Standing In The Grey Podcast

Episode 24: Season Finale: The S Word

Fri, 31 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

Happy Anniversary!! We are ONE YEAR OLD! And this episode is a DOOZY. We talk about what scripture says and models about submission.

Special Guest: Welcome to the show, Rebecca!!
Don't turn off this episode! Submission is a weighty conversation- let's chat about it!

Jacob calls out some dudes.
2 Chronicles 15: 3-6
Romans 1: 18

Submission in marriage
Genesis 2:24 Leave and Cleave
To be joined, stick, follow closely, glued to

Pride and Ego- fair weather friends

Ephesians 5:25 Men are called to model what healthy submission looks like.

Systematic Theology the book- check it out!!

Daughters of Grace Bible Study

Getting to know you: Jacob tells the story of him proposing to Rebecca

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Episode 23: Is the Enneagram Biblical?

Fri, 17 May 2024 00:00:00 -0400

SYMBIS

Jackie Hill Perry's chat on the Enneagram

2 Timothy 3:5

John 21

Finale, Jr.

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Episode 22: Can We Date In a Christ Centered Way in This Day and Age?

Wed, 01 May 2024 01:00:00 -0400

This episode isn't just about purity. We did that one already. If you are dating and a Christ follower, you are called to love your person differently than the world says. This episode is SO encouraging. Come get filled up.

Jacob lies. Right out the gate.

MEET REBECCA!! We love Rebecca.

Jacob agrees, so they are going to get married.

Does it talk about dating in the Bible?

Galatians 5: 16-26
1 Corinthians 13

"What's more important? Your relationship with God or your relationship with man?" Rebecca roasts.

FACT CHECK in scripture. Don't just listen to your people because they are your people.

"When you love somebody, you want them to be closer to God." Dang Rebecca.

Standing In the Grey Episode 3 on Purity

2 Timothy
1 Timothy 5
James 4:4-10

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Episode 21: What's the Difference Between Conviction and Condemnation?

Wed, 17 Apr 2024 20:00:00 -0400

Happy to be back after a litte spring break!

Louie Giglio- HAHA he's real Jacob
"Condemnation comes from guilt. Conviction is born out of grace. Condemnation leads you to conceal your sin. Conviction urges you to confess it."

Romans 2

Proverbs 4: 5-9

"Being closer to the light of God illuminates the dark places in us, and we feel conviction about sinse we never thought about before." TLC

2 Timothy 3:16

"Sometimes letting a person lie in the bed they've made is the best way to get them to buy a new mattress." TLC

Ship.

Romans 8
Romans 14
Revelation 2

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Episode 20: Chatting About James 2

Wed, 20 Mar 2024 11:00:00 -0400

EPISODE 20, YO!!

James 2

Ellis Island- read about it. Change your appreciation for living here because of what your ancestors did to be Americans.

False- 1919- Henry Ford implemented the assembly line right after WW1 and made bank. However, cars existed. Germany created the first gas powered automobile, but lost all their stamina when they declared war on.. Well. Everyone.

Matthew 5

Revelation 2:19

Esther

Genesis- Eve wilds out.

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Episode 19: Should We As Christians Introduce Ourselves With Our Pronouns?

Thu, 07 Mar 2024 23:00:00 -0500

Genesis 1:27

Genesis was written around 1400 BC

Psalm 100

1 Chronicles 7:14 We pray through thankfulness, not our issues.

The public school teachers- we don't have a long enough podcast to cover this, but we touch on it here.

Story of Jessica/Jesse (11 years old)

Story of Jacob's brother

We've allowed the world to define too many things.

"There is so much middle ground being missed," said Jacob Banuellos.

"If we are opening our mouths, it should be the Holy Spirit," answered Shontell Brewer.

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Episode 18: Are My Hobbies Getting In The Way?

Thu, 22 Feb 2024 01:00:00 -0500

Grey Flags? Check yo'self before you know what.

William Blake "We are what we behold."

Old Proverb- "Don't be an idiot."

Proverbs 22:6

Ignite Your Life by Barry Meguiar Move every person closer to Jesus every day.

Colossians 3

"Lord, do I have the relationship with you that YOU want?"

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Episode 17: Is It OK to Be Political? (Young Adult Christians in Politics)

Wed, 07 Feb 2024 08:00:00 -0500

Special Guest: Cole Dyson

Job 32:1-10

It's not time that makes us wise; God gives wisdom.

Brain Science- Why is your brain smooth if you're under 25?

It's true: Christians can be Democrats, and Jesus still loves them.

Prayer in school? You don't need permission. Pray. All the time.

FEBRUARY 8th- Caucus- The vote that matters

Republican Caucus- Where to vote and what to know if you are registered Republican

Democratic Caucus- Where to vote and what to know if you are registered Democratic

*satan literally means "deceiver." We can stop being surprised when he behaves according to his name.

My Dude: Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Here I Am Dig a little!

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Episode 16: Are Church Workers The Only Ones in Ministry?

Wed, 24 Jan 2024 11:00:00 -0500

JK- It's episode 16. Seventeen is next due to technical issues.

Ephesians 6:18- A great verse, but let's agree this song is done.

Ezekiel 48- There is the church.

Dry Bones Account

Jesus's last message to his disciples

Rahab

John 17:9-21

Spiritual Gifts

Shameless Plug: Missionary Mom Book

Convo Church

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Episode 15: Chatting About James 1

Wed, 10 Jan 2024 13:00:00 -0500

Jacob got a promotion.

James 1

Always the buts.

2 Chronicles 16:9

Jacob is more stubborn than Shontell- #obvi

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Episode 14: What's the Big Deal About Christmas?

Fri, 29 Dec 2023 10:00:00 -0500

St. Nicholas is Santa- 1 article. Do some digging on your own.

Are your traditions still serving you? It's ok to let some go or keep some even if they aren't overly religious

COLBY was here.

"We are celebrating what Jesus was willing to opt into even though he knew how it was all going to end."- Shontell Brewer

Luke 2

"Are we trying to make up for something-God doesn't need to be dressed up. Jesus doesn't need to be marketed." Jacob Banuelos.

GREY FLAG: are you using your gifts so others will be drawn to a relationship with Jesus? Or so you get praised?

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Episode 12: What Does Our Quiet Time Look Like?

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0500

Quiet time? Prayer time? Whatever you call it, do it!!

With the Perrys

YouVersion Bible App

What do you think? What part of your day are you at your best? Maybe THAT is the time for you to spend time with God.

The Bible Recap

Psalm 1

BlueLetter Bible

Is It OK to Meditate? Don't let this be a buzzword. Listen to this podcast and dig into Scripture for yourself to see what God says about it.

Glorify App

Proverbs 3:5-7

Grey Flags- get rid of them

Psalm 23

Romans 8:26

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Episode 13: Does The Bible Talk About New Year's Resolutions?

Wed, 29 Nov 2023 08:00:00 -0500

Purim Bema Podcast Episode 70

Philippians 4:8

Philippians 4:19

Romans 12

James 2

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Episode 11: Is It OK to Meditate?

Wed, 15 Nov 2023 09:00:00 -0500

Did you know 'meditate' is in the Bible?

Siyach

Word Study On Your Own

Are you struggling with addiction? Get help here

Is 'meditate' a triggering word? Might be time to meditate on why that's happening.

2 Tim 3:16 Our Lord's Words

2 Tim 3:1-8 Yikes

Satan wants us to stay ignorant of the meaning of things. Let's not give him what he wants.

Jacob refers to his past struggles that kept him from God. Check out his conversation about addiction to video games in episode 11.

Traeger wants to sponsor us. They just don't know they know.

Shontell is funny. Jacob tries.

Getting to know you question: Do you take shampoo and conditioners from hotels?

Shout out to Colby and Branden Moten, not the soap.

Suave wants to sponsor us, too. Also Moten Brown soap. JK That's not what it's called.

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Episode 10: Is It OK to Get Offended?

Wed, 01 Nov 2023 00:00:00 -0400

Episode 10!!!! Can you believe it?? We can't. Here's the skinny: Don't take someone's leftovers. The end.

"God offends our minds to reveal our hearts" said someone.

Long Pause when Jacob punches his microphone

Aaron Rodgers- The Jets? "This woke culture wants to be offended by everything."

James 1:19-21

T-Rex arms

John 2 Jesus goes ham.

Numbers 20:12

Deuteronomy

Getting to Know You: Do you sleep with your closet doors open or closed?

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Episode 9: Is It OK to Lie?

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 10:00:00 -0400

"Heck no, Techno." Jacob.

Proverbs 12:22

Psalm 119: 144

Is there a difference between honesty and truth?

Is your lie self serving?

Shontell no longer runs a classroom.

Have you ever looked into grace?

Cheap copy of Missionary Mom

Proverbs: speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves

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Episode 8: Do We Still Live in a Supernatural World?

Tue, 03 Oct 2023 23:00:00 -0400

You Version Bible

Psalm 91

Revelation

CS Lewis Screwtape Letters

Missionary Mom Book

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Episode 7: Part Two- Does How We Talk About Women Matter?

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 23:00:00 -0400

Part One- Does How We Talk About Men Matter?

Titus 3:1-2

Ephesians 4:29-32

Moses Brown

Proverbs 31

Mary of Bethany

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Episode 6: Is Porn OK If It Keeps You From Committing Adultery Like Dennis Prager Says It Is?

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 10:00:00 -0400

Dennis Prager- We aren't including the link because you don't need to follow people with such low standards.

Jacob and Jesus and Paul answer this question right out the gate with this scripture.
1 Corinthians 6:18. But listen to the whole episode.

Let's meet Dennis in the beginning:
Psalm 119 "Your laws are always true."
Genesis 2:18 Do we depend on God to help us? Or are we looking for loopholes?

Are you going to an outside source, outside of God?

Toxic Porn The Truth on the Matter. This website will change your life.

Divorce Data

Deuteronomy "BUT, BE CAREFUL"

If we continue to allow faith-filled people to stay off base, are we being the bold Christians God is asking us to be?

The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy.

Exodus 20:17

Exodus Cry

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Episode 5: BOB GOFF, Are We Making This Too Hard?

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 13:00:00 -0400

Meet Bob Goff. Seriously, get to know him.
The Oaks Center
Five Guys Jacob's favorite topic
"Make your request known to God"
Galatians 5:6
Ear tickling with doctrine It's really worded that way in Scripture #cantmakethisstuffup
Coffee Crisp Just order it, man.
Philippians 2:20
Matthew 16

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Episode 4: Does How We Talk About Men Matter?

Wed, 09 Aug 2023 17:00:00 -0400

Is it me or are these questions getting saltier? Yah, we like it salty around here because it's what we are called to be, right? Salt of the earth. This one is for you ladies AND gentlemen. Maybe you have some jokes about men that aren't as honoring as they could be. Maybe you dudes have never even considered this could be a topic of conversation.

But we dig in. Dig in with us.

Are you speaking out of old understandings or speaking God's truth?

James 3
Are we allowing the world to tell us who men are?
The 94% of men who aren't exploiting women, stay classy. We see you.
Wild at Heart buy the book!
Men, you can call out men. Do it.
Is all masculinity toxic?
Where Have All the Good Men Gone? by Bonnie Tyler
Ephesians 4

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Episode 3: What's The Big Deal About Purity?

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400

This episode hits on some big questions about sex. This one might have more questions than answers, but we know God is going to be faithful to speak to you on this topic.

The overuse of the phrase "unpack that".
Romans 8:6
Need help with porn addiction or temptation, check this out
Need to talk to your tweens or teens about porn? check this out
1 Timothy 6:20
Jacob tries to teach me what YOLO stands for
Jeremiah 29:11
Exodus 20:4 Idols
Exodus 20:17 coveting
Philippians 1:27
Philippians 4:8
Proverbs 3:5-7

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Episode 2: Is It A Sin To Stay In Your Comfort Zone?

Thu, 13 Jul 2023 01:00:00 -0400

Today we are chatting about complacency and asking if it's a sin to stay in our comfort zone. Jacob gets gritty and shares part of his testimony, and dude. It's SO good. He shares about his past addictions that masqueraded as comfort items and ended in heroine addiction. Tune in to hear how wild God gets in Jacob's life. Plus he laughs real loud.

Missionary Mom by Shontell Brewer
Host your own Taco Tuesday
Moses and the Burning Bush in Exodus 3
Prayers don't have to be complicated.
Anti-Trafficking help
1 Peter 1
James 4:17
xHope Missions

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Episode 1: Do I Have To Go To Church?

Wed, 28 Jun 2023 22:00:00 -0400

Our season one theme is "Being in the World, Not of It." This is our FIRST ever episode. Like. Ever. This episode invites believers to subtly shift their mindset to view church as a way to pour into others instead of only what we can take from it.

Is church an obligation or a privilege?
Acts 2
What is church?
Is it enough to show up?
1 Corinthians One body, many parts
Spiritual Gifts Test
Matthew 18:20
Exodus 1

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