More people than ever are searching:

• What do married couples wish they knew before marriage?
• Why is marriage harder than expected?
• How do you build a healthy marriage?
• Why do relationships struggle after the honeymoon phase?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya & Shan King unpack one of the most relatable and highly searched relationship topics across podcasts, YouTube, and social media—the truths many married people wish they knew before saying “I do.”

Marriage can expose:

•  emotional wounds 
•  communication struggles 
•  unrealistic expectations 
•  insecurity 
•  unresolved trauma 
•  emotional immaturity 

And many couples realize after marriage that love alone is not enough to sustain a healthy relationship.

In this powerful conversation, The Kings discuss:

•  Why marriage reveals what singleness often conceals
•  The truth about communication, emotional maturity, and accountability
•  How childhood wounds and past experiences impact marriage 
•  Why many people unknowingly expect their spouse to provide validation, identity, and fulfillment
•  The importance of healing, self-awareness, and personal growth before and during marriage 
•  Biblical insight on guarding your heart and building a relationship from a healthy foundation 

This episode speaks directly to those searching for:

•  marriage advice 
•  relationship advice 
•  preparing for marriage 
•  healthy marriage tips 
•  communication in marriage 
•  emotional healing in relationships 
•  Christian marriage guidance 
•  relationship growth and healing 

Whether you’re single, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, this conversation offers practical wisdom, emotional insight, and relationship truths that many people wish they had understood earlier.

Because marriage doesn’t just test love…

👉 It reveals character, emotional health, healing, and maturity.

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More people than ever are searching:

•  Why do I feel unfulfilled in my relationship? 
•  Why am I not happy even though I’m in love? 
•  Why do I keep needing more from my partner? 

In this powerful continuation of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we address one of the most searched relationship topics across podcasts, YouTube, and social media—emotional unfulfillment in relationships and the internal work many avoid.

Here’s the truth:
 Unfulfillment is not always about what your partner isn’t giving…
 it’s often about what hasn’t been healed, developed, or addressed within.

In this episode, The Kings unpack:

•  Why relationship dissatisfaction and emotional emptiness are increasing today 
•  How unhealed trauma, past wounds, and emotional triggers show up in your marriage 
•  The truth about seeking validation, reassurance, and identity through your spouse
•  Why communication breakdown, frustration, and recurring conflict keep happening 
•  How to move from blame to self-awareness and accountability
•  The importance of inner healing, personal growth, and emotional maturity
•  Biblical principles that point to self-reflection, identity, and transformation from within

If you’ve been searching for:

•  why I feel unfulfilled in my relationship 
•  how to be happy in a relationship 
•  how to fix relationship problems 
•  emotional needs in relationships 
•  how to stop feeling empty inside 
•  how to heal emotionally 

This episode will help you understand that:

The fulfillment you’re searching for externally
 begins with the work you’re willing to do internally.

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In today’s culture, more couples than ever are asking: Why do relationships fail? Why do marriages not last? Why do we keep having the same arguments?

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya & ShanTrail King unpack one of the most searched relationship topics today—the impact of unhealed wounds, emotional triggers, and lack of self-awareness in marriage and relationships.

Too often, people expect their partner to fix what they didn’t break—insecurities, past trauma, fear, and emotional pain—and it creates a cycle of frustration, disconnection, and conflict.

This episode dives deep into:

•  Why relationships are failing today despite love being present 
•  How emotional triggers and unresolved trauma show up in marriage 
•  The truth about relationship patterns, self-sabotage, and communication breakdown
•  Why expecting your spouse to meet unspoken emotional needs leads to disappointment 
•  The importance of self-reflection, accountability, and inner healing
•  How to shift from blaming your partner to doing the work within 

With practical insight and faith-based wisdom, this conversation challenges listeners to stop looking outward for solutions and start doing the internal work required for real relationship growth, emotional connection, and lasting love.

If you’ve been searching for:

• why relationships fail
• how to fix a struggling relationship
• how to communicate better in marriage
• how to stop arguing with your spouse
• how to heal emotionally in a relationship

This episode is for you.

Because the truth is— the relationship you want is built by the work you’re willing to do within yourself.

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Feeling invisible in your own marriage can be one of the most frustrating and confusing experiences—especially when you’re doing everything you know to do to make the relationship work.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya and ShanTrail King unpack why so many couples experience emotional disconnection, lack of communication, and feeling unseen in a relationship—even when love is still present.

Many people are searching for answers to questions like:
 Why do I feel alone in my marriage?
Why doesn’t my spouse understand me?
How do we reconnect emotionally?

This conversation goes deeper than surface-level advice. It explores how losing your identity, people-pleasing, and pretending in relationships can slowly create distance between you and your spouse. When authenticity is replaced with performance, connection becomes strained—and over time, it leads to frustration, resentment, and emotional burnout.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

•  What causes emotional distance and disconnection in marriage 
•  Why communication breaks down in relationships 
•  How pretending and masking affect intimacy 
•  Ways to improve communication and express your true feelings 
•  Practical steps to rebuild emotional connection and trust 
•  How to develop self-awareness and show up authentically in your marriage 

This episode is for those searching for marriage advice, relationship help, communication tips for couples, emotional intimacy, and how to fix a struggling or disconnected marriage. Whether you’re feeling overlooked, misunderstood, or simply stuck, this conversation will help you reflect, reset, and move forward with clarity.

Focal Scripture: 2 Corinthians 13:5 (MSG)
“Test yourselves… Don’t drift… If you fail the test, do something about it.”

If you’re ready to stop drifting, start understanding yourself, and build a stronger connection in your marriage—this episode is for you.

🎧 Marriage Mondays with The Kings
Real conversations. Real healing. Real growth.

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Some people want healthy relationships and strong community… but don’t know how to trust again after being hurt.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, the Kings' break down how to build healthy relationships, overcome trust issues, and create safe, meaningful community in today’s world. This conversation is centered on emotional healing, building trust, setting boundaries, and developing safe relationships that are rooted in growth and consistency.

If you’ve experienced past hurt, betrayal, or disappointment, and now find it difficult to trust others or feel connected, this episode will help you understand how to rebuild trust and create healthy connections without losing yourself in the process.

The Kings discuss:

 • How past experiences create trust issues in relationships
 • How to build trust again with wisdom, not fear
 • What safe and healthy relationships actually look like
 • How to set boundaries and protect your emotional well-being
 • How to intentionally build a strong, supportive community

This episode is for individuals and couples who are ready to grow, heal, and stop repeating unhealthy relationship patterns. Whether you are navigating marriage, friendships, or personal growth, this conversation will equip you with the tools to create safe, healthy, and lasting connections.

Because the truth is…
You may not have the village you once knew, but you can still build a community that is strong, safe, and aligned with your growth.

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You’ve worked hard to build what you have… but have you taken the time to protect it?

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya and ShanTrail sit down with special guest Demetris Curry, wealth strategist and legacy builder, to have a conversation that many people avoid—but cannot afford to ignore.

Because it is not just about what you build. It is about what you leave behind.

In this powerful discussion, we cover:
 • Individuals who do not have a will—and what that can cost their families
 • Wills vs. trusts and the key differences you need to understand
 • The importance of protecting your assets and securing your family legacy
 • How to begin putting the right plan in place with clarity and confidence

Demetris Curry brings over 30 years of experience in financial planning, estate strategies, and wealth sustainability, helping break down complex topics into practical, real-life steps you can take now.

This episode will challenge you to think differently about your finances, your responsibility, and your legacy.

Do not wait until it is too late.

Protect what you built. Prepare your family. Secure your legacy.

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Some of y’all say you miss the village… but don’t realize it takes healing to build one again.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya and ShanTrail King dive into the heart of what’s been lost—and what can still be rebuilt. “From Village to Community: What Changed—and How Do We Get It Back?” is a real conversation about trust, pain, and the intentional work it takes to create meaningful, God-centered relationships today.

The truth is, people didn’t just stop showing up… hurt, betrayal, and disappointment changed how we show up. Now many desire connection but struggle with trust, boundaries, and vulnerability.

In this episode, the Kings walk listeners through:

 • How to identify how you show up in relationships
 • Understanding what hurt you and how it shaped your trust
 • Learning how to trust again with wisdom and discernment
 • Beginning the process of building a healthy, faith-centered community

With a foundation in Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, this episode reminds us that we were created for connection—but that connection requires healing, growth, and intentionality.

If you’ve been feeling disconnected, guarded, or unsure about letting people in again, this conversation will meet you right where you are—and challenge you to grow beyond it.

Stop waiting for community… and start becoming someone who can build it.

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Let’s be real… everybody talks about what a man should be, but not enough people talk about what a man has been through.

When a man truly heals, everything connected to him starts to shift. His mindset changes. His communication changes. His love changes. And listen… the people around him feel the difference.

In this episode, we’re getting to the root of it. We’re talking about the wounds men don’t always speak on, the pressure to stay silent, and what it really looks like when a man chooses healing over hiding. Because healing isn’t weakness—it’s work. It’s courage. It’s transformation.

Now y’all know… when a man does the work, it doesn’t just bless him—it impacts his marriage, his children, and his legacy.

So whether you are a man on the journey, love a man, or are trying to understand one… this conversation is for you.

It’s time to stop carrying what was never meant to break you.
It’s time to heal… for real.

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What does it really mean when Scripture says a man who finds a wife receives favor from the Lord?

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we dive into Proverbs 18:22 (NLT):
“The man who finds a wife finds a treasure, and he receives favor from the Lord.”

Many husbands pray for favor, opportunities, and blessings from God, yet overlook the very favor that may already be sitting beside them. A wife is not simply a partner in life—Scripture calls her a treasure and a sign of God’s favor operating within a man’s life.

In this conversation, we explore what biblical favor truly means and discuss the ways some husbands unknowingly fight against the blessing God placed in their marriage. We also highlight the many ways a wife’s wisdom, discernment, encouragement, and spiritual covering can positively impact her husband, family, and legacy.

This episode encourages husbands to pause and reflect: Are you recognizing and honoring the treasure God gave you, or have you begun to take that favor for granted?

Join us for a meaningful discussion that challenges husbands to recognize the value of their wives and learn how to work with the favor God has already placed in their lives.

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In Part III of the Husbands: Provider & Protector series on Marriage Mondays with The Kings, the conversation continues to explore what true leadership in the home looks like for husbands and fathers.

After addressing many of the concerns wives and children have expressed in previous shows—such as emotional absence, limited engagement, and spiritual passivity—this discussion focuses on the full blueprint of leadership that goes beyond simply providing financially and protecting physically.

While providing and protecting are foundational responsibilities, true leadership requires much more. A husband’s influence is seen through his emotional presence, spiritual guidance, intentional fatherhood, humility, accountability, and willingness to pursue personal healing. When husbands actively lead in these areas—praying with their families, communicating openly, participating in parenting, and setting the spiritual tone of the home—they help create stability, safety, and a lasting generational impact.

Providing builds survival.
Presence builds legacy.

This episode challenges husbands, fathers, and future leaders of homes to step fully into the role of guiding their families with strength, wisdom, and intentionality.

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In Part II of this impactful series on Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we continue the discussion from the first show by revisiting the concerns many wives and children have shared regarding emotional absence, limited engagement, and spiritual passivity in the home. We also referenced research and data that highlight the powerful impact of active, present fatherhood.

This episode shifts from identifying the gaps to offering direction. Providing financially and protecting physically are essential, but true leadership goes further. Biblical leadership requires emotional presence, spiritual guidance, intentional fatherhood, accountability, and personal healing.

We explore what it looks like for husbands to lead holistically — praying with their families, communicating openly, participating in parenting, and creating an atmosphere of safety and stability. When a husband fully embraces his role, it transforms not only his marriage but the next generation.

Providing builds survival.
 Presence builds legacy.

If you are a husband, father, or future leader of a home, this episode offers encouragement and practical insight into becoming the leader your family truly needs.

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In this impactful episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we address a belief many husbands carry: “As long as I provide and protect, I’ve fulfilled my role.”

Providing financially and protecting physically are essential responsibilities. However, are they the complete blueprint for biblical leadership? This conversation challenges men to look deeper. We discuss how limiting leadership to income and physical security can leave emotional, spiritual, and relational gaps within the home.

Many wives express concerns about emotional absence, lack of partnership in parenting, spiritual passivity despite church titles, and disengagement from daily family life. Children often share that their fathers are present physically but not emotionally available. Research consistently shows that engaged fatherhood significantly impacts children’s academic performance, emotional health, and behavioral stability.

We also address an often overlooked issue: many men avoid healing. Suppressed emotions, unresolved childhood wounds, reluctance to seek therapy, and emotional withdrawal can affect how a husband leads his household.

Being a provider and protector is foundational — but leadership requires presence, spiritual engagement, vulnerability, and intentional fatherhood. This episode calls husbands to move beyond survival leadership and into transformational leadership at home.

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Series topic: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

What if your marriage isn’t falling apart… it’s fading?

Not because of one big betrayal.
 Not because of one explosive argument.

But because of the little things you stopped paying attention to.

In this powerful episode of The Silent Killers of Marriage, we expose the quiet patterns that slowly suffocate connection—unspoken resentment, emotional distance, lack of appreciation, unmet expectations, and the habits couples ignore until it’s almost too late.

We’re talking about:
 • The subtle behaviors that create emotional drift
 • Why “we’re fine” can be the biggest red flag
 • How to confront small cracks before they become deep fractures
 • Practical tools to rebuild intimacy, trust, and communication

Listen… marriages rarely die loudly. They die quietly.

If you value what you’ve built, this episode is your wake-up call.

Press play. Let’s protect your marriage on purpose. 💍🔥

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In Part II of this timely and honest conversation, Marriage Mondays with The Kings moves from awareness to transformation. After exploring the generational roots of the independent woman mindset, this episode focuses on how strength can be both a gift and a barrier in marriage.

Independence builds resilience, work ethic, and self-sufficiency. But when survival mode turns into over-functioning, emotional guardedness, or difficulty receiving support, it can quietly create distance in relationships. Many strong women find themselves exhausted from carrying everything, struggling with trust, and unsure how to shift from “I’ve got it” to “We’ve got it.”

The Kings provide practical tools for moving from survival to partnership—learning how to communicate needs, release emotional backup plans, stop over-carrying, and embrace healthy interdependence without losing identity.

Because independence helps you survive.
 But partnership helps you thrive.

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In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we explore the roots of the “independent woman” mindset and how it has been passed down through generations. What began as survival training for grandmothers and great-grandmothers—who faced limited rights, financial dependence, and fewer opportunities—was necessary for their time. But many women today are still living from that same survival mindset, even though we now have more access, support, and opportunity to thrive.

We discuss how young girls are often taught how to protect themselves and prepare to stand alone, yet later are told to “be submissive” in relationships without being taught how to truly partner, trust, build together, or receive support. That early seed of doubt can quietly show up in marriage as emotional walls, over-independence, and difficulty fully relaxing in love.

This episode also shines light on the hidden burden many strong women carry—being the fixer, the provider, and the one everyone leans on—while rarely having a safe place to fall apart themselves.

This conversation is not about blame. It’s about awareness, healing, and learning how to honor the strength of the women before us while choosing connection over constant protection in our marriages today.

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Is your marriage truly growing — or just repeating the same cycles with different arguments?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, IT’S TIME TO ELEVATE: Your Marriage, we get honest about the real reason many relationships stay stuck. Spoiler alert: it’s not always your spouse. Many of the struggles couples face today are rooted in unhealed childhood wounds, emotional baggage, and toxic patterns that quietly follow us into adulthood.

Using the powerful illustration of a hot air balloon, we break down how issues like control, fear of abandonment, unresolved anger, addiction, and people-pleasing act like sandbags — keeping marriages grounded when they were designed by God to soar. Rooted in Isaiah 40:31, this conversation explores how spiritual faith must be matched with emotional healing and personal responsibility.

You’ll hear modern-day examples of how couples unknowingly replay their past in present conflicts, why prayer without action keeps us stagnant, and how true freedom comes when we release what’s toxic within.

“When you release what is toxic to you, you feel free — and that freedom causes you to elevate higher.”

We close with practical, faith-based tools individuals can start using immediately to bring healing, accountability, and elevation into their marriage.

If you’re ready to stop surviving and start rising together, this episode is for you.

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Some of us are praying for breakthrough… while speaking defeat every day.

Listen — your mouth is not just a tool for communication, it is a container of power. What you speak consistently, you eventually start living. That is why the enemy loves when we stay stuck in negative confessions, self-doubt, fear, and “I cannot” talk.

In this episode, we are talking about:

• Why your words carry spiritual and emotional authority
• How negative self-talk can sabotage your purpose
• The difference between venting and verbally cursing your own life
• How to start speaking life even when life is lifing

Because let us be real… you cannot build a blessed life with a broken confession.

It is time to do the root work — starting with your mouth.

🎧 Press play, take notes, and let this be the day you stop speaking death and start declaring life.

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Marriage cannot thrive on one-sided effort. There must be a balance of giving and receiving for a relationship to grow healthy and strong.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, the Kings break down the principle of give and take in marriage and why it matters. While there is nothing wrong with receiving, a marriage built only on taking will eventually struggle. Growth, connection, and longevity require mutual investment, responsibility, and intentional effort from both partners.

This conversation challenges listeners to examine their own role in the marriage and consider whether they are contributing as much as they expect to receive.

Listen in, reflect honestly, and be encouraged to build a marriage that is rooted in balance, partnership, and purpose.

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Let’s be honest—how do couples expect their marriage to stay healthy if they never step away to spend intentional time together?

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, the Kings tackle a question many couples avoid: is your marriage struggling because of your spouse… or because the marriage has been neglected? Over time, many couples slowly stop investing time, rest, and connection into their relationship, then wonder why distance, frustration, and resentment begin to grow.

This conversation challenges listeners to take a hard look at how busyness, routine, and distractions quietly erode intimacy. The Kings discuss why getting away—whether for a short break or intentional quality time—is not a luxury, but a necessity for a healthy marriage.

If your marriage feels disconnected, this episode invites reflection, responsibility, and redirection. It may not be about what your spouse has done wrong, but about what the marriage has been missing.

Listen in, reflect honestly, and be encouraged to invest again in what matters most.

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Have you ever stopped to think about how often God’s Word is misused—especially when it comes to marriage?

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, the Kings speak candidly about the danger of twisting Scripture and the damage it causes in relationships. This conversation centers on the power of honesty, integrity, and truth, reminding us that “The Lord detests lying lips, but He delights in people who are trustworthy” (Proverbs 12:22 NIV).

Marriage is a sacred covenant, and it cannot thrive without trust and transparency. When truth is compromised, the foundation begins to crack. The Kings challenge listeners to examine how God’s Word is applied in their marriage and to return to a place of sincerity, accountability, and faithfulness.

Listen in, reflect honestly, and be encouraged as you grow toward a healthier, God-honoring marriage.

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When did the internet become safer than honest conversation with your spouse?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we unpack a growing trend that is quietly reshaping marriages. A 2025 survey reveals that 64% of married Americans search online for marriage help before speaking to their spouse, often out of fear of conflict, misunderstanding, or making things worse.

Couples are turning to AI, Google, forums, and social media for answers — while real conversations at home go untouched.

In this episode, we discuss:
 • Why couples trust AI more than their partner
 • The emotional fears behind silent searching
 • The Top 10 most-searched marriage questions people ask online
• How avoiding hard conversations damages trust and intimacy
• What Scripture teaches us about communication
• Practical, faith-based tools to help couples reconnect and heal

Focal Scripture: James 1:19

If you feel disconnected, unheard, or unsure how to start the hard conversations in your marriage, this episode will challenge you, encourage you, and give you tools to begin doing the root work that leads to real healing.

This is a conversation every couple needs to hear.

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In Part III of this powerful series, we move from awareness to action. After uncovering the wounds (Part I) and identifying the patterns they create in marriage (Part II), this episode focuses on the practical tools individuals can begin using to heal the childhood pain that continues to shape their reactions, emotions, and communication today.

Many husbands and wives know something from their past is affecting their relationship, but they don’t always know what to do next. This episode is designed to guide you into the next step of your healing journey. We walk you through biblically grounded, emotionally safe, and practical strategies that help you begin repairing the inner child that still influences how you show up in your marriage.

You’ll learn:
 • How to recognize your default emotional responses
 • How to create safety within yourself and your relationship
 • How to express what you feel without blaming your spouse
 • How to interrupt destructive patterns
 • How to rebuild trust with your own emotions
 • How to begin reparenting the wounded parts of you
 • How to communicate needs and fears with honesty and grace

Healing inner childhood wounds isn’t easy, but it is possible. This episode gives you the tools to begin doing the work—step by step, layer by layer—so you can show up in your marriage as a healthier, more grounded, more emotionally aware version of yourself.

If you’re ready to break cycles, change patterns, and create a new emotional foundation for your marriage, this episode will meet you right where you are.

Don’t just talk about healing—start doing the work.

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In this powerful continuation of last week’s conversation, we go deeper into the truth many couples avoid: unhealed childhood wounds don’t stay in childhood— they grow up with us, and they show up in our marriages as patterns, reactions, and emotional habits that quietly damage connection.

In Part II, we walk listeners through the real-life behaviors that come from unresolved pain: overreacting, shutting down, controlling tendencies, people-pleasing, hyper-independence, defensiveness, and emotional avoidance. These patterns aren’t random. They are learned survival responses from childhood that become destructive communication styles in adulthood.

Through vulnerable insight, biblical grounding, and practical tools, we explore how to recognize these patterns, interrupt them, and begin creating a safe emotional environment in your marriage. Healing doesn’t happen by accident— it happens by intentional reflection, accountability, and allowing God to deal with the roots, not just the symptoms.

If you’re ready to stop repeating cycles, stop reacting from old wounds, and build a marriage that reflects healing instead of survival mode, this episode is for you.
 Your marriage can’t transform until you do.

Tune in, grow, and begin the work that leads to real restoration.

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Let’s be real… many marriages today are fighting battles that didn’t start in the marriage — they started in childhood. In this powerful first installment of our two-part series, we unpack how unhealed childhood wounds silently shape adult relationships and create marital triggers that leave couples feeling misunderstood, frustrated, and disconnected.

This episode takes you on a compassionate but honest journey through the root causes of relational pain. We define what marital triggers truly are, how they form, and why so many husbands and wives unintentionally react to their spouse through the lens of past hurt. Abandonment, rejection, emotional neglect, chaos, harsh discipline, and early responsibility — these childhood experiences don’t disappear. They follow us into marriage unless we intentionally heal them.

With biblical insight, real-life examples, and practical tools, we guide listeners to recognize their own patterns and begin the inner work required for lasting change. Because your spouse can support your healing, but they cannot heal what they did not break. This episode is about understanding yourself, breaking generational cycles, and creating a marriage built on awareness, safety, and emotional maturity.

If you're ready to stop repeating yesterday’s wounds and start building a healthier tomorrow with your spouse, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are — and invite you to grow.

Don’t just talk about healing… be about healing.

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Let’s be real—some of y’all are out here dating a whole salesperson and calling it “getting to know them.” This week on Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we’re talking straight to the singles and the married folks who wish they’d paid closer attention before saying “I do.”

This episode digs into the polished, perfectly-packaged version of a person that shows up during dating—the one who talks a good game, sells a good dream, but disappears once the relationship gets real. The Kings break down how this “salesperson persona” can lead to disappointment, disconnection, and even the downfall of a marriage.

We’re answering two hard-hitting questions:

1. Why do people show up as the salesperson when they’re dating?
2. Would more marriages survive if folks led with honesty instead of a highlight reel?

If you’re tired of surface-level dating or you’re married and finally ready to admit you bought a product that wasn’t advertised correctly—this episode is for you.

Tune in, reflect, and share it with someone who needs the truth before they make the same mistake.

 Stop buying the pitch. Start paying attention to the person.

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Some wives haven’t gone quiet because they don’t care — they’ve gone quiet because they’re tired of talking and not being heard.

In this continuation of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya and ShanTrail King dig even deeper into the heart of what wives are truly longing for in marriage in 2025. Part II moves from awareness to action — helping husbands learn how to show up, speak love, and stay consistent when their wives need it most.

This episode challenges men to examine how they respond to emotional needs, communicate under pressure, and protect their wife’s peace — not with control, but with compassion. The Kings combine biblical truth, counseling insight, and real-life wisdom to help couples do the root work that leads to real healing.

💜 In This Episode You’ll Learn:

• Why some wives emotionally withdraw — and how to rebuild trust
• How husbands can respond with empathy instead of defensiveness
• The power of consistency, prayer, and emotional presence
• Root-work steps for husbands who want to love from a healed place
• Tools to strengthen communication and connection this week

📖 Focal Scripture: Ephesians 5:25 (NIV)

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.”

💬 Thought of the Week:

“Your wife doesn’t need perfection — she needs presence. Healing starts when you show up, not when you shut down.”

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Let’s be real — a lot of wives aren’t silent because they’re fine… they’re silent because they’re tired of saying the same thing and still feeling unheard.

In this raw and honest episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, Kenya and ShanTrail King unpack what wives in 2025 are truly longing for in marriage — not more stuff, but more emotional connection, healing, safety, and presence.

This conversation dives into the top 15 needs wives are expressing across counseling rooms, social media, and faith circles: husbands who are emotionally intelligent, healed from past trauma, and spiritually grounded enough to love with intention.

Whether you’re newly married, decades in, or trying to rebuild after distance, this episode offers practical insight and heart work that will help you understand your wife on a deeper level.

💜 In This Episode:

• What wives are really saying they need (even when they’ve stopped saying it)
• How a husband’s healing impacts the peace in his home
• Emotional intelligence: the missing piece in most marriages
• Tools to help husbands reconnect, communicate, and protect their wife’s peace
• Faith-based guidance for creating emotional and spiritual safety in marriage

💬 Quote of the Week:

“Your wife doesn’t need perfection — she needs presence. Healing starts when you show up, not when you shut down.”

📖 Focal Scripture: 1 Peter 3:7 — “Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives and treat them with respect…”

If you’re ready to stop guessing what your wife wants and start understanding what she needs, this episode is your starting point.
Tune in, take notes, and start doing the root work that leads to real connection, real peace, and real love.

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Many couples say they want a stronger marriage — but few are willing to do the real work to get there. 

In this follow-up episode, The Kings dive even deeper into what husbands are voicing in 2025—their need for respect, appreciation, peace, and emotional safety—while also reminding wives that this conversation is about partnership, not perfection.

This is for the grown folks who want to elevate in their marriage… for those who are done blaming and ready to take personal responsibility, make lasting changes, and build something unshakable. Whether your marriage is in a good place or you simply know it could be better, this episode will challenge, inspire, and equip you to love more intentionally.

Listen in to hear The Kings bring honesty, humor, and hope to the heart of marriage—helping couples everywhere move from surviving… to truly thriving together.

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Many wives believe that the longer they’re married, the better they know their husband. But in 2025, men are expressing something different—they still want to be known, respected, and understood.

In this week’s episode, The Kings dive deep into what husbands are truly voicing in today’s marriages. From needing respect, appreciation, emotional safety, and genuine partnership, to craving peace at home and not being compared to other men, this conversation goes beyond surface-level advice.

Join us as we explore how the needs of husbands have evolved over the years, what social media and modern research reveal about men in marriage today, and how wives can become more in tune with their husbands’ hearts. Whether your marriage feels strong or strained, this episode will give you real tools, relatable insight, and renewed hope for deeper connection.

💡 Focal Scripture: Ephesians 5:33 — “...and let the wife see that she respects her husband.”

🎧 Tune in and be reminded that when love and respect work hand in hand, marriages thrive.

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In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings®, Kenya and ShanTrail dive deep into one of the most overlooked truths about marriage — not every couple is truly walking together. Some are thriving in partnership, while others are unknowingly living under dictatorship.

💭 Ask yourself:
Are we walking side by side as equals, or has one of us taken over the wheel while the other silently follows?

Join the Kings as they unpack what a Godly partnership really looks like — where love, respect, and teamwork rule — versus the control, imbalance, and unhappiness that define a dictatorship-style marriage. You’ll hear relatable, modern-day examples of both dynamics and gain practical, faith-based tools for restoring unity, peace, and purpose in your relationship.

🔥 Key Takeaways:

• What defines a partnership in marriage — and what doesn’t
• Signs your marriage may have slipped into a one-sided dictatorship
• How control destroys connection and joy
• Steps to move from domination to mutual devotion
• A powerful reminder that God’s design for marriage is never about control — it’s about covenant

📖 Focal Scripture:
Ephesians 5:21 – “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.”

🎧 Tune in, reflect deeply, and be encouraged to rebuild your marriage as God intended — a true partnership rooted in love, respect, and unity.

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Marriage is either evolving or eroding — there’s no standing still. In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings®, we uncover why a growth mindset in marriage is essential for building a strong, lasting relationship. Couples who fail to grow together often drift apart, leaving their marriage stagnant, unhealthy, and vulnerable.

Through biblical wisdom, real-life examples, and practical marriage tools, we explore how husbands and wives can avoid becoming contaminants to one another and instead nurture a thriving partnership rooted in faith, love, and intentional growth.

✨ Key Takeaways You’ll Gain:

• Why spiritual growth and personal development are vital for every marriage.
• How stagnation slowly kills love, intimacy, and trust.
• Practical tools to grow together emotionally, spiritually, and relationally.
• A scriptural foundation (John 15:2, Romans 12:2) for pursuing growth as a couple.

Whether you’ve been married for decades or are just starting your journey, this conversation will challenge and inspire you to water, prune, and cultivate your marriage so it produces lasting fruit.

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In today’s world, couples are facing more pressure than ever—financial hardships, job loss, political tension, and racial division threaten to pull families apart. But as believers, we are called to rise above the noise and build marriages that stand strong on Christ, not culture.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we’re diving deep into how husbands and wives can:

 ✨ Stay united when the world feels divided.
 ✨ Overcome financial stress and job loss as a team.
 ✨ Protect their home atmosphere from negativity and outside influence.
 ✨ Strengthen family dynamics with prayer, intentional time, and biblical truth.
 ✨ Rekindle love and romance even in hard seasons.

📖 Focal Scripture: Matthew 7:24–25 reminds us to build our house on the Rock—so when the storms of life come, our marriage will not fall.

If you’ve been feeling the weight of today’s climate on your marriage or family, this conversation will give you biblical encouragement, practical tools, and renewed hope to keep pursuing one another and protecting your covenant.

💡 Thought of the Week: “The storms of life will always rage around us, but they don’t have to rage within our homes. Unity in marriage is built when we choose Christ as our foundation, and each other as our daily pursuit.”

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In a world full of comparisons and distractions, how can couples stay focused on each other? In this episode, Kenya & ShanTrail King share Biblical tools and real-life strategies to help you stop competing with the world, rediscover your spouse, and build a God-centered marriage that thrives under pressure.

Tune in and be encouraged to focus on what really matters—your covenant, your connection, and your calling together. 🙌🏾

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In Part II of Healing from Spiritual Abuse in Marriage – Restoring Identity When Faith Became Weaponized, we go even deeper into how couples can recognize the hidden signs of spiritual manipulation, break free from cycles of control, and rebuild a marriage rooted in God’s truth. Many marriages struggle silently with religious trauma, church hurt, and misuse of scripture—often leaving spouses feeling silenced, shamed, or disconnected from God’s love. This episode uncovers practical tools for healing, restoring trust, and creating a Christ-centered partnership built on love, respect, and freedom. If you’re ready to reclaim your spiritual identity and experience real restoration in your marriage, don’t miss this powerful conversation."

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Restoring Identity When Faith Became Weaponized

"Spiritual abuse in marriage is a hidden struggle many couples face, where God’s Word is misused to control, shame, or silence a spouse. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we expose what spiritual abuse looks like in Christian marriage today, how it damages identity, and the biblical truth that sets couples free. Learn how to recognize manipulation disguised as faith, break cycles of control, and restore your God-given freedom and partnership. Whether you’re healing from church hurt, religious trauma, or spiritual manipulation in your relationship, this conversation offers hope, healing, and practical tools to build a healthy, Christ-centered marriage based on love, respect, and mutual submission.

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Couples that grind together... but do not grow together

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we dive into the real-life tension between building success and building intimacy. Many couples are grinding together but slowly growing apart. From emotional disconnection to spiritual misalignment, we’ll help you identify the warning signs — and give you practical, faith-based tools to reconnect, rebuild, and truly grow together.

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Are you blaming your spouse for the constant tension in your marriage? What if the real issue isn’t them... but your unhealed wounds?

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we’re diving deep into the truth that marriage often reflects the brokenness we’ve never dealt with. We’ll explore how past trauma, childhood wounds, and emotional baggage show up in our relationships—and how healing them can change everything.

Whether you’re married, engaged, or desiring to be, this conversation is for anyone ready to break unhealthy cycles and build a Christ-centered, emotionally healthy marriage.

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If you and your spouse kneel side-by-side yet feel miles apart when you stand, this episode is for you.! 

You attend church, read the Bible, even hold hands in prayer—yet you’re emotionally disconnected. You're not alone.

Whether you’re newlyweds or 25 years in—don’t miss this one. Your marriage deserves more than surface-level unity. We're diving deep into what it really means to be spiritually connected and emotionally aligned in marriage. Let’s heal for real.

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Let’s be real—whether you're single and dating or already married and reflecting, we all have moments where we question the choices we've made in relationships.

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of toxic relationships, asking, “Why do I keep choosing the wrong person?” Or maybe you're already married, looking back and thinking, “Did I miss the red flags?” Whether you're single and dating, engaged, or married and trying to make sense of your past choices, this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings is the real talk you didn’t know you needed.
We’re unpacking what it really means when your ‘picker’ is broken—how unresolved wounds, unmet needs, or generational habits can influence your dating decisions and ultimately, your marriage. Learn the powerful difference between dating vs. courting, and how those early choices shape your future.

 If you're serious about breaking unhealthy relationship patterns, finding true love, or strengthening the marriage you already have, this episode is packed with relationship advice, emotional healing insights, and faith-based wisdom that will challenge and empower you.

💥 Don’t miss this powerful conversation—it could change the way you love, forever.

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Question: Why do so many couples skip pre-marital counseling and head straight to the altar?

In this eye-opening episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we reveal the final 5 reasons why individuals avoid pre-marital counseling—and how that decision can silently destroy the foundation of marriage.

🎯 Whether you're SINGLE, ENGAGED, or already MARRIED—this episode is your wake-up call. Let’s be real—many have rushed to the wedding without doing the heart work first. If you’re serious about building a godly, lasting marriage, you need to hear this before saying "I do" or wondering why your marriage feels stuck.

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Question: Are you truly ready for marriage, or are you just ready for a wedding?

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we're speaking directly to singles who desire a Godly marriage but may be ignoring the most important question: "Do I really know who I'm marrying?" 

We dive into the reasons as to why couples who desire to be married, not seek pre-marital counseling. This episode isn’t just for the singles—it’s also for the married folks who are realizing they never really knew their spouse at all. 

Let’s be real: some of us got married to someone’s representative, not their reality. It’s time to pause and reflect. Whether you’re waiting, dating, or already married—this conversation is going to challenge you in the best way.

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Question: Can understanding your spouse’s birth order save your marriage—or at least explain why they do what they do?

In Part II of "Who Am I Married To?", Marriage Mondays with the Kings dives deeper into the powerful influence of birth order in marriage. Whether you're married to a firstborn, middle child, youngest, or only child, each position in the family lineup shapes how your spouse communicates, handles conflict, makes decisions, and expresses love.

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You love them... but do you really know them?

This episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings will make you pause and ask:

 👉 Did I marry their heart or just their habits?
 👉 Am I fighting with my spouse, or their childhood trauma?

We’re diving DEEP—childhood wounds, unresolved triggers, and how they secretly show up in your marriage. 

Plus, tools to start truly understanding your spouse… before assumptions turn into arguments.

Whether you're married or planning to be, THIS is the episode you can’t afford to skip. 

Real talk. Real tools. Real transformation.

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What does submission in marriage really look like in the soft girl era? Is it outdated—or deeply spiritual? In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we’re diving into what it truly means for a wife to embrace submission without losing herself… and how the environment her husband creates can either invite her softness or shut it down.

💡When a wife feels safe, protected, and emotionally covered, she can operate in her God-given femininity—soft, strong, and surrendered to God's divine order.

We break down:

• The world vs. biblical definition of submission
• Why soft girl energy doesn't mean weakness
• How a husband’s leadership sets the tone for peace at home
• The importance of inner healing and self-care for both spouses
• What submission looks like when love leads, not control

👉 If you’ve ever struggled with the idea of submission or felt torn between independence and biblical womanhood—this episode is for you. Let’s talk real healing, safe love, and thriving marriages!

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Let’s talk about the conversation that everyone tiptoes around—but desperately needs to have.

Why is it so easy for some wives to submit to their boss, their pastor, their friends… yet struggle to submit to the one man God called them to honor—their husband? 😮‍💨

In this powerful episode, we’re getting REAL about:

💥 What biblical submission actually means (and what it doesn’t)
💥 Why so many women resist it—and how that resistance silently tears down their home
💥 What it looks like in everyday life to honor your husband without losing your voice
💥 The blessings that come when we submit to God’s order—not the world’s opinions

Whether you're a wife, husband, or single preparing for marriage, this episode will challenge, heal, and open your eyes to what submission truly looks like in a God-centered relationship.

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This is the episode every husband—and every wife praying for her husband—needs. In Part I, we explored why biblical leadership from a husband is vital. Now in Part II, we’re digging into the how.

If you’ve ever asked, “Where do I even start?”—this is for you.

Whether you didn’t have a father figure, never saw real leadership modeled, or you’re just ready to grow—this episode breaks it down step-by-step. No fluff. Just real tools, real talk, and real encouragement to help you lead with purpose and power.

🔥 In this episode:

How to lead spiritually even if you’ve never done it before

• What it looks like to lead through communication, unity, and love
• Ways to build trust and vision in your marriage
• Simple actions that speak louder than words
• Scriptures that anchor your role as a husband

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Question: What happens when a husband truly steps into his God-given role as the leader of his home?

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we dive deep into the heart of what it means for a husband to lead—biblically, lovingly, and with purpose.

Whether you’re a husband unsure of how to lead, a wife longing for more unity in your marriage, or a couple seeking to grow stronger together—this episode is for you.

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Join us on Marriage Mondays with the Kings as we delve into the Second Love Theory, exploring how past relationships shape our approach to love and marriage. Discover insights on nurturing a mature, fulfilling partnership grounded in personal growth and understanding.

In This Episode:

• Definition and examples of the Second Love Theory 
• Positive and negative impacts on marriage
• Relevant scriptures and focal teachings 
• Practical tools for strengthening your relationship 

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In this raw and honest episode, we’re exposing the truth behind faking love in marriage — smiling in public while falling apart in private. From emotional disconnect to pretending everything's fine, this conversation is a wake-up call for couples craving authenticity and healing.

👉 You're not alone. We're breaking the silence and getting to the root of why so many marriages are suffering behind closed doors — and more importantly, how to restore genuine connection, emotional intimacy, and God-centered love. 

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When One Partner Feels Like They’re Giving More...

Are you currently in your marriage feeling any of the following: 

💔 "I give so much, but my partner doesn’t seem to notice..."
😤 "Why does it feel like I’m the only one trying in this relationship?"
⚠️ "Is it wrong to give an ultimatum when I feel unheard?"

If you’ve ever felt like you’re carrying more weight in your relationship—whether emotionally, financially, or spiritually—this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings is for YOU!

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🔥 🚨REAL TALK: Is Your Past Sneaking Into Your Marriage?🚨 🔥

You’ve moved on, built a beautiful life with your spouse… but why does the past keep creeping back in? 😟 Old flames, emotional wounds, past mistakes—can a marriage truly survive when old attachments won’t let go?

• Have you ever felt like you're fighting ghosts from your partner's past?
• Does an ex keep “randomly” popping up?
• Are past mistakes causing new problems in your marriage?

🛑 It’s time to face the truth and take back your relationship! 🛑

This episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we’re getting RAW & REAL about how to protect your marriage from the past!  Learn how to set boundaries, heal together, and move forward stronger than ever!

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Unfortunately, many are navigating turbulent times. Many are in fear of losing their jobs and their way of life. Political and economic uncertainties have led to widespread stress among other things. Although, we believe in and have faith in God; how are you preparing for what is to come? Many of those who are in leadership do not have answers for their employees who are facing job loss. 

If you are grappling with these complexities, facing job insecurity, or struggling to make ends meet this show is for you. If not you, share it with someone who is. We explore how to keep the faith, while navigating economic hardships and providing available national community resources

Join us for faith-based perspectives, practical advice, and a supportive community ready to stand with you. Remember, in moments of adversity, turning to faith and community can light the path forward.

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When Boundaries in Relationships Become Red Flags" 

Is your partner keeping secrets, or are they just maintaining privacy? Healthy boundaries are essential in relationships, but when do they become red flags?  Join us as we dive into the difference between privacy and secrecy, uncover warning signs of hidden behaviors, and share relationship-saving strategies for trust and transparency!

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Can You Be Your Husband’s Peace? 💍 In a world full of stress, distractions, and relationship challenges, one of the most powerful things you can offer your husband is peace. But how do you create a marriage filled with love, calm, and faith—even in difficult times?

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we dive deep into Biblical marriage advice, conflict resolution in relationships, and the key to emotional and spiritual intimacy in marriage. Whether you’re struggling with communication, feeling disconnected, or just want to strengthen your bond, this episode is for you!

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

        ✅ How to bring emotional peace into your marriage
        ✅ The power of spiritual connection in your relationship
        ✅ Practical tools for resolving marriage conflicts biblically
        ✅ How to protect your marriage from outside stress & negativity
        ✅ The role of prayer and faith in creating a strong, God-centered marriage

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In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we dive deep into the biblical truth of Proverbs 18:22 – "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor from the Lord." 🙌🏽

✅ What does it mean to be "His Favor" in marriage?
✅ Husbands: Are you recognizing & honoring your God-given blessing?
✅ Wives: How can you fully embrace your role as a divine gift?
✅ The secrets to unlocking God’s favor in your relationship!

💡 If you want to build a strong Christian marriage, strengthen your love, and walk in God’s blessings, this episode is for you! 💡

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What does it truly mean to be a provider in marriage? It goes beyond financial support—it's about leading, protecting, and loving with purpose. In this episode, we'll explore how men can embrace their God-given role as providers, drawing inspiration from the ultimate Provider, God Himself. We’ll unpack biblical truths that highlight the significance of spiritual, emotional, and relational provision in building a Christ-centered marriage.

Whether you're seeking to step into your role as a provider or want to better understand the responsibility, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover how to strengthen your marriage and glorify God in your role as a husband.

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In this powerful episode, we’ll dive into what it truly means to be a protector in marriage—not just physically but emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Drawing from biblical principles, we'll explore how husbands are called to guard their wives' hearts, minds, and spirits, creating a marriage rooted in love, trust, and divine purpose.

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

"Is your relationship not what it used to be? In Part III of 'Drifting Apart: How Couples Grow in Different Directions Over Time,' we uncover why so many couples feel like strangers over time and how to reignite the connection. From emotional disconnection to differing life goals, we discuss real-life examples and biblical wisdom to help couples navigate and heal. Whether you're feeling distant or want to safeguard your marriage, this episode provides actionable steps to bring you closer than ever. Tune in and rediscover the love that brought you together!"

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Marriage is a journey, but what happens when the path you’re walking with your spouse starts to diverge? On this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, the Kings dive into the often-unspoken truths behind why couples feel they’ve “grown apart.” Is it really change that separates us, or is it something deeper? From subtle shifts in communication to unmet expectations and unaddressed wounds, the Kings offer raw insights into what leads couples to drift apart and how to find your way back to connection.

Join us as we tackle questions like:

• Why do spouses often feel like their partner has “changed”?
• What triggers emotional and relational distance?
• How can couples take practical steps toward rediscovering unity?

Whether you’re feeling distant in your own marriage or simply want to strengthen your relationship, this episode will provide real talk and practical wisdom to inspire hope and healing. Tune in, share this message with others, and as always, be blessed!

Listen now to rediscover the power of love and connection in marriage.

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

"A thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built with intentional effort, shared growth, and unwavering love. Even when life pulls you in different directions, remember that God joined you together for a purpose. Take small steps to reconnect this week—listen more, share more, and pray together—because every step toward each other is a step toward the oneness God designed for your union."

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

Are you and your spouse growing apart? In this episode discover why couples drift over time and how to reignite your connection. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we dive into real-life examples, biblical wisdom, and practical strategies to strengthen your bond. Whether it's career pressures, lack of communication, or changing priorities, it's never too late to grow together. Don't let the spark fade—listen now and learn how to protect your marriage from drifting apart!"

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

Addiction isn’t just a personal battle—it’s a relationship killer. In this raw and revealing episode, we uncover how addiction infiltrates marriages, breaking trust, damaging communication, and leaving emotional wreckage in its wake. Whether it’s alcohol, drugs, gambling, or another hidden struggle, we explore the real impact on couples and how to take back your relationship from the edge.

Hear expert advice, real-life insights, and the first steps toward healing. Whether you’re directly affected or know someone who is, this episode offers the tools and hope needed to rebuild a strong foundation. Share this with someone who needs it—change starts here.

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

Can marriage thrive in today’s hookup culture? In this episode, we tackle how casual dating norms and instant gratification challenge long-term commitment. With expert insights and lively discussions, discover practical advice to strengthen your marriage in an ever-changing world. A must-listen for anyone navigating love in modern times!

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Lately, there has been a lot of individuals saying how they are going to cut people off. There are many who deep down feel as though they cannot trust their husband/wife. Others have a broken trust with their church, job and even community. Why? Where does this come from and why do you feel that you can not fully trust? Listen in, feel free to share and be blessed. 

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Many believe that the longer you’re married, the better you know your spouse—but the truth is, marriage is a continual journey of discovery. Every day offers a chance to learn something new about your husband or wife, if you’re open to it.

Each of us has unique needs in marriage, and no two marriages are exactly the same. The key is being in tune with your spouse—understanding their needs, while also recognizing and communicating your own.

Join the Kings as they dive into some of the most essential needs within marriages today. This real, thought-provoking conversation will help you better connect, grow, and strengthen your relationship.

Tune in, share with others, and be blessed!

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Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?
Episode 6

Do generational curses really affect marriage success? Can the cycle of divorce be broken? In this episode, we dive deep into how family patterns, inherited beliefs, and unhealed trauma can impact marriages. Discover powerful ways to recognize and overcome toxic family cycles, build stronger relationships, and leave a lasting legacy of love. 

Join us as we explore faith-based insights and practical steps for true healing and freedom. 

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In 2024, conversations around self-love and personal growth are louder than ever, but is our obsession with these trends actually helping or hurting our relationships? Join us in this thought-provoking episode as we explore the balance between individual self-improvement and maintaining strong, committed relationships.

The Kings’ dive into whether the "self-love revolution" has gone too far, impacting long-term relationship goals. Are we unknowingly prioritizing ourselves at the expense of meaningful connections? Is personal growth truly empowering, or are we missing the bigger picture? So many questions to be answered. 

Watch now to find out how to thrive both as individuals and in our relationships. Don't miss this empowering discussion that could change the way you view self-love and growth forever!

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Is your marriage struggling with communication, trust, or emotional disconnection? You’re not alone! Many couples experience these challenges, but few know about the ultimate secret weapon to overcome them—counseling.

In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, we dive deep into why counseling is a game-changer for marriages. We’ll discuss how it can break down walls, improve communication, and help you build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. Counseling isn’t just for couples on the edge—it’s for EVERY couple who wants to grow and thrive together.

Whether you’re newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode will open your eyes to the incredible power of seeking help and investing in your relationship.

Don’t miss this chance to learn how counseling can be the key to a happier, healthier, and longer-lasting marriage! ❤️Tune in now and unlock the potential of your love!

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Don’t you wish that there were some things that you would have known before you said ‘I Do?”. We are often so head over heels in love, that we ignore the obvious red flags that are right before our eyes. As we journey along in marriage, there are a lot of mistakes that we make. Some lead to divorce and some make our marriages stronger. Singles, this may help you as well in your journey towards marriage. Be blessed and feel free to share.

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Show Series: The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

In this powerful episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings’, they dives deep into the final four silent killers that threaten the very foundation of marriages.

7. Financial stress: Money isn’t just numbers—it’s trust, security, and stability. When finances become a point of stress, marriages can crack under pressure.

8. Unspoken expectations: What you don’t say can be just as harmful as what you do. Learn how unvoiced desires and assumptions silently erode connection.

9. Emotional affairs: The deepest betrayal often starts with an emotional bond. Discover how to recognize and protect your marriage from emotional infidelity.

10. Lack of appreciation: When gratitude fades, so does the warmth in a relationship. Find out how simple acts of appreciation can revive the love you once shared.

Don't let your marriage fall victim to these hidden dangers. Tune in and learn how to protect your relationship from the inside out! 

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Special Guest: Kyra Dodd, CEO of Kredit Kleanse

Join us in this power-packed episode as we sit down with Kyra Dodd, a financial expert who has transformed lives by helping people gain financial freedom and take control of their future. From her inspiring journey as a nurse turned entrepreneur to running multiple six-figure businesses, Kyra shares her secrets to building wealth with wisdom.

Whether you’re looking to break free from financial stress, start a business, or simply take control of your credit, this episode is packed with the wisdom you need to make it happen.

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Series:  The Marriage Meltdown: Is Modern Marriage Built to Last?

In Part Two of The Silent Killers of Marriage, we’re diving even deeper into the subtle forces that destroy relationships from the inside out. These hidden dangers can sneak up on any couple, causing distance, frustration, and pain if left unchecked. 💔

Join us as we uncover the habits, mindsets, and behaviors that may be quietly undermining your marriage. You deserve a love that thrives, not one that merely survives! Let’s talk about how to break free from these silent killers and reignite the connection with your spouse. 🔥

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When a woman heals, she can heal nations. When a woman heals, the world around her transforms. Join us as we dive deep into the power of healing, exploring the ripple effects it creates in relationships, families, and communities. Witness the journey of resilience, growth, and empowerment. 

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Was love purer in the '90s, or is today’s romance just different? In this heartfelt episode, we’re taking a trip down memory lane to explore '90s love through a Christian lens. 💒✨

We’ll discuss how relationships back then were built on deeper connections, shared faith, and real-life interactions—before the days of dating apps and endless distractions. Has modern love lost its way, or is God’s plan for us evolving with the times? We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts in the comments: Do you think love today is missing the magic of the past, or are we just looking for connection in new ways? Let's discuss how we can keep Christ at the center of our relationships—then and now. 

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Special Guest: Delicia Porter

Are you a middle-aged, educated, and independent Christian woman navigating the journey to love and marriage? You're not alone! In this inspiring episode, we explore the unique challenges and triumphs of women who are faithfully waiting on God's timing.

Discover heartfelt stories, practical advice, and spiritual insights that will uplift and empower you on your path. From navigating modern dating to embracing personal growth and staying hopeful in the waiting, this episode offers a compassionate and faith-filled perspective on the journey to finding true love.

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Special Guest: Rachel Logan, LCSW

Welcome to our show! Tonight, we're diving deep into an important and often overlooked aspect of our spiritual journey: the connection between faith and mental health.  In this powerful episode, we explore how seeking counseling can be a vital tool for holistic healing and spiritual growth. Join us for a heartfelt discussion that aims to motivate and inspire you to take positive actions for your well-being. Let's break barriers and seek the help that brings us closer to the best version of ourselves that God desires. 

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Special Guests: Douglas and Keisha Lapsley

Are you curious about what keeps love alive for decades?  Join us for a special episode where we explore the heartwarming journeys of couples who have been married for 20+ years! These stories are filled with laughter, reality, and invaluable lessons on love and resilience. Whether you're newly married or celebrating decades together, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical tips to help your relationship thrive!

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Submission or control… SMH. How is it that anyone would think it's okay to control another? The Bible teaches us to love one another, yet many misconstrue marriage as a license for control. How can we expect our marriages to be blessed if we are trying to rule over our spouse?

Join the Kings as they tackle these tough questions, exploring the delicate balance between love and control in marriage. They’ll share their insights and dive deep into what it means to have a healthy, loving, and blessed relationship.

Tune in, share your thoughts, and be blessed by this enlightening conversation. Don’t miss out on this powerful episode that promises to challenge your perspective and inspire positive change in your marriage.

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In this heartfelt show, we have a discussion with a Dad and Mom who takes us on an emotional journey of love, loss, and legacy. Join us as they share the story of their beloved son, whose courage and kindness continue to inspire many every day. Through tears and triumphs, they’ve channeled their grief into creating a foundation that honors his memory. Through this foundation, they aim to give back to the community and continue his legacy of bravery and kindness.

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In this eye-opening show, we dive deep into the world of athletes and uncover the often-overlooked importance of mental health counseling. We will dive into the importance of an athlete’s connection with God. Whether you're a professional athlete, an aspiring champion, or a passionate sports enthusiast, understanding the spiritual and mental game is crucial for peak performance and overall well-being.

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In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of every marriage—what truly works for you and your partner. Forget societal norms, traditional expectations, or unsolicited advice from well-meaning friends and family. It's time to focus on creating a relationship that thrives on your unique strengths and understanding.

We'll explore how couples can embrace their individuality, communicate effectively, and establish boundaries that suit their specific needs. Whether it's unconventional roles, unique love languages, or personalized traditions, we’ll discuss how to discover and nurture what makes your marriage special.

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Over the past couple of months, there has been a great debate regarding this statement ‘You are Single, Until you are Married.’ What do you think, are you single until you are married? The conversation has been split on either side.  However, the Kings’ wanted to chime in and offer different perspectives. Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you…

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Hey beautiful people. Welcome back to our channel! If you're here, you're probably feeling the need to reconnect with your spouse and bring back that spark you once had. And guess what? You're not alone! We've all been there, and today, we're diving into some heart-to-heart tips to help you fall in love with each other all over again.

Remember, every marriage has its ups and downs, but with a little effort and a lot of love, you can rediscover why you fell for each other in the first place. So, grab your partner, get comfy, and let's dive into these transformative steps together.

And with anyone who might need a little extra love in their marriage.

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Too often, as a people do not realize that we are married to our trauma. We lie to people and tell them that we are fine. We tell them that we have gotten over it. Many of us mask the pains of our trauma with addictions (alcohol, drugs, sex, shopping, etc.). The truth is that we have not healed from the trauma that we have suffered. There are even individuals that feel that they are compatible for marriage, because they suffered the same past traumas. The really sad thing is that, some believe that they can heal the trauma in their spouse (or others) when they need to be healed themselves. Join the Kings as they delve into today's topic. Fasten your seatbelts, enjoy and feel free to share with others. Blessings to each of you! 

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Special Guest: William Mukes Jr., Marriage & Family Therapist

Oftentimes, many people ask what mens thoughts are on certain marital issues. This show will speak to those who are single and married, men and women. Many of our supports provided questions for us to ask our married men on todays show. Please feel free to share and enjoy the show. Blessings. 

***Please note that the answers provided are not to be taken for the response of all men. ***

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Join us on a sacred journey through the landscape of matrimony, where we'll explore the profound impact our individual contributions have on our marriage. Together, we promise to uncover the essence of what it means to bring value to your partnership, whether it's the fire that purifies or the ice that preserves. From the biblical narratives of loyalty and devotion in Ruth to the personal growth exemplified by Joseph, we'll share practical insights that will empower you to build a stronger, more balanced bond with your significant other.

Ever wondered how to strike the right balance of power and respect within your marriage? This episode, we're candidly discussing the common myths about partner availability, the dangers of settling, and the necessity of being equally yoked with your spouse. We share our own experiences in forming a strong marital partnership, emphasizing the need for teamwork and shared decision-making. It's time to reflect on how to foster a relationship that thrives on mutual growth and compatibility.

As we wrap up this heart-to-heart, we delve into the interplay between relationship dynamics, mental health, and maintaining a healthy marriage. From setting boundaries to the importance of seeking counsel, we'll guide you through the factors that contribute to a thriving partnership. We invite you to engage with us, sharing your thoughts and questions, as we continue to build stronger marriages for a fortified society. Remember, it takes two to build a marriage, but only one to destroy it; tune in next Monday for more empowering discussions.

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When you hear the words 'help meet,' what comes to your mind? How about the word partnership? Listen in as the Kings' dive deep into being a 'Help Meet." 

Ever wonder what true partnership looks like? Meet my incredible wife, my ultimate helpmeet in life's adventures! From navigating challenges to celebrating victories, she's always by my side, making every moment brighter. Join us as we redefine love, support, and unity.

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Hey Everyone! 👋 Are you ready to dive into another much needed topic? Join us in this candid conversation as we explore what it truly means to thrive "Under the Leadership of My Husband."

We’ll share personal stories, lessons learned, and the beauty of teamwork in our relationship. Get ready to be inspired and empowered to embrace partnership like never before! Subscribe, share, and let's spread the love! 💖 #EmpoweredTogether #Leadership #LoveAndTeamwork

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Welcome back, lovely souls! Tonight, we're exploring the beauty of deep connection with our spouses. Join us as we uncover practical tips and heartfelt insights to understand our loved ones on a deeper level. In this episode, we'll discuss the importance of empathy, active listening, and genuine understanding in nurturing our relationships. From shared laughter to silent support, let's learn how to strengthen our bond with our beloved.

Let's dive into the blessings of being in tune with our partners.  Together, let's spread love and light! #InTuneWithLove 💖

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As the Kings’ are finishing out their ‘Love’ series, they are discussing how to love thy neighbor.  As you listen to the show think on this question, why can’t we love thy neighbor? Feel free to share this much needed to discuss topic and be blessed. 

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Love Series:

Question, if it is so hard for you to love your husband/wife, why? What is love really? The sad reality is that many do not know. Many say that they want to be love, but really do not know what love means to them. Listen in as the Kings’ get deep into this topic. Feel free to share and be blessed. 

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Love Series:

We have always been taught that self-love is selfish. Ask yourself, do you truly love yourself? If so, what does it mean to love yourself. If not, why do you not take the time to love yourself? Listen in as the Kings’ bring this ‘thinking outside of the box,’ concerning love. Feel free to share and be blessed. 

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If you are a parent, ask yourself ‘Am I training or raising my children? Many may read this question and ask, what’s the difference. Believe it or not, there is a BIG difference. Listen in as the Kings’ break this down. Feel free to share and be blessed. 

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For years, falling in love and living happily ever after has been displayed as the ultimate goal. Think about all that we seen growing up. Look at what is pushed leading up to Valentine Day every year. However, what the Kings' speak about in tonight's show is very rarely taught. Listen and feel free to share. Many blessings. 

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Many have asked us how we got to 25 years of marriage. For the younger generations, 25 year seems like it equals eternity. We would like to take this time to share some personal nuggets as to how we have made it this far. We thank everyone, God first, for helping us to reach 25 years of marriage. 

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As a husband and wife team, do the two of you have a vision for your marriage? Have you ever created a vision board for your marriage? Most couples complain of feeling stagnant/simply existing. However, many husbands and wives do not truly work together. Make that a plan for 2023.  Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you…

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Many of you (like us), have grown up under the village mentality. In a community where everyone supported and helped each other. What happened to our villages (communities)? Why does it seem like many are divided with individualistic mentalities? Listen in as the Kings’ share what many of the reasons may be. Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you…

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With all that is going on in the world today, we need each other more than we know. Imagine our community as a bunch of different puzzle pieces. Each piece is unique, but when we stick together, we create this awesome picture. Let’s work together to build some awesome communities. Listen in and be blessed. 

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The Kings' are diving deeper into the importance of walking in the ministry of what God has called for you to do. When we are out of position for what God desires for our lives, our lives can become more challenging. It can especially become more challenging when we do not minister in our homes. Let us get back into position and start with ministering in our own homes. Listen in and be blessed. 

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Question: Have you been wondering why in today’s times everything seems to be going haywire? Tensions rising around the world, political leaders at odds more than usual here at home, marriages and families are divided at an all time high. Check out this show and let the Kings’ know what you think. Be blessed.

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Being friends in marriage is a beautiful and essential aspect of a strong, lasting relationship. It's like having a built-in support system, someone who knows you deeply and is there for you through thick and thin. The ability to share joys, sorrows, and everyday experiences with your spouse enhances the connection and creates a solid foundation. Be blessed.

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Series: Family Ain’t Family No More

Let's talk about something that hits close to home for many of us – moving forward from family dysfunction and trauma.  How do you do it? First you have to acknowledge it. The Kings’ dive in and take this topic head on. Listen in. Be blessed.

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Family secrets can indeed have a destructive impact when they're kept hidden. It's like a hidden toxin within the family dynamic, slowly eroding trust and emotional connections over time. These secrets can fester, leading to misunderstandings, resentment, and even estrangement among family members.Listen in as the Kings’s speak on this topic. Be blessed.

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Special Guest: Eleanor L. Brown, MA, LPC

Many people wrestle with childhood traumas and family dysfunction. It's a challenging and often painful journey. But, there is hope and a better way forward. We have our amazing guest on the show, who discuss with us what “A Better Way” looks like. She authored a book that speak to exactly what the Kings’ have been discussing in their ‘Family Ain’t Family No More’ series. To purchase a copy of her book, see the link below. Be blessed.

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You know, childhood experiences can have a profound impact on us as adults. When we go through dysfunction and trauma during those formative years, it's like a ripple effect that can touch every aspect of our lives. Imagine those early years as the foundation of a house. If that foundation is shaky due to dysfunction or trauma, it can make the whole structure unstable. In adulthood, this might manifest as difficulties in forming healthy relationships, managing stress, or even dealing with emotions. Listen in as the Kings’ diver deeper in this series.  Be blessed. 

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You know, childhood experiences can have a profound impact on us as adults. When we go through dysfunction and trauma during those formative years, it's like a ripple effect that can touch every aspect of our lives. Imagine those early years as the foundation of a house. If that foundation is shaky due to dysfunction or trauma, it can make the whole structure unstable. In adulthood, this might manifest as difficulties in forming healthy relationships, managing stress, or even dealing with emotions. Listen in as the Kings’ diver deeper in this series.  Be blessed. 

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Series: Family Ain’t Family No More

It's tough when you feel like the bonds that once held your family together are starting to unravel. We’ve been there too, and it can be really challenging to navigate. Remember, you're not alone in this. Many people go through similar experiences, and it's okay to feel a mix of emotions about it. While relationships may change, it's important to focus on what's best for your well-being and growth. Listen in as the Kings’ dive deep into this topic. Be blessed. 

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Series: Family Ain't Family Anymore

Over time, it feels like families are growing apart, and it's something that weighs heavily on the hearts of the Kings’. They genuinely want to understand why our family bonds may not be as tight as they once were. This week, the Kings’ are delving into the generational differences to uncover how these factors might contribute to the gaps we see within families. Let's be clear – this isn't about criticizing any particular generation. Instead, it's an opportunity for us to appreciate and learn from the unique values that each generation brings to the table. Together, we can bridge these gaps and strengthen our family ties for the better!

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Deciding to be the one that breaks toxic generational dysfunctional patterns are not easy. A choice have to be made, and deep work has to be done. It also may not be that favorable to those that are around you, but you must heal for yourself and your future generations.  Listen in as the Kings’ tackle the last show in this generational curse series. Blessings.  

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Generation pride is something that many do not think about it a negative way. We are often taught that as a family we are to have and display pride. However, what are some of the destructive patterns that are tied to generational pride? Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this serious subtopic. Blessings.  

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Continuing on with Generational Curses, Family Secrets. There are many who have shared their stories with us in reference to family secrets since the last show. This show focuses on how to tell the family secret and the healing that needs to take place afterwards. Feel free to share as many need to hear this series. Blessings.  

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What do you think about family secrets? Do you think that they should stay a secret or not? Why do families keep family secrets? What is the root of keeping the secret(s)? What does the word of God say about it? So many questions as the Kings’ tackle this topic.  Blessings.  

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As you listen to the show of Marriage Mondays with the Kings’ ask yourself, where did the idea of self-care being selfish come from? Is it something that you were taught or learned by inadvertently by watching others? We do not realize that when we avoid self-care, it causes negative effects not only in us but those around us. Listen in as the Kings’ explain. Be blessed. 

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Think on this for a minute, why do we as a people believe that when we get married the marriage will just work on its own? It is as if we honestly believe that all we have to do is believe in God and say ‘I Do.’ However, many do not believe in working on having a successful marriage. Enjoy, feel free to share and be blessed!

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Love Series: 

We have never met a person who did not desire to be loved. Many singles have reached out to the Kings’ on the struggles that they deal with in finding love. Well the Kings’ are listening, hence this wonderful show. Enjoy and feel free to share with others. Blessings to each of you.

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Mental Health Awareness Month

Do you believe that not having a healthy mental health can negatively affect your relationships? Many do not realize how much toxicity and abuse that they take on due to those whom they are in relationship with (work, home, church, organizations, etc.). Listen in as the Kings’ are probably going to be real more than they have ever been. Be blessed. 

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As adults we truly believe that our children can get over and through anything. What if they are struggling mentally, do you get them the help that they need? The Kings’ welcome Dr. Latisha Wilson, who is a child therapist to answer many of the questions that parents have. Be blessed. 

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In honor or mental health awareness month, the Kings’ will have various mental health providers join them on the show. First up is Pastor Jamael Graves of Ark Christian Counseling Center. There are so many questions to be asked in reference to church and mental health. Listen in and be blessed. 

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Special Guest: Andrea Moore, From Grief to Grind

Grief is something that has touched many of us in the last few years. It is tough and many are left with questions. The Kings’ special guest is going to speak on grief in ways that you have never thought of before. Be blessed. 

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After the honeymoon phase has passed and life is being life, we may feel as if we have began to lose the fire/spark in our marriage. Marriage does not seem to be as exciting as it was in the beginning. Listen in as the Kings’ speak to why this may be and ways that may help fix it. Be blessed. 

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Sadly to say, most married couples treat each other like the enemy instead of their loving husband or wife. What happened between the proposal to now? What shifted? The Kings’ share some possibilities as to how this may have taken place. Enjoy, feel free to share and be blessed!

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The Kings’ often receive various questions from women/wives in reference to their husbands not communicating how he feels with her. The Kings’s decided to do this show providing some of the possible reasons that may him to remain silent, or go silent. Enjoy, feel free to share and be blessed!

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It has often been said that there is no rule book to marriage (except examples in the Bible). Some try their hand and marriage and many do not. The Kings’ desire to share some ingredients that may help in the success of your marriage. Enjoy, feel free to share and be blessed!

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Special Guests: LeTroy & Christina Brown of Married 4Real

There are so many who are losing hope in the sanctity of marriage? Why is that? Well, the Kings’ have special guests LeTroy & Christina of Married 4Real on to tackle a great deal of questions that most will have. Enjoy, feel free to share and be blessed!

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Many know that we as a people face challenges, when it comes to the desire to truly be in love. Business owners know that being in business has its ups and downs. However, being in love and business together. Please listen in as the Kings’ welcome their special guests Rodrick & Latrice Jones. Blessings to each of you…

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The Kings’ are doing something that they have never done before. They are interviewing a couple that lives in another country. They met through and app, fell in love and it led to marriage. Listen in and feel free to share the golden nuggets that are shared during this show. Enjoy and blessings to you all! 

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There are various reasons as to why many go on dating apps. For most, they desire to find their life partner and be married. On this show the Kings’ have special guests who were intentional about what they wanted from their internet dating experience. Listen in as the Kings’ ask ALL of the questions. Enjoy and feel free to share and many blessings to each of you…

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In today’s time, the ways that many are meeting each other is through social media and dating apps. For the older crowd, many shy away from this method. However, it is how most meet. The Kings’ have a young couple in their 20s, who are sharing how they met on a dating app. Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you…

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We often hear the modern day terms power couple, marriage goals, etc. What does it mean to GRIND (work) together? As married couples, have you ever asked yourselves what is God’s purpose for our marriage? We can do a good job pretending, looking good on social media; but what about working together as God sees fit? Listen in, feel free to share and be blessed. 

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As many who are married know that you have your ups and downs, but what do you two do in the down times? Do you pray for one another or even together? If you do pray, do you feel that it has been working? Are you single and your desire is to be married? So many questions and the Kings’ are going to try to answer them in the show. Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you.

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Special Guest: Charles "Choo" Smith, former Harlem Globetrotter

The Kings’ have special guest Charles “Choo” Smith former NBA player and Harlem Globetrotter. Communities are an important part of our support system. Listen in as Charles shares that amazing things that are taken place in the community of Baltimore, Maryland.  Feel free to share and many blessings to each of you.

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There are so many who have been through some challenging relationships. It has been rocky to say the least. You desire to love again, but honestly do not know how. Listen in, as the Kings’ speak on learning how to love again. Feel free to share and be blessed. 

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Special Guest: Ron Grace

When reading the word of God, we see that God placed a great deal of responsibility on the shoulder of men. As the head of their households among other God given responsibilities, what does it feel like to be a man in today’s church (building)? Mr. King and Mr. Grace are being interviewed by Shan King, to answer some of these questions. Feel free to share…

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***Please forgive the humming noise in the audio however, the message is great***

Series: An Open Letter to the Church

The Kings’ have special guest Pastor Brian and Sharon Liechty of Grace Christian Center in Killeen, Texas. The Liechtys’, have been in children’s ministry for over 30 years. Children are the lifeline of many churches. We really desire to dig off into what it takes to continue to have a healthy lifeline for the future of the church. Feel free to share as this is definitely a conversation that need to be heard. 

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Series: An Open Letter to the Church

This episode of church hurt is NOT like one that you have ever heard before! The Kings’ along with special guest Dr. Kerry-Ann Zamore Byrd, dive deep into the different variations of church hurt. From church hurt that Pastors and leaders deal with, all the way to those who have left the church. Feel free to share as this is definitely a conversation that need to be heard.

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There are so many singles with a desire to be married, that is such a beautiful desire. There are so many who are married, yet struggle within their marriage. The questions that we would like to ask is, who is your role model for marriage? Do you have Godly role models? Why are they your role models? Do role models even exist anymore? Listen in, feel free to share and be blessed. 

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Series: An Open Letter to The Church

Guest Speaker: Superintendent Michael Johnson of Agape Church of God in Christ of Killeen, Texas

Pastor Johnson answered many questions pertaining to the church and community. He addressed the importance of having a balance between ministry and family life. An amazing nugget that he shared tonight of many, 'Burnout is NOT the devil.' Listen in to get a deeper understanding. Feel free to share and be blessed.

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There are so many couples that truly feel that they cannot trust each other as husband and wife. The question is, is this due to something that your husband and wife did? Or is this because of some previous relationship or childhood issues, that you have left unhealed? We do not understand when we leave things unhealed, they can bleed over into our marriage. Listen in, feel free to share, and be blessed. 

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Marriages can be so much better and enjoyable, if the husband and wife works together to maintain it. We often make excuses as to why we can’t maintain our marriage, but never have excuses for everything else that we desire to do. Join in as the Kings’ speak on something that we ALL should be doing in our marriages. Feel free to share and be blessed. 

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Control is one UGLY word that many do not want to think about. Do you know individuals that are controlling? Is it possible that you are a controlling individual? Where does this come from? Was it passed down from individuals in your family by chance? This is a generational destructive behavior that needs to cease immediately. Do you agree? Blessings. 

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Many of you may be reading the show title and thinking how can Generational Curses and God be in the same phrase. That makes absolutely no sense! In this show the Kings’ are going to look at things from very different perspectives. So buckle your seat belts, get your pen and paper out, and take in this show. Blessings.  

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If you grew up in the church, you have heard the following; Prayer Can Fix It, Take it to the Lord in Prayer, Prayer Changes Things. If you are a believer then you know that all of this is true. However, what if the person is not a believer? Do you just tell them this and walk off, when they are asking for help? Whew, this show is one that definitely need to be discussed in reference to generational curses.  Blessings.  

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As you listen to this show, ask yourself how open is your family about speaking on behavioral health issues that run in your family. Are they open, so others can do what it takes to come against the issues? On the other hand, do your family just pretend like nothing is wrong and ignore it? The Kings’ will try to tackle this taboo topic during this show. Blessings.  

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Continuing on in the series of Generational Curses, The Kings’ speak on the topic of having no voice. To determine if you do not have a voice, ask yourself how do you communicate your emotions? Are you able to express yourself in a health functioning way or does it come out in anger, fussing, cursing or physical violence? If your answer is the later, this show is for you. Blessings.  

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There are so many phrases that families use and many see them as encouraging, but they can also be doing more damage than good. Depending on the situation and whom it is said too. Phrases such as ‘family is family,’ ‘family over everything,’ or ‘that’s just how they are.’ Families may want to try to break out of this dysfunctional pattern and face the issues within the family that needs to be faced. Blessings.  

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Many find it difficult to speak about mental health in general. It seems to be a bit taboo to speak about mental/behavioral health regarding children. This is something that definitely need to be discussed. The Kings’ ask that you join in and help break the stigma associated with mental/behavioral health. If not for you, definitely for the sake of our future generations. Enjoy and be blessed. 

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When it comes to the LGBTQ population, there are a great deal of concerns in how they are being treated. In the church there has always been such a stigma placed on those apart of this population. Everything from bullying, to suicide, and much more. We have a special guest who have agreed to sit down and chat with the Kings’. Enjoy and be blessed. 

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The reality of today’s time, is that many of us operate out of reaction instead of preparation. The norm no longer seems to prepare in order to prevent, but to react and get angry at those around us (neglecting to take personally responsibility for the part that we play in the situation). How does this relate to marriage? Listen in and find out Be blessed. 

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NOTE: Please excuse any potential technical difficulties, as the enemy really tried to ensure that this would not take place. However, we know that God will get the glory as we all press on! Amen!

When New York meets Texas. It is very rare that the King’s are interviewed, as they are generally the ones that do the interviewing. On the show, the Kings’ are being interviewed by Mrs. Shenisse Liburd of Hot Mic with Lady She. They are going to dig deep in looking at some of the barriers that may be hindering us as individuals, married couple, families and community. Be blessed. 

Full Interview>> Watch at Marriage Mondays with the Kings website or Hot Mic Podcast with Lady She YouTube Channel

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Finances is a subject that many do not want o even speak about. There are many that speaks of financial literacy not being taught in school. The question is why do many parents not learn financial literacy to teach it to their children? Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Blessings.  

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As a married couple, do you and your spouse have a vision for your marriage? Have you ever heard of having a vision for your marriage? Listen in as the Kings’ discuss this topic. Thanks and blessings. 

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Continuing with the Generational Curse series, the Kings’ are speaking on part II of the topic, I Have No Voice. To determine if you do not have a voice, ask yourself how do you communicate your emotions? Are you able to express yourself in a healthy functioning way or does it come out in anger, fussing, cursing, physical violence or you just shut down? If you have difficulty with either of the previously mentioned, this show is for you! Blessings.  

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It is so sad how many look at marriage as a benefit for themselves. What about the Godly benefits that couples receive, when they walk out their marriage according to the word of God? Many are merely existing in their marriage, instead of enjoying it as God intended. Listen in, share and be blessed.  Thanks and blessings. 

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There has been a great deal of mention in reference to generational curses over the past couple of years. Many are saying that they are working on breaking generational curses, how is this so? Are people speaking about it or actually doing the work. Join the Kings’ as they are starting a new series on Generational Curses. Feel free to share. Blessings.  

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This weeks question of the week, ‘Why do we as husbands and wifes allow the enemy to keep us from growing in our marriage?  What do you think the issue may be in a husband and wife not becoming one? There are so many responses to this question and the Kings’ are going to try their best to share some possibilities.  Enjoy and be blessed! 

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Family. What does this word even mean in this day and time? What happened and why has things shifted? What does family mean to the marriage? There are so many questions and the Kings’ will try their best to answer them on todays show. Feel free to share with others.  Enjoy and be blessed! 

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When people think of someone with mental health, it is often Taboo. Something that many do not speak about or relate to themselves possible having.  Do you know that mental health is referred to in the Bible? Many do not. We are not perfect, but we should ensure that we as husbands and wives do all that we can for the betterment of ourselves, our marriages and our families. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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Oooh, the Kings’ are talking about SEX! Why is this topic so taboo? The ironic thing is it appears to be very taboo in the “Western World,” as we are referred to. Why is that? Why are there so many sexless marriages? Most importability, why is sex not being taught from a Biblical perspective? Thanks and blessings. 

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As we know, marriage has its ups and downs. This is nothing new to many of us. However, what would be a blessing is to understand how our upbringings may have an affect our marriage(s) in negative/positive ways. Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Thanks and blessings. 

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Many are looking at the tittle wondering what a parentified child is. Some of you may be googling it as you read this. The reality is that many of you may be one and did too it even know that it had a name. How did growing up as a parentified child affect your marriage now? Listen in as the Kings’ explain what this is and how many are affected by it. Thanks and blessings. 

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Honestly, it is sickening how there is so much shame that is pointed at those who desire to  have a happy marriage. Why is it such a bad thing to have a positive mindset about marriage? For desiring to have a happy marriage? The Kings’ are going to try to dive deep into this topic. Thanks and blessings. 

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This show is a continuation of last week's show. As the Kings' did not desire to cram this topic into one show, they have extended it to this episode. Have you thought about some of the topics that the Kings' are speaking of? This is definitely something that everyone should prepare for and not procrastinate on. Thanks, and blessings. 

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As of recent, there has been much conversation on individuals feeling burdened, used and much more. It seems that much of this could be due to the lack of planning on an individual(s), couples, etc. part. Have you prepared and made provisions, so you do not become a burden to your loved ones?  Enjoy the show and be blessed! 

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Truth be told and reality for many marriages is the lack of intimacy. There are a great number of individuals who think that intimacy and sex is the exact same thing. Intimacy takes getting to know your husband/wife on a mature deeper level, more then just having sex.  The Kings’ are going to dive into this topic of the differences between intimacy and sex in marriage. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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One of the most common things that believers say when their marriage is under attack, is that the devil is busy. Ask yourself, is it really the devil that is causing a husband and wife to attack each other? Is it the husband and wife that do not know how to operate as one? What should married couples do against the attack. The Kings’ will take this topic head on. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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The sad reality is that many of us do not know what healthy is like because we are so accustomed  to living in a toxic way. This may be from the toxic upbringing in our childhood, young adult lives and past relationships. Many view and are convinced that their toxic lives/marriages are actually healthy. The Kings are going to try their best to differentiate between the two. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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We are so dumbfounded to the fact of why married people work harder at pretending that their marriage is perfect. Why not work as hard at working on your marriage? Prime example, people portray on social media, at the workplace, at church; like they have a perfect marriage. All marriages has their ups and downs, but working hard to fake like you are happily married is not worth it. Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic.  Enjoy and be blessed! 

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We know that marriage has its ups and downs, we have heard this for years. There are so many variables to this topic of the ideology that many married couples have in placing the responsibility on others, in fixing their marriage. Where did this mindset come from. As always, the Kings are going to try to tackle this topic as God guides them.  Enjoy and be blessed! 

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This is a quote that is often stated. The question is, is there any truth to it? Is it the women that helps in the success? Does the man need to be mindful of the woman that he asks to be his wife? What is success? There are so many questions, but the Kings are going to try to tackle this topic head on. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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If we sit back and reflect, there are a lot of toxic behavior that were taught/learned in our lives. Most of the time without realizing it, this behavior carries over into our marriage and other relationships. We will even argue with our spouse to defend this unhealthy behavior. Are you guilty of this? Listen in as the Kings’ break down some things that we may need to unlearn Enjoy and be blessed! 

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It is interesting how many people say that marriage does not work. Is it possible that many marriages may work, if there were not so many people playing games in their marriage. Why would individuals get married, to play games? It is truly sad. However, the Kings are going to tackle this topic on tonight.  Enjoy and be blessed! 

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Have you ever known someone who has stated that they feel like they do not know who they are in their marriage? They are happy to be married, but feel lost. The Kings are focusing on all areas of marriage this year and things that deeply affect marriage. Listen in, feel free to share and be blessed. Blessings!

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It is so sad to currently be living in a ‘blaming’ society. It is even worse to see it happening in marriages. Why is it that individuals would rather blame their spouse, for the issues that they suffer within themselves? Why hurt the one that you supposedly love by doing this? What is preventing you from just facing your demons, in order to be a better you? So many questions, but the King’s are going to dive in. Feel free to share. Blessings. 

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Would you say that you have security in your marriage? Why or why not? What does security look like for you? Who has access to your marriage? What level of access should they have? It is so many questions regarding securing your marriage. However, the Kings’ will delve deeply into this topic to break it down.  Blessings!

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What is your definition of success? Many make the mistake of focusing on being successful in the eyes of those outside their home, rather than those inside their home? This is a common mistake made in many marriages. Do your marriage seem to suffer? Why? Join the Kings’ as they break down this tonight’s topic? Enjoy and be blessed! 

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As the Kings’ are always in deep thought regarding singles, marriages and families; this topic arose. Question being, why are so many marriage in turmoil? Why are there so many who desire not to get married? Where does good sound marital advice come from? Are we forsaking our Elders wisdom? So many questions and the Kings will try to provide the answers. Feel free to share. Blessings!

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Are you or do you know someone, who believe that he/she has to be strong in their marriage. The individual feels as if they cannot be vulnerable with their spouse? It is interesting how we keep a wall up around our hearts, but yet desire for our spouse to love us unconditionally. How does that work? Honestly, it is difficult. Join the Kings’ as they dissect this topic. Enjoy and be blessed! 

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One of the most common things shared with us in regards to marriage is the disrespect. Husbands feel disrespected. Wives feel disrespected. Either the husband/wife allows in-laws to disrespect their spouse. Why is this so? How is this happening? What does the Bible say about any of this? So many questions to be answered. Join in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Feel free to share. Blessings.

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There are so many variations as to the underlining issues that lead to challenges within ourself, our relationships, our marriage and our family. One that goes unhealed is brokenness within us. Whether it be from a divorce, past hurts or even trauma; we do not have to wallow in our brokenness. Honestly, if we take a look at trying to truly heal we will then begin to see life in a whole new way. Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Blessings!

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For those who are currently going through in your marriage/or have gone through, have you ever wondered why? For most, it is because marriages have their ups and downs. It’s natural and we will make it through. For others, it may be that you fashion your marriage after the ways of the world (world views) and not God (God’s views of marriage). To get a better understanding, listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Feel free to share. Blessings!

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When it comes to marriages that end in divorce, what are some of the underlying factors? Childhood trauma, unresolved trauma, and much more can lead to an unsuccessful marriage. This is something that many individuals do not want to recognize. Some feel comfortable with acting like it never happened. Simply tucking it away in a little box. However, there is freedom in healing. Join in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Feel free to share. 

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The million dollar question, why is it hard for married couples to seek wise counsel? Why is it for us as individuals? Many say ego and others say pride. Either way, the Kings are going to delve in and dissect this topic on this show. Buckle your seatbelts and feel free to share, as the Kings will bring it as God sees fit. Blessings. 

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Many of us have worked so hard to achieve the title(s) that we have. For most, it is something to be very proud of. However, what do marriages and families look like when individuals put more effort into maintaining their title than their marriage? How many marriages and families have suffered, because of those who ensure that their title remain in good standings? Join the Kings’ as they tackle this topic and try to make it make sense. Feel free to share. Blessings. 

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The wedding vows are generally an intricate part of the wedding ceremony in the Western world. When those who attend the ceremony hear the vows, they may cry as the words are often touching. The groom and bride will generally shed a tear or two as well, very emotional. However, do married couples truly mean what they say when it comes to their vows? Why do many couples not stick to them? Do they even remember what they spoke that day? So many questions, but the Kings’ will try to provide possible answers. Feel free to share. Blessings. 

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We know, you read this and may have thought that we were speaking of taking off your mask in a pandemic. No, that is not it at all. We are going to be speaking about taking off your mask in your marriage. Wearing and mask and not being vulnerable. Are we peeking your interest? Press play as we dig into this topic. Blessings. 

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There are so many who set out to have resolutions/goals that fail before it get started. Have those who are married ever set out to have successful goals that they set for their marriage? Why or why not? Why do we as a people put more emphasis on things that are not conducive to our marriages, than the marriage itself? Listen in as the Kings’ tackle this topic. Blessings. 

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Are you desiring to get remarried? Do you often have thoughts and questions pertaining to getting remarried? Maybe there is a fear of what to expect. Join the King’s as the tackle a much anticipated topic of getting remarried. As they often do, they are going to be very transparent about their experiences. They are going to used Biblical text and definitely open your eyes regarding getting remarried. Feel free to share this with someone who desires to get remarried. Also feel free to share and as always be blessed. 

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A very interesting perspective was shared with the Kings’ pertaining to  why men do not get married. They took this perspective and made it a radio show topic. This is a perspective that is not often heard of and many may not agree with it. However, the Kings' took the topic head on. So get out your notebooks, Bibles, and everything else for this episode! This may be one of the realest shows that the King's will have yet! Feel free to share with others. Blessings. 

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Have you ever heard of having a vision for your marriage? Many individuals have not. If you have heard of it, how has it been going in sticking to your marital vision. If you have no clue what that even is, check out this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings to get a further understanding. Blessings. 

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Currently living in today’s world events, cherishing your marriage may be the last thing on your mind. It is being said that divorces are currently on the rise due to issues between husbands and wives that has surfaced. On the other hand, many married couples just keep their marriage on the back burner. Many do not invest in their marriage at all. To many husbands and wives, their marriage is simply not a priority. On tonight’s show, the Kings have two young ladies who can speak all too well to the importance of cherishing your marriage.  Listen in, feel free to share with others, and as always be blessed. 

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It is so interesting how individuals can think that they can use sex as a weapon to control their spouse, yet get upset when it backfires on them. What does the Bible say about withholding sex? Is it Biblical to use sex as a weapon with your spouse? If it is not, then why do people do it? Where did this mindset come from? So many questions, yet the Kings are going to attempt to provide answers. Feel free to share and know that no one is going to tackle this topic like the Kings’. Blessings. 

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The Kings are calling all Active Duty Military, Reservist, National Guard, Dual Military, Veterans and their spouses. This show is for YOU! We often hear about the gratitude that goes towards our active duty and Veterans, in thanking them for their service. Well, what about the military spouses who sacrifice as well? No one really hears about all the sacrifices that military spouses (both male and female) make in supporting their military husband/wife. No worries, as the Kings’ will cover it on tonight’s show along with their special guests. Let’s keep it real and provide you with a glimpse of what it is really like being a military spouse. Blessings.

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Have you ever gotten frustrated at your husband/wife, because you feel that they do not help/support you? Doesn’t the Bible speaks about being a helpmeet? So why is your husband/wife not helping? Is it possible that you ask him/her for help, but your body language communicates something totally different? Have you asked yourself if it is actually you that say you need help/support, but outwardly act like you do not? Then get upset with your husband/wife, when they stop trying to help/support? Listen in to this show of MMWTKs as they try to break this topic down.   Feel free to share.  Blessings. 

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Sex or Intimacy, are they the same or is there a difference. The Kings’ are yet tackling another topic that can easily ruin a marriage. Ask yourself, how often do you hear about intimacy regarding marriage? How often is it taught that intimacy is an important part of marriage? Not often. All you hear of is sex, sex and more sex. If the sex is not good than the marriage is bad, right? As you listen in on tonight’s show, please provide us with your thought’s of tonight’s marital topic. Feel free to share.  Blessings. 

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Being a second wife and the challenges that are often faced with it, is rarely talking about. This topic was presented to the King’s to speak on and tackle. The Kings’ along with their special guest is going to dive deep into some truths based on experiences as they dissect this topic. If you desire to marry again or are in a second, third or so on marriage; listen in.  Also feel free to share and as always be blessed. 

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The Kings' were asked this question by a supporter, "What do you think is worse and absent father or a toxic mother?" From that question has produced four shows (to include this one) for the month of June. Join the Kings as they dive deep into the Absent Father. They will look at the importance of the role in which a father plays in his child(ren)'s lives. Feel free to share with others as this is a deep rooted discussion that needs to be heard. Blessings.

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One thing that many married couples do not think about that effect the marriage in both a negative and positive way, is marriage roles. It is interesting that when we get married, we think that we say ‘I Do’ everything falls into place. This is not so! On tonight’s show the Kings’ will look into how roles play a big role in marriage. As you listen, what are some things that you may need to improve on when it comes to the role that you play in your marriage? Are you guilty of always complaining about how your husband/wife does not play their role correctly? Listen in and as always be blessed. 

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Join the Kings' as they delve deep into this weeks episode pertaining to children and brokenness. Are broken children truly a product of their environment? What is the parents responsibility in protecting their child(ren) from becoming broken? There are so many questions that can be asked in reference to this topic. This Kings purpose to address this weeks show in a Godly fashion, as God sees fit. So get out your pen and paper as you listen to this weeks show. Feel free to share so others can get healed and blessed as you. Blessings to you. 

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Calling  ALL SINGLES of those who desire to be married. One of the common terms that we hear is how people speak of a person being “marriage material.” What does that even mean? What do you as a single person must see in and individual in order consider them marriage material? Is it a grocery lists of must have requirements or do you think deeper than that when deciding that someone can be your marriage partner. So many question and the Kings will try their best to answer. Hold on to your seatbelts and listen in as the Kings’ discuss the topic of marriage material. Be blessed. 

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We are all living in a time that can seem very challenging. Many are having mental, financial and even marital difficulties during this time. Sadly to say, many marriages are heading down the road to divorce. Do you think that it is possible to reverse that action? For many it is. Listen in as the Kings’ discuss tonight’s topic of fortifying your marriage. It is possible, but it takes a want to on both the wife and husband’s part. If you keep God as the head and foundation, all things are possible. Be blessed. 

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It is true that we as a people do not learn a “road map” for marriage. One thing that we often hear is that marriage has their ups and downs. However, the Kings’ are going to take this week’s show in a different direction. It is time to hear from the young adults regarding marriage. What do they feel about marriage? How do they see marriage in such a social media age? So many questions and less than an hour to tackle this topic. Listen in as the Kings’ speak with young adults regarding marriage. Blessings. 

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Many are not even ready for this conversation of truth. Ask yourselves, how many people do you know that they marriages have ended in divorce due to extended family members? Why do you think people spend more time on their extended family versus the family that they are building with their spouse? Well, buckle your seat belts and get your notepads out as the Kings’ tackle this much needed topic. Blessings. 

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Believe it or not, many marriages have lost its spark. A great deal of marriages this may have taken place right after saying, “I Do.” Have you ever stopped and asked yourself, why does this happen? Many husbands and wives may respond with saying that it is because of their spouse. However, is that really the truth? Join in with the Kings’ as they tackle this topic in scripture, honesty and most definitely truth! Blessings.

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Ask yourself, do you believe that marriage is being honored in today’s time? Society no longer display positive loving marriages. The use of social media does not depict positive and loving marriages. Many husbands and wives are more focused on portraying a facade, instead of a God ordained marriage. Where did we go wrong? Join in with the Kings’ as they tackle this on tonight’s show. Blessings! 

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Many of us can probably look back over our childhood lives and wish that we were taught things that could have helped us in adulthood. The Kings' published the question of the week on their social media platforms and the responses were overwhelming. As you listen in on tonight's show, ask yourself what do you wish that you would have been taught as a child. Are you still living in anger as an adult because you were not taught? Are you changing the narrative in your home to ensure that your child(ren) are taught differently? Join in with the Kings' to see what the top thing shared that many wish that they were taught as children. Be blessed and feel free to share! 

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Join the Kings as they sit down with  an amazing marital team, Juan & Lisa Winans! Juan and Lisa recently debuted their single titled, 'It Belongs to Me." If you have not heard this beautiful song, please go and check it out. The Kings will dive into not only the details of the song, but getting to know Juan & Lisa on a more personal level. Feel free to share and as always be blessed! 

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Parents often wonder, why is my child(ren) always acting out? What is their problem? Have parents ever really taking the time to find out what the root cause of their children acting out is? We as parents get to frustrated when our children behave in this manner. It is a normal reaction. However, the questions is why does this take place? Join the Kings as they break down the reason why children act out and what may be some root causes. As always feel free to share. Blessings. 

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With so much division that is seen taking place around the world, the Kings have one question. How much of the division has started within the home? Many do not want to think about this as it is easier to focus on the problems of others and not our own. We do not realize that we are raising the next generation right in our homes. What are they learning and what are we teaching them? Join in with the Kings as they discuss the topic, ‘Parents Divided.’ Feel free to share and be blessed! 

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From one question, as stemmed many show topics. The question that was asked of us is, which is worse an absent father or a toxic mother? On today's show, the Kings' will be diving into the effects of a having a toxic mother. Many do not think that this is a problem, but it is in more ways than one. Having a toxic mother can harm the child(ren) now and in the future. So listen in as the Kings' break this down both naturally and Biblically. Like always feel free to share with others. Blessings. 

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We understand that times can get extremely stressful in our live however, does that warrant one to abuse another? What is the makeup of an individual that causes them to become abusive? Why would you want to harm someone that you clam that you love? There are so many questions when it comes to the various types of abuse. The main one being, why would one do it? Join the Kings’ as they delve into this deep and painful topic. Prayerfully, this show can bring different perspectives. Thank you for listening in and please feel free to share. Blessings.

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This is a difficult time for many that we are living in. For some it is hard to adjust to being at home all day with your spouse, children or both. This is something that has never happened before in many of our lifetimes. So, how do you deal with this? Does it seems like it is difficult because many things that should have been addressed are now surfacing? Are you having a difficult time dealing with it? Have you every wondered how you can get through this? Well join the Kings' as they address a very common struggle for many. Feel free to share with others and be blessed.

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Have you noticed it? There are so many memes and let's just say it to promotion of divorce after the quarantine is over. What are your thoughts about that? Many are fed up about having to be "shelter in place, with their spouses. Some may say that the problems of the marriage are now coming to the surface to be dealt with? Many may have used business as a distraction prior to the quarantine orders were given. What are your thoughts? Join in with the Kings as they discuss this topic on tonight's show. Feel free to share and blessings to you! 

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It is common for us to desire better days in our lives. Just look at what is going on in the world today. However, what can we do to ensure that we have better days ahead? What is it that we need to change in our lives? What is it that we can change for the better concerning our marriages and families? There are so many questions to be asked, but we have to understand that change starts with us. Join the Kings as they navigate through this topic on this show. Feel free to share with others who desire better days ahead for themselves, their marriage and their families. Thank you always for supporting the Kings as they greatly appreciate it. Blessings. 

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Our emotional and mental state is a very important part of who we are. If we focus on these areas of our lives as much as the rest, we can ensure to walk into a place of wholeness. In this episode of Marriage Mondays with the Kings, the Kings' are going to dive into mental health. Why do people not get help when they are hurting? Is there still a taboo on going to counseling? What does the Bible say about all this? Join the Kings' as they delve into this topic and how it affects our marriages and families. Feel free to share and blessings to each of you. 

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In today's show, Kenya and Shan are going to discuss the different variations of how important marriage is to the family. In our current state, many families are currently at home together. In viewing social media, there seems to be a great deal of complaining. Parents are frustrated with having to be home with their children. Husbands or Wives complaining about having to be home all day with their spouse. Have you ever stopped to ask yourself, why is something that should be so wonderful is not? Listen in and share with others as the Kings' discuss what God has placed on their hearts to share. Blessings. 

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On this show of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, our special guests Shirley LaTour and Rochelle Johnson spoke of their journey of divorce. Mr. King joined shared his experience as well. They discussed pre-martial counseling, their children and their roles in the church during this time. Marriage Mondays with The Kings encourage all to listen and share show with others. This show right here is definitely one that you do not want to pass up not listening to! Blessings.

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On this weeks show of Marriage Monday's with The Kings, the Kings' are talking about intimacy in marriage? The Kings' have heard many woman complain that all men want is sex. On the other hand, women have also mentioned to them that they would like to be held more. The questions that they have been asked is if intimacy and sex is the same thing? Can you have intimacy without sex? What does the Bible say about this? Why do so many get intimacy and sex confused? Is sex really for married individuals? There are so many questions and the Kings' have so many answers. Listen in and feel free to share with others. Blessings. 

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Believe it or not, finances are one of the biggest struggles in marriage. Many come into the marriage in severe debt due to the overpriced wedding that they had. Many do not know anything else other than being broke "having a broke mentality." The saddest thing is that no one has the conversation in reference to finances or the handling of finances. No worries, because in this show we will DEFINITELY speak about this topic from every angle. Be blessed and enjoy!

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On this week the Kings' will dive deeper into the wedding vows, with in sickness and in health. They have discussed the previous parts of the vows, but do you think that this part is what most devalue in marriage? As they shared in previous episodes, many say that they purposely do not say the "in sickness and in health" part of the vow because they do not want the responsibility. What do you think? Listen in and feel free to communicate with them via their social media forums, if you have any marriage topics that you desire to be discussed. Blessings. 

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Last week, the Kings started out this current serious with Marriage Vows: For Better or For Worse. Well they are continuing on this week with Marriage Vows: For Richer or For Poorer.  The King's asked a question for last weeks' show, "When you said your marriage vows, did you say them as a covenant or a contract?" Keep that in mind as you listen to the continuation of this series. Feel free to comment on their social media pages, like and share their content. Be blessed! 

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In looking at the divorce rate and married couples considering to get a divorce, the Kings' took it back to the basics. In this show they are going to go back to the wedding vows. What do they mean? Do people even honor their vows? Do married couples remember the vows that they made on their wedding day? There are so many questions that the Kings' would like to know if married couples consider before making emotional decisions. Was your deciding to get married/ divorced based off of an emotional decision? Listen in to hear what the Kings' have to say on this topic. Blessings!

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Happy 2020, the Kings' are back with some fiery in your face topics! Whew, now this topic right here is a reason why most marriages end in divorce! There is a lack of respect for marriages. Husband and wives, In-laws, and others do not hold a marital union in high regard. When the marriage is respected as God has ordained, the marriage is bound to work! Feel free to share with others and as always be blessed! 

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As a single person, have you ever envisioned what you want your marriage to look like? As a married person, do you feel like your marriage is stagnant? The big question is do you have a vision for your marriage? If not, why? What does that even look like you ask? Well we invite you to listen to today's show and we hope to provide you with insight on today's topic. Be blessed and feel free to share.

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In marriage, we often to go on with everyday life. When things start to get really rocky and negative, we do not think of how the Devil is waging war on our marriage. We do not think about the spiritual attack, yet we allow ourselves to get caught up in a world wind that leads to divorce. It is not until many are out of the marriage (divorced) that you clearly see how you allowed the devil to win. We must understand that our spouse is not the enemy and that they devil is! Please enjoy this show and feel free to share it so that others may be lifted us. Blessings. 

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Special Guest: William Mukes Jr., Marriage & Family Therapist

There are so many questions that we had to ask married men, in which we desire to be answered. Last weeks show was so good, that we had to continue it on this week. We have our special guest and Mr. King who will continue to answer the burning questions that we want to know.

***Please note that the answers provided are not to be taken for the response of all men. ***

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Have you ever asked yourself, why do we keep going through the same exact things OVER and OVER in our marriage? Why do we argue about the same things. It may be because you as the individual has not dealt with rooted issues that wrestle with. We do not understand how negative roots from our past can manifest negatively in our marriage. We hope that you enjoy the show, feel free to share with others and be blessed! 

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Do you find yourselves arguing all the time in your marriage? Maybe you and your husband/wive avoid certain subjects? Is that really health? Well on this episode of Marriage Mondays with The Kings, we will be speaking about healing. There are some things that may need to be healed in your marriage. There may be some things that need to be healed from your past. Either way, a TRUE healing need to come about to received the best blessed marriage that God intends for you. Listen in and be blessed!

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Isn't it ironic how we have faith and believe God for everything else (new job, new car, new house), but do not when it comes to our marriage? What is so hard about believing/having faith that we can have the marriage that God intends for us to have. What is your level of faith? What does your relationship look like with God? So many question and so many answers that need to be answered. No worries, listen in and let us know what you think by going to our social media pages. Blessings....

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There are many couples, that are ready to throw in the towel in the down times. Let us ask you a question, have you as husbands and wives worked together to have peace for a short period of time? If so, why not? In this episode Mr. King speaks of having a peace treaty in your marriage. What is that? Listen in to find out and be blessed! 

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If we were to be honest with ourselves, there are a great deal of us who have faked something at one point in our lives. We have faked being happy when we were actually sad. We faked to like something that we really hated to avoid hurting an individuals feelings. Question, why do we fake it in our marriage? Why don't we put as much effort into actually working on our marriage? These are some of the things that we will be discussing on tonight's show. 

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This show topic came about, because there were a few married individuals to reach out to us. The issue at hand was the fact that they felt like their spouse was trying to constantly change them. Others said that they felt that they are not good enough for their spouse. One said that she do not know what changed as to why all of a sudden her spouse was always complaining. In this show, we are going to speak to all of these common day issues that many face. Oh and Singles, we are not going to leave you out (for those who desire to be married one day). Feel free to share, blessings and enjoy!

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As married people, we always hear of how marriage has it's ups and down. We hear that we are going to have some good times and bad times. What we do not often hear about is how we are to overcome obstacles. What is things are going well and then all of a sudden one spouse loses their job? What are we to do if one spouse gets drastically ill? How are we do handle it if our child(ren) are acting out and it is affecting our marriage in a negative way? Well join us as we get to the truth of obstacles that we may face in our marriage and how to overcome them. Feel free to share and blessings to you! 

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Healing is a hard thing for many to deal with and we understand. However, as husband and wife, we need to really delve deep and see how not healing hurts our marriage. We blame our husbands and wives for things that they we have not healed from. So join in with us for part two of healing. Be blessed and feel free to share with others as we do not know what people suffer with in silence. 

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There are many who believe that once you sweep your hurt under the rug, you can pretend as if it didn't happen. Others believe that you can just get married and everything can just stay in the past. The reality is life can become more difficult, when you do not heal from your hurt. The hurts that you do not heal from, will magnify in your marriage! Listen in, feel free to share and enjoy! Blessings.

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Many of our supporters have reached out to us asking if we could do a show on this very topic. We have all heard of the many mentions concerning Mother-in-Laws, which are negative. A great deal of husbands and wives are at their wits end concerning this issue. On this episode, we will delve into the Biblical principles associated with this issue in marriage. Feel free to share this with anyone who are in-laws, soon to be in-laws or that is dealing with this issue. So grab your honey, sit back and enjoy!

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We get so busy in today's society that honestly we place our family on the back burner. This is one of the major reasons that families separate and definitely marriages. Do you find yourself having difficulty in your marriage or family? Check out our Summer Repeat of Getting Back to Family. We hope that it is blessing to you, your marriage and your family. 

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In continuation from last week's session, we are continuing on with Open Marriage. This segment will focus more on commitment in marriage and is their commitment when you open your marriage. Our show is not to bash anyone in an open marriage, but have a deeper depth of thinking. How will having an open marriage benefit and or destroy your marriage? Enjoy and be blessed!

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Many are discussing the idea of open marriage in reference to their marriage. Is it a good idea? Should rules and boundaries be set? Does God support open marriage? Should those who follow God entertain the fact of having an open marriage. So many questions and we are going to take our time and go through this series. Many are afraid to have the conversation, but we are not. Listen in and share your thoughts. 

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A recent new story states that many marriages are ending because of debt.  It is being discussed that many couples who are getting married are taking out wedding loans to secure their big day.  One of the biggest avoidances in couples, is truly coming to the table to see how much they are in debt.   Many choose to avoid the fact that they are in debt, but feel that they cannot truly get ahead in their marriage.  Is this your struggle?  Are you tired of being in debt, but choose to avoid it?  Listen in and we hope that you enjoy and will share with others. 

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This show is a repeat of a previous show that we did. Secrets in Marriage speaks to how many marriages do not make it due to secrets. Many may feel that they grew up in families that kept secrets and the family is functioning okay. This is not true in many cases, because the secrets hurt the family from thriving as they should. Do you believe that your marriage is now suffering due to secrets that you hold within and never shared with your husband/wife? Well listen in and we hope and pray that this show helps. Blessings to you. 

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Growing up, marriage was something that you dream of (especially little girls). However, how many are prepared to have a mindset for marriage. In order to have a long and productivity marriage, many need to ensure that their mindsets are set on marriage. There are so many that go into the marriage, with a single mindset. How many have heard someone say, "I am not changing for anything or he/she is just going to have to accept me the way that I am." By chance are you single and having trouble in your relationships/lack of marriage? It just may be your mindset. Enjoy today's show. Blessings.

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We know that marriages have their ups and downs, that is marriage. However for those of you who are married, do you make your marriage priority? Are you guilty of not making your marriage a priority? Does your husband/wife come to you desiring to spend more time with you (as a husband/wife should)? Well listen in as we go on this journey of making/keeping your marriage as a priority! Blessings.

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There are so many people who are not happy with their marriage. There are also many marriages that are either in separation or ending in divorce. One would have to ask themselves individually, how did I contribute to this factor? What may I have allowed to influence me in a worldly way that affected my marriage? Am I guilty of placing everything else as priority over my marriage and family? If your marriage/family is in turmoil, you may want to listen in. If you desire not to end up in a failed marriage, you. may want to listen. If you are single and desire to have some "golden nuggets" for your future marriage, we suggest that you listen in. Blessing, enjoy and share...

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This topic came about by one of our supporters who had a question in reference to long-term dating. She does not understand why a person would want to be in a long-term relationship if the endgame is not marriage. On this show we explore why one may not be ready to commit to the idea of marriage. We also, discuss how individuals can potentially protect themselves from "wasting time" in a relationship, if the person has no intention to marry. Listen in, share and be blessed.

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Have you ever thought, I am so tired of hearing people complain about their marriage? Maybe you have even thought, all I seem to do is complain about my marriage? What do you think happened to where you now feel that you no longer have joy in your marriage? Where did your marriage take a turn for the worst? What can you do to get it back on the right track? Well, join in and we hope that something is said that will be beneficial to you and your marriage. Always feel free to share our content with others who may need to hear it. Blessing and enjoy!

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One of the hardest things that we hear couple speak of is the two of them coming on one accord. A great deal of the conversations that married couples have with us are based of a "single" mindset. Often we here, my house, my car, my money; oh especially my money. It is very rare that we hear, our home, our future or our life together. We delve into the Bible to see what the word of God has to say about this topic. Also, as always we keep it all the way real when it comes to this thing call marriage. Blessings to you all and thank you so much for your support of our show. Enjoy and share!

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