Don't Be Caught Dead

What Near-Death Experiences Taught Me About Living with Travis Hamilton

Thu, 14 May 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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In this episode, I’m joined by Travis Hamilton, a visionary entrepreneur, ‘recovering banker’, and co-founder of Candour Funerals. After decades working in international finance and navigating addiction, trauma, and two near-death experiences, Travis found himself pulled toward purpose-led work centered around mortality, consciousness, and meaningful living.

We talk about the moments that transformed his life, including a terrifying white-water rafting accident where he became trapped underwater and fully believed he was dying. Travis shares how those experiences shifted his relationship with fear, death, and what it means to truly live. We also explore his journey through sobriety, trauma healing, and psychedelic-assisted therapy, and how those experiences deepened his understanding of connection, grief, and human consciousness.

Our conversation moves into the funeral industry itself, why death remains such a taboo topic in Western culture, and why Travis believes open conversations about mortality can actually help us live more consciously. He also shares the extraordinary story of honouring his father’s final wish for a full-body burial at sea, including the emotional and logistical realities behind making that happen in Australia.

This episode is deeply reflective, vulnerable, and expansive. It’s about transformation, healing,

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

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What Happens When You Take Back Your Story with Barry Du Bois

Thu, 07 May 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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I’ve had many conversations about death, grief, and what it means to be prepared… but this one felt different.

Barry Du Bois is someone many Australians know from television. A builder, presenter, and now a powerful mental health advocate. But beyond the public image, Barry carries a deeply personal story shaped by cancer, loss, resilience, and a defining belief: “I won’t have anybody else narrate my story,” even when faced with a terminal diagnosis.

What struck me most in this conversation wasn’t just what Barry has been through… it was how he chooses to live because of it.

This episode explores what it means to face mortality head-on, draw strength from connection, and learn to live fully, one small, intentional step at a time, even in life’s hardest moments.

A little extra support for our listeners
If this conversation resonated with you, Barry has generously shared a range of free resources to help you feel more prepared, less overwhelmed, and supported through life’s more complex moments.

His work through The Art of Untangling Lives focuses on preparation, legacy, and easing the burden on loved ones.

Barry also offers a short, practical online program, 5 Days to a Calmer, Stronger You, designed as a gentle starting point for people who may appear to be coping on the outside,

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

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It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

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MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

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A Mother’s Story of Loss and Love with Emily Mir

Thu, 30 Apr 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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There are moments in life that divide everything into before and after… this conversation with Emily Mir holds one of those stories.

Emily is a mother, storyteller, and advocate whose life was forever shaped by the stillbirth of her son, Gilbert, at full term. What she shares is not just the heartbreak of that day, but the reality of what comes after… the quiet, evolving, and deeply human experience of grief.

In this episode, we talk about what it means to carry love for a child who is no longer physically here, how grief softens but never disappears, and the complexity of holding joy and loss at the same time. Emily also shares the inspiration behind her children’s book Gilbert’s Cake — a gentle but honest way to help families speak about grief with children, without hiding the truth.

This is a conversation about love, loss, and the ways we continue to live, connect, and remember.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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If I Could Do It Again, I’d Bring Her Home with Annie Caulfield

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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If I had my time again, I wouldn’t leave her there… I would have brought her home.

In this episode, I sit down with Annie Caulfield, a Brisbane-based death care practitioner and founder of Grassroots Death Care. Annie’s work is centred around helping families reconnect with death in a way that feels more personal, supported, and deeply human.

This conversation is shaped by Annie’s own lived experience of losing her mum suddenly. What she shares isn’t just reflection… it’s clarity that came after the moment had already passed. The realisation that there were choices she didn’t know she had.

We talk about how death has quietly been handed over to systems over time, and what that has taken away from families and communities. Annie walks us through what it can actually look like to bring someone home, to care for them in their final days, and to be more involved in the process rather than stepping back from it.

This episode isn’t about getting it “right.” It’s about understanding that there are options… and that even in the hardest moments, there can still be space for connection, presence, and meaning.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
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The Questions I Lived With After Suicide Loss with Todd Maguire

Thu, 16 Apr 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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Trigger Warning: This episode includes conversations around suicide, trauma, and grief. Please listen with care.

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I’ve sat in many conversations around death… but this one stayed with me in a different way.

Today, I’m speaking with Todd Maguire, a former undercover police officer who spent decades on the frontline of humanity’s darkest moments. From violent crime to suicide, from delivering devastating news to living with the aftermath of trauma, Todd has seen more than most of us ever will. But what struck me most wasn’t just what he witnessed… it was what he carried.

Todd shares the story of losing his partner to suicide, the years of pain, recklessness, and self-destruction that followed, and how he slowly found his way back. Not perfectly. Not cleanly. But honestly. And in that honesty, there is something incredibly powerful.

This conversation isn’t just about death. It’s about what happens after. It’s about grief, identity, healing… and the quiet, often messy work of choosing to live again.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Death Isn’t Wrong, It’s Part of Life with Annie Raser-Rowland

Thu, 09 Apr 2026 00:00:00 +1000

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Have you ever thought about what it really means to live well… and how often we’re told that “more” is the answer?

More things. More experiences. More consumption.

But what if that’s not it at all?

In this episode, I’m joined by Annie Raser-Rowland, writer, horticulturalist, and co-author of The Art of Frugal Hedonism. Together, we explore a different way of living… one that isn’t built around constant consumption, but around presence, connection, and truly experiencing life as it is.

What struck me most is how this way of living naturally shifts how we see death. When you understand yourself as part of a wider system… where everything cycles, returns, and continues… death starts to feel less like something “wrong” and more like something that simply belongs.

This is a conversation about life, death, grief, and the quiet ways we can feel more alive… without needing more.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
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Preparing for Death as a Final Love Letter With Kathie Shearer

Thu, 02 Apr 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I’m speaking with Kathie Shearer, a funeral celebrant for over 20 years who has supported families through some of life’s most emotional moments.

We explore what truly matters at the end of life, and what people actually remember. Kathie shares that it’s not the achievements or milestones, but the memories, the relationships, and the way someone made others feel that stay with us.

She also reflects on her own experience of loss with the death of her husband, Australian golf legend PGA Champion Bob Shearer and how that shaped her perspective on the importance of being able to say goodbye.

We talk about end-of-life planning in a different way. Not as something heavy, but as something thoughtful and practical - like a love letter. A way to ease the burden on the people you love and give them something to hold onto when it matters most.

Because sometimes, the smallest preparations can make the biggest difference

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Why People Delay Writing a Will and How to Break the Cycle With John Malouff

Mon, 30 Mar 2026 11:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I’m speaking with John Malouff, psychologist and Associate Professor at the University of New England. John has spent much of his career researching procrastination, self-regulation, and the science of why people avoid the very tasks that could make their lives easier.

And that includes one of the most important tasks many of us put off for far too long: end-of-life planning.

We talk about why so many people delay writing a will, completing an advance care directive, or having conversations about their wishes. Often it isn’t about laziness or indifference. It’s fear, uncertainty, and the simple fact that we don’t see other people openly doing it.

John shares practical psychological insights into why procrastination happens, what motivates people to take action, and how even small prompts can help us move from avoidance to preparation.

Because while death itself may be confronting, the real impact often comes from what happens before and after it.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
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The Kind of Grief Society Doesn’t Recognise With Linda Rowley

Thu, 19 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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There are some losses we never officially acknowledge.

Not the kind that comes with a funeral, flowers, or a clear ending. But the kind that quietly reshapes a life. A diagnosis. A caregiving role. A sudden accident. A future that no longer looks the way we thought it would.

In this episode, I speak with Linda Rowley, a wellbeing consultant, coach and facilitator based in regional Victoria. Linda has spent more than 20 years supporting people through change, loss, and uncertainty. Her work focuses on something many people have experienced but rarely have words for: ambiguous loss.

Linda’s professional expertise is deeply informed by her own life experiences, including being diagnosed with stage three cancer in her thirties while raising a young daughter. That journey, alongside supporting her mother through cancer at the same time, reshaped the way she understands resilience, identity, and what it means to rebuild life when everything changes.

Together, we explore how loss doesn’t always come with clear endings, why many of the most difficult life changes go unrecognised by society, and how we can support both ourselves and others through these complex transitions.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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By the Time You Notice Alzheimer’s, It’s Already Too Late With Greg Sutherland

Thu, 12 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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What happens to your brain after you die?

In this episode, I speak with Professor Greg Sutherland, Director of the New South Wales Brain Tissue Resource Centre. Greg leads one of Australia’s postmortem brain banks and works at the forefront of research into Alzheimer’s Disease and Alcohol Use Disorder.

We talk about what a brain bank really is and why human brain tissue is still essential in understanding diseases that have no cure. Greg explains why Alzheimer’s is so complex, why symptoms mean irreversible damage has already occurred, and why prevention may be our most powerful tool.

We also explore Alcohol Use Disorder — the stigma, the genetics, and why addiction cannot be reduced to willpower alone.

This conversation is about research, reality, and the role brain donation plays in shaping what the future of prevention might look like.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Dementia Is Terminal – But We Are Not Told How With Theresa Flavin

Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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Theresa Flavin was diagnosed with younger-onset Alzheimer’s Disease at 47. What followed was not just a medical journey, but a profound reckoning with how unprepared our systems are for people living with dementia.

In this deeply moving and confronting conversation, Theresa shares what it felt like to be dismissed, unheard and effectively “managed away” after diagnosis. From being told her diagnosis via dictaphone to discovering that dementia care systems are built around suppression rather than understanding, Theresa speaks with extraordinary clarity about what it truly feels like to live inside a brain that is changing.

We explore behaviour, consent, dignity, palliative care, human rights, and the urgent need for proper pathways after diagnosis. Theresa also shares her powerful moment addressing the United Nations, advocating for cognitive diversity and the rights of people living with dementia.

This episode is not about fear. It is about truth, agency and preparation.

Thank you for listening.

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Suicide, Success and the Trauma We Carry With Penny Locaso

Thu, 26 Feb 2026 09:00:00 +1100

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What happens when the person you thought embodied “success” dies in a way that completely unravels your definition of it?

That’s where this conversation with Penny Locaso begins.

Penny is a behavioural scientist and leadership coach, but this episode is not corporate theory. We talk about suicide, unanswered questions, grief that doesn’t follow a tidy process, and trauma that lodges itself in the body long after the event is over. Penny shares the story of her uncle’s death — officially classified as suicide, yet filled with ambiguity — and how that moment forced her to confront what success truly meant in her own life.

We also explore intergenerational trauma, divorce, compassion, and the idea that trauma is not what happens to you, but what happens inside you. This is not about erasing pain. It’s about understanding it, acknowledging it, and choosing how you move forward.

If you’ve ever wondered why certain triggers still sit in your chest or your gut, this conversation might resonate with you.

Thank you for listening.

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

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ENCORE: Beyond the Grave: Fighting Heteronormativity in Funerals and Weddings

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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Imagine a gay man planning his own funeral, only for his family to swoop in on the day and try to rewrite everything – that's the raw, heartbreaking reality one of Bronte Price's clients faced, and he had to advocate fiercely for his wishes.

In this episode, I chat with Bronte Price, a.k.a. “your gay celebrant,” Australia's trailblazing LGBTQIA+ marriage celebrant who's now shaking up funerals too. We unpack the deep challenges queer folks face, from advocating for dying wishes to ditching heteronormative assumptions that creep into every ceremony.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

Thanks for listening.

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

ENCORE: Facing the Unfathomable – Grief, Suicide, and Living Fully After Loss

Thu, 12 Feb 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it's really like to stare death in the face – not just your own, but the sudden, shattering loss of a child to suicide? In this raw and honest chat, I sit down with Christine Pedley, a grief counsellor, death doula, and author who's turned her deepest pain into a lifeline for others. If you've ever felt lost in the silence around death and dying, this episode will hit home and remind you that talking about it isn't just okay – it's essential.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

Thanks for listening.

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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ENCORE: Death, Grief and Ritual: Lessons from an Interfaith Minister

Thu, 05 Feb 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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In this episode of Don’t Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Reverend Amy Firth — interfaith minister, funeral director, and spiritual counsellor — to talk about her incredible journey through grief, loss, and finding her calling in end-of-life care. From training in London with the One Spirit Interfaith Foundation, to returning to the Blue Mountains to support families, Amy shares what it means to walk alongside people in their most vulnerable moments.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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ENCORE: Meaning Over Ministry: Jim's Unique Approach to Grief and Funerals

Sat, 31 Jan 2026 14:00:00 +1100

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What do you give the love of your life as a final birthday gift when they only have days left? That's the tender moment Reverend Jim Colville shares with us in this powerful chat. It's an act of love that perfectly sums up Jim's radical, non-judgemental approach to life, death, and dying.

Jim, the man who started Colony 47 in Hobart in 1973, joins me to discuss his work offering unconditional acceptance to everyone rejected by 1970s society—from young single mums to the LGBTQIA+ community. He tells us how he fought intense judgement, even being called a communist for painting a church door red! Jim's ministry has always been unconventional.

He shares beautiful insights on supporting people through traumatic, sudden death, and why silence is often better than trying to talk. Jim also recounts the deeply personal story of caring for his wife, Margaret, as she was dying from lung cancer. This led to his final, most enduring gift to her: a hidden tattoo he showed her just before she died. Tune in for a powerful, funny, and unforgettable chat about facing death and finding humanity in the toughest times.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

The founding of Colony 47 in 1973 as a hub for non-judgemental acceptance.
Jim’s philosophy of acceptance and focusing on "what can be" for the rejected.
The minister'

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ENCORE: Found Family: The Importance of Compassion in Grief

Thu, 22 Jan 2026 15:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I have the absolute pleasure of chatting with Dr. Annetta Mallon, a leading expert in grief loss education and end-of-life care. With over three decades of experience as a psychotherapist, Annetta dives deep into the complexities of grief, loss, and the importance of personal storytelling. We explore the multifaceted roles of an end-of-life doula, the significance of advanced care planning, and how to navigate the often-overlooked challenges faced by the LGBTQI+ community in death care.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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ENCORE: Facing Death: Moira Kelly's Mission to Save Lives

Thu, 15 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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What does it mean to TRULY save a life? For humanitarian Moira Kelly, the answer was simple—give a part of herself.

In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we dive deep into the extraordinary life of Moira Kelly, a remarkable humanitarian whose journey has been defined by compassion, courage, and the gift of life. From her early dreams of working alongside Mother Teresa to her recent act of becoming a living kidney donor to Krishna, one of the conjoined twins she brought to Australia, Moira's story is a testament to the power of love and selflessness. Join us as we explore her incredible experiences, the challenges she faced, and the profound impact she has made on countless lives.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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ENCORE: Time’s Up: Facing Death and Finding Your Life List

Thu, 08 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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Are you making the most of your time before death catches us all? In this heartfelt episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I chat with Kate Christie, Australia’s leading time management expert, about how loss and grief can be the wake-up call we need to live intentionally. Kate shares her personal story of losing her ex-husband to pancreatic cancer and how that tragedy reshaped her approach to time, priorities, and what she calls a “life list” — not a bucket list — focusing on what truly matters while we’re still here.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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ENCORE: Embracing Grief: The Art of Memorialisation with Chloe Marcela Coelho

Thu, 01 Jan 2026 00:00:00 +1100

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Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

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ENCORE: Who’s Really at Risk? Understanding Elder Abuse

Thu, 25 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +1100

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Have you ever thought about who might be the biggest threat to the elderly in our lives? It’s not just the faceless strangers in nursing homes; it’s often their own family members.

In this eye-opening episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I chat with William J. Betts, a legal expert in family violence and elder rights at Peninsula Community Legal Centre. Will sheds light on the often-overlooked issue of elder abuse. We dive deep into the complexities of estate planning, the importance of having a Will, and how to protect our loved ones from potential harm.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

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ENCORE: Living Well to Die Well: A Philosophical Perspective

Thu, 18 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +1100

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This is an encore episode of the Don't Be Caught Dead podcast and a listener favourite from Season 2.

In this thought-provoking episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Dr. Simon Longstaff, a philosopher and the first executive director of the Ethics Centre. We dive deep into the complexities of life, death, and everything in between. Simon shares his unique journey, from his early days on Groot Island to his profound connection with the Anindilyakwa people, and how these experiences have shaped his understanding of ethics, community, and the essence of a good life.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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ENCORE: This Is What Dignity Looks Like: A Daughter’s Story in Support of Voluntary Assisted Dying

Thu, 11 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +1100

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This is an encore episode of the Don't Be Caught Dead podcast and a listener favourite from Season 2.

In this heartfelt episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Barb Gering, who shares her deeply personal journey as she navigated her mother's cancer diagnosis and the complexities of voluntary assisted dying. Barb's story is a powerful reminder of the importance of choice and dignity at the end of life. She reflects on the emotional rollercoaster of treatment, the candid conversations with her mother, and the profound impact of having the option to choose how and when to say goodbye.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

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ENCORE: Grief Without Permission: Rosie Batty on Challenging Silence and Speaking Truth

Thu, 04 Dec 2025 00:00:00 +1100

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This is an encore episode of the Don't Be Caught Dead podcast and a listener favourite from Season 2.

In this powerful episode, I sit down with the incredible Rosie Batty, a fierce advocate for family violence prevention and a beacon of resilience following the tragic murder of her son, Luke. Rosie’s journey through grief, PTSD, and healing is nothing short of inspiring. She shares her candid reflections on the societal perceptions of grief and the importance of having open conversations about death and loss. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that while we may not be ready to face death, we can certainly prepare ourselves to navigate the complexities of grief and healing.

We will return with our new season on Thursday, 26 February 2026.

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No More Death Denial: Alicia Ng's Story of Turning Fear into End-of-Life Wisdom

Thu, 27 Nov 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered how staring down your deepest fear of death could actually make you live bolder and more intentionally? That's exactly what today's guest, Alicia Ng, discovered on her wild journey from corporate life in Singapore to end-of-life planning in Australia.

Alicia, a brand and content marketing whiz turned author, opened up about her thanatophobia – that gut-wrenching terror of dying that started in childhood and spiralled into panic attacks. Instead of running from it, she ran towards it, training as a death doula, moving countries, and pouring her experiences into her compassionate workbook, The Final Gift, which guides readers through life reviews, funeral planning, and leaving a meaningful legacy to ease the grief for loved ones. We also chatted about her children's book, Willow's Tea Tales, a whimsical tale of presence and healing, and her podcast Stories in Transit, exploring life's messy pivots. Alicia's story is raw and real, showing how facing death head-on can transform fear into fuel for a fuller life.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

How Alicia's fear of death drove her to quit jobs, move continents, and embrace discomfort for growth and intentional living.
Why end-of-life planning is an act of love, easing family burdens with wills, funeral details, and heartfelt legacies.
How personal lo

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When There's No Funeral: Honouring Babies Lost Before 20 Weeks with Melissa King

Thu, 20 Nov 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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When Melissa King lost her baby in 2011, she discovered an unexpected silence. No information, no pathway to support, and very few people willing to talk openly about miscarriage. Out of that heartbreak, she founded Miscarriage Information Support Service (MISS), Australia’s first miscarriage-specific not-for-profit providing free resources, care packages, and a sense of community for people affected by early pregnancy loss.

In this conversation, Melissa shares her personal story of loss and how it inspired her to create a space where grief is acknowledged, not hidden. We talk about why early pregnancy loss is still misunderstood, how society’s reluctance to discuss death and miscarriage leaves families isolated, and what real support looks like for people going through it.

We also discuss the newly opened Butterfly Garden, a stunning memorial space for families to remember their babies and explore practical ways to honour and remember a baby after miscarriage. Melissa’s compassion and dedication shine through as she offers comfort, truth, and practical tools for anyone navigating the pain of early pregnancy loss.

In this episode:

How Melissa’s personal experience of miscarriage led to the creation of MISS
The ongoing stigma and silence surrounding early pregnancy loss
Why acknowledgin

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Beyond the Grave: Fighting Heteronormativity in Funerals and Weddings

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Imagine a gay man planning his own funeral, only for his family to swoop in and rewrite everything. That’s what one of Bronte Price’s clients faced, and he had to fight to honour his wishes.

In this episode I chat with Bronte Price, “your gay celebrant,” Australia’s trailblazing LGBTQIA+ celebrant shaking up weddings and funerals. We talk about bias in death care, family interference, and why queer people still face barriers when planning funerals. Bronte shares lessons from The Equality Network, wins in aged care inclusion, and the need for authentic, safe ceremonies that respect identity and chosen family.

What you’ll hear:
• Why queer funerals must challenge old traditions
• Real stories of bias in end-of-life planning
• How The Equality Network drives change
• Inclusion in grief and death care
• Bronte’s reflections on love, marriage and truth

More on inclusive death care: The Equality Network
and ABC Queer Resources.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,
Catherine

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Facing Death Head-On: A Doula's Guide to End-of-Life Care

Thu, 06 Nov 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what really happens in those final moments before someone dies, or how a death doula can turn a family's grief into something meaningful? In this episode, I chat with Barb Ferguson, a seasoned end-of-life doula, about her hands-on work with dying, death, and everything after. It's raw, real, and full of insights that might just change how you think about the end of life.

Barb shares her journey from accountant to death doula, sparked by helping a family through a tragic accident. We dive into the nitty-gritty of after-death care at home, like using cooling methods to give families time to process without rushing to a funeral. She talks about the shifts she sees in families – how anxiety melts away, allowing space for connection and rituals, even simple things like tucking a hanky into a loved one's pyjamas. It's all about embracing the energy of death, from ancestors cheering on the dying to birds singing at the moment of passing.

We also explore voluntary assisted dying, where Barb's support has helped people live more fully, not just end sooner. She reflects on witnessing deaths, the common theme of people slipping away when no one's watching, and how doulas fill gaps in a stretched healthcare system. Barb's passion shines through, reminding us that by facing death head-on, we can live more authentically.

What you’

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Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

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Meaning Over Ministry: Jim's Unique Approach to Grief and Funerals

Thu, 30 Oct 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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What you’ll hear in this episode:

The founding of Colony 47 in 1973 as a hub for non-judgemental acceptance.
Jim’s philosophy of acceptance and focusing on "what can be" for the rejected.
The minister's tatto

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

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The Fabric of Dying: How a Stitched Map Sparks End-of-Life Talks

Thu, 23 Oct 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered if a simple box of fabric and words could unlock the toughest chats about dying? In this episode, I dive into the world of the Bioscope with Chetan Shastri, a Melbourne designer who's turned death into a navigable map – literally. It’s not some dusty chart; it’s a tactile, embroidered toolkit that sparks real talk about end-of-life wishes, from home to hospice, without the awkward silence.

Chetan shares how his Indian roots, from street bioscopes with spinning films to his mum’s hand-stitched embroidery, fused with global adventures in Cambodia’s mass funerals and India’s ‘city of death’ in Varanasi. Back in Australia, he wrestled with our hospital-heavy approach to dying, creating the Bioscope to decolonise death – reclaiming it from white coats and back to heartfelt conversations. We chat about his PhD journey, co-designing with palliative pros at places like Peter Mac and Alfred Health, and how this award-winning tool (shoutout to the Victorian Premier's Design Awards and Design Outlook) helps folks grieve, plan, and even cry it out at community sessions.

It’s a reminder that facing death head-on isn’t morbid – it’s what makes life authentic. Chetan’s work shows design can bridge cultures and taboos, turning ‘the end’ into a shared story.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

Bioscope origins f

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Building Resilience: How Architecture and Landscape Can Assist With the Process of Grieving

Thu, 16 Oct 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered how architecture and landscape can turn contested land into a living tribute to lives lost and those affected by family violence? In this episode, I chat with Amy Muir, director of Muir Architecture, about designing Victoria's Family Violence Memorial located next to the Parliament Precinct in East Melbourne. It's a reminder that memorials aren't relics, but rather spaces for reflection, gathering and support that advocate for societal and political change.

Amy's journey began with her passion for architecture and landscape when studying at RMIT. Through her education and research, memorialisation within the context of our cities has been a key focus for the practice. Partnering with Mark Jacques from Openwork, they worked with Indigenous advisor Sarah Lynn Rees from JCB Architects and in close consultation with the City of Melbourne, the Department of Premier and Cabinet Office for Women, the Victims Survivors' Advisory Council, Wurundjeri Woi-wurrung Cultural Heritage Aboriginal Corporation, Boon Wurrung Foundation and Bunurong Land Council Aboriginal Corporation.

We explore the core design: a purple-flowering 'landscape in motion' around a gentle 800mm high steel wall, forming an outdoor room for reflection and gatherings with an Indigenous smoking vessel for ceremonies. No names etched, an ethical nod to the 'immeasura

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Facing the Unfathomable – Grief, Suicide, and Living Fully After Loss

Thu, 09 Oct 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it’s like to face death – not your own, but the sudden loss of a child to suicide? In this raw and moving chat, I sit down with Christine Pedley, a grief counsellor, death doula, and author who turned unimaginable pain into purpose. If you’ve ever felt lost in the silence around death and dying, this episode reminds you that talking about it isn’t just okay – it’s essential.

Christine’s story began long before her son Jono’s death at 31. With over two decades in palliative care, she’s helped families navigate end-of-life moments and create ceremonies that honour both life and love. But nothing prepared her for the shock and chaos of suicide grief. We talk about her healing journey — finding strength in nature, journaling ‘glimmers’ of hope, and challenging myths about suicide and the language we use.

Her book, Facing the Unfathomable: Surviving Your Child’s Suicide, shares her story and offers guidance to those supporting others through loss. Christine also opens up about death literacy — why we must talk about dying before it reaches us. From raw family conversations to honouring Jono with a memorial seat overlooking the city, she shows that grief isn’t linear; it’s beginning, middle, and forever.

What you’ll hear:
• From palliative care to grieving mum
• Myths and langua

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TIME'S UP: Facing Death and Finding Your LIFE LIST

Thu, 02 Oct 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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Kate’s journey from juggling a demanding corporate career and motherhood to creating a business that helps others reclaim their time is inspiring and deeply relatable. We dive into the guilt many of us feel balancing family and work, and how reframing time as an investment rather than something to manage can transform your life. She offers practical tips on identifying what you most value, setting achievable goals, and making space for the things that bring you joy and meaning — before it’s too late.

This episode is a powerful reminder that death is the great equaliser, but it also urges us not to wait for tragedy to live fully. Whether you’re facing grief, juggling life’s demands, or just want to live with more purpose, Kate’s insights will help you start your own life list today.

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Advance Care Planning: The Gift of CHOICE Before Death

Thu, 25 Sep 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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Are you ready to face death head-on? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I chat with Rose Sexton, a seasoned nurse and passionate palliative care educator from Wangaratta, Northeast Victoria. Rose shares her deep insights into palliative care, advance care planning, and the importance of having honest conversations about death and dying before it’s too late. We explore how palliative care is about living well, not just dying, and why planning early can save your loved ones from unbearable decisions later.

Rose opens up about her personal experiences supporting people at the end of life and how community palliative care works, especially in rural areas where resources are stretched. We also dive into the Good To Go Project, a local initiative reshaping how communities talk about death, grief, and loss. If you’ve ever felt unsure about how to start the conversation with your family or wondered what palliative care really means, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt stories to help you prepare.

From the challenges of navigating healthcare systems in rural Australia to the transformative power of death doulas and community support, Rose and I discuss how embracing death can actually help us live more fully. We also touch on the environmental impact of funeral choices and the exciting future of natural organic reduc

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Death, Grief and Ritual: Lessons from an Interfaith Minister

Thu, 18 Sep 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What does it mean to “do death differently”?

In this episode of Don’t Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Reverend Amy Firth — interfaith minister, funeral director, and spiritual counsellor — to talk about her incredible journey through grief, loss, and finding her calling in end-of-life care. From training in London with the One Spirit Interfaith Foundation, to returning to the Blue Mountains to support families, Amy shares what it means to walk alongside people in their most vulnerable moments.

We explore how ceremonies can hold competing truths, including the difficult challenge of creating funerals for those who weren’t always easy to love. Amy talks about including children, honouring complex relationships, and finding healing through ritual. She also shares how her grandmother’s death sparked a mystical experience that changed the course of her life, and why truth-telling — even when it’s painful — is essential in death care.

We also dive into her work running monthly Death Cafés, where community members gather to talk openly about death, dying, grief, pet loss, and even the unresolved grief from COVID. Amy reminds us that ceremonies don’t have to be pompous or formal. They can be barefoot, backyard gatherings or deeply personal rituals that honour the reality of life and death.

In this episode we cover:

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Voluntary Assisted Dying: The Doctors Who See Death Differently

Thu, 11 Sep 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What does it really look like to face death with choice, dignity and clarity? In this episode of Don’t Be Caught Dead, I sit down with two doctors who’ve seen death from every angle — and who aren’t afraid to talk about it.

I’m joined by Dr Nick Carr, one of the first GPs in Victoria to be involved in voluntary assisted dying, and Dr Kane Treble, a regional GP in Mildura with a background in emergency medicine, palliative care and paramedicine. Together, they pull back the curtain on how voluntary assisted dying works, why it matters, and what the system gets right (and wrong).

We dive into the personal stories that changed the way these doctors practise medicine — from patients like Beverley who died before the law was passed, to families who’ve experienced the relief and beauty of a death on their own terms. We talk openly about the barriers in the current laws, the stigma in rural communities, the gag clause that stops doctors from raising the option, and the very real impact this has on dying people and their families.

This conversation is raw, eye-opening and full of heart. It’s about the messy truth of death, why choice matters, and how doctors themselves are changed by walking alongside people at the very end.

In this episode, we cover:

How voluntary assisted dying became law in Victoria
Th

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How My Sister’s Death at Four Shaped My Life

Thu, 04 Sep 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What happens when death touches your family before you even understand what it means?

In this episode of Don’t Be Caught Dead, I sit down with funeral celebrant Leonie Fletcher Adams, whose life was profoundly shaped when her sister died at just four years old. That childhood loss not only shaped her family but also planted the seed for a lifelong journey of spirituality, honesty, and connection.

Leonie shares her path from nursing and acting to becoming a funeral celebrant, weaving in her belief in spiritual guides, the importance of rituals, and why every funeral deserves to be an honest reflection of the person who has died. We talk about how grief is often unacknowledged in siblings, why including children in funerals matters, and how simple touches — like jellybeans in the cupboard or roses from the garden — can make ceremonies deeply personal.

This isn’t just about organising funerals. It’s about truth, spirituality, and finding ways to honour life while facing the reality of death. Leonie’s insights are raw, deeply human, and grounded in decades of experience with families at their most vulnerable.

In this episode, we cover:

How losing her sister as a child shaped Leonie’s family and her life’s purpose
The role of spirituality and spiritual guides in navigating grief and creating funerals

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VAD: Choice, Compassion, and the End of Life.

Thu, 28 Aug 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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We all know death is coming for us, yet most of us avoid talking about it like it’s the plague. In this episode, I sit down with Baci Hillyer for an honest, heartfelt conversation about why facing our mortality head-on, including the controversial topic of assisted dying, can change the way we live.

Baci and I dive into the uncomfortable yet essential topic of death, why we fear it, why we avoid it, and what happens when we finally look it in the eye. We explore her personal journey of working in the end-of-life space, the emotional truths she’s uncovered, and the unexpected freedom that comes from preparing for something we can’t escape.

One of the big conversations we have is around Voluntary Assisted Dying, what it means, who it’s for, and why it sparks so much debate. Baci shares her perspective from both personal and professional angles, inviting listeners to think deeply about choice, autonomy, and compassion at the end of life.

This episode is about more than just dying, it’s about living well. We unpack the role that grief plays in shaping us, how our culture’s discomfort with death harms us, and practical steps you can take right now to prepare yourself and your loved ones for the inevitable. There’s laughter, raw honesty, and a shared belief that talking about death is one of the most life-affirming things you can do.

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FOUND Family: The Importance of Compassion in Grief

Thu, 21 Aug 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What if I told you that talking about death could be one of the most empowering conversations you ever have? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Dr. Annetta Mallon, a leading expert in grief loss education and end-of-life care, to explore the profound impact of embracing death and the importance of open dialogue around it.

Annetta shares her personal journey through grief, having lost her mother and beloved dog within a short span of time. She candidly discusses the raw emotions that accompany such losses and the importance of self-care in the grieving process. We also touch on the concept of "found family" and how it plays a crucial role in supporting individuals during their most vulnerable moments. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that while death is an inevitable part of life, the way we approach it can make

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Weaving Life and Death: The Art of Eco-Friendly Coffins

Thu, 14 Aug 2025 09:00:00 +1000

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What if the way we say goodbye could heal both our hearts and the planet?

In this profound episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we sit down with Zimmi Forest, fibre artist, environmentalist, and creator of handwoven eco-coffins that challenge everything we think we know about death. Zimmi doesn’t just make baskets; she crafts vessels that reconnect us to nature, turning invasive weeds into beautiful, biodegradable farewells.

From foraging materials in the wild to guiding families through the emotional process of weaving a loved one’s final resting place, Zimmi’s work is a powerful reminder that death doesn’t have to be disconnected from life’s natural cycles. Whether you’re curious about sustainable funerals or simply seeking a fresh perspective on mortality, this conversation will leave you inspired to rethink the way we honour those we’ve lost—and how we might one day be honoured ourselves.

Key points from our discussion:

Eco-conscious farewells: Why Zimmi swaps toxic funeral materials for invasive plants like cat’s claw vine.
The healing power of making: How weaving a coffin can transform grief into a sacred, communal act.
Beyond cremation: The surprisingly poetic case for natural burials (and what most people don’t know about ashes).
Death’s dirty secret: The greenwashing in funeral indust

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The Gift of Life: Adele's Journey Through Grief and Organ Donation

Thu, 07 Aug 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What happens when your worst nightmare becomes your greatest gift to strangers? Adele shares the moment her son's death transformed into hope.

In this heartfelt episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Adele, a mother who faced the unimaginable loss of her son, Dan, in 2020. Dan's tragic accident not only shattered Adele's world but also led to a powerful legacy of life through organ and tissue donation. Join us as we explore the profound impact of Dan's life and death, the importance of having conversations about organ donation, and how grief can transform into a celebration of life.

Adele shares her memories of Dan, a passionate musician with a heart of gold, who brought joy to everyone around him. From his childhood band practices with neighbourhood kids to his love for ska music and his time playing with Area-7, Dan's spirit shines through in every story. As we delve into the harrowing moments following Dan's accident, Adele recounts the surreal experience of receiving the news that no parent should ever have to hear. Her journey through grief is raw and real, highlighting the importance of cherishing every moment and the power of love and connection in the face of loss.

This episode is not just about loss; it's about legacy. Adele's decision to honour Dan's memory through organ donation has given life to others, and s

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FACING DEATH: Moira Kelly's Mission to Save Lives

Thu, 31 Jul 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What does it mean to TRULY save a life? For humanitarian Moira Kelly, the answer was simple—give a part of herself.

Moira's journey began with a childhood fascination for humanitarian work, inspired by the legendary Mother Teresa. After years of dedicated service in various countries, including Albania and Bangladesh, she became a beacon of hope for children in need. Her work with the Children First Foundation and the Moira Kelly Creating Hope Foundation has transformed the lives of many, but it was her recent decision to donate a kidney to Krishna, one of the conjoined twins she helped separate, that truly exemplifies her unwavering commitment to making a difference.

As we discuss the emotional rollercoaster of navigating chronic illness, organ donation, and the i

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Life After Death: The Impact of Organ Donation on Families

Thu, 24 Jul 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What if someone else's tragedy could become your lifeline?

In this powerful episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we dive deep into the life-altering journey of Jessica Chappel, a passionate advocate for organ and tissue donation. Jessica's story is one of resilience, hope, and the profound impact of a second chance at life. After being diagnosed with autoimmune hepatitis, she faced the unimaginable reality of needing a liver transplant. Join us as Jessica shares her raw and emotional experiences, from the moment she received the life-changing call to the challenges of navigating chronic illness and the waiting game for a donor.

Jessica's journey is not just about her survival; it's about the lives intertwined with hers—the family who grieved a loss so she could live, and the community that rallied around her during her darkest days. She reflects on the importance of open conversations about death and dying, the emotional toll of chronic illness, and the incredible support system that helped her through it all. This episode is a powerful reminder of the gift of life and the responsibility we carry to honour those who have given us a second chance.

Key points from our discussion:

Jessica's initial health struggles and the diagnosis of autoimmune hepatitis.
The emotional realities of waiting for a transplant and the i

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Healing Hearts: Navigating Grief After Pet Loss

Thu, 17 Jul 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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In this heartfelt episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I sit down with Barbara Allen, the visionary behind Australia's first animal chaplaincy program at the Lort Smith Animal Hospital from 2005 to 2011. Barbara shares her profound insights on the often-overlooked grief that accompanies the loss of our beloved pets. We delve into the emotional complexities of pet loss, exploring why the death of an animal can hit us harder than we expect, and how society's mixed messages can leave us feeling isolated in our grief.

Barbara's new book, "Broken Heart, Shared Heart, Healing Heart," serves as a compassionate guide for those navigating the turbulent waters of pet loss. She discusses the importance of normalising grief, offering practical advice for supporting those who are grieving, and the significance of rituals and memorials in honouring our furry companions. With her unique blend of compassion and knowledge, Barbara encourages us to embrace our emotions and recognise the deep bonds we share with our pets.

Key points from our discussion:

The emotional impact of pet loss and why it can be so profound.
How to support someone grieving the loss of a pet.
The role of rituals and memorials in the grieving process.
The importance of normalising grief and seeking help when needed.
Barbara's personal journey

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Living Well to Die Well: A Philosophical Perspective

Thu, 10 Jul 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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We explore the idea that a good death is intrinsically linked to a good life, and how our experiences—both joyful and challenging—contribute to who we are. Simon offers insights into the ethical dilemmas surrounding voluntary assisted dying, the importance of truth and compassion in our final moments, and the role of community in shaping our understanding of life and death. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that while we may not be ready to die, we can certainly prepare ourselves for the inevitable.

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The significance of community and kinship in understanding life and death.
The ethical complexities surrounding voluntary assisted dying and suicide.
How our experiences shape our perspectives on death and dying.
The importance of living authentically and with intention to ensure a good death.
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Community, Kindness, and Care: Death & Grief with Emma Beattie

Thu, 03 Jul 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with the inspiring Emma Beattie, founder of Before and After Life, to explore the often-avoided topics of death, dying, and grief. Emma is a trailblazer in reimagining how we prepare for and respond to the realities of caring for those at the end of life. With a background in creative strategy and storytelling, she brings a unique lens to the conversation, drawing from her own experiences of loss and her commitment to fostering compassionate communities.

Emma's journey into the world of deathcare began in her childhood in New Zealand, where death was part of everyday life. She shares how her mother’s community work shaped her understanding of death and the importance of being present for one another. As we delve into the nuances of caring, dying, and grieving, Emma highlights the need for a shift in how we approach these topics. She advocates for a more hands-on, participatory approach, encouraging us to engage with our communities and support each other through grief.

Throughout our conversation, we touch on the significance of rituals, the healing power of nature, and the importance of open communication about death. Emma’s insights challenge us to rethink our relationships and embrace the uncomfortable conversations that lead to deeper connection. Whether through community initiativ

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Reclaiming Agency: Living Beyond Dementia

Thu, 26 Jun 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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Ever been told to just give up and prepare to die after a diagnosis? What if I told you that’s the standard script handed to people with dementia — and it’s completely wrong?

Today, I’m chatting with Kate Swaffer, a powerhouse who refused to accept that narrative. She’s here to shake things up, challenge the world’s outdated views on dementia, and show us why living well with this diagnosis is not just possible, but a right.

In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, Kate opens up about her own journey living with young onset dementia and how she rewrote the rules on what it means to be diagnosed. From the crushing “prescribed disengagement” she was offered, to founding Dementia Alliance International to give people with dementia a real voice — Kate’s story is raw, honest, and full of fire. We also dive deep into the institutional failings, the stigma that refuses to budge, and the urgent need to flip the script on how society supports people facing this diagnosis.

Kate makes it clear that dementia absolutely doesn’t mean you’re done or that death is all that’s left. Instead, it’s about reclaiming agency, demanding disability rights, and pushing for actual change — not just fundraising buzzwords. We talk about the importance of tough conversations about death at any age, raising awareness, and what real support looks like for peopl

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Holistic Funerals Choices BEYOND Traditional Funerals

Thu, 19 Jun 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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In this heartfelt episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I chat with Charmaine Blanch, the founder of Tiare Funerals and Deathcare. Charmaine's mission is to empower families to reclaim their death rights and make decisions that truly reflect their values and culture. With a unique blend of creativity and deep empathy, she offers a holistic approach to funerals that goes beyond the traditional, sterile services many are accustomed to.

Charmaine shares her personal journey, which began with the loss of her grandparents at a young age. This experience ignited her passion for creating meaningful farewells that honour the individuality of each person. She discusses the importance of community, the healing power of grief circles, and how her Maori heritage has influenced her practices. From offering families the choice to wash their loved ones to incorporating sound healing and breathwork, Charmaine is redefining what it means to say goodbye.

Join us as we explore the profound connection between death and life, and how embracing these conversations can lead to empowerment and healing. Whether you're planning a funeral or simply seeking to understand the process better, this episode is packed with insights and options that can help you navigate the complexities of grief and loss.

Key points from our discussion:

Charmaine's person

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The FUTURE of DYING: Can We CHEAT DEATH?

Thu, 12 Jun 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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Welcome back to another thought-provoking episode of Don't Be Caught Dead! Today, we dive deep into the fascinating world of neuroscience and the radical idea of abolishing death with our special guest, Ariel Zeleznikow-Johnston. As a neuroscientist and author of The Future Loves You, Ariel explores the potential of brain preservation and the philosophical implications of what it means to be alive. If you've ever wondered about the future of dying and whether we can truly cheat death, this episode is for you!

In our chat, Ariel shares his journey into the realm of neuroscience, where he combines big philosophical questions about consciousness with the nitty-gritty of brain biology. We discuss the historical evolution of the definition of death, the concept of the connectome, and how advancements in technology might one day allow us to preserve and potentially revive those who have died. Ariel challenges us to think about the future of medical technology and the ethical considerations surrounding it. What if we could put people in stasis and bring them back to life when medical science has advanced enough to cure their ailments? It’s a wild ride through science fiction becoming science fact!

We also touch on the emotional aspects of dying, grief, and the societal implications of such technologies. How would our relationships wit

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Who’s Really at Risk? Understanding Elder Abuse

Thu, 05 Jun 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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Have you ever thought about who might be the biggest threat to the elderly in our lives? It’s not just the faceless strangers in nursing homes; it’s often their own family members.

Will shares his wealth of knowledge on the legal landscape surrounding elder abuse, revealing that adult children are frequently the perpetrators. We discuss the critical role of community engagement in preventing abuse and the importance of open conversations about death and dying. With practical advice on estate planning, including the significance of having a Power of Attorney and an Advance Care Directive, this episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to safeguard their loved ones and ensure their wishes are respected.

Join us as we explore the nuances of elder rights, the legal protections available, and how to navigate the often murky waters of family dynamics when it comes to estate planning. This conversation is not just about legalities; it’s about compassion, understand

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RITUALS of HEALING: Swimming, Community, and the OCEAN

Thu, 29 May 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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The ocean has a raw, powerful way of healing us—body, mind, and soul. In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I'm joined by Fiona Basile, an internationally acclaimed photographer and writer who discovered that open water swimming is far more than just a hobby. It’s a lifeline, a community, and a space where stories of resilience and transformation come to life. Her stunning book, Immerse, shares faces and places shaped by the healing embrace of Melbourne’s Port Phillip Bay.

Fiona’s journey into open water swimming began during the challenging COVID lockdowns and quickly became a daily ritual that transformed her world. Through her lens—and interviews with 35 incredible swimmers—Immerse tells stories of people who found courage, connection, and hope in cold, shared waters. Their stories reveal how swimming can change not only bodies but the way we face life, death, and everything in between.

Beyond the ocean, Fiona’s storytelling took her to Rwanda, where she witnessed stories of deep forgiveness and healing in a country still rising from its painful past. These moments of grace remind us all how powerful it can be to share our stories, face our fears, and embrace the connections that make life meaningful. This episode invites you to dive into the water, community, and stories that inspire us to live fully—even in the face of death.

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This Is What Dignity Looks Like: A Daughter’s Story in Support of Voluntary Assisted Dying

Thu, 22 May 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What happens when a loved one faces a terminal illness? How do we navigate the heart-wrenching decisions that come with it? In this episode, Barb Gearing shares her powerful story of love, loss, and the importance of choice at the end of life.

Barb's experience highlights the brutal reality of cancer and the often harrowing decisions families face when a loved one is diagnosed with a terminal illness. She candidly discusses the challenges of treatment, the emotional toll it takes, and the conversations that led her mother to consider voluntary assisted dying. With compassion and clarity, Barb shares how her family approached this sensitive topic, ensuring that her mother's wishes were respected and honoured. This episode is not just about death; it's about living fully until the very end and reclaiming control over one's own narrative.

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FACING the UNTHINKABLE: Death, Dying, and Suicide

Thu, 15 May 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What if the key to unlocking the mysteries of death and suicide lies in the delicate verses of poetry? In this thought-provoking episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we sit down with the brilliant Katrina Jaworski, a philosopher and educator who dares to tackle the taboo. Together, we explore the profound connections between creativity and the complex emotions surrounding death and suicide.

Katrina's insights challenge us to rethink our assumptions and the language we use when discussing these sensitive topics. She passionately advocates for the power of listening—truly listening—to those who are struggling, creating safe spaces for open dialogue. Through her experiences and research, she reveals that vulnerability does not equate to voicelessness; instead, everyone has a story worth sharing, and those stories can be transformative.

Join us as we navigate the intersections of philosophy, gender, and mental health, and discover how we can foster a more compassionate and understanding society. This episode is not just a conversation; it's a call to action for all of us to engage in meaningful discussions about death and suicide, breaking down the barriers that keep us silent.

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DANCE with DEATH: Tony Yap's Journey Through Grief

Sat, 10 May 2025 16:00:00 +1000

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What if the act of dancing could help you confront your deepest fears about death? In this captivating episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with the extraordinary Tony Yap, a multidisciplinary artist and dancer whose work delves deep into the realms of psychophysical research, Asian shamanistic trance dance, and the emotional landscapes of death and dying. Tony shares his unique journey from visual arts to performance, revealing how his rich cultural heritage and personal experiences with loss have shaped his artistic expression.

Tony's performances are not just about movement; they are visceral explorations of the human condition, where the body becomes a vessel for emotion and transformation. He discusses the profound impact of his parents' deaths on his work, illustrating how grief can be a catalyst for creativity and connection. Through his art, Tony invites us to confront our own mortality and embrace the complexities of life, death, and everything in between.

Join us as we explore the intersections of dance, spirituality, and the universal experience of dying. Tony's insights will inspire you to reflect on your own relationship with death and the beauty that can emerge from it.

Key points from our discussion:

The origins and philosophy of Butoh dance and its connection to the darker aspects of human

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What Happens to Your WEALTH When You DIE? The TRUTH About Estate Planning

Thu, 08 May 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What happens to your wealth, your business, and your family when you’re no longer here? In this episode, we dive deep into the world of estate planning, business continuity, and how to protect your legacy with Shannon Smit, chartered accountant, financial advisor, and founder of Smart Private Wealth. Whether you’re a business owner, a parent, or simply someone who wants to ensure your loved ones are taken care of, this conversation is packed with practical advice, eye-opening insights, and a few surprises you might not see coming.

In this episode, I sit down with Shannon Smit, a financial expert with over two decades of experience helping individuals and businesses navigate the complexities of estate planning, tax, and wealth protection. Shannon shares her journey from working in global financial hubs like New York and Amsterdam to returning to her roots on the Mornington Peninsula to build a thriving local practice.

We explore the importance of estate planning, not just for the wealthy, but for anyone who wants to ensure their assets are distributed according to their wishes. Shannon breaks down the often-overlooked details, like how superannuation and life insurance policies don’t automatically form part of your estate, and why updating your binding death benefit nominations is crucial.

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Grief Without Permission: ROSIE BATTY on Challenging SILENCE and Speaking TRUTH

Thu, 01 May 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What happens when the unimaginable becomes your reality? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I chat with Rosie Batty, a woman who turned her profound grief into a powerful movement for change after the tragic murder of her son, Luke. Join us as we explore the depths of loss, the importance of community, and the strength it takes to find hope in the darkest of times.

Rosie’s story is one of profound loss, but it’s also a testament to the strength of the human spirit. After losing her son, she found herself thrust into the public eye, sparking a national conversation about domestic violence. Through her memoir, Hope, Rosie reflects on her journey, the challenges she faced, and the lessons learned along the way. She discusses the importance of community support, t

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Designing for the Living: Hamish Coates on Cemeteries and Community

Thu, 24 Apr 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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What if I told you that cemeteries could be more than just final resting places? What if they could serve as vibrant community spaces that celebrate life, culture, and nature? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Hamish Coates, a seasoned landscape architect and the principal designer at Greater Melbourne Cemeteries Trust.

With over 20 years of experience, Hamish has transformed the way we think about cemeteries—not just as resting places for the dead, but as vibrant, accessible spaces for the living. We dive deep into the fascinating world of cemetery design, exploring how these spaces can reflect cultural diversity, promote community engagement, and even combat climate change.

Hamish shares his journey from traditional landscape architecture to the unique challenges of designing cemeteries. He discusses the importance of creating spaces that honour the deceased while also serving the needs of the living. From the intricacies of soil types and drainage to the innovative use of art and nature, Hamish reveals how thoughtful design can change perceptions of death and dying. We also touch on the growing demand for natural burials and the future of cemetery spaces in an ever-evolving urban landscape.

Join us as we explore the intersection of life, death, and design, and discover how cemeteries can become places of

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The Doctor Who Feared Death: Leah Kaminsky on Life, Loss and Finding Joy

Thu, 10 Apr 2025 05:00:00 +1000

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In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Leah Kaminsky, a physician and award-winning author, to explore the often-taboo subject of death and dying. Leah shares her personal journey from being a terrified doctor to becoming a passionate writer who confronts mortality head-on. We discuss how her experiences in medicine, particularly with dying patients, have shaped her understanding of life and death, and how writing has become a therapeutic outlet for her fears and emotions.

Leah's unique perspective as both a doctor and a writer allows her to weave together the complexities of human experience, history, and the inevitability of death in her novels and poetry. We delve into her creative process, the importance of honesty in conversations about death, and how her own family history has influenced her work. Leah's insights remind us that while death is a natural part of life, it can also be a catalyst for deeper connections and a more meaningful existence.

Join us as we unpack the layers of grief, the significance of storytelling, and the power of confronting our fears. Leah's journey is a testament to the idea that by embracing death, we can truly learn to live.

Key points from our discussion:

● Leah's transition from a fearful doctor to a writer exploring death and dying.

● The importan

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What Happens to Your Body After Death? A Deep Dive into Whole Body Donation

Thu, 03 Apr 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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What if I told you that your body could continue to teach long after you take your last breath? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Jackie Dent, the author of The Great Dead Body Teachers, to unravel the fascinating and often misunderstood world of whole body donation. This isn’t just about science; it’s about legacy, ethics, and the profound impact our choices can have on future generations of medical professionals.

Jackie's journey into this hidden realm began with her grandparents, who donated their bodies to science, igniting a curiosity that led her to explore the intricate relationship between death and anatomy. As she delved deeper, she uncovered a tapestry of stories that reveal how body donors play a crucial role in medical education, the evolution of dissection practices, and the ethical dilemmas that arise in this sensitive field. From the historical significance of anatomy to the contemporary challenges faced by medical students, Jackie shares insights that will change the way you think about death and the human body.

Join us as we discuss the importance of memorialising body donors, the shift in societal attitudes towards death, and the need for open conversations about our end-of-life choices. This episode is a compelling invitation to confront our mortality and consider how we can contribute

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Embracing Grief: The Art of Memorialisation with Chloe Marcela Coelho

Thu, 27 Mar 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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What if the objects we hold dear could help us navigate the complex journey of grief? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Chloe Marcela Coelho, a passionate death scholar and creative practitioner who dives deep into the intricate dimensions of death, grief, and design.

Chloe's work is all about enhancing our understanding of death and the grieving process through innovative memorialisation strategies. We explore how personal objects, tactile experiences, and even technology can help us maintain connections with our loved ones after they’ve passed.

Chloe shares her journey into the world of thanatology, sparked by her own experiences with grief after losing her mother at a young age. We discuss the importance of memorialisation and how it can take many forms—from patchwork quilts made from a loved one’s clothing to the inclusion of ashes in jewellery and tattoos. Chloe highlights the significance of engaging all our senses in the grieving process and how these tangible connections can provide comfort and healing.

We also touch on the ethical considerations in the death care industry, the misconceptions surrounding grief, and the need for more open conversations about death. Chloe’s insights challenge the traditional narratives around grief and encourage us to embrace our memories and connections with

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Orpheus and the Art of Grief: A Poet's Perspective

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Have you ever wondered how poetry can help us face grief and mortality? In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, poet, philosopher and scholar Luke Fischer shares how poetry allows us to sit with loss and navigate life’s deepest challenges.

Luke talks about his personal journey, the influence of philosophy on his work, and how themes of nature, death and extinction shape his writing. His exploration of the Orpheus myth is particularly moving, showing how ancient stories continue to help us process grief.

Whether you're a poetry lover or new to it, this conversation will inspire reflection on death, creativity, and language.

Key highlights:
● The role of poetry in grief
● Luke's personal and creative journey
● The Orpheus myth and mortality
● How poetry keeps language alive
● Tips for expressing grief creatively

Learn more about Luke:
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Discover the Orpheus and Eurydice myth:
A great place to start is Metamorphoses by Ovid — particularly Books X and XI. Read Book X online:
Metamorphoses (Book X) – Ovid

List of all the works mentioned by Luke Fischer during the episode:

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FACING DEATH: Judith Leeson AM on EMBRACING Our Mortality

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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In this heartfelt episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I sit down with the remarkable Judith Leeson AM, a passionate advocate for those living with disadvantage and a champion for end-of-life planning. At 90 years young, Judith shares her incredible journey, from her early memories during the Great Depression to her extensive career in early childhood, disability, and career development. We dive deep into the importance of having open conversations about death and dying, and how these discussions can empower us to take control of our futures.

Judith's insights are both profound and practical. She reflects on her own experiences with advance care planning, including the challenges she faced when navigating her husband Brian's recent Alzheimer's diagnosis. Judith emphasises the need for deeper literacy around death and dying, advocating for a shift in how we approach these conversations in our families and communities. With her unique blend of wisdom and warmth, Judith inspires us to embrace our mortality and plan for a dignified end of life that reflects our values and wishes.

Key points from our discussion:

- Advance Care planning is an investment in your future and should be a living document that evolves over time.
- Open conversations about death can foster understanding and connection within families.
- It'

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The Power of Compassion with Dr Hayley D Quinn

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, we dive deep into the often-avoided topic of death, grief, and the importance of compassion in navigating these challenging experiences. Join me as I chat with Dr Hayley D Quinn, an anti-burnout business coach and former clinical psychologist, who shares her insights on how compassion can transform our relationships with ourselves and others, especially during times of loss.

Dr. Hayley opens up about her journey from burnout to empowerment, highlighting the significance of self-compassion and the three flows of compassion: from ourselves to others, from others to ourselves, and the often-overlooked self-compassion. We discuss how these elements play a crucial role in both personal and professional realms, particularly for women entrepreneurs who often juggle multiple responsibilities. With practical tips and heartfelt anecdotes, Dr. Hayley encourages us to embrace our authentic selves and to have those difficult conversations about death and dying that can alleviate future suffering.

As we navigate the complexities of grief, Dr. Hayley reminds us that there is no right way to grieve and that being kind to ourselves is essential. We explore the importance of preparing for the unexpected, discussing how having open conversations about our wishes and plans can ease the burden on our loved ones when

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Embracing Mortality: Hayley West on Art, Death, and Community

Thu, 27 Feb 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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What happens when you mix art, death, and a whole lot of creativity? You get Hayley West – a multi-talented artist, librarian, death literacy advocate, and aspiring doom metal vocalist. In this episode, Hayley takes us on a journey through her fascinating life, where death isn’t just a topic—it’s a muse.

From interactive art installations to hosting a radio show called Dead Air, Hayley’s work challenges us to think differently about mortality and how we engage with it. Whether you’re curious about natural burials, death cafes, or just want to hear a wild story about a stolen hearse, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration.

Hayley West is a true multi-potentialite. She’s an artist, a librarian, a death literacy advocate, a radio presenter, and even an aspiring doom metal vocalist. But what ties all these roles together is her deep connection to death—not as something morbid, but as a natural part of life that deserves attention, creativity, and conversation.

In this episode, Hayley shares how her personal experiences with loss shaped her art practice, leading her to create thought-provoking installations like her cooling bed performances and her grotto made from artificial flowers collected from cemeteries.

We also dive into her advocacy work, including her involvement with the Natural Death Advocacy Network (N

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Bridging Life and Death: Tamil Mourning Traditions Explained

Thu, 20 Feb 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Have you ever wondered how different cultures navigate the complex emotions surrounding death? In this episode, we dive deep into the rich tapestry of Tamil traditions and personal experiences of grief with Nyana Tanzer, who shares her heartfelt journey of loss, love, and the importance of community in the face of death.

Join me as I chat with Nyana about her father's passing and the profound impact it had on her life. We explore the rituals that accompany death in Tamil culture, from the significance of cremation to the heartfelt offerings made to honour the deceased. Nyana shares how these practices not only help in the grieving process but also serve as a way to keep the memory of loved ones alive.

We also discuss the role of community during times of mourning. Nyana beautifully illustrates how family, friends, and even neighbours come together to support one another, providing food and comfort when it’s needed most. It’s a reminder that while death can feel isolating, we are never truly alone in our grief. Plus, we touch on the fascinating experiences with mediums and how they can offer closure and connection to those we've lost.

This episode is a heartfelt exploration of how we can embrace the conversation around death, honour our loved ones, and find solace in our shared experiences.

Key points from our discussion:

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ENCORE: Meet the Coffin Confessor: From Troubled Past to Funeral Crasher

Thu, 13 Feb 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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This episode contains discussions of sensitive topics including sexual abuse, childhood trauma, and suicide. Also includes course language. Listener discretion is advised.

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From Troubled Past to Funeral Crasher: Meet Bill Edgar, Australia's Infamous Coffin Confessor

In this gripping episode, I sit down with Bill Edgar, a man whose life story reads like a Hollywood script. From his tumultuous childhood as the son of a notorious gangster to becoming Australia's most talked-about funeral crasher, Bill's journey is nothing short of extraordinary.

But what exactly is a Coffin Confessor?

Imagine someone crashing a funeral to deliver messages from beyond the grave - that's Bill's job, and he does it with unwavering dedication.

Bill's past is a tapestry of hardship and resilience. A victim of horrific childhood sexual abuse, he's fought tirelessly against the institutions that failed him.

This struggle has shaped his unique perspective on life, death, and everything in between.

As the Coffin Confessor, Bill gives voice to the deceased, ensuring their final words - whether loving or scathing - are heard. It's a role that requires a strong moral compass and the courage to face grieving families with potentially shocking revelations.

Key Insights fro

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ENCORE: Secure Your Legacy: Clear Legal Advice from Greg Russo

Thu, 06 Feb 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what legal documents you need to have in place before you die? Or how to handle your assets and loved ones when the inevitable happens? In this episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I'm joined by Greg Russo, one of Victoria's most experienced and respected succession law solicitors. Greg shares his journey into law, driven by a love for maths and logic, and how he found his passion in succession law—a field where numbers meet human stories.

We dive deep into the essentials of succession law, discussing everything from wills and superannuation nominations to powers of attorney and advanced care directives. Greg explains the importance of having the right documents in place to ensure your assets are managed and your loved ones are cared for when you're no longer able to do so. He also sheds light on how to plan for your financial future and the guardianship of your children if you die or become incapacitated.

Get ready to learn about the nitty-gritty of succession law in a way that's clear, engaging, and relatable. Greg's insights will not only help you understand the legal landscape better but also empower you to make informed decisions about your future.

Key Highlights:

Understanding the importance of wills and superannuation nominations
The role of powers of attorney and advanced care directiv

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ENCORE: NAIDOC 2024: Celebrating Indigenous Stories and Heritage with Aunty Jill West

Thu, 30 Jan 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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In honour of NAIDOC week 2024, the theme: Keep the Fire Burning! Blak, Loud & Proud honours the enduring strength and vitality of First Nations culture – with fire a symbol of connection to Country, to each other, and to the rich tapestry of traditions that define Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples.

Also, because I simply love what this wonderful woman has to share, we explore the experience and philosophies of Aunty Jill West, a Bunurong and Palawa woman, who generously shares her fascinating life story and the lessons she's learned from dealing with death.

In our chat, Aunty Jill talks about her dual heritage, her father's untimely death at 53, and how it made her reflect on her own mortality. She highlights the importance of understanding and accepting where we come from, and how it shapes our identity. Her father, a man of 'supreme intelligence', had a profound impact on her, and she continues his work, walking next to his footsteps.

Aunty Jill discusses the impact of the 1967 referendum on her family and the Aboriginal community at large. She gets candid about her father's journey to become a teacher, a university lecturer, and a doctor of Indigenous philosophy, despite facing numerous obstacles and systemic discrimination. It's an eye-opening conversation that gives us a glimpse into the resilience and

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ENCORE: Eco-Friendly Farewells: Water Cremation's Splash in the Death Care Industry

Thu, 23 Jan 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered if there's a kinder way to say goodbye to your loved ones? Most of us are aware of burials and cremations, but have you heard of water cremation?

Luke Cripps is a Director at Alluvium Water Cremations, established in 2023 with Director Brendan Cooper to bring a gentle, affordable, and eco-friendly method of final disposition to families in Tasmania, Australia.

Luke has worked in the death space both practically and theoretically in Tasmania for the better part of a decade, and has a particular interest in the intersection of end-of-life practices and what it might mean to live well.

Built on the founding principles of dignity, transparency, and sustainability, Alluvium Water Cremations are proud to support Tasmanian families to make informed choices around their end-of-life decisions.

In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the world of water cremation. Discover how this innovative process is revolutionising the way we approach death care in Australia.

Luke takes us on a fascinating journey through the ins and outs of water cremation, also known as alkaline hydrolysis. We explore how this process differs from traditional flame cremation and burial, and why many families are finding comfort in its gentler approach. From the soothing sound of trickling water to the preservation of m

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ENCORE: The Future of Funerals: Insights from Kelly Scott, President of Australian Funeral Directors Association

Mon, 20 Jan 2025 13:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it’s like to grow up in a family of funeral directors? Join me as I chat with Kelly Scott, the General Manager of T.J. Scott and Son Funeral Directors in the Macedon Ranges.

Kelly shares her unique journey, insights on dealing with death, and the profound importance of family and community in the funeral industry.

Kelly Scott, a fourth-generation funeral director, takes us through the fascinating and often misunderstood world of funeral services. Kelly, who joined the family business over 30 years ago, shares her experiences growing up around the funeral home, how she and her family approach death with sensitivity and respect, and the evolving nature of funerals in modern times.

Growing up in a funeral home might seem unusual to many, but for Kelly, it was just part of life. She recounts her childhood experiences, from family dinners interrupted by the phone ringing to her initial misconceptions about her father’s work. Despite the ever-present nature of death in their lives, Kelly’s family maintained a clear boundary between work and home, respecting the privacy of those they served.

As Kelly delved into the funeral industry, she discovered her passion for helping families during their most difficult times. She talks about the importance of personalised funerals and how small touches, like playing a loved

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ENCORE: Reclaiming death back into our own hands and hearts with Deathwalker Zenith Virago

Thu, 09 Jan 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I speak with a pioneer in the death care industry, Zenith Virago. Zenith is the founder and executive officer of the Natural Death Care Centre Charity Australia. She is a death walker, a celebrant, and an educator.

Zenith has been empowering people to have healthier, healing bereavement with few or no regrets for over 30 years. Our conversation was enlightening and funny, ranging from the significance of graveyards in England, ceremonies for the LGBTQ community, how to support children through grief.

And we even managed to talk about vaginas!

I'm sure you'll enjoy hearing from Zenith as much as I did.

In this episode, we cover:

Zenith's journey into becoming a 'Death Walker'
The importance of community in death care
The enlightening experience of founding the Natural Death Care Center charity
The impact of generosity in the world of death care
Zenith's exploration of death care in the UK
The role of ceremony in complex death situations

Stay tuned for this enlightening episode and remember, let's break the taboo around talking about death.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

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ENCORE: Cheating Death: The Cryonics Revolution in Australia

Thu, 02 Jan 2025 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it would be like to wake up 200 years in the future, in a young, healthy body with all your memories intact? This isn't science fiction - it's the ambitious goal of cryonics, and it's happening right here in Australia.

In this eye-opening episode, I sit down with Peter Solapides, founder, director, and chairman of Southern Cryonics. Peter shares the fascinating journey that led him to establish Australia's first cryonics facility in Holbrook, New South Wales.

From the intricate process of patient suspension to the complex legal and ethical considerations, we delve deep into the world of cryonics and its potential to revolutionise our approach to death and dying.

Peter's enthusiasm is infectious as he explains how cryonics works, dispelling common misconceptions and painting a picture of a future where death might be merely a temporary state.

We discuss the demographics of cryonics supporters, the challenges of long-term planning, and the profound philosophical questions that arise when we consider the possibility of extending human life far beyond its current limits.

Key points from our conversation:

Cryonics involves preserving a person's body at extremely low temperatures after legal death, with the hope of future revival
Southern Cryonics completed their first cry

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ENCORE: Navigating Life After Loss: A Daughter's Tale with Libby Neesham

Thu, 26 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I'm bringing you a conversation that's both emotional and enlightening.

I had the pleasure of reuniting with an old high school friend Libby Neesham, who shared her incredibly personal experiences with the death of her parents, her unique approach to motherhood, and her valuable insights on dealing with grief as someone with neurodiversity.

🌹 In this episode:

Libby opens up about the different ways she grieved the death of each of her parents and the lessons she learned along the way.
She reflects on her journey into motherhood and how it has shaped her understanding of life and death.
We delve into the importance of having open conversations about end-of-life matters and the impact it has on our lives.

Libby's story is a powerful reminder of the complexities of grief and the strength we find in the most challenging times. Her insights are not just about coping with loss but also about growing from it, embracing life, and cherishing the memories of those we've lost.

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Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

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Death, DNA, and Family Secrets: How Trauma Lives in Our Genes

Thu, 19 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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What if the unexplained feelings of grief, anxiety, or disconnection you carry aren't entirely your own? In this compelling episode, I sit down with Michelle Scheibner, author of 'Hush', to explore how the secrets and trauma of our family history can echo through generations, impacting our lives in ways we never imagined.

Michelle's journey of discovery began when she found an old leather suitcase filled with documents after her mother's death. These papers revealed her father's hidden Jewish heritage and his harrowing escape from Nazi Germany - a history that had been carefully concealed throughout her life.

Through her work in epigenetics and inherited family trauma, Michelle explains how traumatic experiences can actually modify our DNA, affecting future generations. Her research, backed by groundbreaking studies from Dr Rachel Yehuda at Mount Sinai School, demonstrates how children of Holocaust survivors and mothers present at Ground Zero show identical anxiety markers and cortisol levels as their traumatised parents.

As an adult orphan who lost both parents and later her significant other, Chris, to cancer, Michelle's personal story illustrates how unresolved family trauma can manifest in our lives. Through narrative therapy and deep personal work, she transformed her understanding of grief and identity, moving from a pla

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Death, Diversity, and Inclusion in Care with Tonina Gucciardo-Masci and Nikolaus Rittinghausen

Thu, 12 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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How do we ensure that every individual, regardless of their cultural or spiritual background, receives dignified and inclusive care at the end of their life? Today, we tackle this vital question with two incredible guests who are championing change in aged and palliative care.

In this episode, I sit down with Tonina Gucciardo-Masci, Community Engagement Manager at Palliative Care Victoria, and Nikolaus Rittinghausen, Manager at the Centre for Cultural Diversity in Ageing. Both are working tirelessly to ensure that aged and palliative care services in Australia are culturally inclusive and respectful of each person’s individual needs.

Tonina shares her experience collaborating with multicultural and multifaith communities to promote equitable access to palliative care, dispelling myths and advocating for care over cure. Meanwhile, Nikki dives into the innovative strategies his organisation employs to make aged care more inclusive, from diversity mentoring to practical tools like communication cards available in over 70 languages.

Together, we explore the challenges of adapting systems designed for a "one-size-fits-all" approach, the importance of culturally appropriate food and spiritual practices, and the role of open conversations in breaking down taboos around death. This episode is a call to action to put inclusio

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200 Hours of Death Admin: Why Executors Deserve More Support with Danielle Phillips

Thu, 05 Dec 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Did you know it can take over 200 hours to manage the responsibilities of an executor?

For Danielle Phillips, losing both parents during COVID wasn’t just heartbreaking—it became a crash course in navigating the overwhelming task of estate administration.

This week, we uncover how she turned personal tragedy into Sage Executor Solutions, a lifeline for families facing the chaos after losing a loved one.

Becoming an executor is more than signing your name on a will—it’s stepping into a mountain of responsibility that can feel endless, especially when you’re grieving. In this episode, I speak with Danielle Phillips, founder of Sage Executor Solutions.

Danielle shares her personal journey of losing both parents within 15 months, managing her mother’s care, and tackling the exhaustive legal and administrative duties left behind.

From navigating MyGov’s labyrinth of links to realising that even the smallest details—like notifying the Electoral Commission—can come back to haunt you, Danielle recounts the challenges that inspired her to build a service aimed at making this process more humane.

Whether it’s creating a roadmap for executors, connecting families with trusted experts, or just lightening the emotional load, Danielle explains how proper preparation can

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Facing Life’s Toughest Moments: Can Social Support Make the Difference?

Thu, 28 Nov 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Are you feeling disconnected in our modern world? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the heart of social health with Joe Sehee, Executive Director of Social Health Australia. Joe shares his Joeurney from green burial advocate to champion of human connection, revealing how we can combat loneliness and transform end-of-life care.

Joe takes us on a fascinating exploration of 'community companioning', a revolutionary approach to supporting those facing life's toughest challenges. From terminal illness to bereavement, learn how this simple yet profound practice is changing lives and reshaping our understanding of grief and loss.

But that's not all - Joe's insights into co-housing, the funeral industry, and conservation burial grounds will challenge your perceptions of community living and death care. Discover why the way we approach death might be the key to living more connected, meaningful lives.

Key Takeaways:

● The power of 'community companioning' in supporting those facing illness, grief, and loneliness

● How co-housing models can combat social isolation and foster genuine community

● The untold history of the American funeral industry and its impact on our relationship with death

● The potential of conservation burial grounds to revol

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After the Worst Has Happened: Tales From a Funeral Director, Richard Gosling

Thu, 21 Nov 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, we dive into the journey of Richard Gosling—a man who left the safe world of civil service to become a funeral director, driven by a desire to connect with others on the deepest level. Join us as Richard shares stories of courage, unexpected life changes, and how facing death can bring new appreciation to life.

Richard Gosling didn’t follow a conventional path to become a funeral director. His journey took root after experiencing his own family’s health crises and realising the vital role that those who manage death play in the lives of the grieving. With humour and insight, Richard recounts his career shift and why he felt the need to serve people in their most vulnerable moments.

Through Richard's stories, we uncover what goes on behind the scenes in a funeral home. From coaxing out meaningful details to creating unique rituals, Richard reminds us that every goodbye is an opportunity to celebrate a life. He also shares his thoughts on why we need to stop shying away from conversations about death and instead embrace them as part of our human experience.

Highlights:

Richard’s path from civil service to funeral director, sparked by personal family experiences
The surprising and rewarding challenges in helping families honour their loved ones

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Do You Really Want to Be a Carer? The Question Nobody Asks

Thu, 14 Nov 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Imagine caring for someone for over 20 years without anyone ever asking if you want to be their carer. It sounds unthinkable, right? In this episode, we delve into this powerful, often unasked question and explore what it truly means to support someone at the end of their life, without sacrificing your own.

Join me as I chat with Inge McGinn, a Senior Counsellor and Caseworker from Peninsula Home Hospice, who has over 25 years of experience working in palliative care. Inge’s unique journey to this field started with deeply personal experiences that taught her the importance of discussing death openly.

She’s passionate about helping people talk about what’s often left unspoken: death, dying, and the role of carers. In our conversation, we explore how she supports carers in navigating the intense emotional journey that comes with caring for someone at the end of life. Inge’s approach brings compassion to an often-overlooked aspect of palliative care, recognising carers' needs and creating space for their struggles and strengths.

In this episode, Inge and I also tackle the importance of asking carers, “Do you actually want this role?” It’s a powerful moment when carers realise they can have a say in their role. We unpack how understanding their own limits, boundaries, and desires can help carers fulfil their responsibilitie

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Honouring Life Through Trees: The Legacy of Mornington Green

Thu, 07 Nov 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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In this episode, I chat with Luke Roberts of Mornington Green, a unique final resting place that's revolutionising how we approach death and remembrance. Imagine a lush, 34-acre property that feels more like a botanical garden than a cemetery. That's Mornington Green - a place where loved ones' ashes are infused into the roots of trees, creating living memorials that grow and change with the seasons.

Luke, a former lawyer, shares how his brother's experience with grief led to the creation of Mornington Green. The concept is simple yet profound: instead of traditional burial plots or urns, families choose a tree where their loved one's ashes will be placed. The ashes undergo a special organic treatment process, transforming them from potentially harmful to beneficial for the tree's growth. It's a beautiful cycle of life, where human remains quite literally give new life to nature.

What sets Mornington Green apart isn't just its innovative approach to memorialisation. It's the entire experience they've created around death and remembrance. From the variety of trees available (including jacarandas, oak trees, and flowering gums) to the thoughtful ceremony where families can participate in placing the ashes, every detail is designed to make the process more meaningful and healing. They even host regular events like planting days and C

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Ghosts, Graves, and Gossip: Uncovering Sorrento's Haunted History

Thu, 31 Oct 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it's like to chat with ghosts for a living? Join me as I sit down with Jenny Tomkins, the fascinating mind behind Sorrento Ghost Tours, who stumbled into the world of the paranormal quite by accident. What started as a way to stay awake for late-night mum taxi duties has turned into a 14-year journey of discovery, scepticism, and ultimately, belief.

Jenny shares how she's developed her own sensitivities over the years. She recounts incredible experiences, from ghostly encounters in haunted houses to the surprising ways spirits communicate through modern technology. But it's not all spooks and spectres - Jenny's tours have also unveiled forgotten histories, including poignant stories of Indigenous spirits still making their presence felt.

This episode is a deep dive into the world of ghost tours, clairvoyance, and the thin veil between our world and the next. Jenny's journey from non-believer to ghost whisperer will challenge your perceptions and maybe, just maybe, make you question what lies beyond our everyday reality. Whether you're a sceptic or a true believer, Jenny's stories will leave you with a newfound curiosity about the unseen world around us.

Key points from our discussion:

The accidental birth of Sorrento Ghost Tours - from mum taxi to ghost guide
Jenny's personal journey from scep

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Cheating Death: The Cryonics Revolution in Australia

Thu, 24 Oct 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Key points from our conversation:

Cryonics involves preserving a person's body at extremely low temperatures after legal death, with the hope of future revival
Southern Cryonics completed their first cry

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No Rules, No Rush: The Last Hurrah's Philosophy on Modern Funerals

Thu, 17 Oct 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Ever wondered what it's like to plan a funeral in a golf course or use a combi van as a hearse? Today, we're diving deep into the world of personalised farewells with Mon Jones, a funeral director at The Last Hurrah.

Mon's journey into the funeral industry was unexpected, but it's clear she's found her calling. The Last Hurrah isn't your average funeral home - it's a family affair that's reimagining how we say goodbye to our loved ones. From cardboard coffins that families can decorate together to funerals held in unconventional venues, Mon and her team are breaking the mould of traditional services.

What sets The Last Hurrah apart is their commitment to truly personalised farewells. Mon shared fascinating insights into their process, from the initial family meeting to the final ceremony. It's not just about ticking boxes; it's about listening intently to every story, every throwaway comment, and weaving these details into a ceremony that genuinely reflects the person who has died.

Key Takeaways:

● The importance of slowing down the funeral planning process - there's often more time than families realise

● How The Last Hurrah incorporates children into the funeral process, including decorating coffins and creating quiet spaces at services

● The value of transparency in pricing and offering a

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From Schizophrenia to Leading A Walk For Life: Transforming a Brother's Death into Purpose

Thu, 10 Oct 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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In this deeply moving episode, we explore the heart-wrenching journey of Sarah Eagle, a neurodivergent public speaker and consultant, who lost her brother Ben to schizophrenia. Sarah's story is a powerful testament to how profound loss can lead to transformative change and a lifelong commitment to mental health advocacy.

Sarah takes us through the harrowing experience of Ben's disappearance in the Australian bush and the subsequent search that ended in tragedy. She shares the raw emotions of grief and the pivotal moment when she chose to channel her pain into purpose. This decision led her on a series of extraordinary journeys, including a 600-kilometre walk along the Bibbulmun track and a solo pilgrimage on the Camino de Santiago, all in memory of Ben and to raise awareness for mental health.

As Sarah's story unfolds, we discover how her own late diagnosis of autism and ADHD became a turning point, offering her a new perspective on her experiences and shaping her approach to helping others. Her work now focuses on supporting neurodivergent individuals and their families, using innovative approaches like Polyvagal Theory and what she terms 'sensory lifestyle medicine' to create understanding and foster better communication.

Key Points from the Episode:

The challenges of supporting a loved one w

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Death, Dreaming, and Community: Aboriginal Funeral Traditions Unveiled

Thu, 03 Oct 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In this eye-opening episode, we dive deep into the heart of Aboriginal funeral traditions with Kaneesha Wise from the Aboriginal Advancement League and the Victorian Aboriginal Funeral Service. Kaneesha shares powerful insights into the cultural significance of Aboriginal funerals, the challenges faced by families, and the vital role of community support in honouring the deceased.

From the importance of returning to Country for a proper burial to the intricate beliefs surrounding the journey to the Dreaming, Kaneesha paints a vivid picture of Aboriginal death customs.

Kaneesha emphasises the holistic approach taken by Aboriginal organisations in supporting not just the individual, but the entire family network during times of loss.

She also opens up about her personal experiences with grief, sharing touching anecdotes about keeping loved ones' memories alive through simple yet meaningful gestures.

Key Takeaways:

- The Victorian Aboriginal Funeral Service provides culturally strong, community-based funerals and support for grieving families
- Aboriginal funeral traditions often involve Smoking ceremonies, gum leaves, and totems to help the deceased's journey to the Dreaming
- Financial challenges are a significant hurdle for many Aboriginal families in providing proper funerals
- Comm

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Finding Strength in Loss: Emily Kisvarda’s Journey through Grief, Healing, and Higher Consciousness

Thu, 26 Sep 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In today’s episode, I sit down with Emily Kisvarda, an integrated healer, alchemist, author, teacher and spiritual guide, to discuss her profound journey through grief and loss. Emily shares her deeply personal story of losing her husband and brother-in-law within two weeks, followed by her mother’s passing just three years later.

Despite these heartbreaking experiences, Emily found strength and resilience, using her gifts and spiritual awareness to heal herself and guide others.

Emily’s journey through trauma became the catalyst for unlocking her intuitive gifts and diving deep into the world of energy healing. We explore how grief shifted her perspective on life and death, opening doors to new realms of consciousness and a connection to the spiritual world.

Through her work with crystals, energy healing, and ancestral wisdom, Emily has learned to embrace both the physical and metaphysical aspects of healing.

Join us as we explore:

- How Emily navigated the devastating loss of her husband and how it shaped her spiritual journey
- The role of energy healing and crystals in her personal transformation
- Emily's insights into ancestral connections and the lessons we can learn from them

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.
Take care,
Cather

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The Coffin Confessor: Crashing Funerals and Exposing Truths from Beyond the Grave

Thu, 19 Sep 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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⚠️ Trigger Warning ⚠️
This episode contains discussions of sensitive topics including sexual abuse, childhood trauma, and suicide. Listener discretion is advised.

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From Troubled Past to Funeral Crasher: Meet Bill Edgar, Australia's Infamous Coffin Confessor

In this gripping episode, I sit down with Bill Edgar, a man whose life story reads like a Hollywood script. From his tumultuous childhood as the son of a notorious gangster to becoming Australia's most talked-about funeral crasher, Bill's journey is nothing short of extraordinary.

But what exactly is a Coffin Confessor?

Imagine someone crashing a funeral to deliver messages from beyond the grave - that's Bill's job, and he does it with unwavering dedication.

Bill's past is a tapestry of hardship and resilience. A victim of horrific childhood sexual abuse, he's fought tirelessly against the institutions that failed him.

This struggle has shaped his unique perspective on life, death, and everything in between.

As the Coffin Confessor, Bill gives voice to the deceased, ensuring their final words - whether loving or scathing - are heard. It's a role that requires a strong moral compass and the courage to face grieving families with potentially shocking revelations.

Key Insights from Our Conversation:

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Dead for 93 Minutes: Cardiac Arrest Survival after NDE with Justine Phillips

Thu, 12 Sep 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In this episode of Don't Be Caught Dead, I’m sitting down with the incredible Justine Phillips, a sudden cardiac arrest survivor and founder of Heart Matters Australia. Justine shares her jaw-dropping story of being clinically dead for 93 minutes – yes, 93 minutes – before her heart miraculously restarted. It’s a story of resilience, survival, and the determination of her family and paramedics who refused to give up on her.

We talk about the life-saving importance of CPR and defibrillation, and how knowing these skills can literally mean the difference between life and death. Justine also opens up about the emotional toll her cardiac arrest had on her family, especially her children, who had to perform CPR under the guidance of emergency operators.

During our conversation, Justine clears up the difference between a heart attack and cardiac arrest (there’s more to it than you might think!) and busts some common myths around these critical health issues. Through her organisation, Heart Matters Australia, she’s on a mission to educate communities on how to perform effective CPR and use defibrillators, all with the aim of saving lives and reducing trauma for families in the aftermath of cardiac events.

We also dive into the bigger picture – how surviving a near-death experience has changed her outlook on life, shifted her pri

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Death on Your Terms: Navigating Voluntary Assisted Dying with Jane Morris

Thu, 05 Sep 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In this episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead", I sit down with Jane Morris, President of Dying with Dignity Victoria, to unpack the complex journey of voluntary assisted dying legislation in Australia. From its controversial beginnings to its current stringent implementation, we delve into the challenges, triumphs, and ongoing struggles in the fight for end-of-life choices.

Jane takes us on a captivating historical journey, starting with the formation of the Voluntary Euthanasia Society of Victoria in 1974. We explore pivotal moments like the groundbreaking Rights of the Terminally Ill Act in the Northern Territory in 1995, and the tireless advocacy of Dr Rodney Syme. The conversation paints a vivid picture of the societal and political battles fought over decades, culminating in Victoria's landmark legislation in 2017.

But the story doesn't end there. Jane provides an eye-opening look at the current state of voluntary assisted dying in Victoria, detailing the stringent eligibility criteria and complex process individuals must navigate. We discuss the controversial 'gag clause' that prevents doctors from initiating conversations about VAD, and the logistical challenges faced by rural residents. This episode offers a comprehensive overview of where we stand and the work that still needs to be done to ensure dignified end-of-life choices for

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From Tragedy to Transformation: How Three Mates are Revolutionising Mental Health Conversations

Thu, 29 Aug 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode covers the topic of suicide

In a world where mental health struggles often go unspoken, three young blokes from Melbourne are turning their personal tragedies into a powerful force for change. Meet Ben Farish, one of the founders of Speak and Share, a charity that's taking Australia by storm with its mission to normalise mental health conversations and prevent suicide.

Born from the depths of their own mental health battles during the COVID lockdown, Ben and his mates, Nathan and Mason, transformed their pain into purpose.

After losing a close friend to suicide, experiencing family upheaval, and grappling with grief, these three teachers realised the dire need for open, honest conversations about mental health.

What started as a simple Instagram account sharing funny skits with positive mental health messages has now blossomed into a medium-sized charity running programs in schools, sporting clubs, and workplaces across Australia.

But Speak and Share isn't just another mental health organisation. With their iconic sunflower logo symbolising strength and community, and their sought-after merchandise drops, they've created a movement that's as cool as it is crucial.

Their approach is all about prevention, starting conversations early, and creating a world where speaking

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Eco-Friendly Farewells: Water Cremation's Splash in the Death Care Industry

Thu, 22 Aug 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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A Grief Counsellor's Personal and Professional Reflections on Grief and Loss

Thu, 15 Aug 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Have you ever wondered what to say to someone who’s grieving? Or felt unsure about how to handle your own grief? In this episode, I chat with Bryan Petheram, a counsellor and group facilitator from Griefline, about the complexities of grief and how we can better support ourselves and others through loss.

Bryan shares his journey from being a police officer to becoming a grief counsellor, offering unique insights into how our understanding of grief has evolved. We discuss the importance of acknowledging loss, the power of language in grief, and why it’s crucial to avoid platitudes like “at least…” when comforting someone who’s grieving. Bryan emphasises that there’s no “right” way to grieve and explains how grief can change as we age and experience different losses.

We also delve into the practical aspects of grief support, including when it might be time to seek professional help and the various services Griefline offers. Whether you’re supporting a grieving friend or navigating your own loss, this episode provides valuable insights and strategies for dealing with grief in a healthy, compassionate way.

Key points from the episode:

The evolution of grief understanding: from stages to a non-linear process
The importance of acknowledging loss and using clear language about death
Why saying “I’m

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Breaking the Stigma of Loneliness: The Hidden Epidemic with Dr. Michelle Lim

Thu, 08 Aug 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In honour of Dying to Know Day and Loneliness Awareness Week Australia, this week I chat with Associate Professor Michelle Lim, the inaugural CEO and Scientific Chair of Ending Loneliness Together.

Michelle dives deep into the pervasive issue of loneliness and how it affects us all, especially those dealing with the death of a loved one.

Michelle explains that loneliness is often misunderstood and concealed, with one in two Australians feeling lonely yet hiding it. We talk about how to approach conversations around loneliness respectfully, ensuring that we don’t invalidate someone's feelings or assume that what works for one person will work for another.

Michelle’s insights are both enlightening and practical, offering ways to support those who feel isolated.

We also touch on the significant difference between loneliness and social isolation, and why it’s essential to understand this distinction. Michelle shares her thoughts on how loneliness can still be felt even when surrounded by people, and why meaningful social connections are crucial.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to better understand and support loved ones experiencing loneliness, particularly after a significant loss.

Key Points:

Understanding the hidden nature of loneliness and how to have non-threatening conversatio

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Breaking Myths About Organ Donation with Sam Stones

Thu, 01 Aug 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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This week is DonateLife Week (Sunday 28 July - Sunday 4 August 2024), and I've had the honour of speaking with Sam Stones from DonateLife Victoria. Sam shares the delicate and important work they do, helping families navigate the difficult decisions around organ and tissue donation when a loved one is dying.

In this episode, Sam walks us through the process of donation conversations, explaining how she approaches families in their most vulnerable moments.

We dive into the rarity of organ donations, the specific conditions required for someone to become a donor, and the emotional and logistical complexities involved. Sam also shares some heartwarming stories about the impact of organ donation, including the long-lasting connections between recipients and donor families.

You'll learn about the practicalities of organ donation, clear up some myths, and understand the entire process.

Sam's insights highlight the incredible generosity of donor families and the profound difference organ donation can make in people's lives.

Lynden’s story – additional details

In this episode, Samantha speaks about her dear friend Lynden, who sadly lost his life in 2023 after a 10-month battle with cancer. As Lynden was very ill, his wife Melissa was key in communicating his decision about corneal donation to medical staff, fri

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Secure Your Legacy: Clear Legal Advise from Greg Russo

Thu, 25 Jul 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Understanding the importance of wills and superannuation nominations
The role of powers of attorney and advanced care directiv

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The Power of Community: Transforming Funerals with Tender Funerals

Thu, 18 Jul 2024 00:00:00 +1000

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Today we’re talking about a revolutionary approach to farewelling our loved ones, pioneered by an extraordinary guest.

Meet Jennifer Briscoe-Hough, the founder and CEO of Tender Funerals Australia. She's been on quite a journey to get to where she is now. She even has had a movie made about her journey!

From her own personal experience with the death of her mother and the shocking costs of traditional funeral services, she was driven to find a solution that not only made sense financially, but also emotionally and spiritually. She talks about how the seed was planted for Tender Funerals, a non-profit franchise model that offers choice, transparency, and affordability.

In our discussion, Jenny shares the story of how Tender Funerals came into existence, the challenges faced along the way, and the beautiful meaning behind the term ‘undertaker'. She also touches on the industrialisation of the funeral business and how Tender Funerals aims to bring back the personal touch often lost in the process. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding more about the funeral industry and looking for a more personalised, meaningful approach to saying goodbye.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Key takeaways from this episode include:

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NAIDOC 2024: Celebrating Indigenous Stories and Heritage with Aunty Jill West

Thu, 11 Jul 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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From Life to Death: Understanding Human Behaviour with Anthropologist Dr Hannah Gould

Thu, 04 Jul 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Ever wondered what an anthropologist who studies death really does? Join me as I chat with Dr Hannah Gould, a fascinating cultural anthropologist who dives deep into the diverse rituals and beliefs surrounding death across the globe.

In this episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I have the pleasure of welcoming Dr Hannah Gould, an anthropologist with a unique focus: the stuff of death and the death of stuff.

Hannah's research delves into how different cultures approach death, dying, and the material world that surrounds these universal experiences. We explore what it means to be a modern anthropologist and how her upbringing and education led her to this intriguing field.

Hannah shares her journey from aspiring philosopher to passionate anthropologist, driven by a chance class and a profound love for understanding human behaviour. We discuss how death is both a universal and culturally distinct experience, shaped by rituals, stories, and practices that vary dramatically around the world.

This conversation covers everything from Hannah's personal experiences with death in her family to the broader societal implications of how we handle death. We also touch on the often overlooked but vital roles played by those in the death care industry and the ongoing need for better regulation and appreci

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Peaceful Exits and Recovering Well After Loss with Libby Moloney

Thu, 27 Jun 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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In this episode, we're peeling back the layers of holistic death care with Libby Moloney, a pioneer in sustainable and meaningful funeral practices. We explore what it means to handle death not just with professionalism, but with heart and innovation.

Libby shares her journey into holistic funeral care, emphasizing the importance of viewing each life (and death) in its unique context. From the tragic suddenness of accidents to the natural conclusion of a long life, she explains how Natural Grace helps families navigate these diverse experiences with empathy and personalisation. Our discussion isn't just about the mechanics of funeral care but about its profound emotional and spiritual dimensions.

Key points covered include:

The significance of holding space for grief and how it transforms the experience of death for families.
An insightful exploration of holistic funeral practices that honour the life and values of the deceased.
The impact of cultural sensitivity and personalisation in funeral care, making it a deeply personal and healing process.

Resources and links mentioned:

Natural Grace official website: www.naturalgrace.com.au
Dying to Know Day, an initiative aimed at improving death literacy:

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Helping Kids Navigate Loss with Lionheart Camp for Kids

Thu, 20 Jun 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Just imagine being a young child, navigating through the unimaginable loss of a loved one. Feelings of isolation, confusion, and profound sadness can be overwhelming, right?

Now imagine a place where these children can come together, share their experiences, and learn that they aren't alone in their grief.

This week on 'Don't Be Caught Dead', I, Catherine Ashton, bring you a conversation with two inspirational women who are doing just that.

Shelly Skinner, founding director and CEO of Lionheart Camp for Kids, and Lauren Breen, a professor at Curtin University specialising in the psychology of grief and loss, join me to share their incredible work.

At the Lionheart Camp, children, teens, and adults are given the space and support to understand and process their grief. Shelley's vision - to ensure all children are provided with the necessary care after losing someone close - is a mission she carries out with absolute dedication.

Lauren, with her focus on understanding grief experiences and promoting grief literacy, brings the academic perspective, providing insights on how grief impacts individuals and families. Together, they published "What Bereaved Children Want to Know About Death and Grief" in the Journal of Child and Family Studies. Their work is creating a ripple effect, paving the way for a more accepting and

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Life’s Too Short For BS: Authenticity Lessons From A Birth And Death Doula

Thu, 13 Jun 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Would you return $40,000 to a donor because you don't have time to jump through hoops and need to be available for mothers, babies, and dying people?

Would you pack up your life in a moment to go to Cambodia and make a difference there?

In this heartfelt episode of Don’t Be Caught Dead, I sit down with Denise Love, a life and death doula whose experiences span the globe from Australian towns to Cambodian villages.

Denise shares her journey of supporting people through the most profound moments of birth and death, revealing the powerful lessons she’s learned along the way. From dealing with terminal illness to creating a life of intention and minimal stress, Denise’s insights are both challenging and enlightening.

We discuss the importance of making conscious choices about living and dying, the impact of stress on our health, and the often-overlooked need for pausing and reflecting on what truly matters. Denise also opens up about her incredible work in Cambodia, where she’s established health centres and brought sustainable solutions to underserved communities. Her stories highlight the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of compassion.

Key Points:

Facing Mortality: Denise emphasises the significance of asking yourself, "Do I want to live or die?" and making intentional ch

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The Charity Helping Grieving Kids Feel The Magic Again

Thu, 06 Jun 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Join us as we dive deep with Kristy and James Thomas, the compassionate founders of 'Feel the Magic,' an organisation dedicated to helping grieving children across Australia. Their journey began from personal losses and has blossomed into a nationwide initiative that offers solace and healing through unique camps and programs. Here's what we covered:

The Birth of Feel the Magic: Hear how a personal tragedy led to the creation of a beacon of hope for grieving children.

The Magic of Grief Camps: Explore the transformative experiences these camps offer, combining emotional support with empowering activities.

Grieving as a Community: Learn about the community's role in supporting bereaved children and the innovative ways 'Feel the Magic' brings people together.

Key Points from Our Conversation:

Understanding Grief: Kristy and James share insights into how grief can become a catalyst for growth and community building.
The Role of Camps: Details on how their camps provide a safe space for children to express their grief and learn coping mechanisms.
Expanding Support: The introduction of virtual programs to reach grieving children in remote areas, ensuring no child grieves alone.

Mentioned Resources:

Feel the Magic website:

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The Future of Funerals: Insights from Kelly Scott, President of Australian Funeral Directors Association

Thu, 30 May 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Ever wondered what it’s like to grow up in a family of funeral directors? Join me as I chat with Kelly Scott, the General Manager of T.J. Scott and Son Funeral Directors in the Macedon Ranges.

Kelly shares her unique journey, insights on dealing with death, and the profound importance of family and community in the funeral industry.

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Embracing Life to the Fullest End with Camilla Rowland, CEO Palliative Care Australia

Thu, 23 May 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Today, we're joined by Camilla Rowland, CEO of Palliative Care Australia, who brings decades of experience in transforming palliative care practices and perceptions.

In today's discussion, we delve deep into the holistic approach of palliative care—how it integrates into our healthcare system and what it means for individuals facing life-limiting conditions. Camilla sheds light on how embracing the realities of death can enhance the quality of life and why early conversations about end-of-life care are crucial.

Key Takeaways from This Episode:

Understanding Palliative Care: Camilla provides insights into the essence of palliative care, which is not merely about managing the end of life but about enhancing the quality of the remaining life through comprehensive care that addresses physical, emotional, and spiritual needs.
Breaking Taboos Around Death: We discuss the importance of normalising conversations about death, especially in a post-COVID world where awareness of mortality has heightened. It's about shifting perspectives from fear to acknowledgment and preparedness.
The Importance of Advanced Care Planning: Learn why it’s critical to plan for the end of life, much like we plan for other major events. This planning includes understanding the trajectory of terminal i

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Mortality and Mindfulness with Annie Whitlocke, Buddhist Death Doula

Thu, 16 May 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Annie Whitlocke is a death doula with a rich history of embracing life’s trials with an open heart.

Annie shares her profound journey from a turbulent childhood through to her multiple personal tragedies, including loss of multiple husbands and struggles with miscarriages.

These challenges have uniquely equipped her to assist others at the end of their lives. Her story is one of transformation; from pain and isolation to finding her calling in helping others face death with dignity and peace.

Key Points from This Episode:

Annie's Early Life: Learn about her challenging early years in foster care and the impact of reuniting with a family she didn’t remember.
Professional Evolution: From working in various caregiving roles to becoming a respected death doula, Annie discusses how her past experiences with loss and recovery informed her career.
Philosophy on Death: Annie speaks to how her difficult life experiences opened her heart rather than hardening it, allowing her to provide unique support to those at the end of their life.
The Role of a Death Doula: Discover what it means to be a death doula, the services they provide, and the emotional and practical support they offer to both dying individuals and their families.
Buddhist Influence on Embracing Death: Annie explores how Buddhist teach

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Funerals: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly. Insights from Jackie Slater

Thu, 09 May 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Welcome to another episode of 'Don't Be Caught Dead' where we shine a light on the topic many of us shy away from – death.

This week, we're joined by a special guest, Jackie Slater, an authorised marriage and funeral celebrant. Jackie's spent over 40 years working in the funeral industry, and her journey in this industry is as intriguing as it is inspiring.

In this episode, Jackie unravels her career journey, from starting as a 'Saturday girl' doing admin work for a funeral director, to becoming the manager of a cemetery and crematorium. Along the way, she's seen it all – from good funerals, to the bad and mediocre ones, which led Jackie to become a funeral celebrant herself. She shares her experiences of working with families to create personal, meaningful ceremonies, and the challenges she's encountered in this process.

We also dive into Jackie's role as the president of the Funeral Celebrants Association of Australia, and how this role intertwines with her duties as a funeral celebrant. Jackie shares insights on the shift from traditional, religious funerals to more personalised, secular ceremonies, and the importance of open conversations about death in our families.

Key points from this episode:

Jackie’s journey from a 'Saturday girl' to a funeral celebrant
Challenges faced by the families while plann

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Bringing Life to Death: A candid conversation with end-of-life doula Helen Callanan.

Thu, 02 May 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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Do you crave captivating conversation about the things that REALLY matter?

Then you can’t go past listening to a seasoned end of life doula with nearly 40 years of experience, like Helen Callanan.

Helen is the founder and lead educator at Preparing the Way, an organisation that delivers holistic end-of-life and doula education across Australia and New Zealand. Helen's profound experience and passion for education create a wealth of knowledge that she generously shares with us today.

In this revealing episode, Helen explains how she has managed to bring life to stories of death through her work and passion. We delve into her journey of creating Preparing the Way and how her mission of empowering all people with choice at the end of life has shaped the way she operates. We also explore how she managed to design and deliver the world's first nationally accredited Certificate IV in End of Life Doula Services, a feat that required rigorous work and dedication.

Helen shares fascinating insights into the world of end-of-life care, including how she has adapted her training methods in response to the Covid-19 pandemic. She also discusses the importance of having open conversations about death and the critical role of end-of-life doulas in our society. This is a must-listen episode for anyone interested in the field of end-of-life

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Funeral Poverty: A Rising Crisis Unveiled

Thu, 25 Apr 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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This episode focuses on the escalating issue of funeral poverty and debt.

I speak with Kieran Worthington and Kevin Hartley, who discuss their mission to provide dignified funerals for those who might not be able to afford one.

The conversation begins with a poignant question: where were Kieran and Kevin last year when our friend's children had to crowdfund their father's funeral?

As it turns out, they were always there, offering their services to those in need, only we weren't aware of them.

Regrettably, many are unaware of their services when they need them the most.

This episode aims to increase awareness about their services.

Kieran and Kevin highlight the challenges that small charities face in making a significant impact, especially in a large city like Melbourne. They have been working for 27 years, striving to reach as many people as possible to inform them about the support they can provide in times of need.

Throughout the conversation, we delve into the various facets of their work and the people they assist. Their mission isn't solely about helping those living on the streets or without any money. They also support those who are barely managing, individuals on the brink of their financial limits. A funeral expense can push them over, and that's when Kieran and Kevin step in.

In the podcast,

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Reclaiming Death Back Into Our Own Hands and Hearts With Deathwalker Zenith Virago

Thu, 18 Apr 2024 05:00:00 +1000

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And we even managed to talk about vaginas!

I'm sure you'll enjoy hearing from Zenith as much as I did.

In this episode, we cover:

Zenith's journey into becoming a 'Death Walker'
The importance of community in death care
The enlightening experience of founding the Natural Death Care Center charity
The impact of generosity in the world of death care
Zenith's exploration of death care in the UK
The role of ceremony in complex death situations

Stay tuned for this enlightening episode and remember, let's break the taboo around talking about death.

Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine

Contact Zenith:

Zenith Virago, Deathwalker

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Death, Dollars, and Deceit: Unravelling a Family's Feud

Thu, 11 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +1000

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What happens when some family members see dollar signs in death? How do you navigate such a fraught situation?

In this episode, we're discussing family ties, estates, and confronting death, a topic many avoid.

I'm sharing a personal and painful story about Grace. After her mother Patricia's death, she discovered her sister had allegedly taken $350,000 from Patricia's account. This led to a legal fight put Grace through many challenging situations.

This episode isn't just about a financial family feud. It's a warning about the importance of understanding legal matters, especially concerning powers of attorney and discussions about death and inheritance. It's about preparing for what's inevitable – both legally and emotionally.

We look at

The stark reality of elder financial abuse and how it can fracture families.
The unexpected legal loopholes and pitfalls when dealing with powers of attorney.
The emotional toll of grieving amidst a legal battle and feeling betrayed by those closest.

Links:

1800 ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) is a free call phone number that automatically redirects callers seeking information and advice on elder abuse with the phone service in their state or territory.

The phone line has been set up in collaboration with state and territory governments.

Doyl

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Sorting Through Memories: Decluttering After Death with Arwen Dropmann

Thu, 04 Apr 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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In the episode of "Don't Be Caught Dead," I had the pleasure of interviewing Arwen Dropmann, a skilled professional organiser with a background in social work.

Arwen is a certified social worker and has additional training in grief and loss, disability, chronic illness, hoarding disorder, motivational interviewing, neurodivergent affirming practices, and compassion-focused therapy.

We delved into the realm of decluttering, organising, and the emotional connections we have with our belongings, especially when coping with the death of a loved one.

In This Episode:

Arwen shines a light on the challenges families face when dealing with a loved one's belongings after death.
We explore the emotional aspects of decluttering and organising, especially in sensitive situations like handling a deceased person's possessions.
Arwen provides practical advice on future preparation, emphasising the importance of organising essential documents and planning for unforeseen events.

This episode should enlighten anyone who has grappled with clutter or faced the daunting task of sorting through a loved one's belongings. Arwen's insights highlight the importance of preparing for the inevitable and the emotional journey that accompanies it.

A Brother's Experience with Suicide and Parental Death with James Robinson

Thu, 28 Mar 2024 05:00:00 +1100

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Welcome to another episode of 'Don't Be Caught Dead'! This week, we delve into an incredibly raw and honest conversation with James Robinson. James courageously shares his personal experiences with loss, grief, and the impact of suicide on his family.

In this episode, James opens up about the tragic loss of his older brother, Michael, to suicide when they were just teenagers. This loss, which he describes as a 'huge shock', marked the start of a series of bereavements that profoundly affected James and his family. His recounting of these experiences paints a vivid, heartbreaking picture of the struggle that families face when dealing with the unexpected loss of a loved one.

Over the course of our conversation, James also reflects on his parents' passing and the significant toll these losses have taken on him. His story is a poignant reminder of the importance of support and understanding in navigating the journey of grief and loss. The strength and honesty with which James shares his story offer valuable insights and a sense of connection for those grappling with similar experiences.

In this episode, we:

Discuss James's early loss of his brother to suicide and the devastating impact it had on his family
Explore the coping mechanisms James and his parents adopted in the wake of their loss
Reflect on James

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The Last Dance: Death During COVID Lockdowns with Susan Bollard

Thu, 21 Mar 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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Have you ever pondered the experience of facing the end of a loved one's life? In this episode, we share a touching story from Susan Bollard, who grappled with the loss of her husband during the height of the Covid lockdown.

Susan, the owner of Showbiz Dance Studio, shares her profound journey through the loss of her husband, Phil. It's a story filled with love, loss, and unexpected lessons learnt along the way. Let's dive into the salient points of this extraordinary conversation.

Key Learnings:

Susan's life before and after Phil's passing: An exploration of her dance studio and how it transformed into a sanctuary after her loss.

The reality of managing a terminal illness: Susan reveals the emotional rollercoaster and difficult decisions faced during Phil's battle with pancreatic cancer.

Navigating life after loss: Susan discusses the challenges of adjusting to life without Phil, from managing his affairs to carving out her own path forward.

The power of dance: Discover how Susan utilised dance as a therapeutic outlet to rediscover herself and establish a supportive community.

Preparing for the inevitable: Insights into the importance of wills, funeral planning, and engaging in difficult conversations.

Highlighted Resources:

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

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MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Navigating the End: A Funeral Director's Perspective

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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Have you ever pondered over what it's like to confront death each day? Today we offer a captivating chat with Bradley Lett, who was raised in a family that ran a funeral business, a tradition he's upheld for two decades. It's a voyage through the complexities of life, death, and all that lies in between. So, let's delve into the show!

Episode Summary:

The Privilege of Funeral Directing: Bradley Lett, a veteran Funeral Director, imparts his profound experiences and the honour he carries in assisting families during their toughest times. Bradley candidly discusses the challenges and rewards of working closely with his Sale community, emphasising the emotional aspects of serving families he personally knows.

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The Privilege of Funeral Directing: Bradley Lett, a veteran Funeral Director, imparts his profound experiences and the honour he carries in assisting families during their toughest times.

Growing Up Amidst Death: Bradley contemplates his extraordinary childhood, being raised in a family deeply rooted in the funeral business. It's a viewpoint few of us have the opportunity to hear about!

Family Business and Personal Journeys: We explore his path from training to be a fitter and turner to taking over the family business. It's a narrative of unforeseen twists and heartfelt decisions.

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Rebecca Lyons: Advocating for Home Funerals and Family-Centric Death Care

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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You’ve probably heard of the term ‘doula’ before, often used in the context of those who support birthing mothers. But do you understand the role of a death doula?

In this episode, we demystify the often misunderstood role of an end of life doula, a role that Rebecca Lyons embodies with passion and dedication.

Rebecca shares her personal journey that led her into the funeral industry and eventually to her current role as a doula and independent funeral director.

Learn about the broad and diverse responsibilities of a doula, from practical logistics to the deeply emotional 'heart work'.

Hear about Rebecca's experiences and challenges whilst advocating for a more personalised and family-centric approach to death care.

Be inspired by Rebecca's commitment to raising death literacy and promoting open conversations about end-of-life matters.

In this episode, we explore the invaluable role of a doula, delve into the importance of clear communication amongst the care team, and discuss the concept of 'home funerals'. We also touch on Rebecca's work as an independent funeral director and her efforts to reimagine what a funeral can be.

Tune in to hear Rebecca's unique perspective on dying and death, and be prepared to view end-of-life care in a whole new light.

Key Talking Points:

The Role of

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

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Navigating Life After Loss: A Daughter's Tale with Libby Neesham

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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🌹 In this episode:

Libby opens up about the different ways she grieved the death of each of her parents and the lessons she learned along the way.
She reflects on her journey into motherhood and how it has shaped her understanding of life and death.
We delve into the importance of having open conversations about end-of-life matters and the impact it has on our lives.

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Remember; You may not be ready to die, but at least you can be prepared.

Take care,

Catherine 🌟

Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Caring Beyond COVID: Untold Stories of Doctors with Dr. Renee Stamation

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 00:00:00 +1100

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Today's conversation is one that's close to my heart, and I believe it will touch yours too.

I had the incredible opportunity to sit down with my best friend and medical advisor to Critical Info, Dr. Renee Stamation. As an emergency doctor, she faced incredibly challenging life-and-death moments during the tough times of the COVID-19 pandemic.

🩺 In this episode:

Dr. Stamation shares her firsthand experiences from the frontline, weaving a tale of resilience, compassion, and the emotional toll of being a healthcare worker during a global crisis.
She opens up about profound moments of connection in the midst of the pandemic, like being the last person to comfort patients in their final moments.
We discuss the invisible burdens our healthcare heroes carry and the misconceptions often held by those outside the medical profession.

Dr. Renee's stories are not just about the struggles; they highlight the human spirit, the kindness, and the unforgettable bonds formed in the hardest of times. Her insights are both heartbreaking and inspiring, offering a rare glimpse into the lives of those who have been our pillars during this pandemic.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand the true impact of the pandemic on those who fought on the frontlines.

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Death is hard, make death admin easy with the Critical Info Platform.

It’s a simple, secure system that helps you prepare and share your legacy, wishes and personal paperwork.

It’s packed with prompts, guides and even a To Do List to help you easily gather critical information for a complete end-of-life plan.

Leave behind a legacy, not a mess.

No credit card needed.

Every Tuesday at 7pm, I host Critical Chat Tuesdays —
free, online conversations where you can ask questions or just listen.

No pressure.
No expectation.

Because this isn’t about planning for “someday” —
it’s about being ready for whatever life throws your way.

Join anytime at criticalinfo.com.au/events

MY LOVED ONE HAS DIED, WHAT DO I DO NOW?

Our guide, ‘My Loved One Has Died, What Do I Do Now?’ provides practical steps for the hours and days after a loved one's death. Download it here.

SUPPORT SERVICES
If you're feeling overwhelmed by grief, find support through our resources and bereavement services here.

Support the show

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/

Trailer: Don't Be Caught Dead

Fri, 15 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +1100

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Welcome to the trailer for "Don't Be Caught Dead"! 💀

I'm excited to give you a glimpse of what's to come in this podcast.

This podcast delves into the delicate balance between life and death, the defining moments that shape us, and the conversations we often avoid but need to have. My mission is to change that.

I'm Catherine Ashton, the founder of Critical Info, and I'm here to revive stories of death.

Because while you may not be ready to die, at least you can be prepared.

🌟 Here's a sneak peek 👇

Experience the profound and often unspoken moments at the edge of life.
Join me as I reflect on witnessing the elusive transition from life to death.
Get a taste of the depths we'll explore, as we embark on life's final journey and discover its teachings.

🚀 Mark your calendars! We officially launch on 22nd February 2024.

Prepare yourself for a series of soul-stirring and thought-provoking episodes that will revolutionise your perspective on life... and death.

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Music composer: Ania Reynolds - https://www.aniareynolds.com/