Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician

The Ethical Failure Behind the Closure of Gender-Affirming Care Clinics (#79)

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 00:00:00 -0600

This episode explores the ethical failure behind the closure of gender affirming care clinics and what happens when patients are left without continuity of care. Through a medical ethics lens, it explains why abruptly discontinuing treatment places transgender and gender diverse youth at risk regardless of personal or political beliefs.

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How Do You Know If You Should Share Your Pronouns? (#78)

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Why do some people share their pronouns while others hesitate? And how do you know what’s right for you?
In this episode, I break down why pronoun sharing should never be mandatory, and why it still carries real meaning. We’ll look at how sharing pronouns can signal safety, why it can put some people in difficult positions, and what it communicates when you choose to include them.

If you're a provider or someone who wants to create a more inclusive environment, this episode offers a grounded, practical way to think about pronouns and their role in helping people feel safe.

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What One Word Tells Us About Gender Today (77)

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Language shifts long before most people notice it, and when one word keeps resurfacing, it’s worth asking why.

In this episode, I walk through a single term that’s showing up more often in conversations about gender and what its resurgence might be telling us about the moment we’re living in.

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DOJ Subpoenas Private Patient Info: Why It Matters Beyond Transgender Care (76)

Tue, 15 Jul 2025 00:00:00 -0500

On July 9th, the Department of Justice issued subpoenas to clinics, doctors, and even drug manufacturers connected to gender-affirming care. These subpoenas appear to include private patient information.

In this episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician, I explain why this affects far more than transgender patients. From patient trust to access to standard treatments like puberty blockers or hormones for non-trans conditions, this action has ripple effects across healthcare.

What happens when fear replaces trust in medicine?

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A Physician’s Response to U.S. v. Skrmetti (75)

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

What happens when legal decisions about healthcare don’t align with medical reasoning?

In this episode, A Physician’s Response to U.S. v. Skrmetti, I invite you to consider the recent court ruling through a medical lens. I walk through why some of the legal distinctions made in the case do not reflect how medicine works and how the decision departs from the way we provide care in similar situations.

If you believe these laws are about protecting kids, I hope you’ll listen with curiosity. At the end, I offer a simple way to reflect on whether your concerns are truly about the care itself or whether something else may be at play.

Listen now and share with someone who is open to hearing the medical perspective on gender-affirming care.

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Gender Matters Takes on The Protocol: Episode 1 Discussion

Tue, 17 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician, Dr. Shannon and Bandit kick off a new series in response to "The Protocol," The New York Times' limited podcast on gender-affirming care.

This first conversation centers on Episode 1, which explores the origin of youth medical transition. As a physician and longtime gender educator, Dr. Shannon dissects subtle moments of bias that might go unnoticed to most, but matter deeply in how the public understands transgender healthcare. Bandit brings a thoughtful outside perspective, asking the questions many listeners may be wondering themselves.

Whether you’ve already listened to The Protocol or you’re just curious what all the discussion is about, join us as we explore what’s said, what’s implied, and what’s missing.

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How Many Trans* Youth Retransition? Far Fewer Than You Think (73)

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

If you’ve ever wondered, “What if they change their mind?”—you’re not alone. This episode breaks down the newest data on how often trans youth stop hormone therapy and retransition to a cisgender identity.

We walk through a 2025 study of over 1,000 adolescents and explore what it really tells us—about numbers, nuance, and how we think about gender-affirming care.

📚 Citation:
Boskey ER, Scheffey KL, Pilcher S, et al. A Retrospective Cohort Study of Transgender Adolescents' Gender-Affirming Hormone Discontinuation. J Adolesc Health. 2025;76(4):584–591. doi:10.1016/j.jadohealth.2024.11.002

Olson KR, Durwood L, Horton R, Gallagher NM, Devor A. Gender Identity 5 Years After Social Transition. Pediatrics. 2022;150(2):e2021056082. doi:10.1542/peds.2021-056082

van der Loos MATC, Hannema SE, Klink DT, den Heijer M, Wiepjes CM. Continuation of gender-affirming hormones in transgender people starting puberty suppression in adolescence: a cohort study in the Netherlands. Lancet Child Adolesc Health. 2022;6(12):869-875. doi:10.1016/S2352-4642(22)00254-1

Roberts CM, Klein DA, Adirim TA, Schvey NA, Hisle-Gorman E. Continuation of Gender-affirming Hormones Among Transgender Adolescents and Adults. J Clin Endocrinol Metab. 2022;107(9):e3937-e3943. doi:10.1210/clinem/dgac251

Gupta P, Patterson BC, Chu L, et al. Adherence to Gender Affirming Hormone Therapy in Transgender Adolescents and Adults: A Retrospective Cohort Study. J Clin Endocrinol Metab. 2023;108(11):e1236-e1244. doi:10.1210/clinem/dgad306

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Utah’s Gender-Affirming Care Findings: One Doctor, One Outsider, One Honest Conversation (72)

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Bandit is back!

This time to talk through Utah’s newly released findings on gender-affirming care for youth. In this episode, we break down what the report actually says, why it matters, and why it’s being ignored.

One of us is a physician. The other? A thoughtful outsider with no personal stake in the issue—just honest questions shaped by headlines and algorithms.

Together, we explore what gender-affirming care really includes, how misinformation spreads, and what it means when good science is excluded from political decisions.

Real conversation still matters, and this one doesn’t shy away.

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Fertility and Youth Gender-Affirming Care: Facts, Assumptions, and Unknowns (71)

Tue, 27 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500

What if the thing you’ve been told is a fact… is actually just an assumption?

In this episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician, we take a closer look at fertility and gender-affirming care for youth. From social and medical transition to puberty blockers and hormones, we break down what we know, what we don’t, and what we’re still trying to learn.

If fertility concerns are shaping your views on gender-affirming care, this episode offers a clear, data-informed foundation—free from hype, fear, or assumption.

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Part 2: Gender Q&A Without Judgment—A Conversation You Might Need Too (70)

Tue, 20 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this follow-up episode, I answer honest gender questions from a friend in a space grounded in curiosity, not debate. We talk about student names, parental rights, and how to handle pronoun mistakes with care. A practical, thoughtful conversation for anyone still learning and wanting to understand more.

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Rapid Onset Gender Dysphoria: Fictional Truth or Truly Fictional (69)

Tue, 13 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500

"Rapid onset gender dysphoria" sounds urgent, but is it even real? In this episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician, I trace the origins of the term, explore why it resonates with some parents, and explain why the science does not support it.

We look at how the idea caught on, what is missing from the research, and what is actually happening when teens come out. Spoiler: it is not rapid, and it is definitely not simple.

Whether you are a provider, a parent, or just curious, this episode will help you move beyond headlines and toward understanding.

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Gender Q&A with a Curious and Unfamiliar Friend (68)

Tue, 06 May 2025 00:00:00 -0500

This week’s episode is a little different.

I invited a friend I’ve known since high school onto the podcast to ask me anything about gender. He describes himself as curious but unfamiliar with the topic, and while he’s never felt personally connected to the conversation, he’s been wondering why so many others care deeply.

He didn’t tell me his questions ahead of time. This is an unscripted, honest exchange between two friends. One is trying to understand what all the noise is about, and the other is trying to make it less noisy.

If you’ve ever felt unsure how to start learning about gender or how to talk to someone who is, this episode might give you a way in.

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Transgender Rights Aren't 'Far-Left.' They're Human Rights. (67)

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Transgender rights are often mislabeled as a "far-left" issue, but that framing erases the humanity at the center of the conversation. In this episode, I call out the confusion between political strategies and basic human rights, and why it's crucial to remember we're talking about people, not politics.

I also share a list of memoirs and stories to deepen your understanding, including:

Sissy by Jacob Tobia
Pageboy by Elliot Page
Redefining Realness by Janet Mock
Tomorrow Will Be Different by Sarah McBride
All Boys Aren't Blue by George M. Johnson
Becoming Nicole by Amy Ellis Nutt
Love Wins Out by Dr. Rizi N.B. Timane
Letters for My Brothers by Megan Rohrer and Zander Keig

Correction: In the episode, I mistakenly said Love Wins Out was written by Dr. Rizi N.B. Nutt. The correct author is Dr. Rizi N.B. Timane.

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Who’s Protecting Kids? Supporters or Deniers of Gender-Affirming Care? The Elephant Test (66)

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Everyone says they’re protecting kids. But what does real protection look like?

Inspired by elephants during a San Diego earthquake, this episode offers a five-part “elephant test” for adults on all sides of the gender-affirming care debate. Whether you're supporting or opposing care, are you truly protecting the children you claim to defend?

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Perfect or Banned? The Double Standard in Gender-Affirming Care (65)

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

Why is gender-affirming care expected to be flawless when no other area of medicine is? In this episode, we unpack what “perfection” really means in this context—the idea that even one bad outcome is treated not as an individual case to learn from, but as evidence that the entire system is broken.

In most areas of medicine, unusual outcomes are examined as outliers. But with gender-affirming care, those rare exceptions often overshadow the thousands of positive, life-saving experiences. We explore how that double standard fuels fe

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Even If You Don't Believe It, Sex and Gender Are Not the Same (64)

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

The common misuse of the term “Spanish” to describe any Spanish-speaking patient stuck with me—and years later, it became the perfect analogy for a much deeper misunderstanding: the difference between sex and gender. In this episode, I explore why definitions matter and how neither public opinion nor executive orders change the biological and social realities these terms represent.

What happens when the facts stay the same, but the language—and the laws—don’t?

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Transgender Visibility: A Computer, a Loved One, History, and Hope (63)

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0500

In this special episode, I step away from my usual format to share a personal story that lives at the intersection of visibility, history, and love.

What does it mean for a young transgender person to see themselves reflected in the world? And how can families, even those who don’t share the same identity, offer connection through shared learning?

Join me at my computer—literally—where years ago, I sat with someone I love and explored the lives of transgender pioneers. This quiet act became a powerful bridge between past and future, between uncertainty and pride.

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From Headlines to Half-Truths: The Stories Shaping Transgender Rights (62)

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500

We all know numbers can be misleading—but what happens when distorted facts are used to justify taking away people’s rights?

In this episode, I break down some of the most common narratives used to stir fear and confusion about transgender people—from bathrooms to sports to military service. Many of these stories aren’t just misleading—they’re factually incorrect. Still, they continue to shape public opinion and policy.

Rather than offer quick answers, this episode invites you to look more critically at how information is presented. Because when it comes to transgender rights, the truth often gets buried beneath sensational headlines and selective storytelling.

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How Homeland Security’s Policy Change Affects Transgender Patients

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500

A recent change to Homeland Security policy has raised serious concerns for transgender individuals and their families. In this episode, we explore how the removal of gender identity from protected categories could impact privacy, safety, and trust—both in society and within medical spaces.

For healthcare providers, this shift isn’t just political—it directly affects patient relationships and the information patients feel safe disclosing. We’ll discuss what physicians need to know, how past policies have already harmed transgender patients, and what you can do to maintain trust in your practice.

Are you thinking differently about medical privacy after this episode? Listen now and share your thoughts.

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Scientific Integrity in the Transgender Sports Debate (60)

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500

When discussing transgender girls in sports, accuracy matters. No matter your stance, one correction is essential: transgender girls are not "boys playing girls’ sports." This distinction isn't just about respect—it’s about scientific accuracy.

In this episode, I break down why this mislabeling is biologically incorrect and how it has fueled broad bans on transgender athletes. I also discuss recent research on physical differences among transgender and cisgender athletes and why precise language is crucial in both science and policy.

📝 Correction: The study mentioned in this episode was published in April 2024, not October 2024 as stated.

📖 Referenced Study:
Hamilton B, Brown A, Montagner-Moraes S, et al. Strength, power and aerobic capacity of transgender athletes: a cross-sectional study. British Journal of Sports Medicine. 2024;58:586-597.

Listen now and share with colleagues—because integrity in medicine starts with getting the facts right.

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Everywhere but Unnecessary: Rethinking Sex Markers in Healthcare

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Does Your Hospital System Need to Reassess?

Sex markers are everywhere in healthcare—from ID bracelets to patient boards—but does their constant presence actually help deliver better care? Or does it do more harm than good? In this episode, I challenge the assumption that displaying sex everywhere improves patient care. You’ll learn how this overlooked detail leads to misgendering, incorrect assumptions about anatomy, and discomfort for many patients—cis and trans alike.

It’s time for a reassessment. What would happen if we only displayed sex where it’s truly needed? Listen in to explore how a simple change could improve patient experience and medical excellence.

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Think You're Gender Competent? A Reality Check (58)

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Think your department has gender competency covered? What if the very confidence that you're "good" is the biggest red flag?

In this episode, I break down the common pitfalls of assuming gender competency is a one-and-done achievement. How do you measure real progress? What’s missing when your efforts aren’t reflected in patient experiences—or even on your website?

Listen in to challenge assumptions, adopt a growth mindset, and discover how improving gender competency benefits all patients. Because medical excellence requires continuous learning.

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The Executive Order That Divides: Staying Focused on Patients, Not Politics (57)

Tue, 18 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0600

When an executive order threatens gender-affirming care, emotions run high—for patients, families, and providers alike. It’s easy to feel frustrated, villainized, or even ready to walk away. But how do you stay committed to your values when the system makes it harder to do so?

Whether you directly provide gender-affirming care or simply support those who do, this episode offers insight into navigating frustration, staying grounded, and continuing to advocate for transgender and nonbinary patients.

I also share a helpful resource: the Mindful Healers Podcast with Jessie Mahoney, MD (https://www.jessiemahoneymd.com/mindful-healers-podcast).

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When Politics Scrubs ‘Transgender’—Here’s How Medicine Can Hold the Line

Tue, 11 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0600

As federal websites erase mentions of “transgender,” how can medical professionals ensure all patients remain visible? In this episode, Dr. Shannon breaks down the critical role providers play in upholding medical accuracy—not just for ethical care, but for scientific integrity.

She explains why distinguishing between sex and gender isn’t just inclusive—it’s essential for accurate medical practice. From ultrasound terminology to patient forms, she shares practical ways to ensure all sexes and all genders are recognized in healthcare.

Visibility isn’t political—it’s science. And it starts with the language we use every day.

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Building Trust with Transgender Patients: 5 Simple Changes, No Approval Needed (#55)

Mon, 03 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Creating a more welcoming environment for transgender and nonbinary patients doesn’t have to be complicated—or require board approval. In this episode, I share five small but meaningful changes any physician can make to signal awareness and reduce assumptions. While these steps don’t create true safety, they can help patients feel a bit more at ease and consider building trust with their provider.

Think you don’t have time for this? Think again. These “winks” take no extra time, but they might just make all the difference.

Challenge for the week: Choose one wink to adopt and put into practice with all your patients.

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Early Transition, Fewer Surgeries: The Overlooked Truth About Gender-Affirming Care

Mon, 27 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Early gender-affirming care can reduce the need for surgery later in life, but how many people realize this? In this episode, we uncover the overlooked truths about gender-affirming surgery, including why most surgeries in minors are actually performed on cisgender teens. If you’ve hesitated to support gender-affirming care for transgender youth, this conversation will challenge your assumptions and provide a clearer understanding of what’s really at stake.

Don’t keep these insights to yourself—share this episode with someone who has questions about gender-affirming care!

The study mentioned in this episode:
Dai D, Charlton BM, Boskey ER, et al. Prevalence of Gender-Affirming Surgical Procedures Among Minors and Adults in the US. JAMA Netw Open. 2024;7(6):e2418814. Published 2024 Jun 3.

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SURPRISE DROP: A Physicians Insights on the Two-Sex Executive Order

Wed, 22 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

This unscheduled episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician offers a medical perspective on the recent executive order redefining sex. I break down the order’s use of gendered language, omission of intersex individuals, and rejection of gender diversity, explaining why its claims conflict with scientific understanding.

Designed for healthcare providers, this episode fosters empathy and clarity on these important issues.

References:

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Too Young? Peripubertal Medical Transition for Transgender Patients

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

This episode explores the growing group of transgender patients who socially transitioned in childhood and pursue medical transition in adolescence. Decisions around medical transition are thoughtful and deliberate, and early affirmation provides unique advantages.

Understanding this journey is critical, even for adult providers, to better serve patients who began transitioning as children. A provider’s confidence in these matters strengthens patient relationships, improves satisfaction scores, and supports medical excellence.

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Why Social Transition Matters: Supporting Transgender Children

Mon, 13 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

What does social transition really mean for transgender children, and why does it matter? In this episode, I break down the realities of social transition—what it is, what it isn’t, and why it benefits transgender kids. With firsthand stories and research-backed insights, I address common questions and misconceptions, including how children understand their gender and whether social transition is reversible.

This episode is the first in a series designed to help healthcare providers understand the full journey of transgender patients who transitioned before puberty. Future episodes will explore medical and surgical transition, giving providers a clearer picture of the patients they will encounter in adulthood.

How does understanding social transition shape the way you support transgender patients and their families?

References & Resources:

Olson KR, Durwood L, DeMeules M, McLaughlin KA. Mental Health of Transgender Children Who Are Supported in Their Identities. Pediatrics. 2016 Mar;137(3):e20153223. doi: 10.1542/peds.2015-3223.
Reimagine Gender: Developmental Stages of Gender in Young Children
Olson KR, Durwood L, Horton R, Gallagher NM, Devor A. Gender Identity 5 Years After Social Transition. Pediatrics. 2022 Aug 1;150(2):e2021056082. doi: 10.1542/peds.2021-056082.
Durwood L, Kuvalanka KA, Kahn-Samuelson S, Jordan AE, Rubin JD, Schnelzer P, Devor AH, Olson KR. Retransitioning: The Experiences of Youth Who Socially Transition Genders More Than Once. Int J Transgend Health. 2022 Jun 29;23(4):409-427. doi: 10.1080/26895269.2022.2085224.

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A Missing Perspective: Adults Who Transitioned in Childhood

Mon, 06 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0600

Are you prepared to treat transgender adults who transitioned before puberty?

Most conversations about transgender healthcare focus on those who transition after puberty—but what about those who transition earlier in life? The first generation of transgender people who transitioned in childhood are now adults, yet many medical providers have never considered how their experiences and healthcare needs might differ.

In this episode, we begin a critical conversation about this often-overlooked perspective. What does it mean for a patient to have lived their entire adolescent and adult life in alignment with their gender? How might their medical, social, and psychological experiences differ from those who transition later? And why is it so important for providers to understand these differences?

This episode kicks off a multi-part series exploring the unique aspects of transitioning in childhood—covering social, medical, and surgical considerations. If you want to be fully prepared to provide informed, inclusive care, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss the upcoming episodes.

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ENCORE: Names & Pronouns--Understanding and Conquering the Challenge (49)

Mon, 30 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Learning new names and pronouns can feel daunting at first—but why is it so hard? In this encore episode, we dive into the brain’s role in learning and why it takes conscious effort to create new habits. You’ll gain a deeper understanding of the challenges involved and find encouragement to keep going, knowing it will get easier.

Along the way, I’ll share practical strategies to help you disrupt old patterns and build new ones, all while reminding you that the work is worth it—for everyone involved.

Listen now and join the journey…because pronouns matter.

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The NDAA and Gender-Affirming Care for Minors: A Political Battleground

Mon, 23 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Congress is doing something unprecedented—legislating healthcare coverage for TRICARE in a way it never has before. In this episode, I discuss H.R. 5009, the National Defense Authorization Act (NDAA), which includes a political amendment in Section 708 that directly affects patient care. This amendment, buried within a crucial bill funding our nation’s military defense, prohibits TRICARE from covering specific gender-affirming care for minors.

What does this mean for military families? And what are the broader implications for healthcare and patient rights when political amendments shape medical decisions? These questions weigh heavily on my mind as I explore the language of the bill, the medical concerns it raises, and the precedent it sets for future legislation.

I challenge you to step outside your comfort zone and explore a perspective you might not fully agree with. It’s okay to disagree—what matters is staying curious and open enough to listen without immediately shutting it down. Let’s commit to understanding, even if just for a moment, a different way of thinking.

Take the challenge. Share the episode. And let’s stay curious—because awareness matters.

If you want to read the bill, you can find it here.

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Big Opportunities for Less Than a Bottle of Water/Day

Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Start your journey toward inclusivity! This week, explore the School for Engendering Inclusivity—your resource for gender education, live office hours, and practical tools. With the holidays near, it’s the perfect time to prepare for meaningful conversations or a New Year’s resolution to be a better ally.

Plus, don’t miss our favorite episodes packed with actionable insights and a teaser for January’s unique series on pre-puberty transitions—essential knowledge for all physicians.

Learn more at engenderlove.com/courses!

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Medical Insights into the Supreme Court Debate on Gender-Affirming Care (#46)

Mon, 09 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

I dive into the medical arguments behind United States vs. Skrmetti—what’s said, what’s left unclear, and how subjective terms like “new” and “experimental” shape perceptions. You’ll hear why banning gender-affirming care for minors contradicts established medical practices and why these treatments deserve thoughtful understanding, not sweeping legislation.

If you’ve ever wondered how words influence decisions in healthcare debates, this episode is for you.

Listen now and follow the podcast for more insights at the intersection of gender and medicine.

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Don't Believe Everything You Hear: How to Evaluate Gender Expertise (#45)

Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Gender Matters: Insights from a Physician, we explore a challenge many face today: how to critically evaluate what we hear about gender from people we assume are “experts.” Just because someone holds a specific title or shares a personal connection to the topic doesn’t mean their perspective is comprehensive—or even accurate.

Join me as I share a fascinating story from a transgender conference that illustrates why one perspective isn’t universal, and learn how to ask the right questions to uncover where someone’s expertise truly lies. We'll also tackle the common human tendency to embrace voices that affirm our beliefs without fully understanding their background.

This episode challenges listeners to think critically and offers actionable steps for navigating expertise—without giving away too much.

Listen now to gain a better understanding of how to evaluate "experts" critically.

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Rep. Sarah McBride and the Bathroom Bill Myth: Who’s Really at Risk?

Mon, 25 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Representative Sarah McBride’s historic election should be a moment of progress, yet it’s met with a wave of anti-trans bathroom bills. These laws claim to protect, but who—or what—are they really protecting against?

In this episode, we unpack the myths fueling this legislation, examine the real safety statistics, and challenge you to reflect: What do you think is unsafe, and why?

Join us as we explore the truth behind the rhetoric and ask the question: Who’s really at risk?

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Why Bother with Gender-Inclusive Care? It’s About More Than Just ‘a Few’ (#43)

Mon, 18 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Providing gender-inclusive care aligns with the very foundation of medicine, honoring each patient as a unique individual. In this episode, we reveal how inclusive language goes beyond serving a few—it’s an essential part of patient-centered care that elevates care for all.

Join us to see how small changes in language can strengthen trust, foster connection, and fulfill our highest responsibilities as providers.

Special thanks to Trudi Lebron, CEO of the Institute of Equity-Centered Coaching, for the inspiring elevator analogy that illustrates how inclusive practices benefit everyone.

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After the Presidential Election: What Physicians Can Do Now for Transgender/Nonbinary Patients (#42)

Mon, 11 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In the wake of the recent presidential election, many transgender and nonbinary patients—and their families—are grappling with renewed uncertainty and concerns for their safety, respect, and access to care. As physicians, we have an opportunity to play a key role in addressing these fears and providing the support our patients need now more than ever.

In this episode, I share insights on what I’m hearing from patients and families, the common questions and concerns they bring, and why these worries matter for every healthcare provider. We’ll explore responses that help, approaches that don’t, and practical steps that strengthen reassurance in your practice, no matter your specialty.

Are you prepared to address the concerns your transgender and nonbinary patients may bring to the exam room? Listen in to explore how you can be a reliable source of support in these uncertain times.

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If 97% is Good Enough for Cardiac Patients, Why Isn’t It for Transgender Youth?

Mon, 04 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0600

Why do we accept a 97% success rate as a gold standard for cardiac care yet question it for transgender youth who receive gender-affirming care? In this episode, Dr. Panszi explores a pivotal new study from JAMA Pediatrics that examines satisfaction, regret, and continuation of care rates among transgender youth who received their gender-affirming care at the start of puberty.

At 97%, the continuation rate mirrors the outcome for cardiac patients who experience improved quality of life after surgery. Yet, while cardiac patients face a 3% mortality rate, those receiving gender-affirming care simply discontinue care. The distinction raises essential questions about how we view and measure success in healthcare, especially when the patient population is young and transgender.

Listen in to understand the facts behind these numbers, the factors contributing to quality of life improvements, and how this evidence can empower healthcare providers to better support and counsel their patients.

Citations:

Olson KR, Raber GF, Gallagher NM. Levels of Satisfaction and Regret With Gender-Affirming Medical Care in Adolescence. JAMA Pediatr. 2024 Oct 21. doi: 10.1001/jamapediatrics.2024.4527. Epub ahead of print. PMID: 39432272.
Shroyer AL, Coombs LP, Peterson ED, et al. The Society of Thoracic Surgeons: 30-day operative mortality and morbidity risk models. Ann Thorac Surg. 2003 Jun;75(6):1856-64; discussion 1864-5. doi: 10.1016/s0003-4975(03)00179-6. PMID: 12822628.

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Why Correcting Misinformation on Gender Care Isn’t Political

Mon, 28 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0500

As physicians, we know there’s an unwritten rule: don’t discuss politics or religion with patients. But when it comes to correcting misinformation, especially about gender-affirming care, this is not a political act—it’s our responsibility. In this episode, I explore why some providers shy away from addressing myths and misconceptions, how this confusion is affecting our practice, and why it’s time to step up.

When misinformation spreads unchecked, it shapes public perception, and ultimately, legislation that restricts our ability to deliver the best care. We already debunk myths daily about medications, treatments, and health conditions—so why treat gender care any differently?

Listen in to learn why facts matter, what role we can play, and how to shift the narrative, empowering patients and society with accurate, reliable information.

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Why Pronouns Aren't a Punchline

Mon, 21 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0500

What’s the harm in making a joke about pronouns? In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi examines why casual humor around pronouns can undermine the experiences of transgender and nonbinary individuals, even when shared by well-meaning allies.

Have you encountered jokes about pronouns, or maybe even shared one yourself? Listen in, reflect, and consider how you can contribute to a more respectful and supportive community.

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A Lesson on Addressing Misgendering from Will & Harper (38)

Mon, 14 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Do you know what to do if someone is misgendered? Are you concerned about responding the 'wrong' way? In this episode, we dive into the complexities of addressing misgendering, using a scene from the documentary Will & Harper as a guide. Discover practical strategies for offering support and the crucial conversations that can make a difference. Join us as we explore the courage it takes to step in—and when it’s best to step back.

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The Trap of Visual Assumptions (37)

Mon, 07 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Ever assumed someone’s gender by how they look? Think again. In this episode, we explore the difference between gender identity and gender expression and why our visual assumptions often miss the mark. Join us for a deep dive into how shifting our approach can create a more inclusive and welcoming environment for all patients—no matter how they present. This episode is your invitation to reflect and refine your practice.

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#36 Small Steps Toward Big Impact in Gender-Inclusive Medical Care

Mon, 30 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, I reflect on the long journey toward gender inclusivity in healthcare, focusing on how small steps can gradually move us toward meaningful change. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the enormity of the task, but each small action matters in the greater picture.

Join me as I explore how learning about gender diversity benefits not only transgender and nonbinary patients but improves care for everyone. Along the way, I’ll share personal stories and experiences, encouraging you to keep your focus on the progress already made and the steps still ahead.

Are you ready to take your first step toward more inclusive care?

Related Episodes:

Episode 2: Gender Unraveled: Understanding Identity, Expression, and Biological Traits
Episode 25: From Disorder to Diversity: Evolution of Medical Views on Gender Identity

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Beyond "Women’s Health": Expanding Our Gendered Language for Better Care

Mon, 23 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the discomfort some feel when shifting away from referring to OB/GYN care as ‘women’s health.’ She validates these feelings while exploring how inclusive language ultimately benefits everyone—without erasing anyone’s identity. Dr. Panszi shares responses from listeners, including those who felt threatened by the change and those who found empowerment in it.

Tune in to discover how inclusive language can improve patient care, foster belonging, and help us see our patients as they are, not just through the lens of gender. Whether you’ve questioned this change or are looking for ways to implement it, this episode provides clarity and compassion.

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Why I Stopped Saying "Women's Health" for Ob/Gyn (part 2)

Mon, 16 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi continues the conversation on the language we use in obstetrics and gynecology and why it’s time to stop referring to it as "women’s health."

Picking up from the first part, which asked listeners to reflect on their use of gendered language, Dr. Panszi now shares her decisions about avoiding "women’s health."

Dr. Panszi also addresses the common objections she hears, such as fears of "erasing women," and offers a thoughtful response that reframes the issue: this isn’t about erasure but about lifting everyone up by making healthcare spaces more inclusive. She challenges listeners to rethink our assumptions about patients based on language.

Tune in to hear how expanding our language can expand the reach of care—and why it's essential for a more inclusive medical practice.

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Stop Calling Ob/Gyn "Women's Health"

Mon, 09 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Episode Title: Stop Calling Ob/Gyn 'Women's Health'

In this episode of Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi challenges healthcare providers to move beyond binary language in obstetrics and gynecology.

Highlights:

Language Evolution: Reflect on the progress from avoiding assumptions about marital status and partner gender to adopting terms like “partner” and “spouse.”
Embrace Inclusivity: Learn why switching from binary terms like “women” and “moms” to gender-neutral terms like “patients” and “parents” is essential for inclusivity.
Actionable Tips: Get practical advice on using inclusive language and the singular “they” for patient privacy and practice.

Join the Conversation: How are you making your language more inclusive? Share your experiences and reach out for support if needed.

Links and Resources:

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Connect with Us:

Instagram: @engender_love_sp
LinkedIn: Shannon Panszi MD

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Protect Transgender/Nonbinary Children

Mon, 02 Sep 2024 22:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi reflects on the recent cancellation of a crucial conference for transgender and nonbinary families, highlighting the urgent need for protective spaces for these children. She shares a compelling exercise encouraging listeners to consider their own actions in safeguarding children and emphasizes the importance of learning, educating, and speaking up to ensure all children feel safe and supported as their authentic selves. Now is the time to act with empathy and advocacy to protect and uplift every child.

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Struggling with Solutions: Transgender Athletes and Equity Challenges (31)

Mon, 26 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, I reflect on the process of creating my previous podcast, Episode 30, "Should Transgender Women Athletes Be Allowed to Compete in Women's Sports?" I share my struggles in finding equitable solutions for transgender athletes within a flawed system and discuss the insights I gained. Join me as I explore the complexities and how I worked through them to reach my conclusions on this challenging issue.

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Should transgender women athletes be allowed to compete in women's sports?

Mon, 19 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0500

I explore the complex question of whether transgender women athletes should compete in women's sports, from recreational leagues to the Olympics. Discover diverse perspectives, current regulations in sports organizations, and the historical context of transgender athletes in the Olympics. I also discuss the definitions of how we currently define the categories, fairness in sports, and propose solutions to these challenges.

Tune in until the end for my answer to this question.

This episode is perfect for those interested in gender nuances, sports fairness, and inclusion.

* History of transgender athletes in the Olympics: https://www.transathlete.com/olympics
* Research study looking at testosterone in elite athletes (Sönksen PH, Holt RIG, Böhning W, Guha N, Cowan DA, Bartlett C, Böhning D. Why do endocrine profiles in elite athletes differ between sports? Clin Diabetes Endocrinol. 2018 Feb 7;4:3. doi: 10.1186/s40842-017-0050-3. PMID: 29445518; PMCID: PMC5804043.): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5804043/
*NCAA stats: https://www.nfhs.org/media/886012/recruiting-fact-sheet-web.pdf

00:00 Introduction: The Complex Question of Transgender Women in Sports
01:05 Diverse Perspectives and Regulations
02:04 Scientific Uncertainties and Fairness
03:53 Historical Context of Transgender Athletes in the Olympics
09:14 Defining Fairness in Sports
20:11 The Goals of Sports at Different Levels
24:31 Proposed Solutions and Final Thoughts

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An ObGyn's Take on Sports Fairness: Part 1 of Gender and Sports (29)

Mon, 12 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0500

What makes sports fair? Is it about leveling the playing field or ensuring everyone has a shot, no matter their unique advantages? In this episode, I explore the complex and often unexamined concept of fairness in sports.

We’ll explore different perspectives on fairness. You'll hear how our personal biases and experiences shape our views on what’s fair—and why these views might need rethinking.

Are some advantages too much? Should there be limits in sports? And why do we treat male and female athletes differently? These are the tough questions we'll tackle as we unpack what fairness really means.

This is the first part of a two-part series, with next week’s episode focusing on transgender athletes in sports. If you're ready to challenge your assumptions about fairness, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in and see where you stand.

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An Ob/Gyn's Take on JK Rowling's Olympic Definition of 'Woman' & Why It Matters (28)

Mon, 05 Aug 2024 00:00:00 -0500

This week, Dr. Shannon, a retired Ob/Gyn and gender educator, explores the multifaceted question: What makes a person a woman?

This episode is inspired by the multiple comments online regarding Algerian women's Olympic boxer, Imane Khelif, discussing her gender and attempting to define it. Host Dr. Shannon delves into various definitions circulating on social media, from chromosomes to physical traits, and discusses why these definitions can be problematic and harmful to all women.

This episode is essential listening for anyone curious about gender, passionate about equal rights for women, or seeking clarity on how to navigate these complex issues as a healthcare provider.

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An ObGyn Responds: Gender Surgery on Children? (27)

Mon, 29 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we dissect the controversial statement that gender-affirming surgeries are performed on children. We clarify the definitions of surgery, the ages of patients involved, and the standards of care required. We also explore the misconceptions and facts surrounding gender-affirming care, focusing on what is truly being done and its implications for both transgender and cisgender individuals. Tune in to understand the complexities and the meticulous process behind gender-affirming surgeries.

The article mentioned in the podcast is available at
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2820437

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Honoring Dr. Ruth: Applying Her Teachings to Transgender Healthcare (#26)

Mon, 22 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Today's episode is a heartfelt tribute to the legendary Dr. Ruth Westheimer, who passed away last weekend. Reflecting on Dr. Ruth's profound impact, we'll explore how her groundbreaking work in sexual education challenged taboos and empowered countless individuals. But you might wonder, what does Dr. Ruth have to do with healthcare for transgender and non-binary patients? Stay with me, and you'll see the connection unfold. We'll delve into the critical need for education and inclusive practices in healthcare, much like Dr. Ruth tirelessly advocated for sexual health awareness. Join me as we honor her legacy and discuss how we, as healthcare providers, can follow her example by using our voices to engender love and support for all patients.

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From Disorder to Diversity: Evolution of Medical Views on Gender Identity

Mon, 15 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In today's episode, we tackle a common misconception that frequently appears on social media: the belief that transgender and non-binary identities are mental health disorders. We'll dive deep into the history of how the medical community has evolved in its understanding and classification of gender diversity, discuss how to examine and challenge our own inherent biases and explore the importance of this work for healthcare providers to better serve their patients.

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Improving Patient Care with One Rule

Mon, 08 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Today’s episode is all about a crucial rule I picked up during my medical school years—a rule that has significantly shaped how I provide care and build trust with my patients. In this episode, I’ll dive into this golden rule. I'll share how implementing this rule not only ensures purposeful and intentional patient interviews but also fosters a nurturing and empowering environment, particularly for the transgender and nonbinary community. We’ll explore real-life examples, discuss its profound impact on patient-provider relationships, and offer practical advice for healthcare professionals looking to avoid common pitfalls. Join us as we unravel why remembering this rule can lead to better, more compassionate care.

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Understanding Patients Through the Lens of Gender Experience in Healthcare (#23)

Mon, 01 Jul 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In today's episode, "Understanding Patients Through the Lens of Gender Experience in Healthcare," we discuss the often overlooked but crucial intersection of gender identity and healthcare.
I recently spoke with a remarkable physician who shared a powerful story about the impact of recognizing and using a patient's pronouns. This small act of affirmation highlights the importance of empathy and understanding in medical settings. We’ll explore why many transgender and non-binary individuals anticipate negative experiences in healthcare and how this affects their trust and openness with providers.
Through real-life examples, we’ll discuss the critical need for healthcare professionals to receive proper training on gender diversity. Understanding this can not only improve patient outcomes but also build stronger, more trusting patient-provider relationships. Join us as we unpack these essential issues and consider how we can all contribute to a more affirming and inclusive healthcare environment.

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Gender Inclusivity Matters: Don't Wait Until It's Too Late

Mon, 24 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In today's episode, we examine the urgency, or lack thereof, that people feel toward learning about gender inclusivity. Sharing an anecdote from a friend who described gender inclusivity as "not a bleeding neck issue," we explore why waiting until it's an urgent problem could lead to missed opportunities and deeper, more meaningful connections. We'll discuss the importance of aligning with our values, being proactive rather than reactive, and why dedicating even a small amount of time to understanding gender can make a significant impact. Join us as we navigate these essential topics and strive to create a better world for everyone.

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Reflecting on Pride (21)

Mon, 17 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Today, we're diving into a heartfelt conversation about Pride. In this episode, we celebrate the joy of Pride festivals, reflect on the historical significance of the Stonewall Uprising, and discuss the ongoing fight for equality and visibility for the LGBTQ+ community. We’ll explore personal stories, like that of Dr. Shannon's friend, who became an advocate after facing homelessness for coming out, and highlight the importance of raising our voices and supporting each other year-round. So, join us as we take a breath, celebrate progress, and commit to creating a world where everyone can be their true selves. Happy Pride! Let's engender love together.

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From Hesitation to Confidence: Introducing the School for Engendering Inclusivity

Mon, 10 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of the Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi introduces her groundbreaking initiative, the School for Engendering Inclusivity. Designed for supportive individuals who feel hesitant to discuss gender issues due to a lack of confidence or fear of making mistakes, this program aims to make you feel comfortable and knowledgeable in just three months.

Dr. Shannon shares how the school is structured to fit into busy schedules with brief but impactful courses and offers live Q&A sessions for personalized learning and privacy. Through topics like Gender 101, learning pronouns painlessly, and creating a gender-inclusive business, the program offers valuable insights and tips for everyone from healthcare providers and educators to parents and allies.

Whether you're looking to better support the transgender and non-binary community or simply want to be more inclusive, this episode provides a comprehensive overview of how you can achieve that in a supportive, time-efficient manner. Tune in to discover how you can become more confident in discussing gender and making a positive impact in your community.

Go to engenderlove.com/courses to learn more and sign up today.

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Revisiting Gender Unraveled (#19)

Mon, 03 Jun 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Happy Pride Month, everyone! This week on Engender Love, we're revisiting one of our foundational episodes — the second ever released. In this special replay, we'll dive deep into the essential concepts of gender identity, gender expression, and biological sex. These three terms are often confused or thought to be synonymous, but understanding their differences is crucial for better connecting with people of all genders. Whether you're puzzled by terms like "transgender" and "nonbinary" or simply looking to deepen your knowledge, this episode is for you. Join me, Dr. Shannon Panszi, as we pull apart these concepts and demystify the complexities of gender. Sit back, listen, and enjoy our insightful review as we continue to engender love. Let's get started!

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Empowering Patients: Guidelines for Healthcare Providers Treating Transgender and Nonbinary People

Mon, 27 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the importance of empowering patients, especially transgender and non-binary individuals, in healthcare settings. She shares valuable insights on how healthcare providers can enhance patient empowerment through effective communication and respectful practices. Dr. Panszi emphasizes the significance of providing patients with information, understanding their preferences, and respecting their decisions regarding exams and treatments. Join us as we explore practical ways to promote patient empowerment and foster a more inclusive healthcare environment.

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Fostering Inclusive Healthcare through Gender Education

Mon, 20 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In today's episode, we tackle the urgent need for better healthcare training around gender diversity. I recently spoke with a healthcare provider who, like many others, felt embarrassed and unprepared when treating transgender or nonbinary patients. This episode explores why this knowledge gap exists and how medical education is beginning to address it.

We’ll discuss the historical context of gender diversity in healthcare, a key study that shifted our understanding, and practical steps for healthcare providers to enhance their competence and compassion. If you're looking to improve your ability to support gender-diverse patients, this episode is for you. Let’s get started!

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Overcoming Fear in Gender Inclusion

Mon, 13 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In today's episode, we delve into the prevalent yet challenging topic of fear in pursuing gender inclusivity within businesses and organizations. Dr. Shannon discusses how fear, whether due to potential backlash or the anxiety of making mistakes, can deter individuals and businesses from embracing inclusion. Throughout the episode, we explore practical ways to navigate these fears, the importance of aligning with personal and organizational values, and how making changes in everyday language and practices can signal a safe space for all genders. We also examine why errors in gender identity might be handled differently from other social mistakes and how maintaining focus on respectful recovery can reinforce personal integrity and business ethics. Join us as Dr. Shannon guides us through understanding and managing these fears, ensuring they do not hinder the commitment to inclusivity.

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(#15) It's Not a Choice: Understanding and Respecting Gender Identity Through Language

Mon, 06 May 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Today, Dr. Shannon, dives deep into the common misconceptions surrounding gender identity, emphasizing the crucial understanding that gender identity is not a choice. Shannon challenges outdated terms and expressions, such as "preferred pronouns," and addresses how language can unintentionally imply choice in gender identity. She shares poignant examples from her experiences, shedding light on the language used by parents of transgender or non-binary children, the assumptions made when someone transitions, and the hurtful implications that can arise when gender identity is treated as a mere trend or a decision to be made by someone else. Join us as we explore the importance of language in shaping our perceptions and the profound need for education and understanding in how we discuss and support gender identity.

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What to Call Someone Who Has Transitioned (#14)

Mon, 29 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Today, our host, Dr. Shannon Panszi, delves into the intricate and ever-evolving world of gender terminology. Often, many of us find ourselves unsure of how to address or refer to someone who has transitioned. Dr. Shannon provides insight not just into the 'how' but, importantly, into the 'why' behind the terms we use, especially why they matter in respecting others' identities. She will guide us through three crucial rules for addressing individuals respectfully, explain common misunderstandings, and the significance of using terms that people choose for themselves. Join Dr. Shannon as she equips us with knowledge and sensitivity to help us foster more inclusive environments and understand the pivotal role language plays in identity and acceptance. So, let's dive in and learn how to engender love through our words and actions.

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The First Step to Gender Inclusivity in the Workplace (#13)

Mon, 22 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, we dive into the foundational actions businesses must undertake before claiming the title of a gender-inclusive organization.

Today, we dissect the importance of going beyond surface-level changes and delve into the necessity of a deep understanding of gender that transcends outdated perceptions. We'll tackle the key steps required to become a gender-inclusive business and underscore the imperative of reviewing and aligning company policies with gender-inclusive values.

Get ready to unravel how these crucial elements work in tandem to avoid unintentional harm and ensure respect and dignity across all gender identities. Join us as we illuminate the path to authentic gender inclusivity in the workplace, reminding all that this journey is continuous; it's about progress, not perfection. Engender love, and let's get started.

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Creating An Inclusive Gendered Business Space (#12)

Mon, 15 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the delicate interplay between creating exclusive spaces for safety and fostering inclusivity. Shannon invites listeners to question the rationale behind gendered business practices and the impact on achieving their intended goals.

Through personal stories and critical questioning, the discussion emphasizes the impact of gender intentionality, the use of inclusive language, and the recognition of diverse experiences within gender-specific groups. Shannon also addresses the inclusion of non-binary individuals and the importance of not conflating gender expression with gender identity.

This episode serves as a guide for businesses aiming to navigate the complexities of gender inclusivity with clarity and respect, ensuring that the pursuit of safe spaces does not compromise the value of an inclusive environment.

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How to Ask About Pronouns (#11)

Mon, 08 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In episode #11 of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi dives into the important topic of asking for pronouns. Shannon shares personal experiences and insights on when and how to ask for somebody's pronouns. She discusses her journey of assuming pronouns, learning from experiences, and evolving. Shannon also addresses the importance of respecting pronouns in group settings, emphasizing the need to make sharing pronouns optional, explaining why it's important, and setting the expectation that it's not a joke. Tune in to hear practical tips and thoughtful reflections on navigating pronouns with respect and understanding.

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"I Can't Learn": Challenging Beliefs About Learning Pronouns (#10)

Mon, 01 Apr 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon Panszi addresses the common belief that some people have that they can't learn to use someone's pronouns correctly. She challenges the reasons people use, such as age and academic background, and emphasizes that learning pronouns is possible if you are willing to put in the work. Dr. Panszi shares a powerful story of an 83-year-old grandfather who successfully learned and used the pronouns of his transgender grandchildren, highlighting the role of love and respect in embracing this learning process. Tune in as she encourages listeners to consider the impact of their beliefs and offers guidance on how to train the brain to use pronouns correctly.

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Names & Pronouns: Understanding and Conquering the Challenge (#9)

Mon, 25 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode of Engender Love, host Dr. Shannon Panszi delves into the complexities of learning names and pronouns in relation to gender identity. Dr. Shannon shares personal experiences and theories behind the challenges of adjusting to new names and pronouns, offering insights into the subconscious associations our brains make. She provides practical tips for retraining the brain to use the correct names and pronouns, emphasizing the importance of practice, compassion, and the eventual natural integration of these changes. Tune in as Dr. Shannon offers valuable guidance on navigating this integral aspect of gender expression and connection.

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Introducing the Engender Courses!

Mon, 18 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

In this episode, Dr. Shannon Panszi shares her journey of understanding gender and the importance of language in properly representing and honoring gender diversity. She introduces her upcoming courses, starting with Gender 101, aimed at helping people comprehensively understand gender, terminology, and respectful language usage. To promote understanding, Dr Shannon is including office hours with each purchase, where people can ask any question about gender in a non-judgmental space. Dr Shannon's courses aim to support a wide range of individuals, including service providers, educators, healthcare professionals, and parents, who seek to better understand and support gender diversity. Tune in to discover how these courses can help you on your journey to understanding gender and promoting inclusivity in your life and work.

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Pink and Blue: The Origin of Gendered Colors Exposed (#7)

Mon, 11 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500

On episode 7 of the Engender Love Podcast, Dr. Shannon Panszi examines the societal construct of associating colors with gender. As she delves into the historical context, Dr. Panszi uncovers the origins of the pink for girls and blue for boys convention, shedding light on the societal influences and marketing strategies that perpetuated these associations. Join us as we challenge preconceived notions and contemplate the profound implications of these color stereotypes.

Resources for this podcast:
https://www.artandobject.com/news/color-pink-cultural-history#:~:text=Few%20colors%20are%20as%20politically,as%20either%20genderless%20or%20masculine.

https://www.smithsonianmag.com/arts-culture/when-did-girls-start-wearing-pink-1370097/

https://www.cnn.com/2018/01/12/health/colorscope-pink-boy-girl-gender/index.html

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The Continuous Evolution of Gender Expression

Mon, 04 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In Episode 6 of the Engender Love podcast, we delve into the ever-evolving landscape of gender expression. Dr. Shannon Panszi explores the shifting perceptions of gender presentation throughout history. She shares anecdotes, historical insights, and thought-provoking observations on how societal norms around clothing, hairstyles, and accessories have changed over time. Join us as we challenge preconceived notions and uncover a rich tapestry of gender expression across different cultures and eras. Stay tuned as we engender love and understanding in our ever-changing world.

Information from this episode may be found in the following sources:
1. https://www.gentlemansgazette.com/why-men-stop-wearing-wigs/
2. https://www.readersdigest.co.uk/lifestyle/fashion-beauty/the-history-of-earrings
3. https://www.gentlemansgazette.com/why-men-stop-wearing-jewelry/
4. https://www.britannica.com/video/204898/Video-pants-women#:~:text=Trousers%20were%20seen%20as%20a,called%20rational%20dress%20for%20women.
5. https://www.lofficielusa.com/fashion/men-wearing-dresses-fashion-history-harry-styles-david-bowie-kurt-cobain-dress

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Beyond the Binary in Biological Classifications

Mon, 26 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode of Engender Love, Dr. Shannon dives into the fascinating world beyond the biological binary. She delves into the misconception of binary classification in nature, particularly in the context of biological characteristics. Dr. Shannon provides insight into the four main characteristics used to classify sex, debunking the idea of a strict binary in external and internal anatomy, chromosomes, and hormones. She emphasizes the importance of embracing the diverse variations in biology and anatomy, challenging the notion that an individual's identity is solely defined by their biological characteristics. Join us as we explore the beauty of nature's variation and the significance of moving away from strict binary classification to truly engender love for all.

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#4 Rules of Nature: Embracing Nature's Diversity in Gender and Biology

Mon, 19 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0600

In this episode, Dr. Shannon discusses the rules of nature and how they apply to gender. She explores the concept that there are no absolutes or binaries in nature, emphasizing that exceptions exist in every aspect of biology and functioning. Dr. Shannon challenges traditional beliefs and encourages listeners to embrace the diversity of human experiences. Join us as we delve into the fluidity and complexity of gender in this thought-provoking episode of Engender Love.

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Exploring Gender Beliefs: How Childhood Messages Shape Our Understanding of Identity and Expression

Sat, 10 Feb 2024 22:00:00 -0600

In episode 3, Dr. Shannon Panszi reflects on the gender beliefs she was raised with and how they shaped her understanding of gender roles and expressions. She discusses the messages she received from her family, school, and society and how they influenced her perceptions of what is considered masculine and feminine. Dr. Shannon explores the importance of understanding the origins of our beliefs and how it can lead to greater self-acceptance and compassion. She encourages listeners to reflect on their own beliefs and the impact they have on their interactions with others. Join us as we delve into the complexities of gender beliefs and how they intersect with love and acceptance.

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Gender Unraveled: Understanding Identity, Expression, and Biological Traits

Sat, 10 Feb 2024 22:00:00 -0600

In this episode, we delve into the complexity of gender identity, gender expression, and biological sex. We'll go on a journey of understanding, addressing common misconceptions, and shedding light on the distinct aspects of gender. Through insightful analogies and real-life examples, Dr. Shannon breaks down the definitions, challenging societal norms and encouraging listeners to reflect on their own understanding of gender. Tune in as we uncover the nuances of gender and embrace the importance of honoring individuals' authentic selves.

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How My Journey Began

Sat, 10 Feb 2024 22:00:00 -0600

Welcome to the Engender Love podcast with your host, Dr. Shannon Panszi. In this episode, Dr. Shannon shares her personal journey of discovering and understanding gender. As a retired OB/GYN, she realized her lack of knowledge about gender when a loved one came out to their family. Determined to support and educate herself, Dr. Shannon dove into learning about gender, sex assigned at birth, and gender expression. She found that having these conversations not only dispelled misinformation but also spurred self-reflection and stronger connections with others. Join us as Dr. Shannon delves into the impact of understanding gender and how it can lead to greater awareness, empathy, and connection in our lives. And be sure to visit engenderlove.com for more resources and support on this important topic.

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