Dads Dating After Divorce

42 - Airplane Mode For Your Ex

Tue, 07 Apr 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Your ex doesn’t have to ruin your new relationship, but if you don’t build structure, she can rent space in your head 24/7. We get real about what happens when dating after divorce moves from casual to committed: you’re seeing someone consistently, you’re thinking about introducing the kids, and suddenly the “gatekeeper” ex starts blowing up your phone. We share a simple tactical move that actually works in the moment, plus the deeper mindset that makes it sustainable.

We walk through how we think about boundaries as dads: not a one-time rule, but an evolving system you keep upgrading as new problems appear. Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth break down why women feel safer and more attracted when a man is organized, steady, and humble enough to keep improving. Then we outline the relationship conversation many dads avoid: explaining the real dynamic with your ex, warning a girlfriend about likely drama, and setting expectations so she doesn’t get blindsided by texts, social media outreach, or conflict at kid transitions.

We also draw a sharp line between healthy transparency and unhealthy dependency. Your girlfriend should have visibility into your life, but she cannot become your therapist, your mom, or your emotional battery. Finally, we talk kids, gatekeeping, parallel parenting, and a crucial reality of family court: narrative matters. Dating can be spun as a distraction from your children if you move too fast or handle money and parenting time poorly.

41 - Stop Chasing a Six Pack and Start Building Real Confidence

Tue, 31 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0600

If you’re a dad dating after divorce, the loudest advice online usually points to vanity: get shredded, flex harder, post the perfect Hinge photo. We’re not buying it. Real confidence is built when you can rely on your body, your routines, and your leadership at home, especially when life feels chaotic and your mind won’t shut off.

We talk about why physical fitness is the easiest “first domino” for divorced dads: it’s concrete, measurable, and it pulls you out of overthinking. We break down the difference between confidence and arrogance, why chasing a six pack is a trap for most men over 30, and how women often read extreme gym bro energy as self-absorption instead of strength. The goal isn’t perfection. The goal is capability, calm, and the kind of grounded masculinity your kids can copy and your dates can feel.

From there, we get practical about fitness routines that actually fit real life: micro workouts, calisthenics at home, sports with friends, outdoor work, and getting active with your kids. Then we shift to nutrition and fat loss without gimmicks using a calorie budget, a moderate calorie deficit, and the staples-versus-feasting mindset so your results last. We also call out alcohol for what it is: fast calories that can wreck progress when it becomes habitual.

If you want more energy for parenting, better confidence for dating apps, and a healthier family culture you can sustain, hit play. Subscribe, share this with a dad who needs a reset, and leave us a rating and review so more men can find the show.

40 - The Tom Brady Trap: Why "Too Busy" is Actually a Choice

Tue, 24 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Tom Brady says he’s too busy for a personal life, and that excuse hits different when you’re a divorced dad trying to coordinate dating around custody exchanges, work, and real-world exhaustion. We dig into what “no time” usually means, how priorities actually work, and why a lot of single fathers quietly use their kids as a shield from fear and rejection. If you’ve been telling yourself you’ll date again when life calms down, this conversation challenges that story without shaming you for it.

We get practical fast. We talk micro dates that fit into a packed schedule, the mindset shift from “I can’t” to “How can I make this happen?”, and how to use dating apps without letting them hijack your attention. We also explain why clarity and direct communication matter more when you’re a parent, and how being open about your availability can actually make dating simpler instead of more stressful.

Then we go deeper into what your kids learn by watching you. We break down why modeling resilience, emotional honesty, and healthy effort matters after divorce, plus the difference between guilt (a useful signal to realign your behavior) and shame (the thing that keeps you hidden). If you want a healthy romantic relationship again, you don’t need a perfect plan, you need a next step. Subscribe, share this with a dad who needs it, and leave a review. What’s the one action you’ll take this week?

39 - Stability Over Performance With Special Guest Ric Taylor

Tue, 17 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Dating after divorce can turn even confident dads into performers. You start chasing the perfect opener, the perfect outfit, the perfect “game,” and somehow you feel worse after every date. We go the other direction with therapist and coach Rick Taylor: confidence is what stability looks like on the outside, and stability is something you build, not something you pretend to have.

We talk about the performance trap and why scripts usually backfire. Yes, learning better communication helps, but the real win is understanding the principle underneath the words so you can speak in your own voice. We also get specific about timing after divorce: giving yourself and your kids time to settle, grieve, and rebuild rhythm before you jump into something serious. If you’ve felt the emotional highs and lows of early post-divorce dating, this is the roadmap back to calm.

Rick shares his framework for masculine purpose as movement toward an outcome, and why so many men feel like they’re “moving in circles” after a marriage ends. Then we bring it down to earth with three pillars that create structure fast: showing up for your kids with predictable routines, rebuilding your body with consistent exercise and simple nutrition, and rebuilding finances with a budget and a monthly surplus even after a financial wipeout. We also cover how to be honest on dates without trauma dumping, and we close with a simple stability audit you can use this week.

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38 - Doing vs. Being: The Secret to Helping Her Find Her Feminine Again

Tue, 10 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0600

Ever watch your date sprint to the hostess stand while you’re still catching up to the curb? We’ve been there—and we’re turning that awkward start into a playbook for calm leadership, real connection, and dates that feel lighter for both of you. We explore the heart of modern dating for divorced dads: helping a woman shift from doing to being by offering safety, structure, and steady presence.

We break down the foundations that actually invite feminine energy: consistency that builds trust, decisiveness that removes friction, and the subtle power of “thank you” when she lets you lead a moment. You’ll hear practical moves—planning with clarity, opening the door without performing, walking curbside—and a deeper mindset shift from controlling to inviting. Instead of fixing every problem, we show you how to hold space with “message received” cues, let her complete the emotional arc, and then anchor it through touch, not more talk.

We also tackle the hard parts: what to do when your cup is full, how to be honest about low energy without losing your frame, and when to decide a dynamic isn’t a fit. Along the way, we talk radical accountability, the quiet confidence that comes from competence, and the surprising advantage fathers carry into dating. If you’ve ever wondered how to turn long rants into real closeness, or how to be playful without losing your edge, this conversation hands you scripts, mindsets, and repeatable steps you can use tonight.

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37 - Emotional Parkour: The Tests Women Love to Throw at Men

Tue, 03 Mar 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce shouldn’t feel like an audit, yet so many dads find themselves fielding questions, jabs, and last-minute pivots that turn dinner into emotional parkour. We call them fortitude tests—moments where she checks whether your confidence is real, your standards are firm, and your calm isn’t just a first-date performance. In this conversation, we unpack why these tests happen, why they’re often a sign of interest, and how to respond without getting defensive or turning into a people-pleaser.

We dig into the deeper driver behind the tests: trust. She wants to relax, lean on you, and open up—but only if you’re steady when it counts. You’ll hear clear strategies you can use tonight. Lead with thoughtful planning that shows consideration without collapsing your frame. Invite honesty with specific, forward questions that make truth safe to share. Use agree-and-own humor to diffuse subtle digs while signaling rock-solid self-acceptance. And when needed, reframe and keep the plan—then pivot decisively if there’s a real constraint. We also explore polarity in modern dating, why many women stay stuck in masculine drive, and how to be the calm container that lets her soften without making you smaller.

We’re candid about red flags and walk-away power too. If the date becomes a one-way street of demands, endless testing, and zero curiosity, don’t negotiate your standards—leave with respect intact. On the flip side, learn to spot when she’s simply relaxing into a more fluid, playful mode; that’s your cue to lead warmly while keeping momentum. By the end, you’ll have a practical lens for reading tests, a toolkit for passing them, and a clear compass for knowing when to keep it light, when to hold the line, and when to head out.

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36 - Porn-Induced ED: The Elephant in the Room for Divorced Dads

Tue, 24 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Is your scrolling stealing your spark? We take a hard, honest look at how porn and compulsive release drain confidence, flatten energy, and quietly sabotage your dating life as a divorced dad. Without shaming or moralizing, we walk through the real mechanics—why dopamine spikes from endless novelty skew arousal, how tolerance builds into porn-induced ED, and what hypofrontality means for your willpower when the dating road gets bumpy.

From there, we get practical. We break down prolactin’s role in that post-release crash, the difference between release and vitality, and why your vibe feels passive when you need presence most. We share a simple 30-day reset to clear the fog, rebuild executive control, and trade quick hits for earned wins—conversations, workouts, and micro-challenges that put discipline back in the driver’s seat. This isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being in control.

We also reframe sexual energy as precious capital. When you treat your desire like a resource to invest—rather than a leak to plug—women feel it. Respect rises, eye contact steadies, and you show up as the man on a mission rather than a man seeking a fix. You’ll hear candid stories of abstinence, relapse with intention, and how restraint signals strength in ways that spark attraction. Along the way we explore “fast sex” versus real sex, comfort culture, and why community matters when you’re rewiring habits in a world engineered for distraction.

If you’re tired of the comfort trap and ready to reclaim presence, discipline, and masculine momentum, this conversation hands you a blueprint you can start today. Subscribe, share this with a dad who needs it, and leave a review with one change you’re making this week. Your edge is earned—let’s build it together.

35 - Recreational dating with less guilt and more fun

Tue, 17 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce doesn’t need to be chaotic, heavy, or ruled by outdated “game” tactics. We dive deep into recreational dating as a clean, honest framework that helps dads decompress, sharpen essential skills, and choose commitment only when it’s truly earned. Starting with a listener email from New Zealand, we outline why this exploratory phase matters and how to navigate it without guilt—or manipulation.

We get practical fast: listening more than you talk, resisting the urge to project onto an attractive stranger, and making clear invitations with no strings. We talk about holding frame—your internal compass of yeses and noes—as the backbone of healthy dating. You’ll hear how boundaries and consistency create safety, why some testing happens, and how playfulness and kindness help both people relax. We also reframe “spinning plates” the right way: not ego or conquest, but acknowledging you don’t know someone well enough to commit yet, while staying transparent and respectful.

There are real trade-offs, especially for dads. Time is limited, emotions can fray, and burnout is common when you juggle parenting with new connections. We share strategies to protect your bandwidth, avoid rebound traps, and keep curiosity alive so you don’t drift into cynicism. The most powerful shift? Turning the spotlight inward. After every date, ask how you led, listened, and adapted. That self-inquiry keeps your energy renewing and aligns dating with the life you’re building—health, fatherhood, friendships, and mission. When exclusivity happens, it comes from a free, informed yes instead of pressure or timelines.

If you’re a divorced dad who wants clarity, calm, and genuine fun while meeting new women—without playing games—this conversation gives you a grounded roadmap. Subscribe, share with a dad who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show. What boundary will you hold on your next date?

34 - Wait...since when do we send voice notes?

Tue, 10 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce shouldn’t feel like decoding a secret menu. We unpack the new rules of communication for 2026—where swipes, voice notes, and five-minute video vibe checks can either waste your energy or quietly fast-track you into a great first date. Our focus is simple: lead with clarity, protect your kids and privacy, and create safety so a real connection can breathe.

We start by separating two paths: app-based chats and in-person meets. On apps, silence isn’t personal and pace is everything. Some women want longer message arcs to feel secure; others are desperate to escape app fatigue and meet quickly. We walk through how to read those signals without guessing, when to move off-platform, and why a Google Voice number is a smart layer between your family life and the dating unknown. You’ll learn how short, specific invitations beat long exchanges, and why getting flexible with her preferred medium shows competence, not neediness.

Then we dive into the tools that actually help: concise video checks and 20–40 second voice notes. Used well, they’re time-savers that prove you are who you say you are and give your messages warmth text can’t carry. We share a five-minute video rule, scripts that end the call confidently, and a simple follow-up rhythm that builds anticipation instead of anxiety. If you’ve ever wondered whether to call early, how often to text as a busy dad, or how many emojis are too many, we’ve got clear, low-drama answers—and an easy framework for setting expectations she can rely on.

Finally, we tackle the hard parts: recognizing a slow fade, making bold invites that rekindle momentum, and exiting with integrity when it’s not a fit. Ghosting is cowardly; clean, kind endings create your next beginning. Ready to swap cargo shorts energy for confident leadership that respects her safety and your time? Hit play, try the One Text Challenge, and tell us which strategy you’ll use first.

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33 - Certified Pre-Owned: Putting a Premium on Fatherhood

Tue, 03 Feb 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Doubt can be loud after a divorce, but what if the truth is that fatherhood is your quiet advantage? We dig into why single dads carry built-in signals of commitment, safety, and competence—qualities women instinctively value—and how to stop hiding them behind apology. From a last-minute cancellation that sparked firmer standards to the mindset reframe that shifts you from “rejected” to “I’ll let myself out,” we unpack practical strategies that turn fear into leadership and scarcity into agency.

We talk about projecting your ex’s story onto new dates and how to break the loop, the power of men’s community for rebuilding confidence, and the surprising social proof of being a dad—what psychologists call mate choice copying. You’ll hear how to lead with adventure without breaking the bank, why isolation kills attraction, and how to design a life with direction that invites women in. We also make a case for competence as the new charisma: co-parenting, scheduling, stability, and emotional maturity are management-level traits that read as premium in the dating world.

If you’re feeling rusty, we offer simple reps to get moving again: a journaling exercise that anchors your identity in the safety you already provide, a standards check that prevents time-wasting flakiness, and a reminder to swing more so you can win more. No grandstanding, no cringe—just clear tools and a confident path forward for dads dating after divorce.

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32 - High Status Dads: What Being a Father Signals in the Dating Market

Tue, 27 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0700

The dating world loves loud status symbols, but here’s the twist: the traits that truly move a woman’s heart are quiet, steady, and earned. We dig into why divorced dads often start with a hidden edge—preselection, proven commitment, and hard-won emotional maturity—and how to turn that advantage into real connection. Instead of chasing dominance displays, we map the path to prestige: leadership that calms her nervous system, decisions that build trust, and a presence that lets her relax and feel carefree.

We unpack status as a biological shortcut and show how to use it without becoming a caricature. Hypergamy gets a clear, grounded reframing: it’s less about money and more about admiration. That means you can change the game. If your finances took a hit or you’re rebuilding post-divorce, you can still win by offering the experience women actually want—safety, clarity, and emotional steadiness. We share how to answer the tough questions about your past without bitterness, why “divorced with kids” is a powerful signal, and how to avoid slipping down the ladder by venting or chasing validation.

Then we get practical. Filter for fit instead of seeking approval. Define your values and choose the status game that matches them. Build a life that feels like a win before she enters it—health, routines, co-parenting, purpose—and invite her into that frame. If she plays a zero-sum game, move on. When you act like the prize, you attract someone who loves how she feels in your presence. That’s the kind of status no algorithm can fake and no trend can replace.

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31 - The Kid Readiness Check: Strategies for Moving from Vetting to Blending

Tue, 20 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce doesn’t come with a manual, especially when your love life intersects with your kids’ lives. We break down a practical, low-drama roadmap for introducing a new partner to your children—starting with the “divorce dust” rule, where stability and finalized paperwork come before any blending. From there, we unpack the six-to-twelve-month guideline that helps you see beyond the honeymoon phase, stress-test values, and decide if your partner’s parenting style complements your own.

We get specific about age-appropriate strategies that keep kids safe and emotionally grounded. For younger kids, it’s simple language and short, playful meetups. For tweens and teens, it’s more openness about your intentions and a plan that respects their slower warm-up. You’ll hear clear first-meeting tactics: choose neutral ground, avoid your home at first, keep it activity-based, and skip PDA. Then let time do the work—space and repetition help trust grow without pressure. We also talk through the hard stuff: what to do if your partner’s style clashes with yours, how to handle adult children living at home, and the signals that it’s better to slow down or walk away.

You’ll learn how to run “parenting strategy sessions” with your partner before any introductions—real scenarios, real answers, no interrogations. We also tackle the ex factor: offer respectful notice, hold firm boundaries, and avoid surprises that put kids in the middle. The throughline is discipline. Patience protects children, reveals character, and raises the odds that the relationship you’re building can become a healthy, long-term part of your family’s life.

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30 - Stop Flashing Your Cash: Why High-End Dinners Are False Advertising

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0700

Tired of hearing you need $200 dinners to be taken seriously? We flip that script. Jude and Dallas lay out a practical, confident way to date after divorce that prioritizes financial responsibility, creativity, and genuine connection over the social media flex. If you’ve felt the pressure to overspend or “audition” for approval, this conversation gives you a better playbook.

We start with a reality check on the click-driven myth that women only want luxury dates, and show how high-quality partners respond to presence, leadership, and smart planning. Then we dig into vibe-first formats—short coffee meets, no-alcohol daytime conversations, easy exits—that protect your time and money while revealing compatibility. Expect a stack of low-cost ideas with high impact: walks with a favorite drink, pinball bars, trivia nights, open houses with playful improv, antique hunts, park picnics, and yes, the surprisingly romantic car-wash-and-vacuum move that feels caring without flashing cash.

You’ll also learn how to design progressive dates that layer experiences—coffee to gallery to sunset ice cream—so she relaxes into your lead without feeling choreographed. We talk athletic dates with intention, when to avoid identity “home court,” and why acts of service and nostalgia create deeper chemistry than pricey menus. Most important, we unpack money alignment using three simple priorities—security, freedom, lifestyle—so you can spot mismatches early and stop overspending to impress. When you lead with your world, use AI to spark unique local ideas, and lean on a solid community, you attract someone who values you, not your receipt.

29 - Choosing One Woman: How to Avoid the "Nice Guy" Commitment Trap

Tue, 06 Jan 2026 05:00:00 -0700

The jump from casual dates to a committed relationship after divorce isn’t about perfect timing or a clever script—it’s about self-leadership. We dig into how divorced dads can date with purpose, protect their finite resources, and choose exclusivity for the right reasons: depth, clarity, and real connection. Recreational dating has a place when you’re rebuilding, but it shouldn’t be a cover for avoiding intimacy or postponing your own growth. We talk through a practical one-year guideline—passing through all four seasons post-divorce—to establish a stable baseline with your kids, your work, and your routines so you’re not promising depth while your life is still in flux.

From there, we get precise. Set sober criteria away from the high of the date: How physically drawn am I to her? How much do I enjoy her company? Could I see her in a long-term context, and one day near my kids? Lead by example before you label the relationship. When one woman stands out, reallocate your energy toward her without burdening her: better invitations, steadier presence, cleaner signals. Learn to read her responses—availability, warmth, follow-through—rather than pushing for a title. When exclusivity comes up, make it explicit and simple. Share your truth first: I stopped asking other women out because I like where this is going. Then pause and let her meet you there.

We also unpack avoidant dynamics—when someone enjoys the perks but resists intimacy—and how to set boundaries without accusations by painting a clear, attractive vision of the connection you want. Exclusivity, done right, creates safety that opens emotional and sexual depth; it’s the space where you truly learn if this relationship belongs in your family’s future. Most of all, your leadership lives in the hours she’s not around: purpose, fitness, craft, and fatherhood. Build the man who doesn’t need exclusivity to feel whole, and commitment starts to feel like a celebration, not a cage. If this resonates, subscribe, share with a dad who needs it, and leave a review to help more men find the show.

28 - Profile Purge & Height Embargo: 10 Rules for 2026

Tue, 30 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Ready to swap “new year, new me” for something that actually works? We break down ten real, repeatable resolutions for divorced dads who want to date with confidence, class, and a sense of humor. It starts with the pictures—no fish, no trucks, no bathroom mirrors—and moves into owning your height, improving your posture, and dressing like a man who respects himself. Shoes and watches matter more than you think, and a couple of thoughtful accessories can turn a hello into a conversation.

We also tackle the stories you tell. The “crazy ex” opener? Gone. Early dates are for light curiosity, shared laughs, and future-forward energy—not unpaid therapy sessions. We show how to set boundaries with warmth, add a little mystery, and keep your messages crisp: clear plans, minimal emojis, no “hey” texts, and never while buzzed. Thinking of using Gen Z slang to sound younger? Use it only for self-aware humor; otherwise, speak like the grounded adult you are.

Most crucially, we talk about leading your vibe. The dating world can feel cynical, but you don’t have to mirror that energy. Practice optimism, build resilience, and protect your kids by keeping introductions for later. When you enjoy your own life—your routines, your style, your state—your presence does the heavy lifting. If you’re ready to retire cargo shorts, stop height math, and start showing up with playful strength, this one is your jumpstart.

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27 - Stocking Stuffers: Diving into Dating App Clichés

Tue, 23 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Dating apps can feel like a hall of mirrors—sarcasm, “no drama,” tacos and margs, and endless wanderlust. We decided to have some holiday fun and dig beneath the clichés to find the real signals, the hidden landmines, and the easy wins for divorced dads getting back out there. Jude brings the snark; Dallas brings the strategy. Together we translate what she might be saying and show you how to respond with concrete, playful messages that actually get replies.

We start with the big offenders—“fluent in sarcasm,” “I love to laugh,” and “good vibes only”—and explain how to avoid reacting while still leading the vibe. You’ll learn why “just ask” is a low-effort trap, how “must love dogs” signals a lifestyle, and how to handle “my kids are my world” with smart scheduling questions that respect everyone’s time. We also break down travel-as-status, food-trend basics, and the subtle difference between “partner in crime” and “ride or die.” If you’ve ever wondered whether these lines are red flags or just copy-paste culture from social media, this conversation will sharpen your filter without hardening your heart.

We don’t shy away from thornier territory either: height filters, politics in profiles, and the famous “If you can’t handle me at my worst…” line. Dallas lays out how to cultivate grounded, masculine steadiness that can meet emotional storms without losing center. The practical thread through it all: turn generic prompts into vivid choices, keep your messages concrete, and move to a face-to-face vibe check sooner. Ready to swap cynicism for skill and turn clichés into chemistry? Hit play, subscribe, and leave a review with the profile line you never want to see again. Then grab your spot at our monthly live Q&A—details at thedivorcedadvocate.com and blackboxdating.com.

26 - Single Mom Tests: Scheduling, the Ex, and Other Relationship Killers

Tue, 16 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0700

The Brady Bunch made blending look easy; real life demands better tools. We dive straight into the third rail of post-divorce dating: should single dads date single moms, and how do you do it without drowning in scheduling chaos, ex drama, and mismatched parenting styles?

We start with time, because chemistry means little if you can’t meet. You’ll hear simple scripts to express desire as a positive invitation—not a demand—and how to read the difference between “I want to” and “I will.” We unpack why calendars are romantic for busy parents, how to spot patterns when availability never improves, and when to choose recreational dating over a strained “serious” track. If you’ve ever wondered how many tries to give a faltering plan, we lay out a clear, humane filter.

Then we confront the ex factor. The issue isn’t his presence; it’s her boundaries. Learn how to show up with grounded masculine support without slipping into white-knighting. We share language that inspires change by modeling strength in your own life, so you can celebrate her wins rather than carry her load. You’ll also get a practical way to distinguish solvable friction from chronic chaos that will consume your time and energy.

Finally, we tackle the silent dealbreaker: parenting style. Forget abstract debates. Use concrete scenarios to invite real answers and test for a two-way street of curiosity and respect. We discuss why mutual interest in each other’s parenting approach predicts a healthier blend than raw attraction ever could—and how to know when to introduce kids based on responsiveness, not fantasy. Throughout, we return to one essential question: are you turned on by her responsiveness to your leadership, or only by her appeal?

If you’re a single dad building a life you love, this conversation gives you the playbook to protect your bandwidth, date with intention, and choose partners who meet you in the middle. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick rating and comment to help more dads find the show.

25 - Emoting vs. Communicating: Give Her the Release She Needs

Tue, 09 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce can feel like the Wild West—especially when emotions run high and the old rules no longer apply. We dig into one of the most misunderstood dynamics in modern relationships: the difference between emoting and communicating, and why confusing the two keeps couples locked in loops. With Jude Samval of The Divorce Advocate and Dallas Bluth of Black Box Dating, we unpack how men’s instinct to fix isn’t a lack of feeling, it’s a distinctly male emotional response forged by biology and sharpened by responsibility.

Across a candid, practical conversation, we map what actually works when she needs to vent. You’ll learn how to become a steady, engaged presence that invites emotional release without absorbing it or shutting down. We explain why her logic might be offline during the storm, how to signal safety with short prompts, and when to move from listening to clarity. We also show the exact pivot: once she feels regulated, ask whether she wants input or just witnessed space, then use simple, nonviolent communication to clarify any accusations aimed at you. No lectures, no therapy-speak—just grounded tools you can use tonight.

We also zoom out to the bigger picture. Traditional relationship roles have dissolved, and couples now need to write their own rule book. That means agreeing on values, deciding when problem-solving is welcome, and creating a shared language for “I need to be heard” versus “I want solutions.” When men master this timing and presence, something surprising happens: emotional safety turns into chemistry, respect, and momentum. If you’ve ever wondered why “just listen” can lead to a stronger bond and better intimacy, this episode connects the dots with clarity and warmth.

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24 - Who Pays on the First Date?

Tue, 02 Dec 2025 05:00:00 -0700

The first date “Who pays?” moment can tank chemistry or lift the whole night—and after divorce, the stakes feel even higher. We dig into the chivalry paradox: honoring equality while still creating romance, leading without controlling, and paying without turning the bill into a negotiation. Our goal is simple: help you build experiences that feel generous, safe, and fun, not transactional.

We start by rewriting the playbook around compliments and presence. Instead of focusing on looks, notice effort and choices—outfits, accessories, hair, even the care she puts into her space. That shift tells her you see the person, not just the packaging. From there, we lay out a clean framework for paying: if you invite, you lead, and you likely cover coffee or drinks. Keep it low‑pressure, signal surplus with “No big deal, I’ve got it,” and anchor the moment in the experience you’ve just shared. If she prefers to split early on, respect the boundary without getting prickly. Red flags like mooching or entitlement? Trust your gut and set a clear exit.

We also map the deeper dynamic: investing versus extracting. Money is only one resource. Attention, planning, appreciation, and emotional presence matter just as much. Look for signs that she contributes—offering to grab dessert, planning the next stop, expressing sincere thanks, or simply showing up engaged and put together. That’s how two people co‑create a vibe worth keeping. And remember, a woman’s independence is complete in one word—no. When you respect that without turning it into a power struggle, you demonstrate strength and safety.

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23 - Secrets to Cold Approach: How to Leverage Scarcity and Get Her Number

Tue, 25 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Swiping promises abundance; real life delivers clarity. We’re talking about how divorced dads can ditch the dependency on apps and create warm, natural conversations anywhere—grocery lines, coffee shops, hardware stores—that actually lead to dates. The secret isn’t a magic line. It’s state, presence, and a clear invitation delivered with respect.

We start by breaking down why in-person beats online: you and she both get a true read on energy, voice, humor, and ease within seconds. Then we flip the frame from “cold approach” to “warm approach.” Instead of trying to get a number, you create comfort, assume light familiarity, and offer an invitation that feels safe and specific—“Coffee Saturday?” lands better than “Can I get your number?” We also dig into timing and context: when to approach, how to acknowledge a friend group, and why “respect + playfulness + clarity” is the winning combo.

The engine behind it all is state. Scripts fall apart if your body is tense and your mind is chasing outcomes. We share a simple “winner” frame you can step into on demand, so your voice slows, your smile relaxes, and your presence does the heavy lifting. Add one weekly practice—one compliment, zero expectations—to build warmth on contact and rewire your identity as a man who takes his shot. Along the way, we touch on modeling confident behavior for your kids, setting boundaries to lower stress, and building momentum without forcing results.

If you’re ready to turn chance moments into real connections, this is your playbook: warmth first, invitation second, outcomes as a byproduct. Subscribe, share with a dad who needs it, and tell us: where will you take your next shot?

22 - Let's Talk About Sex: Leading Her to Intimacy, One Touch at a Time

Tue, 18 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Most men try to plan their way to great sex and end up killing the spark. We take a different route: build trust with clear statements, create a protected space for intimacy, and then let go of the plan so real desire can surprise you both.

We start by resetting the premise. Sex after divorce isn’t a sprint; it’s a craft. Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth unpack why safety and mutual benefit are the foundation—especially when kids, schedules, and past relationships are in the picture. You’ll hear how to turn “the talk” into foreplay by sharing who you are, not asking for permission: get tested before it’s relevant, say you’re a one-woman-at-a-time man if that’s your truth, and frame exclusivity and protection as identity, not negotiation. Women feel the difference instantly because it signals maturity, care, and a real invitation to relax.

Then we tackle logistics without losing the magic. Think “container,” not checklist: set a private, interruption-free window where intimacy could happen, but don’t script what must happen. Dallas explains how spontaneity—naming your desire in the moment, changing plans when the energy shifts—reduces pressure and increases arousal. If the wave doesn’t rise, you stay gracious and unattached to outcomes, which often creates the next spark faster. When the clothes finally come off, two rules lead to better experiences consistently: slow down and prioritize her pleasure.

Whether you’re rebuilding confidence after a low-sex marriage or navigating co-parenting calendars, this conversation is your playbook for sex that’s adult, ethical, and electric. We cover when not to talk (no texting, not mid-makeout), how to read timing if cues are hard, and how to be both structured and spontaneous. If you’re ready to date like a grown man—and enjoy better intimacy along the way—press play, subscribe, and share with a friend who needs this. Got a question for our live Q&A? Leave a review with your topic or reach out and tell us what you want next.

21 - Let's Get Physical: The Art Of Escalation

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0700

If touch has felt confusing after divorce—too fast, too formal, or just plain awkward—this conversation gives you a clear path from grounded presence to real chemistry. Jude and Dallas unpack the missing link many men never learned: how to make physical contact a normal, human bridge to connection long before it turns romantic. You’ll hear why American men often oversexualize touch, how to rebuild it as a confident, everyday skill, and how that foundation makes dates feel safer, smoother, and far more attractive.

We dive into the two pillars that change everything: physical certainty and emotional certainty. Physical certainty comes from living in your body—sports, drills, hard training, and experiences that teach control and power. Emotional certainty is steadiness under pressure: the ability to hold your own desire without needing immediate validation. Together, they create the calm energy that signals safety and leadership, whether you’re offering a first hug, guiding through a crowd, or placing a steady hand on a forearm to anchor a point.

From there, we shift into arousal with clarity. No sneaking, no mixed messages. Learn how transparent intent turns “creepy” into compelling, why consent is the floor and mutual desire is the goal, and how to read the simple metric behind all cues: is she leaning in or leaning away? We cover pacing (planting seeds and letting anticipation work), using statements instead of permission-seeking questions, and the classic 90% lean that invites her last 10%. You’ll also get practical lines and moves—like closing the gap with a playful “You’re a little too far away”—plus how to treat every cool reaction as feedback, not failure.

If you’ve wondered when to escalate, how to avoid overthinking consent, or how to build attraction without alcohol and awkwardness, this episode lays out the steps. Practice nonsexual touch daily, show up grounded on dates, signal desire openly, and escalate with care and courage. Want to go deeper and practice in real life? Join Dallas’s field work sessions or connect with Jude for post-divorce coaching. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help more dads find their footing and their spark.

20 - Kids or No Kids: Who Should You Date After Divorce?

Tue, 04 Nov 2025 05:00:00 -0700

Dating after divorce can feel like rebuilding a house on old foundations—and that’s exactly why we argue for a full scrape and rebuild. We get real about the question every single dad faces on the apps: her kids, my kids, or no kids? Instead of chasing a replacement for your ex, we lay out a simple, practical framework for designing the next chapter with intention—starting with clear values, vivid invitations, and slow, steady timelines that protect your kids and your peace.

We walk through the real tradeoffs of dating women with kids and without. You’ll learn why availability is a signal, not a scolding point; how to present your life with concrete pictures rather than vague claims; and how to replace interrogations with a well-mixed “cocktail” of substance and play. We dig into short-term skill building—leading with specific invites, reading the feedback in her response, keeping free agency—and pair it with long-term judgment about blended family dynamics. If she’s the right fit, she’ll step toward you. If she can’t or won’t, that’s your answer without a fight.

Across the hour we swap “goal line” thinking for a story-first approach. Think touchdowns in the moment: a three-hour conversation that flies, a shared hike that sparks chemistry, a thoughtful follow-up that lands. Those small wins add up to a resilient connection. We also raise the sobering question every dad must answer: do you want this person influencing your children? Slow introductions over seasons reveal character that can’t be faked in a month. And when in doubt, don’t fix her life—protect yours.

If this helped, tap follow, share with a dad who needs it, and leave a quick review. Want deeper support? Check out TheDivorceDadvocate.com for recovery coaching and BlackBoxDating.com for men’s dating mastery. Your next chapter starts with a better invitation.

19 - Checklists are Sexy: Lead Her with Clarity, One Step at a Time

Tue, 28 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0600

New relationships don’t need a contract; they need direction. We dig into the messy, exciting space after a few dates where interest is real, logistics are heavy, and you’re wondering how to move from casual to committed without killing the spark. As divorced dads, we know the stakes are higher—kids, calendars, and hard-won lessons—so we break down a practical way to lead with clarity while keeping things warm and inviting.

We start by flipping the usual script: before negotiating with someone else, navigate yourself. How attracted are you, how much do you enjoy her, and what role could she play in your future? Once you have those answers, identify the next most important step for you—exclusive dating, an overnight, more weekly time—and present it as an invitation, not a request. That single shift keeps the romance alive, adds mystery, and shows discipline. We also tackle the noisy world of dating tactics and explain why principles beat hacks: clarify, invite, observe, refine. Your desires are valid; if they’re met with consistent no’s, it’s feedback to evaluate fit, not a cue to push harder.

We dive into listening as a masculine advantage. When she processes out loud, resist fixing. Stay present, invite more, then reflect back small, accurate pieces of clarity so she can see herself more clearly. This builds trust, lowers pressure, and gives you better data to guide the pace. Along the way we share language for making linear feel romantic, how to protect your frame without turning rigid, and why carrying the “full checklist” privately while offering one step at a time is both effective and attractive.

If you’re a dad reentering dating, this conversation is your roadmap to leading with steadiness, handling timelines without games, and building a connection that can actually fit your life. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with the next “step” you’re planning to invite—what’s on your list?

18 - From Availability To Attraction

Tue, 21 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Ever get a “let me check my schedule” that drifts into silence? We unpack why availability feels confusing, how to read it without taking it personally, and what to do instead of pushing for a plan. Our focus: inviting, not burdening. You’ll learn how to craft vivid, low‑pressure invitations, keep your energy consistent after the first spark, and swap the effort mindset for a cleaner metric—response. If the invitation is clear, authentic, and playful, the yes becomes obvious. If it isn’t, you have your answer.

We dive into the difference between busy and disinterested, the cyclical nature of feminine energy, and why compassion is a secret performance enhancer for men. When you accept cycles, you let the pressure out of the system, which ironically makes you more attractive. We also take aim at dating apps: they create an illusion of infinite options, but most are low quality. One embodied ask in real life can outmatch a hundred messages online. We share practical first‑date ideas that feel “exotic” without being expensive—think uncommon presence, not Paris.

Consistency is everything. If you show up charismatic once and go bland over text, attraction fades. Keep the same authentic voice in your follow‑ups so she trusts this is who you are. We cover how to speak from the heart when availability wanes: affirm the good, say what you miss, and invite a return to it without blame. And we underline a crucial mindset shift for divorced dads—be on mission. When your life has purpose beyond dating, your presence feels grounded and women can lean into choosing you.

If this resonates, hit follow, share it with a friend who’s back in the dating world, and leave a quick review. It helps more dads find the tools to date with clarity, courage, and real connection.

17 - From Checklists to Chemistry: Decoding Her Dating Profile

Tue, 14 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Ever stare at a profile and think, What does any of this actually mean? We go straight at the modern maze of dating after divorce—where “active,” “preferably no kids,” and political banners can make or break a match before you’ve said hello. As two dads who’ve lived the post-divorce reboot, we break down how to read between the lines, when to move on, and how to show up with humor and direction instead of treating dates like job interviews.

We tackle the illusion of abundance on apps and why chasing algorithms keeps you stuck. You’ll learn a simple filter that protects your time: chemistry beats criteria. Checklists have a role, but they don’t create attraction—experience does. We share a practical “show, don’t tell” approach to profiles and messages, including how to turn vague labels into vivid conversations that reveal compatibility fast. We also get candid about age and timelines, why biology and logistics matter, and how to be compassionate and clear when goals don’t align.

For single dads, this conversation flips the script on “baggage.” Your story is an advantage when you present it with ownership and lightness. We outline how to lead playfully without posturing, answer money/work questions without auditioning, and spot red flags in rigid non-negotiables or identity-first politics. Plus, we offer concrete steps to get off the app and into real life quickly—because attraction lives in person, not in bullet points.

Ready to save time, have more fun, and date with a backbone? Hit play, then share this with a dad who needs it. If it helped, leave a quick rating or drop a comment—we read every one and it helps more dads find the show.

16 - Green Flags & Gut Checks: What Makes a Great Partner After Divorce

Tue, 07 Oct 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Red flags are easy to spot. What’s harder—and far more useful—is training your eye for the green flags that tell you a relationship can actually work. We dive into the signals that matter most for dads dating after divorce: respect for fatherhood, emotional maturity, and consistency that builds trust instead of anxiety. You’ll hear how to test for these qualities without games, just clear beliefs, grounded vulnerability, and specific requests that lead to real change.

We unpack why a woman’s respect for your role as a dad is non-negotiable, and how complementary parenting styles can coexist without power struggles. We walk through nonviolent communication you can use today—identify the behavior, share a real feeling, make a specific request, and ask for agreement—so you can stop vague, circular arguments and start building habits that stick. We also explore why humor is a quiet superpower in conflict, turning pressure into connection without dismissing what hurts.

There’s more: how to spot support for your healing vs. pressure to “move on,” why requests aren’t the same as boundaries, and how self-leadership shows up under so-called “shit tests.” If you’ve wondered how to keep your frame, communicate clearly, and create a culture of appreciation that invites the right partner to lean in, this conversation offers practical scripts and mindsets you can use right away.

If this helped, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs it, and leave a quick review—tell us which green flag you’re looking for next.

15 - Dating Younger: Fantasy or Fulfillment?

Tue, 30 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0600

The dating world doesn't come with a rulebook, especially for those navigating it after divorce. In this candid conversation, Jude and Dallas tackle the recent controversy surrounding the Golden Bachelor's age preferences and what it reveals about the complex world of dating in midlife.

When 66-year-old Mel Owens stated he preferred to date women between 45-60, the backlash was immediate. But does having age preferences make someone shallow, or is it simply an honest acknowledgment of compatibility factors? The hosts explore how our dating preferences develop, why they matter, and when they might need examination.

For divorced dads, understanding the concept of the "sexual marketplace" can be eye-opening. Many men underestimate their value after divorce, not realizing that maturity, stability, and having your life in order can be powerfully attractive qualities. The key distinction emerges between preferences that lead to fulfillment versus those that merely satisfy short-term cravings.

What makes this conversation particularly valuable is the practical wisdom offered for those balancing dating with parenting responsibilities. Finding someone with compatible values and lifestyle is crucial, yet emotional connection remains the foundation of any meaningful relationship. Jude shares from personal experience how transformative post-divorce dating can be when approached with self-awareness and intention.

Whether you're newly divorced or years into single parenthood, this episode provides a framework for examining what you truly want in a relationship versus what you think you should want. The hosts offer complementary perspectives that acknowledge both the emotional journey and practical realities of finding connection after divorce.

Ready to approach dating with greater clarity and confidence? Connect with Dallas at blackboxdating.com or find divorce resources with Jude at thedivorcedadvocate.com and discover how to create the fulfilling relationships you deserve.

14 - Dog Hair in the Bed: When Fido Becomes the Boyfriend

Tue, 23 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Ever noticed how some women seem more attached to their furry companions than their human partners? That's exactly what we're diving into today – with both humor and psychological insight.

The rise of "dog mom" culture represents more than just cute Instagram posts. For many women, dogs fulfill emotional needs that past relationships failed to satisfy: unconditional love without complex demands, loyalty without question, and comfort without judgment. When a woman chooses her dog's company over meaningful human connection, she's often protecting herself from past relationship disappointments.

Looking beneath the surface of this dynamic reveals important lessons for divorced dads navigating the dating landscape. Rather than feeling threatened by a woman's close bond with her pet, understanding the underlying psychology can help you approach these relationships with confidence and compassion. Does her attachment to her dog represent unmet emotional needs? Is she seeking safety and control she hasn't found in human relationships?

We explore practical communication strategies that work – from using "help me understand" questions that open dialogue without judgment, to painting a positive vision of what you uniquely bring to the relationship that a dog simply cannot. The most effective approach isn't competing with her pet but complementing what her pet provides.

Most importantly, we discuss how a man who's confident in his masculine energy – who has his own mission and purpose – doesn't feel threatened by a woman's relationship with her dog. Instead, he recognizes that he brings novelty, adventure, and depth that no animal companion can provide.

Whether you're currently dating someone whose dog seems to take priority or simply want to better understand relationship dynamics, this episode offers both laughs and practical wisdom. Subscribe now and join our community of divorced dads navigating the wild world of dating with authenticity and purpose.

13 - Cargo Shorts Won't Get You Dates

Tue, 16 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0600

Looking sharp isn't just about vanity—it's a strategic move that impacts every area of your post-divorce life. In this revealing episode, we unpack why men's style matters more than most divorced dads realize, and how your appearance silently communicates volumes about your character before you say a word.

When your self-worth takes a hit after divorce, upgrading your style provides a powerful, accessible way to begin rebuilding confidence from the outside in. As co-host Jude candidly shares his own journey from "cargo shorts guy" to confidently well-dressed, we explore how small changes in presentation can dramatically shift how others perceive you—and more importantly, how you perceive yourself.

Women consistently notice and respond to men who demonstrate effort in their appearance. As Dallas explains, "When a guy shows up looking put-together, women feel they can count on him not to be passive or complacent in the relationship." This extends beyond dating to your professional life and the example you set for your children, who are always watching how you present yourself to the world.

Contrary to what many believe, dressing well doesn't require a hefty budget. We share practical, affordable strategies for finding quality clothes that fit properly (the #1 style rule), essential grooming practices that women notice immediately, and simple accessories that create natural conversation opportunities. From thrift store finds to the psychology behind "peacocking," we provide a comprehensive roadmap for style transformation.

Ready for real change? Take our "First Date Audit" challenge: evaluate what you'd wear tonight, be honest about how it makes you feel, and commit to creating one knockout outfit that projects confidence. Share your results with us—your journey could inspire other dads navigating the same path.

12 - Blowtorches, Ovens, and Smokers: Understanding Relationship Timing

Tue, 09 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0600

What happens when Hollywood tries to depict modern dating? In this eye-opening episode, we dissect "The Materialist" movie starring Dakota Johnson, Pedro Pascal, and Chris Evans to reveal the gap between cinematic romance and the authentic relationship dynamics divorced dads navigate daily.

The film portrays a matchmaker torn between a wealthy "unicorn" and her struggling actor ex-boyfriend—a classic Hollywood polarization that misses the nuanced middle ground where real relationships thrive. We explore how the movie both gets right and severely misrepresents the natural desires of men and women in relationships. While women's need for security isn't "materialistic" and men's physical attraction isn't "superficial," these natural drives are often unfairly villainized in modern media.

For divorced dads, financial reality dramatically shifts when one household becomes two. We candidly discuss post-divorce financial changes and how to approach dating with honesty about your situation without letting it define you. Women are attracted not necessarily to wealth, but to men with direction, purpose, and the ability to handle their responsibilities—what we playfully call "the smoker method" versus "the blowtorch approach" to relationships.

Safety emerges as a crucial theme—women need to feel safe both with you as a person and with the complex situation they're entering. When dating a divorced dad, they're assessing whether your co-parenting dynamics, relationship with your ex, and overall life structure will become their burden or whether you've created space for a new relationship to flourish naturally.

We challenge the rigid rules and timelines that internet dating gurus promote, encouraging an approach built on presence and intention rather than arbitrary expectations. Each relationship unfolds uniquely, and approaching milestones with authenticity creates memorable experiences that can potentially become stories you share for years to come.

Ready to transform your approach to dating after divorce? Check out our resources at blackboxdating.com and thedivorcedadvocate.com and join us next week as we continue exploring the path to authentic connection.

11 - Make Invitations, Not Demands: Redefining Leadership in Love

Tue, 02 Sep 2025 05:00:00 -0600

The world watched as Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner's divorce unfolded across international headlines, with Turner declaring she'd "never return to the US" and Jonas filing to keep his daughters stateside. But beneath this celebrity spectacle lies a powerful lesson for every divorced dad trying to navigate the complex world of dating and co-parenting.

This episode dives deep into the art of the invitation—a revolutionary approach to dating that transforms how divorced dads connect with potential partners. We unpack why expressing what you want as an invitation rather than an expectation creates space for genuine connection while maintaining your masculine energy. Through practical examples and honest conversation, we explore how this subtle shift changes everything from scheduling dates to establishing boundaries.

For divorced dads balancing parenting responsibilities with dating lives, we address the critical questions: How do you assess whether a potential partner has thoughtfully created space for dating in her life? What signals reveal whether someone will respect your established family dynamics? And how can you lead authentically without slipping into controlling behaviors that repel the very connection you seek?

The conversation takes an illuminating turn when we contrast leadership with control, offering a framework that allows divorced dads to maintain their vision while remaining open to collaboration. This approach creates relationships where feedback flows freely and both parties feel valued—the foundation for any successful blended family.

Whether you're just starting to date after divorce or struggling with relationship patterns that leave you frustrated, this episode offers a refreshing perspective that creates more freedom, connection, and authenticity in your dating life. Discover how detaching from outcomes while staying true to your values transforms not just your relationships, but your entire approach to life after divorce.

10 - The Man You Choose to Be Shapes Your Dating Future

Fri, 22 Aug 2025 07:00:00 -0600

Jude Sandvall and Dallas Bluth delve into the fundamental importance of identifying personal values and beliefs before re-entering the dating world after divorce. They explore how unexamined expectations can derail relationships and provide practical tools for building self-awareness.

9 - 5 Things To Look For In A Relationship

Sun, 21 May 2023 19:00:00 -0600

Whether you are contemplating dating or assessing the end of your marriage it is critical to know and understand that these 5 elements must be present in your relationship.

8 - 24 Dating Tips For Life After Divorce

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 18:00:00 -0700

You’re getting back out there and dating again after divorce! Listen in to learn 24 important tips for dating after your divorce including being patient with chemistry, identifying liars, and letting go of anger.

7 - How To Tell Your Child You’re Dating After Divorce

Sun, 05 Feb 2023 18:00:00 -0700

As you and your children adjust to life after divorce there may be one more adjustment that you want to make…dating again! Listen in as Jude shares some tips on how to tell your child that you’re dating again while reassuring them at the same time.

6 - 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dating After Divorce

Fri, 06 Jan 2023 12:00:00 -0700

Listen in as Jude and Ralph share the 9 Critical Risk Management Questions For Dads Dads Dating After Divorce from Shawn T. Smith's book titled The Tactical Guide to Woman: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage

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5 - Are You a Tom Brady?

Fri, 18 Nov 2022 13:00:00 -0700

Ralph and Jude are joined by The Mad Men of Masculinity, Jason B. Kendrick and Kirk M. Samuels, to discuss the Tom Brady/Gisele Bundchen divorce and whether or not you are just like Tom Brady. Tune in to find out!

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4 - How To NOT F*%k Up Your Next Relationship

Fri, 28 Oct 2022 11:00:00 -0600

Ralph and Jude discuss Ralph's newest book titled Divorce Panic and share tips on how to prepare yourself for success in your next relationship.

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Music Credit: Akira The Don

3 - Masculine And Feminine Polarity With Anna Rova

Sun, 02 Oct 2022 16:00:00 -0600

Ralph and Jude talk with Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova about the masculine and feminine polarity and why it is important while dating and in a relationship.

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Music Credit: Akira The Don

2 - The Tactical Guide To Women With Dr. Shawn T. Smith

Fri, 02 Sep 2022 14:00:00 -0600

Dr. Shawn T. Smith joins the show to share wisdom from his book The Tactical Guide To Women: How Men Can Manage Risk In Dating And Marriage. Listen in as Shawn talks about risk management, the bright triad of women, and how to avoid completely f*ing up your life.

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Music Credit: Akira The Don

1 - Why Divorced Dads Are A Catch!

Wed, 03 Aug 2022 12:00:00 -0600

Listen in as Ralph and Jude share about their respective histories in dating after divorce and explain why divorced dads are absolutely a catch in the dating market!

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Music Credit: Akira The Don