From ADHD to NeuroFloe. When Your Struggle Becomes Your Assignment | Featuring Shawana Gatlin

What if your biggest struggle became the very thing God used to help thousands of other people?

In this episode of Distracted, Not Disqualified, I sit down with entrepreneur, author, and NeuroFloe founder Shawana Gatlin for an honest conversation about living with ADHD, receiving a diagnosis in adulthood, and building a solution from the challenges she experienced firsthand.

After years of navigating executive dysfunction, overwhelm, impulsive spending, overstimulation, and the invisible weight that often comes with ADHD, Shawana decided to create NeuroFloe, an all-in-one app designed specifically for women with ADHD.

More than just another productivity app, NeuroFloe combines practical tools, coaching, community, faith, and accountability into one supportive space for women who are tired of feeling like they have to figure everything out alone.

In this episode, we talk about:
Receiving an ADHD diagnosis in her 40s

• Why ADHD is often misunderstood as laziness or a lack of discipline
• Hyperfocus, executive dysfunction, and succeeding in corporate America
• The hidden mental load of high-achieving women with ADHD
• Building NeuroFloe from the ground up with a developer in Nigeria
• How faith shaped every step of the journey
• Why your struggle may actually be your assignment

This conversation is honest, funny, encouraging, and deeply practical. Whether you've been diagnosed with ADHD, love someone who has, or simply feel overwhelmed trying to keep up with life, you'll leave reminded that your challenges do not define your potential.

Your brain isn't broken.
Your purpose isn't diminished.
And you are not disqualified.

Resources Mentioned

• Join the NeuroFloe waitlist
• Bella's Sticky Situation by Shawana Gatlin

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Hiding in Plain Sight | Loán Lake's Story of Trichotillomania, Shame & Self-Acceptance

For more than 30 years, Loán Lake has lived with Trichotillomania, a body-focused repetitive behavior disorder that causes compulsive hair pulling.

Most people never knew.

As a communications strategist, public relations professional, and community leader, Loán spent decades managing a successful public-facing career while privately carrying a struggle that few people understood. In this episode, she shares her story publicly for the first time since 2009.

Together, we discuss Trichotillomania, hidden struggles, anxiety, shame, self-image, faith, and the exhausting reality of looking "fine" while carrying something difficult behind the scenes.

Whether you live with Trichotillomania, ADHD, another invisible challenge, or love someone who does, this conversation is a reminder that you are not alone and that healing often begins when we stop hiding.

Key Topics:
• What Trichotillomania really is
• Living with a hidden struggle
• The connection between stress, anxiety, and coping behaviors
• Self-acceptance and healing
• Faith, identity, and vulnerability
• Why awareness reduces shame

Scripture Featured:

"But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature... For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.'"
— 1 Samuel 16:7 (ESV)

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What happens when you finally learn you have ADHD… and instead of just relief, you feel grief?

In this episode of Distracted, Not Disqualified, I sit down with Latrice Prater, neurodivergent CEO, author, and founder of The Digital Solutions Team, to talk about late ADHD diagnosis, growing up Black where mental health wasn’t centered, and the complicated emotions that come when clarity finally arrives.

This isn’t a fixing episode.
It’s a naming episode.

Psalm 34:18 (ESV)
“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.”

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Why Clear Communication Matters (When Common Sense Isn’t Common)

We say “it’s just common sense” like everyone received the same instructions. They didn’t.

In this episode of Distracted, Not Disqualified, I sit down with Tawana Wiggins to talk about ADHD brains, executive function, and why unclear communication creates unnecessary frustration in parenting, leadership, education, and the workplace.

This conversation is about ADHD processing, not excuses. It’s about why assumptions fail, how vague instructions increase anxiety, and what intentional communication actually looks like in real life.

We introduce the WIN framework:
• What I Need
• What’s Important Now

This episode is for leaders, parents, educators, and professionals who want better outcomes without burnout or shame.

James 1:19 (ESV) - “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.”

Colossians 4:6 (ESV) - “Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.”

Topics Covered
• Why “common sense” isn’t common
• ADHD and executive function. Processing vs responsibility
• How vague instructions increase anxiety
• The WIN framework for clear communication
• Parenting ADHD brains without lowering expectations
• ADHD burnout in the workplace
• Why clarity reduces shame and builds trust

If this episode resonated, share it with someone who leads, parents, or works with people who think differently.

Clarity is love in action. Especially for ADHD brains.

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You can be exceptional in some areas. Strategic. Bold. Visionary.
And still struggle with basic follow-through, admin, or the everyday things that “should” be easy.

In this episode of Distracted, Not Disqualified, I sit down with Alice Draper, Founder of Hustling Writers and host of My Rejection Story, to talk about the tension of being successful on paper but struggling in real life.

We unpack high achievement, hidden deficits, the fraud voice, rejection, and the emotional weight of being brilliant in one space and inconsistent in another. We also talk about ADHD, systems, shame, and what shifts when you stop trying to be good at everything.

If you’ve ever thought, “If people saw the full picture, they’d question me,” this conversation is for you.

You can be brilliant and limited.
Strong and still struggling.
Gifted and still human.

You are not disqualified.

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Embracing ADHD: A Journey of Self-Discovery

This episode is personal. In this episode of the Distracted, Not Disqualified podcast, hosts Dari Crawford and Tiara Perry share their personal journeys with ADHD, discussing the challenges and triumphs they face. They explore the importance of support systems, the impact of ADHD on self-perception, and the role of technology in managing daily tasks. The conversation emphasizes self-acceptance, the power of community, and the need for practical strategies to navigate life with ADHD. Ultimately, they encourage listeners to embrace their differences and seek help when needed, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles.

If you’ve been carrying something you feel called to start, but fear or overwhelm keeps getting in the way, this episode is for you.

You are not broken.
You’re distracted. Not disqualified.

Philippians 1:6 - “And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

2 Timothy 1:7 - “For God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.”

Takeaways:

ADHD is not a flaw but a different way of thinking.
Support systems are crucial for managing ADHD.
Self-acceptance is key to living with ADHD.
Technology can help organize and manage daily tasks.
It's okay to start late; there's no timeline for success.
Communicating your needs to others fosters understanding.
Internal criticism can be detrimental; practice self-compassion.
Finding the right diagnosis can change your life.
You don't have to wear a mask to fit in.
Community support can alleviate feelings of isolation.

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We finally talk politics through the lens of faith and purpose. No sides. Just honest conversation about staying grounded in what matters.

A Praying Life: Connecting with God in a Distracting World

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Faith and fitness aren’t separate. They go hand in hand. In this episode of Cutting Up With the Crawfords, Dari and Derrick share how accountability, worship, and prayer have transformed their garage workouts into something deeper than just exercise.

From neighbors becoming workout partners to friends gathering for garage gym sessions, this conversation shows why God never designed us to do life or fitness alone. Together, we unpack how worship shifts your mindset, how accountability keeps you consistent, and why rest is just as spiritual as the workout itself.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why your body is a temple to honor God with (1 Corinthians 6:19–20).
• How accountability multiplies strength (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10).
• The value of discipline in fitness and faith (1 Timothy 4:7–8).
• Why rest and recovery matter spiritually (Exodus 20:8–10).

Whether you are starting a new routine or just looking for motivation, this episode will remind you that fitness is stewardship, accountability is biblical, and community makes the journey lighter.

Takeaway Challenge: Invite one person to move with you this week. Walk, stretch, or lift and bring God into the conversation.

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What if the “strong, organized Black woman” is actually silently struggling?

In this powerful episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords, Derrick interviews Dari about her recent ADHD diagnosis and what it uncovered after years of high-achieving, over-functioning, and masking.

Dari opens up about the hidden symptoms, cultural stigmas, and internal chaos she experienced before finally being diagnosed with ADHD as an adult. Together, they break down the emotional toll of being “high-functioning but still struggling,” especially for Black women who are often expected to carry it all with a smile.

This episode isn’t just about labels. It’s about liberation through truth, faith, and grace.

✨ Key Takeaways:
What ADHD actually looks like in high-achieving Black women
Why so many women go undiagnosed for years
The emotional and spiritual cost of masking
The difference between being capable and being well
How faith reframes neurodivergence through grace, not shame

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In this episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords, Derrick and Dari share what it is like to live, love, and lead as introverts in a world that seems to always be “on.” From family gatherings to ministry events to unexpected drop-ins, they unpack the challenges of protecting your peace when everyone else’s battery runs at full speed.

Dari talks about her need for quiet spaces to process, the spiritual benefits of stillness, and why silence is not a weakness but a source of strength. Derrick opens up about his shift toward introversion over the years.

Together, they explore how introverts can live faithfully, love deeply, and lead well without burning out, and they share practical ways to create breathing room in loud environments.

Whether you are an introvert looking for encouragement, an extrovert trying to understand someone you love, or somewhere in between, this conversation will remind you that quiet is not a problem; it is a gift.

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Straight from the podcast room and dangerously unsupervised, this episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords is packed with hot takes, real talk, and the kind of commentary that might get us canceled.

Derrick and Dari are going all in. No script, no filter, no holding back. From random rants to full on soapbox moments, this is what happens when two opinionated people sit in front of a mic and forget that the world is listening.

It’s funny, it’s honest, and it’s exactly the kind of chaos you didn’t know you needed.

If you’ve ever shouted “Who let them talk?!” while laughing out loud, this one’s for you.

Drop your hottest take in the comments, tag a friend who needs to hear this, or send us a voice memo. You might just end up in the next episode.

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Episode Description 

In this vulnerable and hope-filled episode of Cutting Up With The Crawfords, Derrick and Dari open up about life with chronic illness, Crohn’s Disease and Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA) and what it looks like to love, lead, and laugh through flare-ups, fatigue, and faith.

From multi doctor visits to daily joint pain, they’re sharing the real stuff: how chronic illness impacts their marriage, parenting, and purpose — and how they choose to show up anyway. Whether you’re battling your own health challenges or supporting someone who is, this conversation is a reminder that strength isn’t about being symptom-free; it’s about staying connected in the storm.

Why Haven’t You Healed Me? (The Chosen Scene): Season 3. Little James has followed Jesus faithfully despite a painful disability. Now, when he receives power to heal others, James must ask why he hasn’t been healed himself.

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S2 E5: “Built Different: How a Father-Daughter Bond Stays Strong Through Every Season”

Dari sits down with her dad for a heartfelt, faith-filled convo on what’s kept their bond strong through every season of life. From childhood laughs to adult wisdom, they dive into stories of growth, grace, and the power of presence.

Perfect for:
Father-daughter relationships
Faith and family connections
Real talk and legacy-building

🎧 Watch, listen in, laugh with them, and leave inspired.

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Episode Summary
In this heartfelt episode of Cutting Up with the Crawfords, Derrick and Dari Crawford sit down with their kids, D’Wayne and Dasia, for an honest conversation about what happens when life doesn’t go as planned. From post-graduation uncertainty to dreams that detoured, this full-family conversation brings wisdom, laughter, and real talk about navigating disappointment, faith, and purpose when you feel lost without a map.

Each family member shares their unique journey of adjusting expectations, wrestling with God’s timing, and learning to find meaning in the middle of life’s pivots. Whether you're a young adult questioning what’s next or a parent supporting a child through the unknown, this episode reminds us that even when the map disappears, God never does.

Proverbs 16:9 (ESV):“The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.”

Watch now on YouTube and tag someone who needs a reminder that their detour might just be divine direction.

Don’t forget to subscribe, like, and leave a comment sharing your own “lost without a map” moment—we’d love to hear your story.

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Episode Summary  
In this powerful episode of *Cutting Up with the Crawfords*, Derrick and Dari Crawford—an interracial couple navigating life and love with faith and intentionality—get real about emotional health, communication, and the transformative power of regular relationship check-ins.  

They share vulnerable insights from their own marriage, exploring how emotional check-ins helped them better understand each other’s mental and emotional state, reduce miscommunication, and create a safe space for honest conversations. From dealing with anxiety and depression to dismantling pride and shame, this conversation highlights the critical role of mental health in marriage and everyday relationships.  

Whether you're married, dating, or just trying to be a better friend, this episode is full of practical tools and powerful encouragement to help you check in with the people you love.

Keywords
relationship check-ins 
- Christian marriage advice  
- emotional health in relationships  
- faith-based podcast on marriage  
- interracial couple podcast  
- mental health and marriage  
- overcoming shame in relationships  
- healthy communication strategies  
- therapy in Christian relationships  

Episode Takeaways  
- Regular check-ins can improve emotional health and connection.  
- Understanding your partner’s emotional state helps prevent conflict.  
- Therapy is a valuable tool for emotional and spiritual growth.  
- Mental health struggles like anxiety and depression should be discussed openly.  
- Pride and shame often block honest conversations.  
- Safe, judgment-free zones allow for vulnerability and deeper connection.  
- Open-ended questions spark meaningful conversations.  
- Sharing struggles with a trusted partner or friend builds intimacy.  
- Awareness of each other’s schedules can boost emotional support.  

Chapters  
00:00 – Why Relationship Check-Ins Matter  
06:21 – Reading Emotional Cues & Responding with Care  
10:06 – Marriage, Anxiety, and Being a Supportive Spouse  
12:00 – How Communication Builds Stronger Bonds  
17:09 – Mental Health in Marriage: Breaking Cultural Stigma  
19:07 – The Emotional Weight of Vulnerability  
21:10 – Anxiety vs. Excitement: Knowing the Difference  
22:10 – The Pressure to Be “Strong”  
23:53 – Letting Go of Pride & Shame  
25:18 – Creating a Safe Space for Hard Conversations  
27:46 – Ask This, Not That: The Power of Open-Ended Questions  
30:13 – How to Check In Without Being Awkward  
32:46 – Building Safe Spaces That Last  
35:48 – Call to Action: Who Will You Check In With?

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Who or What is Discipling You?

Summary: In this episode of 'Cutting Up with the Crawfords', Dari and Derrick explore the concept of discipleship, discussing its importance in personal growth and spiritual development. They share personal experiences and insights on how various influences shape our lives, emphasizing the need for accountability, community, and mentorship. The conversation highlights practical steps for fostering a deeper relationship with God and encourages listeners to reflect on their own discipleship journey.

Takeaways: 

• Discipleship is about walking alongside others in their faith journey.
• Everyone is being influenced by something, whether positive or negative.
• Accountability in relationships is crucial for growth.
• Community plays a vital role in discipleship and support.
• Mentorship can come from both older and younger individuals.
• Discipleship is not just about teaching but living out faith together.
• We should regularly audit our influences and their impact on us.
• Biblical teachings provide a foundation for understanding discipleship.
• Spending time with God is essential for spiritual growth.
• Reflection on personal influences can lead to meaningful change.

How to start letting Jesus disciple you:

1. Audit your influences – What are you consuming daily?
2. Prioritize time with God – Prayer, scripture, and community.
3. Find mentors and accountability partners.

Reflection: Who or what is discipling you right now?

Call to action: Identify one thing discipling you that needs to change.

Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates
02:20 Understanding Discipleship
04:52 The Importance of Discipleship
07:33 Influences in Our Lives
09:56 Negative Influences and Social Media
12:39 Biblical Discipleship and Community
15:07 Accountability in Discipleship
23:35 The Importance of Community and Accountability
25:35 Mentorship Across Generations
27:40 Discipleship and Personal Growth
29:58 Navigating Cultural Influences
32:27 Discipline in Discipleship
34:54 The Role of the Church
36:11 Shifting Influences and Priorities
40:49 Organic Discipleship in Relationships
45:29 Reflecting on Personal Discipleship
47:21 Identifying and Replacing Negative Influences

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Blessings in the Chaos: Finding God Through Change

Keywords: Crawfords, faith, job transitions, community, God, blessings, financial changes, emotional journey, family, podcast

Summary: In this episode of 'Cutting Up With The Crawfords', Dari and Derrick share their journey of returning to the podcast after a hiatus, discussing the emotional transitions in their lives, particularly Derrick's job changes and the impact on their family. They reflect on their faith, the importance of community, and how they find God amidst chaos. The couple also touches on financial changes, the significance of support from friends and family, and their future plans, all while maintaining a light-hearted and engaging conversation.

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and Life Updates

02:39 Navigating Job Changes and Community Loss

05:20 Finding God in the Chaos

08:14 Reflections on Faith and Transition

11:07 The Impact of Ministry and Relationships

13:44 New Beginnings and Future Plans

16:28 Financial Changes and Personal Growth

19:26 The Role of Faith in Daily Life

21:59 Embracing Change and Trusting God

25:01 The Importance of Community Support

27:47 Looking Ahead and Future Endeavors

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Get ready for an insightful episode of "Cutting Up With The Crawfords" as Dari takes the mic with her closest girlfriends to explore one of the vital "F" words of marriage: Friends.

In this candid conversation, Dari and her girlfriends unravel the layers of friendship within the context of marriage. From reminiscing about the single days when friendship meant late-night adventures to unpacking what it's like to be best friends with your spouse, they share laughs, lessons, and a few surprises along the way.

Join the lively discuss the importance of maintaining connections outside of marriage and why a robust friend circle is a key ingredient in a thriving relationship. Whether you're navigating the complexities of married life or just curious about the dynamics of friendship within matrimony, this episode offers a genuine exploration of the "F" word that often takes a back seat in marital discussions.

Tune in to "Friends Forever: Dari and Her Girlfriends Unravel the 'F' Word of Marriage" for laughter, shared experiences, and valuable insights into the multifaceted world of friendship in marriage. Press play and join the Crawford conversation—it's like a girls' night out, but with a podcast twist!

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Embark on a candid and unfiltered journey with Dasia and Tucker in the latest episode of "Cutting Up With The Crawfords" titled "Navigating Life's Campus." In this insightful conversation, our dynamic duo shares their experiences navigating the twists and turns of high school, college, dating, and beyond.

Join Dasia and Tucker as they reflect on the valuable lessons learned during their formative years. From the highs and lows of high school to the transformative experiences of college life, this episode is a relatable exploration of growth, challenges, and self-discovery.

But the conversation doesn't stop there – our hosts dive into the realm of dating, discussing the intricacies of relationships and the wisdom gained along the way. With humor, honesty, and a touch of nostalgia, Dasia and Tucker open up about the milestones that have shaped their lives.

Whether you're a fellow student navigating the tumultuous seas of academia, someone reminiscing about the good old days, or simply curious about the rollercoaster ride of life, this episode promises laughter, relatability, and valuable insights.

Tune in to "Navigating Life's Campus" for a podcast that feels like a heart-to-heart conversation with friends. Press play and join the Crawford conversation as we explore the universal lessons that make us who we are.

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Welcome to another candid and insightful episode of "Cutting Up With The Crawfords"! In this episode, our dynamic duo, Derrick and Dari, cut up one of the crucial 'F' words of marriage: FAMILY.

Join us as we open up about the profound impact of family dynamics on our relationship. From navigating the joys and challenges of building a family together to the lessons learned along the way, this episode is a deep dive into the intricate bonds that define our marriage.

Get ready for a heartfelt conversation as we share personal stories, reflect on the role of family in shaping our journey, and explore the importance of unity in the face of life's twists and turns. Whether you're a seasoned couple, newlyweds, or simply curious about the intricacies of love and family, our candid discussion is sure to resonate.

Tune in to "Family: The Fundamental 'F' Word in Marriage" for laughter, wisdom, and a genuine exploration of the ties that bind. It's a raw and real conversation that celebrates the beautiful messiness of family life and the enduring strength it brings to the fabric of marriage. Don't miss out on this heartfelt episode - press play and join the Crawford conversation!

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Welcome to another heartwarming episode of "Cutting Up With The Crawfords"! Join us in this special edition, "Tiny Triumphs and Touchdowns: Travis Talks Turning 6 and Tackling Sports," featuring the adorable and enthusiastic Travis Carr.

In this delightful conversation, we dive into the world of a soon-to-be 6-year-old with Travis as our guide. From his favorite birthday wishes to the excitement of reaching the big "6," we share in the joy of his upcoming milestone.

But that's not all—Travis takes us on a sports adventure as he discusses his love for football, basketball, and baseball. Hear firsthand about his experiences on the field, the thrill of scoring goals, and the camaraderie with his teammates. It's a heartening journey through the eyes of a sports-loving 5-year-old, and you won't want to miss a moment!

Join us for laughter, insights, and the pure joy of childhood as Travis steals the show with his infectious enthusiasm. Whether you're a parent, a sports fan, or just looking for a dose of positivity, this episode is sure to brighten your day.

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Finances: The 'F' Words of Marriage | S1 E5

[ Cutting Up: Finances ]

Ever wondered about the real "F" words in marriage? 🤔 Well, it's not what you might think! Derrick and Dari dive deep into a crucial “F” word of marriage: FINANCES 💰.

In this episode, we delve into:

• Understanding your credit score and reviewing your credit report.
• The importance of budgeting and setting a financial blueprint for your marriage.
• The pros and cons of combined bank accounts: Navigating the "Our money" perspective.
• Setting clear financial goals, from charitable giving and savings to homeownership and beyond.
• Planning for the future.

Tune in as we unpack these crucial financial aspects of marriage! 🎙️🌟

 Got any thoughts or experiences about marriage and money? 🤑 Let's keep it clean and share in the comments! (No other “F” words please lol)

Join us for a genuine conversation and let's cut up on this topic together!

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Marriage (Communication and Forgiveness)

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Mental Health Amongst Student Athletes (featuring D'Wayne Crawford)

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