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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[What even is marriage, really?  In Episode 4 we're back to debate whether marriage is still relevant, and if we'd still tie the knot if nobody else cared.  Also, find out what is NOT a good enough reason to do a juice cleanse.  Enjoy, and as always, let us know if you'd like to be a guest on the pod by emailing relationshitthepod@gmail.com. ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In Episode 3 we get into gender roles in relationships from a horizontal point of view.  Come for the nuanced discussion of gender, but stay to hear Nik confess his undying love for Mark Ruffalo.  If you want to join us on a future episode, email us at relationshitthepod@gmail.com! ]]></itunes:summary>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[Episode 2 brings you our current FOTW (fight of the week) which is all about us spilling...no, drinking the tea.  You'll also find out why Micaela's feelings are hurt this time, and get a peek at Nik's poor time management skills.  As always, email us at relationshitthepod@gmail.com if you're interested in joining us for an episode! ]]></itunes:summary>
    <description><![CDATA[<p>Episode 2 brings you our current FOTW (fight of the week) which is all about us spilling...no, <em>drinking</em> the tea.  You&apos;ll also find out why Micaela&apos;s feelings are hurt this time, and get a peek at Nik&apos;s poor time management skills.  As always, email us at relationshitthepod@gmail.com if you&apos;re interested in joining us for an episode!</p>]]></description>
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    <itunes:summary><![CDATA[In episode 1 of Relationsh!t we give a brief history of our nearly decade-long relationship,  dive into the our most recent recurring argument, and set expectations for future episodes.  If you and your partner (or just you!) want to join us for a future episode, let us know by emailing relationshitthepod@gmail.com. ]]></itunes:summary>
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