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Free Download: Understand Story Structure and Character Arcs

Today, we’re diving deep into the magic of character arcs and how they intertwine with story structure and plot.

I'll share insights on developing authentic characters so readers will empathize with them and want to know more.

We'll chat about different character arcs—positive, negative, and flat—and how understanding these can enrich your storytelling. 

Plus, I'll debunk myths about story structure being formulaic and show you how it’s essential for guiding your characters' emotional journeys. 

By the end of this episode, you’ll have practical tips to develop compelling characters and a story your readers will love!

00:00 Introduction to Character Arcs
02:29 Exploring Story Structure
06:27 Diving into Character Arcs
09:19 Understanding Character Development
19:31 Practical Tips for Writers
20:36 Conclusion and Resources

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Are you feeling frustrated with your writing? Do you struggle with setting up unrealistic expectations of yourself and your words?  

You’re not alone, and today, I will offer up a mindset shift. 

Join me as we unpack the importance of embracing gratitude for every part of the writing process—ESPECIALLY the words that don’t make it into your manuscript. 

Remember, every word contributes to your growth, no matter how discarded it may feel.

NO WORDS ARE WASTED. 

Writing is a practice. 

With the holiday season upon us, it’s the perfect time to slow down and appreciate our efforts. 

Remember to be patient with yourself and celebrate your efforts and all the words you write, even the ones you delete. 

00:00 Introduction: The Myth of the Perfect First Draft

01:30 Mindset Shift: Gratitude for Unused Words

02:21 Thanksgiving Reflection: Slowing Down and Showing Gratitude

03:47 Embracing the Writing Process: Practice Does Not Make Perfect, It Makes Improvement.

07:49 Encouragement for Writers: You Matter More than You Know. So Does Your Story.

09:21 Conclusion: Keep Writing and Keep Practicing Gratitude!

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Download Your Free Novel Planning Guide! 

In this episode of Write It Scared, I’m sharing my interview from the Be a Bestseller 6.0 Back to Basics Summit hosted by Emma Dhesi and we discuss practical strategies for planning and outlining your novel in a way that works for you. 

The highlights:

📌 The fundamentals of storytelling—character, conflict, plot structure, and theme
📌 Why mindset matters and how to set realistic expectations for your writing journey
📌 How to connect with your story’s purpose so you stay motivated
📌 The balance between planning and discovery—because not every writer thrives with a strict outline

And I talk about my own journey—from feeling like a repressed creative soul to fully stepping into my identity as a fiction writer and book coach.

If you’ve ever struggled with turning a story idea into something structured, this episode will give you the tools and confidence to get started.

Episode Breakdown

📌 01:19 – Special episode announcement
📌 02:28 – Interview with Emma Dashie
📌 04:37 – My journey from repressed creative to fiction writer & coach
📌 09:03 – Why mindset is everything in writing
📌 15:19 – Understanding story structure (without overcomplicating it)
📌 20:51 – Finding your story’s purpose—why this story, now?
📌 23:25 – The core foundations of storytelling
📌 25:06 – What makes a compelling story
📌 27:31 – Building conflict & stakes readers care about
📌 28:36 – Writing strong character arcs & believable antagonists
📌 30:50 – The role of theme in storytelling (and how to use it naturally)
📌 32:34 – Plotting vs. Pantsing—which approach is best for you?
📌 36:07 – Inciting incidents, plot points & keeping your story moving
📌 42:17 – Supporting writers through the messy middle
📌 45:04 – Final thoughts + resources to help you plan your novel

Final Thoughts

Writing a novel isn’t about forcing yourself into a one-size-fits-all process. It’s about finding what works for you—a balance between planning and allowing space for discovery.

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Are you procrastinating when you want to be writing your novel? 

You are not alone and we can fix it! 

Join me on the Write It Scared podcast, where we delve into the art of beating procrastination and finding the courage to write your novel. This episode is packed with practical strategies and insightful discussions that will help you overcome your writing hurdles!

In episode two of the 'Write it Scared' podcast, we chat about the challenges writers face, particularly procrastination. It's not because of poor time management but rather an emotional coping mechanism that has gone astray and a response to the stress or perceived stress of writing. 

Self-criticism won't help. Instead, I suggest practical methods for understanding and overcoming procrastination and other forms of resistance, such as re-evaluating one's beliefs and fears about writing and taking small but consistent steps to set and achieve writing goals. 

If you want more help overcoming resistance and moving past creative blocks, download my free guide: The Write Mindset.  www.writeitscared.co/thewritemindset

01:03 Understanding Procrastination in Writing

01:41 The Real Cause of Low Writing Productivity

02:31 The Role of Stress in Writing

02:49 The Impact of Fear and Self-Doubt

03:17 The Cost of Procrastination

03:34 Understanding Procrastination as an Emotion-Focused Coping Habit

04:38 The Truth about Procrastination and Resistance

05:35 Strategies to Overcome Procrastination

06:22 The Role of Fear in Procrastination

07:41 The Power of Action in Overcoming Procrastination

08:07 A Simple Process to Overcome Resistance

08:48 Questions to Ask Yourself to Overcome Procrastination

11:08 The Power of Belief and Action in Overcoming Procrastination

12:10 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

12:44 Resources to Help You Overcome Procrastination

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In this season finale, the host, Stacy Frazer, shares a deeply personal writing update and reflects on what happens when life interrupts creativity. This episode explores anticipatory grief, uncertainty, creative numbness, and what courage looks like when you can't find your way forward. 

Stacy also shares plans for the podcast's summer hiatus and a reminder about the Courage Files for Season 4. 

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What keeps a writer going through fifteen years of rewrites, rejection, and uncertainty?

Middle-grade author Sara F. Shacter joins me to talk about the long journey behind her debut novel, Georgia Watson and the 99% Campaign, and how revision became less about “fixing” the story and more about uncovering its emotional heart.

We discuss resilience, imposter syndrome, comparison, and the challenge of staying connected to joy while navigating the publishing process. Sara also shares practical revision strategies, the importance of community, and why progress—not perfection—is what really moves a writing life forward.

If you’re stuck in the messy middle of revision or questioning whether your story is worth continuing, this episode is a reminder that persistence matters more than getting it right the first time.

Timestamps

00:00 – Why Revision Matters

10:09 – The Premise of Georgia Watson and the 99% Campaign

13:48 – The 15-Year Road to Publication

22:23 – Revision Tools and Strategies

26:49 – Doubt, Comparison, and Staying the Course

31:52 – Making Time to Write

35:44 – Identity Beyond Publishing

40:44 – Progress Over Perfection

44:07 – Current Projects and Where to Find Sarah 

To connect with Sara and read her debut novel, go to her website

Links Mentioned: 

SCBWI: Society of Book Writers and Illustrators

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Can we find more play in writing by lowering the stakes? This episode explores how perfectionism, pressure, productivity culture, and the need to “get it right” can slowly drain the joy out of creativity.

I talk about where play naturally exists in the writing process—daydreaming, brainstorming, messy drafting—and why reconnecting with those moments might matter more than forcing constant productivity. Sometimes the path back to creativity isn’t pushing harder. Sometimes it’s lowering the stakes enough to let yourself explore.

So if you’ve been feeling stuck in drafting or revision, overwhelmed by expectations, burned out by productivity culture, or guilty because writing hasn’t felt fun lately… this one’s for you.

There’s also a quick season update and information about the new Courage Files segment coming in Season Four.

Timestamps:
 00:00 When expectations block creativity
 00:24 Welcome to Write It Scared
 01:21 Season update + Courage Files
 03:48 What “play” means in writing
 04:43 When writing starts to feel heavy
 07:23 Lowering the stakes
 08:33 Reflection prompts
 09:21 Closing thoughts

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What happens after the book is finally out in the world—and all the noise starts creeping in? 

In this conversation, indie MM romance author Alex Cross joins me to talk about emotionally intense storytelling, publishing pressure, writer’s block, and the challenge of protecting your creativity once readers, reviews, and big expectations enter the picture.

We talk about the Fire Between Us series and its highly anticipated second installment, From Our Ashes, which released May 4th, 2026, as well as her stunning Us duet—Echoes of Us and Becoming Us. 

We dig into the craft, including keeping track of dual timelines, writing toxic relationships, character psychology, and messy, deeply human love stories. Alex also shares her journey into self-publishing, the realities of revising published work, navigating social media and comparison, and learning how to reconnect to why she writes in the first place.

It’s an honest conversation about creativity, vulnerability, and continuing to write even when fear and doubt get loud.

Timestamps

04:04 Meet Alex Cross

08:29 Choosing a risky debut

11:37 Echoes of Us

19:11 Crafting dual timelines

24:44 Revising published work

29:49 Fire Between Us update

33:30 Writing high-angst stories

35:53 Writer’s block + sequel struggles

37:56 Reviews, doubt, and social media

41:35 Boundaries and support systems

44:48 Protecting the magic of writing

47:26 What’s next + where to find Alex 

To connect with Alex and read her books, go to her website and follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or TikTok.

All of Alex's books are available in KU. 

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What does it take to keep believing in a story through rejection, rewrites, and years of uncertainty?

Middle grade author Shafaq Khan joins me to talk about her debut novel, Zaina: Lost and Found, a historical adventure inspired by the real-life Hippie Trail through Pakistan, Afghanistan, Iran, and Turkey in the 1970s. We discuss balancing research with fast-paced storytelling, writing about identity and belonging, and the emotional resilience required to survive the long road to publication.

Shafaq also shares the behind-the-scenes reality of querying, revising after difficult feedback, finding community, and learning to trust her voice as a writer.

If you’re deep in the messy middle of your own writing journey, this conversation is a reminder that persistence matters—and sometimes the long road is part of becoming the writer you’re meant to be.

Timestamps
 00:00 – Grounding Through Story
 07:12 – The Premise of Zaina: Lost and Found
 11:42 – Research vs. Storytelling
 24:07 – Querying and Rejection
 30:00 – Tough Feedback and Big Rewrites
 35:12 – Learning to Trust Her Voice
 41:59 – Advice for Writers

Links Mentioned:

Shafaq Khan Website

Instagram

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SCBWI

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What if the answer isn’t forcing yourself or your story harder… but trusting the process a little longer?

In this episode, I talk with author and book coach Andromeda Romano-Lax about her latest psychological thriller, What Boys Learn, the messy reality of revision, and why stepping away from a draft can sometimes be exactly what your story needs.

We also dig into self-doubt, negativity bias, supportive feedback, and why writers grow by finishing more books—not by obsessing over making a single book perfect.

Timestamps
 00:00 Permission to Think
 01:20 Meet Andromeda
 08:38 Why She Turned to Thrillers
 13:53 The Draft Breakthrough
 21:07 Villains + Mystery Craft
 25:46 Negativity Bias
 28:17 Trusting the Process
 32:56 Helpful Feedback
 38:17 Why Writers Need More Manuscripts

To connect with Andromeda, read her many helpful Substacks, and purchase her books, please visit her website.  

She enjoys hearing from readers.

You can also find her on Instagram

Other links mentioned:

The Career Novelist™ Podcast With Camille Pagán

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 Ever hit that point in drafting or revision where you’re not sure what should happen next? 

You might know the next big plot point, but the how-to-get-there part… that’s the problem. 

In this solo episode of the Write It Scared podcast, I break down why the answer usually isn’t inventing a brand-new conflict. More often, the next scene is already hidden inside the consequences of what just happened. We talk about cause-and-effect storytelling, tracking what changed in the previous scene, and how pressure from other characters and antagonistic forces naturally creates momentum.

I also share a simple trick for getting unstuck when your brain goes blank: writing a messy reaction scene first. 

Plus, there’s a quick update on The Courage Files coming in Season 4.

Timestamps
 00:00 Why Writers Get Stuck
 02:07 The Courage Files Update
 04:08 “What Happens Next?”
 05:12 Cause-and-Effect Story Logic
 05:52 Finding the Consequences
 08:04 Pressure From Other Characters
 09:51 The Reaction Scene Trick

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Who says it can't be chaotic as hell? 

AK Nevermore, author of more than 20 titles, returns to talk about messy growth, genre-hopping, indie publishing, and learning craft by doing. We dig into fear, doubt, and even spite as creative fuel, plus why not every piece of feedback deserves your attention.

If you’ve ever felt like your process is chaotic or your career path doesn’t look “right,” because it’s different than another author's,  this conversation is a reminder that there’s no one way to build a writing life—just the way that works for you. 

Timestamps
 00:00 Fear as Fuel
 01:31 Meet AK Nevermore
 09:19 Why Indie Publishing Works for AK
 16:54 Messy Process + Pantsing
 21:50 Worldbuilding + Craft
 26:13 Fear, Doubt, and Motivation
 30:21 Redefining Success
 34:32 Choosing the Right Feedback

To connect with AK and read her work please go to her website 

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Are you worried if you’re making the right moves in your author career (ads, audio, direct sales… all of it)? 

This episode will help you take a breath and zoom out.

I’m joined by returning guest Becca Syme to talk about how publishing has changed—and why so many writers are making decisions from pressure, fear, or misread data. We dig into insights from her new book, Dear Writer, You Still Need to Quit, including why the old “gold rush” advice doesn’t apply anymore, what actually matters at different stages of your publishing career, and how to make smarter, more sustainable decisions.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed by all the options—or like you’re behind—this conversation will help you reset and then move forward with more clarity.

Timestamps
 00:00 Why Becca Wrote This New Book
 01:36 Meet Becca Syme
 07:23 The New QuitBook + Publishing Shift
 12:55 Saturation, Curation, and Discoverability
 17:22 How Writers Misread Sales Data
 20:39 The Five Phases of an Author Business
 24:37 Investment vs. Speculation
 26:36 Author Archetypes
 29:24 Early Career Pressure + Market Awareness
 32:22 Scaling Demand (Phase Two)
 36:09 Later Career Phases
 40:36 Decision Fatigue + Cost
 42:06 Fear-Based Decisions
 42:56 Where to Learn More
 

Guest Bio and Links

Becca Syme holds a master’s degree in transformational leadership and has been a success coach (primarily utilizing the Gallup Strengthsfinder®) for over fifteen years. She’s coached over 5,000 individual authors and creatives through her Write Better-Faster and Strengths for Writers classes & coaching cohorts: six- and seven-figure authors, major award winners, midlisters, and new authors alike. Becca is the host of QuitCast for Writers, Author of the QUIT BOOKS SERIES FOR WRITERS, and a USA TODAY Best-Selling author of cozy mysteries under the pen name R.L. SYME.

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What happens when the dream you’ve carried for years starts to feel too heavy?

Author and performer Emmy McGuire joins me to talk about the long road to her debut thriller, No One Aboard—a chilling mystery about a family and crew vanishing at sea—and what it took to keep going through rejection, burnout, and years away from writing.

We dig into the craft behind her dual-timeline, multi-POV structure, as well as the emotional reality of writing: the pressure, the fear of scrutiny, and the quiet work of reconnecting with why you started in the first place.

If you’ve been doubting yourself or your story, this is your reminder: your “why” matters more than anything.

Timestamps
 00:00 – Why We Write
 03:19 – Emmy’s Journey to Publication
 07:04 – The Story Behind No One Aboard
 14:54 – Craft: POV and Structure
 20:00 – Navigating Doubt and Pressure
 28:01 – Resetting After Burnout
 34:43 – Advice for Writers

Bio: 

Emy McGuire is a full-time actor, author, playwright, and pirate. She has written a queer pirate musical, sailed across the Atlantic Ocean, and toured the United States as a performer in the Edgar Allan Poe Speakeasy. She has a degree in theatre and creative writing from New College of Florida. No One Aboard is her debut novel, and her second one comes out in late 2026. She hopes to someday return to the sea and embrace being a real-life siren. 

Links:

Website

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We made it to Episode 100! 

And we are celebrating with a brand-new segment to the podcast called the Courage Files, which will launch in Season 4 (September 2026) 

This new segment is all about your writing wins—big, small, messy, hard-won, or quietly brave—because one of the most powerful antidotes to doubt is hearing that other writers are showing up too. 

If you’ve taken a courageous step in your writing life, I invite you to share it. With your permission, some submissions will be featured on the show.

Beginning in Season 4, one submission per quarter will also be randomly selected to receive a free editorial assessment (up to 10 pages) plus a 30-minute coaching session with me!

Submissions are open NOW.

Here’s to the first 100 and many more! 

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Is the way I’m approaching my writing actually working for me right now?

In this short solo episode, I share a gentle, guilt-free Q1 reset and reflection questions to help you course-correct, plus a behind-the-scenes look at my own writing progress — including finishing a draft, facing rejection, uncovering major plot issues, and doing the slow revision work that actually moves books forward.

If your year hasn’t gone as planned, don’t feel like you're behind. Instead, use your reflections to create a new plan of action that makes how you approach your writing work for you! 

Slow and steady still counts.

Timestamps

00:00 Gentle Q1 check-in
00:28 Why this checkpoint matters
01:25 Quarter One reality check
02:21 Key reflection questions
04:01 Personal Q1 writing update
05:00 Draft win + rejection whiplash
05:27 Discovering and fixing a major logic flaw
06:37 Slow, steady revision plan
07:39 Your Q1 reset for Q2
08:50 Coaching support & next steps
09:41 Final thoughts

Need extra support?

If you’d like personalized guidance, structure, or accountability as you move forward, learn more about working with me as a book coach: writeitscared.co

You don’t have to figure it out alone.

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Horror and thriller author Nicole M. Wolverton joins me to discuss why discomfort can be more powerful than terror, how writing from your own fears creates unforgettable stories, and why horror can be deeply empowering during difficult times. 

Nicole is also very candid about the process, the realities of publishing, rejection, and the mindset she attributes to her success in publishing and marketing. 

Timestamps
 
 01:10 – Meet Nicole Woolverton
 03:16 – Nicole’s Writing Origins
 04:30 – Why We Crave Horror
 05:15 – Fear, Resilience, and Difficult Times
 07:15 – Her Novels and Settings
 09:33 – Gastro Horror and Disgust on the Page
 12:42 – What Makes Horror Truly Work
 16:17 – Process: Outlining vs. Drafting
 21:16 – Publishing Fears and Limbo
 25:26 – “You Don’t Ask, You Don’t Get”
 28:29 – Rejection and Redefining Success
 31:06 – Advice for Writers

Guest Bio

Nicole M. Wolverton is an unapologetic fear enthusiast who writes horror and thrillers for adults and young adults. She is the author of A Misfortune of Lake Monsters (CamCat Books, 2025), The Trajectory of Dreams (Bitingduck Press, 2013), and the upcoming Meat Sweats (Horrorsmith Publishing, 2026). She also served as Editor of the menopause-themed horror anthology Bodies Full of Burning, published by Sliced Up Press. Her short fiction, creative nonfiction, and essays also appear in about 50 anthologies, magazines, and podcasts. Nicole holds a master's degree in horror and storytelling from the University of Pennsylvania; her academic interests center on building resilience through horror media and gastrohorror.

Links

Website
nicole@nicolewolverton.com

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I talk about why feelings aren’t facts, how isolation keeps writers stuck, and how to build a small circle of writing trust that you can lean into when you feel stuck.

Timestamps
 00:00 Writing Struggle + Isolation
 01:44 Listener Question About Short Stories
 03:44 Why Venting Helps Writers
 05:45 Feelings Aren’t Facts
 07:57 Choosing Who to Tell
 09:48 Building a Circle of Trust
 12:27 Final Thoughts

Links to Other Episodes Mentioned

S2 Ep 53 How Writing Short Stories Can Make You a Stronger Novelist with Demi Michelle Schwartz

S3 Ep 78 From “Am I Good Enough?” to “I Believe in My Work” with Book Coach Karmen Špiljak

S2 Ep 54 Finding the Right Writing Community For You

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In this episode of the Write It Scared podcast, I talk with book coach and editor Nicole Bross about how ADHD impacts a writer’s mindset, motivation, and process—especially for those diagnosed later in life. We unpack the shame spiral so many writers fall into, why traditional writing advice doesn’t work for everyone, and how diagnosis can open the door to self-compassion and smarter systems.

We also talk about her book A Novel Approach: Strategies for ADHD Writers (co-written with Kirsten Donaghey), including practical tools for overcoming paralysis, managing shiny object syndrome, and using outlines to reduce overwhelm and actually finish.

If you’ve struggled with consistency or focus, this one is equal parts strategy and permission to be kinder to yourself.

Timestamps
 00:00 The Writing Advice Shame Spiral
 01:41 Meet Nicole + Her Book
 05:46 Late ADHD Diagnosis + Mindset Shift
 13:51 Building Better Writing Systems
 17:03 ADHD Creative Strengths
 27:14 Motivation + Shiny Object Syndrome
 32:02 Why Outlines Help
 37:35 Paralysis vs. Procrastination
 41:12 Final Encouragement

You can learn more about Nicole and her work here:

🌐 Writing: https://nicolebross.com
🌐 Book Coaching: https://manuscriptalchemy.com

The Novel Approach: Strategies for ADHD Writers is available wherever books are sold. 

Links mentioned:  

When Your Brain is the Enemy: Life as a Writer with ADHD by Nicole Bross

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In this episode of the Write It Scared podcast, I sit down with literary agent and author Ann Rose to talk about what actually makes a query stand out. (Spoiler: it doesn’t have to be perfect. It has to be clear.) We dig into hook, stakes, market realities, why “Dexter meets Legally Blonde” works, and what happens after an agent requests a full.

We also talk about imposter syndrome, the slower publishing climate, why publishing is product (even though writing is art), and why you might want to write your query—and your synopsis—before you finish your book.

If you’ve been overthinking your pitch letter, this one will ground you fast.

Timestamps
 00:00 Queries Need Clarity (Not Perfection)
 03:30 Ann’s Path to Agenting
 07:15 Her Novels + Hook Examples
 19:29 The Current Publishing Climate
 23:57 What Makes a Hook Work
 27:46 From Full Request to Offer
 30:53 Writing Is Art, Publishing Is Product
 34:50 Why You Should Write the Query First
 36:45 Why Synopses Matter

Tobias website - www.thetobiasagency.com

Ann's website - www.amroseauthor.com

Instagram/Threads/TikTok - totally_anntastic

Books By Ann Rose

The Seemingly Impossible Love Life of Amanda Dean 

A Hexcellent Chance to Fall in Love 

www.annroseauthor.com

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Well, if you’re author Carmela Dutra, you keep going.

In this episode, Carmela shares the real story behind her debut cozy mystery, A Murder Most Foul—from querying too soon and rewriting extensively to finding the right agent after nearly 200 nos. We talk about saggy middles, tense slips, brutal feedback, and what it takes to rebuild a manuscript from the ground up.

If you're struggling with self-doubt, facing a bunch of rejection, and just feeling like maybe it’s time to throw in the towel—this conversation will arm you with what you need to keep going and protect your mindset!

Timestamps: 

04:20 Personalizing cold queries

06:12 What A Murder Most Foul is about

11:19 Craft struggles: saggy middles & tense slips

15:44 Surviving 197 rejections

18:11 Ghosting & rock bottom

19:48 Finding the right agent

21:42 Learning to plot

23:10 Imposter syndrome (“Peggy”)

28:37 Querying advice

30:20 Finding time to write as a mom

Guest Bio:

Carmela Dutra is a writer from the Bay Area who loves food trucks, family, and cozy mysteries. Her debut, A Murder Most Fowl, has been praised by Kirkus Reviews for its “serious set of crimes leavened by plenty of amusing moments,” by Criminal Element for the “juicy reasoning behind the sabotage that was almost as shocking as the murder itself,” and described as “the perfect escapist read, brimming with banter and an extra helping of fun” by New York Times bestselling author Ellery Adams. She has also been featured in CrimeReads Magazine.

To connect with Carmela and purchase her books, visit her website and check her blog series: An Author’s Guide to Quering for hot tips!

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If your story feels flat or like it’s not going anywhere, check your stakes!

Today, we break down what stakes really are, why “just make it worse” isn’t helpful advice, and how to create meaningful consequences for your characters that keep readers emotionally invested.

We’ll talk personal, relational, and thematic stakes—and how to pressure-test them so your story actually holds.

Timestamps
 00:00 What Stakes Really Mean
 01:37 Why Stakes Come from Choice
 06:43 Personal + Relationship Stakes
 11:09 Thematic Stakes
 12:27 Pressure-Testing Your Story 

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Kate Broad discusses leaving her romance author career to write literary fiction and how her debut novel, Greenwich, required multiple drafts and rewrites. 

She shares what it's like to scrap early drafts, rebuild the story from the ground up, write complex characters that are hard to like, and what she tells herself when the writing feels hard. 

If you need a reminder that your first draft can become something magical, that struggling is just part of the work and process of bringing a novel to fruition, and that you’re not doing anything wrong, you’ll enjoy our conversation. 

Timestamps
 00:00 – Why Revision Is Where the Magic Happens
 00:19 – Welcome to Write It Scared
 01:29 – Meet Kate Road
 03:20 – Writing Greenwich and Starting Over
 05:03 – Themes of Wealth, Power, and Privilege
 07:34 – Crafting Complex, Unlikable Characters
 15:47 – How the Book Changed in Revision
 21:40 – Self-Doubt and Staying in the Work
 30:25 – Resilience and the Reality of the Writing Life
 39:43 – Final Reflections

Kate Broad holds a BA from Wellesley College and a PhD in English from the CUNY Graduate Center. She is a Bronx Council on the Arts award winner for fiction, and her writing has appeared in The Rumpus, No Tokens, Electric Literature, LitHub, The Baltimore Review, and elsewhere. Her debut novel, Greenwich, was released in 2025 from St. Martin's Press and was named one of People Magazine's Best New Books, a Vanity Fair Summer Read, and an Amazon Editor's Pick for Best New Literature and Fiction. Originally from Massachusetts, she lives in the Bronx.  

GREENWICH - Out now from St. Martin's Press / Macmillan!

https://katebroad.com

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That’s what today’s episode is all about! 

Author Accelerator certified book coaches Stacy Frazer and Jennifer Larkin team up for an honest conversation about writing sex in fiction—without cringe.

Stacy and Jen discuss when sex scenes belong in a story, how explicit they need to be, and how to write intimacy that deepens character and advances the plot. 

You’ll learn how genre expectations (including YA vs. adult), consent, and emotional intent shape effective intimate scenes—and how to make intentional choices that serve your story.

Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction
 01:50 Guest: Jennifer Larkin
 03:20 Do you need a sex scene in your novel?
 10:04 Sex scenes in YA vs. adult
 21:16 Purpose of sex scene and level of explicitness
 26:20 Common mistakes
 29:09 Consent on the page
 35:05 When to include a sex scene 

Jennifer Larkin helps romance writers turn good ideas into epic stories and jagged drafts into lovable novels. 

Grab her free guide to writing better romance scenes at https://jenniferlarkin.kit.com/scenes.

Connect on Social Media:

Instagram: @jenniferlarkinbookcoach

Substack: @jenniferlarkinbookcoach 

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Today, I’m joined by Libby Waterford, a prolific romance author and self-publishing educator with more than twenty books published across pen names.

We break down what self-publishing actually involves: the costs writers don’t always anticipate, the level of control and responsibility it requires, and how marketing, timelines, and long-term goals factor into whether it’s a good fit for you.

This episode is about education and understanding your options, asking questions, and making intentional decisions about your writing career based on your long-term goals

Timestamps

01:43 Meet Libby Waterford

05:28 Why Libby chose self-publishing after being with a traditional publisher

08:47 Pros and cons of self-publishing

16:38 The advantages of being your own publisher

23:09 Budgeting and essential costs

27:09 Marketing, ROI, and sustainability

38:53 Advice for new authors

41:07 What Libby’s working on next and education resources

Guest Bio:

Libby Waterford is the author of Sawyer's Cove, the Reboot, and The Never A Bride Contemporary Romance Series, and under her other pen name, Elle Waters, writes steamy Small Town Gay Romance. A former president of the Connecticut Chapter of Romance Writers of America, Libby is also a self-publishing coach and instructor at the Westport Writers Workshop in Westport, Connecticut, where she teaches classes on genre fiction and self-publishing.

Links
https://libbywaterford.com/, 

https://www.instagram.com/libbywritesromance/, 

https://ellewatersbooks.substack.com/

https://westportwriters.org/

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If you’ve ever struggled to figure out the difference between your character's wants and needs, been confused by the language of conscious goals and unconscious goals or desires, this episode is for you! 

Today, we simplify things so you never get confused again!  

We look at how goals create momentum on the page to inform the plot, while desires drive the character's internal change.  

You’ll also get practical ways to diagnose what’s missing when a character feels stuck—and how to fix it.

Timestamps:
 01:32 Why “what does my character want?” is a loaded question
 03:14 Goals vs. desires: what’s the difference?
 04:53 Examples of clear external goals
 06:11 The messier truth of character desire
 11:08 Using goals and desires to drive transformation
 13:37 Practical tools for revision
 15:29 Closing thoughts + book coaching note
 16:37 Wrap-up

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This conversation with debut novelist Charlene Wang gently dismantles that idea. We talk honestly about messy drafts, perfectionism, long revision timelines, and the quiet persistence it takes to keep going when doubt creeps in.

Charlene shares her path to publishing I'll Follow You, including years of revision, mindset shifts, and learning to trust the process even when progress felt slow. If you’ve ever wondered whether struggle means failure, this episode offers reassurance that struggle is often part of becoming the writer you’re meant to be.

Timestamps:

 01:27 Welcome + meet Charlene Wang
 02:47 Charlene’s path to becoming a writer
 05:11 Talking about I’ll Follow You
 08:22 The realities of drafting and revision
 14:43 Research and character development
 20:29 Plotting, pantsing, and everything in between
 21:38 Navigating self-doubt
 24:33 Tools for sticking with the work
 26:12 Productivity, perspective, and patience
 29:18 Becoming a writer over time
 36:26 Advice for writers in the thick of it
 38:03 What Charlene is working on now

Links mentioned

Leigh Bardugo’s Ted Talk: The Art of Discomfort

Ira Glass The Gap

Charlene’s debut novel, I’ll Follow You, is out now.

You can learn more and connect with her at charlenewangauthor.com or on Instagram @charleneshiyi

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Today, I'm joined by author Ivette Diaz for a powerful conversation about writing hopeful dystopian stories, the importance of representation on the page, and choosing integrity over marketability. We talk about writing through hard seasons, navigating self-doubt, and why community—not competition—is what sustains a writing life.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your story belongs, felt pressure to soften your voice, or needed a reminder that you are doing enough, this episode is for you.

Guest Bio: Ivette N Diaz is an author of dystopian sci-fi/fantasy novels, an entrepreneur, and a daydreamer who, through the gift of storytelling, strives to provide an element of hope in each story and help each person realize the unique purpose for their life. She has published Rise of Power, Choices of Power, and Struggles of Power, all part of the I Am Chronicles series. Her short story, Taino: An Untold Story, is featured in the Flame Tree Publishing Anthology Beyond & Within: Latin American Shared Stories, edited by V. Castro.

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Website: ivettendiaz.com

Instagram & Threads: @ivettendiazauthor

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Real Talk: Writer to Writer

Are you afraid of being judged for what you write? 

You’re not alone. Me too. And in this episode, I get personal by sharing my writing updates, how publishing a short story felt exposing, and how I’m learning to navigate the fear of being seen for what I write.

We also talk about changes to the podcast and setting writing intentions for 2026 that align with your life, not work against it. 

Timestamps:
 00:00 Personal reflection
 01:23 Easing into the new year
 02:02 The fear of being seen
 03:53 Writing update
 07:55 Writing intentions for 2026
 10:48 Reflection + next steps
 11:33 Closing

Links Mentioned:

Draft It Scared Group Coaching

The Leave Still Fallow: An Anthology of Queer Love

Big Thinking Publishing 

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If you’ve ever questioned how to find the right critique partner—or survive traditional publishing—this episode will feel like a deep breath.

Fantasy author and book coach Gabrielle K. Byrne joins me to talk about building healthy critique relationships, navigating the realities of publishing, and learning to let go so you can fall back in love with your writing process. 

It’s honest, grounding, and full of the writer-to-writer wisdom we all need.

Timestamps
 01:23 Meet Gabrielle K. Byrne
 03:54 Gabby’s winding path to publishing
 09:42 Evolving your writing process
 21:11 Imposter syndrome + comparison
 29:21 The truth about traditional publishing
 32:12 What really happens in revisions
 35:23 The Three Ps: practice, persistence, patience
 40:23 How to work with critique partners
 46:50 Finding your writing community
 51:08 Gabby’s wish for writers

Links: 

Julie Artz CP Match

Gabrielle Byrnes Books and Book Coaching 

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That’s the creative range of today’s guest, Susan Sloate, and trust me—this conversation will make you breathe a little easier about your own writing timeline.

In this episode, Susan and I get real about the messy, magical parts of the writing life: panic, procrastination, emotional landmines, unexpected breakthroughs, and the quiet confidence that your story is already finished in your head—you just have to mine for it. She also shares how music threads through her process, how she handles fear and imposter syndrome, and what keeps her coming back to the page after decades in the industry.

If you need a dose of perspective, permission, or hope… this one’s for you.

Episode Breakdown

01:11 — Meet Susan Sloate
 05:21 — From screenwriting to novels
 09:18 — The spark behind Scenes from a Song
 15:02 — Panic, process, and creative problem-solving
 24:03 — A book 30 years in the making
 30:17 — Emotions + writing
 32:22 — Doubt, fear, imposter syndrome
 37:02 — Susan’s final wisdom for writers

LINKS

Website: www.susansloate.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SusanSloateAuthor

X.com: @Susan_Sloate

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/susan_sloate/

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/233349.Susan_Sloate

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Cozy mystery author Iris Applewood talks about how personal challenges and a whole lot of curiosity shaped her path to writing cozy mysteries and what she’s learned about the genre.

We explore the creation of her magical town, Serenity Falls, how community is a character, and discuss what to do when your “whodunit” isn’t so clear. 

It’s a grounded, encouraging conversation about following your heart and finding joy in the mystery of creating novels.

Timestamps:
 01:23 Meet Iris Applewood
 02:44 Draft It Scared announcement
 04:13 Iris’s writing journey
 13:04 Writing process + challenges
 17:57 Community as a character
 19:36 Storytelling challenges
 19:56 Internal narratives
 20:34 First manuscript struggles
 24:56 Plotting vs. pantsing
 26:55 Building a routine
 27:47 Turning real-life into a story
 31:05 Creative vulnerability

To connect with Iris and read her books, please visit her website: https://irisapplewood.com/

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Working on a rom-com? 

This conversation with bestselling author Kate Archer is packed with craft insights and the best mindset support!

We get into what makes humor land, how to keep your characters authentic, and how to keep conflict fresh in a genre built on familiar beats.

Kate also shares how she built her writing life, the routines that keep her grounded, and the strategies she uses to push past fear, resistance, and the inner critic. 

It’s an honest, encouraging look at the realities of writing comedy, staying consistent, and showing up for your creativity.

Timestamps:

 01:23 Meet Kate Archer
 03:58 Kate’s writing journey
 07:32 Why Regency romcoms resonate
 12:27 Crafting humor that feels true
 22:23 Writing from the servant’s perspective
 22:43 Revision + learning through mistakes
 25:04 The power of a writing schedule
 27:43 Overcoming psychological blocks
 33:46 The struggle + joy of writing
 36:14 Advice for aspiring writers
 41:14 Final thoughts + where to find Kate

Links:

Visit Kate at: https://www.facebook.com/ and https://katearcher.weebly.com/ or get in touch at katearcherauthor@yahoo.com. Check out Kate's books here 

Draft It Scared Small Group Book Coaching 

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Gratitude can shift your mindset, ease the pressure you put on yourself, and bring you back to the heart of why you write. 

You’ll hear how a simple practice helped me reconnect with my creative life, why it matters specifically for writers, and a challenge to help you create your own writing gratitude list.

Timestamps:
 00:00 The power of gratitude in writing
 01:33 Why gratitude matters right now
 02:23 Draft It Scared enrollment info
 03:32 My gratitude list story
 04:55 Benefits of a gratitude practice
 05:49 Gratitude as action
 06:42 Bringing gratitude into your writing
 07:17 Your writing gratitude challenge
 08:52 What this practice can shift
 13:03 Closing + next episode preview

Links Mentioned

Elizabeth Gilbert: Big Magic, Creative Living Beyond Fear
Gratitude Research

January 2026: Draft It Scared Group Coaching 

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It’s an honest, uplifting reminder that it’s never too late to chase your creative dreams or to finally write the story that’s been waiting for you.

Timestamps:
 00:00 Finding your creative spark at any age
 01:31 Meet Jean Indy
 07:04 The inspiration behind Houses of Detention
 16:40 Turning family stories into fiction
 31:14 Rejection, resilience, and the long road to publication
 36:37 The power of writing groups
 39:17 What’s next for Jean

Connect with Jean and read Houses of Detention 

Links mentioned in the show: 

Inquire about Draft It Scared Group Coaching for January 2026

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Author Accelerator is running a Black Friday Book Coaching Sale, and I’m one of 80 certified coaches offering a limited-time Mini Blueprint Strategy Session to help 100 writers get unstuck before the year ends.

If you’ve been spinning your wheels or second-guessing your story, this session is designed to help you find clarity and momentum. For $299 USD, you’ll get:

• Big-Picture Project Analysis
• Professional editorial feedback on your first 3,000 words
• A 50-minute private coaching call with me

This offer is ideal for commercial fiction writers—romance, mystery, thriller, speculative, and more—and it expires December 1. I only have space for three writers this winter, so if this sounds like what you need, head to writeitscared.co
Or check out the other participating coaches on the Author Accelerator Black Friday Book Coaching Sale website. 

Let’s get you unstuck and excited to write again. 

See you Monday!

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In this episode of the Write It Scared podcast, we’re digging into what real agency looks like on the page and how to give your characters the power to act, choose, and change their fate. I’ll walk you through the three key ingredients every active protagonist needs—motive, means, and opportunity—and show you how to use them to turn a passive story into a page-turner.

Timestamps
 00:00 – Why Some Characters Feel Passive (and How to Fix It)
 00:19 – Welcome to Write It Scared
 01:15 – What Is Character Agency, Really?
 01:55 – Why Agency Is the Beating Heart of Story
 05:10 – The Three Ingredients: Motive, Means, and Opportunity
 07:54 – Creating Moments of Choice That Matter
 09:27 – How to Spot When Your Character’s Lost Control
 11:08 – Final Takeaways 

Links mentioned in this episode:

Episode 76: Narrative Drive: The Secret to Story Momentum and Reader Engagement

Wire For Story by Lisa Cron. 

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Ever wonder what it takes to write in a language that isn’t your first—and still sound like you?

In this episode, I sit down with writer and book coach Karmen Spiljak to talk about what it really means to write without borders. Karmen shares her journey from Slovenia to indie publishing in English, and the mindset shifts that helped her move past perfectionism, comparison, and imposter syndrome to find joy and freedom on the page.

We talk about giving yourself permission, learning to trust your gut as a writer, embracing the messy drafts that lead to growth, and practical ways to keep your creative fire alive—like writing a letter to yourself about why you write and keeping a “Nice Things” folder for those encouraging words we all need to revisit sometimes.

If you’ve ever doubted your voice or wrestled with the question, “Am I good enough?”—this conversation will remind you that progress matters more than perfection, and writing what you love is always worth it!

Timestamps: 

00:00 Starting the Journey: Writing Without Borders
14:59 Challenges of Writing in English
15:42 Mindset Shifts and Comparisons

18:49 Overcoming Imposter Syndrome
21:26 Writing for Yourself and Reconnecting with Joy
24:31 Tools and Resources for Writers
28:40 Final Thoughts and Advice

How to Connect with Karmen

Short Story Blueprint (I've created it for the podcast listeners): https://storyallegiance.com/short/ 

author website https://karmenspiljak.com

Other Links Mentioned:
Karmen has also published articles on Jane Friedman’s blog, including how to use food as a character development tool and how to navigate writing in a second language.

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Michelle pulls back the curtain on the realities of indie publishing—how to manage burnout, balance creativity with deadlines, and build systems that let you keep writing for the long haul. We talk about shifting from traditional to indie publishing, finding joy in the work again, and learning when to push forward (and when to pause).

If you’ve ever dreamed of a full-time writing career—or wondered how to make it sustainable—this episode is packed with hard-earned wisdom, practical strategies, and heart.

Episode Timestamps:
 00:00 Rapid release strategies that actually work
 01:25 Meet fantasy author Michelle Miles
 03:29 From traditional to indie publishing
 06:21 Lessons from 40+ books: challenges, triumphs, and persistence
 17:31 Finding balance between writing and real life
 24:17 Building sustainable publishing systems
 31:01 Advice for aspiring indie authors
 34:19 When to hire an editor (and when to trust yourself)
 40:58 Dealing with doubt and staying motivated
 48:38 Final thoughts and encouragement

Links

Holly Lisle

 How To Think Sideways

Liegh Bardugo’s TED Talk: The Art of Discomfort 

Miles Beyond the Page Podcast 

Michelle Miles Author Website

Direct Store: http://www.michellemilesbooks.com

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Today, we’re digging into one of the trickiest but most essential tools in your writer’s toolbox: narrative drive. This is the force that makes your reader lean in, turn the page, and stay invested in your character’s journey.

I’ll break down what narrative drive actually is, why it matters so much, and how to wield it on the page. We’ll talk about the three C’s—concern, curiosity, and control of information— and how to use them to keep the reader invested. Plus, I’ll share some practical strategies you can use right now to keep your story moving!

Episode Timestamps:
 00:00 What narrative drive really means
 01:24 Why narrative drive matters for your story
 02:46 How character and conflict fuel narrative drive
 06:12 The 3 C’s: concern, curiosity, and control of information
 10:23 Practical tips to build story momentum
 13:26 Final thoughts + your next steps

Links Mentioned:

Episode 27: How to Write Suspense and Tension in Your Novel

The Fiction Lounge Podcast

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Ali shares her journey to becoming a published author, the challenges of writing for kids, and the joy of tackling tough topics with humor. 

We discuss current word count trends in middle-grade literature, working with critique groups, connecting with librarians and educators, and why rewriting is where the real magic happens.

If you’re navigating your own kid lit path—or just need encouragement to keep going—this conversation will leave you inspired.

Episode Highlights:
 01:34 – Meet Ali Terese & her writing journey
 04:13 – Writing middle grade fiction
 07:09 – Community and critique partners
 09:45 – Vote for Goat and Free Period
 14:32 – Ali’s writing process & rewriting
 17:47 – Middle Grade word count and publishing trends
 19:28 – Writing for the “in-between” readers
 21:58 – Supporting and connecting with librarians
 25:06 – Overcoming doubt & finding your voice
 31:47 – The joy and surprises of writing
 34:34 – Advice for aspiring kid lit writers
 36:14 – Current projects & where to find Ali

Links mentioned:

Society of Children's Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI)

Connect with Ali Terese:

Event booking: How Now Booking https://www.hownowbooking.com/speakers/terese/

Website: www.aliterese.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alitereseauthor/

Frequently Asked Questions  https://aliterese.com/about/

Discussion guide, actions, recipes, crafts, mayhem  https://aliterese.com/resources/

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Don’t. 

In this episode, I talk with fantasy author Bruce Buchanan about how he went from years of false starts to giving up entirely to finally publishing his debut novel, The Blacksmith’s Boy. 

Bruce shares what finally broke through his mental blocks, how community kept him going, and the role of process in quieting doubt and imposter syndrome. 

If you’re struggling to finish, this one’s full of encouragement and practical tips!

Timestamps
 00:00 Overcoming the First Manuscript Hurdle
 00:30 Welcome to Write It Scared
 01:31 Bruce’s Journey from Journalist to Fantasy Author
 03:36 Writing Process + Challenges
 09:44 The Blacksmith’s Boy
 15:18 What’s Next for Bruce
 18:58 Community + Publication Path
 27:23 Battling Imposter Syndrome
 29:10 Final Encouragement

Links

https://brucebuchananauthor.com/

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Spoiler—you don’t. 

In this episode, I share a story from a coaching call, plus my own late start as a novelist, to remind you that credentials matter far less than persistence, passion, and the willingness to keep learning by doing. Writing skills can be learned—but the only thing that really counts is that you keep showing up. 

The takeaway? Don’t let yourself fail before you even start. You are a writer if you choose to be. So choose it—today, tomorrow, and the day after. 

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We dig into how real-life experiences can shape your fiction, what it takes to move through self-doubt, and why chasing perfection is the fastest way to stall your draft.

Christine shares her perspective on trusting your subconscious, embracing the chaos of the writing process, and staying grounded when social media starts to feel like a trap. 

This one’s equal parts practical advice and encouragement—with a little humor to keep you going.

Timestamps
 00:00 Introduction to the Write It Scared Podcast
 00:27 Meet Christine Ma-Kellams
 01:47 Christine's Writing Journey
 04:17 The Band: Plot and Themes
 06:05 Writing Process and Advice
 11:27 The Role of Personal Experience in Writing
 18:46 Overcoming Self-Doubt
 19:22 The Voice of Doubt and How to Push Back
 22:51 Why Reading Matters for Writers
 25:02 Creative Advice and Encouragement
 28:54 Navigating Social Media as an Author
 31:33 What’s Next for Christine and Where to Find Her

Links:

Novel: THE BAND Atria 2024

https://www.christinema-kellams.com

https://www.instagram.com/choppstixz

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 In this episode of Write It Scared, I dig into why it stings, how to answer without spiraling, and how to reframe it into an empowering moment. Because progress isn’t about speed or polish—it’s about staying true to what you value and what you’re making meaning of in your creative life.

Timestamps:
 00:00 The Writer’s Spiral
 01:27 The Dreaded Question
 02:20 Why It Stings
 03:27 Reframing the Conversation
 06:44 The Truth About Writing
 07:48 How to Share about Your Journey
 09:53 Keep Going
 11:01 Closing Thoughts 

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Stan also shares how embracing authenticity fuels his storytelling—and why representation matters. Plus, parents, librarians, and educators won’t want to miss the giveaway at the end: a chance to win a school visit from Stan himself.

Episode Timestamps

 00:19 Welcome to Write It Scared Podcast
 01:29 Introducing Stan Yan: Background and Journey
 03:22 The Many Misfortunes of Eugene Wang
 07:22 Challenges and Inspirations in Writing
 17:49 The Writing and Illustrating Process
 25:07 Pressure Testing Your Story Idea
 25:19 Outlining and Collaborating on Your Pitch
 26:22 Knowing If Your Idea Works as a Graphic Novel
 27:29 The Role of Illustrators in Graphic Novels
 31:10 Starting Small with Graphic Novels
 32:14 The Long Journey of Creating a Graphic Novel
 34:32 Representation in Graphic Novels
 37:41 Fighting Imposter Syndrome
 39:43 Creating for Yourself First
 42:47 Upcoming Projects and How to Connect
 45:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Links and Contact info: 

JOIN THE STREET TEAM WIN SWAG! →  TEAM MISFORTUNE

Stan Yan

Graphic Novelist, Caricature Artist & Instructor

Represented by Ann Rose at Tobias Agency

Book me for an author visit at The Booking Tree

2022 SCBWI Florida Portfolio Excellence Award Winner

Kidlit art instructor at The Cuddlefish Academy

Author/Illustrator of 2025 JLG Selection, THE MANY MISFORTUNES OF EUGENIA WANG (Atheneum (S&S), Coming September 2025)

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I’ll walk you through eight prompts to help you set meaningful goals, reflect on what’s been working (and what hasn’t), and move into the next season of your writing with more clarity and less self-doubt.

You’ll also hear about the Polished Page Pack—a free bundle of tools from expert book coaches and editors to support you wherever you are in your process.

Let’s set the stage for a season of growth, courage, and creative momentum.

Set Your Writing Goals with These 8 Prompts

1. First, ask yourself: How do I want to feel about my writing this season? And what would need to shift so I can nurture that kind of relationship with my work?
   
   
2. Next, write down three writing goals for Fall 2025. Make at least one of them a mindset goal—something that helps you foster the relationship you want to have with your writing.
   
   
3. Now, check your goals against the lens of your reality. Are they doable in three to four months? Or are you expecting too much of yourself? Be honest, and recalibrate if necessary.
   
   
4. Once you’ve refined them, break your goals into actions. What specific steps can you take daily, weekly, or monthly to move forward?
   
   
5. Then ask yourself: How will I actually make this happen? What’s my plan? And just as importantly, how will I get back on track if life derails me?
   
   
6. Look back over the past three to six months. What worked for you, and what didn’t? What needs to change this fall so you can move toward your goals and feel good about your writing?
   
   
7. Ask: What am I willing to change this season to make my goals achievable? And my favorite prompt: What do I want to be brave enough to do this season that I haven’t tried before?
   
   
8. And finally, take a moment to reflect on your progress so far in 2025. What have you already accomplished? What small wins or big gains can you celebrate right now?”

GRAB  The Polished Page Pack, which is loaded with free resources to guide you through every stage of the writing process.

It's 100% free until September 15, 2025.

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We’ve covered nearly 30 episodes this season, from character arcs to worldbuilding to the emotional ups and downs of putting your work into the world. Before we break for summer, I wanted to leave you with something real: a mix of reflection, encouragement, and a few favorite moments from this season’s guests.

You’ll hear reminders that it’s okay to:

• Take your time
• Be frustrated
• Celebrate the small wins
• Keep going even when it’s hard

If you’ve been feeling stuck, tired, or unsure where you’re headed, I hope this episode gives you permission to rest and reassurance that your story matters.

I’ll be back in the fall with new guests, new topics, and more tools to help you write with clarity, confidence, and heart.

⏱ Episode Breakdown:

00:00 – A Love Letter to Writers
 00:19 – Welcome to Write It Scared
 01:27 – Reflecting on Season Two
 03:10 – Permission to Write
 04:15 – Advice from Our Guests
 13:48 – Final Thoughts and Future Plans
 15:40 – Thank You and Goodbye

Episodes Mentioned

Ep 41 Michele Regenold

Ep 67 Kristin Offiler

Ep 43 MK Pagano

Ep 45 Trisha Jenn Loehr

Ep 55 Alexandria Faulkenbury

Ep 53  Demi Michelle Schwartz

Ep 67 Gloria Huang

Ep 63 Brooke Adams Law

Ep 49 Michael Fedor

Ep 68 AM Deese

Ep 59 Amy Bernstine

Ep 61 Gina Kammer

Ep 51 Amy Nielson

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Fantasy author A.M. Deese (aka Alexis Marrero Deese) joins me to talk about her immersive Dance of the Elements series, how she builds layered magical worlds, and what it really looks like to write through fear, doubt, and procrastination.

We dive into the challenges of writing a dynamic fantasy series, how to track all your world details without losing your mind, and why your first draft is supposed to be messy. Whether you write fantasy or not, this episode is packed with truth, tools, and encouragement to help you keep going.

✨ You’ll hear about:

• Crafting a multi-POV fantasy series with political intrigue and elemental magic
  
  
  
• How to approach worldbuilding without getting stuck in the weeds
  
  
  
• The power of a “what if” and the value of trusting your process
  
  
  
• Tools Alexis uses to stay organized (hello, series bible + style sheet!)
  
  
  
• Her new adult fantasy romance project under the pen name Lexi Lopez

Timestamps:
 00:00 – Embrace your shitty first draft
 00:32 – Welcome to the Write It Scared podcast
 01:30 – Meet fantasy author A.M. Deese (Alexis Marrero Deese)
 02:23 – Why worldbuilding matters for all writers
 03:17 – Alexis’s journey to publication + #PitMad success
 07:52 – Inside the Dance of the Elements series
14:23 – Building complex worlds + magic systems
20:00 – Series Bibles, style sheets, and staying consistent
27:06 – Pushing past fear, self-doubt, and rejection
31:15 – Spicy fantasy romance + writing as Lexi Lopez

To connect with Alexis and find her books please visit

• Website: www.amdeese.com
• Instagram/Facebook: @authoramdeese
• TikTok @authoramdeese 
  
  

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I’m joined by debut author Kristin Offiler, whose psychological suspense novel The Housewarming is the result of years of slow, steady work—and a whole lot of revision. But the thing is? She almost gave up on it.

Kristin talks openly about her journey from MFA grad to published novelist, including:

• How her story shifted genres mid-process
  
  
  
• What finally clicked after years of rewriting
  
  
  
• The moment she nearly walked away—and what kept her going
  
  
  
• Why stories (and processes) are more malleable than we think
  
  
  
• How to keep writing when self-doubt creeps in
  
  
  

This is one of those episodes that will make you feel less alone if you’re staring at a messy draft, wondering if it’s ever going to work. Kristin’s journey is a beautiful reminder that a long revision process is not a sign of failure—it’s the path forward. And persistence? That’s the real secret.

📚 The Housewarming is out August 1, 2025, from Thomas & Mercer. Preorder wherever you get your books!

For more information, visit www.kristinoffiler.com.

00:40 – Meet debut author Kristin Offiler

01:33 – Kristin’s writing journey: from MFA to motherhood to first drafts

07:36 – Where The Housewarming began—and how it grew into something more

14:04 – The pivot: transforming a character-driven novel into psychological suspense

20:07 – How genre feedback changed Kristin’s revision process

21:08 – Stories are malleable: a lesson in letting go of “the way it’s supposed to be”

22:22 – Self-doubt, slow writing, and the comparison trap

23:37 – What experience can teach you (that no craft book can)

26:17 – Kristin’s evolving writing process (and how it saved her time)

32:06 – Balancing writing with life, parenting, and limited time

37:15 – Advice for writers: trust your idea, stay in the bubble, and don’t quit too soon

40:58 – Where to find Kristin + preorder info for The Housewarming

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Gloria Huang, author of the stunning middle grade fantasy Kaya and the Ocean, joins me to talk about:

• Letting go of perfectionism
  
  
• Writing through self-doubt
  
  
• Revisiting your work with compassion
  
  

We dive into how she approached themes like childhood anxiety, identity, and the immigrant experience with honesty and heart.

Gloria also shares her path to publication—including the emotional stamina it takes to navigate rejection, impostor syndrome, and everything in between.

This conversation is a powerful reminder that writing is brave, messy, and deeply human.

In this episode, we cover:
00:29 Welcome back to Write It Scared
 01:39 Meet our guest: Gloria Huang
 02:57 Gloria’s debut novel Kaya and the Ocean
 04:38 Exploring themes of anxiety and identity
 06:15 The inspiration behind Kaya and the Ocean
 08:06 Cultural influences and mental health in storytelling
 15:13 The power of stories to heal and connect
 17:21 Gloria’s path to publication
 19:57 Writer’s block, burnout, and the creative process
 21:43 What happens after the book deal
 24:22 Writing process + giving yourself grace
 27:10 Reframing rejection as part of the journey
 29:03 Gloria’s hopes for fellow writers
 30:32 What she’s working on next
 31:17 Final thoughts and where to find Gloria

To connect with Gloria and find her books, please visit her at:

https://www.glorialaihuang.com/

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We’re talking about why community matters so much (especially when the writing gets hard), how to figure out what kind of group actually supports your goals, and why patience is essential, especially if you’re newer and not quite ready for critique. 

I’m sharing what I’ve learned about navigating group dynamics, feedback, and the sometimes messy yet beautiful process of connecting with fellow writers.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What kind of writing support do you really need (accountability, critique, or both)?
  
  
  
• Why encouragement matters just as much as craft feedback
  
  
  
• How to choose between large vs. small groups
  
  
  
• Where to look for writing communities online and in real life
  
  
  
• How to protect your energy, trust your voice, and find your people
  
  

Plus, I’m giving you a heads-up about my small group coaching program starting September 2025—perfect if you’re in the story development or drafting phase and want a safe, supported space to grow.

This one’s for every writer who’s ever felt a little too alone in the work. You don’t have to do this by yourself.

Timestamps:
 01:34 – Why writing doesn’t have to be lonely
 02:51 – The benefits of having a writing community
 04:01 – What kind of group is right for you?
04:32 – A gentle warning about early critique
07:01 – Group size, structure, and expectations
09:07 – Where to actually find these magical writer folks
12:33 – Common challenges and how to navigate them
13:53 – Wrap up + Fall 2025 group coaching details

Links to Online Writing Communities that may interest you. I’m not an affiliate of any of these.

• She Writes
• Scribophile
• The Next Big Writer
• The Insecure Writer

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What You’ll Learn:

• What it really means to “write brave”
  
  
  
• How to listen to your inner wisdom as a writer
  
  
  
• The root causes of writer’s block and how to move through it
  
  
  
• Simple exercises to start healing your creative wounds
  
  
  
• Why persistence and self-trust matter more than perfection
  
  
  

Timestamps:
 01:21 – Meet Brooke and the Writing Brave Movement
 04:25 – Defining “writing brave”
 13:09 – Writing from intuition and inner wisdom
 23:51 – Signs and symptoms of writer’s block
 27:00 – Creative wound healing practices
 35:29 – Brooke’s story of doubt, grit, and getting published

This one’s packed with heart and hope. Tune in when you need a boost.

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Point of view is one of the most important craft decisions you’ll make as a writer—and one of the easiest to get tangled up in. In this episode, we’re breaking down what POV actually is, why it matters, and how to use it with intention.

You’ll learn:

• The pros and cons of first, second, and third person POV
  
  
  
• What terms like “third person limited” and “close” really mean
  
  
  
• How to avoid head-hopping and other common pitfalls
  
  
  
• When it’s okay to blend POVs—and how to do it well
  
  
  
• How to choose the right narrative lens for your story
  
  

Whether you’re just starting out or revising a draft, this episode will help you make smarter POV choices and tell your story with more clarity and confidence.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Introduction to Point of View

00:16 – Welcome to Write It Scared

01:26 – Craft Chat: POV

01:50 – Giveaway Announcement

02:23 – What POV is and why it matters

05:59 – First Person POV: Strengths and limitations

09:05 – Second Person POV: Rare but powerful

11:02 – Third Person POV: Limited, close, omniscient, and more

17:46 – Blending POVs intentionally

19:13 – How to choose the right POV for your story

21:50 – Final thoughts and encouragement

22:02 – Next week’s guest and closing

Other links and resources 

[Episode 50: How to Plan and Outline Your Novel]

[Episode 42: Understanding Story Structure and Character Arcs]
 

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This week is all about writing fantasy and building magic systems! 

We cover:

• What a magic system is designed to do
• The difference between soft vs. hard and low vs. high magic systems (and why knowing the difference matters)
• Practical ways to ground readers in the familiar, even when your world is totally new
• Strategies for overcoming those tricky mental blocks we all hit while building fantasy worlds (you're definitely not alone!)
• Gina’s powerful tips from brain science to help you connect with your readers on a deeper level

If you’ve ever struggled to craft magic systems or fantasy worlds readers can’t get enough of, this episode is for you. Gina and I will leave you feeling inspired, capable, and excited to dive into your own magical creations

Links mentioned: 

Four Core Types of Magic Systems 

 inkybookwyrm.com

Word Wizard's Journey: Turn Your Story Idea into a Marketable Book https://www.inkybookwyrm.com/f/bookmap

YouTube: Gina Kammer, The Inky Bookwyrm

https://www.youtube.com/@ginakammer

Enchant Your Readers program

https://www.inkybookwyrm.com/courses/enchantyourreaders

Plus, fantasy and sci-fi writers can join her Critique Partner Program (50% off through this link!)

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Struggling to figure out where your story is going? 

In this episode, we break down how understanding your content genre can give you a built-in structure for your novel, shaping your plot, character arc, and emotional payoff. 

We’ll explore the difference between marketing and content genres, explain why genre is more than just a shelf label, and dive into how frameworks like Save the Cat Writes a Novel and The Story Grid can help you choose your content genre and write with more intention.

Episode Breakdown

00:00 – Introduction to Genre and Storytelling
 00:22 – Welcome to The Write It Scared Podcast
 01:31 – Understanding Your Story Genre
 02:27 – Marketing vs. Content Genre
 05:39 – Frameworks for Identifying Content Genre
 06:50 – External vs. Internal Content Genres
 08:33 – Blending Genres and Finding Your Story’s Spine
 10:12 – Conclusion and Next Steps
 

🔗 Mentioned in this episode:

• [Episode 50: How to Plan and Outline Your Novel]
  
  
  
• [Episode 42: Understanding Story Structure and Character Arcs]
  
  
  
• Companion blog post with examples and resources 

• 2025 Spark to Story Summit–FREE TICKET! (Please note, this is an affiliate link. If you upgrade to a paid all-access SPARK pass, I may get a commission at no extra cost to you.)

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We got real about the ways self-doubt creeps into our creative lives, and how—even though it's uncomfortable—it's also totally normal. Amy opened up about her own journey with doubt, what inspired her to write her book, and shared practical (and gentle!) strategies to navigate that nagging voice inside your head.

Here's what you'll find in our conversation:

• Why doubt isn't always the enemy (spoiler: sometimes it's a powerful creative ally)
  
  
  
• How to use the improv-inspired mindset of "Yes, and..." to navigate creative uncertainty and fear
  
  
  
• Real talk about handling rejection, building persistence, and finding your creative path despite doubt
  
  
  
• Personal insights and relatable experiences from Amy’s own writing journey (and a few from mine, too!)
  
  
  

If you're wrestling with doubt—and let's be honest, who isn't?—you'll walk away from this episode feeling seen, inspired, and ready to embrace your creative path, self-doubt included.

Episode Breakdown

• 00:00 – Facing doubt head-on (you've got this!)
  
  
  
• 00:28 – Welcome back to Write It Scared!
  
  
  
• 01:33 – Diving deep: self-doubt and creativity
  
  
  
• 01:55 – Meet the amazing Amy Bernstein
  
  
  
• 03:52 – Amy’s personal journey with writing and doubt
  
  
  
• 07:09 – Why doubt can be powerful (yes, really!)
  
  
  
• 20:32 – How to navigate creative risks when doubt creeps in
  
  
  
• 22:17 – Using the “Yes, and…” approach to keep going
  
  
  
• 23:19 – Embracing rejection, persistence, and growth
  
  
  
• 25:46 – Understanding doubt’s role in the creative process
  
  
  
• 27:59 – Personal stories of battling doubt (we've all been there!)
  
  
  
• 30:15 – Finding your true creative path
  
  
  
• 35:41 – Building your inner resources for writing
  
  
  
• 37:45 – Wrapping up with encouragement and final thoughts
  
  

Keep going, keep writing, and keep believing in yourself. You've absolutely got this.

Amy L. Bernstein is the author, most recently, of Wrangling the Doubt Monster: Fighting Fears, Finding Inspiration, an inspirational book for self-doubting creatives. She is an award-winning novelist, a former journalist, and a certified nonfiction book coach helping authors find their best path to publishing. 

Wrangling the Doubt Monster: Fighting Fears, Finding Inspiration

Author website: https://amywrites.live

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In this episode of The Write It Scared Podcast, I’m getting personal—celebrating the podcast’s one-year milestone (woohoo!) and opening up about a topic that deserves more honest conversation: being a perimenopausal writer.

If you’ve experienced brain fog, trouble concentrating, or felt like your creativity took an unexpected vacation, trust me—you’re not alone. I share a bit of my own journey navigating perimenopause, offering encouragement and practical strategies for dealing with these temporary (but very real!) cognitive struggles.

Then, we tackle another sneaky writing struggle—procrastination vs. percolation. Not every pause or hesitation is avoidance, and I'll break down how to recognize the difference between genuinely procrastinating and when you're actually percolating (aka your brain needs processing time).

Plus, I introduce a special free resource, “The WRITE Mindset” workbook, designed specifically to help you shift those unhelpful inner critic thoughts into positive actions.

Above all, this episode is about reminding you to be gentle with yourself. Writing isn't always linear or easy—but with patience, self-compassion, and the right support, you’ve absolutely got this.

Episode Breakdown

• 00:00 – Let's stop beating ourselves up (please!)
  
  
• 00:23 – Welcome back to Write It Scared! (One year already? Yay!)
  
  
• 01:31 – The truth about being a perimenopausal writer (because someone has to say it)
  
  
• 06:54 – Procrastination vs. Percolation: what's really holding you back?
  
  
• 13:35 – Final thoughts and what’s coming next
  
  

Final Thoughts

If there’s one takeaway from this episode, I hope it’s this: your struggles—whether hormonal, creative, or somewhere in between—are temporary, normal, and manageable. Keep engaging with your story, lean into support when you need it, and give yourself the kindness and grace you’d offer a friend.

Happy writing, friends—you’re doing great, even when it feels messy!

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Let’s talk about author platforms—and before you groan, I promise this isn’t scary or overwhelming! In this episode of The Write It Scared Podcast, I’m chatting with two industry experts, Nicole Meier (multi-published author and book coach) and Gretchen Schaffer (marketing and PR strategist), the brilliant team behind Bookworks.co

Nicole and Gretchen break down exactly what an author platform is (hint: it’s simpler than you think), why it's important (but not something to stress about), and how you can confidently start building yours right now—no matter where you are in your writing journey.

Here’s a peek at what we cover:

• What exactly is an author platform, anyway? (Spoiler alert: it’s just your online/offline presence that connects you authentically with readers)
  
  
• When’s the best time to start building your platform? (Hint: you might be surprised!)
  
  
• Practical, realistic steps you can take immediately to grow your platform without feeling overwhelmed
  
  
• How to clearly define your author brand, find your readers, and feel good about pitching your work
  
  
• The resources and tools Nicole and Gretchen recommend to make your platform-building easier (and even fun)
  
  

Whether you’re brand-new to the idea of an author platform or looking to boost your current efforts, this episode is packed with down-to-earth advice, real strategies, and encouragement to help you succeed, minus the stress.

Episode Breakdown

• 00:00 – Let’s talk platforms without the panic!
  
  
  
• 01:16 – Meet Nicole Meyer & Gretchen Schaefer of Bookwork
  
  
  
• 04:11 – What an author platform really is (and isn’t)
  
  
  
• 11:53 – Practical tips you can use right away to build your author platform confidently
  
  
  
• 25:01 – How Bookwork can help you (plus final thoughts)
  
  

Final Thoughts

Building your author platform doesn’t need to feel like another full-time job. Nicole and Gretchen reminded me that the key is authenticity and simplicity. So take a deep breath—your readers want to know the real you, and building connections can actually be enjoyable.

Ready to dive in? You’ve got this!

Happy writing (and platform-building!), friends!

To learn more about Bookworks, Nicole Meier and Gretchen Schaffer, please visit their website

 bookworks.co 

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