Trust Exercise Thu, 05 Mar 2026 15:26:52 -0500 https://www.buzzsprout.com/2057966 en-us © 2026 Trust Exercise yes c592678f-b73d-5d83-a053-c47f5b800dac Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose episodic false You’re probably going to hate us, but we’re just three Christian mamas ready to ask serious questions, give honest answers, and get emotional about our faith. We’re here to empower other Christian moms to speak up, say what’s true, and defend their children’s futures.





]]> Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) conservative, christian, motherhood, bible, biblical, women, mothers, moms, culture, parenting Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose https://storage.buzzsprout.com/f8jzm0csnkvgnnsix9a73p5tgz00?.jpg Trust Exercise 052: But... Can suffering be a blessing? 052: But... Can suffering be a blessing? In this conversation, Nikki, Candace, and Teara explore the complexities of faith, suffering, and the journey of motherhood. They discuss how trust in God is essential, especially during difficult times, and how wisdom often comes through pain. The conversation touches on the nature of blessings, the importance of lamenting, and the hope found in trials. Tira shares her personal story of faith and the challenges she faced as a mother of a medically complex child, emphasizing the transformative power of suffering and the faithfulness of God. In this heartfelt conversation, Teara Venaglia shares her harrowing journey through a high-risk pregnancy, the challenges of having a premature baby, and the miraculous survival of her daughter, Kaia. The discussion delves into the emotional and physical struggles faced in the NICU, the importance of faith and support, and the ongoing journey of recovery and caregiving. Teara emphasizes the joy found in her daughter's life despite the challenges, highlighting the power of trust in God throughout their journey.


]]> In this conversation, Nikki, Candace, and Teara explore the complexities of faith, suffering, and the journey of motherhood. They discuss how trust in God is essential, especially during difficult times, and how wisdom often comes through pain. The conversation touches on the nature of blessings, the importance of lamenting, and the hope found in trials. Tira shares her personal story of faith and the challenges she faced as a mother of a medically complex child, emphasizing the transformative power of suffering and the faithfulness of God. In this heartfelt conversation, Teara Venaglia shares her harrowing journey through a high-risk pregnancy, the challenges of having a premature baby, and the miraculous survival of her daughter, Kaia. The discussion delves into the emotional and physical struggles faced in the NICU, the importance of faith and support, and the ongoing journey of recovery and caregiving. Teara emphasizes the joy found in her daughter's life despite the challenges, highlighting the power of trust in God throughout their journey.


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-17101852 Mon, 05 May 2025 11:00:00 -0400 3047 3 52 full false 051: But... let's talk about grief. 051: But... let's talk about grief. In this conversation, Candace and Nikki explore the themes of grief and lament, particularly in the context of Christian faith. They share personal experiences of loss, specifically Candace's journey after losing her son, and discuss the complexities of navigating grief over time. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, the struggle to find hope amidst sorrow, and the societal expectations surrounding grief. Through their dialogue, they emphasize the duality of experiencing joy while carrying the weight of loss, and the ongoing journey of healing and faith. In this heartfelt conversation, Candace and Nikki explore the complexities of navigating grief while also holding onto joy. They discuss the importance of sharing memories, the different ways family members cope with loss, and the significance of community support. Candace shares her evolving relationship with grief, emphasizing the need to make space for emotions and the role of faith in finding hope amidst sorrow. The conversation highlights the ongoing journey of grief and the importance of connection and understanding in the healing process.

]]> In this conversation, Candace and Nikki explore the themes of grief and lament, particularly in the context of Christian faith. They share personal experiences of loss, specifically Candace's journey after losing her son, and discuss the complexities of navigating grief over time. The conversation highlights the importance of community support, the struggle to find hope amidst sorrow, and the societal expectations surrounding grief. Through their dialogue, they emphasize the duality of experiencing joy while carrying the weight of loss, and the ongoing journey of healing and faith. In this heartfelt conversation, Candace and Nikki explore the complexities of navigating grief while also holding onto joy. They discuss the importance of sharing memories, the different ways family members cope with loss, and the significance of community support. Candace shares her evolving relationship with grief, emphasizing the need to make space for emotions and the role of faith in finding hope amidst sorrow. The conversation highlights the ongoing journey of grief and the importance of connection and understanding in the healing process.

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16997715 Tue, 22 Apr 2025 00:00:00 -0400 2406 3 51 full false 050: But...Where Has Amy Been? 050: But...Where Has Amy Been? In this episode, Candy Rose, Nikki River, and Amy Alexander catch up with Amy's absence from the podcast. They also explore the difficult realities of social media and polarized conversations since Trump took office earlier this year.

Pull up a chair and let's discuss!

]]> In this episode, Candy Rose, Nikki River, and Amy Alexander catch up with Amy's absence from the podcast. They also explore the difficult realities of social media and polarized conversations since Trump took office earlier this year.

Pull up a chair and let's discuss!

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16734659 Tue, 04 Mar 2025 16:00:00 -0500 2097 3 50 full false 049: But... What Are We Allowed to Read? 049: But... What Are We Allowed to Read? In this conversation, Nikki and Candy explore the intersection of faith and reading, discussing their love for books, the role of audiobooks, and the challenges of navigating Christian literature. The duo also shares their favorite fiction recommendations, emphasizing the role of storytelling in spiritual reflection. They highlight the significance of creativity as a reflection of God's image and the importance of navigating personal convictions within a community.


]]> In this conversation, Nikki and Candy explore the intersection of faith and reading, discussing their love for books, the role of audiobooks, and the challenges of navigating Christian literature. The duo also shares their favorite fiction recommendations, emphasizing the role of storytelling in spiritual reflection. They highlight the significance of creativity as a reflection of God's image and the importance of navigating personal convictions within a community.


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16604424 Mon, 17 Feb 2025 00:00:00 -0500 2242 3 49 full false 048: But... Let's Catch Up + Talk Tea 048: But... Let's Catch Up + Talk Tea In this episode, Candace and Nikki reflecton the challenges of celebrating milestones and holidays while dealing with grief. The conversation also touches on aging, self-care, and society's expectation of beauty, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their journey and find joy amidst the struggles.

]]> In this episode, Candace and Nikki reflecton the challenges of celebrating milestones and holidays while dealing with grief. The conversation also touches on aging, self-care, and society's expectation of beauty, ultimately encouraging listeners to embrace their journey and find joy amidst the struggles.

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16561553 Tue, 04 Feb 2025 11:00:00 -0500 2645 3 48 full false 047: But... What do we believe about speaking in tongues? 047: But... What do we believe about speaking in tongues? Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16377713 Tue, 07 Jan 2025 00:00:00 -0500 2594 3 47 full false 046: But... Do we believe in prosperity gospel? 046: But... Do we believe in prosperity gospel? Sometimes the promises of God’s prosperity don’t feel as real as we’d like. Budgets are tight, the cost of food is astronomical, and this brings up an interesting discussion: do we believe in “prosperity gospel”? And are faith and money intertwined?

Pull up a chair and let's discuss!

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]]> Sometimes the promises of God’s prosperity don’t feel as real as we’d like. Budgets are tight, the cost of food is astronomical, and this brings up an interesting discussion: do we believe in “prosperity gospel”? And are faith and money intertwined?

Pull up a chair and let's discuss!

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16210129 Mon, 16 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2154 3 46 full false 044: But... Do the Words in Worship Matter? 044: But... Do the Words in Worship Matter? As local worship leaders, all three of us are quite passionate about the topic of worship in general. In this episode we talk all things worship: whether or not lyrics matter, what it means to curate a set list, things we do or don’t love about current worship culture.

Pull up a chair, and let's discuss!

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]]> As local worship leaders, all three of us are quite passionate about the topic of worship in general. In this episode we talk all things worship: whether or not lyrics matter, what it means to curate a set list, things we do or don’t love about current worship culture.

Pull up a chair, and let's discuss!

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15965012 Mon, 02 Dec 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2552 3 44 full false 045: But... Our Honest Reaction to the Election 045: But... Our Honest Reaction to the Election The 2024 election has come and gone, and we now know that Trump is our 47th (and 45th) president.

What is our reaction and how do we feel about the aftermath of such a RED country during this year's election?

Pull up a chair, and let's discuss!

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]]> The 2024 election has come and gone, and we now know that Trump is our 47th (and 45th) president.

What is our reaction and how do we feel about the aftermath of such a RED country during this year's election?

Pull up a chair, and let's discuss!

Show Notes//

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-16107672 Mon, 18 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500 1930 3 45 full false 043: But... Is the rapture real? 043: But... Is the rapture real? Many of us grew up with The Left Behind series, which led us to believe that if we didn't have enough faith or didn't pay enough attention we'd have to endure The Tribulation before being with Jesus forever. And... it made us afraid every time we walked into our parents' room and found nothing but clothes on the floor. In this episode, we discuss whether the Rapture is real, and what we believe about Revelation.

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]]> Many of us grew up with The Left Behind series, which led us to believe that if we didn't have enough faith or didn't pay enough attention we'd have to endure The Tribulation before being with Jesus forever. And... it made us afraid every time we walked into our parents' room and found nothing but clothes on the floor. In this episode, we discuss whether the Rapture is real, and what we believe about Revelation.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15767576 Mon, 04 Nov 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2540 3 43 full false 042: But... Let's talk Tarot cards. 042: But... Let's talk Tarot cards. Dive into the subtle lies of the occult, as we hear the testimony of Kai Cherrie. Our sister in Christ shares about her journey to Jesus and how easy it was to believe the un-truths of tarot card readings. Listen as she shares what it meant to find her true giftings and the way tarot cards manipulated those God-given gifts.

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]]> Dive into the subtle lies of the occult, as we hear the testimony of Kai Cherrie. Our sister in Christ shares about her journey to Jesus and how easy it was to believe the un-truths of tarot card readings. Listen as she shares what it meant to find her true giftings and the way tarot cards manipulated those God-given gifts.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15767377 Mon, 21 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400 2902 3 42 full false 041: But... We have lament, confession, and politics on our mind. 041: But... We have lament, confession, and politics on our mind. In today's episode, we have so much on our mind. From the power of confession to the necessity of lament. Not to mention the looming presidential race. Join us as we talk seriously, honestly, and emotionally. But... add in lots of laughter.

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]]> In today's episode, we have so much on our mind. From the power of confession to the necessity of lament. Not to mention the looming presidential race. Join us as we talk seriously, honestly, and emotionally. But... add in lots of laughter.

Notes:

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15763548 Mon, 07 Oct 2024 00:00:00 -0400 1846 3 41 full false 040: But... Do we really understand capitalism? 040: But... Do we really understand capitalism? In this episode we're covering for ourselves, and for our listeners, some really basic principles around government and political ideology. In today’s culture it's easy to take fiction and make it fact. Capitalism has become a dirty word. But, if we follow the logic, we can better understand what we believe and where capitalism sits between the extremes of socialism.

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]]> In this episode we're covering for ourselves, and for our listeners, some really basic principles around government and political ideology. In today’s culture it's easy to take fiction and make it fact. Capitalism has become a dirty word. But, if we follow the logic, we can better understand what we believe and where capitalism sits between the extremes of socialism.

Notes:


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15763300 Mon, 23 Sep 2024 00:00:00 -0400 2256 3 40 full false 039: But... We're changing our name! Welcome to Season 3 039: But... We're changing our name! Welcome to Season 3 We are excited to be back for season 3. And, to kick things off... we're changing the name of our podcast to fall in line with what Jesus is doing in our hearts and minds. Dive into the NEW podcast name with us, and hear what this season will hold as we kick off another chapter of discussion.

Show Notes:

  • Slingshot Esports is a Christ-centered place for youth to play online and find community.
]]> We are excited to be back for season 3. And, to kick things off... we're changing the name of our podcast to fall in line with what Jesus is doing in our hearts and minds. Dive into the NEW podcast name with us, and hear what this season will hold as we kick off another chapter of discussion.

Show Notes:

  • Slingshot Esports is a Christ-centered place for youth to play online and find community.
]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15722620 Mon, 09 Sep 2024 15:00:00 -0400 1759 3 39 full false 038- But... let's talk about sex education | Part 2 038- But... let's talk about sex education | Part 2 After talking with Candace's daughter Selah in Episode 37 about her perspective on a 12-week Christian sex education series she attended, we de-brief and share our own experiences navigating God's heart for sexuality.

Resources:
https://christian-sexuality.com/

]]> After talking with Candace's daughter Selah in Episode 37 about her perspective on a 12-week Christian sex education series she attended, we de-brief and share our own experiences navigating God's heart for sexuality.

Resources:
https://christian-sexuality.com/

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15264376 Mon, 17 Jun 2024 14:00:00 -0400 2839 2 38 full false 037- But... let's talk about sex education | Part 1 037- But... let's talk about sex education | Part 1 This week we have a "super cool"  guest: Candace's daughter Selah. She's going to give us a teen perspective on a 12-week Christian sex education series she attended with her youth group, what it's like to have these conversations with other peers, and how it's changed her perspective on loving her friends that don't know Jesus.

Resources:
https://christian-sexuality.com/

]]> This week we have a "super cool"  guest: Candace's daughter Selah. She's going to give us a teen perspective on a 12-week Christian sex education series she attended with her youth group, what it's like to have these conversations with other peers, and how it's changed her perspective on loving her friends that don't know Jesus.

Resources:
https://christian-sexuality.com/

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15226325 Mon, 10 Jun 2024 14:00:00 -0400 2364 2 37 full false 036: But... Let's catch up and love our Moms 036: But... Let's catch up and love our Moms In this episode we truly pull up a chair and discuss our lives. From books we're reading, to traits we carried from our beautiful mothers, and everything in between. So go ahead, pull up a chair and join our conversation!

]]> In this episode we truly pull up a chair and discuss our lives. From books we're reading, to traits we carried from our beautiful mothers, and everything in between. So go ahead, pull up a chair and join our conversation!

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-15035460 Wed, 08 May 2024 15:00:00 -0400 2259 2 36 full false 035: But... We want to talk about marriage. 035: But... We want to talk about marriage. Today we are going to discuss the all-encompassing topic of marriage. Since last week we shared our thoughts on God’s heart around divorce, it only makes sense to think about God’s heart for marriage. Each of us is over a decade into our journey of marriage with a lot to learn. But also, we have many lessons learned thus far. Pull up a chair, and let's discuss.

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]]> Today we are going to discuss the all-encompassing topic of marriage. Since last week we shared our thoughts on God’s heart around divorce, it only makes sense to think about God’s heart for marriage. Each of us is over a decade into our journey of marriage with a lot to learn. But also, we have many lessons learned thus far. Pull up a chair, and let's discuss.

Resources:

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14935552 Mon, 22 Apr 2024 15:00:00 -0400 2306 2 35 full false 034: But... how should the church handle divorce? 034: But... how should the church handle divorce? We want to tackle the topic of divorce. Today, 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. And we don’t see much of a difference between Christians and non-Christians. What does the Bible say about it, and how should we as the church care for people in this broken place?

Resources:
Bible Project on Jesus and Divorce

]]> We want to tackle the topic of divorce. Today, 40-50% of marriages end in divorce. And we don’t see much of a difference between Christians and non-Christians. What does the Bible say about it, and how should we as the church care for people in this broken place?

Resources:
Bible Project on Jesus and Divorce

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14894031 Mon, 15 Apr 2024 14:00:00 -0400 2026 2 34 full false 033: But... did we hate the Jesus Super Bowl commercial? 033: But... did we hate the Jesus Super Bowl commercial? The day after the Super Bowl, social media exploded with criticism for all kinds of things... one of them being the He Gets Us campaign that said "Jesus didn't preach hate. He washed feet." What's our hot take, and who was *actually* behind this campaign?

Pull up a chair and let's discuss.

]]> The day after the Super Bowl, social media exploded with criticism for all kinds of things... one of them being the He Gets Us campaign that said "Jesus didn't preach hate. He washed feet." What's our hot take, and who was *actually* behind this campaign?

Pull up a chair and let's discuss.

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14595089 Mon, 04 Mar 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2228 2 33 full false 032: But... it's time to talk about our tragedy. | Part 2 032: But... it's time to talk about our tragedy. | Part 2 In this second parter, we discuss the stigma of suicide, especially in Christian communities. We talk about statistics, grief, and the realities that surround this kind of loss.

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]]> In this second parter, we discuss the stigma of suicide, especially in Christian communities. We talk about statistics, grief, and the realities that surround this kind of loss.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14555153 Mon, 26 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2334 2 32 full false 031: But... it's time to talk about our tragedy. 031: But... it's time to talk about our tragedy. At the beginning of season two, we mentioned a tragedy that struck our community. And now we're ready to talk about it. In this episode (not for young ears), co-host Candy Rose shares with great vulnerability the tragedy that struck her home in the fall of 2023.

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]]> At the beginning of season two, we mentioned a tragedy that struck our community. And now we're ready to talk about it. In this episode (not for young ears), co-host Candy Rose shares with great vulnerability the tragedy that struck her home in the fall of 2023.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14504108 Mon, 19 Feb 2024 00:00:00 -0500 2156 2 31 full false 030: But... can we demystify spiritual gifts? | Part 2 030: But... can we demystify spiritual gifts? | Part 2 Host Amy has been deep-diving into Ephesians 4 and the spiritual gifts outlined by Paul. We wanted to bring her new obsession with all things Ephesians 4 to a two-part episode, in which we discuss what to do with this list, how we feel about personality tests, and if we can demystify spiritual gifts.

Resources:

]]> Host Amy has been deep-diving into Ephesians 4 and the spiritual gifts outlined by Paul. We wanted to bring her new obsession with all things Ephesians 4 to a two-part episode, in which we discuss what to do with this list, how we feel about personality tests, and if we can demystify spiritual gifts.

Resources:

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14190371 Fri, 22 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500 2764 2 30 full false 029: But... can we demystify spiritual gifts? | Part 1 029: But... can we demystify spiritual gifts? | Part 1 Host Amy has been deep-diving into Ephesians 4 and the spiritual gifts outlined by Paul. We wanted to bring her new obsession with all things Ephesians 4 to a two-part episode, in which we discuss what to do with this list, how we feel about personality tests, and if we can demystify spiritual gifts.

Resources:

]]> Host Amy has been deep-diving into Ephesians 4 and the spiritual gifts outlined by Paul. We wanted to bring her new obsession with all things Ephesians 4 to a two-part episode, in which we discuss what to do with this list, how we feel about personality tests, and if we can demystify spiritual gifts.

Resources:

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-14142774 Thu, 14 Dec 2023 00:00:00 -0500 2389 2 29 full false 028: But... do we stand with Israel? 028: But... do we stand with Israel? As moms who love Jesus and vote for freedom and life, where do we stand on the current conflict in Israel? Do we fault Israel for their part in the conflict? Do we blame the Palestinians? Or is Hamas the one that's driving all the pain and horror?

]]> As moms who love Jesus and vote for freedom and life, where do we stand on the current conflict in Israel? Do we fault Israel for their part in the conflict? Do we blame the Palestinians? Or is Hamas the one that's driving all the pain and horror?

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-13919492 Mon, 06 Nov 2023 13:00:00 -0500 1940 2 28 full false 027: But...does God love Satan? 027: But...does God love Satan? It's season 2, and we're BACK! To open up this season, and hit some spooky vibes, we're discussing a question that Amy's four-year-old daughter asked: does God love Satan? Since Satan is evil, can God love Satan? And since God created him, what kind of love and compassion might he have for his fallen creature?

]]> It's season 2, and we're BACK! To open up this season, and hit some spooky vibes, we're discussing a question that Amy's four-year-old daughter asked: does God love Satan? Since Satan is evil, can God love Satan? And since God created him, what kind of love and compassion might he have for his fallen creature?

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-13872258 Mon, 30 Oct 2023 09:00:00 -0400 2288 2 27 full false 026: But... are culture wars working? | Part 2 026: But... are culture wars working? | Part 2 In our first Culture Wars episode we dove into the deep end, divulging our views and opinions on politics and culture. But, more importantly, we framed our belief that far above politics and any allegiance to America is our desire to seek first the Kingdom of God. How we jump into culture wars and to what extent is still up for debate. And we’re excited to keep the conversation going! 

Show Notes >>
You Are What You Love

]]> In our first Culture Wars episode we dove into the deep end, divulging our views and opinions on politics and culture. But, more importantly, we framed our belief that far above politics and any allegiance to America is our desire to seek first the Kingdom of God. How we jump into culture wars and to what extent is still up for debate. And we’re excited to keep the conversation going! 

Show Notes >>
You Are What You Love

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-13066342 Mon, 19 Jun 2023 10:00:00 -0400 2858 1 26 full false 025: But... today is husband takeover! 025: But... today is husband takeover! In honor of Father's Day, we've asked the husbands to bring their unique perspective to parenting that moms don’t always understand. Especially when it comes to parenting boys versus girls. Being a Christ-centered father is not always easy, and knowing how to parent our sons and our daughters comes with its own challenges.

]]> In honor of Father's Day, we've asked the husbands to bring their unique perspective to parenting that moms don’t always understand. Especially when it comes to parenting boys versus girls. Being a Christ-centered father is not always easy, and knowing how to parent our sons and our daughters comes with its own challenges.

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12998055 Mon, 12 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400 1463 1 25 full false 024: But... are conservative culture wars working? 024: But... are conservative culture wars working? The culture wars in America have become cutthroat over the last few years. And, today they are as hot as ever. We’re entering into the Pride month of June with plenty of intense news stories to fuel division and anger on either side of the aisle. As Christians, we have to ask: what part are we supposed to play in all of this? If we’re conservative, then should we be jumping into the war and if we do…. Will it even work?

// Show Notes:
Magatte Wade on How Black Lives Truly Matter

]]> The culture wars in America have become cutthroat over the last few years. And, today they are as hot as ever. We’re entering into the Pride month of June with plenty of intense news stories to fuel division and anger on either side of the aisle. As Christians, we have to ask: what part are we supposed to play in all of this? If we’re conservative, then should we be jumping into the war and if we do…. Will it even work?

// Show Notes:
Magatte Wade on How Black Lives Truly Matter

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12977328 Mon, 05 Jun 2023 00:00:00 -0400 3244 1 24 full false 023: But... do our beliefs have power? 023: But... do our beliefs have power? You’ve probably heard that controlling your inner dialogue is important. What we think affects what we say and do, and it matters. But, what happens when the truth of what’s real around you creates beliefs and faith that don’t align with God’s future kingdom? Are we unintentionally building faith around things that are not of Jesus and putting our trust in realities that only create more brokenness?

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]]> You’ve probably heard that controlling your inner dialogue is important. What we think affects what we say and do, and it matters. But, what happens when the truth of what’s real around you creates beliefs and faith that don’t align with God’s future kingdom? Are we unintentionally building faith around things that are not of Jesus and putting our trust in realities that only create more brokenness?

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12926110 Mon, 29 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2270 full false 022: But... why is rest so hard? 022: But... why is rest so hard? If you’re anything like us, certain seasons of the year become an all-out sprint toward insanity. Whether it’s busy work seasons, closing out the school year, or preparing for holidays… mom life is full of scheduling and remembering all the things, plus being successful at work and volunteer life. It’s just a lot. But, we are called for Sabbath. We are called to create margin and time for rest. How does this fit? What does it mean to be obedient? And where the HECK does the time go?!


]]> If you’re anything like us, certain seasons of the year become an all-out sprint toward insanity. Whether it’s busy work seasons, closing out the school year, or preparing for holidays… mom life is full of scheduling and remembering all the things, plus being successful at work and volunteer life. It’s just a lot. But, we are called for Sabbath. We are called to create margin and time for rest. How does this fit? What does it mean to be obedient? And where the HECK does the time go?!


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12830635 Mon, 15 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2412 1 22 full false 021: But... why is there evil? | Part 2 021: But... why is there evil? | Part 2 Last week, we dove into the problem of evil, asking: “If we have an all-powerful, all-loving God, why does evil exist?” That conversation led us right to this question: “Then… why did God create the world if He knew we would fall?” If God always knew we would fail, why did He create us like this… why did He create us at all?

Show Notes //

The Problem of Evil Videos
The Logic Argument
The Probability Argument

Bible Project: Firstborn Series

Katherine Wolf

Tim Mackie on suffering

The Problem of Pain By C.S. Lewis

]]> Last week, we dove into the problem of evil, asking: “If we have an all-powerful, all-loving God, why does evil exist?” That conversation led us right to this question: “Then… why did God create the world if He knew we would fall?” If God always knew we would fail, why did He create us like this… why did He create us at all?

Show Notes //

The Problem of Evil Videos
The Logic Argument
The Probability Argument

Bible Project: Firstborn Series

Katherine Wolf

Tim Mackie on suffering

The Problem of Pain By C.S. Lewis

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12711905 Mon, 01 May 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2342 1 21 full false 020: But... why is there evil? | Part 1 020: But... why is there evil? | Part 1 In this two-part episode, we’re asking one of the harder questions: why does evil exist? How can God be all-knowing, all-loving, and all-powerful but still allow evil? This “problem of evil” plagues a lot of people’s minds if they’ve never taken the time to consider it. Whether you have a friend asking this question of you, or whether you’ve experienced something deeply painful that has you doubting God, it’s an understandable and pertinent question. If God loved us he wouldn’t allow evil… right?

Show Notes //

The Problem of Evil Videos
The Logic Argument
The Probability Argument

Bible Project: Firstborn Series

Katherine Wolf

Tim Mackie on suffering

The Problem of Pain By C.S. Lewis


]]> In this two-part episode, we’re asking one of the harder questions: why does evil exist? How can God be all-knowing, all-loving, and all-powerful but still allow evil? This “problem of evil” plagues a lot of people’s minds if they’ve never taken the time to consider it. Whether you have a friend asking this question of you, or whether you’ve experienced something deeply painful that has you doubting God, it’s an understandable and pertinent question. If God loved us he wouldn’t allow evil… right?

Show Notes //

The Problem of Evil Videos
The Logic Argument
The Probability Argument

Bible Project: Firstborn Series

Katherine Wolf

Tim Mackie on suffering

The Problem of Pain By C.S. Lewis


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12711743 Mon, 24 Apr 2023 09:00:00 -0400 2094 1 20 full false 019: But... is spanking abuse? 019: But... is spanking abuse? Today, we’re talking about disciplining our children. There are a lot of parenting styles out there these days. From gentle parenting to spanking and everything in-between, where do we land on a Biblical approach to proper parenting? What has worked for us, what hasn’t, and how can we honor God with the way we respond to our children’s behaviors?

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Parenting with Love and Logic

]]> Today, we’re talking about disciplining our children. There are a lot of parenting styles out there these days. From gentle parenting to spanking and everything in-between, where do we land on a Biblical approach to proper parenting? What has worked for us, what hasn’t, and how can we honor God with the way we respond to our children’s behaviors?

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Parenting with Love and Logic

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12622877 Mon, 17 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2585 1 19 full false 018: But... is it ok to take pride in our giftings? 018: But... is it ok to take pride in our giftings? In this episode, we talk about Christian gifts, and the egos that often trail behind. Within Christian culture, people are gifted with such a variety of things. Whether we’re gifted with something more public, like speaking, teaching or leading worship. Or, whether we’re gifted with more behind-the-scenes skills like prophetic prayer, pastoral care, catalytic vision, feeding a group of 50, or setting up lights in the production booth. In church, it can feel like you have to have something to offer. It’s easy to build your worth and pride around what you’re bringing to the table. How do we balance the need to humbly offer our talents with the egos that often creep in and take hold? Or, even worse, the jealousy of someone else’s talent and recognition?


]]> In this episode, we talk about Christian gifts, and the egos that often trail behind. Within Christian culture, people are gifted with such a variety of things. Whether we’re gifted with something more public, like speaking, teaching or leading worship. Or, whether we’re gifted with more behind-the-scenes skills like prophetic prayer, pastoral care, catalytic vision, feeding a group of 50, or setting up lights in the production booth. In church, it can feel like you have to have something to offer. It’s easy to build your worth and pride around what you’re bringing to the table. How do we balance the need to humbly offer our talents with the egos that often creep in and take hold? Or, even worse, the jealousy of someone else’s talent and recognition?


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12596712 Mon, 10 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2352 1 18 full false 017: But... what's considered legalistic? 017: But... what's considered legalistic? For most of us, legalism has an icky, loveless, judgemental undertone. We think of legalism as the opposite of freedom and the opposite of the grace and mercy Jesus embodies. But, most people wouldn’t call themselves legalistic. Even among Christians, everyone has different boundaries and lines they draw around their habits, life values, and mode of operating. So, how do we define legalism so that we don’t become modern-day Pharisees? And, why do we mention “legalism” so much on this podcast?!

// Show Notes

]]> For most of us, legalism has an icky, loveless, judgemental undertone. We think of legalism as the opposite of freedom and the opposite of the grace and mercy Jesus embodies. But, most people wouldn’t call themselves legalistic. Even among Christians, everyone has different boundaries and lines they draw around their habits, life values, and mode of operating. So, how do we define legalism so that we don’t become modern-day Pharisees? And, why do we mention “legalism” so much on this podcast?!

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12542662 Mon, 03 Apr 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2463 1 17 full false 016: But... is depression a sin? 016: But... is depression a sin? Depression. So many of us struggle with different levels of depression. Silently, we walk around dealing with the shame, guilt, and isolation that come with depression’s stigma. Despite the fact that it affects millions of people, many of those within the Christian church, we act like there’s a lack of faith or depth in someone’s relationships with God if they’re struggling with the deep sadness that comes with this kind of condition. Is it a sin? Is it a lack of faith? What do we need to consider when approaching this topic, and those that struggle with its effects?


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]]> Depression. So many of us struggle with different levels of depression. Silently, we walk around dealing with the shame, guilt, and isolation that come with depression’s stigma. Despite the fact that it affects millions of people, many of those within the Christian church, we act like there’s a lack of faith or depth in someone’s relationships with God if they’re struggling with the deep sadness that comes with this kind of condition. Is it a sin? Is it a lack of faith? What do we need to consider when approaching this topic, and those that struggle with its effects?


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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12455633 Mon, 27 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2343 1 16 full false 015: But... division is not the goal. 015: But... division is not the goal. It’s no secret: we started this podcast because we wanted a conservative, Bible-believing voice to be heard in a culture that cancels people for far, far less. But, we’ve had the privilege of being supported by not only conservative Christian moms, but liberal Christian moms. And, that brings up an important point: why are we so divided?! And how can we model great conversations between diverse opinions while also having our values heard loud and clear?

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]]> It’s no secret: we started this podcast because we wanted a conservative, Bible-believing voice to be heard in a culture that cancels people for far, far less. But, we’ve had the privilege of being supported by not only conservative Christian moms, but liberal Christian moms. And, that brings up an important point: why are we so divided?! And how can we model great conversations between diverse opinions while also having our values heard loud and clear?

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12455406 Mon, 20 Mar 2023 00:00:00 -0400 2207 1 15 full false 014 - But... is it God or gods? 014 - But... is it God or gods? We see it time and again in the Bible: “There shall be no gods before me,” “who is like you, oh Lord, among the gods,” “Do not follow other gods to serve or worship them,” … on and on the examples go. The idea of multiple gods was not foreign to ancient people. And yet, Christianity is a monotheistic religion… meaning we believe in one Captial-G God. So, what’s the discrepancy here? And what does the Bible actually say?

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]]> We see it time and again in the Bible: “There shall be no gods before me,” “who is like you, oh Lord, among the gods,” “Do not follow other gods to serve or worship them,” … on and on the examples go. The idea of multiple gods was not foreign to ancient people. And yet, Christianity is a monotheistic religion… meaning we believe in one Captial-G God. So, what’s the discrepancy here? And what does the Bible actually say?

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose, Laura Thompson Buzzsprout-12384010 Mon, 06 Mar 2023 09:00:00 -0500 2507 1 14 full false 013 - But... friendships with the opposite sex? 013 - But... friendships with the opposite sex? For many women, friendships with the opposite sex are not only easier… they are more natural. Girls can be catty and competitive, but guys don’t play as many games. They’re just “easier” to be around. But as we enter into committed relationships--become engaged, get married--should these friendships change? Do we need more rules and boundaries around our relationships? How can we best honor our husbands and our friendships?


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The Case Against the Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry

]]> For many women, friendships with the opposite sex are not only easier… they are more natural. Girls can be catty and competitive, but guys don’t play as many games. They’re just “easier” to be around. But as we enter into committed relationships--become engaged, get married--should these friendships change? Do we need more rules and boundaries around our relationships? How can we best honor our husbands and our friendships?


// Show Notes:
The Case Against the Sexual Revolution by Louise Perry

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose, Hadassah Bird Buzzsprout-12336342 Mon, 27 Feb 2023 08:00:00 -0500 2745 1 13 full false 012 - But... hearing God's voice is hard. 012 - But... hearing God's voice is hard. Hearing God’s voice can be… a challenge. Knowing when to move forward or when to sit still. Discerning the BEST choice over just a good choice. Walking a God-led path for yourself, your husband, and your kids. From moving to a new house, to picking the right style of education, to the best course of discipline for a rebellious kid. How do we find ways to listen, and how do we feel God speaks to us?

]]> Hearing God’s voice can be… a challenge. Knowing when to move forward or when to sit still. Discerning the BEST choice over just a good choice. Walking a God-led path for yourself, your husband, and your kids. From moving to a new house, to picking the right style of education, to the best course of discipline for a rebellious kid. How do we find ways to listen, and how do we feel God speaks to us?

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12171541 Thu, 02 Feb 2023 14:00:00 -0500 2662 1 12 full false 011 - But... we lie to ourselves. 011 - But... we lie to ourselves. Living a world that does not reflect God’s Kingdom means that we are constantly trying to re-align our thoughts and beliefs with Capital “T” Truth. Whether we learned these lies from our parents, our schools, our friends, or even well-meaning churches… we all believe certain lies about ourselves. Both as people, and as women. In this episode walk through some of those lies, reframe our beliefs, and help each other understand what it means to be women of God.

]]> Living a world that does not reflect God’s Kingdom means that we are constantly trying to re-align our thoughts and beliefs with Capital “T” Truth. Whether we learned these lies from our parents, our schools, our friends, or even well-meaning churches… we all believe certain lies about ourselves. Both as people, and as women. In this episode walk through some of those lies, reframe our beliefs, and help each other understand what it means to be women of God.

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12079600 Thu, 19 Jan 2023 13:00:00 -0500 2676 1 11 full true 010 - But... we're talking about sexualization and LGBTQ+ 010 - But... we're talking about sexualization and LGBTQ+ From kid-friendly drag shows to sexualized merchandise on the shelves of Target, it’s getting harder and harder to keep our children innocent. Our kids are fed sex-driven content in their cartoons, they’re delivered lingerie-wearing toys for their birthdays, and they’re taught about eroticism in their sex-ed class. What’s “too far” for us as Christ-centered moms, why do LGBTQ+ issues wrap themselves into this conversation, and where are we choosing to draw the line?

>> Show Notes

]]> From kid-friendly drag shows to sexualized merchandise on the shelves of Target, it’s getting harder and harder to keep our children innocent. Our kids are fed sex-driven content in their cartoons, they’re delivered lingerie-wearing toys for their birthdays, and they’re taught about eroticism in their sex-ed class. What’s “too far” for us as Christ-centered moms, why do LGBTQ+ issues wrap themselves into this conversation, and where are we choosing to draw the line?

>> Show Notes

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-12024165 Thu, 12 Jan 2023 00:00:00 -0500 2400 1 10 full false 009 - But... Manifestation is not Biblical. 009 - But... Manifestation is not Biblical. As we enter a new year and start thinking about our resolutions, goals, and hopes for 2023, we can’t help but discuss the popular idea of manifestation. New agers all over TikTok want us to believe that we can manifest anything by simply believing hard enough. But even Christians fall into similar beliefs. We hear things like “name and claim it” and wonder if that’s really as Biblical as we think. Dive into scripture with us as we discuss manifestation, prosperity gospel, and our spiritual authority as believers.

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]]> As we enter a new year and start thinking about our resolutions, goals, and hopes for 2023, we can’t help but discuss the popular idea of manifestation. New agers all over TikTok want us to believe that we can manifest anything by simply believing hard enough. But even Christians fall into similar beliefs. We hear things like “name and claim it” and wonder if that’s really as Biblical as we think. Dive into scripture with us as we discuss manifestation, prosperity gospel, and our spiritual authority as believers.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11985422 Thu, 05 Jan 2023 08:00:00 -0500 2343 1 9 full false 008 - But... you can't shame for porn. 008 - But... you can't shame for porn. YES, we believe porn is destructive and contrary to God's best for us. But, why are we normalizing the complete demoralization and shaming of Christian brothers and sisters? Those trapped in a porn addiction need to be met with compassion, empathy, and courage. So pull up a chair and let's discuss.

>> Show Notes

]]> YES, we believe porn is destructive and contrary to God's best for us. But, why are we normalizing the complete demoralization and shaming of Christian brothers and sisters? Those trapped in a porn addiction need to be met with compassion, empathy, and courage. So pull up a chair and let's discuss.

>> Show Notes

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11906927 Thu, 22 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2142 1 8 full false 007 - But... we aren't feminist. 007 - But... we aren't feminist. In our culture, it’s assumed that if you have a brain, you’re a feminist. Who could possibly disagree with equal rights between men and women? But, is equality what we really want? Does “equality” mean “sameness”? And what has been the result of such a massive shift in cultural expectations?

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]]> In our culture, it’s assumed that if you have a brain, you’re a feminist. Who could possibly disagree with equal rights between men and women? But, is equality what we really want? Does “equality” mean “sameness”? And what has been the result of such a massive shift in cultural expectations?

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11859615 Thu, 15 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2214 1 7 full false 006 - But... Technology is ruining us. 006 - But... Technology is ruining us. Technology has transformed our lives in a matter of decades. But, the church is barely talking about what it’s doing to our humanity. Not to mention the day-to-day struggles of keeping our children safe from the wide world of destructive ideas that can be accessed through any device. How can we be “set apart” as Holy while still maintaining a connection to modern tools? And what does that look like for our kids and family?

>> Show Notes
The Life We're Looking For by Andy Crouch
Technology as Mammon on Good Faith Podcast with guest Andy Crouch
8 Ways Tech Has Completely Rewired Our Brains

]]> Technology has transformed our lives in a matter of decades. But, the church is barely talking about what it’s doing to our humanity. Not to mention the day-to-day struggles of keeping our children safe from the wide world of destructive ideas that can be accessed through any device. How can we be “set apart” as Holy while still maintaining a connection to modern tools? And what does that look like for our kids and family?

>> Show Notes
The Life We're Looking For by Andy Crouch
Technology as Mammon on Good Faith Podcast with guest Andy Crouch
8 Ways Tech Has Completely Rewired Our Brains

]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11832447 Thu, 08 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2668 1 6 full false 005 - But... Christmas is complicated. 005 - But... Christmas is complicated. For some of us, Christmas is stressful. For some it’s sad. And for some, it’s just a flurry of parties, baking, family adventures, and soaking in every advent moment. Today we want to share our traditions, talk through the Santa debacle, and generally just chat about Christmas.


]]> For some of us, Christmas is stressful. For some it’s sad. And for some, it’s just a flurry of parties, baking, family adventures, and soaking in every advent moment. Today we want to share our traditions, talk through the Santa debacle, and generally just chat about Christmas.


]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11792708 Thu, 01 Dec 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2525 1 5 full false 004 - But... let's talk about abortion. 004 - But... let's talk about abortion. Regardless of your upbringing, you have probably encountered a lot of strong opinions on abortion. You probably know people who volunteer for pro-life organizations, or people who have had abortions themselves. You may be someone who has counseled pregnant women out of abortion, or you may have had an abortion yourself. The thing is: this topic is CLOSE to the heart, and it hits home for so many people… and for so many reasons. 

The three of us have all come to the same conclusion about abortion: it’s murder. But we have taken different journeys to get there. Listen as we share our stories and our reasons for what we believe.


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]]> Regardless of your upbringing, you have probably encountered a lot of strong opinions on abortion. You probably know people who volunteer for pro-life organizations, or people who have had abortions themselves. You may be someone who has counseled pregnant women out of abortion, or you may have had an abortion yourself. The thing is: this topic is CLOSE to the heart, and it hits home for so many people… and for so many reasons. 

The three of us have all come to the same conclusion about abortion: it’s murder. But we have taken different journeys to get there. Listen as we share our stories and our reasons for what we believe.


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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11743241 Tue, 22 Nov 2022 10:00:00 -0500 3013 1 4 full false 003 - But... prayer can be hard. 003 - But... prayer can be hard. Using our She Reads Truth Bible study as a jumping-off point, we discuss prayer. Prayer is an opportunity for continuous and deep communication with God. It's a chance to express sorrow, to be angry, to intercede for those we love, and to listen for that still, small voice of the Spirit. For some of us, it's second nature. For others, it's a place that needs growth and attention. Dive into our prayer discussion. You're gonna' hate us... but you're gonna' love us.

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]]> Using our She Reads Truth Bible study as a jumping-off point, we discuss prayer. Prayer is an opportunity for continuous and deep communication with God. It's a chance to express sorrow, to be angry, to intercede for those we love, and to listen for that still, small voice of the Spirit. For some of us, it's second nature. For others, it's a place that needs growth and attention. Dive into our prayer discussion. You're gonna' hate us... but you're gonna' love us.

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]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki River, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11709865 Thu, 17 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2483 1 3 full false 002 - But... modesty is up for debate. 002 - But... modesty is up for debate. We’re three loyal friends, but we have varying opinions on lots of things… one of them is modesty.  Our different convictions and practices around modesty prove the beauty in God's diverse church.

From a girl with "traditional" Christian values, to a Peurto Rican born beauty, to a body-shamed mama, our various upbringings and life experiences have shaped the way we approach modesty today.

As conservative, Christian moms, we’re here to empower other conservative Christian moms to speak up, say what’s true, and defend their children’s futures. 



]]> We’re three loyal friends, but we have varying opinions on lots of things… one of them is modesty.  Our different convictions and practices around modesty prove the beauty in God's diverse church.

From a girl with "traditional" Christian values, to a Peurto Rican born beauty, to a body-shamed mama, our various upbringings and life experiences have shaped the way we approach modesty today.

As conservative, Christian moms, we’re here to empower other conservative Christian moms to speak up, say what’s true, and defend their children’s futures. 



]]> Amy Alexander, Nikki Rivera, Candy Rose Buzzsprout-11664247 Thu, 10 Nov 2022 00:00:00 -0500 2413 1 2 full false 001 - But... we love Halloween. 001 - But... we love Halloween. Halloween can be controversial for Christians. There's no question that as a generation, Millennial parents have become obsessed with all things fall and frightening. For ourselves and our children, how do we respond to America's version of Halloween in a way that honors God? Hear three, conservative Christian moms (who LOVE Halloween) talk about their differing opinions and convictions.

]]> Halloween can be controversial for Christians. There's no question that as a generation, Millennial parents have become obsessed with all things fall and frightening. For ourselves and our children, how do we respond to America's version of Halloween in a way that honors God? Hear three, conservative Christian moms (who LOVE Halloween) talk about their differing opinions and convictions.

]]> Buzzsprout-11557839 Wed, 26 Oct 2022 00:00:00 -0400 2424 1 1 full false