This Devoted Life

39. Don't Let Your Faith Take a Vacation this Summer/Practical Tips & Resources for Family Discipleship

Tue, 24 Jun 2025 12:00:00 -0400

Faith doesn't have to take a summer vacation. When our four-year-old surprised us by announcing the summer solstice meant "the days are getting shorter," it sparked an important realization: summer presents both challenges and opportunities for keeping our children's faith formation active.

Summer spirituality doesn't require complicated systems or rigid schedules. Simple family worship nights happen organically in our home when my husband grabs his guitar and the kids collect makeshift instruments – from upside-down pans to plastic cups. These spontaneous moments often create the most meaningful spiritual memories.

Morning devotionals provide another anchor point during unstructured summer days. Resources like "The Treasure: Ancient Story Ever New," "I Am: 40 Reasons to Trust God," or children's Picture Bibles offer accessible entry points to Scripture. The goal isn't completing every page but establishing the habit of turning to God's Word together daily.

Scripture memorization becomes more natural during summer's relaxed pace. Whether choosing Psalm 19:14, the Fruit of the Spirit from Galatians 5:22-23, or longer passages like Romans 12:1-2, consistency is key. As one beloved poem reminds us: "Little drops of water, little grains of sand, make the mighty ocean and the pleasant land."

Family read-alouds – from church history to The Green Ember series or even The Lord of the Rings – create opportunities for meaningful discussions that naturally reinforce biblical values without forced spiritualization. Meanwhile, intentional acts of kindness teach children that faith extends beyond Sunday mornings into practical expressions of Christ's love.

What matters most isn't perfection but intentionality. If you miss a day or only complete half your planned devotional, simply begin again tomorrow. These small, consistent moments – "humble though they be" – accumulate into a lifetime of faith that will sustain your children long after summer ends.

How are you keeping Christ at the center of your family's summer? Share your ideas with us at podcast@thisdevotedlife.com or message us on Instagram @devoted_motherhood. And don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a friend who could use some summer faith encouragement!

Links : (may contain affiliate links)

Fruit of the Spirit Resource

The Treasure: Ancient Story Ever New of Jesus and His Church by Marty Machowski

WonderFull: Ancient Psalms Ever New by Marty Machowski

I Am: 40 Bible Stories, Devotions, and Prayers About the Names of God by Diane Stortz

Complete Illustrated Children’s Bible

Morning and Evening by Charles Spurgeon

The Daily Grace Devotionals (use code SHANDA10 at checkout)

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

38. Strong Fathers Create Stronger Families: A Father's Day Reflection

Tue, 10 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

The statistics are staggering: one in four American children grow up without a father figure, leading to profound consequences in education, poverty rates, and even incarceration. But behind these numbers lies a deeper truth about God's design for fatherhood that our culture often overlooks or undermines.

In this Father's Day special, we unpack the biblical blueprint for fatherhood that stands in stark contrast to popular media portrayals of dads as incompetent bumblers. Drawing from scripture and practical experience, we explore how fathers are called to be spiritual leaders, loving providers, and models of Christ's love within their families. The impact of a present, engaged father reverberates through generations – not just in avoiding negative outcomes, but in actively nurturing children who thrive.

What does it mean to discipline with grace? How can fathers model humility and repentance? We discuss practical ways fathers can connect spiritually with their children through consistent, authentic moments – whether singing praise songs together, praying as a family, or simply showing up day after day. These seemingly small actions create the foundation upon which children build their understanding of both earthly and heavenly fatherhood.

For mothers listening, we offer encouragement on supporting and uplifting the fathers in your children's lives. And for those without fathers or whose fathers were absent, we acknowledge your experience while pointing to how our Heavenly Father can fill those gaps with His perfect love.

Whether you're a new dad, a seasoned father, or someone who influences children's lives, this episode offers both the encouragement and challenge to embrace the high calling of fatherhood. The good news? You don't have to be perfect – you simply need to be present, intentional, and faithful.

Listen now to discover why strong fathers create stronger families, and how you can make a difference that lasts for generations.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

37. Spiritual Spring Cleaning: Decluttering Home and Heart

Tue, 03 Jun 2025 05:00:00 -0400

The spiritual practice of spring cleaning reveals the powerful connection between our physical spaces and our inner lives. As James and Shanda explore in this enlightening conversation, decluttering isn't just about managing possessions—it's about creating space for what truly matters.

Drawing from biblical foundations, they examine how ancient wisdom about cleanliness in Levitical law reflects God's care for both our physical and spiritual wellbeing. From the purification rituals after childbirth to the annual Passover cleansing, these practices weren't arbitrary rules but reflected a deeper understanding of how our external environments impact our internal lives.

Between stories of archery tournaments and family cleaning days, a beautiful truth emerges: maintaining order in our homes can be an act of worship and stewardship. The relief that comes from tackling neglected spaces mirrors the spiritual refreshment of addressing the clutter in our souls—whether that's lingering bitterness, unhealthy control issues, or other spiritual challenges we've allowed to accumulate.

The conversation turns practical as they share their personal decluttering rhythms (twice yearly for Shanda) and how identifying what matters most to your spouse can transform your cleaning efforts into meaningful acts of love. Their vulnerability shines through as they discuss their own spiritual decluttering journeys—James working through control issues and Shanda learning to trust God more fully.

Most powerfully, they remind us that just as darkness is the absence of light, our spiritual blind spots become visible when we draw near to God through consistent spiritual disciplines. Regular time in Scripture, prayer, and self-examination doesn't just maintain spiritual health—it creates capacity for greater joy, peace, and effectiveness in ministry to others.

Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by physical disorder or spiritual heaviness, this episode offers both biblical wisdom and practical encouragement for creating space—in your home and your heart—for renewal. Join James and Shanda as they explore how cleaning house, both literally and figuratively, can become a profound spiritual practice.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

36. Special Episode: Determination Over Inspiration/Our 12-Year-Old's Conversation with S.D. Smith

Tue, 13 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

A 12-year-old boy's conversation with his favorite author becomes a masterclass in creative purpose and vocational calling. When young Dawson sits down with children's writer S.D. Smith, their exchange transcends typical author interviews, revealing profound truths about how faith shapes our creative pursuits.

Smith captivates us by comparing writing to the athletic "flow state" – that magical zone where challenges stretch us without overwhelming us, creating a sanctuary where time slows and creativity thrives. He reveals how his storytelling began organically through bedtime stories with his children, establishing a foundation of hospitality and genuine love that extends to his thousands of readers today. This authenticity offers a refreshing alternative to the performance-driven approach so many creatives feel pressured to adopt.

Most powerfully, Smith articulates a distinctly Christian understanding of creative vocation. Rather than waiting for inspiration to strike, he emphasizes determination. Instead of seeking fame or self-expression, he approaches writing as service. "All vocations are about love and service," he explains, whether farming, pastoring, parenting, or storytelling. This perspective invites us to reconsider our own work – whatever it may be – as an opportunity to participate in God's ongoing creation and care for others. For any listener navigating today's self-focused culture, Smith's wisdom reminds us that true fulfillment comes through aligning our gifts with eternal purposes, living devoted to truth rather than merely pursuing personal passion.

Ready to discover how your unique calling can become an expression of faith? Listen now, then share your thoughts or questions with us.

Links:
Green Ember Book

Connect with SD Smith:
Website: SDSmith
Helmer in the Dragon Tomb: Kickstarter Campaign

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

35. SD Smith: Stories That Shape Our Children/Advocate vs Accuser/New Book!

Tue, 06 May 2025 05:00:00 -0400

"All of life is a battle against fear. We fight it on one front and it sneaks around to our flank." These powerful words from SD Smith's Green Ember series perfectly capture the heart of our conversation with the beloved author whose rabbit-centric adventure stories have sold over a million copies and captivated families worldwide.

Sam Smith joins us to share how what began as bedtime stories for his four children transformed into a literary phenomenon that helps shape children into "children of light, piercing the darkness around them." With disarming humility, Sam reveals that despite his publishing success, he believes his greatest creative achievement will always be his family. "I'll never make anything that will have more of an impact in the world than the four human beings that Jane and I are raising," he reflects, challenging the notion that family obligations hinder creative work.

As we explore the landscape of children's literature, Sam articulates why modern stories often fall short – they place children at the universe's center rather than helping them find their place within something greater. Drawing from influences like C.S. Lewis and Tolkien, he explains how truly great stories offer moral clarity without sacrificing complexity, allowing young readers to witness both the consequences of bad choices and the beauty of repentance. "I want to introduce the romance, the adventure of goodness," Sam shares, revealing his mission to show children that truth isn't a cage but a key to freedom.

Perhaps most compelling is Sam's distinction between being an advocate versus an accuser – choosing to create and champion good things rather than merely criticizing what's wrong. This philosophy extends to his newest venture: a video game companion to his upcoming book "Helmer and the Dragon Tomb," designed without the predatory features that plague modern gaming. It's a bold move into new territory, but one that remains faithful to his mission of serving families through wholesome, imagination-kindling media.

Ready to discover stories that will shape your children's moral imagination? Visit sdsmith.com to explore the Green Ember series and support Sam's groundbreaking book and game project on Kickstarter today!

Links:
Green Ember Book

Connect with SD Smith:
Website: SDSmith
Hemler in the Dragon Tomb: Kickstarter Campaign

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

34. Whitney Newby: Lift Your Eyes - Finding God's Presence in Life's Chaos

Tue, 29 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

The divine moments hidden in motherhood's chaos come alive in our conversation with Whitney Newby, founder of Brighter Day Press and author of "Lift Your Eyes." Whitney's transition from nurse to entrepreneur reveals how unexpected detours can become our greatest purpose.

When the pandemic halted her nursing career in 2020, Whitney transformed her family's morning time routine into resources that now serve countless homeschool families. The business has flourished to where her husband left his worship pastor role to join her full-time, showcasing their complementary partnership in both business and homeschooling their four children.

Whitney's storytelling captivates as she shares receiving a left foot-shaped cookie cutter—exactly matching her unborn son's suspected club foot—with words from Psalm 139 at her gender reveal party. This remarkable confirmation that God sees our deepest fears demonstrates His intimate involvement in our lives.

For the daily struggles of motherhood, Whitney offers practical wisdom through concepts like saying "change of assignment" when interrupted and praying aloud with children during stressful moments. Her perspective transforms mundane tasks into meaningful participation in God's ongoing work of creating order from chaos.

Based on Psalm 121, Whitney's devotional addresses forty common motherhood scenarios through God's character as Helper, Provider, Protector, and Shepherd. She reminds us that motherhood's value isn't measured by worldly standards but by faithful presence in the assignment God has given.

Whether you're knee-deep in diapers, navigating the tween years, or anywhere between, this episode will lift your eyes to see God's hand in every interruption, challenge, and ordinary Tuesday morning breakfast. Follow Whitney @brighterdaypress or visit brighterdaypress.com for resources that will enrich your family's faith journey.

Links (may contain affiliate links):
Lift Your Eyes by Whitney Newby
We Shall All Be Changed by Whitney Pipkin
Jesus On Every Page by David Murray

Connect with Whitney:
Website: Brighter Day Press
Instagram: @brighterdaypress

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

33. SarahRuth Owens: Beyond the Curriculum- Nurturing Hearts Through Education and Togetherness

Tue, 22 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

When longtime friends reconnect after seven years, the conversation flows effortlessly from educational philosophy to practical motherhood wisdom. Join Shanda and her special guest SarahRuth Owens (@kindletogetherness) as they share insights gleaned from their weekend at a Charlotte Mason homeschool conference in Tennessee.

SarahRuth reveals how her family "flipped the script" on traditional roles, creating a lifestyle where both parents actively participate in their children's education and daily lives. This approach—which she calls "kindled togetherness"—required unconventional choices, including teaching ESL to Chinese students at 3am so she could be fully present with her family during the day.

The heart of Charlotte Mason education comes alive as SarahRuth explains why this approach resonated with her even before motherhood: "This is a uniquely created person by God, and how can I teach them to love the world God made so much that they're willing to learn about it for the rest of their lives?" Both women share their experiences from the conference's immersion day, where they stepped into students' shoes to gain fresh perspective on the method's rigor and beauty.

Don't miss SarahRuth's insights about her new devotional resource with Hosanna Revival called "The Everyday Banquet," which combines family mealtime with scripture-centered conversation. Drawing from her Jewish heritage, she created 52 weekly devotionals designed to foster meaningful family connections around the dinner table.

Through candid discussion about morning routines, motherhood seasons, and the importance of being filled before pouring out, this episode offers practical encouragement for anyone seeking to center their family life on Christ. Subscribe, share, and join us in discovering how to live a life devoted to God and family.

Links:
The Everyday Banquet

Connect with SaraRuth!
Visit her website: Kindle Togetherness
Connect on Instagram: @kindletogetherness

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

32. Elizabeth Santelmann: Finishing the Homeschool Year Strong/Fascinating History/Snakes and Scripture

Tue, 15 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Have you ever felt that nagging guilt when your homeschool motivation wanes as the weather turns nice? Or when your spiritual disciplines take a backseat during busy parenting seasons? Our conversation with Elizabeth Santelmann offers refreshing perspectives on finishing the homeschool year strong while nurturing your spiritual life.

Elizabeth, a homeschooling mother of three boys, author, curriculum creator, and host of the Sunshine in my Nest podcast, brings authenticity and biblical wisdom to these common struggles. From her Oklahoma rattlesnake encounter during a weighted vest hike to her insights on medieval history across cultures, Elizabeth's passion for learning and teaching shines through in every story.

What truly resonates is her approach to both education and spiritual growth: small, consistent steps create lasting impact. Rather than striving for perfect homeschool days or idealized quiet times, Elizabeth advocates for finding success in manageable pieces. "It's easier to fill a glass with drip, drip, drip than bursts of water," she explains, sharing how a simple index card notebook filled with Bible verses transformed her devotional life during overwhelming seasons of motherhood.

The conversation ventures into fascinating territory as Elizabeth discusses her medieval history curriculum, which explores how Africa experienced a Golden Age while Europe endured the Dark Ages, and how the Great Wall of China rose alongside European castles. Her passion for showing God's hand throughout global history provides a model for teaching children to view all cultures through a biblical lens.

Whether you're a homeschool parent looking for end-of-year motivation, a believer seeking sustainable spiritual practices, or someone curious about how faith intersects with education, this conversation offers practical wisdom and heartfelt encouragement. Listen now and discover how small steps in faith and education can create mountains of growth in your family's life!

Resources: (May contain affiliate links)
Weighted Ruck Vest
Praying the Bible
Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life

Connect with Elizabeth!
Website: Sunshine in my Nest
Podcast: Sunshine in my Nest Podcast

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

31: Conflict in Marriage: A Biblical Look at How to Handle Conflict with Your Spouse

Tue, 08 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Marriage conflict – it's the reality every couple faces, but few know how to navigate effectively. In this candid conversation, we pull back the curtain on one of the most requested topics from our listeners: how to handle disagreements in marriage with biblical wisdom.

What truly lies at the heart of marital discord? The scripture points clearly to selfishness and pride as the root causes of conflict. We share a personal story about a recent disagreement that could have festered but was quickly resolved through a simple act of humility. This perfectly illustrates how "keeping short accounts" prevents bitterness from taking root and damaging your relationship over time.

The biblical principles we explore provide practical guidance for any marriage. From speaking truth in love (without weaponizing correctness) to offering a soft answer that turns away wrath, these timeless truths transform how couples communicate. We discuss real-world applications like asking questions to understand your spouse's perspective, praying before confrontation, and seeking unity rather than victory.

For couples navigating more complex issues, we offer wisdom on when and how to seek godly counsel – with an important warning about the difference between finding someone who validates your position versus someone who helps you discover biblical truth. Throughout the episode, we emphasize that while you can't change your spouse, your response dramatically influences the outcome of any conflict.

Whether you're in a season of harmony or struggling through difficult conversations, these biblical approaches to conflict resolution create the peaceful, loving home every family desires. Join us for this honest, scripture-based discussion that will equip you with practical tools to strengthen your marriage through even the most challenging disagreements.

Scripture:
Ephesians 4:31 - "And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you."

James 4:1 - "From whence come wars and fightings among you? come they not hence, even of your lusts that war in your members?"

Proverbs 13:10 - "Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom."

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - "Charity sufferers long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up..."

Ephesians 4:15 - "But speaking the truth in love, may grow up into him in all things, which is the head, even Christ."

Proverbs 15:1 - "A soft answer turners away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger."

Ephesians 4:26-27 - "Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: neither give place to the devil."

Colossians 3:13 - "Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."

Philippians 4:6-7 - "Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God."

James 1:19 - "Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath."

Mark 10:8-9 - "And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but on flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder."

Proverbs 11:14 - "Where no counsel is, the people fall" but in the multitude of counsellors there is safety."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

30: Overcoming Mom Guilt: Finding Grace in Motherhood

Tue, 01 Apr 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Ever caught yourself thinking, "I'm such a bad mom"? That heavy feeling of mom guilt is exactly what we're unpacking in this raw, honest conversation. What began as a late-night confession in our bedroom became this episode aimed at both encouraging you and helping us process our own struggles with feeling inadequate as parents.

Mom guilt manifests in countless ways—comparing ourselves to seemingly perfect mothers on social media, struggling with work-life balance, losing patience with our children, or feeling spiritually inadequate to guide them. These feelings aren't just uncomfortable; they can be paralyzing and prevent us from being the present, joyful mothers we want to be.

But what does Scripture say about these feelings? We explore powerful verses from 2 Corinthians, Romans, and Colossians that remind us God's grace covers our imperfections, there is no condemnation for those in Christ, and our identity rests in Him—not in our performance as parents. These truths form the foundation for practical strategies to overcome guilt: prioritizing even five minutes in God's Word, trading comparison for contentment, embracing imperfection (and modeling apologies), and building supportive communities.

Perhaps most importantly, we remind each other—and you—that God specifically chose you to parent your children. He knew exactly what kind of mother they would need, with your unique strengths, weaknesses, and personality. When mom guilt threatens to overwhelm, remember Jesus calming the storm with "Peace, be still." His Word brings the same peace to the turbulent emotions of motherhood. You are seen, known, loved, and chosen for this sacred work.

Share this episode with another mom who might need to hear she's not alone in her struggles. Subscribe for more conversations about living a life devoted to faith, family, and authentic Christian living.

Resources: (may contain affiliate links)
Megan Woods – The Truth Song
Paul Tripp – New Morning Mercies
Sally Clarkson – Mom Heart Moments
Charles Spurgeon – Morning and Evening

Scripture:
2 Corinthians 12:19 - "And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness. Most gladly therefore will I rather flory I Amy infinities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me."

Romans 8:1 - "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit."

Colossians 3:23 - "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men."

James 1:5 - "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be give him."

Proverbs 14:30 - "A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones."

Galatians 6:2 - "Bear ye one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."

Psalm 139:13-14 - "For thou has possessed my reins: thou has covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made" marvelous are thy works; and that my soul knowers right well."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

29: Is Paul Saladino on to something? The Truth Behind Food Industry Claims

Tue, 25 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

When it comes to navigating the complex world of health and nutrition, the journey often feels overwhelming. How do we sift through conflicting information and find a balanced approach that works for our families?

Join us for an honest conversation as we break down key insights from Paul Saladino's appearance on the PBD Podcast, discussing everything from the influence of pharmaceutical companies on our healthcare system to practical steps anyone can take toward better health. We're not claiming to be experts—we're simply sharing how we process and apply health information in our own lives.

Our health choices impact not just ourselves but everyone watching us, especially our children. We share how our family navigates these decisions, finding balance between healthy choices and realistic living in a busy world. Remember, the goal isn't perfection but progress—small, consistent improvements that add up significantly over time.

Leave us a review if you found this helpful, and share with friends who might benefit from a balanced approach to health and nutrition. We're all on this journey together!

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

Devoted Devotional: Rainbows in Bubbles - Seeing God's Goodness Everywhere

Thu, 20 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

We explore the transformative power of thankfulness, sharing biblical insights and practical ways to cultivate gratitude in everyday life. From discovering rainbows in soap bubbles to understanding how thankfulness centers our relationship with God, this devotional unpacks how gratitude shifts our perspective from circumstances to God's unchanging goodness.

• Discussing the challenge of listing 1,000 things to be thankful for from Ann Voskamp's book "1,000 Gifts"
• Examining Psalm 106:1 and how thankfulness is rooted in God's character, not our circumstances
• Exploring the ACTS prayer model (Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, Supplication)
• Understanding how thankfulness connects to our victory in Christ (1 Corinthians 15:57)
• Finding God's peace through gratitude amid a chaotic, noisy world
• Recognizing that thankfulness requires intentionality and "eyes to see" God's gifts

Seek God, love your spouse, be thankful and stay devoted.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

28: Living in Gratitude - Turning Trials into Triumph

Tue, 18 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

Gratitude transforms not just our outlook but our entire lives—yet finding reasons to be thankful during difficult seasons requires intentional practice. In this heart-stirring episode, we explore how 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 offers a deceptively simple formula for Christian living: rejoice always, pray without ceasing, and give thanks in everything.

We share powerful stories of gratitude in seemingly impossible circumstances, including Corrie ten Boom thanking God for fleas in a concentration camp barracks (which later proved to be their protection), and reflect on how our own difficult seasons often reveal themselves as disguised blessings. When Shanda experienced miscarriage and infertility struggles, they ultimately deepened her faith and developed compassion that wouldn't have existed otherwise.

The spiritual danger of a complaining spirit can't be overstated—it spreads negativity to everyone around us and undermines our witness. By contrast, genuine thankfulness becomes contagious, drawing others toward Christ as they witness peace that transcends circumstances.

We also discuss our parenting approach of teaching children three essential qualities: obedience, respect, and thankfulness. Like the one healed leper who returned to thank Jesus while nine others rushed away, we want our children to recognize God's goodness in every circumstance.

Through personal stories, biblical examples, and a thoughtful review of "The Giver" (which portrays a society that eliminated suffering but lost love and color in the process), this episode offers practical ways to cultivate gratitude that will transform your perspective even during life's most challenging seasons.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

Devoted Devotional: Living God's Truth in a Digital World

Thu, 13 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

James and Shanda introduce their new "Devoted Devotional" series focusing on applying biblical truths to everyday life, diving into what Scripture teaches about social media use and intentional living in a digital world.

• Shanda shares her experience taking a three-month social media break and the impact it had on her perspective
• Implementing boundaries such as "no social media before noon" helps maintain focus on family and priorities
• James discusses removing social media apps from his phone to reduce mindless scrolling and increase intentionality
• Ephesians 4:29 reminds us that our online communication should be edifying, not corrupt
• Psalm 101 warns against setting wicked things before our eyes, challenging us to be selective about what we consume
• Matthew 5:29 emphasizes the importance of taking drastic measures if something causes you to stumble
• Ephesians 5:16 encourages redeeming our time wisely rather than wasting it online
• 1 Corinthians 10:13 offers comfort that we aren't alone in our struggles with technology
• Biblical principles apply to modern challenges even when the specific technology didn't exist when Scripture was written

Continue to seek God, love your spouse, hug your kids, and stay devoted. Leave us a review and share these episodes with friends to help them live this devoted life too.

Links:
Should you take a social media break?

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

27: The importance of godly friends. How can we equip our children to live in "Babylon?"

Tue, 11 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we dive into the vital role that godly friendships play in our spiritual journey. How do our closest relationships shape our faith? What qualities should we look for in friends who will encourage, uplift, and challenge us in our walk with God? Join us as we explore biblical wisdom on friendship, share personal stories, and discuss practical ways to build and nurture meaningful, faith-centered connections.

Listen now and be inspired to surround yourself with the kind of friendships that draw you closer to God!

What you can expect:
0:40 – Finding balance
5:35 – Daniel and his friends: Did they have good parents?
The importance of godly friends:
9:26 –Good friends strengthen your faith
16:07 – Good friends pray for each other
18:02 – Good friends encourage you to do what is right
20:59 – Help your kids choose good friends
31:38 – James is reading Traction by Gino Wickman

Scripture:
Daniel 1:4 – “Children in whom was no blemish, but well favored, and skillful in all wisdom, and cunning in knowledge, and understanding science, and such as had ability in them to stand in the king's palace, and whom they might teach the learning and the tongue of the Chaldeans.”

Daniel 1:8 – “But Daniel purposed in his heart that he would not defile himself with the portion of the king's meat, nor with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself.”

Daniel 2:17-18 – “Then Daniel went to his house, and made the thing known to Hananiah, Mishael, and Azariah, his companions: That they would desire mercies of the God of heaven concerning this secret; that Daniel and his fellows should not perish with the rest of the wise men of Babylon.”

Daniel 3:16-18 – “Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, answered and said to the king, O Nebuchadnezzar, we are not careful to answer thee in this matter. If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of thine hand, O king. But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up.”

James 1:5 - “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.”

Proverbs 22:6 – “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

Devoted Devotional - Can you spot the counterfeit? What does the Bible say about God's Word?

Thu, 06 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0500

We are starting something new! We wanted to do a mid-week "mini" podcast that focuses heavily on God's Word and what he has to say about varying topics.

Today, we are talking about how you can spot the counterfeit ideologies that the world will throw at you.

Let us know what you think about these new mini episodes!

Verses:

2 Timothy 3:16 - "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:"

Hebrews 4:12 - "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart."

Matthew 4:4 - "But he answered and said, It is written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceedeth out of the mouth of God."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

26: Do you struggle to pray? Transform your prayer life and give your kids vision for the future.

Tue, 04 Mar 2025 05:00:00 -0500

Shanda has been reading a couple books by Donald Whitney that give practical ideas for deepening your prayer life and help you give your children vision for the future God has for them. Our purpose here on earth is to become more Christ-like, and these few tips can help us look more like Christ.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
0:50 – God gives your kids gifts and passions
4:10 – Praying the Bible Book
6:11 – Does prayer feel boring to you?
9:10 – One solution to a boring prayer life!
14:05 – Does it work? I tried this!
18:30 – Spiritual Disciplines for a Christian Life Book
20:28 – Discipline without vision is drudgery
22:40 – Do you SEE what I’m saying?
28:37 – Practical ways to “cast vision” for your children

Links:
Brick Science YouTube Channel (Lego)
Keeping It Young Podcast

Books:
Praying the Bible
Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life

Scripture:
Psalm 23:1-2 - The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.

Proverbs 29:18 - Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.

Quote:
“But Elisabeth Elliot is more precise when she explains that ‘freedom and discipline have come to be regarded as mutually exclusive, when in fact freedom is not at all the opposite, but the final reward, of discipline.’”

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

25: New Season! Both in life and the podcast... join us for a life update!

Tue, 25 Feb 2025 05:00:00 -0500

It's been a while! But we are back and ready to share what God has been doing in our lives the past few months. We are in a new season of life and a new season of the podcast. We hope you will join us in the coming weeks to learn alongside one another and to deepen our relationship with Christ.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
0:40 – We’re back! Entering into a new season of a podcast and life!
5:40 – James turned 40! Is it possible to surprise him?
15:18 – Is this the best day of my life?
17:50 – We got chickens!
22:36 – What does the Bible say?
24:40 – Plan Peace Have Joy
29:15 – Do you make new year’s resolutions?
32:54 – Books/Podcasts we are learning from (Birchbark House and An Old-Fashioned Girl)
38:09 – What are we watching on TV as a family?
41:00 – What can you expect from our podcasts moving forward?

Links:
Shop Scripture Graphics
Plan Peace Have Joy

Books we have read:
Birchbark House
An Old-Fashioned Girl

May contain affiliate links.

Verses:
Proverbs 12:20 – “Those who plan peace have joy”

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

24: 5 Tips for a Tidy Home (from Parents of 4 Kids!)

Wed, 10 Apr 2024 05:00:00 -0400

Small habits yield big change! As someone who is not a naturally tidy person, I (Shanda) share five small tips I have learned to help keep a tidy home. As a busy mom to 4 kiddos, I know how valuable time is! So I'm sharing the things I do in my own home that help me create a haven for my family. We are not minimalists, nor do we expect our home to be pristine, but these simple habits have helped lay the foundation for a tidy home.

Affiliate Links:
How to Manage Your Home without Losing Your Mind

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

23: Making Money with a Side Hustle & How to Die with Zero

Thu, 14 Mar 2024 05:00:00 -0400

We received great feedback from our last episode on family finances! You can find that episode HERE. One of our listeners asked, "Can James share some ways to supplement our family finances apart from our day jobs?" So in this episode we attempt to answer that question with practical examples.

James also recently read a book called Die with Zero. This book really challenged him to think and re-evaluate some financial goals. We discuss the book and how it has impacted our lives so far.

Quotes:
“The business of life is acquiring memories.” - Die With Zero

Verses:
James 4:14 - "yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes."

Affiliate Links:
Die With Zero Book
Eathley Wellness - Use code: DEVOTEDMAMA10 at checkout

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

22: 10 Ways to IMPROVE Your Family Finances & Thoughts on Stewardship from Elisabeth Elliot

Thu, 29 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Often finances can be a taboo topic within Christian circles, but the Bible is clear that we are to be wise stewards of everything we have been given. Today, we are discussing the topic of stewardship and sharing practical ways to improve your finances and how to communicate within a marriage about the topic of money.

Verses:
1 Timothy 6:10a - "For the love of money is the root of all evil"
1 Timothy 6:6 - "But godliness with contentment is great gain."
Mark 10:8 - "and the two shall become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two but one flesh."
Ephesians 5:16 - "Redeeming the time, because the days are evil."
Matthew 25:23 - " His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant. You have been faithful over a little; I will set you over much. Enter into the joy of your master.’ "

Links:
Keep a Quiet Heart
Wealth Can't Wait
The Money Guys
Dave Ramsey

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

21: Creating memories/Joe Rogan & Gary Brecka Podcast/This one thing will ruin your life!

Thu, 15 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0500

Podcasts are a great way to continue learning and growing, so this week we are sharing a few things we have learned from podcasts we have listened to recently.

Joe Rogan and Gary Brecka share some information about the MTHFR gene mutation and how folic acid plays a roll.
James also shares some biblical insight he gained while listening to a hunting podcast this past week. It's not what you might expect!

Verses:
Ephesians 4:29 - "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear."

1 Thessalonians 5:8 - "give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."

James 3:17 - "For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice."

Links:
Joe Rogan/ Gary Brecka Podcast

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

20: WE'RE BACK! Should you take a social media break? "12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You"

Thu, 01 Feb 2024 05:00:00 -0500

After a lengthy social media break, WE ARE BACK and with renewed vision and purpose!

Shanda took an almost 2 month social media break, so today we are breaking down the lessons she learned while taking a break. By the end of the episode, we hope you are encouraged to take an introspective look at your social media consumption and decide, "Should I take a social media break?"

In the last third of this episode, we discuss the book "12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You" and dive briefly into the 12 areas your mind is being trained by your phone. We believe technology is a gift, but as with anything, we need to vigilant in how we use the gifts we have been given. Hopefully this is an eye-opening episode for you!

Links:
12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

19: Homeschool Q&A Part 2 - Answering YOUR Questions!

Sat, 12 Aug 2023 06:00:00 -0400

We are continuing our conversation from last week and will be answering more of your questions regarding homeschooling in this episode. Whether you are currently homeschooling and want a peek into how others are homeschooling or you are curious about homeschooling or considering it for your family, this episode is for you!

To listen to the first Homeschool Q&A Episode: CLICK HERE

Questions we answer in this episode:
How to carve out time for household chores while homeschooling?
At what age would you start tracing and learning to write letters?
What curriculum do you use?
Do you finish all your curriculum every year?
Balance between having school time and having free-play when the outside is calling?
How to stay on track and keep records of work and progress?
If not following a curriculum, should I follow state standards?
How do you teach a second language?
Where do you find your curriculums?
Did you ever fear your kids only being as smart as you are?
Subjects for kindergarten? Science and Social Studies?

Curriculum Links:
The Good and the Beautiful
A Gentle Feast
Sabbath Mood
F.O.R.M. Health and Wellness (Use code DEVOTED for 15% off)
Talkbox.Mom (Use code DEVOTED20 for $20 off your first Talkbox and Book Bundle)

Miscellaneous Links:
Trello
Forcing Preschoolers To Write Too Young Is Pointless
Talkbox.Mom YouTube Review
HSLDA

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

18: Homeschool Q&A Part 1 - Answering YOUR Questions!

Sat, 05 Aug 2023 09:00:00 -0400

A few weeks back, we asked YOU what you wanted to know about homeschooling, so today (and next week's episode), we are going to be answering those questions!

We chose not to script these episodes because we want our answers to be like we are sitting down and chatting over a cup of coffee. We wanted to give honest feedback about homeschooling and what we truly think about it.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
2:25 - Tips for Homeschooling While Also Caring for a Toddler/Infant?
10:10 - Curriculum for the "Why" Behind Letter Sounds and Rules?
14:04 - Any Tips for Homeschool Dads Who Are Leading the Homeschool?
20:36 - How to Change Mindset From Public Schooling to Homeschooling?
24:50 - Is There a Book to Learn About Different Styles of Homeschool and What is Best For Our Family?

Correction:
Charlotte Mason advocated for formal education to start at the age of 6. She had 20 principles she used to guide her schooling philosophy.

Links:
Episode on Postpartum Depression
The Good and the Beautiful
A Gentle Feast
What Kind of Homeschooler Am I? Test
Call of the Wild & Free
For the Children's Sake
Charlotte Mason Companion
Not mentioned but also a great book: Modern Miss Mason

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

17: Pros and Cons of Homeschooling / Are the "cons" just opportunities?

Thu, 27 Jul 2023 11:00:00 -0400

There are no perfect educational systems, so in this episode we want to be transparent about some of the pros and cons we have experienced within our homeschooling journey. You might be surprised to learn that the cons are not as "negative" as you might imagine. Rather, they are opportunities for growth.

As always, we would love to hear from you! Be sure to send us any questions or feedback that you have.

Links:
Raising Brave Kids - Episode 6
100 Gentle Lessons in Sight and Sound
YouTube Homeschool Playlist

Quotes:
Simplicity Parenting by Kim John Payne - "Meaning hides in repetition: We do this every day or every week because it matters. We are connected by this thing we do together. We matter to one another. In the tapestry of childhood, what stands out is not the splashy, blow-out trip to Disneyland but the common threads that run throughout and repeat: the family dinners, nature walks, reading together at bedtime (with a hot water bottle at our feet on winter evenings), Saturday morning pancakes."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

16: Why We Homeschool / How to Talk With Your Spouse About Homeschooling / Apprehensions Debunked

Thu, 20 Jul 2023 05:00:00 -0400

Did we always plan to homeschool? What did James think about homeschooling initially? What are some common myths surrounding homeschooling? How do I talk to my spouse about homeschooling if they are not on board with it yet?

These are just a few of the questions we are answering in today's podcast! Stay tuned... we are turning this into a series!

Let us know if you have any specific questions regarding homeschooling. We would love to answer them in an upcoming episode!

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
0:33 - Intro to Homeschooling Series
2:01 - Why We Homeschool
7:08 - Talking to a Spouse that is Not on Board with Homeschooling
15:30 - Is homeschooling the best way?
19:28 - What Happened When We Decided to Dual Enroll Our Son in Private School
23:00 - Apprehensions Debunked - Socialization
26:00 - Apprehensions Debunked - Limited Resources
30:45 - Apprehensions Debunked - Is Homeschooling As Good As Public Education?
32:50 - Apprehensions Debunked - Social Perception
38:30 - Hold Homeschooling Loosely
40:45 - What does James now think about homeschooling after 6+ years?

Links:
Why Colleges Like Homeschooling Students

References:
Deuteronomy 6:5-9 - "You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

15: Hard Motherhood Moments / Best Question to Ask Yourself / Meeting Jocko / Mid-Year Check-In

Wed, 12 Jul 2023 22:00:00 -0400

The title seems a bit disjointed, but we promise it makes sense and works together!

At a glance:
- Join us as we discuss hard moments in parenting and how we can keep a positive mindset by asking ourselves good questions.
- We also recently met Jocko Willink and discuss his ideas surrounding mental health.
-It's hard to believe we are over half-way through the year! So it's time to do a mid-year check-in on goals that we set 6 months ago.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:25 - Making Church a Priority
3:20 - One of Shanda's "Worst" Parenting Moments
7:15 - When You Feel Like You Are Drowning
9:30 - Best Question to Ask Yourself When You Feel Like You Are Failing
14:35 - Second-Best Question to Ask
17:13 - Meeting Jocko and his ideas for supporting people we are struggling mentally
27:30 - How are you doing on your New Year's goals?
32:00 - NEW Cultivate Devotional

Links:
CULTIVATE: Biblical Lessons from the Garden
Jocko Podcast
The Way of the Warrior Kid Book

References:
Hebrews 10:25 - " Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching."

Lamentations 3:22-23 - " It is of the LORD'S mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

14: Rogan/RFK Jr Podcast. Should you vaccinate your kids? Was Solomon really wise?

Sun, 25 Jun 2023 08:00:00 -0400

If you have been on social media lately, you may have heard of the Joe Rogan Podcast with RFK Jr and their discussion on vaccinations. In this episode, we are having a fireside chat as we share some thoughts on the podcast as well as our personal decisions regarding vaccinations.

We have been reading through the life of Solomon the past few weeks, and we share some thoughts on his life and seeking wisdom. We receive so much information in our world, so it is so important to seek wisdom and continue to apply it to our lives.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
Was Solomon Really Wise?
Asking God for Wisdom
Rogan/RFK Jr Podcast Synopsis
Do we vaccinate? Why or why not?
Make informed decisions.

Links:
Joe Rogan Podcast
Being Brave in a World of Fear Podcast
Farmhouse on Boone Sandwich Bread

References:
Ecclesiastes 1:2 - "Vanity of vanities, says the Preacher, vanity of vanities! All is vanity."

James 1:5 - "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him."

1 Kings 11:8-9 - "And so he did for all his foreign wives, who made offerings and sacrificed to their gods. And the Lord was angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned away from the Lord, the God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice"

Ecclesiastes 12:13 - "The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

13: How Do You Identify?

Sat, 17 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0400

Finding your identity is a hot topic these days! As we were chatting around the campfire the other night, we began to take an introspective look at where we are finding OUR identity.

It is our goal in this episode to peel back the layers on where we are finding our identity and how that affects the way we live as Christians. It is easy to become hyper focused on how OTHERS are identifying, but are we missing a good opportunity to take a close look at ourselves and see ourselves the way God sees us?

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:30 - Intro to Topic
3:27 - Seemingly Harmless Things We Find Our Identity In
12:28 - Where should we find our identity?
33:10 - See Ourselves As God Sees Us
40:11 - Obstacles to Believing Our Identity in Christ
45:30 - Live Fully Into Your Identity

References:
Ecclesiastes 9:10 - "Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might."

Mark 12:17 - "Jesus said to them, "Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's.""

Galatians 2:20 - "I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me."

1 Corinthians 6:19-20 - "Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body."

Ephesians 4:32 - "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you."

Jeremiah 31:30 - "I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore I have continued my faithfulness to you."

Romans 8:15-17 - "For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him."

Ephesians 1:7 - "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace."

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

12: Five Conversations for a Vibrant Marriage

Sat, 10 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0400

We believe communication in marriage is one of the keys to having a healthy marriage, so in this episode we share five conversations to have with your spouse on a regular basis that will help you stay on the same page, encourage one another and build your spiritual walk with the Lord.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:31 – When your spouse is an unbeliever.
3:10 – Spiritual Well-Check
6:56 – Financial
14:40 -Future Goals
20:50 - Any frustrations?
25:45 – Family Check-Up

References:
1 Peter 3:1 – “Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the conduct of their wives,”

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

11: Intimacy in Marriage - When Sex Drives Differ

Sat, 03 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0400

When polling This Devoted Life Community about the topic of marriage, one of the biggest questions we received was on the topic of intimacy in marriage... specifically when sex drives differ and the frustrations that can arise from that. Out of respect for our marriage, we do not go into any specific details of our own marriage, but we wanted to discuss this topic because it is important for keeping marriages healthy.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
2:30 – Intro to Topic with Disclaimers
4:46 – Does media affect our views about sex?
7:38 – Sex is good and important!
9:00 – What does it all boil down to?
10:30 – When Resentment Arises
11:28 – Tips for Keeping Sex a Priority
16:00 – Communication is key!
17:00 – Another Disclaimer
18:38 – Keep Your Marriage Fresh
19:59 – Frustration and Communication
23:30 – Wrap Up

Links:
Navigating Turbulence in Marriage

References:
Bible Verses:
Proverbs 5:18 - "Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth"

Proverbs 5:19 - "a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight; be intoxicated always in her love."

Ephesians 5:22-23

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

10: Navigating Turbulence in Marriage

Sat, 27 May 2023 09:00:00 -0400

The number one question we received on the topic of marriage was, "How do you keep your marriage a priority?" Using an airplane ride as a metaphor for marriage, we discuss overcoming turbulence and ways we keep our marriage a priority. Every marriage is unique, but we hope that by sharing our experience, we can encourage you to continue to grow in your marriage and walk with the Lord.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
3:00 - Airplanes and Marriage
5:45 - Cruising Altitude
7:10 - Experiencing Turbulence
9:58 - Buckle Up
11:44 - The Eject Button
14:00 - Sharing Personal Things with the Opposite Sex
16:28 - Communication
21:31 - What do we do to keep marriage a priority?
24:35 - Landing the Plane
27:07 - What season are you in?

References:
Revelation 19:7 - "Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready;"

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

09: Five Healthy Habits for Christian Men

Sun, 21 May 2023 17:00:00 -0400

Strong male influences within the nuclear family are important, so today we are sharing with you Five Healthy Habits for Christian Men to encourage men as they navigate the sometimes tricky balance of providing for their families financially, emotionally and spiritually. While you may not use all of the ideas in this podcast, we hope there are practical ideas for you to implement in your life to live This Devoted Life!

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:28 - Disclaimers
4:10 - Physical Health
10:00 - Spiritual Health
15:05 - Mental/Emotional Health
19:20 - Relational Health
23:40 - Intellectual Health
29:20 - Wrap Up

Links:
The Daily Grace Chronological Bible Study

References:
Beachbody
Patrick Bet-David Podcast
Joe Rogan Podcast - Disclaimer: Some Language
Grant Cardone - Disclaimer: Some Language
The Money Guys

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

08: A Mother's Day Tradition

Sun, 14 May 2023 08:00:00 -0400

Each year for several years running, James has interviewed the kids and presented a Mother's Day video to Shanda. We thought it would be fun to share these interviews with you! We hope it gives you a fun way to learn more about Shanda and a glimpse into the gift that is motherhood.

James surprised Shanda by bringing her in to be interviewed this year! The end gets a little emotional.

Happy Mother's Day

***If you would like to skip the kid-interviews, feel free to jump to this timestamp: 17:18

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

07: Five Healthy Habits for Stay-at-Home Moms (or any mom!)

Sat, 06 May 2023 09:00:00 -0400

Moms have a lot on their plate! With so much time and effort spent serving our families and community, we are sharing with you Five Healthy Habits for Stay-at-Home Moms (or any mom!) to help maintain an overall vibrant lifestyle. While you may not use all of the ideas in this podcast, we hope there are practical ideas for you to implement in your life to live This Devoted Life!

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:45 - Intro to Topic
2:40 - Physical Health
6:25 - Additional Healthy Habit for Physical Health
7:35 - Spiritual Health
10:38 - Mental Health
14:08 - Intellectual Health
16:45 - Social Health
20:35 - Conclusion

Bible References:
1 Corinthians 6:19 - "What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?"

Links:
Lindy Well Pilates
5-5-5 Plan
The Daily Grace Chronological Bible Study
Wild +Free

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

06: Raising Brave Kids

Sat, 29 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400

How can we as parents teach our children to be brave and live confidently in Christ? Listen to find practical tips for teaching bravery to our children.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
3:22 - The Hiding Place story
5:07 - We are the Gatekeepers
7:24 - Strengthening Our Children to Carry a Heavier Load
10:20 - Emulate Bravery
14:35 - The Importance of Children's Literature
19:05 - Hiding God's Word in Your Children's Heart
21:18 - Prayer is a Habit
22:46 - Healthy vs. Unhealthy Fears
27:00 - The Gift of Failure
32:25 - Tree Analogy

Bible References:
Psalm 56:3 - "What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee."

Isaiah 41:10 - “fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."

Philippians 2:10-11 - "that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."

Books:
The Hiding Place - Corrie Ten Boom
Mothering By the Book - Jennifer Pepito
The Gift of Fear - Gavin De Becker

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

05: Being Brave in a World of Fear

Sat, 22 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400

We live in a an uncertain world and uncertain times. How can we be brave as Christians and live a victorious life? As Christians, we are called to edify and uplift one another, so we hope in this episode to encourage you to live a life of joy and peace!

Did you know, 91% of our worries do not come to fruition? (Source: Psychology Today)

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
0:35 - Intro
3:10 - Where does fear come from?
6:00 - How prepared should we be physically?
10:44 - Preparing Spiritually
12:30 - What is our duty?
15:30 - What can we do to "gear up?"
19:50 - Saturating Yourself in Truth
23:00 - Teaching the Next Generation to be Brave
25:30 - God has given us the victory
27:15 - What can we control?
31:50 - Kiss the Waves!

Quote:
'I have learned to kiss the waves that throw me up against the Rock of Ages' Charles Spurgeon

Bible References:
2 Timothy 1:7 - "For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind."

1 Peter 5:8 - “Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:”

Philippians 2:10-11 - "that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth; and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father."

Ecclesiastes 12:13 - "Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man."

John 14:27 - "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid."

Link:
Upward Sports
Pour Over Podcast

We'd love to hear from you! Let us know if there is anything you would like to hear more about in upcoming episodes.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

04: Postpartum Depression - 3 Things Husbands (and Friends!) Should Know

Sat, 15 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400

Today we are talking about our experience with postpartum depression. Having experienced PPD 3 out of 4 pregnancies, we hope that by sharing our story, we can encourage you and give you practical ideas for supporting a mother who may be experiencing depression.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
2:06 - Welcome
4:53 - Disclaimers
6:16 - What are Baby Blues?
8:39 - Baby Blues vs Postpartum Depression
10:42 - How husbands can get caught off guard
12:08 - Illogical Thoughts/Hormones
13:48 - Unable to Connect with Baby/Traumatic Birth
17:10 - Involve Family and Community
18:11 - Symptoms of PPD
20:34 - Learning to identify PPD
20:21 - Postpartum Rage
30:00 - Communication is Key
31:45 - Identifying Triggers
38:45 - How can you help?
43:05 - Habits that are formed during PPD
44:18 - Closing Thoughts

Links:
Instacart
Mayo Clinic Postpartum Depression Symptoms

We'd love to hear from you! Let us know if there is anything you would like to hear more about in upcoming episodes.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

03: Creating a Vision for Your Family

Sat, 08 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400

In this episode, we talk about the vision we have for our family. Using Proverbs 29:18 "Where there is no vision, the people perish," we lay the foundation for our goals as a family. Having a heavenly mindset and a future vision impacts what we do today.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
0:29 - How future vision impacts today
5:26 - Vision for our family
11:27 - Vision for our marriage
17:35 - Vision for our community
20:02 - Vision for our finances

Book links:
Habits of the Household
Rich Dad Poor Dad

Bible verses referenced:
Matthew 6:19 - "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:"

1 Timothy 6:10a - "For the love of money is the root of all evil:"

Proverbs 29:18a - "Where there is no vision, the people perish,"

Psalm 119:11 - "Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee."

Deuteronomy 6:4-9 (The Shema) - "4 Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God is one Lord. 5 And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. 6 And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: 7 And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. 8 And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. 9 And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates."

We'd love to hear from you! Let us know if there is anything you would like to hear more about in upcoming episodes.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

02: Where we came from - and the importance of communication in marriage

Sat, 01 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400

It is hard to trust someone you do not know personally, so in this episode we hope to earn more of your trust by giving you more detailed information about us! We talk about how we came to know the Lord personally and about our early years of marriage.

We also discuss the importance of communication in marriage and how we personally communicate within our marriage. Every marriage is different, but we hope that by sharing our personal experiences, we can encourage you to grow in your relationship as a husband and wife as well.

It is fun to reminisce, and we hope you enjoy getting to know us a bit better. We look forward to getting to know YOU better too.

Here is what you can expect in this episode:
1:26 - Shanda's testimony
3:35 - James's testimony
5:28 - The simplicity of the gospel
7:37 - How we met
13:20 - Are long distance relationships good?
16:15 - Marriage counseling and the importance of communication
24:04 - If your testimony differs from ours
25:39 - Live out the life God has called you to

We'd love to hear from you! Let us know if there is anything you would like to hear more about in upcoming episodes.

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com

01: Our Why - how a Saturday morning coffee date turned into a podcast

Sat, 25 Mar 2023 09:00:00 -0400

Over the past year or two, we have been having a Saturday morning coffee date. During these slower mornings, we ask the kids to play by themselves and we intentionally sit down to talk about life and connect as a husband and wife. It was during these life-chats that we began to toss around the idea of starting a podcast!

With so many outside influences vying for our attention, we want to be a positive voice speaking life and truth into your home.

Communication between a husband and wife is so important and in this episode we hope that by sharing a glimpse into how we communicate, we can encourage you to have "Saturday morning coffee dates" with your spouse as well.

Some upcoming topics:
- Overcoming the challenges of parenting in our current world
- Communication in marriage
- Homeschooling
- The importance of critical thinking from a biblical perspective
- Postpartum Depression
- Strategies for raising boys and girls
- Logical Fallacies
- and so much more!

We'd love to hear from you!

Let's connect!
Website: This Devoted Life
Instagram: Devoted Motherhood & This Devoted Life Podcast
Email: podcast@thisdevotedlife.com