Sidepiece Season

EP 118 Laura's In a Polycule 2

Mon, 20 Nov 2023 01:00:00 -0500

Met Laura via a mutual friend & we had a great conversation; here's the finale. We will undoubtedly speak again in the not so distant future. Like & Subscribe please! It helps the show to grow & it's FREE!

DM me on IG: Sidepiece_Season

EP 117 Laura's In a Polycule

Mon, 13 Nov 2023 01:00:00 -0500

Finally managed to have an interview with an insider/practitioner of consensual non-monogamy. Laura is sharp & kept me on my toes. She threw new terms & different ideas at me & I had a blast. Enjoy Part 1 of 2! Have questions that I haven't answered yet or interview ideas for the show? DM me on Instagram at sidepiece_season.

EP116 Keep Your Head In the Game

Mon, 16 Oct 2023 02:00:00 -0400

There are so many readily available distractions out there & sadly most of us are in a near constant state of poor focus. Stop blaming ADHD! The resulting lack of focus results from our lack of establishing priorities & then keeping ourselves accountable. There, I said it! Love to hear your thoughts. Anybody interested in cohosting an episode with me? DM me!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP 115 Date With Purpose

Mon, 25 Sep 2023 19:00:00 -0400

There is a reason for everything that we do. It doesn't have to be high minded. Knowing the reason, establishing your boundaries, & adhering to your boundaries deliver the best results! Stop f@#king around out there on dating people that are not the right fit. (City bois/City girls excluded.) Drop me a line & tell me your craziest, strangest, or most disappointing dating stories.
IG: sidepiece_season

EP 114 Big Dating

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 00:00:00 -0400

Businesses are generating incredible wealth from dating apps & yet loneliness has climbed to at all-time highs. That's strange right? Sure it is a multifactorial problem butter the apps helping or hurting? What do you think?
IG: sidepiece_season

EP 113 Communication Starts w/ You

Mon, 04 Sep 2023 02:00:00 -0400

In Speech it is crucial to know your audience. Communicating in relationships requires this, however it's even more critical to know oneself. Knowing yourself enables you to convey your messages clearly & with exactness. A great deal of discontent is spawned in the gaps of communication. Fix it & flourish!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP112 What Do You Bring To the Table?

Mon, 28 Aug 2023 04:00:00 -0400

This question ruffles feathers for some reason. Folks get all emotional but really all that's being asked is "Do you have & can you show me your business plan?" The investment will be time & energy. They are asking for things that cannot be seen. You should have have an answer. If they don't like it - oh well. If you think your answer sucks - that's on you. I took it back to business school on this one. What are your thoughts?
IG: sidepiece_season

EP111 Mailbag Episode

Mon, 21 Aug 2023 03:00:00 -0400

My take on 3 of your questions.
1) Should I give the person that cheated on me a second chance?
2) How do I make sure that I am not getting played in my relationship?
3) Is there is a love that lasts forever?
Have more questions? Want to dive deeper? Drop me a line.
IG: sidepiece_season

EP110 The Talk (Money, Sex, Kids, + More)

Mon, 14 Aug 2023 01:00:00 -0400

So you found yourself someone special. Seemingly the most awesome human on the planet - maybe ever. Fantastic! It's the love right out of your favorite songs. It seems like this is it, "THE ONE!" Well then, sit right down & talk about all the things that you hold dear to your heart & all of those you want from them! Time to be an open book. Are you ready for that?
IG: @sidepiece_season

EP109 Sex Talks (& Talks In General)

Mon, 07 Aug 2023 01:00:00 -0400

Hello there! I end up saying this a lot. & here we are again: NOBODY HAS TELEPATHY! You have to say what's on your mind. When it comes to sex there's too much that you could COULD be in to. I cannot guess. Nobody can. God will not give us divine revelation as to what really gets you off, sorry. Long term you not expressing that is going to cause more problems than it solves. FRFR
IG: @sidepiece_season

EP108 You're Not Serious

Mon, 31 Jul 2023 01:00:00 -0400

As a man who has occasionally been on some b@llsh#t I feel completely confident in saying that if your relationship is not going well it's because YOU are on some bs! In this episode I explain why? DM me & let's make it a dialogue.
Instagram: @sidepiece_season

EP107 Distraction Is F#@king It Up

Mon, 17 Jul 2023 02:00:00 -0400

Hey there friends! Just checking in to hoist responsibility for your underperforming relationship squarely onto your shoulders. Hear me out though...

IG: @sidepiece_season

EP106 No Respect For Time

Mon, 10 Jul 2023 02:00:00 -0400

Sometimes we get rather cavalier with our time in our relationships & in our lives. That is one of the ways that we end up sabotaging ourselves & our relationships. What about it, is that you? Send me a DM.

IG: sidepiece_season

EP105 Relationships VS Hiking

Mon, 03 Jul 2023 18:00:00 -0400

Where is your relationship heading? Are your goals aligned? Are you ready for whatever comes your way?

IG: sidepiece_season

EP104 Elements Of the Demise

Mon, 19 Jun 2023 16:00:00 -0400

Greeting all! This episode focuses on some of the major factors that lead to the demise of marriages & long term relationships. I'm still blaming individual & trash talking all the quick fix gurus out there being disingenuous. Send me a DM @sidepiece_season on IG. Thank You to everybody that followed & wrote a review last week; I appreciate you very much!

EP103 FWB VS Lovers

Mon, 12 Jun 2023 10:00:00 -0400

Somehow the notion that friends with benefit (FWB) are equivalent to serious relationships has taken hold. Additionally some folks use FWB as a distraction & delude themselves into thinking that they do not want more &/or cannot get more. I disagree. Dating is a dumpster fire these days, but that is no reason to abandon all hope. What is on your list of needs for/from long-term relationships? DM your list to @sidepiece_season on Instagram.

EP102 A Bit More On Breakups

Mon, 05 Jun 2023 08:00:00 -0400

Episode 101 addendum. Here are a few things that I feel like I should have said.
IG: sidepiece_season

EP101 Mandatory Steps After a Split

Mon, 29 May 2023 08:00:00 -0400

Last week I was asked to talk to this really smart kid after his first breakup. He is a teenager but this advice applies across the board. I was kicking around a name for this list. What do you think of the Sidepiece Five Piece? Let me on IG @sidepiece_season & if you like this episode send it to a friend. Thank You for your support!!!

EP100 Sidepiece Murders

Mon, 22 May 2023 09:00:00 -0400

For #100 I wanted to do something somewhat different from my normal show. There was an article about a man who hired killers to murder his sidepiece & her boyfriend. I had to dig around for facts that were less sensational & I found them on the KXAN website. Link to follow. I brought in some special backup for this episode. Enjoy it! https://www.kxan.com/news/crime/former-austin-car-dealer-tried-to-arrange-another-murder-after-arrest-us-doj-says/

IG: sidepiece_season

EP99 The Unknown Unknowns

Mon, 15 May 2023 17:00:00 -0400

Sometimes we are disrupting the whole vibe & we don't even know it. Why? Because all of us have our own BS that we bring to the table. Sorry, you're NOT perfect. This episode was inspired by one off-hand remark from a fellow podcaster. Let me know what you think. DM me at sidepiece_season over on IG. I answer all my DMs. It's really not a bot!

EP98 Two Years In/Consistency

Mon, 08 May 2023 07:00:00 -0400

7 May 2023 made it 2 years of Sidepiece Season!!! Today we talk about consistency & not once did I mention LOVE! Consistency is greater than Love! (Love is still dope though whenever it decides to show up.) Please Like & Subscribe!!! If you enjoyed the show tell a friend & tell an enemy it's great if you disliked it. Slide into my DMs with any questions or comments @sidepiece_season on IG. Be good to yourself & be good to others! Peace!

EP97 Gone Too Far

Mon, 01 May 2023 06:00:00 -0400

WARNING this episode contains a Domestic Violence story. Happened across this story on IG which triggered an investigation on my part. Take some time to search Charlie Newhart's story. Thanks to him for sharing the tale. His IG is iamcharlienewhart & he is wearing a gray shirt in front of a blue background. Check out the Community Service podcast #191 from 40:46 - 45:49 for more details. Let's talk about it! DM on IG! Please like, subscribe, rate, & review. They are all free!!!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP96 Building Blocks part I

Mon, 24 Apr 2023 05:00:00 -0400

What are the MUST HAVES for long term success in relationships? LOVE is a "nice to have" but definitely not a must have. There I said it! I am going to do a miniseries on the MUST HAVES. Want to add yours? DM me on!
IG: @sidepiece_season

EP95 Commitment

Sun, 16 Apr 2023 22:00:00 -0400

Some thoughts that got stirred up after a screenshot was shared. Thanks for sharing!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP 94 Stories We Tell

Mon, 10 Apr 2023 07:00:00 -0400

You can lie to yourself. We do it all the time. Self-limiting beliefs abound. Sometimes we make problems where none exist &/or ignore major issues altogether. Communication, emotional intelligence, & mindset all come into play. Tell me what you think. Add your thoughts. IG: sidepiece_season

EP93 Return of Jordan

Mon, 03 Apr 2023 21:00:00 -0400

Jordan D'nelle was passing through Arizona & stopped by to kick it in real life! Most of it did not happen where my gear was located so though we talked for closer to 7 hours this is all I have to show for it. Thanks Jordan!
IG: @jordandnelle @sidepiece_season
Jordan's podcast: Vaginas, Vulvas, & Vibrators

EP92 Shayne Gen Z Representative

Mon, 27 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0400

I worked with this guy at my last job & was curious what dating & relationships looked like from his viewpoint. I enjoyed this conversation & think that you will to. This was the first face-to-face recording that I have done; really has a positive impact on the energy! So cool!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP91: The Good Part

Mon, 20 Mar 2023 07:00:00 -0400

Hello Friends! Relationships always start off well but half of them crash. Let's have a quick talk about some of the reasons for this.
IG: @sidepiece_season

EP90 Sidepiece Five Piece

Mon, 13 Mar 2023 02:00:00 -0400

Greeting & salutations friends! No this is not my chicken order but instead a list of 5 things that are vital to any great relationship. Check out the list & then DM me on my IG to add yours &/or discuss mine.
Talk to you soon!
IG: sidepiece_season

EP89 Friendship & the 4 Horsemen

Mon, 06 Mar 2023 06:00:00 -0500

Last episode Katrina mentioned John Gottman's research (not by name) & I have read a few of his books. He has insights that resonate & so this episode I touch on some of his findings.
IG: sidepiece_season

EP 88 Til Death Do Us Part

Mon, 27 Feb 2023 01:00:00 -0500

This episode I interviewed Katrina. We work together & one day I overheard a portion of the story of her divorce while simultaneously battling cancer. It was jaw dropping & so I immediately asked her if she would share her story on the show. Nerves & all, she obliged. Thanks Katrina!

EP 87 Eclectic Talk w/ Paula

Mon, 20 Feb 2023 06:00:00 -0500

*This episode contains comments regarding sexual assault. Be advised!*
Paula from the podcast Talk Shit With P stopped by to record. The topics were broad & sparked many thoughts. There is a lot packed in to this one. Let me know how you enjoyed it.
IG :@sidepiece_season

EP 86 Attention Whores All

Mon, 13 Feb 2023 02:00:00 -0500

Just a little bit about attention. Too much & not enough are both problems. Attention from the wrong person of people is a problem. Sometimes it is your own personal desire for high levels of attention that ends up causing your woes. I'd love to hear from you with your comments & questions. DM me @sidepiece_season on Instagram.

EP85 Sidepiece in the Congac Room

Mon, 06 Feb 2023 20:00:00 -0500

I got a chance to catch up with Jay from The Congac Room Podcast. He spoke on his multiple marriages (3 to be exact) & some of the challenges with dating & marriage these days.

Find him at: @the_cognac_room_podcast on IG/Twitter
Go to https://grindcity.biz/ to watch his show if you have Roku.

EP 84 Relationship Questions with Robert Howard III

Sun, 29 Jan 2023 23:00:00 -0500

I must give credit for this one to Bridgetta Giles (Say It To Me Nice podcast) because I discovered @mrhoward365 via one of her IG story posts. He asks great questions designed to get a conversation started. They spark thoughtfulness & are fantastic for setting the stage to greater communication. You suck at actually communicating your deepest emotions, fears, & thoughts. His content helps with that! At some point we geeked out about all things A/V; I spared you all from that. Rob is on his game! Both his content & intent are valuable!

Check him out on everything @mrhoward365

EP 83 Sidepiece Life with Jordan D'nelle

Mon, 02 Jan 2023 20:00:00 -0500

On this episode Jordan & I talked about different aspects of being & having a sidepiece. We touched the tip of a few major icebergs. Make sure to check out her podcast Vaginas, Vulvas, & Vibrators.

IG & Twitter: @jordandnelle
Website: https://jordandnelle.com/

EP82 Therapy Time: James Bush Drops In

Mon, 26 Dec 2022 15:00:00 -0500

James Bush LPC-MHSP graciously set aside some time for this interview. I was very excited to get another Mental Health Professional on the show. His credentials are cool but the fact that he has been through some shit (rough divorce) made him much more interesting & relatable. Add to that he has gained some great insights & you have another interview that I am proud to present.

He has offices in both Murfreesboro & Brentwood Tennessee. Call (615) 229-6205
or visit https://bushcounselingservices.com/ His podcast, Mind of A Man, is available wherever you listen to your podcasts.
Follow at: IG @mind_of_a_man_show Twitter @mind_of_a_man_

*LPC = Licensed Professional Counselor & MHSP = Mental Health Service Provider*

EP81 Priorities

Mon, 28 Nov 2022 23:00:00 -0500

You are always prioritizing your life. Any area that you have not made a HIGH priority is, by default, LOW priority. Is that what you wanted? If not then take action on that!

EP80 Jordan D'nelle Women's Intimacy Coach

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 07:46:53 -0500

Thanks again to Jordan for setting aside some time to appear on the show & also for pushing through my technical (sound) difficulties. She rocks! Catch her on her podcast: Vaginas, Vulvas, & Vibrators.

IG: @jordandnelle

EP80 Jordan D'nelle Women's Intimacy Coach

Mon, 21 Nov 2022 07:46:53 -0500

IG: @jordandnelle

EP 79 Crisis Management Wharton II

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 15:06:17 -0500

This one has a toolkit for you. An entire list is included! Drop me a line on IG @sidepiece_season

EP 79 Crisis Management Wharton II

Mon, 14 Nov 2022 15:06:17 -0500

This one has a toolkit for you. An entire list is included! Drop me a line on IG @sidepiece_season

EP 78 Physical & Mental w/ Bill Maeda

Mon, 07 Nov 2022 07:27:29 -0500

Had the pleasure of speaking with Bill Maeda about his journey thus far & his relationship with himself & others. Great talk!

IG & TikTok: @billmaeda

YouTube: FitProHawaii

Brick & Mortar: FitProHawaii

EP 77 Halloween 2022

Mon, 31 Oct 2022 21:05:56 -0400

Gremils be damned!!! Today has had its opportunities on display. Technical difficulties at each turn & then interenet connectivity struggles! But they can't stop the bumrush (IYKYK) - this episode is about your image & ego, ENJOY!

EP 76 Curt Making Connections

Mon, 24 Oct 2022 02:55:02 -0400

@Curttheconnector is his IG handle & this guy has an unique story. Curt is the first & only person that I have met that grew up in a juke joint! Enjoy!

IG: @curttheconnector

EP 75 Respect Time

Mon, 17 Oct 2022 02:26:46 -0400

Current condition: Contemplative.

IG: @sidepiece_season

EP74: Matt B's Juggling Act

Mon, 10 Oct 2022 01:00:00 -0400

Matt mixes family & entrepreneurship & some complicated relationships. We only scratched the surface on this episode. I didn't really mention it in the show but he is an audio engineer by training. Check him out @iambigmoves in everything. Direct link to his podcast at pigmovespod.com

EP 73 Of Restraining Orders & Booty Calls

Mon, 03 Oct 2022 01:12:56 -0400

Just grabbed two stories that are happening in real time. I really do not want to use names so it may be a little muddled. To help clear up the Booty Call part let's call them A & B. A: threw away the marriage & when their plan did not pan out the offered clandestine booty calls to their ex. Wild right? I know. Anyway just a few things for you all to ponder.

EP:72 Hank Denson

Mon, 26 Sep 2022 01:26:52 -0400

Caught up with Hank Denson today. He's a great comedian but a more importantly a greater human & family man! Somewhere in the mix with all these things he also does advocacy work centered at better compensation for teachers over at Payteachersmoremoney.com AND he has a podcast for sneakerheads entitled Sneakers Unplugged! Sheesh! Relax & enjoy.

IG/Twitter: @hankdensoncomedy

LinkedIn: @jokedealersinc

Facebook: Hank Denson Comedy

Payteachersmore.com

YouTube: Sneakers Unplugged TV IG: @sneakersunplugged

EP71 Who You With

Mon, 19 Sep 2022 03:10:39 -0400

A bit about the influence that's exerted by your peers, your circle, & your environment.

IG: @sidepiece_season

EP70 Julius from Toxic Tangents

Mon, 12 Sep 2022 03:00:00 -0400

On this episode I welcome Julius from the Toxic Tangents podcast. You all might have caught me on his podcast a while back, but now he's here for a longer conversation. It's tangential for sure but mostly we talked about substantial topics. Enjoy!

IG: @toxictangentspod (Major links are in his BIO)

EP 69

Mon, 05 Sep 2022 01:54:08 -0400

Well now, Episode 69 has arrived! The teenager in me is having a field day with this one! Prepare for me to spit that hot fire!

IG: sidepiece_season

EP68 Marques aka Mr. Flavor In Your Ear

Mon, 29 Aug 2022 03:15:00 -0400

Marques Edwards is a straight shooter & he pulls no punches! This was a fantastic conversation that ranged over many topics. His POV is unique, maybe becasue he lived in Isreal for a time, & often hilarious! Great energy! Cool conversation! Enjoy!

IG: flavor_in_your_ear_podcast

Facebook & YouTube: Flavor In Your Ear Podcast

TikTok: flavorinyourear247

EP67 3 Big Mistakes PSA

Mon, 22 Aug 2022 03:15:00 -0400

Here are 3 things that folks in bad relationships do to save what are actually fairly bullshit & exhausting relationships. I made this one because there is a bit of trend of people in bad relationships (relationships that increase stress & rob you of joy) DOUBLING DOWN in the face of the odds. WHY? Take an honest look at your situation. Quite a few relationships WILL NOT WORK OUT!

IG: sidepiece_season

EP66 Obbie West

Mon, 15 Aug 2022 03:15:00 -0400

Poet Obbie West joins me this episode. He is driven & passionate to say the least. His discovery of poetry changed his life & provided an entry point to his advocay work. Along the way he was married for a time, became a father, & served in the U.S. Army for 20 years. Hailing from South Central L.A. he has gone on to perform & present both nationally & internationally. I was fortunate enough to grab a few hours out his of day. Enjoy!

https://www.spokenadvocacy.com

https://www.obbiewest.com

@obbiewest on FB/IG/Twitter

Obbie West Presents (Words of West) on YouTube

EP65 When the Sh!t Goes Down

Mon, 08 Aug 2022 00:10:26 -0400

Not exactly what Cypress Hill was rapping about but it fits! When the conversation shifts to an arguement & the charged atmosphere takes hold - you need to be prepared, in advance, to successfully navigate that situation. When the shit goes down you better be ready!

IG: sidepiece_season

DM me/Rate/Review/Spread the word!/Be good to yourself & others

EP64 Mojo: Other Side Of the Game

Mon, 01 Aug 2022 02:43:35 -0400

I met Mojo last year in a podcasting coaching cohort. He's an all around interesting guy; Canadian Navy vet, musician, ordained minister, & Stoic with several (3) podcasts. Imagine my surprise when he told me that he married his sidepiece! I had planned to have my entire cohort on the show anyway but that solidified Mojo's spot! Search for his podcast(s) wherever you like to listen to your pods.

The Wigglian Way (his spiritual podcast)

A Moment With Moj (his philosophical)

Everybody Speaks Music (musical)

EP63 You Are Not V!@gr@

Mon, 25 Jul 2022 03:15:00 -0400

Good things can come from failures & mistaked but we're here so that you can sidestep the same old mistakes that so many others have made.

IG: sidepiece_season

EP62: Matty Hijacks the Show

Mon, 18 Jul 2022 01:44:37 -0400

This time out the tables were turned. I was interviewing music producer/producer coach Matty the Chef when he started interviewing me. He asked some good questions as any great coach would. I had a great time talking to him!

Mattythechef.com

YouTube: MTC Music TV

Twitter: @MattyTheChefDC

Facebook: Matityahu McCaskill

EP61 Max Mupesse

Mon, 11 Jul 2022 00:47:05 -0400

Max Mupesse (moo/pessay) is a organizer/promoter of performances & shows, consultant, cultivator of emerging artists, author, & generally speaking a very thoughtful guy. Fortunate that our schedules finally lined up! I'm happy to have this interview which was recorded via Zoom while I was out of the house. Begger can't be choosers. Thanks for sticking with me! Check out Max via the following links:

IG/LinkedIn/Twitter/YouTube: @maxmupesse

Podcast: Infatuated Hustle

EP60 Complacency

Mon, 04 Jul 2022 05:24:16 -0400

Safe 4th of July! Enjoy episode 60! Complacency destroys more relationships than sidepieces ever will!

EP59 Psychopath ISH

Mon, 27 Jun 2022 03:00:00 -0400

Just hear me out...

IG: @sidepiece_season

EP58 Be Selfish Please

Mon, 20 Jun 2022 17:45:50 -0400

I know that it sounds crazy but this fantastic little tweak really allows you to improve your relationship & stay on task. You will work harder at improving & maintaining your relationship if you are just doing it for yourself. Forget altruism; this works! For real, for real!

IG: sidepiece_season

EP57 A Chat With Big Robb

Mon, 13 Jun 2022 14:09:28 -0400

Recently I was interviewd by Robb Smith on his podcast Chewing the Fat w/ Big Robb. We had such a good conversation I wanted to keep it going on my show & he obliged. We both share a focus on Mental Health so we got into that as it relates to individuals & relationships. Robb is a husband, father, & all around great guy, with an extensive background in radio, tv, & acting. Check out his show; I'm certain you'll enjoy it! (Oh I was on episode 6 of Season 2! Give it a listen!)

https://www.chewingthefatbr.com

IG & TikTok: @chewingthefatbr

EP56 Jason Hall On Communication

Mon, 06 Jun 2022 16:58:47 -0400

Speaking with,The Speaker's Mechanic, Jason Hall. Jason is an Speech Language Pathologist, Communication Coach, father, & entrepreneur. We discussed the tip of the communication iceberg. We will be back with more on this topic for sure!

If you have any questions about speech or communication you can find Jason here:

IG: @thespeakersmechanic

www.thespeakersmechanic.com

Wharton Style

Tue, 31 May 2022 00:49:10 -0400

No I did not attend Wharton. But some principles from the business world apply & there you have it.

IG: sidepiece_season

Feel free to send me a DM with any concerns, questions, or interview requests.

EP54 Purposes

Mon, 23 May 2022 18:55:46 -0400

What do you get from relationships? YOU specifically. What to relationships mean to you? What do they provide you & your life? What are the traits that you must have in a mate? What really matters to you? I know the Top Two most important things...

I kept it short & sweet.

EP53 Rejection

Mon, 16 May 2022 22:39:04 -0400

Rejection is always an option. Can you handle that? Do you overreact to rejection?

EP52 Giving Tree Vibes

Mon, 09 May 2022 20:11:54 -0400

If you know the book you might be wondering what it has to do with relationsips? Some of us are the tree & some of us are the boy. Hell some have played BOTH roles.

Eight Types of Intimacy - Yes Eight (Say It To Me SIDEPIECE)

Mon, 02 May 2022 04:00:00 -0400

I wanted to talk about all of the different types on intimacy. Who better to cover this with than my friend Bridgetta Giles. Bridgetta is an Certified Family Life Educator, Sexuality Counselor/Educator, Mother, & as if that wasn't enough, a Podcaster. As is customary with our conversations there are some interesting & hilarious tangets. Wait for the hats; you'll see! Here's her information so that you can reach out, check in, & follow her.

Instagram & Twitter: @sayittomenicepodcast

Say It To Me Nice is available on all major podcast platforms: Amazon/Apple/Google/ Spotify/Stitcher

EP50: Mindset with Bryn Drescher

Mon, 25 Apr 2022 10:37:41 -0400

No matter what the endeavor your MINDSET is KEY. Mindset coach Bryn Drescher joined me via Zoom for a talk about mindset in relationships. Bryn works with professional & amateur athletes as well as entrepreneurs as a Mental Performance Coach. Coach Bryn is insightful, intelligent, & simply a great human! It was my pleasure to have her on the show! You will love episode 50! (I wanted to commemerate my 50th episode with something special & Bryn more than fills the bill!)

Follow Coach Bryn Drescher:

Instagram: @bryndrescher (Links in her Bio. Check out her 5-Day Take Your Mindset Pro Challenge)

Give her podcast a listen on Apple/Spotify/Stitcher: The Mental Advantage

Bryndrescher.com

YouTube: Bryn Drescher

EP49 Distance

Mon, 18 Apr 2022 22:27:34 -0400

When the relationship hits rough waters there is an impulse to pull back & go below deck til the storm blows over. This does not work! Distancing yourself can be used to great effect in some instances; THIS IS NOT ONE!!!

EP48 The Good Parts

Mon, 11 Apr 2022 21:33:00 -0400

Recently I have been overly focused on the negative parts of relationships & so I wanted to come back with focus on the good parts.

EP47 Consistency

Mon, 04 Apr 2022 22:54:57 -0400

A closer look at a trait that serves us in all aspects of life but so often goes overlooked in relationships. Take a deeper dive.

EP46 Heads High

Mon, 28 Mar 2022 16:18:40 -0400

In the recent past things have been getting negative & tense. Who needs that? I wanted to catch you if you are giving in to that vibe or getting sucked in to that space. Hold your heads high! You will overcome!

EP45 Forgiveness

Mon, 21 Mar 2022 19:29:55 -0400

This aspect of relationships (& life) goes by without being given a great amount of attention; it deserves to be understood & embraced. I decided to present this information so that you could get a sense of the real power & value of forgiveness.

EP44: 4 Fallacies

Mon, 14 Mar 2022 18:33:31 -0400

There are lots of myths surrounding realtionships that make it hard to have a good relationship. They have people chasing these ideas that are not based in reality. This episode it the start of squashing them.

Sidepiece Science 2 Communication Styles

Mon, 07 Mar 2022 02:15:00 -0500

Sidepiece Science #2 is all about communication styles. It's a great start but is not exhaustive because the topic is much larger than this short podcast episode.

EP42 Stop the Fuckery

Mon, 28 Feb 2022 17:32:29 -0500

Doing my part to eradicate two bogus themes about relationships: 1) Your partner can be stolen unless you are on your game. 2) You can be trapped into a relationship that you don't want to be in.

EP 41 You Should Go

Mon, 21 Feb 2022 21:14:00 -0500

My tips for exiting a toxic relationship. Just to get you pointed in the right direction...

EP40 With Love

Mon, 14 Feb 2022 15:17:41 -0500

14 February 2022: dropping something special for the kids. Trick love the kids ;D

EP39 Break Up Kit

Mon, 07 Feb 2022 08:05:25 -0500

Things that work for me with regard to relationships ending.

Episode 38 The Coulduv-Woulduvs

Mon, 31 Jan 2022 07:47:14 -0500

Not all regrets are created equal. For me, the things that I had the ability to do but for whatever reason DID NOT DO - sheeeesh! Those are the regrets that really fux with me.

Episode 37:The Punch You Don't See

Mon, 24 Jan 2022 01:19:28 -0500

The whole point is to talk about all relationships in the realest & most nonjudgemental ways I know. This is a heavy one.

Episode 36: Are You the Sidepiece

Mon, 17 Jan 2022 07:37:12 -0500

A simple question that has some big implications; are you the sidepiece?

Episode 35: Mackin' No Slackin"

Mon, 10 Jan 2022 13:15:54 -0500

MACKING: talking to anybody with a goal in mind. Can it be sex? Yes. Is it only sexual? Not just naw, HELL NAW! Every conversation SHOULD be entered with an outcome in mind! MACK THE WORLD! Here's how!

Episode 34 Autopilot: Do Your Habits Serve You

Tue, 04 Jan 2022 10:36:40 -0500

Think about all the things that you do without thinking. Some of those patterns are fucking up your relationships. Let's talk about it!

Episode 33 Fear or Greed

Tue, 28 Dec 2021 00:39:34 -0500

Fears are limitless if you let them run unchecked in your head, & whatever you are greedy for cannot be satiated. Just human facts.

Episode 32 Stop Saying Fuck You

Mon, 20 Dec 2021 23:48:20 -0500

Merry Christmas!!!

Episode 31 Kindness (Try A Little)

Tue, 14 Dec 2021 00:34:24 -0500

If you're a jerk to others (in thought or deed) there's a great chance that you're being a jerk to yourself as well. You should definately stop that!

Episode 30A Remember the Start

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 20:13:37 -0500

Don't forget how this whole thing started; IT'S IMPORTANT!!! IT WILL END IN A FASHION SIMILAR TO HOW IT STARTED!!! It's real life NOT a fairytale!

Episode 30 Versus Friends & Family

Mon, 06 Dec 2021 18:59:27 -0500

The uncertain path to navigate between family/firends/sqaud & your boo. Spoiler Alert: not so clear cut!

Moves When It's Over

Mon, 29 Nov 2021 20:52:12 -0500

When it's over it's over; MAKE MOVES!!!

Episode 28 Thanksgiving 2021

Wed, 24 Nov 2021 07:52:09 -0500

Expectations & intentionality. What are you looking for?

Episode 27 What's Stopping You Progress

Mon, 15 Nov 2021 07:41:37 -0500

In this episode I tell the late night creepers (I know some of y'all are doing it in broad daylight) how to double down on their primary relationship.

Episode 26 Don't Get Sloppy

Mon, 08 Nov 2021 06:59:59 -0500

The perfect smoke screen for your Sidepiece Shenanigans.

Episode 25: Just a Reminder

Mon, 01 Nov 2021 21:41:51 -0400

We are heading into Fall & people get weary; S.A.D. starts to kick in; it can get bleek. Just a reminder that the good things are still out there for you. Keep your head up!

Dating and Relationships VS Halloween

Mon, 25 Oct 2021 08:24:48 -0400

It's that time of year & as a nod to all my friends that go off the deep end for Halloween, I brought a little Sidepiece Season to Halloween. Make it a great week! Enjoy (as always)

Episode 23: Was Dope

Mon, 18 Oct 2021 08:53:06 -0400

Looking back things were wrong from the start & I failed to fix what only I could fix...

DateChangeAnnouncement

Fri, 08 Oct 2021 08:35:33 -0400

New episode drop date is moving to Mondays! Thanks for the support!

Sidepiecing Fux with You

Fri, 01 Oct 2021 08:35:04 -0400

Hello good people. In this episode I talk about six of thew ways Sidepiecing fucks with your life. I'm using "fuck" in the sense of upheaval. The ways it can change & drastically impact your day to day. There are more than six, but these are the most significant imo. Enjoy. As always, thanks for stopping by! Make it a great day!

Theresa & Valentine

Fri, 24 Sep 2021 22:08:02 -0400

To tell my story I have to start at the start; so allow me to introduce my parents.

A New Chapter

Fri, 17 Sep 2021 08:31:45 -0400

People always ask me about the origin of this podcast so I am going to tell the story.

Re-Introductions

Fri, 10 Sep 2021 08:47:03 -0400

So this guy at Guitar Center wanted to know what kind of shooting I talked bout on my show. I was wearing one of my shirts & assumed that this podcast was about shooting?!? Made me want to put some clarity out into the space & so this is just a quick re-introduction to the show.

Self-Limiting Beliefs

Fri, 03 Sep 2021 08:18:33 -0400

The cousin to low self-esteem will rob you if you let it!

Low Self-Esteem

Sat, 28 Aug 2021 02:46:14 -0400

A bit about leaving low self-esteem behind.

Sidepiece Science 1

Sat, 21 Aug 2021 20:16:34 -0400

Do you want to get geeky about sexual relationships? Well this is a supplemental series just for you! I will tell you the exact physiological events that are happening to you while you're doing the do. Everybody is a little different & so I will try to cover as many of the bases as possible. Enjoy! Like! Subscribe! Review!

Talk Pretty 101

Fri, 20 Aug 2021 20:35:26 -0400

Foundational concepts in communication. EVERY relationship you have hinges on effective communication to thrive & grow; STOP BEING SO LAZY!!! & ffs SHUT UP & LISTEN!!!

Sex, Sex, Sex

Fri, 30 Jul 2021 20:14:12 -0400

Talking about why sidepiece sex is so good & why your long term sex is not. Plus a little bit about the players!

Episode "9" Old Flames - (Always the Hottest)

Fri, 23 Jul 2021 23:22:55 -0400

Old Flames are dangerous! Don't kid yourself!

Episode "8" The Drama Triangle

Fri, 16 Jul 2021 18:57:24 -0400

A few words on a situation that pops up frequently.

Episode "7" Unrealistic Expectations

Fri, 09 Jul 2021 20:33:27 -0400

We are closing out the my "Top 6 Reasons She Sidepieced Up" with this one.

Episode "6" The Undersexed Woman

Fri, 02 Jul 2021 17:07:56 -0400

Undersexed women, yes that's a thing!

Episode "5" Past Trauma Primer

Fri, 25 Jun 2021 10:01:47 -0400

Going down the list of the "Top 6 Reasons She Sidepieced Up" & doing some prep work for an upcoming episode called "Do You Even Know Why?"

Episode "4" STRESS

Fri, 18 Jun 2021 17:10:00 -0400

Stress is a killer. We all have heard of the negative ways that prolonged stress harm our health, but not so much about how it harms our relationships. (The harm in not limited to your partner - ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEGATIVELY IMPACTED BY PROLONGED STRESS!)

Episode 3 REVENGE

Fri, 11 Jun 2021 14:20:35 -0400

If you're mad enough you seek retribution or vindication or both! Why are you mad though?

Episode 2.3 Defeating Loneliness

Fri, 04 Jun 2021 13:57:49 -0400

Assuming that your actions are the cause of her loneliness, here's the fix.

2.2 Using Loneliness To Get a Sidepiece.

Fri, 28 May 2021 14:14:56 -0400

Taking a look at using loneliness to your advantage; spotting the signs that boundaries are lowering; improving the conversations that you have. Oh & a little bit on men & women being friends.

Episode 2.1 - Loneliness the RMX

Fri, 21 May 2021 15:11:30 -0400

Another bite at the loneliness apple.

A Bit About Loneliness

Fri, 14 May 2021 18:21:15 -0400

Part I - Overview on loneliness.Part II - How a sidepiece can benefit from loneliness.Part III - Actions to help prevent her loneliness.

Day 1 Orientation

Fri, 07 May 2021 16:56:17 -0400

Getting familiar with me.