Ghetto Oasis Sat, 28 Mar 2026 03:11:01 -0400 https://anchor.fm/ghetto-oasis-email en-us © 2026 Ghetto Oasis yes 7795ace4-5be7-58b3-9b31-66f5632b3185 Jeona and Shae episodic true Buzzsprout (https://www.buzzsprout.com) Jeona and Shae https://storage.buzzsprout.com/71sz8bytrcojobadx4bpwsbqun5x?.jpg Ghetto Oasis https://anchor.fm/ghetto-oasis-email Shae What's Your Life's Purpose? | Being Present and Grounded What's Your Life's Purpose? | Being Present and Grounded I think we've all asked ourselves at some point, "what's my purpose?" On this episode, our guest helps us shed some light on what we believe life is all about. I hope this helps put your mind at ease.

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]]> I think we've all asked ourselves at some point, "what's my purpose?" On this episode, our guest helps us shed some light on what we believe life is all about. I hope this helps put your mind at ease.

Youtube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCXR3op81yO1xFncynuWRoDQ

Instagram: https://instagram.com/ghettooasis?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRADmEvw/

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-11203552 Thu, 25 Aug 2022 13:00:00 -0500 4080 2 4 full true I Hate Therapy: Tending To Your Mental Health I Hate Therapy: Tending To Your Mental Health Therapy is a great resource! It provides you with a bountiful toolbox to pull from. If you have never given it a try I would highly suggest it! If you do not enjoy therapy there are endless free resources online you can explore to aid you in regulating your emotions.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline: Call: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

List of various specific resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/mental-health-resources/ 

Find us at:
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Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXR3op81yO1xFncynuWRoDQ 

]]> Therapy is a great resource! It provides you with a bountiful toolbox to pull from. If you have never given it a try I would highly suggest it! If you do not enjoy therapy there are endless free resources online you can explore to aid you in regulating your emotions.

SAMHSA’s National Helpline: Call: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)

List of various specific resources: https://www.mentalhealthfirstaid.org/mental-health-resources/ 

Find us at:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ghettooasis/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRADmEvw/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXR3op81yO1xFncynuWRoDQ 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-11112410 Wed, 10 Aug 2022 02:00:00 -0500 590 2 3 full true Free Love: Alternative Relationship Styles, Open Relationships and Polyamory Free Love: Alternative Relationship Styles, Open Relationships and Polyamory Welcome to a deeper look at our guest (and me). As promised you can find a few resources here. I've also provided the definitions I used in the beginning of this episode. Do your research, you never know what'll spark your interest. 

  • Alternative Relationship- Any relationship outside of the monogamous norm
  • Non-monogamy- intimate relationship that does not strictly hew to the standards of monogamy, particularly that of having only one person with whom to exchange sex, love, and/or affection. In that sense, "nonmonogamy" may be accurately applied to extramarital sex, group marriage, or polyamory. It is not synonymous with infidelity, since all parties are consenting to the relationship structure   
  • Consensual non-monogamy, and its subset ethical non-monogamy, are the practice of non-monogamous intimate or sexual relations that are distinguished from infidelity by the knowledge and consent of those involved, and from polygamy by the various partners not being in a single marriage. Forms of consensual non-monogamy include swinging, polyamory, open relationships, cuckquean fetishism and cuckolding fetishism.
  • Open Relationship-  is an intimate relationship that is sexually non-monogamous. The term is distinct from polyamory, in that it generally indicates a relationship where there is a primary emotional and intimate relationship between two partners, who agree to at least the possibility of sexual or emotional intimacy with other people. 
  • Polyamorous- someone who engages in polyamory 
  • Polyamory-the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time. People who identify as polyamorous may believe in open relationships with a conscious management of jealousy
  • Polygamy- marrying more than one spouse

References Mentioned: 

QueerSexTherapy

PolyamorousBlackGirl

Multiamory Podcast

Other Resources: 

Shannon Boodram and her podcast episode talking about open relationships

Where to find Mycall:
Mycall's IG and The Blaq Agenda 

]]> Welcome to a deeper look at our guest (and me). As promised you can find a few resources here. I've also provided the definitions I used in the beginning of this episode. Do your research, you never know what'll spark your interest. 

  • Alternative Relationship- Any relationship outside of the monogamous norm
  • Non-monogamy- intimate relationship that does not strictly hew to the standards of monogamy, particularly that of having only one person with whom to exchange sex, love, and/or affection. In that sense, "nonmonogamy" may be accurately applied to extramarital sex, group marriage, or polyamory. It is not synonymous with infidelity, since all parties are consenting to the relationship structure   
  • Consensual non-monogamy, and its subset ethical non-monogamy, are the practice of non-monogamous intimate or sexual relations that are distinguished from infidelity by the knowledge and consent of those involved, and from polygamy by the various partners not being in a single marriage. Forms of consensual non-monogamy include swinging, polyamory, open relationships, cuckquean fetishism and cuckolding fetishism.
  • Open Relationship-  is an intimate relationship that is sexually non-monogamous. The term is distinct from polyamory, in that it generally indicates a relationship where there is a primary emotional and intimate relationship between two partners, who agree to at least the possibility of sexual or emotional intimacy with other people. 
  • Polyamorous- someone who engages in polyamory 
  • Polyamory-the practice of, or desire for, romantic relationships with more than one partner at the same time. People who identify as polyamorous may believe in open relationships with a conscious management of jealousy
  • Polygamy- marrying more than one spouse

References Mentioned: 

QueerSexTherapy

PolyamorousBlackGirl

Multiamory Podcast

Other Resources: 

Shannon Boodram and her podcast episode talking about open relationships

Where to find Mycall:
Mycall's IG and The Blaq Agenda 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-11070611 Wed, 03 Aug 2022 02:00:00 -0500 4293 2 2 full true I Love Me Enough for the Both of Us: Forgiving Yourself In Relationships I Love Me Enough for the Both of Us: Forgiving Yourself In Relationships This episode addresses how difficult it can be to forgive yourself in regards to relationships. Solo self forgiveness can be a challenge of its own but, when you add another person in the mix it can be even harder. The challenge of forgiving yourself for your own shortcomings in relationships is extremely important. Let's get into!

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]]> This episode addresses how difficult it can be to forgive yourself in regards to relationships. Solo self forgiveness can be a challenge of its own but, when you add another person in the mix it can be even harder. The challenge of forgiving yourself for your own shortcomings in relationships is extremely important. Let's get into!

Youtube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCXR3op81yO1xFncynuWRoDQ

Instagram: https://instagram.com/ghettooasis?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRADmEvw/

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-11024892 Wed, 27 Jul 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3324 2 1 full true Lions and Tigers and Bears: Fears, Phobias and How to Overcome Them (Or Not!) Lions and Tigers and Bears: Fears, Phobias and How to Overcome Them (Or Not!) Were at the end of season one! Crazy, right! Thank you for listen this far. Your support means the world to me. Fear is something that often trips me up but you all have made this journey of self discovery fun. Please leave a review with topic ideas ! 

]]> Were at the end of season one! Crazy, right! Thank you for listen this far. Your support means the world to me. Fear is something that often trips me up but you all have made this journey of self discovery fun. Please leave a review with topic ideas ! 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10833096 Wed, 22 Jun 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3481 1 10 full true Age Ain't Nothing But A Number: Getting Older, Birthdays and Being Youthful Age Ain't Nothing But A Number: Getting Older, Birthdays and Being Youthful Getting older is beautiful. However, so many people struggle with the aging process. Additionally, when we live pretending like our trauma doesn't effect us it eventually makes our lives hard (ending in a miserable life year after year). On this episode Jé and I talk about our feelings on getting older and how low self esteem in the aging process results in us losing respect.

References mentioned in this episode:

How Horror Films Help Us Process Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-for-black-girls/id1223803641?

]]> Getting older is beautiful. However, so many people struggle with the aging process. Additionally, when we live pretending like our trauma doesn't effect us it eventually makes our lives hard (ending in a miserable life year after year). On this episode Jé and I talk about our feelings on getting older and how low self esteem in the aging process results in us losing respect.

References mentioned in this episode:

How Horror Films Help Us Process Life: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-for-black-girls/id1223803641?

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10795573 Wed, 15 Jun 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3648 1 9 full true It's My Birthday and I'll Cry If I Want To | 28 and Scared of the Unknown It's My Birthday and I'll Cry If I Want To | 28 and Scared of the Unknown This is 28 *wide eyed stare for dramatic effect*! I'm welcoming all the feels and learning to identify feelings (lord knows I have no idea how I feel most of the time!). Next episode will be lighter (because low key, I need some happy go lucky in my life soon). Thank you all for riding with us. Our first season is coming to an end and I feel overwhelmed with gratitude and appreciation. Look out for this episode on Youtube soon!

]]> This is 28 *wide eyed stare for dramatic effect*! I'm welcoming all the feels and learning to identify feelings (lord knows I have no idea how I feel most of the time!). Next episode will be lighter (because low key, I need some happy go lucky in my life soon). Thank you all for riding with us. Our first season is coming to an end and I feel overwhelmed with gratitude and appreciation. Look out for this episode on Youtube soon!

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10762080 Wed, 08 Jun 2022 19:00:00 -0500 612 1 8 full true Self Sabotage: Amber Heard, Embarrassment, and Accountability | Oh my! Self Sabotage: Amber Heard, Embarrassment, and Accountability | Oh my! I really liked making this episode. I  enjoyed not trying to be perfect and just allowing myself space to be me. I also allowed seeing my sister getting a little more comfortable as well. It's crazy how much things can change once you just surrender to yourself. I'm learning to surrender to myself and life more. I hope you do too!

Video version of episode: https://youtu.be/uQwkiPUULms

]]> I really liked making this episode. I  enjoyed not trying to be perfect and just allowing myself space to be me. I also allowed seeing my sister getting a little more comfortable as well. It's crazy how much things can change once you just surrender to yourself. I'm learning to surrender to myself and life more. I hope you do too!

Video version of episode: https://youtu.be/uQwkiPUULms

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10677059 Wed, 25 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3327 mental health month, mental health, Amber Heard, sabotage, self sabotage, accountability, growth, relationships, embarrassment 1 7 full true Confidence, Setting Boundaries and Self Care: How to Glow Up Confidence, Setting Boundaries and Self Care: How to Glow Up Being confident is the main ingredient in the receipt of living a happy life. There are a few important pieces in building ones confidence.  Some of our favorites are setting boundaries, therapy and self care (to name a few). In this episode, sis and I list out our non negotiables in the department of confidence. Enjoy!

]]> Being confident is the main ingredient in the receipt of living a happy life. There are a few important pieces in building ones confidence.  Some of our favorites are setting boundaries, therapy and self care (to name a few). In this episode, sis and I list out our non negotiables in the department of confidence. Enjoy!

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10636984 Wed, 18 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500 1575 how to build confidence, building confidence, self care, glow up, guidance, gen z, setting boundaries, how to set boundaries 1 6 full true Run Away Love: Heartbreak and Ex Lovers Run Away Love: Heartbreak and Ex Lovers Awkward! This episode is long but I promise it's worth it. This conversation is a first for both my sister and I. I'm very happy we were able to be vulnerable though I hated it in the moment. If you are reading this you are the real MVP. 

]]> Awkward! This episode is long but I promise it's worth it. This conversation is a first for both my sister and I. I'm very happy we were able to be vulnerable though I hated it in the moment. If you are reading this you are the real MVP. 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10597301 Wed, 11 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3615 relationships, love, heartbreak, sex, self growth, forgiveness 1 5 full true Time Heals All Wounds: Heartbreak Time Heals All Wounds: Heartbreak Not all heartbreak comes from a significant other. Actually, most of our first heartbreaks are at the hands of family and friends. On todays episode we dive into our greatest heartbreaks. We all talk about the importance of accountability, quality relationships over quantity and so much more.

]]> Not all heartbreak comes from a significant other. Actually, most of our first heartbreaks are at the hands of family and friends. On todays episode we dive into our greatest heartbreaks. We all talk about the importance of accountability, quality relationships over quantity and so much more.

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10554711 Wed, 04 May 2022 02:00:00 -0500 3446 heartbreak, love, trauma, healing 1 4 full true Sisterhood, Minus the Traveling Pants (Part 2) Sisterhood, Minus the Traveling Pants (Part 2) This is the second part of this episode. If you're interested in the entire conversation, listen to part one! On the episode sis and I talk about how our relationship is as tight as it is. At the end I give a few tips on how to build strong relationships in your life. Relationships are constant work. It is nice to reflect on the journey from time to time. I hope you do the same with someone you love. 

]]> This is the second part of this episode. If you're interested in the entire conversation, listen to part one! On the episode sis and I talk about how our relationship is as tight as it is. At the end I give a few tips on how to build strong relationships in your life. Relationships are constant work. It is nice to reflect on the journey from time to time. I hope you do the same with someone you love. 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10511294 Wed, 27 Apr 2022 02:00:00 -0500 1495 sisterhood, relationships, self help, love 1 3 full true Sisterhood, Minus the Traveling Pants (Part 1) Sisterhood, Minus the Traveling Pants (Part 1) On this episode sis and I talk about how our relationship is as tight as it is. Relationships are constant work. It is nice to reflect on the journey from time to time. I hope you do the same with someone you love. If you like your heart strings tugged this one is for you. 

]]> On this episode sis and I talk about how our relationship is as tight as it is. Relationships are constant work. It is nice to reflect on the journey from time to time. I hope you do the same with someone you love. If you like your heart strings tugged this one is for you. 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10462726 Wed, 20 Apr 2022 02:00:00 -0500 1701 sisterhood, relationships, self help, love 1 2 full true Masculinas: Masculinity, Femininity and Self-Exploration Masculinas: Masculinity, Femininity and Self-Exploration On todays episode we talk about what it's like being recovering masculine women. We attempt to define what a "masculina" is and what feminine energy and masculine energy means to us. This episode serves as a framework for the journey we are on and the great deal more we have to learn about ourselves (and others!). 

]]> On todays episode we talk about what it's like being recovering masculine women. We attempt to define what a "masculina" is and what feminine energy and masculine energy means to us. This episode serves as a framework for the journey we are on and the great deal more we have to learn about ourselves (and others!). 

]]> Jeona and Shae Buzzsprout-10387647 Wed, 13 Apr 2022 02:00:00 -0500 2498 masculine, feminine, red pill, femininity, 1 1 full true Welcome To Our Ghetto Oasis Welcome To Our Ghetto Oasis Navigating internal toxicity and cancel culture is terrifying. Our podcast hopes to shed light (and grace) on the difficulties that come with existing on the web in this contemporary age. Subscribe and follow on all podcast streaming platforms to tune into the weekly conversation.

]]> Navigating internal toxicity and cancel culture is terrifying. Our podcast hopes to shed light (and grace) on the difficulties that come with existing on the web in this contemporary age. Subscribe and follow on all podcast streaming platforms to tune into the weekly conversation.

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