The Bright Side Sat, 07 Mar 2026 22:14:07 -0500 https://www.buzzsprout.com/2216777 en-us © 2026 The Bright Side yes 83a2fea2-f35e-5fd5-b9ce-94f5fcba13a9 Stefan Matthews episodic false The Bright Side creates fun and authentic conversations for people to feel a sense of community no matter where they are in the context of relationships. We've learned that to get where we need to go, we've gotta go together, so we are here to take that journey with you.

]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Stefan Matthews https://storage.buzzsprout.com/lzuki3anzgg5r0mixj4c2pp3d8wj?.jpg The Bright Side Relationships Are B.R.I.D.G.E.S. (Live Episode) Relationships Are B.R.I.D.G.E.S. (Live Episode) In the 1st LIVE episode of The Bright Side Show 🎉, we discuss the "B.R.I.D.G.E.S" that strengthen our relationships and connect us more deeply with others and God.

With special guests Pastor Andrew Grannum and Dr. Harold & Dalia Arnold, we unveil 7 pivotal characteristics every connection needs—whether with a spouse, friends, neighbors, or within your church community. 

Join us in building a stronger community through love, empathy, and understanding as we lay down the foundations that truly matter. ✨

#Bridges #Relationships #Faith #Community #PersonalGrowth

*This episode was filmed at New Covenant Church of Philadelphia*

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]]> In the 1st LIVE episode of The Bright Side Show 🎉, we discuss the "B.R.I.D.G.E.S" that strengthen our relationships and connect us more deeply with others and God.

With special guests Pastor Andrew Grannum and Dr. Harold & Dalia Arnold, we unveil 7 pivotal characteristics every connection needs—whether with a spouse, friends, neighbors, or within your church community. 

Join us in building a stronger community through love, empathy, and understanding as we lay down the foundations that truly matter. ✨

#Bridges #Relationships #Faith #Community #PersonalGrowth

*This episode was filmed at New Covenant Church of Philadelphia*

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]]> https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCWiBER_ON_GAeTu12ysgiZg Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-16800663 Mon, 17 Mar 2025 04:00:00 -0400 3744 full false Comfort In Uncomfortability Comfort In Uncomfortability In this Season 2 FINALE, we discuss the importance of having uncomfortable conversations for internal change and personal growth 🌱. Sometimes, embracing the tough moments is necessary for crafting our unique testimonies...like ending up in juvie at the age of 12 (you have to hear this story)!!

It's time to do the work!! So gon’ head and hit that play button, and stay tuned for Season 3! 🎥✨

#Growth #Forgiveness #Healing #Testimony #PersonalGrowth #StoryTime

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]]> In this Season 2 FINALE, we discuss the importance of having uncomfortable conversations for internal change and personal growth 🌱. Sometimes, embracing the tough moments is necessary for crafting our unique testimonies...like ending up in juvie at the age of 12 (you have to hear this story)!!

It's time to do the work!! So gon’ head and hit that play button, and stay tuned for Season 3! 🎥✨

#Growth #Forgiveness #Healing #Testimony #PersonalGrowth #StoryTime

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15819451 Thu, 26 Sep 2024 02:00:00 -0400 4096 The Bright Side, The Bright Side Show 2 9 full false Emotional Trail Mix Emotional Trail Mix Why do we care so much about how others perceive us? Dive into our intimate conversation as we explore the heart of vulnerability and the heavy weight of emotions. 

We'll share personal stories that highlight the importance of embracing our authentic selves, and the necessity of facing difficult conversations—be it in marriage, family, or friendships—in order to truly heal and thrive.

If you’re ready to step into your own healing journey, hit play and join the discussion! 💖

#Healing #Growth #Emotion #Marriage #Vulnerability

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]]> Why do we care so much about how others perceive us? Dive into our intimate conversation as we explore the heart of vulnerability and the heavy weight of emotions. 

We'll share personal stories that highlight the importance of embracing our authentic selves, and the necessity of facing difficult conversations—be it in marriage, family, or friendships—in order to truly heal and thrive.

If you’re ready to step into your own healing journey, hit play and join the discussion! 💖

#Healing #Growth #Emotion #Marriage #Vulnerability

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15745912 Fri, 13 Sep 2024 01:00:00 -0400 4038 2 8 full false Lets Talk About SEX Lets Talk About SEX 🌟 Are you ready to elevate your relationship? In this engaging episode with renowned Christian Sexologist and Intimacy Coach - Brittany Broaddus-Smith, we explore the importance of being not just a good lover, but a **WISE** one. Embrace your sexuality as a divine gift from God and discover how open communication about sexual needs can transform your intimacy —because keeping it spicy is essential! 🍃 We also dive into why discussing sex is often taboo in church culture, and how breaking these barriers can lead to deeper connections. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned couples, this discussion will inspire you to enhance your marriage through love and passion!  #Sex #Intimacy #WiseLover #Marriage #KeepItSpicy #MarriageAdvice

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]]> 🌟 Are you ready to elevate your relationship? In this engaging episode with renowned Christian Sexologist and Intimacy Coach - Brittany Broaddus-Smith, we explore the importance of being not just a good lover, but a **WISE** one. Embrace your sexuality as a divine gift from God and discover how open communication about sexual needs can transform your intimacy —because keeping it spicy is essential! 🍃 We also dive into why discussing sex is often taboo in church culture, and how breaking these barriers can lead to deeper connections. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned couples, this discussion will inspire you to enhance your marriage through love and passion!  #Sex #Intimacy #WiseLover #Marriage #KeepItSpicy #MarriageAdvice

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15656971 Wed, 28 Aug 2024 10:00:00 -0400 4543 Brittany Broaddus-Smith, Sex, Intimacy, Marriage 2 7 full false Life After Loss Life After Loss In this heartwarming episode, our guest Lizzy gives insight into the journey of being young and widowed after the devastating loss of a spouse 💔, and how trust in God will carry you through the darkest moments. Join us as we also touch on finding a support group, balancing grief while helping young children navigate their own emotions, and the courageous step of re-entering the dating scene to find love again. #Loss #Widow #Faith #Hope #Support #Family #God

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]]> In this heartwarming episode, our guest Lizzy gives insight into the journey of being young and widowed after the devastating loss of a spouse 💔, and how trust in God will carry you through the darkest moments. Join us as we also touch on finding a support group, balancing grief while helping young children navigate their own emotions, and the courageous step of re-entering the dating scene to find love again. #Loss #Widow #Faith #Hope #Support #Family #God

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15581743 Wed, 14 Aug 2024 08:00:00 -0400 3535 2 6 full false Finding Community: Whoever Has Your Ear Has Your Future Finding Community: Whoever Has Your Ear Has Your Future In this compelling conversation with 'Sams Community' (YouTube: @sams2community984 ), we discuss finding a community that uplifts you, nurturing authentic relationships in a culture that glorifies an "every person for themselves" mentality, and how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to immense personal growth. #Community #GenuineRelationships #Independence #LeapOfFaith #Risk #SelfDiscovery

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]]> In this compelling conversation with 'Sams Community' (YouTube: @sams2community984 ), we discuss finding a community that uplifts you, nurturing authentic relationships in a culture that glorifies an "every person for themselves" mentality, and how stepping out of your comfort zone can lead to immense personal growth. #Community #GenuineRelationships #Independence #LeapOfFaith #Risk #SelfDiscovery

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15507921 Wed, 31 Jul 2024 10:00:00 -0400 4410 2 5 full false God Said, You Do God Said, You Do In this episode, Stefan and Crystal discuss walking in purpose, and the significance of faith, obedience, and healing. Are you ready to unlock your true potential and embrace a fulfilling life guided by faith? Don't miss out on this enlightening discussion! #Faith #Purpose #Obedience #Healing #EmotionalWellness #MindsetShift

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]]> In this episode, Stefan and Crystal discuss walking in purpose, and the significance of faith, obedience, and healing. Are you ready to unlock your true potential and embrace a fulfilling life guided by faith? Don't miss out on this enlightening discussion! #Faith #Purpose #Obedience #Healing #EmotionalWellness #MindsetShift

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15427372 Wed, 17 Jul 2024 06:00:00 -0400 2667 faith, purpose, obedience, healing, emotional wellness, marriage, mindset shift 2 4 full false Father's Day: "How Come He Don't Want Me, Man?" Father's Day: "How Come He Don't Want Me, Man?" In this episode, we dive into the personal experiences of growing up in a  "fatherless" household, dealing with emotions of rejection and abandonment, and the importance of finding healing, support, and a safe place to process these complex feelings.

Outro Song: "Westbound" by Blake Melvin
Youtube: @TheBlakeMelvinshow
IG: @ReallyBlakesShow

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]]> In this episode, we dive into the personal experiences of growing up in a  "fatherless" household, dealing with emotions of rejection and abandonment, and the importance of finding healing, support, and a safe place to process these complex feelings.

Outro Song: "Westbound" by Blake Melvin
Youtube: @TheBlakeMelvinshow
IG: @ReallyBlakesShow

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]]> Buzzsprout-15359976 Wed, 03 Jul 2024 23:00:00 -0400 4837 2 3 full false Faith & Fertility Faith & Fertility This episode provides insight into the struggles of infertility, the IVF process, and offers inspiration for maintaining a strong marriage during difficult times. 

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]]> This episode provides insight into the struggles of infertility, the IVF process, and offers inspiration for maintaining a strong marriage during difficult times. 

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15275289 Wed, 19 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -0400 4507 Marriage, Relationships, Fertility, Infertility, Faith, IVF 2 2 full false Living Single: Finding Purpose in Solitude Living Single: Finding Purpose in Solitude Living in a Season of Singleness! 

In this Season 2 premiere, we discuss the importance of sexual and emotional boundaries in the pursuit of marriage, fear of failure in relationships, and the need for a personal relationship with God.

#SingleSeasonJourney #PurposefulSingleness #Millenials #Relationship #Marriage

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]]> Living in a Season of Singleness! 

In this Season 2 premiere, we discuss the importance of sexual and emotional boundaries in the pursuit of marriage, fear of failure in relationships, and the need for a personal relationship with God.

#SingleSeasonJourney #PurposefulSingleness #Millenials #Relationship #Marriage

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-15195756 Wed, 05 Jun 2024 06:00:00 -0400 3396 2 1 full false Season 1: A Story of Faith Season 1: A Story of Faith In the final episode of Season 1, Stef, Crystal and Ricky reflect on the journey of creating "The Bright Side" and their hopes for the future.

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]]> In the final episode of Season 1, Stef, Crystal and Ricky reflect on the journey of creating "The Bright Side" and their hopes for the future.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13931820 Wed, 08 Nov 2023 04:00:00 -0500 3579 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, relationships podcast, millennial dating, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews, Ricky Brown 1 9 full false The Dating Game The Dating Game This week we sit with Courtney and Cell to discuss the challenges of navigating today's dating scene.

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]]> This week we sit with Courtney and Cell to discuss the challenges of navigating today's dating scene.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13843150 Wed, 25 Oct 2023 08:00:00 -0400 3339 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, relationships podcast, millennial dating, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 8 full false Ministry-ish Ministry-ish This week we sit down with Shannon and Shamika Major discussing the importance of community in marriage, and intentionality within the different ministries we are called to.

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]]> This week we sit down with Shannon and Shamika Major discussing the importance of community in marriage, and intentionality within the different ministries we are called to.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13755976 Wed, 11 Oct 2023 02:00:00 -0400 3045 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews, Shannon Major, Shamika Major 1 7 full false Rolling With The Punches Rolling With The Punches This week we sit down with Brandon as he recounts his hilarious (but very real) experience with being a teen dad and navigating relationship and life challenges.

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]]> This week we sit down with Brandon as he recounts his hilarious (but very real) experience with being a teen dad and navigating relationship and life challenges.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13671789 Wed, 27 Sep 2023 08:00:00 -0400 3637 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 6 full false Couple Goals Couple Goals This week we sit down with Matt and Shakeemah Winter as they discuss the other side of being seen as "couple goals" amongst their peers.

Links:
1. First and Foremost LLC (HBCU/Cheyney University licensed merch): https://firstandforemostllc.com

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]]> This week we sit down with Matt and Shakeemah Winter as they discuss the other side of being seen as "couple goals" amongst their peers.

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1. First and Foremost LLC (HBCU/Cheyney University licensed merch): https://firstandforemostllc.com

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13581828 Tue, 12 Sep 2023 23:00:00 -0400 3932 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 5 full false Business, But Not As Usual Business, But Not As Usual This week we sit down with Dr. Harold and Dalia Arnold  discussing the need for marriages to be "shaken up" and not just go along with what has been the norm.

Links:
1.  "Marriage ROCKS for Christian Couples": https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Christian-Couples-Harold-Arnold/dp/0817015663

2. Eusebia Live 2023 (Marriage Conference): https://prayformarriage.com/retreat/

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]]> This week we sit down with Dr. Harold and Dalia Arnold  discussing the need for marriages to be "shaken up" and not just go along with what has been the norm.

Links:
1.  "Marriage ROCKS for Christian Couples": https://www.amazon.com/Marriage-Christian-Couples-Harold-Arnold/dp/0817015663

2. Eusebia Live 2023 (Marriage Conference): https://prayformarriage.com/retreat/

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13498021 Wed, 30 Aug 2023 10:00:00 -0400 3354 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 4 full false Broken Engagements Broken Engagements This week we sit down with Shanita and Ricky as they talk about the challenges of having to call off their respective marriage engagements. 

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]]> This week we sit down with Shanita and Ricky as they talk about the challenges of having to call off their respective marriage engagements. 

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13414350 Wed, 16 Aug 2023 01:00:00 -0400 4231 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 3 full false Just the Two of Us Just the Two of Us This week Stef and Crystal sit down and answer questions from the people.

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]]> This week Stef and Crystal sit down and answer questions from the people.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13331444 Tue, 01 Aug 2023 13:00:00 -0400 3206 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 2 full false Guardians of Our Galaxy Guardians of Our Galaxy In the series premiere, hosts Stef and Crystal sit down with Vince and Imani Gumbs to talk about their marriage journey.

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]]> In the series premiere, hosts Stef and Crystal sit down with Vince and Imani Gumbs to talk about their marriage journey.

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]]> Stefan Matthews Buzzsprout-13233533 Sun, 16 Jul 2023 17:00:00 -0400 3678 the bright side, the bright side show, marriage podcast, Stefan Matthews, Crystal Matthews 1 1 full false