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  <description><![CDATA[<p>Phoenix rises: It isn't the ash that IS your life; it is the rising from the ash that makes life fertile.<br>In this podcast, I share how I relearned to live based on the present.&nbsp;<br>Frequently I give short episodes with food for thought.&nbsp;<br>Or I interview another phoenix who faced obstacles and moved beyond them. The real thing: because we get more from what and how we learn, than the pretended positivity.<br>As a HeartBraincoach and HeartAmbassador, I love to explore with curiosity the unexpected perspectives in redesigning your life as a phoenix.<br>If you want to know more about me: www.nienkevanbezooijen.com<br><br>Courage to move on from the past,<br>Trust to be with the present,<br>Rise to create a new future<br><br>I love questions from my audience that I can use as a topic. &nbsp;<br>heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p><p><br></p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What happens when physical hearing fades, but your capacity to listen deepens? In this episode of The Phoenix Frequencies, I share a deeply personal milestone: stepping back into the audiology testing room after becoming deaf following surgery in 2020. What started as a physiological challenge to optimise neuroplasticity led to an unexpected breakthrough—and the exciting prospect of a bone-conduction device (BCD). But this journey goes far beyond technology. Through years of silence, I discov...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when physical hearing fades, but your capacity to listen deepens?</p><p>In this episode of <b>The Phoenix Frequencies</b>, I share a deeply personal milestone: stepping back into the audiology testing room after becoming deaf following surgery in 2020. What started as a physiological challenge to optimise neuroplasticity led to an unexpected breakthrough—and the exciting prospect of a bone-conduction device (BCD).</p><p>But this journey goes far beyond technology. Through years of silence, I discovered that hearing is only half the story. Most people who are capable of hearing have lost the true capacity to listen, often trapped by past experiences or drowned out by a loud inner voice acting as a protective shield.</p><p>True listening requires moving past old triggers and tuning into the <b>neutral heart</b>.</p><ul><li><em>When was the last time your inner voice got too loud to truly hear what was being said around you?</em></li></ul><p><em>#ThePhoenixFrequencies #Resilience #Neuroplasticity #HeartCoherence #PersonalGrowth #Heartfull #Neutrality</em></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 12 Stop fixing, start facilitating</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 12 Stop fixing, start facilitating</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Stop Fixing, Start Facilitating Seven years ago today, Nienke had her first brain tumour surgery. The anaesthetics failed, the tumour couldn't be fully removed — and yet the disruption she'd been living with seemed to resolve anyway.  In this episode of Phoenix Frequencies, she explores why: the difference between fixing (forcing a result, chasing credit, suppressing the signal) and facilitating (partnering with discomfort so real healing can unfold on its own terms and sustain). She tak...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><b>Stop Fixing, Start Facilitating</b></p><p>Seven years ago today, Nienke had her first brain tumour surgery. The anaesthetics failed, the tumour couldn&apos;t be fully removed — and yet the disruption she&apos;d been living with seemed to resolve anyway. <br/>In this episode of Phoenix Frequencies, she explores why: the difference between fixing (forcing a result, chasing credit, suppressing the signal) and facilitating (partnering with discomfort so real healing can unfold on its own terms and sustain).</p><p>She takes that same lens into business. We reach for another change-management tool, another consultant, another quick fix — and the KPIs might look better on the outside, while the engine underneath stays uncured. Absenteeism, disengagement, friction: these aren&apos;t problems to fix. They&apos;re signals asking for a different relationship to create a different outcome.</p><p>Before your next intervention, ask yourself: am I trying to fix this, or trying to transform it through facilitation instead?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Stop Fixing, Start Facilitating</b></p><p>Seven years ago today, Nienke had her first brain tumour surgery. The anaesthetics failed, the tumour couldn&apos;t be fully removed — and yet the disruption she&apos;d been living with seemed to resolve anyway. <br/>In this episode of Phoenix Frequencies, she explores why: the difference between fixing (forcing a result, chasing credit, suppressing the signal) and facilitating (partnering with discomfort so real healing can unfold on its own terms and sustain).</p><p>She takes that same lens into business. We reach for another change-management tool, another consultant, another quick fix — and the KPIs might look better on the outside, while the engine underneath stays uncured. Absenteeism, disengagement, friction: these aren&apos;t problems to fix. They&apos;re signals asking for a different relationship to create a different outcome.</p><p>Before your next intervention, ask yourself: am I trying to fix this, or trying to transform it through facilitation instead?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When the Heat Is On: Navigating Crisis Through True Care and Instinct What happens when the heat is on in your life, your career, or your business? When unexpected crises strike- physically, emotionally, or in business- KPIs fall short, and stakeholders start to complain? Do you get trapped by panic?  In this episode, Nienke explores how we respond under extreme pressure. Using a powerful metaphor inspired by a nature reserve in Spain during severe wildfires, this episode examines the pr...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When the Heat Is On: Navigating Crisis Through True Care and Instinct</p><p>What happens when the heat is on in your life, your career, or your business? When unexpected crises strike- physically, emotionally, or in business- KPIs fall short, and stakeholders start to complain? Do you get trapped by panic? </p><p>In this episode, Nienke explores how we respond under extreme pressure. Using a powerful metaphor inspired by a nature reserve in Spain during severe wildfires, this episode examines the profound difference between <b>overcare</b> (acting from fear, force, and agenda) and <b>true care</b> (acting from neutrality, intuition, and deep instinct).</p><p>Key Takeaways are:</p><ul><li><b>The Wisdom of Instinct:</b> Discover how the bison in Spain survived a raging inferno not by overthinking, but by following an ancient, instinctual rhythm of creating a safe, neutral area of protection.</li><li><b>Care vs Overcare:</b> Learn to recognise whether your response to high-pressure situations drains your energy through forced control, or preserves your capacity through pure, agenda-free presence.</li><li><b>Holding Space Without an Agenda:</b> Explore how stepping back and allowing space can completely shift outcomes in high-stakes personal and professional environments.</li></ul><p>Are you ready to pause, step out of the panic, and find the frequency of true resilience through care and neutrality?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When the Heat Is On: Navigating Crisis Through True Care and Instinct</p><p>What happens when the heat is on in your life, your career, or your business? When unexpected crises strike- physically, emotionally, or in business- KPIs fall short, and stakeholders start to complain? Do you get trapped by panic? </p><p>In this episode, Nienke explores how we respond under extreme pressure. Using a powerful metaphor inspired by a nature reserve in Spain during severe wildfires, this episode examines the profound difference between <b>overcare</b> (acting from fear, force, and agenda) and <b>true care</b> (acting from neutrality, intuition, and deep instinct).</p><p>Key Takeaways are:</p><ul><li><b>The Wisdom of Instinct:</b> Discover how the bison in Spain survived a raging inferno not by overthinking, but by following an ancient, instinctual rhythm of creating a safe, neutral area of protection.</li><li><b>Care vs Overcare:</b> Learn to recognise whether your response to high-pressure situations drains your energy through forced control, or preserves your capacity through pure, agenda-free presence.</li><li><b>Holding Space Without an Agenda:</b> Explore how stepping back and allowing space can completely shift outcomes in high-stakes personal and professional environments.</li></ul><p>Are you ready to pause, step out of the panic, and find the frequency of true resilience through care and neutrality?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 10 The comfortable uncomfortable</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Our nervous systems are hardwired to seek comfort, safety, and predictability. But what happens when the "inconvenient truth" shatters our carefully built routines? Often, our default is to retreat into denial, blame, or fight-or-flight, freeze-or-fawn mode. What if we shifted from reaction to creation? In this episode, I explore how stepping out of our comfort zone isn't a threat—it’s the ultimate portal to resilience, personal growth, and redesigning our lives from the inside out. How movin...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Our nervous systems are hardwired to seek comfort, safety, and predictability. But what happens when the &quot;inconvenient truth&quot; shatters our carefully built routines? Often, our default is to retreat into denial, blame, or fight-or-flight, freeze-or-fawn mode.</p><p>What if we shifted from reaction to creation?</p><p>In this episode, I explore how stepping out of our comfort zone isn&apos;t a threat—it’s the ultimate portal to resilience, personal growth, and redesigning our lives from the inside out.</p><p>How moving past the illusion of safety and embracing the unpredictable helps you create a new baseline of what feels &apos;good to you &apos;. Because you train your nervous system differently than survival of victimhood. </p><p>Are you a controller from fear or a conductor of possibilities?  <br/>Choosing to step into your power as the conscious creator of your own life.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re navigating a major life shift, dealing with uncertainty, or simply looking to live more authentically in the present moment, this episode is an invitation to rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Our nervous systems are hardwired to seek comfort, safety, and predictability. But what happens when the &quot;inconvenient truth&quot; shatters our carefully built routines? Often, our default is to retreat into denial, blame, or fight-or-flight, freeze-or-fawn mode.</p><p>What if we shifted from reaction to creation?</p><p>In this episode, I explore how stepping out of our comfort zone isn&apos;t a threat—it’s the ultimate portal to resilience, personal growth, and redesigning our lives from the inside out.</p><p>How moving past the illusion of safety and embracing the unpredictable helps you create a new baseline of what feels &apos;good to you &apos;. Because you train your nervous system differently than survival of victimhood. </p><p>Are you a controller from fear or a conductor of possibilities?  <br/>Choosing to step into your power as the conscious creator of your own life.</p><p>Whether you&apos;re navigating a major life shift, dealing with uncertainty, or simply looking to live more authentically in the present moment, this episode is an invitation to rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 9 The Indigo Perspective</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Moving from the 'Controller' to the 'Conductor': Embracing the Indigo Perspective. Have you ever noticed what happens to your focus when pressure mounts? We instantly snap into a sharp, analytical tunnel vision. While useful for deadlines, this high-stress state shuts down our deepest asset: our intuition. In the latest episode of The Phoenix Frequencies Podcast, we explore a different way of navigating complex environments—The Indigo Perspective. Indigo is a threshold frequency. It lives rig...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><b>Moving from the &apos;Controller&apos; to the &apos;Conductor&apos;: Embracing the Indigo Perspective.</b></p><p>Have you ever noticed what happens to your focus when pressure mounts? We instantly snap into a sharp, analytical tunnel vision. While useful for deadlines, this high-stress state shuts down our deepest asset: our intuition.</p><p>In the latest episode of <b>The Phoenix Frequencies Podcast</b>, we explore a different way of navigating complex environments—<b>The Indigo Perspective</b>.</p><p>Indigo is a threshold frequency. It lives right between the tangible, rational world and the deeper, invisible layers of consciousness. It is the shift from a hyper-focused mind to a &apos;soft focus,&apos; allowing us to view things from the inside out.</p><p>When we consciously soften our gaze and quiet the inner noise, something beautiful happens within our nervous system:</p><ul><li>We shift from mere action to deep perception.</li><li>We stop just hearing words and begin to read the larger dynamics in the room.</li><li>The internal <b>controller</b> makes way for the <b>conductor</b>—the leader who tunes into the larger field and dares to follow the flow of the whole.</li></ul><p>Deliberately, at the summer solstice, this episode is a personal reflection on grounding, stabilisation, and the creation of a new foundation for leadership through collaboration and deep listening.</p><p>It takes: ✨ <b>Courage</b> to move on from the past, ✨ <b>Trust</b> to be fully present, ✨ <b>The willingness to Rise</b> to create a new future.</p><p>🎧 <b>Listen to the full episode now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Buzzsprout</b></p><p>#ThePhoenixFrequencies #IndigoPerspective #HeartCenteredLeadership  #Resilience #SoftFocus  #SystemicWisdom </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Moving from the &apos;Controller&apos; to the &apos;Conductor&apos;: Embracing the Indigo Perspective.</b></p><p>Have you ever noticed what happens to your focus when pressure mounts? We instantly snap into a sharp, analytical tunnel vision. While useful for deadlines, this high-stress state shuts down our deepest asset: our intuition.</p><p>In the latest episode of <b>The Phoenix Frequencies Podcast</b>, we explore a different way of navigating complex environments—<b>The Indigo Perspective</b>.</p><p>Indigo is a threshold frequency. It lives right between the tangible, rational world and the deeper, invisible layers of consciousness. It is the shift from a hyper-focused mind to a &apos;soft focus,&apos; allowing us to view things from the inside out.</p><p>When we consciously soften our gaze and quiet the inner noise, something beautiful happens within our nervous system:</p><ul><li>We shift from mere action to deep perception.</li><li>We stop just hearing words and begin to read the larger dynamics in the room.</li><li>The internal <b>controller</b> makes way for the <b>conductor</b>—the leader who tunes into the larger field and dares to follow the flow of the whole.</li></ul><p>Deliberately, at the summer solstice, this episode is a personal reflection on grounding, stabilisation, and the creation of a new foundation for leadership through collaboration and deep listening.</p><p>It takes: ✨ <b>Courage</b> to move on from the past, ✨ <b>Trust</b> to be fully present, ✨ <b>The willingness to Rise</b> to create a new future.</p><p>🎧 <b>Listen to the full episode now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Buzzsprout</b></p><p>#ThePhoenixFrequencies #IndigoPerspective #HeartCenteredLeadership  #Resilience #SoftFocus  #SystemicWisdom </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><em>&quot;Courage to move from the past. Trust to be with the present. Rise to create a new future.&quot;</em></p><p>These are the words at the heart of everything I do here — and today, they couldn&apos;t feel more alive.</p><p>This episode is recorded on Pentecost — a day of purifying fire, of breath, of new beginnings. A day that, centuries ago, was explained to the ancient world through the image of the phoenix: rising, immortal, a sudden miraculous beginning of a new cycle, a new life. Breaking free from earthly limitations to fulfil a higher purpose. Another frequency to embody. </p><p>Today, I announce the closing of one chapter. Presentation Master. Performance.<br/>And created from within: the official founding of Phoenix Mastery BV /Ltd.          The love is too deep. It can&apos;t be ignored any longer. <br/>It&apos;s time to walk the talk, also in business. </p><p><em>What do you love so much that you could move mountains to create that path?</em></p><p>Because rising isn&apos;t about courage. It&apos;s about love. The love for life itself — your inner fire, with wind beneath your wings.</p><p>This is Phoenixing. Not just a concept. A verb. An active choice you make from within.</p><p>Welcome to Rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>&quot;Courage to move from the past. Trust to be with the present. Rise to create a new future.&quot;</em></p><p>These are the words at the heart of everything I do here — and today, they couldn&apos;t feel more alive.</p><p>This episode is recorded on Pentecost — a day of purifying fire, of breath, of new beginnings. A day that, centuries ago, was explained to the ancient world through the image of the phoenix: rising, immortal, a sudden miraculous beginning of a new cycle, a new life. Breaking free from earthly limitations to fulfil a higher purpose. Another frequency to embody. </p><p>Today, I announce the closing of one chapter. Presentation Master. Performance.<br/>And created from within: the official founding of Phoenix Mastery BV /Ltd.          The love is too deep. It can&apos;t be ignored any longer. <br/>It&apos;s time to walk the talk, also in business. </p><p><em>What do you love so much that you could move mountains to create that path?</em></p><p>Because rising isn&apos;t about courage. It&apos;s about love. The love for life itself — your inner fire, with wind beneath your wings.</p><p>This is Phoenixing. Not just a concept. A verb. An active choice you make from within.</p><p>Welcome to Rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Individual Intention to Collective Coherence: Are you ready for the "Point of No Return"?  We all know the drill: the goals we set at the start of the year. But is your intention merely a "quick fix" because you want to escape something, or are you choosing a fundamental transformation? Transformation is like a boiled egg: it cannot go back to its original state. It is new. It is Phoenixed.  In the latest episode of The Phoenix Frequencies, I share how my personal intention—focused on co...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Individual Intention to Collective Coherence: Are you ready for the &quot;Point of No Return&quot;? <br/>We all know the drill: the goals we set at the start of the year. But is your intention merely a &quot;quick fix&quot; because you want to escape something, or are you choosing a fundamental transformation?<br/>Transformation is like a boiled egg: it cannot go back to its original state. It is new. It is Phoenixed.<br/><br/>In the latest episode of The Phoenix Frequencies, I share how my personal intention—focused on connection and co-creation—became a reality within just six weeks. Not by working harder, but by acting from a place of inner coherence. This shift led me directly to the co-founders of the Field Intelligence Tribe (FIT).</p><p>Starting over with all I bring from my previous life.  As an experience-based professional, I see the urgent need for organisations to become truly &quot;FIT.&quot; No longer by simply trying to fix what is broken, but by feeding the Field with a new way of listening and the moral courage to lead differently. </p><p>That&apos;s how an individual intention can transform the world for many into a new paradigm. Are you ready? Check it out at <a href='https://fieldintelligencetribe.com/'>the website of F.I.T. The Field Intelligence Tribe </a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Individual Intention to Collective Coherence: Are you ready for the &quot;Point of No Return&quot;? <br/>We all know the drill: the goals we set at the start of the year. But is your intention merely a &quot;quick fix&quot; because you want to escape something, or are you choosing a fundamental transformation?<br/>Transformation is like a boiled egg: it cannot go back to its original state. It is new. It is Phoenixed.<br/><br/>In the latest episode of The Phoenix Frequencies, I share how my personal intention—focused on connection and co-creation—became a reality within just six weeks. Not by working harder, but by acting from a place of inner coherence. This shift led me directly to the co-founders of the Field Intelligence Tribe (FIT).</p><p>Starting over with all I bring from my previous life.  As an experience-based professional, I see the urgent need for organisations to become truly &quot;FIT.&quot; No longer by simply trying to fix what is broken, but by feeding the Field with a new way of listening and the moral courage to lead differently. </p><p>That&apos;s how an individual intention can transform the world for many into a new paradigm. Are you ready? Check it out at <a href='https://fieldintelligencetribe.com/'>the website of F.I.T. The Field Intelligence Tribe </a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 6 Featuring Drahomira Mandiková: Leadership Requires the Willingness to Unlearn</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What do you do when the leadership style that made you successful for 25 years suddenly stops working? Drahomira Mandiková shares her phoenix moment in leadership. A big shift creates an impact in the workplace and is reflected in our personal behaviours as well.  That is the Phoenix lesson she brings in this episode: “Sometimes growth is not about adding skills. It’s about letting an old version of yourself burn - so a more adaptable leader can rise.   And today, I know that leadership ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What do you do when the leadership style that made you successful for 25 years suddenly stops working? Drahomira Mandiková shares her phoenix moment in leadership. A big shift creates an impact in the workplace and is reflected in our personal behaviours as well. <br/>That is the Phoenix lesson she brings in this episode: <em>“Sometimes growth is not about adding skills. It’s about letting an old version of yourself burn - so a more adaptable leader can rise.  <br/>And today, I know that leadership is not universal. And the most powerful leaders are those willing to be reborn”.</em></p><p>About Drahomira:</p><p>Drahomira Mandiková is the Group Chief Corporate Affairs Officer at Asahi Group Holding, based in Tokyo. Her career in the beer industry began 26 years ago in Slovakia, her home country, and has since spanned roles at the company’s European headquarters, in India, and now in Japan. Her work is driven by a purpose to navigate a shifting business environment by broadening the conversation from short‑term profitability to long‑term sustainability. She brings a global perspective to how companies can remain successful and bring positive impact. In her current role, Drahomira is closely involved in facilitating the transformation of a Japanese company into a truly global organisation—bridging cultures, aligning leadership across regions, and supporting change at the enterprise level. She is known as a connector who brings people together around shared purpose and impact.<br/> Drahomíra Mandíková, a senior global sustainability executive, is one of the leaders recognised in Sustainability Magazine’s Top 250 Women in Sustainability (2026) list, ranked 68. You can see the full report <a href='https://fifjijb.r.af.d.sendibt2.com/tr/cl/zanNoqrhY8Kt94L0kru3pIEt_TiHrXihIKXqcqAK7geKDr2mrrDaqiYjHCjx_pzSjm4y7iwIfCIg6MOHBKHJC5eUamQwIKlpoU7_mxQGOmO2_IYogwNFbwT6CTi77ZsjPGUIR7MTEIlLHNGMgLFBloVDeHObjMip63W8S5Elw6g1CQ0rtPbS3ZWOh4-SPp6r5udu3erimy_Xjhqi39Z_HFKNRzrSs-9Fy2nVWpv3Myf4XLXMtAFJZc-BN0Tmok2vkC02AjhjhA4FaLKM58VEkA-2XEO3l3NnzxZvJzBzqRi2965qtR426YTA9EIn3dQujjH-dt9bgTDIVxnxxufY5cSQjSKXU3mrXPQBFYtv72V-zp4FkYL0-vrUTgWXHvOjNfUv'>here</a>, and a link to the ‘Out Now’ post is <a href='https://fifjijb.r.af.d.sendibt2.com/tr/cl/btEMx0xluapVYiCJ66IgnS6aqtCdHzwlMeruhG3p40XTem0kMKMWosYTfWbsSKtrTsJ47_SWdGNs6nrTaaMng-SAigraDOQ2UuvzuMo1mqSpysz3yWMVczlyGfheYzQzRzau9wiOTlmR86g5StxG-3F7ETSCfgqF8S70hONmoH3CSAg5JDir27gSpM3rDvaglmrgzSqpl-H7kUOYDfLdFzUlJ7uoCZ_oI_5gtbB5Ivksa10jF_NUi765UIFCh9GlvqbOPYuo5aLOCM_Nvja6xVSHcaHn3Mjac4tcID-kuZ-WRiuv45wLc1eR9-Dnj8DVBlhdCV74UpBPVj0JsUVOLTC-fkVrvogFkV-8vKSmA1aV1N7oiRLsLGgDtYZm'>here</a>. </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/mandikova-drahomira-25a012a/'>LinkedIn </a></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you do when the leadership style that made you successful for 25 years suddenly stops working? Drahomira Mandiková shares her phoenix moment in leadership. A big shift creates an impact in the workplace and is reflected in our personal behaviours as well. <br/>That is the Phoenix lesson she brings in this episode: <em>“Sometimes growth is not about adding skills. It’s about letting an old version of yourself burn - so a more adaptable leader can rise.  <br/>And today, I know that leadership is not universal. And the most powerful leaders are those willing to be reborn”.</em></p><p>About Drahomira:</p><p>Drahomira Mandiková is the Group Chief Corporate Affairs Officer at Asahi Group Holding, based in Tokyo. Her career in the beer industry began 26 years ago in Slovakia, her home country, and has since spanned roles at the company’s European headquarters, in India, and now in Japan. Her work is driven by a purpose to navigate a shifting business environment by broadening the conversation from short‑term profitability to long‑term sustainability. She brings a global perspective to how companies can remain successful and bring positive impact. In her current role, Drahomira is closely involved in facilitating the transformation of a Japanese company into a truly global organisation—bridging cultures, aligning leadership across regions, and supporting change at the enterprise level. She is known as a connector who brings people together around shared purpose and impact.<br/> Drahomíra Mandíková, a senior global sustainability executive, is one of the leaders recognised in Sustainability Magazine’s Top 250 Women in Sustainability (2026) list, ranked 68. You can see the full report <a href='https://fifjijb.r.af.d.sendibt2.com/tr/cl/zanNoqrhY8Kt94L0kru3pIEt_TiHrXihIKXqcqAK7geKDr2mrrDaqiYjHCjx_pzSjm4y7iwIfCIg6MOHBKHJC5eUamQwIKlpoU7_mxQGOmO2_IYogwNFbwT6CTi77ZsjPGUIR7MTEIlLHNGMgLFBloVDeHObjMip63W8S5Elw6g1CQ0rtPbS3ZWOh4-SPp6r5udu3erimy_Xjhqi39Z_HFKNRzrSs-9Fy2nVWpv3Myf4XLXMtAFJZc-BN0Tmok2vkC02AjhjhA4FaLKM58VEkA-2XEO3l3NnzxZvJzBzqRi2965qtR426YTA9EIn3dQujjH-dt9bgTDIVxnxxufY5cSQjSKXU3mrXPQBFYtv72V-zp4FkYL0-vrUTgWXHvOjNfUv'>here</a>, and a link to the ‘Out Now’ post is <a href='https://fifjijb.r.af.d.sendibt2.com/tr/cl/btEMx0xluapVYiCJ66IgnS6aqtCdHzwlMeruhG3p40XTem0kMKMWosYTfWbsSKtrTsJ47_SWdGNs6nrTaaMng-SAigraDOQ2UuvzuMo1mqSpysz3yWMVczlyGfheYzQzRzau9wiOTlmR86g5StxG-3F7ETSCfgqF8S70hONmoH3CSAg5JDir27gSpM3rDvaglmrgzSqpl-H7kUOYDfLdFzUlJ7uoCZ_oI_5gtbB5Ivksa10jF_NUi765UIFCh9GlvqbOPYuo5aLOCM_Nvja6xVSHcaHn3Mjac4tcID-kuZ-WRiuv45wLc1eR9-Dnj8DVBlhdCV74UpBPVj0JsUVOLTC-fkVrvogFkV-8vKSmA1aV1N7oiRLsLGgDtYZm'>here</a>. </p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/mandikova-drahomira-25a012a/'>LinkedIn </a></p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <description><![CDATA[<p><b>Can you feel the shift?</b> The world we once tried to control is moving beneath our feet. From the crumbling of old-guard power structures to the rigid KPIs that are draining the soul out of our organizations, we are standing in the &quot;ashes&quot; of a collapsing era.</p><p>But in this episode of <b>The Phoenix Frequencies</b>, we’re not just looking at the debris. We’re looking in the mirror.</p><p>As the &quot;Old World&quot; struggles with power, greed, and the rise of AI-driven thought, a new movement is breathing. It’s not a &quot;Big Bang&quot;—it’s the <b>Butterfly Effect</b>. It is the subtle, coherent change of direction within each of us that creates a totally different outcome for the collective.</p><p><b>In this episode, Nienke explores:</b></p><ul><li><b>The KPI Paradox:</b> Why the pursuit of untamed profits is failing our humanity.</li><li><b>Coherence vs. Chaos:</b> How to move beyond &quot;naming, framing, and blaming&quot; to find true heart-centered intention.</li><li><b>The Oxygen Mask Principle:</b> Why your personal transformation is the only way to disarm the unsustainable world around you.</li><li><b>Mirroring the Shadow:</b> Are you creating from a place of anger and suspicion, or from an unshakeable force of love?</li></ul><p>It takes courage to be a butterfly for change in a world that tempts you to become a drone. Are you ready to look into the uncomfortable mirror of your own &quot;response-ability&quot;?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Can you feel the shift?</b> The world we once tried to control is moving beneath our feet. From the crumbling of old-guard power structures to the rigid KPIs that are draining the soul out of our organizations, we are standing in the &quot;ashes&quot; of a collapsing era.</p><p>But in this episode of <b>The Phoenix Frequencies</b>, we’re not just looking at the debris. We’re looking in the mirror.</p><p>As the &quot;Old World&quot; struggles with power, greed, and the rise of AI-driven thought, a new movement is breathing. It’s not a &quot;Big Bang&quot;—it’s the <b>Butterfly Effect</b>. It is the subtle, coherent change of direction within each of us that creates a totally different outcome for the collective.</p><p><b>In this episode, Nienke explores:</b></p><ul><li><b>The KPI Paradox:</b> Why the pursuit of untamed profits is failing our humanity.</li><li><b>Coherence vs. Chaos:</b> How to move beyond &quot;naming, framing, and blaming&quot; to find true heart-centered intention.</li><li><b>The Oxygen Mask Principle:</b> Why your personal transformation is the only way to disarm the unsustainable world around you.</li><li><b>Mirroring the Shadow:</b> Are you creating from a place of anger and suspicion, or from an unshakeable force of love?</li></ul><p>It takes courage to be a butterfly for change in a world that tempts you to become a drone. Are you ready to look into the uncomfortable mirror of your own &quot;response-ability&quot;?</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 4 From Density to Destiny</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you are feeling the density of the world right now—the politics, relationships, work, the stress, or your own health challenges—ask yourself: Am I trying to fight the noise, or am I ready to conduct the music?  Destiny is what happens when you stop resisting the density and start leading the collaboration. It’s about awakening the healthy parts of your life—your joy, your resilience, your inner peace from inner ease—and letting them play so loudly and so purely that the 'ashes' of the past...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you are feeling the density of the world right now—the politics, relationships, work, the stress, or your own health challenges—ask yourself: <em>Am I trying to fight the noise, or am I ready to conduct the music?</em><b><br/> </b>Destiny is what happens when you stop resisting the density and start leading the collaboration. It’s about awakening the healthy parts of your life—your joy, your resilience, your inner peace from inner ease—and letting them play so loudly and so purely that the &apos;ashes&apos; of the past simply fall away.</p><p>Like Nienke saw on her walk this week, a winter forest at dawn, thick with fog and frost. That is density in its purest form—heavy, cold, and obscuring the path. Ice on the ponds, but a ray of light does the mystery work. Alchemy of light, warmth and frost. </p><p>Does the sunlight &apos;attack&apos; the fog? Does it &apos;command&apos; the frost to leave? No. The sun simply rises. As its frequency increases, the density has no resistance. It doesn&apos;t fight; it simply resolves. It dissipates because it cannot exist in that higher state of light.</p><p>From what frequencies are you the conductor within yourself? Density or Destiny is just flipping the letters like a ray of light. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are feeling the density of the world right now—the politics, relationships, work, the stress, or your own health challenges—ask yourself: <em>Am I trying to fight the noise, or am I ready to conduct the music?</em><b><br/> </b>Destiny is what happens when you stop resisting the density and start leading the collaboration. It’s about awakening the healthy parts of your life—your joy, your resilience, your inner peace from inner ease—and letting them play so loudly and so purely that the &apos;ashes&apos; of the past simply fall away.</p><p>Like Nienke saw on her walk this week, a winter forest at dawn, thick with fog and frost. That is density in its purest form—heavy, cold, and obscuring the path. Ice on the ponds, but a ray of light does the mystery work. Alchemy of light, warmth and frost. </p><p>Does the sunlight &apos;attack&apos; the fog? Does it &apos;command&apos; the frost to leave? No. The sun simply rises. As its frequency increases, the density has no resistance. It doesn&apos;t fight; it simply resolves. It dissipates because it cannot exist in that higher state of light.</p><p>From what frequencies are you the conductor within yourself? Density or Destiny is just flipping the letters like a ray of light. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 3 Listening is holding space to rise</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What is the secret of a good listener? They can hold space:  "In the process of rising from the ashes, holding space is the stillness between the fire and the flight. It is the quiet, steady frequency that allows the 'redesign' of a life to take place in a safe and honest environment."   Here is a checklist for you, "Holding Space to Rise". It includes the 7 key steps for clearing your own mental noise, listening for the speaker's "spark," and using silence to help others find ...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is the secret of a good listener? They can hold space:<br/><em> &quot;In the process of rising from the ashes, holding space is the stillness between the fire and the flight. It is the quiet, steady frequency that allows the &apos;redesign&apos; of a life to take place in a safe and honest environment.&quot; </em> <br/>Here is a checklist for you, <b>&quot;Holding Space to Rise&quot;</b>.<br/>It includes the 7 key steps for clearing your own mental noise, listening for the speaker&apos;s &quot;spark,&quot; and using silence to help others find the frequency to rise from the ashes.<br/><b>1. Empty the Vessel:</b> Take a &apos;breath of transition&apos; to clear your own mental noise and biases before the conversation begins.<br/><b>2. Set the Frequency:</b> Intentionally decide to provide a non-judgmental, safe container for the speaker&apos;s true self to emerge. Listen from neutrality.<br/><b>3. Honour the Ashes:</b> Practice radical honesty by validating the weight of their struggle without rushing into &apos;fake positivity&apos; or advice.<br/><b>4. Listen for the Spark:</b> Ignore the &apos;static&apos; of the story and focus on shifts in energy, tone, and check if it&apos;s safe for them to rise or not yet.<b> </b><br/><b>5. Utilise Sacred Silence: </b>After the speaker finishes a thought, wait: allow seconds to be silent. Allow the insight to land in the space for both of you.<br/><b>6. Reflect the True Self</b>: Mirror back the strengths or realisations you hear emerging, rather than enforcing the problems being described: non-judgmental, without the focus on yourself.  <br/><b>7. Check the Heart-Brain Connection:</b> Notice if the speaker (or you) is stuck in the head (logic) and gently ask questions, reflections to include the heart (feeling).<br/><br/>Are you listening? <br/>Or as Manu Keirse describes it—if you think you’ve listened: <b>listen again</b></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 2 The illusion of control</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[As we look at the world today, we see a rapid shift in the global worldview regarding the pursuit of control. We are moving away from claiming power based on the past and toward an attempt to control a new paradigm—one that is often as substantial as the "emperor’s new clothes." Think of the T. rex: an "eat or be eaten" mentality, focused on controlling everything you dislike. But dinosaurs are extinct. Why? Because they could not adapt to a changing environment. Letting Go of the Illusion yo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>As we look at the world today, we see a rapid shift in the global worldview regarding the pursuit of control. We are moving away from claiming power based on the past and toward an attempt to control a new paradigm—one that is often as substantial as the &quot;emperor’s new clothes.&quot;</p><p>Think of the T. rex: an &quot;eat or be eaten&quot; mentality, focused on controlling everything you dislike. But dinosaurs are extinct. Why? Because they could not adapt to a changing environment.</p><p>Letting Go of the Illusion you can control all...</p><p>What happens when you stop focusing all your energy on controlling your life, the lives of others, and the world to fit your personal standards? We often cling to these standards because they make us feel safe, but they are an illusion.</p><p>While A.I. provides us with truths based on past data, we must remain &quot;fit&quot; to trust our inner knowing and intuition (<b>H.I.</b>, or Human Intelligence). We must learn to collaborate rather than relying solely on intellectual understanding.</p><p>It is collaboration that makes the difference, not control. The goal is to become the <b>conductor</b> rather than the <b>controller</b>. Become a master, Maestro, of adapting to the unknown and the unpredictable mystery of life. Or, you can continue to enjoy your &quot;dinosaur life&quot; until the world shifts even further away.</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As we look at the world today, we see a rapid shift in the global worldview regarding the pursuit of control. We are moving away from claiming power based on the past and toward an attempt to control a new paradigm—one that is often as substantial as the &quot;emperor’s new clothes.&quot;</p><p>Think of the T. rex: an &quot;eat or be eaten&quot; mentality, focused on controlling everything you dislike. But dinosaurs are extinct. Why? Because they could not adapt to a changing environment.</p><p>Letting Go of the Illusion you can control all...</p><p>What happens when you stop focusing all your energy on controlling your life, the lives of others, and the world to fit your personal standards? We often cling to these standards because they make us feel safe, but they are an illusion.</p><p>While A.I. provides us with truths based on past data, we must remain &quot;fit&quot; to trust our inner knowing and intuition (<b>H.I.</b>, or Human Intelligence). We must learn to collaborate rather than relying solely on intellectual understanding.</p><p>It is collaboration that makes the difference, not control. The goal is to become the <b>conductor</b> rather than the <b>controller</b>. Become a master, Maestro, of adapting to the unknown and the unpredictable mystery of life. Or, you can continue to enjoy your &quot;dinosaur life&quot; until the world shifts even further away.</p><p><br/></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 1 Do you create from do&#39;s or don&#39;ts? </itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 1 Do you create from do&#39;s or don&#39;ts? </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[A new year, new intentions. Is that a habitual thing you can let go of, what doesn't work, and create something you love so much it goes deeper and stays real?  If you lose weight because you don't like the scale now, be careful, weight might find you again....  Do you dare to change your frequency and step into what is a match for you in this moment? Free from comparison with the past, something you didn't like?  Use what really sparks you to create what you love. Enjoy the jo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>A new year, new intentions. Is that a habitual thing you can let go of, what doesn&apos;t work, and create something you love so much it goes deeper and stays real? </p><p>If you lose weight because you don&apos;t like the scale now, be careful, weight might find you again.... </p><p>Do you dare to change your frequency and step into what is a match for you in this moment? Free from comparison with the past, something you didn&apos;t like? </p><p>Use what really sparks you to create what you love. Enjoy the journey of a new ride this year! </p><p>Don&apos;t set intentions for the reason of setting intentions. Create actions you love to take! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new year, new intentions. Is that a habitual thing you can let go of, what doesn&apos;t work, and create something you love so much it goes deeper and stays real? </p><p>If you lose weight because you don&apos;t like the scale now, be careful, weight might find you again.... </p><p>Do you dare to change your frequency and step into what is a match for you in this moment? Free from comparison with the past, something you didn&apos;t like? </p><p>Use what really sparks you to create what you love. Enjoy the journey of a new ride this year! </p><p>Don&apos;t set intentions for the reason of setting intentions. Create actions you love to take! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 32 The last one, to exchange gifts</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 32 The last one, to exchange gifts</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this last podcast, Nienke invites you to reflect.  What gifts did you get from this year, physically, mentally, emotionally spirtually/in behaviours? In an honest share, she lists her gifts for 2025 across all areas.  Gifts can occur as setbacks; we can take them as invitations to enjoy? Shift your perspectives?   She ends with an inquiry as a gift to you. If you want, you can get it. Not only during this holiday and gift season, but whenever you want.  It's an exchange...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this last podcast, Nienke invites you to reflect. <br/>What gifts did you get from this year, physically, mentally, emotionally spirtually/in behaviours?<br/>In an honest share, she lists her gifts for 2025 across all areas. <br/>Gifts can occur as setbacks; we can take them as invitations to enjoy? Shift your perspectives?  <br/>She ends with an inquiry as a gift to you. If you want, you can get it. Not only during this holiday and gift season, but whenever you want. <br/>It&apos;s an exchange of gifts for those who like to rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this last podcast, Nienke invites you to reflect. <br/>What gifts did you get from this year, physically, mentally, emotionally spirtually/in behaviours?<br/>In an honest share, she lists her gifts for 2025 across all areas. <br/>Gifts can occur as setbacks; we can take them as invitations to enjoy? Shift your perspectives?  <br/>She ends with an inquiry as a gift to you. If you want, you can get it. Not only during this holiday and gift season, but whenever you want. <br/>It&apos;s an exchange of gifts for those who like to rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 31 Existential  crisis to existential growth</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 31 Existential  crisis to existential growth</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[An existential crisis is a period of deep questioning about life's meaning, purpose, and values, often triggered by significant life events or a sense of meaninglessness, which can lead to feelings of anxiety and distress.   Existential growth is the positive transformation that can occur when a person navigates this crisis by reevaluating their life, gaining deeper self-awareness, and aligning their actions with their actual values, leading to increased resilience and authenticity. The crisi...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>An <b>existential crisis</b> is a period of deep questioning about life&apos;s meaning, purpose, and values, often triggered by significant life events or a sense of meaninglessness, which can lead to feelings of anxiety and distress. <br/> <b>Existential growth</b> is the positive transformation that can occur when a person navigates this crisis by reevaluating their life, gaining deeper self-awareness, and aligning their actions with their actual values, leading to increased resilience and authenticity. The crisis is the challenging process of questioning, while growth is the outcome of successfully moving through it. </p><p>This week, Nienke looks at how a dear friend shifted from existential crisis to existential growth. Also, she faced a life event that created awareness: from &apos;Impossible&apos; to &apos;I am possible&apos;. Talent doesn&apos;t get affected by physical disease. </p><p>There is always space for existential growth, no matter what. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>An <b>existential crisis</b> is a period of deep questioning about life&apos;s meaning, purpose, and values, often triggered by significant life events or a sense of meaninglessness, which can lead to feelings of anxiety and distress. <br/> <b>Existential growth</b> is the positive transformation that can occur when a person navigates this crisis by reevaluating their life, gaining deeper self-awareness, and aligning their actions with their actual values, leading to increased resilience and authenticity. The crisis is the challenging process of questioning, while growth is the outcome of successfully moving through it. </p><p>This week, Nienke looks at how a dear friend shifted from existential crisis to existential growth. Also, she faced a life event that created awareness: from &apos;Impossible&apos; to &apos;I am possible&apos;. Talent doesn&apos;t get affected by physical disease. </p><p>There is always space for existential growth, no matter what. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 30 The Labrador Syndrome</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Do you know these individuals who are incredibly loyal and work hard for everyone who asks? Those who become very upset by facing resistance tend to take critique extremely personally. But also comfort themselves with compensation food after serving half the world? Like Labradors. Friendly and social – Intelligent and eager to learn – Loyal and devoted – Gentle and patient –Playful and enthusiastic – Adaptable  But also: A Labrador needs plenty of exercise and stimulation –Food-driven – ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you know these individuals who are incredibly loyal and work hard for everyone who asks? Those who become very upset by facing resistance tend to take critique extremely personally. But also comfort themselves with compensation food after serving half the world? Like Labradors. Friendly and social – Intelligent and eager to learn – Loyal and devoted – Gentle and patient –Playful and enthusiastic – Adaptable </p><p>But also: A Labrador needs plenty of exercise and stimulation –Food-driven – Attention-seeking – (Can suffer from separation anxiety if left alone too long)– Boisterous or clumsy – Their enthusiasm can sometimes be overwhelming. Easily bored (if they have to entertain themselves without stimulation).</p><p>The human Labrador has difficulties with setting and enforcing boundaries; they often love to make others happy, but only until others set a boundary for them. They are so happy to make others happy, it&apos;s affecting their self-esteem if ít doesn&apos;t work as they envisioned. Then they become disappointed, trying to work even harder to please you by nature until they feel you don&apos;t deserve their trust. They try to solve the situations by dominating their desired pleasing outcomes. Being happy feels safe.....</p><p>There&apos;s nothing wrong with the Labrador syndrome as long as there is exchange based on mutual self-worth. If the human Labrador can&apos;t find their true inner drive, don&apos;t collaborate based on their conditions: don&apos;t blame the Labrador, love them with clarity and empowering boundaries.</p><p>How <b>Loyal are you to controlling the outcome? </b></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you know these individuals who are incredibly loyal and work hard for everyone who asks? Those who become very upset by facing resistance tend to take critique extremely personally. But also comfort themselves with compensation food after serving half the world? Like Labradors. Friendly and social – Intelligent and eager to learn – Loyal and devoted – Gentle and patient –Playful and enthusiastic – Adaptable </p><p>But also: A Labrador needs plenty of exercise and stimulation –Food-driven – Attention-seeking – (Can suffer from separation anxiety if left alone too long)– Boisterous or clumsy – Their enthusiasm can sometimes be overwhelming. Easily bored (if they have to entertain themselves without stimulation).</p><p>The human Labrador has difficulties with setting and enforcing boundaries; they often love to make others happy, but only until others set a boundary for them. They are so happy to make others happy, it&apos;s affecting their self-esteem if ít doesn&apos;t work as they envisioned. Then they become disappointed, trying to work even harder to please you by nature until they feel you don&apos;t deserve their trust. They try to solve the situations by dominating their desired pleasing outcomes. Being happy feels safe.....</p><p>There&apos;s nothing wrong with the Labrador syndrome as long as there is exchange based on mutual self-worth. If the human Labrador can&apos;t find their true inner drive, don&apos;t collaborate based on their conditions: don&apos;t blame the Labrador, love them with clarity and empowering boundaries.</p><p>How <b>Loyal are you to controlling the outcome? </b></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 29 Acceptance isn&#39;t giving up</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 29 Acceptance isn&#39;t giving up</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Acceptance is not about giving up; it is about releasing resistance to what you cannot change, so you can move forward with clarity and purpose. While giving up is a cessation of effort, acceptance is a proactive choice to acknowledge reality as it is, which creates a foundation for progress and allows you to respond to challenges with strength and grace.  Reinhold Niebuhr's Serenity prayer says it beautifully. God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Acceptance is not about giving up; it is about releasing resistance to what you cannot change, so you can move forward with clarity and purpose. While giving up is a cessation of effort, acceptance is a proactive choice to acknowledge reality as it is, which creates a foundation for progress and allows you to respond to challenges with strength and grace. </p><p>Reinhold Niebuhr&apos;s Serenity prayer says it beautifully.<br/>God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can,<br/>and the wisdom to know the difference.</p><p>The perception of duality between acceptance and giving up is what we tell ourselves when we are blinded by the &apos;shouldy, wouldy, couldy&apos; in our desired outcomes. </p><p>What if the real power lies in embracing a perspective that aligns with who we are today? What if you start collaborating with the creator in you?  Not from what your mind told you by experience in the past, but by creating your future from the now, so you can rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Acceptance is not about giving up; it is about releasing resistance to what you cannot change, so you can move forward with clarity and purpose. While giving up is a cessation of effort, acceptance is a proactive choice to acknowledge reality as it is, which creates a foundation for progress and allows you to respond to challenges with strength and grace. </p><p>Reinhold Niebuhr&apos;s Serenity prayer says it beautifully.<br/>God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can,<br/>and the wisdom to know the difference.</p><p>The perception of duality between acceptance and giving up is what we tell ourselves when we are blinded by the &apos;shouldy, wouldy, couldy&apos; in our desired outcomes. </p><p>What if the real power lies in embracing a perspective that aligns with who we are today? What if you start collaborating with the creator in you?  Not from what your mind told you by experience in the past, but by creating your future from the now, so you can rise.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 28 Adding a T to the simulation</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 28 Adding a T to the simulation</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We can prepare and train ourselves by using virtual reality, a simulator of reality. Like pilots learn to act in all kinds of situations.  We all use our human simulator as a re-living play. We act in real time based on what we have learned in the past. Or we pretend that how we show up for others is real. How many VR filters do you put on, an Instagrammable life?  We can also use our human simulator in another way. Just add a T to it: a tool, training. In this podcast, Nienke share...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>We can prepare and train ourselves by using virtual reality, a simulator of reality. Like pilots learn to act in all kinds of situations. <br/>We all use our human simulator as a re-living play. We act in real time based on what we have learned in the past. Or we pretend that how we show up for others is real. How many VR filters do you put on, an Instagrammable life? <br/>We can also use our human simulator in another way. Just add a T to it: a tool, training. In this podcast, Nienke shares how we can stay out of overwhelm and unfiltered stress responses in our bodies. Like many Olympic Athletes do. Get real, from simulation to stimulation. <br/>Keep your inner world as fit as you train your outer muscles. That&apos;s not ever now and then. It&apos;s like brushing your teeth: daily practice, an action to keep the results up to date. Strengthen and stimulate your emotional and mental resilience, physical immune system, and wellbeing consistently — by choice.  </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We can prepare and train ourselves by using virtual reality, a simulator of reality. Like pilots learn to act in all kinds of situations. <br/>We all use our human simulator as a re-living play. We act in real time based on what we have learned in the past. Or we pretend that how we show up for others is real. How many VR filters do you put on, an Instagrammable life? <br/>We can also use our human simulator in another way. Just add a T to it: a tool, training. In this podcast, Nienke shares how we can stay out of overwhelm and unfiltered stress responses in our bodies. Like many Olympic Athletes do. Get real, from simulation to stimulation. <br/>Keep your inner world as fit as you train your outer muscles. That&apos;s not ever now and then. It&apos;s like brushing your teeth: daily practice, an action to keep the results up to date. Strengthen and stimulate your emotional and mental resilience, physical immune system, and wellbeing consistently — by choice.  </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 27 For those who stand the hea(r)t of Phoenixing</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This is the 80th episode of the Phoenix Frequencies podcasts, exactly on my fourth anniversary of my re-birthday. It has been an intense ride and inquiry to learn who can stand ánd stay with me. Who can resonate sincerely or pretend by pleasing? Who can hear what I see, even without fully understanding the impact? And the people who can't or couldn't, I can be grateful for the mirror they gave me. I can feel remorseful for the times my view was blurred and I acted as if I was, not what I am, ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This is the 80th episode of the Phoenix Frequencies podcasts, exactly on my fourth anniversary of my re-birthday. It has been an intense ride and inquiry to learn who can stand ánd stay with me. Who can resonate sincerely or pretend by pleasing? Who can hear what I see, even without fully understanding the impact? And the people who can&apos;t or couldn&apos;t, I can be grateful for the mirror they gave me. I can feel remorseful for the times my view was blurred and I acted as if I was, not what I am, and hurt others by doing so. <br/>80 Episodes..... It&apos;s time to move on........<br/>Continue to pioneer: acknowledge the ashes, not by re-living them.<br/><br/>Thank you<br/>for keeping your faith in me,<br/>for not giving up when I wavered.<br/>For hearing me in my rising,<br/>for choosing openness over judgment.<br/>For staying in touch without being asked.<br/>For staying close when distanced, silence was easier.<br/>Thank you<br/>for your heart that chose to stay with me—<br/>from my impossible<br/>to my I’m possible.</p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23anniversary&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#anniversary</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23podcast&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#podcast</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23phoenix&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#phoenix</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23rebirth&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#rebirth</b></a></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the 80th episode of the Phoenix Frequencies podcasts, exactly on my fourth anniversary of my re-birthday. It has been an intense ride and inquiry to learn who can stand ánd stay with me. Who can resonate sincerely or pretend by pleasing? Who can hear what I see, even without fully understanding the impact? And the people who can&apos;t or couldn&apos;t, I can be grateful for the mirror they gave me. I can feel remorseful for the times my view was blurred and I acted as if I was, not what I am, and hurt others by doing so. <br/>80 Episodes..... It&apos;s time to move on........<br/>Continue to pioneer: acknowledge the ashes, not by re-living them.<br/><br/>Thank you<br/>for keeping your faith in me,<br/>for not giving up when I wavered.<br/>For hearing me in my rising,<br/>for choosing openness over judgment.<br/>For staying in touch without being asked.<br/>For staying close when distanced, silence was easier.<br/>Thank you<br/>for your heart that chose to stay with me—<br/>from my impossible<br/>to my I’m possible.</p><p><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23anniversary&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#anniversary</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23podcast&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#podcast</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23phoenix&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#phoenix</b></a> <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=%23rebirth&amp;origin=HASH_TAG_FROM_FEED'><b>#rebirth</b></a></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 26 The Elements of Peace</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 26 The Elements of Peace</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[On International Peace Day, Nienke recorded a special podcast on peace again this season. The elements of peace encompass both internal, personal qualities, such as patience, compassion, and inner tranquillity, and external, societal conditions, including justice, freedom, equity, and well-functioning institutions. Achieving "positive peace" requires a commitment to these factors, rather than just the absence of war, "negative peace". Tuning into the internal elements, she took the angle of e...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>On International Peace Day, Nienke recorded a special podcast on peace again this season.<br/>The elements of peace encompass both internal, personal qualities, such as patience, compassion, and inner tranquillity, and external, societal conditions, including justice, freedom, equity, and well-functioning institutions. Achieving &quot;positive peace&quot; requires a commitment to these factors, rather than just the absence of war, &quot;negative peace&quot;.<br/>Tuning into the internal elements, she took the angle of elements of <a href='https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randolph_Stone'>Dr Randolph Stone, the founder of Polarity Therapy.</a> Earth, water, fire, air and ether.<br/>How do they relate to peace? Nienke brings them to the surface so you can decide for yourself which element(s) you bring together to create Peace. Not only on International Peace Day, but every day. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On International Peace Day, Nienke recorded a special podcast on peace again this season.<br/>The elements of peace encompass both internal, personal qualities, such as patience, compassion, and inner tranquillity, and external, societal conditions, including justice, freedom, equity, and well-functioning institutions. Achieving &quot;positive peace&quot; requires a commitment to these factors, rather than just the absence of war, &quot;negative peace&quot;.<br/>Tuning into the internal elements, she took the angle of elements of <a href='https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randolph_Stone'>Dr Randolph Stone, the founder of Polarity Therapy.</a> Earth, water, fire, air and ether.<br/>How do they relate to peace? Nienke brings them to the surface so you can decide for yourself which element(s) you bring together to create Peace. Not only on International Peace Day, but every day. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 25 Diagnosis and Prognosis </itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 25 Diagnosis and Prognosis </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In our drive to feel secure, if we know 'for sure' what is going on in all kinds of areas in life, we like to analyse and have a diagnosis from that. Then we want to ensure that we foresee what happens next: A prognosis.      A prognosis is a healthcare term that refers to the likely outcome or course of a disease or injury based on a patient's medical condition, available treatments, and other factors. It is a prediction of what might happen, such as the chance of recovery, re...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In our drive to feel secure, if we know &apos;for sure&apos; what is going on in all kinds of areas in life, we like to analyse and have a diagnosis from that. Then we want to ensure that we foresee what happens next: A prognosis.     <br/>A prognosis is a healthcare term that refers to the likely outcome or course of a disease or injury based on a patient&apos;s medical condition, available treatments, and other factors. It is a prediction of what might happen, such as the chance of recovery, recurrence, or the expected quality and length of life.</p><p>In the past, I got a prognosis that could come to the surface again. A biopsy this week can give an indication, not a certainty to live from.                                                        <br/> Because a prognosis is based on general measurements of óther people in the past within the Western healthcare system. </p><p>I AM not my diagnosis, nor do I live my prognosis. I am in charge, choose not to be a REACTOR to my prognosis, flip the letters of that word, and BE the CREATOR of my life.<br/> Worrying is like a rocking chair, it keeps you movin&apos;, gets you nowhere.                <br/> How do you respond to insecurities? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our drive to feel secure, if we know &apos;for sure&apos; what is going on in all kinds of areas in life, we like to analyse and have a diagnosis from that. Then we want to ensure that we foresee what happens next: A prognosis.     <br/>A prognosis is a healthcare term that refers to the likely outcome or course of a disease or injury based on a patient&apos;s medical condition, available treatments, and other factors. It is a prediction of what might happen, such as the chance of recovery, recurrence, or the expected quality and length of life.</p><p>In the past, I got a prognosis that could come to the surface again. A biopsy this week can give an indication, not a certainty to live from.                                                        <br/> Because a prognosis is based on general measurements of óther people in the past within the Western healthcare system. </p><p>I AM not my diagnosis, nor do I live my prognosis. I am in charge, choose not to be a REACTOR to my prognosis, flip the letters of that word, and BE the CREATOR of my life.<br/> Worrying is like a rocking chair, it keeps you movin&apos;, gets you nowhere.                <br/> How do you respond to insecurities? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 24 The AHA moments</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 24 The AHA moments</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In the Heart Ambassadors group, Karen refreshed our memories by reminding us of the acronym for AHA moments in life. You might know them as they pop up in unexpected moments that cannot be forced to happen. In the powerful situations of slowing down, they come. Awaresness But if you leave it like that, the AHA moment disappears as quickly as it came.  Honesty If you take an honest moment to look closer, the magic can happen.  Action However, only if you turn it into an action will t...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In the Heart Ambassadors group, Karen refreshed our memories by reminding us of the acronym for AHA moments in life. You might know them as they pop up in unexpected moments that cannot be forced to happen. In the powerful situations of slowing down, they come.</p><p>Awaresness<br/>But if you leave it like that, the AHA moment disappears as quickly as it came. <br/>Honesty<br/>If you take an honest moment to look closer, the magic can happen. </p><p>Action<br/>However, only if you turn it into an action will the AHA moment flourish in a way that supports you. Evolve, create rather than react. Same letters, different outcome. <br/>Pause, what do you notice......? AHA! Don&apos;t hide, look, act and enjoy! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the Heart Ambassadors group, Karen refreshed our memories by reminding us of the acronym for AHA moments in life. You might know them as they pop up in unexpected moments that cannot be forced to happen. In the powerful situations of slowing down, they come.</p><p>Awaresness<br/>But if you leave it like that, the AHA moment disappears as quickly as it came. <br/>Honesty<br/>If you take an honest moment to look closer, the magic can happen. </p><p>Action<br/>However, only if you turn it into an action will the AHA moment flourish in a way that supports you. Evolve, create rather than react. Same letters, different outcome. <br/>Pause, what do you notice......? AHA! Don&apos;t hide, look, act and enjoy! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 23 Justice, the fake satistaction of rightousness</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 23 Justice, the fake satistaction of rightousness</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In our dictionary, justice is defined as the condition of being morally correct or fair. What is fair? Fair is a perspective. People were sentenced to death, saying the world was round, not flat..... Round earth a conspiracy theory! And people are judged because they don't have the same 'level' of consciousness and therefore they get labelled as stupid or underdeveloped so not worth existing in freedom.  We can feel safe and satisfied when we are acknowledged as being 'right'. The loudes...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In our dictionary, justice is defined as the condition of being morally correct or fair. What is fair? Fair is a perspective. People were sentenced to death, saying the world was round, not flat..... Round earth a conspiracy theory! And people are judged because they don&apos;t have the same &apos;level&apos; of consciousness and therefore they get labelled as stupid or underdeveloped so not worth existing in freedom. </p><p>We can feel safe and satisfied when we are acknowledged as being &apos;right&apos;. The loudest people often fear the most. When do we start to dare to grow by mistakes, redefining our perception of truth. What can we learn from the tree Nienke saw in the forest..... Are you a healthy oxygen for others or hyperventilating your truth? </p><p> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our dictionary, justice is defined as the condition of being morally correct or fair. What is fair? Fair is a perspective. People were sentenced to death, saying the world was round, not flat..... Round earth a conspiracy theory! And people are judged because they don&apos;t have the same &apos;level&apos; of consciousness and therefore they get labelled as stupid or underdeveloped so not worth existing in freedom. </p><p>We can feel safe and satisfied when we are acknowledged as being &apos;right&apos;. The loudest people often fear the most. When do we start to dare to grow by mistakes, redefining our perception of truth. What can we learn from the tree Nienke saw in the forest..... Are you a healthy oxygen for others or hyperventilating your truth? </p><p> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 22 Out-sourcing or in-searching</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 22 Out-sourcing or in-searching</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Striving to learn more, know more, reach a high level of... just name it: for the sake of reaching is never long-lasting fulfilment. A quick high and another diploma or certificate on your wall or on your desk. It is searching outside to feel good, be applauded or be respected through your new level of knowledge.  Nothing is wrong with learning new things, but is it worth taking a look at your motivation before you fall into the business of training and education, creating a feeling you ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Striving to learn more, know more, reach a high level of... just name it: for the sake of reaching is never long-lasting fulfilment. A quick high and another diploma or certificate on your wall or on your desk. It is searching outside to feel good, be applauded or be respected through your new level of knowledge. </p><p>Nothing is wrong with learning new things, but is it worth taking a look at your motivation before you fall into the business of training and education, creating a feeling you are lacking something, and more courses will bridge the gap between your current life and your future desire. </p><p>Starting with the integration of what you already have, before taking a new, satisfying course to soothe your feelings of not being enough yet until you.....</p><p>Stop outsourcing your fulfilment, start in-searching for what you really want to add to your life. Like Nienke&apos;s client of nearly 84. Her wings already existed, but now she learned to fly, freely with effortless effort! </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Striving to learn more, know more, reach a high level of... just name it: for the sake of reaching is never long-lasting fulfilment. A quick high and another diploma or certificate on your wall or on your desk. It is searching outside to feel good, be applauded or be respected through your new level of knowledge. </p><p>Nothing is wrong with learning new things, but is it worth taking a look at your motivation before you fall into the business of training and education, creating a feeling you are lacking something, and more courses will bridge the gap between your current life and your future desire. </p><p>Starting with the integration of what you already have, before taking a new, satisfying course to soothe your feelings of not being enough yet until you.....</p><p>Stop outsourcing your fulfilment, start in-searching for what you really want to add to your life. Like Nienke&apos;s client of nearly 84. Her wings already existed, but now she learned to fly, freely with effortless effort! </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 21 My wake-up call at 5 AM</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sometimes we are given an opportunity to learn. In the moment, we can't always see the real value of the lesson. It could have been very different. It was remarkable how clear my mind went at 5 AM, split seconds to decide what to do and how to stay safe.  In the end, what really makes the difference is a broader perspective: who else can we help, and do we see who needs help too?  What we take for granted isn't to be taken for granted....... Lesson taken, thank you! We are all respo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we are given an opportunity to learn. In the moment, we can&apos;t always see the real value of the lesson. It could have been very different. It was remarkable how clear my mind went at 5 AM, split seconds to decide what to do and how to stay safe. <br/>In the end, what really makes the difference is a broader perspective: who else can we help, and do we see who needs help too? <br/>What we take for granted isn&apos;t to be taken for granted....... Lesson taken, thank you!</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we are given an opportunity to learn. In the moment, we can&apos;t always see the real value of the lesson. It could have been very different. It was remarkable how clear my mind went at 5 AM, split seconds to decide what to do and how to stay safe. <br/>In the end, what really makes the difference is a broader perspective: who else can we help, and do we see who needs help too? <br/>What we take for granted isn&apos;t to be taken for granted....... Lesson taken, thank you!</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 20 The colour of beauty, with Michael Drummond Davidson</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Recently, Nienke attended a workshop with HeArtist Hannie Wiering in Belgium, titled "Painting Straight from the Heart." She shared this with her HeartAmbassador Heartbuddy, Michael Drummond Davidson, who also loves creating art.  In their share, Michael suggested creating a Phoenix Frequencies podcast episode from it. What is art, what is beauty, what does beauty do for the world?  All deep questions to investigate, like all HeArtists can relate to, and be judgment-free, calming our inner cr...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Recently, Nienke attended a workshop with <a href='https://hanniewiering.com/'>HeArtist Hannie Wiering</a> in Belgium, titled &quot;Painting Straight from the Heart.&quot; She shared this with her <a href='https://www.heartambassadors.com/'>HeartAmbassador</a> Heartbuddy, <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michaeldrummond.davidson'>Michael Drummond Davidson</a>, who also loves creating art. <br/>In their share, Michael suggested creating a Phoenix Frequencies podcast episode from it. What is art, what is beauty, what does beauty do for the world? <br/>All deep questions to investigate, like all HeArtists can relate to, and be judgment-free, calming our inner critic.<br/>Michael shared his story and what drives him in <a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2257098/episodes/15139293-episode-22-guest-michael-drummond-davidson-the-gift-from-the-mines.mp3?download=true'>this</a> episode last year. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently, Nienke attended a workshop with <a href='https://hanniewiering.com/'>HeArtist Hannie Wiering</a> in Belgium, titled &quot;Painting Straight from the Heart.&quot; She shared this with her <a href='https://www.heartambassadors.com/'>HeartAmbassador</a> Heartbuddy, <a href='https://www.facebook.com/michaeldrummond.davidson'>Michael Drummond Davidson</a>, who also loves creating art. <br/>In their share, Michael suggested creating a Phoenix Frequencies podcast episode from it. What is art, what is beauty, what does beauty do for the world? <br/>All deep questions to investigate, like all HeArtists can relate to, and be judgment-free, calming our inner critic.<br/>Michael shared his story and what drives him in <a href='https://www.buzzsprout.com/2257098/episodes/15139293-episode-22-guest-michael-drummond-davidson-the-gift-from-the-mines.mp3?download=true'>this</a> episode last year. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 19 My mother&#39;s ring unchained</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Unchain my heart, let me be. Unchain my heart, set me free.... Joe Cocker. In this episode, Nienke sheds light on what we want to emulate from our parents and what we can leave behind. On their 61st wedding anniversary, her mother gave her husband back her wedding ring, deliberately. Because she wanted him to receive from a warm hand, not a cold, dead one. Six days later, she passed away.  Nienke's father chose to take off his ring too, after she died and asked a goldsmith to create some...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Unchain my heart, let me be. Unchain my heart, set me free.... Joe Cocker.</p><p>In this episode, Nienke sheds light on what we want to emulate from our parents and what we can leave behind. On their 61st wedding anniversary, her mother gave her husband back her wedding ring, deliberately. Because she wanted him to receive from a warm hand, not a cold, dead one. Six days later, she passed away. </p><p>Nienke&apos;s father chose to take off his ring too, after she died and asked a goldsmith to create something new from both rings.  That same week, Nienke&apos;s ring broke into two pieces. After a solid self-investigation, she chose to wear her mother&apos;s ring. Leaving behind what wasn&apos;t working and creating a new relationship with the past. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unchain my heart, let me be. Unchain my heart, set me free.... Joe Cocker.</p><p>In this episode, Nienke sheds light on what we want to emulate from our parents and what we can leave behind. On their 61st wedding anniversary, her mother gave her husband back her wedding ring, deliberately. Because she wanted him to receive from a warm hand, not a cold, dead one. Six days later, she passed away. </p><p>Nienke&apos;s father chose to take off his ring too, after she died and asked a goldsmith to create something new from both rings.  That same week, Nienke&apos;s ring broke into two pieces. After a solid self-investigation, she chose to wear her mother&apos;s ring. Leaving behind what wasn&apos;t working and creating a new relationship with the past. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 18 Who is speaking?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's happening more and more in the keynote and TEDx speaking world: the use of AI, such as ChatGPT, to create talks and keynotes. Many people think it sounds more professional, slick, smooth or attractive.                                                                In the E.A.S.E. Method, Nienke and her team use for coaching speake...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s happening more and more in the keynote and TEDx speaking world: the use of AI, such as ChatGPT, to create talks and keynotes. Many people think it sounds more professional, slick, smooth or attractive.                                                                In the E.A.S.E. Method, Nienke and her team use for coaching speakers globally, the words you use create only 10% of the impact you want to gain. The rest relies on how you use your voice and your body language. </p><p>If you only focus on the 10% ánd give it fully in the hands of AI, you won&apos;t get where you want to be. Because: who is delivering the &apos;perfect AI-generated&apos; words? YOU! Not ChatGPT. If you combine your IA support with your heart&apos;s intelligence, it will be YOU who is speaking. And that&apos;s the real impact.</p><p>How this works, Nienke shared some years ago  in her TEDxTalk <a href='https://youtu.be/FoTwiL0bfbs?si=b3JdZiSpbWDdFgat'>How to walk your talk.</a></p><p>You can find the Presentation-Master team <a href='https://presentation-master.com/'>here</a></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s happening more and more in the keynote and TEDx speaking world: the use of AI, such as ChatGPT, to create talks and keynotes. Many people think it sounds more professional, slick, smooth or attractive.                                                                In the E.A.S.E. Method, Nienke and her team use for coaching speakers globally, the words you use create only 10% of the impact you want to gain. The rest relies on how you use your voice and your body language. </p><p>If you only focus on the 10% ánd give it fully in the hands of AI, you won&apos;t get where you want to be. Because: who is delivering the &apos;perfect AI-generated&apos; words? YOU! Not ChatGPT. If you combine your IA support with your heart&apos;s intelligence, it will be YOU who is speaking. And that&apos;s the real impact.</p><p>How this works, Nienke shared some years ago  in her TEDxTalk <a href='https://youtu.be/FoTwiL0bfbs?si=b3JdZiSpbWDdFgat'>How to walk your talk.</a></p><p>You can find the Presentation-Master team <a href='https://presentation-master.com/'>here</a></p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 17 The Power of Post Traumatic Growth </itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If trauma is the result of your capacity to handle life events, we can all see traumatic scars within ourselves. The triggers, the behaviours to feel and stay safe. Working hard to cover up the painful results. That's not wrong, that's trying to handle storms, big ánd small, in our lives. Trauma can be piled up and stored in a box in the fridge (or even deep freezer) until we are ready to be with it'...  But our bodies respond. It can lead to dis-ease, illnesses, and mental and emotional...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If trauma is the result of your capacity to handle life events, we can all see traumatic scars within ourselves. The triggers, the behaviours to feel and stay safe. Working hard to cover up the painful results. That&apos;s not wrong, that&apos;s trying to handle storms, big ánd small, in our lives. Trauma can be piled up and stored in a box in the fridge (or even deep freezer) until we are ready to be with it&apos;... <br/>But our bodies respond. It can lead to dis-ease, illnesses, and mental and emotional disruption with long-lasting impact. <br/>We can get trapped within ourselves. The stuckness often hurts and frustrates, often, the most.  A Post Traumatic Dis-order.<br/>How about Post-traumatic Growth, PTG?  The possibilities to apply the tools that come from within, not from outer circumstances. How would your life look? <br/>With today&apos;s global violence, destruction and creation of fear, there can be an option that unlocks the strain of trauma and creates a future of growth. <br/>What if you can open the box of self-absorption that trauma creates, and you can use the tools that shift you: From the repeating trauma story to a radio station that plays what supports your growth? What would you choose to listen to? <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If trauma is the result of your capacity to handle life events, we can all see traumatic scars within ourselves. The triggers, the behaviours to feel and stay safe. Working hard to cover up the painful results. That&apos;s not wrong, that&apos;s trying to handle storms, big ánd small, in our lives. Trauma can be piled up and stored in a box in the fridge (or even deep freezer) until we are ready to be with it&apos;... <br/>But our bodies respond. It can lead to dis-ease, illnesses, and mental and emotional disruption with long-lasting impact. <br/>We can get trapped within ourselves. The stuckness often hurts and frustrates, often, the most.  A Post Traumatic Dis-order.<br/>How about Post-traumatic Growth, PTG?  The possibilities to apply the tools that come from within, not from outer circumstances. How would your life look? <br/>With today&apos;s global violence, destruction and creation of fear, there can be an option that unlocks the strain of trauma and creates a future of growth. <br/>What if you can open the box of self-absorption that trauma creates, and you can use the tools that shift you: From the repeating trauma story to a radio station that plays what supports your growth? What would you choose to listen to? <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 16 Part 2 How would communicate without technology?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, Nienke shares part two of her interview with Guru Lama, who has possessed an extraordinary ability to heal and uplift those around him since childhood. It took nearly a decade for him to find his right teacher, or guru.  Not all are a right fit, many people see themselves as a guru, but from a high spiritual ego. Guru Lama also shares how to prepare ourselves to be without the internet. To trust, we can communicate with our ancient proven style: our inner Bluetooth, or a...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Nienke shares part two of her interview with Guru Lama, who has possessed an extraordinary ability to heal and uplift those around him since childhood. It took nearly a decade for him to find his right teacher, or guru.  Not all are a right fit, many people see themselves as a guru, but from a high spiritual ego. Guru Lama also shares how to prepare ourselves to be without the internet. To trust, we can communicate with our ancient proven style: our inner Bluetooth, or antennas. How would you live without the internet? Do you still have a profession?  Do you know how to use your capacities to communicate over longer distances than the physical ear can reach? </p><p>How would your life look like? Do you even dare to imagine being cut off from modern technology? You&apos;d better prepare, that day or time might be sooner than we think. Are you ready for the fitting frequencies? </p><p>Guru Lama teaches and trains people at the Shambhala Temple and leads retreats at sacred places with <a href='https://www.shambhalainnerpeacetours.com/'>Shambhala Inner Peace Tours</a>.</p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 15 From Ghosting to hosting</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[From Ghosting to Hosting, a powerful conversation is just a change of one letter.  Ghosting is used as a skill to control a situation through social (non)interaction, aiming to dominate or overpower it. However, people who think they need ghosting as a solution simply haven't yet discovered the social and emotional intelligence toolbox.  Ghosting is in the same field as naming, framing, blaming or shaming: creating social pain to feel like a winner.  What do you do when the hea...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>From Ghosting to Hosting, a powerful conversation is just a change of one letter. </p><p>Ghosting is used as a skill to control a situation through social (non)interaction, aiming to dominate or overpower it. However, people who think they need ghosting as a solution simply haven&apos;t yet discovered the social and emotional intelligence toolbox. </p><p>Ghosting is in the same field as naming, framing, blaming or shaming: creating social pain to feel like a winner. </p><p>What do you do when the heat is on in a business relationship or even a friendship? Ghosting or hosting a conversation that doesn&apos;t leave scars afterwards. Instead, hosting a closing conversation that leaves both sides valued, seen and heard without hurting on purpose. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From Ghosting to Hosting, a powerful conversation is just a change of one letter. </p><p>Ghosting is used as a skill to control a situation through social (non)interaction, aiming to dominate or overpower it. However, people who think they need ghosting as a solution simply haven&apos;t yet discovered the social and emotional intelligence toolbox. </p><p>Ghosting is in the same field as naming, framing, blaming or shaming: creating social pain to feel like a winner. </p><p>What do you do when the heat is on in a business relationship or even a friendship? Ghosting or hosting a conversation that doesn&apos;t leave scars afterwards. Instead, hosting a closing conversation that leaves both sides valued, seen and heard without hurting on purpose. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nienke and Guru Lama met each other through the TEDx Fiesole event and instantly noticed that they both serve through frequencies. From that moment, they stayed in touch. Nienke and the Monk had a long conversation that Nienke made into several episodes op the Phoenix Frequencies Podcasts. Guru Lama often gets the question 'What religion are you from? He answers with a smile: Our religion is compassion. He followed his soul's mission, his Karma, as he left his successful professional life to ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Nienke and Guru Lama met each other through the TEDx Fiesole event and instantly noticed that they both serve through frequencies. From that moment, they stayed in touch. Nienke and the Monk had a long conversation that Nienke made into several episodes op the Phoenix Frequencies Podcasts. <a href='http://www.gurulama.com'>Guru Lama</a> often gets the question &apos;What religion are you from? He answers with a smile: Our religion is compassion.<br/>He followed his soul&apos;s mission, his Karma, as he left his successful professional life to embark on a path of healing and spirituality. Since childhood, he possessed an extraordinary ability to heal and uplift those around him. His presence radiates peace, and his wisdom has transformed countless lives. As a Guru Lama, he teaches and trains people at the Shambhala Temple and leads retreats at sacred places with <a href='https://www.shambhalainnerpeacetours.com/'>Shambhala Inner Peace Tours</a>. <br/>Recently, they created a survey as a soul journal to help heal the wounds of what seems to be the new epidemic: loneliness. Globally, the Shambhala monks are available for free to support those who need connection and healing. <br/><a href='https://bit.ly/Healing-the-wound-of-loneliness-survey'>https://bit.ly/Healing-the-wound-of-loneliness-survey</a> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nienke and Guru Lama met each other through the TEDx Fiesole event and instantly noticed that they both serve through frequencies. From that moment, they stayed in touch. Nienke and the Monk had a long conversation that Nienke made into several episodes op the Phoenix Frequencies Podcasts. <a href='http://www.gurulama.com'>Guru Lama</a> often gets the question &apos;What religion are you from? He answers with a smile: Our religion is compassion.<br/>He followed his soul&apos;s mission, his Karma, as he left his successful professional life to embark on a path of healing and spirituality. Since childhood, he possessed an extraordinary ability to heal and uplift those around him. His presence radiates peace, and his wisdom has transformed countless lives. As a Guru Lama, he teaches and trains people at the Shambhala Temple and leads retreats at sacred places with <a href='https://www.shambhalainnerpeacetours.com/'>Shambhala Inner Peace Tours</a>. <br/>Recently, they created a survey as a soul journal to help heal the wounds of what seems to be the new epidemic: loneliness. Globally, the Shambhala monks are available for free to support those who need connection and healing. <br/><a href='https://bit.ly/Healing-the-wound-of-loneliness-survey'>https://bit.ly/Healing-the-wound-of-loneliness-survey</a> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 13 People pleasing as Self-protection</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if we can see people pleasing as a smart protection mechanism rather than a weak character? With the sugarcoated behaviour, it's a way to feel and stay emotionally safe. Often learned by painful life experiences. It looks good, it feels better than reality. Like a painkiller. But what are you suppressing and at what cost? Health, relationships and feeling drained...... Nienke grew up in a people-pleasing environment and found her way out: cold turkey. She found out that what she wanted a...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What if we can see people pleasing as a smart protection mechanism rather than a weak character? With the sugarcoated behaviour, it&apos;s a way to feel and stay emotionally safe. Often learned by painful life experiences. It looks good, it feels better than reality. Like a painkiller. But what are you suppressing and at what cost? Health, relationships and feeling drained......<br/>Nienke grew up in a people-pleasing environment and found her way out: cold turkey. She found out that what she wanted and searched for wasn&apos;t what she needed. People pleasing isn&apos;t an identity; it&apos;s a survival mode you can change. <br/>Like changing your diet and setting yourself free. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if we can see people pleasing as a smart protection mechanism rather than a weak character? With the sugarcoated behaviour, it&apos;s a way to feel and stay emotionally safe. Often learned by painful life experiences. It looks good, it feels better than reality. Like a painkiller. But what are you suppressing and at what cost? Health, relationships and feeling drained......<br/>Nienke grew up in a people-pleasing environment and found her way out: cold turkey. She found out that what she wanted and searched for wasn&apos;t what she needed. People pleasing isn&apos;t an identity; it&apos;s a survival mode you can change. <br/>Like changing your diet and setting yourself free. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 12 Hi, here is a message from pain.</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Experiencing pain is always a message. Often, we don't like the way pain communicates. We are conditioned to get 'rid ' of pain, soothe pain, or kill pain with painkillers.  Or we over-identify with pain, like with tiredness or diseases.  I am tired, I am ill. No, you're not. You feel tired, you feel dis-eased.   What if pain is not an enemy but an ally?  In this podcast, Nienke shares the different options for trying.  To be at ease with dis-ease. To be partnering up...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Experiencing pain is always a message. Often, we don&apos;t like the way pain communicates. We are conditioned to get &apos;rid &apos; of pain, soothe pain, or kill pain with painkillers. <br/>Or we over-identify with pain, like with tiredness or diseases. <br/>I am tired, I am ill. No, you&apos;re not. You feel tired, you feel dis-eased.  <br/>What if pain is not an enemy but an ally? <br/>In this podcast, Nienke shares the different options for trying. <br/>To be at ease with dis-ease. To be partnering up with pain to get free from the fighting mode. <br/>That isn&apos;t for everyone, but you can practice and see what fits you. Just as another option to explore.  </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Experiencing pain is always a message. Often, we don&apos;t like the way pain communicates. We are conditioned to get &apos;rid &apos; of pain, soothe pain, or kill pain with painkillers. <br/>Or we over-identify with pain, like with tiredness or diseases. <br/>I am tired, I am ill. No, you&apos;re not. You feel tired, you feel dis-eased.  <br/>What if pain is not an enemy but an ally? <br/>In this podcast, Nienke shares the different options for trying. <br/>To be at ease with dis-ease. To be partnering up with pain to get free from the fighting mode. <br/>That isn&apos;t for everyone, but you can practice and see what fits you. Just as another option to explore.  </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 11 Are you connecting the dots?</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 11 Are you connecting the dots?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Over the last few months, Nienke has worked with 20 people to prepare for their TEDx Talk. To be Heard to be Heart at the same time. BE ready.  Staying with your true message and true to your authentic self wasn't easy for all.  Going into their topic, their story as a deep dive was an unexpected gift for many of the speakers to rise above the past.  But life had a personal gift for Nienke as well, she shares in this podcast.  We are all responsible for how we show up in t...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Over the last few months, Nienke has worked with 20 people to prepare for their TEDx Talk. To be Heard to be Heart at the same time. BE ready. <br/>Staying with your true message and true to your authentic self wasn&apos;t easy for all. <br/>Going into their topic, their story as a deep dive was an unexpected gift for many of the speakers to rise above the past. <br/>But life had a personal gift for Nienke as well, she shares in this podcast. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 10 When losing a friend becomes an asset</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This week, Nienke tunes into the sudden death of her energy work role model and old friend. At first, there was a massive magnitude of shock, grief and pain.  Why her, not me? That question isn't to be answered nor relevant. It just is. Grief. Soon, that shifted: D showed she wasn't 'gone', and the connection didn't change. The overwhelm shited into gratitude. Grief and gratitude are on the same page; they are bridged by Love only.  Unconditionally. Sometimes, the loss of a friend, while...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This week, Nienke tunes into the sudden death of her energy work role model and old friend. At first, there was a massive magnitude of shock, grief and pain. <br/>Why her, not me? That question isn&apos;t to be answered nor relevant. It just is. Grief.<br/>Soon, that shifted: D showed she wasn&apos;t &apos;gone&apos;, and the connection didn&apos;t change. The overwhelm shited into gratitude. Grief and gratitude are on the same page; they are bridged by Love only.  Unconditionally.<br/>Sometimes, the loss of a friend, while still alive, can be more painful because that&apos;s a deliberate choice. Damaging the friendship by choice because unconditional is too difficult. When the heat gets on, the truth comes out. <br/>We all have the choice of how to BE with that rather than react to it. Then, grief and gratitude can be on the same page, while alive. <br/>This podcast is a tribute to <a href='https://daphneprieckaerts.com/'>Daphne Prieckaerts</a>. <br/> </p><pre><br/></pre><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week, Nienke tunes into the sudden death of her energy work role model and old friend. At first, there was a massive magnitude of shock, grief and pain. <br/>Why her, not me? That question isn&apos;t to be answered nor relevant. It just is. Grief.<br/>Soon, that shifted: D showed she wasn&apos;t &apos;gone&apos;, and the connection didn&apos;t change. The overwhelm shited into gratitude. Grief and gratitude are on the same page; they are bridged by Love only.  Unconditionally.<br/>Sometimes, the loss of a friend, while still alive, can be more painful because that&apos;s a deliberate choice. Damaging the friendship by choice because unconditional is too difficult. When the heat gets on, the truth comes out. <br/>We all have the choice of how to BE with that rather than react to it. Then, grief and gratitude can be on the same page, while alive. <br/>This podcast is a tribute to <a href='https://daphneprieckaerts.com/'>Daphne Prieckaerts</a>. <br/> </p><pre><br/></pre><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 9 Getting your real voice out into the world</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Today, exactly five years ago, in the first week of the total COVID Lockdown, Nienke started her 25 sessions of radiation therapy—a team collaboration to freeze the brain tumour growth. Everything has changed since. But this year, a friend reminded her of this five-year win. This year, it wasn't part of her life anymore, and thát was worth an even bigger celebration.  Nienke imprinted herself for years, TEDx coaching wasn't her strength anymore, despite the hundreds she supported to the red d...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Today, exactly five years ago, in the first week of the total COVID Lockdown, Nienke started her 25 sessions of radiation therapy—a team collaboration to freeze the brain tumour growth. Everything has changed since. But this year, a friend reminded her of this five-year win. This year, it wasn&apos;t part of her life anymore, and thát was worth an even bigger celebration. <br/>Nienke imprinted herself for years, TEDx coaching wasn&apos;t her strength anymore, despite the hundreds she supported to the red dot. <br/>But when she was asked to support a large TEDx event in Italy in May, she overcame herself and said yes. Inspired by the event&apos;s theme: Renew, recharge, sustain: renewed humanism. <br/>She shares in this episode of Phoenix Frequencies podcast why that&apos;s a fit with Nienke now. <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/nienke_van_bezooijen_how_to_walk_your_talk?utm_campaign=tedspread&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=tedcomshare'>She walks her talk</a>! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, exactly five years ago, in the first week of the total COVID Lockdown, Nienke started her 25 sessions of radiation therapy—a team collaboration to freeze the brain tumour growth. Everything has changed since. But this year, a friend reminded her of this five-year win. This year, it wasn&apos;t part of her life anymore, and thát was worth an even bigger celebration. <br/>Nienke imprinted herself for years, TEDx coaching wasn&apos;t her strength anymore, despite the hundreds she supported to the red dot. <br/>But when she was asked to support a large TEDx event in Italy in May, she overcame herself and said yes. Inspired by the event&apos;s theme: Renew, recharge, sustain: renewed humanism. <br/>She shares in this episode of Phoenix Frequencies podcast why that&apos;s a fit with Nienke now. <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/nienke_van_bezooijen_how_to_walk_your_talk?utm_campaign=tedspread&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=tedcomshare'>She walks her talk</a>! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 8 Are you a mental hoarder?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you are travelling, do you carry your whole closet with you? Summer and winter clothing, sportswear ánd bathing suits? Or do you choose what is appropriate for your journey?  In her coaching, Nienke sees many mental hoarders. Clinging on to what they don't need to take with them all the time.  You can tickbox your travel list and choose what you need and want to take with you. Leave behind what doesn't serve you any longer.  We are all responsible for how we show up in the w...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you are travelling, do you carry your whole closet with you? Summer and winter clothing, sportswear ánd bathing suits? Or do you choose what is appropriate for your journey? <br/>In her coaching, Nienke sees many mental hoarders. Clinging on to what they don&apos;t need to take with them all the time. <br/>You can tickbox your travel list and choose what you need and want to take with you. Leave behind what doesn&apos;t serve you any longer. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are travelling, do you carry your whole closet with you? Summer and winter clothing, sportswear ánd bathing suits? Or do you choose what is appropriate for your journey? <br/>In her coaching, Nienke sees many mental hoarders. Clinging on to what they don&apos;t need to take with them all the time. <br/>You can tickbox your travel list and choose what you need and want to take with you. Leave behind what doesn&apos;t serve you any longer. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 7 What story do you tell yourself?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's two months since her mom's passing, and Nienke and her father spoke a lot at that time. Creating space to bring back memories.  When memories are shared over and over, they turn into stories.  The story about the memory... Those stories can be helpful or block you. They always have deeper roots in what you liked or disliked when the memory was created. From there, you can choose to live that story and let that story run your life. Nowadays, world leaders live a story and create a wo...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s two months since her mom&apos;s passing, and Nienke and her father spoke a lot at that time. Creating space to bring back memories. <br/>When memories are shared over and over, they turn into stories. <br/>The story about the memory... Those stories can be helpful or block you. They always have deeper roots in what you liked or disliked when the memory was created. From there, you can choose to live that story and let that story run your life. Nowadays, world leaders live a story and create a world around them. <br/>It is up to us to stay conscious about that. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s two months since her mom&apos;s passing, and Nienke and her father spoke a lot at that time. Creating space to bring back memories. <br/>When memories are shared over and over, they turn into stories. <br/>The story about the memory... Those stories can be helpful or block you. They always have deeper roots in what you liked or disliked when the memory was created. From there, you can choose to live that story and let that story run your life. Nowadays, world leaders live a story and create a world around them. <br/>It is up to us to stay conscious about that. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 6 Cut your Crap!</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Cut the Crap is, in English, a direct way of telling someone to stop saying things that are not true or not important: 'Just cut the crap and tell me what is really going on'. Playing around with words, Crabs belong to the subphylum Crustacean, the largest group of marine arthropods; most crabs move sideways, walking on four pairs of legs and holding their two legs with claws away from their body.  They shed their hard shell, which would otherwise prevent growth. When the safe shell beco...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Cut the Crap is, in English, a direct way of telling someone to stop saying things that are not true or not important: &apos;Just cut the crap and tell me what is really going on&apos;. Playing around with words, Crabs belong to the subphylum Crustacean, the largest group of marine arthropods; most crabs move sideways, walking on four pairs of legs and holding their two legs with claws away from their body. <br/>They shed their hard shell, which would otherwise prevent growth. When the safe shell becomes too tight, it is time to create something aligned with their growth. <br/>Humans often don&apos;t dare to grow that way. We don&apos;t like change. When things get too tight in our emotional life, we keep moving sideways and take painkillers, food or other southing things to make us feel better. <br/>In this podcast, Nienke shares how shedding what isn&apos;t serving you any longer is key to moving on without repeating yourself.  <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When life seems to hit us 'again' with setbacks, pain, grief, hurt, feeling misunderstood, and alienation, we can confuse resilience, which involves powerful bouncing back, with taking response-ability. We can take a look at our patterns. What might have helped us in the past is no guarantee that the present or future will be the solution to get out of your setback.  In this podcast, Nienke shares the difference between bouncing back, repeating yourself, and the other choice you have. Sh...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When life seems to hit us &apos;again&apos; with setbacks, pain, grief, hurt, feeling misunderstood, and alienation, we can confuse resilience, which involves powerful bouncing back, with taking response-ability. We can take a look at our patterns. What might have helped us in the past is no guarantee that the present or future will be the solution to get out of your setback. <br/>In this podcast, Nienke shares the difference between bouncing back, repeating yourself, and the other choice you have. She shares her real-life examples of how she phoenixes. <br/>No matter how hard life seems to hit us, we always have the choice to respond in a way that serves us now rather than what served us in the past. <br/>That&apos;s the difference between feeling lost, falling through space without any grip, or flipping the coin from fear to freedom. <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When life seems to hit us &apos;again&apos; with setbacks, pain, grief, hurt, feeling misunderstood, and alienation, we can confuse resilience, which involves powerful bouncing back, with taking response-ability. We can take a look at our patterns. What might have helped us in the past is no guarantee that the present or future will be the solution to get out of your setback. <br/>In this podcast, Nienke shares the difference between bouncing back, repeating yourself, and the other choice you have. She shares her real-life examples of how she phoenixes. <br/>No matter how hard life seems to hit us, we always have the choice to respond in a way that serves us now rather than what served us in the past. <br/>That&apos;s the difference between feeling lost, falling through space without any grip, or flipping the coin from fear to freedom. <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 4 Goalsetting 2025 through a different lens</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[2025 started already with many dynamics, such as wildfires, ceasefires, impeachment, and inauguration in polarization.  In non-violent communication techniques, we can see that we act and react based on deep needs.  Fight, Flight Freeze or Please modes have their roots in deeper needs.  Sometimes, a third-party or helicopter view technique can help us see what is really going on. However, Heart-based meditation can also show us the way.  The fact stays: we have a choice in...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>2025 started already with many dynamics, such as wildfires, ceasefires, impeachment, and inauguration in polarization. <br/>In non-violent communication techniques, we can see that we act and react based on deep needs. <br/>Fight, Flight Freeze or Please modes have their roots in deeper needs. <br/>Sometimes, a third-party or helicopter view technique can help us see what is really going on. However, Heart-based meditation can also show us the way. <br/>The fact stays: we have a choice in responding to circumstances and life events around us and in us through the inward or outward path: meditation or mediation. <br/>There is just one letter different in that word from mediation, bridging with the T of towards or togetherness. <br/>We all have a choice in how we create 2025. Inward or outwards or embrace both.<br/>Through what lens are you creating your 2025?  </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>2025 started already with many dynamics, such as wildfires, ceasefires, impeachment, and inauguration in polarization. <br/>In non-violent communication techniques, we can see that we act and react based on deep needs. <br/>Fight, Flight Freeze or Please modes have their roots in deeper needs. <br/>Sometimes, a third-party or helicopter view technique can help us see what is really going on. However, Heart-based meditation can also show us the way. <br/>The fact stays: we have a choice in responding to circumstances and life events around us and in us through the inward or outward path: meditation or mediation. <br/>There is just one letter different in that word from mediation, bridging with the T of towards or togetherness. <br/>We all have a choice in how we create 2025. Inward or outwards or embrace both.<br/>Through what lens are you creating your 2025?  </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 3 Love without an agenda</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It has been weeks without time and space since December 17th 2024, for Nienke.  Once again, she stepped into the transition doula frequencies.  December 23rd, in the morning, her mom left her physical body. Very gentle and peaceful, she blew out her candle of life.  In the days before, Nienke saw first-hand the power of unconditional love between her parents, even in the transitional moments.  How her mother surrendered and relaxed in the presence of her husband.  Alt...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It has been weeks without time and space since December 17th 2024, for Nienke. <br/>Once again, she stepped into the transition doula frequencies. <br/>December 23rd, in the morning, her mom left her physical body. Very gentle and peaceful, she blew out her candle of life. <br/>In the days before, Nienke saw first-hand the power of unconditional love between her parents, even in the transitional moments. <br/>How her mother surrendered and relaxed in the presence of her husband. <br/>Although her relationship with her mother wasn&apos;t a paved path, stepping into unconditional love facilitated its healing. <br/>R.I.P. Hans van Bezooijen-Schreuder, thank you for giving my life to me.<br/> *18th of August 1939 - †23rd of December 2024<br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It has been weeks without time and space since December 17th 2024, for Nienke. <br/>Once again, she stepped into the transition doula frequencies. <br/>December 23rd, in the morning, her mom left her physical body. Very gentle and peaceful, she blew out her candle of life. <br/>In the days before, Nienke saw first-hand the power of unconditional love between her parents, even in the transitional moments. <br/>How her mother surrendered and relaxed in the presence of her husband. <br/>Although her relationship with her mother wasn&apos;t a paved path, stepping into unconditional love facilitated its healing. <br/>R.I.P. Hans van Bezooijen-Schreuder, thank you for giving my life to me.<br/> *18th of August 1939 - †23rd of December 2024<br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 2 My Dutch DNA?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What are the characteristics of your country of origin, in Nienke's case, the Dutch DNA? Well-known for concurring the water, creating land from sea and rivers by building barriers like 'dijken', dyks...   Or, during the Hanza's time, the trade line from Belgium to the Baltic states.... Trading the feminine way, exchange, non-violent. We had that culture until the first Brexit, when trading became a trick for expansion and slavery. The wealth at all costs, no matter the dehumidification ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What are the characteristics of your country of origin, in Nienke&apos;s case, the Dutch DNA? Well-known for concurring the water, creating land from sea and rivers by building barriers like &apos;dijken&apos;, dyks...  <br/>Or, during the Hanza&apos;s time, the trade line from Belgium to the Baltic states.... Trading the feminine way, exchange, non-violent. We had that culture until the first Brexit, when trading became a trick for expansion and slavery. The wealth at all costs, no matter the dehumidification of whole populations. Excuses are so hard to express; humbleness is a failure, it seems, in the Dutch DNA. <br/>Nowadays, we can test what other cultures are in our DNA. We made human borders, but we are a mixture anyway. <br/>What DNA do you want to let shine in your expression and your behaviour? <br/>We can transform our DNA if we dare to do so.<br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What are the characteristics of your country of origin, in Nienke&apos;s case, the Dutch DNA? Well-known for concurring the water, creating land from sea and rivers by building barriers like &apos;dijken&apos;, dyks...  <br/>Or, during the Hanza&apos;s time, the trade line from Belgium to the Baltic states.... Trading the feminine way, exchange, non-violent. We had that culture until the first Brexit, when trading became a trick for expansion and slavery. The wealth at all costs, no matter the dehumidification of whole populations. Excuses are so hard to express; humbleness is a failure, it seems, in the Dutch DNA. <br/>Nowadays, we can test what other cultures are in our DNA. We made human borders, but we are a mixture anyway. <br/>What DNA do you want to let shine in your expression and your behaviour? <br/>We can transform our DNA if we dare to do so.<br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Season 3 nr 1 My Lessons from Korea</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[To celebrate her re-birthday, Nienke went to South Korea. On a two-week, intense trip, she met real Koreans. She saw the contradiction within the country and the people.  The DNA of harmony, respect, exchange, and growth is overgrown by the most toxic feeling we can have: shame.  The devastating effects of trying to outsmart everybody to avoid shame are the lowest birth rate in the world and the high suicide rate among elderly people.  But there is hope. In this first episode o...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>To celebrate her re-birthday, Nienke went to South Korea. On a two-week, intense trip, she met real Koreans. She saw the contradiction within the country and the people. <br/>The DNA of harmony, respect, exchange, and growth is overgrown by the most toxic feeling we can have: shame. <br/>The devastating effects of trying to outsmart everybody to avoid shame are the lowest birth rate in the world and the high suicide rate among elderly people. <br/>But there is hope. In this first episode of season 3 of the Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke shares her perception of where she saw the signs of change. <br/>Shame is a virus that circulates rapidly around the world, creating chaos and polarization that destroys more than we can predict.  <br/>We all can stop it by using one element, and if you do, shame can&apos;t survive. <br/>Do you dare to use it? <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To celebrate her re-birthday, Nienke went to South Korea. On a two-week, intense trip, she met real Koreans. She saw the contradiction within the country and the people. <br/>The DNA of harmony, respect, exchange, and growth is overgrown by the most toxic feeling we can have: shame. <br/>The devastating effects of trying to outsmart everybody to avoid shame are the lowest birth rate in the world and the high suicide rate among elderly people. <br/>But there is hope. In this first episode of season 3 of the Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke shares her perception of where she saw the signs of change. <br/>Shame is a virus that circulates rapidly around the world, creating chaos and polarization that destroys more than we can predict.  <br/>We all can stop it by using one element, and if you do, shame can&apos;t survive. <br/>Do you dare to use it? <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 41 Create beyond the impossible</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Start by doing what's necessary; then do what's possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. Francis of Assisi.  Over the last year, Nienke recorded a podcast every week and is closing this year's cycle in South Korea. She followed her heart's intuition and reconnected with her mission to bring ease, listening, and connection based on the Phoenix Frequencies.  In this podcast, her gift to you all is a heart meditation.  Click the link to join her on the Global Coherence Initiativ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Start by doing what&apos;s necessary; then do what&apos;s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. <b>Francis of Assisi. </b><br/>Over the last year, Nienke recorded a podcast every week and is closing this year&apos;s cycle in South Korea. She followed her heart&apos;s intuition and reconnected with her mission to bring ease, listening, and connection based on the Phoenix Frequencies. <br/>In this podcast, her gift to you all is a heart meditation. <br/>Click the link to join her on the <a href='https://www.heartmath.org/gci/'>Global Coherence Initiative app</a> for her private event <a href='https://dlink.heartmath.org/gca/groups/?amv=3728&amp;apn=com.heartmath.globalcoherencenetwork&amp;ibi=com.myriadmobile.heartmath&amp;link=https%3A%2F%2Fgca.heartmath.org%2Fgroup%3Fcode%3DcCoVZgAP20dr&amp;efr=1'>on October 12th</a>. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Start by doing what&apos;s necessary; then do what&apos;s possible; and suddenly you are doing the impossible. <b>Francis of Assisi. </b><br/>Over the last year, Nienke recorded a podcast every week and is closing this year&apos;s cycle in South Korea. She followed her heart&apos;s intuition and reconnected with her mission to bring ease, listening, and connection based on the Phoenix Frequencies. <br/>In this podcast, her gift to you all is a heart meditation. <br/>Click the link to join her on the <a href='https://www.heartmath.org/gci/'>Global Coherence Initiative app</a> for her private event <a href='https://dlink.heartmath.org/gca/groups/?amv=3728&amp;apn=com.heartmath.globalcoherencenetwork&amp;ibi=com.myriadmobile.heartmath&amp;link=https%3A%2F%2Fgca.heartmath.org%2Fgroup%3Fcode%3DcCoVZgAP20dr&amp;efr=1'>on October 12th</a>. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 40 The point of no return</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When history seems to repeat itself. When you see yourself hitting the same wall, reacting as always: defensive, creating your own truths, searching outside yourself to let others make you feel better, avoiding the point of no return?  Nienke can see life looks like a history repetition, but after her point of no return three years ago, she stopped the attitude that seemed resilient but, in reality, was bouncing back. The point of no return gave her a portal to Phoenix. While phoenixed, ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When history seems to repeat itself. When you see yourself hitting the same wall, reacting as always: defensive, creating your own truths, searching outside yourself to let others make you feel better, avoiding the point of no return? <br/>Nienke can see life looks like a history repetition, but after her point of no return three years ago, she stopped the attitude that seemed resilient but, in reality, was bouncing back. The point of no return gave her a portal to Phoenix. While phoenixed, there is no return possible. <br/>It takes courage to transform the reactor in you into the creator: the same letters, different frequencies. Either you step into it or repeat yourself—at all costs. <br/>You have a choice, always. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When history seems to repeat itself. When you see yourself hitting the same wall, reacting as always: defensive, creating your own truths, searching outside yourself to let others make you feel better, avoiding the point of no return? <br/>Nienke can see life looks like a history repetition, but after her point of no return three years ago, she stopped the attitude that seemed resilient but, in reality, was bouncing back. The point of no return gave her a portal to Phoenix. While phoenixed, there is no return possible. <br/>It takes courage to transform the reactor in you into the creator: the same letters, different frequencies. Either you step into it or repeat yourself—at all costs. <br/>You have a choice, always. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 39 Let&#39;s make Peace a Verb</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nienke is counting down the days until her trip to South Korea. Part of her trip will involve visiting the demilitarisation zone (DMZ) between North and South Korea.  Peace is not the absence of war but an attitude toward peace. Peace seemed hijacked by happiness in the last century, but we need to elevate our Peace attitude further than that.  In Self-leadership, the practice of pause and feeling is a skill to develop.  To develop the courage to pause before responding. So we can respond wit...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Nienke is counting down the days until her trip to South Korea. Part of her trip will involve visiting the demilitarisation zone (DMZ) between North and South Korea. <br/>Peace is not the absence of war but an attitude toward peace. Peace seemed hijacked by happiness in the last century, but we need to elevate our Peace attitude further than that. <br/>In Self-leadership, the practice of pause and feeling is a skill to develop. <br/>To develop the courage to pause before responding. So we can respond with response-ability. Peace isn&apos;t just the SDG 16 of the UN. (Goal 16 is about promoting peaceful and inclusive societies, providing access to justice for all and building effective, accountable and inclusive institutions at all levels. People everywhere should be free of fear from all forms of violence and feel safe as they go about their lives, whatever their ethnicity, faith or sexual orientation). <br/>We can start with ourselves, without any money investment: with the peace attitude, learning to pause and listen to ourselves and other, neutral. Leaving the hunger for applause beside you. Starting to feel grateful for what you can, with compassion for what you can&apos;t yet and care for what is to come. Be an example. Make peace a verb.   <br/>You can join Nienke on <a href='https://www.heartmath.org/gci/'>the GCI app</a> and <a href='https://youtu.be/QFqsY-DT6rg?si=ZHQ-WlhMbbPuU-tG'>learn more</a> about the peaceful impact you can make at any time<br/><br/>Special thanks to  Sheva Carr <a href='https://www.fyera.org/'>the Fyera Foundation</a>, Dr Scilla Elworthy, Gert Olefs and Daeyoung Kim</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nienke is counting down the days until her trip to South Korea. Part of her trip will involve visiting the demilitarisation zone (DMZ) between North and South Korea. <br/>Peace is not the absence of war but an attitude toward peace. Peace seemed hijacked by happiness in the last century, but we need to elevate our Peace attitude further than that. <br/>In Self-leadership, the practice of pause and feeling is a skill to develop. <br/>To develop the courage to pause before responding. So we can respond with response-ability. Peace isn&apos;t just the SDG 16 of the UN. (Goal 16 is about promoting peaceful and inclusive societies, providing access to justice for all and building effective, accountable and inclusive institutions at all levels. People everywhere should be free of fear from all forms of violence and feel safe as they go about their lives, whatever their ethnicity, faith or sexual orientation). <br/>We can start with ourselves, without any money investment: with the peace attitude, learning to pause and listen to ourselves and other, neutral. Leaving the hunger for applause beside you. Starting to feel grateful for what you can, with compassion for what you can&apos;t yet and care for what is to come. Be an example. Make peace a verb.   <br/>You can join Nienke on <a href='https://www.heartmath.org/gci/'>the GCI app</a> and <a href='https://youtu.be/QFqsY-DT6rg?si=ZHQ-WlhMbbPuU-tG'>learn more</a> about the peaceful impact you can make at any time<br/><br/>Special thanks to  Sheva Carr <a href='https://www.fyera.org/'>the Fyera Foundation</a>, Dr Scilla Elworthy, Gert Olefs and Daeyoung Kim</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 38 The purpose of a storm</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Storms are not there to blow you over; they are there to clear your path. Even if you try hard to find the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. If you try to BE the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. I You have a choice to control the storm and exhaust yourself or to prepare yourself for what comes.  In the calm after the storm, you can overlook what seemed chaotic but is clearing your future and revealing your hidden gems.  The countdown had begun: 3 more weeks to go to...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Storms are not there to blow you over; they are there to clear your path.<br/>Even if you try hard to find the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. If you try to BE the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. I<br/>You have a choice to control the storm and exhaust yourself or to prepare yourself for what comes. <br/>In the calm after the storm, you can overlook what seemed chaotic but is clearing your future and revealing your hidden gems. <br/>The countdown had begun: 3 more weeks to go to complete a year of The Phoenix Frequencies podcasts </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Storms are not there to blow you over; they are there to clear your path.<br/>Even if you try hard to find the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. If you try to BE the eye of the storm, the storm still exists. I<br/>You have a choice to control the storm and exhaust yourself or to prepare yourself for what comes. <br/>In the calm after the storm, you can overlook what seemed chaotic but is clearing your future and revealing your hidden gems. <br/>The countdown had begun: 3 more weeks to go to complete a year of The Phoenix Frequencies podcasts </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 37 The courage to write a new life&#39;s chapter</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 37 The courage to write a new life&#39;s chapter</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What would you do if you could take all the gems of your life so far, learn from them and implement them in a new life chapter you are creating? Starting from scratch?  What are you waiting for? The perfect timing? That doesn't exist....  What perfect circumstances do you want to create? They are never ready..... Nienke's grandmother Emma started her new life at the age of 90 because the new was calling her, and she loved it even more than the old. You can be the reader of your life...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What would you do if you could take all the gems of your life so far, learn from them and implement them in a new life chapter you are creating? Starting from scratch? <br/>What are you waiting for? The perfect timing? That doesn&apos;t exist.... <br/>What perfect circumstances do you want to create? They are never ready.....<br/>Nienke&apos;s grandmother Emma started her new life at the age of 90 because the new was calling her, and she loved it even more than the old.<br/>You can be the reader of your life&apos;s book others wrote for you or become the author of your new life&apos;s book today. <br/>It doesn&apos;t take courage, just enough love for the new to begin: phoenix. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What would you do if you could take all the gems of your life so far, learn from them and implement them in a new life chapter you are creating? Starting from scratch? <br/>What are you waiting for? The perfect timing? That doesn&apos;t exist.... <br/>What perfect circumstances do you want to create? They are never ready.....<br/>Nienke&apos;s grandmother Emma started her new life at the age of 90 because the new was calling her, and she loved it even more than the old.<br/>You can be the reader of your life&apos;s book others wrote for you or become the author of your new life&apos;s book today. <br/>It doesn&apos;t take courage, just enough love for the new to begin: phoenix. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 36 Disappointment management</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Feeling disappointed and acting based on that is a human thing.  We can only be disappointed if we expect something upfront.  Rarely do we speak about our expectations. We only act on them.  In this episode, Nienke speaks about the opportunity she got to build another relationship with feelings of disappointment.  It is sobering to learn from nature. Nienke shares what the Valley of the Fallen Heroes taught her. There is a new creation, no disappointment. How do you react ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Feeling disappointed and acting based on that is a human thing. <br/>We can only be disappointed if we expect something upfront. <br/>Rarely do we speak about our expectations. We only act on them. <br/>In this episode, Nienke speaks about the opportunity she got to build another relationship with feelings of disappointment. <br/>It is sobering to learn from nature. Nienke shares what the Valley of the Fallen Heroes taught her. There is a new creation, no disappointment.<br/>How do you react when you feel disappointed? <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Feeling disappointed and acting based on that is a human thing. <br/>We can only be disappointed if we expect something upfront. <br/>Rarely do we speak about our expectations. We only act on them. <br/>In this episode, Nienke speaks about the opportunity she got to build another relationship with feelings of disappointment. <br/>It is sobering to learn from nature. Nienke shares what the Valley of the Fallen Heroes taught her. There is a new creation, no disappointment.<br/>How do you react when you feel disappointed? <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 35 Triggers, glimmers and shiny objects</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If a trigger is a mental, emotional or physical response about an event that happened in your life in the past, a shiny object can become an addiction. The  drive to fill the uncomfortable feeling that was created in your past.  But a glimmer, that unexpected spake of beauty, joy, hope, ease, and peace, can become your self-supportive nutrition to counterbalance an overdrive of stress-related triggers.  Do you dare to transform into a mature response to what you think you need?...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If a trigger is a mental, emotional or physical response about an event that happened in your life in the past, a shiny object can become an addiction. The  drive to fill the uncomfortable feeling that was created in your past. <br/>But a glimmer, that unexpected spake of beauty, joy, hope, ease, and peace, can become your self-supportive nutrition to counterbalance an overdrive of stress-related triggers. <br/>Do you dare to transform into a mature response to what you think you need? <br/>Then, it&apos;s time to be conscious of the abundance of glimmers around you that can nourish you at any time.<br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If a trigger is a mental, emotional or physical response about an event that happened in your life in the past, a shiny object can become an addiction. The  drive to fill the uncomfortable feeling that was created in your past. <br/>But a glimmer, that unexpected spake of beauty, joy, hope, ease, and peace, can become your self-supportive nutrition to counterbalance an overdrive of stress-related triggers. <br/>Do you dare to transform into a mature response to what you think you need? <br/>Then, it&apos;s time to be conscious of the abundance of glimmers around you that can nourish you at any time.<br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 34 How transform your feelings of shame</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 34 How transform your feelings of shame</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we compare our successes or choices with our outside world and see a gap in feelings or failure, shame can sneak into us. Once shame gets hold of us, it starts to design our lives. We can drift off in directions that are not serving us at all.  If we start to grow our shame under our invisible carpet, it can become a hurdle that is hard to resolve.  Shame eats us, because it likes the secrets we tell ourselves as the truth...  If you don't want shame to ruin your life any ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When we compare our successes or choices with our outside world and see a gap in feelings or failure, shame can sneak into us. Once shame gets hold of us, it starts to design our lives. We can drift off in directions that are not serving us at all. <br/>If we start to grow our shame under our invisible carpet, it can become a hurdle that is hard to resolve. <br/>Shame eats us, because it likes the secrets we tell ourselves as the truth... <br/>If you don&apos;t want shame to ruin your life any longer, there are four simple steps to let all the density of shame disappear. <br/>How do you get there? Nienke shares it in this week&apos;s episode. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we compare our successes or choices with our outside world and see a gap in feelings or failure, shame can sneak into us. Once shame gets hold of us, it starts to design our lives. We can drift off in directions that are not serving us at all. <br/>If we start to grow our shame under our invisible carpet, it can become a hurdle that is hard to resolve. <br/>Shame eats us, because it likes the secrets we tell ourselves as the truth... <br/>If you don&apos;t want shame to ruin your life any longer, there are four simple steps to let all the density of shame disappear. <br/>How do you get there? Nienke shares it in this week&apos;s episode. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 33 Your are not your results: identity confusion</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 33 Your are not your results: identity confusion</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many certifications or diplomas degrees do you need to become who you are? How do you show up, and what do you think your identity is?  Who are you? Who are you if life kicks in and all you thought you created as results don't count any longer? You are not your results of collected degrees but how you show up.  Where are you compromising to make an ideal match for your family, parents, children, friends, colleagues, or boss?  We have another choice. How? Nienks shares in th...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How many certifications or diplomas degrees do you need to become who you are? How do you show up, and what do you think your identity is? <br/>Who are you? Who are you if life kicks in and all you thought you created as results don&apos;t count any longer? You are not your results of collected degrees but how you show up. <br/>Where are you compromising to make an ideal match for your family, parents, children, friends, colleagues, or boss? <br/>We have another choice. How? Nienks shares in this week&apos;s episode.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many certifications or diplomas degrees do you need to become who you are? How do you show up, and what do you think your identity is? <br/>Who are you? Who are you if life kicks in and all you thought you created as results don&apos;t count any longer? You are not your results of collected degrees but how you show up. <br/>Where are you compromising to make an ideal match for your family, parents, children, friends, colleagues, or boss? <br/>We have another choice. How? Nienks shares in this week&apos;s episode.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 32 Dare to face the mirror of our past</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 32 Dare to face the mirror of our past</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Due to what comes our way in life, we create our perceived perception as 'the truth'. By creating our truth, we keep ourselves safe from feeling hurt, disappointed or insecure.  It predicts how we listen; it shapes our actions. We create our self-protection limiting beliefs.  But life will give us the same situations until we learn and transform because there is only the truth we created. Maybe you don't get what you want until you see you create what you need, in order to shift.&nb...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Due to what comes our way in life, we create our perceived perception as &apos;the truth&apos;. By creating our truth, we keep ourselves safe from feeling hurt, disappointed or insecure. <br/>It predicts how we listen; it shapes our actions. We create our self-protection limiting beliefs. <br/>But life will give us the same situations until we learn and transform because there is only the truth we created. Maybe you don&apos;t get what you want until you see you create what you need, in order to shift. <br/>By taking her armour down and looking under the soil to the roots, Nienke discovered nothing was true; it was only a perspective.  <br/>Being self-honest and putting your vanities aside is the most intimate place you can go. <br/>It can be the most fruitful one as well: to rise. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Due to what comes our way in life, we create our perceived perception as &apos;the truth&apos;. By creating our truth, we keep ourselves safe from feeling hurt, disappointed or insecure. <br/>It predicts how we listen; it shapes our actions. We create our self-protection limiting beliefs. <br/>But life will give us the same situations until we learn and transform because there is only the truth we created. Maybe you don&apos;t get what you want until you see you create what you need, in order to shift. <br/>By taking her armour down and looking under the soil to the roots, Nienke discovered nothing was true; it was only a perspective.  <br/>Being self-honest and putting your vanities aside is the most intimate place you can go. <br/>It can be the most fruitful one as well: to rise. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 31 Transforming worrying and overcare</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Worrying and overcare can sneak into our lives like invited, unwanted guests.  When they show up, we can give them the attention they ask for or send them away. Thank them for coming, and they are no longer needed.  Nienke had the opportunity, based on possibly concerning yearly tumour check-up results, to choose between worrying and overcaring and starting a new collaboration based on what is serving her now.  She chooses the new. Do you dare?     We are all responsible f...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Worrying and overcare can sneak into our lives like invited, unwanted guests. <br/>When they show up, we can give them the attention they ask for or send them away. Thank them for coming, and they are no longer needed. <br/>Nienke had the opportunity, based on possibly concerning yearly tumour check-up results, to choose between worrying and overcaring and starting a new collaboration based on what is serving her now. <br/>She chooses the new. Do you dare? <br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Worrying and overcare can sneak into our lives like invited, unwanted guests. <br/>When they show up, we can give them the attention they ask for or send them away. Thank them for coming, and they are no longer needed. <br/>Nienke had the opportunity, based on possibly concerning yearly tumour check-up results, to choose between worrying and overcaring and starting a new collaboration based on what is serving her now. <br/>She chooses the new. Do you dare? <br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 30 You better get dressed for today</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 30 You better get dressed for today</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When you got dressed today, did you dress for the weather of today?  Or did you dress already for next week? Or for the weather of 3 months ago? If we adjust for outside circumstances why don't we do the same for for our inner circumstances?  Why do respond to things as if it was years ago, or as protection what might happen in the future?  How would it be if we ar prepared for all circumstances or at least tapp into the possibility to get ready for today based on today, not wh...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When you got dressed today, did you dress for the weather of today? <br/>Or did you dress already for next week? Or for the weather of 3 months ago?<br/>If we adjust for outside circumstances why don&apos;t we do the same for for our inner circumstances? <br/>Why do respond to things as if it was years ago, or as protection what might happen in the future? <br/>How would it be if we ar prepared for all circumstances or at least tapp into the possibility to get ready for today based on today, not what was, or what can come. <br/>Bringing an umbrella isn&apos;t a bad thing but we don&apos;t need it all the time. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you got dressed today, did you dress for the weather of today? <br/>Or did you dress already for next week? Or for the weather of 3 months ago?<br/>If we adjust for outside circumstances why don&apos;t we do the same for for our inner circumstances? <br/>Why do respond to things as if it was years ago, or as protection what might happen in the future? <br/>How would it be if we ar prepared for all circumstances or at least tapp into the possibility to get ready for today based on today, not what was, or what can come. <br/>Bringing an umbrella isn&apos;t a bad thing but we don&apos;t need it all the time. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 29 The perfect picture</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Nienke inherited the photography 'eye' from her grandfather. Eyes for the unexpected angle, using a peripheral view within the bigger 'picture'.  As an accountant, Nienke's grandfather used the same skill to see what needed to be seen as a thermometer within the numbers, reading the results in healthy or sick companies. Unfiltered.Real.  Where do we put on filters in our lives to have a perfect picture, to look good for others? Do we dare to be real, with flaws, mistakes and unfilte...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Nienke inherited the photography &apos;eye&apos; from her grandfather. Eyes for the unexpected angle, using a peripheral view within the bigger &apos;picture&apos;. <br/>As an accountant, Nienke&apos;s grandfather used the same skill to see what needed to be seen as a thermometer within the numbers, reading the results in healthy or sick companies. Unfiltered.Real. <br/>Where do we put on filters in our lives to have a perfect picture, to look good for others? Do we dare to be real, with flaws, mistakes and unfiltered reality? <br/>Don&apos;t edit your life; enjoy reality, with or without a camera. <br/> <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nienke inherited the photography &apos;eye&apos; from her grandfather. Eyes for the unexpected angle, using a peripheral view within the bigger &apos;picture&apos;. <br/>As an accountant, Nienke&apos;s grandfather used the same skill to see what needed to be seen as a thermometer within the numbers, reading the results in healthy or sick companies. Unfiltered.Real. <br/>Where do we put on filters in our lives to have a perfect picture, to look good for others? Do we dare to be real, with flaws, mistakes and unfiltered reality? <br/>Don&apos;t edit your life; enjoy reality, with or without a camera. <br/> <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 28 Guest Dr Betty® Uribe When the ordinary becomes extraordinary</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 28 Guest Dr Betty® Uribe When the ordinary becomes extraordinary</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, the special guest is Dr. Betty® Uribe. Born in Colombia, the doctors didn't have faith that she would survive. But her mother believed in her.  Her life shifted over one flight from Colombia to the United States when she was 12. Important women in her life taught her lessons that made her the remarkable woman she is now.  It's highly recommended that you follow her to see how she implements all that life has taught her in the past, to be present for what shows up, and to crea...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, the special guest is Dr. Betty® Uribe. Born in Colombia, the doctors didn&apos;t have faith that she would survive. But her mother believed in her. <br/>Her life shifted over one flight from Colombia to the United States when she was 12. Important women in her life taught her lessons that made her the remarkable woman she is now. <br/>It&apos;s highly recommended that you follow her to see how she implements all that life has taught her in the past, to be present for what shows up, and to create miracles in the future by showing up in the &apos;right&apos; moments. <br/>Her message for this episode is: Be yourself, show up.... when the ordinary becomes extraordinary.<br/>You can find dr Betty® on <br/><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbettyuribe/'>LinkedIn</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/drbettyuribe'>Instagram<br/></a><a href='https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dr.-Betty-Uribe/author/B01N7V5LVY?ref=ap_rdr&amp;isDramIntegrated=true&amp;shoppingPortalEnabled=true'>Amazon</a><br/><a href='https://www.drbettyuribe.com/'>Website </a><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, the special guest is Dr. Betty® Uribe. Born in Colombia, the doctors didn&apos;t have faith that she would survive. But her mother believed in her. <br/>Her life shifted over one flight from Colombia to the United States when she was 12. Important women in her life taught her lessons that made her the remarkable woman she is now. <br/>It&apos;s highly recommended that you follow her to see how she implements all that life has taught her in the past, to be present for what shows up, and to create miracles in the future by showing up in the &apos;right&apos; moments. <br/>Her message for this episode is: Be yourself, show up.... when the ordinary becomes extraordinary.<br/>You can find dr Betty® on <br/><a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/drbettyuribe/'>LinkedIn</a><br/><a href='https://www.instagram.com/drbettyuribe'>Instagram<br/></a><a href='https://www.amazon.com/stores/Dr.-Betty-Uribe/author/B01N7V5LVY?ref=ap_rdr&amp;isDramIntegrated=true&amp;shoppingPortalEnabled=true'>Amazon</a><br/><a href='https://www.drbettyuribe.com/'>Website </a><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 27 Emma&#39;s Legacy</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode is a tribute to Nienke's grandmother, Emma Emily van Bezooijen-Spreksel, born in 1918 during WWI in Rotterdam, the Netherlands. Who grew up in poverty under mental and physical abuse.  Who gave birth, just 20 years old, to a son three months before Rotterdam was bombed by the nazi-regime, starting WWII. Emma overcame her fears and anxiety when she could care for children. She started with her baby brother, who was 17 years younger than she was. Then, my father, my brother, and I,...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This episode is a tribute to Nienke&apos;s grandmother, Emma Emily van Bezooijen-Spreksel, born in 1918 during WWI in Rotterdam, the Netherlands.<br/>Who grew up in poverty under mental and physical abuse. <br/>Who gave birth, just 20 years old, to a son three months before Rotterdam was bombed by the nazi-regime, starting WWII.<br/>Emma overcame her fears and anxiety when she could care for children. She started with her baby brother, who was 17 years younger than she was. Then, my father, my brother, and I, followed by my children.  <br/>Emma died June 29th 2017, nearly 99 years old. <br/>She created her longevity by transforming her difficult childhood into unconditional love, genuine care, and curiosity with empathy for others. <br/>You can read the full story on <a href='https://bit.ly/MyLifeWithEmma'>Kindle https://bit.ly/MyLifeWithEmma </a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode is a tribute to Nienke&apos;s grandmother, Emma Emily van Bezooijen-Spreksel, born in 1918 during WWI in Rotterdam, the Netherlands.<br/>Who grew up in poverty under mental and physical abuse. <br/>Who gave birth, just 20 years old, to a son three months before Rotterdam was bombed by the nazi-regime, starting WWII.<br/>Emma overcame her fears and anxiety when she could care for children. She started with her baby brother, who was 17 years younger than she was. Then, my father, my brother, and I, followed by my children.  <br/>Emma died June 29th 2017, nearly 99 years old. <br/>She created her longevity by transforming her difficult childhood into unconditional love, genuine care, and curiosity with empathy for others. <br/>You can read the full story on <a href='https://bit.ly/MyLifeWithEmma'>Kindle https://bit.ly/MyLifeWithEmma </a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 26 Maintain your dignity</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Dignity is an inside job. Although impulses from the outside world are tempting, they are also considered dignity or self-sabotaging. Like oil and water, they don't blend well.  Recognising your red flags of sabotaging your dignity is worth taking a closer look at.   What if your behaviour is triggered when your dignity is under pressure?  Are you giving up your dignity, or can you stand the heat? Being aware of the circumstances when you sacrifice your dignity is a start. When you recog...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Dignity is an inside job. Although impulses from the outside world are tempting, they are also considered dignity or self-sabotaging. Like oil and water, they don&apos;t blend well. <br/>Recognising your red flags of sabotaging your dignity is worth taking a closer look at.  <br/>What if your behaviour is triggered when your dignity is under pressure? <br/>Are you giving up your dignity, or can you stand the heat? Being aware of the circumstances when you sacrifice your dignity is a start. When you recognise the red flags, you can shift. That&apos;s a Phoenix Frequency. <br/>More about HeartAmbassadors <a href='https://pages.heartambassadors.com/'>here</a><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dignity is an inside job. Although impulses from the outside world are tempting, they are also considered dignity or self-sabotaging. Like oil and water, they don&apos;t blend well. <br/>Recognising your red flags of sabotaging your dignity is worth taking a closer look at.  <br/>What if your behaviour is triggered when your dignity is under pressure? <br/>Are you giving up your dignity, or can you stand the heat? Being aware of the circumstances when you sacrifice your dignity is a start. When you recognise the red flags, you can shift. That&apos;s a Phoenix Frequency. <br/>More about HeartAmbassadors <a href='https://pages.heartambassadors.com/'>here</a><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 25 Can you listen outside of your box?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Have you ever realised how our two human ears are put side by side and form the shape of a heart? What does it indicate? Two ears also form the core of the word "hEARt" indicates that it is important to listen to people from our neutral heart.  The Albinger Institute published in 2007 The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict. We listen from how we frame or box ourselves. That can lead to inner and outer conflict.  Listening outside our self-developed box can broaden our...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever realised how our two human ears are put side by side and form the shape of a heart? What does it indicate? Two ears also form the core of the word &quot;hEARt&quot; indicates that it is important to listen to people from our neutral heart.<br/><a href='https://arbinger.com/store/the-anatomy-of-peace/'> The Albinger Institute published in 2007 The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict</a>. We listen from how we frame or box ourselves. That can lead to inner and outer conflict. <br/>Listening outside our self-developed box can broaden our perception from human to human rather than &apos;othering&apos; or de-personalisation. You and me or me and &apos;them&apos; can shift the world. What are you waiting for if your perception of your world hurts you right now? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever realised how our two human ears are put side by side and form the shape of a heart? What does it indicate? Two ears also form the core of the word &quot;hEARt&quot; indicates that it is important to listen to people from our neutral heart.<br/><a href='https://arbinger.com/store/the-anatomy-of-peace/'> The Albinger Institute published in 2007 The Anatomy of Peace: Resolving the Heart of Conflict</a>. We listen from how we frame or box ourselves. That can lead to inner and outer conflict. <br/>Listening outside our self-developed box can broaden our perception from human to human rather than &apos;othering&apos; or de-personalisation. You and me or me and &apos;them&apos; can shift the world. What are you waiting for if your perception of your world hurts you right now? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 24 Being free from or freedom to choose</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How others see you and perceive you can be mixed up or woven into limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs can influence how you react or interact with others, too.  Don't mix up what you don't want in your life and how others respond to you. BEING limited in what you can or can't;  You have a free choice if you take their perception on as your identity or not.  You have a free choice to stay out of judgment and polarization within yourself at any time.  Gran Emma was an example...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How others see you and perceive you can be mixed up or woven into limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs can influence how you react or interact with others, too. <br/>Don&apos;t mix up what you don&apos;t want in your life and how others respond to you. BEING limited in what you can or can&apos;t;  You have a free choice if you take their perception on as your identity or not. <br/>You have a free choice to stay out of judgment and polarization within yourself at any time. <br/>Gran Emma was an example for Nienke by choosing love over hate. She did this by not passing on the bullying she faced in her childhood but by transforming her choices of curiosity and love instead.  <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How others see you and perceive you can be mixed up or woven into limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs can influence how you react or interact with others, too. <br/>Don&apos;t mix up what you don&apos;t want in your life and how others respond to you. BEING limited in what you can or can&apos;t;  You have a free choice if you take their perception on as your identity or not. <br/>You have a free choice to stay out of judgment and polarization within yourself at any time. <br/>Gran Emma was an example for Nienke by choosing love over hate. She did this by not passing on the bullying she faced in her childhood but by transforming her choices of curiosity and love instead.  <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 23 Don&#39;t outsource what you own</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 23 Don&#39;t outsource what you own</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When we feel emotionally under pressure, we tend to hide how we feel.  We give our response to how we feel away by blaming and shaming others for how we feel.  Polarisation is a mask. The masculine form is the overpowering, attack as the best defence. The feminine mask is to get people in your camp of victimhood, showing how awful you feel because of their behaviour. We justify our behaviour because we outsource the control of how we feel to others.  We see this in our world le...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When we feel emotionally under pressure, we tend to hide how we feel. <br/>We give our response to how we feel away by blaming and shaming others for how we feel. <br/>Polarisation is a mask. The masculine form is the overpowering, attack as the best defence. The feminine mask is to get people in your camp of victimhood, showing how awful you feel because of their behaviour. We justify our behaviour because we outsource the control of how we feel to others. <br/>We see this in our world leaders, but how about ourselves? What do we tell ourselves?<br/>In this week&apos;s episode, Nienke shares her challenge of choosing a mask or a look in the mirror.<br/>She chose what fits her authentic self. How about you? <br/> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When we feel emotionally under pressure, we tend to hide how we feel. <br/>We give our response to how we feel away by blaming and shaming others for how we feel. <br/>Polarisation is a mask. The masculine form is the overpowering, attack as the best defence. The feminine mask is to get people in your camp of victimhood, showing how awful you feel because of their behaviour. We justify our behaviour because we outsource the control of how we feel to others. <br/>We see this in our world leaders, but how about ourselves? What do we tell ourselves?<br/>In this week&apos;s episode, Nienke shares her challenge of choosing a mask or a look in the mirror.<br/>She chose what fits her authentic self. How about you? <br/> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 22 Guest Michael Drummond Davidson The gift from the mines</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 22 Guest Michael Drummond Davidson The gift from the mines</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Michael Drummond Davidson worked as a young man in the mines for a living.  His curiosity brought him to a life-changing experience. Later, the gift from the mines brought him all over the world as a stone mason.   Not only is he a stone healer, but also a living beings healer as a polarity therapist, heart ambassador, nature and art lover.  His latest 'architectural' project is bringing children in touch with nature through the swamps in his rural area in Mississippi. If you h...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Michael Drummond Davidson worked as a young man in the mines for a living.  His curiosity brought him to a life-changing experience. Later, the gift from the mines brought him all over the world as a stone mason.  <br/>Not only is he a stone healer, but also a living beings healer as a polarity therapist, heart ambassador, nature and art lover. <br/>His latest &apos;architectural&apos; project is bringing children in touch with nature through the swamps in his rural area in Mississippi. If you have books or other teaching materials in education about nature, you can donate them to his children&apos;s project.<br/>You can contact him at heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com<br/>    </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michael Drummond Davidson worked as a young man in the mines for a living.  His curiosity brought him to a life-changing experience. Later, the gift from the mines brought him all over the world as a stone mason.  <br/>Not only is he a stone healer, but also a living beings healer as a polarity therapist, heart ambassador, nature and art lover. <br/>His latest &apos;architectural&apos; project is bringing children in touch with nature through the swamps in his rural area in Mississippi. If you have books or other teaching materials in education about nature, you can donate them to his children&apos;s project.<br/>You can contact him at heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com<br/>    </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 21 Good Grief!!!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 21 Good Grief!!!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We grieve when we face a loss, a shift that disrupts us from what was.  A loss of a dear one, a breakup, or a loss of physical or mental capacities.  What if grief is an opportunity to shift what is no longer serving up? If we can bring the pain of the loss to a stepping stone of what elevates us instead, so painful grief and gratitude live on the same page.  This podcast is an honourary tribute to Nienke's partner, Piet, who passed over in October 2023.        W...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>We grieve when we face a loss, a shift that disrupts us from what was. <br/>A loss of a dear one, a breakup, or a loss of physical or mental capacities. <br/>What if grief is an opportunity to shift what is no longer serving up?<br/>If we can bring the pain of the loss to a stepping stone of what elevates us instead, so painful grief and gratitude live on the same page. <br/>This podcast is an honourary tribute to Nienke&apos;s partner, Piet, who passed over in October 2023.   <br/> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 20 (self)Compassion for Beginners</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Compassion with a mental approach is going towards sympathy; from a feeling approach, it comes from empathy for someone suffering or in misfortune, according to the dictionary.  Can you access compassion for someone who is with hate or blame? Can you let go of judgments? Maybe if you are aware, compassion doesn't need agreement to someone's deeds or actions. Compassion is neutral, fréé of judgements.  OK, that is to others, how about you? Can you stay away from blaming, shaming or judging you...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Compassion with a mental approach is going towards sympathy; from a feeling approach, it comes from empathy for someone suffering or in misfortune, according to the dictionary. <br/>Can you access compassion for someone who is with hate or blame? Can you let go of judgments? Maybe if you are aware, compassion doesn&apos;t need agreement to someone&apos;s deeds or actions. Compassion is neutral, fréé of judgements. <br/>OK, that is to others, how about you? Can you stay away from blaming, shaming or judging yourself? Go to self-compassion? <br/>Nienke confused self-compassion for a long time with self-pity. Giving the solution to others to show compassion is not sustainable. Self-pity was due to life experiences, something she felt allergic to. She had a judgement about that. It blocked her from accessing self-compassion, feeling it, living it, and grounding herself as a Phoenix Frequency.  With the <a href='https://heartmastery.com/'>HeartMastery program</a> and the <a href='https://www.fyera.org/heart-ambassadors/'>Heart Ambassadors Community</a>, the portal opened. How about you? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Compassion with a mental approach is going towards sympathy; from a feeling approach, it comes from empathy for someone suffering or in misfortune, according to the dictionary. <br/>Can you access compassion for someone who is with hate or blame? Can you let go of judgments? Maybe if you are aware, compassion doesn&apos;t need agreement to someone&apos;s deeds or actions. Compassion is neutral, fréé of judgements. <br/>OK, that is to others, how about you? Can you stay away from blaming, shaming or judging yourself? Go to self-compassion? <br/>Nienke confused self-compassion for a long time with self-pity. Giving the solution to others to show compassion is not sustainable. Self-pity was due to life experiences, something she felt allergic to. She had a judgement about that. It blocked her from accessing self-compassion, feeling it, living it, and grounding herself as a Phoenix Frequency.  With the <a href='https://heartmastery.com/'>HeartMastery program</a> and the <a href='https://www.fyera.org/heart-ambassadors/'>Heart Ambassadors Community</a>, the portal opened. How about you? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 19 Guest Nariman Hamo- Flying starts with a jump</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Your well-being is my peace initiative! I spent my twenties working on Kurd's rights on the Syrian peace process. Very, very closely! This rich journey taught me that there is much deeper peace and freedom. They are beyond one conflict, one identity. Peace and freedom cross all borders and, most importantly, our individual borders. I experienced that as I had to flee from my birth ground in Syria to, finally, the Netherlands.  Inside us is the only place we can truly start to make any ch...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><b>Your well-being is my peace initiative!<br/></b>I spent my twenties working on Kurd&apos;s rights on the Syrian peace process. Very, very closely! This rich journey taught me that there is much deeper peace and freedom. They are beyond one conflict, one identity. Peace and freedom cross all borders and, most importantly, our individual borders. I experienced that as I had to flee from my birth ground in Syria to, finally, the Netherlands. </p><p>Inside us is the only place we can truly start to make any change. If we make our internal reality the way we desire, our external reality will follow. They become one consistent experience where we thrive. Personal well-being definitely leads to social well-being. That is true peace-building!<br/>I am deeply grateful for my life, for being me, free and at peace. <br/>I am a certified <a href='https://www.1giantmind.com/find-a-teacher-library/nariman-hamo'>1-Giant Mind meditation teacher</a>! I want to change the world and build peace and freedom through teaching you meditation! <br/> <br/>You can contact Nariman by sending an email to <a href='mailto:support@narimanhamo.com'>support @narimanhamo.com</a>  or the contact form <a href='https://www.narimanhamo.com/contact-2'>on the website</a>.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b>Your well-being is my peace initiative!<br/></b>I spent my twenties working on Kurd&apos;s rights on the Syrian peace process. Very, very closely! This rich journey taught me that there is much deeper peace and freedom. They are beyond one conflict, one identity. Peace and freedom cross all borders and, most importantly, our individual borders. I experienced that as I had to flee from my birth ground in Syria to, finally, the Netherlands. </p><p>Inside us is the only place we can truly start to make any change. If we make our internal reality the way we desire, our external reality will follow. They become one consistent experience where we thrive. Personal well-being definitely leads to social well-being. That is true peace-building!<br/>I am deeply grateful for my life, for being me, free and at peace. <br/>I am a certified <a href='https://www.1giantmind.com/find-a-teacher-library/nariman-hamo'>1-Giant Mind meditation teacher</a>! I want to change the world and build peace and freedom through teaching you meditation! <br/> <br/>You can contact Nariman by sending an email to <a href='mailto:support@narimanhamo.com'>support @narimanhamo.com</a>  or the contact form <a href='https://www.narimanhamo.com/contact-2'>on the website</a>.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 18 I married......</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Marriage, tie the knot, or trouwen in Dutch, isn't something you do overnight.  You gain trust first. The same is true with the marriage between the higher masculine and the higher feminine expressions within yourself.  Before you tie the knot, you explore what works and what needs working on.  You check this in a relationship, and it works to check in with these expressions, too.  In normal, day-to-day life, you can become conscious about your response and realise you hav...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Marriage, tie the knot, or <em>trouwen</em> in Dutch, isn&apos;t something you do overnight. <br/>You gain trust first.<br/>The same is true with the marriage between the higher masculine and the higher feminine expressions within yourself. <br/>Before you tie the knot, you explore what works and what needs working on. <br/>You check this in a relationship, and it works to check in with these expressions, too. <br/>In normal, day-to-day life, you can become conscious about your response and realise you have the freedom to choose how to express yourself. <br/>You can pick what drains you and isn&apos;t sustainable, or you can choose what serves you in the long term. <br/>Nienke shares in this episode the parallels between the marriage in life and the inner marriage you can live. <br/>Ps. <br/>To solve the confusion, Nienke was once married for five years to the father of her children. She divorced in 1998. <br/>She was in a relationship with her second partner for 23 years, before he died in October 2023. <br/>The marriage between the higher masculine and feminine starts within yourself. <br/>From that point of view, Nienke is happily married for quite a while.  <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marriage, tie the knot, or <em>trouwen</em> in Dutch, isn&apos;t something you do overnight. <br/>You gain trust first.<br/>The same is true with the marriage between the higher masculine and the higher feminine expressions within yourself. <br/>Before you tie the knot, you explore what works and what needs working on. <br/>You check this in a relationship, and it works to check in with these expressions, too. <br/>In normal, day-to-day life, you can become conscious about your response and realise you have the freedom to choose how to express yourself. <br/>You can pick what drains you and isn&apos;t sustainable, or you can choose what serves you in the long term. <br/>Nienke shares in this episode the parallels between the marriage in life and the inner marriage you can live. <br/>Ps. <br/>To solve the confusion, Nienke was once married for five years to the father of her children. She divorced in 1998. <br/>She was in a relationship with her second partner for 23 years, before he died in October 2023. <br/>The marriage between the higher masculine and feminine starts within yourself. <br/>From that point of view, Nienke is happily married for quite a while.  <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 17 What are your masculine frequencies?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Masculine and feminine energies or frequencies are not male or female nor any other form of gender-based. We all have them. These frequencies come with qualities.  Are you aware of which ones you use? In the masculine, Nienke tunes into the lower and higher expressions of the masculine. The lower form you can see expressed as overpowering, ego-proving, judgmental and ambitious drive, predatory and the righteousness about that. To name just a few. The heart-based and serving masculine fre...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Masculine and feminine energies or frequencies are not male or female nor any other form of gender-based. We all have them. These frequencies come with qualities. <br/>Are you aware of which ones you use? In the masculine, Nienke tunes into the lower and higher expressions of the masculine. The lower form you can see expressed as overpowering, ego-proving, judgmental and ambitious drive, predatory and the righteousness about that. To name just a few. The heart-based and serving masculine frequencies are, e.g., dignity, integrity, soberness, self-honesty, presence and directness. That can be experienced as tough love. What do you use in your actions? Your daily life? Is that how you want to show up? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Masculine and feminine energies or frequencies are not male or female nor any other form of gender-based. We all have them. These frequencies come with qualities. <br/>Are you aware of which ones you use? In the masculine, Nienke tunes into the lower and higher expressions of the masculine. The lower form you can see expressed as overpowering, ego-proving, judgmental and ambitious drive, predatory and the righteousness about that. To name just a few. The heart-based and serving masculine frequencies are, e.g., dignity, integrity, soberness, self-honesty, presence and directness. That can be experienced as tough love. What do you use in your actions? Your daily life? Is that how you want to show up? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 15 What makes your engine run?</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What drives you and sets you on fire in life? Is that a sustainable fuel that sets off your hormonal system? Anger, judgments, hate upsets, can you feel them? They can kickstart you. Adrenaline or cortisol are necessary, but only if you balance them. An overdrive leads to a rushed fire and burns you in the longer term.   How about the counterbalance hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, which are produced by love? Can you thoroughly hate when you are entirely in love?   Sharing appre...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What drives you and sets you on fire in life? Is that a sustainable fuel that sets off your hormonal system? Anger, judgments, hate upsets, can you feel them? They can kickstart you. Adrenaline or cortisol are necessary, but only if you balance them. An overdrive leads to a rushed fire and burns you in the longer term. <br/> How about the counterbalance hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, which are produced by love? Can you thoroughly hate when you are entirely in love? <br/> Sharing appreciation and genuine care helps your hormone system to balance itself. How that ripples out, Nienke shares through the example of the Golden Memory book she created for her grandmother Emma, <br/>How that worked out you can read in the book: <a href='https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Life-Emma-Mountains-Silence-ebook/dp/B07B9XGGY4'>My Life with Emma, Moving Mountains in silence. </a><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What drives you and sets you on fire in life? Is that a sustainable fuel that sets off your hormonal system? Anger, judgments, hate upsets, can you feel them? They can kickstart you. Adrenaline or cortisol are necessary, but only if you balance them. An overdrive leads to a rushed fire and burns you in the longer term. <br/> How about the counterbalance hormones like oxytocin and dopamine, which are produced by love? Can you thoroughly hate when you are entirely in love? <br/> Sharing appreciation and genuine care helps your hormone system to balance itself. How that ripples out, Nienke shares through the example of the Golden Memory book she created for her grandmother Emma, <br/>How that worked out you can read in the book: <a href='https://www.amazon.co.uk/My-Life-Emma-Mountains-Silence-ebook/dp/B07B9XGGY4'>My Life with Emma, Moving Mountains in silence. </a><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 14 Keep the water out of your boat</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Boats don't sink because they are on the water but because the water gets in. If you look at how you live your life, how much unwanted unnecessary water of others do you let into your boat of life?   What do you take on what isn't your task, job or responsibility? What is the reason why you take it on? You can check and keep the water out of your boat with four simple questions. Nienke shares them in this episode. Keep on the water with the right frequencies; otherwise, you might si...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Boats don&apos;t sink because they are on the water but because the water gets in. If you look at how you live your life, how much unwanted unnecessary water of others do you let into your boat of life? <br/> What do you take on what isn&apos;t your task, job or responsibility? What is the reason why you take it on? You can check and keep the water out of your boat with four simple questions. Nienke shares them in this episode. Keep on the water with the right frequencies; otherwise, you might sink slowly due to someone else&apos;s water or unwanted water in your boat! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Boats don&apos;t sink because they are on the water but because the water gets in. If you look at how you live your life, how much unwanted unnecessary water of others do you let into your boat of life? <br/> What do you take on what isn&apos;t your task, job or responsibility? What is the reason why you take it on? You can check and keep the water out of your boat with four simple questions. Nienke shares them in this episode. Keep on the water with the right frequencies; otherwise, you might sink slowly due to someone else&apos;s water or unwanted water in your boat! </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 13 Guest Daeyoung Kim You can unwire your past by chosing unconditional love</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Daeyoung Kim is a South Korean innovator. She stands for international exchange and Public Diplomacy. She is a speaker and panellist on women's leadership and diversity inclusion globally.  She faced obstacles and opportunities in her life's journey between multi-cultural boundaries. As a coach and spiritual EQ Practitioner, she now creates retreats. Here, people are invited to unlearn what they are educated to and learn what services them now.  You can find Daeyoung Kim on LinkedIn  Or ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Daeyoung Kim is a South Korean innovator. She stands for international exchange and Public Diplomacy. She is a speaker and panellist on women&apos;s leadership and diversity inclusion globally. <br/>She faced obstacles and opportunities in her life&apos;s journey between multi-cultural boundaries. As a coach and spiritual EQ Practitioner, she now creates retreats. Here, people are invited to unlearn what they are educated to and learn what services them now. <br/>You can find Daeyoung Kim on <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/daeyoung-kim-08198010b/'>LinkedIn</a> <br/>Or email her at Daeyoung Kim imijourneytome @gmail.com</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Daeyoung Kim is a South Korean innovator. She stands for international exchange and Public Diplomacy. She is a speaker and panellist on women&apos;s leadership and diversity inclusion globally. <br/>She faced obstacles and opportunities in her life&apos;s journey between multi-cultural boundaries. As a coach and spiritual EQ Practitioner, she now creates retreats. Here, people are invited to unlearn what they are educated to and learn what services them now. <br/>You can find Daeyoung Kim on <a href='https://www.linkedin.com/in/daeyoung-kim-08198010b/'>LinkedIn</a> <br/>Or email her at Daeyoung Kim imijourneytome @gmail.com</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 12 When life seems heavy on you</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Living based on Phoenix Frequencies doesn't mean you'll never face difficulties in life again. Over the last weeks, life seemed heavy to Nienke. It makes the difference to recognise the pattern behind it. Not bumping into the same wall over and over again, but being what it is: the reality called life.  Diving under and rising when you feel the tides have turned without the drowning experience. Nienke shows the tool she created to stay out of the drowning feelings. We are all responsible...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Living based on Phoenix Frequencies doesn&apos;t mean you&apos;ll never face difficulties in life again. Over the last weeks, life seemed heavy to Nienke. It makes the difference to recognise the pattern behind it. Not bumping into the same wall over and over again, but being what it is: the reality called life. <br/>Diving under and rising when you feel the tides have turned without the drowning experience. Nienke shows the tool she created to stay out of the drowning feelings.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Living based on Phoenix Frequencies doesn&apos;t mean you&apos;ll never face difficulties in life again. Over the last weeks, life seemed heavy to Nienke. It makes the difference to recognise the pattern behind it. Not bumping into the same wall over and over again, but being what it is: the reality called life. <br/>Diving under and rising when you feel the tides have turned without the drowning experience. Nienke shows the tool she created to stay out of the drowning feelings.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 11 Guest Susanna Kalejian Embracing the unknown</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Susanna Kalejian is an Armenian American, born in Armenia and raised in the United States. Despite facing significant challenges at the age of 32, including surgery, family loss, and the loss of her home, Susanna refused to succumb to darkness. Instead, she embarked on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Through perseverance and dedication, Susanna transformed herself from a victim of circumstance to a powerful creator of her own destiny. Hundreds of hours of study and introspect...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Susanna Kalejian is an Armenian American, born in Armenia and raised in the United States. Despite facing significant challenges at the age of 32, including surgery, family loss, and the loss of her home, Susanna refused to succumb to darkness. Instead, she embarked on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth.<br/>Through perseverance and dedication, Susanna transformed herself from a victim of circumstance to a powerful creator of her own destiny. Hundreds of hours of study and introspection led her to overcome her mental and emotional suffering, ultimately finding her life&apos;s purpose.<br/>Today, as a Heartmath Certified Emotional Resilience Coach, Transformational Guide, and Human Design Consultant, Susanna empowers others struggling with high-stress levels and mental/emotional challenges. She helps them embrace their limitations as opportunities for growth and guides them on a journey of self-discovery and profound transformation.<br/>With compassion, wisdom, and a deep understanding of the human experience, Susanna inspires others to ignite the spark within and create lives filled with freedom, abundance, and fulfilment in their personal and professional lives.</p><p>You can reach Susanna Kalejian at <br/> Email: Profoundheart @gmail.com<br/><br/></p><p>Instagram: <a href='https://www.instagram.com/the_profound_heart?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&amp;utm_source=qr'>the_profound_heart</a> <br/> TikTok: <a href='https://www.tiktok.com/@the.profound.heart?_t=8kNRxqn6dGI&amp;_r=1'>the.profound.heart</a> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 10 The real fear isn&#39;t failure, but success</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 10 The real fear isn&#39;t failure, but success</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In years of coaching and mentoring  the biggest obstacle  for many is rarely the fear of failure. "What if I can't 'make' it" Most of the time it is fear of "What if all I wish for comes my way?" All that big pants responsibility is the real fear to face. What if my big dream comes true....  Today, on her birthday, Nienke looks at her wishlist. Be conscious what you wish for or share what spills over from you.. What frequencies do you want for your birthday?  We are all re...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In years of coaching and mentoring  the biggest obstacle  for many is rarely the fear of failure. <em>&quot;What if I can&apos;t &apos;make&apos; it&quot; </em>Most of the time it is fear of <em>&quot;What if all I wish for comes my way?&quot;</em> All that big pants responsibility is the real fear to face. What if my big dream comes true.... <br/>Today, on her birthday, Nienke looks at her wishlist. Be conscious what you wish for or share what spills over from you..<br/>What frequencies do you want for your birthday? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In years of coaching and mentoring  the biggest obstacle  for many is rarely the fear of failure. <em>&quot;What if I can&apos;t &apos;make&apos; it&quot; </em>Most of the time it is fear of <em>&quot;What if all I wish for comes my way?&quot;</em> All that big pants responsibility is the real fear to face. What if my big dream comes true.... <br/>Today, on her birthday, Nienke looks at her wishlist. Be conscious what you wish for or share what spills over from you..<br/>What frequencies do you want for your birthday? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 9 Never doesn&#39;t exist</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 9 Never doesn&#39;t exist</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How many times did you get a wake-up call and ignore it?  How often have you tried to change a habit or pattern in your life? Life can give us warning signs in relationships, social interactions, or physical health symptoms. How often did you end up in the same situation, like marrying the same person only with a different birthday?  The same job or team that you just left with great relief, only another company?   What if you have to choose: it is life or death?  If you p...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How many times did you get a wake-up call and ignore it? <br/>How often have you tried to change a habit or pattern in your life? Life can give us warning signs in relationships, social interactions, or physical health symptoms.<br/>How often did you end up in the same situation, like marrying the same person only with a different birthday? <br/>The same job or team that you just left with great relief, only another company? <br/><br/>What if you have to choose: it is life or death?  If you phoenix out and life is given, you can choose how to design it in a new frequency. <br/><br/>There are frequencies that can be counterproductive to your chosen path: regret, shame or self-blame. <br/>Regret, shame or self-blame you didn&apos;t act before.  <br/>Those frequencies will hold you back or even loop you into your past behaviour. <br/>It&apos;s up to you. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How many times did you get a wake-up call and ignore it? <br/>How often have you tried to change a habit or pattern in your life? Life can give us warning signs in relationships, social interactions, or physical health symptoms.<br/>How often did you end up in the same situation, like marrying the same person only with a different birthday? <br/>The same job or team that you just left with great relief, only another company? <br/><br/>What if you have to choose: it is life or death?  If you phoenix out and life is given, you can choose how to design it in a new frequency. <br/><br/>There are frequencies that can be counterproductive to your chosen path: regret, shame or self-blame. <br/>Regret, shame or self-blame you didn&apos;t act before.  <br/>Those frequencies will hold you back or even loop you into your past behaviour. <br/>It&apos;s up to you. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Bonus Valentines Episode Be your own Valentine</itunes:title>
    <title>Bonus Valentines Episode Be your own Valentine</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[On Valentine's Day, so many of us speak about love, and in a sincere or commercialized way, love has become a tricky thing. What if you are missing out on someone else's expression of love?  What if this day is full of expectations or disappointments?  What if you would receive a card with the words you say to yourself when you don't reach your own expectations? Would you receive that card with joy and love?  Many religions hijack Self-love as a sin. But love, expression and experience o...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>On Valentine&apos;s Day, so many of us speak about love, and in a sincere or commercialized way, love has become a tricky thing. What if you are missing out on someone else&apos;s expression of love?  What if this day is full of expectations or disappointments? <br/>What if you would receive a card with the words you say to yourself when you don&apos;t reach your own expectations? Would you receive that card with joy and love? <br/>Many religions hijack Self-love as a sin. But love, expression and experience of love can become a source for a ceasefire within ourselves.<br/>You don&apos;t need to approve all behaviour and actions of other people and yourself: you can always add love. <br/>Happy Valentine&apos;s Day.  <br/>If you want to read or hear more about love without adding an agenda to it, Nienke recommends her favourite resources:  <br/><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Love-No-Reason-Creating-Unconditional/dp/1439165033'>Love for no Reason  by Marci Shimoff </a>and <a href='https://beingthesourceoflove.com/'>Being the Source of Love by Sheva Carr</a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On Valentine&apos;s Day, so many of us speak about love, and in a sincere or commercialized way, love has become a tricky thing. What if you are missing out on someone else&apos;s expression of love?  What if this day is full of expectations or disappointments? <br/>What if you would receive a card with the words you say to yourself when you don&apos;t reach your own expectations? Would you receive that card with joy and love? <br/>Many religions hijack Self-love as a sin. But love, expression and experience of love can become a source for a ceasefire within ourselves.<br/>You don&apos;t need to approve all behaviour and actions of other people and yourself: you can always add love. <br/>Happy Valentine&apos;s Day.  <br/>If you want to read or hear more about love without adding an agenda to it, Nienke recommends her favourite resources:  <br/><a href='https://www.amazon.com/Love-No-Reason-Creating-Unconditional/dp/1439165033'>Love for no Reason  by Marci Shimoff </a>and <a href='https://beingthesourceoflove.com/'>Being the Source of Love by Sheva Carr</a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 8 Where are you trying to fit in, so you belong?</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 8 Where are you trying to fit in, so you belong?</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Brené Brown was interviewed by Lewis Howes. It made Nienke wonder, "Where have I been trying to fit in and compromising myself to feel accepted in a way I thought I belonged?" With phoenix frequencies, she realized: I belong to me, and if I can feel, at any time, comfortable with that, I am free to be myself without any pressure. Where do you compromise your true self to fit in? Where do you compromise yourself so you feel you belong to your family, friends or workspace, community or even cou...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Brené Brown was interviewed by <a href='https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/videos/364162266542124'>Lewis Howes</a>. It made Nienke wonder, <em>&quot;Where have I been trying to fit in and compromising myself to feel accepted in a way I thought I belonged?&quot;<br/></em>With phoenix frequencies, she realized: I belong to me, and if I can feel, at any time, comfortable with that, I am free to be myself without any pressure.<br/>Where do you compromise your true self to fit in? Where do you compromise yourself so you feel you belong to your family, friends or workspace, community or even country? <br/>Do you dare to start with yourself? Don&apos;t put the key to your belongings into someone else&apos;s pocket.  You own it, yourself! <em><br/></em><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brené Brown was interviewed by <a href='https://www.facebook.com/lewishowes/videos/364162266542124'>Lewis Howes</a>. It made Nienke wonder, <em>&quot;Where have I been trying to fit in and compromising myself to feel accepted in a way I thought I belonged?&quot;<br/></em>With phoenix frequencies, she realized: I belong to me, and if I can feel, at any time, comfortable with that, I am free to be myself without any pressure.<br/>Where do you compromise your true self to fit in? Where do you compromise yourself so you feel you belong to your family, friends or workspace, community or even country? <br/>Do you dare to start with yourself? Don&apos;t put the key to your belongings into someone else&apos;s pocket.  You own it, yourself! <em><br/></em><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 7 Show me you care, not overcare</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 7 Show me you care, not overcare</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Perfectionism, unrealistic expectations, emotional attachment, feelings of worry, anxiety or guilt might look as if you care about something or someone. The reality is different. It shows your óvercare. This podcast is also a tribute to Denis Campbell, who died in 2021. 'Show Me You Care' was his last book and source of inspiration for this podcast. How do YOU show you care? In care or overcare? It is up to you if you know the difference after this podcast.  We are all responsible for ho...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Perfectionism, unrealistic expectations, emotional attachment, feelings of worry, anxiety or guilt might look as if you care about something or someone. The reality is different. It shows your óvercare. This podcast is also a tribute to <a href='https://www.amazon.nl/-/en/Denis-Campbell-ebook/dp/B08ZT33284'>Denis Campbell</a>, who died in 2021. &apos;Show Me You Care&apos; was his last book and source of inspiration for this podcast. How do YOU show you care? In care or overcare? It is up to you if you know the difference after this podcast. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perfectionism, unrealistic expectations, emotional attachment, feelings of worry, anxiety or guilt might look as if you care about something or someone. The reality is different. It shows your óvercare. This podcast is also a tribute to <a href='https://www.amazon.nl/-/en/Denis-Campbell-ebook/dp/B08ZT33284'>Denis Campbell</a>, who died in 2021. &apos;Show Me You Care&apos; was his last book and source of inspiration for this podcast. How do YOU show you care? In care or overcare? It is up to you if you know the difference after this podcast. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 6 Are you adding life to your days or days to your life? </itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 6 Are you adding life to your days or days to your life? </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How we perceive our quality of life can be very different. It goes beyond the popular term mindset.   No matter how small it seems to others, we can all add life to our days rather than adding days to our lives. Nienke's gran Emma became nearly 99 years old. Till the day she died, at least she tried to add value for herself and others by adding life qualities to her days. She had a healthy and empathic style of interest. Although her self-esteem wasn't high based on her own opinion, she ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How we perceive our quality of life can be very different. It goes beyond the popular term mindset.  <br/>No matter how small it seems to others, we can all add life to our days rather than adding days to our lives. Nienke&apos;s gran Emma became nearly 99 years old. Till the day she died, at least she tried to add value for herself and others by adding life qualities to her days. She had a healthy and empathic style of interest. Although her self-esteem wasn&apos;t high based on her own opinion, she shared: with a child&apos;s hand to guide where they don&apos;t dare, I can move mountains and rise above myself: being at service. Sincere listening to each other fueled her well-being.</p><p>How do you live your days?</p><p>If there comes a phoenix moment in your lifetime, it can be a start to redefining the qualities of your new life. The other option is adding day by day till your last day. What is your legacy, then? </p><p>In the rat race of working life, we often forget we truly have a choice in how we design our days. If you come from a place where you don&apos;t listen to what you need to keep up your energy to sustain, you are just a concatenation of your days. </p><p>If you take a pause and listen, what do you, really, want? What do you let be in the way to reach that? These are just some questions to contemplate.</p><p>Special thanks for the inspiration to <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/sander_de_hosson_should_doctors_treat_your_disease_or_treat_you'>dr Sander de Hosson</a>, who is a real advocate for the quality of life of his patients even if there is no longer a cure possible. Care is what we all can add till the last breath.<br/>You can read Nienke&apos;s book, My Life with Emma, Moving Mountains in Silence to read more about Emma. <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/sander_de_hosson_should_doctors_treat_your_disease_or_treat_you'>Kindle $1 on Amazon</a> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How we perceive our quality of life can be very different. It goes beyond the popular term mindset.  <br/>No matter how small it seems to others, we can all add life to our days rather than adding days to our lives. Nienke&apos;s gran Emma became nearly 99 years old. Till the day she died, at least she tried to add value for herself and others by adding life qualities to her days. She had a healthy and empathic style of interest. Although her self-esteem wasn&apos;t high based on her own opinion, she shared: with a child&apos;s hand to guide where they don&apos;t dare, I can move mountains and rise above myself: being at service. Sincere listening to each other fueled her well-being.</p><p>How do you live your days?</p><p>If there comes a phoenix moment in your lifetime, it can be a start to redefining the qualities of your new life. The other option is adding day by day till your last day. What is your legacy, then? </p><p>In the rat race of working life, we often forget we truly have a choice in how we design our days. If you come from a place where you don&apos;t listen to what you need to keep up your energy to sustain, you are just a concatenation of your days. </p><p>If you take a pause and listen, what do you, really, want? What do you let be in the way to reach that? These are just some questions to contemplate.</p><p>Special thanks for the inspiration to <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/sander_de_hosson_should_doctors_treat_your_disease_or_treat_you'>dr Sander de Hosson</a>, who is a real advocate for the quality of life of his patients even if there is no longer a cure possible. Care is what we all can add till the last breath.<br/>You can read Nienke&apos;s book, My Life with Emma, Moving Mountains in Silence to read more about Emma. <a href='https://www.ted.com/talks/sander_de_hosson_should_doctors_treat_your_disease_or_treat_you'>Kindle $1 on Amazon</a> <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 5 Surrendering is allowing growth</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Surrendering to what seems 'circumstantial' isn't the same as giving up. If you allow yourself to let go of the mental occupation, it is just a pathway to grow yourself. In this episode, Nienke shares how her trip to the other side of the world, against all odds, to be nurtured by a dear friend shifted her perspective. It is never the circumstance itself that seems like a blockage.  It is your attitude about it that can make the difference.  We are all responsible for how we show up...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Surrendering to what seems &apos;circumstantial&apos; isn&apos;t the same as giving up. If you allow yourself to let go of the mental occupation, it is just a pathway to grow yourself.<br/>In this episode, Nienke shares how her trip to the other side of the world, against all odds, to be nurtured by a dear friend shifted her perspective. It is never the circumstance itself that seems like a blockage.  It is your attitude about it that can make the difference. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Surrendering to what seems &apos;circumstantial&apos; isn&apos;t the same as giving up. If you allow yourself to let go of the mental occupation, it is just a pathway to grow yourself.<br/>In this episode, Nienke shares how her trip to the other side of the world, against all odds, to be nurtured by a dear friend shifted her perspective. It is never the circumstance itself that seems like a blockage.  It is your attitude about it that can make the difference. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 4 Shelf-knowledge or Self-knowledge</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 4 Shelf-knowledge or Self-knowledge</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[ If you think just reading more and more materials or listening to more podcasts will bring you where you want to go, you might like learning. The tangible personal transformation is about doing and applying what you learned.   And if nothing is shifting and you self-sabotage, look for the reason. That's starting to look for Self-knowledge. Leave thinking a book only will make your inner shift, on the shelf.  We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, án...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p> If you think just reading more and more materials or listening to more podcasts will bring you where you want to go, you might like learning. The tangible personal transformation is about doing and applying what you learned.  <br/>And if nothing is shifting and you self-sabotage, look for the reason.<br/>That&apos;s starting to look for Self-knowledge. Leave thinking a book only will make your inner shift, on the shelf. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> If you think just reading more and more materials or listening to more podcasts will bring you where you want to go, you might like learning. The tangible personal transformation is about doing and applying what you learned.  <br/>And if nothing is shifting and you self-sabotage, look for the reason.<br/>That&apos;s starting to look for Self-knowledge. Leave thinking a book only will make your inner shift, on the shelf. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 3 Are you a canary in a coal mine? </itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 3 Are you a canary in a coal mine? </title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If you are sensitive to picking up what is happening around you, taking on the unpaid job of becoming the canary in the coal mine in human areas can become habitual. But what if the air is toxic? If you tumble over, you don’t get applause as the canary. In this podcast, Nienke shares how she added her Phoenix Frequency to shift from toxic to fresh breathing air and quit the job of being a sensor for other people's responsibilities.  We are all responsible for how we show up in the world,...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If you are sensitive to picking up what is happening around you, taking on the unpaid job of becoming the canary in the coal mine in human areas can become habitual. But what if the air is toxic? If you tumble over, you don’t get applause as the canary. In this podcast, Nienke shares how she added her Phoenix Frequency to shift from toxic to fresh breathing air and quit the job of being a sensor for other people&apos;s responsibilities. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you are sensitive to picking up what is happening around you, taking on the unpaid job of becoming the canary in the coal mine in human areas can become habitual. But what if the air is toxic? If you tumble over, you don’t get applause as the canary. In this podcast, Nienke shares how she added her Phoenix Frequency to shift from toxic to fresh breathing air and quit the job of being a sensor for other people&apos;s responsibilities. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 2  Sophie Tebbitt: The fire was a blessing in disguise</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 2  Sophie Tebbitt: The fire was a blessing in disguise</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Sophie grew up believing that she was a bad girl and no one could possibly love her!  She was very good at proving herself right and left a trail of moderate destruction behind her!  Very luckily, she met and married Steve, who caused her to start questioning this belief and ignited a curiosity in her about what was out there.  What was life really about?  Why were we here?  What was the way out of suffering apart from the obvious escapist strategies which she employe...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Sophie grew up believing that she was a bad girl and no one could possibly love her!  She was very good at proving herself right and left a trail of moderate destruction behind her!  Very luckily, she met and married Steve, who caused her to start questioning this belief and ignited a curiosity in her about what was out there.  What was life really about?  Why were we here?  What was the way out of suffering apart from the obvious escapist strategies which she employed in the past?  Her quest led her down many interesting paths.  Her life was studded with grief and loss, but her understanding that she could somehow learn from these experiences led her to accept whatever experiences arose fully.  In this, we can create miracles.  In accepting the fire in her house as a blessing (in deep, deep disguise), that is what it became.<br/><br/>More about <a href='https://www.instagram.com/this.bog.life'>This bog life</a> project. Corstown Bridge community Bog Project, near Ardee, Co Louth<br/>Sophie Tebbitt on her personal <a href='https://www.instagram.com/sophie.tebbitt'>Instagram page</a> <br/>Sophie on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/sophie.tebbitt'>Facebook</a>.<br/><a href='https://www.louisekay.net/'>Louise Kay- Channeling</a> or <a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/0oa7oNmHUdZAsEPDg3sv42?si=0709b87b18be4117'>her </a><a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/0oa7oNmHUdZAsEPDg3sv42?si=5b2ad77148104101'>podcast</a> on Spotify <br/><a href='https://heartmastery.com/'>HeartAmbassador and HeartMastery coaching</a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sophie grew up believing that she was a bad girl and no one could possibly love her!  She was very good at proving herself right and left a trail of moderate destruction behind her!  Very luckily, she met and married Steve, who caused her to start questioning this belief and ignited a curiosity in her about what was out there.  What was life really about?  Why were we here?  What was the way out of suffering apart from the obvious escapist strategies which she employed in the past?  Her quest led her down many interesting paths.  Her life was studded with grief and loss, but her understanding that she could somehow learn from these experiences led her to accept whatever experiences arose fully.  In this, we can create miracles.  In accepting the fire in her house as a blessing (in deep, deep disguise), that is what it became.<br/><br/>More about <a href='https://www.instagram.com/this.bog.life'>This bog life</a> project. Corstown Bridge community Bog Project, near Ardee, Co Louth<br/>Sophie Tebbitt on her personal <a href='https://www.instagram.com/sophie.tebbitt'>Instagram page</a> <br/>Sophie on <a href='https://www.facebook.com/sophie.tebbitt'>Facebook</a>.<br/><a href='https://www.louisekay.net/'>Louise Kay- Channeling</a> or <a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/0oa7oNmHUdZAsEPDg3sv42?si=0709b87b18be4117'>her </a><a href='https://open.spotify.com/episode/0oa7oNmHUdZAsEPDg3sv42?si=5b2ad77148104101'>podcast</a> on Spotify <br/><a href='https://heartmastery.com/'>HeartAmbassador and HeartMastery coaching</a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 1 2024 It begins with: Beginning</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 1 2024 It begins with: Beginning</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[A new beginning starts with the reality of transformation. It is an active process, not just a thought or desire for change in your world. Change can be redone, flipped back to the old perspective. Transformation is irreversible. While you transformed, it is a point of no return, like a phoenix.  The only thing to do is to surround yourself with the fitting frequencies by choice. No one can do this for you. The beginning of all transformation starts within yourself.  From there, you...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>A new beginning starts with the reality of transformation. It is an active process, not just a thought or desire for change in your world.<br/>Change can be redone, flipped back to the old perspective. Transformation is irreversible. While you transformed, it is a point of no return, like a phoenix. <br/>The only thing to do is to surround yourself with the fitting frequencies by choice. No one can do this for you. The beginning of all transformation starts within yourself.  From there, you can step into your new bold reality you want to create and facilitate for the world. Starting with yourself, every day again.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A new beginning starts with the reality of transformation. It is an active process, not just a thought or desire for change in your world.<br/>Change can be redone, flipped back to the old perspective. Transformation is irreversible. While you transformed, it is a point of no return, like a phoenix. <br/>The only thing to do is to surround yourself with the fitting frequencies by choice. No one can do this for you. The beginning of all transformation starts within yourself.  From there, you can step into your new bold reality you want to create and facilitate for the world. Starting with yourself, every day again.</p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 11 Ceasefire starts within ourselves</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[If we want to create a peaceful world, we must first be aware of how we are doing within ourselves. How peaceful is your self-talk? Is that as uplifting, encouraging and compassionate as you want to be for others or our world?  In this Xmas 2023 podcast, Nienke shares five simple steps to reframe yourself to a frequency serving peace rather than war within ourselves.  You may need some mediation between your head and your heart first; that's fine. Use Nienke's test to find out who i...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>If we want to create a peaceful world, we must first be aware of how we are doing within ourselves. How peaceful is your self-talk? Is that as uplifting, encouraging and compassionate as you want to be for others or our world? </p><p>In this Xmas 2023 podcast, Nienke shares five simple steps to reframe yourself to a frequency serving peace rather than war within ourselves. </p><p>You may need some mediation between your head and your heart first; that&apos;s fine. Use Nienke&apos;s test to find out who is talking to you: your head or your heart. From there, you can take your response-ability.  </p><p>For what frequencies do you want to be known for or be remembered for?<br/>The complainer, attention seeker, gossipper, naming, blaming and shaming, judgemental righteous bias fighter to protect yourself and keep your armour up at all times? <br/>Or someone who listens, authentically, who can pause and follow through based on resonse-ability, empathy based on compassion and real care?  It&apos;s up to you. <br/>Ceasefire starts within ourselves. <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If we want to create a peaceful world, we must first be aware of how we are doing within ourselves. How peaceful is your self-talk? Is that as uplifting, encouraging and compassionate as you want to be for others or our world? </p><p>In this Xmas 2023 podcast, Nienke shares five simple steps to reframe yourself to a frequency serving peace rather than war within ourselves. </p><p>You may need some mediation between your head and your heart first; that&apos;s fine. Use Nienke&apos;s test to find out who is talking to you: your head or your heart. From there, you can take your response-ability.  </p><p>For what frequencies do you want to be known for or be remembered for?<br/>The complainer, attention seeker, gossipper, naming, blaming and shaming, judgemental righteous bias fighter to protect yourself and keep your armour up at all times? <br/>Or someone who listens, authentically, who can pause and follow through based on resonse-ability, empathy based on compassion and real care?  It&apos;s up to you. <br/>Ceasefire starts within ourselves. <br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 10 Get yourself out of Pity City</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 10 Get yourself out of Pity City</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When adversity kicks in, old patterns and behaviour will knock on your door instantly.  You can 'kill' the discomfort with painkillers or be with it, like how lobsters grow. Although Nienke got advice from her professor at the university hospital LUMC to avoid becoming ill at all costs, to protect her ABI, but.. she got a heavy flu. Adversity!  We all have a choice we can make: the highway to Pity City or take another junction.  She shares how she handled that based on her Phoenix F...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When adversity kicks in, old patterns and behaviour will knock on your door instantly. <br/>You can &apos;kill&apos; the discomfort with painkillers or be with it, like how <a href='https://youtu.be/dcUAIpZrwog?si=FrWHDRDsBBF7H0B7'>lobsters grow</a>.<br/>Although Nienke got advice from her professor at the university hospital LUMC to avoid becoming ill at all costs, to protect her ABI, but.. she got a heavy flu. Adversity! <br/>We all have a choice we can make: the highway to Pity City or take another junction. <br/>She shares how she handled that based on her Phoenix Frequencies in this podcast. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When adversity kicks in, old patterns and behaviour will knock on your door instantly. <br/>You can &apos;kill&apos; the discomfort with painkillers or be with it, like how <a href='https://youtu.be/dcUAIpZrwog?si=FrWHDRDsBBF7H0B7'>lobsters grow</a>.<br/>Although Nienke got advice from her professor at the university hospital LUMC to avoid becoming ill at all costs, to protect her ABI, but.. she got a heavy flu. Adversity! <br/>We all have a choice we can make: the highway to Pity City or take another junction. <br/>She shares how she handled that based on her Phoenix Frequencies in this podcast. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 9 Ambition or Mission</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[The Life Energy Institute played a significant role in the shift from ambitious drive to mission alignment. I convinced myself I would never do a 'business course' again. Striving to become important in the field of business building and entrepreneurship. Funnels, social media followers. I used to be in that world and even taught people how to get there.  But I phoenixed and came out a different way.  Even these podcasts are a result of what I found, not because of.... just because I have a c...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><a href='https://www.lifeenergyinstitute.net/'>The Life Energy Institute</a> played a significant role in the shift from ambitious drive to mission alignment. I convinced myself I would never do a &apos;business course&apos; again. Striving to become important in the field of business building and entrepreneurship. Funnels, social media followers. I used to be in that world and even taught people how to get there. <br/>But I phoenixed and came out a different way. <br/>Even these podcasts are a result of what I found, not because of.... just because I have a cause. <br/><a href='https://www.lifeenergyinstitute.net/'>The Life Energy Institute</a> cause you can find <a href='https://www.lei-ipsbtrust.org'>here</a> <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href='https://www.lifeenergyinstitute.net/'>The Life Energy Institute</a> played a significant role in the shift from ambitious drive to mission alignment. I convinced myself I would never do a &apos;business course&apos; again. Striving to become important in the field of business building and entrepreneurship. Funnels, social media followers. I used to be in that world and even taught people how to get there. <br/>But I phoenixed and came out a different way. <br/>Even these podcasts are a result of what I found, not because of.... just because I have a cause. <br/><a href='https://www.lifeenergyinstitute.net/'>The Life Energy Institute</a> cause you can find <a href='https://www.lei-ipsbtrust.org'>here</a> <br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <title>Episode 8 You don&#39;t need courage to shift</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What if you don't need courage to be sparked by fear? What if you can act, what looks to the outside world as courageous but is natural for you because it is your choice? If you love the shift possibility so much, what seems courageous,  can become an effortless effort. You can add supporters to find that frequency, like curiosity, wisdom, and vulnerability.  With the 'good intention season' coming up you can give it a shot, for the fun of a different perspective, an unexpected new ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>What if you don&apos;t need courage to be sparked by fear? What if you can act, what looks to the outside world as courageous but is natural for you because it is your choice?<br/>If you love the shift possibility so much, what seems courageous,  can become an effortless effort. You can add supporters to find that frequency, like curiosity, wisdom, and vulnerability. <br/>With the &apos;good intention season&apos; coming up you can give it a shot, for the fun of a different perspective, an unexpected new perspective.  <br/><br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if you don&apos;t need courage to be sparked by fear? What if you can act, what looks to the outside world as courageous but is natural for you because it is your choice?<br/>If you love the shift possibility so much, what seems courageous,  can become an effortless effort. You can add supporters to find that frequency, like curiosity, wisdom, and vulnerability. <br/>With the &apos;good intention season&apos; coming up you can give it a shot, for the fun of a different perspective, an unexpected new perspective.  <br/><br/> </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 7 Erin Robinson: Let the hurricane come!</itunes:title>
    <title>Episode 7 Erin Robinson: Let the hurricane come!</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Erin Robinson, Co-Founder of Grateful Farms (Lakewood-CO -USA), is a HeartMath Certified Trainer and Horse Guided Empowerment Facilitator and Mentor. Erin uses her experience in leadership, coaching, personal trauma, grief and resilience to guide folks through an impactful journey of self-discovery and awareness. With compassion and love, Erin and her horses help others discover the profound inner wisdom and trust that resides within us all.  Erin's  Phoenix Frequency is gratitude. You c...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Erin Robinson, Co-Founder of Grateful Farms (Lakewood-CO -USA), is a HeartMath Certified Trainer and Horse Guided Empowerment Facilitator and Mentor. Erin uses her experience in leadership, coaching, personal trauma, grief and resilience to guide folks through an impactful journey of self-discovery and awareness. With compassion and love, Erin and her horses help others discover the profound inner wisdom and trust that resides within us all. <br/>Erin&apos;s  Phoenix Frequency is gratitude.<br/>You can contact Erin at <a href='mailto:erin.robinson78@gmail.com'>erin.robinson78 @gmail.com</a> <br/>Or on Social Media <br/><a href='https://linkedin.com/in/erinrobinson78'>LinkedIn</a><br/><a href='https://instagram.com/grateful_farms'>Instagram </a><br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/GratefulFarms1111'>Facebook</a><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erin Robinson, Co-Founder of Grateful Farms (Lakewood-CO -USA), is a HeartMath Certified Trainer and Horse Guided Empowerment Facilitator and Mentor. Erin uses her experience in leadership, coaching, personal trauma, grief and resilience to guide folks through an impactful journey of self-discovery and awareness. With compassion and love, Erin and her horses help others discover the profound inner wisdom and trust that resides within us all. <br/>Erin&apos;s  Phoenix Frequency is gratitude.<br/>You can contact Erin at <a href='mailto:erin.robinson78@gmail.com'>erin.robinson78 @gmail.com</a> <br/>Or on Social Media <br/><a href='https://linkedin.com/in/erinrobinson78'>LinkedIn</a><br/><a href='https://instagram.com/grateful_farms'>Instagram </a><br/><a href='https://www.facebook.com/GratefulFarms1111'>Facebook</a><br/><br/><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[When emotions rise, your thinking capacity drops, and you likely get reactive based on impulsiveness.  After facing collateral damage because of being reactive, Nienke developed her personal manual, how to recognise what is going on inside when you can't see that from the outside. A self-honest inquiry, heart-vulnerable, gives clarity for herself and to trusted people around her to help her based on the signals she could communicate upfront, so they can help.  What is your manual to...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>When emotions rise, your thinking capacity drops, and you likely get reactive based on impulsiveness. <br/>After facing collateral damage because of being reactive, Nienke developed her personal manual, how to recognise what is going on inside when you can&apos;t see that from the outside. A self-honest inquiry, heart-vulnerable, gives clarity for herself and to trusted people around her to help her based on the signals she could communicate upfront, so they can help. <br/>What is your manual to catch yourself before you fall into the trap of reactiveness based on triggers? </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[“What is the bravest thing you've ever said? asked the boy. 'Help,' said the horse. 'Asking for help isn't giving up,' said the horse. 'It's refusing to give up.”― Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse How to be courageous enough to ask for help when it doesn't feel safe or when life numbs you. Nienke shares about transference-countertransference and projection around asking for help as an obstacle for safety in the drama triangle.  As a perceived Do it Yourself singl...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<h1>“What is the bravest thing you&apos;ve ever said? asked the boy.<br/>&apos;Help,&apos; said the horse.<br/>&apos;Asking for help isn&apos;t giving up,&apos; said the horse. &apos;It&apos;s refusing to give up.”</h1><p>― <a href='https://www.charliemackesy.com/'><b>Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse</b></a><b><br/></b>How to be courageous enough to ask for help when it doesn&apos;t feel safe or when life numbs you. Nienke shares about transference-countertransference and projection around asking for help as an obstacle for safety in the drama triangle.  As a perceived Do it Yourself single woman, unclarity can create blurry boundaries and unwanted consequences. It&apos;s OK to be not OK, and the bravest thing you can do is ask for help. <br/>Because listening in a non-violent way creates space to become OK again without fixing but from receiving from a neutral perspective. Then you can become courageously grateful for receiving support.  </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<h1>“What is the bravest thing you&apos;ve ever said? asked the boy.<br/>&apos;Help,&apos; said the horse.<br/>&apos;Asking for help isn&apos;t giving up,&apos; said the horse. &apos;It&apos;s refusing to give up.”</h1><p>― <a href='https://www.charliemackesy.com/'><b>Charlie Mackesy, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse</b></a><b><br/></b>How to be courageous enough to ask for help when it doesn&apos;t feel safe or when life numbs you. Nienke shares about transference-countertransference and projection around asking for help as an obstacle for safety in the drama triangle.  As a perceived Do it Yourself single woman, unclarity can create blurry boundaries and unwanted consequences. It&apos;s OK to be not OK, and the bravest thing you can do is ask for help. <br/>Because listening in a non-violent way creates space to become OK again without fixing but from receiving from a neutral perspective. Then you can become courageously grateful for receiving support.  </p><p><br/></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA["For years, I thought I was a giver, serving others by giving. However, responses from others changed how I felt about my actions. I was 'othering' my self-esteem".  In this episode, Nienke speaks about the matrix of feeling self-worthy. From there, it is easier to tap into the frequencies you want to be with: the giver or the pleaser, the receiver or the taker. It's never about 'others'; it is how you choose to be with them from your perspective. You are responsible for your actions, no...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 3 The mirror of reacting</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Little did I know when I started these podcast series, a huge life's curve ball would be on my path. Now, I got the opportunity to move from being reactive or responsive to the Phoenix Frequency. Facing myself with a pause in the mirror.  We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing t...]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 2 Being the eye of the storm</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Being the eye of storms in life Nienke saw that as a strength for a long time.... After the first Phoenix Frequencies went live, Nienke got many requests to share her background and the drive behind this podcast.  From a very young age, Nienke learned it was rewarding to look after others.  No wonder she became a nurse.  The quality of listening to others, empathy and staying calm became attractive to others. Supporting others became a pattern in Nienke's life. Until a benign b...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Being the eye of storms in life Nienke saw that as a strength for a long time....<br/>After the first Phoenix Frequencies went live, Nienke got many requests to share her background and the drive behind this podcast. <br/>From a very young age, Nienke learned it was rewarding to look after others. <br/>No wonder she became a nurse. <br/>The quality of listening to others, empathy and staying calm became attractive to others. Supporting others became a pattern in Nienke&apos;s life. Until a benign brain tumour showed her a different path.  <br/>Only a full stop made a transformation possible. The ashes. <br/>Based on four questions and rising awareness around Matyrhood, Nienke found her way up. <br/>Use it if it helps you, share it if it can help others.<br/>Dare to rise. </p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Episode 1 2023 The start </itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It is time to rise. The Phoenix frequency podcast series has started.  Where life seems to have burned you down, the Phoenix frequencies might be a resource for you.  It is time to rise with the frequency that fits you in your life's purpose.   Sources of Inspiration HeartAmbassadors Lazaris More about Nienke We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best vers...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It is time to rise. The Phoenix frequency podcast series has started. <br/>Where life seems to have burned you down, the Phoenix frequencies might be a resource for you. <br/>It is time to rise with the frequency that fits you in your life&apos;s purpose. <br/><br/>Sources of Inspiration<br/><a href='https://pages.heartambassadors.com/#'>HeartAmbassadors</a><br/><a href='https://www.lazaris.com/'>Lazaris</a><br/><a href='https://www.nienkevanbezooijen.com/'>More about Nienke</a></p><p>We are all responsible for how we show up in the world, to others, ánd to ourselves. With Phoenix Frequencies, Nienke van Bezooijen shines her light on what we can do to be the best versions of ourselves based on how we show up and what we are willing to learn. It isn&apos;t about showing the way with pretended positivity, it is the heart-based vulnerability-sharing options. It takes courage to rise. See what is for you. Or share with others.  Perfect doesn&apos;t exist; curiosity can be the stepping stone to broaden your perspectives. <br/><br/>Courage to move on from the past,<br/>Trust to be with the present,<br/>Rise to create a new future. </p><p>If you want to be interviewed as a phoenix, write to  heartbraincoachnienke @gmail.com</p>]]></description>
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