If you’re a woman over 40 and suddenly feeling more emotional, more reactive, more… done with everything, you’re not alone.

And no, it’s not just your hormones.

Yes, perimenopause brings very real hormonal shifts. Sleep gets disrupted, moods fluctuate, your energy drops. All of that is true.

But what’s often missing from the conversation is this:

Perimenopause doesn’t just change your body.
It changes your tolerance.

The things you’ve been managing, carrying, and quietly putting up with for years?
They start to feel unbearable.

In this episode, I’m unpacking the deeper layer beneath the “it’s your hormones” narrative and why so many women hit midlife feeling angry, exhausted, and completely fed up.

Because what looks like “midlife rage”… is often a lifetime of self-abandonment finally coming to the surface.

✨ What I explore in this episode:

- Perimenopause and the hormonal shifts that genuinely impact your mood, sleep, and emotional capacity

- Why being labelled “hormonal” can be dismissive and what it overlooks

- The reality of over-functioning and how many women have been carrying far more than their fair share for decades

- How midlife removes your ability to keep tolerating what isn’t working

- The hidden cost of being “the capable one” 

- Why anger isn’t something to suppress, but something to listen to

- How your emotions are pointing you toward what needs to change

- The midlife threshold: continue as you are… or choose something different

🎁 Free resources to support you

If this episode hit home, I’ve created a couple of resources to help you start shifting these patterns:

✨ How to Stop Overfunctioning Masterclass - Access It HERE
Understand why you’ve been carrying so much and how to stop

✨ How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Guilty (PDF Guide) - HERE
Learn how to honour your needs without the guilt spiral

💬 Want Personalised support?

This is exactly the work I do.

👉 Book a free discovery call HERE
Let’s look at what’s really going on beneath the surface and what your next step is

⭐ Loved this episode?

If this resonated, I’d love you to:

•  Leave a 5-star review 
•  Share it with a friend who needs to hear this 
•  Or send it to the woman who’s quietly holding everything together 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You’re not lazy.
You’re not unmotivated.
And you’re definitely not “just overthinking it.”

But if you keep finding yourself stuck in the same patterns; procrastinating, people-pleasing, staying quiet, or getting triggered by things that shouldn’t feel like a big deal…

There’s a good chance a younger part of you is running the show.

In this episode, I’m breaking down what that actually means to have your inner child running your life in a way that’s practical, grounded, and (most importantly) something you can recognise yourself in. 

I explore how unconscious childhood patterns quietly shape your adult life and why trying to “logic” your way out of them never works.

I walk you through:

•  Why you procrastinate on things you know would move your life forward 
•  The real reason you don’t ask for what you need in relationships 
•  Why small things trigger big emotional reactions 
•  How over-functioning and people-pleasing are rooted in early experiences 
•  What’s actually happening when you feel stuck in the same patterns on repeat 

And most importantly — how to start shifting this.

🧠 The part most people miss

You don’t change these patterns by pushing harder.

Or “getting your act together.”

Or being more disciplined.

Because the part of you running the show…isn’t logical.

It’s younger.
It’s protective.
And it genuinely believes it’s keeping you safe.

The work is learning how to meet that part with compassion not override it.

This is where the work I do comes in.

Not just insight. Not just awareness.

But actually changing the unconscious patterns driving your life.

This is where things start to shift quickly.

🎧 If this episode hit home…

✨ Download My Free Cord Cutting Meditation HERE
 A 15-minute guided process to help you release the energetic ties to patterns or situations keeping you stuck.

✨ Book a Discovery Call HERE
If you’re recognising these patterns in your life and you’re ready to actually shift them, we can talk through what’s going on and how I can help.

⭐ If you enjoyed this episode?

I’d love you to:

•  Leave a 5⭐ review 
•  Share it with someone who needs to hear this 
•  Or send me a message and let me know what landed for you  - Instagram is where I hang out most @emmaobriencoach

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Cut the Cord: How to Release Energetic Ties & Reclaim Your Power

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a loop; replaying conversations, holding onto old hurt, or feeling emotionally drained by a person or situation this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, I’m diving into the world of energetic cord cutting: what it is, why it matters, and how it can help you finally move forward when mindset work alone just isn’t shifting things.

We explore how energetic ties form through our relationships and life experiences, and why not all cords are unhealthy—but some can quietly keep you stuck in patterns of anxiety, frustration, or emotional heaviness. If thinking about someone (or something) brings up tension, anger, or that familiar “ugh” feeling… it might be time to clear it.

I also walk you through how I use guided visualisation in my coaching sessions to help clients safely release these ties—allowing them to let go, reclaim their energy, and create space for something new.

Because here’s the truth: you don’t have to keep carrying what’s already happened. You get to choose what you take forward.

🌿 In This Episode I Cover:

• What energetic cords are and how they form
• Why some connections become draining or unhealthy
• How unresolved experiences can keep you stuck in repeating patterns
• The link between your thoughts, emotions, and energetic attachments
• How cord cutting helps you release, reset, and move forward

💫 Ready to Try It for Yourself?

I’ve created a free guided cord cutting meditation to help you feel lighter, clearer, and more like yourself again—in just 15 minutes.

👉 You’ll find it HERE.

And if something deeper is ready to shift for you, you’re so welcome to book a discovery call with me HERE. We can explore what’s coming up for you and how I can support you in moving through it.

💌 Let’s Stay Connected

If you try the meditation, I’d genuinely love to hear how it lands for you—come and share with me on Instagram @EmmaOBrienCoach.

You don’t need to spend years stuck in old stories.

Sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do… is let go.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode of Lemons & Pineapples, I’m talking about Shamanic Soul Retrieval; one of the most requested sessions I offer, and one of the most powerful ways to reconnect to yourself when you feel lost, disconnected, or like you’re living life on autopilot.

Soul retrieval is about reclaiming the parts of you that got pushed into the background for safety — often in response to trauma (big T or small t). It’s not about “fixing” you. It’s about bringing you back into wholeness.

In this episode, I cover:

• What shamans mean by soul loss (and how it can show up in everyday life)
• Common signs: feeling like you don’t belong, losing joy/creativity, over-functioning, people-pleasing, fear of being seen
• A personal story from my childhood that shaped a long-standing fear of being judged or “looking stupid”
• What happens in a soul retrieval session (journeying, finding the wound + the belief contract, restoring essence)
• Power animals as archetypal allies (including an owl example)
• Why integration is the key — insight alone doesn’t shift your life, action and nurturing do

Ready to work together?

If you’re feeling disconnected from yourself, your voice, or your direction, soul retrieval can be a beautiful way to reconnect with your authenticity and your power.

You can book a free call HERE or book a session directly HERE.
And if you’re in Johannesburg, you’re warmly invited to my Weaving a New Way weekend workshop (14–15 March) - find out more and book HERE.

DM me on Instagram: @EmmaOBrienCoach if you have questions or want to share what landed for you.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

The Andean Medicine Wheel: A Powerful Map for Real Change

In this episode of Lemons & Pineapples, I’m sharing one of the most transformative frameworks I use in my own life and with my clients: the Andean Medicine Wheel.

If you’ve ever thought:

• “I know this isn’t working…”
• “I understand why I do this… but I can’t change it.”
• “Why do I keep repeating the same pattern?”

This episode is for you.

The Medicine Wheel offers a grounded, cyclical map for navigating change — working not just at the level of insight, but at the level of the unconscious where our behaviour patterns actually live.

We explore the four directions:

🐍 South – Serpent: What needs shedding? Old stories, inherited patterns, identities you’ve outgrown.
🐆 West – Jaguar: What needs facing? Shadow work, fear, suppressed emotions, truth-telling.
🕊 North – Hummingbird: What perspective is missing? Meaning, wisdom, vision and possibility.
🦅 East – Eagle/Condor: How do we bring the vision into reality? Practical action and aligned embodiment.

This is the framework I’ll be guiding women through at my Weaving a New Way weekend retreat in Johannesburg (14–15 March), and it’s also the foundation of my one-to-one shamanic coaching work.

If you’re ready to stop circling the same story and start creating something new, this episode will give you a map.

Find out more about Weaving A New Way HERE.

Learn more about Shamanic Coaching Sessions HERE.

Book a Discovery Call HERE.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Three years ago, if you’d asked me whether I’d ever call myself a shamanic practitioner, I would have laughed.

And yet here we are.

In this episode, I unpack what shamanism actually is (beyond feathers and smoke), what shamanic journey work involves, and why — despite the mystical language — it’s one of the most practical healing tools I use with clients.

Shamanism is not a religion. It’s not about blind belief. At its heart, it’s a cross-cultural, nature-based philosophy rooted in right relationship — with yourself, with others, and with the living world around you.

And journey work? It’s a way of accessing insight beyond the analytical mind.

I talk about:

• What a shaman actually does (hint: it’s about restoring balance, not being a guru)
• Ordinary vs non-ordinary awareness and why you don’t need to “believe” in anything to benefit
• Why insight alone isn’t enough to change patterns
• How integration is the piece that makes this work powerful
• Soul retrieval and how it maps onto trauma and dissociation
• Power animals as embodied inner resources (yes, even porcupine 🦔)
• Why this work doesn’t re-traumatise you and how it can help reconnect you with lost parts of yourself

I also share a personal example of ancestral belief work that helped me uncover and begin healing a deeply rooted “women are worthless” lineage pattern — something I could not have accessed through intellect alone.

If you keep finding yourself repeating the same patterns…
If you have insight but can’t make change stick…
If you know there’s something deeper running the show…

Journey work may be the missing piece.

Work With Me

If you’d like to experience this work directly:

✨ Shamanic Healing Sessions (60 mins) – guided journey work + integration coaching
✨ Soul Retrieval (90 mins) – deeper ancestral and soul part healing
✨ Power Animal Retrieval (60 mins) – discover and embody your inner resource

You can book HERE.

If you’re in Johannesburg, I’d love to invite you to Weaving a New Way (14–15 March at Windrush Studio), a weekend immersion working with the Andean Medicine Wheel — serpent, jaguar, hummingbird and eagle — to help you shift patterns and make real change take root.

This work is mystical.
It is practical.
And it’s deeply, profoundly human.

Find out more HERE.

If this episode resonates, I’d love to hear from you - send me a message on Inst

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode, I’m talking about conscious femininity; why the world needs more of it right now, where the phrase comes from (Marion Woodman, via Sharon Blackie’s If Women Rose Rooted), and what it looks like in everyday life.

We explore the difference between unconscious femininity (living “from the neck up,” outsourcing self-worth, over-adapting, over-functioning) and conscious femininity (embodied self-awareness, nervous system regulation, boundaries, cyclical living, and truth-telling with kindness).

I also unpack why this isn’t about man-bashing — conscious femininity is about balance: healthy feminine (intuition, empathy, feeling) + healthy masculine (structure, boundaries, action). In other words: structure with feeling.

Practical takeaways:

• Come back into your body daily (breathwork/HeartMath, walking, nature)
• Learn your nervous system patterns (fight/flight/freeze/fawn)
• Honour your cycles + energy rhythms (stop pushing like a machine)
• Set boundaries without over-explaining
• Notice over-giving/over-functioning — and practise receiving support

If you relate to over-functioning, S5EP1 is a great one to listen to HERE.

Want to go deeper?

Join me in Johannesburg for my in-person weekend workshop, Weaving a New Way (14–15 March, Fourways).

Find out more HERE.

 Or explore 1:1 coaching + shamanic healing sessions with me HERE.

I'd love to connect - message me on Instagram @EmmaOBrienCoach.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

What if feeling lost in midlife isn’t a failure… but an invitation?

In this episode, I’m exploring something I see again and again — both in my own life and in the women I work with. That moment (often in our 40s and beyond) when we wake up and quietly think:

Is this it? Is this really how I want the rest of my life to look?

Midlife has a way of stripping things back. Our hormones shift, our tolerance drops, and suddenly the roles, relationships, and choices we once managed to hold together just don’t fit anymore. What used to feel “fine” starts to feel heavy, exhausting, or even unbearable.

Rather than seeing this as a midlife crisis, I believe it’s something much more powerful — a midlife awakening.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why so many women feel like they’ve “lost themselves” in midlife
• How societal conditioning teaches women to put everyone else first — and the anger that surfaces when that no longer works
• The role of perimenopause and hormonal shifts in changing what we’re willing (and able) to tolerate
• Why being confronted with our own mortality can actually be a profound gift
• The fear and discomfort of the liminal space between who you were and who you’re becoming
• What we can learn from snake medicine — and why shedding an old identity is meant to feel uncomfortable before it feels freeing

If you’re in that in-between space — not who you were, not yet who you’re becoming — please know this: you’re not destined to be unhappy forever. You’re in transition, and you don’t have to navigate it alone.

✨ Work With Me - If this episode resonated, I’d love to support you further:

🐍 Ending an Era – Online Workshop

This is a powerful, guided workshop where I help you consciously shed old stories, identities, and patterns that no longer fit, so you can create what comes next with clarity and intention.

 👉 Access the workshop HERE.

🌿 Johannesburg Weekend Retreat (In-Person)

 If you’re based in Joburg and craving a deeper, embodied reset, I’m also hosting a weekend retreat designed for women in transition. This is sacred space to reflect, release, and reconnect with yourself — supported, held, and guided.

 👉 Details and booking info are HERE.

Thank you so much for being here, for listening, and for being willing to ask the bigger questions 💛

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode, I explore why change so often feels uncomfortable, slow, and frustrating, especially when we’re ready for something new but life hasn’t caught up yet.

I reflect on the transition from the Year of the Snake into the Year of the Fire Horse, and why the early part of change is often about shedding old stories before momentum arrives. Using the Andean medicine wheel, I talk about serpent energy as the first stage of transformation; where we release outdated identities, beliefs, and narratives that quietly keep us stuck.

Episode highlights:

• Why change moves in cycles, not straight lines
• The frustration of waiting for external results after deep inner work
• How old stories become part of our identity
• Why repeatedly retelling the past can prevent forward movement
• Serpent, Jaguar, Hummingbird and Eagle as stages of change

I also share four journal prompts to support your own shedding process:

1. What part of my current life story has already expired, but I’m still carrying?
2. Where am I choosing familiarity over aliveness?
3. What does my body tell me about the situation I wish I didn’t have, but keep participating in?
4. What am I afraid would unravel if I stopped telling this story?

Ready to go deeper?

 I’m hosting a live online workshop, Ending an Era – A Serpent Workshop for Conscious Shedding, on Thursday 5th February. It’s a 60-minute guided space to help you identify and release the stories keeping you where you are.

£22 | Live on Zoom | Replay included
Sign up HERE: www.emmaobriencoach.com/endinganera

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

How to Stop Over-Functioning & Reclaim Your Energy

Are you exhausted from doing everything for everyone — at home, at work, and in your relationships?

In this episode of the Lemons & Pineapples Podcast I explore over-functioning — the hidden pattern behind burnout, resentment, and chronic over-giving. You’ll learn why so many capable, high-functioning women end up carrying the emotional, mental, and practical load, and how this pattern often starts in childhood.

I unpack how over-functioning shows up in relationships, family dynamics, and the workplace — and why it’s fundamentally a self-worth issue, not a productivity problem.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• What over-functioning really is (and why it feels “normal”)
• How over-functioning and under-functioning keep each other in place
• Why saying yes resentfully leads to burnout
• The link between over-functioning, fear, and self-worth
• A powerful question that helps you start changing the pattern

If you’re tired of being the reliable one, the capable one, the one who “does it all” — this episode is for you.

👉 WATCH MY FREE OVER-FUNCTIONING MASTERCLASS
Go deeper and learn the practical steps to stop over-functioning and reclaim your energy HERE

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this episode resonated with you 💛

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Divorce can feel like an ending… but what if it’s actually a portal?

In this episode, Emma O’Brien is joined by Isabelle Ulenaers—psychologist, trauma specialist, and best-selling author—who supports women through the emotional aftermath of divorce using a neuroscience-informed blend of psychology, coaching tools, EFT, EMDR, and somatic integration.

Together, we explore why the hardest part often isn’t leaving the marriage… it’s everything that follows: the identity collapse, the shame and guilt, the fear of being “the villain,” and the slow realisation that you’ve been abandoning yourself in tiny, socially acceptable ways for years.

You’ll also hear powerful re-frames—like why it’s okay to leave a relationship that looks “fine” on paper, and how to begin coming back to yourself through small, grounded choices that rebuild self-trust.

In this episode, we cover:

- Why divorce isn’t a failure—it can be the beginning of freedom, identity, and self-return

- The “good wife / good mother” conditioning that keeps women stuck in roles they’ve outgrown

- How self-abandonment happens slowly and subtly—one micro-moment at a time

- The difference between guilt (I did something wrong) and shame (I am something wrong)

- Why leaving a “fine” marriage can feel harder than leaving an obviously bad one

- Isabelle’s Michelin restaurant vs burger and fries analogy (and why it hits so hard)

- What women actually need to rebuild after divorce: inner safety, nervous system regulation, and identity repair

- Why “What do I want?” can be too big at first—and the better starter question to ask

- The practical path back to self: noticing where you feel seen/heard, and where you disappear

- How fear works (and why it shows up the moment you change anything)

- The “fear witch” / Rapunzel metaphor: how fear keeps you in the tower—and how to move anyway

- A potent closing reminder: your needs are non-negotiable

A gentle reflection prompt (from the conversation) If “What do I want?” feels too big, try:

Do I want to be on this stage?

Where do I feel seen, heard, and connected?

Where do I abandon myself—and why?

Connect with Isabelle:

Connect with Isabelle on Instagram—send her a DM and she’ll guide you from there - @isabelle.ulenaers

Loved this episode?

If this landed for you, take a breath and let this be your permission slip:
You’re not “too much.”  And you don’t need a dramatic reason to choose yourself.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode, I’m sharing the 12 powerful reflection questions I’m personally using to make sure that 2026 is not another year on repeat.

If you’ve ever reached the end of a year thinking “Nothing really changed”, despite good intentions, this episode is for you.

I talk honestly about why 2025 felt like a Groundhog Day year for me, why internal change always comes before external results, and how clarity, self-honesty, and nervous-system-led reflection are the foundations for real transformation.

✨ The 12 Questions to Reflect On for 2026

1️⃣ What went well in 2025?

What were your wins? What brought you joy, growth, or insight?

2️⃣ What didn’t work?

What felt heavy, draining, misaligned, or simply didn’t move the needle?

3️⃣ What patterns repeated in 2025?

In work, relationships, or behaviours, and what part did you play in keeping them alive?

4️⃣ What gave you energy and what drained it?

Who and what lit you up? Who and what left you depleted?

5️⃣ Who truly supported you?

And who couldn’t meet you where you were?

6️⃣ What did 2025 teach you about who you are becoming?

What identity shifts happened beneath the surface?

7️⃣ What do you want to be celebrating at the end of 2026?

Be specific. What does “success” actually look like for you?

8️⃣ What are your top 3 priorities for 2026 and why?

The why is everything when motivation dips.

9️⃣ What habits, behaviours, or beliefs need to be released?

What’s quietly keeping you stuck or playing small?

🔟 What daily or weekly practices will support you?

Especially practices that regulate your nervous system and keep you grounded.

1️⃣1️⃣ Where did you experience the most joy or peace last year?

And how can you consciously create more of that?

1️⃣2️⃣ If you met your future self at the end of 2026…

What would they thank you for starting now?

💫 Want to Go Deeper?

I’m hosting a New Year Reflection & Intention Setting Workshop where we'll:

- Break unconscious patterns
- Shift limiting beliefs
- Ground intentions into your nervous system
- Journey to meet your future self

📅 Wednesday 7th January
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If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you reached the end of this year and realised… nothing has really changed?

In this episode of Lemons & Pineapples, I’m speaking directly to you if you promised yourself last year would be different — and you’re now finding yourself in the same relationship, the same financial loop, the same job, or the same patterns that have followed you for years.

If 2025 is coming to a close and you’re feeling frustrated, disappointed, or quietly asking yourself “How am I still here?” — this episode is for you.

I share honestly about why real change doesn’t happen just because we want it to, and what actually needs to shift so that 2026 doesn’t become another repeat of the past. We often know what actions we should take, but still don’t take them — and the reason for that lives much deeper than motivation or willpower.

In this episode, I invite you to slow down and reflect on:

• Why familiarity keeps us stuck more than fear
• How unconscious beliefs drive our choices around relationships, money, and career
• Why we avoid difficult conversations and big decisions
• How self-worth sits at the centre of lasting change
• The real cost of staying exactly where you are for another year

I walk you through three powerful questions that will help you identify what hasn’t changed, why it hasn’t changed, and what needs to shift internally for your external reality to finally move.

This episode is also a personal declaration. I share my own commitment to doing things differently — and I invite you to make that commitment with me.

I also share details of my New Year Reflection & Intention Setting Workshop, where I’ll guide you through reflecting on 2025, releasing what hasn’t worked, and consciously stepping into the version of you who finishes 2026 in a very different place.

Sign up to the New Year Workshop HERE.

If you’re tired of telling yourself “next year will be different” and you’re ready to understand what actually creates change — this episode will meet you exactly where you are.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I'm joined by clinical psychologist, relationship coach, and bestselling author Dr. Ray Doktor to explore why so many capable, self-aware women keep finding themselves drawn to emotionally unavailable men and, more importantly, how to change that pattern at the root.

Together, we unpack the hidden beliefs, childhood conditioning, attachment dynamics, and unspoken fears that keep women over-functioning, people-pleasing, and waiting for men to meet their potential rather than their reality.

This episode goes beyond surface-level dating advice and dives into the belief shifts, communication skills, and self-worth work required to create relationships rooted in mutual availability, safety, and growth.

If you’ve ever thought:

• “If I ask for what I need, he’ll leave”
• “I just need to be more understanding”
• “Why do I always attract the same kind of man?”

…this conversation will land deeply.

✨ In this episode, we explore:

• The core hidden belief that pulls powerful women toward unavailable partners
• Why over-functioning and “being the strong one” can repel emotionally available men
• The danger of falling in love with potential instead of reality
• How early family dynamics shape adult relationship patterns
• Why poor communication isn’t cruelty — it’s often immaturity and lack of modeling
• The fear many women carry: “If I speak my truth, I’ll be abandoned”
• How to tell the difference between healthy compromise and self-betrayal
• Why relationships don’t complete us — they reveal us
• What emotionally mature dating actually looks like in practice

Dr. Ray also shares the key beliefs that quietly sabotage relationships and explains why healing your inner world is the most reliable way to change who you attract.

📘 Recommended Resource

Dr. Ray’s book:

 All It Takes Is One; Drop Your One BIG Hidden Belief and Master Your Life

 A powerful blend of insight and practical exercises to help you identify and release the one belief holding you back — in love and life. Buy the book HERE.

🔗 Connect with Dr. Ray

Visit his website for workshops, coaching, and resources:
 raydoktor.com

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

If you’ve ever found yourself obsessing over texts, over-giving in relationships, or feeling painfully hooked on emotionally unavailable people, this episode is going to feel like a deep exhale.

In this conversation, I’m joined by trauma-informed somatic coach and anxious attachment specialist, Valerie Rubin. We dive into what anxious attachment actually is, why it’s not a personality flaw and how healing happens at the level of the nervous system, the body, and even ancestral lines – not just in your head.

In this episode, we talk about:

• What anxious attachment really looks like in everyday life
• The 4 attachment styles (plus one often-missed one)
• Why anxious & avoidant attachment share the same core wound
• Reassurance-seeking, ‘chasing’ & “crazy” behaviour – reframed
• Why talk therapy alone often isn’t enough
• Ancestral trauma & attachment
• Somatic & nervous system tools to begin healing anxious attachment
• Breaking the pattern of chasing emotionally unavailable partners

This episode is for you if…

• You identify as anxiously attached, or you’re constantly worrying your partner will leave, cheat or “find someone better”.
• You keep ending up with emotionally unavailable, avoidant or “bad boy” types, even though you know they’re not good for you.
• You’ve tried talk therapy, mindset work and “acting differently”… and still find yourself stuck in the same cycles.
• You’re curious about somatic therapy, brainspotting, ancestral healing or shamanic work as ways to untangle old patterns.
• You’re ready to stop blaming yourself and start working with your nervous system instead of against it.

If you’re someone who is anxiously attached and keeps being pulled towards avoidant or emotionally unavailable partners, Valerie has created a free masterclass that you’re going to want to jump into.

👉 You can access Valerie’s free masterclass HERE

You can find Valerie and her work here:

• Instagram: @healwithval
• Podcast: The Anxiety Recovery Podcast with Valerie Rubin
• Website: www.valrubin.com

Thank you for listening, and as always, if this episode resonated, please share it with a friend who keeps getting hooked by emotionally unavailable partners, or leave a review so more people can find the show and j

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this week’s episode, we are diving deep into a relationship pattern so many brilliant, capable, beautiful women find themselves stuck in: the magnetic pull toward the emotionally unavailable man.

If you’ve ever chased crumbs, waited for the 2am “u up?” text, or convinced yourself that bare-minimum effort was “just his way,” this episode is going to land for you.

I unpack why this pattern is so common — and spoiler, it’s not because you’re broken. It’s because your attachment style, childhood wiring, and self-worth have been running the show from the shadows.

In This Episode We Explore:

✨ Why unavailable men feel so intoxicating when you have low self-worth

✨ The anxious–avoidant trap

✨ How childhood bonds create adult relationship choices

✨ What self-worth actually is

✨ What you tolerate when your self-worth is low

✨ How to start breaking the cycle

Practical, grounded, and spiritual tools including:

- Recognising your patterns
- Attachment style awareness
- Shamanic journey work + ancestral healing
- Family constellations
- Nervous system regulation
- Inner child re-parenting
- Learning to trust your intuition (not your anxiety)
- Getting honest about loneliness and choosing from clarity, not fear

✨ Why secure self-worth makes you magnetic

When you choose yourself — truly — your standards rise, your intuition sharpens, and you stop accepting anything that drains your energy or diminishes your value.

If You're Caught in the Cycle…

Please know this: you can break it. You deserve more. And you are not alone.

You get to choose a partner who shows up with consistency, safety, emotional maturity, and respect. You don’t have to earn love. You don’t have to soften parts of yourself to be acceptable. And you do not have to wait for someone to “finally choose you.”

When your self-worth rises, the whole landscape of dating and relationships shifts — for good.

Links & Next Steps:

📌 Listen to Episode 14 for a deeper dive into attachment styles
📌 Next week’s episode features a guest expert on anxious attachment
📌 Come say hello on Instagram: @EmmaOBrienCoach

If this episode has hit home and you recognise your own patterns in the stories I’ve shared, I’d love to support you.

We’ll talk about your self-worth, the unavailable man cycle, and what it will take for you to finally break it — so you can create the love, safety, and connection you truly deserve.

 ✨ Book a free connection call in HERE

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In today’s episode, we’re going down a rabbit hole I’ve been exploring deeply over the past month — a trail that started with my shamanic soul-retrieval work, moved into inner child healing, and has now led me into the world of attachment styles in romantic relationships.

If relationships feel confusing, draining, or chaotic for you… this is an episode you don’t want to miss.

I’m sharing insights from the brilliant book Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller (linked in the show notes). If you struggle in romantic partnerships, I’m practically ordering you to read or listen to this book — it will give you clarity, language, and tools that make everything make sense.

This episode explores why you show up the way you do in relationships, how your early experiences shaped that, and—most importantly—how you can shift toward secure, grounded, self-led connection.

What We Explore in This Episode

✨ Why attachment styles matter more than you think

✨ The 3 main attachment styles (plus the rare 4th)

✨ How childhood shapes attachment

✨ Triggers and attachment activation

✨ The anxious–avoidant trap

✨ How to shift toward secure attachment

✨ The power of secure partners

Resources Mentioned

📘 Attached by Amir Levine & Rachel Heller — Find it on Amazon HERE.

If this episode has brought some lightbulb moments or stirred something meaningful for you, I’d love to hear from you. Send me a DM on Instagram at @EmmaOBrienCoach 

If you’d like support with healing your attachment patterns, inner child work, or building emotional safety in your nervous system, you can book a free connection call. Coaching is where this work becomes truly transformational.

✨ Book a free connection call → HERE

Thank you for being here with me. There’s so much exciting self-discovery happening behind the scenes, and I can’t wait to bring you into the next layer in the upcoming episode.

Happy healing, and see you next week!

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode I’m diving into one of my favourite topics: inner child healing and how re-parenting yourself can help you reconnect to your brilliant, innate, authentic self.

We explore why so many of your current triggers, perfectionism, people-pleasing and “why am I reacting like THIS?!” moments are actually being run by a much younger version of you – and how to lovingly take back the wheel.

In this episode, I talk about:

• What “inner child” actually means
• Why even a “good” childhood leaves imprints
• Signs your inner child needs attention
• Re-parenting yourself in real time
  
  
• Inner child work & your nervous system
• Triggers as teachers
• Internal Family Systems (parts work)
• Shamanic soul retrieval & inner child healing
• Practical ways to start today
• Integration – where real change happens
   

Resources mentioned:

• Books

No Bad Parts – Richard Schwartz

You Are the One You’ve Been Looking For – Richard Schwartz

• On my website

Blog post on Shamanic Soul Retrieval which you can find HERE.

If this episode stirred something in you…

If you’ve listened and thought, “Okay, this is me, and I don’t want my 6-year-old self running my adult life anymore”, this is exactly the kind of work I love supporting women with.

I blend:

• Thought work & practical strategy
• Shamanic journeying and soul retrieval
• HeartMath nervous system regulation
• Direct, honest, compassionate coaching

…to help women in midlife step into their sovereignty, heal old patterns, and reconnect with the most authentic version of themselves.

Work with me

• Book a free connection call HERE
  If you’re curious about inner child work, soul retrieval, or nervous system support, you’re very welcome to book a free connection call with me. We’ll explore what’s coming up for you and whether working together feels like a good fit.
• Say hello on Instagram @EmmaOBrienCoach
  
  Pop me a message and let me know what landed for you in this episode.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode I dive into the Witch Wound: the ancestral, collective trauma rooted in the Burning Times that still shapes how women show up today. If you’ve ever felt afraid to be visible, worried about being “too much”, or guilty for wanting more than the bare minimum… this one is for you.

Drawing on Celeste Larsen’s powerful book Heal the Witch Wound I explore how historic persecution of women—healers, midwives, herbalists, independent women—still echoes in our nervous systems, beliefs & behaviours.

In this episode, I talk about:

• What the Witch Wound actually is
  How the “Burning Times” weren’t just a gruesome chapter in history, but a systemic campaign to control women’s power, wisdom, bodies & resources.
• How ancestral trauma shows up in modern life
  Why you might feel unsafe being visible online, charging well for your work, having strong opinions, or leaving relationships that deplete you.
• Powerful women as a “threat”
  The social conditioning that still rewards the quiet “good girl” & punishes outspoken, sovereign women.
• Nervous system & Witch Wound links
  How your fear of criticism, trolling, rejection, conflict, or taking up space isn’t weakness—it’s your nervous system remembering old danger patterns.
• Money, safety & fear of success
  Why so many women are subconsciously afraid of wealth & how this links back to women once being punished & stripped of everything for having power.
• Where to begin your healing
  Simple starting points: noticing your triggers, journaling your beliefs & learning to regulate your nervous system instead of abandoning yourself.

If this episode hit a nerve (in a good way) & you’re done playing small, diluting yourself, outsourcing your safety & power & you’re ready to step into your sovereignty:

• Send me a DM on Instagram @EmmaOBrienCoach and tell me what landed.
• Book a free connection call HERE and let’s talk.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

This conversation is a straight-talking road map for women who feel stuck around money. We unpack why so many of us unconsciously give our financial power away (hello, patriarchy + intergenerational programming), how those beliefs show up as procrastination, over-giving, perfectionism, and under-charging, and the practical tools that help you shift into wealth + worth. 

Karen shares her own story—from healing trauma to paying off $13k debt—plus how EFT tapping and self-worth work change your relationship with money so you can take aligned action (without B-minus guilt).

What You’ll Learn

- Why your money issues are rarely about the money—and what they’re really about
- The “financial garden” metaphor: stop snipping weeds at the soil line and pull them up by the roots
- How inherited fear and social conditioning (e.g., “women aren’t good with money”) keep you small
- The nervous-system angle: turning off “freaked-out brain” and switching on “peace brain” so you can make clear decisions
- Why progress beats perfection (ship the B-minus work!)
- Karen’s 3 power moves for financial success

Key Takeaways & Sticky Notes:

“Money work is identity work.” Change the story, then the numbers can change.

Regulate to rewire. You can’t dream big from a dysregulated state. Calm first, then plan.

Abundance isn’t only a finish line. Practice pleasure and joy while pursuing goals.

B-minus work ships. Your people want resonance, not polish.

Guest Links & Resources

About Karen Berzanski: CEO & founder of TheLuckySoul.com, creator of the M-Spot membership. Karen helps women clear hidden money blocks so they can earn, receive, and lead with confidence.

Free training: The Guilt-Free Money Reset — Three Money-Guilt Mistakes and How to Break Free (includes 21 Practical Abundance Strategies + 12 Things to Stop Doing) HERE

Website: TheLuckySoul.com
YouTube: @TheLuckySoul - Wild, Wealthy & Free
Instagram: @theluckysoul

About Your Host (that’s me, Emma)

I coach mid-life women who are done playing small to rebuild self-worth, regulate their nervous system and rewrite the beliefs that keep them stuck. My approach blends thought work, shamanic journeying/soul retrieval, somatic tools, and no-nonsense accountability so you can lead your life and money with sovereignty.

Work With Me: Explore what’s keeping you under-earning and map your next best step book a FREE call HERE.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

If you caught last week’s episode, you’ll know we talked about limiting beliefs — where they come from and how to start shifting them - you can catch that episode here.

This week, we’re taking that work a layer deeper, exploring how intergenerational trauma — the patterns, fears, and stories passed down through your family line — can quietly shape your core beliefs and keep you repeating the same loops for years, sometimes generations.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• How trauma and patterning are handed down through family lines — even when you’ve never “personally” experienced the original event
• What intergenerational trauma really means, beyond the big-T events
• How family modelling (especially around gender roles, self-worth, and relationships) creates subconscious blueprints you might still be living by
• The fascinating science behind epigenetic inheritance — including the Mount Sinai study on Holocaust survivors and gene FKBP5 that literally changed how future generations respond to stress
• Why “what’s familiar feels safe” to your nervous system — even if it’s dysfunctional
• How shamanic energy work can complement practical coaching tools to help you rewrite inherited beliefs at a deep level

I share a personal example from my own shamanic practice — a journey that revealed an inherited belief from my grandmother that “women are worthless.”

Seeing how that belief echoed through generations was a huge light-bulb moment. After doing ancestral healing work around it, I felt the energetic shift almost immediately — the procrastination lifted, clarity returned, and I could finally move the needle in both of my businesses again.

Whether that healing happens on an energetic plane or in the subconscious mind doesn’t really matter — what matters is that it works.

Intergenerational patterns don’t have to define you. Once you bring them into conscious awareness, you can choose differently — and when you shift, everyone after you benefits.

Want Support Rewriting the Story?

If you’re noticing repeating patterns in your relationships, career, or self-worth — and you can’t seem to break them no matter how much therapy or mindset work you’ve done — it’s time for something deeper.

💫 Book a 75-Minute Breakthrough Session — together we’ll identify and clear one of your core limiting beliefs, using a mix of practical thought work and (if you’re open to it) shamanic energy tools that shift things fast.

Book a Breakthrough Session HERE.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode, I’m diving into one of my favourite topics — limiting beliefs: what they are, where they come from, how they quietly run your life from the shadows, and most importantly, how to shift them so you can stop playing small and start moving forward with clarity and confidence.

We all have subconscious belief systems shaped by childhood experiences, family modelling, and social conditioning. These old narratives — “I’m not good enough,” “money is hard to make,” “I have to earn love” — become invisible scripts that shape our choices, relationships, and self-worth.

But the good news is, they’re not permanent. You can rewrite them.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• What limiting beliefs actually are and how they form through childhood, attachment patterns, and social conditioning.
• How to spot your own limiting beliefs by paying attention to triggers, recurring thoughts, and inner chatter.
• How your brain reinforces old stories through pattern recognition and the “reticular activating system.”
• Powerful ways to shift your beliefs – from reframing and evidence-building to using tools like Byron Katie’s The Work.
• How shamanic and energetic work can help release deeper, intergenerational or subconscious patterns.
• Why integration is the key to making lasting change — and how to practice new ways of being in daily life.

Journal Prompts

If you want to take this episode deeper, grab your journal and reflect on these:

1. What recurring thoughts or phrases do you catch yourself saying that might be limiting you?
2. When do you feel triggered — and what belief might be hiding underneath that reaction?
3. What’s one piece of evidence that challenges your biggest self-doubt?
4. How would you act differently this week if you fully believed you were good enough?

Work With Me

If you’re ready to uncover and release the core belief that’s been keeping you stuck, book a 75-Minute Breakthrough Coaching Session with me.
Together, we’ll identify and shift the root block that’s limiting your progress so you can move forward with self-trust and confidence.

👉 Book your Breakthrough Session here

Connect with me on Instagram @EmmaOBrienCoach

You can also book a free Connection Call to explore how coaching can help you change the patterns that no longer serve you.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode I’m talking about the over-functioner vs under-functioner dance (hat tip to Harriet Lerner). 

If you’re the one who remembers the dentist appointments, carries the emotional load, and secretly reloads the dishwasher after your partner… hi, it’s us. 

I share why we end up doing it, how it wrecks intimacy (and our nervous systems), and the simple moves that shift the dynamic without starting World War III.

Podcast highlights:

• Spot the pattern: Real-life signs you’re over-functioning (at home and at work).
• Why we do it: Hyper-independence, fear of disappointment, old “don’t ask” rules from childhood.
• The intimacy killer: How parent-child energy sneaks into adult relationships.
• The fix in plain English: Ask clearly, allow help, tolerate imperfect outcomes.
• The wobble: Handling the inevitable “change-back” reaction when you stop doing it all.
• My confession: Laundry sorting, dishwasher restacking, and why control ≠ care.

Journal prompts (save these):

1. Where do I say “it’s quicker if I do it”? What’s the cost?
2. Who am I quietly resentful of, and what have I not explicitly asked them to do?
3. What outcome am I afraid of if I stop controlling it (messy, late, not how I like)?
4. Which old rule is running the show (e.g., “Don’t need,” “Keep the peace,” “Don’t ask”)?
5. One micro-handover I’ll try this week (be specific).
6. How will I hold my boundary through the wobble? (Script one sentence you’ll use.)
7. After I let go, what actually happened vs. what I feared?

Try this this week:

• Make one clear ask: “Please book your own dentist appointment and add it to your calendar by Friday.”
• Hands off the outcome: No “helpful” rearranging or reminder texts.
• Debrief kindly: Notice the trigger, breathe, recommit to the boundary.

Work with me:

If this episode hits a nerve and you’re ready to shift the one core belief keeping you stuck in over-functioning, book a 75-minute Breakthrough Session with me HERE.

Prefer to chat first? Grab a free Connection Call and we’ll map your next step together HERE.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode of Lemons and Pineapples, I dive into the fascinating world of the nervous system and why learning to regulate it is the key to building resilience, reducing stress, and reclaiming your sense of calm.

I explain the science behind the autonomic nervous system, the difference between fight-or-flight and rest-and-digest, and how modern stressors (like endless emails and work deadlines) keep us stuck in survival mode. I also share how tools from HeartMath—a science-backed system for emotional regulation—can help you shift out of stress and into calm on demand.

You’ll learn why chronic stress impacts sleep, decision-making, and even physical health, and how regulating your nervous system can improve everything from productivity to relationships.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

• The two branches of your autonomic nervous system—and why they matter
• How chronic stress traps you in fight-or-flight mode
• The role of cortisol (stress hormone) vs. DHEA (repair and recovery hormone)
• Why most adults were never taught emotional literacy—and how that affects resilience
• How HeartMath tools retrain your nervous system to access calm when you need it most
• The link between heart rate variability and resilience
• Why nervous system regulation is essential for focus, productivity, and long-term health

Resources & Links Mentioned

• 🌿 6-Week Nervous System Reset Coaching Program
  – Learn practical HeartMath tools to regulate stress and build resilience
• 📞 Book a Free Connection Call
  
  
• 📲 Connect with Emma on Instagram: @emmaobriencoach
  
  

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Are you stuck in a cycle of stress, overthinking, and reactivity?

In this episode of the Lemons and Pineapples Podcast, I dive into the powerful science of HeartMath — a research-backed method that helps you reset your nervous system, improve focus, and show up as a calmer, more resilient version of yourself.

I share:

- How I discovered HeartMath and why it became a game changer in my own life

- The link between heart rate variability (HRV), mental health, and brain function

- Why stress and reactivity wreak havoc on your body, emotions, and productivity

- How HeartMath techniques bring your heart, brain, and emotions into coherence

- Real-life results from my clients who’ve learned these tools

-An introduction to my 6-Week Nervous System Reset Coaching Program, where I guide you through practical techniques to retrain your nervous system, calm overthinking, and manage stress with ease.

Whether you’re facing burnout, struggling with decision-making, or simply want to feel more grounded, HeartMath offers tools that are simple, measurable, and truly life-changing.

👉 Resources & Links Mentioned in This Episode:

Watch my Instagram video on Heart Rate Variability (HRV) in action → HERE

Learn more about my 6-Week Nervous System Reset Coaching Program → HERE

Book a free connection call → HERE

Follow me on Instagram → @emmaobriencoach

✨ If chronic stress, overthinking, or feeling stuck is holding you back, this episode will show you a new way forward — one heartbeat at a time.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

🎙️ Season 4, Episode 5 – Why Stress Makes Perimenopause Symptoms Worse (and What You Can Do About It)

In this episode of Lemons and Pineapples, Emma O’Brien and her co-host, functional medicine health coach Sam Shrosbree, dive into the powerful connection between stress and perimenopause.

Many women in their 40s and 50s experience joint pain, hot flushes, insomnia, brain fog, weight gain, and anxiety — often chalked up to “just perimenopause.” But as Emma and Sam reveal, chronic stress and excess cortisol may be the real culprits behind worsening symptoms.

Together, they explore:

• 🔎 Why high stress levels throw hormones off balance
• 🍰 The “baking analogy” that makes hormone production easy to understand
• 🧠 How cortisol steal impacts sleep, mood, and brain health
• ⚖️ Why weight gain, anxiety, and brain fog are often linked to stress, not just hormones
• 🌿 Practical tools for calming your nervous system naturally
• 💤 Why stress management is just as important as diet, sleep, and exercise
• 🌳 The power of nature, breathwork, and boundaries in restoring balance

Emma also guides listeners through a short HeartMath heart-focused breathing practice, offering a taste of how simple nervous system regulation tools can create calm within minutes.

✨ If you’re tired of feeling frazzled, stuck, or told that HRT is the only option, this episode will empower you to take back control of your well-being — body, mind, and spirit.

🌟 Special Invitation: The Re-Calibration Course

Emma and Sam are launching a 6-week online course starting Monday, 1st September. 

Inside, you’ll learn:

• Sam’s four pillars of health (nutrition, movement, sleep, stress management)
• Science-backed nervous system regulation tools
• Practical, doable strategies to balance hormones naturally
• Simple daily tweaks that add up to lasting change

Learn more and sign up here 👉 www.emmaobriencoach.com/recalibration

📲 Stay Connected

• Follow Emma on Instagram: @emmaobriencoach
  
  
• Follow Sam on Instagram: @zenroom_at_thewoods
  
  
• Got questions? Reach out via DM or through the podcast page.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

How to Re-Calibrate your mind, body and life before burnout hits.

In this episode my co-host Sam and I share the subtle - and not-so-subtle - signs that you're heading towards burnout and what you can do to course correct before everything falls apart.

If you're feeling constantly tired, reactive, disconnected or simply like your spark has left the building, this episode is your wake-up call.

In this episode:

- The sneaky early signs of burnout no one talks about

- Why constant fatigue (even after rest) is a big red flag

- The link between physical inflammation and chronic stress

- How burnout often requires a full life redesign

- The connection between stress and disconnection from others

- How to tell what's draining your energy - and what energises you

- Purpose-driven living and how reconnecting your why is life changing

- A sneak peek into The Re-Calibration course starting on 1st September (not 28th July as per the episode)

Reflective questions:

1. What are three things in your life that completely drain your energy?

2. What situations or people make you feel lighter and alive?

3. Are you running on autopilot - and what might it take to slow down and reconnect?

Are you ready for a Re-Calibration?

If this episode hit home, you're not alone and you don't have to navigate burnout by yourself.

Join Sam and I in The Re-Calibration Course starting Monday 1st September - a group programme designed to help you realign your body, mind and life from the ground up.

Sign up here.

(If you sign up before Friday 22nd August you'll also receive a 45 minute private 1:1 coaching session with Sam & I valued at R1500 / £150)

Connect with us on Instagram:

Emma O'Brien - @emmaobriencoach

Sam Shrosbree - @zenroom_at_thewoods

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You've done the journaling, the affirmations, the mindset shifts...so why are you still feeling stuck?

In this episode, I'm joined by functional medicine health coach Sam Shrosbree to unpack why mindset work on its own isn't enough and what's missing when progress just won't stick. Together, we explore the essential connection between mind and body, and how bringing in somatic practices can unlock real, lasting change.

This is a must-listen if you've been doing 'all the right things' but still feel overwhelmed, unfocused, or emotionally reactive. The missing puzzle piece might not be in your head - it might be in your body.

What you'll learn:

• Why mindset tools like affirmations and journaling can only take you so far
• How your body holds unprocessed emotions and how that impacts your mental state
• Simple somatic practices to regulate your nervous system
• How to use your breath as a powerful mind-body reset
• The impact of food, caffeine and supplements on your emotional state
• What 'self-mastery' really looks like in practice

"We fear the big feelings less when we know we have the tools to handle them."

Ready to go deeper?

The Re-Calibration 6 week group programme is now open for enrolment! It's a programme designed to help you reconnect to your body, regulate your emotions and build a practical toolkit for resilience, clarity and joy in all areas of your life.

Find out more and sign up here.

Got a question?

DM Emma on Instagram @emmaobriencoach

DM Sam on Instagram @zenroom_at_thewoods

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You’ve tried the self-care routines.
 The journaling, the meditations, the Sunday resets.

So why do you still feel disconnected, foggy, and on edge?

In this episode, Sam and I dig into why self-care often doesn’t land—especially when your nervous system is dysregulated—and what it actually takes to feel better.

This isn’t about doing more.

 It’s about learning to listen to yourself better.

 Because if you're not caring for yourself in the right kind of way, even the most nourishing rituals can feel like noise.

We explore:

 — How self-care is often misinterpreted
 — The difference between numbing, distraction and conscious regulation
 — Why your body might be resisting rest (and what to do about it)
 — How real change starts with reconnection
 — The kind of support that actually shifts things from the inside out

This is your permission slip to stop trying so hard—and start listening differently.

🔁 Want to take this deeper?

🌀 Join us inside The Re-Calibration—a 6-week group journey to reconnect with your body, regulate your nervous system, and step into your next season feeling grounded and clear.

 → Join us here.

💬 Let’s Connect:

DM Emma @emmaobriencoach or Sam @zenroom_at_thewoods—we love hearing what landed for you.

And if you loved this episode, leave a rating or review so more folks can find this work.

#therecalibration #nervoussystemhealing #selfcare #embodiment #burnoutsupport #reconnectwithyourbody

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

What if your “lack of motivation,” “indecision,” or “overwhelm” isn’t personal failure…
but simply your nervous system trying to keep you safe?

In this episode, my co-host Sam Shrosbree and I break down one of the most misunderstood reasons smart, high-achieving people stay stuck: nervous system dysregulation.

You’re not lazy.
You’re not broken.
You’re not doing it wrong.

You’re dysregulated—and that changes everything.

We explore:

- What nervous system dysregulation actually looks + feels like

- Signs you're dysregulated (& might not know it)

- The hidden connection between procrastination, burnout, and survival mode

- How what happens in your mind affects your body

- How regulation leads to clarity, creativity, and forward movement

If you’re stuck in a cycle of starting, stopping, and second-guessing… this episode is a must.

🔁 Mentioned in This Episode:

🌀 The Re-Calibration – Our soon-to-launch 6-week group journey to help you reconnect with your body, regulate your nervous system, and move into spring with grounded energy and clarity.

→ Drop 'REGULATE' below or send me a DM to find out more @emmaobriencoach on Instagram

💬 Let’s Connect:

DM Emma @emmaobriencoach  or Sam @zenroom_at_thewoods for questions, insights, or to say this hit me.

✨ And if this episode resonated—please rate + review it so more folks can hear this message.

#nervoussystemhealing #womenscoaching #regulation #selfleadership #therecalibration #positivepsychology #innerwork #burnoutrecovery #mentalhealth #personalgrowth #personalgrowthjourney #personaldevelopment #selfaware #selfawareness #selfmastery #recalibrate #lifeguide #functionalmedicine #lifeguide

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

"Enjoy yourself, it's later than you think."

If you were to live to 73 (the average lifespan of a human on planet Earth) how many summers do you have left?

That's a question that'll bring your life right now into sharp perspective I imagine.

If you're waiting for the 'right time' or the 'perfect moment' or for 'the stars to align' stop waiting and start moving towards the thing that you really want.

The time to begin is now.

In this episode I share:

- How self-sabotage and procrastination are keeping you stuck
- Why imperfect action always trumps inaction
- Navigating the impact of fear and imposter syndrome on your goals
- How to pay attention to what you want
- What inaction really costs you
- How to feel the fear and do it anyway

I'm of the opinion that as difficult as it can be sometimes, life is a gift and you get to choose how you experience it. If there's something you know you want to do be or have, the time to begin is now.

Need some guidance and support? Book a complimentary strategy call and let's chat about how being coached will help you make the moves you've been putting off.

Find my FREE PDF to help you reflect on what's working and what's not in your life right now here.

Schedule a call here.

#personalgrowth #personaldevelopment #personalgrowthjourney #selfawareness #selfmastery #selfdevelopment #selfdevelopmentcoach #personalmastery #personalgrowthpodcast #motivate #motivateyourself #selfmotivation #coachingpodcast #personalgrowthdevelopment 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You'll likely have heard the phrase "Thoughts become things" - thanks Mike Dooley - but have you really considered how true it is?

The state of your inner landscape plays an enormous role in the way your outer circumstances unfold. Your thoughts and feelings influence your actions (or lack thereof) heavily.

In this episode I share:

- How your circumstances are not the problem, your perspective on them is
- The way your thoughts influence your feelings and emotions
- Why affirmations don't work and what does instead
- How to observe your internal world so you can make positive changes
- The art of shifting beliefs
- Why your triggers are excellent teachers and something to embrace
- The role self-awareness plays in creating your external circumstances

Self-mastery is the key to a smoother, more enjoyable experience of life. If you're ready to take back the reins of your life, book a complimentary call with me here.

#lifeguide selfawareness #purposefilledlife #changeyourthinkingchangeyourlife #mindsetcoach #mindsetmastery #personaldevelopment #personalgrowthjourney #personaltransformation #womenempowerment #wayfinder 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You say you want the thing or the change or the new opportunity, but as soon as you start working towards it, you stop.

Something comes up, there's a drama or you find something urgent to do and you let yourself down, again.

Self-sabotage isn't laziness, it's fear in disguise.

In this episode I'm breaking down:

- What self-sabotage really is
- Why you do it
- How self-sabotage shows up in really sneaky ways
- What you need to do to stop stopping yourself

This one's for you if you're sick of starting and stopping and you're finally ready to get out of your own way.

Did this resonate?

Book a free strategy call with me here and let's chat further.

#lifecoach #womenslifecoach #selfregulation #selfmastery #selfmanagement #emotionalregulation #nervoussystem #nervoussystemregulation #livewithpurpose #liveyourbestlife #beyourbestself #changeyourthinkingchangeyourlife #personaldevelopment #personalgrowth #personalgrowthjourney  

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you ever felt like you need to make some changes in your life, but the prospect is incredibly overwhelming, so you don't?

The state of feeling stuck, knowing you want something else, but not knowing where to begin is awful.

I know, I've been there.

You can't fight the deep desire to create change forever and once it's taken hold, it'll force you to act eventually. 

It's the reason most of my clients come to me for coaching.

In this episode I dive into the various stages of change and how, if you're feeling stuck, you can find a starting point and begin your journey.

Episode highlights:

• What a deep desire for change really feels like
• How to understand what you want so you can change your life direction
• Understanding and recognising self-sabotage
• How your beliefs drive your behaviour
• Why the results rarely arrive on time
• How to move past the point at which you want to quit
• Seeing setbacks as opportunities
• The skills you need to successfully navigate change

You don't have to walk through the fire of change alone.

Download a FREE PDF to help you navigate change here.

Book a discovery call to discuss life coaching here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

If you don't know where you're going, how will you ever get there?

Feeling lost, stuck, depressed and like life is a constant struggle is a sure sign that you've lost touch with your sense of purpose.

In this episode, I delve into what it means to have purpose in your life and I share some powerful questions for you to reflect on that'll help you reignite your passion and direction.

Episode highlights:

• How I define purpose (your definition will be different, but this might help you get started)
• Why you might feel stuck sometimes
• The role of anti-depressants on the path to purpose
• Listening to your emotions rather than silencing them 
• 5 powerful questions to reflect on when you're feeling lost in life

Possibly the most essential ingredient to feeling like your life has purpose is giving yourself permission to pursue the things that light you up!

For a deeper dive into uncovering your purpose, download the FREE 'Reconnect to your Purpose' PDF guide here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

I stumbled upon the 5 Principles I reference in this podcast episode whilst Googling Shamanic stuff and although they are touted as Shamanic laws, my talking points for this episode are actually the 5 Principles of Open Space Technology created by Owen Harrison.

Listen to see why they have been mistaken for more magical, mystical principles thanks to the multilayered interpretations that it's possible to decipher from them.

The 5 Principles and 1 Law are fully credited to Owen Harrison; the interpretations are my own.

Read the corresponding blog post for this episode here.

In this episode I make reference to a FREE PDF guide packed full of journal prompts to help you reconnect to your purpose, find that here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

I went for a walk on the wild side and ended up falling into a pile of sh*t. But I'll tell you what I got out of it, aside from sore feet and 6.5 hours of suffering; resilience.

You build resilience by doing hard things and in this episode I share what happened when I overestimated my hiking skills along with my ability to dress appropriately.

You can see some snippets of the scenery, the troop of baboons we had to walk through and what a 44 year old looks like when they are eviscerated by a hike in a national park here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Inspired by a catastrophic miscommunication with ChatGPT that reminded me of the importance of CLEARLY asking for EXACTLY what I want, this is an episode where I share how to ask for what you want and get it.

If you struggle to get your needs met despite (thinking) you've asked directly, this episode is for you.

I share:

• What clear communication isn't
• How hint dropping, hoping, waiting and avoiding might show up in your relationships
• The link between boundaries and passive aggressive behaviour
• Why written communication will often be misinterpreted
• How to clearly ask for what you want
• Why understanding your own needs is key to getting them met by others
• The value of being brave and having in-person conversations 

Make no mistakes, I have learnt the hard way about direct, concise and clear communication (divorce #1 taught me well) and as always I share my honest and frank experience so you can avoid communication pitfalls and enjoy better relationships with all the people in your life.

Need some personalised help with this?

Get instant access to my brand new STOP Procrastinating in 7 Days course here

Book a complimentary enquiry call to find out more about working 1:1 with me here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Are you an expert level procrastinator?

Do you often get to the end of the day having been incredibly busy, yet you've achieved very little?

Are you fed up of working really hard but not making progress?

If "yes" was your answer to any of the above, this episode is for you.

As someone who could win gold at the procrastination Olympics (which we know would never happen with all the procrastinators on the organising committee) I know exactly what it's like to be stuck in a rut thanks to the pesky habit of not getting to the important things that move life along.

Luckily, thanks to having to figure out a way to stop procrastinating, I can lift the lid on some easy to implement productivity hacks which I share in this episode.

Here's what you'll learn:

• The benefit of taking time to shine a spotlight of awareness on your procrastination habit
• The role boundaries play in never getting your stuff done
• How stress adds to procrastination
• The value of incentivising yourself to complete tasks
• How to use a to-do list properly
• Why multitasking is adding to your overwhelm
• How and why you should take a time inventory
• Why having a "why" is essential for motivation

With a busy schedule and some big goals to reach this year, I have had to hone my productivity skills and learn how to zap my procrastination habit so I can stay on track and I've become pretty damn good at it.

I also often end up supporting clients to do the same which is why I have created a fantastic new course to help you kick your procrastination habit to the curb in one week.

Check out my STOP Procrastinating in 7 Days course here.

And check it out today, don't put it off until tomorrow folks.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

There's undoubtedly a time and a place for therapy, used correctly, it's invaluable for healing and personal development. When it lacks direction, it's a modality that, in my opinion, does more harm than good.

Have you been seeing your therapist for years?

Are you seeing any change or are you simply paying for an expensive chat each week?

If you're questioning the validity of seeing a therapist and wondering why you're even bothering when you're not feeling much better, this episode is for you.

I delve into:

• When therapy is an essential and brilliant tool
• 6 reasons therapy isn't working for you
• How to effectively utilise therapy for healing and trauma recovery
• What makes a great therapist and what makes a terrible one
• How to know if you're dependent on your therapist
• The difference between coaching and therapy
• When coaching is more effective
• Why coaching is more effective than therapy
• How to know what help you need and when
• My own experience of healing trauma with therapy
• How I kicked my therapist into touch and finally got results

If after listening to this episode you realise that what you actually need is a coach to move you forwards rather than a therapist who keeps keeping you stuck in your own pain and discomfort, please get in touch with me.

You can email me: emma@emmaobriencoach.com or send me a DM on Instagram @emmaobriencoach to get the ball rolling.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You'll no doubt have heard about how nervous system regulation can help you manage stress and you've probably heard about Polyvagal theory, but do you know how an understanding of the two can help you feel better?

In this episode my guest, Functional Medicine Health Coach, Sam Shrosbree and I discuss the basics of Polyvagal theory and how with knowledge of just the basics, you can be empowered to make changes to your behaviour and habits that will vastly improve your day-to-day experience of life.

Episode highlights:

• The fundamentals of Polyvagal theory
• The 3 F's of nervous system states
• Ventral vagal, dorsal vagal and the function of the vagal brake
• How you can consciously shift your inner state
• Anchoring into a feeling of safety to calm your nervous system
• How to increase your vagal tone
• Switching triggers for glimmers
• How your state determines your story
• The link  between co-regulation, connection and calm
• Practical strategies to reduce stress that you can start TODAY!

Speaking with Sam is always a pleasure and I know you'll glean an immense amount of valuable information from this episode. You'll find our previous episode about the link between gut health and mental health here.

Visit Sam's website: www.zenroomwellness.com
Connect with Sam on Instagram @zenroom_at_thewoods

Find out more about coaching with me: www.emmaobriencoach.com
Access my FREE Morning Shift Meditation here.
Book an Intuitive Clarity Session here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

If your 2024 was anything like mine, you'll be hoping for a reprieve this New Year.

Despite some lows in what was a tricky year, there were also some great learnings which I'm sharing with you in the first podcast of 2025.

Have a listen to discover:

• How to find gratitude where you are, even if it's not quite where you want to be right now
• The value of setting clear, attainable goals and how to go about doing so
• How to get out of the comparison trap
• Why speaking your truth is so incredibly important for your happiness
• Why listening to your feelings rather than shutting them up is a game changer
• New ideas for self-care practices to boost your mood
• The key to doing more of what makes you happy

Speaking of which, I'm heading in a bit of a new direction with my coaching in 2025. After quietly enjoying 18 months of deep spiritual practice, which I've purposely kept well tucked away (hello worrying about what everyone will think) and what's turned out to be a mid-life awakening, I'm leading with my intuition henceforth.

I've added Intuitive Clarity Sessions into the mix as well as making coaching available by the hour so that my work is more accessible for more people - find out more here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Disclaimer: This episode makes reference to Psilocybin. The content shared in this episode is for informational purposes only, and is not intended to diagnose or treat any medical conditions. Nor is it to be interpreted as medical advice. The first port of call for any mental or physical symptoms or issues should always be your doctor. This podcast episode is not promoting or condoning illegal substance use, and you are advised to check the legal status of psychedelics in your country of residence before making an informed decision as to if or how you choose to use them.

Are you curious about exploring more natural ways of regulating and improving your mental health?

Have you heard about microdosing and would like to gain a better understanding of how it can help you feel better?

Do you need some information about how to take the first steps on your microdosing journey?

If so, this episode is for you. Guest expert April Pride, founder of SetSet shares what microdosing is, how and why microdosing psilocybin can improve your mental health and how to safely and effectively begin your microdosing journey.

Episode highlights:

• What microdosing is, how to do it and what it entails
• The positive effects psilocybin can have on your brain and why microdosing can be so beneficial
• How psilocybin works to calm your brain's default mode network
• April's work on harm reduction in the psychedelic space
• The power of extending the pause in your interpersonal communication and how microdosing can assist
• The connection between plant medicine and intuition
• The enormous value of microdosing for optimisation
• Microdosing protocols 
• Who microdosing is not for and when to avoid using any form of psychedelics

I loved talking to April for this episode and I encourage you to check out her website for a vast collection of psychedelic related resources: www.getsetset.com

You can listen to April's SetSet podcast here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

If you're counting down the days to the Christmas holidays with a mixture of excited anticipation at the prospect of time off and dread at the prospect of sharing space with family and the chaos that'll likely ensue, this episode is for you.

I share some strategies that'll help you get some rest, stay sane amidst family politics and objectively reflect on the year that was 2024.

Episode highlights:

• Making time for rest even when you're surrounded by other people
• How to effectively (and kindly) set boundaries with family when it all gets a bit much
• The value and importance of doing one thing each day that fills your cup
• Journal prompts to help you reflect on what worked and what didn't over the past year

For more stress reduction tools and strategies, I invite you to check out my Stress Less PDF guide here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In this episode, I dive deep into the world of people-pleasing, exploring the behaviors, root causes, and emotional toll it takes on our well-being. If you find it hard to say "no," prioritise others' needs over your own, or fear rejection and conflict, this episode is for you. 

I share personal experiences, real-life examples and actionable strategies to help you stop people-pleasing and reclaim your boundaries.

Key Takeaways:

Signs You’re a People-Pleaser:

• Difficulty saying "no," even when it’s inconvenient
• Seek external validation through helping others
• Over-apologizing unnecessarily
• Avoiding conflict by agreeing to things you don’t believe in
• Neglecting your own needs to prioritise others'

Root Causes of People-Pleasing:

• Fear of rejection and conflict
• Low self-worth and equating your value with how much you help others
• Childhood conditioning and the need to "stay safe" by being agreeable

Why People-Pleasing is Harmful:

• Leads to burnout, overwhelm, and resentment
• Creates unhealthy relationships where your needs are sidelined
• Keeps you stuck in a cycle of seeking external validation

How to Stop People-Pleasing:

• Start small by practicing saying "no" to minor requests
• Set clear boundaries and stick to them, even if it surprises others
• Develop self-awareness to recognize when you’re acting out of fear or obligation
• Learn to regulate your emotions and calm your nervous system (e.g., through heart-based emotional regulation techniques)
• Shift your mindset: understand that true friends and healthy relationships respect your boundaries

Resources Mentioned:

HeartMath techniques for emotional regulation - I can teach you this, email me for info.

Gabor Mate's book: When the Body Says No.

Learn more about my coaching programs to help you break free from people-pleasing - you can enjoy 50% off a 4 session coaching package this week only - email me for details - emma@emmaobriencoach.com

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Did you know that 90% of your serotonin (a neurotransmitter that helps to regulate mood) is produced in your gut?

As a result, what you eat has an incredible impact on the way you feel. 

In this episode of the podcast my guest, Sam Shrosbree a functional medicine health coach, shares how the health of your gut affects your mental well-being and what you can do to boost your brain health.

Episode highlights:

• What your gut microbiome is 
• Why your gut could be classed as your 1st brain
• How the ecosystem of your gut microbiome works
• The value of learning to listen to your body when you eat
• Foods that aggravate and inflame your gut
• Why joint pain can originate in your gut
• What to eat to boost the production of serotonin and encourage a healthy microbiome 
• The role of the vagus nerve in gut-brain health (more on this in an upcoming episode)
• How to gently retrain your gut microbes to curb sugar cravings
• Easy strategies to improve your diet without the need for hectic will power

The book I mentioned is "Gut" by Giuila Enders. The Netflix Series is Hack your Gut Health.

Sam shared easy to implement tools to improve your gut health and mental health in this episode and I'm thrilled to share that she'll be a regular guest on the podcast going forwards. If you have a particular health related topic you'd like us to cover in the podcast, please send me a message.

Get in touch with Sam via her website: www.zenroomwellness.com or via email - sam@inbalancephysio.co.za

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

It's EPISODE 100 of the PODCAST!!!!

This week's episode is all about improving your communication skills.

Do you struggle to get your point across? Are you constantly experiencing some sort of friction with people in your life or work? Maybe you wish people would listen to you more?

I hear you!

The good news is that effective communication is a skill, it's one you can learn and once you master it, it'll change the way you interact with everyone in your life. Learning to communicate with patience and kindness has been a journey for me and in this episode I share the strategies I've implemented to vastly improve my relationships AND get my needs met in the process.

Episode highlights:

• Listening to understand, not simply to respond
• How learning to really hear what someone is saying will deepen your connection
• Being mindful of non-verbal cues and what body language reveals
• The enormous value of using "I" statements when communicating your feelings and needs
• How and why to ask open-ended questions
• The art of patience in conversations
• How to stay present in the moment when you're talking to someone
• Why being direct is important
• Reflecting back what you've heard to ensure you've understood what's been said
• The art of coherent communication

Mis-communications and missed communication comes up frequently in my client coaching sessions. We often interpret what someone has said to us through the lens of our own perceptions and world view which can cause confusion. I help my clients to communicate clearly and calmly when they are both speaking and listening.

Clear, compassionate and kind communication is a skill I love helping my clients develop and it's a game changer, so if this is something I can assist you with, please pop me an email to find out more - emma@emmaobriencoach.com

AND if you're curious about how coaching could help you improve your life in general, feel free to apply for one of five FREE 60 minute sessions I'm offering this week here

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Overcoming Uncertainty & Finding Calm Amidst Chaos

In this episode I share practical strategies to navigate overwhelming uncertainty, manage stress and find ways to stay grounded when the world around you feels chaotic (it's certainly chaotic right now!).

I discuss my take on why we tend to fixate on worst-case scenarios and how some subtle mindset shifts can help you regain control over your thoughts and emotions. With insights on re-framing fear, grounding practices and building resilience, this episode offers actionable advice for anyone feeling weighed down by the unknown.

Episode highlights:

• Understanding the need for control in uncertain times
• Why humans crave predictability and how to find peace when it's lacking
• Facing your fears of worst-case scenarios
• Shifting your mindset from "what's the worst that can happen?" to "what's the best possible outcome?'
• Thought monitoring and developing self-awareness to reduce worry
• Grounding techniques to bring you back into the present moment
• Reflecting on the past to build resilience in the face of uncertainty
• Creating stability through small daily action steps

Takeaways:

• Embrace Uncertainty as Part of Life: Recognizing that unpredictability is inevitable can relieve some pressure and help us adapt with more ease.
• Practice Thought Awareness: Pay attention to negative thought patterns and gently shift them toward more constructive perspectives.
• Ground Yourself in the Present: Using breathing exercises and grounding practices, you can calm your mind and body, making it easier to think clearly.
• Remember Your Resilience: Reflecting on past challenges can remind you of your inner strength and ability to overcome.

Head to my Instagram page @emmaobriencoach for a Heart Focused Breathing demo and a Compassion Meditation demo.

I'm gifting 5 coaching sessions to folks who are stuck and overwhelmed by uncertainty in life right now, you can apply for one of these sessions here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Do you tackle your days with intentionality or is life simply happening to you?

Are you on track with your long-term goals or have you wandered so far off the beaten track you have no idea where you are in life?

To quote Elaine Stritch, "Are you having any fun?"

A sense of purpose is essential for mental and emotional well-being and can often be a powerful antidote to stress, anxiety and depression.

I'm diving into what it means to have purpose and how to reconnect with yours in this episode. If you'd like to experience more joy and less Groundhog Day, this is for you.

Episode highlights:

• Defining purpose; what is is and why it matters
• How purpose builds resilience (have a listen to the previous episode for more on resilience)
• The different life areas that'll give you a sense of purpose
• How purpose affects your mental health
• Why work without purpose leads to burnout
• The relationship between purpose and stress
• 4 powerful questions to ask yourself that'll help you reconnect with your purpose

I suggest jotting these questions down and spending some time working through them to access your own intuitive insights. I'd love to hear your takeaways - pop me a DM on Instagram and let me know - @emmaobriencoach

For folks who are ready to dive deeper into this work and start to create lasting change, I'm here to help. Book a complimentary strategy call with me here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you ever wondered how some people manage to sail through very full lives with apparent ease whilst others struggle to get through a day without losing their cool?

Maybe you start your day with the best of intentions but as the stressors pile up you lose your ability to focus and function?

I 100% relate and I can tell you that the difference between surviving and thriving lies in your resilience levels.

In this episode of the podcast (the first in a new season) I share 5 ways you can build your resilience levels to create more calm and emotional flexibility in your daily life.

Episode highlights:

• A definition of resilience & why it matters
• Developing the skill of self-awareness
• Nervous system regulation to recover from stressful situations
• The power of responding vs reacting
• Why it's a disaster to let your emotional brain lead
• How to practice self-care (realistically)
• The value of daily meaningful connection
• Re-framing failure
• Simple ways to shift your perspective and reduce your stress

To learn more about resilience and access more powerful, practical tools to reduce your day-to-day stress, check out my Stress Less PDF Guide here - it's currently just £3.50!

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Does the concept of 'personal branding' conjure up ideas of colour wheels and image consultants? 

Perhaps you're employed and unsure if having a 'personal brand' is even applicable to you?

If you want to become memorable, get hired for the role you covet or understand how to confidently talk about exactly what it is you do, this is the podcast episode for you.

My guest, THE amazing Carol O'Kelly, a specialist in the field of personal branding for women shares how to tap your innate authenticity, skillset and brilliance to land the opportunities that will propel your career or business forwards.

Episode highlights:

• A definition of exactly what a personal brand is and isn't 
• Carol's essential personal branding pillars
• How to get clear on your authentic value
• Owning your skillset, confidently talking about what you do AND making sure you're memorable
• Understanding your strengths and weaknesses so you can bridge the gap between the two
• Defining your unique brand voice
• Using value-laden stories to self-promote without the 'ick' factor
• Choosing the impact you want to make
• Your top 5 value bullets
• How to adjust your message to your audience without compromising your authenticity
• The art of being interesting

Carol shared incredible value in this episode which will benefit folks in the corporate space as well as business owners.

I have no doubt that Carol will have left you wanting more, so go ahead and sign up for her FREE Creating Impact Masterclass series here.

Visit Carol's website www.redstorm.ie

Connect with Carol on LinkedIn here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you ever felt a deep pull to go in a different direction with your life or career?

Do you have a secret desire to pursue something brand new but lack the courage to go for it?

If you have a deep call for something more but don't quite know where to begin, this episode is for you.

My guest, Emily-Jane Sarroff, shares how she made a major career U-turn just six months before completing her Masters degree in Architectural Design and how that HUGE decision enabled her to create a 6-figure business in just eight months.

We talk about:

• The mindset shift you need to make to create the life you really want
• Navigating the conflict between your heart and your head when it comes to big decisions
• Weighing up the impact of decisions (or indecision) on your mental health
• Giving yourself a permission slip to explore your passions
• How to strengthen and tune into your intuition
• Building self-trust so you stop doubting yourself
• How to reframe adversity as an opportunity to upskill and improve
• The value of learning to regulate your emotions to make quicker progress
• Building resilience and self-confidence by taking action
• Tapping your innate powerful and resourcefulness to achieve the success you desire

I loved this conversation with Em. Her tenacity and passion is inspirational!

Connect with Em on Instagram @empowerwithem

Listen to her podcast - Empower With Em here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

In romantic relationships the issues that trigger you are often a good indicator that there's something for you to work on within yourself.

You can glean an immense amount of information about yourself and your needs by noticing how your partner's behaviour triggers a reaction in you.

In this episode my guest, relationship expert Katie Rossler shares how to tap into the issues that annoy you and use them as a catalyst for your own personal growth.

Episode highlights:

• The ways your partner might reflect issues you need to work on
• How problems arise when you don't speak your truth
• Stop waiting for your partner to pick up on an unmet need and learn to voice it instead
• Why patterns repeat from one relationship to the next and how to work with them
• When to stay and when to leave
• How IQ and EQ affect the dynamic in a relationship
• Identifying what you want as well as what you don't want
• Being the partner you need to instigate change in a relationship
• Communication strategies to help you move through difficult chats

Katie is insightful and open with her knowledge, this conversation is essential listening for anyone looking to improve their romantic relationships.

Visit Katie's Website: www.katierossler.com

Access her FREE relationship assessment here

Connect with her on Instagram here

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

What if you could understand, not just yourself better, but the people around you better so life could feel less chaotic?

Have you ever felt like you are playing a role to fit in rather than being yourself?

If so, this episode is for you.

In this episode with the amazing Dr Alan Mueller, you’ll learn how your personality type influences the way you energise yourself and how you make decisions. We dive deep into how knowing your Myers-Briggs personality type can help you build greater self-awareness and self-compassion; both essential skills to move your life in a positive direction.

Episode highlights:

• The history of the Myers-Briggs personality tool and its surprising creator
• How your preference for introversion or extroversion plays out in your work and personal life
• Knowing what gives you energy and what drains it
• What it’s like to have a resting ‘Mitch’ face 
• An insight into life as an introvert from an extrovert’s perspective
• What each of the four letters of the Myers-Briggs system represent and mean for you
• How to know when you are pulled out of type
• A free resource to uncover your type
• The lowdown on Alan’s brilliant course to take this work to the next level

I thoroughly enjoyed this episode, chatting with Alan gave me a wonderful insight into the value of the Myers-Briggs system and I know you’ll get A LOT out of listening too.

Access Alan’s course here.

Visit Alan’s website www.adaptivechallengeconsulting.com

Connect with Alan on LinkedIn here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Is stress a big problem in your life?

Can you relate to feeling so stressed out that you can't think straight?

Maybe you struggle to remember a time when you didn't feel overwrought?

Or perhaps you're living with a partner whose stress levels are adversely impacting your relationship?

If stress is a problem in your life, this episode is for you.

I can empathise 100% with the damaging effects of chronic stress and thanks to my own experience (which I share in this episode) I know what it takes to firstly manage and secondly reduce stress so it no longer rules the roost.

Episode highlights:

• Understanding what stress is
• Not all stress is bad
• When stress becomes chronic
• Signs and symptoms of long-term stress
• Medicating stress Vs dealing with the root cause
• Practical strategies to calm your stress response
• How to reduce day-to-day stressors
• Seeking support for managing severe stressors

Stress reduction is achieved when you know how to manage the internal effects of your external circumstances - this episode will help you get started.

Download the PDF version of 5 Practical Strategies to Reduce Stress here.

Register for the STRESS LESS Workshop on Tuesday 1st October here.

Connect with me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach here

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Is your life unfolding the way you really want it to? Or are you settling for what’s happened along the way? Can you identify what’s working for you or does your focus land on what’s not lighting you up and stop there?

If you’re feeling stuck in a rut, this episode is for you!

In this episode of the podcast, I talk to fellow women’s empowerment champion Gina Maier Vincent about what it takes to actively design a life you really enjoy and why many women feel unable to go after their dreams and desires.

You’ll learn how to view your time and energy as currency and how making more conscious day to day choices can radically change the game for you over time.

Episode highlights:

• Powerful questions to ask yourself if you’re not sure what you want
• The powerful influences other people’s opinions have on us and how to stop accommodating others at your own cost
• Being unapologetically ‘you’
• How to balance all areas of your life not just ‘work’ and ‘life’
• Why prioritising the things that matter to you is key to feeling fulfilled
• Unloading the heavy weight of ancestral unworthiness
• The impact pursuing your dreams has on the folks around you
• Viewing time and energy through the same lens you would money and spending all of these wisely
• Bringing day-to-day choices into conscious awareness to uplevel your life

Gina shared some seriously good pieces of practical advice in this episode that’ll help you get your life moving in the right direction. Enjoy!

Pre-order Gina’s book here.

Visit Gina’s website www.exquisitelyaligned.com

Connect with Gina on Instagram and LinkedIn.

Listen to my interview on Gina’s podcast here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you ever wished you could be more creative?

Are you feeling disconnected from your purpose and a sense of fulfilment in life or work?

The answer might be far simpler than you think and you’ll find it in this podcast episode.

In this episode, my guest Tineke Tammes, a career and creativity coach, and I chat about what it means to be creative (it’s not just painting and drawing) and how to access your own innate creative talents even if you consider yourself to be a left brained person.

Episode highlights:

• A real world definition of creativity
• How to use your creative brain for problem solving as well as arty endeavours
• The impact creativity has on your wellbeing and mental health
• The value of choosing meaning and doing things that matter to you
• Stopping yourself from drifting through life and taking back control
• Reconnecting with your body to access your creative brain
• The misty, murky process of tapping and working with your creativity
• How feelings of fear block creativity
• Making a habit of nurturing your creativity to allow it to bloom
• Marrying creativity and action to bring your ideas into reality
• Identifying your ‘Everybody’
• Tineke’s inspirational client success stories 
• Two activities you can do TODAY to start tuning into your creativity

This was a wonderful conversation about a topic I feel very passionately about and I hope it’s inspired you to make some space for your creativity to blossom.

Book a FREE saboteur call with Tineke here.

Visit Tineke’s website www.tineketammescoaching.com

Connect with Tineke on LinkedIn here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Do you struggle to make decisions? Do you doubt yourself and end up procrastinating? Are you stuck because you can’t decide what the right course of action is?

If analysis paralysis is your kryptonite, this episode is for you.

My guest, Jessica Frew, a BOLD action taker, unpacks why women find it so hard to make decisions that’ll ultimately improve their lives and how to get started with small steps to build your decision making muscles so you can change your life for the better.

Episode highlights:

• Jessica’s personal journey of co-parenting a child with her gay ex-husband
• How external influences such as religious communities influence your decision making
• Being intentional about the decision making process
• Recovering from self-betrayal
• Learning to trust your gut when you’ve been taught not to
• Managing your emotions when you’re faced with a decision
• Learning to sit with and process difficult emotions
• Using the way you feel to inform you, but not to direct the action you take
• Starting small with decision making so you can build confidence
• THE most powerful question you can ask yourself
• How to make decisions that enable you to choose your life direction
• Empowering yourself to make good decisions by exploring all the available options
• Stop shoulding all over yourself
• Jessica’s Triple B Decision Making Formula
• Taking the right action so that life happens for you, not to you

Confidence comes from taking baby steps consistently. Learning to trust yourself to make small decisions on a regular basis, means that when the time comes to make big decisions, it’ll be far easier.

Join Jessica’s FREE workshop here.

Visit jessica’s website here: www.heyjessicafrew.com

Connect with Jessica on Instagram here @heyjessicafrew 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Do you feel drained, but can't quite figure out why?

Are you walking through your life simply reacting to everything that's happening around you?

In this episode of the podcast my guest, holistic health expert Emily Steines, shares how to budget your energy so you can reconnect with yourself, feel better and improve your quality of life.

Episode highlights:

• Identifying your energy givers and energy suckers
• How to connect with your body and really listen to what it has to tell you
• Challenging your beliefs about success
• Learning lessons from burnout
• Redefining your relationship with technology
• The power of setting an intention for your day
• Acknowledging your coping mechanisms and shifting the unhelpful ones
• The mindfulness, movement and nourishment trifecta 
• Practical techniques and tools to calm your nervous system and tune in to what YOU want

Amidst our hustle and grind society this is a powerful and much needed conversation to have about reframing success and self-care.

Visit Emily's website: www.boopbod.com

Connect with Emily on Instagram: @boopbod

Enjoy 15% off Emily's app and course by using the code PODCAST here.

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

You're likely all too familiar with the constant stream of chatter that goes on inside your head. 

But are you aware of the power it exerts over your life?

In this episode I share the extent to which your inner chatter helps and hinders your progress and how to take back the control so you can enlist your self-talk to help you move forwards in your life.

Episode highlights:

• 60,000 thoughts a day of which 80% are negative!
• What positive self-talk can help you achieve (spoiler alert - anything)
• The impact of anxiety on your ability to take action
• Why negative inner chatter is so destructive to self-confidence
• 5 Strategies to help you calm your inner critic
• How to use affirmations (that actually work) to boost your frame of mind

I get very excited about sharing this work because it's so damn effective, so I really hope you enjoy this episode!

Watch the replay of my 5 Steps to Unshakeable self-Confidence here.

Connect with me on instagram and let me know what your biggest takeaways from this episode are @emmaobriencoach

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

What if you could manage to actually reach that health goal? How would your life change? How would you treat yourself differently?

Can you relate to setting big goals for your health, weight or fitness but never quite achieving them?

We’ve all been there and it’s frustrating as hell.

On this week’s episode, my guest Esther Avant, a health and lifestyle coach unpacks why you’re not reaching your goals and how to reframe your mindset around time and expectations so you set yourself up for success.

Grab yourself a notebook and a pen and get ready to change the way you look at your goals.

Episode highlights;

• The question you should be asking yourself about your goals but probably aren’t
• How to reduce the level of overwhelm in your life so you can achieve your goals
• Managing your expectations so you stop setting yourself up for failure
• Why your goals should have a big why if you want to reach them
• The value of making the steps to your goals as small as possible
• Navigating your goal gap
• Creating long term goals to lay the foundation for lasting success
• Esther’s 3 Cs of success
• Repairing your reputation with yourself to build confidence
• Big rock habits that create consistency
• Swapping self-criticism for compassionate ownership
• The power of support and accountability when you’re working towards big goals

Whilst Esther is a health coach, the advice she shares and the conversation in this episode is equally applicable to any area of your life where you’re setting big goals. I thoroughly enjoyed our chat and I’m sure you will too.

Access Esther’s FREE Habit Tracker here.

Visit Esther’s website here: www.estheravant.com

Connect with Esther on Instagram @esther.avant 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Infertility affects 1 in 6 people across the globe, but rarely is it talked about publicly and many women suffer in silence. If you’ve experienced the rollercoaster of a fertility journey, or you know someone who is, this episode is for you.

My guest, Ashley Holmes, a holistic fertility coach, shares how navigating your inner world and making the time to process your emotional experience helps to make sense of your reality whether or not your fertility journey results in the arrival of a baby.

This is a tough topic and this conversation is very powerful.

Episode Highlights:

• The lowdown on my own fertility journey
• What happens when you end up with no baby after years of trying
• Accepting ‘what is’ even though it’s not what you want
• Feeling whole and complete regardless of your circumstances
• The power thought patterns have on the way you feel
• How to sit with difficult feelings
• Techniques for processing through uncomfortable emotions
• Dealing with deep rooted anger
• Managing the effects of cumulative stress 
• How Ashley uses Ayurveda and energy healing to create mind & body balance
• The 3 Ayurvedic constitutions
• Becoming conscious of what you’re not only putting into your body but onto it too
• Finding a supportive community to journey with rather than trying to cope alone

Acceptance, courage and inner work and essential components on what can be a rough ride for some women. I found this conversation with Ashley very insightful and I hope, if infertility is something that’s affected you, you listen and know that you’re not alone.

Access the FREE chapter of Ashley’s book Nourish here.

Visit Ashley’s website here.

Connect with Ashley on Instagram @ashley_holmes3202 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you ever wondered how your home space affects your life?

Do you find yourself making excuses for your house and not really enjoying the space you live in?

Would you like to know how to feel happier in your current home?

If so, this episode is for you.

My guest, Feng Shui consultant Moni Castaneda, shares how to work with your home to achieve your goals, shift your energy and create a nurturing environment for everyone you share living space with so you can enjoy spending time in a home you love.

Episode highlights:

• The basic principles of Feng Shui: what to put where so you can be happy, healthy and successful
• An overview of the three types of Feng Shui
• Moni’s Feng Shui system; The 9 Steps of Feng Shui
• How Moni works with her clients’ own sense of style to help them love and be proud of their homes
• The state of your home is a reflection of the state of your life
• Ways to create safety, balance, harmony and a connection to nature in your home
• Using specific areas in your home to help you set life goals
• The most important areas to start applying Feng Shui principles for life success
• How your art and mirrors affect the energy of your home
• One surprising kitchen item that is very important for good chi
• 3 things you can do right now to improve the energy of your home

Moni shares such brilliant ideas and insights in the episode about how your home space affects all the other areas of your life! If you’re on a self-development journey already, prepare to be taken to the next level!

Access Moni’s FREE Style your Home Masterclass here and make sure you stay on the list for access to 15 more free classes.

Visit Moni’s website here: www.ninestepstofengshui.com

Connect with Moni on Instagram here @fengshuiforus 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.

Have you noticed patterns repeating in your life?

Did you know that behaviours can be passed down from one generation to the next?

The good news is that you don't have to resign yourself to fate, when you can connect to the past to redirect your future.

In this podcast episode, my guest Elizabeth Kipp, shares how intergenerational trauma and unhelpful patterns show up and how she uses Ancestral Clearing to help folks shift and heal themselves so their lives unfold more intentionally.

Episode highlights:

• The way we're all connected
• How thought patterns and behaviours travel down generations
• The past imprints the future unless you choose to make changes
• What Ancestral Clearing is and how it works
• A demonstration of Ancestral Clearing
• How Ancestral Clearing freed Elizabeth from years of chronic pain

Download Elizabeth's FREE Ancestral Clearing prayers ebook here.

Visit Elizabeth's website here: www.elizabeth-kipp.com 

If you’re done playing small and ready to lead yourself — you’re in the right place.

I’m Emma O’Brien — Martha Beck trained and certified life coach, HeartMath practitioner, and shamanic healer helping high-achieving women stop second-guessing themselves and finally trust their own voice.

Through nervous system re-calibration, strategic coaching, and deep energetic work, I help you move from self-doubt to self-trust so you can create a life you actually want to be in — no external approval required.

🌀 Want to work together?

 Explore the 6-week Nervous System Reset, 1:1 coaching, or Shamanic Soul Retrieval sessions here: emmaobriencoach.com

Questions or ready to chat?

 DM me on Instagram @emmaobriencoach
or book a free connection call HERE.