Controversy and Chaos

Peace, Love & Hair Grease | How to Protect Your Peace in REAL Life

Wed, 13 May 2026 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Everybody talks about “protecting your peace” online, but what does that actually look like in real life? In this episode, we get into the boundaries, habits, and mindset shifts that come with genuinely choosing peace over chaos, even when it’s uncomfortable.

Before diving into the main conversation, we catch up on everything from the City Girls to pixie-cut life, the songs currently matching our moods, and why we’re already mourning the end of the #LittleMissDrama tour. Then we unpack what protecting your peace really means outside of social media quotes and aesthetic self-care posts.

⏱ Episode Timestamps

0:00 – Introducing
0:15 – The City Girls: Should they get back together?
5:15 – Welcome to Episode 93
5:30 – How’s the pixie life?
8:35 – What song describes your mood this week?
9:20 – We already miss the #LittleMissDrama tour
17:15 – Main Topic: Protecting your peace in real life
36:00 – Episode final thoughts

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You got Games? | Rapid game of Would You Rather… Be Honest 👀

Thu, 23 Apr 2026 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This episode, we switched things up and had a little fun with a game of Would You Rather, be honest.

From light and funny to slightly unhinged, we put each other on the spot, challenged our choices, and learned a little more about how we think (and maybe overshare just a bit). It’s the kind of episode that feels like you’re right there in the room with us, laughing, debating, and lowkey judging our answers.

If you love a good “pick your poison” moment and want a break from the deep talks—this one’s for you. 🎲✨

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All I Can Handle | Is Being an Ambitious Mom Selfish?

Wed, 08 Apr 2026 08:00:00 -0400

Can you be fully present as a mom and still chase your ambitions without guilt? In this episode, we unpack the tension that comes with wanting to be there for your children while also building, growing, and becoming more of yourself.

We get honest about the level of “selfishness” that can come with ambition, what it really means to show up as a present mom, and how to navigate the internal tug-of-war between purpose and responsibility. Is it selfish… or is it necessary?

Of course, we keep it light with our usual catch-up, from random questions and facial expressions getting us in trouble, to what we can (and can’t) do in heels before diving into a conversation that so many women are quietly navigating.

If you’ve ever felt torn between who you are and who you’re becoming, this one will hit home. 🤍

⏱ Episode Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
0:45 – Random Question: What’s your favorite emoji?
4:03 – Our facial expressions get us in trouble every time
7:50 – What can you do in heels?
11:19 – Main Topic: Being an ambitious woman while wanting to be a present mom
30:00 – Episode final thoughts

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This is the Remix | Evolving Without Losing Yourself

Wed, 25 Mar 2026 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Growth is beautiful, but what happens when you start to feel like you’re becoming someone new? In this episode, we dive into the art of reinvention, how to elevate, evolve, and step into new versions of yourself without losing your core identity.

We talk about what it means to stay grounded in who you are while embracing change, the fear that can come with growth, and how to navigate becoming more of yourself instead of someone completely different.

Of course, we keep it light with our usual catch-up, from beauty chats and snack obsessions to a fun (and very real) random question before getting into a conversation that anyone in a season of growth will relate to.

If you’re evolving, questioning, or stepping into something new… this one’s for you. ✨

⏱ Episode Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
0:18 – The classic ballerina bun
1:43 – Makeup chat
7:31 – Welcome to Episode 90
8:50 – Random Question: One Black thing you can’t do
15:44 – Snack obsession
17:40 – Main Topic: How do you navigate reinvention?
46:15 – Episode final thoughts

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Love is Dumb and Blind

Wed, 18 Mar 2026 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This episode is all about Love Is Blind Season 10, and we have thoughts. From the couples to the chaos, we’re breaking down what worked, what didn’t, and the moments that had us questioning everything.

But before we get into the drama, we catch up on life, touching on beauty, motherhood, body changes, and the real-life transitions that don’t get talked about enough.

Then we dive into the season: the connections, the red flags, and whether love was actually… blind this time around. And of course, we couldn’t leave without a little side-eye conversation about Netflix and the bigger picture.

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Give Up or Glow Up?

Wed, 04 Mar 2026 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re asking a hard question: Is it ever appropriate for someone to tell you to let your dream die?

We unpack what it feels like to hear doubt from others while navigating entrepreneurship, especially during the “dry season” when things feel slow, unclear, or stagnant. Is it quitting… or is it pivoting? And how do you know the difference?

As always, it’s equal parts reflection, cultural commentary, and real-life catch-up. If you’re building something, questioning something, or evolving through something, this one’s for you.

⏱ Episode Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome back to the pod
4:55 – It costs money and time to be a baddie
12:30 – Celebrities are chronically online just like us
14:30 – Twitter After Dark crossover
15:20 – Quick weaves aren’t quick (or affordable) anymore
18:00 – Random Question: Is it ever appropriate for someone to tell you to let your dreams die?
26:00 – Pivoting during the dry season of entrepreneurship
31:43 – Let’s talk concert merch
35:00 – We’re ready for the Little Miss Drama tour
42:00 – Episode final thoughts

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Tyra Banks is a MENACE! | The ANTM Netflix Doc Has Us Re-Thinking EVERYTHING!

Thu, 19 Feb 2026 17:00:00 -0500

We had to talk about it! Netflix just dropped a docuseries revisiting America’s Next Top Model, and let’s just say… it hits different in 2026. 👀

In this bonus episode, we unpack the nostalgia, the controversy, the cultural impact, and the moments that didn’t age well. From iconic runway memories to the power dynamics we didn’t fully understand back then, we’re breaking it all down with fresh eyes.

Was it empowering? Exploitative? Both?
Let’s get into it.

If you grew up watching ANTM, this conversation is for you.

🎧 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more Controversy & Chaos bonus episodes.

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Don’t Be Crunchy

Wed, 11 Feb 2026 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! The soft life looks good online, but what does it actually look like in real life? In this episode, we unpack what living a realistic soft life truly means beyond aesthetics and aesthetics alone. From self-reflection to emotional labor, we talk about softness as intention, boundaries, and choosing peace without disconnecting from responsibility.

We also dive into the age-old question: should your spouse really be your best friend? We explore expectations, partnership, and how relationships evolve as you grow. It’s an honest, grounded conversation about balance, growth, and redefining softness on your own terms.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome to Episode 87
7:54 – Random Question: Should your spouse be your best friend?
16:40 – The power of self-reflection
27:25 – What a realistic soft life actually looks like
45:27 – What we’re currently watching

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Poof Be Gone

Wed, 28 Jan 2026 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we dive into a question many of us quietly wrestle with: when you remove someone from your life, why do they sometimes keep reappearing? Is it a coincidence, unfinished business, or a lesson that hasn’t fully landed yet?

We explore what it means to truly let go, how growth in your 30s changes the way you interpret repeated encounters, and whether crossing paths again is about closure or simply confirmation that you’ve outgrown certain connections. Along the way, we share lighter moments, random questions, and reflections that remind us how perspective shifts as we evolve.

Episode Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome back to the pod
0:37 – Planning a memorable birthday for your spouse
10:55 – Tarré the gym baddie
16:56 – Random Question: What song does everyone love, but you hate
23:38 – MaryRuth hair growth talk
25:34 – Main Topic: When you remove someone from your life, what does it mean if you still cross paths?
47:45 – Reflections & lessons learned in your 30s
50:56 – Episode final thoughts

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New Year, Same Chaos !

Wed, 14 Jan 2026 10:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! A new year means new energy, new intentions, and a soft reset on how we move forward. In this episode, we’re easing into 2026 with honest reflections, personal resolutions, and real conversations about growth, motherhood, and choosing yourself—without guilt.

We talk about the things no one really prepares you for in motherhood, what it looks like to set intentions that actually feel aligned, and why doing something special for yourself isn’t selfish, it’s necessary. Consider this episode a gentle welcome into the year ahead, with space for evolution, grace, and a little chaos.

Timestamps 🕐
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome back
3:50 – 2026 resolutions
16:55 – Random Question of the Day: One thing about motherhood nobody talks about
38:57 – New year, new tattoos?
43:42 – Doing something special for yourself
46:15 – Episode final thoughts

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A Mother of 2

Wed, 19 Nov 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 84, we’re doing what we do best, mixing a little life update with a whole lot of music talk. We kick things off with the realities of preparing for labor (because women really do it all), and what girl mom life is teaching us in real time.

Then we dive into the hottest new drops: Wale’s Everything Is a Lot and Summer Walker’s “Finally Over It.” We break down the bars, the vibes, the growth, and what these releases say about the state of R&B and hip-hop right now.

We also get into why millennials might be the drunkest generation (let’s be honest… we’ve been through a lot), who our kids will one day call a “legend,” and wrap up with a sweet recap of Ciara’s baby shower as we close out another beautiful year.

It’s a feel-good, music-loving, life-reflecting episode, the perfect way to end the year.

Timestamps 🕐
0:00 – Intro
1:35 – Welcome to Episode 84
2:16 – How women prepare for labor and delivery
5:00 – Girl Mom Life
13:55 – New Music Talk: Wale – Everything Is a Lot
16:57 – Why are millennials the drunkest generation?
21:16 – Summer Walker: Finally Over It
41:09 – Who will our kids consider a legend?
52:21 – Ciara’s baby shower recap
1:03:00 – Episode & End-of-Year Final Thoughts

#ControversyAndChaos #BlackMillennialPodcast #DeepConversations #blackgirlpodcast #regularblackgirl #millennialmarriage #millenialmom #momlife #newmusic #summerwalker

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Put it In the Group Chat | The Shadow Side of Marriage & Motherhood

Thu, 13 Nov 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This week’s episode is giving main character crisis. Between marriage, motherhood, and the endless sea of streaming platforms...who even are we anymore? We unpack what it feels like to lose your identity in the mix of “wife,” “mom,” and “everybody’s everything,” plus why some convos only make sense once you’ve lived it. It’s equal parts therapy, chaos, and group chat energy.

🕐 Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – The new way companies are advertising
5:45 – Streaming platforms are becoming overwhelming
16:00 – Random Question: When did you first realize what fear was?
26:48 – No longer having identity autonomy after marriage and motherhood
41:16 – Certain conversations should only be heard by people who can relate
47:49 – Personality shadow in a relationship
55:06 – Final thoughts

#ControversyAndChaos #BlackMillennialPodcast #DeepConversations #blackgirlpodcast #regularblackgirl #millennialmarriage #millenialmom #momlife

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It's the Texture

Wed, 05 Nov 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 82 of Controversy & Chaos, we dive into a mind-bending conversation. If you were under hypnosis, would you rather uncover truths about your past or get a glimpse into your future? 👁️‍🗨️

We also talk about singers who really can’t sing, Michael Jackson’s iconic hootin’ & hollarin', throwback ringtones, and the Classic Man era. This episode is equal parts nostalgia, humor, and deep reflection, the perfect blend of chaos and clarity.

⏱️ Timestamps:

0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Singers Who Can’t Sing
3:30 – Michael Jackson’s Hootin & Hollarin
9:23 – Classic Man Hairstyle
14:17 – Random Question: What Was Your Last Ringtone
23:29 – Main Topic: Would You Want to Know More About the Past or the Future Under Hypnosis
44:22 – Episode Final Thoughts

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For Better or Worse

Thu, 23 Oct 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode of Controversy & Chaos, we’re asking the hard questions: Is unconditional love even real? 💭 We dive into the Black community’s complicated relationship with Christianity, unpack cultural stigmas like why wearing red is seen as “fast,” and share our honest takeaways from Gucci Mane & Keyshia Ka’oir’s viral Breakfast Club interview. From faith and love to partnership and support, we’re breaking down what healthy love really looks like in 2025.

⏱️ Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome Back
0:40 – Who in the Black community decided red means “Fast”?
3:10 – Black people and Christianity
26:15 – Random Question: Do you believe in Unconditional Love?
31:48 – Main Topic: Takeaways from Gucci & Keyshia Ka’oir’s Breakfast Club interview

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This Escalated Quickly | Cardi B vs Nicki Minaj: The Beef That Won’t End !

Thu, 02 Oct 2025 13:00:00 -0400

Cardi B is the drama, and Pink Wig is on the loose again! 💅🏽 In this episode of Controversy & Chaos, we break down the latest chapter of the never-ending Cardi B and Nicki Minaj feud. From subliminals to full-on shade, this beef has trickled into JT, Ice Spice, Saucy Santana, and more. We unpack why this drama refuses to die down, and where do we go from here?

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Do You Really Know Me?

Wed, 01 Oct 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re catching up on some changes with the current administration, how TikTok is being impacted, and diving into one of our most thoughtful questions yet: What determines your level of friendship? Do people need to know your entire life’s lore to really understand you, or is connection built in other ways?

We also reflect on what we’ve learned about ourselves through the lens of our friends; sometimes they see us more clearly than we see ourselves. Expect honesty, laughs, and a little bit of chaos like always.

Timestamps
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome to Episode 79
0:55 – TikTok is going through major changes due to the current Administration
23:40 – Random Question of the Day: What’s one thing you learned about yourself through the lens of your friend?
38:24 – Main Topic: What determines your level of friendship, and do your new friends need your full lore?
1:00:00 – Music artist we don't connect with
1:05:00 – Episode Final Thoughts

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Get On The Winning Team

Wed, 24 Sep 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we kick things off by sharing the little pieces of girlhood we still hold onto and how they continue to shape us today. From there, we take a deeper dive into relationships, reflecting on the importance of celebrating growth and wins in marriage, regardless of their size. It’s a candid, heartfelt conversation about honoring your journey, your partner, and the milestones that often go unnoticed.

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to Episode 78
0:37 - Where do we want to travel next?
9:24 - Random Question of the Day: What reminds you of your girlhood that you hold on to
20:44 - Main Topic: Do you take the time to celebrate the Wins in your marriage
49:52 - Episode 79 Sneak Peek: Do you feel like your friends need to have the backstory of your life
51:09 - Episode Final Thoughts

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Cardi B Am I the Drama? | Bonus Episode

Sat, 20 Sep 2025 09:00:00 -0400

Cardi B is back, and she’s definitely the DRAMA. In this bonus episode, we give our first reactions and a deep dive review of her brand new album, Am I the Drama? The project has already stirred conversation, and we’re breaking down standout tracks, lyrics, production, and whether this rollout lived up to the hype. From bold bars to undeniable bops, we get into everything fans (and critics) will be talking about.

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Crackatarian | Charlie Sheen, Cardi B and Everything in Between!

Wed, 17 Sep 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Join us as we dive into everything from beauty to controversy. From sharing our latest makeup pickups to unpacking Cardi B’s highly anticipated album rollout, Bad Bunny’s political stand, and the heavy realities of being POC in America, we didn’t hold back. Plus, we get into the new Charlie Sheen documentary, the shocking Unknown Caller doc, and what Florida’s vaccine mandate repeal could mean. Tune in for laughs, reflection, and a whole lot of chaos.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome Back to Controversy and Chaos
1:30 – Our recent makeup pickups
12:08 – Cardi B’s Album Roll Out and Tour
21:28 – Bad Bunny announces his tour & takes a stand on the current political climate
24:57 – Prayers to the families of Trey Reed and Corey Zukatis
27:40 – Being a POC in America can be draining
36:08 – Florida has ended their Vaccine mandate, what does this mean?
42:10 – Charlie Sheen Documentary
57:20 – The Unknown Caller Documentary
1:10:03 – Episode Final Thoughts

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I Don’t Wanna be a Player

Wed, 27 Aug 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we switched things up and brought one of our off-air conversations straight to the podcast. We dive deep into the rise and fall of R&B star Trey Songz, from his undeniable catalog of hits to the controversies and cancellations that have clouded his career. We discuss what went wrong, whether he could have rebranded, and if there’s any chance for redemption in today’s culture.

If you love honest conversations about music, celebrity culture, and accountability, this one’s for you.

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75 Hard

Wed, 20 Aug 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Sometimes the best conversations are the unplanned ones. In this episode, we let the conversation flow and covered everything from beauty faves to nostalgic music debates and those random hot takes you didn’t know you needed. It’s one of those episodes where nothing is off the table, and the laughs and realness keep coming.

Episode Timestamps 🕐

0:18 - Our Love for NYX Cosmetics Butter Gloss
2:58 - LGBTQIA Slang
4:32 - Random Question: What was the happiest day of your life?
10:23 - How do you hear music?
17:45 - Random Question: What random Celebrity can you not stand?
23:55 - Top 3 Boy Bands
35: 08 - How are we so in sync
36:45 - What happened to the childbearing hips
40:00 - Episode Final thoughts

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Unexpected Places

Wed, 13 Aug 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we kick things off with a little rant about brands, questionable marketing tactics, and those head-scratching collabs nobody asked for. Then, we dive into our thoughts on the latest "unusual couples" from Meg & Klay to Olandria & Nic, which becomes a jumping point to talk about dating outside your “type,” staying open to new experiences, and the power of welcoming energy.

If you’re into unfiltered opinions, real-life reflections, and a sprinkle of pop culture, this one’s for you.

Timestamps 🕐
0:00- intro
0:18 - Brands & Their questionable collabs
11:40 - Good Jeans, good quality denim
15:12 - Main topic: Unexpected couples that work! Why you should have a welcoming spirit.

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Can I Complain for a Sec?

Wed, 06 Aug 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Sometimes you need a safe space to vent, and this episode is exactly that. From the chaos of working in corporate America to the death of the OG makeup guru era, Instagram being… weird, and even why kids have no business watching Love Island, we’re getting it all off our chest.

It’s unfiltered, a little petty, and 100% us. Tap in for laughs, hot takes, and a few rants you’ll probably relate to.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome to Episode 73
0:32 – Working in Corporate America is Ghetto
16:23 – Did You Know Shrek Was Real!?
17:46 – Revisiting 2016 Full Glam
19:50 – Why OG Makeup Gurus Don’t Post Anymore
21:41 – Ciara’s 23-Week Pregnancy Check-In
22:48 – Instagram is Now an Odd Place
23:43 – Kids Shouldn’t Be Watching Love Island
31:55 – Phone Call with Special Guest
41:09 – YouTube Parental Controls Are Horrible
51:08 – When Should You Do a Red Lip?
53:40 – Having Daughters & Maintaining Their Hair
1:04:00 – Episode Finale Thoughts

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Dust Settles , I Don’t !

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re tackling a tough question: Should you marry or settle down with someone who wasn’t your first choice? We get into the realities of love, settling versus choosing, and what self-reflection can reveal about your relationships (and yourself). The mics are on and we're spilling the tea, tune in and be sure to share your thoughts!

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Us & Our Sensory Issues
1:06 – These New Bugs Are Vicious
2:04 – Hormones & Hunger
5:15 – Random QOTD: Should You Settle Down with Someone Who Wasn’t Your First Choice?
41:56 – Self-Reflection & Discovery
45:10 – Episode Farewell

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The Lost Recipe Files

Wed, 16 Jul 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re reflecting on how our generation is officially the new adults, and honestly, it’s kinda scary. Have we lost our sense of community? Are we really watching each other struggle instead of stepping in to help? From the B. Simone controversy to the way we’re dropping the ball on traditions (aka losing recipes), we break down why adulting today hits different, sometimes in the worst way.

🕒 Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome to Episode 71
2:02 – Random QOTD: Should You Watch Your Friend Struggle? (B. Simone Controversy)
25:50 – Have We Lost Our Sense of Community?
1:11:52 – Final Thoughts

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Dear Producers

Wed, 09 Jul 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 70, we’re coming in hot, literally. We had plenty to get off our chest. In this episode, we’re chopping it up about everything from our frustrations with Love Island USA Season 7 (seriously, producers do better) to whether it’s ever okay to date a friend’s ex. We also unpack some hot-button headlines and sprinkle in a few unfiltered opinions on why the girl code is a slippery slope.

It’s giving us hormones, chaos, and honesty - basically, a typical conversation with us. Tune in for the laughs, side-eyes, and plenty of moments that’ll have you yelling at your speaker.

🕒 Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Hormones Have Our Skin in Shambles
1:16 – What’s Going On with the Big Bill?
13:36 – Thoughts on the Diddy Verdict
21:37 – A Whole Black Bear in Our Neighborhood
22:53 – Vocal Stimming is Necessary
23:37 – Random QOTD: Is it Ever Okay to Date Your Friend’s Ex?
29:12 – Updated Thoughts on Love Island Season 7
53:44 – Does Amaya have the Cardi B Effect
57:29 – Final Thoughts

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The Mama is The Mama

Wed, 25 Jun 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into a hot girl ethical debate: Is it wrong for a self-proclaimed “baddie” to leave her non-baddie friends at home when stepping out into social scenes where attention (and men) might be selective? 👀 Let’s say, we’ve got thoughts. We also unpack the unrealistic and unfair standards placed on Black women from how we’re expected to dress, act, and raise our kids, to the pressure of being perfect in every space. Spoiler: It’s not up to Beyoncé to be your baby’s role model; that’s your job, mama.

This one is a mix of hot takes, hard truths, and unfiltered girl talk.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Summertime Congestion & Pregnancy Woes
3:55 – Random QOTD: Is it wrong for a baddie to leave her non-baddie friend at home?
18:49 – Main Topic: Why are Black women held to unfair social standards
1:01:59 – Final Thoughts

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Birds of a Feather

Wed, 11 Jun 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 68, we’re diving into what it really means when birds of a feather flock together. Is it really a problem for married people to hang out with their single friends, or is that just society projecting boundaries? We also tackle the layers of morality; are your values truly your own, or are they just borrowed beliefs you’ve absorbed over time? Plus, we explore toxic relationships and how to differentiate between someone who’s hurt and someone who’s harmful. It’s a layered conversation you won’t want to miss.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Summertime Fine & Tan Lines
1:51 – Pinterest Recipes
3:32 – Welcome to Episode 68
3:52 – Random QOTD: What shapes your morality?
21:48 – Main Topic: Married people & single friends — yay or nay?
42:11 – Final Thoughts

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Growth is the Goal

Wed, 04 Jun 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re kicking things off with a special announcement: we're having a baby! Then we dive deep into the Random Question of the Day: Is trauma bonding always toxic, or is there some nuance? We also share our hot takes on the Offset and Cardi B divorce saga, especially that spicy spousal support request, and unpack why it’s still so hard for Black women in business to scale, even in a billion-dollar beauty world where ELF just snatched up Rhode. Tap in for real talk, a little pregnancy rage, and plenty of laughs.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – We’re Having a Baby!
5:49 – Random QOTD: Is Trauma Bonding Wrong?
16:30 – Pregnancy Rage is Real
19:57 – Offset Asking for Spousal Support
36:40 – ELF Purchased Rhode / Why Black Women in Business Can’t Scale
49:38 – Episode Final Thoughts

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Family Matters

Wed, 28 May 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re kicking things off with a spicy random question: Should you still marry him if you hate the engagement ring? 👀 Then we dive into a real conversation about how your partner’s family dynamics can impact your relationship—and even how you show up as a parent. From navigating in-laws to breaking generational patterns, we’re unpacking it all.

Episode Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – We’re ready for summer
1:56 – Welcome to Episode 66
2:40 – Our TikTok beef
4:54 – Random QOTD: Should you marry him if you hate the engagement ring?
15:30 – Are you a chaotic note taker?
17:20 – Family dynamics & relationship impact
46:00 – Final thoughts

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Thirty Flirty and Thriving

Wed, 14 May 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re reflecting on the chaos, clarity, and curveballs of our 20s and the lessons that came with them. Now that we’re thirty, flirty, and thriving (or at least trying to), we’re spilling all the gems we’ve picked up along the way. Plus, the Random Question of the Day will have you thinking: What was the prettiest reason you cut someone off?

Timestamps:
00:00 - intro
0:30- Random Question of the Day
8:30 - Men should never do Insta Cart
17:50 - Lessons from our 20s
50:00 - Episode final thoughts

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Office Siren

Wed, 30 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into two big questions: Is it ever okay to lie to protect someone’s feelings? And why are Black women constantly under a microscope, especially in professional spaces? From navigating honesty to unpacking the workplace bias black women face, we're getting down to the real tea.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:15 – Welcome to Episode 64
2:34 – Tarré’s Thoughts on Sinners
11:40 – Is It OK to Lie to Spare Someone’s Feelings?
19:26 – Why Are People So Critical of Black Women?
48:00 – Final Thoughts

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Ruin My Life Now

Wed, 23 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This week, we’re talking about soft life. Is it peace, luxury, or just having your bills paid on time? We also get into the timeless debate—should you post your man early or keep him in the drafts? Posting your man early, is it bold or just dumb? From childhood core memories to social media etiquette and the icks men give without even trying, this episode is full of laughs, honesty, and a little chaos.

Timestamps:
0:00 – Intro
0:18 – Welcome to Episode 63
0:30 – Childhood Core Memories
3:46 – Random Question: What is the Soft Life?
17:38 – Main Topic: Post Your Man
37:29 – Social Media Perception & Etiquette
41:57 – Things Men Do That Give Us the Ick
49:45 – Final Thoughts

#girlchat #podcastforwomen #blackgirlpodcast #unfilteredconversations #randomtopics #softlife

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That’s Not the Flex You Think It Is

Wed, 16 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re getting real about the pressures of womanhood—the silent competitions, the “strong Black woman” label, and why some of these so-called flexes just aren’t giving. We also dive into a necessary convo on the innocence of Black boys, the softness they deserve, and how society fails to protect them. Sprinkle in some hot takes on our hair struggles, and Cardi B’s latest collab, tune in for the usual laughs, shade, and honesty!

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Baddies & their digestive system
1:59 - Welcome to Episode 62
2:15 - Hair Woes
5:38 - Random Question of the Day: Why is this a flex in womanhood
10:25 - Things that aren’t the norm but should be
21:40 - Forever 21 is officially closing
26:21 - Cardi B x Revolve
30:03 - The innocence of Black boys
39:19 - The rabbit hole of West Coast rap
47:05 - Final Thoughts

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Untitled Episode

Wed, 09 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re doing our makeup and running our mouths again; the tea is hot! While we blend our concealer and fight with these lash clusters, tune in as we chat about concerts, social media drama, Celeb drama, and everything in between. If you love a little mess with your mascara, pull up. We’ve got plenty to say and no filter with which to say it.

Timestamps:

0:18 - Skincare Chat
4:30 - Ciara’s Birthday Recap
8:44 - Mariah Carey & Anderson.Paak
9:23 - Welcome to Episode 61
9:44 - The Breezy Bowl & Concert Season Lineup
18:22 - Lash Cluster Woes
21:36 - Jess Hilarious on Club Shay Shay
34:14 - Offset Needs to Heal
37:19 - Asian Doll Controversy
42:03 - Why B.O. is Never OK
46:46 - The MJ Biopic
51:22 - LA Street Sweep Madness
1:01:23 - Normani, DK & Playing Matchmaker
1:08:00 - Ciara & Russell Wilson Moments
1:09:56 - Final Thoughts

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Don’t Scare The Hoes

Wed, 02 Apr 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re diving deep into the realities of womanhood in this episode. First up, was monogamy really designed for women, or is it just another system built around men’s lack of self-control? Then, we get raw about the first time we realized the world isn’t always safe for women. From street harassment to the paranoia we carry daily, we unpack the weight of being a woman in a world that doesn’t always protect us. Oh, and of course, we had to get into some pop culture because who was the real Michael Jackson? This episode is giving thought-provoking, unfiltered, and a lil’ spicy. Tune in and tell us your thoughts!

Timestamps:

0:18 - Who Was the Real Michael Jackson?
2:33 - Chris Brown’s Potential Iconic MJ Performance
5:17 - Welcome to Episode 60
5:40 - Random Question: Was Monogamy Made for Women?
18:55 - Main Topic: Our First Introduction to Fear as Women
50:18 - Final Thoughts

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Talk Ish Get Hit

Wed, 26 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re getting real about protecting our kids. From schoolyard bullies to online trolls, we share how we’d handle it as parents and reflect on our experiences growing up around envy and mean girls. Plus, we stroll down memory lane with college party stories, debate if Gen Z is doing too much, and answer the juicy question: What would your 16-year-old self think of who you’ve become? Tune in for unfiltered parenting talk, personal reflections, and a little nostalgia!

Timestamps:
0:18 - College Party Memories
2:26 - Baltimore Women & Friendship
6:11 - Welcome to Episode 59
6:57 - Gen Z is Doing Too Much
9:00 - Random Question: What Would Your 16-Year-Old Self Think of You Now?
15:30 - Our Dunkin’ Obsession
18:28 - Main Topic: How Would You Handle Bullying as a Parent?
1:01:00 - Millennial Internet Beef
1:03:00 - Final Thoughts

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Chocolate is Never Acceptable

Wed, 19 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 58 In this episode, We dive into a few hot topics and random thoughts. Grab your makeup bag, your drink, and your opinions it’s about to get messy in the best way!

Timestamps:
💅🏾 0:18 - Nail Check
💼 2:08 - Working for a Nonprofit vs. Corporate
😬 7:05 - Random Question: One thing you’re afraid to do but really want to?
🎢 15:33 - Say No to Rollercoasters
🚪 17:56 - Escape Rooms = The Worst Group Projects
👯‍♀️ 19:48 - Being with Your Core Friends is So Freeing
✈️ 31:22 - The Aspen Saga | Traveling in Groups
🍫 36:33 - Is Chocolate Cake Acceptable?
🎵 43:03 - YN R&B
🗣️ 50:55 - Final Thoughts

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Ion Got No Type

Wed, 12 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 57, we’re diving deep into the dating pool—spoiler alert: it’s shallow! 😩 Are people missing out on their perfect match because they’re too busy chasing their “type”? We break down unrealistic preferences, attraction vs. connection, and whether being too picky is holding you back. Plus, we touch on dating standards, colorism in attraction, and of course… Our random question of the day: What was your most random job?

⏳ Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to Episode 57
4:50 - Random Question: The most interesting job we’ve ever had
24:30 - Do you watch Pop The Balloon?
25:43 - Are you too focused on your “type”?
29:28 - Not being immediately attracted to your spouse
30:15 - Light skin vs. dark skin preferences
34:25 - Are you all just too picky?
43:43 - Dating standards… what are we doing?
52:39 - Aaron the plumber 😂
53:44 - Final thoughts

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Let's Rant & Rave

Wed, 05 Mar 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Episode 56 is a classic random rant dump, and we’re getting into everything! From hair talk to Bravo drama, Cecred’s Ulta deal, and why Black Brits stay beefing with us. We’re also handing out Auntie Cards (Ciara, come get yours), discussing Megan Thee Stallion’s tequila, and side-eyeing The Rolling Stones’ R&B list. Plus, a little nostalgia—what song reminds you of when you and your boo first got together? And can we all agree that 2008-2016 was the golden era of music? Tap in!

⏳ Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Let’s Talk About Hair
4:37 - Welcome to Episode 56
4:55 - If You’re a Bravo Girl, Tap In
12:30 - Cecred & Ulta Partnership
20:06 - What’s the Beef with Black Brits?
22:21 - Ciara Got Her Auntie Card
24:23 - Megan Thee Stallion’s Tequila
26:44 - The Rolling Stones’ Top R&B List
35:42 - We’re Just Chatting
36:25 - Random Question: What Song Reminds You of When You and Your Boo First Started Dating?
42:43 - Music Don’t Hit the Same | 2008-2016 Music Era Was Top Tier
43:50 - Episode Final Thoughts

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In the Spirit of Tamera

Wed, 26 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 55, we’re getting into everything that makes us side-eye society. Why do rich people feel the need to control how poor people use their food stamps? The deep-rooted daddy issues that show up in women’s dating choices, and the beauty standards that keep feeding low self-esteem. And let’s not forget all of the overwhelming beauty standards and why women need to hear more compliments. Get ready for a real, raw, and probably controversial convo!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - This Week’s Sephora Pickups
2:43 - Welcome to Episode 55
3:20 - Disassociating from the News
5:38 - Get Eric Adams Outta Here
8:33 - How is Trump Making Immediate Decisions?
9:45 - Is Tamera Mowry Married to a Racist?
12:00 - Why Do Rich People Care About Food Stamps?
23:56 - Random Question: If Your Life Had a Tagline, What Would It Be?
27:14 - TikTok Storytimes: She Flew Herself Out
37:17 - Women Need Fathers
43:50 - Why Are Women So Thirsty & Money Hungry?
50:26 - Colorism vs. Featurism
58:30 - Plastic Surgery Talk | Women Need More Compliments
1:10:30 - Episode Final Thoughts

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Read The Room

Wed, 19 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 54, we’re diving into the great debate—what’s too much when it comes to dressing for church? Style with Sense: Every Outfit Has a Time & Place, using Jayda Cheaves and Talitha Jane as case studies, we break down the fine line between fashionable and a little too outside the pew. We also get into our favorite underrated artists and answer the big question: If you could trade places with one person, who would it be? It’s a mix of fashion, music, and a little existential crisis—tap in!

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - If you never played the Michael Jackson Game you're too young
1:53 - We love a True Crime Podcast
4:18 - Who is your favorite underrated artist
10:21 - If you could trade places with anyone who would it be
20:05 - Main Topic: Every Outfit Has a Time & Place
47:10 - Episode Final Thoughts

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Motherhood is a Mixed Bag

Wed, 12 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 53, we're pulling back the curtain on motherhood—the good, the bad, and the downright exhausting. We get real about our personal experiences, navigating postpartum depression, and how motherhood can make you feel like you’re losing your spark. We also chat about Paris Fashion Week, Pharrell’s LV takeover, and a few other quick gems. It’s unfiltered, honest, and all too relatable. Tune in for the laughs, potential tears, and OUR truth!

Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Outfit Check – WAYDAMIN
1:38 - Jewelry & Accessory Preferences
2:37 - Paris Fashion Week | Pharrell & LV
8:08 - Welcome to Episode 53
8:28 - Why We Haven’t Talked Recently = Parenting
17:43 - MLK Files Being Uncovered | Black History Month
24:08 - Letting Go of Being a Workaholic
26:26 - Random Question: One Misconception About You
34:23 - Main Topic: Losing Your Spark During Motherhood
1:24 - Final Thoughts

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WAGS to Mean Girls

Wed, 05 Feb 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Join us for a GRWM (Get Ready With Me) session where we spill the tea on everything from the return of MAC Cosmetics (nostalgia unlocked!), the wild Popeyes x Don Julio collab (yes, that’s real), and the internet drama you didn’t know you needed. Our main topic? A full review and recap of WAGS to Riches—because we had thoughts, and we’re sharing them all because the drama deserves a deep dive.

✨ Timestamps:
0:00 intro
0:18 Plastic Surgery & Body Dysmorphia
1:47 Welcome to Episode 52
2:31 MAC Cosmetics is back!
10:20 Tragic Flight at DCA
14:00 The Popeyes & Don Julio Collab
18:04 DJ Akademics & the Grooming Controversy
27:50 Bhad Bhabie vs Alabama Barker
37:05 Random Question- What was your dream career?
42:03 WAGS to Riches Recap & thoughts
1:23:04 Popeyes Employee & his biscuits
1:26: 10 Makeup Malfunctions & Episode Final Thoughts

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FAFO SZN

Wed, 29 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Whew, y’all… we are officially in FAFO season, and the first nine days of Trump’s new term already got us side-eyeing the whole country. 😒 In this unfiltered convo dump, we break down what these changes mean for minorities (spoiler: it’s not looking good), the most valuable life advice we’ve ever received, and of course, a few fun debates—like why fast fashion prices got us feeling scammed and why the black unit of measurement is unmatched. Grab a drink, settle in, and let’s talk about it!

Updated Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Never Take Your Husband to the Mall (Trust Us!)
4:09 - Do We Need New Beauty Products?
11:08 - Retail is Giving ‘Nobody Wants to Work’ Energy
14:18 - Why We Shop Fast Fashion
17:05 - Welcome to Episode 51!
19:47 - The Best Life Advice We’ve Ever Gotten
26:05 - What’s Your Favorite Black Unit of Measurement?
31:00 - Things That Grind Our Gears
35:55 - Main Topic: Trump’s First 9 Days – We’re in Full FAFO Szn
1:21:14 - Grandparents & Grandkids: The Ultimate Soft Spot
1:23:26 - Final Thoughts & Closing Rants

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First Comes Love Then Comes Marriage

Wed, 22 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 50, we’re putting our spin on marriage talk! Were we ready when we said “I do,” or were we just out here winging it? 👀 We’re unpacking growing pains, debating if love is enough to walk down the aisle, and spilling the tea on how to spot someone who’s marriage material (hint: it’s not just vibes). Grab your wine and join the convo—it’s real, raw, and full of laughs!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Let’s Snap a Selfie, Shall We?
0:31 - Welcome to Episode 50!
1:30 - If You Could Rename Yourself, What Would It Be?
9:50 - Yearly Vow Renewals?
12:39 - Follow Us on IG for a Little Something-Something
17:30 - Should You Marry for Love?
29:30 - Relationship Growing Pains
32:25 - Were You Really Ready for Marriage?
47:45 - How to Spot a Partner Who’s Marriage Material
51:17 - We Need More Healthy Marriage Examples i
54:43 - Our Favorite Parts of Being Married
50:50 - Final Thoughts: Love, Growth, and Episode 50

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Straight to the Sheets

Wed, 15 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In Episode 49, we dive into nostalgia, spicy debates, and unfiltered honesty! We chat about our favorite beauty eras and vent about what’s been grinding our gears (girls doing boy things ). For the main event, we tackle the age-old question: sex on the first date—yes, no, or depends? Get ready for laughs, truths, and plenty of opinions!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to Episode 49
049 - Introducing our daughters to makeup
4:50 - Random question: Favorite era of Beauty
7:22 - Diana Ross vs Donna Summers
8:53 - Our Jamaica Ave Visit
11:12 - What grinds our gears: Girls doing boy things
16:50 - Main Topic: Sex on the first date
46:45 - Episode final thoughts

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Welcome to the Girls Room

Wed, 08 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re switching things up with Episode 48! In a fun GRWM-style video, we did our makeup while chatting about our entrepreneurial journey, beauty, hot topics, and fashion predictions for 2025. From Jayda Cheaves’ lip kit and Cardi B & Offset’s breakup phases to being in business with your partner and the audacity of public cheating, we left no stone unturned. We also shared our favorite brands of the month and 2025 fashion vibes. Tune in for glam, laughs, and unfiltered conversations!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - 32 Flavors/ Our IG captions
5:15 - Welcome to episode 48
9:09 - Our Entrepreneurial Journey
12:26 - Jayda Chaves Beauty
30:33 - Can you really Beat your face?
32:51 - Cardi B & Offset! The phases of a breakup
43:29 - Dearra & Ken! Being in business with your boyfriend
55:06 - Why don’t men cheat in private
59:40 - Have you found your soulmate
1:13:15 - 2025 Fashion Predictions
1:20:50 - Favorite Brand or Product this month
1:25:23 - Final Thoughts

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The Last Rodeo

Wed, 01 Jan 2025 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re kicking off 2025 with Episode 47, and it’s packed with everything from laughs to real talk! Of course, we couldn’t let this episode slide without crowning Beyoncé as the GOAT and sharing what we’re most excited about stepping into 2025. Finally, we open up about some changes for the podcast as we prioritize our friendship and say goodbye to our third member. It’s a new unfamiliar chapter, and we’re ready to embrace it. Let’s talk about it!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - A Hispanic MAGA Supporter
3:50 - Welcome to Episode 47
5:45 - How Much is too much for Stationary?
16:05 - Beyoncé is The GOAT!
48:16 - Hello 2025! What are you looking forward to?
59:06 - Controversy & Chaos will be going through some changes.
1:16:00 - Final Thoughts

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Year One On the Books!

Wed, 18 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We’re closing out the year with a good old-fashioned brain dump! There is no agenda or structure—just unfiltered rants, random thoughts, and all the vibes. This episode is as real as it gets, from what’s been on our minds to what we’re leaving behind in the new year. Pour a drink, kick back, and let it all out together.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Are you from the DMV
1:10 - Ciara is a true internet kid
2:40 - LeBron was singing Watermelon
3:50 - White people don’t hear the drum
4:44 - Welcome to Episode 46
5:10 - Atlanta is a simulation
9:54 - Tarré is giving 2010s Baddie
12:19 - We BEEN wearing wigs
19:10 - We listen and we don’t judge
22:18 - It’s finally the end of the year
27:00 - Who is Khadi Rhad
28:40 - What day is your reset day
34:54 - Nail Salon Woes
40:40 - Men lack social queues
53:54 - It should never be this cold
57:20 - Christmas Decor
1:00:00 - Tarré is an over consumer
1:06:33 - To be a Girl Mom
1: 10:00 - Tarré the
1:13: 36 - Final Thoughts

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Wrap This Ish Up!

Wed, 11 Dec 2024 12:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! It’s the most wonderful time of the year! In this episode, we’re diving into all things holidays—our favorite gift-giving tips, how to start your own family traditions, and what makes this season so magical. Plus, we share what we’re looking forward to as we step into the new year. Grab some cocoa and tune in for cozy vibes and plenty of cheer!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Young Miami & Santana Deserve a Show
2:00 - We don't drink off Kids
3:53 - Welcome to episode 45
7:19 - The burden of the Holiday Season
16:45 - Let's start some new Holiday Traditions
30:35 - Who really likes the snow?
34:49 - Let's be optimistic about 2025
42:41 - Why does Sza Lie so much
48:53 - Our Least Favorite Signs
53: 16 - Episode Final Thoughts

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We're never Beating the Allegations

Wed, 04 Dec 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Let’s face it—sometimes the receipts don’t lie. In this episode, we get real about the allegations women can’t seem to shake and the importance of holding ourselves accountable. From double standards to the art of owning up, we’re breaking it all down with humor, honesty, and hard truths.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to episode 44
2:40 - Being Sick as A Mom
5:27 - Disciplining & Raising Kids
19:20 - As Women Why Can't We Apologize or Take Accountability?
26:05 - How Can Men get Into Fights and then Go back to being cool
31:40 - Women Learn to manipulate emotionally
35: 36 - Women letting things build-up
42:43 - Not using our emotions to unleash our men
46:20 - Final thoughts on the Main topic
50:23 - When did you realize you could cuss good?
56:57 - Ginger Ale Owes us a check
1:00: 02 - Beyoncé & the NFL Christmas halftime
1:04:00 - Final Thoughts

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I'm not Submitting to Your Ego

Wed, 20 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into the spicy debates around prenups and postnups—are they smart planning or a recipe for disaster? Plus, we tackle the polarizing idea of “letting the man lead” in relationships. What does it mean, and does it really work in today’s world? Tune in for honest takes, real talk, and a little bit of side-eye.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to episode 43
0:38 - Our two weeks post-election thoughts
4:05 - The Diaspora Wars- Are people from the UK brainwashed?
18:50 - Why is the doctor's office always behind schedule?
28: 58 - Quavo's teeth
32:14 - Main Topic: How Do you feel about Prenups or Postnups
49:00 - Letting the Man Lead
1:19:00 - Our Lack of ability to apologize
1:23:58 - Final Thoughts: One Year of Podcasting

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He Can’t Come Around Here

Wed, 13 Nov 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into the dos and don’ts of guiding your child’s dating life. How do you know when it’s time to step in or step back? We discuss when to intervene, how we learned who’s worth bringing home to meet the family, and when it’s best to let them learn on their own. It’s all about balancing love, boundaries, and a little discernment!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to our 42nd Episode
0: 50 - Time isn't real
2:00 - Posting Your Kids on Social Media
5:38 - Introducing your kids to HBCU Culture
7:50 - We are T- Shirt Hoarders
13:48 - Four Eyes is ready for Lasik
18: 25 - Main Topic: Do you Intervene with your kids dating?
52: 58 - Scary AI ChatBox Story
59: 56 - Our Kids dating outside our culture
1: 02: 54 - Final Thoughts

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Scary Hours ! 2024 Election : What’s at Stake and What’s Next?

Wed, 06 Nov 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we dive into the whirlwind of the 2024 election, sharing our thoughts, predictions, and hopes for the future. We're covering everything from hot-button issues to the key players and how social media will shape this year’s voting landscape. Tune in for our take on what’s at stake and where this election could take us.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to our 41st Episode
0: 38 - Tarré never updates her apps
1:15 - Jan 2025 TikTok Ban
15:00 - Peeping Tom's are Voyers
18:55 - Tarré Got her voice back
21:40 - Why can't you pronounce confused?
25:00 - The only long-form content she can watch is True Crime.
30:50 - Our 2024 Election thoughts/ predictions
54:40 - Final thoughts

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The Holy Rebrand

Wed, 30 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! We've made it to episode 40! Let's discuss a few topics that have been taking over our TL over the past week including the discourse surrounding the wave of creators and social media personalities rebranding with spirituality and faith at the forefront—turning their beliefs into content gold. We talk about how personal values transform into viral posts, the fine line between genuine connection and capitalizing on faith, and the trend of making spirituality a whole persona.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome to our 40th Episode
1:06 - Kid's parties & Parental engagement
7:48 - Tiktok Story "12 years old & Pregant"
9:54 - Birthday Outfit Fail & Fued
16:02 - We hate the new Pinterest Ads
24:46 - The Hoe to Jesus Rebrands
38: 20 - Revisiting Our Hobbies
44:57 - The Weird things we do at home alone
48:33 - Songs that make us cry
50:28 - Final Episode Goodbyes

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If You Can't Beat Them….Blackfish Them?

Wed, 23 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we dive into a wide range of hot topics, from the nostalgic vibes of the old-school nail salon experience, and the prices compared to what we pay today! We also tap into the controversial conversation around blackfishing—what it means, why it happens, and how we can better gatekeep Black culture in a world that sometimes feels like it's constantly being appropriated. As we wrap up our thoughts, two unexpected guests interrupted! Tune in for raw, real talk and plenty of laughs along the way!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - How long does it take you to get ready?
2:23 - Welcome to Ep 39
2:55 - Tarré’s Birthday Dilemma
11:53 - Nail Chat
22: 39 - Are we to blame for Black-fishing?
38:15 - The kids entered the chat

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Wig caps off thinking caps on!

Wed, 16 Oct 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! After a much-needed break, we're back! In this episode we touched on a few hot topics, everything from Glorilla's debut album to the shocking revelation from R. Kelly's daughter, it's safe to say we got into some things!! As always comment down below and let us know your thoughts.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Smoker’s voice
2:37 - Dallas vs Huston
12:18: The downfall of Papa John’s k
16:40 : Glorilla’s debut album
23:39 : Latto hate train
29: 45: The girls need 2016 Cardi
34:40 : Glorilla & Speedy’s Chemistry
41:30 : The Met Gala
49:00 : R Kelly’s Daughter tells her story
1:05::00: Jaguar Wright
1:17:33: Final Thoughts

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Brain Dump

Fri, 27 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Buckle up for a whirlwind of random thoughts, hot takes, and everything in between! In this episode, we’re doing a brain dump. We’re diving into real talk on potentially living with PTSD, unpacking the latest allegations surrounding Diddy, and tossing in thoughts on the 2024 election! It’s a brain dump like no other—full of unexpected twists, deep reflections, a few laughs,and a little pop culture chaos. Tune in for a conversation that covers it all, from mental health to headlines!

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Tales of a Crash out Dummy

Wed, 18 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In your early 20s and already face-planting into poor decisions? Don’t worry, we’ve all been there! In this episode, we’re unpacking the hilarious (and sometimes painful) reality of making bad choices thanks to toxic relationships. From wild nights to regrettable texts, we’re keeping it light as we look back on the chaos—and maybe learn something along the way. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder that it’s all part of the ride!

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Failed ASMR & Ciara's love for Slime
4:00 - Get to know your body
5:53 - Wig Woes
9:00 - Let's talk about our Crash Out Stories
58:26 - Song of the Week - Whoop that trick
59:00 - Episode Final Message

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Low Functioning and Low Vibrational

Wed, 04 Sep 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we’re diving into the minds of high-value men and what they really want in a relationship. Does being a girl boss and chasing your dreams clash with the desires of these men? We’ll explore the delicate balance between ambition and love, and whether being a powerhouse woman can disrupt the relationship dynamic. Get ready for a candid discussion on navigating success, love, and everything in between without losing yourself or your partner along the way.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18: - What is considered Middle Aged?
3:39 - Self-care treatment
6:28 - Quickie “ Sex Talk”
7:40 - Being the star of your own RomCom
9:13 - Is Pizza & Prosecco actually a good idea?
18:38 - Intrusive thoughts - We all look like thumbs
20:00 - Our thoughts on Cam Newton & Dr. Cheyenne Bryant's Conversation.
23:00 - Main Topic: Low Vibration
30:00 - Both People in a relationship can’t be career-driven
40: 40 - Can Being a Girl Boss Ruin your relationship
1:06:27 - Final Rant
1:09:37 - Song of the Week - Nas ft Ginuwine “Owe Me”

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Rising from the Ashes

Wed, 28 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Life’s got jokes, and sometimes, the punchline is a plot twist you didn’t see coming. In this episode, we’re getting real about bouncing back when life's curveballs can shake us to our core, but it's how we respond that defines our path forward. From career 180s to personal shake-ups, we've unlocked a new level of vulnerability so tune in for a quick dose of wit, wisdom, and a few laughs as we share what's going on with us.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18: - Let’s Catch Up
5:36 - Moving back to your hometown
10:44 - Homeownership & the prices of housing
26: 55 - Main Topic: Rising from the Ashes
1:07:00- Song of the week - Latto S/O to Me

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Gimmie My Money

Wed, 21 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Asking your partner for money can get awkward and feel like walking on eggshells but when does it start feeling normal? In this episode, we dive into the awkwardness of mixing finances, and love and discuss when it’s finally okay to open your wallets to each other.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:23 - Do Waist Trainers Work?
7:20 - We need one more chaotic drunk night
11:08 - Welcome to episode 33
11:38 - This is for the makeup girls
15:15 - Blank Slate, The perfect game for Game night
17:50 - Holiday Party DIY Woes
22:00 - Main topic: When should you feel comfortable asking your partner for money
54:00 - Episode Final Thoughts

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A Box of Chocolates

Wed, 14 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Just like life, this episode is like a box of chocolates you truly never know what you'll get! We can honestly say that this is the most cohesive unhinged ADHD episode to date.

Episode Time Stamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 Michelle’s work attire
0:36 Let’s Catch Up- Everyone is having a bad day
8:53 What’s your favorite cuss word
10:56 Twitter Explicit Content
12:34 Why I don’t curse around white people
14:54 What would you do if your partner is funky
22:00 Michelle’s first Korean scrub
27:53 What is this episode
29:46 Michelle’s date update
36:41 We’ve lived through some crazy times
39:14 Love Island thoughts
45:30 Girls who are boy crazy
1:00:48 Can you have too many friends
1:05:11 Final Thoughts

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What Do You Think Of Me?

Wed, 07 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Get ready for a whirlwind episode! Three friends, zero filters. In this episode, we’re diving into the unfiltered truth and raw perspective... we’re spilling tea, honey! It’s all about honesty, laughs, and maybe a few surprises. Tune in for a candid convo that might make you rethink your friendships, are you able to have these conversations among the group?

Episode Time Stamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Let's Catch Up!
21:27 - Main Topic: What Do You Think Of Me? | How Do Your friends perceive You?
1:05:46: Episode final thoughts

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Politics & Sticks

Wed, 31 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Get ready for a whirlwind episode! We dive into the 2024 election and why Kamala Harris has our vote, recap our favorite moments from the Olympics Opening Ceremony, and discuss "the chase", should women shoot their shot?

Episode Time Stamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Michelle is back from “Maternity Leave”
1:40 - Harris for president
39:00 - The Opening Ceremony for the Olympics
47:38 - Should women shoot their shot
1:04:44 - Can love bombing be healthy
1:11:30 - We all have our homework to do

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We Sound Like Old Ladies

Wed, 24 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! This week we touched on a few pop culture things and our feelings on Gen Z and their work ethic, we’ll lack thereof! After you tune in, leave us a comment and let us know your takes on these topics!

Episode 028
0:00 - Intro
0:18 - We’re almost at the big 30
1:08 - Let’s catch up
10:12 - Ciara’s run-in with Gen -Z
17: 15 - Gen-Z work ethic, or last thereof
33:18 - Cardi B vs Joe Budden
54: 58 - JT’s Album, is it mid?
1:05:36 - Episode wrap up

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True Life: I'm a Stalker

Wed, 17 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode we took a deep dive into the TikTok storytime "True Life: I'm a Stalker." After we made a very serious topic unserious we discussed the ways white dads and Black parents teach their daughters about dating, from our personal protective and different cultural nuances.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Let’s get our laughs out
0:44 - Why is it so HOT!?
1:59 - The girls are booked & busy
3:43 - True Life I’m a stalker TikTok story time
15:05 - Chris Brown’s Stalker
18:00 - Are you a stalker?
23:00 - We love the chase
25:00 - She’s a serial ghoster
30:36 - Main Topic: Dating the Wright Way
56:54 - Episode final thoughts!

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Friend or Foe

Wed, 10 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Have you ever felt like your friend acts differently when their other friends are around? In this revealing episode, we chat about the complex dynamics of friendships and what happens when a friend starts feeling more like a foe. Tune in for an honest conversation about the challenges of maintaining authentic friendships among women.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Ciara’s Old YouTube makeup tutorials
1:43 - Megan The Stallion’s Album
3:10 - When did Black people start watching anime?
6:33 - How do you listen to new music?
8: 10 - Is Cardi B Pregnant?
19:00 - Let’s talk about the beauty community, Can black people support Jeffrey Star?
27: 28 - Main Topic: Friend or Foe, do you like your friend’s friend?
55: 18 - Episode Final thoughts

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BBL or Bust

Wed, 03 Jul 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we address BBL/ surgery culture, why surgery is trendy, the pressures women face, and when surgery might be the right choice. Whether you’ve had surgery, considering surgery, or are just curious, we welcome you to share your thoughts and experience on making empowered decisions about your body.

Episode Timestamps

0:00 - Intro
0:18 - Welcome Back
0:45 - Tarré’s Chris Brown outfit dilemma
2:25 - Our love for Dunkin, please sponsor us!
6:25 - How do you feel about kids' parties being club theme?
12:21 - The Girls have a new hairstyle
18:30 - Main Topic: When should you consider surgery? The girls regret their BBLs

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HOT GIRL SUMMER

Wed, 26 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! It's a hot girl Summer! One week off feels like an eternity but we're here with episode 025! Let's catch up, on our thoughts on the Hot Girl Summer Tour, Michelle's trip to NOLA, and everything in between!

Episode Timestamps
0:00 Intro
0:18 We Feel like we haven't recorded in a while
1:26 Why is Summer already Over!?
3:58 Let's Get into the Hot Girl Summer Tour
17:35 Henny & Alize ? - Michelle's NOLA Trip
32:53 Ken & Friends - The Pop Out Concert
46:43 Tarre's excitement about going to see Chris Brown
49:53 Summer Birthday plans
1:06: 37 Episode Recap / Final Thoughts

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Are Group Chats Ruining Friendships?

Wed, 12 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we explore the double-edged sword of group chats and their impact on friendships. Are they the secret sauce to staying connected, or do they aid in the lack of one on one engagement? Group chats can be the ultimate tool for keeping up with large or multiple friend groups but how often should we be checking in outside of the chat?

Episode Timestamps
0:00 Intro
0:18 Are you a last-minute packer?
2:48 Our Summer Makeup Woes
9:23 Did you know Vitiligo was common?
10:10 MettaAi
12:00 Main Topic: Do You think Group Chats Ruin personal relationships?
49:43 Ciara's Technical Difficulties / Horrible Hotel wifi
56:15 Our NOLA Experience / Episode Final Thoughts

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Is it Selfish to Not Want Kids?

Wed, 05 Jun 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we explore the growing trend of millennials opting out of parenthood. We'll delve into the reasons behind this choice, from financial pressures to personal freedom, and discuss the societal reactions it provokes. Are millennials making a selfish decision, or are they redefining what it means to lead a fulfilling life?

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Is Baddie Culture Ruining Fashion?

Wed, 29 May 2024 10:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we discussed the woes of finding suitable outfits for millennial women. Fast fashion has made clothes that are easily accessible and affordable but often the clothes are tacky and ill-fitting! Social media has potentially wiped out people's sense of personal style and self-exploration within fashion. There's a lot to unpack here, while you tune in let us know your thoughts!

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And Another Thing: Diddy Did it! The Black Wife Effect, Black Wives are for Grown-Ups & Black Prom

Wed, 22 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400

There's so much going on and we're gonna talk about it! Welcome to our new Hot Topics segment "And Another Thing". You can expect a new Controversy and Chaos Hot Topics episode biweekly! Keep your ears to the socials, DM us, and let us know if there's any hot tea you want us to spill.

0:00 - Intro
1:08 - Diddy Did It
21:40 - Did R-Kelly’s time fit the crime?
31:56 - Black Wives Are for Grown-Ups / Black Wife Effect
46:22 - Kelly Price Caping for Diddy
51:15 - Prom season, why do black people break the banks
1:04:16 - Meg Thee Stallion Tour
1:09:07 - Final Farewells & Thoughts

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To Be or Not to Be

Wed, 15 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Marriage is a huge step, how do you know when you're ready to make that step? What are the things you look for in a partner?

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The Cost of Showing Up

Wed, 08 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK!

Want to skip through the conversation? Check out the timestamps below.

0:00 - Intro
28:00- What episode are we on?
1:41 - Weekly catchup, Run in with a Nigerian Scammer
9:06 - Tarré gives us the Fragrance Tea
14: 48 - We have a Kindergarten Graduate
18:34 - Drake vs Kendrick Lamar, who really won
1:01 - Main Topic: Showing Up vs Overextending Yourself!
1: 26 - Katt Williams Stand up was terrible
1: 31: Final Thoughts & Farewells

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And Another Things: Club Shay Shay with Amanda Seales, Veneer Techs Need Jail Time and Hairstylist vs Girls That do Hair

Wed, 01 May 2024 08:00:00 -0400

There's so much going on and we're gonna talk about it! Welcome to our new Hot Topics segment "And Another Thing". You can expect a new Controversy and Chaos Hot Topics episode biweekly! Keep your ears to the socials, DM us, and let us know if there's any hot tea you want us to spill.

0:00 - Intro
33:00- Michelle’s welcome Karaoke
01:21 - VeneerTok : Veneer Techs need to be stopped
15:08- Hair Stylist vs Girls that do hair
24:43 - Club Shay Shay with Amanda Seals
59:35 - Black families refusing to get proper mental health diagnosis
1:03 - Final Farewells & Thoughts

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And Another Thing: Quavo is not Beyoncé, Will Female Rap evolve ? Is II Most Wanted a Lesbian Love Story?

Wed, 24 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400

There's so much going on and we're gonna talk about it! Welcome to our new Hot Topics segment "And Another Thing". You can expect a new Controversy and Chaos Hot Topics episode biweekly! Keep your ears to the socials, DM us, and let us know if there's any hot tea you want us to spill.

0:00 intro
2:20 - Drake vs Everyone
4:00 - Tarré Does like 2Pac , was Biggie overrated ?
7:45 - Back to Drake vs Everyone
19:42 - Chris Brown vs Quavo
28:24 - Quavo needs the group, he’s not a soloist
31:15 - JT’s career and the longevity of female rappers
39:32 - Female rappers aging out
48:48 - is II MOST WANTED A Lesbian love story
51:14 - Ciara loves her man mysterious & unfriendly
53:35 - Tarré is still in denial about the origin of her love story
1:04:30 - Final thoughts

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Let Them be Kids!

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK!

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0:00 - Intro
0:43 - weekly check-in
10:50 - What type of lesbians would we be
13:40 - Tarré makeup mishap
14:40 - Main Topic: How do you tell your kids No to extracurricular activities
39:30 - When is Ciara getting pregnant!?
43:20 - Michelle’s Freestyle
44:23 - Closing remarks

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And Another Thing: Mercury showing her a** ! Glorilla vs JT, Cowboy Carter , Raymonte vs Essence!

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400

There's so much going on and we're gonna talk about it! Welcome to our new Hot Topics segment "And Another Thing". You can expect a new Controversy and Chaos Hot Topics episode biweekly! Keep your ears to the socials, DM us, and let us know if there's any hot tea you want us to spill.

0:00 - Intro rant
4:15 - Cowboy Carter Appreciation & Critics
19:30 - The Rap Girls: BIG GLO vs JT
32:40 - Raymonte vs Essence Magazine
36:43 - WWKS What Would Kayla Say ( Input from a real PR Professional)
1:03:45 - Kids deserve to eat Ribs & Crab legs
1:11:05 - Closing remarks

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You're the Drama!

Wed, 03 Apr 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode 14 we caught up and had a much-needed mom vent session! The conversation took a turn and we did a deep dive into how we can be the problem in our lives, we are the drama.

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0:00 - Intro
1:00 - Sex talk, what is second base?
4:20 - Let’s catch up, what have the girls been up to?
20:15 - Mom vent session- Our daughters and their shenanigans
32:15 - Main Topic- You’re the problem, You're the drama! You create the issues in your life.
1:05:25 - Closing remarks

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And Another Thing: The Dark Side of Nickelodeon, Could Freaknik happen in 2024? Beyoncé is coming!

Wed, 27 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0400

There's so much going on and we're gonna talk about it! Welcome to our new Hot Topics segment "And Another Thing". You can expect a new Controversy and Chaos Hot Topics episode biweekly! Keep your ears to the socials, DM us, and let us know if there's any hot tea you want us to spill.

0:00 - Intro
1:15 - Nickelodeon Documentary
21:30 - Freaknik Documentary
32:45- Beyoncé & The Cowboy Carter Rollout
43:55 - Cardi B’s Return
49:20 - Stan Culture & The Barbs
53:29 - Meg Thee Stallion is going on tour
59:23 - See, The thing is Podcast breakup
1: 09:40 - Where did the word diabolical come from
1:12: 25 - We don’t trust you, Drake vs Kendrick Lamar & Future
1:19:05 - Closing remarks

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I Don't Want To Hang With Your Kids

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0400

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode 12 we got into a few things, but the common theme of this episode was evolution, the evolution of self and our relationships!

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0:00 - Intro
0:49 - Why is the Mall so terrible?
7:00 - Weekly Catch Up
13:44 - Street Weed Smokers vs Dispensary Weed Smokers
20:00 - Ciara's 30th Birthday Update
23:20 - Michelle's Work-Life Balance & Mom Guilt
27:05 - Is this Evolution or Social Anxiety?
40:00 - Bev Check
41:30 - Who Said That ( Guess that line)
42:30 - Main Topic of the day: How friendships/ relationships change when you have kids
1:19:00 - Closing Remarks

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And Another Thing: Love is Blind Season 6 (AD & Clay), Draya & Jalen Green's Pregnancy Announcement

Wed, 13 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0400

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WTF was this episode about!?

Wed, 06 Mar 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode 10 our
intrusive thoughts really took over, and the conversation took so many turns we honestly don't know how to describe this episode, a truly controversial and chaotic conversation.

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And Another Thing: Love is Blind Season 6, Reesa Tessa, The Wendy Williams Documentary & More!

Wed, 28 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0500

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Eldest Daughter Syndrome

Wed, 21 Feb 2024 07:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode 8 we got vulnerable as we discussed what we call the " Eldest Daughter Syndrome" and how our place in our family shaped us to be the women we are today and how we will choose to show up as mothers to daughters.

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0:00 - Intro
2:20 - Weekly Catch Up
22:38 - Who Said That ( Guess that line)
24:00 - Main Topic of the day " Eldest Daughter Syndrome"
1:48:00- Closing remarks

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And Another Thing: Mo'Nique vs Everyone! And The rap Girlies are at it again!

Wed, 14 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0500

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There's enough room for all of us

Wed, 07 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode six we discussed the disconnect between us and the elders within the corporate space. Much like the Nicki Minaj and Meg Thee Stallion "beef" it feels as though the older black women we encounter would rather destroy us than lead us, why is that?

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0:00 - Intro, Cringy moments of the week
1:00 - Who said That!?
1:55 - Our list of 90's fine men
11:30 - Bev Check
16:18 - Michelle, Why do you call your friends "girlfriend"
17:45 - Let's Catch up, weekly check-in!
32:15 - Main Topic " Are you a girl's Girl? "
01: 10 - Happy Valentine's Day
01: 15 - Closing Statements

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Ask My Representative

Wed, 24 Jan 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In episode five we dug into Michelle's dating life, does she know what she wants? Why is dating so ghetto?

Join us as we have a candid conversation about the highs and lows of dating, We tackle the tough questions between single millennials. DM us on IG to share your thoughts or dating stories!

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When do we become people again?

Wed, 10 Jan 2024 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! We've made it to episode four!!! Happy New Yearrr! Through this candid conversation, we unravel the beauty and strength in showing our human side and moments of vulnerability—to our children.

Join us as we challenge the myth of stoicism in parenting and how creating deeper connections with not only our children but also our parents will truly strengthen those relationships. It's time to embrace vulnerability as a powerful tool for growth, both for ourselves and the next generation.

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Are You Running Out of Time?

Wed, 27 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! We've made it to episode three!!! Along with our regularly scheduled shenanigans and intrusive thoughts, Tarré posed the question, Are You Running Out of Time?! As the year comes to a close take time to reflect on your personal growth and goals, we can't wait to hear from you all in the new year!

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Is That Your Friend !?

Wed, 13 Dec 2023 07:00:00 -0500

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! In this episode, we discussed how we navigate through adult friendships along with our regular scheduled shenanigans!

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Welcome to the Group Chat

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -0500

Welcome to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! This episode is more so an array of our open and intrusive thoughts. Grab a drink as you listen and get to know us a little!

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