Sex, Money & Rage

Uma Ayelet Furman — What Is Somatic Sexology? Sexual Empowerment, Exploring Your Arousal and Pleasure, Physical Touch, Understanding Hormonal Cycles and More

Sun, 29 Oct 2023 19:00:00 -0500

Ever wondered about the fascinating world of somatic sexology? Join us as we uncover this intriguing field with Uma Ayelet from the Institute of Somatic Sexology.

Our enlightening conversation gathers momentum as Uma shares her unique journey that beautifully amalgamates the spiritual aspects of sex with the practical techniques of somatic sexology.

This body-based approach to sex - focusing on the physical aspects - brings about a new perspective on how the mind and body interact, leading to a more satisfying sexual experience for you and your partner.

In our discussion, Uma sheds light on how individual arousal and pleasure can be enhanced, giving you the tools to be more present and in-tune during your sexual experiences.

Uma emphasizes the importance of mindfulness and experimenting with various types of touch, showcasing how this practice can lead to a more intimate and pleasurable sexual journey. We also explore the fascinating world of hormonal cycles and how understanding these can empower you in your sexual life.

We discuss the importance of somatic sex coaching and how it can help people gain a better understanding of their bodies, arousal patterns, and self-practice (which can vastly improve their romantic and sexual relationships.

We also explore the empowering practice of taking responsibility for your own pleasure. Get ready to be enlightened as we share the wisdom and insights of Uma and the intriguing world of somatic sexology. Dive in, the water's warm!

Connect with Uma: https://instituteofsomaticsexology.com/

Past episodes and show notes are located here: https://www.sexmoneyrage.com/podcast

"Genuinely thank you for creating this space for people like-minded to talk openly and feel OK to talk about these things." Beau, Australia

Disclaimer:
I do not promote trying plant medicine or psychedelics (they are a whole other beast). All information provided is for general information and educational purposes only. Please consult with your doctor and do your own research before diving in. There are risks involved, it can interact with certain medications, and it's illegal in most Western countries.

I'm not a doctor, therapist, or counsellor, and nothing said on the podcast is a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, treatment, or a professional therapeutic relationship. All content is intended to provide general health information for educational purposes only.

Ayla Inja — Narcissistic Parents, Emotional Abuse, The Science Behind Suicide & Childhood Trauma, Unhealthy Relationships, and More - #33

Sun, 15 Oct 2023 17:00:00 -0500

Ready to unpack the enormity of your childhood, parents and their life-altering impact on you?

Join us for a profound conversation with Ayla Inja, a researcher from Douglas Mental Health Institute, as we traverse the shadowy pathways of psychological trauma, narcissistic parenting, and emotional abuse.

Ayla leads us on this journey to shed light on the intricate mechanics of our ego, defence mechanisms, and the reactions embedded in our nervous systems.

We discuss the dynamics of a narcissistic family and the implications of emotional abuse on children. We explore the fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses that act as our nervous system's bodyguards, and how they display themselves in our adulthood.

Moreover, we dive into the awakening process, Golden Child Syndrome, and the shadow self - complex concepts that are part of the trauma narrative.

In our final segments, we explore some of the causes of suicide, its correlations with trauma, and the science behind childhood maltreatment leading to suicidal thoughts in adulthood.

We explore the cycle of depression and anxiety, with Ayla providing key strategies to prevent spiralling into these debilitating states.

Most importantly, we talk about the importance of self-awareness, self-reflection, and recognition of our dysfunctional behaviours and thought patterns that chain us to our past.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises transformation and growth.

Read Ayla's article here: https://findingyourselfagain.com/blog/the-spiritual-awakening-faux-pas

Connect with Ayla: https://findingyourselfagain.com/

Anna Walker — The Psychology of Money, Self-Worth, Money Blocks, Finances in Relationships, Archetypes and More - #32

Sun, 27 Aug 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Did your parents ever argue about money while growing up?

Think back on the money lessons you gleaned from your upbringing (good or bad).

How did they shape your financial behaviour and your relationship with money now?

If you're grappling with these questions, this episode is a must-listen.

We are joined by Anna Walker, a certified money coach, holistic wealth alchemist, and founder of Bilancia Wealth, whose own journey through the world of finance has led her to explore the psychology of money.

We get to the heart of money archetypes and behaviours, and how these can either be barriers or gateways to financial success.

Anna guides us through the key roles of the Warrior, Creator, and Money Magician archetypes and their potential impact on our wealth. We also unpack common money blocks, and how negative beliefs, fears, and inaction can hinder our financial growth.

But it's not all about problems - we also explore solutions and how to reframe these blocks to unleash our wealth potential.

We also navigate the choppy waters of money and power dynamics in relationships. Traditional gender roles, societal norms, and the intertwining of our self-worth and net worth can lead to financial imbalances in interpersonal relationships.

Anna shares practical wisdom on how to lay the groundwork for healthy and balanced money dynamics. Lastly, we shed light on the importance of financial education for young individuals and the role of safety and self-worth in our financial situations.

Connect with Anna: https://bilanciawealth.com/

Martin W. Ball, PhD — 5-Meo-DMT, Non-Duality, The Science Of Psychedelics, Spiritual Bullshit, Ego Transformation and More - #31

Sun, 13 Aug 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Today, we're taking you on a transformative journey through the captivating realm of psychedelics with Martin W. Ball. With his eclectic mix of experience as a PhD, writer, independent publisher, non-dual guide, consultant, visionary artist, and musician, Martin provides the perfect compass for navigating this complex territory.

In this episode we discuss the formation of spiritual egos after psychedelic use. We also explore the effect of different psychedelics on the psyche and body.

Brace yourself as Martin recounts his personal encounters with entheogens such as alcohol, cannabis, psilocybin mushrooms and salvia divinorum. We'll also guide you through the unique properties and profound impact of 5-meo DMT, known for invoking an ego death experience, and its potential for unveiling an expansive level of energy and awareness.

We explore the challenges of assimilating these profound experiences, the art of being yourself, and the deceptive influence of ego on our perceptions.

Our conversation is not just limited to the realm of psychedelics. We dive into topics of self-transformation, the often underappreciated role of storytelling in shaping our identities, and the therapeutic benefits of physical expression in processing emotions.

We highlight the value of authenticity and truth in psychedelic practice, while simultaneously highlighting the potential of physical catharsis as a means to process emotions and trauma.

Don't miss out on this enlightening ride with Martin Ball which is sure to challenge your perceptions and expand your horizons.

Nele Vandersmissen — Create Your Own Magic: The Power of Awe, Wonder, Meaningful Conversations, Curiosity and More - #30

Sun, 30 Jul 2023 15:00:00 -0500

Ever wondered how you can create more magic in your everyday life?

Or how an appreciation of nature can open the floodgates to big experiences of awe and wonder?

This episode with Nele Vandersmissen holds the answers.

We discuss the power of awe in reducing our mental chatter, easing stress, and amplifying our desire to help others.

Nele describes how awe can enhance your life satisfaction and wellbeing. We dive into the practical ways you can create more wonder and awe in your life, even if you experience lots of grief, sadness, or anxiety.

We travel further, exploring the importance of being present in our lives. We learn from Nele about how slowing down, truly listening, and appreciating nature can lead to unexpected awe-filled moments.

From the significance of animist worldviews to the potential of psychedelics as a gateway to a deeper appreciation of life (and ourselves), our conversation unfolds into a fascinating tapestry of insights.

We talk about the beauty of discomfort and how feeling multiple emotions simultaneously can lead to a more profound experience of life.

Discover the magic of asking about someone's name: how a simple question can spark wonder and curiosity. And why focusing on personal experiences trumps discussing labels and achievements.

We also explore how cultivating curiosity in children can reshape our consumer-driven society. Nele shares how unlocking joy, finding purpose, and following our impulses to create a meaningful life is an exciting journey of rediscovery - of wonder, connection, and our place in the world.

So, are you ready to join us?

Connect with Nele here: https://www.wondr.global/

Artemisia de Vine — A Former Professional Dominatrix & Sex Worker: All About Sexual Fantasies, Erotic Pleasure, Self-Discovery and More - #29

Sun, 16 Jul 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Prepare to have your sexual worldview completely redefined as we dive into an exhilarating conversation about the transformative power of sexual fantasies.

Our fascinating guest is none other than Artemisia Devine, a former professional dominatrix and certified somatic sexologist.

Together, we unravel the deep-rooted significance of sexual fantasies, as well as their potential to fulfil psychological needs and enable profound connections.

Discover how these fantasies unlock a primal energy within us, promoting personal growth and creating a unique space for pleasure beyond the conventional concept of orgasm.

Artemisia's distinctive insights on the role of ego in shaping sexual fantasies will challenge your pre-existing notions, providing the roadmap to a deeper, grounded understanding of self.

This aspect of the exploration is essential as it facilitates a deeper connection by appeasing our ego, allowing us to let go of our guards and delve into the realm of self-revelation.

Lastly, we discuss Artemisia's unique method to bring these fantasies into reality in a consensual and beneficial way. By digging into the roots of our desires and fantasies, we can uncover a potent tool for personal development and self-discovery.

So, whether you're seeking to understand your fantasies better, or you're just intrigued by the spicy and unconventional, this episode is a must-listen. Come along and join us on this unique exploration of our turn-ons!

Connect with Artemisia de Vine: https://www.artemisiadevine.com/

Irene Lyon — A Deep Dive into Repressed Anger, Kill Energy, Functional Freeze, Pain, Nervous System Healing and More - #28

Sun, 02 Jul 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Do you ever find yourself feeling numb, paralysed, frozen, or overwhelmed with anger?

You're not alone. Join me as I sit down with Irene Lyon, a top-ranked nervous system expert, as we unpack these challenging emotions together.

We dive into the science of "kill" energy, the fight or flight response, and shed light on societal conditioning that often restricts us from harnessing these protective mechanisms.

This episode is not just about navigating anger and rage; it's about understanding our bodies and minds on a deeper level.

Through shared experiences with Feldenkrais and Irene's background in exercise science and biomedical health science, we explore the importance of somatic practices and trauma works.

We also delve into how our knowledge of the human system can provide an effective healing path for people struggling with injuries.

Lastly, we cast an eye on the work-rest dynamic and share insights on maintaining a healthy balance. Transitioning from offline to online work, we discuss the importance of pushing boundaries and the challenges that come with it.

Irene also shares her experiences and lessons on differentiating accurate impulses from inaccurate ones.

This episode intertwines theory and practicality, providing you with transformative insights into healing your nervous system and managing anger.

Connect with Irene here.

Time stamps:

0:00 - Intro
5:40 - Somatic Practices and Trauma Work
18:01 - The Balance Between Pushing Through Resistance vs. Rest
33:45 - Healing Your Nervous System
41:08 - Managing Rage and Chemical Sensitivity
57:57 - Rage and Nervous System Regulation

Jack McIntyre — Exploring Ketamine Therapy, The Dark Side of Psychedelics, Unravelling Anxiety and Depression, Rage, Nervous System Healing, Meditation and More - #27

Sun, 18 Jun 2023 16:00:00 -0500

After struggling with anxiety and depression for years, my cousin Jack found solace in alternative therapies. Searching for a way to reclaim his identity and manage his emotions, Jack's journey led him to participate in ketamine-assisted therapy for war veterans.

As we sit down together in this episode, we explore the healing power of ketamine therapy, body-based approaches, and the impact of these modalities on Jack's mental health.

Jack's transition from the Australian Army to civilian life brought new challenges, stripping him of the structure and stability he relied on. In our conversation, we discuss the importance of balancing awareness and fight-flight-freeze responses in managing intense emotions, as well as the role our childhood traumas play in shaping us.

By diving into Jack's experiences with somatic therapy, we realize the significance of connecting with our bodies and how this can lead to a better understanding of our anxiety and depression.

As we venture deeper into Jack's healing journey, we touch on the power of healthy aggression and rage to heal ourselves. We consider how physical activities such as martial arts, boxing, and running can provide an outlet for these intense emotions, and how ketamine-assisted therapy has offered Jack new opportunities for self-discovery.

Join us for this insightful and inspiring episode as we uncover the transformative effects of alternative therapies on mental health and the journey to self-awareness.

Laura Usher — Unlocking Sexual Pleasure & Healing with Yoni Eggs, Crystal Dildos, Somatic Counselling, Plus Creating Safety in Your Body, Boundaries and More - #26

Sun, 11 Jun 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Are you ready to break free from sexual shame and embark on a journey of sexual healing and pleasure?

Join me as I chat with Laura Usher, a skilled somatic counsellor who has dedicated her life to helping other heal and explore their sexuality with alternative methods.

Laura also runs an online women's sex store and is an incredible pole dancer.

Together, Laura and I delve into her unique path towards empowering women on their sexual journey by offering tools she's discovered on her own healing path.

We discuss the physical and emotional benefits of yoni eggs, along with the various types of crystals and their corresponding intentions.

We also venture into the importance of somatic therapy, boundaries, and safety in your nervous system, for a holistic approach towards healing and growth.

In this episode, you'll gain valuable insights on how cultivating internal safety in your body can open up new possibilities and opportunities in life.

0:00 - Intro
5:47 - Empowering Women's Sexual Health
10:43 - Sexual Healing With Crystal Yoni Eggs and Wands
23:27 - The Importance of Therapy and Boundaries
28:10 - Marketing Sex Toys and Somatic Therapy
36:40 - Somatic Counselling Explained
48:17 - Cultivating Internal Safety
52:03 - Internal Safety and Checking In With Yourself
56:06 - The Positive Impacts of Somatic Work

Connect with Laura:
La Loba Herbalism - Crystal Yoni Eggs
Instagram
Somatic Counselling

PS - Laura has generously offered Sex, Money & Rage listeners a discount on her online store, La Loba. Simply enter SMR15 at the checkout to get 15% off store wide (time to order that yoni egg!) ❤️

Beast Mode — How to Annihilate Your Enemies, Express Your Rage, Stop Thinking, Get Into Flow State and More - #25

Sun, 04 Jun 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Imagine having the tools to release pent-up rage in a healthy, transformative way.

Join us in this captivating episode as we chat with John Wood, founder of Rage Heart, an innovative online program equipping individuals to connect with and express their emotions through their nervous system and body.

Together, we explore the fascinating world of emotional regulation and discover the immense power of the nervous system.

We discuss various breathing and embodiment techniques, diving into the benefits of nasal breathing and its positive impact on recovery, sleep, and body tension regulation.

John opens up about his personal journey to discovering the power of embodiment and how somatic sessions transformed his relationship with his body.

From feeling safe to understanding the concept of annihilation work, we uncover the complexities behind emotional regulation and how it can revolutionize the way we respond to life events.

Whether you're new to emotional regulation or seeking new methods to comprehend and express your emotions, this episode with John Wood is a must-listen.

Unravel the potential of the nervous system and embrace the liberation that comes with healthy emotional expression.

Your mind and body will thank you for it.

0:00 – Intro
5:35 – Catching up with John & Ellie
11:22 – Breathing and Nervous System Techniques
23:23 – Embodiment and Learning to Build Safety in Yourself
27:34 – Feeling Safe and Defining “Embodiment
41:22 – Emotional Regulation
56:14 – The Power of Your Nervous System
59:45 – Annihilation Work and Expressing Anger in a Healthy Way
1:13:25 – The Benefits of Releasing Aggressive Rage
1:19:25 – Some Comedic Relief (because we all need to laugh)
1:24:35 – Resourcing and Relaxation Techniques
1:36:08 – Wrapping Up

Chase Moore — Transforming Lives Through Jiu-Jitsu and Plant Medicine: San Pedro Cactus Ceremonies, Discovering Who You Really Are, Self-Defense and More - #24

Sun, 28 May 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Have you ever felt like your life was spiralling out of control until a single practice changed everything?

You're not alone.

Chase Moore is a Huachumero (a San Pedro cactus facilitator) and black-belt jiu-jitsu teacher living in Peru.

From self-defence techniques to the powerful world of plant medicine, we dived deep into how Jiu-Jitsu and San Pedro cactus have transformed Chase's life.

And how they can help you take control of yours.

We ventured into the world of plant medicine and psychedelics (namely - San Pedro cactus).

We discussed how these plant medicines can bring about personal growth, transformation, and healing in powerful, life-changing ways.

This episode is about finding yourself and releasing old identities that keep you stuck.

So listen in as we explore the amazing journey of Chase Moore, and learn how to transform your life today (without having to wear white, do yoga six days a week, become a monk, or be super "spiritual").

Connect with Chase: thespiritcooperative.com

5:45 – Jiu-Jitsu for Personal Growth
16:28 – Self-Defence, Overcoming Fear, and Safety
25:55 – San Pedro’s De-escalation Benefits
36:06 – The Power of Plant Medicine
42:02 – Healing Trauma and Choosing Change
57:21 – Authenticity, Community, and Overcoming Fear
1:02:39 – Exploring Personal Growth Through Plant Medicine1:11:18 – Plant Medicine and Community Fulfilment
1:23:26 – San Pedro Cactus Ceremonies and Self-Acceptance

Paula Conroy — Feeling the Full Spectrum of Emotions, The War Between Thinking and Feeling, Safely Expressing Your Rage, Managing Life's Big Transitions and More - #23

Sun, 21 May 2023 17:00:00 -0500

"I love being afraid." - said no one ever.

Or ...

"I just love feeling angry."

Paula Conroy is an ex-banker turned entrepreneur who runs retreats to help women face their fears. To embrace who they are. To feel their emotions.

And to overcome them.

No one wants to feel their darkest, heaviest emotions.

Rage, fear. terror, anxiety, grief, depression, sadness.

Everyone is planning their furious escape from these delightful, fun-loving demons.

People want to feel alive. Joyful. On top of the world.

But everyone goes through stressful situations in life, and as humans, we feel the full spectrum of emotions.

Most people try to deal with their emotions mentally.

Or by attempting to shift external circumstances.

But unless you learn to feel your emotions and create space for them in your body -- they'll stay stuck.

Because the real shifts happen inside of you.

In your body and in your nervous system.

Connect with Paula.

Soraya Chemaly — Why Women Suppress Their Rage and Men Reject Their Sadness, The Danger of Toxic Positivity, Building Resilience and More - #21

Sun, 30 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

If you've ever been told you "scream like a girl", are a "spoilt princess", or "be a good girl" - then this episode is for you.

Because .. those sayings are bullshit.

Soraya Chemaly is a writer, feminist, activist and best-selling author of Rage Becomes Her.

She reveals the power of women's rage.

Soraya explains that if you suppress your rage, it makes you physically sick.

It takes a toll on your relationships.

When researching for her book Rage Becomes Her, Soraya uncovered the impact of race and gender on rage.

For men - they're allowed to be angry.

It's expected of them.

Rewarded even.

But - men are not allowed to be sad.

For women?

It's the opposite.

This is what our society and culture tells us.

But Soraya argues that emotions shouldn't be gendered.

We all feel the full spectrum of emotions, and when you suppress them, it negatively impacts your whole life.

So click the play button right now and fuel your inner rage... 🔥

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Louisa Seton — A Wild and Dangerous African Upbringing, Sacred Female Photography, Embodiment, Loving Yourself and More - #20

Sun, 23 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Louisa Seton negotiated situations with armed tribes in Africa.

Some of them were holding AK-47s.

Growing up in Nairobi, Kenya, Louisa saw a whole side to life that most of us don't.

And she fell in love with photographing indigenous and African cultures and tribes.

Especially the women — many of whom are forced to go through female circumcision (even though it's illegal).

Imagine having zero pleasure during sex.

Being physically mutilated.

It's horrific.

And yet - these African women are so strong.

Beautiful.

Courageous.

Louisa Seton is a world-renowned photographer featured in Vogue, Daily Mail, and various publications around the world.

Her photography is nothing short of incredible.

Over the last few years, Louisa has been offering sacred feminine photography shoots in Australia.

She helps women overcome their body insecurities and find confidence within.

Letting go of perfectionism.

And embracing who you are.

This was an incredible, inspiring episode - click the play button right now...

Connect with Louisa Seton:

Hyperbits — The Benefits of Magic Mushrooms, Psychedelic Adventures, Processing Grief, Harnessing Your Creativity, and More - #19

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Hyperbits (Serik) recently started exploring the world of psychedelics.

Because sooner or later we all get curious, right?

When your back is against a wall, and you’re overwhelmed with grief, terror, fear or rage — sometimes you have to look beneath the surface.

And maybe — you’ll find the wild world of psychedelics.

That’s what happened to Serik.

Hyperbits is an epic music producer and creative entrepreneur. He runs the best online music production school in the world.

Serik teaches intermediate and advanced producers how to master their mixing and mastering, while creating chart-topping tracks.

And he’s back to making fresh melodic house music that makes your whole body explode with gold confetti.

So if you’re ready to trip out to this latest episode… hit the play button right now.

Hyperbits Masterclass
Hyperbits.com
Instagram

Gigi Engle — The Rules of BDSM, Trying Out Role Play, The World of Alien Dildos, Orgasms, Pleasure and More – #18

Sun, 09 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

If Gigi Engle had a dollar for every time someone said 'I'm into some kinky stuff,' she'd be richer than Jeff Bezos.

Gigi is a sexpert extraordinaire.

She's a sex educator, sex writer, psychotherapist in training, and lead sex expert at 3Fun.

Her advice is like foreplay for your brain.

Whether you're into alien dildos, spanking, rope play, or wedgie fantasies (the jock and the nerd, anyone?) - Gigi has seen it all.

And ... she's probably written an article about it too.

Gigi started out as a journalist, working for Elite Daily back when they had only 30 employees.

She now works as a freelance sex educator and writer, for Cosmo, Vogue, Allure, Marie Claire, Elle Magazine, and Women's Health.

Gigi loves researching and writing about the most 'out-there' sexual topics you could imagine.

And she's super passionate about working with clients who want to explore open relationships, BDSM, and crazy sexual fantasies.

Being part of the queer community, Gigi also loves working with the queer, poly, and kink subsets - people who are often shamed by traditional therapists.

Gigi is a master at helping people untangle their emotional ties when it comes to sex.

Because in BDSM (or any sexual act), safety, consent, and communication are essential.

And of course - having fun.

Sex can be a safe space for adults to play.

You can be curious.

Feel sensations in your body that you never knew existed.

Explore your deepest passions.

Your wildest fantasies.

And let all of your sexual energy flow.

Why?

Because sex improves motivation, creativity, and passion.

So if you're suppressing your sexual desires - you're suppressing a whole lot of good stuff.

Sex helps you set boundaries, get better at asking for what you want - and helps give you the confidence to march into your boss's office and ask for a raise.

Plus, orgasms are good for your health.

Want better skin, better sleep, and a stronger immune system?

Have an orgasm a day (thanks Gigi).

Gigi Engle helps her clients navigate the psychological aspects of BDSM and power play.

Because maybe you're into being dominated and your partner isn't.

Or maybe your partner wants to be tied up and whipped, and you're not sure how to handle it.

Gigi helps couples negotiate their sexual fantasies - and encourages her clients to create "Yes/No/Maybe" lists of what they're comfortable with.

Learning to negotiate in the bedroom leads to better negotiations in life.

So, what's the takeaway from all of this?

That pleasure is important.

That creativity, passion, and playfulness are vital to our wellbeing.

And tha

Arne Giske — Pushing Beyond Your Comfort Zone, Asking for More Money, When Shit Hits the Fan, the Power of Community and More - #17

Sun, 02 Apr 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Arne Giske has a "shit-fan map".

It outlines what to do when shit hits the fan.

I mean...

What a great idea.

And I loooove the name.

Because we ALL know, sooner or later, shit is gonna hit the fan 💩

It's inevitable.

Either in your business, at work, or in your personal life.

Arne Giske built his "Millennial Entrepreneur Community" Facebook group to over 80,000 engaged, meme-loving members.

That gave him a huge, super keen audience where he could launch his products, courses and other businesses.

Because there's no point if you have the best product or service in the world -- but no audience.

And after his rapid success building a mega Facebook group, he started teaching other people how to do the same.

Arne launched a Facebook Group course and in less than a year - made over $250k.

Pretty cool, right?

It's even more epic because it's a software business (i.e. super low overheads).

And...

It can be run from anywhere in the world (oh how I love you, online business).

Now - this podcast episode is not about getting rich quick.

There's no such thing.

Building wealth takes time, effort, and more stamina than that guy Sisyphus who rolled a big, beautiful boulder up a hill for eternity.

Arne is passionate about being in the ring when it comes to business.

Because you never know when those big ideas are going to flow.

It all comes down to solving problems.

The bigger the problem = the more money you can make.

And the ideas will come along the way.

Arne's first business was running a pedi-cab in Seattle (those groovy three-wheeled tricycles that carry passengers around the city).

He was 19 years old, made $20 per trip and loved having the cash.

Despite going to business school, most of what Arne's learned about business came from first-hand experience.

Arne's Facebook group product started at just $37, then over time he raised the price as he created more content, videos, and value.

As Arne raised his prices over time, his confidence and excitement skyrocketed.

He created new businesses, invested in new opportunities, and built a solid network of income streams.

Now?

He's focused on The Insider Investors Club, building his various businesses, and travelling the world.

And he's helping others do the same.

So check it out, and learn how to stop SHTF...

Connect with Arne: Facebook

Des Dobreva — Experiencing Cyber-Bullying, Overcoming Suicide, Leveraging Your Inner Rage, Trusting Yourself and More - #15

Sun, 19 Mar 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Des Dobreva is The Branding Queen.

And she's epic.

Not because she's dominating the business branding arena (which she totally is) —

But because she's also a down-to-earth and genuine human being.

(and she has two rescue cats named Lucifurr and Sushi).

Whether it's leaving Bulgaria at 22 to study abroad ... washing dishes to pay for university ... or fighting back against cyber-bullying ...

Des Dobreva is a powerhouse.

Coming from one of the poorest European countries, Des had to fight her way through life.

After being cyber-bullied, she wanted to call it quits and take her own life.

But she didn't.

Des realised she had a choice.

So after hitting rock-bottom, Des decided to give life another chance.

When studying abroad in Denmark, Des couldn't even afford the plane ticket home to see her parents.

But - she was determined to succeed.

So Des worked hard, pushed through the pain, and learned all she could about branding.

Now — Des Dobreva empowers her clients to build authentic brands and online communities in their niche.

She first fell in love with branding as a teenager.

After watching Gossip girl, Des saw the power of recreating your identity through branding (enter: Blair Waldorf).

So at 22, Des moved to Denmark to get her Masters in Branding.

Now, she offers courses and empowers business-owners to create killer, authentic, attention-stealing brands.

"You can't connect the dots looking forward, you can only connect them looking backward." - Steve Jobs

Sometimes, life deals you a bad hand.

It can be rough.

But if you look closely, it can also be a chance to grow.

To re-create yourself.

Des Dobreva is using her own journey to empower others.

She fights back against people who try to tear her down (it's so cool).

Because — you can leverage your rage to tackle crazy obstacles and online trolls.

You can use your rage to change the world.

Rage is a source of passion.

Motivation.

It's fiery.

Provocative.

And it can drive you to take action.

The direction you take is up to you.

Des has a free event coming up called Off the record for people who want to build a powerful brand in 2023.

And if you want to learn more about branding from Des, click here to get her free mini-training.

Tiffany Harnsongkram — How to Balance Your Feminine Energy with Your Masculine Traits, Unlocking Your Inner Flow State, Letting Go of Control and More - #13

Sun, 05 Mar 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Tiffany Harnsongkram is helping people everywhere reclaim their feminine energy.

Because most people in society are suppressing their feminine energy.

And if you're suppressing your feminine energy -- you're suppressing your sensuality.

Your creativity.

Your passion.

Innovation.

Desire.

Which means you're limiting your success in business and in life.

You might feel anxious, stressed, exhausted, or stuck in your mind all the time.

Thoughts circling your head.

Ridiculous stories playing on repeat.

We live in a hyper-masculine world where everything is "go, go, go".

Hustle.

Achieve.

Take action.

Get shit done.

And if you don't "achieve" - then you're not "enough".

It's super important to be motivated, take charge, and be aggressive going after what you want.

But you also need flow, creativity, sensuality, and passion.

It's about balancing your masculine and feminine counterparts.

Tiffany Harnsongkram is an entrepreneur, passionate about bringing feminine energy into business.

She is the co-founder of Impact World and Phoenix Acceleration, and House of Balance.

Her focus is on bringing masculine and feminine leadership into balance.

Because to level-up in business and in life - you need both feminine and masculine energies.

One is not superior to the other.

Masculine and feminine energies are not gender-based. They're human-based.

And we all have them inside of us.

Femininity + masculinity = power.

Femininity and sensuality are a source of excitement, curiosity, and energy.

When you harness your femininity ...

You can make more money and have more impact.

Especially when you combine your feminine energy with the precision and punch of your masculine energy.

Luckily, there's a way to balance your masculine and feminine energies.

Tiffany explains - when you do this - you're in balance with the flow of life.

You're more present.

More engaged with your customers.

Which leads to greater impact and business success.

Because business is all about creating value.

It's about knowing your own value.

And then, communicating your value to clients, customers, and prospects.

When you combine your inner masculine and feminine energies --

That's when the *magic* happens.

Listen Now 🎧

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Josh Le Tissier — Mastering Your Fear and Nerves, DJing, The Life of an Electronic Music Producer, Beating Perfectionism and More - #12

Sun, 26 Feb 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Growing up on the small island of Guernsey, home to only 60,000 people and a single bowling alley...

Josh Le Tissier began DJing at friends' birthday parties and weddings on the weekends.

It all started with word of mouth.

Then, Josh applied for a local DJ gig in Guernsey.

Now?

Josh has over 25 million streams on his music across streaming platforms.

He has played at the Ministry of Sound in London, UK.

And his music has been signed to big labels (like Universal 🤩).

Josh even has his own custom backyard studio (with killer speakers and lush acoustic panels).

But — Josh wasn't an "overnight success".

Far from it.

Josh has been hustling every single day for the last 10+ years.

He never learned an instrument as a kid.

So — Josh spent most of his time devouring YouTube tutorials on the weekends.

He mastered music production, composition, and mixing.

All while holding down a full-time job.

Because, as Josh explains ... you don't have to quit your job to follow your passion.

You can do both.

And the best part?

Josh's day job paid for his music studio.

However, despite Josh's success and fame in the music industry, he hit a lot of road blocks.

At every stage, Josh was smashed with fear.

Josh battled nerves while DJing at bigger and bigger venues.

"What if my USB doesn't work?"

"What if I have the wrong gear or setup for this venue?"

Plagued by all those annoying, incessant thoughts 😓 Josh didn't give up.

Instead - he showed up and took massive action.

In this episode we talked about the importance of being passionate about what you do.

And that people won't always notice the small mistakes.

So it's time to kick that toxic friend of yours to the curb (you know, the one called 'perfectionism').

Because nothing (and no one) is perfect.

Josh played the long game and didn't give up when faced with challenges.

He levelled up over time, and now boasts official remixes for Gryffin and Carly Rae Jepsen.

So keep your eyes on Josh - because even bigger things are coming!

Connect with Josh: https://lnk.bio/joshletissier

Candice Colgan — Being Attacked at 19 Years Old, Fighting Against Racism, The Benefits of Trauma Therapy, Making Time For What You Want and More - #11

Sun, 19 Feb 2023 16:00:00 -0500

From growing up in a strict Filipino family...

To being attacked on the streets of Melbourne at 19...

To living in Manchester, UK and running her own trauma coaching business...

Candice Colgan has not lived an ordinary life.

Candice is a "hurt recovery coach" and has a huge passion for helping people come home to themselves.

Because when everything goes sideways in life, you often lose yourself 😵

You might shatter into a million pieces.

Become overwhelmed.

Experience intense panic attacks.

And end up drenched in tears on your bathroom floor at 2am wondering what to do.

Life can be rough.

In this episode we covered some heavy stuff.

But — it was inspiring.

Candice overcame her own crime-related experiences (starting at the age of five), so she gets it.

Candice has done the work on herself.

Which is the most important part of working with any coach or therapist.

Degrees are important, but life experience is the real deal.

(As many of you know from building your own business...)

Candice now runs a thriving online coaching business where she tries to "run herself out of a job".

She doesn't want her clients to rely on her — she empowers them to stand on their own two feet.

Candice helps her clients re-create their identities after experiencing intense trauma.

She helps them find their way through all this heavy stuff.

How?

By using a combination of mind-mapping, exposure therapy, and neuroception.

Meanwhile, Candice is running around after her two young kids, functioning on virtually no sleep, and still kicking-ass at life.

Her secret?

When something is important to you, you will make time for it.

There's always going to be distractions.

Excuses.

Reasons to avoid doing something.

You have to go out and make it happen anyway 🔥

We all face challenges.

But it's how we respond to those challenges that makes all the difference.

And it starts with listening to your body, and overcoming your mind.

Connect with Candice:

Jaz Borri — Aligning With Your 'Why', Messy Business Breakdowns, Career Astrology, Empowering Women, Doing Your Inner Work and More – #10

Sun, 12 Feb 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Jaz Borri is a raging feminist 🔥

And she's on a rampage (or rather, a radical mission) to help women build epic 6 and 7-figure businesses using career astrology.

Wait a second...

What is 'career astrology' and how does it work?

Jaz analyses your birth chart and astronomy images, then uses this to help you understand the things you're passionate about.

She helps connect you to your life purpose -- so you can build a more successful, thriving, raging business.

Jaz helps you overcome the internal and external blocks that are limiting you in business.

And... Jaz is trained in hypnotherapy and breathwork.

So yeah... Her business advice is hard-core 🙌

Jaz loves career astrology and helping women. It's why she gets out of bed in the morning.

Why?

Well... Women weren't even able to open bank accounts until the 1960s.

Yeah. I know right.

It's ridiculous 🙄

Without a bank account, women weren't able to build thriving enterprises.

And... Women only entered the business world and became entrepreneurs in the early 1900s.

So Jaz Borri is on a mission to help women dominate in business 🔥

(Don't worry, she still loves dudes).

Jaz is breaking down the patriarchy in business - by bringing more women into the arena.

It's freaking epic!

And I am 100% here for it.

Jaz uses her experience in corporate luxury sales, music, entertainment, and career astrology — to equip women with powerful tools — to create impactful businesses.

Jaz argues that without a WHY - chasing money is unsatisfying.

Maybe you've experienced this...

So what's the solution then?

We still need money to survive, pay the bills, and buy outrageous sex toys for our lavish sex dungeons.

But what if we could combine our passion and our purpose - to make money?

That's exactly what Jaz did - and it "paid" off... 😏

But —

To do the same, you'll need to take action.

There is no substitute for grinding in business. Without action, all you have is ideas.

So go get some "action" today and hit that play button...

Connect with Jaz: Instagram

BEAST MODE — Money Problems in Relationships, Freeing Yourself From Outdated Social Scripts, Healthy Aggression and More - with John Wood #9

Wed, 08 Feb 2023 16:00:00 -0500

I don't know how .. but we started talking about gorillas.

And it was all downhill from there 😅

But gorillas are beasts 🔥

Honestly... there were a lot of bad jokes in this one.

So you're in for a treat.

John and I talked about healthy aggression, when women earn more than men, how to boost your freelance income, cross-dressing, and sexy female gorillas.

So yeah...

We covered a lot of ground in this episode.

At least until the light fell and the recording stopped 😳

So... What exactly is Beast Mode?

Beast Mode is about tapping into the beast that's inside you.

It's inside all of us.

Healthy rage, aggression, shame, fear, sadness, joy -- Beast Mode is about dropping into your body, where all these emotions lie.

And feeling them in your body (on a physical level).

Feeling them in you nervous system.

So that they can be released.

Some people call it weak or soft, but it actually takes a huge amount of grit and courage.

Which is what being a beast is all about.

Hence the title -- Beast Mode 😎

But men aren't supposed to cry? And women aren't supposed to be angry?

Or so society tells us...

But that couldn't be farther from the truth.

Because we ALL have these emotions. They're not exclusive to any gender.

These are just scripts.

Identities.

Stories.

But they're not necessarily true.

Beast Mode is about going inside of yourself, and feeling this "stuff".

So you can be your authentic self.

Not caring about what people think.

And having your own back 💪

In this episode of Beast Mode, we talk about what rage is, and why some people say "I'm just not an angry person".

But anger is a spectrum.

Slight annoyance is on one end of the scale, and extreme violence is on the other end.

Rage is somewhere in the middle.

If your annoyance isn't expressed, felt, or communicated -- it will build until you release it.

Maybe you'll explode onto the people around you.

Maybe you'll damage your relationships, business, work, or even yourself.

But there's a better way.

And it starts with listening to this episode of Beast Mode 🔥

Connect with John: Rageheart

Tom Southey — Making Money From Music, Busking on the Streets of Sydney, Following Your Passion, Diversifying Your Income Streams and More – #8

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Your mum probably told you that you can't make money from music....

"It's impossible", she remarked, matter-of-factly ... with her hands on her hips ... peering down at your meek eighteen-year-old self.

"Get a real job", she mused.

And she might have been right.

But...

Tom Southey ("Southey Music") has spent the last four years crafting an epic live music career.

And he has no plans to slow down.

Southey regularly streams on Twitch to over 12,000 followers.

And just wait until you hear his voice.... 🤯

We talked about the importance of having multiple income streams ... and the power of earning money online.

But how do musicians make money these days?

In a super competitive market, Southey shares how he gets clients...

And stays at the forefront of this every-evolving industry.

Safa Roberts — Ayahuasca Dietas, Overcoming Money Blocks, The Magic of Pranic Healing, Staying Calm Amidst the Craziness and More - #7

Sun, 29 Jan 2023 16:00:00 -0500

Safa Roberts spent years slaving away at her corporate job back in Vancouver Island, Canada.

Her life was great on paper - but like so many others - Safa found herself depressed and miserable.

Wait a second 🤨

But... Doesn't society tell us if we get a job, get married, have kids, and buy a house - that we will live happily ever after?

No more problems?!?

Hmm...

Well, it didn't work for me ... it didn't work for Safa ... and it doesn't work for loads of people out there.

Thankfully, there are other options 😎

Like booking a one way ticket to India to study yoga...

Then setting up a kick-ass yoga studio in Canada teaching pranic healing...

Followed by some life-changing ayahuasca dietas in Peru with a bunch of cool expats...

It's about taking responsibility and dealing with your shit.

In this episode Safa talks about the heavy stigma around charging money for healing modalities - when people expect them to be free.

But ... if these services are free or low cost, how will businesses be sustainable and continue to provide top-notch value?

You'll just have to tune in to find out...

If you want to know more about ayahuasca dietas in Peru — check out Body of Prana.

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Alice Little — The Power of Sex, How Sexual Energy Helps You Innovate in Business, and Her Secret Weapon of Authenticity - #6

Sat, 21 Jan 2023 17:00:00 -0500

Alice Little is the most successful sex-worker in the Nevada legal brothel system.

But she never made being rich and successful her main goal.

What did Alice focus on instead?

She focused on connecting with people and meeting them where they’re at.

Alice Little was a professional jockey and spent time working the front-desk at a BDSM dungeon in New York.

I can only imagine the things she would have seen…….. (and heard).

Alice later taught kink and BDSM workshops all around the US before transitioning into sex work full-time at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada.

Alice’s friends ask her when she will retire.

Her answer?

Never. She loves what she does and wants to keep doing it.

Sex can make you feel alive. It can bring you into your body.

Sex can help motivate you to go after what you want.

And…

It can give you more confidence, without having to recite a million affirmations in your mirror every morning.

After all, sex = power.

And power can be used to build you up, or tear you down.

Alice explains how sex can help you accept your body and love yourself more.

After all, who wouldn’t want that?

Connect with Alice:

Ben Williams — The Freedom of Money, Death-Threats, Self-Doubt, Getting Started in Business, and Setting Up a Retreat Centre in the Colombian Mountains - #5

Sat, 21 Jan 2023 15:00:00 -0500

Whether it’s hunting deer in Jackson, Wyoming…

Dirt biking through the Colombian mountains…

Or receiving death-threats from a disgruntled ex-employee…

Ben Williams has seen it all.

In this episode we talk about so many things, especially how to get started in business.

Ben’s razor-sharp confidence has seen him succeed with leveraging smart business opportunities.

Even if it’s a brand new venture, Ben always trusts himself to “figure it out”.

That’s the spirit of Sex, Money and Rage… Trusting yo’ self 🔥

That’s how Ben started his first painting business in Jackson, Wyoming — selling to some of the wealthiest homeowners in the USA.

So, how did he do it?

Ben got out of his head and took action.

He asked potential customers what they wanted before he even had a product or service to sell.

Seems simple, right?

Then why do so many people find it hard to get started in business?

Because of that sneaky, silent killer: self-doubt 😰

We’ve all felt like an imposter.

Some of us still do…

Before he even had a paintbrush or the skills to paint a house, Ben was out there selling himself.

And now, Ben’s helping others learn how to get started in business.

Ben talks about how he learned to sell, the strategies he used, and the importance of being confident.

Why?

Because it helps build trust with your customers, employees, and strengthens your relationships.

When Ben’s not working on his businesses, you’ll find him cruising through South America…

…Setting up a locally-sourced, organic, and ethical farm-to-table retreat in the Colombian mountains,

…Or riding motorbikes through Lima, Chile, Argentina and Brazil with his adrenaline-loving friends.

For Ben — life is an adventure.

He’s always on the lookout to help people, create value for them, and deliver financial freedom for himself (so he can retire at 40… yes please!).

It’s a win for everyone involved. That’s the secret to a successful business.

Connect with Ben: Instagram

Kathy Kay — Sexual Confessions, Strictly Anonymous Podcast, Kinks and Fetishes, Pushing Through Money Blocks, Why Fear is Your Friend and More - #4

Sat, 21 Jan 2023 14:00:00 -0500

Kathy Kay has an incredible sex podcast. A VERY successful one.

And it's called Strictly Anonymous.

She talks to all types of people about all types of wild, crazy, you-would-not-believe-it sexual experiences.

Fetishes. Cheating. Swingers. Cross-dressing. Diapers. Gang bangs. Anal play.

The list goes on...

It makes for some interesting NSFW listening 😈

If it exists, chances are Kathy has interviewed someone who has confessed it to her.

The result?

Freedom. Liberation. Fun. Self-acceptance. Letting go of shame 🙌

Kathy is changing the way we feel and think about sex.

Her show "Strictly Anonymous" is nothing short of revolutionary.

Kathy is helping to normalise sex and shift the outdated paradigm society has had about sex for far too long.

But Kathy didn't set out to create a sex podcast.

"It all happened backwards" she says.

Connect with Kathy:

Neel Kolhatkar — Building a Killer Comedy Career, Making Money as an Artist, Business Mindset Tricks, and the Power of Collaboration - #3

Sat, 21 Jan 2023 13:00:00 -0500

Neel first discovered his love for comedy as a 14 year old dude in high school.

He spent his weekends improvising in acting workshops and making people laugh.

And clearly… his hard work has paid off 😎

Neel won “Australia’s funniest teenager” without even trying, and was the lead in his school musical because he stole the damn spotlight.

In contrast, terror gripped me whenever I was on stage as a teenager.

Racing heart, sweaty palms, my face melting off into a puddle of goo at my feet.

But Neel?

He knocked it out of the park (yes that was a sports reference).

Fast-forward 15 years and Neel has amassed over 1.2 million TikTok legions and 600k YouTube fans.

Neel Kolhatkar’s comedy shows have dominated the comedy scene.

His daring humour and rebellious take on social norms are a swift smack in the face (one that leaves you craving more).

Your grandma would probably gasp in horror or stare at you blankly if you showed her one of his videos.

Yet, hidden within Neel’s satirical comedy is a fresh reflection on modern life.

Especially for those of us millennials.

Neel Kolhatkar’s comedy shows have consistently sold out at Melbourne Comedy Festival.

Neel has also partnered up with big names in comedy to innovate and keep his edge sharp.

And it has served him well.

For many, comedy is a solo profession.

But for Neel?

His proof is in the pudding — collaboration.

And it’s proven by the huge success he’s had over the last ten years.

Neel shares how dropping out of his economics degree turned into a 10+ year successful comedy enterprise.

Neel now runs Comedy Untamed — a wild comedy show that tours around Australia.

He also co-hosts a successful podcast called Sex Cells.

Neel’s secret? Be consistent and always strive to do better.

Connect with Neel:

Claire Belmont — Crypto Investing, Money Fear, Working With Ayahuasca and MDMA, Breaking Through Negative Beliefs, Growing Up in Kenya on Safari and More - #2

Sat, 21 Jan 2023 12:00:00 -0500

Claire Belmont is a fascinating woman.

Don’t take my word for it though.

Born in Kenya to French and Peruvian parents, she attended a Montessori school where she learned the art of being curious.

She explored glorious beaches and went on safari every weekend (yes EVERY weekend).

She studied mathematics, electric engineering and computer science, and completed her MBA in 2015.

I learned so much from Claire about the emotional aspects of money. How we all use money to feel safe (or try to at least).

Claire rode the emotional rollercoaster while learning how to invest in Crypto.

She was at war with her fear and ego, and had to overcome them in order to succeed.

Claire shares how she overcame her control issues around money.

We also talked about the need for decentralized money systems in the world through crypto, along with the security aspects of the framework.

So yeah, I geeked out BIG time in this episode.

Connect with Claire: Instagram

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John Wood — Releasing Anger in a Healthy Way, Why Meditation Doesn't Fix Your Problems, Why You Shouldn't Take a Deep Breath, Nervous System Hacks and More - #1

Tue, 03 Jan 2023 16:00:00 -0500

John Wood is a raging, rebellious copywriter whose journey began after dropping out of high school (much to his parents horror 😱).

At 21, John jumped on a plane with nothing but a backpack and moved to the Philippines, setting up shop on a tropical island with his laptop.

Surrounded by palm trees, coconuts, and luscious beaches.

This bold move turned into 10+ years running a successful copywriting business and travelling the world.

Sounds amazing right?

So how on earth did he find himself depressed?

He had it all – a great business, freedom to travel, an online business, beautiful women and awesome parties.

Yet he felt like something was missing...

When John discovered the power of rage — everything changed 🔥

In this episode we dive deep into his new business venture Rageheart – where he says you explode into gold dust..

Because we really don't need anymore self-help band-aids that only deal with the symptoms...

We need something that gets to the root of the problem.

Like a chainsaw.

Straight to the point.

So, if you want to hear some ideas (backed by science) that challenge the norm, then listen to this podcast right now.

Connect with John: Rageheart.co

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