00 Trying to change
0:27:50 Real vs Ideal
0:32:45 The False Self
0:35:15 Constant need for attention
0:38:51 Push Pull in relationships
0:41:15 Malicious or Maladaptive?
0:47:44 Radical Acceptance
0:49:00 Change in tactics to manipulate
0:50:50 Affairs
0:54:10 Intent and Consistency to Change
1:03:15 I am the victim

Why do narcissists seem so charming in public yet so cruel and manipulative in private? In this video we look at how narcissists use impression management to fool entire rooms of people. We explore why they make such powerful first impressions, how they use charisma, flattery, stories, and confidence to reel people in, and why so many of us fall for it again even when we know better.

Narcissistic people need validation. They need an audience. They shape a public persona that looks kind, witty, confident, and altruistic. Behind closed doors the mask drops. If you have ever wondered why everyone else seems to love the narcissist while you carry the wounds of their sarcasm, put downs, and emotional manipulation, this video will help you understand the two faces of narcissism.

You will learn about narcissistic supply, public vs private behavior, transactional charisma, and why narcissists are experts at reading social cues and crafting exactly the image they want others to see.

If you have ever questioned your reality or felt confused by how easily others fall for the narcissist, this insight will help you make sense of what you lived.

From the livestream 'How Enablers Fuel Narcissists'
https://youtube.com/live/58LymIZ51Nw 

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Cluster B personalities are a group of personality disorders characterised by dramatic, emotional, or erratic behaviour. This video looks at the key characteristics, traits, and behaviours associated with Cluster B personalities, including borderline, narcissistic, histrionic, and antisocial personality disorders, and how they can look when they overlap or are co-occuring together.

Looking also at Machiavellianism and sadism, characteristics associated with the Dark Triad and Tetrad, and how these traits play out in relationships and society at large

00:00 Cluster B Personalities
00:15 Anti Social Personality
02:00 Borderline Personality
03:48 Histrionic Personality
05:21 Narcissistic Personality Disorder
07:30 Machiavellianism
07:58 Sadistic
08:30 Co-Morbidities
10:11 Cluster B Society
10:45 Destructive Nature
11:53 Cult Like Dynamics
12:50 Dark Personalities in Positions of Power

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Sara Crouson has diagnoses of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anti-social Personality Disorder, ADHD and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. She also has Schizoid and paranoid traits.
She is the host of the YouTube channel 'Cluster B Milkshake' where she educates people about narcissism and predatory behaviours.
We discussed her history and how her diagnoses manifest in day to life, as well as in her relationships and interactions.

In part one of our discussion we explored the complexities of anger and regret, particularly how it can be used in relationships to test a partner's anxiety.
She also touches on the prevalence of infidelity, often stemming from workplaces or social media, highlighting how subtle manipulation tactics can impact healthy relationships.

Please be advised, it is a candid and often frank discussion, so be warned there is some explicit language and descriptions.

Part two of our discussion: https://youtu.be/Ugj48rCKEbA

Sara's channel can be found at: https://www.youtube.com/@cLuStErBMiLkShAkE

0:00:00 Intro
0:01:20 Childhood Trauma
0:04:34 Anti Social Behaviours
0:08:20 Relationships 
0:10:30 Do narcissists love their children?
0:12:09 Predatory Behaviour
0:17:15  Co-dependency and Avoidance
0:21:30 The empty void inside
0:22:35 Narcissists and Social Media
0:23:25 The journey of self awareness
0:26:35 Self Gaslighting vs Brain Fog
0:30:45 Need for admiration
0:33:39 Need for control
0:36:10 Need for Perfection
0:37:39 Emotional Triggers
0:40:47 Narcissistic Rage
0:42:29 Narcissistic Envy
0:45:45 Trauma Bonding
0:48:50 The Fantasy
0:51:05 Testing partners
0:55:00 Fear of emotional vulnerability
0:58:37 Loss of purpose

Watch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee 

#narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #aspd #mentalhealth 

I'll be discussing the HG Wells classic 'War of the Worlds' with @DrPaulA.Taylor (Readers of the Lost Art)

Why the story continues to be so popular, its many adaptations, and what it tells us about the social anxieties and paranoia present not only in Victorian times, but today as well.

For more content on my YouTube Channel visit https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee 

For more Readers of the Lost Art content visit https://www.youtube.com/@DrPaulA.Taylor 

#waroftheworlds #hgwells

Healing from narcissistic abuse is a unique and individualized process, and the time it takes to recover can vary greatly from person to person. This video explores the complexities of narcissistic abuse recovery and provide insight into what you can expect during the healing process.

Whether you're just starting to recognize the signs of narcissistic abuse or you're further along in your journey, this video aims to offer support, guidance, and validation.

Looking at the different stages of recovery, common challenges that survivors may face, and strategies for rebuilding and moving forward.

Watch on YouTube https://youtu.be/_NxnFi8yIsM 

What does it mean to be 'woke'? Ryan Rogers is a therapist and author of the book "The Woke Mind: The Twisted Psychology of the Social Justice Movement.' In our conversation we discuss what it means to be 'woke',  is it just a trendy phrase, a slur, or a genuine state of awareness? Is it even truly a left/right issue or more a personality type?

We discuss his book, his experiences of battling with addiction, how he learned activism more than therapy in his training, and his journey towards pragmatism.

Looking into the psychology of covert narcissism in individuals who want to tear down rather than build or look for problems rather than solutions, and referencing Orwell's 1984 where basic truths are questioned.

We explore the idea of being woke and what it means for our individual and collective consciousness.

Ryan's podcast and YouTube channel: 
https://youtube.com/@ryanrogers8046?si=ilIyxFSZDR-cJeXU

X: @ryanmcrogers

'The Woke Mind'
https://a.co/d/bXVnnwP

Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee 

Mid to High range narcissism refers to someone with deeply ingrained narcissistic traits and characteristics, but doesn't meet the threshold for a personality disorder, as outlined in the DSM 5.

They can range from just being selfish pests, to being a master of emotional manipulation. This presentation looks into the characteristics, behaviours, and traits of the sub clinical narcissist and explores how they operate in relationships, friendships, and even in the workplace. 

Looking at how traits such as a false self, fragile ego and emotional manipulation, yet without meeting full NPD criteria. Understanding these tendencies can help recognise narcissistic abuse in everyday relationships and interactions.

Exploring how comedy often exaggerates low to mid range narcissistic traits for comedic effect, and how it compares to real life.

Lastly some ideas to help manage yourself with narcissistic people you encounter.

This video was part of a presentation delivered at the Narcissistic Abuse Conference in London 2025.

Watch on YouTube

https://youtu.be/FXM7ORteDDw

Discover the transformative and therapeutic power of stories in my conversation with Dr. Paul A Taylor, host of the Youtube channel 'Readers of the Lost Art' where we discuss narrative psychology and the 'post literate world'.

We discuss 'safetyism', internet use and social media, communication and explore how storytelling can inform, inspire, heal and foster emotional well-being. From ancient myths to modern-day conversations, learn how narratives shape our minds and lives.

Perfect for anyone interested in psychology, mental health, or the art of storytelling. 

https://www.youtube.com/@DrPaulA.Taylor 

00:00 Intro
01:20 Post Literate Age
04:45 The Matrix
06:16 The Power of Imagination
09:00 Fairy Tales
10:20 Special Effects in Stories
14:55 Connection through Shared Stories
16:25 The Sacred Algorithm
21:15 False Needs
26:27 Need vs Desire
36:00 Need to Understand
44:55 Narcissisus
48:50 Shadow Self
50:50 Need for Balance
53:00 The Drama Triangle

#narrativepsychology #mentalhealth #personalgrowth

This podcast looks at the complex world of incels (involuntary celibates), exploring their psychology through the Five Factor Model of Personality (Big Five). Outlining how traits like neuroticism, extraversion, and agreeableness shape their worldview, alongside the role of covert narcissism and chronic loneliness in their identity.

Drawing from psychological research and philosophical insights, this video examines the emotional and social struggles behind the incel phenomenon, offering a thought-provoking look at personality dynamics, self-perception, and the human need for connection.

References:

Cacioppo, J. T., & Patrick, W. (2008). Loneliness: Human nature and the need for social connection. W. W. Norton & Company.

Donnelly, D., Burgess, E., Anderson, S., Davis, R., & Dillard, J. (2019). Involuntary celibacy: A life course analysis. Aggressive Behavior  https://doi.org/10.1002/ab.21823

Hawkley, L. C., & Cacioppo, J. T. (2021). Loneliness matters: A theoretical and empirical review of consequences and mechanisms. The Lancet Psychiatry https://doi.org/10.1016/S2215-0366(20)30397-8

Holt-Lunstad, J., Smith, T. B., Baker, M., Harris, T., & Stephenson, D. (2019). Loneliness and social isolation as risk factors for mortality: A meta-analytic review. Health Psychology  https://doi.org/10.1037/hea0000759

Joiner, T. E., & Van Orden, K. A. (2022). Loneliness and mental health: A meta-analysis. Journal of Affective Disorders https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jad.2021.12.045

Pfattheicher, S., Geiger, M., Hartung, J., Weiss, S., & Schindler, S. (2020). Vulnerable narcissism and the dark side of rejection: Evidence from interpersonal interactions. Social Psychological and Personality Science https://doi.org/10.1177/1948550619878765

Primack, B. A., Shensa, A., Sidani, J. E., Whaite, E. O., Lin, L. Y., Rosen, D., Colditz, J. B., Radovic, A., & Miller, E. (2021). Social media use and perceived social isolation among young adults in the U.S. Nature Human Behaviour  https://doi.org/10.1038/s41562-021-01096-4

Twenge, J. M. (2022, May). The sad state of young men: Loneliness, disconnection, and the rise of isolation. The Atlantic. https://www.theatlantic.com

Wilson, R. E., Harris, K., & Vazire, S. (2023). Loneliness and cognitive rigidity: An experimental investigation. Psychological Science https://doi.org/10.1177/09567976221124689

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Stalking is defined as repeated and persistent unwanted communications, approaches and intrusions into someone’s life, into their privacy, and there are many levels to it. It can a form of mental assault.

This video looks at the different kinds of stalker, (rejected, resentful, incompetent, intimacy seeker and predator) as well as the difference between when the stalker is stranger and someone you know, such as an ex partner. Looking also at the impact being stalked can have on victims.

For more information and content visit:

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James and Teri Craft invited mo onto their channel to discuss navigating relationships with narcissistic people, betrayal trauma and managing boundaries. They have very kindly allowed me to share our conversation.

For help and support contact James and Teri:

Get the course on Betrayal Trauma:
"What Now? The Couples Guide to Surviving Crisis in Marriage" here:
marriagehealth.org/what-now?

Link for James and Teri's course: https://www.marriagehealth.org/link/hHyGp6?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.marriagehealth.org%2Fwhat-now

Caz McGovern is an award-winning filmmaker and writer based in London, England. Her movie ‘They Don’t Leave’ has been screened at 15 festivals and won the ‘Best Suspense Short’ award at four of them, along with receiving ‘The Big Sky Film Grant’.

Caz also has a diagnosis of Bipolar Type 2. In this podcast we talk about her career and creativity,  ands as you’ll hear from our conversation, how her diagnosis doesn’t define her or hold her back.

You can find Caz and her work at:
Personal Instagram - @cazmcgovernscore
They Don’t Leave’s Instagram - @theydontleave
www.cmvideoarts.com

Watch "They Don't Leave' at:
https://bit.ly/49gYJgc 

#bipolar #theydon'tleave #mentalhealthmatters

The Dark Tetrad refers to a set of four personality traits linked to exploitative and harmful behaviours. It builds on the Dark Triad, which includes Machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, by adding a fourth trait: sadism. These traits are linked to cruel, manipulative, self-centered, and antisocial behaviours.

This podcast is the fourth part in a series looking at the different elements of the dark Tetrad, focusing on how narcissism co-occurs with the other traits and how it manifests in personal relationships, workplaces and society as a whole.

#darktetrad #narcissism #darkpersonality

You can also watch via my YouTube Channel at: https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee 

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Sarika Singh is an award winning communications coach and seasoned public speaker with almost three decades helping individuals, groups and teams understand and improve their self confidence, their communication skills, whether written or verbal.

She is also an online content creator and host of the ‘Communicate 101: Speaking and Writing Skills” Podcast where she discusses many different aspects of communication and regularly shares tips and ideas to help others improve how they express themselves.

Whether in our interpersonal relationships, workplace or in society we discuss the importance of good communication, self confidence, conflict resolution, how to negotiate for yourself and how to say 'no'.

00:00 Intro
01:01 About Sarika
07:22 Facing what you fear
08:17 Imposter Syndrome
12:37 Poor communication in relationships
17:50 Communication styles
21:24 Importance of listening
23:30 Dealing with rejection when negotiating
26:37 Finding it hard to say no, poor boundaries
33:56 Dealing with manipulation
36:02 Finding space to resolve conflict
37:04 Reaction vs Response
39:52 Listening and acknowledging
41:42 Asking for clarity

Find Sarika at:
https://sarikasingh.in/ 
https://www.instagram.com/communicate101/
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/communicate101-speaking-writing-tips/id1695086852

#communicationskills #bettercommunication #personaldevelopment

Mark Vicente is an award winning film maker and author. He is a former member, and one of the whistle blowers that exposed the criminal activities going on in the nexium cult. His story is chronicled in the HBO series, ‘The Vow’.

He is host of the ‘WTF is on my mind?’ podcast and YouTube channel where he discusses, among other things, narcissism, coercive behaviours, dark personality and cult behaviours often seen in everyday life.

I had the pleasure of talking to Mark about NXIVM, and his journey from member to whistle blower, the personality types behind cult movements and how they mirror the same dynamics and patterns found in romantic relationships, families and organisations dominated by narcissists.

More details about Mark and his work can be found at:

WEBSITES
https://www.markvicente.com/
https://www.empathynotincluded.com/

PODCAST & SOCIALS
https://www.youtube.com/@markvicente7
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/wtf-is-on-my-mind/id1646783869

https://www.instagram.com/markvicente/
https://www.tiktok.com/@mark_vicente
https://x.com/markvicente

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You can also watch this conversation on my Youtube Channel.
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#cults #NXIVM #narcissisticpsychopathy

Sara Davison, best known as ‘The Divorce Coach’ is a multi award-winning Coach, twice best selling author and podcast host of 'Heartbreak to Happiness'.

She joins me today to talk about what to expect when separating or divorcing a narcissistic person, post separation abuse, and some ideas to help navigate your way through.

For more details about Sara, her work, or for information on how to train as a divorce coach visit:
https://www.saradavison.com/

Youtube Channel
https://www.youtube.com/@SaraDavison

Sara can also be found on X
@SDDivorceCoach

And Instagram
@saradavisondivorcecoach 

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#postseparationabuse #saradavison #divorcecoach

The Five Factor Model describes personality using five broad dimensions: Openness to Experience, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. These traits are considered to capture the essential elements of human personality.

Professor Ed Dutton, aka The Jolly Heretic, is an Evolutionary Psychology Researcher. In this podcast we discuss the five factor model from an evolutionary perspective, looking at the different traits, the development of personality, how they can change over time, social groups, partner selection etc. Ed also outlines the characteristics of NPD and BPD through the model.

There was so much in our conversation I'll be uploading it in two parts, so stay tuned for more from our discussion.

Ed can be found on Youtube and Substack at:
https://www.youtube.com/@TheJollyHeretic 
https://substack.com/@thejollyheretic

#personalitydevelopment #fivefactormodel #psychology

Psychopaths can be charming and charismatic, often making a strong initial impression. They use their charm to manipulate others and control their partners. They may lie frequently and convincingly, using deception to create a facade that hides their true nature.

Common characteristics include being callous and having a disregard for the safety of others. They can be quite parasitical, impulsive and engage in anti social behaviours.

It can be part of the the Dark Tetrad which consists of narcissism, psychopathy, Machiavelliansim and Sadism. People with these traits often create environments and relationships based on fear, conflict and instability.

This podcast looks at the psychopathy element of the tetrad and how it co occurs with the other traits.

Check out my YouTube channel for more content: https://www.youtube.com/c/DarrenFMagee 

#psychopathy #darktetrad 

Alex Khan has a YouTube channel where, among other things, he discusses motivation, manifestation and self improvement. he invited me onto his channel to discuss the common traits and motivations behind narcissism. This is our conversation.

Alex's channel can be found at https://www.youtube.com/@Alex_Khan

John-Paul Davies is a therapist based in the UK. He is the author of "Finding a Balanced Connection" and has a YouTube channel where he discussed mental health related issues and has conversations with other therapists.

He invited me onto his channel where we discussed the nature of narcissism in the context of personal, romantic and professional relationships. This was our conversation. Hope you find it interesting

For more content visit my YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@DarrenFMagee

John-Paul Davies https://www.youtube.com/@JohnPaulDaviesTTP 

#narcissism #narcissism #John-PaulDavies



https://www.youtube.com/@JohnPaulDaviesTTP

Dr Darren Haber is a psychotherapist based in California and author of " Addiction, Accommodation and Vulnerability in Psychoanalysis: Circles without Centres"

 In this podcast we discuss the nature of addiction and the path to recovery.

For more information visit: https://therapistinlosangeles.com/

Darren's Substack can be found at: https://substack.com/@darrenhaber 

Darren's book can be found on Amazon:
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Machiavellianism is characterised by being manipulative, duplicitous and having a willingness to deceive and exploit others for personal gain. The word comes from Italian philosopher Niccolò Machiavelli, who wrote the 'The Prince' in the 1500s, which encourages “the end justifies the means” behaviour. Someone who is machiavellian is cunning, sneaky and lacks a moral code.

This podcast looks at Machiavellianism in the context of The Dark Tetrad, which also consists of psychopathy, narcissism and sadism, outlining the nature of Machiavellian behaviour in the context of the other three also co occuring.

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Bryan Ingram is a social media influencer and award winning mental health advocate. He has Quiet Borderline Personality Disorder, which he describes as the 'scapegoated disorder'.  I initially spoke with Bryan in October 2022 about living with Quiet BPD and his work as a mental health advocate.

We have had a catch up chat where he discusses life since then, how therapy has helped him on his journey and his recent move into stand up comedy.

He's a fascinating guy with a great sense of humour. Enjoy our chat.

Bryan has a range of content on mental health issues and his comedy routines on Youtube, TikTok and Instagram
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Although sadistic personality in no longer part of the DSM there has been recent renewed interest in research, particularly as a component of the Dark Tetrad, which also contains traits of psychopathy, narcissism and Machiavellianism.

This podcast looks at the sadistic side of the Dark Tetrad and gives examples of how it manifests when co-morbid with the other traits.

If you've spent anytime on social media at some point you've interacted with a Troll. These are people who can be rude, disrespectful and sometimes even threatening. But who are they? What motivates someone to be antagonistic towards complete strangers?

In this podcast I discuss different kinds of trolls from the pest, to those who are desperate for any kind of attention, to those who are threatening and sadist. I look at the different motivations behind their behaviour and the motivations involved.

Dr Ruth Ann Harpur is a clinical psychologist with experience and expertise in relationships, and  different personality types. We had a chat about the dynamics that take place in unhealthy, toxic, abusive relationships, some of the obstacles to recovery, the impact of abuse and some ideas to help navigate a better future.

Visit Ruth's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drruthannharpur