The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast

Comfort Food and Christmas Chaos | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | S2 E5

Wed, 10 Dec 2025 09:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Jenna and Ashley dive into the chaos and magic of the holiday season. They discuss the importance of traditions, the comfort of holiday foods, and the unexpected challenges that can arise, such as holiday injuries. The conversation also touches on the Elf on the Shelf tradition, the emotional weight of Christmas music, and the pressure to create a magical experience for families. Through laughter and shared stories, they explore how to navigate the complexities of the holiday season while embracing the joy it brings.

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ABOUT OUR HOSTS:

Jenna von Oy: Best known for her iconic role as Six on the 90s sitcom Blossom, Jenna brings her trademark wit, charm, and unapologetic snark to the podcast. A seasoned author and mother, Jenna delights in celebrating life’s ups and downs…preferably with a margarita in hand.

Ashley Robyn: Author, speaker, and a self-proclaimed internet meme queen, Ashley is a master at turning vulnerability into a pep rally. Known for her love of boba tea and spaghetti (never together), she brings warmth, humor, and depth to every conversation.

Skibidi and Skittles | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | S2 Ep. 4

Mon, 01 Dec 2025 06:00:00 -0600

In this light-hearted conversation, Jenna and Ashley work really hard to decode Gen Z and Gen Alpha Slang. And no episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast is complete without several off topic side quests! Tune in now to find out just what it means if you've recently been called "unc"

The Cassandra Project | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | S2 Ep.3

Mon, 24 Nov 2025 07:00:00 -0600

In this episode of the Big F*cking Feelings podcast, hosts Jenna von Oy and Ashley welcome filmmaker Barclay DeVeau to discuss the Cassandra Project, a trilogy of films that highlight the importance of women's voices and the dangers of being disregarded. The conversation flows from personal anecdotes and friendship to the challenges faced by women in various fields, including filmmaking. The trio emphasizes the need for systemic change and the power of storytelling in advocating for women's rights. They also share their experiences with gaslighting and the importance of community support in grassroots projects.

The Cassandra Project is a scripted trilogy of short films that exposes the dangerous reality of what happens when women aren’t believed. Three films. Three women. Three warnings. And one terrifying truth: ignoring women’s voices puts everyone at risk.

Inspired by creator and filmmaker Barclay DeVeau’s own medical gaslighting ordeal—months of fighting for a diagnosis while doctors dismissed her pain—the series amplifies a story far too many women know firsthand.

Born from lived experience and shaped by countless silenced voices, The Cassandra Project is a powerful call to pay attention, believe women, and understand the life-or-death stakes of being dismissed.

Learn more about how to support The Cassandra Project on their website: thecassandraproject.net and follow on Instagram: instagram.com/cassandraprojectfilm

Tequila and Text Messages I Should Never Have Sent | S2 Ep. 2

Wed, 05 Nov 2025 08:00:00 -0600

In this episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna and Ashley pour one out (literally) for tequila...the friend, the foe, and the reason your phone is on “Do Not Recall.” 🍸💅

They’re swapping tragic-yet-iconic tequila tales, decoding the five archetypes of drinkers (from “Shots Girlie” to “Philosopher After Two Margaritas”), and reliving the texts that should’ve stayed drafts. Somewhere between karaoke disasters and emotional hangovers, they find the cure: laughter, besties, and a greasy breakfast burrito.

Basically, it’s therapy, but louder and with salt on the rim. 🫶

Costumes and Chaos: Halloween Nostalgia | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | S2 Ep. 1

Mon, 27 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Big F*cking Feelings, Jenna and Ashley dive into the Halloween spirit, sharing nostalgic stories about costumes, childhood memories, and celebrity sightings. They discuss their personal experiences with Halloween, including funny mishaps and the evolution of costumes over the years. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they debate the merits of candy corn and reflect on the cultural significance of Halloween costumes, including the rise of slutty costumes and their implications. The episode is filled with laughter, relatable anecdotes, and a candid exploration of their feelings about Halloween and its traditions.

Pizza and Perfectionism | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 11

Mon, 28 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Jenna uncorks some wine and we spiral into an unfiltered deep dive on pizza preferences, perfectionism, rogue Goldfish crackers, vehicular mullets, and why folding your pizza slice is basically a moral imperative.

Along the way, we ask the big questions:

Is a fruit pizza still a pizza?
Why does Norway eat the most pizza per capita?
Can color-coordinating your closet fix your life?
And exactly how many Kleenexes must a woman walk through before she demands a clean car?

Plus, we toast to crispy crusts, imperfect homes, and the beautiful messiness of realizing that everything and everyone is lovable, even when it is not perfect.

Grab a slice (or a label maker) and dive in. It is chaos, but it is our favorite kind.

Whining and Wine-ing | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 10

Mon, 14 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Wine in hand. Bra optional. Chaos inevitable.

In Episode 10 of The BFF Podcast, Jenna and Ashley spiral into the sweet, sticky mess of modern adulting...from dusty vodka cocktails and boxed wine confessions to changing your sheets (eventually) and why talking about gas prices is the final stage of becoming your parents.

🍷 Expect:
– The boxed wine that stole our hearts and possibly our judgment
– Cilantro cocktails and adult beverage improvisation
– Grocery store sticker shock and expired yogurt debates
– A passionate defense of clean sheets and nightly showers
– Existential dread, BotaBox loyalty (no we aren't sponsored!), and gulping anxiety (yes, it’s a thing)

This episode is for anyone who's ever skipped a party just to sit in silence, gotten overly excited about a new sponge, or felt personally attacked by their own ankle pain upon waking up.

🎧 Pour a glass (or whatever’s in your fridge), hit play, and remember: adulting isn’t about having it together—it’s about pretending convincingly while sipping something strong.

Danishes and Dramaticity | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 9

Mon, 07 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0500

We came for the pastries. We stayed for the plot twists. And the dog pee.

In this delightfully offbeat episode, Jenna and Ashley unpack the art of dramaticity...a totally made-up word that absolutely belongs in the dictionary. From bakery betrayals to Kroger danish emergencies, this one’s layered like a croissant and twice as flaky.

Expect:
🥐 A pastry detour that ends with anatomical desserts
🎭 The difference between being dramatic and being a whole drama
🐶 A dog escape, a brave sneaker rescue, and nervous peeing (not ours, promise)
💇‍♀️ Clip-on bangs and the quiet despair they carry
💔 The middle school moment that still lives rent-free in Ashley’s soul

It’s real, ridiculous, and surprisingly relatable...because sometimes adulthood is just carbs, chaos, and trying not to cry in the bakery aisle.

🎧 Listen to Episode 9: “Danishes and Dramaticity” now wherever you get your podcasts.

Bagels and Braving Roadtrips with Courtney Chase | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 8

Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:00:00 -0500

We braved the bagel discourse. We swapped road trip survival tips. We summoned a super hero and Baby Daddy. And we did it all with our very first guest: Courtney Chase—former child actor, real-life Gerber Baby, and current badass mom-of-two.

In this extra-toasty episode of The BFF Podcast, Jenna and Ashley welcome Courtney to talk about the chaos, comedy, and questionable snack choices that come with traveling with kids, the magic of New York bagels, and why patience is basically a superpower with a car seat.

🎒 Expect:

🥯 A passionate defense of egg everything bagels

🧳 Pandemic road trip horror stories

💥 The deeply weird lore of “Baby Daddy” the doll

😳 The art of NOT handing out bribe bags to strangers on flights

🧘‍♀️ How to stay Zen when your child becomes feral at 30,000 feet

Plus, a toast to delirious road snacks, dirty cupholders, and why we don’t leash our children… but we get it.

This might be our wildest yet. Hit play, grab a snack (preferably not from a car floor), and let the chaos comfort you.

Lasagna and Learning To Say No | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 7

Mon, 24 Mar 2025 12:00:00 -0500

What do lasagna and boundaries have in common? They both rely on layers, heat, and a little bit of mess to come together beautifully.

In this deliciously unfiltered episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna and Ashley serve up homemade lasagna (with a controversial cottage cheese twist 😳) and plunge headfirst into the art of saying no. From guilty cancellations and people-pleasing spirals to empowering their kids to speak up for themselves, they explore how saying no can be an act of self-respect, not rebellion.

🍷 Also inside:

🥄 The real reason lasagna tastes like a therapy session

🥊 Why toddlers might be the best no-sayers on the planet

💅 How to stop over-explaining and start protecting your peace

👑 And a toast to Garfield, excessive cheese, and unapologetic boundaries

Pull up a plate, pour the wine, and let’s talk boundaries.

Empanadas and Embarrassing Moments | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 6

Mon, 17 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0500

What do giant empanadas, humiliating high school moments, and a deeply regrettable red lacy bra have in common? Absolutely nothing. And yet, here we are.

In this chaotic and hilarious episode of The BFF Podcast, Ashley and Jenna serve up freshly stolen empanada recipes, unpack mortifying memories that still haunt them, and question why middle schoolers are the most ruthless creatures on earth.

🔥 Inside this episode:
🥟 Ashley reveals the Argentinian empanada recipe she totally didn’t steal.
🤦‍♀️ Jenna recalls the time she lost a tooth at P.F. Chang’s in front of the Tennessee Titans.
🎭 The tragic story of Ashley’s head vs. a two-by-four (spoiler: the wood won).
💀 Why bra shopping as a teen celebrity is a literal nightmare.

It’s unfiltered. It’s unhinged. It’s exactly what you need in your life today.

🎧 Listen now or find us on YouTube for the video version!

Cozy Clichés and Fuzzy Socks | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 5

Mon, 10 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0500

What do fuzzy socks, Southern clichés, and the global domination of outdated sayings have in common? Absolutely nothing. And yet, here we are.

In this delightfully unhinged episode of The BFF Podcast, Ashley and Jenna deep-dive into big feelings about fuzzy socks, the existential crisis of clichés that refuse to evolve, and why "everything happens for a reason" is the worst thing you can say to a grieving friend (fight us).

🔹 Do psychopaths sleep in socks? Science has answers.

🔹 Are we still saying “sell like hotcakes” when no one even knows what a hotcake is?

🔹 Can AI finally save us from outdated clichés, or is it just the microwave of technology?

🔹 And… what the hell does “slicker than snot” actually mean?

It’s cozy. It’s chaotic. It’s exactly the kind of conversation that makes you laugh, think, and possibly reconsider your life choices.

🎧 Listen now—and let us know in the comments: Are you Team Sleep Socks or Team No Socks Forever?

SPAM Squared | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 4

Mon, 03 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0600

Warning: This episode may cause excessive laughter, existential grocery store regret, and a sudden urge to check your junk folder.

Ever wondered what connects canned meat and the digital junkmail that haunts your inbox? Neither did we. And yet, here we are.

In this highly questionable episode of The BFF Podcast, Ashley and Jenna embark on a courageous (some might say misguided) journey into the world of Spam (the food) and spam (the inbox menace). One was force-fed to WWII soldiers; the other was force-fed to you when you simply went to open a bank account. Both are hard to digest.

🍖 We taste-test Spam fries (spoiler: bad idea)
📩 Solve the mystery of why your email looks like your kitchen junk drawer
🐍 Discuss the one Russian guy who personally sent 30% of the world’s spam (and probably still sleeps great at night)
🏛 Debate whether the Spam Museum is a place of history, horror, or both

We also sip cheap wine out of deeply questionable glassware, discuss why Spam has a longer shelf life than our childhood dreams, and attempt to answer life’s biggest question: Why does this stuff still exist?

🎧 Listen now before we all get buried in an inbox avalanche and/or canned meat surplus.

Tacos and Toxic Positivity | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 3

Mon, 24 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0600

Ashley’s taco plans got hijacked. Jenna insists tacos might be sandwiches. LeBron James tried to trademark Taco Tuesday (and failed). And somehow, we still had time to unpack why toxic positivity is emotional gaslighting wrapped in a Pinterest aesthetic.

LISTEN NOW: Because not talking about your feelings is so 2005.

WATCH on YouTube, because tacos are a personality test.

Pickles and the Pink Pandemic | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 2

Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0600

Welcome to another silly goose episode of The BFF Podcast!

This time, we dive deep into the pink pandemic; from regrettable wardrobe choices to an infamous bathroom that should have its own reality show.

We discuss pickle juice as the ultimate hangover cure (or just pure punishment?), whiskey with an unfortunate name, and why Taylor Swift was the true star of last night’s dance party. Plus, we uncover the shocking history of the color pink, a massive bathroom accessory that no one saw coming, and why some childhood snacks should never be revisited. Grab a drink (maybe not pickle juice) and get ready for some big f*cking feelings! Cheers!

The Boohoo Breakfast | The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast | Episode 1

Mon, 10 Feb 2025 10:00:00 -0600

What happens when two emotionally over-caffeinated besties meet at a kindergarten orientation called The Boohoo Breakfast? Chaos, bonding, and a lifelong friendship sparked in a sea of Kleenex and questionable parenting decisions.

In this debut episode of The Big F*cking Feelings Podcast, Jenna von Oy (*yes, Six from Blossom) and Ashley Robyn (yeah, that girl you've never heard of) cannonball into the deep end of big feelings, overthinking, and the fine art of pretending you have your life together while a toddler scales you like Mount Everest.

We break down:
🥂 Why "everything happens for a reason" is a terrible lie
🌮 The sacred ritual of Taco Therapy (snacks = life)
🤝 Making mom friends when you're just trying to keep your kid from eating crayons
🎙 The raw, unfiltered reason we started this podcast...spoiler: it involves cold coffee and a desire for community.

So grab your drink of choice (cocktails highly encouraged) and settle in for a ride through the messy, hilarious, and painfully relatable reality of being human.

👉 Hit play now!