Lawfully Ever After Wed, 04 Mar 2026 14:36:35 -0500 http://www.lawfullyeverafter.com en-us © 2026 Lawfully Ever After yes d132f553-0b8f-5bde-ae16-57b7caf3699c Julie Potts, Esq episodic true In this podcast, Julie Potts, Esq covers a wide range of family law topics including tips and opinions for navigating legal matters in divorce, custody and support; as well as candid conversations to help listeners get through the other side of one of the toughest times of their lives. Julie is a family law attorney located in Chester County, Pennsylvania and you can also find her @LawyerJulie on TikTok. Please remember nothing in this podcast should be considered legal advice, and you should always consult with your own attorney if you have questions about your specific situation.]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) divorce, family law, custody, alimony, child support, prenups, marriage Julie Potts, Esq https://storage.buzzsprout.com/2a8hwjl7jx8cb7399n49mt0bqic8?.jpg Lawfully Ever After http://www.lawfullyeverafter.com Custody Mediation: Process, Power Dynamics, and the Child’s Best Interest Custody Mediation: Process, Power Dynamics, and the Child’s Best Interest Send a text

In this roundtable episode, Julie is joined by three fellow family law attorneys (Cara Sawyer, Katie Fow, and PJ McGinnis) to explain what custody mediation looks like in real life, especially in Chester & Montgomery Counties, including required steps before court, what “legal custody” actually means, and why mediation is often about making incremental progress rather than solving everything at once.

The conversation also addresses common pressure points that derail resolution: mismatched work schedules, trust issues, support-related suspicions, and situations where one party may feel overpowered. The attorneys discuss how effective mediators handle stalemates, when mediation may be inappropriate, and why even strong court orders can’t “fix” underlying behavior.

The episode closes with a child-centered lens: how kids experience custody conflict, why shared time is often the direction courts lean when safety isn’t an issue, and what parents can do to reduce emotional harm—by focusing less on winning and more on stability, communication, and the child’s best interest.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this roundtable episode, Julie is joined by three fellow family law attorneys (Cara Sawyer, Katie Fow, and PJ McGinnis) to explain what custody mediation looks like in real life, especially in Chester & Montgomery Counties, including required steps before court, what “legal custody” actually means, and why mediation is often about making incremental progress rather than solving everything at once.

The conversation also addresses common pressure points that derail resolution: mismatched work schedules, trust issues, support-related suspicions, and situations where one party may feel overpowered. The attorneys discuss how effective mediators handle stalemates, when mediation may be inappropriate, and why even strong court orders can’t “fix” underlying behavior.

The episode closes with a child-centered lens: how kids experience custody conflict, why shared time is often the direction courts lean when safety isn’t an issue, and what parents can do to reduce emotional harm—by focusing less on winning and more on stability, communication, and the child’s best interest.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-18470963 Mon, 12 Jan 2026 06:00:00 -0500 2500 full true Part 3: Judge Julie's Holloway Custody Decision Part 3: Judge Julie's Holloway Custody Decision Send a text

In the final chapter of our mock custody trial series, Julie steps fully into the role of judge and walks listeners through how custody decisions are actually made. Drawing from real-world family law practice, this episode breaks down the factors judges are required to consider, what “equal” really means in custody cases, and why outcomes often feel emotionally devastating even when they’re legally balanced.

The conversation also zooms out to explore a bigger truth about family court: what the court can fix, what it can’t, and why chasing courtroom “wins” can sometimes do more harm than good. It’s a candid, behind-the-scenes look at judicial reasoning, expectations vs. reality, and the often-overlooked work that happens outside the courtroom.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In the final chapter of our mock custody trial series, Julie steps fully into the role of judge and walks listeners through how custody decisions are actually made. Drawing from real-world family law practice, this episode breaks down the factors judges are required to consider, what “equal” really means in custody cases, and why outcomes often feel emotionally devastating even when they’re legally balanced.

The conversation also zooms out to explore a bigger truth about family court: what the court can fix, what it can’t, and why chasing courtroom “wins” can sometimes do more harm than good. It’s a candid, behind-the-scenes look at judicial reasoning, expectations vs. reality, and the often-overlooked work that happens outside the courtroom.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-18470938 Wed, 07 Jan 2026 16:00:00 -0500 934 full true Judge Julie: The Holloway Case Part 2 Judge Julie: The Holloway Case Part 2 Send a text

Holloway v. Holloway (Part Two): Testimony, Cross-Examination & What Judges Really Weigh

In Part Two of the fictional custody case Holloway v. Holloway, we move past the setup and into the heart of a Pennsylvania custody trial: live testimony. This episode walks listeners through abbreviated, but realistic, direct and cross-examinations of both parents, a workplace witness, and the often-overlooked impact of third-party caregivers.

Mom takes the stand first, describing routines, anxiety, and decision-making around therapy and medication. Dad follows, explaining why he’s seeking 50/50 custody, how his job has changed, and how he relies on family and a girlfriend for support. From there, we hear from Dad’s boss about work schedules, unpredictability, and the limits of flexibility—testimony that often carries more weight than parents expect.

We also break down the in-camera interviews with the children: what judges listen for, how anxiety and routine factor into custody decisions, and why courts are cautious about labeling kids as “coached” or “manipulated.”

Finally, Julie pulls back the curtain on what actually happens at a custody trial—how testimony is structured, why parents usually testify first, how long real trials last, and what it means when a judge “takes it under advisement” instead of ruling from the bench.

No ruling yet—that’s coming in Part Three. For now, this episode is all about credibility, consistency, and the quiet details that can tip the scales in a custody case.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Holloway v. Holloway (Part Two): Testimony, Cross-Examination & What Judges Really Weigh

In Part Two of the fictional custody case Holloway v. Holloway, we move past the setup and into the heart of a Pennsylvania custody trial: live testimony. This episode walks listeners through abbreviated, but realistic, direct and cross-examinations of both parents, a workplace witness, and the often-overlooked impact of third-party caregivers.

Mom takes the stand first, describing routines, anxiety, and decision-making around therapy and medication. Dad follows, explaining why he’s seeking 50/50 custody, how his job has changed, and how he relies on family and a girlfriend for support. From there, we hear from Dad’s boss about work schedules, unpredictability, and the limits of flexibility—testimony that often carries more weight than parents expect.

We also break down the in-camera interviews with the children: what judges listen for, how anxiety and routine factor into custody decisions, and why courts are cautious about labeling kids as “coached” or “manipulated.”

Finally, Julie pulls back the curtain on what actually happens at a custody trial—how testimony is structured, why parents usually testify first, how long real trials last, and what it means when a judge “takes it under advisement” instead of ruling from the bench.

No ruling yet—that’s coming in Part Three. For now, this episode is all about credibility, consistency, and the quiet details that can tip the scales in a custody case.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-18356068 Mon, 15 Dec 2025 10:00:00 -0500 1066 full false Judge Julie: The Holloway Custody Case Part 1 Judge Julie: The Holloway Custody Case Part 1 Send a text

In Part One of our three-part Judge Julie series, Emily introduces a completely fictional—but highly realistic—Pennsylvania custody case: Holloway v. Holloway. A long-term stay-at-home mom, a traveling dad, two school-aged kids with very different needs—and a dispute over whether 50/50 custody is truly in their best interests. Julie hears the facts for the very first time and shares her raw, real-time legal analysis—no ruling yet, just the issues that will shape everything to come.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In Part One of our three-part Judge Julie series, Emily introduces a completely fictional—but highly realistic—Pennsylvania custody case: Holloway v. Holloway. A long-term stay-at-home mom, a traveling dad, two school-aged kids with very different needs—and a dispute over whether 50/50 custody is truly in their best interests. Julie hears the facts for the very first time and shares her raw, real-time legal analysis—no ruling yet, just the issues that will shape everything to come.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Buzzsprout-18319844 Mon, 08 Dec 2025 14:00:00 -0500 1579 full true Real Estate and Divorce with Realtor Bela Vora Real Estate and Divorce with Realtor Bela Vora Send a text

This week, we were invited by local Realtor Bela Vora as a guest on her podcast to discuss real estate transactions during divorce: when you should move out, how to negotiate repairs that need to be done, the best timing for appraisals, and how property settlement agreements tie into the process.

Check out more of Bela's content on her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@phillysuburbsrealtor

And check out her website to learn more about her and her real estate services: https://phillysuburbsrealtor.com/

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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This week, we were invited by local Realtor Bela Vora as a guest on her podcast to discuss real estate transactions during divorce: when you should move out, how to negotiate repairs that need to be done, the best timing for appraisals, and how property settlement agreements tie into the process.

Check out more of Bela's content on her YouTube channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@phillysuburbsrealtor

And check out her website to learn more about her and her real estate services: https://phillysuburbsrealtor.com/

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-17978994 Tue, 28 Oct 2025 16:00:00 -0400 1609 full false Pro Se Pitfalls: Why Representing Yourself Can Cost You More Pro Se Pitfalls: Why Representing Yourself Can Cost You More Send a text

Thinking about representing yourself in family court? In this candid conversation, we break down what “pro se” really means—and why even seasoned attorneys won’t do it. We cover when mediation helps (and its limits), the critical protections people miss in DIY agreements (like securing alimony with life insurance), and the evidentiary traps that derail cases—hello, hearsay and inadmissible police reports. You’ll hear how judges expect self-represented parties to follow the same rules as lawyers, what really happens at pretrial conferences in Chester County, how document exchanges and “for settlement purposes only” work, and why preserving the record with timely objections matters on appeal. We also touch on cross-exam basics, discovery misconceptions, and a quick PSA on Miranda rights and consent searches. 

Bottom line: do it once, do it right—hire counsel and save yourself years of stress and expense.

(This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice.)

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Thinking about representing yourself in family court? In this candid conversation, we break down what “pro se” really means—and why even seasoned attorneys won’t do it. We cover when mediation helps (and its limits), the critical protections people miss in DIY agreements (like securing alimony with life insurance), and the evidentiary traps that derail cases—hello, hearsay and inadmissible police reports. You’ll hear how judges expect self-represented parties to follow the same rules as lawyers, what really happens at pretrial conferences in Chester County, how document exchanges and “for settlement purposes only” work, and why preserving the record with timely objections matters on appeal. We also touch on cross-exam basics, discovery misconceptions, and a quick PSA on Miranda rights and consent searches. 

Bottom line: do it once, do it right—hire counsel and save yourself years of stress and expense.

(This episode is for general information only and is not legal advice.)

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-17906014 Thu, 25 Sep 2025 13:00:00 -0400 1684 full true PFAs in Pennsylvania: What You Need to Know Before You Litigate PFAs in Pennsylvania: What You Need to Know Before You Litigate Send a text

In this episode, we break down the do’s and don’ts of PFAs in Pennsylvania—what qualifies, what doesn’t, and how a temporary order can impact your custody case down the line. A practical guide with real-world examples and lessons learned the hard way.

Disclaimer: If you are in immediate danger, please always call 911 right away.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we break down the do’s and don’ts of PFAs in Pennsylvania—what qualifies, what doesn’t, and how a temporary order can impact your custody case down the line. A practical guide with real-world examples and lessons learned the hard way.

Disclaimer: If you are in immediate danger, please always call 911 right away.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-17856626 Wed, 17 Sep 2025 00:00:00 -0400 1597 full true Can My Kid Choose Who They Live With? (Spoiler: No.) Can My Kid Choose Who They Live With? (Spoiler: No.) Send a text

Today, we're tackling one of the most common — and most misunderstood — custody questions: When can kids decide where they want to live? 

Julie breaks down how Pennsylvania law actually works (hint: kids don't get the final say), why putting children in the middle is damaging, and how judges weigh a child's preference alongside 16 other custody factors. 

Plus, we talk about parenting teens in custody situations, appeals when you don't like a court's decision, and why being "the bigger person" isn't just good advice — it's essential. Buckle up, Julie’s fired up on this one!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Today, we're tackling one of the most common — and most misunderstood — custody questions: When can kids decide where they want to live? 

Julie breaks down how Pennsylvania law actually works (hint: kids don't get the final say), why putting children in the middle is damaging, and how judges weigh a child's preference alongside 16 other custody factors. 

Plus, we talk about parenting teens in custody situations, appeals when you don't like a court's decision, and why being "the bigger person" isn't just good advice — it's essential. Buckle up, Julie’s fired up on this one!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-17058213 Thu, 08 May 2025 00:00:00 -0400 1390 full true Mental Health, Divorce, and the Truth You Need to Hear Mental Health, Divorce, and the Truth You Need to Hear Send a text

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and mental health is a very common subject brought up in court for both divorce and custody cases...so let's talk about it!

In this episode, Julie Potts, a seasoned family law attorney from Chester County, PA, and co-host Emily discuss how mental health is (and isn't) treated in family court, why transparency with your lawyer is critical, and how addressing mental health issues can actually strengthen your case. Plus, they offer real-world advice for navigating custody battles, protecting yourself, and supporting your kids through divorce. 

Whether you're new here or a longtime listener, this is the episode to understand the heart of the show — and why information is power.

Link to information mentioned in episode:

The Daily Podcast Episode, "The Parents Aren't All Right": https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/09/podcasts/the-daily/parenting-stress.html

Kayden's Law in PA: https://www.aclupa.org/en/legislation/sb-78-child-custody-proceedings-kaydens-law

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and mental health is a very common subject brought up in court for both divorce and custody cases...so let's talk about it!

In this episode, Julie Potts, a seasoned family law attorney from Chester County, PA, and co-host Emily discuss how mental health is (and isn't) treated in family court, why transparency with your lawyer is critical, and how addressing mental health issues can actually strengthen your case. Plus, they offer real-world advice for navigating custody battles, protecting yourself, and supporting your kids through divorce. 

Whether you're new here or a longtime listener, this is the episode to understand the heart of the show — and why information is power.

Link to information mentioned in episode:

The Daily Podcast Episode, "The Parents Aren't All Right": https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/09/podcasts/the-daily/parenting-stress.html

Kayden's Law in PA: https://www.aclupa.org/en/legislation/sb-78-child-custody-proceedings-kaydens-law

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-17057311 Thu, 01 May 2025 01:00:00 -0400 1460 divorce, custody, child support, coparenting, family law, blended families full true Why I Say: Don't Be a Stay-at-Home Mom (And What the Trolls Had to Say About It) Why I Say: Don't Be a Stay-at-Home Mom (And What the Trolls Had to Say About It) Send a text

In this episode, we're diving into the LawyerJulie TikTok post that stirred up quite the conversation: my take on why women should never be full-time stay-at-home moms—at least not without a backup plan.  Watch the video here: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie/video/7466149689814011178

We break down the financial and personal risks of stepping out of the workforce, the long-term implications of giving up a career, and why independence is key (even if you never need it).

We also tackle some of the top comments and criticisms, including the "Who hurt you?" response. Spoiler: No one, but life experience and years in family law have shown Julie how quickly things can change. Plus, we discuss social security benefits, postnups, and how couples can proactively protect a stay-at-home spouse’s future.

Oh, and trolls? We see you. And we’re not losing sleep.

Want to ask a free legal question for a future episode on our new podcast project? Apply for an Initial Consult at https://juliepottsesq.com/apply-for-the-initial-consult/

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we're diving into the LawyerJulie TikTok post that stirred up quite the conversation: my take on why women should never be full-time stay-at-home moms—at least not without a backup plan.  Watch the video here: 

https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie/video/7466149689814011178

We break down the financial and personal risks of stepping out of the workforce, the long-term implications of giving up a career, and why independence is key (even if you never need it).

We also tackle some of the top comments and criticisms, including the "Who hurt you?" response. Spoiler: No one, but life experience and years in family law have shown Julie how quickly things can change. Plus, we discuss social security benefits, postnups, and how couples can proactively protect a stay-at-home spouse’s future.

Oh, and trolls? We see you. And we’re not losing sleep.

Want to ask a free legal question for a future episode on our new podcast project? Apply for an Initial Consult at https://juliepottsesq.com/apply-for-the-initial-consult/

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-16705885 Mon, 03 Mar 2025 00:00:00 -0500 821 full false The Initial Consult: Real Questions, Real Answers The Initial Consult: Real Questions, Real Answers Send a text

Are you facing a family law issue and drowning in bad advice from the internet? AnnouncingThe Initial Consult, a future podcast where Pennsylvania family law attorney Julie Potts gives real answers to real people—just like she would in an actual consultation. No sugarcoating, no false hope—just practical legal insight and tough truths to help you make informed decisions.

Each episode features anonymous consultations covering custody battles, divorce disputes, and the emotional complexities that come with them. Whether you're preparing for your own consult, looking for clarity in a tough situation, or just fascinated by the real-life drama of family law, this podcast is for you.

Join Julie and producer Emily as they strip away the myths, expose the common pitfalls, and give you the knowledge you need to navigate the legal system—without the expensive hourly rate. Because in family law, what you need to hear is often very different from what you want to hear.

Want to be a guest? Visit JuliePottsESQ.com to apply for a confidential consultation.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Are you facing a family law issue and drowning in bad advice from the internet? AnnouncingThe Initial Consult, a future podcast where Pennsylvania family law attorney Julie Potts gives real answers to real people—just like she would in an actual consultation. No sugarcoating, no false hope—just practical legal insight and tough truths to help you make informed decisions.

Each episode features anonymous consultations covering custody battles, divorce disputes, and the emotional complexities that come with them. Whether you're preparing for your own consult, looking for clarity in a tough situation, or just fascinated by the real-life drama of family law, this podcast is for you.

Join Julie and producer Emily as they strip away the myths, expose the common pitfalls, and give you the knowledge you need to navigate the legal system—without the expensive hourly rate. Because in family law, what you need to hear is often very different from what you want to hear.

Want to be a guest? Visit JuliePottsESQ.com to apply for a confidential consultation.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-16706145 Thu, 27 Feb 2025 16:00:00 -0500 705 full false Control, Communication, and the Grass Isn't Always Greener Control, Communication, and the Grass Isn't Always Greener Send a text

In this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce. 

From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages. 

They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divorce trends, why emotions often cloud legal decisions, and how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and respect. 

Whether you're seeking advice on co-parenting, understanding your partner’s perspective, or how to keep your identity while parenting, this episode offers relatable stories, legal insights, and timeless wisdom.

Listen in for heartfelt discussions, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode of Lawfully Ever After, Julie Potts, Esq. dives into emotionally charged scenarios pulled from Reddit that mirror the challenges of modern relationships and divorce. 

From the rise of "gray divorces" to navigating unexpected separation, they explore the interplay of control, independence, and communication in marriages. 

They discuss how societal shifts have influenced divorce trends, why emotions often cloud legal decisions, and how to approach difficult conversations with honesty and respect. 

Whether you're seeking advice on co-parenting, understanding your partner’s perspective, or how to keep your identity while parenting, this episode offers relatable stories, legal insights, and timeless wisdom.

Listen in for heartfelt discussions, practical advice, and a few laughs along the way!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-16415653 Fri, 10 Jan 2025 15:00:00 -0500 2296 full true Trials and Tribulations: Understanding Custody Cases and Courtroom Prep Trials and Tribulations: Understanding Custody Cases and Courtroom Prep Send a text

In this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.

Listeners will learn about the often-misunderstood steps of custody litigation, including conciliations, pre-trial conferences, and evidentiary hearings. Julie explains the importance of due process, how judges approach their rulings, and why representing yourself without legal assistance can lead to costly mistakes.

Whether you’re navigating your own custody situation or simply curious about how the family court system works, this episode offers valuable insights into the legal process, the costs (both financial and emotional), and the importance of thoughtful decision-making before heading to court.

Plus, Julie and Emily reflect on the human side of the law, emphasizing the importance of having a passionate, prepared advocate by your side.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this educational episode, Julie and Emily pull back the curtain on the complexities of custody cases, focusing on how trials are scheduled, prepared, and ultimately decided. Julie shares her real-world experience managing a high-stakes case, from the years-long delays caused by procedural rules to the intense preparation required to present evidence and witnesses effectively.

Listeners will learn about the often-misunderstood steps of custody litigation, including conciliations, pre-trial conferences, and evidentiary hearings. Julie explains the importance of due process, how judges approach their rulings, and why representing yourself without legal assistance can lead to costly mistakes.

Whether you’re navigating your own custody situation or simply curious about how the family court system works, this episode offers valuable insights into the legal process, the costs (both financial and emotional), and the importance of thoughtful decision-making before heading to court.

Plus, Julie and Emily reflect on the human side of the law, emphasizing the importance of having a passionate, prepared advocate by your side.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-16224309 Wed, 04 Dec 2024 18:00:00 -0500 1588 full false Julie's Fired Up: Let's End the "Scorched Earth" Approach to Custody Julie's Fired Up: Let's End the "Scorched Earth" Approach to Custody Send a text

In this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires. 

Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children. 

We discuss the importance of letting go of past grievances, reframing issues constructively, and how the right approach can not only save time and money but also promote healthier co-parenting relationships. 

Whether you're navigating a custody case or just interested in family law, this episode offers valuable insights on how to avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on what truly matters—the well-being of the children involved.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we dive into the common pitfalls of custody battles and how taking a "scorched earth" approach often backfires. 

Julie Potts, Esq. shares real-life examples of cases where focusing on the negative failed and how shifting the narrative to a more positive, cooperative stance led to better outcomes for both parents and children. 

We discuss the importance of letting go of past grievances, reframing issues constructively, and how the right approach can not only save time and money but also promote healthier co-parenting relationships. 

Whether you're navigating a custody case or just interested in family law, this episode offers valuable insights on how to avoid unnecessary conflict and focus on what truly matters—the well-being of the children involved.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-15844236 Mon, 07 Oct 2024 06:00:00 -0400 1445 full true Splitting Holidays: How to Navigate Traditions After Divorce Splitting Holidays: How to Navigate Traditions After Divorce Send a text

In this episode, we tackle the often tricky subject of holidays post-divorce, with practical advice just in time for the holiday season. From Halloween to Christmas, Julie Potts discusses the challenges of sharing holidays, the common mistakes people make, and why it's crucial to keep the focus on the kids. With personal anecdotes and experienced insights, this episode offers tips on creating new traditions, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and managing custody schedules during the holidays. Whether it's finding a balance for Thanksgiving or letting go of Halloween disputes, this episode will help you navigate the holiday season stress-free.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we tackle the often tricky subject of holidays post-divorce, with practical advice just in time for the holiday season. From Halloween to Christmas, Julie Potts discusses the challenges of sharing holidays, the common mistakes people make, and why it's crucial to keep the focus on the kids. With personal anecdotes and experienced insights, this episode offers tips on creating new traditions, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and managing custody schedules during the holidays. Whether it's finding a balance for Thanksgiving or letting go of Halloween disputes, this episode will help you navigate the holiday season stress-free.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-15843809 Mon, 30 Sep 2024 16:00:00 -0400 1186 full true Julie-isms: Philosophies and Catch-Phrases. Julie-isms: Philosophies and Catch-Phrases. Send a text

Ever wondered what it's like to have a consult with Julie? Chances are, you'd hear at least one or two of her most frequently used "Julie-isms". 

For example, you may already be familiar with "Get a job!", but I bet you haven't heard:

  • "Litigation is a last resort, not a first response."
  • "If they're trying to get you upset, then walk away."
  • "You picked them"
  • ...and many more!

In this episode, Julie provides insights into the complexities of family law, and offers practical advice for those going through similar experiences. From discussing the philosophy of litigation as a last resort to addressing common misconceptions about custody and support, Julie's candid conversations and 'Julie-isms' will be sure to enlighten. 

Whether you're in the midst of a legal battle or just curious about the world of family law, this podcast promises to be both informative and engaging. 

Tune in for real talk, real advice, and a few laughs along the way.

Find Julie on social media:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

E-mail us at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com with your questions and comments and what you'd like to learn about in the world of family law!










Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Ever wondered what it's like to have a consult with Julie? Chances are, you'd hear at least one or two of her most frequently used "Julie-isms". 

For example, you may already be familiar with "Get a job!", but I bet you haven't heard:

  • "Litigation is a last resort, not a first response."
  • "If they're trying to get you upset, then walk away."
  • "You picked them"
  • ...and many more!

In this episode, Julie provides insights into the complexities of family law, and offers practical advice for those going through similar experiences. From discussing the philosophy of litigation as a last resort to addressing common misconceptions about custody and support, Julie's candid conversations and 'Julie-isms' will be sure to enlighten. 

Whether you're in the midst of a legal battle or just curious about the world of family law, this podcast promises to be both informative and engaging. 

Tune in for real talk, real advice, and a few laughs along the way.

Find Julie on social media:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

E-mail us at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com with your questions and comments and what you'd like to learn about in the world of family law!










Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-15476051 Thu, 25 Jul 2024 16:00:00 -0400 1907 divorce, custody, alimony, division of assets, family law full false Custody Scenarios #2: WWJD (What Would Julie Do?) Custody Scenarios #2: WWJD (What Would Julie Do?) Send a text

In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.

We cover a lot in this episode, including:

  • (00:37) Can a co-parent violate custody orders if they have mental health concerns and are worried about the safety of their children?
  • (06:41) What should you do if the other parent appears to be under the influence at a custody exchange?
  • (10:14) How do the results of mental health evaluations factor into custody?
  • (15:41) Is it possible to have to pay child support for a child who is not biologically yours if you were never married and you break up?
  • (20:34) Do I have to file for child support even if I don't want it? How does it work if I change my mind later?
  • (24:00) If my co-parent has a new significant other and my kids are spending more time with this step-parent or girl/boyfriend rather than their biological parent during their custody time, how does that work in terms of custody? Can the step-parent take over parental duties in place of the biological parent? 

Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.

We cover a lot in this episode, including:

  • (00:37) Can a co-parent violate custody orders if they have mental health concerns and are worried about the safety of their children?
  • (06:41) What should you do if the other parent appears to be under the influence at a custody exchange?
  • (10:14) How do the results of mental health evaluations factor into custody?
  • (15:41) Is it possible to have to pay child support for a child who is not biologically yours if you were never married and you break up?
  • (20:34) Do I have to file for child support even if I don't want it? How does it work if I change my mind later?
  • (24:00) If my co-parent has a new significant other and my kids are spending more time with this step-parent or girl/boyfriend rather than their biological parent during their custody time, how does that work in terms of custody? Can the step-parent take over parental duties in place of the biological parent? 

Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-14517541 Fri, 16 Feb 2024 14:00:00 -0500 1890 divorce, custody, child support, coparenting, family law, blended families full true Get a Job to Avoid Financial Abuse Get a Job to Avoid Financial Abuse Send a text

In this episode, @LawyerJulie from TikTok talks about the importance of getting a job to avoid the very common problem of financial abuse in a marriage. Should you get a job if it reduces your spousal support/alimony? How do you afford a divorce if you don't have your own bank account? Julie answers these questions and more. 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, @LawyerJulie from TikTok talks about the importance of getting a job to avoid the very common problem of financial abuse in a marriage. Should you get a job if it reduces your spousal support/alimony? How do you afford a divorce if you don't have your own bank account? Julie answers these questions and more. 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-14134373 Tue, 12 Dec 2023 11:00:00 -0500 1600 full true Britney Spears Through The Family Law Lens Britney Spears Through The Family Law Lens Send a text

Emily listened to the Britney Spears audiobook and couldn't wait to get Julie's take on her divorce and custody issues!

In this episode we discuss:

  • Generational trauma and the importance of breaking the cycle
  • If you file for divorce first do you have to pay your ex's legal fees?
  • The importance of a solid foundation
  • Should she have lost custody when she was 5150d?
  • Navigating custody cases after one parent has a severe mental breakdown and has to go to inpatient therapy and/or rehab. 
  • Did KFed have an ulterior motive for sharing the negative videos of Britney parenting?
  • Most of us aren't in tabloids, but what about personal details being posted on social media...how does that affect custody?

Disclaimer: we are not Britney Spears experts or therapists, but our opinions are the same regardless of the details.

Be sure to follow @LawyerJulie on TikTok and send her an e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com if you have a topic you'd like us to discuss! 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Emily listened to the Britney Spears audiobook and couldn't wait to get Julie's take on her divorce and custody issues!

In this episode we discuss:

  • Generational trauma and the importance of breaking the cycle
  • If you file for divorce first do you have to pay your ex's legal fees?
  • The importance of a solid foundation
  • Should she have lost custody when she was 5150d?
  • Navigating custody cases after one parent has a severe mental breakdown and has to go to inpatient therapy and/or rehab. 
  • Did KFed have an ulterior motive for sharing the negative videos of Britney parenting?
  • Most of us aren't in tabloids, but what about personal details being posted on social media...how does that affect custody?

Disclaimer: we are not Britney Spears experts or therapists, but our opinions are the same regardless of the details.

Be sure to follow @LawyerJulie on TikTok and send her an e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com if you have a topic you'd like us to discuss! 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13875196 Mon, 30 Oct 2023 15:00:00 -0400 2893 full false Random thoughts: Courts, Oaths, Water Bottles, and Pets Random thoughts: Courts, Oaths, Water Bottles, and Pets Send a text

This short episode covers a few random topics:

  • Are the courts reasonable?
  • When is it considered perjury?
  • What's the weirdest "asset" Julie saw clients fighting over?
  • Can you go to pet custody court?

Follow Julie on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you'd like answered on the podcast, e-mail her lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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This short episode covers a few random topics:

  • Are the courts reasonable?
  • When is it considered perjury?
  • What's the weirdest "asset" Julie saw clients fighting over?
  • Can you go to pet custody court?

Follow Julie on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you'd like answered on the podcast, e-mail her lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Buzzsprout-13809668 Tue, 24 Oct 2023 10:00:00 -0400 532 full false Should you record your kids for evidence? Should you record your kids for evidence? Send a text

Today @LawyerJulie talks about something she sees all the time...parents recording their kids to get video "proof" of their kids not wanting to go to the other parent's house, or the kids complaining about the other parent in general. Is this a good idea? Can this video be used in court? What do the judges think? What if it's your spouse or ex-spouse you are recording, is that helpful to your case?

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Today @LawyerJulie talks about something she sees all the time...parents recording their kids to get video "proof" of their kids not wanting to go to the other parent's house, or the kids complaining about the other parent in general. Is this a good idea? Can this video be used in court? What do the judges think? What if it's your spouse or ex-spouse you are recording, is that helpful to your case?

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13797492 Tue, 17 Oct 2023 16:00:00 -0400 1144 full true Is your ex being dishonest about their income? Is your ex being dishonest about their income? Send a text

Julie Potts Esq (aka @LawyerJulie on TikTok) talks about a very common situation in divorce/custody issues: parties not reporting an increase in income to the other side. Julie discusses some options you have to get to the truth if you suspect your ex has gotten a promotion or is working under the table, and also explains how earning potential is calculated in Pennsylvania, and when you just might have no choice but to "get a job" even if you haven't worked while in your marriage.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Julie Potts Esq (aka @LawyerJulie on TikTok) talks about a very common situation in divorce/custody issues: parties not reporting an increase in income to the other side. Julie discusses some options you have to get to the truth if you suspect your ex has gotten a promotion or is working under the table, and also explains how earning potential is calculated in Pennsylvania, and when you just might have no choice but to "get a job" even if you haven't worked while in your marriage.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13772665 Fri, 13 Oct 2023 12:00:00 -0400 903 divorce, custody, alimony, division of assets full true Custody Scenarios: WWJD (What Would Julie Do?) Custody Scenarios: WWJD (What Would Julie Do?) Send a text

In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.

We cover a lot in this episode, including:

  • Do parents have to give permission to their co-parent to take their kids far away on vacation?
  • Can a judge force a child to see a parent they don't know?
  • Is it a good idea to give up custody to avoid conflict stemming from parental alienation?
  • Is it worth going to court to get 50/50 custody when you are asked to settle on just a little less than 50%?
  • Relocation - can you buy a house an hour away and force your coparent to drive your kids to you?

Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, we take real-life custody scenarios anonymously posted on the internet and get @LawyerJulie's overall thoughts, where the law comes in to play, and some ideas of how she might handle the situation. Please remember that Julie is NOT giving legal advice and these are NOT stories from her actual clients.

We cover a lot in this episode, including:

  • Do parents have to give permission to their co-parent to take their kids far away on vacation?
  • Can a judge force a child to see a parent they don't know?
  • Is it a good idea to give up custody to avoid conflict stemming from parental alienation?
  • Is it worth going to court to get 50/50 custody when you are asked to settle on just a little less than 50%?
  • Relocation - can you buy a house an hour away and force your coparent to drive your kids to you?

Have a scenario you'd like Julie's thoughts on? Feel free to email the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com!

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13599361 Fri, 15 Sep 2023 17:00:00 -0400 2300 full true Hate your coparent? Don't tell your kids! Hate your coparent? Don't tell your kids! Send a text

One of Julie's biggest pet peeves is when one parent talks poorly about the other parent directly to, or in front of, their child.  She covers alienation, triangulation, and some true story scenarios where the kids were deeply affected by being put in the middle.  This episode has examples, practical tips, and what you might hear in court if you try to influence your child's loyalty to one parent over the other.


Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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One of Julie's biggest pet peeves is when one parent talks poorly about the other parent directly to, or in front of, their child.  She covers alienation, triangulation, and some true story scenarios where the kids were deeply affected by being put in the middle.  This episode has examples, practical tips, and what you might hear in court if you try to influence your child's loyalty to one parent over the other.


Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13259824 Thu, 27 Jul 2023 00:00:00 -0400 982 full true Your Lawyer DOES NOT CARE About Your Affair Your Lawyer DOES NOT CARE About Your Affair Send a text

In this episode, Julie talks about why you should NOT feel uncomfortable or embarrassed sharing details about infidelity with your attorney, and how the Pennsylvania court views this situation in relation to your divorce, division of assets, alimony, and custody. She also covers what exactly is covered by attorney-client privilege in family law, and is there ever a time you should withhold information from your attorney? 

Want to learn more from Julie? Check her out on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you want to be answered, you can e-mail the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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In this episode, Julie talks about why you should NOT feel uncomfortable or embarrassed sharing details about infidelity with your attorney, and how the Pennsylvania court views this situation in relation to your divorce, division of assets, alimony, and custody. She also covers what exactly is covered by attorney-client privilege in family law, and is there ever a time you should withhold information from your attorney? 

Want to learn more from Julie? Check her out on TikTok @LawyerJulie and if you have questions you want to be answered, you can e-mail the podcast at lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-13258049 Thu, 20 Jul 2023 11:00:00 -0400 1129 full true It's the Kid's Time, Not Yours! It's the Kid's Time, Not Yours! Send a text

One of @LawyerJulie's most controversial TikToks is titled "It's the kid's time, not yours!" and the comment section proved that this is a very controversial topic when co-parenting. In this episode, Julie shares some common scenarios she sees daily in regards to kid's activities and shared custody, discusses how the court typically handles these situations, and how they factor into child support payments. 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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One of @LawyerJulie's most controversial TikToks is titled "It's the kid's time, not yours!" and the comment section proved that this is a very controversial topic when co-parenting. In this episode, Julie shares some common scenarios she sees daily in regards to kid's activities and shared custody, discusses how the court typically handles these situations, and how they factor into child support payments. 

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-12905959 Wed, 24 May 2023 07:00:00 -0400 1047 full false Marry Someone You Would Divorce Marry Someone You Would Divorce Send a text

Is it weird to think about asking for a divorce if you aren't even married yet? In this episode, Family Law Attorney Julie Potts discusses how some of the more common relationship red flags can manifest during a divorce, and what you can do to avoid getting yourself into this emotionally exhausting situation in the first place.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Is it weird to think about asking for a divorce if you aren't even married yet? In this episode, Family Law Attorney Julie Potts discusses how some of the more common relationship red flags can manifest during a divorce, and what you can do to avoid getting yourself into this emotionally exhausting situation in the first place.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

]]> Julie Potts, Esq Buzzsprout-12714060 Wed, 17 May 2023 15:00:00 -0400 1604 full false Meet Julie Potts, Esq Meet Julie Potts, Esq Send a text

Julie Potts, Esq, the host of Lawfully Ever After and @LawyerJulie on TikTok, gives an overview of her legal background as well as insight into her personal motivation for becoming a family law attorney and why she wants to reach more people via a podcast platform.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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Julie Potts, Esq, the host of Lawfully Ever After and @LawyerJulie on TikTok, gives an overview of her legal background as well as insight into her personal motivation for becoming a family law attorney and why she wants to reach more people via a podcast platform.

Show Notes:

Learn more about Julie Potts, Esq on her website https://juliepottsesq.com

Follow Julie on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawyerjulie

Follow Julie on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliepotts_esq

To contact the podcast with questions, suggestions, or if you are interested in being a guest, please e-mail lawyerjulie55@gmail.com

Please remember that this podcast should not be considered legal advice, and you should always consult your own attorney if you have questions or need clarifications about your specific situation.

This episode of Lawfully After Ever was produced and edited by Emily Murphy.

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