And it’s more than just bringing your dog to daycare. 

You’ll learn: 

1. How exactly we define it (hint: it doesn’t mean you can’t ever be separated from your dog)
2. Why it is such a critical part of separation anxiety recovery
3. Why it is a requirement to join our program
4. What about emergencies?
5. Creative ways to achieve this seemingly insurmountable task
6. How to handle absence suspension for dogs who are attached to one key figure
7. Jane’s personal experience with absence suspension and her separation anxiety dogs
8. And more!!!

Resources mentioned in this episode:

The Secret Sauce to Separation Anxiety Success: Suspending Absences

Schedule a Complimentary Call with Jane Wolff, CTC, CSAT

Is Doggy Daycare Right for Your Dog? By Wag the Dog and Company

Choosing a Doggy Daycare by Wag the Dog and Company

Crowdsourcing Alone Time Alternatives

Suspending Absences: Not just doable. It’s being done!

The purpose of this podcast is to empower you to take the reins on your own separation anxiety training journey. Resolving separation anxiety is a lofty goal–one that is complex and messy even under the guidance of a Certified Separation Anxiety Trainer.

With that in mind, I want to be sure you are prepared as you DIY this endeavor. When obstacles inevitably confront you along your journey, I want you to remember that they are 1) normal and 2) surmountable. 

When you feel derailed, I want you to think “I remember Jackie saying this would happen,” instead of “I am a failure and this will never work.” 

A little preparation and familiarization with the footings on which the whole process rests will give you that sense of groundedness. 

So in this episode, I am laying out the 10 pillars that serve as your foundation for separation anxiety training. Any time you feel stuck (and you will feel stuck), I want you to circle back to this episode and assess how solid your foundation truly is. 

The 10 pillars I’ll address are: 

1. Viewing your dog as a study of one
2. Providing enrichment and meeting your dog’s needs
3. Managing your dog’s distress with absence suspension
4. Becoming fluent in body language
5. Reducing your dog’s overall stress
6. Getting your dog checked out by your veterinarian
7. Being open to the use of behavior medication
8. Executing a gradual exposure training plan
9. Setting realistic expectations
10. Taking care of yourself

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Study of One: A Disclaimer

The Secret Sauce to Separation Anxiety Success: Suspending Absences

Canine Enrichment for the Real World by Allie Bender & Emily Strong 

Enrichment for the Real World Podcast

Doggie Language by Lili Chin

Bravo Dog's Body Language Online Course

Fallout from the Use of Aversives

Medication Education Resources

How Long Does It Take to Resolve Separation Anxiety?

If you follow me on Instagram, you’ve probably heard me say that work-to-eat toys aren’t a cure-all for separation anxiety.

So why devote a podcast to the topic of enrichment?

Enrichment is about more than work-to-eat toys, and separation anxiety training is about more than suspending absences and going at your dog’s pace.

Enrichment is about meeting your dog’s species-specific needs, and separation anxiety training needs to be a holistic approach that includes just that. 

In this podcast episode, special guest Allie Bender of Pet Harmony Animal Behavior and Training and I take a look at how this topic of meeting your dog’s needs can be incorporated into a behavior modification plan, and why it is crucial. 

In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn:  

• How we define enrichment and a little history on the subject
• Some of the species-specific needs that our dogs have and how you can meet them
• Tips for “lazy enrichment” (so lazy, you can do it while watching TV!)
• Why enrichment is a key piece of the puzzle in separation anxiety training
• Why agency is so important and some other easy ways that guardians can provide it in our dogs’ day to day lives
• How to identity your dog’s individual needs
• And so much more! 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Pet Harmony Training Website

Pet Harmony Training on Instagram

Pet Harmony Training on Facebook

Pet Harmony Training Podcast

Pet Harmony Training Enrichment Chart

Canine Enrichment for the Real World by Allie Bender and Emily Strong

Enriching Animal’s Lives by Hal Markowitz

Think Smart Dog Training’s Snuffle Mats

Why Dogs Need More Control Over Their Lives - article on Psychology Today

DogMinded Enrichment Resources

That’s often the last thing that frustrated dog guardians want to hear in their search for answers. And as much as we want to give them the black-and-white responses they’re after, we often can’t. Because it really does depend. 

In this podcast episode, special guest Ally Verba of Training with Ally and I discuss how to account for the individual dog’s environment, learning history, experiences, health and so much more. 

In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn:  

• What we mean when we say that each dog is a study of one
• How this principle comes into play with home alone training specifically
• Some common examples of questions that we answer with the “it depends” response and why
• How you can start to find the answers to these nuanced questions on your own
• Why cookie cutter training plans often fail
• How to be discerning when consuming information on social media about home alone training
• And so much more! 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Ally’s Instagram

Ally’s Website

Ally’s Podcast

Adherence to the Study of One: A Disclaimer  

Podcast With Jackie and Ally on Data Tracking

Dr. Susan Friedman’s Website

Dr. Susan Friedman’s Living & Learning With Animals Online Course

Doggie Language 

Bravo Dog Training’s Body Language Course

Before I decided to specialize exclusively in separation anxiety, I fielded this question a lot. Many of my clients with aggressive dogs in particular strongly believed that I needed to see Fido snapping at visitors to successfully change the behavior. The case can certainly be made (as I did many times) that it isn’t necessary (or ethical) to put dogs and people in danger and risk a bite solely for the purpose of observation. Especially when we can safely and accurately surmise why Fido would do such a thing and what the best course of action would be without pushing a dog past their threshold. 

But what about for separation anxiety dogs? 

As my special guest and mentor Malena DeMartini and I discuss in this episode, we strongly believe in the importance of an initial absence assessment before embarking on a home alone protocol. We take a deep dive in all things initial assessments: what they are, why they are important, and how to conduct them. 

In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn:  

• How we define an initial absence assessment
• Why we believe they are absolutely critical in establishing a baseline and understanding an individual dog’s suite of behaviors
• What specific tools are needed to conduct an initial assessment
• Environmental interventions to consider prior to the assessment
• All things camera set-up and positioning, including my personal favorite camera for separation anxiety training
• How to know when it’s time to stop the assessment
• What to look for and measure during and after the assessment
• What to do and not do when you return home
• And so much more! 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Malena’s website

Malena on Instagram

Malena on Facebook

Malena’s book

Schedule an initial assessment with a CSAT

Learn more about Mission Possible, Malena’s DIY online training course. Use coupon code CSAT50 for $50 off.

Wyze cam

How to watch and record your assessment using Zoom

Body language resources: Doggie Language by Lili Chin and Bravo Dog’s Body Language course

Greeting research

How to Choose a Dog Trainer

I’ve never been a big fan of labels. I have blogged about why they can be problematic.  But I also recognize that they can be innocuous, and in some cases, helpful. 

When it comes to separation anxiety training, getting clear on the terminology is important. 

It’s important because a clear understanding of what specific triggers are at play is imperative in planning and executing a successful training protocol. 

And labels like separation anxiety, isolation distress and fear of missing out (FOMO) allow us to group common triggers into categories that make training more efficient. 

In this episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, you will learn:  

• The difference between clinical separation anxiety, isolation distress and FOMO
• The umbrella term that most certified separation anxiety trainers (and lay people alike) use to describe separation-related challenges
• The two key distinctions between bona fide separation anxiety and a dog who is just having a party while you’re away
• Why the distinction between “upset” and “non-upset” is so important, even though the resulting behaviors can look very similar
• What FOMO really is and why I worry that it trivializes the distress that a dog may be experiencing
• Why it’s normal for dogs to become distressed when left alone

I also touch on the subject of the next episode: How to run an assessment with my mentor, Malena DeMartini. 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Blog: Defining Separation Anxiety

Article: What is a Veterinary Behaviorist?

In this first episode of the Believe in Your Dog Podcast, I introduce myself and share what you can expect from the podcast. You’ll learn about how I got started in dogs and what led me to working solely with separation anxiety. 

And you’ll hear me touch on how the approach I use to resolve my client dogs’ home alone distress has informed my own mental health journey.

I also get clear on what I hope to achieve with this podcast: 

• Everything I have learned about dog training and this super specialized niche I have carved out in separation anxiety training.
• How what I’ve learned about home alone training that has shaped how I approach my own mental health.
• A strong foundation to serve as the building blocks for your journey.
• What exactly separation anxiety is and how it manifests.
• How to determine if your dog would benefit from home alone training.
• The key components of training that will set you and your dog up for success, including a few that even my savviest listeners may not be aware of. 
• All the minutiae that might affect your dog’s progress as you work through a protocol.
• …And much, much, more. 

Resources mentioned in this episode:

Malena DeMartini’s separation anxiety training certification program

The Academy for Dog Trainers

Humane Society of Boulder Valley

Blog: What is Desensitization and Counterconditioning?

Blog: Adherence to the Study of One: A Disclaimer

Blog: What is Positive Reinforcement in Dog Training?