What happens when the person who’s always been “the independent one” realizes that independence has quietly become emotional armor?

In today’s episode, I sit down with Aria - a former client - for an honest, heart-opening conversation about her journey from emotional avoidance to authentic intimacy.

For much of her dating life, Aria attracted people who weren’t able to be truly available for the love and intimacy she craved. In addition, her unavailability showed up in various ways in her love life. But beneath that strength lived a deep fear of vulnerability, dependence, and letting herself truly be seen.

Together, we explore how avoidant attachment can subtly block love — even when someone deeply wants partnership - and what becomes possible when the heart learns that closeness can be safe.

In this conversation, Aria shares:

✨ How avoidant tendencies showed up in her dating and relationships
✨ The unconscious strategies she used to protect herself from intimacy
✨ What shifted when she learned to soften, open, and share even more truthfully in relationship
✨ How our work together helped her rewire old attachment patterns
✨ What “available love” actually looks like now in her life
✨ The difference between intellectual understanding and embodied healing
✨ How opening her heart changed not only her dating life - but her relationship with herself

This episode is especially powerful for anyone who:

•⁠  ⁠Identifies as emotionally independent but struggles with deep intimacy
•⁠  ⁠Tends to pull away when relationships get real
•⁠  ⁠Is attracted to partners who want more closeness than they can tolerate or frequently attracts commitment phobes or emotionally unavailable people
•⁠  ⁠Has done personal growth work but still feels blocked in love
•⁠  ⁠Wants partnership — yet fears losing autonomy or getting hurt

Aria’s story is a beautiful reminder that healing avoidant attachment isn’t about becoming “needier” or giving up independence — it’s about expanding our capacity to receive love without shutting down.

If you’ve ever wondered whether secure, emotionally available love is possible for you…
this conversation will speak straight to your heart.

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To apply to work with Maya go to: empowerlove.us/breakthrough

To find out about Aria’s work in the world: lisabeem.com

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In this powerful and timely episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, Maya Diamond sits down with long-time friend and colleague Mischa Byruck, a Sexual Integrity Coach who helps leaders, healers, and public figures transform conflict, harm, and callouts into meaningful change.

Together, they unpack what sexual integrity really means - beyond consent and explore how power dynamics, trauma responses, and emotions shape our most intimate interactions.

If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate attraction, consent, and power in a conscious way - or how to repair trust after harm - this conversation offers profound insight, humility, and embodied wisdom.

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🧭 In This Episode, We Explore:

• Mischa’s personal and professional journey into accountability and harm reduction
• What power really is and why we all have it, whether we realize it or not
• The subtle and overt ways people can fall out of sexual integrity
• Why consent alone isn’t enough to create safety and trust
• The key pillars of sexual integrity
• How kink makes power dynamics explicit and what we can learn from that
• Helpful wisdom about how to navigate attraction, power dynamics, leadership, and sex.
• Understanding trauma responses like freeze and fawn, and how they impact boundary-setting
• How to receive feedback without collapsing in shame
• Apologies and how to effectively navigate them 

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🌹 About Mischa Byruck

Mischa Byruck is a Sexual Integrity Coach specializing in accountability and harm reduction in the aftermath of accusations, callouts, and cancellations. He has supported hundreds of high-profile figures - including CEOs, celebrities, and prominent teachers - to turn conflict into meaningful transformation.

He’s the Consent Education Partner of Bonobo Network, Accountability Partner of The Consent Academy, and consultant to organizations like ISTA, Kink.com, DanceSafe, and Sacred Sons. Mischa holds a certificate in Somatic Trauma Therapy from The Embody Lab, a BA from Columbia, and an MPA from NYU.

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🌿 Connect with Mischa

        •     https://www.evolve.men
        •     IG : @mischabyruck

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If this episode inspired you, explore more at empowerlove.us, or connect with Maya on Instagram at @mayadiamond.empowerlove

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Welcome to another episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style! In this insightful conversation, host Maya Diamond welcomes Rachel Kaplan to the show. Rachel is here to share her expertise on emotional healing and how tuning into your feelings can help you heal, take responsibility for your feelings in relationships, and create greater emotional health.

Rachel Kaplan is a licensed psychotherapist with nearly two decades of experience. She’s the creator and host of the acclaimed podcast The Healing Feeling Sh*t Show, and the author of Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go: Your Guide to Emotional Resilience and Lasting Self-Love. Rachel’s passion for emotional healing began with a personal tragedy in her teens, when she lost her first love at age 14 – a loss that set her on a 25-year journey to understand and heal emotional pain. Through her work, Rachel has developed a fun and profound method she calls “Emotional Potty Training,” teaching people how to fully feel and release their emotions to heal deep wounds and cultivate self-love.

Thank you for tuning in! This conversation with Rachel Kaplan is a powerful reminder that feeling our feelings is not only OK – it’s necessary for healing and healthy secure love.

To connect more with Rachel, you can visit her website: thefeelingsmovement.com and check out her new book Feel, Heal, and Let That Sh*t Go for a deeper dive into her emotional healing method.

To work with Maya 1-1 to find out more about her signature Rewire For Love Program, go to empowerlove.us/apply to book your free love breakthrough session. 

If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to Rewire Your Attachment Style for more insightful conversations, leave a rating or review to support the show, and share this episode with someone who could use a little emotional empowerment. 

To your healing, and see you next time!

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Welcome to another transformative episode of the Rewire Your Attachment Style podcast! In this episode, host Maya Diamond sits down with three exceptional guests—Zev Aaron, Jason Lange, and GS Youngblood. These accomplished men’s coaches bring decades of experience working with men to help them deepen their purpose, strengthen their relationships, and lead more integrated lives.

Meet the Guests-

Jason Lange: A men’s embodiment coach, group facilitator, and certified No More Mr. Nice Guy coach. Jason is passionate about helping men gain clarity in their life’s purpose and relationships. He believes that every man benefits from being part of a supportive men’s group.

Zev Aaron: With over 15 years of experience, Zev has coached executives and facilitated transformative workshops. His wisdom comes from mentoring with George Bertelstein, where he learned to embody vulnerability, strength, and love as a man.

GS Youngblood: The acclaimed author of The Masculine in Relationship, GS teaches men how to embody the Masculine Blueprint—a model that fosters groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. Drawing from diverse disciplines, his work has inspired thousands of men to redefine their masculinity in a healthy, relational way.

Episode Highlights

1.⁠ ⁠The Intersection of Purpose and Love

• How does a man’s career and financial success influence his romantic relationships?
• Insights into balancing the demands of career and the cultivation of one’s romantic relationship.

2.Societal Expectations and Masculinity

• Exploring how cultural norms shape men’s relationship with money, career, and worth.
• Breaking free from outdated “provider” roles and embracing a more integrated identity.

3.⁠ ⁠Overcoming Challenges in Relationships

• Personal stories from the guests about when finances or career created tension in their romantic lives—and the lessons learned.
• Tools for maintaining emotional intimacy while pursuing professional goals.

4.⁠ ⁠Balancing Career and Parenthood

• Key considerations men face when planning for a family, including timing, finances, and emotional readiness.
• How men can prepare for this life transition while staying connected to their partner.

5.⁠ ⁠Strategies for Growth

• How to redefine success in a way that supports both personal growth and relational presence.
• Practical tips for managing financial stress and detaching self-worth from career achievements.

Why Listen?

This episode is for men who strive to balance love, purpose, and career while navigating the societal pressures of modern masculinity. It’s also a valuable listen for women who want to better understand and support the men in their lives.

Resources Mentioned:
•The book: The Masculine in Relationship by GS Youngblood

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•Jason Lange: [evolutionary.men]
•Zev Aaron: [ig: zev_aaron]
•GS Youngblood: [gsyoungblood.com]

Don’t miss this deeply insightful conversation about what it means to live as an integrated masculine man in today’s world.

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If you want to listen to Taylor’s podcast you can check it out here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sex-upgraded/id1614256864

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If you are in a romantic relationship and would love to increase the pleasure, sexual connection and intimacy, email Maya at: maya@empowerlove.us to schedule a free discovery call to chat about working together.

If you are single and interested in working with Maya 1-1 you can to do that here: empowerlove.us/apply

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In this episode, I talk to the brilliant Julia Wells about how to build a pleasure based business, her own journey healing her own avoidant attachment, becoming comfortable with visibility and vulnerability, and creating a millionaire mindset. So excited for you to listen to this episode.

If you are single and would like to work with Maya 1-1 to help you heal your attachment style and find healthy love, go to empowerlove.us/apply to book a free discovery call.

If you would like to join Julia’s Facebook group Visible AF go here:
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If you would love to work with Julia Wells on your business and visibility go here: https://www.juliacwells.com/

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If you are in a romantic partnership and would love to increase the ease, peace, connection and intimacy, email Maya at: info@empowerlove.us to schedule a free discovery call.

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I had the joy of interviewing Love Is Blind UK’s Tom Stroud about dating, discernment, finances/relationships, how attachment shows up in your love life, and so much more. Watch this episode or listen to it and enjoy this deep and lively conversation.

If you are single and would like to work with Maya 1-1 to help you heal your attachment style and find healthy love, go to empowerlove.us/apply to book a free discovery call.

If you are in a romantic partnership and would love to increase the ease, peace, connection and intimacy, email Maya at: info@empowerlove.us to schedule a free discovery call.

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In this episode, I interview John Gray about how to keep the passion alive in a long term relationship. We discuss the nature of attraction and how hormones and polarity play a big role in creating and maintaining the erotic intimacy in your relationship.

To find out more about John's work go to: https://www.marsvenus.com/

If you are in a partnership and would like to work with Maya 1-1 email her at: info@empowerlove.us to set up a free discovery session. This is for both Couples Attachment Coaching or Couples Intimacy Coaching.

If you are single and would love Maya’s help to find the love of your life, simply go here to apply for a free discovery session: empowerlove.us/apply

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In this episode, Maya shares about her group coaching program for women, called Rewire For Love, that begins July 15th. She shares about who the program is for, what kind of results women are getting and the time/financial investment for this 4-month program. Get all the deets by listening to this episode!

If you are ready to enroll simply go to: empowerlove.us/rewire-for-love

If you want a free discovery call to find out if the program is right for you and ask any questions you want, go to empowerlove.us/apply

If you are a man and want to work with Maya 1-1, go to empowerlove.us/apply

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In this episode Maya shares 3 tangible shifts you can make to have a better relationship with your avoidant partner. These are not easy to do but are transformative for yourself and your relationship.

If you are a woman and interested in signing up for the next round of the Rewire For Love program, you can do so by clicking on these links. By signing up before 6/10 you will receive the bonus of 8 monthly group coaching calls added to your program!

Full pay: https://empowerlove.us.safechkout.net/RFL-biannual-PIF

Payment plan: https://empowerlove.us.safechkout.net/RFL-biannual-PP

If you want to join the free 3-day masterclass, FINALLY SECURE on 6/4, 6/5, and 6/6 at 6pm pst, click here: tinyurl.com/finallysecure

If you are interested in couples coaching with Maya, click here to schedule your free discovery session:  empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this episode, Maya interviews Saul about the challenges he was facing in his life and how the work in the 1-1 Rewire For Love program with Maya helped to heal his attachment style, and shift some major blocks to receiving love, happiness, and internal security and confidence.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this episode, Maya and Erin dive deep into this pervasive pattern. Maya shares the 5 steps to release the addiction to unavailable men, how to become empowered in your love journey instead of a victim, and how to finally find an available partner.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this episode, Maya shares about this common situation that people will get trapped in - wishing and hoping someone will change their mind about you and finally commit or finally decide you are the one. Maya shares about where this pattern comes from and how to break free from it once and for all.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this episode, I share about the challenges that people with disorganized attachment face and the steps to heal your attachment system and become more secure in relationship.

I also go over how clients have been able to shift their disorganized patterns in love and find healthy secure partnership. I hope this episode gives you hope and inspiration!

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for women here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/maptolastinglove/

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In this episode, I interview Emily about her surprising journey to deep and healthy secure love. She graduated the Rewire For Love Program in Spring 2023 and through the work in the program developed her self-worth, healthy boundaries, secure attachment and opened up to big love!

Find out how she went from heartbreak to her heart feeling fulfilled and so grateful!

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this interview Maya interviews LA Comedian, Alicia Dattner about how she shifted her patterns and found healthy secure love through the Rewire For Love Program. She shares how she had tried lots of things before the program and it was only until she did the deep work and had the structure of the program that she found a new kind of love and relationship. Maya and Alicia laugh and have fun in this interview while also talk about what really matters when it comes to love.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for women here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/maptolastinglove/

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In this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing Ian Ferguson, Master Trainer and co-founder of Jaiya Inc. about the Erotic Blueprints. We explore each blueprint, the way the blueprints can address the common challenges that come up in couples around their sexuality, and how Erotic Blueprint work can awaken and expand one’s sexuality.

If you are interested in working with Maya 1 on 1 for Erotic Blueprint Couples work click here to apply for a discovery session with you and your partner: http://tinyurl.com/couples23

If you are interested in taking the Erotic Blueprint quiz click here:

https://go.theblueprintbreakthrough.net/t?orid=78698&opid=4

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In this episode, Maya details the effects sexual trauma has on your dating and relationship life. In addition, she shares how it impacts the ways you show up in relationship as well as your attachment style.

She shares about why one might decide to spend the time, energy, and resources to heal and the level of power, self-worth, confidence, and aliveness that can happen as a result.


To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/apply/

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In this episode, Maya and Erin discuss the why and how of impeccable boundaries. They cover how weak boundaries deteriorate relationships and how to instead create stronger boundaries in yourself so you can have a secure and healthy lasting relationship.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this podcast episode, I interview Stephanie about her journey from hot/cold relationships and lack of inner love to finding a healthy secure partner.

She shares why she joined the program and the deep security/wholeness she found inside herself.  She is so happy to be experiencing what she always wanted but wasn’t sure was possible. Press play and let this episode uplift your belief in what is possible for you.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, I have the delight of interviewing 4 men (who are my dear friends) about the pleasure of giving oral sex. This interview is for anyone who wants to learn more about the art and skill of oral sex, as well as for anyone who wants to get a transmission of what it’s like to love giving women pleasure. Both men and women will enjoy this episode! I can’t wait for you to listen.

If you are a couple and wanting to get coached by Maya to enhance your sex life, simply email her at: maya@empowerlove.us

Books mentioned in the men’s panel:

• Cupid’s Poisoned Arrow, by Marnia Robinson
• Vagina: A New Biography, Naomi Wolff
• She Comes First, Ian Kershaw  
• Sheri Winston, Anatomy of Arousal

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, I interview Carlyne about her experience in the Rewire For Love Program. She went from struggling/getting divorced to finding a deep sense of self-trust, self-love, internal security, and discernment.

Also, we celebrate her recent engagement to a man she loves who treats her so well! I hope this episode brings you hope and inspiration. Carlyne is in her 50’s and is getting married in 2023.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, me and Erin, share the 3 biggest blocks to receiving love.

We share why it’s so much easier to give love than to receive it, where these blocks originate, and what you can do to start shifting these blocks today so that you can receive more love in your life.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for women here:

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In this podcast episode, we dive deep on the attraction to the bad boy as well as the addiction to the highs and lows of this type of connection.

We share on what the bad boy archetype is, what it looks like in dating and how this pattern can be destructive to you having a healthy secure relationship.  We also share a path to releasing this pattern and finding healthy love.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, Erin interviews Maya about narcissism. We discuss the difference between NPD and narcissistic traits, what love bombing is and why it’s so seductive, the effects of gaslighting, and how to heal from narcissistic abuse.

If you are ready to heal from narcissistic abuse - simply go to: empowerlove.us/apply to apply for your free love breakthrough session to see if the Rewire For Love Program is right for you.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, I share with you the key differences between therapy and the Rewire For Love Program. I outline why women come into this program and get results quickly, even when they have been in therapy for years and haven’t gotten the results. I share what the big needle movers are in the program and why receiving coaching around love/relationships is very different then therapy.

If you know that you are ready to be held in a loving container of support, skills, and expert guidance, I would love to help you. Simply apply your free love breakthrough session here: empowerlove.us/apply to see if the program is right for you.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this episode, I explore the false notions that have been fed to us by other people and the media and what it actually takes to find and have a healthy secure growing relationship. This episode is for singles and couples.

I share the top 8 things you can do to find a healthy partnership, and the top 7 things you can do to cultivate your current relationship.

Relationships take work just like any other area of your life! Let go of the myths that are destructive, untrue, and hurtful.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this podcast, I interview a dear friend and colleague, Riyaz Motan, about his path of rewiring his avoidant attachment.

We cover the early beginnings and childhood experiences that influenced his attachment style as well as the pivotal moments in his marriage that helped him connect with his true feelings and needs.

In addition we discuss why even work on avoidant attachment, what it takes and what to do if your partner is avoidant.

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this interview I speak to Micha about his healthy, evolving, and secure marriage.

He discusses what led him to meet her, how he knew she was his life partner, how they work through difficulties, and what it looks like to keep growing and evolving in their love life together.

This interview was inspiring and uplifting - can’t wait for you to listen!

To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love

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In this interview, the tables are turned, and Maya has the pleasure of being interviewed by the amazing, Erin Beata, Enrollment Director for Empower Love. This interview covers:  What led me to this path of becoming a love coachWhat are the most common patterns we help people within the program  Why I became an expert […]

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In this episode, I share my 5 Breakup Survival Tools for moving through one of the most challenging moments of your life. Break-ups bring up so many feelings, and having support is essential. Each tool in this episode is designed to move you forward in the most healthy way possible so you can feel some […]

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In this episode, I have the pleasure of interviewing Katie. She came into the program with disorganized attachment and through the work in the Empower Love program, was able to increase her security, her sense of safety, unravel destructive patterns, and is now in a loving relationship. She shares all about this journey of unraveling […]

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In this episode, I interview Michael Kaye the Head of Global Communications at Okcupid. We go deep on the latest online dating trends and what they are saying about single daters, simple tweaks you can make today to your online dating profile to make your profile work better, and how to make the most out […]

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In this interview, I talk to Catherine about her journey in the Empower Love program. We cover how she attracted her man in month 2 of the program, her big internal shifts as a result of the work, and how she is still benefiting from the work a year later. To receive free support with […]

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In this episode, I explore the very important topic of deciding if it’s time to leave a relationship. I discuss its challenges, the fears around it, and some important reasons why it might be a good idea to leave. If you are in this conundrum – this is the episode for you! To receive free […]

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In this episode, I interview Realtor® Chris Hurwitz from Boulder, Colorado about his experience working with me to heal his anxious attachment and increase trust in his relationship. He shares how and why the work helped him become more regulated, a better communicator, and bring more connection and security to his relationship. To receive free […]

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In this podcast episode, I bring back Author and Therapist David Coates, and we go deep into avoidant attachment and how it shows up in relationship specifically with anxious attached folks. We each share vulnerably and personally how anxious and avoidant dynamics show up in ourselves and our relationships.   We really look at what […]

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In this episode, Maya shares the top 3 benefits of working on your avoidant attachment style. She shares how this is a courageous act and by working on your avoidant attachment style it will positively benefit your experience of love, your relationships, and ability to receive in other areas as well. To receive free support […]

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In this interview, I talk to Janette a graduate of the Empower Love program about her journey from being single and frustrated to now being in a healthy loving marriage. She shared her struggles before the program, what the program helped her shift, and the love and ease she is now enjoying as a result […]

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Resources & Support at BeLessDickish.com In this rich conversation with David Coates, we discuss these 4 masculine archetypes – the dick, the asshole, the pussy, and the douchebag and how they show up in men and in relationships. We discuss the best ways women can relate to these archetypes when they show up in relationships […]

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In this interview, I have the honor and joy of interviewing my bestie and biz partner Tara Divina & her fiancé Zev Aaron about their healthy, loving, rich, & beautiful relationship. This interview covers how they navigate conflict, what it looks like when both partners lean anxiously attached, how they reassure each other when things […]

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In this interview, Kute Blackson shares about why surrender is one of the most powerful energies we can embody. He uncovers how this effects our lives, our relationships, and our goals. We delve into the fascinating story of his parents meeting, what inspired him to write a book on surrender, and his own personal journey […]

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In this interview, my friend and colleague, Garrison Cohen and I interview our dear friends Bri and Bjorn about their 25 year relationship. In this rich episode, Bri and Bjorn take us on a journey through the ecstasy, growth, and challenges of their relationship and how they have personally evolved, and become more secure, through […]

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In this episode, I interview Julie, who graduated almost a year ago from the program. Her life has transformed, her relationships have transformed, and the relationship she has with herself has transformed. To top it off, she is now in a healthy loving secure relationship with an amazing man. The results she got through this […]

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Worthiness is at the Heart of Secure Attachment In this episode, I share why worthiness is at the heart of secure attachment and the 4 steps to cultivate it – no matter where you are on the worthiness spectrum. At the end of the episode I lead you through a visualization to cultivate your own […]

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In this episode, I share why where we are manifesting from matters and how to dial in the physical, emotional, and energetic place you are manifesting from to actualize your dreams. I lead you through visualizations and share a ritual to manifest your beloved partner or anything you deeply desire in your life! To receive […]

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In this episode, Maya interviews Christine, a graduate of the Empower Love program about her experience of gaining confidence and finding a healthy loving relationship in the middle of a pandemic. To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit empowerlove.us/love Join the Rewire Your Attachment Style Facebook group for […]

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In this episode, I have the pleasure of sharing with you the written success stories of my clients. I share these stories to expand your perception of what's possible for you as well as to have you hear a little bit about the work I do. I hope this opens your heart and broadens your […]

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In this episode, Maya has the honor and pleasure of interviewing Diya who graduated from the Empower Love Program. Diya shares what shifted for her both in her relationship to her self and in her love life as a result of the program and why she recommends it – if you are ready to heal […]

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Today we explore vulnerability -I share what it is, and the potential blocks to sharing it. And I guide you through an exercise to get in touch with your particular blocks and the vulnerable truth that you may be holding back. To receive free support with this, available exclusively to our Podcast listeners, just visit […]

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In this episode, I share why listening is so important and 4 skills to utilize for excellent listening. These are: presence, questions, mirroring, and listening with an open heart. These skills are simple but so profound. If you utilize these skills – all of your relationships will improve! Take a listen and try these skills […]

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In this episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, I Interview Terrie about her experience in the Empower Love program. We explore where she was before the program, what her love life looks like now, and why she says it was one of the best decisions of her life to join. To receive free support with […]

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In this episode of Rewire Your Attachment Style, Maya interviews Charles and Brandilyn Clay about the way they manifested their love, how they keep their relationship juicy and how this relationship is different then any relationship they had before. They discuss the meaning of sovereignty, the power of space in a relationship, and so much […]

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In this episode, Maya goes deep on why we attract the partners we attract. She shares that we chose these partners based on what is familiar, not what we deserve. She offers a helpful exercise for uncovering your patterns in love and helping you see what it is you deserve. To receive free support with […]

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In this episode, Maya breaks down the energy of an unavailable attraction – what it feels like, what it looks like, and why it occurs- over and over again. She shares about her personal experience with these kinds of attractions and offers questions that can generate new possibilities and hope if you are feeling like […]

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In this episode, Maya breaks down why it’s critically important to use vulnerable communication when giving feedback, in conflict, or making a request. She shares how to do it, and the key elements to doing it successfully. This is a crucial relationship skill and without it, it will be incredibly hard to have a successful […]

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In this episode, I interview Ani and Lee, about the way that they use their relationship for growth, healing, and expansion. Ani and Lee share incredibly helpful practices for couples, and we discuss the power of holding space for your partner’s feelings with unconditional love, acceptance and the magic key— NOT taking it personally. So […]

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In this interview, I talk to an old friend and amazing musician, Montino Bourbon about his proficiency with the love language: words of affirmation. We go deep around how to give it, what it gives the person who is receiving it, and what some blocks may be to being excellent at it. Montino also shares […]

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In this episode, Maya interviews a recent graduate of the Empower Love Program about her experience in the program, what her love life looked before she began the program, and what it looks like now. Amanda shares the challenges she faced in her love life before the program and how she has transformed as a […]

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In this episode, the fourth and last in the series, Maya dives deep into the disorganized attachment style to share the origins, beliefs, and behaviors of the disorganized attachment style. Whether you are single and dating, or in a relationship, this episode will give you a deeper understanding of the disorganized attachment style and also […]

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In this episode, I have the honor to interview, a mentor and teacher of mine, Satyen Raja, and his wife, Suzanne Raja about their 33 year long marriage. They are both on a path of evolution and impact and in this episode they share juicy details about how they have had a thriving marriage for […]

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In this episode, the second in a series, Maya dives deep into the avoidant attachment style to uncover its origins, patterns, beliefs, and behaviors. Whether you are single and dating, in a relationship, or someone you know has an avoidant attachment style, this episode will give you a deeper understanding of what attachment is and […]

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In this episode, Maya interviews Shane and Alia Metcalf, a couple that just celebrated their 10 year anniversary and just had a baby! Shane and Alia share how they’ve grown to be the secure couple they are, the tools they use to come back to love, what keeps the relationship interesting and evolving and the […]

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In this episode, I interview a secure and playful couple, Kit and Jeff, about their emotional intimacy, conflicts, childhood backgrounds, attachment styles, and growth work. They share the essence of what makes their relationship thrive and what you can look for in a partner if you're single – so you can also have a healthy, […]

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In this episode, I interview Sonya Sophia. Sonya Sophia is a master Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) trainer and the founder of The Sophia School of Living Arts and The World Tapping Circle. Sonya has led packed workshops, retreats, and Advanced EFT Practitioner Trainings in England, France, Italy, Holland, Germany, Canada, and all across the US. […]

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In this interview, I interview my mom’s partner, Mark Furnari, one of the most securely attached men I know. We go deep around the topics of emotionally intelligence, healthy communication, emotional responsiveness, self-care, and integrity. In this episode you will learn how to give feedback to a partner, how to listen so your partner feels […]

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In this episode, the first in a series, Maya dives deep into anxious attachment to uncover its origins, patterns, beliefs, and behaviors. Whether you are single and dating, in a relationship, or someone you know has an anxious attachment style, this episode will give you a deeper understanding of what attachment is and this particular […]

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In this episode, I interview Lisa about the transformation she received from working together. She shares about her on and off again relationship with an unavailable man, the negative effects it had on her and her life, and how with my help she shifted her love life to find a completely new experience in love. […]

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In this episode, I interview the author of the book, the Masculine in Relationship, GS Youngblood, about the importance that masculine/feminine dynamics play in relationship. We dive deep into how a man can embody healthy masculine energy in a relationship, why that is important, and what that kind of experience that creates for his partner. […]

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In this episode, I interview Candice and Henry, a secure thriving couple about their 37 year marriage. We discuss the challenges they worked through, the key elements that makes their relationship thrive, their attachment styles, and what traits to look for in a partner. This will be the first of many interviews with secure, thriving […]

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Welcome to Rewire Your Attachment Style with Maya Diamond, where you'll deepen your self-love, uncover how to be in a healthy relationship, & empower yourself to attract emotionally available partners. With interviews from thriving couples, insights & strategies from Maya, and guest appearances from relationship professionals, Rewire Your Attachment Style is your go-to resource for […]

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