In 2015, an undiagnosed genetic condition called hereditary hemochromatosis pushed Mike Tallon into rapid multi-organ failure. He was not expected to survive.

Hereditary Hemochromatosis, also known as iron overload disease, is one of the most common genetic disorders, yet many people don’t know they have it until serious damage occurs.

In this episode, we explore:
 • What hereditary hemochromatosis is and how iron overload causes organ failure
 • What happens during multi-organ failure in the ICU
 • How someone survives critical illness against the odds
 • What life feels like after being told you might die

Mike’s story, retold in his memoir Incompatible With Life, is not just about medical survival. It’s about resilience, love, and how a near-death experience reshapes the way we live.

If you are interested in rare disease survival stories, recovering from organ failure, or understanding the early symptoms of hemochromatosis, this episode offers both insight and perspective.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Wakil David Matthews and Sam Lee Zemke explore collective grief amid war and global conflict. Why do events happening thousands of miles away feel so personal? Why does constant exposure to tragedy leave us exhausted, anxious, or numb?

This episode addresses:
- What collective grief really is
- The emotional impact of repeated exposure to war news
- How to cope with constant bad news without disconnecting
- Spiritual grounding practices in times of crisis
- Community support and shared reflection as tools for resilience

We address the current state of global affairs, focusing on recent events in Ukraine, Iran, and the Israel Gaza war. We discuss the emotional impact of these world news headlines and how they contribute to feelings of fear and sadness. This conversation explores the broader geopolitical context and the collective anxiety many feel.

For death-positive workers, creators, caregivers, and anyone navigating grief and loss, this conversation offers language, perspective, and practical tools for staying grounded while staying informed.

If you’ve been doomscrolling, feeling helpless about world events, or wondering whether it’s normal to grieve global conflict, this episode is for you.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Embalming is often treated as a default. But how much do we actually understand about it?
In this episode, we speak with Ray Chel, creator of the online zine The Lil’ Undertaker’s Embalming Guide. Using a fictional mortician narrator, Ray created an accessible and creative way to explain the embalming process while also introducing alternatives such as aquamation and natural organic reduction, commonly known as human composting.
Rather than teaching the technical steps, this conversation explores:

• Why embalming is so rarely discussed openly
• How families end up choosing it
• What alternatives to embalming are gaining traction
• The rise of green funeral options
• How creative media can reshape death literacy

Whether you work in the death space or are simply trying to make informed decisions before a crisis, this episode offers insight into how funeral practices are evolving.

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Season 3 Episode 6 - Compassionate End-of-Life Care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ Community with Tianna Dargent

Season 1 Episode 18 - Providing Resources and Support for the LGBTQ+ Community - with Grief Specialist Gary Sturgis

Season 3 Episode 5 - Culturally Sensitive Training with Joe'l the Grave Woman

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Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

We keep watching the same pattern repeat: wars, political division, cultural breakdown, and families fractured over ideology. Many of us quietly ask, “Why can’t humans just stop fighting?” There’s exhaustion in the air. A sense that the world is locked in permanent conflict.

And beneath the headlines, many of us feel something personal: anxiety, grief, helplessness, even shame for not knowing what to do. If you work in death-positive spaces or support grieving people, you’ve likely felt how global conflict leaks into individual loss.

You are not wrong to feel worn down by it. You are not naïve for wishing it would stop.

What if the issue isn’t that humans love violence? What if conflict is often a maladaptive survival strategy rooted in fear, scarcity, and tribal wiring? Much of what we call hatred may actually be unprocessed grief and threat response. Scarcity beliefs, protection of “our people,” and fear of death can activate ancient survival instincts.

Instead of asking, “Why are humans so terrible?” we might ask, “What are humans afraid of losing?”

This shift doesn’t excuse harm. But it helps us understand the emotional architecture underneath it.

In this episode we'll discuss:
- The Evolutionary Roots of Tribalism and Conflict (Why humans divide into “us vs them”)
- Scarcity Mindset and Fear of Death (How fear and survival anxiety drive power struggles)
- Collective Grief and Generational Trauma from War (How unprocessed loss fuels ongoing cycles of conflict)

By the end of this episode, we’re not just going to understand why humans fight. We’re going to explore how recognizing collective grief changes the way we show up in our families, our communities, and even in moments of disagreement. There are practical ways to interrupt the cycle in small, meaningful spaces.

Stay with us, because the shift from conflict to awareness begins closer to home than we think.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Many of us lose someone or something, and then… nothing. The funeral ends, the job is over, the relationship crashes. The meal train stops. But somehow, the world keeps moving. We are told grief is something to “process,” “get through,” or quietly endure.

You may feel like you want to do something to honor your loss… but you do not know what that something is. Maybe you think rituals are only for religious people or that creating an altar feels dramatic. Or that it might make the grief heavier instead of lighter.

If you have ever felt unsure how to acknowledge your loss in a real, tangible way, you are not alone.

The issue is not that you are grieving “wrong.” The issue may be that we no longer create intentional spaces for grief.

Ritual is not about religion. It is about giving attention to your grief and loss.

A sacred space does not have to be elaborate. It can be as simple as a candle, a photograph, a stone, or a handwritten note.

Instead of asking, “How do I move on?” What if we asked, “How do I make space?”

Creating sacred space after loss is not about holding onto pain. It is about giving grief somewhere to land.

In this episode, we'll share:
- How to Create a Grief Ritual at Home
Simple, accessible ways to begin without pressure or perfection.
- What to Put on a Remembrance Altar
Meaningful objects, intention, and how to personalize the space.
- How Ritual Helps You Process Grief
The emotional and psychological impact of intentional remembrance.

By the end of this episode, you will have practical, doable ways to create a sacred space that feels authentic to you. We will talk about small rituals that take minutes but can shift how grief moves through your life. And we will explore how gratitude and community can transform remembrance from something heavy into something sustaining.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Grief touches all of us — but few of us know how to walk with it.
In this episode, we explore how Buddhist monks who walk for peace are quietly changing how we understand death, compassion, and collective healing.

Join us for a deeply human conversation about grief, loss, and the search for peace in a divided world.
You’ll hear how walking — something as simple as putting one foot in front of the other — can become a healing practice for individuals and entire communities.

Whether you’re a death doula, an artist, a caregiver, or simply someone learning to live with loss, this episode offers a calm and honest space to reflect on what it means to walk through grief instead of running from it.

What You’ll Learn:

• Facing Grief Without Fear — how Buddhist wisdom reframes death and loss.
• Walking as a Path to Healing — how the monk’s Peace Walk brings compassion into divided communities.
• Finding Peace in a World That’s Hurting — practical reflections to help carry grief as part of your spiritual growth.

Why Listen / Watch:

• You’re exploring grief, loss, or end-of-life work.
• You’re drawn to Buddhist or mindfulness teachings.
• You want to understand how spiritual practice can meet political and social suffering.
• You believe death conversations can be sacred, creative, and healing.

Support the show

This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Many families believe hospice is a safe, protected space where difficult end-of-life choices will be guided and supported. But some families discover, often too late, that confusion around medical decisions, documentation, or expectations can pull grief into the legal system.

Welcome to End-of-Life Conversations, where we tackle important topics like death and grief. This episode shares a shocking real-life story where Rachel Waters, after her mother's passing in hospice, faced an indictment for murder. This story highlights unexpected legal challenges after a profound loss, prompting us to reflect on true stories of justice and the complexities of coping with grief as we confront a gross injustice.

If you’ve ever worried about “doing the wrong thing” while trying to care for someone you love, you’re not alone

This isn’t really a story about crime. It’s a story about how unprepared most families are for the legal realities surrounding end-of-life care. Situations like the one involving Rachel Waters reveal gaps in communication, education, and support that many people did not know existed. Understanding these systems ahead of time can replace fear with clarity and help families move through grief with greater confidence and a sense of protection.

We will share:

• How hospice actually works for families
• Legal risks families don’t know about at the end of life
• How to protect yourself and your loved one during hospice care

By the end of this episode, you’ll understand the quiet legal pressures that can appear during end-of-life care—and the small, practical steps that can make an enormous difference for your family’s safety and peace of mind.

These are the kinds of insights most people only learn in a crisis… but you won’t have to.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Welcome to End-of-Life Conversations Current Events, where we tackle important topics like death and grief. 
In this episode, we continue our discussion on noticing things we are grieving and experiencing loss, emphasizing the importance of awareness in our daily lives. 
Many of us are carrying a low-level heaviness we can’t quite name.
We move through daily life seeing signs of loss, dead leaves, disappearing birds, climate headlines, and we tell ourselves it’s normal, or that we should be used to it by now. When anxiety shows up, we often assume it’s personal, a mental health issue, or something we need to manage better, instead of asking what we’re responding to.
What if this weight isn’t a failure to cope, but a sign that you’re paying attention? What if grief doesn’t only arrive after a major death, but quietly accumulates through everyday encounters with loss and ecological change?
In this episode, we'll discuss:

• How climate change, environmental loss, and everyday signs of death affect us emotionally, even when we don’t consciously name them. 
• How unacknowledged loss shows up in the body as tension, unease, or burnout rather than sadness.

We'll share somatic and emotional tools for grieving, including simple practices like breathwork, journaling, and shared rituals that help grief move rather than get stuck. We’ll share small, grounded practices you can actually use, not to get rid of grief, but to relate to it differently. These are tools meant for real life, moments you’re already living, not something you have to add on or fix later.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Many people feel a quiet pressure to “record their story someday,” but they don’t know where to start. There’s a common belief that capturing your life story means writing a memoir, having lots of time, or waiting until the end.

For people living with grief or loss, there’s often regret—I wish I had asked more questions—and fear of doing it wrong while there’s still time.

The problem isn’t that you haven’t recorded your life story—it’s that we’ve been taught to think of legacy as something formal, finished, or perfect. Your story doesn’t need to be complete to be meaningful.

Recording a life story is less about documenting everything and more about creating moments of connection, reflection, and presence—right now.

By the end of this conversation, you’ll have practical, gentle ways to begin—whether you’re recording your own story or helping someone you love share theirs.

These aren’t overwhelming projects or tech-heavy solutions, but small, meaningful steps that can change how stories are remembered and carried forward.

In this conversation, Curt Meinhold, founder of LilyList, shares his journey of creating a platform dedicated to preserving memories and legacies. He reflects on how personal experiences with death have shaped his understanding of life and motivated him to help others capture their stories. The discussion delves into the importance of collaborative storytelling, the challenges of navigating grief, and the societal stigma surrounding death. Curt emphasizes the need for acceptance and self-care while exploring the complexities of life and legacy.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Welcome to End-of-Life Conversations Current Events, where we tackle important topics like death and grief.  We aim to provide insights and support for bereavement, loss, and other significant life events, always seeking ways to support one another and our communities.

Why do we react differently to deaths we see on our screens versus those we only read about? In this latest episode, we dive deep into the impact of witnessing tragedy through our phones. It's crucial to recognize how this shapes our emotions and responses. Let's start a conversation: How does seeing these events affect you personally?

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

You know you should talk to your family about your end-of-life wishes, funeral preferences, or what happens after you're gone—but every time you try to bring it up, the conversation dies before it starts.

It's not that they don't care—it's that no one taught us how to do this without it feeling morbid, uncomfortable, or like we're ruining our time together.

We've been conditioned to avoid these conversations until there's a crisis, so when someone brings them up out of nowhere, they feel heavy and scary.

But when you approach it differently—casually, early, and with intention—it stops being this "big death talk" and becomes just another important conversation, like planning a trip or talking about money.

The discomfort shrinks when you remove the urgency and the secrecy.

In this episode, we'll cover three things:
 - How to start a conversation about death naturally – the exact prompts and moments that can make it easy
 - What to actually say when people shut down – how to handle resistance with compassion and gentleness.
 - How to keep the conversation going over time – why one talk isn't enough, and how to make it ongoing - keeping the conversation going helps to normalize and destigmatize it. And that is our mission here.

By the end of this episode, you'll have a handful of simple, tested approaches that take the weight off these conversations—and maybe even make them something your family actually thanks you for starting.

Because the truth is, the people who love you want to know what matters to you. They just need permission to talk about it.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this new current events episode from End of Life Conversations, the hosts discuss the pervasive theme of grief in contemporary society, particularly focusing on state-induced grief and the loss of connection within communities. They explore the importance of acknowledging collective mourning, the unseen deaths that affect marginalized communities, and the erosion of trust in societal structures. The conversation emphasizes the need for rituals, community support, and finding purpose through service to navigate grief and foster connection.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

What does it take for a woman to work and thrive as a funeral director? How difficult is it to work in what has long been a male-dominated profession? Are things changing in the funeral industry now that more women are joining the profession? 
In this episode, Rev Wakil and Rev Annalouiza speak with Lisa Baue, a third-generation funeral director and founder of Your Funeral Coach. They discuss Lisa's journey in the funeral industry, the impact of death on personal identity, the importance of women in leadership roles within the profession, and the significance of dealing with one's own grief and mourning while supporting others. Lisa shares insights on pre-planning funerals, the challenges faced in the funeral profession, and the future of funeral services with more young female professionals. She shares insights into how these roles, like ministry, often require unpredictable schedules and nights on call, which can impact personal well-being. We explore strategies for professional development and career guidance, emphasizing the importance of support for career women in the funeral industry.

Learn more or purchase her book here: Wake-Up Calls by Lisa Baue.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

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In this engaging conversation, Andee Kinzy, creator of the Kicking the Bucket podcast, discusses the importance of addressing caregiving and end-of-life topics through humor and storytelling. The podcast aims to empower families to have difficult conversations about death, using fiction as a tool to facilitate these discussions. Kinsey shares her personal experiences with death, the creative process behind the podcast, and the challenges of engaging audiences in serious topics. The conversation highlights the significance of community engagement through listening clubs and the role of humor in navigating the complexities of death.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

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You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, we speak with Cobie Whitten, a psycho-oncology consultant, about her experiences with death, the importance of emotional, psychological, and spiritual support for cancer patients and their caregivers. We explore the distinct difference between healing and cure, noting that they are not interchangeable. Cobie shares her profound experiences facilitating Harmony Retreats, describing it as the most significant healing journey imaginable, emphasising how a wellness retreat can foster personal growth and contribute positively to mental health, highlighting that true healing goes beyond mere physical recovery.

We discuss the need for open conversations about death and dying. The dialogue emphasises the importance of quality of life, self-care, and living authentically in the face of terminal illness.

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Harmony Hill Retreats

Book - Talking About Death Won't Kill You

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, we engage with David Zartman and Joanna Franco from Caring House, a nonprofit hospice care facility. We discuss Caring House's mission, which focuses on providing compassionate end-of-life care to underserved communities. We explore the importance of hospice care at home and discuss valuable caregiver advice for those supporting individuals at the end of life. The conversation highlights the significance of dignified care at the end of life.
We explore the critical need for hospice care at home and offer valuable caregiver advice for those supporting loved ones. The discussion emphasizes dignified end-of-life experiences, ensuring comfort and respect during this sensitive time.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

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In this conversation, we discuss Ann Thompson's The End-of-Life Caregivers' Pocket Guide. This practical book condenses a lot of information and offers valuable tips. We include personal anecdotes and storytelling elements to foster engagement and help people realize they are not alone in their experiences. This approach effectively combines practical advice with relatable narratives, enhancing communication skills.

We discuss the importance of community support during the dying process, the role of hospice and palliative care, and the significance of Reiki in providing comfort to both caregivers and those who are dying. Anne shares her personal journey and insights into the challenges faced by caregivers, as well as different cultural perspectives on caregiving. The conversation emphasizes the need for open discussions about death and the resources available to support individuals and families during this difficult time.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Asher Smith discusses their journey as a queer farmer and artist, exploring themes of ecological consciousness, grief, and the role of art in addressing environmental issues. They reflect on their master's thesis on the American chestnut, a species that symbolizes loss and hope amid biodiversity decline. The dialogue emphasizes the importance of community engagement, Indigenous perspectives, and finding joy in nature as a means of coping with ecological despair.

Asher's Thesis

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

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The conversation delves into the distinctive practices of the Crestone End of Life Project, a volunteer organization in Colorado that provides open-air cremation and green burial services. The discussion highlights the importance of community involvement in the grieving process, the ceremonial aspects of death, and the legal considerations surrounding these practices. We emphasize the transformative experience of participating in end-of-life rituals and the cultural significance of honoring the deceased in a personal and meaningful way.

The Crestone End of Life Project 

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Embrace the exhilaration of your final days with an adventure! In this episode, we invite you to experience the joy and fulfillment that await you at the end of your life. It's about making every moment count in this time of transition, choosing to be in beauty and nature rather than in a sterile healthcare industrial environment.

In this conversation, Eric Jepsen shares his journey from engineer to founder of BeautifullyMAID, a care home focused on providing beautiful end-of-life experiences. He discusses the importance of autonomy in death, the challenges faced in the death industry, and the need for more compassionate care options. The conversation emphasizes the significance of nature, curiosity, and self-care in navigating the complexities of death and dying.

Beautifully MAID Website

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

This video discusses the death with dignity or medical aid in dying laws that have been in place for 30 years in the United States, emphasising that there have been no cases of coercion or abuse during this time. The speaker explains that safeguards are effective and that, if anything, families have tried to persuade loved ones not to use the law, but ultimately respected their wishes.

In this conversation, we speak with Mandi Zucker, who shares her personal experiences with loss and her reflections on what it means to face death, particularly in relation to her family and the legacy she hopes to leave behind.

Mandi has been working to change the law in New York State to allow people to choose medical aid in dying, and appeals to everyone to let the governor know you support her signing this into law by the end of the year.

End of Life Choices New York

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

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And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

This video highlights perspectives on death, emphasizing the importance of understanding grief and the dying process. We explore how different rituals can help us cope with the emotions surrounding loss, assisting people during death education. Understanding natural death and the experiences of final days is an essential part of the journey.

In this conversation, we host a group of guests from the Blessing Your Journey retreat who discuss their personal experiences with death and how it has shaped their lives and work. The guests share their insights on the importance of community, support, and the healing process surrounding death. They delve into the structure of their retreats, emphasizing the blend of information, ritual, and emotional support provided to participants. The discussion also touches on self-care practices for those working in the field of death and dying, and the significance of creating a safe space for sharing and healing.

Blessing Your Journey June 2026

 Wild Grief: https://wildgrief.org/

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Reverend Bodhi Be discusses the evolution of his work in conscious dying and the establishment of the Ram Dass Institute of Psychedelic Studies. He emphasizes the importance of community care in the dying process, the role of death doulas, and the integration of psychedelics as a tool for end-of-life care. The discussion also touches on cultural appropriation in the use of sacred medicines and the need for a community-centered approach to dying. The upcoming event in Maui aims to bring together various practitioners to explore these themes further.

This video explores the intersection of end of life care and the use of psychedelics in managing anxiety and fear. It highlights the importance of health care and support during the death and dying process, emphasizing community care and how hospice care teams can provide comfort. We also touch on death education to assist people during end-of-life situations.

Our inaugural Ram Dass Institute of Psychedelic Studies with the Dying Retreat takes place January 3–8, 2026 on Maui.

Experience five days of sacred learning, community, and spiritual depth — rooted in Ram Dass’s teachings and guided by the spirit of aloha.

Ticketing and more details.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

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And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

This video explores the intersection of small business and mental health resources, focusing on supporting solopreneurs on their healing journey. We discuss the importance of overall wellness and therapy options, especially in dealing with grief and loss. It's crucial to prioritize mental health when building your business.

In this conversation, Reverend Wakil David Matthews speaks with Jessica Sadler, a death doula and founder of Dawn of Aging. They explore the importance of community support in the grieving process, the role of caregivers, and the challenges faced in death care. Jessica shares her insights on grief, loss, and the need for in-person support, emphasizing the significance of open conversations about death. The discussion highlights the need to build networks for caregivers and the importance of addressing the emotional needs of those facing end-of-life situations.

Dawn of Aging Website

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Brett Nicoletti, an award-winning documentary filmmaker, shares his journey into the world of death and dying, exploring his personal experiences with loss and their impact on his storytelling. He discusses his documentary project, 'Passing Through,' which focuses on open-air cremation and cultural perspectives on death. The conversation delves into the importance of rituals and community, the challenges of filmmaking, and reflections on fear and the acceptance of death. Throughout, Brett emphasizes the sacredness of this work and the need for deeper connections in the face of mortality.

This video explores the intricacies of the cremation process, including what happens to the ashes after the procedure. We also touch on the role of the funeral home in facilitating these arrangements. Understanding the legal process and regulations surrounding cremation can provide clarity during a difficult time of death.

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FILM WEBSITE

http://www.passingthroughfilm.net/

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Rev Wakil David Matthews and Annalouiza explore the cultural differences surrounding Halloween, its historical origins, and the evolution of death rituals across various cultures. They discuss how Halloween has transformed into a commercialized holiday in the U.S. and the impact of Christianity on traditional death celebrations. The hosts emphasize the importance of reconnecting with ancestors and the natural cycles of life and death, encouraging listeners to reclaim Halloween as an opportunity to honor loved ones and engage in meaningful conversations about death.

The episode emphasizes the importance of talking about death and dying openly and honestly to improve the overall end-of-life experience. Understanding grief and loss is an integral part of coping with death and navigating the complex emotions that arise. It also highlights the role of hospice and death education to assist people during end-of-life situations.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, we speak with Jennie Banks, the creative director of Death Dancer, about her journey with death awareness and the importance of community support in navigating grief. Jennie shares her personal experiences with death, her work creating art that fosters conversations about grief, and the events and workshops she has organized to help people process their emotions. The discussion highlights the challenges faced in death awareness, the transformative potential of grief work, and the vision for establishing permanent spaces for grief support in communities.

We explore how authenticity in conversations fosters genuine connection with others. Through open dialogue and creativity, viewers can gain valuable life lessons that contribute to personal growth. It encourages self-awareness of how you feel and the importance of emotional regulation in building stronger relationships.

Their Website

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode of End of Life Conversations, hosts Rev Annalouiza and Rev Wakil David Matthews engage with Chrystal Pennic, a grief therapist and podcast host. They explore the profound impact of sibling loss, the challenges faced by grief workers, and the importance of self-care and community support in navigating grief. Crystal shares her personal journey with grief, the significance of her podcast, The Grip Spot, and the necessity of accessible mental health services for those in mourning. The conversation highlights the importance of compassion, understanding, and finding joy in life despite the pain of loss.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode, Dr. Bob Baugher shares his extensive experience in death education, discussing personal stories that shaped his understanding of grief and loss. He emphasizes the importance of openly discussing death, societal attitudes towards grief, and the need for better support systems for the bereaved. Dr. Baugher also highlights his ongoing projects, including books and articles aimed at helping those coping with loss, and reflects on the fears surrounding death and the significance of teaching younger generations about it. 

He has published an article about 'griefism' - the stigma around grief and the ways our culture tends to shun those who are grieving or expect them to 'get over it.' You can find links to his work and the griefism article below.

Visit his website at www.bobbaugher.com. You can find his articles and books and more information there.

Or go directly to this page to see his list of books (in English and Spanish)

Or this one to see his many articles

Griefism article

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

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And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this enlightening conversation, we meet with Jess Wakefield, a funeral director and end-of-life doula, to explore the evolving landscape of death care. Jess shares her personal journey with death, emphasizing the importance of celebrating lives rather than merely mourning them. The discussion highlights the shifting perspectives in the funeral industry, particularly the increasing role of women and the need for personalized, meaningful farewells. Jess advocates for open conversations about death and the necessity of community support during the grieving process, ultimately viewing death as a natural part of life that should be embraced rather than feared.

Substack: https://withyouuntil.substack.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jesswakefieldcfsp

Better Place Forests: https://www.betterplaceforests.org

Everis: https://www.everisforever.com

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this special episode, Rev. Wakil and Rev. Annalouiza offer a Season 4 recap, highlighting their favorite moments and guests. They reminisce about insightful conversations, wonderful guests, and inspiring moments. Hear about the best moments and the overall journey of the season.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Tim Ringgold, a board-certified music therapist, shares his profound journey through grief and the healing power of music. He discusses his personal experiences with loss, including the deaths of loved ones, and how these experiences shaped his approach to music therapy. Tim emphasizes the importance of music in facilitating healing and connection during difficult times, particularly in grief retreats. He also addresses the challenges individuals face in seeking help for grief and the cultural stigmas surrounding it. The conversation highlights the transformative role of music in both personal and collective healing processes.

Tim’s Website

Retreats

Book - Sonic Recovery: Harness the Power of Music to Stay Sober

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Christine Jurisich shares her journey as a retreat facilitator and her experiences with grief and spirituality. She discusses the profound impact of death on her life, the importance of vulnerability and community in healing, and the role of rituals in processing grief. Christine emphasizes the non-linear nature of grief and the significance of listening and being present for others. She also highlights her ministry, Retreat Reflect Renew, which aims to foster deep spirituality and genuine community. The conversation concludes with a contemplative prayer that invites listeners to connect with their emotions and the divine.

Taking care of your well-being is essential, especially as you live through grief and loss. This video gives insight into improving your mental health through practicing self-care. You'll also learn about mindfulness techniques to reduce stress and anxiety

To find out more about upcoming retreats, go to www.RetreatReflectRenew.org

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

On this episode, we are joined by Jamie Dravecky. Her journey in funeral service began when she was 19 years old. She is a graduate of Worsham College of Mortuary Science and holds a bachelor’s degree in business management. She is the Senior Account Executive for Homesteaders. Homesteaders is an organization providing products and services to promote and support the funding of advanced funeral planning and end-of-life expenses, which began in 1906 in Des Moines, Iowa. Before joining Homesteaders, Jamie held almost every role in funeral service. 

When Jamie decided to step away from direct funeral services, she joined Homesteaders. She understands what it’s like to wake up to early morning calls and support families during their most difficult times with compassion. She enjoys working with funeral homes that are seeking to try something new. She enjoys helping funeral home owners find innovative ways to connect with their communities, whether through events or unconventional ideas.

https://www.homesteaderslife.com/jamie-dravecky

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Monica Kumar, an end-of-life educator and author, shares her profound insights on death, grief, and the importance of legacy planning and asking/answering all of these essential questions as soon as you can. Drawing from her personal experiences of loss, she emphasizes the need for open conversations about death and the values that guide our decisions at the end of life. Monica discusses the challenges of caregiving planning, the limitations of traditional wills, and the significance of understanding quality of life. She advocates for a playful approach to discussing mortality, highlighting the importance of self-care in the field of death work.

Website: beyondeolplanning.com
Book: Beyond Loss: The Power of Purposeful Grief  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F899PY61 (Kindle) https://payhip.com/b/1nKkl (PDF)
Recent Article: https://www.elephantjournal.com/2025/07/we-dont-have-to-inherit-the-silence-choosing-a-new-lens-on-death-grief-monica-kumar/

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Annalouiza, Sarah Sawyer, and Gus Reid explore the profound themes of grief, death, and the healing power of poetry. They discuss Andi's posthumously published poetry collection, which candidly addresses end-of-life issues and the complexities of grief. The dialogue explores personal experiences with death, the impact of Andy's work on readers, and the significance of open conversations about mortality. Through readings of Andi's poems, the group reflects on the nuances of grief, the role of humor, and the societal challenges of coping with loss. The conversation highlights the importance of emotional expression and connection in the face of death, ultimately celebrating Andi's writing as a source of comfort and understanding for those navigating their own grief journeys.

Links:  

ToSeeYourselfAsYouVanish.com
Book-  Amazon Link: https://a.co/d/ag24mhn
            Wesleyan Link: https://www.weslpress.org/9780819502070/to-see-yourself-as-you-vanish/
Instagram

Article on the cancerletter site about Andi, written by Gus:

The discount code (QWR35) is for 35% off (Hardback, Ebook, or both!) versions of To See Yourself As You Vanish. (click the Wesleyan link above).  Preorders help with the algorithms, so if people order before Sept 9th, that's great for us, but honestly, all orders are great for us! We just want Andi's work in the hands of the readers.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Chef Dave Dekker shares his profound experiences with death, caregiving, and the importance of compassion in senior living. He reflects on his personal encounters with loss, the impact of his mother's decline, and how these experiences shaped his approach to culinary caregiving. Dave emphasizes the need for dignity in elder care, the significance of nutrition, and the role of care staff in creating a supportive community. He concludes with reflections on finding purpose in service and the importance of caring for others.

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode, Mel Bennett, co-founder of Life Forest Cemetery, shares her journey in the death care industry, emphasizing the importance of compassionate care, innovative burial practices, and community support. She shares her expertise in creating Life Forest, a mapped forest cemetery. Mel highlights the significance of cemetery mapping and deeded burials, ensuring families have access to their loved ones' resting places. The conversation also touches on the emotional aspects of death care and the need for resources to support grieving families.

Life Forest's website: https://www.thelifeforest.com/

Video: The inspiration that created Life Forest https://youtu.be/8-J2SPcRVOs?si=ElC0VHz0LIuKyyxZ

Serviceberry by Robin Wall Kimmerer

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Elizabeth discusses her deep connection to Irish music, particularly revenant songs, which explore themes of death, grief, and resilience. She shares personal experiences with death and how they shaped her understanding of life and loss. The discussion highlights the importance of community in the grieving process and the therapeutic role of traditional songs in coping with grief. Elizabeth also reflects on her journey as a singer and the significance of music in her life, emphasizing the interconnectedness of life and death.

Elizabeth joined us all the way from Westport on the west coast of Ireland, for this episode!

Recently, Elizabeth developed a fascination with an important, though largely unexplored aspect of Irish musical and cultural heritage: the genre of traditional songs known as Revenant Songs. These songs, deeply rooted in Irish and international folklore, narrate tales of the dead returning, mostly in their full human form, to resolve unfinished earthly matters. 

Here are links to two of the songs, as examples

1) The Unquiet Grave, sung by Luke Kelly

      Luke Kelly: The Unquiet Grave  

2) The Wife of Usher's Well, sung by Karine Polwart

        The Wife Of Usher's Well by Karine Polwart

Book - My Father’s Wake: How the Irish Teach us to Live, Love, and Die by Kevin Toolis

The Keening Festival in Mulranny, about an hour's drive north of Westport, Ireland.
 

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this conversation, Corinne Auman discusses her journey in reshaping perceptions of aging through her work with Choice Care Navigators and her book, KEENAGERS. She shares personal experiences with death and caregiving, emphasizing the importance of planning ahead, the desire for independence among older adults, and the need for open conversations about end-of-life planning. Corinne highlights the challenges families face in navigating elder care and the role of professionals in providing support. The discussion also touches on the financial aspects of elder care and the significance of quality of life over mere longevity. Ultimately, the conversation aims to empower individuals to embrace aging positively and take control of their aging process.


Aging Life Care Resource Website

Corinne’s Organization - Choice Care Navigators Website

Keenagers: Telling a New Story About Aging - her book

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

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In this episode, Mark Ireland shares his profound journey through grief and the exploration of life after death following the loss of his son, Brandon. He discusses the impact of his father's legacy as a psychic medium and the founding of Helping Parents Heal, an organization dedicated to supporting grieving parents. Mark delves into his experiences with mediumship, the evidence he has encountered, and the importance of community in healing. He also reflects on the intersection of science and spirituality, emphasizing the need for open-mindedness in understanding consciousness and existence beyond the physical realm.

Mark Ireland is the author of Soul Shift: Finding Where the Dead Go and The Persistence of the Soul, moving accounts of his personal quest for answers about life after death, following the passing of his youngest son. Mark is also the son of renowned mid-twentieth-century psychic-medium Richard Ireland, and co-founder of Helping Parents Heal--an organization with more than 31,000 members that assists grieving parents. Additionally, Mark has participated in mediumship research studies conducted by the University of Arizona and the University of Virginia.

His website (with links to his books, organizations, and resources).

Link to song, ‘What You Can’t See’ (lyrics were read at the end of the podcast)

Link to his Album

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In this episode, Rev Wakil David and Annalouiza engage with Sarah Ecklein, a fiduciary and end-of-life advocate, discussing the importance of legacy planning and the emotional aspects surrounding death. Sarah shares her personal experiences with death, the role of a fiduciary, and the challenges families face in estate planning. The discussion emphasizes the need for proactive planning, the significance of difficult conversations, and the emotional connections that underpin legacy work. Sarah also highlights the importance of creating meaningful connections and leaving behind a legacy rooted in love and intention.

Website: trustandhonor.co
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-ecklein/
Free Workbook: www.trustandhonor.co/workbook
Legacy of Love Podcast
Book - What to do when I'm Gone. A Mother's Wisdom to her daughter

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In this conversation, Dr. Mekel Harris shares her profound insights on grief and loss, drawing on both her personal experiences and professional expertise. She discusses the impact of her mother's death on her life, the importance of journaling as a tool for processing grief, and the non-linear nature of the grieving process. The conversation highlights the importance of witnessing grief and the cultural barriers that often hinder open discussions about loss. Dr. Harris encourages embracing softness in grief and highlights the importance of connection and support during challenging times. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the themes of compassion, grief, and the significance of emotional expression. They discuss how innate human compassion can be cultivated and the importance of creating safe spaces in the workplace for individuals who are grieving. The conversation emphasizes the significance of expressing feelings and the restorative power of connection and prayer. Ultimately, they reflect on the beauty of love that exists even in the face of grief.

Bloomwell Partners: www.growwithbloomwell.com
Instagram handle: @drmekel   
Write Where You Are: Mindful Journaling for Grief Guide - click here
A Gentle Guide for Grieving Hearts - click here
Purchase My Memoir, Relaxing Into the Pain - click here

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In this conversation, Rabbi Rami Shapiro shares his insights on death, spirituality, and the interconnectedness of life. He reflects on his early awareness of death, the impact of losing loved ones, and the profound lessons learned from witnessing the dying process. Rabbi Rami emphasizes the importance of letting go of the egoic self and living by the golden rule, drawing from his experiences and teachings in both Judaism and other spiritual traditions. We explore the profound experiences of contemplative practices, the power of chanting, and the interconnectedness of all beings. We discuss the nature of sacredness, grounding practices amidst chaos, and the understanding that everything is a manifestation of the divine. The dialogue culminates in a reading meant for those transitioning from life, emphasizing love, compassion, and the eternal presence of the divine.

Links

One River Foundation (oneriverfoundation.org)

Rabbi Rami serves as a contributing editor for Spirituality and Health magazine (spiritualityhealth.com)

He writes the bi-weekly Substack Ask Rabbi Rami (rabbirami.substack.com). 

Matthew Ricard Book  - Altruism: The Power of Compassion to Change Yourself and the World - https://g.co/kgs/j8UW2ru

Thomas Keating - https://g.co/kgs/qw5cyhw

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In this conversation, Liz Dunnebacke shares her journey from the entertainment industry to founding Wake, a nonprofit focused on affordable and environmentally sustainable death care. She discusses her personal experiences with death, the challenges of navigating the death care system, and the emotional impact of choices surrounding death. Liz highlights the crisis of unclaimed bodies, the legal complexities of death care decisions, and the need for greater access and affordability in this essential service. We delve into the complexities of death care, exploring personal values, financial barriers, and the emotional toll of losing loved ones. We emphasize the relational nature of life and death, advocating for community support and awareness in navigating these difficult topics.

Liz Dunnebacke (she/they) is the founder and executive director of Wake, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing information and resources that support meaningful, affordable, and environmentally friendly end-of-life care. Liz comes to end-of-life work following a career in the entertainment industry. 

Since moving to New Orleans in 2004, Liz has served on the boards and staff of several New Orleans-based nonprofit organizations in the arts and education sectors. Since 2013, they have worked to develop national resources for sustainable and affordable end-of-life care, serving on the board of the Green Burial Council and forming the Equitable Disposition Alliance. Liz holds a BA from Brown University.

Wake Website
Equitable Disposition Alliance

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In this conversation, Christine Gautreaux shares her journey of understanding death and caregiving, beginning with her early experiences of loss in her family. She discusses how these experiences shaped her career in social work and her role as a death doula. Christine emphasizes the importance of self-care for caregivers and the need for open conversations about death and dying. She also shares personal stories about her family and the impact of caregiving on health and well-being. She shares her experiences with art, death, and the importance of having open discussions about difficult topics. She reflects on her relationship with her Aunt Joan, who faced terminal illness with grace and clarity about her wishes. Christine emphasizes the importance of amplifying marginalized voices through her work, which includes storytelling and community engagement. The discussion also touches on the challenges of maintaining personal grounding amidst the emotional weight of her work and the necessity of finding joy and laughter even in the face of loss. She reflects on her father's final days, the role of a death doula, and the importance of being present in the moment. The discussion highlights the importance of communication regarding end-of-life wishes and the therapeutic benefits of nature. 

Christine is the co-author of Stillpoint: A Caregiver's Playbook to find ease and to take a deep breath and reclaim joy, and Women Connected in Wisdom stories and resources rooted in the eight dimensions of wellness, volumes I & II. She believes in the power of body wisdom and somatic play to help heal trauma and live the best life possible. Christine coaches professional caregivers, activists, and artists to maintain balance and self-care. Christine is the Co-Host of the Women Connected in Wisdom Podcast and the Co-Founder of the Women Connected in Wisdom Community. She currently serves as the Integrity and Innovation Coordinator of InterPlay.

Interplay.org

Gather the Wild & Colorado Interplay

Women Connected in Wisdom

Self-Care. Care While Giving Care YouTube

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In this engaging conversation, Kilah Storm, a writer and puppeteer, shares her unique perspective on life, death, and storytelling through her art. We discuss her early encounters with death, the impact it had on her desire for honest storytelling, and her journey into puppetry using taxidermy roadkill. Kilah emphasizes the importance of honoring life and death in her performances, aiming to change perceptions of taxidermy and encourage positive conversations about mortality. Through her work, she connects with audiences, especially children, fostering a deeper understanding of life and death. In this conversation, we explore the themes of life, death, and the importance of storytelling in understanding and honoring both. We discuss the value of self-care, the cycle of life and death, and the need for community support in navigating difficult conversations about mortality. The conversation emphasizes the beauty in acknowledging death and the importance of being present in the moment, as well as the significance of solitude for personal reflection.

Kilah is a writer and puppeteer. Obsessed with nature and life’s big questions, Kilah has created a unique line of puppets made from taxidermied roadkill. These discarded critters are now characters in The World Of Fluff, a puppet theater that performs retellings of fairy tales. The World of Fluff has performed in multiple venues, including the Denver Performing Arts Complex, Planet V, and the Oddity and Bizarre Expo in Colorado Springs. Kilah is an active member of the Rocky Mountain Puppetry Guild and the Puppeteers of America.

Links:

Kilah's Website
Oddity & Bizarre Expo (Kilah's next performance)
Planet V

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In this reflective conversation, hosts Wakil David Matthews and Annalouiza Armendariz discuss the highlights of their third season, featuring a diverse array of guests who share insights on death, dying, and the various cultural and personal approaches to end-of-life care. They explore the roles of death doulas, innovative practices in body disposition, and the importance of community support in navigating grief. The conversation emphasizes the interconnectedness of life and death, the need for cultural sensitivity in death care, and the evolving understanding of grief and loss.

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In this compelling episode, we speak with Sam Lee Zemke. Sam is part of our podcast family and does terrific work as our editor. He is a jack of many trades and interests: radical anthropologist, neo-mythologist, cooperative living counselor, mediator, artist, musician, improviser, ancestral advocate, part-time house spirit, and service magician. He is my friend on the Sufi path, and I’ve known him since he was a little rascal! Sam has been walking a lifelong journey with the trickster and has an excellent affinity for the liminal parts of life. Transformation and boundary tending have revealed themselves to be key facets of the work Sam has been called to do, and they endeavor to honor that call to the best of their ability. 

In our conversation, Sam shares his unique perspectives on death, transformation, and community living. He reflects on his early experiences with and the importance of rituals in processing loss, as well as the interconnectedness of all beings. We emphasize the significance of community and relationships in navigating life's transitions. Ultimately, our conversation underscores the importance of acknowledging and valuing the unique contributions each person brings to the collective experience of healing and support. We explore themes of transformation, community learning, and the importance of reclaiming indigenous wisdom in the face of societal collapse. 

LINKS:

His Podcast - A House of Hungry Ghosts

Sam's Instagram

Hospicing Modernity book

Robin Wall Kimmerer's 'The Serviceberry'

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In this conversation, Seth Samuels shares his journey through understanding death, grief, and emotional expression. He reflects on his early experiences with loss, particularly within his family, and how these experiences shaped his identity and spiritual journey. The discussion explores the cultural significance of grief, the role of humor in processing emotions, and Seth's work in examining male emotions through his podcast, 'The Good World.' We discuss the importance of emotional expression, the fear of mortality, and the role of ministry in today's media landscape. We emphasize the need for connection and presence in a world filled with distractions, culminating in a reflection on the healing power of tears and the importance of being true to oneself.

Seth Samuels is a performer-turned-social scientist-turned-interfaith spiritual leader. His podcast, "The Good World," is available on YouTube and on every podcast platform he is aware of (please let him know if you are unable to find it). 

Seth has found that the greatest truths reside at the crossroads where our many diverse traditions intersect; interfaith practice helps deepen his Judaism, Buddhism, Sufism, secular humanism, and his connection to the boundless wonders around us.

His college thesis advisor once said, "Two roads diverged in a wood, and Seth took both of them." Seth takes great joy in continuing to live into that statement.

Seth's YouTube Channel

Poet Jarod K Anderson

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In this conversation, Jay Deitcher shares his personal experiences with death and grief, discussing how these experiences have shaped his life and work. He reflects on the loss of friends and family, the impact of death on his children, and how writing serves as a coping mechanism. Jay also introduces the unique practice of texting deceased loved ones as a way to process grief and maintain connections with them. 

We emphasize the importance of community support and the normalization of conversations around death. We explore the themes of grief, community, spirituality, and the challenges of coping with loss. And we discuss the importance of creating community through shared experiences of grief, the role of spiritual practices in coping, and the challenges faced in writing about personal loss. 

The conversation also delves into anticipatory grief, the fear of death, and the significance of acceptance and quality time with loved ones. Humor is highlighted as a coping mechanism, and the discussion touches on the unique challenges men face in expressing emotions related to grief.

“Mourning our parents can start before they die. Here’s how to cope with anticipatory grief.” (Washington Post)

"11 Helpful Ways to Deal With Grief." (Wondermind)

"Why Texting the Dead Helps Those Still Living." (Popsugar)

Jay’s website

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In this conversation, Dr. Sheila K. Collins shares her profound experiences with grief, having lost both a son and a daughter. She discusses the importance of community support, the role of art in healing, and the misconceptions surrounding the grieving process. 

Through her personal stories and professional insights, she emphasizes the need for a deeper understanding of grief and the transformative power of love and connection during times of loss. 

We explore the significance of end-of-life discussions, the caregivers' role, and the transformative power of grief. We emphasize the importance of intentionality in life choices, the need to face fears surrounding death, and the value of art and dance in processing grief. 

We highlight how joy can coexist with sorrow and the necessity of sharing experiences to foster understanding and healing.

Sheila K. Collins, Ph.D
Author, Key Note Speaker, Workshops
817-706 4967|
sheilakcollins@gmail.com

https://www.sheilakcollins.com

https://www.artofgrieving.us

Intro to Sheila’s Work

Sheila’s YouTube Channel

Her books

When Death Threatens Someone We Love
Aging with Aging Parents
Discovering Healing Through Art

Her Books

Her Website

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In this conversation, Tim Arsenault shares his profound experiences with death and grief, exploring how these experiences shaped his journey into spiritual direction. 

He discusses the concept of spiritual bypassing, the impact of his early losses, and how he found purpose in helping others navigate their spiritual journeys. 

Tim also reflects on his current work in spiritual direction, the importance of deep listening, and the challenges he faces in his practice. Our conversation highlights the significance of being present with others in their grief and the transformative power of love and suffering. 

We also discuss the importance of attention and listening in spiritual direction, the challenges of navigating resources, and the significance of sitting with pain and fear. 

He reflects on faith, uncertainty, and the mystery of death, sharing his hopes for dignity in dying and the importance of resourcing oneself for sacred work. Tim also opens up about his identity as a gay man and the challenges faced within religious circles, emphasizing the need for authenticity and community support.

Tim lives in Clearwater, Florida, with his husband of 30 years and seven miniature
dachshunds. He can be contacted at: tarsen0885@aol.com

Audire Spiritual Direction institution website
Shalem Institute for Spiritual Direction

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In this conversation, Rusty Rosman shares her experiences with caregiving and the importance of pre-planning for death through her book, 'Two Envelopes.' She discusses families' emotional challenges during end-of-life decisions and emphasizes the need for clear communication and documentation of final wishes. Rusty introduces the concept of two envelopes: one for immediate actions after death and another for post-funeral instructions, highlighting the significance of leaving a legacy and ensuring loved ones are prepared. We share insights on navigating grief, family dynamics, and the importance of preparation for end-of-life decisions. She discusses the challenges families face when dealing with loss, the fears surrounding death, and how to find purpose in later life. Rusty emphasizes the significance of communication and planning to avoid conflicts over generational wealth and possessions.

Rusty Rosman is the author of the book “Two Envelopes.” She spent years helping her parents and her in-laws as they aged. Over the years, Rusty saw many friends and their families conflicted over final arrangements and family confrontations. After making sure her parents updated their estate planning, Rusty encouraged them to write out their final wishes for their funerals and mourning period and then what they wanted done with their belongings that weren’t covered in their legal documents.

Rusty is one of four children. Having her parents put their wishes in writing made the heartbreaking experience of a parent’s death much easier for all four of them to navigate. From that experience, her book, “Two Envelopes,” was born.

Two Envelopes Book
Rusty's Info Page

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In this conversation, Marci Donaldson shares her journey from a small town in Wyoming to becoming a passionate advocate for end-of-life care. She discusses her early experiences with death, the impact of her mother's strength, and how these experiences shaped her career in hospice and nursing. Marci highlights the gaps in care for those at the end of life and her efforts to innovate solutions, including the establishment of Hopeful House and her new service for families seeking medical aid in dying. We talk about the importance of community support and the need for compassionate care during the dying process. 

In our conversation, Marci shares her experiences and insights on navigating grief, the importance of community support, and the challenges faced in end-of-life care. She reflects on her journey through loss, the significance of music and rituals in processing grief, and her hopes for integrating psilocybin therapy into hospice care. The discussion underscores the significance of compassion, understanding, and innovative approaches in supporting individuals nearing the end of life.

Marci grew up in a town of 200 people in rural Wy as the youngest of six children and was raised by a single mother. She is a world traveler, a wife, and a mother to a 14-year-old son, currently residing in Gresham, OR. She discovered her passion for end-of-life care as a hospice volunteer and returned to college at the age of 32 to earn her Bachelor of Science in Nursing from Johns Hopkins University. Marci has focused her career in the non-profit sector, serving for 25 years as a nurse, educator, end-of-life doula, mentee and mentor, board member, administrator, and program innovator. 

Her career has been inspired by significant gaps in care that exist at the end of life, particularly around addressing existential suffering, the need for presence, and the lack of in-home support. She is writing her first book to address the gaps in education, preparation, and support for hospice workers new to the field of hospice care. Marci owns and operates End of Life Advocacy & Care LLC, a liaison referral and support service that assists individuals out of state in pursuing Medical Aid in Dying in Oregon.

Hopewell House - Portland, OR
Omega Home Network
EndofLifeAdvocacyAndCare.Org

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And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode, Karen Carlissi discusses her work as a death doula and the collaborative event she is hosting with Phoenix Destiny, focusing on supporting individuals who have experienced child loss. 

We explore the concept of disenfranchised grief, the format of their workshops, and the importance of ongoing support for participants. Karen shares insights into the emotional landscape of child loss and the rituals that can help in the healing process, culminating in a poignant poem that encapsulates the essence of remembrance and love.

Workshop Flyer and Registration Link
Death Doula Panel Episode
Karen's Episode
Phoenix Episode

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In this conversation, Pamela Belyea shares her journey through grief after losing six family members in a short span. She discusses the founding of the Griever's Library, a nonprofit that provides grief resources to the community. We explore the importance of being present for those in grief, the role of community support, and the impact of literature on the healing process. Pamela emphasizes the need for compassion and understanding in dealing with loss and how her experiences have shaped her approach to helping others navigate their grief.

She speaks to the importance of children's literature in addressing themes of life and death, particularly in the context of grief. She shares her passion for supporting grieving children through literature and community engagement. 

Pamela Belyea is a licensed architect and co-founder of Seattle’s Gage Academy of Art, where she served as director for 23 years. After losing six family members in 15 months, Pamela channeled her grief into founding the Grievers Library—a volunteer-run bibliotherapy nonprofit providing free grief books to children, teens, and adults through book boxes in and around Seattle. 

The organization’s website also offers unique online resources – “Global,” a directory of grief books available in public libraries worldwide; “EZreads,” a directory of short, meaningful excerpts from grief books; and a list of Crisis Hotlines.

Calling the Grievers Library her “ComPassion Project,” Pamela is dedicated to keeping it refreshingly non-commercial. The library is supported by the generosity of community businesses, donors, and volunteers.

Grievers Library Website
Seattle Times Article
Local Vashon Island newspaper article
Community Quotes of Support

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode, we welcomed Fran Parker. Fran is a writer who loves Earth and the diversity of life on planet Earth. Her awe of humanity's potential, her communication with God, and her journeys in dreams and meditations led her to write the book God's Gift to Gaia: Guidance for Awakening Humans.

Messages from Jesus led to a book sequel, Jesus Joins the Dialogue. Fran has a Ph.D. in Intercultural Education. She is Wakil's mother’s cousin, and they’ve had many fascinating conversations over the years. In today’s podcast, she'll share stories of her communications with close deceased relatives—her mother and father (who died in 1997) and her daughter Cathy (who died in 2020).

In this enlightening conversation, Fran Parker shares her profound experiences with death, communication with deceased loved ones, and the transformative impact these experiences have had on her life. 

She discusses the telepathic messages she received from her mother after her passing, the connection to nature and elementals, and the broader understanding of life and death. 

We emphasize the importance of recognizing the diverse ways we can communicate with the spiritual realm and the natural world, encouraging listeners to embrace their own experiences and stories. 

Fran shares her profound experiences with life after death, emphasizing the spiritual connections that persist beyond physical existence. 

She discusses the role of butterflies as symbols of communication from her deceased daughter, Cathy, and how these interactions have shaped her understanding of grief and connection. 

We explore the choices made by loved ones at the end of life, the joy found in grieving, and the excitement for what lies beyond. 

Fran also touches on her telepathic communications with spiritual figures, revealing a rich tapestry of experiences that challenge conventional views of life and death.

Lani Leary

Many Lives, Many Masters, by Brian Weiss

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In this conversation, Karen Carlisi shares her profound journey from being an English language educator to becoming a death doula. She reflects on her early experiences with death, including the loss of loved ones, and how these moments shaped her understanding of life and death. Karen discusses her transition into the role of a death doula, its responsibilities, and the challenges she faces in educating others about this profession. She emphasizes the importance of community support and self-care in her work, highlighting her collaborative efforts with other doulas to bridge gaps in societal understanding of death and dying. Karen shares her insights on self-care, community support, and the fears surrounding end-of-life experiences. She discusses her personal practices for nurturing herself, the importance of community in activism, and her reflections on death and dying. We emphasize the need for planning, acceptance, and the profound journey of love and loss that accompanies life transitions.

Karen's Website

Pacific Death Doula Collaborative

International End of Life Doula Association (INELDA)

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In this conversation, Mirabai Starr shares her profound experiences with death and loss, detailing how these events have shaped her spiritual journey and her work. She discusses the impact of her brother's and first love's deaths on her life, leading her to explore the sacred dimensions of grief. 

Mirabai also introduces her current projects, including the Wild Heart Space community, which supports individuals navigating grief as a spiritual path. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing all forms of loss and the transformative power of grief in connecting with the divine. 

In this conversation, we delve into the complexities of grief and loss and the healing power of writing. We explore how writing is a spiritual practice and a means to navigate emotional challenges. 

The discussion emphasizes the importance of embracing suffering and the mundane aspects of life as pathways to spiritual growth. 

We also reflect on the challenges of balancing creative work with the demands of life and the necessity of allowing oneself to feel and express emotions authentically. 

Ultimately, we invite listeners to recognize the sacredness in everyday experiences and walk the ordinary mystic's path.

Mirabai Starr is an award-winning author of creative non-fiction and contemporary translations of sacred literature.

She taught Philosophy and World Religions at the University of New Mexico-Taos for 20 years and now teaches and speaks internationally on contemplative practice and inter-spiritual dialog. She is a certified bereavement counselor who helps mourners harness the transformational power of loss. Her book, WILD MERCY: Living the Fierce & Tender Wisdom of the Women Mystics, was named one of the “Best Books of 2019”. She lives with her extended family in the mountains of northern New Mexico.

Wild Heart Space Website - references the writing workshops and Holy Lament community.
Mirabai’s Books
Levine Talks Website - Steven and his wife Ondrea
Love Serve Remember Foundation - Ram Dass
Murshid

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In this conversation, Mike Reagan, CEO of The Natural Funeral, shares his profound journey in end-of-life care, from his teenage years working in a cemetery to his current role in revolutionizing the funeral industry. He discusses the importance of presence and compassion during the dying process, the innovative approach of terramation, and the challenges of raising awareness about eco-friendly death care options. Mike reflects on his personal experiences with death and dying, emphasizing a sense of peace and acceptance regarding the end of life. This conversation explores the profound experiences of end-of-life care, emphasizing the importance of unconditional love, joy in service, and the spiritual connections that arise during this sacred time. The speakers share personal stories highlighting the beauty and peace found in supporting individuals as they transition while also addressing the need for self-care among caregivers. The discussion culminates in reflecting on the Prayer of St. Francis, reinforcing the themes of love, compassion, and connection.

The Natural Funeral

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In this conversation, Gail Rubin, a pioneering death educator, shares her journey into the field of death education, emphasizing the importance of planning for end-of-life issues. She discusses her creative approaches, including the use of humor and film clips, to engage people in conversations about death. Gail also reflects on her personal experiences with loss and the challenges she faces in her work, advocating for pre-need funeral planning and the need for open discussions about mortality. In this conversation, Gail Rubin shares her experiences with medical aid in dying, the role of death doulas, and the importance of planning for end-of-life decisions. She discusses her personal journey through grief and loss, the significance of mourning, and her fears surrounding her own end of life. She also introduces the Before I Die Festival, an initiative to encourage conversations about death and dying.

A Good Goodbye - Gail's website
Gail's Videos
Doyenne of Death Podcasts
Thanatopsis by William Cullen Bryant
Elizabeth Town movie
Before I Die Festivals
Information on Death Cafes and Jon Underwood

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In this conversation, Russell Young shares his profound experiences with death, grief, and the importance of community support. He reflects on the impact of losing loved ones, particularly his father and wife, and how these experiences shaped his understanding of life and death. We also highlight his installation of a 'wind phone' on his church's property, a symbolic gesture that allows individuals to communicate with lost loved ones. Russ emphasizes the significance of maintaining connections, whether through imagination or belief, and the role of community in navigating grief. He shares insights on resilience, the healing power of memories, and the importance of living in the present.
Russ has been a member of Columbine United Church since 2017 and a volunteer at Nourish Meals on Wheels since 2016. He is also an Uncle to two nieces in Littleton, Co, where he currently lives.
The Colorado Gazette recently posted an article about a wind phone that had been installed in our local community.  We first heard about wind phones when Ira Glass reported on this in his series, This American Life.  “One Last Thing Before I Go” was a tribute to  Itaru Sasaki, a Japanese man devastated by the loss of his cousin. In 2010, he set up an old-fashioned phone booth with a nonworking rotary phone in his garden. Calling his cousin on the Kaze No Denwa, translated as The Telephone of the Wind. In a manner, moving his grief through a telephone. We asked Russ to join us when we heard that he was the one who installed the local wind phone

My Wind Phone website
Nourish Meals on Wheels

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In this episode, we introduce the concept of death doulas, professionals trained to support individuals and families during the end-of-life process. Four experienced death doulas are featured in the conversation, sharing their backgrounds, specialties, and personal stories that inspired them to enter this field. They discuss the importance of providing emotional and practical support to families, their unique challenges, and their profound impact on the dying and their loved ones. 

The doulas emphasize the need for better organization and support during the dying process, highlighting the value of their role in facilitating a peaceful and dignified transition. We discuss the multifaceted role of death doulas, emphasizing the importance of listening, emotional support, and the unique stories that arise in end-of-life care. The doulas share personal experiences, highlighting the challenges and rewards of being present for families during such a profound time. 

They also discuss the complexities of compensation in this field, advocating for transparency and understanding in financial matters while maintaining a compassionate approach to care. We also discuss the importance of training, tools, and community support. We explore the challenges of insurance coverage and accessibility for doula services, the complexities of certification, and the significance of finding the right match between clients and doulas. The discussion also highlights the emotional aspects of grief.

INELDA - International End-of-Life Doula Association
Going With Grace website
humaneprisonhospiceproject.org
Insight Garden Project
Have A Good Death YouTube with Myra
Myra's Website
Threshold Choir
LiElla - Leaving Well Podcast - Home Funerals
Leaving Well Podcast - Finding Peace in the Darkness
Death Becomes Her podcast
Streamlining Funeral Planning

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In this conversation, Dr. Tamara McIntyre shares her journey and insights into death literacy, the importance of curiosity in facing mortality, and her work with hand-woven willow coffins. She discusses the challenges of engaging people in conversations about death, the cultural shifts surrounding end-of-life practices, and the need for community support in navigating these experiences. Dr. McIntyre emphasizes the significance of understanding our mortality and making informed choices about death and dying. We explore the importance of advanced care planning, compassion in healthcare, and the dynamics of end-of-life conversations. We discuss the emotional impact of medical diagnoses, the necessity of self-care for caregivers, and the significance of creating safe spaces for individuals to express their feelings and desires regarding death. The conversation also touches on the fears surrounding medical interventions, the role of mindfulness in life reflection, and the importance of family dynamics in end-of-life planning. Humor and lightness are emphasized as essential elements in discussing death, ultimately leading to a deeper appreciation for open conversations about aging and dying.

Dr. Tamara MacIntyre is an end-of-life doula, retired chiropractor, and doctor of natural medicine with over 20 years of experience in holistic healthcare. Now, as a death educator and funerary artisan, she weaves together her expertise to increase death literacy and inspire upstream conversations about aging, illness, and end-of-life planning. 

As the creator of handwoven willow coffins, Tamara blends artistry and sustainability to reimagine after-death practices. Her mission is to empower individuals to approach mortality with clarity, confidence, and compassion—transforming how we live by rethinking how we prepare for death.

https://www.consciousdeath.org/

Instagram @EndofLife_Architect or Facebook @drtamaramacintyre

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In this conversation, Neshia (Nee sha)  Alaovae (Alah vi) shares her profound experiences and insights on death, grief, and the importance of cultural rituals. Raised by her grandparents in Samoa, Neshia's early encounters with death shaped her understanding and approach to end-of-life care. She emphasizes the significance of rituals in navigating grief and the need for community support.  Neshia discusses her journey into death work, highlighting her current role as an end-of-life consultant, where she helps individuals, particularly young adults, confront and plan for their mortality. In this conversation, we explore the themes of midlife reflections, the importance of end-of-life planning, and the role of a death doula. We discuss how intimate connections can be fostered through conversations about death and dying the cultural rituals surrounding grief, and the challenges faced in death work. The conversation also touches on the fears surrounding the end of life and the celebration of life through death work, emphasizing the importance of community support and personal connections.

Neshia Alaovae (she/her) is a Black and Samoan, disabled mama, poet, and death worker. She cares deeply about connecting cultural wisdom, ancestral resilience, and BIPOC joy to create new, empowered possibilities for how we live and die. Her first experience of what many refer to as death doula work was in 2012 as a “Compassionate Companion” at a residential hospice in Washington, DC, that serves homeless or housing-insecure people dying of AIDS or cancer. Neshia continues to think of herself as a death companion. 

Neshia has worked as a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion trainer for faith organizations, non-profits, and institutions such as the Washington Department of Health. She is a licensed mental health counselor who spent over a decade serving people navigating trauma, grief, and cultural identity. Currently, she runs "A Thoughtful Death," a deathcare practice offering end-of-life consultation and support for people wanting a more intentional experience with dying. Neshia loves reading, eating long meals with loved ones, and trying to keep her two toddlers from eating too much dirt (a little is just right).

A Thoughtful Death Website

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In this conversation, Rich Nisbet shares his profound experiences with death, grief, and spirituality. He discusses his journey from personal loss to becoming a grief counselor, emphasizing the importance of finding meaning in death. Rich also introduces his children's book, The Life Cycle, which aims to help children understand death and the continuity of life. 

The discussion also touches on the significance of open conversations about death, the stigma surrounding spiritual experiences, and the therapeutic benefits of journaling in processing grief. Rich advocates for a holistic approach to grief that acknowledges both pain and healing. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of grief, trauma, and the therapeutic process. They explore how thoughts influence pain, the importance of confronting old traumas, and the challenges faced in counseling. The discussion also touches on near-death experiences and the fears surrounding death, emphasizing the evolving nature of therapy and self-discovery. We share insights on how individuals can take responsibility for their healing journey and the significance of mindfulness in processing emotions.

In the early 2000s, Rich was asked, “Have you ever been out of your body?” This question drove home the point that if you can leave your body, then you’re not your body. He relocated from Michigan to California to study philosophies, religions, processes, and methods for coaching and counseling.  

When Covid hit, Rich developed an entire series of individual coaching procedures called “Achievements.” These Achievements are like philosophical processes that people can actually do on themselves.

In 2000, Rich supported a client who was caring for his dying grandmother. He wrote out steps for his client, which they found very valuable. That prompted Rich to write a book on the subject called “When It’s Time.”  

His website contains accounts and stories of everyday people who have had out-of-the-ordinary experiences. 

His Website - Above it All

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In this conversation, Michael Erard discusses his work on language, mainly focusing on the first words of babies and the last words of the dying. He shares personal experiences with death, including a profound encounter that shaped his understanding of grief and mourning. The discussion explores the importance of communication at the end of life, the cultural models surrounding death, and the collective experience of dying, emphasizing the significance of verbal and non-verbal communication. In this conversation, we delve into the profound themes surrounding language and communication at the end of life. We explore cultural perspectives on the last words, the significance of agency in the final moments, and the challenges faced in researching end-of-life language. The discussion also touches on the importance of rituals in grief and the potential for rewriting moments of loss. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, we emphasize the power of language and the shared human experience in navigating death and dying.
Michael is a writer, a linguist, a parent, and an immigrant. His work has been mostly about language and languages and the people who use and study them. For the last five years, he has been working on a book about the first words of babies and the last words of the dying as linguistic phenomena, personal curios, and objects of cultural interest. “Bye Bye I Love You: The Story of Our First and Last Words” comes out in February 2025.
Michael sent us a preview, which we thoroughly enjoyed. The results of his studies and his skilled way of sharing the stories made it a compelling read. And the conclusions are fascinating and will be of great value to anyone doing end-of-life care. Michael is also in training to be a Death Doula and is on the advisory board of the Death Languages project, which recently received a grant from the Order of the Good Death.

Links to his new book
Penguin Random House has both hardcover and e-book options
MIT Press has only the hardcover
Michael's Website

Dr Katherine Mannix whom Michael mentioned as an inspiration.

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In this conversation, Tiana Dargent, founder of Queer Community Death Care, shares her personal journey with death and grief, highlighting the importance of inclusive and compassionate end-of-life care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. She discusses her experiences with death from a young age, the evolution of her understanding of grief, and the creation of safe spaces for discussions about death through Queer Death Salons. Tiana emphasizes the challenges marginalized communities face in death care and the significance of community support in navigating these experiences. In this conversation, the speakers explore the importance of creating safe spaces for discussions about death and dying. They share personal experiences and fears surrounding death, particularly concerning parenting and legacy. The conversation emphasizes the healing power of nature and the need for culturally competent care in death practices. Creative solutions for navigating challenges in death care are also discussed, highlighting the importance of open-mindedness and adaptability in these sensitive topics.

Queer Community Deathcare website
Article - How to queer your end-of-life planning
YouTube - 2SLGBTQIA+ Grief, An Intimate Relationship with Disenfranchisement

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In this conversation, Joe'l Simone Maldonado, a licensed funeral director and grief educator, shares her profound experiences with death from a young age, the challenges she faces in her profession, and the importance of self-care and boundaries in her work. She emphasizes the need for cultural competency in death care and reflects on the spiritual aspects of her role, while also discussing the fears and uncertainties surrounding death. In this conversation, we explore the complex emotions surrounding death and grief, discussing personal fears, cultural practices, and the importance of inclusivity in end-of-life care. We share insights on how to find comfort in the inevitability of death, the significance of cultural narratives, and the unique ways individuals express their grief. The conversation emphasizes the need for diverse voices in discussions about death and the importance of living life fully while honoring those who have passed.
The Grave Woman website
Compassion and Choices
The Untethered Soul

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In this conversation, Deborah Grassman shares the profound insights she gained from her extensive experience as a hospice nurse for veterans. She discusses the concept of 'soul injury,' a wound that disconnects individuals from their true selves and emphasizes the importance of healing through self-discovery, grief, and forgiveness. Grassman reflects on how facing death can lead to a deeper understanding of life and the urgency to connect with one's authentic self. She also addresses the challenges of promoting healing practices in a busy, distracted society and shares her personal reflections on life and legacy. She shares profound insights on embracing mortality, finding purpose in adversity, and the journey of letting go. She reflects on her experiences with veterans, the impact of natural disasters on her work, and the importance of grace in our lives. The discussion emphasizes the need for self-discovery and personal growth, culminating in the vision of Opus Peace and the release of her new book. She is the author of three books: Peace at Last, The Hero Within, and Soul Injury, and a contributing author for four textbooks, and has 25 published articles.
There are four documentary films and a TED talk that feature her work. However, none of these achievements have taught her as much as the 10,000 dying veterans she took care of as a VA hospice Nurse Practitioner for 30 years: “If anyone wants to learn how to achieve inner peace, ask a veteran who has successfully struggled to find it for the rest of their lives after they returned from war.”

The Opus Peace Website
Their Yearly "Anchor Your Heart Day" coming on February 2, 2025
Deborah's Books
Her work with We Honor Veterans
Her TED talk
Online learning system from Opus Peace
Anchor Your Heart video - a grounding technique that is featured in the annual global event linked above called National Anchor Your Heart Day
Pre order Debor

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LiElla Kelly is a nationally recognized NEDA (National End-of-Life Doula Alliance) Proficient End-of-Life Doula and After-Death Care Educator. She founded Leaving Well, a groundbreaking business that serves individuals and families seeking to navigate end-of-life transitions with grace, dignity, and peace. Her clients understand the importance of planning and wish to approach death with openness and preparedness—those who believe that we can “do death” better.
LiElla brings a unique blend of compassionate care and practical expertise to her work. Her role is to ensure that the dying know their options, that their voice is heard, and that their loved ones can make the most of their final moments together.
In this conversation, LiElla Kelly, a nationally recognized end-of-life doula, shares her insights on navigating death and dying with grace and dignity. She discusses her personal experiences with death, the role of a death doula, the importance of after-death care, and her podcast that educates others about death-related topics. LiElla emphasizes the need for self-care and the challenges faced in her profession, particularly in educating society about the role of death doulas. In this conversation, LiElla Kelly shares her journey of finding balance in life after losing a close friend. She discusses the importance of community support, mindfulness, and the joy she finds in helping others during difficult times. The conversation delves into the various options available for after-death care, emphasizing the need for education and awareness around end-of-life choices. LiElla also highlights the significance of having meaningful conversations about death and dying and the healing power of poetry in processing grief.

LiElla's Website
LiElla's Instagram
Death Becomes Her podcast

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In this episode, we spoke with two new friends we met at a recent death care conference in Seattle. They are both Death Doulas and some of their cohort will share their inspiration and work in a special premium video episode called “How to become a Death Doula?” We hope you’ll subscribe to enjoy that and other premium content.
Phoenix and Myra share their personal experiences with death and how it has shaped their lives and careers. They discuss the importance of community, the challenges they face in their work, and the profound impact of early encounters with death.
The conversation highlights the role of death doulas in providing support and care during end-of-life transitions, emphasizing the need for compassion and understanding in navigating grief and loss. They explore the importance of community in creative work, the practices that sustain their energy, their perspectives on death and legacy, the role of storytelling in healing, and the need to normalize discussions around death and life cycles. They emphasize the interconnectedness of their experiences and the significance of sharing stories to foster understanding and support.

From Myra
https://thresholdchoir.org/webform/ma...
https://www.modamyra.org/
https://inelda.org/

From Phoenix
Personal Website: www.cosmikplayground.com
Pacific Death Doula Collaborative:
https://www.paci

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Laura Musselman is the Director of Communications (and program facilitator) for the Humane Prison Hospice Project. She is also a trauma-support specialist and advocate for compassionate, dignified end-of-life care. 

A mother of one child and three dogs, she enjoys exploring how privilege affects access to a “good death” and learning from others’ stories.

In this conversation, Laura Musselman shares her journey from teaching philosophy to becoming an end-of-life care specialist. After losing her parents, she became a doula and now works with the Humane Prison Hospice Project at the Central California Women’s Facility, providing support and education to caregivers in prison. The discussion explores her early awareness of death, the challenges of her work, and the importance of community in caregiving. In this conversation, 
Laura discusses the complexities of self-care in high-stress environments like prisons, the importance of nature and gardening for emotional well-being, and her fears surrounding death and dying. She emphasizes the need for planning and open conversations about end-of-life issues and shares her appreciation for poetry as a means of processing grief.

humaneprisonhospiceproject.org
Insight Garden Project
Buried in Work

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In this episode, hosts Wakil and Annalouiza reflect on the highlights of their second season. 

They discuss various topics related to end-of-life practices from the episodes in this second season, including alternative funeral methods, medical assistance in dying, and end-of-life planning resources. 

They emphasize the importance of community support, preparation (especially with completing your advanced care directive), and the normalization of conversations surrounding death and dying.

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In this conversation, Teresa Yung shares her profound journey through grief and healing, exploring the impact of death on her life and work. As an activist and therapist in training, she discusses her experiences with plant medicine, the awakening process, and her role as a life doula. Teresa emphasizes the importance of self-discovery and the challenges faced in the healing journey, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of life, death, and the infinite nature of the soul. In this conversation, Teresa Yung shares her insights on finding support during overwhelming times, the importance of community, and the healing power of plant medicine. She discusses the fear of death and the regrets that often accompany it, emphasizing the need to live life fully and authentically. The dialogue highlights the significance of vulnerability, asking for help, and being present in the moment.

Teresa's website - https://www.beautifulwisdom.us/

"Your task is not to seek for love but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it."

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In this conversation, Anastasia Dadashpour shares her profound experiences with death and loss, exploring how these events have shaped her understanding of life, love, and spirituality. She discusses the impact of her grandmother's fear of death, the loss of her daughter, and her father's suicide, emphasizing the connections that remain after death. Anastasia also highlights her work in creating a play about children imagining peace after an apocalypse, reflecting on the importance of love and community in healing and transformation. The conversation delves into the significance of acknowledging grief and the role of death doulas in supporting those who are transitioning.

Love: A Manual For Humanity

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Duane Kelly is an award-winning author of eleven full-length plays. His plays often delve into end-of-life themes. The two most recent productions were a premiere of Abacus in Seattle in September 2024 and the play Patrimony in Tulsa, Oklahoma, in October 2024. Abacus tells the story of a synthetic human replicant who experiences unexpected concerns as she cares for a man who suffers the indignities of old age and cognitive decline.

His plays, which often delve into end-of-life themes, were produced at the Edinburgh Fringe in 2022 and 2023. Duane is also writing a history book about the American West titled Journeys to Zion.

In this conversation, Duane discusses his experiences with death and how it has influenced his work. He shares personal stories of loss and reflects on the impact of mortality on storytelling. The discussion also delves into his recent plays, the intersection of artificial intelligence and humanity, and the importance of empathy in understanding our shared fate. Duane emphasizes the need to create meaningful art and the moral obligation to make the most of our time on earth.

Links:
Duane's Website
The Search for Wandla
Terror Management  - Ernest Becker
The Monk and the Robot series
Klara and the Sun byKazuo Ishiguro
Dover Beach By Matthew Arnold
Thanatopsis By William Cullen Bryant

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In this conversation, Dr. Kimberly Harms shares her profound experiences with grief and loss, detailing the impact of her mother's and son's deaths on her life. She discusses the importance of processing grief, the role of legacy planning, and how to support others through their grief journeys. Dr. Harms emphasizes the significance of reconciliation, forgiveness, and the need for community support in navigating the challenges of loss. She also highlights the importance of leaving a legacy of love and preparing for death to ease the burden on loved ones.

Dr. Harms has been around the block in life.  She has served as a Commissioned Officer in the United States Public Health Service, a dental school professor,  grief counselor, and death doula.  She is an award-winning, best-selling author and international speaker on the topics of grief, conflict and legacy planning. Her latest book, "Are you Ready, How to Build a Legacy to Die For." 

Dr Harms has also suffered many personal losses, including the deaths by suicide of her mother and son and the death by broken heart of her husband after their son’s death.  Her most important role now is mother to her two surviving children and grandmother to 6 precious grandchildren.

She shared this scripture with us - 

Romans 8:38-39 

For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Wordens Four Tasks of Mourning
Her book Are You Ready? How to Build a Legacy to Die For
Dr Harms website

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In this conversation, Jamie Sarche discusses her mission to help people confront their mortality and plan for their funerals, which she believes leads to more meaningful lives. She shares personal experiences with death, the importance of open conversations about grief, and the various options available for funeral planning. Jamie emphasizes the need for rituals and the emotional landscape of grief, advocating for a society that embraces these discussions rather than shying away from them.

Jamie's calling is to help people be less afraid of death. By arranging for them to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, she helps them create a path for bereavement, long before it's needed. And by facing their mortality, her clients can live better, more meaningful lives.

Jamie is a seasoned speaker who brings deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country. She shares insights and approaches on how to have difficult conversations and address sensitive issues. Her message extends well beyond death and dying, resonating across industries and individuals. She is bridging her passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.

Breaking down the taboos about death | Jamie Sarche | TEDxCrestmoorParkWomen
Talking About Death Won't Kill You
Talk on Death Ritual

To contact Jamie:
Personal email messages and Pre-Arranged Funeral Plan questions: jamie@feldmanmortuary.com
Professional, at-the-time-of-need email message: director@feldmanmortuary.com

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Rodney Diffendaffer, a clinical compounding pharmacist and certified functional medicine practitioner, discusses his work in the field of medical aid in dying (MAID). He shares his personal experiences with death growing up on a farm and how it shaped his perspective. Rodney talks about his role at Flatirons Family Pharmacy, where he helps people with their end-of-life journey and develops formulations to make the process more comfortable. He also highlights the challenges he faced in spreading awareness about MAID in Colorado, particularly in getting doctors to engage in conversations about the topic. He shares his experience of advocating for the process and educating doctors about the law and procedures. Rodney also talks about the progress he has seen over the years, with more doctors and hospices becoming comfortable with medical aid and dying. He emphasizes the importance of respecting individual beliefs and boundaries when discussing end-of-life options. Rodney also shares a personal story of his mother's end-of-life experience and highlights the need for early planning and open conversations about death.

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Libby Carr. Libby has been an environmental and political activist for much of her life.  It was when she had her first big job (working for the Sierra Club) when she had her near death experience while on a white-water raft trip on the Snake River.  This happened in 1972, several years before much had been written about this phenomenon. 

Libby shares her near-death experience in 1972 and how it impacted her life. She describes being trapped under a raft during a whitewater rafting trip and having a conversation with an energy beyond anything she had ever experienced. This experience removed her fear of death and made her more interested in the spiritual conversation. She became involved in the International Association for Near Death Studies and found a community of people who had similar experiences. She also believes in the concept of reincarnation and the need to learn lessons of love, growth, and forgiveness in multiple lifetimes. The conversation explores the topic of near-death experiences (NDEs) and the profound shifts they can bring to individuals. The speakers discuss why some people have NDEs while others don't, and the various ways in which people can gain clarity and insight about life and death. They emphasize the importance of not discounting or dismissing these experiences, but rather valuing and learning from them. The conversation also touches on the significance of taking care of unfinished business and having no regrets when facing death. The speakers share personal stories and insights, highlighting the transformative power of NDEs and the importance of sharing and listening to these stories.

Libby Carr has been an environmental and political activist for much of her life.  It was when she had her first big job (working for the Sierra Club) when she had her near-death experience while on a white-water raft trip on the Snake River.  This happened in 1972, several years before much had been written about this phenomenon. 

She lives at Songaia Co-housing, an intentional community in the Seattle area.

International Association for Near-Death Studies
Near Death Experience Research Foundation
Life after Life Website

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Adam Zuckerman is the Founder of Buried in Work, a leading eCommerce platform specializing in estate planning/organization, end-of-life tasks, and estate transitions.

With a deeply personal motivation stemming from his experience managing his father's estate, Adam is dedicated to simplifying these complex processes for individuals and families nationwide.

As an Eisenhower Fellow, an attorney, and MBA, Adam brings a wealth of expertise to his role, combining legal knowledge with entrepreneurial vision to drive innovation in the field of estate planning.

Adam's mission is to empower individuals of all ages to navigate the intricacies of estate planning with confidence and ease. Through Buried in Work, he seeks to revolutionize the way people approach end-of-life preparations, ensuring that everyone has access to the resources they need to secure their legacy and protect their loved ones.

Adam shares his personal journey and the mission of his company to simplify estate planning and organization. He emphasizes the importance of comprehensive estate planning beyond just wills and trusts, including advanced directives and organizing important information.

Buried in Work offers a wide range of resources, from free checklists and guides to products like the estate preparation package and the One More Story card game.

Zuckerman discusses the challenges of getting the resources out to people and the need to balance the business aspect with the mission of helping as many people as possible. He also shares his thoughts on legacy and the fear of missing out on experiences in life.

The conversation highlights the role of technology in estate planning and the importance of responsible use. Zuckerman encourages listeners to visit the Buried in Work website for resources and to reach out with feedback and ideas.

Buried In Work Website

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You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

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In this episode Seth Viddal shares his journey of becoming aware of death and how it has impacted his life. He discusses his experiences with traditional funerals and the limitations he felt in the funeral industry. This led him to start The Natural Funeral, an organization that offers ecological funeral options. Seth explains the processes of natural organic reduction and water cremation, highlighting their environmental benefits. He also emphasizes the importance of creating meaningful rituals and the challenges of making these options more widely available.

Seth has been an entrepreneur for most of his adult life. After serving in the Air Force during Operation Desert Shield, he designed and sold communication solutions for government intelligence agencies.
 
Following the unexpected deaths of both of his parents and a younger brother, Seth was called to explore alternatives to conventional funeral services. In 2017, he sold his companies and went back to school at Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado. He helped open the doors to The Natural Funeral in Boulder County in 2019. They have since opened a second funeral home and a care center in Denver, Colorado, where they perform ecological dispositions.
 
Seth and The Natural Funeral are transforming the funeral industry. They have expanded end-of-life care options available to Coloradans by bringing water cremation and terramation to the state. The Natural Funeral hosted the Inaugural Body Composting Conference in Denver in March 2023, which was the first global initiative to connect researchers, funeral professionals, legislators, mortuary science students, end-of-life caregivers, universities, and composting professionals.

The Natural Funeral - Funeral Home

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In this episode we're pleased to welcome Tajali Theresa Tolan, MS

Tajali is a Certified Mindfulness Educator, Peace Educator, Marriage and Family Therapist, Family Life Educator, and Registered Yoga Teacher.  She is the founder of both the Children’s Global Peace Project and The Consciousness Project–an Empowerment Life Coaching Counseling Business.  She holds an MS in Educational Psychology and BS in Family Life Education. 

Tajali is passionate about teaching social-emotional, awareness and  mindfulness skills.  She specializes in creative expression, communication, healthy parent-child relationships and peace work. Over the course of 3o years, she has developed and led 35 children’s peace camps. Tajali is a certified Dances of Universal Peace Leader and Mentor, on the Board of DUPNA (Dances of Universal Peace North America).  She is an ordained minister (Cheraga) in the Church of All, leading Universal Worship Services.

Tajalii is a certified mindfulness educator and peace educator. In this episode she shares her experiences and insights on death and dying. She first became aware of death at a young age and was fascinated by the concepts of heaven, hell, and purgatory. Throughout her life, she has witnessed the deaths of loved ones and worked with people who were dying. Tajalii emphasizes the importance of holding space for others and being present with them during the dying process. She also discusses the death of the ego and the fear of not living a meaningful life. Tajalii's work as a coach and counselor focuses on helping individuals recognize their own worth and contribution. She teaches mindfulness in schools and creates art as a form of healing and support for those in the dying process. Tajalii encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and bring more reverence to themselves and others.

Who Dies? : An Investigation of Conscious Living and Conscious Dying by Stephen Levine

The Wikipedia page for Hazrat Inayat Kahn - we recommend connecting with either the Ruhaniat or the Inayatiyya Sufi orders for more information about and samples of his teachings.

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In this episode we speak with Megan Rohrer, PhD and DMin, a social justice influencer known for their advocacy with the homeless and LGBTQ communities.  Megan received a PhD in Transformative Studies from the California Institute of Integral Studies for their dissertation Trans Theology Without Apology. Megan received a Doctorate of Ministry from the Pacific School of Religion, studying the radical organizing in the 60's and 70's at Glide Memorial Church, where he currently serve as the Senior Church Communications Specialist.   

Megan is an award-winning filmmaker, musician and historian.  He was a finalist for the Lambda Literary award in transgender non-fiction and received an honorable mention as an Unsung Hero of Compassion by Wisdom in Action.  He was with His Holiness the Dali Lama, one of 95 individuals celebrated in Vittenberg, Germany during the 500th Anniversary of the Reformation.  His podcast, And All Shall Be Well is currently the #2 Mental Health podcast on Podomatic.

Megan discusses their experiences with death and how it has shaped their life and work. They share personal encounters with death, including their father's attempted suicide and their work as a chaplain for the San Francisco Police Department. Megan also talks about the challenges faced by the LGBTQ community and the importance of living authentically in the face of hate and discrimination. They highlight the work they do at Glide Memorial Church, providing support and care for the homeless and those struggling with addiction. Megan emphasizes the power of storytelling and community in navigating grief and finding hope. The biggest challenge in the community is forgetting that there are solutions to problems such as homelessness, addiction, and poverty. They emphasize the importance of taking action and doing the hard work instead of just talking about it. Megan finds support in their impact on people's lives and in tangible projects with tangible completions. They also discuss the importance of supporting and checking in with first responders who often carry the weight of difficult moral questions and grief.

And All Shall Be Well Podcast
Glide Memorial Church
Alameda County (AC) Care Alliance
The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence

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In this episode, we meet Rosanne Corcoran, who shares her experience as a caregiver for her mother with vascular dementia. She discusses the challenges of caregiving, the impact of death awareness, and the importance of supporting caregivers. The conversation also delves into the complexities of dementia care and the need to meet caregivers where they are. We talk about the challenges of caregiving, the broken system, the importance of support, and the spiritual aspect of end-of-life care. We emphasize the need for open conversations about death and grief, and the significance of nature in providing comfort and revitalization.

Rosanne is the creator and host of “Daughterhood the Podcast.” She is also a Daughterhood Circle leader and their Director of Content. She cared for her mother through her 12-year journey with vascular dementia, starting as a supportive caregiver and becoming an in-home "sandwich caregiver" (listen for the definition of sandwich caregiver) for her mother’s final six years.

Rosanne hosts a monthly podcast where she interviews experts in the field, asking questions caregivers want to know the answers to – with topics ranging from dealing with dementia  behaviors, to siblings and caregiving, through end of life care, grief, and everything in between.

She carries her authenticity and caregiving experience into each interview. Along with strategies and resources, her podcast also provides listeners with the comfort of knowing they are not facing these challenges alone. Her podcast has consistently been named as a top 10 caregiver podcast and Rosanne has been featured in CNN Health, Barron’s, Next Avenue, The Philadelphia Inquirer and was most recently named one of Next Avenue and American Society on Aging’s 2024 Advocates for Aging.

Links -
We ended with the “Death is Nothing at All” poem - https://allpoetry.com/poem/13601954-Death-Is-Nothing-At-All-by-Henry-Scott-Holland

Daughterhood the Podcast Link

Annalouiza mentioned the book Being Mortal by Atul Gawande - you can find information about all of his work here: https://atulgawande.com/

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In this episode, we enjoyed a conversation with Lynn Rovig. Lynn contacted us to say she had a story to tell about her work as a Home Care Consultant with a Seattle area organization called “Home Instead.” Lynn has been working with seniors for twenty-four years. She has worked with many people in hospice care and on a personal note, Lynn’s parents died in the last few years. Lynn notes that dealing with her own parents' death has helped her with her hospice clients in a compassionate and very rewarding way. She offers a harmonious blend of compassion, sensitivity, creativity, and empathy with professionalism, quality assurance, and law.

Lynn shared her profound experiences working with seniors and individuals in hospice care, reflecting on her personal journey and the impact of death on her life. She discussed the challenges, insights, and lessons learned from her work in end-of-life care.

Home Instead Seattle - https://www.homeinstead.com/location/418
The Religions of Man by Huston Smith - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/3197236-the-religions-of-man
Alzheimer's Association

She read this scripture at the end - Proverbs 3:13- Blessed is the one who finds wisdom and the one who gets understanding 

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In this episode we are honored to speak with poet, Steve Dahl. Steve’s career has always been in the world of marketing and creativity. He’s helped many clients over the years promote and grow their business with his creative writing, photography, and social media skills. Steve holds a Master’s degree in Organization Development and a Master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology.

His marketing experience took an interesting twist in 2013 when he became Director of Marketing for the Cal State University Institute for Palliative Care. There, he began to dive into the worlds of hospice and palliative care education.
His task at that point was to help bring awareness of the value of hospice and palliative care to doctors, nurses, social workers, and chaplains.

In this conversation, Steve discusses his journey into the world of hospice and palliative care education and the importance of having conversations about death and end-of-life care. He shares personal experiences and poems highlighting the need for open dialogue and preparation for the inevitable. We emphasize the significance of starting these conversations at a young age and the role of healthcare professionals in facilitating these discussions. The conversation explores the importance of end-of-life planning and the need for open and honest discussions about death. It highlights the need for healthcare professionals, spiritual care providers, and advocates to be better equipped to support individuals and their families during the end-of-life process. We also touch on the fear of incompleteness and the desire to live a fulfilling life. The guests share their personal experiences and discuss the power of poetry in addressing end-of-life topics. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the potential publication of a book of collected poems and the importance of spreading awareness about end-of-life planning.

The Chaplaincy Innovation Lab

Inspiring Guy on TikTok

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You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

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In this episode we meet Rebecca Crichton, the executive director of Northwest Center for Creative Aging. We discuss her work in the field of creative aging and grief counseling. She shares personal experiences with death and highlights the importance of having conversations about death and end-of-life choices. Rebecca emphasizes the value of resilience and positive psychology in the grieving process. She also talks about the significance of legacy letters and the need for open discussions about death and dying. Rebecca encourages listeners to embrace the gift of each day and find purpose in their lives.

Rebecca is the Executive Director of Northwest Center for Creative Aging
(NWCCA) and brings wisdom and purpose to her work with the aging community. She retired from a 21 year career at Boeing as a writer, curriculum designer and
leadership development coach. Her Encore Career uses her knowledge and
experience to offer programs and resources related to Creative Aging in the Seattle area. NWCCA collaborates monthly with Seattle’s Town Hall.

Rebecca facilitates Wisdom Cafes for the King County Library System and writes a regular column for Third Act Magazine.

Trained as a Hospice Volunteer, Rebecca continues to teach and facilitate Grief and Resilience support groups for several organizations. Rebecca has master’s degrees in child development and organizational development and is a Certified Coach.

Resources we discussed:

Northwest Center for Creative Aging
Food and Finality
Death over Dinner
3 Secrets of Reslilient People - TedTalk by Lucy Hone
Resilient Grieving - Book by Lucy Hone
Martin Seligman - Positive Psychology Center

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Today we're very happy to be able to share a conversation with two friends, Diana & Luc

Diana O'Riordan Verschoor, who also goes by Dee, is an eco folk artist living in the Colorado on Cheyenne, Ute, and Arapaho ancestral land. Dee's small business, Thimble and Stone, supports collective liberation through functional folk arts, placing an emphasis on ritual and wellness. One of Dee's artistic focuses is on painting simple, nature-inspired designs onto eco-cremation urns using natural pigments.

Luc Nadeau is an entrepreneur, artist, and freelance ecologist living in Longmont, Colorado. He started Nature's Casket in 2008 to provide eco-friendly caskets and urns.

In this conversation, Luc and Dee discuss their work in the field of eco-friendly caskets and urns. Luc is the founder of Nature's Casket, which provides eco-friendly burial options, while Dee is an artist who paints nature-inspired designs on eco-cremation urns. They talk about their personal experiences with death, the beauty of using beetle-kill wood for their creations, the challenges they face, and the joy they find in their work. They also discuss the importance of green burial options and the need for more awareness and support in this field.

Here is a link to Diane’s art gallery where you will find photos of the painted caskets and urns.

For the coffin Luc and she were talking about, you have to click the plus sign to load more photos to see it.

The Green Burial Council

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Today we have an opportunity to share a conversation with Dr. Amelia Phillips, a black woman working in a variety of fields dominated by white men including Engineering Information technology and real estate.
Dr. Phillips  is a graduate of the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) with a BS degree in Astronautical Engineering and a BS in Archaeology along with an MBA in Technology Management from the University of Phoenix. She completed her PhD at the University of Alaska Fairbanks in Computer Security.
She has also managed rock bands, worked on an assembly line; has been a real estate broker, computer consultant, and hard money lender.
She was a Fulbright Scholar at the Polytechnic of Namibia and returned there over the course of more than a decade as they grew to become the Namibia University of Science and Technology (NUST).
Dr. Phillips, a black woman with a diverse background, shares her unique life experiences and perspectives on death and dying. She reflects on the impact of her mother's death at a young age and how it shaped her outlook on life.
Dr. Phillips discusses the African American view of death and the role of funerals in the community. She also talks about her current work, challenges she faces, and her desire to leave a lasting impact on the world.
Dr. Phillips discusses how she feels supported at the end of life. She talks about the importance of having good friends and accountability partners who provide emotional support and keep her motivated. She also emphasizes the significance of staying connected with spiritual practices and preparing for the next transition.
The conversation touches on the fear of leaving a messy living space after death and the importance of decluttering and simplifying one's belongings. The idea of gifting meaningful items to friends and community members is also discussed as a way to pass on cherished mementos.

https://www.sfltimes.com/news/black-news-news/origins-and-history-of-the-black-funeral-service

https://blogs.loc.gov/inside_adams/2021/02/african-american-funeral-homes/

https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/01/black-funeral-homes-mourning/426807/

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

Twana Sparks MD is a semi-retired ear, nose and throat surgeon and writer.  She is a native New Mexican and 1986 graduate of the University of New Mexico Medical School. 
Dr. Twana Sparks excels at oral histories mixed with scientific information. Her books on Medical Aid in Dying (2024) and Tuberculosis treatment (2013) blend the personal with the process.
She was raised in a large family in New Mexico and by age 12 she had a  bucket list that included but was not limited to:  become  a doctor, write a book, walk across America, go around the world, and learn to surf. Due to a charmed and blessed life she got to do it all and much more including stand-up comedy, adoptive mother and grandma, music maker and a  volunteer firefighter. In 2022, she began supporting those choosing medical aid in dying.
She explains the importance of terminology and the distinction between medical aid in dying, euthanasia, and suicide. She shares her role in educating patients and the public about medical aid in dying and providing support to those who choose it.
In this conversation, Twana Sparks discusses her work as a prescriber for medical aid in dying and the challenges she faces. She shares that one challenge is the repetition of the process and the need to keep each experience impactful and meaningful.
Twana also discusses the surprises she has encountered in her work, including the realization that people die how they live and the increasing interest in voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED) as a way to end life.
Ping Pong Balls & Donkey's Milk: A History of Tuberculosis in Fort Bayard New Mexico by Twana Sparks MD
The VSED Handbook: A Practical Guide to Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

On today’s episode we have a wonderful conversation with Isabel Knight. Isabel is the Founder of The Death Designer, a company that provides end-of-life planning services, including funeral and vigil planning, digital account password management, advance directives, and assistance with reconciling fears of mortality. She takes a human-centered design approach, with a focus on promoting individual autonomy, sustainability, and home deathcare options. Her goal is to create a more humane and equitable end-of-life experience for all.
 
She is also the President of the National Home Funeral Alliance, a board member of the Funeral Consumers Alliance of Pennsylvania, and the Program Director for the Jewish Association for Death Education. She helps doulas and death-positive businesses create a more inclusive and accessible experience for their clients through human-centered design workshops and also creates online courses and offers freelance graphic design work.
 
In this episode, Isabel discusses her work in end-of-life planning and the challenges she faces in the death care industry. She shares her personal experience with death and how it has influenced her approach to life. Isabel emphasizes the importance of human-centered design and creating a more inclusive and accessible end-of-life experience.
 
She also discusses the need to break the monopoly in the casket industry and the role of gatekeepers in the death care space. Isabel highlights the changing landscape of death care, with more young, progressive, and diverse individuals entering the field.
 
In this conversation, Isabel Knight discusses the importance of celebrating life and the need for community support during times of grief and loss. She emphasizes the value of co-creating and sharing the responsibility of planning and organizing end-of-life events. Isabel also highlights the need to redefine societal norms around death and dying, encouraging people to have open conversations and make plans in advance. She suggests hosting parties and gatherings to discuss and plan for end-of-life care and funeral arrangements. Isabel also touches on the broader societal implications of valuing emotional labor and the importance of community support. 

You can find her on Instagram at @thedeathdesigner.
National Home Funeral Alliance
Green Burial Council
The Death Designer

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This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode we got to spend time with Brie Smith. Brie is the longest-standing employee at Return Home, a leader in the new (but old) practice of terramation or body composting. She first served as Director of Services, then as COO, and now she is responsible for overseeing Return Home’s community outreach initiatives, including both their in-person and online efforts.

She is also the General Manager of Return Home’s newest venture, TerraPets.  With TerraPets she works to offer terramation to families who have lost their beloved pets. Finally, Brie is the “voice” of Return Home, delivering their message of sustainable death care to both traditional media and social media alike.

After beginning her work in the funeral industry in 2011 doing death calls, she quickly found a passion for helping people during one of the most challenging times of their lives. With an immediate knack for gentle guidance and a complete lack of judgment, Brie found herself feeling deep compassion for every single decedent and each one of their family members. Because of this sincerity, she has been able to continue providing excellent support to each family that she encounters, whether working with humans or pets.

While Brie originally joined the Return Home team to challenge her professional aptitude, she quickly found herself passionate about the science behind the natural breakdown of the body. Always up for a new adventure, Brie has been given the opportunity to dive deep into the process of composting. She takes joy in learning about the intricacies that make each terramation successful. Her passion to deliver an industry-leading standard of care, combined with her vigor to learn and adapt to difficult situations, has made her a skilled executive of our team.

She discusses her journey in the funeral industry and her passion for sustainable death care. She shares her experiences with traditional funeral practices and the challenges she faced in providing meaningful support to grieving families. Brie also talks about her role at Return Home, where she focuses on empowering families and offering alternative options such as terramation. She emphasizes the importance of education and resources in helping people make informed decisions about end-of-life care. In this conversation, Brie discusses the lack of support and resources for professionals in the funeral industry. She shares how she has created a community and support system through her work at Return Home and the Death Darlings group. Brie also talks about her own fears abou

Support the show

This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode you can view as a video podcast on YouTube or on Spotify
 
Annalouiza and Wakil discuss the first twenty episodes from Season One and all of the profound and inspirational insights that we learned from our guests.

We also talk about what is coming in Season Two, including a new website and new video offerings for paid subscribers that will include discussions of some of the episodes, short classes on preparing for end-of-life, role-playing ways that you can communicate about grief and loss, and examples of what you might experience as a care giver for someone who is dying. 
Summary

In the first season of the podcast, we explored the impact of death on people's lives and the challenges of discussing death in our culture. We found that many people had experiences of death in their childhood that were not acknowledged, leading to a disconnect with death later in life. The fear and discomfort around death were attributed to societal pressures and the saturation of death-related images in the media. We also discovered that nature and community were important resources for people in navigating death and grief. We emphasized the importance of open communication, forgiveness, and expressing love to prepare for the end of life.

Support the show

This podcast helps anyone dealing with loss. It can guide you with end-of-life planning and death-positive resources.

Check out our introductory episode to learn more about Annalouiza, Wakil, and our vision/mission to normalize and destigmatize conversations about death, dying, grief, and loss.

You can find us on SubStack, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, and BlueSky. You are also invited to subscribe to support us financially. Anyone who supports us at any level will have access to Premium content, special online meet-ups, and one-on-one time with Annalouiza or Wakil.

And we would love your feedback and want to hear your stories. You can email us at endoflifeconvo@gmail.com.

In this episode we meet Dr. Janice Lundy, who is a grief support specialist and a grief educator. She is the founder of the Metta Center, which offers specialized training in spiritual direction, also known as spiritual companionship, including one-of-a-kind grief companionship training. Having experienced a great deal of loss in her own life, she knows firsthand the transformative power of healing through grief.

Jan is a celebrated author and lifelong educator who currently serves as the Gerald May Professor of Spiritual Direction and Counseling at the Graduate Theological Foundation. For the past 20 years, she has hosted a vibrant private client practice as well, specializing in spiritual direction, pastoral counseling, and grief companionship. She holds a Doctor of Psychology degree in Pastoral Logotherapy, which she incorporates into all her work.

Logotherapy is the therapy of meaning established by Dr. Victor Frankel, author of Man's Search for Meaning. Jan believes that navigating grief, loss, and life's many challenges with the support of a non -non-judgmental, compassionate companion can help us connect with greater meaning and purpose in life.

In our conversation, Jan shares her journey of becoming a grief companion after experiencing personal loss. She emphasizes the transformative power of grief and the importance of companioning others through their grief journeys. Jan explains that a grief companion walks alongside a grieving individual, offering deep listening, presence, and unconditional love. She distinguishes between grief companioning and grief counseling, highlighting the role of each in supporting those who are grieving. Jan also discusses the sacred nature of grief and the impact of grief work on our understanding of death.

Links
Grief Companion Center Website
Spiritual Guidance, Education & Counseling - www.JanLundy.com
Dr. Raymond Moody's Life after Life website
Dr. Alan Wolfelt - from the Center for Loss and Life Transition
Viktor Frankl's Books
George Bonanno's Website