The weeks between Thanksgiving and New Year’s are often fraught with peril for coparents. But does conflict have to be inevitable?

In this episode, we strip away the sentimentality to look at the practical side of holiday coparenting. Whether you have a court order or are just winging it, we discuss how to manage expectations, communicate in advance, and prevent your children from becoming pawns in a holiday power struggle.

Takeaways:

• Setting expectations: Don't promise what you can't deliver.
• Why communication in November saves headaches in December.
• How to make the most of your time (even if you don't wake up with them on the 25th).

Are you preparing for family law mediation? In this video, Ron Gore, family law attorney and mediator, breaks down the three biggest mistakes he sees parents make after conducting more than 100 mediations per year. 

Many people enter mediation with the wrong mindset or without the necessary preparation, leading to expensive delays and added stress.

In this video, you will learn:

• The Wrong Focus: Why seeking validation, payback, or total closure is a mistake.
• Misunderstanding the Law: Why you need a reality check on the applicable law and the relative strength of your evidence before you walk in the door.
• Missing Information: The critical financial and scheduling details you must have available to reach meaningful agreements that can be turned into final orders.

Don't let these errors derail your custody or divorce agreement. 

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Going to divorce or custody mediation? Don't go in unprepared. Drawing on experience from more than 100 mediations per year, attorney and Coparent Academy co-founder Ron Gore explains exactly how to set yourself up for success. We cover: (1) Understanding what mediation is, (2) How to frame your negotiating positions, and (3) The critical importance of gathering all facts before you start. Plus, understand why even family law attorneys prefer to settle their own cases.

This content is family law education, not legal advice. To obtain legal advice, please contact a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction.

You paid for the deposition, now make it count! The deposition transcript is one of the most expensive and important documents in your family law case. Attorney Ron Gore explains how you, the client, can maximize its value by assisting your attorney in a highly organized way. This video outlines how to:

• Read the transcript strategically (twice!).
• Organize notes by specific litigation issues.
• Identify three key categories: admissions, provable lies/mistakes, and negative facts for your side.
• Identify the communications, documents, recordings, and witnesses that will help your attorney take the next steps. 

Learn the essential process of using page and line number references and setting up a structured folder system to prepare your case for settlement or trial. Don't let your investment go to waste!

Notice: This is coparenting and legal education not legal advice. For legal advice consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction to discuss the details of your case. 

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Make your coparent's deposition worth every penny. This expert guide from family law attorney Ron Gore details how clients can become their legal team's best asset. Stop the frustrating cycle of repeating yourself and help your lawyer connect the facts to the law with a highly organized system. We cover:

1. Full Disclosure: Why even your "bad" texts matter.
2. Organization: Using the "Day in the Life" method.
3. Tech Strategy: Utilizing technology before and during the deposition.
4. Demeanor: How to stay professional and assist your attorney in the moment.

A well-prepared deposition is crucial in a family law case—don't miss these critical steps!

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Notice: This is coparenting and legal education not legal advice. For legal advice consult a licensed attorney in your jurisdiction to discuss the details of your case. 

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Your deposition in a family law case is one of the most important moments in the litigation process. Are you prepared?

In this episode, we break down how to perform well at your deposition, save time/money, and increase the likelihood of a reasonable outcome.

In this crucial, you will learn:

• The absolute necessity of telling your attorney everything (even the embarrassing parts).
• How your attorney uses "issue spotting" to prepare you for the topics you’ll face.
• Why having reasonable expectations can help you reach key agreements before the deposition.
• The importance of knowing your facts cold: daily schedules, medical providers, and your own desired outcomes.
• How to participate properly: listening carefully, answering only what's asked, not trying to think ahead of the current question, respecting silences, and letting your attorney object.

A strong deposition performance can shorten your litigation and lead to a better resolution for your family. 

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Written discovery is slow, filtered, and easily obstructed. Learn why a deposition—a face-to-face, real-time interview under oath—is the most important tool in preparing for a custody trial. Discover the strategic value of essentially unlimited follow-up questions, reasons why you may want a videographer, and the attorney's ethical duty to uncover all facts, both good and bad, about both parents to help the court determine what's in the child's best interest. 

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Struggling to manage your child's extracurricular activities with a high conflict coparent? This video provides a detailed 12-step strategy to move from hoping for cooperation to planning for its absence. Learn how to make your ex's cooperation irrelevant and ensure your child doesn't miss out.

In this guide from Coparenting Academy, we cover:

• How to review your court order (sole vs. joint custody)
• How to  propose a new activity
• Why parenting apps like Our Family Wizard are critical
• The "two sets of equipment" rule for high conflict
• Managing schedules, finances, and transportation without conflict
• When and how to use the court to enforce your child's rights

Stop the cycle of frustration. This practical plan will help you document every step, protect yourself, and put your child's best interests first.

RESOURCES & COURSES For more in-depth courses and articles on navigating high conflict coparenting, visit: https://www.coparentacademy.com

Disclaimer: This episode provides education, not legal advice. You should consult with an attorney about your specific situation.

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When we get emotionally dysregulated, our ability to make simple, rational decisions can disappear. This is especially true in high-stakes coparenting conversations where past issues can surface without warning.

Learn why we sometimes make things harder than they need to be and how to start doing better next time.

If you've ever had a moment like this, let me know in the comments. Let's learn from each other.

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Does it feel like your coparent is always making you the "bad guy" when it comes to extracurriculars? Getting your child excited about an expensive travel team or a demanding activity before you've even had a chance to discuss it is a common high-conflict tactic.

In this video, we expose the manipulative strategies some parents use—from creating false urgency to undermining your authority. More importantly, we'll give you a calm, actionable plan to respond effectively, protect your child from the conflict, and restore a cooperative decision-making process.

Learn more at coparentingacademy.com and subscribe for more practical advice.

Chapters: 

00:00 Introduction
00:38 Tactic 1: The Curated Experience
02:30 Tactic 2: Social Pressure
02:51 Tactic 3: A Special Bond
04:07 Tactic 4: Undermining the Other Parent
05:45 Tactic 5: Creating False Urgency
07:12 Tactic 6: Toe in the Water
08:25 How this Sabotage Hurts Your Child
11:41 Not Always A Master Plan
13:02 How to Respond

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Extracurriculars are meant to be fun, but they can be a source of tension for coparents. In this video, we provide practical advice to help you and your coparent make decisions smoothly. We cover everything from the importance of trial periods for new activities to setting boundaries for mutual respect, both on the sidelines and online. By working as a team, you can give your child the gift of a positive experience, preventing them from being soured on activities they love.

Find more practical coparenting tips at www.coparentacademy.com

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A child's education is a critical part of their well-being, but for coparents a parent-teacher conference can quickly become an arena for conflict. This guide helps you put your child's needs first by equipping you with the professional-grade tools to navigate any difficult situation with grace. 

This video gives you a tactical roadmap to:

• A clear, 3-step plan for before, during, and after the conference.
• Ensure your child feels secure in a "two-parent" system, even after separation.
• Create a consistent academic plan across both households, minimizing stress for your child.
• Handle disagreements with your coparent in a way that models respectful behavior for your children.
• Transform the conference into an opportunity to celebrate your child’s victories together.
• Why demonstrating your ability to show up for your child's education is the ultimate win.

For more tactical, professional solutions that help you take control of your coparenting journey, visit coparentacademy.com.

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Long-distance visitation and supervised visitation present huge challenges for coparents. The calls can become stale, the connection can fade, and the costs can be overwhelming. This video provides a tactical solve that most courts and lawyers don't even know about: Video Game Visitation. 

We cover the exact "why" and "how-to":
* Why maintaining a relationship with your child is so important, both for them and for your.
* Choosing the right, age-appropriate games. 
* Structuring the time to maximize connection and safety.

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If your coparent’s inconsistent rules are undermining your efforts and creating chaos for your child, this video is your step-by-step action plan.

Stop fighting the "my house, my rules" battle. Instead, implement a proven strategy to provide your child with the stability they desperately need—with or without your coparent's cooperation.

YOUR 3-STEP PLAYBOOK FROM THIS VIDEO:

DIAGNOSE THE PROBLEM: Pinpoint exactly how inconsistent environments force your child into a state of anxiety and manipulation.

ATTEMPT COLLABORATION: Use our "business meeting" framework and specific "we language" scripts to approach your coparent productively.

BULLETPROOF YOUR HOME: If collaboration fails, learn the calm, authoritative script to explain "Different Homes, Different Rules" to your child. This validates their reality, removes you from the middle, and establishes your home as a sanctuary of consistency.

This is just the start. To master the art of coparenting with a difficult ex, check our online courses, where we dive deep into strategies like this and more.
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You and your coparent have the same child... but you're raising two different kids. It's a maddening reality for millions of divorced parents, leading to blame and conflict. But what if the cause wasn't your coparent's "leniency" or your "rigidity"? What if it was a powerful psychological force ignited by the separation itself? Once you see it, you can't unsee it. This video reveals the subconscious reasons your child adapts their personality for each home and gives you the tools to stop fighting the dynamic and start fixing it.

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Are you winning parenting time but losing your child's heart? Many co-parents fall into the "Scoreboard Mentality"—fighting for what's "fair" instead of what builds a lasting relationship. In this video, we reveal the 3 most common traps (The Schedule Trap, The "It's My Time" Fallacy, and Weaponizing Your Right of First Refusal) that can damage your connection with your kids.

Learn the one simple question to ask yourself—The Tomorrow Test—that can shift your entire co-parenting approach from conflict to connection. Stop playing for the scoreboard and start building a foundation of love and trust that will last a lifetime.

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A popular coparenting Instagram creator has given parents a script for when their child complains about the other parent. It’s a common problem, but is their advice the whole story?

In this episode, family law attorney Ron Gore and therapist Connie LeBlanc watch the video and provide their expert reaction. They agree with some points but add crucial context that could save you from creating a bigger conflict.

You will learn:

How to validate your child's feelings without invalidating your coparent's right to have different rules.

The difference between a child complaining about a fair rule vs. being genuinely hurt by a comment.

Specific approaches for each scenario.

Why empowering a child to speak to the other parent can sometimes backfire.

Before you use a script you saw on social media, watch this expert breakdown to make sure it’s the right move for your family.

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Forced to have supervised visits with your kids? You're facing a choice: use a friend/family member for free, or pay a professional.

The answer isn't as obvious as you think.

In this video, we talk about the pros and cons of each so you can make the right decision for your family and your wallet.

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Are your coparenting conversations endless, draining, and unproductive? You're not alone. In this video, discover the "FACTS Only" communication tool – a simple, efficient way to streamline your discussions and focus on what truly matters: your child's needs. Learn how this powerful strategy, focusing on Feedback, Activities, Concerns, Transportation, and Supplies, can transform high-conflict exchanges into clear, actionable updates. We'll also cover essential tips for implementation, including the best communication methods (hint: ditch the texts!) and how to maintain your sanity even when your coparent doesn't cooperate. Take control of your coparenting narrative and build a strong foundation for your child's well-being.

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Are you a parent navigating different religious beliefs in your household, or worried about your child's exposure to a coparent's faith? This episode is for you.

In this re-edited version of Episode 5 of Coparent Academy, you'll hear the story of a child who found common ground between Southern Baptist and Muslim parents (it involves bacon!), and we'll break down a compelling Reddit post about a dad's fear of 'indoctrination.' Drawing from personal experience as a 'preacher's kid' who was discouraged from independent thought, we offer a refreshing perspective on religious upbringing.

Discover why children, even toddlers, aren't truly 'indoctrinated' in the way many parents fear, and how allowing exposure to different belief systems can actually foster resilience and open-mindedness. We share strategies for teaching your child to think critically and independently about faith, ensuring they can choose their own spiritual path when they're ready.

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In this episode, we answer a question posed by a mother who is concerned the child is moving to overnights with the father too quickly. The court has approved unsupervised day visits, and now he's asking for overnights. This mother is nervous, not just about the living situation but also about past behaviors. We talk about what truly constitutes a "stable enough" environment for a child's overnight visits, going beyond who's on the lease. Are class differences unfairly influencing perceptions? How can parents ensure their child feels safe and has their own space, even in unconventional settings? Join us for an honest discussion about navigating court orders, parental anxieties, and the child's perspective in complex family dynamics.

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Are you tired of the constant battles and high "transaction costs" in your co-parenting relationship? This episode dives deep into how cooperation, trust, and empathy can transform your coparenting interactions, making life easier for you and significantly benefiting your child.

We'll break down these important elements in the order they build on each other:

• Cooperation: Learn where to start with small, low-investment acts that can chip away at the "us vs. them" mentality. Discover how even minor adjustments, like meeting 30 minutes later or bringing a snack, can be perceived as major issues, and how taking the initiative can lead to a more reciprocal dynamic. We'll explore why a lack of cooperation is a "tax" that makes your life harder and how it negatively impacts your child.
• Trust: Understand how consistent cooperation can pave the way for greater trust. We'll discuss why creating an environment where your coparent feels safe to admit mistakes is so important, and how responding with grace, rather than judgment, can lead to more openness and a healthier relationship. Discover why rebuilding trust takes time and consistent effort, especially after a violation, and the hidden "administrative layer" it often requires.
• Empathy: See how a foundation of cooperation and trust makes empathy a natural next step. We'll explore how empathy can prevent small problems from escalating, incentivize honesty, and model positive pro-social behavior for your children.

Improving your coparenting relationship is not just about thinking differently, but doing things differently. We'll discuss why investing in cooperation, even when it feels like you're losing initially, is an investment in your own peace of mind, your coparenting relationship, and most importantly, your child's well-being and happiness.

You'll learn:

• Practical strategies to initiate cooperation without fear of disappointment.
• How to respond to coparent mistakes in a way that builds trust, not resentment.
• The long-term benefits of embodying empathy in your coparenting interactions.
• Why "borrowing trouble" from past experiences can hinder progress.
• How your children are keenly aware of parental cooperation (or lack thereof) and its impact on them.

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Making coparenting decisions can feel like a minefield, especially when you need to find common ground. In this video, we discuss practical strategies for successful coparenting. We'll show you how to build mutual respect, truly understand your coparent's perspective, and always put your child's well-being first.

You'll learn to spot your deal breakers, grasp the real cost of conflict, and create an environment where your child can truly thrive. We're sharing practical advice on how to approach those tough conversations, avoid unnecessary conflict, and find solutions that work for everyone.

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Reconciliation therapy offers a path parents and estranged children to reconnect, but it's not without significant risks. Many parents assume there's nothing to lose, but an unprepared approach can actually worsen the situation, causing more pain for both parent and child, and potentially ending any chance of future reconciliation.

In this candid discussion, we dive deep into the often-overlooked dangers of entering reconciliation counseling without proper preparation. We discuss why it's important for estranged parents to be financially ready, emotionally stable, and to have addressed underlying issues like anger management, domestic violence, coercive control, and substance abuse. 

Learn why genuine self-reflection and a willingness to be vulnerable are essential for success. We also highlight the critical role of attorneys in guiding clients through this complex process, ensuring they are truly ready to engage constructively and, most importantly, safely for the child.

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What is child support really for? When a parent pays a set amount each month, does that cover every single expense for the children, including seasonal necessities like snow boots? We break down a viral Reddit post from a mom questioning the purpose of the $200 per child she receives monthly.  Her ex-husband claims his child support payments cover his half of new snow boots, even telling the kids he's already paid for them. 

Join us as we discuss the fundamental legal and ethical obligations of both parents when it comes to financially supporting their children.  We'll explore:

- The primary purpose of child support (Hint: It's for necessities like housing, food, and utilities). 

- Whether the paying parent has a right to control how the money is spent. 

- The damaging effects of discussing child support payments with your children. 

- How custody arrangements, like 50/50 splits, factor into the equation. 

Whether you're paying or receiving child support, this is a conversation you don't want to miss.

Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discussions about legal topics. It is not a substitute for legal advice from a qualified attorney licensed in your jurisdiction.

Chapters:
00:00:00 A Reddit Dilemma: "What is Child Support For?"
00:01:13 The Damaging Mistake Parents Make With Child Support
00:02:21 The Legal Obligation of Both Parents
00:04:42 Prioritizing Needs: Rent and Food Before Clothing
00:05:49 "It's None of Your Business How the Money is Spent"

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Having tough conversations with your coparent can feel overwhelming, especially when emotions run high or past conflict clouds your judgment. In this video a family law attorney and a therapist talk about practical, compassionate strategies to help coparents with difficult discussions.

Whether you're deciding on daycare, addressing new romantic partners, or managing your child's education, this video will help you:

- Recognize your own mixed emotions

- Prepare for conflict without defensiveness

- Break conversations into manageable steps

- Stay grounded when the other parent is dismissive

- Seek understanding instead of just solutions

This isn’t about “winning” the argument—it’s about improving communication, even in high-conflict situations.

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There’s a widely misunderstood belief that children can choose which coparent to live with once they turn 12. But the reality is far more complex—and emotionally loaded—for both kids and parents.

In this video we unpack the legal truth, emotional toll, and long-term consequences of involving children in custody decisions. You'll hear why children often say what they think adults want to hear, how parents sometimes weaponize a child's "preference," and how fragile adult self-esteem can result in heartbreaking consequences for the whole family.

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Mindfulness is a powerful tool for navigating high-conflict coparenting dynamics. In this episode, we talk with Karen Kranbuehl — a licensed clinical social worker and attorney — about how mindfulness can help coparents move from automatic, stress-driven reactions to more intentional and productive communication.

Learn how slowing down, being curious, and embracing non-judgmental awareness can unlock better outcomes for both you and your children.

Topics covered include:

• What mindfulness really means
• The science behind automatic stress responses
• Real-life examples of mindful coparenting
• Why noticing is the first step toward change
• How small self-care actions build trust in yourself

This episode is especially helpful for coparents dealing with emotionally charged situations, conflict resolution, or court-ordered communication platforms like parenting apps.

The list of values Karen referenced can be found here:  https://www.actmindfully.com.au/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/Values_Checklist_-_Russ_Harris.pdf 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at ron@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

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Discipline done wrong can destroy your relationship with your child—and even land you in court. In this episode, we break down 8 common discipline mistakes that cost parents not only thousands in legal fees but also the trust of their children and coparents.

Whether you're going through a custody battle, coparenting after separation, or just trying to raise emotionally healthy kids, this video gives you actionable insights to parent wisely—without risking your legal standing or your child’s emotional wellbeing.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at ron@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

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Struggling with a high-conflict coparent?

You’re not alone. But while conflict in coparenting might be unavoidable it doesn't have to be destructive — to you or your kids.

In this episode, we’ll break down a powerful mindset shift to help you stay grounded during frustrating moments. Using the common (and infuriating) example of your coparent being late to a custody exchange, we’ll explore:

• Why your anger might not be about just being 10 minutes late
• How to use journaling to uncover and process emotional triggers
• A simple question to reframe the situation and regain control
• How your emotional response impacts your child — and your custody case
• When and how to communicate your boundaries without looking reactive

You’ll walk away with practical tools to protect your peace, show up better for your kids, and stop giving your coparent power over your mood.

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Are you tired of unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings with your coparent? Mindreading can be a major relationship killer, including your coparenting relationship. In this episode, we talk about 8 key reasons why you should never try to mindread your coparent. From avoiding miscommunication to promoting a healthier coparenting dynamic, we discuss the benefits of not assuming what's on your coparent's mind. Watch until the end to learn how to improve your coparenting relationship and create a more positive environment for your child.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

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Is the Right of First Refusal good for your parenting plan—or a source of unnecessary conflict?

In this episode, we break down the controversial clause known as the Right of First Refusal in custody agreements.

You'll learn:

• What the Right of First Refusal actually is
• When it works—and when it causes more harm than good
• The impact on children, parental conflict, and coparenting dynamics
• Why we usually recommend against including it
• What to consider if you do want to include it in your plan

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Unnecessary communication is one of the worst unforced errors in coparenting. Learn what necessary coparenting communication actually looks like, how to avoid emotional traps, and how to stay focused on your child’s best interests.

You’ll learn:
✅ The difference between helpful and necessary communication
✅ How to respond to emotional or petty messages
✅ What to say when your coparent keeps over-sharing
✅ A journalistic method to keep messages clear and focused
✅ Why strict boundaries lead to healthier coparenting

🔑 Based on the first key from the "7 Keys to Better Communication" from Coparent Academy.
🎓 Learn more at www.coparentacademy.com

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This week a tornado hit our home. And I got COVID. I was reminded how fragile our window of tolerance can be when life throws everything at us all at once.

This week I found myself way outside of my own window of tolerance. In this episode I talk about what that looked like and how I found my way back.

In this episode, I talk about:

• The emotional and physical toll of back-to-back crises
• How trauma affects our ability to self-regulate
• The importance of relationships in helping us return to balance
• How these lessons connect with coparenting

Whether you're navigating your own personal storm or working to stay centered in a challenging coparenting situation, I hope this episode helps you feel seen—and maybe even a bit more prepared.

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Are you struggling to connect with your child during emotional meltdowns?
Feel like nothing you say helps them calm down or understand what went wrong?

In this video, we break down the powerful 4 Rs method — Regulate, Relate, Reason, Restore — based on the work of Dr. Bruce Perry (3 Rs) and trauma-informed parenting techniques. This simple, science-backed approach helps you de-escalate emotional outbursts and guide your child with empathy, connection, and calm.

✨ What You’ll Learn:

How to stay calm when your child is dysregulated

Why connection must come before correction

How to build trust even after conflict

The exact steps to create a safe, emotionally supportive environment for your child.

Chapters: 
00:00 Introduction
00:42 Regulate
03:23 Relate
05:55 Reason
07:31 Restore

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Why do kids suddenly explode with emotion—or completely shut down? In this episode, we look at how Dr. Dan Siegel’s Window of Tolerance model helps us understand emotional regulation in children.

Learn:

- What causes kids to "flip their lid"
- How to spot hyper- and hypo-arousal
- Practical tools to bring your child back into their window of tolerance
- How to expand your child's window of tolerance

Perfect for coparents, guardians, educators, and anyone working with children.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com

Have questions or comments? We'd love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com

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Are you struggling to connect with your child after a divorce or separation? Do you feel like parenting issues may lead to problems in your coparenting relationship? In this episode, we discuss a powerful, trauma-informed approach to connection called PACE (Playfulness, Acceptance, Curiosity, and Empathy).

Originally developed by Dr. Dan Hughes for children in the foster system, PACE can help strengthen your bond, rebuild trust, and support your child through emotional challenges—even in high-conflict situations.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• How to create a safe emotional space for your child
•  The 4 key elements of the PACE approach
•  How to use playfulness to repair disconnection
•  The difference between accepting feelings vs. behaviors
•  How curiosity and empathy can help your child feel heard

Parenting through separation or divorce is tough, but with the right tools, you can build a stronger, healthier relationship with your child.

Coparenting is challenging, but what truly matters for your child's well-being? In this video, we break down Dr. Emery’s adaptation of Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs for children in two homes. We’ll discuss what matters more than simply having two parents and how you can create the best possible environment for your child—even after separation or divorce.

🔹 Learn why one good parent is more important than two conflicted ones
🔹 Understand the biggest risk factors for children in co-parenting situations
🔹 Discover how to minimize conflict and support your child's emotional health

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com

Have questions or comments? We'd love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com

Have you ever reacted to your child in a way that surprised you? Do you sometimes feel frustrated with how you parent? The answer might lie in something deeply ingrained—your internal working model.

In this video, we explore:
🔹 What an internal working model is and how it’s formed
🔹 How your childhood experiences influence your parenting style
🔹 The difference between secure and insecure attachment
🔹 How to recognize and reshape unhelpful parenting patterns

Our early experiences shape how we see the world, relationships, and even ourselves. These unconscious scripts don’t just affect us—they influence how we raise our children. By understanding and adjusting them, we can build stronger, healthier connections with our kids.

 Watch now to learn how to break unhelpful cycles and parent with more awareness and confidence!

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Have you ever wondered about kids whose behaviors don't neatly fit into traditional attachment theory categories? Those are the "unclassifiable" children first observed by Mary Ainsworth during her "Strange Situation" tests. This video looks at how these unclassifiable reactions led researcher Mary Main to identify a new attachment style known as "disorganized attachment."

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

Have you ever wondered how your child truly sees you—not just on the surface, but deep down? The way you interact with them forms their inner working model—a blueprint that shapes their future relationships, self-worth, and emotional well-being.

In this video, we break down:
✅ How early experiences shape attachment and trust
✅ The impact of secure vs. insecure attachment styles
✅ Parenting habits that foster emotional security
✅ Practical strategies to help your child build confidence and resilience

Your parenting choices today shape how your child sees the world tomorrow. Join us as we explore the power of connection and how small changes can make a big difference.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

Watch this episode on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/YwBdKE9cSOU

Do you ever worry about whether your child feels secure with you—or with your coparent? You're not alone. While there isn’t a simple questionnaire to measure a child's sense of security, attachment theory provides valuable insights into how children form relationships with their caregivers.

In this episode, we discuss the Strange Situation—a groundbreaking assessment developed by Mary Ainsworth to evaluate a child's attachment style. We break down what different attachment styles reveal about the parent-child relationship and their long-term effects on emotional well-being.

Key Takeaways:
🔹 Secure Attachment: Indicates a responsive, emotionally available caregiver. Leads to healthy relationships and emotional regulation.
🔹 Insecure-Avoidant Attachment: Suggests emotional distance from the caregiver. Can result in difficulty with intimacy and emotional expression.
🔹 Insecure-Resistant/Ambivalent Attachment: Reflects inconsistency in caregiving, leading to anxiety and excessive clinginess.
🔹 Disorganized Attachment: Often linked to fear, neglect, or trauma, creating confusion and emotional struggles in the child.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

Attachment isn’t just about emotions—it’s a survival strategy wired into our DNA. From the moment we’re born, we rely on our caregivers to shape how we connect with the world. But how does this work? And what happens when those connections break down?

* Watch this episode on YouTube (https://youtu.be/7ecu1EYplTU?si=Qvaw4zrCHd4xYpri) 

In this episode, we discuss: 

• Why attachment is a survival mechanism, not just a bond.
  
  
• How parents shape their child’s emotional security.
  
  
• The Still Face Experiment—a powerful study on caregiver responsiveness.
  
  

Understanding attachment helps us build stronger, healthier relationships—from childhood to adulthood. It's the science of connection.

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

Your baby’s brain develops at an astonishing rate during the first two years of life, and two powerful forces are at play: genetics and experiences. We discuss how these factors work together to shape your baby’s brain architecture and how toxic stress can disrupt this delicate process.

Learn the science behind brain development and find out why to protect your baby from the harmful effects of stress.

Topics Covered:

- The role of genetics and experiences in brain development
- How toxic stress affects brain growth

For more resources and in-depth courses visit www.coparentacademy.com.

Have questions or comments? We’d love to hear from you! Send them to ron@coparentacademy.com.

This is Episode 2 in our Raising Emotionally Resilient Children series. 

In this episode we dig into the epigenetic effects of stressors on children during pregnancy. 

We discuss: 

• The Diathesis-Stress Model
• Epigenetics
• Prenatal Brain Development
• Prenatal Programming (aka DOHad or the Barker Hypothesis)
• Examples including the epigenetic effects of the:
  • Descendants of Holocaust survivors; and 
  • Children born to mothers who were pregnant with them during the Quebec Ice Storm of 1998

 
Check out the Youtube version of this episode for some additional visual content and links to research articles reviewed and/or relied upon for the content in this episode.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This is Episode 1 of our Raising Emotionally Resilient Children series.

In this episode we give an overview of how the emotional brain develops, based on the work of Dr. Allan Schore. Next week, we'll get into the details of how the brain develops and what brain scans of mothers and their infants interacting can teach us about attachment.

This week we introduce our new series, Raising Emotionally Resilient Kids.

This series is designed to help you better understand your child’s emotional development so you can support them in becoming resilient, emotionally intelligent, and secure.

Dr. Allan Schore (Dr. Allan N. Schore)  Known as a pioneer in affective neuroscience and attachment theory, Dr. Schore’s research on how early interactions shape the developing brain is foundational to this series. His book The Development of the Unconscious Mind is a major resource.

Watch Dr. Allan Schore's podcast with Andrew Huberman

Watch Dr. Schore give an academic lecture on this topic 

This week we introduce our new series, Raising Emotionally Resilient Kids. 

This series is designed to help you better understand your child’s emotional development so you can support them in becoming resilient, emotionally intelligent, and secure.

The series focuses on two key themes:

1. The Science of Emotional Development – We’ll explore how a child’s brain develops, from before birth through early childhood and beyond. You’ll learn how the emotional brain works and how your actions as a parent or co-parent shape their future.
2. Practical Parenting and Coparenting Strategies – We’ll discuss how to apply this knowledge in real-life parenting situations, with a special emphasis on coparenting dynamics.

The materials in this series will be drawn from the following experts, among others:  

1. Dr. Allan Schore (Dr. Allan N. Schore)
   • Known as a pioneer in affective neuroscience and attachment theory, Dr. Schore’s research on how early interactions shape the developing brain is foundational to this series. His book The Development of the Unconscious Mind is a major resource.
2. Dr. John Gottman (John & Julie Gottman - About | The Gottman Institute)
   • The renowned psychologist and author of Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child brings us practical tools for teaching kids emotional intelligence and managing conflict as coparents.
3. Dr. Robert E. Emery (Robert Emery | Department of Psychology)
   • As the author of Two Homes, One Childhood, Dr. Emery offers invaluable insights into managing separation and creating stability for children in shared parenting situations.
4. Dr. Tina Payne Bryson (https://www.tinabryson.com/)
   • Co-author of No-Drama Discipline, Dr. Bryson provides guidance on how to discipline in ways that nurture emotional development instead of harming it.
5. Dr. Richard C. Schwartz (Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D. - The Founder of Internal Family Systems | IFS Institute)
   • The creator of Internal Family Systems (IFS), Schwartz helps us understand how our own emotional wounds and inner dynamics influence parenting and coparenting.

I look forward to bringing you information gathered from these experts and others to help you understand how your child's emotional brain develops and how you can help them to grow into emotionally regulated, secure adults capable of loving and lasting relationships. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week is the last in our holiday replay series.  Next week, I'll introduce our new series on the development of children's emotional brain, attachment, and what that all means for coparents. 

The replay this week is part 2 of our conversation with Brad Baldridge.

Brad Baldridge, CFP®, is a College Funding Consultant specializing in late-stage college funding planning and the chief podcaster of Taming The High Cost Of College.  He provides customized planning using the latest financial aid, tax, cash flow and academic strategies.

In this conversation, we dig into the details of what coparents should be considering in funding their child's college education, whether college is years away or started last year. Linda and I were blown away by all we didn't know about college financial planning, and this was an extremely informative conversation.

Learn more about Brad and his services at his website, tamingthehighcostofcollege.com. Be sure to check out the several college financial planning calculators and tools on the Resources page of his site.

Also, please check out Brad's podcast:  https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/category/podcast/

At the end of this episode, you will hear important disclosures Brad asked us to make available in the recording.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week we begin a replay of our two-episode conversation with Brad Baldridge.

Brad Baldridge, CFP®, is a College Funding Consultant specializing in late-stage college funding planning and the chief podcaster of Taming The High Cost Of College.  He provides customized planning using the latest financial aid, tax, cash flow and academic strategies.

In this conversation, we discuss the difficult situation of college funding during and after a divorce, starting with the foundational information any parent needs to know when planning for the financial realities of their child's college education.

Learn more about Brad and his services at his website, tamingthehighcostofcollege.com. Be sure to check out the several college financial planning calculators and tools on the Resources page of his site.

Also, please check out Brad's podcast:  https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/category/podcast/

At the end of this episode, you will hear important disclosures Brad asked us to make available in the recording.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week we conclude the replay of our conversation with Licensed Professional Counselor Jaime Vogt about Extended Forensic Evaluations (EFE). In this episode, Jaime discusses in detail the process she uses to conduct an EFE.

Jaime is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Oklahoma. She has conducted over 3,000 forensic interviews of children for frontline investigations. 

Prior to starting her private practice she began her work with children as a therapist with Family and Children's Services in the Family Sexual Abuse Treatment Program .  She later became the Children's Services Director and Forensic Interviewer for the Child Abuse Network at the Children's Justice Center.

Jaime appears regularly as an Expert Witness in Criminal, Juvenile and Civil proceedings regarding Forensic Interviewing and Child Abuse Issues. She has testified for both prosecutors & defense attorneys in criminal proceedings in both district and federal courts . She trains mental health professionals and attorneys in child interviewing and related topics.

Ms. Vogt has served on the board for the Oklahoma Association for Collaborative Professionals and is currently a member of the Quality Assurance Panel for the Tulsa County Courts.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

This week we continue our end of year replay of some of the interview episodes that aired over the past two years. 

This episode is Part 1 of a two-part conversation about extended forensic evaluations with Jaime Vogt. 

Jaime is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Oklahoma. She has conducted over 3,000 forensic interviews of children for frontline investigations. 

Prior to starting her private practice she began her work with children as a therapist with Family and Children's Services in the Family Sexual Abuse Treatment Program .  She later became the Children's Services Director and Forensic Interviewer for the Child Abuse Network at the Children's Justice Center.

Jaime appears regularly as an Expert Witness in Criminal, Juvenile and Civil proceedings regarding Forensic Interviewing and Child Abuse Issues. She has testified for both prosecutors & defense attorneys in criminal proceedings in both district and federal courts . She trains mental health professionals and attorneys in child interviewing and related topics.

Ms. Vogt has served on the board for the Oklahoma Association for Collaborative Professionals and is currently a member of the Quality Assurance Panel for the Tulsa County Courts.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

This episode is a replay of our first ever shared podcast.  Linda and I sit down with an amazing couple, Justin and Alexis Black.  Listen to Justin's podcast, ROSE from Concrete:  ROSE From Concrete (buzzsprout.com)

Justin and Alexis are the authors of Redefining Normal: How Two Foster Kids Beat The Odds and Discovering Healing, Happiness, and Love.

Their book is a powerful memoir that takes the reader through their harrowing childhood experiences, which included abuse, neglect, and years in the foster system.  More importantly, however, their book details their commitment to overcoming the odds stacked them and ending the generational cycles of abuse and addiction they were born into.

Justin and Alexis take you into the rooms where things happened, and their searing accounts will stay with you.  Be warned, their story contains factual depictions of domestic violence, trauma, sexual assault, and other difficult issues faced on the road to healing.

Linda and Ron were profoundly affected by the time they were privileged to spend with Alexis and Justin. Everyone can benefit from listening and reading their compelling and inspirational stories.

Learn more about Justin and Alexis and buy their powerful memoir at:  Buy Now | Redefining Normal (re-definingnormal.com).

Listen to Justin's podcast, ROSE from Concrete:  ROSE From Concrete (buzzsprout.com)

Follow Justin and Alexis on social media at:

Instagram: Redefining Normal (@re.definingnormal)
TikTok: Redefining Normal (@re.definingnormal)
Facebook: Redefining Normal | Facebook

Email Justin and Alexis at info@re-definingnormal.com 

This week we start our slide into the New Year with a replay of an episode from 2022 in week we interviewed author Teresa Harlow. For each of the next several weeks as we close out the year, we'll be replaying some of the episodes in which we interviewed guests, including authors, an attorney, and a therapist.  

We spoke with Teresa about her techniques for transforming combative relationships into collaborative partnerships.

Check out her most recent book, Combative to Collaborative: The Co-Parenting Code at https://promethean-publishing.square.site/

To learn more about Teresa, visit her at:
https://teresaharlow.com/
https://www.facebook.com/teresaharlow123
https://twitter.com/teresaharlow123
https://www.instagram.com/teresaharlow123/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/teresaharlow/

In this episode, we talk about how to focus on your child's needs during the holidays to avoid conflict and help your child have a wonderful holiday season.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we talk about what a parenting coordinator is and how one can help coparents improve communication and reduce conflict. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we talk about separation anxiety for children in separated families, focusing on anxiety related to visitation transfers.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this one-episode break from our current series on Separation Anxiety in children, we replay one of our most popular episodes from 2023. Linda and I discuss a Redit post in which a mother asks for advice about how to communicate with her high conflict coparent.
 
Next week we'll return to our series with an episode defining and describing separation anxiety, particularly in children living in two homes.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we talk about anxiety in children, from an infant's fear of strange faces to a teenager's fear about fitting in. We distinguish everyday worries from maladaptive anxiety reactions that may require professional intervention.

Next week we specifically on defining and describing separation anxiety, particularly in children living in two homes.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

This week starts our new series on separation anxiety. This is a phrase family law professionals often hear as both a sword and a shield in coparenting conflict.

In this series, we'll address what separation anxiety actually is, how to recognize it, and how best to deal with it as coparents. This week's episode is an overview of the topic, which we'll break down in greater detail in future episodes. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode of our effective discipline series, we discuss how improper discipline can lead to litigation over custody and visitation. We touch on the difference between discipline and abuse, including the damaging effects of corporal punishment, fear, and emotional manipulation, even when they seem legal or commonplace. Learn how consistency in discipline practices can make all the difference in your children perceiving the discipline they receive to be fair, and why it's important to avoid punishing your child as a way to get back at your coparent. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we talk with Sol Kennedy, the creator of the Best Interest coparent communication application. We discuss the coparenting challenges Sol faced and how these experiences led to the creation of an AI-powered solution designed to help people stuck in toxic coparenting relationships filter out unhelpful communication and keep their coparent communication child focused.

Please forgive the poor quality of my audio from this Zoom conversation, although Sol's audio sounds great - which is way more important!

 Check out the Best Interest app at:  BestInterest - Coparenting made peaceful.

Note: we have not received any compensation related to this app.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Is spanking an effective discipline tool or an outdated practice that does more harm than good? This week we discuss research from academic journals and refer back to "No Drama Discipline" and "Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child" to get our answer.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss why and how to build consistency between both coparents’ homes. 

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To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss how to have more effective discipline immediately after separation.

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To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss why parenting suffers in the first year after separation and any other time similar stress and upheaval occur. 

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To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode we discuss parenting strategies from "No-Drama Discipline" by Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson. We learn about the difference between the "upstairs brain" and "downstairs brain," and how to shift from punitive measures to teaching moments, fostering self-discipline, emotional regulation, and problem-solving skills in children by responding with empathy and being mindful of our own emotional triggers.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss
"Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child" by Dr. John Gottman.

You’ll learn some practical insights into helping your kids recognize, understand, manage, and express their emotions effectively,

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com

To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss Joanna Thaber and Julie King's "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen, and How to Listen So Kids Will Talk," which teaches how acknowledging and validating your child's emotions can lead to greater cooperation and understanding using strategies like naming emotions, reflective listening, and empathetic responses.

"Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child" by Dr. John Gottman.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss the parenting techniques presented in the book Parenting with Love and Logic and learn how to offer choices, set firm boundaries, and encourage your kids to experience the natural consequences of their decisions.

Next week we'll discuss the book How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and How to Listen so Kids Will Talk.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we give a brief overview of children's developmental stages and needs at each stage.

Next week, we'll dive into the book Parenting with Love and Logic.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Do you ever wonder how your parenting style might be shaping your child's future?

In this episode, we discuss the impacts of various parenting styles on children's development. We work through the spectrum of parenting styles from helicopter parents to uninvolved parents, analyzing the challenges these extremes present. Learn how authoritarian, or drill sergeant parenting, with its rigid rules and demand for obedience, can affect a child's self-esteem.

For a look at helpful parenting,  we highlight the authoritative or consultant parenting style. This balanced approach emphasizes setting reasonable boundaries while letting children face the logical consequences of their actions with empathy and love. Find out how this method promotes self-esteem and independence by allowing kids to make small decisions and learn from the outcomes.

Not sure if your parenting style aligns with this approach? Don't worry—we offer valuable information and resources to enhance your parenting skills and support your child's growth.

Stay tuned for our next chapter, where we'll look into the specific needs of children at various developmental stages.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode we give you a preview of the upcoming discipline series and replay one of our more popular episodes, about why transitions are so hard for kids.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

This episode discusses stress indicators in children related to the separation process. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

This episode provides some tips for coparenting when your child is sick or injured.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

In this episode, we discuss how to create a parenting plan that is child focused and flexible.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Happy Father's Day! Some thoughts for fathers who can't see their children this year, fathers who can, and mothers too. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Reconciliation can be a fantastic outcome for separated couples, unless it isn't. How do you tell the difference, and how do you tell the kids?

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To see our courses, visit https://coparentacademy.com

Conflict in coparenting isn't inherently a bad thing—if managed right, it can actually strengthen your partnership. This episode is about turning unhealthy conflict into productive communication.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To take our Conflict Resolution course, visit https://coparentacademy.com/courses/active-conflict-resolution/

In this episode, we say goodbye to Linda as the weekly cohost. I (Ron) will continue the podcast with a different format beginning June 3, 2024.

I can't express how much I've learned from Linda and have grown as a person from the time I've spent with her. She's the absolute best and I can't wait for her to come back to the show periodically as a guest.

As a side note, in editing the podcast for release I noticed that I was dropping my "r"s.  When I was young, I wasn't able to pronounce the letter "r", which was inconvenient given my name has two prominent "r"s. Now, I only drop my "r"s when my emotions are running higher than normal.  In other words, every time I drop my "r" in this episode, that's a testament to how wonderful I think Linda is and how much I'll miss talking with her every week for the podcast. 

If you would like to participate in the podcast as a guest or have suggestions for episode topics, please let me know. You can reach me at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we discuss the issue of domestic violence in parental separation or divorce.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we discuss how parent-child relationships can change after separation or divorce. 

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we discuss some of the long-term effects of parental separation on children.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we discuss some of the short-term effects of parental separation on children.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we discuss some communication strategies for coparents.

For this episode, we relied heavily on the work of Drs. John and Julie Gottman. Learn more about the Gottman's and their tremendous work at The Gottman Institute | A research-based approach to relationships.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we talk about how to tell your children that you are separating.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode, we begin a companion series to a course we are creating for new parents beginning the divorce or paternity process in Oklahoma. This first episode starts with a discussion about the procedural process. Then, Linda gives her thoughts about what parents should know about talking to the children about the process.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In part 2 of our conversation with Connie LeBlanc, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LPC, LFMT, we discuss Connie's expert approach to coparenting counseling.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week we're joined Connie LeBlanc, Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LPC, LFMT.  Connie has decades of experience helping families in Louisiana.  She's also Linda's very best friend. In this episode, we discuss some of the differences in family court procedures in Louisa, Oklahoma, and Virginia.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In our 9th and final episode of on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss how to work with the abused child to help them recover, including assisting them with the possible reintroduction to the person who abused them.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In Episode 8 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss the kinds of treatment needed for the custodial parent to assist them with the possible reintroduction to the children of the person who abused them. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In part 2 to episode 7 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we continue to discuss the kinds of treatment needed for the abusive parent before that person should be reintegrated into the child's life.

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In part 1 to episode 7 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss the kinds of treatment needed for the abusive parent before that person should be reintegrated into the child's life.

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In part 2 to episode 6 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we jump right back into the middle of our discussion about how to structure visitation with the abuser parent. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In episode 6 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss how to structure visitation with the abuser parent. This topic turned out to be pretty lengthy, so we've split the episode into two parts. This is part 1. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In episode 5 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting talk about the risk of visitation with the abuser parent. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In episode 4 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we talk about what kind of parent abusers often make. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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In episode 3 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss how false claims of domestic violence impact the coparenting relationship.

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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In episode 2 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting we discuss the impact on domestic violence on the victim coparent.

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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In episode 2 of our series on domestic violence and coparenting, we define the different forms of domestic violence using the Duluth Power and Control Wheel.

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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This episode is the introduction to our new series on domestic violence and coparenting. 

If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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In this 4th in a series of Reddit post discussions, we address a Reddit user's question about how to move on when your coparent is your abuser. 

Next week we begin a series in which we do a deep dive into coparenting and domestic violence.  If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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Ever wondered how to balance your child's need for social interaction with the limited time you get for quality bonding? In this episode we discuss strategies to handle the tricky situation of having your child visit friends during one parent's limited time. We share suggestions on how both parents can navigate this situation while fostering deeper connections, such as getting to know your child's friend group and understanding their activities.

In two weeks we'll begin our next series, in which we cover coparenting and domestic violence.  If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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In this second of four Reddit post weeks we have a Mom who concerned that her child seems focused on Dad and wonders if she's falling short.

In three weeks we'll begin our next series, in which we cover coparenting and domestic violence.  If you would like to participate in our domestic violence series as a guest, please contact us and let us know. We are interested in all perspectives and backgrounds for our conversations.

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For the next four weeks, we'll be discussing some Reddit posts as we work on our next series, which will cover coparenting and domestic violence.

In this week's episode, a Mom asks for advice after Dad remarried and their coparenting relationship quickly went from awesome to awful.

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This is episode five in a five-part series on how to communicate better with your child.  In this episode, we discuss how to answer your child's questions about custody and visitation issues. 

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This is episode four in a five-part series on how to communicate better with your child.  In this episode, we discuss the four basic parenting types. Which type sounds most like you?

Next week, we'll talk about if, how, and when to have difficult divorce and separation conversations with your child.

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This is episode three in a five-part series on how to communicate better with your child.  In this episode, we discuss children's acquisition and integration of language at various ages and how that process affects your communication with your child. 

Next week, we'll talk about the four basic parenting types and how they affect your communication with your child. 

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This is episode two in a five-part series on how to communicate better with your child.  In this episode, we continue with Erik Erickson's stages of psychosocial development, beginning with school-age children.

Next week, we'll talk about how children acquire and integrate language, and what that process means for how you communicate with them as they progress through the developmental stages.

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This episode begins a five-part series on how to communicate better with your child.  In this episode, we start by introducing Erik Erickson's stages of psychosocial development to better understand your child's developmental needs at various ages.

Next week we'll continue with Erik Erickson's stages of psychosocial development, beginning with school-age children. 

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This episode is the last in a four-part series on the stress children feel during separation and divorce and the coping mechanisms available to them.

In this episode, we start out discussion about coping mechanisms available to children.

These episodes are based on the Children's Stress Scale used by Linda for years as part of her work with children.


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This episode is our third in a four-part series on the stress children feel during separation and divorce and the coping mechanisms available to them.

In this episode, we start out discussion about coping mechanisms available to children.

These episodes are based on the Children's Stress Scale used by Linda for years as part of her work with children.


Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This episode is our second in a four-part series on the stress children feel during separation and divorce and the coping mechanisms available to them.

In this episode, we continue to discuss the various stress factors affecting children. In Episodes 77 and 78, we'll discuss the coping mechanisms available to children.

These episodes are based on the Children's Stress Scale used by Linda for years as part of her work with children.


Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

In this episode we begin a four-part series on the stress children feel during separation and divorce and the coping mechanisms available to them.

In Episodes 75 and 76, we'll discuss the various stress factors affecting children. In Episodes 77 and 78, we'll discuss the coping mechanisms available to children.

These episodes are based on the Children's Stress Scale used by Linda for years as part of her work with children.


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This week we conclude our two-episode conversation with Brad Baldridge.

Brad Baldridge, CFP®, is a College Funding Consultant specializing in late-stage college funding planning and the chief podcaster of Taming The High Cost Of College.  He provides customized planning using the latest financial aid, tax, cash flow and academic strategies.

In this conversation, we dig into the details of what coparents should be considering in funding their child's college education, whether college is years away or started last year. Linda and I were blown away by all we didn't know about college financial planning, and this was an extremely informative conversation.

Learn more about Brad and his services at his website, tamingthehighcostofcollege.com. Be sure to check out the several college financial planning calculators and tools on the Resources page of his site.

Also, please check out Brad's podcast:  https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/category/podcast/

At the end of this episode, you will hear important disclaimers Brad asked us to make available in the recording.

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This week we begin a two-episode conversation with Brad Baldridge.

Brad Baldridge, CFP®, is a College Funding Consultant specializing in late-stage college funding planning and the chief podcaster of Taming The High Cost Of College.  He provides customized planning using the latest financial aid, tax, cash flow and academic strategies. 

In this conversation, we discuss the difficult situation of college funding during and after a divorce, starting with the foundational information any parent needs to know when planning for the financial realities of their child's college education. 

Learn more about Brad and his services at his website, tamingthehighcostofcollege.com. Be sure to check out the several college financial planning calculators and tools on the Resources page of his site. 

Also, please check out Brad's podcast:  https://tamingthehighcostofcollege.com/category/podcast/

At the end of this episode, you will hear important disclosures Brad asked us to make available in the recording.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week, we conclude our conversation with attorney and Guardian ad Litem Keith Jones. In this episode we discuss the Guardian ad Litem report, participation in mediation, and participation in trial as an expert witness.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week we begin a two-episode conversation with attorney and Guardian ad Litem Keith Jones. Keith has nearly 30 years' experience as an attorney and Guardian ad Litem and was kind enough to share his experience and expertise with us.

This week's episode is an introduction to the concept of a Guardian ad Litem, including what one is, when one is appointed, how they conduct their investigation, and how they are paid.

In next week's episode, we conclude our conversation with Keith as we discuss the Guardian ad Litem report, participation in mediation, and participation in trial as an expert witness.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.  To learn more about becoming the best coparent you can be, visit coparentacademy.com.

This week we conclude our conversation with Licensed Professional Counselor Jaime Vogt about Extended Forensic Evaluations (EFE). In this episode, Jaime discusses in detail the process she uses to conduct an EFE.

Jaime is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Oklahoma. She has conducted over 3,000 forensic interviews of children for frontline investigations. 

Prior to starting her private practice she began her work with children as a therapist with Family and Children's Services in the Family Sexual Abuse Treatment Program .  She later became the Children's Services Director and Forensic Interviewer for the Child Abuse Network at the Children's Justice Center.

Jaime appears regularly as an Expert Witness in Criminal, Juvenile and Civil proceedings regarding Forensic Interviewing and Child Abuse Issues. She has testified for both prosecutors & defense attorneys in criminal proceedings in both district and federal courts . She trains mental health professionals and attorneys in child interviewing and related topics.

Ms. Vogt has served on the board for the Oklahoma Association for Collaborative Professionals and is currently a member of the Quality Assurance Panel for the Tulsa County Courts.

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This week we are thrilled to have the opportunity to sit down with Jaime Vogt for the first part in a two-part series on extended forensic evaluations. 

Jaime is a licensed professional counselor in the state of Oklahoma. She has conducted over 3,000 forensic interviews of children for frontline investigations. 

Prior to starting her private practice she began her work with children as a therapist with Family and Children's Services in the Family Sexual Abuse Treatment Program .  She later became the Children's Services Director and Forensic Interviewer for the Child Abuse Network at the Children's Justice Center.

Jaime appears regularly as an Expert Witness in Criminal, Juvenile and Civil proceedings regarding Forensic Interviewing and Child Abuse Issues. She has testified for both prosecutors & defense attorneys in criminal proceedings in both district and federal courts . She trains mental health professionals and attorneys in child interviewing and related topics.

Ms. Vogt has served on the board for the Oklahoma Association for Collaborative Professionals and is currently a member of the Quality Assurance Panel for the Tulsa County Courts.

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This is third of three episodes focused on reconciliation counseling. In this episode, we discuss the risks and rewards of reconciliation counseling, as well as some thoughts for the custodial parent.   

After listening to this episode, you'll know what to expect if you or someone in your family is going through reconciliation counseling.
 
To do a much deeper dive into the concept and practicalities of reconciliation counseling, take our Reconciliation Counseling course at coparentacademy.com.

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Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

This is the second of three episodes focused on reconciliation counseling. In this episode, we discuss the process of reconciliation counseling.  After listening to this episode, you'll know what to expect if you or someone in your family is going through reconciliation counseling. 
 
To do a much deeper dive into the concept and practicalities of reconciliation counseling, take our Reconciliation Counseling course at coparentacademy.com.

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Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

This is the first of three episodes focused on reconciliation counseling. In this episode, we discuss what reconciliation counseling is, when it is appropriate, and when it is inappropriate.
 
To do a much deeper dive into the concept and practicalities of reconciliation counseling, take our Reconciliation Counseling course at coparentacademy.com.

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Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

Mom is frustrated that Dad won't help their young child with homework. What should she do about her concerns?

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Mom has a high conflict coparent who is rude and mean in his communication with her. Mom feels anxious about communicating with Dad and asks for advice on how to deal with her high conflict coparent.

Visit coparentacademy.com to see all available courses and discounted course bundles.  Our Foundations Bundle at Coparent Academy can help you deal with a high conflict coparent by learning important coparenting principles, 7 keys to good communication, and our conflict management protocol.

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What should a child call each parent's house? is there anything wrong with saying "Mom's house" or "Dad's house"? What does it mean if a child call's one parent's house "home", but not the other?

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A Dad feels extreme guilt because of how he's been handling his frustration with his 8-year-old daughter. But does he really?

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A mom is showing her 10-year-old son only Dad's side of their text communication - especially when he's not being as nice as he should be. Should Dad show the child all of the text messages and tell him that his mom is a liar?

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A Mom has heard from her eight-year-old child that Dad is going to move and maybe change the child's school.  What should she consider in deciding whether to take the matter back to court?

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Mom thinks that Dad is trying to manipulate their child's therapist. Linda and Ron discuss what boundaries should be set by treating professionals or the courts when coparents bring their conflict to the professional's office.

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Linda and Ron discuss the complex issue of whether and when a child should tell a judge which parent they would prefer to live with. 

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In this episode with have a conversation with therapist Jayden Freeman of the Therapy Connections podcast. (Therapy Connections - YouTube). In this conversation, we discuss how conflict in coparenting affects children and how Jayden is an example of the good that can happen when parents coparent well. 

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Should a parent force their child to express affection for them? In this episode, we discuss the implications of forcing your child to tell you that they love you.   

Spoiler:  don't do it.

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In this 13th and final episode of our Parental Alienation season we discuss parental alienation as domestic violence.

In this episode, we refer to the Duluth Power and Control Wheel.

Our research material for this episode comes from Professor Jennifar Harman and colleagues. Learn more about Professor Harman.

Next week, in our final episode of the parental alienation season, we'll discuss parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse. 

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In this 12th episode of our Parental Alienation season we discuss how to help alienated children and the targeted parent.

Next week, in our final episode of the parental alienation season, we'll discuss parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse. 

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In this 11th episode of our Parental Alienation season we are joined by Clint, an alienated father, to discuss how he has learned to cope as the targeted parent in the face of protracted alienation. 

In the following weeks as we wind down our parental alienation season we'll cover our final two topics, which are: 

• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

Visit coparentacademy.com to see all available courses and discounted course bundles. Courses discussed in the episode were the Reconciliation Counseling, 7 Keys to Better Communication, and Active Conflict Resolution courses.

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In this 10th episode of our Parental Alienation season we discuss the effects of alienation on children and the targeted parent. 

As we wind down our parental alienation season we'll cover our final topics, which include: 

• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

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In this 9th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we continue and conclude our discussion of the 17 strategies typically used by alienating parents. In this episode, we work through numbers 13, 14, 15, and 16 of the following 17 strategies:  

1. Badmouthing
2. Limiting Contact
3. Interfering with Communication
4. Interfering with Symbolic Communication
5. Withdrawal of Love
6. Telling Child Targeted Parent Does Not Love Him or Her
7. Forcing Child to Choose
8. Creating the Impression that the Targeted Parent is Dangerous
9. Confiding in Child
10. Forcing Child to Reject Targeted Parent
11. Asking Child to Spy on Targeted Parent
12. Asking Child to Keep Secrets from Targeted Parent
13. Referring to Targeted Parent by First Name
14. Referring to a Stepparent as “Mom” or “Dad” and Encouraging Child to Do the Same
15. Withholding Medical, Academic, and Other Important Information from Targeted Parent/ Keeping Targeted Parent’s Name off of Medical, Academic, and Other Relevant Documents
16. Changing Child’s Name to Remove Association with Targeted Parent
17. Cultivating Dependency

The research behind today's episode was done by Dr.  Amy Baker (amyjlbaker.com), and we rely on her 2006 article "Behaviors and Strategies Employed in Parental Alienation", which is available for free download here. 
 
In the following weeks, we'll do continue our deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

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In this 8th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we continue our conversation with a father named Clint who believes he has been the target of parental alienation.  

This is the second in a two-part conversation with Clint. In this episode, we learn more about some of the strategies of alienation he believes have been used against and how his children have been affected by the conflict.  

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In this 7th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we take a break from our work through the academic literature to talk with a father named Clint who believes he has been the target of parental alienation.  

This is the first of a two-part conversation with Clint. In this episode, we learn about Clint and some of the details of his struggle against parental alienation. 

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In this 6th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we continue our discussion of the 17 strategies typically used by alienating parents. In this episode, we work through numbers 9, 10, 11, 12, and 17 of the following 17 strategies:  

1. Badmouthing
2. Limiting Contact
3. Interfering with Communication
4. Interfering with Symbolic Communication
5. Withdrawal of Love
6. Telling Child Targeted Parent Does Not Love Him or Her
7. Forcing Child to Choose
8. Creating the Impression that the Targeted Parent is Dangerous
9. Confiding in Child
10. Forcing Child to Reject Targeted Parent
11. Asking Child to Spy on Targeted Parent
12. Asking Child to Keep Secrets from Targeted Parent
13. Referring to Targeted Parent by First Name
14. Referring to a Stepparent as “Mom” or “Dad” and Encouraging Child to Do the Same
15. Withholding Medical, Academic, and Other Important Information from Targeted Parent/ Keeping Targeted Parent’s Name off of Medical, Academic, and Other Relevant Documents
16. Changing Child’s Name to Remove Association with Targeted Parent
17. Cultivating Dependency

• the remaining 17 strategies used by alienating parents;
• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

In this 5th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we continue our discussion of the 17 strategies typically used by alienating parents. In this episode, we work through numbers 5 through 8 of the following 17 strategies:  

1. Badmouthing
2. Limiting Contact
3. Interfering with Communication
4. Interfering with Symbolic Communication
5. Withdrawal of Love
6. Telling Child Targeted Parent Does Not Love Him or Her
7. Forcing Child to Choose
8. Creating the Impression that the Targeted Parent is Dangerous
9. Confiding in Child
10. Forcing Child to Reject Targeted Parent
11. Asking Child to Spy on Targeted Parent
12. Asking Child to Keep Secrets from Targeted Parent
13. Referring to Targeted Parent by First Name
14. Referring to a Stepparent as “Mom” or “Dad” and Encouraging Child to Do the Same
15. Withholding Medical, Academic, and Other Important Information from Targeted Parent/ Keeping Targeted Parent’s Name off of Medical, Academic, and Other Relevant Documents
16. Changing Child’s Name to Remove Association with Targeted Parent
17. Cultivating Dependency

The research behind today's episode was done by Dr.  Amy Baker (amyjlbaker.com), and we rely on her 2006 article "Behaviors and Strategies Employed in Parental Alienation", which is available for free download here. 
 
In the following weeks, we'll do continue our deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• the remaining 17 strategies used by alienating parents;
• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

Visit coparentacademy.com to see all available courses and discounted course bundles.

Thanks for listening!  If you have questions, comments, or concerns, please email us at podcast@coparentacademy.com.

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In this 4th episode of our Parental Alienation season, we begin our discussion of the 17 strategies typically used by alienating parents. In this episode, we work through the first four of the following strategies:  

1. Badmouthing
2. Limiting Contact
3. Interfering with Communication
4. Interfering with Symbolic Communication
5. Withdrawal of Love
6. Telling Child Targeted Parent Does Not Love Him or Her
7. Forcing Child to Choose
8. Creating the Impression that the Targeted Parent is Dangerous
9. Confiding in Child
10. Forcing Child to Reject Targeted Parent
11. Asking Child to Spy on Targeted Parent
12. Asking Child to Keep Secrets from Targeted Parent
13. Referring to Targeted Parent by First Name
14. Referring to a Stepparent as “Mom” or “Dad” and Encouraging Child to Do the Same
15. Withholding Medical, Academic, and Other Important Information from Targeted Parent/ Keeping Targeted Parent’s Name off of Medical, Academic, and Other Relevant Documents
16. Changing Child’s Name to Remove Association with Targeted Parent
17. Cultivating Dependency

The research behind today's episode was done by Dr.  Amy Baker (amyjlbaker.com), and we rely on her 2006 article "Behaviors and Strategies Employed in Parental Alienation", which is available for free download here. 
 
In the following weeks, we'll do continue our deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• the remaining 17 strategies used by alienating parents;
• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

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In this 3rd episode of our Parental Alienation season, we discuss the 8 behavioral manifestations of alienation in children. Those behaviors are: 

1. Campaign of denigration;
2. Stating weak, frivolous and absurd reasons for the rejection of the target parent;
3. Lack of ambivalence towards alienating and target parents;
4. Strongly asserting the decision to reject the target parent is their “own will”;
5. Absence of guilt about how the target parent is treated;
6. Use of borrowed scenarios and ideas adopted from the alienating parent to make accusations against the target parent;
7. Child will repeat back entire scenarios, even though they don’t understand the words they’re using or what the circumstances of the scenario mean; and
8. Rejection spreads to target parent’s entire family including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, etc. 

In the following weeks, we'll do continue our deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• 17 strategies used by alienating parents;
• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

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In this 2nd episode of our Parental Alienation season, we discuss the 4 Factor Model of Parental Alienation.  Those four factors are: 
 
1.    Existence of a prior positive relationship with now rejected parent.

2.    Absence of abuse or neglect on the part of the rejected parent.

3.    Use of alienating behaviors by the favored parent.

4.    Exhibition of alienation behaviors by child. 

The purpose of the 4 Factor Model is to rule out reasonable estrangement from an absent or abusive parent so that abused and/or neglected children are not mistaken for alienated children and placed back with their abuser. 

You can find Dr. Rachel Baker's 2018 article addressing the validity and reliability of the model at Reliability and validity of the four‐factor model of parental alienation (pasg.info)

In the following weeks, we'll do continue our deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• 8 behaviors of alienated children;
• 17 strategies used by alienating parents;
• the effects of alienation on children and parents;
• how to help alienated children and their parents;
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome; and
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse.
  
  

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For the next several episodes we're focusing on Parental Alienation. In this episode, we give a brief history of parental alienation, which starts earlier than you may think. 

In the following weeks, we'll do a deep dive into everything related to parental alienation, including: 

• 4 factors of parental alienation
• 8 behaviors of alienated children
• 17 strategies used by alienating parents
• the effects of alienation on children and parents
• how to help alienated children and their parents
• controversy surrounding parental alienation syndrome
• parental alienation as both domestic and child abuse

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Transitions are always hard for kids. Transitioning into a new stepfamily is no different. In this excerpt from the Coparenting Academy "Successful Stepfamilies" course, Linda and Ron introduce why transitioning into a stepfamily can be so hard for children, and how the transition affects different children differently.

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When you're dealing with a frustrating coparenting situation, how do you tell what's upsetting you and why?  This excerpt from the Coparenting Academy "Active Conflict Resolution" course can help you understand what you're feeling and why you're feeling that way about your coparent's actions.

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A Dad with a history of mental illness and drug use is "napping" for hours at a time while his 6-year-old is in his care. What should Mom do?

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Is two hours each way too much driving time for a standard visitation schedule?  Linda and Ron discuss whether it is and how to make the most of the long drive.

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When a dad refuses to pay for anything other than child support, saying that he doesn't have to contribute to the cost of their winter clothing, a mom asks what child support is for.

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A mom tries to decide how to deal with her ex whom she thinks is depressed but may also be trying to manipulate her to drop child support.

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Holidays are often a source of conflict for coparents.  In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss how to think about the holidays in a way that puts your children first.

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A concerned mom wonders if FaceTime visits between her two-year-old and her drug-addicted ex are too confusing for the child or even worth having.

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This episode is the third in a stepparenting-related series of podcasts as Linda and Ron prepare their Stepfamily Success course for the Coparent Academy, which is slated for release on November 21st.

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a stepmother is hurt when her stepson thanks 20 people - but not her - for helping him succeed.  What does it mean that he left her out and how would it be helpful for her to think about it?

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This episode is the second in a stepparenting-related series of podcasts as Linda and Ron prepare their Stepfamily Success course for the Coparent Academy, which is slated for release on November 21st.

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a stepmother is hopeful - and almost gleeful - that the biological mother may go to jail for contempt. How's that going to work out for stepmom? Probably not well. 

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This episode is the second in a stepparenting-related series of podcasts as Linda and Ron prepare their Stepfamily Success course for the Coparent Academy, which is slated for release on November 21st. Visit coparentacademy.com to see all available courses and discounted course bundles. 

In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a stepmother asks for advice when her 10-year-old stepson wants a whole new bedroom setup but refuses to do any chores. Stepmom is frustrated because she makes the money for the household, doesn't think stepson needs a new bedroom, and doesn't think he deserves a new bedroom if he won't do chores. How should she handle the situation? Is there more going on than just a disagreement over a bedroom redo?

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This episode is the first in a stepparenting-related series of podcasts as Linda and Ron prepare their stepparenting course for the Coparent Academy, which is slated for release on November 21st.

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Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a woman who is dating a man with a 5- year-old daughter asks for advice about becoming a stepmom. How and when should she start to take on more of a parental role? What does she need to think about as she makes that transition?    

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Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a Mom has a close call when her kids come over unannounced during the day on Dad's parenting time.  She never set boundaries to protect her privacy before.  Does she have the right to set new boundaries after several years of coparenting? If so, how should she do it? 

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Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which Dad says Mom is being unfair in her requests to switch weekends. What should he do? 

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 Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which Dad has fallen on tough times and has to move in with his girlfriend's parents for a while. Mom's concerned about how visitation will work for their daughter at this new, temporary location. Is she right to be concerned or is it an example of improper gatekeeping?

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post describing an effort by the mother of two children to make exclude their father in favor of her boyfriend - to push him aside and make him a "fringe" parent.

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a self-proclaimed "non-confrontational" father wants advice on how to get his coparent to engage with him on important issues without causing resentment. The problem is,  he's not "non-confrontational" and there already is resentment.

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a mother is frustrated that her ex always refers to their child as "my daughter", instead of "our daughter" or even using the child's name. Why is the father doing that and how should the mother handle the situation?

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a mother is upset with her ex for having their young daughter overnight at his new girlfriend's  house without discussing it with her first - but there seems to be a few more layers to her frustration. 

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In this episode, Linda and Ron present a section from the Coparent Academy's Visitation Transfers course. They talk about how and why to make visitation transfers short, efficient and unmemorable. 

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a mother asks what she should do about the father's visitation with a 13-day-old baby he initially wanted her to abort. What's fair to the father, and is that even the best way to think about it? 

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a mother finds out from her daughter that the father has planned a week-long, out-of-state trip with her daughter and asked her to keep it a secret from the mother. 

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Should a Dad expect his 5-year-old to initiate phone calls with him, instead of Dad calling his child? 

In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a mom is frustrated that her child's father won't call the child but instead expects the child - a 5-year-old - to remember to call him. 

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In this episode, Linda and Ron discuss a Reddit post in which a new wife is concerned that her husband is too friendly with his former wife and the mother of his child.   

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This episode shares part of a conversation between Ron and Linda taken from the Coparent Academy content library. 

Today, Linda and Ron discuss what courteous coparent communication is and why it's so important. 

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A father moved far away from his daughter to pursue his career and now is trying to figure out how to make visitation work. 

Ron and Linda discuss this family's situation and how long-distance visitation orders affect children. 

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