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    <description><![CDATA[<p>Monologuing no more!  In this two part episode, I&apos;m dialoguing with my friend, Alice, about parenting into your children&apos;s young adulthood.  </p><p>I call Alice &quot;The Most Experienced Parent that I Know&quot; because she has seven children, all of whom are older than mine, and I love talking about parenting with her.  I hope you enjoy listening!</p><p><br/></p><p>CONTENT WARNING:  In this episode we talk about things that parents, young adults, and children might be anxious about, including violence in schools and child abuse at the hands of caregivers (and others).  While we don&apos;t get into specifics, the topics are mentioned.  </p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Monologuing no more!  In this two part episode, I&apos;m dialoguing with my friend, Alice, about parenting into your children&apos;s young adulthood.  </p><p>I call Alice &quot;The Most Experienced Parent that I Know&quot; because she has seven children, all of whom are older than mine, and I love talking about parenting with her.  I hope you enjoy listening!</p><p><br/></p><p>CONTENT WARNING:  In this episode we talk about things that parents, young adults, and children might be anxious about, including violence in schools and child abuse at the hands of caregivers (and others).  While we don&apos;t get into specifics, the topics are mentioned.  </p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Screentime, Hands-on Parenting, and Low Restriction Environments</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short episode, I reflect on the ways that I've made my home full of pleasure and comfort for myself so that I am well regulated and better able to meet my own parenting goals.  Check out the corresponding Instagram post to see pictures! Or facebook if you're old, like me. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I reflect on the ways that I&apos;ve made my home full of pleasure and comfort for myself so that I am well regulated and better able to meet my own parenting goals.  Check out the <a href='https://www.instagram.com/p/DTNq6NMjkp_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA=='>corresponding Instagram post to see pictures</a>! Or <a href='https://www.facebook.com/share/p/19W13hJAVV/'>facebook if you&apos;re old</a>, like me.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I reflect on the ways that I&apos;ve made my home full of pleasure and comfort for myself so that I am well regulated and better able to meet my own parenting goals.  Check out the <a href='https://www.instagram.com/p/DTNq6NMjkp_/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&amp;igsh=MzRlODBiNWFlZA=='>corresponding Instagram post to see pictures</a>! Or <a href='https://www.facebook.com/share/p/19W13hJAVV/'>facebook if you&apos;re old</a>, like me.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Time Release Parenting: Empathy, Perspective-Taking, and Gratitude</itunes:title>
    <title>Time Release Parenting: Empathy, Perspective-Taking, and Gratitude</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How well are we modeling empathy, perspective-taking, and gratitude in our daily lives so that our children will learn these critical justice-building values? Let's explore it together. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How well are we modeling empathy, perspective-taking, and gratitude in our daily lives so that our children will learn these critical justice-building values?</p><p>Let&apos;s explore it together.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How well are we modeling empathy, perspective-taking, and gratitude in our daily lives so that our children will learn these critical justice-building values?</p><p>Let&apos;s explore it together.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How did COVID impact our parenting, particularly for those of us who were having and raising babies in 2020 and who had kindergarteners in 2020? This is a heavy topic to talk about.  Make sure that you take good care of yourself, even if that means skipping this one. Trigger warnings: Talk of COVID, anxiety, and infant feeding issues ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How did COVID impact our parenting, particularly for those of us who were having and raising babies in 2020 and who had kindergarteners in 2020?</p><p>This is a heavy topic to talk about.  Make sure that you take good care of yourself, even if that means skipping this one.</p><p>Trigger warnings: Talk of COVID, anxiety, and infant feeding issues</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How did COVID impact our parenting, particularly for those of us who were having and raising babies in 2020 and who had kindergarteners in 2020?</p><p>This is a heavy topic to talk about.  Make sure that you take good care of yourself, even if that means skipping this one.</p><p>Trigger warnings: Talk of COVID, anxiety, and infant feeding issues</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2025 13:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Welcome back for Season 3!  The back to school season has me thinking about grades and connecting the dots between our habit of expecting success to be easily measurable as 100% and what we should reasonably expect from our children. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome back for Season 3!  The back to school season has me thinking about grades and connecting the dots between our habit of expecting success to be easily measurable as 100% and what we should reasonably expect from our children.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Welcome back for Season 3!  The back to school season has me thinking about grades and connecting the dots between our habit of expecting success to be easily measurable as 100% and what we should reasonably expect from our children.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I love it when there's evidence that my long-term goals for my kids are in motion.  This meltdown turned out to be an unexpected milestone. ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love it when there&apos;s evidence that my long-term goals for my kids are in motion.  This meltdown turned out to be an unexpected milestone.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2025 14:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Finally!  After months upon months of teasing this episode, here it is:  I'm talking about how I gave up family dinner so that I could work towards the family dinner that I really wanted. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Finally!  After months upon months of teasing this episode, here it is:  I&apos;m talking about how I gave up family dinner so that I could work towards the family dinner that I really wanted.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Finally!  After months upon months of teasing this episode, here it is:  I&apos;m talking about how I gave up family dinner so that I could work towards the family dinner that I really wanted.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2025 14:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Measuring Your Success as a Parent</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[How confident are you that you're succeeding in your parenting?  How can you know if you don't know what you're measuring?  In this episode, I share a story about how my daughter's confrontational nature allowed me to double-down on my own confidence in my success. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>How confident are you that you&apos;re succeeding in your parenting?  How can you know if you don&apos;t know what you&apos;re measuring?  In this episode, I share a story about how my daughter&apos;s confrontational nature allowed me to double-down on my own confidence in my success.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How confident are you that you&apos;re succeeding in your parenting?  How can you know if you don&apos;t know what you&apos;re measuring?  In this episode, I share a story about how my daughter&apos;s confrontational nature allowed me to double-down on my own confidence in my success.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Spring Break Challenge Day 5 - Introducing Slavery Part 2</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I offer a follow up to explain some of my responses to my children as we talked about slavery in American History.  I also describe a conversation about racism and colorism that my family had over dinner. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I offer a follow up to explain some of my responses to my children as we talked about slavery in American History.  I also describe a conversation about racism and colorism that my family had over dinner.</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Spring Break Challenge Day 4 - Parental Invisibility</itunes:title>
    <title>Spring Break Challenge Day 4 - Parental Invisibility</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this very short episode, I share an anecdote about parental invisibility, that phenomenon when all of your hard work parenting your children is completely unseen by them...and maybe others. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this very short episode, I share an anecdote about parental invisibility, that phenomenon when all of your hard work parenting your children is completely unseen by them...and maybe others.</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:title>Spring Break Challenge Day 2 - The Therapeutic Value of Frozen 2</itunes:title>
    <title>Spring Break Challenge Day 2 - The Therapeutic Value of Frozen 2</title>
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    <itunes:title>Spring Break Challenge Day 1</itunes:title>
    <title>Spring Break Challenge Day 1</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short episode, I introduce a challenge that I've created for myself to upload a short episode every day of my children's spring break.  Connecting the dots between the value of changing the environment in order to change children's behaviors AND changing the environment in order to change MY OWN behaviors, I'm attempting to build new neural pathways to accomplishing tasks with this challenge. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I introduce a challenge that I&apos;ve created for myself to upload a short episode every day of my children&apos;s spring break.  Connecting the dots between the value of changing the environment in order to change children&apos;s behaviors AND changing the environment in order to change MY OWN behaviors, I&apos;m attempting to build new neural pathways to accomplishing tasks with this challenge.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I introduce a challenge that I&apos;ve created for myself to upload a short episode every day of my children&apos;s spring break.  Connecting the dots between the value of changing the environment in order to change children&apos;s behaviors AND changing the environment in order to change MY OWN behaviors, I&apos;m attempting to build new neural pathways to accomplishing tasks with this challenge.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Behavioral Change Requires Environmental Change</itunes:title>
    <title>Behavioral Change Requires Environmental Change</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[I've been fiddling with this theory that all behavioral change requires an environmental change.  In this episode, I describe what that looks like in my life and might look like in yours. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;ve been fiddling with this theory that all behavioral change requires an environmental change.  In this episode, I describe what that looks like in my life and might look like in yours.</p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;ve been fiddling with this theory that all behavioral change requires an environmental change.  In this episode, I describe what that looks like in my life and might look like in yours.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 16:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Introducing: Connecting the Dots!  It&#39;s Not JUST Another Parenting Podcast</itunes:title>
    <title>Introducing: Connecting the Dots!  It&#39;s Not JUST Another Parenting Podcast</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[We're welcoming back the podcast with a new name and an official new format by talking about walking the talk and lessons learned. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>We&apos;re welcoming back the podcast with a new name and an official new format by talking about walking the talk and lessons learned.</p>]]></description>
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    <pubDate>Thu, 16 Jan 2025 15:00:00 -0500</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Post-Election Day Perspectives</itunes:title>
    <title>Post-Election Day Perspectives</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short, solo episode, I wend my way through my own thoughts and experiences in the early hours of November 6, 2024, sharing perspectives on finding gratitude, talking about hard stuff with kids, and confronting fear. ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:title>Dismantling White Supremacy Culture in My Parenting Beliefs and Behaviors: Perfection, One Right Way, and Fear</itunes:title>
    <title>Dismantling White Supremacy Culture in My Parenting Beliefs and Behaviors: Perfection, One Right Way, and Fear</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this "Dismantling White Supremacy Culture" series, I share my process of learning more about the characteristics of white supremacy culture and how they show up in my parenting beliefs and behaviors, unintentionally, and how I am working towards change.  In this episode, I explore the characteristics of "perfectionism," "one right way," and "fear."  You can learn more about White Supremacy Culture and find a downloadable version of Tema Okun's article here: https://www.whitesupremacycultur...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this &quot;Dismantling White Supremacy Culture&quot; series, I share my process of learning more about the characteristics of white supremacy culture and how they show up in my parenting beliefs and behaviors, unintentionally, and how I am working towards change.<br/><br/>In this episode, I explore the characteristics of &quot;perfectionism,&quot; &quot;one right way,&quot; and &quot;fear.&quot;<br/><a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'><br/></a>You can learn more about White Supremacy Culture and find a downloadable version of Tema Okun&apos;s article here: <a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'>https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this &quot;Dismantling White Supremacy Culture&quot; series, I share my process of learning more about the characteristics of white supremacy culture and how they show up in my parenting beliefs and behaviors, unintentionally, and how I am working towards change.<br/><br/>In this episode, I explore the characteristics of &quot;perfectionism,&quot; &quot;one right way,&quot; and &quot;fear.&quot;<br/><a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'><br/></a>You can learn more about White Supremacy Culture and find a downloadable version of Tema Okun&apos;s article here: <a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'>https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Dismantling White Supremacy Culture in My Parenting Beliefs and Behaviors: Intro</itunes:title>
    <title>Dismantling White Supremacy Culture in My Parenting Beliefs and Behaviors: Intro</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[This episode introduces a series  in which I explore the ways that white supremacy culture influences my parenting.  I first became familiar with Tema Okun's White Supremacy Culture article within my professional life, as the organization that I worked for took on the effort of grappling with the ways that white supremacy culture was present in our environment and practices.  It didn't take long for me to start recognizing some of the same characteristics in my personal life, i...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>This episode introduces a series  in which I explore the ways that white supremacy culture influences my parenting.  I first became familiar with Tema Okun&apos;s White Supremacy Culture article within my professional life, as the organization that I worked for took on the effort of grappling with the ways that white supremacy culture was present in our environment and practices.  It didn&apos;t take long for me to start recognizing some of the same characteristics in my personal life, in my parenting life.<br/><br/>In this &quot;Dismantling White Supremacy Culture&quot; series, I share my process of learning more about the characteristics of white supremacy culture and how they show up in my parenting beliefs and behaviors, unintentionally, and how I am working towards change.<br/><br/>You can learn more about White Supremacy Culture and find a downloadable version of Tema Okun&apos;s article here: <a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'>https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode introduces a series  in which I explore the ways that white supremacy culture influences my parenting.  I first became familiar with Tema Okun&apos;s White Supremacy Culture article within my professional life, as the organization that I worked for took on the effort of grappling with the ways that white supremacy culture was present in our environment and practices.  It didn&apos;t take long for me to start recognizing some of the same characteristics in my personal life, in my parenting life.<br/><br/>In this &quot;Dismantling White Supremacy Culture&quot; series, I share my process of learning more about the characteristics of white supremacy culture and how they show up in my parenting beliefs and behaviors, unintentionally, and how I am working towards change.<br/><br/>You can learn more about White Supremacy Culture and find a downloadable version of Tema Okun&apos;s article here: <a href='https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/'>https://www.whitesupremacyculture.info/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Interview with Steph: When Gentle Parenting is Not Gentle On Us</itunes:title>
    <title>Interview with Steph: When Gentle Parenting is Not Gentle On Us</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[ In this episode, I am in conversation with Steph, a mom who describes herself as a "neurospicy."    We talk a lot about how it actually, physically FEELS to parent, particularly when we are committed to gentle or responsive parenting and we are managing big feelings from our kids and ourselves at the same time.  We question whether our expectations for our kids prevent us from being empathetic with them and confront the old enemy, "mom guilt."    ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p><b> In this episode, I am in conversation with Steph, a mom who describes herself as a &quot;neurospicy.&quot;  <br/><br/>We talk a lot about how it actually, physically FEELS to parent, particularly when we are committed to gentle or responsive parenting and we are managing big feelings from our kids and ourselves at the same time.  We question whether our expectations for our kids prevent us from being empathetic with them and confront the old enemy, &quot;mom guilt.&quot;</b></p><p><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b> In this episode, I am in conversation with Steph, a mom who describes herself as a &quot;neurospicy.&quot;  <br/><br/>We talk a lot about how it actually, physically FEELS to parent, particularly when we are committed to gentle or responsive parenting and we are managing big feelings from our kids and ourselves at the same time.  We question whether our expectations for our kids prevent us from being empathetic with them and confront the old enemy, &quot;mom guilt.&quot;</b></p><p><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Fri, 23 Jun 2023 09:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Getting Unstuck</itunes:title>
    <title>Getting Unstuck</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this short episode, I share my own experience with feeling stuck in some unpleasant cycles with my children and what I'm doing to get unstuck.  To connect with me about helping you get unstuck, you can reach me through my website: https://www.jillianbestadler.com/ ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I share my own experience with feeling stuck in some unpleasant cycles with my children and what I&apos;m doing to get unstuck.<br/><br/>To connect with me about helping you get unstuck, you can reach me through my website: <a href='https://www.jillianbestadler.com/'>https://www.jillianbestadler.com/</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this short episode, I share my own experience with feeling stuck in some unpleasant cycles with my children and what I&apos;m doing to get unstuck.<br/><br/>To connect with me about helping you get unstuck, you can reach me through my website: <a href='https://www.jillianbestadler.com/'>https://www.jillianbestadler.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2023 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Interview with Erin:  When Your Home is Your Classroom</itunes:title>
    <title>Interview with Erin:  When Your Home is Your Classroom</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this interview episode, I'm talking with Erin, a mom who weaves her background in early childhood education into her everyday parenting as she raises and homeschools her two young children.  We talk about the connections between creativity, parenting, and education, as well as the power of being a role model for your children in ordinary interactions.    Here is Erin's favorite recipe for playdough: https://www.thebestideasforkids.com/playdough-recipe/  And her recipe for slime: ...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this interview episode, I&apos;m talking with Erin, a mom who weaves her background in early childhood education into her everyday parenting as she raises and homeschools her two young children.<br/><br/>We talk about the connections between creativity, parenting, and education, as well as the power of being a role model for your children in ordinary interactions.  <br/><br/>Here is Erin&apos;s favorite recipe for playdough: <a href='https://www.thebestideasforkids.com/playdough-recipe/'>https://www.thebestideasforkids.com/playdough-recipe/</a><br/><br/>And her recipe for slime: <br/>Mix equal parts glue and liquid starch with food coloring (if desired)</p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this interview episode, I&apos;m talking with Erin, a mom who weaves her background in early childhood education into her everyday parenting as she raises and homeschools her two young children.<br/><br/>We talk about the connections between creativity, parenting, and education, as well as the power of being a role model for your children in ordinary interactions.  <br/><br/>Here is Erin&apos;s favorite recipe for playdough: <a href='https://www.thebestideasforkids.com/playdough-recipe/'>https://www.thebestideasforkids.com/playdough-recipe/</a><br/><br/>And her recipe for slime: <br/>Mix equal parts glue and liquid starch with food coloring (if desired)</p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <pubDate>Wed, 31 May 2023 12:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>Ramblings</itunes:title>
    <title>Ramblings</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[It's been a few weeks since I released an episode.  In this mini, unscripted episode, I share why and how that's been for me.  Resources shared:  Chani Nicholas https://chaninicholas.com/  We Can Do Hard Things Podcast https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/  Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey https://thenapministry.com/ ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s been a few weeks since I released an episode.  In this mini, unscripted episode, I share why and how that&apos;s been for me.<br/><br/>Resources shared:<br/><br/>Chani Nicholas<a href='https://chaninicholas.com/'> https://chaninicholas.com/</a><br/><br/>We Can Do Hard Things Podcast <a href='https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/'>https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/</a><br/><br/>Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey <a href='https://thenapministry.com/'>https://thenapministry.com/</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&apos;s been a few weeks since I released an episode.  In this mini, unscripted episode, I share why and how that&apos;s been for me.<br/><br/>Resources shared:<br/><br/>Chani Nicholas<a href='https://chaninicholas.com/'> https://chaninicholas.com/</a><br/><br/>We Can Do Hard Things Podcast <a href='https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/'>https://wecandohardthingspodcast.com/</a><br/><br/>Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto by Tricia Hersey <a href='https://thenapministry.com/'>https://thenapministry.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, you'll hear me in conversation with my friend, Lisa Browne, an early childhood educator, activist, and mom of two beautiful Black boys.   We discuss the creative burst that happened for both of us as we became parents, the complexity of raising children to be aware of race and racism,  and the amazing projects that Lisa is doing that build justice and community.   Learn more about Lisa's work with Colorful Stories here:   https://colorfulstories.org/ and h...]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, you&apos;ll hear me in conversation with my friend, Lisa Browne, an early childhood educator, activist, and mom of two beautiful Black boys.   We discuss the creative burst that happened for both of us as we became parents, the complexity of raising children to be aware of race and racism,  and the amazing projects that Lisa is doing that build justice and community.<br/><br/><br/>Learn more about Lisa&apos;s work with Colorful Stories here:  <b> </b><a href='https://colorfulstories.org/'><b>https://colorfulstories.org/</b></a></p><p>and here:  <a href='https://www.instagram.com/colorful_stories/'><b>https://www.instagram.com/colorful_stories/</b></a></p><p><br/><br/></p><p><br/><br/><br/></p>]]></description>
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    <title>Yes Environment and Values-Based Rules</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I offer a glimpse into how I manage my energy so that my focus can be on the values that really matter to me: kindness, respecting boundaries, and seeing the humanity in others.   ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I offer a glimpse into how I manage my energy so that my focus can be on the values that really matter to me: kindness, respecting boundaries, and seeing the humanity in others.<br/><br/></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I offer a glimpse into how I manage my energy so that my focus can be on the values that really matter to me: kindness, respecting boundaries, and seeing the humanity in others.<br/><br/></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I share some of the things I've learned that have helped me change myself, which in turn changes my parenting, which then helps my kids.  I offer this as an alternative to attempting to change your children's behavior as a way of making parenting easier.  The resources that I reference are: KC Davis How To Keep House While Drowning https://www.strugglecare.com/book  Tricia Hersey Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto and The Nap Ministry  https://thenapministry....]]></itunes:summary>
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    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I share some of the things I&apos;ve learned that have helped me change myself, which in turn changes my parenting, which then helps my kids.  I offer this as an alternative to attempting to change your children&apos;s behavior as a way of making parenting easier.<br/><br/>The resources that I reference are:<br/>KC Davis How To Keep House While Drowning <a href='https://www.strugglecare.com/book'>https://www.strugglecare.com/book</a><br/><br/>Tricia Hersey Rest is Resistance: A Manifesto and The Nap Ministry <a href='https://thenapministry.com/'> https://thenapministry.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Interview with Breonna</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this inaugural interview, I’m speaking with my life-long friend, Breonna, about parenting.   Breonna is an educator who downshifted her career in order to be more present with her family as she adjusts to life as a parent.  Listen in to hear us explore themes related to cultural identity, parent vs/and professional identity, seeking wholeness, co-parenting, and savoring sleep. ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this inaugural interview, I’m speaking with my life-long friend, Breonna, about parenting.   Breonna is an educator who downshifted her career in order to be more present with her family as she adjusts to life as a parent.  Listen in to hear us explore themes related to cultural identity, parent vs/and professional identity, seeking wholeness, co-parenting, and savoring sleep.</p>]]></description>
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    <pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 10:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
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    <itunes:title>I am the Thermostat</itunes:title>
    <title>I am the Thermostat</title>
    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, I share how I turned a professional skill into one of my most valuable parenting tools.  It's a simple perspective shift that any person can use, but that parents of young children may find especially valuable!   Resources mentioned: Powerful Interactions https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/powerful-interactions-2  Coaching with Powerful Interactions  https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/coaching-powerful-interactions ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I share how I turned a professional skill into one of my most valuable parenting tools.  It&apos;s a simple perspective shift that any person can use, but that parents of young children may find especially valuable!<br/><br/><br/>Resources mentioned:<br/>Powerful Interactions <a href='https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/powerful-interactions-2'>https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/powerful-interactions-2<br/><br/></a>Coaching with Powerful Interactions  <a href='https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/coaching-powerful-interactions'>https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/coaching-powerful-interactions</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I share how I turned a professional skill into one of my most valuable parenting tools.  It&apos;s a simple perspective shift that any person can use, but that parents of young children may find especially valuable!<br/><br/><br/>Resources mentioned:<br/>Powerful Interactions <a href='https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/powerful-interactions-2'>https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/powerful-interactions-2<br/><br/></a>Coaching with Powerful Interactions  <a href='https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/coaching-powerful-interactions'>https://www.naeyc.org/resources/pubs/books/coaching-powerful-interactions</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[A love letter to parents of young children   Resources mentioned:   Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/ Dr. Becky https://www.goodinside.com/ Tricia Hersey https://thenapministry.com/ Nedra Tawwab https://www.nedratawwab.com/ Prentis Hemphill https://prentishemphill.com/ ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>A love letter to parents of young children <br/><br/>Resources mentioned:<br/><br/><br/>Sonya Renee Taylor <a href='https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/'>https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/</a><br/>Dr. Becky <a href='https://www.goodinside.com/'>https://www.goodinside.com/</a><br/>Tricia Hersey <a href='https://thenapministry.com/'>https://thenapministry.com/</a><br/>Nedra Tawwab <a href='https://www.nedratawwab.com/'>https://www.nedratawwab.com/</a><br/>Prentis Hemphill <a href='https://prentishemphill.com/'>https://prentishemphill.com/</a></p>]]></description>
    <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A love letter to parents of young children <br/><br/>Resources mentioned:<br/><br/><br/>Sonya Renee Taylor <a href='https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/'>https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/</a><br/>Dr. Becky <a href='https://www.goodinside.com/'>https://www.goodinside.com/</a><br/>Tricia Hersey <a href='https://thenapministry.com/'>https://thenapministry.com/</a><br/>Nedra Tawwab <a href='https://www.nedratawwab.com/'>https://www.nedratawwab.com/</a><br/>Prentis Hemphill <a href='https://prentishemphill.com/'>https://prentishemphill.com/</a></p>]]></content:encoded>
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    <itunes:title>Somewhere All Bright and New Introduction</itunes:title>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In this episode, you'll hear an introduction to this new podcast, which seeks to offer parenting insights, not advice, to help listeners rethink the role of parenting in creating social change. ]]></itunes:summary>
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